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Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the

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Speaker 1: million bucks things in the stove. True good Steve to mother, Please,

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Speaker 1: I don't join jo. You gotta use that turn you're going.

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Speaker 1: come on your fad, I shall well. Good morning everybody.

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Speaker 1: You are listening to the voice. Come on dig me now,

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Speaker 1: one and only. Steve Harvey got a radio show partickling

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Speaker 1: me this morning. Steve Harvey got a radio show feel

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Speaker 1: with nothing but joy and hope about it too. You know,

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Speaker 1: it's a great thing to be able to wake up

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Speaker 1: Peace and joy is is immeasurable. It has a value

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Speaker 1: It's invaluable. It is worth so much more than any

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Speaker 1: amount of money you can make. Peace and joy. I

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Speaker 1: have not always had that. I have not always been

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Speaker 1: a peaceful person or a person who lived his life

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Speaker 1: in a joy spirit. It took an arrival at this moment.

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Speaker 1: Some people arrive sooner than others. I wish I had

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Speaker 1: necessary for me to learn a few things too. That's

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Speaker 1: the amazing thing I've learned about life is that instead

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Speaker 1: of reflecting on your past incidences and calling them failures,

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Speaker 1: instead of focusing on the negative and calling them bad times,

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Speaker 1: I look at them now as experiences. I had to

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Speaker 1: have those experiences that were negative, that were good, positive, wrong,

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Speaker 1: even I had to have all those experiences to become

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Speaker 1: experiences you've had, all the things that you called failures,

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Speaker 1: along the way, what you have done as a person

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Speaker 1: is you've taken those negatives and those failures and you've

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Speaker 1: used them for what they actually are. They are experiences,

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Speaker 1: and they've now created in you an experienced person, and

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Speaker 1: you know that is worth something. That's then it becomes

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Speaker 1: a positive. But what too many people do is they

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Speaker 1: let the negative things that have happened in their life.

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Speaker 1: They allow the failures that have happened in them lives

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Speaker 1: it until you have this woe is me attitude. Stop

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Speaker 1: looking at it like that, y'all. You go through things

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Speaker 1: in order to become the person that you are today.

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you who you sometimes have to sit down

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Speaker 1: an inmate that really gets it, an inmate that says, man,

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Speaker 1: I've actually heard inmates say it to me and write

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Speaker 1: how can he say a thing like that? But some men, no, Man,

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Speaker 1: I was so far out there that if I had

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Speaker 1: to everybody that you try changing your outlook in order

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Speaker 1: not know what I know. I could not share some

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Speaker 1: Every last one of you listening has a gift. God

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Speaker 1: gift is not just singing, rapping entertainment. The richer gifts

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Speaker 1: you know, and in that you can become great. You

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Speaker 1: know a lot of people people think that successful and

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Speaker 1: greatness is the same thing. Cornell West said it at

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Speaker 1: my daughter's graduation. He was a spokesperson. He said something

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Speaker 1: The two have nothing to do with each other. See

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Speaker 1: people determined success about money and fame and all this here,

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Speaker 1: but greatness. Greatness ain't got nothing to do with your money.

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Speaker 1: me man prad changes things. I said all the time.

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Speaker 1: somebody praying somewhere may not even beat them. Maybe it's

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Speaker 1: and prayer changes things. It really does. Try it today.

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Speaker 1: It can change you. It has changed millions of people.

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Speaker 1: Open up yourself to the greatness that's in you because

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Speaker 1: God is giving you a gift. Now the fact that

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Speaker 1: You can make the decision. Today morning show, ladies and gentlemen,

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Speaker 1: man have your attention. Please. Uh it's Monday morning. It's

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Speaker 1: create this ignorance and be botty bout it. Dog going it,

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Speaker 1: Shirley Strawby. We let Steve we let Oh that's that

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Speaker 1: That was fun. It's young people listening to this show going, uh,

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Speaker 1: We bought that life? What's going on? Cool? Junior? You

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Speaker 1: got one? I just gonna say, morning on my Tommy.

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Speaker 1: You got one? Lit light lit I'm living my bath life. Man. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: now dude, this one still work turned up? Yeah, that

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Speaker 1: I'm talking to them, Hey, what's up? Drunk. What's hand

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Speaker 1: with your player? You still doing it? Ain't you? You know,

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Speaker 1: mightn't be me. He don what's up? What's up? Timmy?

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Speaker 1: the house, said mister Timmy? You lit? I said, baby?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know what lit Mick. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: quick looking over here. But it's so funny. Steve you're right,

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Speaker 1: because we're at an age now where everything we do

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Speaker 1: coming up in thirty two after the hour, we'll have

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Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Shop. Right after this. Wait,

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Speaker 1: let we let turn up. You're listening to show the

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Speaker 1: nephew is here with today's praying phone call. What you

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Speaker 1: got next the shop lift? Let's go cat. Hello. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach a Tanya. Please Hi. Tell you

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Speaker 1: my name is Daniel. I'm the head of store security

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Speaker 1: here at your job. Uh, listen, I'm trying to see um,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to I know, to day's your day off.

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Speaker 1: to discuss with you. There's about eighteen hundred dollars worth

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Speaker 1: of merchandise missing from the store. Yeah, it's about eighteen

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Speaker 1: You heard what I said. You heard what I said.

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Speaker 1: You tough security guy. You like your job that much,

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Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. Now, you got to tell me.

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Speaker 1: I bet you teaching your little kids over there how

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Speaker 1: Hey hey? Now you hey hey hey hey hey hey,

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Speaker 1: what this is? Nephew timing from the Steve Harvey Martin Show.

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Speaker 1: You just got prank your sister sid to you? Okay? Okay?

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Speaker 1: That goes out to all the shoplifters out there. How's that?

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Speaker 1: Let's cool? Then get shot out, they get shot out,

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Speaker 1: go as promised. This is uh, this is for the ladies.

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Speaker 1: tread No, I ain't had it. What do you mean?

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Speaker 1: Now I'm being treated equal. Now you know, Okay, I've been.

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Speaker 1: I've been. I've actually been a slave. I mean, you know,

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Speaker 1: game is more important than me. Yes, yes, before you

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Speaker 1: We're just moving on. We're just moving on. Watch, yes,

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Speaker 1: watch your body language, you know. Yeah, keep yourself cool,

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Speaker 1: you cool with that one? Watch your body language, watch

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Speaker 1: Is that neck movie turned around? Everything you're saying sitting

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Speaker 1: these ain't good advices. If you want to come talk

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Speaker 1: to me naked, I would be wide open as soon

421
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Speaker 1: as you walk in the though talking to me. Nick,

422
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Speaker 1: Can I talk to you from here? Are you with

423
00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:51,760
Speaker 1: your unless it is a game you really want? You

424
00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:56,440
Speaker 1: picked now to be naked? Yeah, right now? Every time

425
00:27:56,520 --> 00:28:05,640
Speaker 1: to be naked. You're show all right, Steve? Time now

426
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Speaker 1: for asked the CLO your favorite segment. The Chief Love

427
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Speaker 1: Officer is in the building. Please submit your questions to

428
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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey FM dot com. This is one question from

429
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Speaker 1: Sharon out of Kentucky. Steve. She says, I'm a single mother,

430
00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:22,960
Speaker 1: and earlier this year, I moved out of state and

431
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:25,919
Speaker 1: took my eleven year old daughter with me. My daughter

432
00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:29,280
Speaker 1: has had a hard time adjusting, and now she tells

433
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Speaker 1: me that she hates me. I found out that she's

434
00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:35,399
Speaker 1: been texting her dad saying I'm verbally abusive and she

435
00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:38,000
Speaker 1: needs to come live with him. I can't get my

436
00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:41,720
Speaker 1: ex husband to see that she's being manipulative. He is

437
00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:44,680
Speaker 1: a great dad, but I know he's not ready to

438
00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 1: be a single dad. How can I get my daughter

439
00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:53,600
Speaker 1: to stop lying and acting out? Wow, Well, I don't

440
00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:57,440
Speaker 1: know who answer that I can give you that? Oh,

441
00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:02,560
Speaker 1: keep me out of coy radio friendly. Yeah, I'm trying

442
00:29:02,560 --> 00:29:04,800
Speaker 1: to find a radio friendly So I guess I could

443
00:29:04,880 --> 00:29:14,040
Speaker 1: say counseling. That's an answer. See. Oh, no, you're right.

444
00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:18,520
Speaker 1: I could stop all this line at my house, but

445
00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:22,959
Speaker 1: you don't. You're not gonna do that, So counseling. Next question.

446
00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:26,840
Speaker 1: All right, here we go. Dante and Raleigh, North Carolina says,

447
00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:29,680
Speaker 1: I'm a young, hard working single guy and I live

448
00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:33,040
Speaker 1: outside the city, so I shop at a small family

449
00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:35,680
Speaker 1: owned store that's close to my house. The store is

450
00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:40,880
Speaker 1: run by three middle age sisters, that look like that

451
00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:46,000
Speaker 1: look like trolls? Do? Three old women make shopping a

452
00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:49,440
Speaker 1: living hell for me? They say the most inappropriate things

453
00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:51,160
Speaker 1: to me and treat me like a piece of meat.

454
00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:53,560
Speaker 1: I don't want to be rude, so I've been trying

455
00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:56,719
Speaker 1: to ignore them. I would feel funny reporting them to

456
00:29:56,760 --> 00:29:59,520
Speaker 1: their dad. How can I get them to leave me?

457
00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:03,800
Speaker 1: A now? Where he says he lives in North Carolina,

458
00:30:04,640 --> 00:30:09,880
Speaker 1: Drive to a Walmart. You're outside of Rally, I don't care.

459
00:30:10,640 --> 00:30:15,200
Speaker 1: It's Walmart is close by. Get your ass to a Walmart.

460
00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:17,720
Speaker 1: I'm not going in here take abuse from ugly people.

461
00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:20,920
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do it. That's what I'm not gonna do. Yeah,

462
00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:22,920
Speaker 1: I draw the line right here. If you cute, you

463
00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:26,320
Speaker 1: can talk to me bad sometimes, but if your little

464
00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:29,200
Speaker 1: troll looking ass, you can't say not a damn thing

465
00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:31,920
Speaker 1: to me because it comes cross different. You know, it

466
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:34,600
Speaker 1: ain't even funny. You know, when qute people mess with you,

467
00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:37,520
Speaker 1: you go, you go. You're a little ugly person, say

468
00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:42,800
Speaker 1: something to you, damn it. You know, you keep that

469
00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:46,560
Speaker 1: look on your face like, yeah, hey man, just drive

470
00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:49,800
Speaker 1: to Walmart. You're in Raleigh. I know you live outside Riley.

471
00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:52,200
Speaker 1: You're trying to support a local business. But you ain't

472
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Speaker 1: got to ugly. People have ugly attitude, just the man,

473
00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:05,200
Speaker 1: so Steve. This one's from Kirby in New Jersey. Kirby says,

474
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Speaker 1: my husband and I are very active in our church,

475
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:11,120
Speaker 1: and our social life was mostly events at church. I

476
00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:13,840
Speaker 1: stopped going to church when I found out my husband

477
00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:18,040
Speaker 1: had an affair with the church secretary and everyone knew

478
00:31:18,080 --> 00:31:21,560
Speaker 1: it but me. My husband confessed and broke down and cried.

479
00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:23,880
Speaker 1: I told him he needs to get in front of

480
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Speaker 1: the congregation and apologize to me. Church will reopen next Sunday,

481
00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:32,640
Speaker 1: and he said he will not do that. He's willing

482
00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:36,880
Speaker 1: to throw away twenty three years of marriage instead. Should

483
00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:43,040
Speaker 1: I just let him go? He I don't know how

484
00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:46,760
Speaker 1: the public apology in front of the church is go

485
00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:50,920
Speaker 1: make you feel any better, be any less hurt, or

486
00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:54,440
Speaker 1: be even more forgiving. I don't know what it is

487
00:31:55,840 --> 00:31:58,040
Speaker 1: about that that would make it do now. I think

488
00:31:58,080 --> 00:32:01,760
Speaker 1: what you're trying to do is because you think everybody knew,

489
00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:07,120
Speaker 1: and they didn't. Some people knew, but when the story

490
00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:09,600
Speaker 1: got out, girl, I saw him over there and I said,

491
00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:12,880
Speaker 1: you know, you're hearing a lot of that and a

492
00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:15,760
Speaker 1: lot of the church members that found out you found

493
00:32:15,760 --> 00:32:19,520
Speaker 1: out acted like they was in the No suspicion and

494
00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:22,960
Speaker 1: know is two different things. So I think it's it

495
00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:25,000
Speaker 1: doesn't make any sense for you to ask him to

496
00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:27,840
Speaker 1: do that. He's not trying to throwing it away. Was

497
00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:31,080
Speaker 1: the affair. He broke down and cried, he said, I'm sorry,

498
00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:33,800
Speaker 1: and that you want him to publicly apologize to you,

499
00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:35,800
Speaker 1: and he said he's not gonna do that. Who goes

500
00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:38,800
Speaker 1: to church to stand up in front of the church

501
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:42,040
Speaker 1: to apo? That's not what churches for. Church is a

502
00:32:42,120 --> 00:32:46,400
Speaker 1: place for forgiveness. You don't go to church to confess.

503
00:32:47,080 --> 00:32:49,840
Speaker 1: Now unless y'all Catholic and y'all got to boof up

504
00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:55,920
Speaker 1: at the front and they have confession. Didn't do that right,

505
00:32:56,160 --> 00:32:58,120
Speaker 1: But ain't nobody got it where you got to go

506
00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:00,680
Speaker 1: stand up in front of everybody. Don't know what's going

507
00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:02,640
Speaker 1: on at that church. Half your church probably need to

508
00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:05,440
Speaker 1: stand up and say I'm sorry to somebody about something

509
00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:07,840
Speaker 1: a matter of fact, all of them. And see she

510
00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:10,600
Speaker 1: never even said how she found out, So you're right,

511
00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:14,080
Speaker 1: maybe everybody at the church doesn't know, she thinks. And

512
00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:17,840
Speaker 1: if they do, so what how is that gonna make

513
00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:20,880
Speaker 1: you better. See, Yeah, I just don't see how what

514
00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:23,720
Speaker 1: that does for you. You're not loan that line to

515
00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:27,360
Speaker 1: be If that was a Baptist booth, you're not log

516
00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:32,360
Speaker 1: any Yeah, short, So do you know how long I

517
00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:37,960
Speaker 1: have to stay in now? Yeah? It was, sir, a

518
00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:41,240
Speaker 1: Baptist booth. Sir, how long are you in here with it?

519
00:33:42,440 --> 00:33:45,840
Speaker 1: Mister hark? Mister hark? What is you in that set?

520
00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:51,760
Speaker 1: Why are you crying again again? If it was a

521
00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:58,040
Speaker 1: Baptist booth, a Baptist booth, I like that instead of

522
00:33:58,040 --> 00:34:01,000
Speaker 1: how I'll forgive you, give you for your sins. You

523
00:34:01,120 --> 00:34:09,959
Speaker 1: be here, man? What man you lying? God do? Man?

524
00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:13,080
Speaker 1: I can't help you with that damn party, now, Steve.

525
00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:15,720
Speaker 1: They do in church, you know, like if you've done

526
00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:18,720
Speaker 1: something like say this man is done and the pastor

527
00:34:18,760 --> 00:34:20,719
Speaker 1: found out, they will sit you down. If you have

528
00:34:20,760 --> 00:34:23,479
Speaker 1: a prominent position in the church, they will do what's

529
00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:26,160
Speaker 1: called sitting. He ain't got that. She was the church circuitar.

530
00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:29,919
Speaker 1: He ain't got no position, right, She never said any

531
00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:34,000
Speaker 1: of that. So, yeah, they're real active though he's something

532
00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:37,880
Speaker 1: in the church. They real active. Yeah, and he was

533
00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:44,960
Speaker 1: mo active, very very active. Thank you for your CLLO questions,

534
00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:51,160
Speaker 1: thank you Clo. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Truth

535
00:34:51,280 --> 00:34:54,879
Speaker 1: be told. Come on, Junior, I don't know who these

536
00:34:54,880 --> 00:34:58,600
Speaker 1: people are and where did it come from? But on Saturday? Yeah,

537
00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:03,480
Speaker 1: why you called any human being before eight o'clock? Hell?

538
00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:08,279
Speaker 1: What do we have to talk about at seven fifteen am?

539
00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:10,279
Speaker 1: There's nothing I want to talk? Like my boy called

540
00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:13,200
Speaker 1: me at seven. Come about what you're doing? Dog is sad.

541
00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:16,200
Speaker 1: I'm trying to sleep all trying to do well here.

542
00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:18,680
Speaker 1: The thing about it is like he said, dog, did

543
00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:24,040
Speaker 1: you see I ain't seeing nothing? Seventh fifteen? God, damn,

544
00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:26,200
Speaker 1: people need to go. I'm trying. Just don't jump off

545
00:35:26,200 --> 00:35:28,760
Speaker 1: in dressing. The phone shouldn't even be allowed to work,

546
00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:33,640
Speaker 1: but foe until after eight? After ten won't ring shit.

547
00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:37,239
Speaker 1: But I'm just saying, what made you get up? Pick

548
00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:39,319
Speaker 1: your phone up? Saying? Damn? You know who I ain't called?

549
00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:43,919
Speaker 1: Let me call him right now? What? At what time?

550
00:35:44,040 --> 00:35:47,000
Speaker 1: Doing that? At seven fifteen? First of all, I ain't

551
00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:51,080
Speaker 1: formulated a thought. And then you're another brown man talking

552
00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:53,759
Speaker 1: to another grown man as I lay in bed. Really,

553
00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:58,319
Speaker 1: this is not comfortable. I'm not comfortable when you heard

554
00:35:58,320 --> 00:36:03,399
Speaker 1: me saying hello, Hello, you gonna fall? Dog? Guess what? What? What?

555
00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:07,200
Speaker 1: Etcept fifteen? What? Why am I guessing? I ain't got

556
00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 1: no shirt on right now? Why you want to wake up? No,

557
00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:14,560
Speaker 1: I ain't got no shirt one? What shirt? I'm just asking?

558
00:36:15,480 --> 00:36:17,960
Speaker 1: However I sleep? It ain't none of your fifteen. I'm

559
00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:22,360
Speaker 1: just something. I'm comfortable with the conversation. That's all I'm saying,

560
00:36:23,239 --> 00:36:25,480
Speaker 1: y'all should just just just find something else that don't

561
00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:27,759
Speaker 1: call people no mother, That's all. I just want to say.

562
00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:32,120
Speaker 1: What's the earliest you can take pen thirty seven fifteen

563
00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:34,360
Speaker 1: on the set? Yeah? Ten thirty. I want to get up,

564
00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:36,880
Speaker 1: half my coffee, enjoying my morning. What do you call

565
00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:38,640
Speaker 1: me at seven fifteen? I ain't got no shirt? All

566
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:41,960
Speaker 1: you talk about guesting? What? What? This is uncomfortable. It's

567
00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:50,000
Speaker 1: uncomfortable you laying horizon talking to another man. Dog, I

568
00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:52,359
Speaker 1: got I got, I got one leg in the bed,

569
00:36:52,560 --> 00:36:55,799
Speaker 1: one leg out to be Yes, what That's all I

570
00:36:55,840 --> 00:37:06,080
Speaker 1: want to say? Just stop calling me ten thirty, ten thirty.

571
00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:09,319
Speaker 1: He'll be upset. Yeah. And the first I'm talking about

572
00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:14,719
Speaker 1: it is Jake wanta know you? Jake Wow? Just won't

573
00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:17,760
Speaker 1: try you know? I thought we agreed not to bring

574
00:37:17,800 --> 00:37:21,279
Speaker 1: that up to agree that same we agreed that you

575
00:37:21,320 --> 00:37:27,240
Speaker 1: would not. Both y'all, Come on, I think you agree

576
00:37:27,280 --> 00:37:31,360
Speaker 1: with both of y'all. Both y'all sick ass niece. Some

577
00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:40,040
Speaker 1: women all me, some ladies something to do. I got nothing,

578
00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:44,359
Speaker 1: y'all waking up by y'all, Sam shirt on you. Why

579
00:37:45,800 --> 00:37:51,719
Speaker 1: y'all issues ain't even real me? Ten fifteen, I'm need

580
00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:59,600
Speaker 1: I thought we agreed to talk about. All right, thank you, junior.

581
00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:05,920
Speaker 1: We get it. Now you're listening to show. All right,

582
00:38:06,400 --> 00:38:10,799
Speaker 1: it's time now for comedy roulette, Jay, please quickly. It's

583
00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:14,560
Speaker 1: so easy to explain this. You test out comedy ability

584
00:38:14,840 --> 00:38:18,200
Speaker 1: every week. Yeah, tell you what you do? Take five subjects.

585
00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:21,160
Speaker 1: Put him on the wheel, spin the wheel around, stop,

586
00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:23,680
Speaker 1: say how good we are? We take from that? All right,

587
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:27,239
Speaker 1: let's go put five. All right, here we go. Here's

588
00:38:27,239 --> 00:38:39,360
Speaker 1: the subjects. Number one, the deltas ain't all that you

589
00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:45,520
Speaker 1: just just read. Read that. Number two, your car smells funny.

590
00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:50,160
Speaker 1: That's a good one. Number three, you try to act

591
00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:55,799
Speaker 1: like you don't know nobody, alright, alright, never Number four

592
00:38:56,520 --> 00:38:59,319
Speaker 1: people who let their new positions go to their head.

593
00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:02,560
Speaker 1: That's the real one. Yeah, And then and then number

594
00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:05,239
Speaker 1: five skycat spend the wheel, put them up spending the

595
00:39:05,239 --> 00:39:20,080
Speaker 1: wheel cat that far. People who let their new positions

596
00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:24,200
Speaker 1: go to their head have let me start off right, man.

597
00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:26,240
Speaker 1: You know the people who get just a little small

598
00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:30,400
Speaker 1: lass name tag on their dome. Thein't never had one,

599
00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:32,879
Speaker 1: and all of them sudden they're betting you just because

600
00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:35,239
Speaker 1: they had a name tag. They had a little two

601
00:39:35,400 --> 00:39:41,520
Speaker 1: cent rave too, damn sent no not not not for

602
00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:44,840
Speaker 1: neckoli speaking. That's all they got with two damn sins

603
00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:47,799
Speaker 1: for a check one check that ship. How about that? Yeah?

604
00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:50,359
Speaker 1: What you mean? What you mean now? Huh? I got

605
00:39:50,400 --> 00:39:52,719
Speaker 1: two cents more than you? Go ahead, yeah, I'll tell

606
00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:55,560
Speaker 1: you what the under about to do positions when you

607
00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:58,359
Speaker 1: go to their head. I used working fans food right,

608
00:39:58,440 --> 00:40:01,760
Speaker 1: hunt me about potting on. All of a sudden somebody

609
00:40:01,800 --> 00:40:03,800
Speaker 1: got called in. He now he gets to wear a

610
00:40:03,880 --> 00:40:08,919
Speaker 1: head set. Now he talking crazy. Try now he ain't

611
00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:12,080
Speaker 1: farted the crew no more. Hey, I said, I need

612
00:40:12,080 --> 00:40:17,480
Speaker 1: to fry off. Now he's talking everybody because he got

613
00:40:17,520 --> 00:40:19,880
Speaker 1: the head set off because the boss that called his

614
00:40:20,120 --> 00:40:22,880
Speaker 1: there this show first day went. He didn't even know

615
00:40:23,000 --> 00:40:26,839
Speaker 1: how to control it, he said. He man, I take

616
00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:28,400
Speaker 1: your order. But he comes on in a calm in

617
00:40:28,440 --> 00:40:30,440
Speaker 1: the back when he's gonna press the other budd to

618
00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:32,160
Speaker 1: go out to the order. I'm just saying, he just

619
00:40:35,239 --> 00:40:39,600
Speaker 1: no good and dog gone. Well, you ain't posting on

620
00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:47,680
Speaker 1: Facebook that you to lead vacuum cleaner operator at the plant? Really?

621
00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:50,640
Speaker 1: And now you got your picture on now with the

622
00:40:50,840 --> 00:40:57,759
Speaker 1: valuum really? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, man. That's how they do it.

623
00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:02,880
Speaker 1: People let their new positions go to their head. I

624
00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:11,000
Speaker 1: just have two words for this one. Donald Trump will

625
00:41:11,120 --> 00:41:18,239
Speaker 1: cut up. Man. He's in the food letting the new

626
00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:21,640
Speaker 1: job go straight to his head. I got I got

627
00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:24,120
Speaker 1: a part of mine in the joint, right, so I

628
00:41:24,239 --> 00:41:27,200
Speaker 1: go to see him. He worked in the furniture department

629
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Speaker 1: right now. The people in the furniture department and make

630
00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:32,439
Speaker 1: three cents hour. The other workers make two cents hour.

631
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Speaker 1: Do you know that? The three centers talk trash to

632
00:41:35,960 --> 00:41:39,600
Speaker 1: the two centers? But how fun are you making? Two center?

633
00:41:40,120 --> 00:41:42,279
Speaker 1: You ain't making no money when you start to make

634
00:41:42,360 --> 00:41:48,440
Speaker 1: some cash, talk to me, Oh man, I feel a

635
00:41:48,480 --> 00:41:51,160
Speaker 1: new position go to head right to let it go

636
00:41:51,360 --> 00:41:53,920
Speaker 1: right to their head. And you know what when I

637
00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:55,799
Speaker 1: can't understand no, man, is that when you do get

638
00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:58,920
Speaker 1: a new position. I come, everybody else got to call

639
00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:03,440
Speaker 1: you by your last day, like you just use Charles yesterday.

640
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:07,480
Speaker 1: Don't you expect us call you mister Jaks. We gotta

641
00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:11,040
Speaker 1: call you mister Jacks. Yeah, not today. She was Charles

642
00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:15,719
Speaker 1: yestern They just gave your l on Hold on, hold

643
00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:19,279
Speaker 1: on hold. I know you ain't put a sign in

644
00:42:19,520 --> 00:42:23,520
Speaker 1: front of your parking space at the job. That's say

645
00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:28,520
Speaker 1: Larry Jenkins lead bath room attend. I know you ain't

646
00:42:28,560 --> 00:42:32,640
Speaker 1: done this. You ain't done this, Larry, how you lead

647
00:42:32,760 --> 00:42:38,279
Speaker 1: bath room attend? That? What happened? Man? It goes to

648
00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:40,440
Speaker 1: their here. Oh you got a new position, but you're

649
00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:43,920
Speaker 1: still getting a ride to work with me? Oh you

650
00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:47,680
Speaker 1: don't even work well. I thought you letting you. I

651
00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:54,319
Speaker 1: thought you letting your job. Let the job to talk.

652
00:42:57,560 --> 00:43:01,800
Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at the

653
00:43:01,880 --> 00:43:04,440
Speaker 1: top of the hour, right about four minutes after. It's

654
00:43:04,480 --> 00:43:08,440
Speaker 1: my Strawberry letter for today. Subject her family is ghetto

655
00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:12,319
Speaker 1: and she doesn't even know it. M right now though,

656
00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:15,200
Speaker 1: we'll get to it right now. The nephew is here

657
00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:20,200
Speaker 1: with today's praying phone call. What she got now? Gon't

658
00:43:20,239 --> 00:43:23,640
Speaker 1: tell him what I guess you all right? Well, this

659
00:43:23,920 --> 00:43:27,600
Speaker 1: was my mom's favorite. Okay, my late mom, this was

660
00:43:27,680 --> 00:43:30,799
Speaker 1: her favorite when she loved to hear this one. It's

661
00:43:30,840 --> 00:43:36,760
Speaker 1: called um Aqua boogie, right Auqua boogie, Right Aqua boogie,

662
00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:45,520
Speaker 1: Aquae current aque. Hello. Hello, I'm trying to reach a Quincy. Please.

663
00:43:45,680 --> 00:43:47,680
Speaker 1: This is Hey. How are you? My name is Maurice.

664
00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:50,400
Speaker 1: Maurice calling you from the power company. How are you

665
00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:52,959
Speaker 1: doing today? I'm all right? What's up? Well, listen, we're

666
00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:55,440
Speaker 1: doing some testing in your neighborhood. We're trying to make

667
00:43:55,480 --> 00:43:58,040
Speaker 1: sure we don't have to actually shut the power down

668
00:43:58,120 --> 00:44:01,600
Speaker 1: out there, and we're we're calling around to quite a

669
00:44:01,640 --> 00:44:04,719
Speaker 1: few people in your neighborhood, running some tests on individual

670
00:44:04,840 --> 00:44:08,120
Speaker 1: homes and making sure the electricity is running correctly. Um,

671
00:44:08,320 --> 00:44:10,240
Speaker 1: can I get you to do a few things swarm

672
00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:12,880
Speaker 1: and see and in the quicker we get through with this, sir,

673
00:44:13,360 --> 00:44:15,360
Speaker 1: and as possibility, we won't have to turn your power

674
00:44:15,440 --> 00:44:16,880
Speaker 1: off at all. I know you don't want us to

675
00:44:16,960 --> 00:44:19,320
Speaker 1: have to come out and turn power off. And you

676
00:44:19,440 --> 00:44:21,799
Speaker 1: got stuff in your refrigerator that can spoil and things

677
00:44:21,880 --> 00:44:23,920
Speaker 1: like that, so we want to try to get this

678
00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:26,200
Speaker 1: done and hopefully the power with the with the test

679
00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:28,560
Speaker 1: that we run, it'll it'll run correctly and we won't

680
00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:30,600
Speaker 1: have to do anything. Okay. I don't know about an

681
00:44:30,600 --> 00:44:32,680
Speaker 1: electricity though, you know what I'm saying, So no, no, no,

682
00:44:32,760 --> 00:44:34,959
Speaker 1: I understand that. Don't worry about that. All right. Here's

683
00:44:35,000 --> 00:44:37,000
Speaker 1: what I need you to do. Now. How big is

684
00:44:37,000 --> 00:44:38,480
Speaker 1: your house? What do you how many bedrooms? You got

685
00:44:38,760 --> 00:44:44,440
Speaker 1: four bedrooms? Now you have upstairs downstairs? It's too sure? Okay,

686
00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:46,799
Speaker 1: all right, so here's what we need to do. Um

687
00:44:47,239 --> 00:44:49,799
Speaker 1: if you can't, ain't gonna take loan though I got

688
00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:51,440
Speaker 1: because I'm in a hurry. Man, ain't gonna have a

689
00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:53,360
Speaker 1: lot of time. No, no, no, this this, this, this,

690
00:44:53,520 --> 00:44:55,600
Speaker 1: this won't take long at all, sir. Can I get

691
00:44:55,680 --> 00:44:59,600
Speaker 1: you to take your breaker and shut down everything upstairs

692
00:44:59,640 --> 00:45:02,160
Speaker 1: and we're gonna run a test on the stuff downstairs

693
00:45:02,239 --> 00:45:04,839
Speaker 1: right now. It'll be real quick, all right, just shut

694
00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:07,800
Speaker 1: everything off. I want you to keep the downstairs open

695
00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:09,400
Speaker 1: and keep that to the weekness so we can run

696
00:45:09,480 --> 00:45:13,840
Speaker 1: our tests on this thing. All right, everything's shut, everything's down, okay,

697
00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:15,839
Speaker 1: you you turned off the things. I just turned off

698
00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:18,279
Speaker 1: all the switches. Okay, here's what I need you to do.

699
00:45:18,440 --> 00:45:22,120
Speaker 1: I need you to turn on your television and then

700
00:45:22,200 --> 00:45:26,799
Speaker 1: turn it off downstairs downstairs. How many TVs you got downstairs?

701
00:45:26,960 --> 00:45:29,400
Speaker 1: I got two TVs downstairs. Let's turn them both on.

702
00:45:29,800 --> 00:45:32,600
Speaker 1: You just turn them on, Just turn them on. You

703
00:45:32,680 --> 00:45:35,520
Speaker 1: got them on. I got one on. Let's try to

704
00:45:35,560 --> 00:45:38,240
Speaker 1: turn that other one on. All right, they both on? Okay.

705
00:45:38,360 --> 00:45:42,000
Speaker 1: Now you got a microwave in your kitchen, Yeah, microwave. Okay,

706
00:45:42,080 --> 00:45:44,359
Speaker 1: turn that on. It's already on, man, I can see

707
00:45:44,400 --> 00:45:46,279
Speaker 1: the lights one, it's got the clock on it. That's

708
00:45:46,320 --> 00:45:48,640
Speaker 1: got that double hron thing that's going through there, and

709
00:45:48,640 --> 00:45:50,399
Speaker 1: it's a whole different type of current. I just want

710
00:45:50,400 --> 00:45:52,040
Speaker 1: to mount on number what you're talking about. But I

711
00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:55,160
Speaker 1: gotta get to work, man, So the microwaves on, it's running. No, No,

712
00:45:55,280 --> 00:45:57,160
Speaker 1: I want you to actually turn it on. I want

713
00:45:57,200 --> 00:45:59,600
Speaker 1: you to actually push like a minute or two on

714
00:45:59,719 --> 00:46:02,680
Speaker 1: that things. Do anything, man, Come on now, I mean

715
00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:04,600
Speaker 1: what you gotta do. No, this is a test, sir.

716
00:46:04,680 --> 00:46:05,719
Speaker 1: What I don't want to have to do is come

717
00:46:05,760 --> 00:46:07,680
Speaker 1: out there and turn your power off. And I don't

718
00:46:07,680 --> 00:46:08,919
Speaker 1: want to do that. You got a lot of food

719
00:46:09,000 --> 00:46:11,120
Speaker 1: in your fridge. I'm sure right, all right, all right,

720
00:46:12,600 --> 00:46:16,759
Speaker 1: he's look, it's on microwave's zone keV zones. Okay, now

721
00:46:17,120 --> 00:46:22,319
Speaker 1: open your man, the electricity works downstairs. Okay, but listen now,

722
00:46:22,520 --> 00:46:23,919
Speaker 1: I know, but what we gotta do is we gotta

723
00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:27,080
Speaker 1: make sure that this stuff isn't overpower. Now, can you

724
00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:31,160
Speaker 1: open your refrigerator? Yeah? Yeah, man, do you see the

725
00:46:31,719 --> 00:46:35,680
Speaker 1: button that actually has you can turn you can push

726
00:46:35,719 --> 00:46:37,000
Speaker 1: it in the lighter go out. You know what I'm

727
00:46:37,040 --> 00:46:39,480
Speaker 1: talking about. Come on, man, you ain't got nobody to

728
00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:42,279
Speaker 1: just be able to check something outside. Man, I mean

729
00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:45,040
Speaker 1: I'm in the fridge. I understand. But push that button

730
00:46:45,120 --> 00:46:47,600
Speaker 1: five times for him and see what it does. What

731
00:46:47,920 --> 00:46:51,200
Speaker 1: the light button? Yeah, push that light button five times?

732
00:46:51,840 --> 00:46:54,120
Speaker 1: Come on, man, that did it go off and on?

733
00:46:54,280 --> 00:46:58,000
Speaker 1: Every day it's open? On man, they'd wrong with the refrigerator.

734
00:46:58,000 --> 00:47:00,839
Speaker 1: Refrigerators plug in man. Okay, now here's what I want

735
00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:02,560
Speaker 1: you to do. Right there, if you're in the kitchen,

736
00:47:02,960 --> 00:47:05,600
Speaker 1: turn your sink on for me. Turn the sink on

737
00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:08,800
Speaker 1: through electricity. Many say that's a nitral current. That's a

738
00:47:08,880 --> 00:47:10,800
Speaker 1: nitral current. You wouldn't understand that. But I need you

739
00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:12,520
Speaker 1: to turn that on for me too. Just turn it

740
00:47:12,560 --> 00:47:18,600
Speaker 1: on full blast. Got it on, I got it on Okay,

741
00:47:18,719 --> 00:47:21,400
Speaker 1: now go in your master bedroom. I can turn it off. No,

742
00:47:21,640 --> 00:47:24,600
Speaker 1: let that water run. Go on your master bedroom and

743
00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:27,200
Speaker 1: go on the bath for me. I appreciate you helping

744
00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:29,320
Speaker 1: me out on this. Man. Come on, man Quincy, I

745
00:47:29,320 --> 00:47:32,759
Speaker 1: appreciate a hurry. I mean everything that. It's everything I'm in.

746
00:47:32,960 --> 00:47:36,239
Speaker 1: I'm in the bath. Plush that toilet for me, Quincy. See,

747
00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:39,319
Speaker 1: we're plus that toilet for me. Plush the toilet. Yeah,

748
00:47:39,360 --> 00:47:42,000
Speaker 1: flush that toilet. It's even electrical. What it is? It's

749
00:47:42,000 --> 00:47:44,200
Speaker 1: a it's a it's an awkward book. You need to

750
00:47:44,239 --> 00:47:47,239
Speaker 1: get somebody up. Okay, I'm gonna plush the toilet. It

751
00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:50,120
Speaker 1: ain't no electrical plugs in that in this area, man, right,

752
00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:51,920
Speaker 1: I understand that you don't see what it is. This

753
00:47:52,120 --> 00:47:54,439
Speaker 1: is an awkward bookie current that flows through that water.

754
00:47:55,160 --> 00:48:02,400
Speaker 1: Plush that thing for me one time. Yeah, yeah, that's it. Okay,

755
00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:06,239
Speaker 1: all right, Tory works. Man. You ain't got nobody in

756
00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:07,879
Speaker 1: the area that could come out here and just check

757
00:48:08,000 --> 00:48:10,400
Speaker 1: it out. Man Quinny, I'm trying my best not to

758
00:48:10,440 --> 00:48:12,879
Speaker 1: come out and and and and and turn your power off.

759
00:48:13,200 --> 00:48:15,160
Speaker 1: And I know you got somewhere to go. Turn my

760
00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:17,080
Speaker 1: power off. Man, you're supposed to be making sure the

761
00:48:17,120 --> 00:48:19,440
Speaker 1: power of stay on right. I understand that. Now do

762
00:48:19,520 --> 00:48:21,759
Speaker 1: you have quinny, Do you have a blender? Yeah? I

763
00:48:21,800 --> 00:48:24,279
Speaker 1: gotta blender. Man, I gotta blender. I got a TV,

764
00:48:24,520 --> 00:48:28,320
Speaker 1: I got a refrigerator, and they all work. The toitter works.

765
00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:30,719
Speaker 1: Everything worked all right. What I want you to do

766
00:48:30,840 --> 00:48:32,880
Speaker 1: is get this blender and we'll just throw you a

767
00:48:32,960 --> 00:48:34,640
Speaker 1: few cues to eyes or something there and turn that

768
00:48:34,719 --> 00:48:37,040
Speaker 1: thing on for him. Come on, man, we're almost done.

769
00:48:37,120 --> 00:48:41,359
Speaker 1: I got to get to work, man, just work women

770
00:48:41,360 --> 00:48:45,600
Speaker 1: who was appreciated? Man, this is just the blunders. Come on, man,

771
00:48:46,440 --> 00:48:48,719
Speaker 1: it's a bully. I said, I have to match your

772
00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:51,200
Speaker 1: current be walking this house. Man, you need to check

773
00:48:51,239 --> 00:48:53,000
Speaker 1: the next house. You don't have no problems with no

774
00:48:53,080 --> 00:48:56,319
Speaker 1: smoothes or nothing in that thing. Do you you see? Man?

775
00:48:56,400 --> 00:48:58,520
Speaker 1: With the world, I got to do anything. Man, I

776
00:48:58,600 --> 00:49:01,400
Speaker 1: gotta get to work. I understand. I just listen a minute, minute,

777
00:49:01,560 --> 00:49:04,880
Speaker 1: go too far? Somebody come out here or do this

778
00:49:04,920 --> 00:49:06,600
Speaker 1: because I need to get to my job. And I

779
00:49:06,960 --> 00:49:09,359
Speaker 1: understand that job. I can just call and had people

780
00:49:09,400 --> 00:49:11,640
Speaker 1: go through the damn house playing scavenge. And I gotta

781
00:49:11,680 --> 00:49:14,200
Speaker 1: get to work. Okay, Now, listen to Quincy, one last thing.

782
00:49:14,560 --> 00:49:16,840
Speaker 1: Are you able to shut that breaker? Put that breaker

783
00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:19,520
Speaker 1: back on and then shut off downstairs, and then go

784
00:49:19,640 --> 00:49:21,640
Speaker 1: upstairs and check some stuff for me. Shut off what

785
00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:24,400
Speaker 1: shut off the breaker downstairs? Go ahead and turn it.

786
00:49:24,520 --> 00:49:27,040
Speaker 1: I'm not shutting off no breaker downstairs. I shut off

787
00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:29,839
Speaker 1: the water upstairs. We didn't turn on every damn thing

788
00:49:29,960 --> 00:49:32,000
Speaker 1: down here. You didn't have me. I got the blender.

789
00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:35,280
Speaker 1: I didn't turn on the microway torofridgerate cool man pushing

790
00:49:35,320 --> 00:49:37,920
Speaker 1: the tall us. I gotta get to work, Quinton. I

791
00:49:38,040 --> 00:49:40,440
Speaker 1: needs you to lose this attitude you got. I need

792
00:49:40,520 --> 00:49:42,799
Speaker 1: you get somebody down here to do this. My electricity

793
00:49:42,840 --> 00:49:45,120
Speaker 1: in my house work. It worked for you. Calling the

794
00:49:45,200 --> 00:49:47,919
Speaker 1: long thing ain't work. It's my ain't at work because

795
00:49:47,960 --> 00:49:50,759
Speaker 1: I'm here doing this book. Play off and all. Get

796
00:49:50,800 --> 00:49:53,239
Speaker 1: somebody in here this work. I don't piss me off

797
00:49:53,320 --> 00:49:55,000
Speaker 1: and make me turn it all the way off. Well

798
00:49:55,000 --> 00:49:58,560
Speaker 1: shooting all work, and when I get back from work,

799
00:49:58,600 --> 00:50:01,160
Speaker 1: way this should be on. I got one more thing

800
00:50:01,239 --> 00:50:02,920
Speaker 1: I need to say to you, Quinny. It's better be

801
00:50:03,000 --> 00:50:06,320
Speaker 1: the last thing. That's his nephew Tommy from the Steve

802
00:50:06,440 --> 00:50:10,160
Speaker 1: Harby Morning Show. You just got pricked by your sister

803
00:50:10,480 --> 00:50:22,359
Speaker 1: gown still better being a witness protection program. Man, ah,

804
00:50:25,440 --> 00:50:31,000
Speaker 1: let me turn it one. Man, Hey man, let me

805
00:50:31,080 --> 00:50:33,759
Speaker 1: ask you something. Man, what is the baddest I'm talking

806
00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:37,319
Speaker 1: about the baddest radio show in the land. That's got

807
00:50:37,440 --> 00:50:42,680
Speaker 1: to be the Steve Harvey Morning Show and Tommy, uh

808
00:50:42,920 --> 00:50:45,520
Speaker 1: you call me again. They're gonna be the show used

809
00:50:45,520 --> 00:50:53,360
Speaker 1: to have Tommy on that right there, fairly goes to

810
00:50:53,480 --> 00:50:55,879
Speaker 1: Miss Helen right there? Can I do that? That's that's

811
00:50:55,960 --> 00:50:58,920
Speaker 1: the Miss Helen. She loved that one. She really did. Okay,

812
00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:02,480
Speaker 1: people go all over the house doing all this stuff.

813
00:51:06,440 --> 00:51:10,480
Speaker 1: He's so crazy. All right, here we go, coming up

814
00:51:10,800 --> 00:51:14,360
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. We'll get into its subject. Her family is ghetto.

815
00:51:14,520 --> 00:51:17,200
Speaker 1: She doesn't know it. We'll be back right after this.

816
00:51:18,120 --> 00:51:22,920
Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Time now for

817
00:51:23,239 --> 00:51:26,080
Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter and listen. If you need advice and

818
00:51:26,239 --> 00:51:30,680
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819
00:51:30,800 --> 00:51:34,200
Speaker 1: your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com and click

820
00:51:34,680 --> 00:51:37,759
Speaker 1: submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter live

821
00:51:37,960 --> 00:51:40,960
Speaker 1: on the air, just like we're gonna read that right

822
00:51:41,160 --> 00:51:44,319
Speaker 1: there right now for you. Check. Buckle up, and hold

823
00:51:44,360 --> 00:51:46,040
Speaker 1: on tight. We got it for you. Here it is

824
00:51:46,480 --> 00:51:49,279
Speaker 1: strawberry letter. Ain't done that in a minute. Wow, thank you,

825
00:51:50,440 --> 00:51:52,040
Speaker 1: you're welcome. What do you mean you haven't done that

826
00:51:52,040 --> 00:51:54,839
Speaker 1: any well? You know when Steve is here, you don't

827
00:51:54,920 --> 00:51:57,799
Speaker 1: let me introduce the letter? No, mott up, I don't

828
00:51:57,840 --> 00:52:02,640
Speaker 1: need all that's sure. Jill ignaty. Well she back and

829
00:52:02,719 --> 00:52:04,560
Speaker 1: you did it, so can we do the letter now?

830
00:52:04,680 --> 00:52:13,200
Speaker 1: You're happy? He hate? It's a lot going on, all right?

831
00:52:13,280 --> 00:52:17,320
Speaker 1: Subject like me? My uncle do not like me. He

832
00:52:17,480 --> 00:52:21,120
Speaker 1: loves you though, he loves you. Yeah, all right, subject

833
00:52:21,200 --> 00:52:25,000
Speaker 1: her family is gathering for y'all. Both of y'all are correct?

834
00:52:26,800 --> 00:52:29,800
Speaker 1: What your uncle and he do not like? See that,

835
00:52:30,120 --> 00:52:34,080
Speaker 1: but he loves you, all right? Yeah, I love you

836
00:52:34,160 --> 00:52:36,160
Speaker 1: the death boy. Ain't gonna let nothing happen to you.

837
00:52:37,080 --> 00:52:42,440
Speaker 1: Do not particularly care for you. All right, here we go,

838
00:52:43,160 --> 00:52:48,320
Speaker 1: just Stephen Shirley's Yes it is. I grew up in

839
00:52:48,400 --> 00:52:50,880
Speaker 1: a two parent home, and both of my parents earned

840
00:52:50,920 --> 00:52:54,040
Speaker 1: college degrees and worked hard to provide a good life

841
00:52:54,120 --> 00:52:56,680
Speaker 1: for me and my siblings. And I have a college

842
00:52:56,719 --> 00:52:59,800
Speaker 1: degree as well. And I've been married for over twenty

843
00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:03,719
Speaker 1: years to a great woman, and we have two teenagers.

844
00:53:04,080 --> 00:53:07,880
Speaker 1: My teenagers are well mannered and really smart kids. So

845
00:53:08,040 --> 00:53:11,200
Speaker 1: here's my problem. I met my wife in college and

846
00:53:11,400 --> 00:53:15,480
Speaker 1: fell in love with her, but I cannot stand her family.

847
00:53:16,120 --> 00:53:19,480
Speaker 1: They are, for lack of a better term, ghetto. I

848
00:53:19,600 --> 00:53:22,760
Speaker 1: must admit that as my kids grew up, I limited

849
00:53:22,840 --> 00:53:25,719
Speaker 1: their access to my wife's side of the family, but

850
00:53:25,840 --> 00:53:28,520
Speaker 1: I had to be careful so I wouldn't offend my wife.

851
00:53:28,880 --> 00:53:31,719
Speaker 1: These people are hood and they have a cookout for

852
00:53:31,960 --> 00:53:36,040
Speaker 1: every occasion. They all live on the same street in

853
00:53:36,200 --> 00:53:40,080
Speaker 1: five or six mobile homes, so they always are down

854
00:53:40,160 --> 00:53:44,160
Speaker 1: to party, play cards, drink, get all loud, and act

855
00:53:44,239 --> 00:53:48,600
Speaker 1: a fool. These kids are always part of their kids

856
00:53:48,680 --> 00:53:51,320
Speaker 1: are always part of the festivities, and when my children

857
00:53:51,400 --> 00:53:54,160
Speaker 1: were younger, my wife wanted our children to get to

858
00:53:54,280 --> 00:53:57,600
Speaker 1: know their cousins. That didn't last long because the hood

859
00:53:57,680 --> 00:54:01,280
Speaker 1: cousins started teasing my children about the way they speak

860
00:54:01,480 --> 00:54:04,480
Speaker 1: and how they carried themselves. One of my sons will

861
00:54:04,480 --> 00:54:07,719
Speaker 1: be graduating from high school soon and my wife has

862
00:54:08,360 --> 00:54:11,120
Speaker 1: a party plan for him. She wants to invite her

863
00:54:11,480 --> 00:54:15,480
Speaker 1: entire family to the party that's in our community center

864
00:54:15,920 --> 00:54:20,200
Speaker 1: in our neighborhood. I have politely reminded her how much

865
00:54:20,239 --> 00:54:23,120
Speaker 1: of a fiasco it might be, but she is dead

866
00:54:23,320 --> 00:54:27,360
Speaker 1: sit on having her family included. I can already imagine

867
00:54:27,400 --> 00:54:30,319
Speaker 1: a dice game jumping off by the pool if her

868
00:54:30,440 --> 00:54:33,759
Speaker 1: uncle comes. I don't want to be disrespectful, but I

869
00:54:33,920 --> 00:54:36,680
Speaker 1: need to put my foot down and set some ground rules.

870
00:54:36,719 --> 00:54:43,480
Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, how can I make this party work? Wow? Well? First, first, first,

871
00:54:44,400 --> 00:54:47,800
Speaker 1: no alcohol. I have to say that, no alcohol, because

872
00:54:47,840 --> 00:54:51,960
Speaker 1: that's when the stuff jumps off. No alcohol, okay, none,

873
00:54:52,480 --> 00:54:55,560
Speaker 1: don't have any. They're gonna be mad. But you can't

874
00:54:55,600 --> 00:54:58,160
Speaker 1: have any alcohol because they get that in them and

875
00:54:58,400 --> 00:55:01,200
Speaker 1: it's just no telling. You might want to have some

876
00:55:01,680 --> 00:55:05,719
Speaker 1: security around, some playing close security, you know, let them

877
00:55:05,800 --> 00:55:09,319
Speaker 1: mingle through the crowd and everything, because you know that's

878
00:55:09,360 --> 00:55:13,680
Speaker 1: in case something does go down. You know. In the meantime, though,

879
00:55:13,760 --> 00:55:15,640
Speaker 1: I gotta tell you this. I gotta tell you this.

880
00:55:15,760 --> 00:55:17,799
Speaker 1: She gave us a lot of information in your letter.

881
00:55:17,920 --> 00:55:20,520
Speaker 1: You know about you graduating from college. You and your

882
00:55:20,560 --> 00:55:22,959
Speaker 1: wife have been together for twenty years. She's a great woman.

883
00:55:23,040 --> 00:55:25,760
Speaker 1: You fell in love with her. Your kids are great.

884
00:55:26,280 --> 00:55:29,000
Speaker 1: Their hood cousins make fun of them and everything. I

885
00:55:29,160 --> 00:55:32,120
Speaker 1: just say, in the meantime, this is a teenage party.

886
00:55:32,239 --> 00:55:35,120
Speaker 1: You know, remind people of that. So it should be

887
00:55:35,239 --> 00:55:37,560
Speaker 1: okay because it's for the teenagers as long as a

888
00:55:37,600 --> 00:55:41,120
Speaker 1: grown folks don't act to fool the adults just have

889
00:55:41,280 --> 00:55:44,600
Speaker 1: to behave You love your wife. You said that you

890
00:55:44,800 --> 00:55:46,480
Speaker 1: love your wife. You fell in love with her, and

891
00:55:46,640 --> 00:55:50,080
Speaker 1: you don't want to offend her, so please please be

892
00:55:50,200 --> 00:55:52,480
Speaker 1: mindful of that. You know that these are her folks.

893
00:55:52,520 --> 00:55:56,160
Speaker 1: She wants them to be included. She loves them, and

894
00:55:56,560 --> 00:56:00,360
Speaker 1: really she wants them there, So I mean it or not,

895
00:56:00,560 --> 00:56:02,719
Speaker 1: ghetto or not, as you call it, they're gonna. They're

896
00:56:02,760 --> 00:56:04,759
Speaker 1: gonna be there because this is what the wife that

897
00:56:04,880 --> 00:56:07,600
Speaker 1: you love want. So no alcohol and a little bit

898
00:56:07,640 --> 00:56:11,520
Speaker 1: of security might help you, Steve. Well, how many minutes

899
00:56:11,560 --> 00:56:14,840
Speaker 1: I got here before I get started on this. I

900
00:56:15,000 --> 00:56:20,359
Speaker 1: just wanted to say that I completely and totally disagree

901
00:56:20,920 --> 00:56:29,680
Speaker 1: with everything Shirley said. Your damn children need these people. Yes,

902
00:56:29,920 --> 00:56:33,120
Speaker 1: they do. Try to give a damn both my parents

903
00:56:33,239 --> 00:56:36,440
Speaker 1: and college degree. My mom and daddy ain't ever't. My

904
00:56:36,600 --> 00:56:40,719
Speaker 1: dad ain't even finished elementary school. My mama got a

905
00:56:40,840 --> 00:56:44,479
Speaker 1: high school diploma, that's it. Ain't. None of my brothers

906
00:56:44,520 --> 00:56:47,719
Speaker 1: and sisters been in no college that's it. I went

907
00:56:47,920 --> 00:56:51,399
Speaker 1: funk right out. I got a college degree as well.

908
00:56:51,520 --> 00:56:54,000
Speaker 1: I've been married over twenty years. Everybody, don't make it

909
00:56:54,120 --> 00:56:58,920
Speaker 1: twenty years hip hip, hoorade for you, Pardner, Are you

910
00:56:59,040 --> 00:57:02,160
Speaker 1: better Stevie's now. I'm just gonna tell him what because

911
00:57:02,360 --> 00:57:05,319
Speaker 1: you know he think he's somebody. Yeah, you got these

912
00:57:05,360 --> 00:57:08,799
Speaker 1: two teenagers. They well mannered and really smart kids. They

913
00:57:09,040 --> 00:57:13,799
Speaker 1: booked smart, they ass ain't street smart. Stupid ass. Need

914
00:57:13,920 --> 00:57:15,520
Speaker 1: to get with these cus and show them how to

915
00:57:15,560 --> 00:57:19,200
Speaker 1: handle themselves out there in life. You got a family

916
00:57:19,280 --> 00:57:22,360
Speaker 1: that's got five mobile parks down the street from each other,

917
00:57:22,440 --> 00:57:24,320
Speaker 1: all of them in trailer home. He needs to know

918
00:57:24,520 --> 00:57:29,160
Speaker 1: these people because something could pop off. You need them people,

919
00:57:30,800 --> 00:57:33,000
Speaker 1: and you're mad and stuff. You don't want them around

920
00:57:33,040 --> 00:57:36,080
Speaker 1: there for lack of better turn. They get old. Everybody

921
00:57:36,160 --> 00:57:39,120
Speaker 1: on this morning show from damn get old. It's a

922
00:57:39,320 --> 00:57:43,280
Speaker 1: lot of good in the hood. But you think because

923
00:57:43,320 --> 00:57:46,720
Speaker 1: you got this little degree, oh, you think your ass

924
00:57:46,800 --> 00:57:50,840
Speaker 1: is somebody and you special where you ain't. You're mad

925
00:57:50,880 --> 00:57:53,760
Speaker 1: at him? Yeah? Hell yeah, And I'm gonna tell you

926
00:57:53,880 --> 00:57:57,160
Speaker 1: why when you come back. Yeah, sending him here because

927
00:57:57,160 --> 00:58:01,439
Speaker 1: he got a little punk ass degree, all right, listen, Steve,

928
00:58:01,560 --> 00:58:04,360
Speaker 1: hang onto that. We'll have part two of your self

929
00:58:04,440 --> 00:58:07,040
Speaker 1: your response coming up in twenty three minutes after the

930
00:58:07,120 --> 00:58:10,400
Speaker 1: our Today's Strawberry Letters subject her family is ghetto, she

931
00:58:10,560 --> 00:58:13,320
Speaker 1: doesn't know it. We'll get back into it right after this.

932
00:58:13,920 --> 00:58:19,280
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933
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934
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941
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Speaker 1: n MLS Consumer Access dot org. All right, Steve, come on,

942
00:58:56,760 --> 00:58:59,920
Speaker 1: let's recap today's strawberry letter, which you are so mad about.

943
00:59:00,760 --> 00:59:04,680
Speaker 1: The subject her family's ghetto and she doesn't know Yeah,

944
00:59:04,760 --> 00:59:08,320
Speaker 1: tell me. I'm so Most ghetto people don't know they

945
00:59:08,400 --> 00:59:11,439
Speaker 1: get on because they're from the ghetto. That's just where

946
00:59:11,520 --> 00:59:14,600
Speaker 1: they from, that's just where they live. Now you're sitting up,

947
00:59:14,640 --> 00:59:18,120
Speaker 1: been here because both your parents got college degrees, worked hard,

948
00:59:18,680 --> 00:59:23,080
Speaker 1: you and your siblings. You mad twenty great woman two teenage.

949
00:59:23,200 --> 00:59:27,520
Speaker 1: Both of y'all got degreed. You met in college. But

950
00:59:27,760 --> 00:59:30,360
Speaker 1: you can't stay in her family. Well, her family probably

951
00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:33,760
Speaker 1: can't stay you eat your bush r ass coming over.

952
00:59:34,720 --> 00:59:38,400
Speaker 1: See there, there are a lot of they lack for

953
00:59:38,480 --> 00:59:42,160
Speaker 1: a better turn. Yeah, here comes his snobby ass sitting

954
00:59:42,240 --> 00:59:45,120
Speaker 1: up in here. You don't like nothing they do down there,

955
00:59:45,440 --> 00:59:47,760
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna tell you about him. I must admit

956
00:59:47,880 --> 00:59:50,440
Speaker 1: that as the kids grew up, I limited their access

957
00:59:50,520 --> 00:59:52,440
Speaker 1: to my wife's side of family, but had to be

958
00:59:52,520 --> 00:59:55,280
Speaker 1: careful not to famm these people who they have a

959
00:59:55,360 --> 00:59:57,880
Speaker 1: cookout for everything. See, you think your kids is well

960
00:59:57,960 --> 01:00:02,080
Speaker 1: manned and smart kids, but ain't. Don't got no streets smarts.

961
01:00:03,280 --> 01:00:06,200
Speaker 1: You know, I'm in a stupid ass book. Smart people.

962
01:00:06,280 --> 01:00:11,320
Speaker 1: I know. Bill Gates ain't got a college degree. Mark

963
01:00:11,440 --> 01:00:14,120
Speaker 1: Zuckerberg ain't got a college degree. Hold on, let me

964
01:00:14,120 --> 01:00:15,960
Speaker 1: show you. So let's get it real of it. We're

965
01:00:16,000 --> 01:00:20,640
Speaker 1: talking about college green Timmy got a college degree? Oh

966
01:00:21,040 --> 01:00:24,880
Speaker 1: my don't have a college degree? Now, which one ears?

967
01:00:24,960 --> 01:00:28,960
Speaker 1: You want your kids to be? You want your kids

968
01:00:29,040 --> 01:00:32,400
Speaker 1: Timmy got a college degree. I ain't who you want

969
01:00:32,480 --> 01:00:35,560
Speaker 1: your kids to be, probably neither one of us. But

970
01:00:35,680 --> 01:00:39,360
Speaker 1: if you had to pick one, what you pick his

971
01:00:39,520 --> 01:00:43,440
Speaker 1: stupid ass. That's all I'm asking. You got a college degree,

972
01:00:43,440 --> 01:00:46,480
Speaker 1: ain't got a damn brain in his school. So much

973
01:00:46,520 --> 01:00:49,480
Speaker 1: for your little damn college degree. They have a cookout

974
01:00:49,520 --> 01:00:52,080
Speaker 1: for every occasion. They live on the Stame Street in

975
01:00:52,200 --> 01:00:55,160
Speaker 1: five or six mobile homes. They always down the party,

976
01:00:55,240 --> 01:00:58,520
Speaker 1: play cars and dre Damn it, what's wrong with that?

977
01:01:00,160 --> 01:01:02,720
Speaker 1: You got to do something. We've been working all week.

978
01:01:03,000 --> 01:01:04,800
Speaker 1: We got to have some fun. We ain't got a

979
01:01:04,840 --> 01:01:07,320
Speaker 1: whole lot of money, so we're gonna play cars. That's

980
01:01:07,320 --> 01:01:09,360
Speaker 1: what doesn't matter what your punk ass kids. They don't

981
01:01:09,360 --> 01:01:12,000
Speaker 1: know how to play page. They can't play Dead with

982
01:01:12,440 --> 01:01:14,720
Speaker 1: they don't know how to or they don't play tongue,

983
01:01:14,960 --> 01:01:17,600
Speaker 1: they don't shoot dice. Little punk ass kids gonna go

984
01:01:17,640 --> 01:01:19,600
Speaker 1: off to college. Ain't gonna do a damn thing. He

985
01:01:19,680 --> 01:01:22,360
Speaker 1: gonna get the ass hustle. They're gonna go in Times Square.

986
01:01:22,560 --> 01:01:24,960
Speaker 1: Somebody gonna have a three card model game set up.

987
01:01:25,160 --> 01:01:27,960
Speaker 1: Take all your little ignorant ass kids money. Somebody gonna

988
01:01:28,000 --> 01:01:31,000
Speaker 1: have a share game set up. Take all your kids money.

989
01:01:31,440 --> 01:01:34,160
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, they're gonna but they're gonna go visit everybody

990
01:01:34,280 --> 01:01:37,360
Speaker 1: go to Times Square. Your little kids gonna come back broke.

991
01:01:38,080 --> 01:01:41,080
Speaker 1: The kids are always a part of the festivities. Your

992
01:01:41,160 --> 01:01:43,640
Speaker 1: kids probably need to learn how to play tongue. I

993
01:01:43,760 --> 01:01:46,200
Speaker 1: don't hell you grow up don't know how to play tongue.

994
01:01:46,880 --> 01:01:49,960
Speaker 1: You can't shoot no damn pood. My wife want our

995
01:01:50,040 --> 01:01:52,240
Speaker 1: children to get they know their cousins. Because your wife

996
01:01:52,400 --> 01:01:54,760
Speaker 1: is right, because she know you ain't taught him a

997
01:01:54,840 --> 01:01:57,560
Speaker 1: damn thing. Set up here and taught them all that

998
01:01:57,640 --> 01:01:59,640
Speaker 1: book knowledge and all that name, and they're just getting

999
01:01:59,640 --> 01:02:01,960
Speaker 1: their ass swipt every time they go to the playground.

1000
01:02:03,880 --> 01:02:05,800
Speaker 1: What I'm telling you what it sounds, this is what

1001
01:02:05,920 --> 01:02:08,280
Speaker 1: I'm reading in the letter. I'm reading all this in

1002
01:02:08,400 --> 01:02:10,640
Speaker 1: the letter. Your wife want them to know their cousins

1003
01:02:10,640 --> 01:02:14,360
Speaker 1: because they damn dadd is soft. They didn't last long

1004
01:02:14,480 --> 01:02:17,480
Speaker 1: courting hood cousins. They want them to come over and

1005
01:02:17,840 --> 01:02:20,920
Speaker 1: could start teasing your children about the way they speaking,

1006
01:02:20,960 --> 01:02:23,320
Speaker 1: how they care themselves. They're the last time they're gonna

1007
01:02:23,360 --> 01:02:27,800
Speaker 1: hit this. The hood cousins was getting them ready for life.

1008
01:02:28,360 --> 01:02:32,120
Speaker 1: Why are you mad because they're sitting up in here

1009
01:02:32,440 --> 01:02:36,840
Speaker 1: and not not not honoring the value of these hood cousins.

1010
01:02:37,400 --> 01:02:39,840
Speaker 1: It's good in the hood. You need to let these

1011
01:02:39,920 --> 01:02:42,320
Speaker 1: hood tease your kids about the way they speak. They

1012
01:02:42,440 --> 01:02:45,200
Speaker 1: probably speak real properly, just like your hands. One of

1013
01:02:45,240 --> 01:02:47,800
Speaker 1: my sons be graduated from high school. My wife got

1014
01:02:47,880 --> 01:02:50,120
Speaker 1: a party playing. She want to invite her and tie

1015
01:02:50,320 --> 01:02:53,400
Speaker 1: party to the P five family to the party that's

1016
01:02:53,440 --> 01:02:57,080
Speaker 1: in our community center in our neighborhood. Oh oh, I

1017
01:02:57,240 --> 01:03:01,160
Speaker 1: see you live in a complex that's got a community set. Oh,

1018
01:03:01,520 --> 01:03:03,640
Speaker 1: now you're gonna old you scared the hood people gonna

1019
01:03:03,640 --> 01:03:06,000
Speaker 1: come over that star swimming with all his clothes on

1020
01:03:06,160 --> 01:03:08,960
Speaker 1: and stuff like that. Gonna bring a grill out there,

1021
01:03:09,200 --> 01:03:12,000
Speaker 1: because you know, we travel with grills in our car.

1022
01:03:12,320 --> 01:03:14,240
Speaker 1: I had a grill in my car till I was

1023
01:03:14,320 --> 01:03:17,760
Speaker 1: thirty four years old. Sorry to mention, Yeah, kept a

1024
01:03:17,840 --> 01:03:20,520
Speaker 1: grill in my car. Charcoal light of fluid too, and

1025
01:03:20,680 --> 01:03:24,400
Speaker 1: a fishing rod. Hell yeah, hey, never know, when I

1026
01:03:24,520 --> 01:03:26,800
Speaker 1: run across the lake, I need some neat. I was homeless,

1027
01:03:26,920 --> 01:03:28,919
Speaker 1: I ain't no time, did them this punk ass letter,

1028
01:03:29,120 --> 01:03:31,880
Speaker 1: and he was sitting up in here. I politely remind

1029
01:03:31,960 --> 01:03:34,200
Speaker 1: her how much of fiasco it'll be if I invite

1030
01:03:34,240 --> 01:03:36,480
Speaker 1: them people over there, but she did sat on having

1031
01:03:36,520 --> 01:03:39,520
Speaker 1: her family included. I can imagine the dice game jumping

1032
01:03:39,560 --> 01:03:42,520
Speaker 1: off by the pool. If they uncle come, who don't

1033
01:03:42,600 --> 01:03:48,200
Speaker 1: like to shoot dice? Hell, now I know you ain't

1034
01:03:48,200 --> 01:03:52,400
Speaker 1: say we can't shoot dice. He we can't shoot dice.

1035
01:03:52,920 --> 01:03:58,520
Speaker 1: We at the swimming pool. Black people don't swim, So

1036
01:03:58,720 --> 01:04:02,520
Speaker 1: what else they gonna do? Your uncle can swim. He

1037
01:04:02,680 --> 01:04:05,600
Speaker 1: got some dice. We're standing around. We ain't doing and

1038
01:04:05,600 --> 01:04:09,480
Speaker 1: then you hold on shut we're shooting dice. I don't

1039
01:04:09,520 --> 01:04:11,840
Speaker 1: want to be disrespectful. I need to put my foot down.

1040
01:04:12,040 --> 01:04:14,400
Speaker 1: You can kick the dice. Put your foot down. If

1041
01:04:14,400 --> 01:04:17,040
Speaker 1: they roll, kick it forward, hit point, you can kick

1042
01:04:17,120 --> 01:04:20,000
Speaker 1: the dice. Get a rethroat, baby, I need to make

1043
01:04:20,880 --> 01:04:23,720
Speaker 1: Why can I make this party work? Your ass don't

1044
01:04:23,800 --> 01:04:28,360
Speaker 1: go now what you want to ask. So you're rolling

1045
01:04:28,440 --> 01:04:31,040
Speaker 1: around with a fishing pole because you get hungry. So

1046
01:04:31,200 --> 01:04:33,440
Speaker 1: you'll go get some fish and then catch it and

1047
01:04:33,800 --> 01:04:35,720
Speaker 1: bring it back and cooking on the grill that's in

1048
01:04:35,840 --> 01:04:38,200
Speaker 1: your car. No, I take it up to the rest

1049
01:04:38,280 --> 01:04:42,000
Speaker 1: area because they got the cassine grills already dug into

1050
01:04:42,040 --> 01:04:46,360
Speaker 1: the ground. We threw parties. My brother my brother still

1051
01:04:46,520 --> 01:04:49,520
Speaker 1: got card parties at his house. When my older brother died,

1052
01:04:49,800 --> 01:04:52,080
Speaker 1: we stopped for six months because we was morning. But

1053
01:04:52,160 --> 01:05:01,800
Speaker 1: we're back now. Thank you sim today my Instagram and

1054
01:05:02,000 --> 01:05:05,440
Speaker 1: Facebook coming up in forty six minutes after the hour

1055
01:05:05,520 --> 01:05:09,600
Speaker 1: that the majority of my friends ain't got no damn college. Okay,

1056
01:05:09,920 --> 01:05:15,240
Speaker 1: we'll be back. You're listening show what's the biggest light

1057
01:05:15,280 --> 01:05:18,480
Speaker 1: you ever told? Tommy started off my oldest son. When

1058
01:05:18,480 --> 01:05:22,920
Speaker 1: he was younger, he wanted to go to PG thirteen movies.

1059
01:05:23,360 --> 01:05:24,960
Speaker 1: I always knew it was gonna be something that he

1060
01:05:25,040 --> 01:05:28,080
Speaker 1: didn't need to see, so he didn't know. But I

1061
01:05:28,080 --> 01:05:32,200
Speaker 1: would tell him, Hey, do you know what PG thirteen means?

1062
01:05:32,240 --> 01:05:35,440
Speaker 1: He's like no, I say that means only thirteen people

1063
01:05:36,000 --> 01:05:38,880
Speaker 1: can go in the movie. So when I when we

1064
01:05:38,920 --> 01:05:42,240
Speaker 1: would get there, I say, it's already twelve people in there.

1065
01:05:42,680 --> 01:05:45,160
Speaker 1: We can't go in there. It's too late. And he

1066
01:05:45,200 --> 01:05:47,439
Speaker 1: would be like, wow, we don't never get him time

1067
01:05:47,560 --> 01:05:51,080
Speaker 1: enough to see any PG thirteen movies. We're gonna have

1068
01:05:51,160 --> 01:05:52,760
Speaker 1: to go see a G movie. We're gonna go see

1069
01:05:52,760 --> 01:05:55,120
Speaker 1: a G. We'd be all up in line, king, we're

1070
01:05:55,200 --> 01:05:58,040
Speaker 1: not going to see your mom ain't gonna be mad

1071
01:05:58,080 --> 01:06:03,080
Speaker 1: at PG. Thirteen and all right, come on, what I

1072
01:06:03,160 --> 01:06:07,080
Speaker 1: need to make sure that my mama ain't listening? Huh? Man.

1073
01:06:09,720 --> 01:06:13,720
Speaker 1: I was at football sixteen years old, and my mama

1074
01:06:13,800 --> 01:06:16,760
Speaker 1: let me take her truck to practice. And you know,

1075
01:06:16,840 --> 01:06:19,120
Speaker 1: after practice, my boy getting the truck, we're driving back.

1076
01:06:19,440 --> 01:06:23,640
Speaker 1: I took my mama brand new blazer and backed it

1077
01:06:23,720 --> 01:06:26,240
Speaker 1: and got it stuck on the side, and then it

1078
01:06:26,360 --> 01:06:30,400
Speaker 1: the whole left side on the school bus. Ah. My

1079
01:06:30,480 --> 01:06:31,880
Speaker 1: boys said, Man, I can't let you go back home

1080
01:06:31,920 --> 01:06:35,040
Speaker 1: with the truth. Huh. You got to say that bus

1081
01:06:35,240 --> 01:06:39,560
Speaker 1: backed into you. Boy, He said, you can't walking mama brand.

1082
01:06:39,640 --> 01:06:41,280
Speaker 1: He got this tag still on it. It ain't no

1083
01:06:41,400 --> 01:06:44,439
Speaker 1: license plate. Man. I walked in the mom and said,

1084
01:06:44,560 --> 01:06:47,560
Speaker 1: what happened to that truck? And my boys went talking.

1085
01:06:47,640 --> 01:06:49,439
Speaker 1: We was just bustling up our seatbelts and they didn't

1086
01:06:49,440 --> 01:06:52,680
Speaker 1: know a school bus hit us. My mama bought that

1087
01:06:52,840 --> 01:06:56,880
Speaker 1: for about two months. Uh, she said, she said, why

1088
01:06:56,920 --> 01:07:00,560
Speaker 1: you ain't getting no case? Right? I got the nig ass.

1089
01:07:04,440 --> 01:07:10,080
Speaker 1: I was fast after that. I come on, Steve, the

1090
01:07:10,680 --> 01:07:16,160
Speaker 1: god you've ever told last one so many? He said,

1091
01:07:16,200 --> 01:07:19,960
Speaker 1: I have an end of this pool to choose. I

1092
01:07:20,200 --> 01:07:23,360
Speaker 1: was at ball, my daddy's station wagon. One time I

1093
01:07:23,480 --> 01:07:25,760
Speaker 1: was taking this girl out on the date in my

1094
01:07:25,920 --> 01:07:29,000
Speaker 1: church choir. But I wanted to be with it in

1095
01:07:29,160 --> 01:07:32,640
Speaker 1: the car. And so what I did was I stopped

1096
01:07:32,640 --> 01:07:35,320
Speaker 1: at the drugs there on Boston Ponds cold cream. That

1097
01:07:35,440 --> 01:07:37,440
Speaker 1: wasn't trick me. And the fella shues to you back

1098
01:07:37,560 --> 01:07:39,840
Speaker 1: the day you put Ponds cold cream on the windows

1099
01:07:39,960 --> 01:07:42,680
Speaker 1: and make it you know, you can't see in the window.

1100
01:07:43,400 --> 01:07:47,880
Speaker 1: And uh, I put the Ponds cold cream on the window. Oh,

1101
01:07:47,960 --> 01:07:50,320
Speaker 1: I got down there to pick her up. And when

1102
01:07:50,360 --> 01:07:52,120
Speaker 1: I went and picked up and she came and got

1103
01:07:52,200 --> 01:07:54,120
Speaker 1: in the carm in the station wag, and I backed out.

1104
01:07:54,120 --> 01:07:55,760
Speaker 1: I couldn't see a damn thing. And I hit my

1105
01:07:55,880 --> 01:07:59,640
Speaker 1: daddy's offender on the fence and tote the head light

1106
01:07:59,720 --> 01:08:08,240
Speaker 1: out and get cream off. No window blind, You can't

1107
01:08:08,280 --> 01:08:11,160
Speaker 1: get it out to crack the window meets the post.

1108
01:08:15,000 --> 01:08:22,280
Speaker 1: All right, Thank you, guys, you're listening. All right. So guys,

1109
01:08:22,320 --> 01:08:24,920
Speaker 1: here's a question for you. Do you have a hiding

1110
01:08:25,080 --> 01:08:28,400
Speaker 1: place in your home to just have a few minutes alone?

1111
01:08:29,000 --> 01:08:32,280
Speaker 1: You know, I mean everybody should have someplace, some little

1112
01:08:32,439 --> 01:08:35,879
Speaker 1: getaway place that they can have some me time. For instance,

1113
01:08:35,960 --> 01:08:37,880
Speaker 1: some Women like to have what they call a she

1114
01:08:38,120 --> 01:08:40,320
Speaker 1: shed or a small room that they can read in

1115
01:08:40,560 --> 01:08:43,320
Speaker 1: or just chill in. I you know what, I love

1116
01:08:43,400 --> 01:08:46,599
Speaker 1: the bathroom. Men usually go into the garage or their

1117
01:08:46,680 --> 01:08:49,960
Speaker 1: man cave or the basement or someplace. Uh. Do you

1118
01:08:50,120 --> 01:08:53,280
Speaker 1: take an extended break in your home hiding place? Do

1119
01:08:53,400 --> 01:08:56,639
Speaker 1: you do it every day? Is the question? Or does

1120
01:08:56,680 --> 01:08:58,920
Speaker 1: your family know not to disturb you when you're in

1121
01:08:58,960 --> 01:09:02,040
Speaker 1: your favorite room or you're hiding place. Come on, Steve,

1122
01:09:02,200 --> 01:09:05,040
Speaker 1: I know you take time for yourself. Yeah, they've always

1123
01:09:05,080 --> 01:09:07,240
Speaker 1: done that. Yeah, I go, I go to San Diego.

1124
01:09:08,040 --> 01:09:10,479
Speaker 1: You lead a house. Yeah, get the hell out. Can't

1125
01:09:10,520 --> 01:09:14,200
Speaker 1: follow me down now, Damn. Grandkids know how to use

1126
01:09:14,240 --> 01:09:17,800
Speaker 1: the elevating everything. I'll be Damn, I'm going to San Diego.

1127
01:09:21,200 --> 01:09:24,679
Speaker 1: It's beautiful there. I don't care if it is. They're

1128
01:09:24,720 --> 01:09:29,360
Speaker 1: not there, clearly you got one. Yeah, I love. I

1129
01:09:29,439 --> 01:09:33,320
Speaker 1: will be in my bathroom for out words. Okay. I

1130
01:09:33,600 --> 01:09:35,600
Speaker 1: was in the bathroom in the bat because I have

1131
01:09:35,640 --> 01:09:37,920
Speaker 1: a TV in there, and you know I do my makeup,

1132
01:09:38,160 --> 01:09:41,120
Speaker 1: you know. Yeah. I don't mean the water, you don't

1133
01:09:41,120 --> 01:09:43,479
Speaker 1: mean the toilet, No, no, no, I don't spend most

1134
01:09:43,479 --> 01:09:46,160
Speaker 1: of my time. I spend most of my time in

1135
01:09:46,280 --> 01:09:50,599
Speaker 1: the bathroom. No, no, no, not there, I just out part. Yeah, yes,

1136
01:09:50,760 --> 01:09:52,960
Speaker 1: that's a separate with the fan. I got my TV

1137
01:09:53,200 --> 01:09:56,479
Speaker 1: right in front of the toilet and a computer. Now

1138
01:09:56,560 --> 01:09:59,760
Speaker 1: that's how you go from. Now, that's how you don't

1139
01:09:59,840 --> 01:10:01,600
Speaker 1: mean it's nothing go when I'm watching the game, I

1140
01:10:01,720 --> 01:10:07,840
Speaker 1: just get up going in the bathroom. It's on the

1141
01:10:07,920 --> 01:10:11,760
Speaker 1: wall right in front of you. Yeah, I ain't done

1142
01:10:11,760 --> 01:10:13,320
Speaker 1: that up a little high where you can keep your

1143
01:10:13,360 --> 01:10:15,920
Speaker 1: head up. You don't want to look even keep your

1144
01:10:16,000 --> 01:10:23,000
Speaker 1: head or be digestive tracking more open the slight little

1145
01:10:26,640 --> 01:10:30,360
Speaker 1: What about you tell me I'm in my theater I

1146
01:10:30,400 --> 01:10:34,360
Speaker 1: can get away from Did you hear that rich as? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,

1147
01:10:36,040 --> 01:10:38,240
Speaker 1: you said a rich ass statement. And I ain't saying that.

1148
01:10:38,400 --> 01:10:41,360
Speaker 1: You said, my kids on my grand baby's on the elevator.

1149
01:10:41,360 --> 01:10:43,400
Speaker 1: I ain't saying nothing about your elevating in your house.

1150
01:10:43,840 --> 01:10:48,120
Speaker 1: I ain't even know you're saying I was going because

1151
01:10:48,120 --> 01:10:54,479
Speaker 1: I ain't going. Go ahead, teeth, thought I had it limited. Okay,

1152
01:10:54,880 --> 01:10:58,880
Speaker 1: all right, well my fast his elevator on my theater. Hey, junior,

1153
01:10:59,439 --> 01:11:02,120
Speaker 1: which one of your rooms in your house is your theater? Yeah,

1154
01:11:02,200 --> 01:11:06,880
Speaker 1: let's hear from the poet a theater. What I had

1155
01:11:06,920 --> 01:11:09,519
Speaker 1: to do is take some some drapes and put them

1156
01:11:09,520 --> 01:11:12,639
Speaker 1: on the side of the TV. Make my ass a theater.

1157
01:11:15,960 --> 01:11:18,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna make a theater. Hold on, y'all, come out

1158
01:11:18,120 --> 01:11:22,559
Speaker 1: the kitchen. The drapes gonna catch you. I'm gonna make

1159
01:11:22,600 --> 01:11:27,400
Speaker 1: a thill. That boy him, Paula be nice. I ain't been.

1160
01:11:27,520 --> 01:11:39,679
Speaker 1: He me. I'll go to my theater. Nothing. I can't

1161
01:11:39,760 --> 01:11:42,760
Speaker 1: say nothing. How many seats in the theater, I'm not

1162
01:11:42,920 --> 01:11:45,559
Speaker 1: telling so many. They can't find him in there. Y'all

1163
01:11:46,360 --> 01:11:57,800
Speaker 1: shut up. Steve, go down front. If down now, I've

1164
01:11:57,800 --> 01:11:59,760
Speaker 1: benna take my hand down. Ain't look in the b

1165
01:12:00,120 --> 01:12:07,960
Speaker 1: canna see where we are? Bel ask me where I

1166
01:12:08,040 --> 01:12:12,800
Speaker 1: go to get away? That's all I see. Man. Well

1167
01:12:13,080 --> 01:12:15,840
Speaker 1: the Lord is still blessing, blessing you. Man, I didn't

1168
01:12:15,880 --> 01:12:18,560
Speaker 1: even know you had said. If you're talking to you

1169
01:12:18,680 --> 01:12:20,479
Speaker 1: like you he had one, I got changed. I talked

1170
01:12:20,479 --> 01:12:22,240
Speaker 1: to you. How are you talking to him at first?

1171
01:12:22,280 --> 01:12:24,960
Speaker 1: Like he handle THI he got a thing I gotta changed.

1172
01:12:25,000 --> 01:12:28,960
Speaker 1: I talked to him, man. Miss the nephew. Now, hey,

1173
01:12:29,040 --> 01:12:33,000
Speaker 1: miss nephew, what time you go down to the Oh?

1174
01:12:35,680 --> 01:12:38,000
Speaker 1: So Steve in case you don't make it to San Diego.

1175
01:12:38,280 --> 01:12:40,200
Speaker 1: What what room in your home do you go to?

1176
01:12:40,680 --> 01:12:42,559
Speaker 1: Where do you go? I'll go all the way down

1177
01:12:42,640 --> 01:12:47,120
Speaker 1: to the Basement's done, done, then this little man cave

1178
01:12:47,240 --> 01:12:54,000
Speaker 1: I got. Oh okay, all right, see all right, coming

1179
01:12:54,120 --> 01:12:56,920
Speaker 1: up more of today's trending stories on the Steve Harvey

1180
01:12:56,960 --> 01:12:59,240
Speaker 1: Morning Show, and then we'll be back in twenty minutes

1181
01:12:59,280 --> 01:13:05,360
Speaker 1: after the hour right after this. Yeah, you're listening to

1182
01:13:05,560 --> 01:13:11,800
Speaker 1: the show. Well, guys, scientists are working to control a

1183
01:13:11,960 --> 01:13:15,960
Speaker 1: non harmonal birth control pill for men, all right, for

1184
01:13:16,160 --> 01:13:20,040
Speaker 1: men now, and it has been proven successful in lab

1185
01:13:20,160 --> 01:13:24,240
Speaker 1: trials on mice. The drug was nine percent effective at

1186
01:13:24,280 --> 01:13:28,559
Speaker 1: presenting pregnancy in mice and has no apparent side effects.

1187
01:13:28,600 --> 01:13:31,720
Speaker 1: According to the research presented at the annual meeting of

1188
01:13:31,840 --> 01:13:35,360
Speaker 1: the American Chemical Society, after a year of testing with

1189
01:13:35,560 --> 01:13:39,080
Speaker 1: human males, the drug could soon be the first effective

1190
01:13:39,120 --> 01:13:42,760
Speaker 1: form of both birth control from men besides condoms or

1191
01:13:42,840 --> 01:13:47,120
Speaker 1: getting a vasectomy. So, guys, here's the question, what are

1192
01:13:47,120 --> 01:13:51,880
Speaker 1: you buying and would you take the pill? I'm not

1193
01:13:52,040 --> 01:13:56,599
Speaker 1: saying peal and none, But so far all these tests

1194
01:13:56,680 --> 01:14:01,640
Speaker 1: have been done on mice. There's nothing simmol about me

1195
01:14:01,920 --> 01:14:08,920
Speaker 1: and a mouse and nothing a reproductive glances the size

1196
01:14:09,080 --> 01:14:13,160
Speaker 1: of a mouse. So you wouldn't take the billets and

1197
01:14:13,280 --> 01:14:15,560
Speaker 1: know for you? Well, I'm just saying, I don't know

1198
01:14:15,680 --> 01:14:18,479
Speaker 1: what they don't put in this mice. I'm gonna need

1199
01:14:18,640 --> 01:14:25,360
Speaker 1: probably four hundred times to do yo anyway, Jay, And

1200
01:14:25,680 --> 01:14:28,639
Speaker 1: if they make it, if they make it taste like chicken,

1201
01:14:28,960 --> 01:14:35,799
Speaker 1: I'm in all right, Jay, love chicken, Jay a chicken.

1202
01:14:36,479 --> 01:14:39,960
Speaker 1: We are at the age where it don't matter. I

1203
01:14:40,000 --> 01:14:44,479
Speaker 1: don't even I can take it or not make babies.

1204
01:14:44,680 --> 01:14:47,200
Speaker 1: All right, We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning

1205
01:14:47,200 --> 01:14:49,320
Speaker 1: Show coming up at thirty three minutes after the hour.

1206
01:14:49,400 --> 01:14:51,680
Speaker 1: We'll play around it. Would you rather right after this

1207
01:14:52,320 --> 01:14:57,120
Speaker 1: you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Truth be told?

1208
01:14:57,320 --> 01:15:00,519
Speaker 1: Come on, Junior. I don't know who do people are

1209
01:15:00,880 --> 01:15:04,280
Speaker 1: and where it comes from. But on Saturday, why is

1210
01:15:04,280 --> 01:15:09,400
Speaker 1: you calling any human beings before eight o'clock? Why what

1211
01:15:09,640 --> 01:15:13,400
Speaker 1: do we have to talk about at seven to fifteen am?

1212
01:15:13,960 --> 01:15:15,639
Speaker 1: There is nothing I want to talk like my point

1213
01:15:15,720 --> 01:15:18,120
Speaker 1: called me at seven fifty am. Come out. What you're doing?

1214
01:15:18,320 --> 01:15:22,040
Speaker 1: Dog is sad. I'm trying to sleep, trying to do well. Here.

1215
01:15:22,080 --> 01:15:24,519
Speaker 1: The thing about it is like he said, dog, did

1216
01:15:24,600 --> 01:15:30,400
Speaker 1: you see? I ain't seen nothing? Seventh fifteen? Deep, people

1217
01:15:30,439 --> 01:15:32,880
Speaker 1: need to I'm trying. Just don't jump off in dressing.

1218
01:15:33,040 --> 01:15:35,920
Speaker 1: The phone shouldn't even be allowed to work, but poe

1219
01:15:36,320 --> 01:15:41,559
Speaker 1: until after eight? After ten? Shit, But I'm I'm just saying,

1220
01:15:41,720 --> 01:15:44,720
Speaker 1: what made you get up? Pick your phone up? Saying

1221
01:15:44,840 --> 01:15:47,120
Speaker 1: damn it? You know who I ain't called? Let me

1222
01:15:47,240 --> 01:15:52,439
Speaker 1: call him right now? And what time you at? Seven fifteen?

1223
01:15:52,920 --> 01:15:56,360
Speaker 1: First of all, I ain't formed a thought. And then

1224
01:15:56,400 --> 01:15:59,200
Speaker 1: you're another grown man talking to another grown man. As

1225
01:15:59,240 --> 01:16:01,560
Speaker 1: I lay in bad, I say, you ready, this is

1226
01:16:01,640 --> 01:16:06,679
Speaker 1: not comfortable. I'm not comfortable when you heard me saying hello, Hello,

1227
01:16:07,360 --> 01:16:11,800
Speaker 1: you gonna fall? Dog? Guess what? What? What? Except fifteen? What?

1228
01:16:12,000 --> 01:16:15,160
Speaker 1: Why am I kissing? I ain't got no shirt on

1229
01:16:15,360 --> 01:16:19,320
Speaker 1: right now? No, I ain't got no shirt on? You sleep?

1230
01:16:20,200 --> 01:16:24,400
Speaker 1: What shirt? I'm just however I sleep? It ain't none

1231
01:16:24,400 --> 01:16:27,440
Speaker 1: of your misstep. Fiftee. I'm just sing comfortable with the conversation.

1232
01:16:29,240 --> 01:16:32,719
Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying. Y'all should just just just find

1233
01:16:32,800 --> 01:16:35,160
Speaker 1: something else that don't call people no both, That's all.

1234
01:16:35,200 --> 01:16:37,040
Speaker 1: I just want to say, what's the earliest you can

1235
01:16:37,120 --> 01:16:41,639
Speaker 1: take ten thirty seven fifteen on the set. Yeah, ten thirty.

1236
01:16:41,920 --> 01:16:43,920
Speaker 1: I want to get up and have my coffee, enjoying

1237
01:16:44,000 --> 01:16:46,120
Speaker 1: my morning. What do you call me at seven fifteen?

1238
01:16:46,120 --> 01:16:47,760
Speaker 1: I ain't got no shirt all you talk about? Guess

1239
01:16:47,880 --> 01:16:53,360
Speaker 1: what what? This is uncomfortable. It's uncomfortable you laying horizon

1240
01:16:53,600 --> 01:16:59,639
Speaker 1: talking to another man except dog, I got I got,

1241
01:16:59,840 --> 01:17:02,040
Speaker 1: I got one leg in the bed, one leg out

1242
01:17:02,040 --> 01:17:05,200
Speaker 1: to be Yes, what that's all I want to say?

1243
01:17:05,240 --> 01:17:14,840
Speaker 1: Just stop calling her ten thirty, ten thirty, don't call it.

1244
01:17:15,680 --> 01:17:18,679
Speaker 1: You'll be upsid. Yeah, and the person I'm talking about

1245
01:17:18,680 --> 01:17:24,519
Speaker 1: it is Jake. Don't want y'all know wow, just want try.

1246
01:17:24,640 --> 01:17:28,560
Speaker 1: You know, we agreed not to bring that up, to

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Speaker 1: agree that we agree that you would not. Both of y'all.

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Speaker 1: Come on, I think you agree with both of y'all.

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Speaker 1: Both of y'all. Sick ass me said, women, lady something

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Speaker 1: to do? Got nothing y'all waking up by y'all Sam

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01:17:52,479 --> 01:17:59,280
Speaker 1: shirt on you? Why is'all y'all issues? Ain't even real me?

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Speaker 1: I mean I thought we agreed, all right, Steve coming

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Speaker 1: up closing remarks right after this. You're listening, all right, Steve?

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Speaker 1: Here we are last break of the day on this Monday.

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Speaker 1: It's been a good day. We've had some fun today.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, and now it's time for you to take

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Speaker 1: us home get back to work with some closing remarks. Uh.

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Speaker 1: You know something, Um, as I get older and I

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Speaker 1: go through things in my life, one of the things

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Speaker 1: I've become really comfortable with is sharing my own personal

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Speaker 1: experiences with people and hope that they can learn from

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Speaker 1: some of the experiences I've had, some of the mistakes

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Speaker 1: I've made. And so, you know, one of the things

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Speaker 1: I wanted to help people with out there, because everybody

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Speaker 1: has their share of haters out there, and so I

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Speaker 1: just want to talk to you for just a second

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Speaker 1: about the people that you surround yourself with. It's important

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Speaker 1: that you take constant inventory in your life to make

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Speaker 1: sure that you don't have dead weight attached to you.

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Speaker 1: It's important that you don't have people or who are

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Speaker 1: in a relationship with you that's just one sided. It's

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01:19:24,920 --> 01:19:29,640
Speaker 1: important that you know that everybody in your life is

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Speaker 1: important to you and would be there for you in

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Speaker 1: the moment of du rest. Now, if these people don't

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Speaker 1: fit that bill, then I'm sorry you got to do

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Speaker 1: something else, But you got to watch people you got

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Speaker 1: to constantly monitor people because people change, especially as you

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Speaker 1: elevate in life. As you elevate in life, people have

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Speaker 1: a different perception of you. Seeing what I found in

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Speaker 1: getting more and more and more success tful. It's not

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Speaker 1: that you change as you becomes more and more successful.

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Speaker 1: It's that people's perception of you changes. So now it

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Speaker 1: becomes all Now they think they all that are now

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Speaker 1: they think they It is because of that when an actuality,

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Speaker 1: you can very well be the same pay person. You're

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Speaker 1: just at a different level. But it's amazing, man, when

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Speaker 1: you get to this other level in order for people

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01:20:28,560 --> 01:20:31,880
Speaker 1: to throw rocks at you, it ain't level no more.

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Speaker 1: They got to throw their rocks up at you. And

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Speaker 1: it kind of disheartens you from time to time as

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01:20:38,760 --> 01:20:41,240
Speaker 1: you're just minding your business and going through your life

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01:20:41,280 --> 01:20:44,479
Speaker 1: and doing what you do to get people throwing rocks

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Speaker 1: up at you. And now a lot of people out

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Speaker 1: there that can relate to what I'm saying. It's not

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01:20:49,479 --> 01:20:52,360
Speaker 1: that you think you better than somebody, but it's just

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Speaker 1: that you've gotten yourself in another level. You've just leveled up.

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Speaker 1: And when you level up, you can't be concerned with

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Speaker 1: the people that ain't up there with you because a

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Speaker 1: lot of people ain't up there with you because they

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Speaker 1: wouldn't even fit up there with you. Know how, the

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Speaker 1: majority of people ain't up there with you because if

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Speaker 1: God wanted them to be up there, he to put

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Speaker 1: them up there, but he didn't. He put you up there.

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Speaker 1: And it's okay, that's just what it is. You up there.

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Speaker 1: It's not for everybody, this place that you've reached. I'm

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Speaker 1: just sorry, man, It's just not for everybody. And you

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Speaker 1: gotta understand that and don't get disheardened. Man, when when

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Speaker 1: when when you get up at the top and it

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Speaker 1: starts to feel lonely. I was talking with somebody the

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Speaker 1: other day. You know the problem with being at the

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Speaker 1: top is like being on the pyramid. It's a sharp

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Speaker 1: point at the top of that pyramid. Ain't a lot

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Speaker 1: of friends up there, ain't a lot of company up

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Speaker 1: there because guess what, it just ain't a lot of

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Speaker 1: room up there most people. And then now when you

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Speaker 1: do have ends, they write up under that pyramid. They

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Speaker 1: there and you know what they do. They the support

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Speaker 1: system for you. And you find that in people all

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Speaker 1: the time. But man, if you're not careful if you're

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Speaker 1: not really, really careful and you're not monitoring people along

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Speaker 1: the way, it's not you. The changes, they change, their

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Speaker 1: perception of you changes. So once their perception of you changes,

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Speaker 1: they attitude towards you changes. I can't count the people, man,

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Speaker 1: I can't count the people in my life, man, who

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Speaker 1: for one reason or another, felt like it should have

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Speaker 1: been them, or for one reason another, they just got

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Speaker 1: jealous of you because of what you had. I was

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Speaker 1: talking to Jamie Fox at this party the other night,

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Speaker 1: and Jamie Fox I showed him something that he had

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Speaker 1: posted on Instagram. He said, wow, man, I'm glad that

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Speaker 1: meant something to you. And what he posted was some

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Speaker 1: people only hate you because of the way other people

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Speaker 1: love you. Y'all, remember that some people only hate you

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Speaker 1: because of the way other people love you. Do you

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Speaker 1: know that That's simply all it takes for some people

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Speaker 1: to hate you. You ain't got to have done nothing

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Speaker 1: to them. But people get sick of your success. People

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Speaker 1: get tired of you. God always blessing you, how you

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Speaker 1: always why they get another car from why they keep

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Speaker 1: getting a promotion? What they doing over there? They always brag,

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Speaker 1: my theay baby did this? They baby did that? No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: no no. Some people only hate you because of the

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Speaker 1: way other people love you. So you got to constantly

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Speaker 1: monitor people in your life, man, because, like I said,

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Speaker 1: as you get more and more successful, it's not you

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01:23:47,960 --> 01:23:51,799
Speaker 1: who changes, it's the people's perception of you who changes.

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Speaker 1: And if they can't make the adjustment, then you have

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Speaker 1: to make the adjustment. You got to get rid of

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01:23:59,080 --> 01:24:02,080
Speaker 1: people who don't mean you will. You got to get

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Speaker 1: rid of people who are non supportive. You got to

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01:24:05,080 --> 01:24:08,560
Speaker 1: get rid of the people that's always bad news. You

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01:24:08,680 --> 01:24:11,640
Speaker 1: got to get rid of the people that you always

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01:24:11,840 --> 01:24:14,760
Speaker 1: got to help, but they ain't got no help for you.

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Speaker 1: Am I talking to you? And are you listening? You

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Speaker 1: can't help everybody. Drop it, nobody. Have a good day, y'all,

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Speaker 1: have a great weekend Monday. For all Steve every contests,

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