1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,520 Speaker 1: My wife went on the getaway trip she planned for 2 00:00:02,680 --> 00:00:06,320 Speaker 1: us with her a fair partner. There is anything check 3 00:00:06,360 --> 00:00:08,520 Speaker 1: post history for the full story. We already got it. 4 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:11,400 Speaker 1: I am sharing here because I am undecided on what 5 00:00:11,440 --> 00:00:14,040 Speaker 1: to do next. Last night, I met up with my 6 00:00:14,080 --> 00:00:16,919 Speaker 1: best friend for drinks. After reading the advice from many 7 00:00:16,960 --> 00:00:19,480 Speaker 1: of you suggesting a steer clear of booze for now, 8 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:23,880 Speaker 1: I decided to drive to avoid the temptation. My wife 9 00:00:23,920 --> 00:00:26,079 Speaker 1: knew where I was going, and she was concerned about 10 00:00:26,120 --> 00:00:28,360 Speaker 1: what people in our community might think if they found 11 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:30,720 Speaker 1: out what she did. But she also said she was 12 00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:33,240 Speaker 1: happy I had someone to talk to because he's going 13 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:36,560 Speaker 1: to go see's friend since she knew I was hurting deeply. 14 00:00:37,159 --> 00:00:39,720 Speaker 1: Finally being able to talk to someone about everything lifted 15 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:42,400 Speaker 1: a weight off my shoulders. But at the same time, 16 00:00:42,520 --> 00:00:45,480 Speaker 1: it felt like the full reality of my situation hit 17 00:00:45,560 --> 00:00:48,559 Speaker 1: me all over again. It's devastating. 18 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:49,040 Speaker 2: Really. 19 00:00:49,600 --> 00:00:51,519 Speaker 1: When I got home, it was late, but she was 20 00:00:51,560 --> 00:00:55,520 Speaker 1: still awake watching our wedding video OO and I could 21 00:00:55,560 --> 00:00:56,680 Speaker 1: tell she had been crying. 22 00:00:57,160 --> 00:01:01,640 Speaker 2: It's so whack. This is video. I hear you cheated 23 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 2: for a month. Yeah, you know what it feels like. 24 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:06,960 Speaker 2: It feels like she's trying to. It's it's like it's like, 25 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:09,480 Speaker 2: you know someone really likes music, and so when they 26 00:01:09,480 --> 00:01:11,800 Speaker 2: show up to your house, you're like playing piano and 27 00:01:11,840 --> 00:01:14,480 Speaker 2: it's like, come on, like you don't need to you 28 00:01:14,480 --> 00:01:17,320 Speaker 2: don't need to pasture here that we're always playing piano 29 00:01:17,440 --> 00:01:19,800 Speaker 2: just because you know someone likes piano. 30 00:01:20,080 --> 00:01:22,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, but in that circumstance, I think that sometimes that 31 00:01:22,760 --> 00:01:24,200 Speaker 1: person just likes playing piano. 32 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:26,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true, Like they could just they could just 33 00:01:26,280 --> 00:01:26,800 Speaker 2: watch here. 34 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:30,280 Speaker 1: I think in this case, she never watched her wedding 35 00:01:30,360 --> 00:01:32,600 Speaker 1: video and then she's just watching it out of the blue. 36 00:01:32,720 --> 00:01:35,760 Speaker 2: That's true, But there was like a marked difference in 37 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:41,399 Speaker 2: the amount of playing piano slash watching. I don't think 38 00:01:41,440 --> 00:01:45,639 Speaker 2: so at the point where this event happened in their lives, 39 00:01:45,680 --> 00:01:47,000 Speaker 2: I don't think so. You don't think so. 40 00:01:47,280 --> 00:01:49,280 Speaker 1: But I think this wedding video, we should get back 41 00:01:49,280 --> 00:01:53,800 Speaker 1: to that call. Terra Rain thank you says watching our 42 00:01:53,840 --> 00:01:55,480 Speaker 1: wedding video is manipulative. 43 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:58,800 Speaker 2: I agree, that's what I think. I think it very. 44 00:01:58,600 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 1: Manipulative, especially because she probably kind of I don't know, 45 00:02:01,200 --> 00:02:03,760 Speaker 1: I feel like she was just like on repeat watching 46 00:02:04,920 --> 00:02:09,120 Speaker 1: she was here. She was like okay, and see he's here. Ah, 47 00:02:09,160 --> 00:02:11,600 Speaker 1: the wedding is so beautiful, and she's like, oh, I 48 00:02:11,639 --> 00:02:12,839 Speaker 1: didn't even know you were there. 49 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, I hate that. Yeah, I love what people play 50 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:20,360 Speaker 2: piano by the way, Yeah, I think it's great. It's great. 51 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:23,040 Speaker 2: It's awesome at all times of the day. Eight in 52 00:02:23,080 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 2: the morning. Uh. 53 00:02:25,240 --> 00:02:28,600 Speaker 1: Seeing that set me off. I got angry, asking her 54 00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:31,280 Speaker 1: why she was even bothering to watch it, accusing her 55 00:02:31,280 --> 00:02:35,200 Speaker 1: of trying to manipulate me. She said that wasn't her intention, 56 00:02:36,440 --> 00:02:38,160 Speaker 1: that for months she had felt like she was living 57 00:02:38,160 --> 00:02:41,959 Speaker 1: in someone else's body, but now she was finally realizing 58 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:44,320 Speaker 1: how badly she had messed up. She said she watched 59 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:46,320 Speaker 1: the video because she wanted to see us during a 60 00:02:46,360 --> 00:02:48,239 Speaker 1: time when we were happy. 61 00:02:49,960 --> 00:02:52,960 Speaker 2: Give me a break, get out a break. 62 00:02:54,760 --> 00:02:56,920 Speaker 1: I told her, it's a shame she didn't realize how 63 00:02:56,919 --> 00:02:59,480 Speaker 1: good we had it, how happy I was with her. Yeah, 64 00:02:59,480 --> 00:03:04,040 Speaker 1: too little, too late, cry me up, freaking river, I 65 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:07,120 Speaker 1: thought she felt the same way. She broke down, saying 66 00:03:07,280 --> 00:03:10,240 Speaker 1: she had been stupid not to appreciate what she had 67 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:15,639 Speaker 1: right in front of her. I usually yeah, bummer, bummer. 68 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 1: I'm usually strong willed and I don't waver easily. But 69 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:22,640 Speaker 1: this whole situation has broken me, and I'm not proud 70 00:03:22,680 --> 00:03:23,400 Speaker 1: of what happened. 71 00:03:23,400 --> 00:03:23,680 Speaker 2: Next. 72 00:03:23,919 --> 00:03:27,120 Speaker 1: She hugged me, kissed me, and I left her and 73 00:03:27,200 --> 00:03:32,440 Speaker 1: I let her oh, But just before it went any further, 74 00:03:33,560 --> 00:03:36,680 Speaker 1: I caught myself. I pulled back and told her this 75 00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 1: wasn't gonna work, that she couldn't possibly believe I could 76 00:03:39,760 --> 00:03:43,040 Speaker 1: just forgive everything she did. She said she understood, but 77 00:03:43,200 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 1: wanted to talk, so we sat down and we talked 78 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 1: for hours. I asked her why she did it, and 79 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:50,440 Speaker 1: she said she had been thinking about that all day. 80 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:53,440 Speaker 1: She wasn't sure why exactly, but she admitted she missed 81 00:03:53,440 --> 00:03:56,560 Speaker 1: the excitement in our relationship. I told her I already 82 00:03:56,640 --> 00:03:59,240 Speaker 1: knew that we had talked about it before, and agreed 83 00:03:59,280 --> 00:04:02,640 Speaker 1: to make more of anp more date nights, less work, 84 00:04:03,480 --> 00:04:05,480 Speaker 1: but she said it wasn't enough. She said there were 85 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 1: times I'd canceled date nights for work and that made 86 00:04:08,480 --> 00:04:11,360 Speaker 1: her feel like an afterthought. I owned up to my 87 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 1: pardon things, but reminded her that none of it justified 88 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:17,800 Speaker 1: what she did. This this is what that first guy, 89 00:04:17,839 --> 00:04:21,080 Speaker 1: that's first story we read. That guy wishes he was Opie, 90 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:26,040 Speaker 1: the one who was like constantly forgiving his wife. Oh yeah, 91 00:04:26,040 --> 00:04:27,320 Speaker 1: and he was like, oh, you know it was my 92 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:29,600 Speaker 1: fault and op, He's like, you know what, I get 93 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:32,240 Speaker 1: that I made mistakes, but doesn't excuse what you did. 94 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:35,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, my mistakes were so much less than yours. 95 00:04:35,320 --> 00:04:37,680 Speaker 1: Yep, she agreed, but she wanted me to know what 96 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:40,280 Speaker 1: letter to make those choices. Then I told her how 97 00:04:40,320 --> 00:04:42,839 Speaker 1: I found out. She looked shocked, thinking I had only 98 00:04:42,839 --> 00:04:45,560 Speaker 1: discovered the affair by going through her phone. I told 99 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:48,000 Speaker 1: her I saw her kissing him outside the coffee shop. 100 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:51,480 Speaker 1: She was floored. I asked how it started. She said 101 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:55,040 Speaker 1: it had been going on for months. They worked closely 102 00:04:55,080 --> 00:04:57,440 Speaker 1: together with a group of people, and he was always friendly, 103 00:04:57,560 --> 00:05:01,359 Speaker 1: but nothing inappropriate first then, and I'd cancel plans. She 104 00:05:01,520 --> 00:05:04,599 Speaker 1: sometimes joined her colleagues at the pub after work. He 105 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:06,960 Speaker 1: picked up on it, asking her why I canceled and 106 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:10,840 Speaker 1: I started there One night after drinks, they stayed behind 107 00:05:10,880 --> 00:05:13,279 Speaker 1: while the others left, and he told her if he 108 00:05:13,360 --> 00:05:16,280 Speaker 1: were married to her, he'd never cancel a date. 109 00:05:16,839 --> 00:05:21,880 Speaker 2: Oh screw that guy, which is such a calm thing 110 00:05:22,040 --> 00:05:26,000 Speaker 2: to say. I would never, dude. I love Hugh Grant, 111 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:30,320 Speaker 2: sometimes I don't love what he says and what he 112 00:05:30,520 --> 00:05:31,479 Speaker 2: justifies no. 113 00:05:31,880 --> 00:05:34,760 Speaker 1: Also, he kind of did that in Ford weddings in 114 00:05:34,800 --> 00:05:36,520 Speaker 1: a funeral, except he wasn't the cheater in that one. 115 00:05:36,680 --> 00:05:38,799 Speaker 1: Actually he did walk out on his wedding. 116 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:44,599 Speaker 2: He walked out on his wedding. Yeah, grant h And 117 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:49,280 Speaker 2: also like he got hellap in weddings in a you know, 118 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:54,480 Speaker 2: just in life. Oh, I'm pretty sure, or I'm pretty 119 00:05:54,839 --> 00:05:58,880 Speaker 2: spicy workers, can you Yeah, spicy workers? Can you can chat? 120 00:05:59,560 --> 00:06:02,760 Speaker 2: Tell me what? Speaking spicy workers, I'm pretty sure my 121 00:06:02,839 --> 00:06:03,760 Speaker 2: parents told me about that. 122 00:06:04,400 --> 00:06:07,000 Speaker 1: Of course they did. Yeah, they kissed, and she immediately 123 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:09,920 Speaker 1: regretted it and took an uber home, even though he 124 00:06:09,960 --> 00:06:13,320 Speaker 1: offered to drop her off. After that, things got more subtle, 125 00:06:13,360 --> 00:06:16,719 Speaker 1: but continued. Eventually, they worked late nights together on a 126 00:06:16,760 --> 00:06:21,039 Speaker 1: project and things escalated. I just sat there listening. I 127 00:06:21,080 --> 00:06:23,760 Speaker 1: told her I was devastated when I saw that she'd 128 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:25,680 Speaker 1: taken him on the trip I had planned for us. 129 00:06:26,320 --> 00:06:28,279 Speaker 1: She said she was mad at me after an argument 130 00:06:28,320 --> 00:06:30,600 Speaker 1: we'd had, and took the trip with him out of spite. 131 00:06:31,200 --> 00:06:33,479 Speaker 1: She knows how messed up that was and wishes she 132 00:06:33,480 --> 00:06:34,400 Speaker 1: could undo it all. 133 00:06:34,520 --> 00:06:36,960 Speaker 2: Wait, so they have an argument and then she's like, yeah, 134 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:39,920 Speaker 2: I'm going on a giant trip with this guy like 135 00:06:40,240 --> 00:06:40,719 Speaker 2: care Berner. 136 00:06:40,920 --> 00:06:42,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, she was like, oh you know what, I'm mad 137 00:06:42,400 --> 00:06:43,760 Speaker 1: at you for not spending time with me, so I'm 138 00:06:43,760 --> 00:06:45,480 Speaker 1: going to make sure we don't spend any time together. 139 00:06:45,600 --> 00:06:48,280 Speaker 2: Yeah. Also, Jellyba says you are correct, Sam, he had 140 00:06:48,320 --> 00:06:52,880 Speaker 2: a few and got caught. Oh yeah, crazy, He got 141 00:06:52,880 --> 00:06:54,960 Speaker 2: caught with a spicy worker when he was dating what's 142 00:06:54,960 --> 00:06:56,120 Speaker 2: her face? She's beautiful? 143 00:06:56,360 --> 00:06:59,880 Speaker 1: Oh what are these men doing? 144 00:07:00,040 --> 00:07:03,680 Speaker 2: I mean it also like, is Hugh Grant? You Grant Grant? 145 00:07:04,240 --> 00:07:08,160 Speaker 2: Why why spicy worker Grand? It's like an icon, couldn't 146 00:07:08,520 --> 00:07:12,160 Speaker 2: get it the old fashioned way by guy, And truly 147 00:07:12,360 --> 00:07:13,760 Speaker 2: I don't know being Hugh Grant. 148 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:17,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, you would think Hugh Grant works, but no. 149 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:18,800 Speaker 2: No, yeah, maybe he's just not all that. 150 00:07:19,080 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 1: And maybe yeah, maybe he's just not like no one 151 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:21,560 Speaker 1: likes him. 152 00:07:21,640 --> 00:07:22,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. 153 00:07:22,080 --> 00:07:24,840 Speaker 2: I'm a person. He's actually not swab and he could 154 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:27,360 Speaker 2: only do it. He's just like super awkward. 155 00:07:27,760 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, sometimes like that. 156 00:07:29,360 --> 00:07:29,840 Speaker 2: It's true. 157 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:32,120 Speaker 1: We both have demanding jobs and I took some things 158 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:34,040 Speaker 1: for granted, but I always tried to make it up 159 00:07:34,080 --> 00:07:37,200 Speaker 1: for her. She acknowledged that, but said she still felt 160 00:07:37,240 --> 00:07:39,880 Speaker 1: like she wasn't a priority. I asked if she fell 161 00:07:39,920 --> 00:07:42,200 Speaker 1: in love with him. She swore she didn't, that she 162 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:44,840 Speaker 1: just liked the attention and gave her. She wanted to 163 00:07:44,840 --> 00:07:47,040 Speaker 1: know where my head was, asked, I told her I 164 00:07:47,120 --> 00:07:51,000 Speaker 1: was heartbroken that I never imagined we'd be here. We 165 00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:54,120 Speaker 1: always communicated, but it turns out we weren't talking about 166 00:07:54,120 --> 00:07:56,160 Speaker 1: the right things. Kimberly finds this weird common to have 167 00:07:56,280 --> 00:07:59,080 Speaker 1: with your parents. You don't know our parents or sad. 168 00:08:00,440 --> 00:08:07,480 Speaker 1: That's like a very common conversation. Yeah, it's true. I 169 00:08:07,560 --> 00:08:09,640 Speaker 1: reminded her that cheating was a deal breaker for me. 170 00:08:10,160 --> 00:08:13,240 Speaker 1: She knew that. She said she understand, She understood if 171 00:08:13,280 --> 00:08:16,680 Speaker 1: I wanted a divorce, but hoped I might give her 172 00:08:16,720 --> 00:08:19,000 Speaker 1: a chance to make things right. I'm not sure if 173 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 1: I'm being a fool, but I told her I hadn't 174 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:23,960 Speaker 1: decided yet. I made it clear that if we were 175 00:08:23,960 --> 00:08:27,600 Speaker 1: going to attempt reconciliation, there would be conditions. I told 176 00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:28,800 Speaker 1: her she had to cut off. 177 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:33,480 Speaker 2: All cold whoa whoa, whoa, whoa whoa. Yeah, he's reconcile. Damn. 178 00:08:33,559 --> 00:08:35,439 Speaker 1: I thought he was better than that first guy. I 179 00:08:35,480 --> 00:08:38,080 Speaker 1: thought it was better than that first guy. This isn't 180 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:40,520 Speaker 1: even for that first guy, that was like a better 181 00:08:40,559 --> 00:08:44,240 Speaker 1: situation because it was just an emotional affair. This is 182 00:08:44,280 --> 00:08:47,520 Speaker 1: a full on physical and emotional affair. 183 00:08:48,240 --> 00:08:49,280 Speaker 2: This is really bad. 184 00:08:50,240 --> 00:08:53,840 Speaker 1: This was months. This is months long. Man, don't don't 185 00:08:53,880 --> 00:08:54,440 Speaker 1: take her back. 186 00:08:54,720 --> 00:08:55,640 Speaker 2: Oh. 187 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:57,440 Speaker 1: I made it clear that if we were going to 188 00:08:57,480 --> 00:09:01,320 Speaker 1: attempt reconciliation, there would be conditions. I told her that 189 00:09:01,360 --> 00:09:03,280 Speaker 1: she had to cut off all contact with him. She 190 00:09:03,320 --> 00:09:07,200 Speaker 1: agreed write down every detail about their relationship, every kiss, 191 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:09,800 Speaker 1: every trip, every time they were intimate, and if I 192 00:09:09,840 --> 00:09:12,160 Speaker 1: found out she left anything out, I would leave immediately, 193 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:13,720 Speaker 1: and then he would have all the proof. Yeah, that's 194 00:09:13,760 --> 00:09:14,960 Speaker 1: what he's doing. Maybe he's just collecting. 195 00:09:15,200 --> 00:09:18,040 Speaker 2: I feel like I feel like he's just I mean 196 00:09:18,120 --> 00:09:21,080 Speaker 2: to have what's the point of writing it all down? 197 00:09:21,320 --> 00:09:21,760 Speaker 3: I don't know. 198 00:09:22,040 --> 00:09:25,920 Speaker 2: That feels just like he's trying to hurt himself more. 199 00:09:26,040 --> 00:09:27,959 Speaker 1: Yeah, man, oh man, I. 200 00:09:27,880 --> 00:09:30,559 Speaker 2: Feel like he's like being masochistic at this point. 201 00:09:30,720 --> 00:09:33,400 Speaker 1: I think. I think it's sometimes people are in love 202 00:09:33,520 --> 00:09:37,600 Speaker 1: and they're like, oh, I'll take her back. Yeah. 203 00:09:37,800 --> 00:09:39,480 Speaker 2: Day Red says, how long were they together? 204 00:09:40,320 --> 00:09:42,400 Speaker 1: They don't have kids, but yeah, but they've been together 205 00:09:42,400 --> 00:09:42,719 Speaker 1: for years. 206 00:09:42,760 --> 00:09:43,839 Speaker 2: They've been together for a while. 207 00:09:44,280 --> 00:09:46,480 Speaker 1: And if I found out she left anything out, I 208 00:09:46,480 --> 00:09:49,960 Speaker 1: would leave immediately. She agreed. I also told her she 209 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:52,079 Speaker 1: had to tell our friends and family what she did. 210 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:55,559 Speaker 1: There was some hesitation, but she eventually agreed and start 211 00:09:55,640 --> 00:09:58,280 Speaker 1: individual counseling to figure out why she did this. 212 00:09:58,640 --> 00:09:59,200 Speaker 2: She agreed. 213 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:04,520 Speaker 1: And what we're wondering, we're trying to figure out why 214 00:10:04,720 --> 00:10:06,959 Speaker 1: some people aren't joining us live every week to three 215 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:12,240 Speaker 1: pm PSD on YouTube, Facebook YouTuber. 216 00:10:12,480 --> 00:10:15,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, how dare really weird? How dare you really weird? 217 00:10:16,200 --> 00:10:17,800 Speaker 1: But there is a little bit left to this story, 218 00:10:17,880 --> 00:10:19,599 Speaker 1: But do you have any final thoughts? 219 00:10:19,840 --> 00:10:22,760 Speaker 2: I'm like, I feel like this was going in a 220 00:10:22,760 --> 00:10:26,960 Speaker 2: positive so well the very end, he's he's pulling. He's 221 00:10:27,000 --> 00:10:29,640 Speaker 2: pulling as as some people have said in the chat 222 00:10:29,640 --> 00:10:32,559 Speaker 2: the sip card, I would not say that. I would 223 00:10:32,559 --> 00:10:38,840 Speaker 2: say he's being a little little silly boy and isn't Uh. 224 00:10:39,080 --> 00:10:39,400 Speaker 3: I don't know. 225 00:10:39,440 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 2: I think that. I don't think he's doing what's best 226 00:10:41,880 --> 00:10:44,240 Speaker 2: for him. I think at least they need some space 227 00:10:44,280 --> 00:10:47,480 Speaker 2: from each other or something to like really figure out 228 00:10:48,920 --> 00:10:51,120 Speaker 2: what's gonna I don't know what the future of their 229 00:10:51,120 --> 00:10:55,240 Speaker 2: relationship looks like. Yeah, I don't know about this whole 230 00:10:55,280 --> 00:10:59,200 Speaker 2: like telling everyone and writing everything that's happened down I 231 00:10:59,200 --> 00:10:59,640 Speaker 2: feel like I. 232 00:10:59,640 --> 00:11:01,440 Speaker 1: Think it's I think also it's gonna hurt you more 233 00:11:01,480 --> 00:11:04,800 Speaker 1: to hear everything that happens. And also you've already gone 234 00:11:04,840 --> 00:11:07,640 Speaker 1: to people and told them about like this affair has 235 00:11:07,840 --> 00:11:10,120 Speaker 1: been out in the open, so it is people are 236 00:11:10,120 --> 00:11:11,839 Speaker 1: gonna be like, why are you getting back together with her? 237 00:11:12,480 --> 00:11:15,160 Speaker 1: This is like when you tell your friends about like 238 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:18,319 Speaker 1: all of the horrible things that like a partner did. 239 00:11:18,200 --> 00:11:20,000 Speaker 2: Or something, and then you get back together yeah, and. 240 00:11:19,960 --> 00:11:22,760 Speaker 1: They're like okay, yeah, because I've had people do that 241 00:11:22,840 --> 00:11:24,040 Speaker 1: with like friends, and I'm like, okay. 242 00:11:23,880 --> 00:11:28,160 Speaker 2: Were because they only tell you all the terrible stuff, 243 00:11:28,559 --> 00:11:29,880 Speaker 2: like no, that's what Yeah. 244 00:11:29,920 --> 00:11:33,680 Speaker 1: Sometimes like why like if you want to get back together, 245 00:11:33,800 --> 00:11:35,839 Speaker 1: if you tell me all of the terrible stuff, I'm 246 00:11:35,880 --> 00:11:39,480 Speaker 1: gonna be like, I'm not gonna like them. Yeah, But 247 00:11:39,760 --> 00:11:42,480 Speaker 1: there it is a little bit more. In the meantime, 248 00:11:42,559 --> 00:11:44,760 Speaker 1: I've scheduled a meeting with the divorce lawyer next week 249 00:11:44,800 --> 00:11:46,719 Speaker 1: to understand my options because I don't want to be 250 00:11:46,760 --> 00:11:49,640 Speaker 1: caught off guard again. I don't plan on telling her this. 251 00:11:49,720 --> 00:11:52,920 Speaker 1: So he's still it's still there. The option is on 252 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:57,360 Speaker 1: the table, though that's something earlier today this guy's a 253 00:11:57,360 --> 00:12:01,840 Speaker 1: fair partner. Wife messaged me if i'd be willing to 254 00:12:01,880 --> 00:12:03,120 Speaker 1: meet her later to talk. 255 00:12:03,800 --> 00:12:04,400 Speaker 2: I agree. 256 00:12:04,840 --> 00:12:06,840 Speaker 1: My wife knows, but she isn't happy about it. And 257 00:12:06,880 --> 00:12:09,200 Speaker 1: for the record, my wife knew he was married all along. 258 00:12:09,280 --> 00:12:13,120 Speaker 1: That's even I mean, double double worse, double bad. Apparently 259 00:12:13,160 --> 00:12:15,320 Speaker 1: he told her that his wife had changed after they 260 00:12:15,360 --> 00:12:20,840 Speaker 1: got married. Don't don't give me oh, then end it. 261 00:12:21,080 --> 00:12:23,920 Speaker 1: I don't freaking care was treating him badly and refuse 262 00:12:24,000 --> 00:12:26,040 Speaker 1: to have spicy sleep with him, and that he was 263 00:12:26,080 --> 00:12:28,880 Speaker 1: planning to divorce her. Then do it, you freaking coward. 264 00:12:29,000 --> 00:12:31,720 Speaker 2: I hate those like, oh, it's fine because the relations 265 00:12:31,880 --> 00:12:34,040 Speaker 2: again was on the rocks. 266 00:12:34,240 --> 00:12:36,000 Speaker 1: Then divorce. 267 00:12:37,000 --> 00:12:40,600 Speaker 2: You know how many times I've heard that where it's like, oh, yeah, 268 00:12:40,800 --> 00:12:45,199 Speaker 2: like you know that they cheated or I cheated, but 269 00:12:45,360 --> 00:12:48,679 Speaker 2: it's fine because our relationship was bad. Our relationship was 270 00:12:48,720 --> 00:12:52,080 Speaker 2: bad anyway, Then end it. Maybe you're the reason the 271 00:12:52,120 --> 00:12:54,040 Speaker 2: relationship was bad because you've been cheating. 272 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:57,199 Speaker 1: Yeah, if you're willing to cheat instead of ending a relationship, 273 00:12:57,280 --> 00:13:01,520 Speaker 1: you're a coward And I hate you, dang, unless you 274 00:13:01,600 --> 00:13:04,839 Speaker 1: unless you've you know, since improved and become a better person, 275 00:13:05,120 --> 00:13:12,200 Speaker 1: and I no longer hate you if you were since repented, 276 00:13:12,240 --> 00:13:15,920 Speaker 1: but if you're currently cheating, I do I do hate you. 277 00:13:15,960 --> 00:13:16,480 Speaker 3: I'm sorry. 278 00:13:16,800 --> 00:13:19,080 Speaker 2: I don't hate anyone because we are all one. 279 00:13:19,320 --> 00:13:21,800 Speaker 1: That's nice. Okay, we're two sides of this is yin 280 00:13:21,880 --> 00:13:24,880 Speaker 1: and yan. I'm starting to realize this guy might have 281 00:13:24,920 --> 00:13:27,679 Speaker 1: been late, lying the entire time just to sleep with 282 00:13:27,679 --> 00:13:31,160 Speaker 1: my wife. At this point, I'm emotionally and physically drained. 283 00:13:31,880 --> 00:13:34,920 Speaker 1: And that is the end of that story. And Kimberly 284 00:13:34,960 --> 00:13:37,440 Speaker 1: Holly says, Okay, storytime is my only subscription. I'm one 285 00:13:37,520 --> 00:13:38,720 Speaker 1: hundred percent faithful to you. 286 00:13:38,720 --> 00:13:39,000 Speaker 2: Guys. 287 00:13:39,679 --> 00:13:43,040 Speaker 1: That is the type of energy we like to see dark. 288 00:13:43,880 --> 00:13:45,920 Speaker 1: But that is the freaking end of that story. Man. 289 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:48,439 Speaker 1: So we really don't know if he's good a divorce 290 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:48,760 Speaker 1: or not. 291 00:13:48,960 --> 00:13:52,960 Speaker 2: There's no there's no Uh, can we see if there's update, 292 00:13:53,080 --> 00:13:56,080 Speaker 2: because I would love I would love I would love 293 00:13:56,120 --> 00:13:58,680 Speaker 2: to know. I'd love to know. What do you think? 294 00:13:59,080 --> 00:14:02,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, I honestly, I think he is on I think 295 00:14:02,040 --> 00:14:04,480 Speaker 1: he's still on the divorce strain. I think he was 296 00:14:04,480 --> 00:14:06,360 Speaker 1: giving her a little bit of hope and maybe you know, 297 00:14:06,679 --> 00:14:08,480 Speaker 1: was a little bit hopeful himself. But I think he's 298 00:14:08,480 --> 00:14:09,440 Speaker 1: still on the I. 299 00:14:09,440 --> 00:14:13,000 Speaker 2: Don't know it feels it feels like he's he's changing. 300 00:14:13,400 --> 00:14:16,640 Speaker 2: I do think though, it's feeling like he's he might 301 00:14:16,880 --> 00:14:20,960 Speaker 2: get together with the Yeah, I think so. I think 302 00:14:20,960 --> 00:14:22,440 Speaker 2: it's I think it's possiblity for you. 303 00:14:22,480 --> 00:14:23,600 Speaker 1: I don't know what they're going to talk about. 304 00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:26,960 Speaker 2: I'm very curious what you think is going to happen. 305 00:14:27,000 --> 00:14:28,960 Speaker 2: Do you think Op is actually going to go through 306 00:14:28,960 --> 00:14:31,160 Speaker 2: with the divorce? Do you think he might get together 307 00:14:31,440 --> 00:14:35,720 Speaker 2: with the I would love to know. 308 00:14:35,920 --> 00:14:36,200 Speaker 3: Yeah. 309 00:14:36,320 --> 00:14:38,720 Speaker 2: Also, Belton says, I'm not into that WU stuff. Also, 310 00:14:38,760 --> 00:14:43,320 Speaker 2: Sam so much WU stuff. That's not First of all, 311 00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:46,920 Speaker 2: woo woo to me means you have not had a 312 00:14:46,960 --> 00:14:52,040 Speaker 2: direct experience yet. Believe I've had direct experience with what 313 00:14:52,720 --> 00:15:02,400 Speaker 2: with meditation inducing full body pleasure spasms? What dang? 314 00:15:02,720 --> 00:15:05,400 Speaker 1: Well, Hopefully he doesn't get back together with this girl 315 00:15:05,760 --> 00:15:08,280 Speaker 1: fingers crossed, fingers cross, But. 316 00:15:08,360 --> 00:15:12,320 Speaker 2: I hope you get back together with us. So if 317 00:15:12,320 --> 00:15:14,760 Speaker 2: you love us, make sure to subscribe. 318 00:15:14,360 --> 00:15:17,120 Speaker 1: We love you and see you tomorrow. 319 00:15:18,320 --> 00:15:21,160 Speaker 3: My best friend had an affair with her cousin's husband. 320 00:15:21,400 --> 00:15:24,640 Speaker 3: She got pregnant, and I just told everyone everything. Am 321 00:15:24,760 --> 00:15:26,920 Speaker 3: I the a hole? I mean I might have heard 322 00:15:26,960 --> 00:15:30,080 Speaker 3: this one before. You might have heard this one. Yeah, yeah, really, 323 00:15:30,120 --> 00:15:33,080 Speaker 3: I watched a lot of sub boy server videos. Okay, okay, 324 00:15:33,080 --> 00:15:35,200 Speaker 3: see now that we beef with those guys, you know 325 00:15:35,240 --> 00:15:39,800 Speaker 3: what I mean, We're like, we're we're that's yeah. How 326 00:15:40,200 --> 00:15:42,840 Speaker 3: dare you actually bird king? I didn't even know that 327 00:15:42,920 --> 00:15:46,080 Speaker 3: was going on. Everyone, this, this terrible piece of is 328 00:15:46,160 --> 00:15:49,400 Speaker 3: used to us who content to die not just kidding, 329 00:15:50,560 --> 00:15:54,040 Speaker 3: my man is all over all of your favorite YouTubers. 330 00:15:54,040 --> 00:15:55,640 Speaker 3: Could you give us some bangers that you've worked on 331 00:15:55,680 --> 00:15:57,840 Speaker 3: really quick? Just run it down the list. What do 332 00:15:57,840 --> 00:16:00,640 Speaker 3: you got, like help produce on videos that you've like 333 00:16:00,800 --> 00:16:02,040 Speaker 3: contributed to and done. 334 00:16:02,200 --> 00:16:04,680 Speaker 4: Oh there's something the tank that I'd love to say, 335 00:16:04,720 --> 00:16:06,360 Speaker 4: But in the past, I just say, like the basic 336 00:16:06,400 --> 00:16:07,800 Speaker 4: ones that have a lot of hands on deck, which 337 00:16:07,840 --> 00:16:11,200 Speaker 4: is like a Rex Pizza video. Boom. That's the only 338 00:16:11,280 --> 00:16:15,720 Speaker 4: one I can think of. No, I mean, yeah, it's tough. 339 00:16:15,760 --> 00:16:17,600 Speaker 4: It's tough because there's a lot of things I would 340 00:16:17,600 --> 00:16:19,520 Speaker 4: love to say in the past where I've worked on stuff. 341 00:16:19,520 --> 00:16:22,040 Speaker 4: I'll just say this my own personal content. I've worked 342 00:16:22,080 --> 00:16:26,400 Speaker 4: with Theinness, World Records, Amazon, Prime YouTube, Samsung, so it 343 00:16:26,480 --> 00:16:28,800 Speaker 4: worked a lot of those big brands that are really 344 00:16:28,800 --> 00:16:31,720 Speaker 4: fun to work with. Just a college student posting blogs 345 00:16:32,000 --> 00:16:35,160 Speaker 4: or I hate Disney and my college which is near Disney. 346 00:16:35,240 --> 00:16:38,200 Speaker 3: There you go, that's a big that's a big right there. 347 00:16:38,280 --> 00:16:43,200 Speaker 3: Sof has come to generously contribute to our content. Thank 348 00:16:43,240 --> 00:16:46,640 Speaker 3: you guys for having me. Of course, it's nice to 349 00:16:46,640 --> 00:16:51,000 Speaker 3: be here. Yes, you're replacing Sam took your job. He's 350 00:16:51,080 --> 00:16:55,800 Speaker 3: dead to me? Where your skin? Are you ready to 351 00:16:55,800 --> 00:16:57,640 Speaker 3: get into this first story? Let's do it? This is this? 352 00:16:57,680 --> 00:16:59,760 Speaker 3: Is it right here? Okay, let's do it. All right? 353 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:02,680 Speaker 3: This sounds so bad. I know it does sound kind 354 00:17:02,680 --> 00:17:04,240 Speaker 3: of bad. I mean pretty well, he. 355 00:17:04,200 --> 00:17:08,040 Speaker 4: Said, like cousins whatever, So I mean it can't be 356 00:17:08,080 --> 00:17:09,919 Speaker 4: that bad just because of like how distant, like the 357 00:17:09,960 --> 00:17:12,280 Speaker 4: relationship is, like cousin's husband or whatever. 358 00:17:12,280 --> 00:17:14,120 Speaker 3: You know, it's like are you close with your cousin? Yeah, 359 00:17:14,119 --> 00:17:15,800 Speaker 3: well we'll find out. Well, there's some yeah, there's something 360 00:17:15,840 --> 00:17:18,240 Speaker 3: with uh. With reda stories, you never know how deep 361 00:17:18,280 --> 00:17:21,320 Speaker 3: it goes, Like we could we we might be going 362 00:17:21,320 --> 00:17:24,080 Speaker 3: to a whole another universe of tea. Yeah, like a 363 00:17:24,160 --> 00:17:26,879 Speaker 3: universe of tea if you will, Oh, okay, yeah, swimming 364 00:17:26,920 --> 00:17:30,360 Speaker 3: in me. We'll see them have a full ride. That's right. 365 00:17:31,160 --> 00:17:34,199 Speaker 3: But I had no idea what I was doing. I 366 00:17:34,440 --> 00:17:37,119 Speaker 3: female forty, was invited to stop by and see one 367 00:17:37,160 --> 00:17:40,080 Speaker 3: of my dearest friends from childhood at her mother's home 368 00:17:40,359 --> 00:17:43,960 Speaker 3: yesterday evening. She lives overseas and hadn't been in the 369 00:17:44,000 --> 00:17:46,720 Speaker 3: States for years, so she wanted me to stop by, 370 00:17:46,960 --> 00:17:50,119 Speaker 3: even though they had other family visiting her mother as well. 371 00:17:50,200 --> 00:17:52,639 Speaker 3: When I got there, my friend introduced me to a 372 00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:55,400 Speaker 3: couple of her cousins and their husbands. At that point, 373 00:17:55,440 --> 00:17:58,119 Speaker 3: all the kids were downstairs in the playroom, but she 374 00:17:58,240 --> 00:18:00,440 Speaker 3: called her son to come up so I could meet him. 375 00:18:00,480 --> 00:18:03,520 Speaker 3: Her son came and shook my hand, and I remarked 376 00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:04,840 Speaker 3: how handsome he was? 377 00:18:05,240 --> 00:18:08,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, uh, you don't see where this is going. 378 00:18:08,760 --> 00:18:11,720 Speaker 3: Excuse me, lady, how how handsome is that handsome? Squid 379 00:18:11,960 --> 00:18:15,560 Speaker 3: level or just handsome handsome? Also, I'm like, yo, why 380 00:18:15,600 --> 00:18:17,520 Speaker 3: why are you calling his boy handsome? This is a 381 00:18:17,520 --> 00:18:20,280 Speaker 3: little this is maybe a little suss over here, like 382 00:18:20,359 --> 00:18:22,480 Speaker 3: who are your Marinda sings. I think she's trying to 383 00:18:22,480 --> 00:18:25,480 Speaker 3: pre order, dude, this is pre order. I think she's 384 00:18:25,520 --> 00:18:31,480 Speaker 3: trying to that uh little oh god, that is I mean, 385 00:18:31,640 --> 00:18:35,280 Speaker 3: that is a little package, you know, no shade on you, child, 386 00:18:37,240 --> 00:18:39,639 Speaker 3: I mean, do handsome squadrons have micro penises. That is 387 00:18:39,680 --> 00:18:45,159 Speaker 3: really what they have. Wow, you're right, dude, I mean 388 00:18:45,200 --> 00:18:48,600 Speaker 3: you're a squid. So dude, that's a w for squids everywhere. 389 00:18:48,600 --> 00:18:53,639 Speaker 3: Acto octave, cocktail octopuss. Not really a squid, dude, you 390 00:18:53,680 --> 00:18:56,240 Speaker 3: just blew my mind. Yeah, that is very something else. 391 00:18:56,240 --> 00:19:00,399 Speaker 3: All right, let's continue. He had deep dimples or just 392 00:19:00,440 --> 00:19:05,040 Speaker 3: hazel eyes with long lashes. Again, maybe a little suss. 393 00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:09,080 Speaker 3: It's me, I'm him, Oh god, he is him. It's 394 00:19:09,119 --> 00:19:12,600 Speaker 3: literally me. Yeah, this is a story like this is 395 00:19:12,640 --> 00:19:15,560 Speaker 3: from uh we we went back in time and like 396 00:19:15,680 --> 00:19:18,919 Speaker 3: found this story from you of your mind or just 397 00:19:18,960 --> 00:19:24,120 Speaker 3: like yeah, we're trauma right here. It was drama. Oh god. 398 00:19:24,840 --> 00:19:27,000 Speaker 3: And right behind him was a girl about the same 399 00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:29,439 Speaker 3: age with the same eyes and dimples. I said to 400 00:19:29,520 --> 00:19:32,160 Speaker 3: my friend, Oh, I didn't know you had a daughter too. 401 00:19:32,480 --> 00:19:35,840 Speaker 3: You two look like twins. The room got suddenly quiet. 402 00:19:35,880 --> 00:19:37,919 Speaker 3: Something's happened. I didn't think it was that out of pocket. 403 00:19:37,960 --> 00:19:40,320 Speaker 3: I mean, see, it's one of those things that seems 404 00:19:40,440 --> 00:19:42,320 Speaker 3: not of pocket, which is why he said it. But 405 00:19:42,600 --> 00:19:46,120 Speaker 3: so's there's some foretchuadow something something. Let's keep that. Let's 406 00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:49,439 Speaker 3: keep that in mind. Guys, my friend's son corrected me 407 00:19:49,640 --> 00:19:54,879 Speaker 3: and said, no, this girl is his cousin, not his sister. Okay, Valan. 408 00:19:55,640 --> 00:19:58,520 Speaker 3: My friend was shooting daggers at me with her eyes 409 00:19:58,680 --> 00:20:01,600 Speaker 3: as if I'd said something terrible, and her cousin, who 410 00:20:01,680 --> 00:20:04,280 Speaker 3: I would later find out was the mother of the girl, 411 00:20:04,560 --> 00:20:07,720 Speaker 3: got up and left the room, looking upset. Are you 412 00:20:07,760 --> 00:20:11,080 Speaker 3: putting it together? If you if you don't put I 413 00:20:11,119 --> 00:20:13,240 Speaker 3: see you in the comments. If you, if you see 414 00:20:13,240 --> 00:20:16,320 Speaker 3: what's going down? Her husband followed her. Things became so 415 00:20:16,600 --> 00:20:19,080 Speaker 3: weird and awkward. From that moment on, I made an 416 00:20:19,119 --> 00:20:22,720 Speaker 3: excuse to leave. Only this afternoon when my friend's younger 417 00:20:22,760 --> 00:20:26,040 Speaker 3: sister called. We were also friends in school. I find 418 00:20:26,080 --> 00:20:30,600 Speaker 3: out why. So now we're getting now we're getting so 419 00:20:30,800 --> 00:20:35,120 Speaker 3: Apparently my friend had an affair with her cousin's husband 420 00:20:35,320 --> 00:20:37,639 Speaker 3: when she lived with them briefly as a big no no. 421 00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:41,240 Speaker 3: Also like, dude, you're literally it sounds like she was, like, 422 00:20:41,280 --> 00:20:43,080 Speaker 3: you know, crashing at their place for a bit. That's 423 00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:43,720 Speaker 3: what I was gonna say. 424 00:20:43,960 --> 00:20:47,600 Speaker 4: That amount of disrespect you have to have to do, 425 00:20:47,640 --> 00:20:49,080 Speaker 4: that is next level. 426 00:20:49,160 --> 00:20:51,680 Speaker 3: You live in your cousin's home and you freaking boink 427 00:20:51,800 --> 00:20:52,359 Speaker 3: her man. 428 00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:56,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, that was wild she got the whole experience, wore 429 00:20:56,480 --> 00:20:57,320 Speaker 4: her skin if. 430 00:20:57,160 --> 00:21:02,159 Speaker 3: You actually, my goodnes this and her son is the 431 00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:07,080 Speaker 3: product from that affair. So she's just that's hot raising this. No, no, 432 00:21:08,040 --> 00:21:11,800 Speaker 3: that's hot. Oh my god, that's hilarious from what I 433 00:21:11,840 --> 00:21:15,280 Speaker 3: was just told. She won't admit it, but everyone has 434 00:21:15,320 --> 00:21:18,879 Speaker 3: suspected it because the older her son gets, the more 435 00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:21,600 Speaker 3: he looks like the man. Now I'm trying to put 436 00:21:21,600 --> 00:21:24,400 Speaker 3: it together, so I think. So, I mean basically, her 437 00:21:24,440 --> 00:21:28,000 Speaker 3: friend slept with her cousin's husband, and then that's oh oh, 438 00:21:28,240 --> 00:21:30,040 Speaker 3: I guess he keeps looking like the husband, but not 439 00:21:30,080 --> 00:21:32,720 Speaker 3: like the mom, not like what should be his mom. Yeah, 440 00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:35,560 Speaker 3: so they don't they don't know who. I guess it's like, yeah, 441 00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:38,600 Speaker 3: like they had she had an affair, but they can't confirm, 442 00:21:40,080 --> 00:21:46,200 Speaker 3: absolutely can't, because yeah, where is the Jerry. Where Jerry, guys, 443 00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:50,320 Speaker 3: But let's keep let's keep rolling. So you get that Jerry, Oh, Jerry, 444 00:21:50,359 --> 00:21:53,320 Speaker 3: of course, dude. Like some people say, some people say 445 00:21:53,359 --> 00:21:56,800 Speaker 3: we're we're the next generation, like that's that's what they say. Yeah, 446 00:21:56,880 --> 00:22:00,680 Speaker 3: I mean with this Ray, Yeah you got We've had 447 00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:03,679 Speaker 3: some juicy paternity test stories, that is for sure. Now, 448 00:22:03,840 --> 00:22:06,919 Speaker 3: I honestly didn't notice the resemblance last night because the 449 00:22:07,040 --> 00:22:09,760 Speaker 3: husband had just given me a quick wave from the 450 00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:11,960 Speaker 3: far side of the room where he was watching a game. 451 00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:15,600 Speaker 3: The reason the cousin his wife got upset and left 452 00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:19,800 Speaker 3: the room is she suspected something for years, but everyone 453 00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:23,399 Speaker 3: has worked hard at convincing her that she's just paranoid 454 00:22:23,560 --> 00:22:27,240 Speaker 3: and seeing a resemblance that is not there. So I'm 455 00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:30,680 Speaker 3: the asshole in the scenario now and ruined everyone's Christmas, 456 00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:32,920 Speaker 3: or at least that's how it seems, because my friends 457 00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:36,320 Speaker 3: won't return my calls or texts. And the reason I 458 00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:38,680 Speaker 3: made the leap to thinking the girl was my friend's 459 00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:41,679 Speaker 3: daughter is she came upstairs with the sun while the 460 00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:44,560 Speaker 3: other kids stayed upstairs, and she was standing beside the 461 00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:47,240 Speaker 3: sun as if awaiting her turn to be introduced to me. 462 00:22:47,240 --> 00:22:50,400 Speaker 3: So they ran down together. They're looking like super similar 463 00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:53,320 Speaker 3: and like they're together. You know, I could totally see 464 00:22:53,359 --> 00:22:56,439 Speaker 3: her miss mistaking. Like also like she didn't know, you 465 00:22:56,480 --> 00:22:58,320 Speaker 3: know what I mean, Like she's just like, oh, I guess, 466 00:22:58,359 --> 00:23:02,120 Speaker 3: I guess she assumed that they were siblings. Yeah, but yeah, 467 00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:03,440 Speaker 3: this is the point of the story where. 468 00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:04,919 Speaker 5: We Yeah, so this is where we're about to get 469 00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:08,040 Speaker 5: into an update. So okay, so now we're gonna get 470 00:23:08,080 --> 00:23:10,080 Speaker 5: the conclusion. Okay, so what are you thinking right now? 471 00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:12,879 Speaker 5: So now I'm thinking it is not your fault. You 472 00:23:12,920 --> 00:23:15,160 Speaker 5: are not the apt but I think I can find 473 00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:18,600 Speaker 5: a solution. Okay, And it's for that home wrecker. She 474 00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:19,359 Speaker 5: got to do it again? 475 00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:20,800 Speaker 3: Interesting for two? 476 00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:22,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, no, she got to do it. The only one 477 00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:24,080 Speaker 4: way to find out. And it's gotta see pop out 478 00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:26,880 Speaker 4: another one. See how similar it is. That's the real 479 00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:33,160 Speaker 4: way DNA test forget about it? A picture whatever family tree? Nah, nah, 480 00:23:33,480 --> 00:23:35,760 Speaker 4: this is a story like that. Interesting, do it again? 481 00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:37,919 Speaker 4: You know, let's make a part two. There's something to 482 00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:41,680 Speaker 4: be said for creative solutions. You just gave us one, 483 00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:42,280 Speaker 4: thank you. 484 00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:42,600 Speaker 3: Yeah. 485 00:23:42,640 --> 00:23:44,399 Speaker 4: Well, it's for you know, broke people as well. You 486 00:23:44,480 --> 00:23:46,600 Speaker 4: have who're of time on their hands, are who are patient? 487 00:23:46,640 --> 00:23:48,280 Speaker 4: You know, like that's Trent years on the line, you know, 488 00:23:48,440 --> 00:23:48,879 Speaker 4: much going on? 489 00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:52,879 Speaker 3: Pout pay for one hundred dollars paternity test when you 490 00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:54,080 Speaker 3: can just have a whole baby. 491 00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:57,360 Speaker 4: Yeah that will five hundred grands exactly. Yeah, in America 492 00:23:57,440 --> 00:23:58,760 Speaker 4: as well. I mean we don't know if they are 493 00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:01,560 Speaker 4: in America, but most likely there. This is some Alabama 494 00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:02,000 Speaker 4: and stuff. 495 00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:04,600 Speaker 3: So oh yeah, this is it's gey. Well, we have 496 00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:07,440 Speaker 3: an update, so we're gonna get the date, the full tea. 497 00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:10,520 Speaker 3: Let's get into it update. I found the cousin and 498 00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:12,960 Speaker 3: her husband on Facebook this morning, and I got a 499 00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:15,560 Speaker 3: good look at him and all the kids. He also 500 00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:18,320 Speaker 3: has two sons with his wife. He has very unique 501 00:24:18,359 --> 00:24:22,320 Speaker 3: and striking features, and the kids all look exactly like him, 502 00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:25,600 Speaker 3: as does my friend's son. Any stranger off the street 503 00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:29,160 Speaker 3: would immediately know they were his kids. What a mess 504 00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:31,920 Speaker 3: his poor wife being told she was crazy all these 505 00:24:32,000 --> 00:24:35,560 Speaker 3: years and now probably feeling foolish as well as embarrassed 506 00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:41,520 Speaker 3: and inexcusably betrayed. So we don't have like DNA test 507 00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:45,640 Speaker 3: level confirmation. But I think op, he's basically like he yeah, 508 00:24:45,680 --> 00:24:49,840 Speaker 3: it's like but also, I mean, probably it's true, but 509 00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:52,280 Speaker 3: you need to get like a DNA test to confirm. Yeah, 510 00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:55,680 Speaker 3: Like that's like, why not because we've had use of 511 00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:58,040 Speaker 3: the amount of stories we've had of people that have 512 00:24:58,160 --> 00:25:00,080 Speaker 3: like popped a baby out and like, oh my, oh 513 00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:02,719 Speaker 3: my god, the baby doesn't look like me, leaves, you know, 514 00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:05,199 Speaker 3: just goes turns into a maniac, and then it's like, oh, oh, 515 00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:07,639 Speaker 3: the baby's yours, you know, like I mean just like 516 00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:10,199 Speaker 3: destroy their life, their relationship, Like how could you like 517 00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:12,760 Speaker 3: destroying people's houses and stuff like that. It's like the 518 00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:14,880 Speaker 3: kid's yours. It just didn't look like you right out 519 00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:17,560 Speaker 3: the womb. Yeah, that is time. I mean, your your 520 00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:20,119 Speaker 3: boy Jerry from work is a redhead and my baby's 521 00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:21,840 Speaker 3: a redhead and we're not redheads. 522 00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:25,040 Speaker 4: So has she ever taken a biology class in sixth grade? 523 00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:27,399 Speaker 4: You know, maybe there's some latent jeens in there. Just 524 00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:31,040 Speaker 4: we ask ourselves these questions so often. 525 00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:33,560 Speaker 3: Try I'm trying to give her the benefit of the doubt, 526 00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:35,560 Speaker 3: but I don't know. It's still a tough situation. It's 527 00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:38,520 Speaker 3: still tough. So we're still going off of trust. That's true. 528 00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:41,359 Speaker 3: That's true. So okay, so let's boil it all the 529 00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:44,440 Speaker 3: way down. I'm curious to everyone in the comments, A 530 00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:48,639 Speaker 3: is Opie still the a hole for assuming that you 531 00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:50,760 Speaker 3: know they were brother and sister and like, cause, I 532 00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:53,880 Speaker 3: guess you know that is an assumption versus like a fact, right, 533 00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:56,879 Speaker 3: And then my follow up question is what would you 534 00:25:57,040 --> 00:25:59,760 Speaker 3: do if you were in OPI shoes? So please comment below, 535 00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:02,080 Speaker 3: but use what do you what do you think? My 536 00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:05,680 Speaker 3: answer still stands op, not the a hole. Not the ahole. 537 00:26:05,720 --> 00:26:08,879 Speaker 3: Pop another one, pop out another one. That's it. That's 538 00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:11,280 Speaker 3: the only way to confirm. That's all. That's the only way, 539 00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:14,320 Speaker 3: the only option we have supposed to believe it. That's true. 540 00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:17,920 Speaker 3: That's true. True. Speaking of seeing things to believing things, 541 00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:19,480 Speaker 3: you know, we have some we have some great people 542 00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:22,160 Speaker 3: that watch the show and we like to read their comments. 543 00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:25,520 Speaker 3: So these come from our beautiful public subscribers. This came 544 00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:28,399 Speaker 3: from the video I got my heartless sister fired and 545 00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:31,720 Speaker 3: then this happened. First comment comes from public subscriber just 546 00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:34,760 Speaker 3: just twenty three Brooks. If anyone effing judges me for 547 00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:38,440 Speaker 3: anything that happens while pushing a watermelon out of my body, 548 00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:42,280 Speaker 3: I'm doling out smacks. Just Jess, I don't blame you. Listen, 549 00:26:42,359 --> 00:26:45,760 Speaker 3: if I was popping watermelon out, I'm liable to do anything. 550 00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:47,919 Speaker 4: Yeah, we're talking about watermelon. Are we talking about like, 551 00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:49,560 Speaker 4: I mean, a human water human? 552 00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:50,320 Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. 553 00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:50,560 Speaker 4: Yeah? 554 00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:53,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, the crying kind ye of the crying variety. Very delicious, 555 00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:56,360 Speaker 3: I will say myself, the most delicious. 556 00:26:56,359 --> 00:27:00,199 Speaker 4: Public subscriber Morgan Goodell says so sorry that happens to you. 557 00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:03,280 Speaker 4: I don't think someone should work on health care if 558 00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:04,320 Speaker 4: they have no compassion. 559 00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:05,680 Speaker 3: Dude, what do you think do you do? 560 00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:08,600 Speaker 4: I am a health science student right, I'm gonna be 561 00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:10,400 Speaker 4: in the field soon, so I don't want to say 562 00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:12,720 Speaker 4: I'm a professional when it comes to this type of scenario. 563 00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:13,840 Speaker 3: You're basically a doctor. 564 00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:17,080 Speaker 4: I'm basically I'm basically a doctor, certified, certified, and. 565 00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:19,160 Speaker 3: Just put a lab code on them. Basically, if someone 566 00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:22,280 Speaker 3: doesn't have compassion, should they work in healthcare? I think 567 00:27:22,280 --> 00:27:23,879 Speaker 3: they should work in healthcare. I think. 568 00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:26,000 Speaker 4: I think one of the driving rules when it comes 569 00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:28,399 Speaker 4: to like doctors is that you shouldn't diagnose on like 570 00:27:28,440 --> 00:27:31,760 Speaker 4: immediate friends and family just because of how unaware you 571 00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:34,600 Speaker 4: are to the relationship. There's a lot of like, oh, 572 00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:36,320 Speaker 4: he's gonna be fine, he's my friend, I know him, 573 00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:39,120 Speaker 4: he's strong, and stuff like that, Whereas that bias can 574 00:27:39,160 --> 00:27:42,800 Speaker 4: be directly liable for like every indirect you know, thing 575 00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:44,040 Speaker 4: that could have went over your head and when we 576 00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:47,119 Speaker 4: were looking for certain flaws in their health or something. 577 00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:48,840 Speaker 4: So I think it's really important to have a balance 578 00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:50,840 Speaker 4: of both. I know it's like a combout answer, like yes, 579 00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:53,800 Speaker 4: or no or stuff like that. But genuinely, genuinely, I 580 00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:56,359 Speaker 4: think the only way to stay on bias is to 581 00:27:56,440 --> 00:27:58,520 Speaker 4: have people who are a little less compassionate. If you 582 00:27:58,520 --> 00:27:59,680 Speaker 4: want to frame the question like. 583 00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:02,120 Speaker 3: That, well, you know, if you want to be unlike, 584 00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:06,440 Speaker 3: usef and give us an actual committed action. Publicly subscribed 585 00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:08,679 Speaker 3: comment below. We just might read it said. Let's going 586 00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:10,040 Speaker 3: to say the next one, Joe, Yeah, let's do it. 587 00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:12,560 Speaker 3: Let's do it. I just told the entire office my 588 00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:16,679 Speaker 3: darkest secret by mistake. Now I'm considering resigning and finding 589 00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:19,080 Speaker 3: a new job. What is your darkest secret, dark secret, 590 00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:21,679 Speaker 3: deepest I'll say it, don't make me say it. 591 00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:25,199 Speaker 4: Go it's watching rom Com anime at two am on 592 00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:27,040 Speaker 4: my phone in the in the dark of night. 593 00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:30,359 Speaker 3: Not that bad at all. That's not that bad. But 594 00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:34,200 Speaker 3: that's a fine dark secret. Then you know, there's the murders. 595 00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:34,600 Speaker 4: Yeah. 596 00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:36,080 Speaker 3: I was about to say, like, what about the bodies 597 00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:36,960 Speaker 3: and the trunks and stuff. 598 00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:39,880 Speaker 4: That's like the light Yes, yeah, that's like the you 599 00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:42,200 Speaker 4: know side stuff that everyone expects. 600 00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:45,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, yeah, expect them anime. That's true, you know, 601 00:28:46,120 --> 00:28:48,280 Speaker 3: I will say, but that's the most important one. That's true. 602 00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:50,400 Speaker 3: That's what about you, it's yours. Yeah, I mean, you know, 603 00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:54,240 Speaker 3: all the same like anime. Yeah, just the same thing, 604 00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:57,040 Speaker 3: really same thing. You know, the bodies under the floor 605 00:28:57,360 --> 00:28:59,560 Speaker 3: that's oh wow, chops them up and everything. 606 00:28:59,760 --> 00:29:00,240 Speaker 2: That's right. 607 00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:02,640 Speaker 3: So today I fed up. You know when they start 608 00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:05,760 Speaker 3: with that, it's never good. You got telling yourself that's 609 00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:08,880 Speaker 3: how you know, Yeah, exactly, you turned yourself like it's evident. 610 00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:12,360 Speaker 3: Well last month, but I just remembered after blacking out 611 00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:14,640 Speaker 3: the horrific memory. I was attending the first day of 612 00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:18,360 Speaker 3: a week long peer support specialist training along with a 613 00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:21,760 Speaker 3: female coworker of several other students from different workplaces. 614 00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:24,400 Speaker 4: When you when you got to specify the female co 615 00:29:24,960 --> 00:29:27,080 Speaker 4: I know, yeah, that's how you know you're in for 616 00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:29,200 Speaker 4: a sorry. 617 00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:32,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe it gets dicey. The training would evolve a 618 00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:37,400 Speaker 3: lot of soul searching, sharing stories of addiction struggle, et cetera. Man, 619 00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:39,920 Speaker 3: I mean this is yeah, so they're literally it's I 620 00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:42,360 Speaker 3: guess a specialist for people like with the issues of 621 00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:44,160 Speaker 3: addiction and like things of that nature, which like that 622 00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:47,680 Speaker 3: is a heavy topics. That's a tough job to do. 623 00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:50,200 Speaker 3: My goodness, shout out, shout out to you as no 624 00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:52,480 Speaker 3: that's no easy feet, as our job was to work 625 00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:55,240 Speaker 3: with people in crisis. Anyways, a bit earlier in the 626 00:29:55,320 --> 00:29:57,400 Speaker 3: first day, I ran to to a leak. When I 627 00:29:57,400 --> 00:30:00,360 Speaker 3: got back, everyone was writing on a flash card they'd 628 00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:03,000 Speaker 3: been given and folding them up. I asked my coworker 629 00:30:03,080 --> 00:30:05,280 Speaker 3: what I missed, and she said that I had to 630 00:30:05,440 --> 00:30:09,720 Speaker 3: quote unquote write a secret. Okay, any guesses to what 631 00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:12,000 Speaker 3: Op's secret is. It's gonna be something ambiguous, I think, 632 00:30:12,200 --> 00:30:15,400 Speaker 3: really yeah, nothing, nothing like super incriminated. He's not gonna 633 00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:18,160 Speaker 3: write a whole paragraph. I had a kid with my teacher. 634 00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:20,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, it's gonna be something very ambiguous, like 635 00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:22,840 Speaker 4: foreshadow later rights going on. 636 00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:25,360 Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, you're you're already an expert. 637 00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:25,600 Speaker 4: You know. 638 00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:27,920 Speaker 3: Two stories in. I have a feeling it's gonna be 639 00:30:27,920 --> 00:30:32,040 Speaker 3: a number number one number of guys. Interesting one number? Yeah, 640 00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:32,520 Speaker 3: let's see. 641 00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:37,080 Speaker 4: I'm thinking one through ten, maybe like a five in there. Okay, interesting, 642 00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:38,760 Speaker 4: all right, what do you think number? 643 00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:42,680 Speaker 3: I guess I'll go seven if I let us know 644 00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:44,960 Speaker 3: what you guys think. Due to the emotional nature of 645 00:30:44,960 --> 00:30:47,760 Speaker 3: our training, I believed we'd fold them up and hang 646 00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:50,040 Speaker 3: on to them or something. Then we'd throw them away 647 00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:52,520 Speaker 3: at the end or some symbolic thing like that. So 648 00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:55,880 Speaker 3: I write, I feel like a terrible father and sometimes 649 00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:59,320 Speaker 3: regret having my kids close to a number, close to 650 00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:02,000 Speaker 3: a number numbers. I have a one and a half 651 00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:04,840 Speaker 3: year old. I read the age. There's a number closely 652 00:31:04,880 --> 00:31:07,640 Speaker 3: associated with that. So I give you that. Yeah, I'm like, 653 00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:10,840 Speaker 3: what what number? What like? I've I've got six bodies 654 00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:15,960 Speaker 3: under my three wives or three wives, yeah, three families, 655 00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:18,840 Speaker 3: three families, nine people. That would have been crazy. That 656 00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:21,920 Speaker 3: would have been crazy. I've got nine kids. Imposter syndrome 657 00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:26,160 Speaker 3: slash depression is I folded it up and I pocketed it. 658 00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:29,560 Speaker 3: All right, No, I'm going to collect everybody's called now, 659 00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:33,400 Speaker 3: the facilitator says. I think, all right, this must be 660 00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:37,280 Speaker 3: some kind of trust exercise. Brilliant stuff. Wow. Oh he no, 661 00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:40,080 Speaker 3: I'm still rocking with that voice. He collects the cards 662 00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:42,120 Speaker 3: and then puts them in a cup and shakes it up. 663 00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:46,680 Speaker 3: Holy I am breaking a sweat now. I asked my coworker, 664 00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:50,480 Speaker 3: what's going on? She shrugs, Okay. The facilitator grabs a 665 00:31:50,520 --> 00:31:53,840 Speaker 3: card and reads it. It says, I've been bit by 666 00:31:53,880 --> 00:31:56,520 Speaker 3: a shark, So not a super telling. 667 00:31:56,400 --> 00:32:00,960 Speaker 2: Like you know, yeah, not at all. 668 00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:04,080 Speaker 3: They were Yeah, that could be a life all day though. Yeah, huh, 669 00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:07,760 Speaker 3: weird secret. I tell everyone that. The class then points 670 00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:10,800 Speaker 3: to one person. Some are like, Oh, this has gotta 671 00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:13,760 Speaker 3: be you. You look like a total surfer bro. Surfer 672 00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:19,640 Speaker 3: dude confirms it's his, and everyone cheers, cheer, cheer. 673 00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:22,520 Speaker 1: For me. 674 00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:26,960 Speaker 3: Oh god, I'm at this point seconds from jumping across 675 00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:30,240 Speaker 3: my desk and stealing the entire bucket of cards. He 676 00:32:30,320 --> 00:32:34,560 Speaker 3: reads a few more and everyone correctly guesses the secret holder. 677 00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:37,600 Speaker 3: I was in a movie. I was born in Canada, 678 00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:38,560 Speaker 3: things like that. 679 00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:43,280 Speaker 4: It's just narrowing down the pool to imagine this is going. 680 00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:45,760 Speaker 3: The anxiety of like you're just like, oh god, is 681 00:32:45,760 --> 00:32:47,480 Speaker 3: it me? You're like oh God, Like you're like, okay, 682 00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:49,800 Speaker 3: I wish you were like the second person. Yeah, get 683 00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:51,200 Speaker 3: it over with. Yeah, you can leave it up to 684 00:32:51,240 --> 00:32:53,440 Speaker 3: interpretation to promise it's not me. 685 00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:57,240 Speaker 4: That's true, because yeah, yeah yeah, as it comes closer, 686 00:32:57,520 --> 00:33:01,000 Speaker 4: you know, the choice narrowed down, like ah, is it you? 687 00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:03,800 Speaker 3: Also like just for op like the tension of like 688 00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:06,120 Speaker 3: sitting there and like, oh my god, it's coming, it's coming, 689 00:33:06,120 --> 00:33:08,760 Speaker 3: It's coming my pants. Yeah, that would be not fun. 690 00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:13,080 Speaker 3: Then he grabs mine, which is the lasting one. So 691 00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:15,800 Speaker 3: I guess they already know off rip right, I mean, 692 00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:19,000 Speaker 3: there's nothing you can do. Nothing kind of saw it coming. Yeah, 693 00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:24,960 Speaker 3: you foresaw, foretold the prophecy. My coworker, with me being 694 00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:28,000 Speaker 3: the last one, says, I guess we all know who 695 00:33:28,040 --> 00:33:30,440 Speaker 3: this one's gonna be. Damn, Why you got to set 696 00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:32,920 Speaker 3: me up like that facilitator, Like, dude, you set me 697 00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:37,200 Speaker 3: up for failure. They're just gonna read it. Everyone's gonna 698 00:33:37,240 --> 00:33:44,040 Speaker 3: turn and be like, damn, that's that's that's to buddy. 699 00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:46,840 Speaker 3: That's tough. The look on the instructor's face when he 700 00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:50,480 Speaker 3: opened the card, he sort of half pity laughs like 701 00:33:50,560 --> 00:33:52,800 Speaker 3: that and reads, I feel like. 702 00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:58,040 Speaker 2: A terrible fall Vince sometimes regret having kids. 703 00:33:58,360 --> 00:34:00,760 Speaker 3: The room falls silent, and I just sit there, wanting 704 00:34:00,800 --> 00:34:04,120 Speaker 3: to crawl out of my skin and die. Dang. I 705 00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:07,480 Speaker 3: raised my hand to confirm it's me. I learned later 706 00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:11,440 Speaker 3: on that he said to write a fun fact about 707 00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:16,040 Speaker 3: yourself anonymously on the card, not a deep dark secret 708 00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:19,359 Speaker 3: f me. So where did they go wrong? I don't 709 00:34:19,600 --> 00:34:21,759 Speaker 3: So he was like I think he like he did 710 00:34:21,800 --> 00:34:24,160 Speaker 3: something he I don't know, filling with the shoe, and 711 00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:26,160 Speaker 3: so he didn't hear what was supposed to be written 712 00:34:26,160 --> 00:34:28,279 Speaker 3: down on the card, and so he goes to the 713 00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:29,719 Speaker 3: person next to him. He's like, oh, hey, like, what 714 00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:31,640 Speaker 3: do we do on the card? And she's like like, oh, 715 00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:33,279 Speaker 3: like a secret, like put a secret on there. And 716 00:34:33,320 --> 00:34:36,799 Speaker 3: he assumed because it was such a like deep dark 717 00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:40,400 Speaker 3: head like because of their like job of like working 718 00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:42,480 Speaker 3: with addicts and stuff. He's like, oh, this is probably 719 00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:44,239 Speaker 3: like you write down a deep dark secret and then 720 00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:45,960 Speaker 3: like burn it or throw it away like kind of 721 00:34:46,000 --> 00:34:48,719 Speaker 3: like a character building exercise, I guess. So he's like, 722 00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:50,440 Speaker 3: all right, let me write up like the most fed 723 00:34:50,520 --> 00:34:53,319 Speaker 3: up thing about myself on this card right here. And 724 00:34:53,400 --> 00:34:55,960 Speaker 3: but it was a fun fact, bro, He's like, fun 725 00:34:56,000 --> 00:35:02,120 Speaker 3: fact I can hate my family, gollly that stuff. Okay, well, okay, 726 00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:04,919 Speaker 3: so I think here's the question. So should you quit 727 00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:06,720 Speaker 3: your job? That's what we're trying to solve. Oh should 728 00:35:06,719 --> 00:35:07,000 Speaker 3: you quit? 729 00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:07,279 Speaker 1: Yeah? 730 00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:09,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, So I think it's a two parters. So for 731 00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:13,160 Speaker 3: everyone listening, I'm very curious. A is OPI the ahole 732 00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:16,759 Speaker 3: for for saying this? You know, honest expression? Is OPI 733 00:35:16,840 --> 00:35:18,680 Speaker 3: the a hole for that? And B? Yeah, what do 734 00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:18,920 Speaker 3: you do. 735 00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:21,440 Speaker 4: I mean, one, you're not the a hole man. Your 736 00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:24,480 Speaker 4: feelings are valid. Okay, it's twenty twenty three. Let's appreciate 737 00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:25,280 Speaker 4: everyone's by. 738 00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:27,160 Speaker 3: Whatever they got going. Everyone's fighting demons. 739 00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:27,520 Speaker 4: Okay. 740 00:35:27,520 --> 00:35:29,600 Speaker 3: You know, like one person they don't like In and 741 00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:31,320 Speaker 3: out burgers. The other person hates their kids. You know 742 00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:34,839 Speaker 3: what I'm saying. Tomato, Tomato, It's all good. I hate 743 00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:38,040 Speaker 3: in and out Burgers. Yeah, so so he hates his kids. 744 00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:44,040 Speaker 3: But framed, bro, I did to myself, op did himself? 745 00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:46,320 Speaker 3: God dang, how did I read that whole story? And 746 00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:49,280 Speaker 3: so fall before? K No, I'm just okay literally. 747 00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:52,239 Speaker 4: But the second one is should he quit his job? 748 00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:54,239 Speaker 4: And I guess I would have solved it in the 749 00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:56,120 Speaker 4: situation I would have. I would have been like, h 750 00:35:56,360 --> 00:35:59,320 Speaker 4: it's satirical, and then like trying to play it off 751 00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:02,520 Speaker 4: right the cool guy, you know, like smooves my way 752 00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:03,160 Speaker 4: through it. 753 00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:06,440 Speaker 3: Got you like you thought I was this terrible person. 754 00:36:06,600 --> 00:36:09,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, but no exactly, I mean That's what I 755 00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:09,719 Speaker 4: would have done. 756 00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:12,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, but he should probably quit his job. Yeah, he 757 00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:14,919 Speaker 3: should probably quit. He fumbled the back I felt he did, 758 00:36:14,960 --> 00:36:16,839 Speaker 3: and everyone knows if you say it's just a prank, Bro, 759 00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:19,520 Speaker 3: then it's just a prank bro exactly. This is not 760 00:36:19,719 --> 00:36:23,920 Speaker 3: a prank. No, it's definitely not prank bro. Messed up? Ouch, wow, 761 00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:27,800 Speaker 3: oh you do? I think I would just be straight 762 00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:30,359 Speaker 3: up afterwards and be like you know what, like I'll 763 00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:33,520 Speaker 3: be honest. I thought I would actually admit what he 764 00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:35,759 Speaker 3: thought was happening, Like I totally miss it, and I 765 00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:38,560 Speaker 3: thought we were writing the deepest, darkest secrets. Obviously I 766 00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:40,560 Speaker 3: messed up, so you just own to it. I would 767 00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:42,080 Speaker 3: just own up to it because also, like what what 768 00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:43,960 Speaker 3: do you have to lose? Like at that point, right, 769 00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:46,520 Speaker 3: just you know, I totally misheard and I thought it 770 00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:48,400 Speaker 3: was like, oh, a deep dark secret. We would like 771 00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:50,759 Speaker 3: burn it and you know this whole thing. But like, hey, 772 00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:53,840 Speaker 3: joke's on me now, you guys, you got some some 773 00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:55,000 Speaker 3: ammo on me, you know. 774 00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:56,920 Speaker 4: So or what if he wanted to quit? What if 775 00:36:56,920 --> 00:36:58,879 Speaker 4: he like a third take? Was he goes all in 776 00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:00,239 Speaker 4: and he's like, you know what, I one of the 777 00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:03,040 Speaker 4: quit anyways, here's everything bad I've done. I hate you. 778 00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:07,960 Speaker 4: Just starts calling out everyone. He's like you're you that's smart. 779 00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:09,759 Speaker 3: Yeah, you get yourself out of it, you know what 780 00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:11,600 Speaker 3: I mean? Just like you know what clean slate. No, 781 00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:14,200 Speaker 3: if I'm gonna like hit one base, might as well 782 00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:16,359 Speaker 3: hit a home run. Just keep her going and then no, 783 00:37:16,480 --> 00:37:20,360 Speaker 3: that's true, that's true. Make it work, that's right. But youseff. 784 00:37:20,440 --> 00:37:23,680 Speaker 3: You know you know who always works, our beautiful subscribers. Yeah, 785 00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:30,160 Speaker 3: they do, and they're always publicly subscribing. You know they're 786 00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:32,280 Speaker 3: they're taking time out of their day. Thank you, guys 787 00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:35,080 Speaker 3: to watching comment on these videos. Being employees of our champion. 788 00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:37,239 Speaker 3: I know right right. I love how I love how 789 00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:41,279 Speaker 3: you do the ownership our hour. 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