1 00:00:01,000 --> 00:00:04,080 Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if you need 2 00:00:04,120 --> 00:00:08,160 Speaker 1: advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more. Please 3 00:00:08,160 --> 00:00:11,399 Speaker 1: submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com and 4 00:00:11,480 --> 00:00:14,800 Speaker 1: click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter 5 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:19,160 Speaker 1: just like we're gonna read this one right here, right now. 6 00:00:19,160 --> 00:00:22,160 Speaker 1: It could be yours. You never know, you never know. 7 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:24,119 Speaker 1: Buckle up and hold on tight. We got it for 8 00:00:24,320 --> 00:00:28,440 Speaker 1: you here. It is the Strawberry Letter subject. This drinking 9 00:00:28,480 --> 00:00:32,160 Speaker 1: and cussing has to stop. Dear Stephen Shirley, my husband 10 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 1: of twenty two years, has made a lot of changes 11 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:37,880 Speaker 1: in the last six months. He's been in the military 12 00:00:37,960 --> 00:00:41,120 Speaker 1: since I met him, and he retired last year, but 13 00:00:41,200 --> 00:00:43,760 Speaker 1: he still hangs out with his co workers. He is 14 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:47,040 Speaker 1: always cursed like a sailor because he was a sailor 15 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:50,040 Speaker 1: when he was younger. When we had our first child, 16 00:00:50,360 --> 00:00:52,400 Speaker 1: I asked him to watch what he said around our 17 00:00:52,479 --> 00:00:56,680 Speaker 1: daughter after he slacked up with using profanity, and he 18 00:00:56,720 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 1: did slack up with using profanity. Now that he's retired, 19 00:01:00,280 --> 00:01:03,600 Speaker 1: I think he's frustrated and bored because he started using 20 00:01:03,760 --> 00:01:06,760 Speaker 1: strong four letter words and he said, the kids are 21 00:01:06,760 --> 00:01:09,560 Speaker 1: old enough to understand. We have a seventeen year old 22 00:01:09,640 --> 00:01:12,679 Speaker 1: and a fifteen year old, and he curses at them 23 00:01:12,760 --> 00:01:15,000 Speaker 1: like they are his age. Not only do I have 24 00:01:15,040 --> 00:01:17,360 Speaker 1: to put up with his bad language, he put a 25 00:01:17,360 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 1: bar in the basement and bought all brands of alcohol, 26 00:01:21,680 --> 00:01:24,200 Speaker 1: and his former co workers pop up at our house 27 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:26,600 Speaker 1: and they go downstairs and drink up all of my 28 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:30,440 Speaker 1: husband's liquor. He gets very drunk, and usually he falls 29 00:01:30,440 --> 00:01:33,000 Speaker 1: asleep in the basement and I have to usher his 30 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 1: friends out. Money is not an issue with all of 31 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:38,919 Speaker 1: the alcohol, but I get tired of his buddies drinking 32 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:42,039 Speaker 1: up his premium liquor and they don't give him one 33 00:01:42,160 --> 00:01:45,040 Speaker 1: cent to buy more. I asked my husband if he's 34 00:01:45,120 --> 00:01:48,000 Speaker 1: going through something or if this is a midlife crisis, 35 00:01:48,280 --> 00:01:51,000 Speaker 1: and he told me that he's fine, but ready to 36 00:01:51,080 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 1: let his hair down a little because he's not working anymore. 37 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:57,000 Speaker 1: I did not want to spend my retirement with a drunk, 38 00:01:57,080 --> 00:02:01,240 Speaker 1: foul mouth man. Here's the worst part. The last time 39 00:02:01,280 --> 00:02:04,440 Speaker 1: we were being intimate, he was drunk and he called 40 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:07,120 Speaker 1: me a dirty name, and he kept cursing so loudly. 41 00:02:07,160 --> 00:02:09,440 Speaker 1: I was afraid our kids would hear it. How can 42 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:11,959 Speaker 1: I stop him from being so crude. I need the 43 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:17,200 Speaker 1: drinking and cussing to stop. Wow, well it doesn't look 44 00:02:17,200 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 1: like it's gonna stop for a while anyway. It sounds 45 00:02:21,200 --> 00:02:24,760 Speaker 1: like your husband needs a seriously different kind of hobby than, 46 00:02:24,919 --> 00:02:28,040 Speaker 1: you know, just being downstairs drinking with his friends. But 47 00:02:28,120 --> 00:02:29,880 Speaker 1: he did tell you he wanted to let his hair 48 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:33,320 Speaker 1: down a little bit. Maybe this is not gonna last forever, 49 00:02:33,480 --> 00:02:36,000 Speaker 1: but I see you want to cut it off now, 50 00:02:36,320 --> 00:02:39,040 Speaker 1: cut it off at the pass before it gets any worse. 51 00:02:39,080 --> 00:02:41,800 Speaker 1: He did say, like I said, he wanted to let 52 00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:44,359 Speaker 1: his hair down a little because he's not working anymore. 53 00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:46,600 Speaker 1: And that's you know, you said it too. He's bored 54 00:02:46,639 --> 00:02:49,680 Speaker 1: and frustrated. But he also has to realize that this 55 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:52,520 Speaker 1: is your house too. When you guys do have kids, 56 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:55,679 Speaker 1: he needs to be mindful and respectful of his influence 57 00:02:55,800 --> 00:03:00,280 Speaker 1: on them. He was able to curb his cursing when 58 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:02,680 Speaker 1: your daughter was little, so you know he can change 59 00:03:02,760 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 1: if he wants to. I say, you tell him you 60 00:03:05,600 --> 00:03:07,680 Speaker 1: need a break from all the company and the drinking 61 00:03:07,760 --> 00:03:09,920 Speaker 1: and the cursing, because he's getting out of control, and 62 00:03:09,960 --> 00:03:13,520 Speaker 1: he's drinking way too much, maybe turning into an alcoholic. 63 00:03:14,200 --> 00:03:16,919 Speaker 1: You know, let him know he's setting a horrible example 64 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:19,079 Speaker 1: for the kids. He needs to find out something, find 65 00:03:19,160 --> 00:03:22,640 Speaker 1: something else to do. Tell him you don't want drunk sex. 66 00:03:23,120 --> 00:03:25,919 Speaker 1: You don't want that, and you don't want his old 67 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:29,080 Speaker 1: coworkers just popping up at the house unannounced. Now are 68 00:03:29,120 --> 00:03:30,880 Speaker 1: you mad at that or are you mad at the 69 00:03:30,919 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 1: fact that they're drinking of all your husband's good liquor, 70 00:03:34,160 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 1: Because those are kind of two different issues. If they come, 71 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 1: you don't have to answer the door, especially if they 72 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:42,080 Speaker 1: come unannounced, stop letting them in. If they do, just 73 00:03:42,160 --> 00:03:44,800 Speaker 1: don't answer the door. And if you do let them in, 74 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:48,560 Speaker 1: hide the liquor. Hide the liquor. All right, that's what 75 00:03:48,680 --> 00:03:54,680 Speaker 1: you have to do, Steve, Well, this drinking and cussing 76 00:03:54,880 --> 00:03:58,120 Speaker 1: has to stop. I'm gonna just be upfront with you 77 00:03:58,200 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 1: before we start. Just let up. Can help you with 78 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:12,480 Speaker 1: your drinking. I don't want to be hypocritical. I think 79 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:15,680 Speaker 1: I can possibly help you with this cussing cuss I 80 00:04:15,920 --> 00:04:20,760 Speaker 1: know where it comes from him. Anyway, Your husband twenty two, 81 00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:23,560 Speaker 1: that made a lot of changes in the last six months, 82 00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:26,599 Speaker 1: been in the military since you met him. He retired 83 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:30,159 Speaker 1: last week, but he still hangs around with his co workers. Well, 84 00:04:30,240 --> 00:04:35,080 Speaker 1: he miss his friends. They they had relationships. You know, 85 00:04:35,120 --> 00:04:37,120 Speaker 1: a lot of people want to say stopped working. You know, 86 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:40,960 Speaker 1: they missed the camaraderie at work, They missed the relationships 87 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:43,039 Speaker 1: down at the job. They just his dudes, and he 88 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:48,200 Speaker 1: missed them. All right, So he's always cussed like a sailor. 89 00:04:48,520 --> 00:04:51,800 Speaker 1: And he said that's because he was. But marines, Cus, 90 00:04:52,120 --> 00:04:56,840 Speaker 1: army people because post office workers cause passes cuss, comedians 91 00:04:56,920 --> 00:05:01,159 Speaker 1: cause radio show host Cus early cuss. She acts like 92 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 1: she don't, but she probably do all that old mess 93 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:07,599 Speaker 1: right there. Who the hell don't cuss anyway, anyway, let's 94 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:09,839 Speaker 1: just move on. I can tell you for show calling 95 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:13,000 Speaker 1: for real. Cus. So now we had our first child. 96 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:15,800 Speaker 1: I asked him to watch what he said around her daughter, 97 00:05:15,960 --> 00:05:19,560 Speaker 1: and he slacked up. Well, now he's retired and he's 98 00:05:19,600 --> 00:05:23,400 Speaker 1: frustrating the board because he'd started using fold out of 99 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:28,200 Speaker 1: words again. But he slacked up when the baby was young. 100 00:05:28,279 --> 00:05:30,400 Speaker 1: But see now you say, we have a seventeen year 101 00:05:30,400 --> 00:05:32,560 Speaker 1: old and a fifteen year old and he cusses at 102 00:05:32,600 --> 00:05:36,159 Speaker 1: them like they're his age. They probably heard these words before, ma'am. 103 00:05:37,720 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 1: Now if now, if he's not cursing at his daughter. 104 00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:46,279 Speaker 1: That's a different thing. You know, cussing at your little 105 00:05:46,279 --> 00:05:50,200 Speaker 1: girls is wrong if you're a man. I just think 106 00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:52,719 Speaker 1: it's wrong. I do not only do I have to 107 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:54,520 Speaker 1: put up his bad language. He put a bar in 108 00:05:54,600 --> 00:05:57,200 Speaker 1: the basement. He bought all brand's alcoholics. Former co workers 109 00:05:57,200 --> 00:05:58,920 Speaker 1: pop up at the house and they go downstairs and 110 00:05:58,920 --> 00:06:02,159 Speaker 1: they drink up all my liquor. He gets very drunk 111 00:06:02,160 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 1: and usually falls asleep in the basement, and I have 112 00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:08,040 Speaker 1: to usher his friends out. Now that's that's a little crazy. 113 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:11,960 Speaker 1: Your husband drinking that hard. Yeah, that he falls asleep 114 00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:15,560 Speaker 1: and they steal down, Now that's a problem. I have 115 00:06:15,640 --> 00:06:18,280 Speaker 1: a solution for that, though. When we come back. I 116 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:21,400 Speaker 1: asked my husband if he's going through something in midlife Christie. 117 00:06:21,680 --> 00:06:23,600 Speaker 1: He said, he's fine. He just read let his head 118 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:26,800 Speaker 1: down a little bit because he ain't working no more. Well, 119 00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:29,840 Speaker 1: I got that, But we gotta do something because y'all 120 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:32,240 Speaker 1: can't be that old, because the kids ain't but seventeen 121 00:06:32,240 --> 00:06:35,479 Speaker 1: and fifteen. So now he retired, we gotta come up 122 00:06:35,520 --> 00:06:39,479 Speaker 1: with something else to do size drinking. I got the 123 00:06:39,520 --> 00:06:41,920 Speaker 1: restaurant called back, all right, thank you, Steve. Hang on, 124 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:44,359 Speaker 1: we'll have part two of Steve's response coming up at 125 00:06:44,360 --> 00:06:48,000 Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour, today's Strawberry Letters subjects 126 00:06:48,160 --> 00:06:50,479 Speaker 1: the drinking and the cussing has to stop. We'll get 127 00:06:50,480 --> 00:06:56,160 Speaker 1: back into it right after this. You're listening, all right, 128 00:06:56,200 --> 00:06:59,240 Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject 129 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:04,640 Speaker 1: drinking and cussing has to stop. Well, here's a deal. 130 00:07:04,960 --> 00:07:08,960 Speaker 1: Been married twenty two years, he's always cussed. He started, 131 00:07:09,680 --> 00:07:11,560 Speaker 1: he didn't put a bar in the basement. He miss 132 00:07:11,640 --> 00:07:17,320 Speaker 1: his friends, those relationships. He just started back to cussing again. 133 00:07:18,160 --> 00:07:21,760 Speaker 1: And not a kids in seventeen and fifteen. And you 134 00:07:21,840 --> 00:07:24,040 Speaker 1: say he cussing at them like that his age. They 135 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:27,080 Speaker 1: probably heard all these words before. Like I said before, 136 00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:30,360 Speaker 1: as long as he's not cursing at the daughter that way, 137 00:07:30,480 --> 00:07:33,000 Speaker 1: I don't think that's cool at all, because it sends 138 00:07:33,040 --> 00:07:35,560 Speaker 1: a bad example to a young lady. That's okay for 139 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:38,160 Speaker 1: a man to talk to her that way, and it's not. 140 00:07:38,600 --> 00:07:41,160 Speaker 1: And as fathers, we have to be very very conscious 141 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:43,600 Speaker 1: the example that we put in front of our daughters 142 00:07:43,600 --> 00:07:46,960 Speaker 1: and our sons. But you really don't want a daughter 143 00:07:47,360 --> 00:07:51,240 Speaker 1: to think that this is acceptable coming from a person 144 00:07:51,480 --> 00:07:57,360 Speaker 1: who's supposed to love her. That's unacceptable, dog, and that 145 00:07:57,760 --> 00:07:59,680 Speaker 1: you've got to get a grip on that right there. Now. 146 00:07:59,720 --> 00:08:03,160 Speaker 1: He expected her when she was young, but now that 147 00:08:03,240 --> 00:08:06,560 Speaker 1: they're older, I got that they're old enough that they've 148 00:08:06,600 --> 00:08:10,280 Speaker 1: heard this. But you can't do that to your daughter, man, 149 00:08:11,360 --> 00:08:14,960 Speaker 1: I'm telling you, it's a dangerous slope. You're creating something 150 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:17,160 Speaker 1: in her that she don't need to be. She needs 151 00:08:17,160 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 1: to always look at her father as a protector, somebody 152 00:08:20,440 --> 00:08:23,040 Speaker 1: she can go to and want to, you know, hold 153 00:08:23,040 --> 00:08:26,000 Speaker 1: her father in high esteem. He could be losing that. 154 00:08:26,200 --> 00:08:29,480 Speaker 1: So point that out to him. Tell him. I said 155 00:08:29,560 --> 00:08:32,800 Speaker 1: that that's cool. Steve said, you shouldn't do it a 156 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:35,319 Speaker 1: run daughter, and you shouldn't. And most men agree with 157 00:08:35,440 --> 00:08:38,480 Speaker 1: me and all, and we have daughters on this show. 158 00:08:39,640 --> 00:08:42,400 Speaker 1: Me and Tommy got daughters, and and that that ain't 159 00:08:42,440 --> 00:08:45,600 Speaker 1: how we talk, all right now, He don't put this 160 00:08:45,679 --> 00:08:48,200 Speaker 1: bard outstairs and his workers pop over at the house 161 00:08:48,200 --> 00:08:49,840 Speaker 1: and they go down, says, they drank up all your 162 00:08:49,880 --> 00:08:52,439 Speaker 1: husband's looking. He gets drunk, fall asleep, and then you 163 00:08:52,520 --> 00:08:55,120 Speaker 1: got to usher your friends out. Money ain't an issue 164 00:08:55,120 --> 00:08:57,160 Speaker 1: with all alcohol. But I get tired as buddy drinking 165 00:08:57,240 --> 00:08:59,080 Speaker 1: up his premium looking in they don't give him one 166 00:08:59,120 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 1: sent to buy more. So, now here's the deal with that. 167 00:09:05,960 --> 00:09:09,040 Speaker 1: I think the solution is he get a night with 168 00:09:09,160 --> 00:09:14,120 Speaker 1: his buddies downstairs. Pick the knight that is the night 169 00:09:14,200 --> 00:09:18,480 Speaker 1: for drinking, and then that makes it once a week 170 00:09:18,559 --> 00:09:21,640 Speaker 1: or once every two weeks, whatever y'all decide. But he 171 00:09:21,679 --> 00:09:23,640 Speaker 1: gets a night to go down with his ball with 172 00:09:23,720 --> 00:09:26,720 Speaker 1: his buddies. They can't just pop up. I don't know 173 00:09:26,760 --> 00:09:30,240 Speaker 1: what y'all running over there. This ain't camp, and y'all 174 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:32,640 Speaker 1: ain't little kids coming over tomb Hey, we want to 175 00:09:32,640 --> 00:09:35,200 Speaker 1: play video games and ride Joe bike. That ain't what 176 00:09:35,280 --> 00:09:37,880 Speaker 1: this is. You got a family dog, and you can't 177 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:41,359 Speaker 1: have people just popping up at your house. That's unacceptable 178 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:44,400 Speaker 1: because now you're not only disrespecting your daughter, you disrespecting 179 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:47,319 Speaker 1: your wife. So now you're asking me if he going 180 00:09:47,400 --> 00:09:50,040 Speaker 1: through something. He said he ready to tie now and 181 00:09:50,080 --> 00:09:52,640 Speaker 1: he won't let his head down a little. I've been 182 00:09:52,640 --> 00:09:55,120 Speaker 1: told that you can retire from the military as earliers 183 00:09:55,160 --> 00:09:58,120 Speaker 1: thirty eight, But you've been with him twenty two years, 184 00:09:58,160 --> 00:10:00,680 Speaker 1: so he must have been in the military for twenty 185 00:10:00,679 --> 00:10:03,760 Speaker 1: two years. So let's say y'all got married at twenty 186 00:10:04,760 --> 00:10:07,240 Speaker 1: let's say twenty twenty two, because the kids is fifteen 187 00:10:07,280 --> 00:10:12,320 Speaker 1: and seventeen. So let's say he fought it forty four 188 00:10:12,400 --> 00:10:16,480 Speaker 1: years old. Okay, dog, So you ain't fit to do 189 00:10:16,559 --> 00:10:20,480 Speaker 1: nothing sept drink because you don't retire. You gotta do 190 00:10:20,559 --> 00:10:23,439 Speaker 1: something else. Dog, you may live another forty fifty years. 191 00:10:23,480 --> 00:10:27,200 Speaker 1: What this can't be it? You need to get some hobbies. 192 00:10:28,640 --> 00:10:30,959 Speaker 1: I didn't want to respend my retirement with a drunk 193 00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:33,559 Speaker 1: fire mouth man. His worst part last time we were 194 00:10:33,600 --> 00:10:35,800 Speaker 1: being an intimate. He was drunk and he called me 195 00:10:35,840 --> 00:10:38,560 Speaker 1: a dirty name and he kept cussing so loud, and 196 00:10:38,600 --> 00:10:40,599 Speaker 1: I was afraid our kids was here. Well, they heard it. 197 00:10:42,840 --> 00:10:45,280 Speaker 1: They heard if he loud. You know, drunk people don't 198 00:10:45,320 --> 00:10:49,680 Speaker 1: ever realize how loud they talk. I don't. I don't 199 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:52,560 Speaker 1: know what happened, but I think drinking blocks you'll hear it. 200 00:10:53,800 --> 00:10:57,240 Speaker 1: That is for damn show a symptom of being drunk. 201 00:10:57,360 --> 00:11:02,840 Speaker 1: I think it blocks you'll here ready, So I know 202 00:11:02,920 --> 00:11:05,080 Speaker 1: he talked about and they heard it. How could I 203 00:11:05,120 --> 00:11:08,080 Speaker 1: stop him from being so crude? I need the drinking 204 00:11:08,120 --> 00:11:10,760 Speaker 1: and cussing to stop. First of all, Shirley said it right. 205 00:11:11,240 --> 00:11:15,240 Speaker 1: You don't have to have drunk sex, so you're drinking, 206 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:17,720 Speaker 1: we're not having sex. That are cut back on some 207 00:11:17,840 --> 00:11:21,439 Speaker 1: of the drinking, and if you cussing me, it's over. 208 00:11:22,280 --> 00:11:26,360 Speaker 1: But not once again, I can help you with the drinking, 209 00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:30,560 Speaker 1: you know, sex and cussing. It's kind of you know, 210 00:11:32,040 --> 00:11:36,760 Speaker 1: let's go together, yeah, kind of kind kind of head 211 00:11:36,840 --> 00:11:42,319 Speaker 1: and head uh oh yeah. I'm just trying to figure 212 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:45,640 Speaker 1: out how we're gonna you know, I got we're gonna 213 00:11:45,640 --> 00:11:47,600 Speaker 1: stop cussing at the kids, or I'm trying to figure 214 00:11:47,600 --> 00:11:50,600 Speaker 1: out how we're gonna stop this while we having sex. 215 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:54,959 Speaker 1: I'm you know, what, what what are we supposed to say? 216 00:11:55,480 --> 00:11:59,240 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know substitute words like oh, goody goody, 217 00:11:59,440 --> 00:12:01,360 Speaker 1: you know you can't they just can't. I don't know 218 00:12:01,400 --> 00:12:04,520 Speaker 1: what you're supposed to say? Why you having it? That 219 00:12:04,920 --> 00:12:11,040 Speaker 1: replaces all sugar, honey ice? He uh? I don't know 220 00:12:11,080 --> 00:12:21,880 Speaker 1: how you replace that with h cheapers, cheaperson? How about him? Ohoh, 221 00:12:22,400 --> 00:12:28,320 Speaker 1: this is swell? You know say? Oh yeah, I don't. 222 00:12:28,360 --> 00:12:29,800 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't. I don't know what we're 223 00:12:29,840 --> 00:12:31,520 Speaker 1: doing right here, you know, I don't. I don't know 224 00:12:31,520 --> 00:12:33,440 Speaker 1: how to do that. So once again I can't help 225 00:12:33,480 --> 00:12:37,560 Speaker 1: you right there. He needs to stop the drinking. Knowing 226 00:12:37,640 --> 00:12:39,720 Speaker 1: you need to have the guys have a night that 227 00:12:39,800 --> 00:12:41,560 Speaker 1: they can come over and you know they're coming and 228 00:12:41,640 --> 00:12:45,800 Speaker 1: they leave. Uh. You know, you all could also implement 229 00:12:45,880 --> 00:12:47,760 Speaker 1: where he just put that bar down there they come. 230 00:12:48,160 --> 00:12:50,760 Speaker 1: Just just have a night that you can do it 231 00:12:51,520 --> 00:12:54,079 Speaker 1: and then just set one bottle, two bottles out, this 232 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:56,800 Speaker 1: is what we're drinking, and then that's it. They can 233 00:12:56,800 --> 00:12:59,480 Speaker 1: be premium, looka but once that's gone, it's over with it. 234 00:13:00,440 --> 00:13:03,640 Speaker 1: You know, when you drink at five six bottles? All right, Steve, 235 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:06,280 Speaker 1: thank you. Post your comments on today's Strawberry Letter at 236 00:13:06,280 --> 00:13:09,440 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook. Check out Strawberry 237 00:13:09,480 --> 00:13:12,440 Speaker 1: Letter podcast on demand. 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