WEBVTT - Our “New Normal”: Paid Leave, The Workforce, and Knowing Our Rights w/ Fatima Goss Graves

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Katie's Crib, a production of Shonda Land Audio

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<v Speaker 1>in partnership with I Heart Radio. In many states, it's

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<v Speaker 1>this sort of same state that is doing things like

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<v Speaker 1>not wanting to take the child care money, not having

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<v Speaker 1>a paid leave conversation, that same state is rolling back

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<v Speaker 1>reproductive healthcare. There's an opportunity to join together and fight

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<v Speaker 1>for a different future. And the strategy of sort of

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<v Speaker 1>making people feel powerless is how nothing gets done. We

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<v Speaker 1>are super powerful, That's so right. Yes, I do feel

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<v Speaker 1>fired up. I'm pissed and powerful and powerful. Please note

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<v Speaker 1>that at the time of our recording back in February,

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<v Speaker 1>we talked a little bit about the President's Build Back

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<v Speaker 1>Better Bill. The framework of this bill included things like

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<v Speaker 1>child care, universal preschool, and paid family leave. A number

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<v Speaker 1>of things have changed since then, and the bill is

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<v Speaker 1>currently stalled. We're keeping an ear to the ground for

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<v Speaker 1>what's next for legislation at this time. Hi everybody, and

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<v Speaker 1>welcome back to Katie's Crib. Today. I have so many questions,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm so exhausted and overwhelmed. There's so much change

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<v Speaker 1>and advocacy going around, and I know we all have fatigue,

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<v Speaker 1>but I was like we gotta get Fatima goss Graves

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<v Speaker 1>on here to lay it out in Layman's terms of

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<v Speaker 1>how our listeners and myself can better advocate for women,

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<v Speaker 1>pregnant women, and families in the workforce. Fatima gos Graves

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<v Speaker 1>is a nationally recognized leader in the fight for gender

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<v Speaker 1>justice and an expert in law, policy and culture change.

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<v Speaker 1>She is President and CEO of the National Women's Law Center,

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<v Speaker 1>president of the National Women's Law Center Action Fund, and

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<v Speaker 1>a co founder of the Times Up Legal Defense Fund.

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<v Speaker 1>Fatima has a distinguished track record working across a broad

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<v Speaker 1>set of issues central to the lives of women and girls,

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<v Speaker 1>and health and reproductive rights and workplace justice. She's appeared

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<v Speaker 1>as a legal and social commentator on CBS, MSNBC, BBC, CNN, BBS,

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<v Speaker 1>and NBR, and has been published and quoted in numerous outlets.

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<v Speaker 1>A teamer resides in my favorite city in the country, Washington,

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<v Speaker 1>d C. Fatima, thank you so much for coming on

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<v Speaker 1>Katie's cribt. You have worked hard and you are working

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<v Speaker 1>hard to be where you are. Tell me how how

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<v Speaker 1>did you get into public policy? So I should begin

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<v Speaker 1>that I think one of the reasons I was able

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<v Speaker 1>to stay at the National Women's Low Center for a

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<v Speaker 1>long time, and I've been here for over a decade

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<v Speaker 1>and a bunch of different roles. Is because the Law

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<v Speaker 1>Center values caregivers and always has so I was able

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<v Speaker 1>to have two babies and do work I felt passionate

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<v Speaker 1>and about, and take time for leave and tap in

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<v Speaker 1>and out in various ways. In the truth of the

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<v Speaker 1>matter is, you can't do that everywhere in this country.

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<v Speaker 1>And so that made a difference for me in my

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<v Speaker 1>career that the Law Center invested in me early and

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<v Speaker 1>I was able to to stay connected to work right.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, I sort of came up at a

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<v Speaker 1>time with a really deep understanding of gender and racial justice.

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<v Speaker 1>And I feel really really lucky to be able to

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<v Speaker 1>do this work any time, but especially in times of crisis.

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<v Speaker 1>And so when I think about the pandemic. In the

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<v Speaker 1>early days, we gathered as a staff and talked about

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<v Speaker 1>what we knew people were facing and what we expected

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<v Speaker 1>to come and many folks on staff were experiencing those

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<v Speaker 1>same things, and so the issues are personal for us,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's why we're invested, and it's why we stay

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<v Speaker 1>in the work. It's why I stay in the work

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<v Speaker 1>at a picture of what the pandemic has done for

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<v Speaker 1>women in the workforce and a picture of where we

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<v Speaker 1>are currently at. You know, the pandemic revealed so many

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<v Speaker 1>problems that didn't just begin with the pandemic, but it

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<v Speaker 1>really show a bright light on it. It highlighted the fact,

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<v Speaker 1>especially for women of color, that they were disproportionately in

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<v Speaker 1>jobs that we call frontline and essential. But these are

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<v Speaker 1>also jobs that were basically low age and low paying jobs,

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<v Speaker 1>and that mattered a lot in the pandemic when a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people lost those jobs and when women didn't

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<v Speaker 1>have a lot of savings or safety net to fall

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<v Speaker 1>back on. The pandemic also highlighted the invisible work of

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<v Speaker 1>care that mostly women do, both care in their homes,

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<v Speaker 1>caring for your loved ones, your children, your elders, but

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<v Speaker 1>also that women and mostly women of color, disproportionately care

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<v Speaker 1>workers and are sisters. Um just broke. And the pandemic

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<v Speaker 1>of course highlighted how fragile our health infrastructure is and was,

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<v Speaker 1>And what it meant is that I especially for women

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<v Speaker 1>of color, they were disproportionately ill and the workers, the

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<v Speaker 1>frontline healthcare workers were also a lot of women. So

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<v Speaker 1>you had this crashing down of care and health and

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<v Speaker 1>income security and frontline jobs all at once. And I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's what made up the sort of you know,

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<v Speaker 1>with the New York Times called the Primal Scream, and

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<v Speaker 1>what your neighbors and friends may have just been showing

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<v Speaker 1>in their eyes and ears, that look you see on

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<v Speaker 1>people's faces, that look of I'm exhausted, I'm tired. I

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<v Speaker 1>can't believe this is happening. These things didn't begin with

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<v Speaker 1>the pandemic. They just came crashing down altogether at once.

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<v Speaker 1>I have goose bumps. I know so many women and

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<v Speaker 1>women of all different socio economic classes colors who have

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<v Speaker 1>literally been on the brink of losing it multiple times.

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<v Speaker 1>They are not able to work, take care of their children,

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<v Speaker 1>homeschool disruptions with COVID. I mean, it has been absolutely wild.

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<v Speaker 1>So can you tell us about the specific policy and

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<v Speaker 1>advocacy work that you've participated in regard to paid leave. So,

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<v Speaker 1>even before the pandemic, we were supporting what was called

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<v Speaker 1>the Family Act, which would have been the first national

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<v Speaker 1>paid leave program. It's sort of surprises a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people that that's not already the policy in this country.

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<v Speaker 1>Until you need paid leave and can't access it. What

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<v Speaker 1>happened during the pandemic is we actually ended up having

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<v Speaker 1>an experiment. He had the first national paid leave program

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<v Speaker 1>as a part of the COVID relief package. You would

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<v Speaker 1>have thought that that would have told us we should

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<v Speaker 1>never go backwards again, that we should never not have

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<v Speaker 1>a situation like this. Unfortunately, we didn't all equally learn

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<v Speaker 1>this lesson, and we have been fighting for paid leave

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<v Speaker 1>together with an investment in our care infrastructure more broadly

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<v Speaker 1>in Congress over this last two years, and it feels

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<v Speaker 1>on some days that we were very far away and

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<v Speaker 1>some days that we're on the cusp of actually getting

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<v Speaker 1>something that would be transformative, not just for today but

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<v Speaker 1>for tomorrow. In regard to that tell us about the

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<v Speaker 1>Build Back Better Act in Layman's terms. We've talked about

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<v Speaker 1>it on this podcast before, but for anyone who's just

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<v Speaker 1>tuning in, can you explain it? So I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>begin by saying that I am an internal oftenness, So

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<v Speaker 1>you may read in the paper certain things that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna say exactly why I haven't given up on on

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<v Speaker 1>build that Better, but but on specifically the sort of

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<v Speaker 1>investment in the care economy that we need. And it

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<v Speaker 1>includes in historic investment in childcare so that workers can

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<v Speaker 1>actually make more and families can pay less with would

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<v Speaker 1>it also increase the supply of childcare. Unfortunately in the pandemic,

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<v Speaker 1>we lost a lot of child care workers and they

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<v Speaker 1>have some of them gotten jobs doing other things that

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<v Speaker 1>pay more, So we have a math problem. Similarly, the

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<v Speaker 1>bill would have a historic investment in home care services

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<v Speaker 1>for those who are elderly and with disabilities, a population

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<v Speaker 1>that is growing because of the pandemic. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's one of these things where we can't just ignore

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<v Speaker 1>a growing population that needs home care. But we kind

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<v Speaker 1>of have been delaying and delaying addressing this. And it

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<v Speaker 1>also included an investment in in paid lead in allowing

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<v Speaker 1>for a federal paid lead program. It does other things

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<v Speaker 1>that has investments in housing, has um investingments in climate

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<v Speaker 1>and a number of organizations around the country have been

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<v Speaker 1>fighting for this, have been fighting for us to actually

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<v Speaker 1>do the work of not just recover in terms of

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<v Speaker 1>our economy, but invest in the future and and and

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<v Speaker 1>put care at the center of it. Like that how

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<v Speaker 1>transformative to to do that? UM, And so where are

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<v Speaker 1>we on February pretty pretty too. And in any day,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, there's always some sort of political have take

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<v Speaker 1>that's trying to guess where we are. And the truth

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<v Speaker 1>is people still want this investment. If you ask and

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<v Speaker 1>pull on the issue, people say, yes, I need you

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<v Speaker 1>to invest in child care now actually and maybe yesterday,

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<v Speaker 1>Yes I need you to to actually do something to

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<v Speaker 1>make sure home care workers get a worrage. There. They

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<v Speaker 1>are talking about this in a very serious way, and

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<v Speaker 1>negotiations are still happening. I'm not sure in the end

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<v Speaker 1>what will look like. I mean, some of this is

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<v Speaker 1>the business of doing business on in in DC, on

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<v Speaker 1>Capitol Hill. And you know, I don't think people need

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<v Speaker 1>to be invested in the sausage making. They need to

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<v Speaker 1>be invested in actually getting something done. I think most

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<v Speaker 1>people in this country kind of don't care what the

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<v Speaker 1>bill is called. They don't care if one member of

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<v Speaker 1>Congress is mad or another, or you know, how they

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<v Speaker 1>get it done. They just want them to get it done.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think consistently hearing that message from people will matter.

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<v Speaker 1>You posted a statement on the National Women's los Center

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<v Speaker 1>page which everyone listening. If you have not done deep

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<v Speaker 1>dives down this page and and just really looked into

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<v Speaker 1>the National Women's Law Center website. It's so valuable. I

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<v Speaker 1>read that the Build Back Better Act is also our

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<v Speaker 1>last best hope to prevent the collapse of our child

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<v Speaker 1>care system and sure millions more women are not pushed

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<v Speaker 1>out of the labor force, prevent increased health inequity, and

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<v Speaker 1>stop the descent of millions of children into poverty with

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<v Speaker 1>the pending lapse of the child tax credit. Why is

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<v Speaker 1>America so far behind? Why? Well, so we tend to

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<v Speaker 1>focus on the thing, right, and I'm so dramatic, right,

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<v Speaker 1>but I actually think we should be like, how did

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<v Speaker 1>we get here? What we're rethinking? So, Built Back Better,

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<v Speaker 1>I think is the bill we always should have had. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>This sort of investment in childcare is the investment we

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<v Speaker 1>always should have had because of the child tax Credit.

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<v Speaker 1>Even during a pandemic and a reception we may which

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<v Speaker 1>did not have people falling more into deep poverty. And

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<v Speaker 1>that was an on purpose policy solution. We made a

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<v Speaker 1>choice that we were going to have fewer people going

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<v Speaker 1>into deep heart poverty in a recession. Well done, well done,

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<v Speaker 1>good job, good job. What can we learn from that

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<v Speaker 1>that it makes a difference in a recession for people

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<v Speaker 1>to have income. I sort of feel like those are

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<v Speaker 1>basic lessons, but there's always the worry that we won't

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<v Speaker 1>hold on to them. And the lesson I worried people

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<v Speaker 1>will forget is what has happened in these last two

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<v Speaker 1>years with women leaving the workforce. There are a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of anecdotal stories that people know, so they're surprised and

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<v Speaker 1>not surprised to know that over two million women left

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<v Speaker 1>during the pandemic. And there were periods where there were

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<v Speaker 1>spikes that surprised no mother anywhere, right back to school

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<v Speaker 1>spike every year, a macron when you saw people getting

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<v Speaker 1>sick and meaning to take un hate leave. That didn't

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<v Speaker 1>really surprise anyone who was looking around and thinking about

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<v Speaker 1>what that looks like in practice. And so I actually

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<v Speaker 1>think the opportunity to deliver not just for the folks

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<v Speaker 1>who suffered so much in this period, but to learn

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<v Speaker 1>the lesson and invests differently for the future who decided

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<v Speaker 1>on the three months. I have very few friends who

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<v Speaker 1>work at amazing companies that provide I'm not kidding you,

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<v Speaker 1>one year paid maternity leave MHM. When they tell people

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<v Speaker 1>in the room that they're getting that people are shocked

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<v Speaker 1>and um so jealous and it's such a blessing. I

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<v Speaker 1>see why it works. I mean caretakers, they get time

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<v Speaker 1>with the baby. If they have they're having trouble adjusting

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<v Speaker 1>anything like that, they are okay, and when they come

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<v Speaker 1>back it's unreal. I mean they're like in such a

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<v Speaker 1>good place. There are other countries that this is normal.

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<v Speaker 1>Why is it not here? So we actually just marked

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<v Speaker 1>I think that twenty nine anniversary of the Family Medical

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<v Speaker 1>Leave Act, which was historic at the time, to provide

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<v Speaker 1>job protection. You know, that's what that bill was. It

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't saying you were getting paid. It just meant you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't lose your job for taking twelve weeks of paid

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<v Speaker 1>lead of unpaid lead in most cases. Yeah, just saying

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to go have a baby, Can I please

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<v Speaker 1>have my job when I come back. Well, that was

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<v Speaker 1>controversial at the time, and unfortunately not everyone has that

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<v Speaker 1>job protection now, especially for people who are making low

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<v Speaker 1>wages and for workers who are part time. And so

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<v Speaker 1>I totally agree with you that right now, our system

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<v Speaker 1>is not set up to support young parents. It's also

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<v Speaker 1>not set up to have people have what they need

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<v Speaker 1>either to recover for themselves. Or to ensure that their

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<v Speaker 1>borns are cared for. It's really hard to get early

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<v Speaker 1>newborn care. Yet most people who have paid leave, that

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<v Speaker 1>paid leave ends well before you can actually have access

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<v Speaker 1>to care. So if you have four weeks of paid leave,

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<v Speaker 1>which is considered a lot in in many places, it's

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<v Speaker 1>hard to find care for a four week old. Most

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<v Speaker 1>centers don't take a four or six weeks old. Those

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<v Speaker 1>are tiny, tiny babies. So we are not set up.

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<v Speaker 1>And what ends up happening is this invisible care that

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<v Speaker 1>nobody talks about. We don't name the invisible cost that

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<v Speaker 1>is mostly born by women in this country. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>sort of not talked about, not name until now. I

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<v Speaker 1>do think the pandemic people are starting to name the

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<v Speaker 1>cost of care, that there is a cost that we're

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<v Speaker 1>just not yet. Begs what can listeners and myself do? Dadly,

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<v Speaker 1>we're also spending our time and energy fighting reproductive rights

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<v Speaker 1>and things that are feeling like they're going backwards, and

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<v Speaker 1>that why are we doing this again? Some days I

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<v Speaker 1>just I don't even know where to put my energy

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<v Speaker 1>because it's all a mess. Wow, I'm really a downer today.

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<v Speaker 1>Good thing up with you, Fatima, because you are an optimist,

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<v Speaker 1>who am I usually? So? Well, I'm going to give

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<v Speaker 1>you something that maybe we'll feel slightly optimist. All right.

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<v Speaker 1>So this sort of idea that people who are experiencing

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<v Speaker 1>the hardest of all of it are the ones that

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<v Speaker 1>actually have to engage the most is hard because people

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<v Speaker 1>are like, no, I'm tired, I don't what what are

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<v Speaker 1>you talking about? And it is precisely the time to

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<v Speaker 1>put your energy into something else. It's precisely the time

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<v Speaker 1>to join together with others who are also experiencing that

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<v Speaker 1>same thing. That is how your voice is heard. And

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<v Speaker 1>so we have a chance to do that yes on

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<v Speaker 1>the issues of care, to keep them front and center,

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<v Speaker 1>to let people know that we actually we care about it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's precisely the time to do it with a hat on,

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<v Speaker 1>to remind people that you know, we vote, and that

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<v Speaker 1>these are the things that I would think about when

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<v Speaker 1>I go to vote. People need to hear that. And

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<v Speaker 1>I would argue that these issues aren't disconnected from the

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<v Speaker 1>assault on reproductive healthcare and on abortion in particular, They

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<v Speaker 1>actually are deeply connected. In many states, it's this sort

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<v Speaker 1>of same state that is doing things like not wanting

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<v Speaker 1>to take the child care money, not having a paid leave,

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<v Speaker 1>conversation that same state is rolling back reproductive healthcare. There's

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<v Speaker 1>an opportunity to join together and fight for a different future.

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<v Speaker 1>And the strategy of sort of making people feel powerless

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<v Speaker 1>is how nothing gets done. We are super powerful, that's

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<v Speaker 1>so right. Yes, I do feel fired up. I'm pissed

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<v Speaker 1>and powerful and powerful. You know what's weird is that

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<v Speaker 1>I sometimes feel people don't even know where to get

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<v Speaker 1>the information. My most privileged friends, I'm like, oh, I

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<v Speaker 1>think there's like something in the state of California that

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<v Speaker 1>you can look into to get money for your maturity leave,

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<v Speaker 1>And literally they're like, wait, what I can I'm like, yet,

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<v Speaker 1>how do we better help our friends to know that

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<v Speaker 1>their state might have something available to them for a

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<v Speaker 1>paid family leave or you know, something like that. So,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're looking for information to know about what your

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<v Speaker 1>rights are and whether you have options, a good place

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<v Speaker 1>to start is the Department of Labor, either in your

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<v Speaker 1>state or the U. S Department of Labor. But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>they're one page explainers that usually break it down. I

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<v Speaker 1>also want to give a little shout out to one

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<v Speaker 1>of the things we do at the Law Centers We

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<v Speaker 1>run a legal network and people give consultations to folks

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<v Speaker 1>who are trying to figure out, wait, can I access

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<v Speaker 1>this leave program? What are my rights? And where's stand

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<v Speaker 1>ready to give consultations. And there are lots of organizations

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<v Speaker 1>in who work locally in states who give information to

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<v Speaker 1>So I want to make sure people know about that.

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<v Speaker 1>So you should never be in a situation where the

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<v Speaker 1>question is I don't know my rights. There are lots

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<v Speaker 1>of ways to get that. What other specific laws or

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<v Speaker 1>rights should we be fighting for or learn more about?

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<v Speaker 1>All Right? I know people say nothing happens in Washington.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a bill that I really feel like it can

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<v Speaker 1>happen in Washington, and it is called the Pregnant Workers

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<v Speaker 1>Fairness Act. Tell us more, tell us more. It is

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<v Speaker 1>a bill that requires employers to provide accommodations if pregnant

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<v Speaker 1>workers need them on the job. And those might look

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<v Speaker 1>like different things, right for some folks, that might mean

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<v Speaker 1>you need extra ppe, or you need a stool because

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<v Speaker 1>you sit at a cash register and it's uncomfortable, or

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<v Speaker 1>you need to be able to go to the bathroom

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<v Speaker 1>and you need to go to the bathroom, which I

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<v Speaker 1>shouldn't have to say that if you've ever been pregnant,

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<v Speaker 1>you pee all the time, all the time. I couldn't imagine,

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<v Speaker 1>like that wouldn't be an option, like, oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not allowed. You know, I worked in effect somewhere

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<v Speaker 1>where I'm only allowed one pea break every four hours.

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<v Speaker 1>I would be screwed, exactly, And unfortunately some workers are.

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<v Speaker 1>And so this is one of those things that who's

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<v Speaker 1>on the other side of the Pregnant Workers Fairness Act?

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<v Speaker 1>I still am not quite sure. And it passed the

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<v Speaker 1>House of Representatives with over three hundred votes. That is

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<v Speaker 1>not how things typically happen in the House, and is

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<v Speaker 1>super close in the Senate. This is an example of

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<v Speaker 1>a thing that should just happen right now for pregnant workers.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just essentially making that while you're working, you're working

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<v Speaker 1>under better circumstances whilst pregnant. That is right. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>for for some folks, they might say, well, already, boss

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<v Speaker 1>is pretty good to me. I never had a problem

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<v Speaker 1>while working while I was pregnant. But unfortunately sometimes people

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<v Speaker 1>get are not so good boss, or they work in

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<v Speaker 1>a job that requires them to be on their feet

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<v Speaker 1>all day. You know, we hear from a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>teachers who are like, it's not going to work this way,

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<v Speaker 1>I have to do it another way. Or during COVID

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<v Speaker 1>it was coming up a lot where people needed remote access,

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes because their doctors told them not to be in

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<v Speaker 1>particular types of settings. It shouldn't require you to look

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<v Speaker 1>into a good boss who hears your accommodation needs in

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<v Speaker 1>order to be safe. In order to be safe, and

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<v Speaker 1>you shouldn't have to choose between having a healthy pregnancy

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<v Speaker 1>and having a job. Again, I just feel like people

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what their rights are. I don't know why,

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<v Speaker 1>but I I hear this a lot well. And part

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<v Speaker 1>of the challenge is that every state has a different

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<v Speaker 1>set of laws. And that is because we don't have

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<v Speaker 1>a national paid leave program where it's like, well know

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<v Speaker 1>the answer is x six days and X number of

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<v Speaker 1>days for parental leave. We don't have that. So every

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<v Speaker 1>state is different. Sometimes cities have rules that are different,

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<v Speaker 1>and so you do have to make sure that you're

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<v Speaker 1>matching your options with where you actually live. But that's

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<v Speaker 1>why I offered the there's the legal network for gender equity.

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<v Speaker 1>If people need tailored information or or believe they have

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<v Speaker 1>leave but they're not able to access it. There's also

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<v Speaker 1>really wonderful organizations where loking around the country, groups like

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<v Speaker 1>a Better Balance, the National Partnership for Women and Families,

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<v Speaker 1>the Paid Leave for All Campaign, who are trying to

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<v Speaker 1>both pass stronger national measures but also are doing a

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<v Speaker 1>good job educating people around what their rights are. What

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<v Speaker 1>are your goals for the next six months? So my

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<v Speaker 1>goals broadly at the Law Center. When I think about

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<v Speaker 1>the next six months, um at the on the other

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<v Speaker 1>side of the next six months, a couple of things

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<v Speaker 1>will have happened. Yes I need that too because I

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<v Speaker 1>was like six months one year. But yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's fair, it's fair. I really do hope we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to get a big investment in care. It is a

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<v Speaker 1>big priority for us. We have not given up and

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<v Speaker 1>we're fighting for it. I also think we will have

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<v Speaker 1>confirmed and exceptionally qualified historic first black women to the

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<v Speaker 1>Supreme Court. And you see me dancing in the street

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<v Speaker 1>as someone is I mean, as someone who has practiced,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, law for a couple of decades. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know that I would have thought in my legal career

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<v Speaker 1>that I would have seen it. And I think about

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<v Speaker 1>when I was in law school you know, I had

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<v Speaker 1>no black women professors when I was in law school. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>I think about the ten years where we saw no

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<v Speaker 1>black women confirmed to the Courts of Appeals, and the

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<v Speaker 1>idea that there are so many black women who are

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<v Speaker 1>being considered they could fill up a couple of Supreme courts. Ah,

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<v Speaker 1>that would be amazing. So that is a goal, the

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<v Speaker 1>big one. What would be something achievable that we could

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<v Speaker 1>all very much help with in the next couple of years.

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<v Speaker 1>So when I think about the next couple of years,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, we've got to get through this election

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<v Speaker 1>this fall, I hope people in this election will tell

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<v Speaker 1>the story and fight for care. I hope that's going

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<v Speaker 1>to be on the agenda. Leading on the agenda we're

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<v Speaker 1>about to enter. I believe a new period on access

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<v Speaker 1>to reproductive healthcare, and it's going to require people who

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<v Speaker 1>may or may not have engaged very much on the

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<v Speaker 1>issue to show up for people. And so I actually

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<v Speaker 1>hope that's what we see. I hope we see people

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<v Speaker 1>showing up, even if they're in a state we're all

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<v Speaker 1>options are on the table, that they're showing up for

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<v Speaker 1>everyone else. And that's going to be a new period

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<v Speaker 1>for us as a country, and I actually do believe

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<v Speaker 1>over the next couple of years we will shift totally

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<v Speaker 1>how we think about these types of care investments. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think we're going back to the notion that it's

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<v Speaker 1>every family for themselves and good luck. I think if

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't happen this year, there will be a stronger

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<v Speaker 1>political force that emerges of mostly mamas, together with care workers,

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<v Speaker 1>together with those who need elder care, saying we are

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<v Speaker 1>all stronger together and we're demanding more, and so I

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<v Speaker 1>hope people will join that. I hope they will not

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<v Speaker 1>forget this period, and we'll join that, whether it is

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<v Speaker 1>fighting for something at the national level or for deeper

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<v Speaker 1>investments in their own communities. I feel so inspired by that.

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<v Speaker 1>How old are your children? Minor ten and thirteen? Oh? Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>that's so exciting. Do they think you have the coolest job?

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<v Speaker 1>Did they get it? Or they just like mom? It's

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<v Speaker 1>much more, you know, I have teens and tweens, so

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<v Speaker 1>I'm much more in the mom phase pretty much all

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<v Speaker 1>the time. Wow. And did you go back to work

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<v Speaker 1>right away when they were little? You know, I took

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<v Speaker 1>long leaves. I took four months the first time, which

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<v Speaker 1>is longer than the three and then the second time

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<v Speaker 1>I took around five months, and then I did some

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<v Speaker 1>intermittent and I will say I came back from my

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<v Speaker 1>first leave tired, exhausted, and was promoted to a vice

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<v Speaker 1>president within a few months. And I will tell you again,

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to name that that was at the time,

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<v Speaker 1>the National Women's lost in er investing in me and

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<v Speaker 1>investing me, not just sort of saying you've been gone

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<v Speaker 1>for quite a while, so I don't know what you're

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<v Speaker 1>capable of. Yeah, sure, um, And and that mattered. It

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<v Speaker 1>made me loyal, It made me appreciative of the time

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<v Speaker 1>and space, And so I think about that. People need

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<v Speaker 1>different things at different points in their career. There are

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<v Speaker 1>times when our caregiving obligations are deep and serious, and

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<v Speaker 1>what I hope is that employers wouldn't meet them. They

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't meet their employees where they are. When it doesn't happen,

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<v Speaker 1>that is when we know we have to set a floor.

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<v Speaker 1>We have to set a floor for the employees who

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<v Speaker 1>are not going to show up, so at the very

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<v Speaker 1>least they do things, and then if they want to

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<v Speaker 1>retain their staff, they'll do more. I feel the same.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel so grateful sitting here. I mean, obviously what

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<v Speaker 1>I do is in no way shape a comparison, but

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<v Speaker 1>I do have to say that, you know, being an actor,

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<v Speaker 1>you'd always heard like you better not get pregnant because

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<v Speaker 1>no one's gonna hire you. And you know you don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to be you know, you're in big trouble if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't book a job, you know, before three months,

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<v Speaker 1>and then everyone's showing you're never gonna work. And also

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<v Speaker 1>you're not sexy anymore and you're not this or that

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever. And Miss Shonda Rhymes, who produces this podcast,

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<v Speaker 1>sat me down and said, do you want to have

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<v Speaker 1>a family. You know, this was years ago, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I do, and she was like, well, you

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<v Speaker 1>should definitely do it on my watch because I know

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<v Speaker 1>how to do it and I take care of my ladies.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's like famously known in Hollywood how any actress

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<v Speaker 1>who wants to be a mom is praying to get

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<v Speaker 1>on a shot show because she will take care of you.

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<v Speaker 1>She just goes above and beyond. You know, I was

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<v Speaker 1>back pump being in my trailer every three hours on

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<v Speaker 1>the dot. When I went back to work. At no

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<v Speaker 1>point was it an inconvenience or I was thought less

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<v Speaker 1>than I have an employee who was terrified to tell

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<v Speaker 1>me she was pregnant, and I was like, yes, you

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<v Speaker 1>have all the time off your need. I'm paying you

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<v Speaker 1>the whole time, you know, I mean, but but we

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<v Speaker 1>have to pay it forward. I feel so lucky to

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<v Speaker 1>have been treated that way through both of my pregnancies.

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<v Speaker 1>I was able to celebrate my pregnancies and coming back

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<v Speaker 1>to work because I was supported that I was then

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<v Speaker 1>able to do such a better job at my job,

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<v Speaker 1>and I never felt terrified to leave my baby. I

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<v Speaker 1>felt like I could do it, you know, because I

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<v Speaker 1>was supported in the workforce and my and at my

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<v Speaker 1>home life. You know, that's it. But that's investing in

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<v Speaker 1>your people, right. It's not actually rocket science, but it

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<v Speaker 1>also is too rare. And the reason people are terrified,

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<v Speaker 1>they're terrified for a good reason because with the wrong boss,

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<v Speaker 1>they might be fired or retaliate against. I mean, pregnancy

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<v Speaker 1>is actually a time retaliation is super super high, where

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<v Speaker 1>people it just so happened to lose their to lose

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<v Speaker 1>their jobs just when they need their income. And so

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<v Speaker 1>I actually think because if you know, the more we

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<v Speaker 1>tell the stories of what's possible. You know, if Shonda

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<v Speaker 1>Rhimes could tell the story of what it looks like

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<v Speaker 1>to create conditions where people can have families and thrive,

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<v Speaker 1>then it won't be a unicorn. Right. We wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>be the standard, and I can try to build that

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<v Speaker 1>standard through legislation and through lawsuits. That's one way. Also,

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<v Speaker 1>employers don't have to wait until they are forced to.

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<v Speaker 1>If they want right, and you were more loyal, your

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<v Speaker 1>staff is more likely to stay, they return, They're more productive,

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<v Speaker 1>they are healthier, they're all the benefits that that are

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<v Speaker 1>tied to actually investing in in their care means. That's

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<v Speaker 1>it we need to invest. I mean, and it's just

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<v Speaker 1>a microcosm for how how great it is all around

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<v Speaker 1>and how it could and possibly be in this optimist

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<v Speaker 1>utopian that you see hopefully for us someday. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think it's going to be that far away. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't even tell you how many friends that I

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<v Speaker 1>had that were pregnant were so relieved that things were

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<v Speaker 1>on zoom because they were like, oh, I can put

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<v Speaker 1>myself up for that promotion because they won't know I'm

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<v Speaker 1>pregnant till week thirty and they won't pass over me

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, are we really still doing this? This

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<v Speaker 1>is a mayor. Yeah. I am so grateful for everything

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<v Speaker 1>that you are doing and for the National Women's Law Center. Again,

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<v Speaker 1>everyone listening, please look at the site. Forwarded onto any

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<v Speaker 1>friends you know who don't know what their rights are,

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<v Speaker 1>how they can get access two things that they should

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<v Speaker 1>be getting access to. And then also, guys, get involved. Vote.

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<v Speaker 1>These are the times we are on the brink, no question.

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<v Speaker 1>I am so glad to be with you, and if

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<v Speaker 1>I could just echo the call to action to both

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<v Speaker 1>go to our site, please do but also vote. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean it matters. Fatima, thank you so much, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for letting us be the last stop of your very busy,

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<v Speaker 1>important day. And to all of our listeners again, but

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<v Speaker 1>visit the site. We will put links to it, and um,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you again for fighting the fight. So very glad

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<v Speaker 1>to be here, so very glad. Oh wow, you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you so much for listening to today's episode. I

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<v Speaker 1>have to admit I started it off a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>bummed and like, oh man, we are screwed, and I

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<v Speaker 1>feel so much better. I mean, Teama Goss Graves just

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<v Speaker 1>inspired the hell out of me and I think we're

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<v Speaker 1>all on the brink of change and really helping out

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<v Speaker 1>our mamas and our pregnant women out there. What'd you

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<v Speaker 1>guys think of the episode? I want to hear from you.

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