WEBVTT - You've Got Decisions: Everything I Didn't Want 0:00:01.680 --> 0:00:04.320 If you would like to have us answer your questions. 0:00:04.559 --> 0:00:07.320 If you have a terrible job, a terrible boyfriend, friend, 0:00:07.840 --> 0:00:10.400 or a terrible throatfle guess what. 0:00:11.320 --> 0:00:15.560 You've got decisions? All right, y'all, it's another hunk day. 0:00:15.680 --> 0:00:17.160 You've got this decision. 0:00:18.560 --> 0:00:21.160 Why are y'all so happy we have this now? I 0:00:21.160 --> 0:00:23.840 mean yeah, I mean we really missing some homemail. We 0:00:23.880 --> 0:00:27.160 was missing a lot of homemail. Go to Hey, y'all, 0:00:27.200 --> 0:00:27.880 if you want. 0:00:27.680 --> 0:00:32.960 To hear us read your homemail here on our Wednesday drop. 0:00:33.240 --> 0:00:36.400 Make sure you email us at Decisions Pod at gmail 0:00:36.440 --> 0:00:40.920 dot com. 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Okay, 0:01:12.959 --> 0:01:15.000 I just don't want anyone to hear that. 0:01:15.080 --> 0:01:18.880 And then all right, y'all swallowing kids, we can't talk 0:01:18.920 --> 0:01:25.640 about So the topic for today is everything I didn't want. 0:01:26.200 --> 0:01:28.880 But you you know it's crazy. It's not even what 0:01:28.920 --> 0:01:31.040 you think. This is more of a life thing and 0:01:31.360 --> 0:01:31.919 more it's. 0:01:31.760 --> 0:01:34.440 More of I'm sorry, decision decisions, decision decisions decisions. 0:01:34.480 --> 0:01:36.200 This is not Patreon. 0:01:36.480 --> 0:01:38.440 Well, and that's the thing I do before I read 0:01:38.440 --> 0:01:41.600 this letter. Your home mail can be. 0:01:41.720 --> 0:01:42.760 Anything under the sun. 0:01:42.880 --> 0:01:44.959 So if you want to send us anything relating to 0:01:45.200 --> 0:01:49.240 your career, dating, your mental health, all the things, Weezie 0:01:49.240 --> 0:01:52.560 and I will have some advice and do not take 0:01:52.560 --> 0:01:54.840 it as Bible, because, bitch. 0:01:54.640 --> 0:01:56.520 We are just two girls. We're just a girl. I'm 0:01:56.520 --> 0:01:58.640 gonna tell you mine will always be bad, all right, 0:01:58.680 --> 0:02:01.680 So everything I didn't want? Hey, Mandy and Weezy. I 0:02:01.880 --> 0:02:05.600 just recently turned thirty and I currently hate my life. 0:02:06.040 --> 0:02:08.400 I hate my job, I hate where I live. I 0:02:08.440 --> 0:02:11.880 hate that I struggle so much financially and socially. I've 0:02:11.880 --> 0:02:14.640 been celibate for almost a year because I haven't been 0:02:14.680 --> 0:02:18.160 comfortable with people. I've also just recently started therapy too. 0:02:18.560 --> 0:02:20.880 But besides that, all I want to do for my 0:02:20.919 --> 0:02:24.200 birthday was go shopping and take myself out to dinner. 0:02:24.680 --> 0:02:27.320 I've already told my family and friends that I don't 0:02:27.320 --> 0:02:29.679 want to party and don't want to be at anyone's 0:02:29.680 --> 0:02:31.799 house just shopping in a nice dinner out. 0:02:32.400 --> 0:02:35.119 Well, my family once again ruined my one day. 0:02:35.120 --> 0:02:37.360 By throwing me a birthday party at their house and 0:02:37.440 --> 0:02:40.840 inviting all of my friends and family there. Everything I 0:02:40.919 --> 0:02:44.320 didn't want. This has been going on for years that 0:02:44.400 --> 0:02:47.680 I never do what I want for my birthday because 0:02:47.720 --> 0:02:49.640 no one ever listens to me when I say what 0:02:49.760 --> 0:02:55.320 I want. Oh, then they tell me, I know this 0:02:55.400 --> 0:02:57.519 is not what you wanted, but I hope you like it. 0:02:58.040 --> 0:03:01.440 I don't want to seem ungrateful, but shit, I just 0:03:01.480 --> 0:03:04.079 turned fucking thirty and I've had one of my worst 0:03:04.120 --> 0:03:06.680 years of my life. Should I get over it and 0:03:06.800 --> 0:03:10.360 just appreciate that they did something, or should I start 0:03:10.360 --> 0:03:13.040 this next chapter in my life separating myself from my 0:03:13.120 --> 0:03:16.200 family until they start listening to me. Thank you in 0:03:16.280 --> 0:03:18.760 advance from Lena. 0:03:19.280 --> 0:03:23.919 You go first. I mean, if you guys just heard the. 0:03:23.919 --> 0:03:28.359 Jack Queeze episode and also if you guys heard two 0:03:28.440 --> 0:03:30.959 years ago, I dealt with this with my ex. 0:03:32.040 --> 0:03:34.639 Luckily my friends listen. 0:03:35.320 --> 0:03:39.320 I will say, my friends are very in tune with 0:03:39.520 --> 0:03:41.760 knowing exactly what I want, but maybe because they know 0:03:41.880 --> 0:03:42.920 that I'm that person. 0:03:43.280 --> 0:03:44.040 I won't tell you. 0:03:44.520 --> 0:03:47.840 I'm just I think I over communicate when I want things. 0:03:48.040 --> 0:03:50.280 So the year that I said all I wanted was 0:03:50.280 --> 0:03:53.680 a spa Erica and Mila bought me a two hundred 0:03:53.680 --> 0:03:55.480 dollars fucking Sojo spa certificate. 0:03:56.520 --> 0:03:57.360 That's all I wanted. 0:03:57.960 --> 0:03:59.640 My nigga didn't listen to me at the time, but 0:03:59.680 --> 0:04:01.200 my friend they were like, bitch, all you said you 0:04:01.200 --> 0:04:03.000 want it was a spot so here goes to spots certificate. 0:04:03.080 --> 0:04:03.800 My friends listened. 0:04:04.160 --> 0:04:08.880 Now again, when it comes to vocalizing the things that 0:04:08.920 --> 0:04:12.960 you want, we can also put this into family, friendship's relationships. 0:04:12.960 --> 0:04:14.680 I do think they all show up are supposed to 0:04:14.680 --> 0:04:17.920 show up differently. Your family throwing it. I'll be honest 0:04:17.920 --> 0:04:20.200 with you, girl, I don't know what type of family 0:04:20.240 --> 0:04:24.000 you have, but birthdays for Meat growing up were never 0:04:24.040 --> 0:04:26.279 about the birthday. They were about the family coming together 0:04:26.360 --> 0:04:29.599 to play spades and do barbecue. Yeah, I gotta say 0:04:29.600 --> 0:04:32.400 when she mentioned the family, family, like Mitch, the family 0:04:32.480 --> 0:04:34.200 kind of just wants an excuse. 0:04:33.839 --> 0:04:36.120 To all comeagh. That's how you help my Christmas rent. 0:04:36.160 --> 0:04:38.159 Right. So Mamy and I are going to Asia for 0:04:38.240 --> 0:04:40.960 the month of February, and my mom based her gifts 0:04:40.960 --> 0:04:42.440 off of that, which is very sweet. 0:04:42.520 --> 0:04:45.360 Okay. She got us matching pajamas and he's like, oh cute. 0:04:45.360 --> 0:04:48.839 He only wears black, by the way, and it's his uniform, 0:04:48.880 --> 0:04:52.440 always wearing black. So my mom gets him this like 0:04:52.600 --> 0:04:55.080 robe or something and it's blue, and she goes, I. 0:04:55.000 --> 0:04:57.159 Just wanted to switch it up, and he's like, no, no, no, 0:04:57.279 --> 0:04:58.720 thank you. I love it, and I was. 0:04:58.880 --> 0:05:02.800 I was looking at me and then she got this 0:05:03.000 --> 0:05:07.160 like toiletryes bad for him, which was ugly. Sorry Mom, 0:05:07.520 --> 0:05:11.280 but you know he's smiling, he's accepting it and we're 0:05:11.360 --> 0:05:11.880 laughing about it. 0:05:11.920 --> 0:05:13.000 What we got home. I'm like, what do you want 0:05:13.040 --> 0:05:13.440 me to do with it? 0:05:13.520 --> 0:05:17.279 He's like, uh, you know, it's family regifted. 0:05:17.520 --> 0:05:21.680 Now for me, what was I supposed to do? Say? 0:05:21.800 --> 0:05:25.840 Mom, I told you only get this, do this, do that. 0:05:26.080 --> 0:05:29.040 I think sometimes when you get a little too much. 0:05:29.400 --> 0:05:31.640 This is what I said when it comes to family 0:05:31.680 --> 0:05:34.039 that are just doing a gesture, you're doing too much 0:05:34.360 --> 0:05:39.159 secondary to that, we are adults. How does she she said, thirty, Okay, 0:05:39.680 --> 0:05:42.040 you're an adult. You were an adult to me at 0:05:42.040 --> 0:05:44.039 twenty one. I think eighteen year olds are still kids 0:05:44.400 --> 0:05:46.960 at thirty years old. Do you really have time to 0:05:47.000 --> 0:05:49.680 complain about what your friends are doing for you? 0:05:49.800 --> 0:05:52.479 Number one, we're all pretty much broke. Number two. 0:05:53.680 --> 0:05:56.880 Friends are doing the best they can, and sometimes people 0:05:56.920 --> 0:05:59.279 are just celebrating you in the way that is easiest 0:05:59.279 --> 0:06:02.320 for them. I actually think the only people to hold 0:06:02.640 --> 0:06:06.520 super super accountable are partners, and the reason is because them. 0:06:06.520 --> 0:06:10.120 The niggasaid, oh you shit. I think women and men fellas. 0:06:10.440 --> 0:06:12.599 If your girl is listening to what you want and 0:06:12.640 --> 0:06:14.680 paying attention, and you're asking for what you want and 0:06:14.720 --> 0:06:16.880 she does something else, and this is a person you're 0:06:16.920 --> 0:06:18.599 in like day in and day out with, like, I 0:06:18.600 --> 0:06:20.680 think that's kind of wrong. When it comes to family 0:06:20.720 --> 0:06:22.680 and friends, it's like, eh, and. 0:06:22.680 --> 0:06:25.440 You know why because we generally, oh most. 0:06:25.480 --> 0:06:28.560 Times, only have one partner, right, whereas we have a 0:06:28.600 --> 0:06:29.400 bunch of friends. 0:06:29.240 --> 0:06:31.479 It's a lot of birthdays to spend money on. Not 0:06:31.600 --> 0:06:35.680 until I like when I got a decent job. 0:06:35.720 --> 0:06:38.160 That's when I started sending stuff for birthdays and a 0:06:38.240 --> 0:06:41.800 lavo candle, flowers whatever. But even then, it's like, not 0:06:41.839 --> 0:06:44.040 every year or remember a friend's birthday to be sending 0:06:44.080 --> 0:06:46.680 tangible gifts so to be able to have a party, 0:06:46.720 --> 0:06:48.480 throne for you or even go to a bar or 0:06:48.520 --> 0:06:50.719 whatever it is, It's like, why not just enjoy the 0:06:50.839 --> 0:06:51.920 time you have with these people? 0:06:52.560 --> 0:06:54.760 I mean, to me, I think it is when you're 0:06:55.080 --> 0:06:57.839 but we also know what depression looks like, and being 0:06:57.880 --> 0:07:01.280 around people is tough when you're depressed. She hates everything 0:07:01.320 --> 0:07:04.479 right now, so awesome being around family. Family is the 0:07:04.520 --> 0:07:07.360 ones that ask them inappropriate questions when you're having a baby, 0:07:07.360 --> 0:07:08.120 when you're gonna get. 0:07:08.000 --> 0:07:10.080 A nick But what's going on side of that, Mandy 0:07:10.800 --> 0:07:13.480 being depressed and someone trying to spend time with you 0:07:13.720 --> 0:07:15.640 and friends gathering together, they can help? 0:07:15.720 --> 0:07:18.680 It can it can help? I mean it, it could 0:07:18.680 --> 0:07:19.480 be fifty to fifty. 0:07:19.760 --> 0:07:22.360 It can be fifty fifty, especially when you're feeling like 0:07:22.400 --> 0:07:25.200 you're getting nothing that you want in life. 0:07:25.440 --> 0:07:27.440 I will say though, like in terms. 0:07:27.160 --> 0:07:30.920 Of the family, birthday parties for me growing up were 0:07:31.280 --> 0:07:36.440 just a lot of spades games. The adults getting drunk, 0:07:36.720 --> 0:07:39.720 the kids being able to see each other. So I'm 0:07:39.760 --> 0:07:43.000 not sure what this party entailed for you and if 0:07:43.040 --> 0:07:45.560 it was like a whole cake offering and all that. 0:07:45.760 --> 0:07:49.480 But to me, I know, my aunties and uncles and. 0:07:49.480 --> 0:07:52.600 Cousins and everybody with me growing up love just to 0:07:52.640 --> 0:07:56.200 have a reason for everyone to come together. Because birthdays 0:07:56.240 --> 0:07:58.000 was when, Okay, we're gonna throw it on a Saturday. 0:07:58.160 --> 0:07:59.880 So even if your birthday on a Tuesday, we're doing 0:07:59.880 --> 0:08:01.960 it on Saturday. So everyone's all. 0:08:01.800 --> 0:08:05.240 Mine being able to have people arounder to celebrate. I 0:08:05.280 --> 0:08:07.160 have so many friends that have moved in the last 0:08:07.160 --> 0:08:09.200 few years of their life for jobs, and they're in 0:08:09.240 --> 0:08:10.960 cities where they don't have many friends. You just moved 0:08:10.960 --> 0:08:14.640 to Atlanta where you have so many, which is let's 0:08:14.640 --> 0:08:17.400 just say you moved here for your radio gig and 0:08:17.760 --> 0:08:18.560 it was just for that. 0:08:18.600 --> 0:08:20.800 Oh no, I'm not gonna lie. That's tough. 0:08:20.880 --> 0:08:24.680 Another another huge component of me moving here though, is 0:08:25.000 --> 0:08:27.840 because I do have friends battling health things here, and 0:08:27.880 --> 0:08:29.600 I was like, I just want to be closer to 0:08:29.600 --> 0:08:32.240 my friends. I think I'm it's crazy because as we 0:08:32.240 --> 0:08:33.960 get older. I was just talking to my friend about 0:08:33.960 --> 0:08:38.120 this too, She's dealing with a friend whose dad just passed, 0:08:38.320 --> 0:08:39.920 and she was like, damn, friend, we're getting to the 0:08:39.960 --> 0:08:42.839 age where we're about to start losing parents because bitch, 0:08:43.120 --> 0:08:45.760 a lot of my friends are forty or thirty eight, 0:08:45.800 --> 0:08:48.400 like they're older, so their parents are in their sixties seventies, 0:08:48.640 --> 0:08:51.000 and so I just really want to spend more time 0:08:51.040 --> 0:08:53.640 with my friends. And that's all I've been doing the 0:08:53.679 --> 0:08:56.640 first three weeks i've been here, and I just really 0:08:56.679 --> 0:08:57.760 know I miss that. 0:08:57.800 --> 0:09:01.480 Showing up for friends in this age is so important. 0:09:01.960 --> 0:09:05.640 And that's why for me again, like you know, hearing this, 0:09:05.800 --> 0:09:08.679 I totally understand because I've been depressed, girl like depressing 0:09:08.679 --> 0:09:11.960 and stressy, but community like really helps. So just to 0:09:12.080 --> 0:09:14.559 know that you even have that, you even have people 0:09:14.679 --> 0:09:16.880 thinking about doing things for you. You know, when I 0:09:16.920 --> 0:09:18.520 said I have friends that are moving, like, there's so 0:09:18.559 --> 0:09:20.560 many friends I have that are doing nothing. I think 0:09:20.559 --> 0:09:22.280 I was texting a Keen Woods on Christmas and he 0:09:22.360 --> 0:09:23.280 was like, girl, I don't know, I might go to 0:09:23.280 --> 0:09:25.520 the comedy seller and I'm like, damn, I feel so bad. 0:09:25.520 --> 0:09:26.920 I'm not in New York to hang out with my phone. 0:09:26.920 --> 0:09:28.640 I'm not gonna lie. I was mad I was here 0:09:28.679 --> 0:09:32.079 for Christmas Day. Why bitch, because the New York everything 0:09:32.120 --> 0:09:35.280 is open because we're all expats. Oh Atlanta was closed. 0:09:35.520 --> 0:09:36.960 I said, Wow, city's really close. 0:09:37.080 --> 0:09:38.760 Yeah, I'm met a comedy seller. Not let go in 0:09:38.800 --> 0:09:40.800 a cellar. Sorry, but there are a lot of people 0:09:40.800 --> 0:09:41.560 that just don't have that. 0:09:41.640 --> 0:09:43.720 So I think, just to hear somebody wanting to do 0:09:43.760 --> 0:09:45.360 something for you, I just have a lot of gratitude 0:09:45.400 --> 0:09:45.559 for that. 0:09:52.320 --> 0:09:55.080 My last bit of advice for this letter is, well, 0:09:55.720 --> 0:10:02.720 everything I didn't want I think writing out that you 0:10:02.760 --> 0:10:05.079 hate your life, you hate your job, you hate things 0:10:05.400 --> 0:10:08.079 that creates this, and I don't want to sound all 0:10:08.240 --> 0:10:12.040 like stars and Moonsie, but when you literally write that out, 0:10:12.120 --> 0:10:15.960 and when you say it that way, like it's you're 0:10:16.000 --> 0:10:19.520 literally digging yourself into a hole to continue the misery. 0:10:19.960 --> 0:10:23.960 And so speaking, just the light of you know, I 0:10:24.080 --> 0:10:26.440 like this about my job. Find something that you like 0:10:26.559 --> 0:10:29.680 about where you live. Maybe you like your bathroom, maybe 0:10:29.679 --> 0:10:31.800 you like the way even you can make it so small, 0:10:31.840 --> 0:10:33.960 like I really like the way the water comes out 0:10:34.000 --> 0:10:36.360 of my shower, like you can make things so simple, 0:10:36.880 --> 0:10:39.840 and and just being appreciative of the things that you do, 0:10:40.000 --> 0:10:42.440 like when you're in this like slump. 0:10:43.480 --> 0:10:45.280 And I was in and out of a lot of 0:10:45.280 --> 0:10:46.120 slumps last. 0:10:45.960 --> 0:10:49.839 Year, and through therapy, that's what we would talk about, 0:10:49.880 --> 0:10:53.640 like being comparing, like what I literally had to choose 0:10:53.679 --> 0:10:56.080 between whether I was gonna eat or have toilet paper. 0:10:56.559 --> 0:10:58.440 That wasn't what I was dealing with last year. 0:10:58.600 --> 0:11:00.600 I dealt with other things mentally that I had never 0:11:00.640 --> 0:11:02.319 dealt with before, like anxiety. 0:11:02.360 --> 0:11:03.040 Never thought I had it. 0:11:03.080 --> 0:11:06.160 So I was dealing with bouts of dealing with my anxiety, 0:11:06.240 --> 0:11:07.920 like I was like, damn, didn't know I had it, 0:11:08.640 --> 0:11:13.640 Stopping the drinking, coordinating my relationship to alcohol last year, 0:11:14.200 --> 0:11:17.480 dealing with all my friend's health, and I was in 0:11:17.480 --> 0:11:19.280 this slump. And when I got to therapy, she was 0:11:19.360 --> 0:11:22.360 just like, Bro, your bills are paid, You're able to 0:11:22.400 --> 0:11:25.400 still pay all of your employees. You're still like there 0:11:25.400 --> 0:11:27.240 were just so many things for me to be grateful 0:11:27.240 --> 0:11:29.760 for that in therapy I had to like lean into 0:11:29.760 --> 0:11:31.960 that to get out of my slump. And so I 0:11:32.000 --> 0:11:34.760 think that's what my full advice would be to her, 0:11:35.000 --> 0:11:36.920 not to look at what people do for you, but 0:11:36.960 --> 0:11:39.800 to literally just take notes of the small things that 0:11:39.880 --> 0:11:42.840 you actually do have appreciation for, because those things are 0:11:42.880 --> 0:11:43.800 going to get you out of this. 0:11:44.040 --> 0:11:46.680 I hate my life. M M. Mandy also has a 0:11:46.679 --> 0:11:49.040 crystal on her Oh don't do that this. I've been 0:11:49.120 --> 0:11:53.600 had this. Shout out to no, shout out to Cika's 0:11:53.600 --> 0:11:55.559 the Lamart Park. It's seeking blood. 0:11:57.040 --> 0:12:00.560 I've had this ring for I don't know, probably like 0:12:00.720 --> 0:12:01.600 five years now. 0:12:01.520 --> 0:12:04.600 So I guess you are turning into I really liked it. 0:12:04.640 --> 0:12:06.240 I just really liked it. It was unique, and I get 0:12:06.240 --> 0:12:08.240 a lot of compliments for it. Let's also be very 0:12:08.480 --> 0:12:12.559 adult here. I realize I'm able to keep things now 0:12:12.880 --> 0:12:15.080 because I buy them all the things my. 0:12:15.240 --> 0:12:15.719 Daddy got me. 0:12:15.880 --> 0:12:18.160 So I've been to Saint Croix when I was like, 0:12:19.400 --> 0:12:22.439 you mean yes. So when I was younger, I had 0:12:22.480 --> 0:12:25.360 the nameplate name plates in my ears. My dad bought 0:12:25.400 --> 0:12:27.680 me all this gold from Saint Croix. Lost it all, 0:12:28.920 --> 0:12:30.160 so I was like, damn, let me go buy it 0:12:30.160 --> 0:12:31.840 because now I know I'm gonna really keep it because 0:12:31.880 --> 0:12:34.800 I bought it. Growing up, I realized all of the 0:12:34.840 --> 0:12:36.559 expensive actual. 0:12:36.240 --> 0:12:39.400 Thing care of it, I lost it, so parents out. 0:12:39.640 --> 0:12:41.719 That's why I won't buy myself real gold ear. 0:12:41.760 --> 0:12:44.320 Oh no, I keep up with my hands, like my 0:12:44.440 --> 0:12:45.800 rings and my necklaces. 0:12:45.800 --> 0:12:47.920 Are always real for some reason. The earrings on. 0:12:48.120 --> 0:12:52.880 No earrings san yeah earring shean and sunglasses Like my 0:12:52.880 --> 0:12:56.200 friend brought me these really expensive fucking Berberry glasses. Bitch 0:12:56.400 --> 0:12:59.160 thought I lost them forever, which they were in my 0:12:59.200 --> 0:13:01.200 equipment spot because they were still in the boxes. 0:13:01.240 --> 0:13:03.040 I lie, I'm not taking it. 0:13:03.160 --> 0:13:05.560 After this Thailand trip. I think I'm gonna buy fake shit. 0:13:05.640 --> 0:13:09.320 And I'm gonna tell you why I have kept so 0:13:10.280 --> 0:13:13.720 like in my head. Oh, buying quality items, buying designer 0:13:13.800 --> 0:13:16.720 things like that is really good. It is good for 0:13:17.080 --> 0:13:21.160 certain things, for certain things. Quality outer wear, shoes, buy 0:13:21.200 --> 0:13:24.080 yourself a nice leather jacket and nice yess so a 0:13:24.120 --> 0:13:25.240 good pair of shoes. 0:13:25.320 --> 0:13:28.280 Bitch, I went thrifted for those in New York stories. 0:13:28.360 --> 0:13:30.400 But I mean that still is, you know, acquiring a 0:13:30.440 --> 0:13:34.080 nice piece, whether it's secondhand or not. I like having 0:13:34.280 --> 0:13:37.160 a good bag, and a good bag will last week. 0:13:37.160 --> 0:13:38.880 Don't do that because my friend already caught me out. Bitch, 0:13:38.880 --> 0:13:40.720 I love a fanny bag, so she said, I gotta 0:13:40.720 --> 0:13:41.280 grow up and get. 0:13:41.200 --> 0:13:41.560 A bad No. 0:13:41.640 --> 0:13:43.320 But like even that, if you have a fanny pack 0:13:43.400 --> 0:13:45.160 that can fucking last few years. Real leavens, like a 0:13:45.200 --> 0:13:48.400 lot of things are good when I go to tailand bitch, 0:13:48.760 --> 0:13:49.840 when I go to Thailand. 0:13:50.200 --> 0:13:52.199 I tell you now, I tell you now. 0:13:53.040 --> 0:13:56.319 Every pair of channel glasses you'll see me in are 0:13:56.360 --> 0:14:01.080 gonna be fifty cents. Getting everything to be thirty five times. 0:14:01.800 --> 0:14:04.439 I'm going and I'm getting fake. Why is sel toe bags? 0:14:04.720 --> 0:14:06.800 I'm gonna get a most fucking Herme's belt. 0:14:07.160 --> 0:14:09.440 Hermians get it. Okay, I'm gonna get a Twilli scar 0:14:09.559 --> 0:14:12.439 for Hermei's twilling. I'm not doing it. Don't you know what? Actually, 0:14:13.040 --> 0:14:14.760 you don't let them have? Can you buy me the 0:14:15.000 --> 0:14:16.920 the Hermaids blanket? Bitch? 0:14:16.920 --> 0:14:18.679 Ill thought I wanted an Hermaids blanket for my new 0:14:18.679 --> 0:14:21.760 house because they're like three thousand. They're expensive at spot 0:14:21.960 --> 0:14:24.560 I know. I said, oh no, give me the give 0:14:24.600 --> 0:14:26.000 me you see what I can fil give me the 0:14:26.040 --> 0:14:29.800 fake planned our trip where we go to Bangkok last 0:14:30.400 --> 0:14:32.400 and so my nigga was like, yeah, I'm I kind 0:14:32.400 --> 0:14:34.360 of want to start in bank because you're gonna buy shit. 0:14:34.760 --> 0:14:36.960 No no, no, no, we're traveling. You want to you want 0:14:37.000 --> 0:14:39.920 us to carry light? Yeah, that final trip, that's gotta 0:14:39.960 --> 0:14:40.760 be final ship. 0:14:40.960 --> 0:14:43.440 Give me the little ermaids like I might go to 0:14:43.520 --> 0:14:46.200 canwon you start slaying now when I see all those 0:14:46.200 --> 0:14:48.000 of the hermaids like and I'm just not believing any 0:14:48.000 --> 0:14:49.600 of y'all because I looked it up because I see thee. 0:14:52.440 --> 0:14:54.160 Do you know what my friends? Hermeans? 0:14:54.600 --> 0:14:56.680 Her means Let me tell you so. I love wearing 0:14:56.720 --> 0:14:58.880 the Ermey's ring. They're not cheap or anything, but I 0:14:58.880 --> 0:15:01.800 actually buy it as gifts. Got Charla Mane Emma's cup for. 0:15:01.840 --> 0:15:04.880 Like a mug. I say this, that's not bad, but 0:15:04.960 --> 0:15:06.520 it's a nice generous gift. 0:15:06.560 --> 0:15:08.840 You got to see the orange box. I get all 0:15:08.920 --> 0:15:11.040 rich niggas in my life a little. They get the 0:15:11.040 --> 0:15:13.720 card deck stuff just tabletop because the stuff you won't 0:15:13.720 --> 0:15:14.320 buy yourself. 0:15:14.600 --> 0:15:16.000 So if you're not going to be a rich person 0:15:16.040 --> 0:15:18.680 in my life, that's you know what's crazy? I by 0:15:18.840 --> 0:15:21.520 like thoughtful thing. We're going all over with this home mail. 0:15:22.080 --> 0:15:23.080 Now we're talking about birthday. 0:15:23.120 --> 0:15:26.800 But I have a like again, yeah, really really rich friends. 0:15:26.920 --> 0:15:29.240 So you never know what to really get them. And 0:15:29.440 --> 0:15:31.800 I'll never forget. I went to celebrate my my homies 0:15:31.840 --> 0:15:35.720 birthday down in Florida, and I and I purchased him 0:15:35.760 --> 0:15:37.960 like because he loves fucking music. 0:15:38.240 --> 0:15:38.720 That's it. 0:15:39.040 --> 0:15:41.480 He like, we will literally listen and do karaoke and 0:15:41.480 --> 0:15:43.840 just sing songs. So I bought him a fucking speaker, 0:15:44.000 --> 0:15:46.720 so c literally just a portable speaker. When I tell you, 0:15:46.760 --> 0:15:48.880 even his brother was like, bro, he bring that motherfucking 0:15:48.920 --> 0:15:53.600 speaker everywhere like because he didn't. It sounds like really loud, 0:15:53.840 --> 0:15:55.600 and it was like it was the bows. So it 0:15:55.600 --> 0:15:56.840 was maybe like two hundred bucks. 0:15:57.160 --> 0:15:58.000 And he is right. 0:15:58.720 --> 0:16:00.600 And when I tell you, he loves it's one of 0:16:00.640 --> 0:16:01.880 the speakers that I bring when I go to the 0:16:01.880 --> 0:16:02.960 Beating High. 0:16:03.320 --> 0:16:07.360 Yeah, but it's get down her. It sounds it sounds 0:16:07.400 --> 0:16:11.400 like you just mentioned the mood speakers. So none of 0:16:11.440 --> 0:16:12.080 this is a sponsor. 0:16:12.200 --> 0:16:12.360 J'all. 0:16:12.440 --> 0:16:13.720 We out here just droppings. 0:16:13.800 --> 0:16:15.960 We had another five minutes for our home allyway, so 0:16:16.040 --> 0:16:17.960 I went to this Black Elephant party. We were just 0:16:18.000 --> 0:16:20.480 talking about Maya the Dawn being Angie Martine's daughter. 0:16:20.840 --> 0:16:22.400 Let me tell you if I know if that's real. 0:16:22.760 --> 0:16:24.960 Oh wait, yeah we should check. Yeah you you I here. 0:16:25.000 --> 0:16:28.760 Just going off with tweets. Tweets is tweets Martin hosted it? 0:16:28.840 --> 0:16:31.280 Tweets are not. She'd probably just be joking. 0:16:32.480 --> 0:16:41.640 Uh, I'm about to look no bitch, no, bitch, I 0:16:41.720 --> 0:16:47.760 just looked up even Angie Martinez daughter, Stop showing these folks, girl, 0:16:47.880 --> 0:16:52.440 you just be wanting to say some lies. Even she replied, yes, 0:16:52.560 --> 0:16:55.640 you better go on Google. Well maya Saturday, hold on, 0:16:55.720 --> 0:16:58.760 not weezy acting like the gen zs cus it motherfucking 0:16:59.000 --> 0:16:59.920 Twitter as a So. 0:17:00.320 --> 0:17:03.120 I thought eyone made it safe. Okay. Anyway, so this 0:17:03.160 --> 0:17:05.119 is where Aedgie comes in. Okay, so forgives. 0:17:05.280 --> 0:17:08.399 So in December, of course does this black elephant party, 0:17:08.480 --> 0:17:13.120 like what's it called white elephant when you exchange gifts Secretsanna, 0:17:13.920 --> 0:17:16.679 there's some elephant thing that's a party theme where basically 0:17:16.920 --> 0:17:18.159 get to steal gifts or something. 0:17:18.720 --> 0:17:21.840 So this story is crazy. 0:17:22.280 --> 0:17:29.560 There is dope gifts four seats to MSG. Monica Lewinsky 0:17:29.640 --> 0:17:32.720 gave a fucking villa in Italy, but you gotta fly 0:17:32.800 --> 0:17:36.280 to then the Museum of ice Cream. The owner gave 0:17:36.320 --> 0:17:39.639 away a party in his museum for fifty people. The 0:17:39.760 --> 0:17:44.360 gifts were fired. There was a gift. I'm gonna say 0:17:44.440 --> 0:17:46.840 you so me and my nigga. 0:17:47.240 --> 0:17:48.399 Oh oh bitch. 0:17:48.600 --> 0:17:51.359 Someone a girl was like, I'm a director at LVMH 0:17:51.520 --> 0:17:53.200 and I will take you to our sample sale. 0:17:53.200 --> 0:17:53.800 That's my gift. 0:17:53.840 --> 0:17:56.200 I was like, oh no, that's right, bitch. My gift 0:17:56.240 --> 0:17:57.920 was a whole bag with a bunch of dildos in it. 0:17:58.080 --> 0:18:01.560 Oh my godgum. And you know what was crazy about money? 0:18:02.200 --> 0:18:05.919 There was a very uh I'm not even gonna say 0:18:05.920 --> 0:18:06.320 what they do. 0:18:06.400 --> 0:18:08.760 But you got money, you just brought bag of dildos. 0:18:09.200 --> 0:18:11.040 No no, no, I brought like high end sex toys 0:18:11.080 --> 0:18:12.800 and shitka but I called it a whole bag. 0:18:12.840 --> 0:18:13.560 Who hold bag? 0:18:14.280 --> 0:18:15.399 And you know what I should I should have gave 0:18:15.480 --> 0:18:18.520