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Speaker 1: Stop. Wait, what was the blues clues mail? Thing? Wants

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Speaker 3: I don't think we should be singing any children's anything

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying they don't. They got an all TV don't. Okay,

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Speaker 3: about So the topic for today is everything I didn't want.

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Speaker 3: But you you know it's crazy. It's not even what

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Speaker 2: More of I'm sorry, decision decisions, decision decisions decisions.

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Speaker 1: This is not Patreon.

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Speaker 3: Well, and that's the thing I do before I read

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Speaker 1: Anything under the sun.

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Speaker 3: So if you want to send us anything relating to

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Speaker 3: your career, dating, your mental health, all the things, Weezie

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Speaker 1: We are just two girls. We're just a girl. I'm

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Speaker 1: So everything I didn't want? Hey, Mandy and Weezy. I

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Speaker 1: just recently turned thirty and I currently hate my life.

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Speaker 3: I hate my job, I hate where I live. I

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Speaker 3: But besides that, all I want to do for my

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Speaker 3: I've already told my family and friends that I don't

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Speaker 1: Well, my family once again ruined my one day.

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Speaker 1: You go first. I mean, if you guys just heard the.

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Speaker 3: years ago, I dealt with this with my ex.

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Speaker 3: I'm just I think I over communicate when I want things.

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Speaker 3: Now again, when it comes to vocalizing the things that

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Speaker 2: Right. So Mamy and I are going to Asia for

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Speaker 1: It's a lot of birthdays to spend money on. Not

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Speaker 2: That's when I started sending stuff for birthdays and a

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Speaker 1: It can it can help? I mean it, it could

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Speaker 2: Showing up for friends in this age is so important.

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Speaker 1: I'm not in New York to hang out with my phone.

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Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie. I was mad I was here

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm met a comedy seller. Not let go in

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Speaker 2: So I think, just to hear somebody wanting to do

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Speaker 3: My last bit of advice for this letter is, well,

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Speaker 3: everything I didn't want I think writing out that you

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Speaker 2: Oh no, I keep up with my hands, like my

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna get a most fucking Herme's belt.

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Speaker 1: Hermians get it. Okay, I'm gonna get a Twilli scar

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Speaker 1: for Hermei's twilling. I'm not doing it. Don't you know what? Actually,

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Speaker 3: I know. I said, oh no, give me the give

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Speaker 3: Give me the little ermaids like I might go to

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Speaker 1: Do you know what my friends? Hermeans?

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Speaker 2: Her means Let me tell you so. I love wearing

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Speaker 2: the Ermey's ring. They're not cheap or anything, but I

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Speaker 2: You got to see the orange box. I get all

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Speaker 1: So if you're not going to be a rich person

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Speaker 3: But I have a like again, yeah, really really rich friends.

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Speaker 3: like because he loves fucking music.

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Speaker 1: That's it.

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Speaker 3: He like, we will literally listen and do karaoke and

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Speaker 3: And when I tell you, he loves it's one of

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's get down her. It sounds it sounds

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Speaker 3: J'all.

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Speaker 1: We out here just droppings.

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Speaker 2: We had another five minutes for our home allyway, so

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Speaker 2: I went to this Black Elephant party. We were just

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Speaker 2: talking about Maya the Dawn being Angie Martine's daughter.

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Speaker 1: Let me tell you if I know if that's real.

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, yeah we should check. Yeah you you I here.

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Speaker 3: Just going off with tweets. Tweets is tweets Martin hosted it?

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Speaker 1: Tweets are not. She'd probably just be joking.

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Speaker 3: Uh, I'm about to look no bitch, no, bitch, I

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Speaker 3: just looked up even Angie Martinez daughter, Stop showing these folks, girl,

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Speaker 3: you just be wanting to say some lies. Even she replied, yes,

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Speaker 3: you better go on Google. Well maya Saturday, hold on,

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Speaker 3: not weezy acting like the gen zs cus it motherfucking

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Speaker 1: I thought eyone made it safe. Okay. Anyway, so this

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Speaker 2: So in December, of course does this black elephant party,

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Speaker 2: like what's it called white elephant when you exchange gifts Secretsanna,

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Speaker 2: there's some elephant thing that's a party theme where basically

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Speaker 1: So this story is crazy.

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Speaker 2: There is dope gifts four seats to MSG. Monica Lewinsky

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Speaker 2: to then the Museum of ice Cream. The owner gave

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Speaker 2: gifts were fired. There was a gift. I'm gonna say

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Speaker 1: Oh oh bitch.

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Speaker 2: Someone a girl was like, I'm a director at LVMH

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Speaker 1: That's my gift.

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Speaker 2: I was like, oh no, that's right, bitch. My gift

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Speaker 2: Oh my godgum. And you know what was crazy about money?

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Speaker 2: There was a very uh I'm not even gonna say

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Speaker 1: But you got money, you just brought bag of dildos.

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Speaker 2: No no, no, I brought like high end sex toys

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Speaker 2: and shitka but I called it a whole bag.

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Speaker 1: Who hold bag?

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Speaker 2: And you know what I should I should have gave

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Speaker 2: a celebrity that was Hella rich There, some white lady.

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Speaker 2: I really know her before, but I googled her all

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Speaker 2: of that shit. Oh there was vegas tickets to show everything.

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Speaker 2: Do you know this bitch went straight to his molly gummies.

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Speaker 2: I said, I know she got money. She was like,

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Speaker 2: I've already been on the floor.

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Speaker 1: What do I care? And she went right up to

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Speaker 1: him and said, oh, they're good, They're really good. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So she went to the drugs bringing drugs. You could

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Speaker 1: what a lot of people did, mushroom. Oh my goodness.

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Speaker 1: So you can go and steal gifts.

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Speaker 2: Okay, there's a person coming around with dice and they're

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Speaker 2: shooting the dice and if you get doubles, you can

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Speaker 2: steal a gift whatever. Michael j took my gift, I

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Speaker 2: all I wanted. Angie Martinez came. She said, my gift

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Speaker 2: is I will interview you a member of your family,

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Speaker 2: a loved one, any project you want to report, I

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Speaker 2: will interview you. That is my gift and she put

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Speaker 2: it in her frame. I said, that's the one I want, right. Wow,

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Speaker 2: we got a book coming out. I just opened a

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Speaker 2: fucking gym. I want the Angie Martinez interview bitch. So

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Speaker 2: my nigga looking at me, He's like, I want the

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Speaker 2: LVMVA shit, But I got you, baby. So we're fighting

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Speaker 2: right and there's me and this girl, this bitch. She

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Speaker 2: was gorgeous, but she was a little bitch because we

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Speaker 2: was fighting all night, right to the point where when.

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Speaker 1: Michael Ja got a chance to steal, she goes get

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Speaker 2: I was like, oh hell no, So Mandy all night,

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Speaker 2: me and are going back forth back forth. Last thirty seconds,

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Speaker 2: I end up with this little fucking portable bow speaker,

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Speaker 2: and I'm about to cry because I'm like, yo, I

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Speaker 2: that we announced our books. I just was like, fuck,

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Speaker 2: like I need this.

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Speaker 3: First off, don't be shitting on a bow speaker now

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Speaker 3: that I just sit it. No, I just imagine you're

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Speaker 3: looking at a field in Italy. First seats SHO. So

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Speaker 3: there's a guy next to me. I don't know who

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Speaker 3: he is, but we're next to each other all night.

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Speaker 3: The last thirty seconds he wins the dice. He runs

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Speaker 3: and grabs the Angie Martinez interview and I was like,

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Speaker 3: oh my god. So then it's over and I was like,

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Speaker 3: what are you gonna do with it?

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Speaker 2: And he goes, oh, I just got it for you

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Speaker 2: because you seem like you were really upset handed it

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Speaker 2: to me.

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Speaker 1: I'm like what So I'm like, what can I do?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, thank you so much?

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Speaker 2: Like can I I heard he was a comedian.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I can film you for free. I have

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Speaker 1: the studio and he's like, no, you're good. I find

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Speaker 1: out later his name is Fahim Anwar, huge comedian. Oh

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Speaker 1: wow the Netflix.

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Speaker 2: But I'm like yo, He's like, I got the MSG ticket,

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Speaker 2: so I don't really care. I was like, oh, who,

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Speaker 2: you don't even know what he did for me, bro,

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Speaker 2: Like I'm just holding it. Sorry, bro Angie, She's like,

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Speaker 2: you really got him? Like yeah, She's like all right.

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Speaker 1: Let me know. But I'm figuring out like what did

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Speaker 1: I when? How? What will it look? Like? I want

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Speaker 1: to take her to a beach, like what are they

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Speaker 1: gonna be?

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Speaker 2: But literally, what I initially wanted it for was kind

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Speaker 2: of like a mom interview. Actually, I just when she

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Speaker 2: mentioned that she would interview someone's parent and she's like,

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Speaker 2: I'll get everything out of them, like you can.

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Speaker 1: This is a piece of Oh wow, that was such

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Speaker 1: a good gift.

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Speaker 2: So anyway, that's a little cool thing I did for

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Speaker 2: Christmas and uh.

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Speaker 3: But also all of that to say, you actually pouted

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Speaker 3: and wine, just like our listener letter for the boat

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Speaker 3: for the goddamn you got actually didn't want you wasn't

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Speaker 3: hand You don't imagine just saying all I want is

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Speaker 3: dinner by myself and you get thrown a party. So

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Speaker 3: pretty much Wesley just shared how she actually aligns with

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Speaker 3: her goddamn letter.

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Speaker 1: Y'all enjoyed. Patreons, Oh my god, if.

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Speaker 3: You guys want to send your letters again, make sure

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Speaker 3: you send it to Decisions Pod at gmail dot com

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Speaker 3: and we will see you guys next week.

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Speaker 1: Hi,