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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show.

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Speaker 1: Hey Patrick, good morning, Welcome to the show. How are you,

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Speaker 1: good morning, I'm good, how are you? We're doing great

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Speaker 1: waiting at the phone. It is what this is called,

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Speaker 1: of course, and we're trying to figure out what you

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Speaker 1: may have been ghosted by a woman named Macy. So

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Speaker 1: tell us how you met Macy, About any dates that

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Speaker 1: you've been on, and then kind of what's going on

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Speaker 1: right now.

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Speaker 2: So we met on Hinge and I took her out.

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Speaker 3: We went to a night dinner, you know, little dancing.

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Speaker 4: It was.

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Speaker 2: It was a nice night, and she's very funny. She's

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Speaker 2: absolutely gorgeous, and you know, we had a really good,

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Speaker 2: fun long off the night, and then at the end.

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Speaker 4: Of the night she seemed all weird, and you know, she.

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Speaker 3: Kind of kind of left abruptly and I haven't seen

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Speaker 3: her since.

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Speaker 1: So the whole date goes well until the very end.

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Speaker 1: And then you got kind of a kind of like an,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, an off feeling about it, but not

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Speaker 1: so much that you didn't think you'd get ghosts, except

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Speaker 1: now it looks like you're being ghost that she's not

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Speaker 1: responding to you. She hasn't called you back. All of that,

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Speaker 1: I assume.

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Speaker 3: I assumed that we had just you know, we hadn't

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Speaker 3: said along night.

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Speaker 1: I figured, you know, let's not push it. She decided she.

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Speaker 3: Wanted to go home, but I had no idea she

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Speaker 3: wasn't gonna call me back or you know, completely ignore

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Speaker 1: Well that's disappointing always, And so let's see if we

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Speaker 1: can get you some answers, some closure, or maybe we

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Speaker 1: can fix whatever's going on, straighten things out, to set

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Speaker 1: you guys up on another date that we pay for.

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Speaker 1: That's the hope. So we'll do it next. Hang on, Patrick,

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Speaker 1: let's find out what's going on after David Getta back

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Speaker 1: in two minutes, Part two of Waiting by the Phone.

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Speaker 1: The Frend Show is on David Getta, The Frend Show

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Speaker 1: is on the radio, and the iHeart app anytime search

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Speaker 1: for the Fred Show on demand. Hey, Patrick, all right,

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Speaker 1: welcome back. Let's call Macy. You guys, you met on

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Speaker 1: one of the dating apps. She met on Hinge and

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Speaker 1: went out for a nice dinner. You thought that went

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Speaker 1: really well. You were excited about the potential. You do

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Speaker 1: admit that, for whatever reason, you thought she was acting

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Speaker 1: kind of weird at the end of the date, but

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Speaker 1: not to the point where you thought you'd never see

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Speaker 1: her again or hear from her again. But we think

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Speaker 1: being ghosted and you want to know what's going on. Absolutely,

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Speaker 1: that's exactly it. All right, let's call Macy now, good luck? Patrick?

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Speaker 1: Thank you?

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Speaker 4: Hello? Hi?

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Speaker 1: Is this Macy? Hi Macey? Good morning. My name is Fred.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling from the Fred's Show. The whole crew is here,

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Speaker 1: and I do have to tell you that we are

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Speaker 1: on the radio right now, the morning radio show, and

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Speaker 1: I would need your permission to continue with the call.

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Speaker 1: Is it okay if we chat for just a second? Sure? Yeah, okay, Well,

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Speaker 1: thank you so much. I don't want to take up

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Speaker 1: too much of your time, but we appreciate it. We're

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Speaker 1: calling out behalf of a guy who says he met

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Speaker 1: you on one of the dating apps hinge. His name

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Speaker 1: was Patrick, and you guys recently went out. Do you

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Speaker 1: remember a date with Patrick?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I do?

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Speaker 1: Okay, so always the exasperation. So what happened? Because he

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Speaker 1: But he says it would appear that you're ghosting him.

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Speaker 1: Is that what's going on?

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Speaker 4: Well, I guess I'm not really. It was just kind

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Speaker 4: of weird how it ended.

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Speaker 1: How did how did it end? What was weird about it?

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Speaker 1: He didn't give us any indication.

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Speaker 4: Well, I mean, we went out for like a nice dinner,

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Speaker 4: and everything was great, and you know, I was super

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Speaker 1: Oh, they tend to go awry right around this time,

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Speaker 1: private place. Okay, so you're at his house. You had

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Speaker 4: Well, yeah, he calls us an uber, and I think

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Speaker 4: we're going back to his place. But then we show

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Speaker 1: Oh oh okay, all right, so all right then what Well,

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Speaker 1: I'm confused.

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Speaker 4: I thought he lived in town, so I'm like, why

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Speaker 4: are we at a hotel? And he said that he

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Speaker 4: was having work done at his place.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the old burst pipes again.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, right right.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you're at this hotel and he you can't

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Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, And I mean I wanted to turn around.

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Speaker 1: Right then, but I was like, well, just give it.

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Speaker 4: A chance, like, see what happens. So we like step

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Speaker 4: done at his place, like, wouldn't you have more stuff

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Speaker 1: Okay, So he'd already checked him before the date and

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Speaker 1: he had a little overnight bag, all right, Okay.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so I just felt shady vibes. I was like,

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Speaker 4: I am going to go, so I called an uber

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Speaker 1: Okay. So that was the weird ending that you I mean,

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Speaker 1: you see that in my mind, And Frends mentioned that

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Speaker 1: Patrick is here. I'm so forgetful. I'm sorry, Patrick is here.

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Speaker 1: In my mind, Patrick, It's like it was a weird

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Speaker 1: exchange at the end of the day. Not I took

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Speaker 1: and was obviously prepared for whatever was going to happen next,

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Speaker 1: What is going on Patrick with the hotel?

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Speaker 2: No, no, I've got I've got my houses and it's

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Speaker 2: a real mess right now.

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Speaker 3: So you know, I got that's a really niceell.

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Speaker 1: No, fine, yeah, what's you know? Same with all of us.

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Speaker 1: We love in a hotel too. Yeah, what's happening at

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Speaker 1: the house though?

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Speaker 2: Oh no, they're they're working doing a bunch of work.

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Speaker 2: The stuff everywhere Payton a couple of the rooms and

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Speaker 1: A real mess. Well, then you could have used one

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Speaker 1: of the other rooms then, right, Like, if they're painting

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there's that.

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Speaker 3: There's that paint smell, you know what I'm saying the

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Speaker 1: It's a paint smell that we're worried about and the

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Speaker 1: work that they're doing. I see. But you can live there, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you live there the rest of the time. Oh, it's dangerous, right,

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Speaker 1: so I want to be clear your okay, do you

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Speaker 1: live in these dangerous conditions? But you wouldn't bring her

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you know, but I also think hotels are

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Speaker 3: great I thought it was a classy hotel.

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Speaker 1: I thought she'd like it. I'm gonna go on a

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Speaker 1: limb here. I'm just this is a crazy thought. I

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Speaker 1: know this as well. I'm gonna go on a limit.

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Speaker 1: Say someone else lives in that house with you? Who's painting? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, I see.

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Speaker 1: So, Mazone, is that the vibe that you're getting is

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Speaker 1: the same vibe that all of us are getting, which

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I wonder if there was a wife and perhaps

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Speaker 4: some children living in that home.

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Speaker 1: I certainly hope those those people aren't exposed to these

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Speaker 1: paint fields that you were exposed. Macy to Patrick, this

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Speaker 3: I guess it seems like I just, you know, I

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Speaker 3: like hotels, and I think it's a you know, you.

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Speaker 1: Get room for service and go get in the pool.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like it's a it's.

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Speaker 1: A nice Okay, So you got to a duffel bag.

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Speaker 1: How many fans draws in there, plus the swim trunks?

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Speaker 1: How did that offen your litt duffle bag, your little

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Speaker 1: man bag. I run back and forth to the house,

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Speaker 1: back and forth. Oh, okay, you go back there. Okay, Wow,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't want to stay there.

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Speaker 3: I want to stay there overnight. You know, I feel

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Speaker 1: K It's not a normal thing. You realize that, right,

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Speaker 1: Like if I go on a date with someone and

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I live in the city, but but we

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Speaker 1: should definitely go to a hotel instead. I mean that

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Speaker 1: screams I'm hiding something. Yep. I don't think it seems

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Speaker 1: that weird. Okay, well Macie thinks that. So look, Masie,

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Speaker 1: let's say we I'm sure all the paint fumes are

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Speaker 1: So I'm sure Patrick, on the next day you could

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Speaker 1: take her to your house so she could see the house. Right,

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Speaker 1: not quite yet? Yeah, yeah, right right. This is an

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Speaker 3: There means several rooms rooms.

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Speaker 1: I can understand. You just got your hair and decided

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean gonna look great after.

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Speaker 1: Your sure your family will enjoy it. So Maysie, I

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Speaker 1: don't I'll ask the question. I know the answer is rhetorical.

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Speaker 1: But would you like to go out with Patrick again

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Speaker 1: and say, in another hotel, maybe get some points this time. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't think so.

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Speaker 4: I'm going to pass on that one.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, well okay is this by the way, Patrick,

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Speaker 1: is it all dates you go on that we go

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Speaker 1: to the hotel? Well, just now like paying the house, right,

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Speaker 1: but payton the house right? Yeah, exactly, I can. Yeah. Okay, Well,

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Speaker 1: look it's not going to work out. Patrick. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: I wish you well out there with whatever it is

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Speaker 1: you're actually doing. Macie. Good luck to you, Thank you

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Speaker 1: for your time.

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Speaker 4: Thank you so much.