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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO Chief Love Officer

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey in the building.

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Speaker 2: Here we go.

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Speaker 1: Rodney in Spartanburg writes, I'm involved with a mysterious woman.

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Speaker 1: She won't tell me where she lives, and when her

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Speaker 1: phone rings, she goes away from me to take the call.

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Speaker 1: I pick her up from work when we go out,

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Speaker 1: and she's met all my friends. But I've only met

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Speaker 1: a few of her coworkers. It's been four months. So

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Speaker 1: why is she so reserved?

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Speaker 2: Well, Rodney, a couple of things.

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Speaker 3: Either she has no plans for you in the future,

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Speaker 3: or is she shame you? That's it.

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Speaker 1: Those are his choices.

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Speaker 3: I mean, what else could it be? She has no

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Speaker 3: plans for you in the future, or she shame you.

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Speaker 1: But she couldn't be just taking it easy, taking it slow,

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Speaker 1: get to know them all. That couldn't be that.

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Speaker 3: Well, then she has no plans for her Yeah, that's

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Speaker 3: all it is. Almost Come on, shall as it is

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Speaker 3: to find a good man out here? You find one

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Speaker 3: and now you don't want him round nobody. Come on,

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Speaker 3: let's stop this. Let's stop this right here? Who playing

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Speaker 3: this circus trick?

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Speaker 2: Right here? He has met a few of her co workers.

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Speaker 3: See just coworkers. That's because he got to go down

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Speaker 3: there to pick her up. Yeah, he can't come by

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Speaker 3: the house, this mysterious.

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Speaker 2: Woman she married.

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Speaker 3: All right, hey, Rodney, it's time for you to take

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Speaker 3: a self check, partner. Really, you need to look at

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Speaker 3: yourself real close and just make some ignisis h. It'll

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Speaker 3: help you, man, It will just help you in your

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Speaker 3: life in your future. Rodney, just be real with yourself.

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Speaker 1: All right, here we go, moving on to my Issha

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Speaker 1: and Tempe. My Issha says, I'm twenty nine years old

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Speaker 1: and I'm engaged. My fiance was dming a woman that's

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Speaker 1: eleven years older than me, and she told him that

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Speaker 1: he should experience an older woman before he gets married.

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Speaker 1: And he said, all right, bet, he swears that he

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Speaker 1: has no intentions of having sex with her. Doesn't all right,

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Speaker 1: bet mean that he wants.

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Speaker 2: To do it? Well?

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Speaker 3: Usually when I say bet, okay, it's because I know

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Speaker 3: something going to pop off.

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Speaker 2: Bet Bet, I bet I'm coming over there.

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Speaker 3: I bet you won't bet uh huh. Yeah, that's what

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Speaker 3: it means. Yeah, But if he said there's no intention,

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Speaker 3: then you have to find a way in your world

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Speaker 3: to believe that.

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Speaker 2: But what is the d m's fault exactly?

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Speaker 3: Lord, these people with just social media? Man, what y'all doing?

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Speaker 2: I bet bet?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's eleven years older.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's a good way to say.

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Speaker 1: No. Yeah, I'm creative, your creator.

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Speaker 2: All right.

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Speaker 1: So you think he's gonna he's gonna do it with

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Speaker 1: the older woman.

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Speaker 3: Well, she told him, you need to experience an older woman,

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Speaker 3: he said. Bet. I felt that way when I was

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Speaker 3: young too. I felt I.

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Speaker 2: Should experience the older woman.

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Speaker 1: Everybody feels that way to get the experience.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Uh, then when you get older, you're older, you think

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Speaker 3: you should experience a younger woman. You're always lying to yourself.

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Speaker 3: A man is constantly alive with hisself.

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Speaker 1: All right, here we go, moving on to Alexis in Harlem.

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Speaker 1: Alexis writes, my five year old daughter grabbed my faith

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Speaker 1: and pressed her tiny little lips on mine and moans.

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Speaker 1: I asked her what she was doing, and she said

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Speaker 1: her daddy kissed her aunt my sister like that. My

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Speaker 1: husband called our child a liar, who's really.

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Speaker 3: Like, hell, yeah, yeah, that little baby lying, yeah baby,

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Speaker 3: Well yeah, that little baby that busted.

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Speaker 2: Is the baby got to be home.

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Speaker 3: Look at that from what daddy kills Auntie?

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Speaker 2: What your baby? She lying?

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Speaker 1: That's what he said, what her husband said his child?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, hell yeah he got to say that. Now, wow,

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Speaker 2: that's amazing.

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Speaker 3: Where you get that from daddy when he kills Auntie?

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Speaker 3: All right, now she's gonna get a whooping.

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Speaker 1: Put out that child. Beat your hands.

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Speaker 3: You can't spankle for that. No, you can't spank your

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Speaker 3: child because you stupid.

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Speaker 2: Right right right. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: It's like when I was cussing around my grandson and

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Speaker 3: I wasn't supposed to, and uh, he was in the

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Speaker 3: high chair and Marjorie came in the room and he said.

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Speaker 2: Papau mofo.

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Speaker 3: What I looked at him? I said, black, uncle Tom,

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Speaker 3: what is your here telling his fat? But I was

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Speaker 3: he heard me cussing and he was just eating his

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Speaker 3: little crackers. And when Marjorie came in the room, she said,

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Speaker 3: he said papau mofo, but he couldn't say it, but

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Speaker 3: he was trying to say Papa said mother, and you know,

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Speaker 3: but all he got out was mofo. So if that's

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Speaker 3: what I realized, he was Uncle Tom, and I had

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Speaker 3: to stop taking him place.

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Speaker 1: You didn't say he's lying.

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Speaker 3: No, I just looked at him and tried to get up,

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Speaker 3: She says, Steve, Steve, where did he get that front?

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Speaker 2: Babe? How you know?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: At all? All right?

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Speaker 1: Moving on to last one, Steve Sonya in Texas. Sonya says,

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Speaker 1: I'm married to a man that has a grooming schedule

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Speaker 1: better than mine. And when he told me he couldn't

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Speaker 1: his nails, I used an app on my phone to

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Speaker 1: get two guys to help me clean the garage. My

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Speaker 1: husband didn't approve. But what am I supposed to do

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Speaker 1: if he's slacking off?

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Speaker 2: This is this is her husband? Uh huh yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: you married you married her. He can't move a box

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Speaker 2: because it'll mess up his nails.

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Speaker 1: It's manicure.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, that's all. That's that's what you call tendencies.

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Speaker 2: But he ain't got no gloves, And I'll give it

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Speaker 3: It's called tendacis you can't tell your wife you can't

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Speaker 3: move a box in the garage because it'll mess up

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Speaker 3: your nails.

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Speaker 2: He's okay, particular.

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Speaker 1: And what do you mean by true tendencies.

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Speaker 2: He has tendencies. That's all that is.

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Speaker 3: He has tendencies that may not be pertaining to being

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Speaker 3: just a full time hug.

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Speaker 2: Don't need no explanation. Everybody know to hell tendencies. Do

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Speaker 2: they Okay, yeah, do they? Yes, they do. I'm just

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Speaker 2: making sure he got tendencies.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right.

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Speaker 2: He coming up shop. All right, he's standing in on

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Speaker 2: the free Thank you, clo.

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Speaker 1: He playing in the water tendencies to close out this

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Speaker 1: segment right here, Thank you, Celo.

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Speaker 2: It'ster Steve Harbin Martin show Man.

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Speaker 3: Men that wear throngs don't pay money back.

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Speaker 2: Wearing men do not pay money back. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: It's just a rule.

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Speaker 3: I don't know where the rule came from anybody.

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Speaker 2: I know where. Throne don't pay money back.

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Speaker 3: And men who wear thrones that think they sexy it's

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Speaker 3: usually not.

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Speaker 2: Thong and stomach don't even go in the same city.

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Speaker 3: You can't have a thong on and all they see

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Speaker 3: is the love v in the front. Steve Morning Show

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Speaker 3: coming up right after you