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Speaker 2: I missed the old Kanye. Man may be sol Kanye.

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Speaker 2: That's all it was, Kanye. We still love Kanye, and

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Speaker 2: I love you like Kanye loves Kanye. Hey, welcome to

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Speaker 2: the Black outst podcast. Your host Rod and Karen live

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Speaker 3: Fun, fun, and enlightening.

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Speaker 2: Listening to roder Cararen is like listening to two friends

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Speaker 2: Hugged or not, they were they were gonna find a

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Speaker 2: So I don't want the next black family even thinking

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Speaker 2: And if we turn respectability into well now you gotta

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Speaker 3: The only thing you have to do is stay black

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Speaker 2: but I just barely brought it up because it just

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00:20:10,600 --> 00:20:15,399
Speaker 2: don't fucking matter. They are evil, vile, racist motherfuckers that

441
00:20:15,560 --> 00:20:18,520
Speaker 2: think I saw this black man hug a cop, so.

442
00:20:19,480 --> 00:20:22,160
Speaker 3: You you niggas better get in line. They weren't. They

443
00:20:22,160 --> 00:20:25,399
Speaker 3: weren't really gonna do it anyway, you see what I'm saying.

444
00:20:25,880 --> 00:20:27,480
Speaker 2: He could have gave it a middle finger, He could

445
00:20:27,480 --> 00:20:30,439
Speaker 2: have fucking kissed her on the mouth and said I

446
00:20:30,480 --> 00:20:32,720
Speaker 2: love you, and none of it would have changed the

447
00:20:32,760 --> 00:20:35,000
Speaker 2: fucking thing for the next shooting. And there will be

448
00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:37,600
Speaker 2: a next one, because there's always the next one. Oh

449
00:20:38,040 --> 00:20:40,080
Speaker 2: so that's how I feel about it, Karen, Were you

450
00:20:40,080 --> 00:20:40,640
Speaker 2: gonna say something?

451
00:20:41,800 --> 00:20:42,160
Speaker 3: All right?

452
00:20:42,200 --> 00:20:44,440
Speaker 2: Felix says, just wanted to say. I love how Rod

453
00:20:44,440 --> 00:20:47,320
Speaker 2: says Brove. The tone you get when you say it

454
00:20:47,400 --> 00:20:52,400
Speaker 2: just makes makes me smile. Man, love y'all, thanks Felix. Yeah,

455
00:20:52,440 --> 00:20:56,960
Speaker 2: I don't know anything about how to talk British, as

456
00:20:56,960 --> 00:20:59,639
Speaker 2: you guys can tell, like, I don't even practice it

457
00:21:00,040 --> 00:21:04,560
Speaker 2: much enough British TV to really do a good invitation.

458
00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:06,760
Speaker 3: I'm supposed to get in the top boy. I heard

459
00:21:06,800 --> 00:21:07,440
Speaker 3: that's really good.

460
00:21:07,480 --> 00:21:09,800
Speaker 2: So maybe I'll get into that and be able to

461
00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:12,880
Speaker 2: do some justice to the do you want to smoke brous.

462
00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:18,040
Speaker 3: Discussion? I just I just love certain phrases that come

463
00:21:18,080 --> 00:21:20,520
Speaker 3: over from Yeah, just a very unique phrase, you know.

464
00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:24,320
Speaker 3: I love. I also love like uh like lady who

465
00:21:25,200 --> 00:21:27,359
Speaker 3: was it? Like sure? Whatever her name is? Le Sure?

466
00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:31,760
Speaker 3: The woman that had that rap was?

467
00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:34,400
Speaker 2: What was the name that that that brush your teeth wrap?

468
00:21:34,880 --> 00:21:37,720
Speaker 2: It was the name of that ship. Oh but yeah,

469
00:21:37,800 --> 00:21:42,760
Speaker 2: that like I love that bush, Yes, like that was like,

470
00:21:42,840 --> 00:21:47,199
Speaker 2: that's the extent of my British black slang. It's just

471
00:21:47,240 --> 00:21:49,600
Speaker 2: from that was a bop to Lady Lee. Sure, I

472
00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:52,360
Speaker 2: think it's her name or something like that, and uh

473
00:21:52,800 --> 00:21:56,239
Speaker 2: and you know, people being and and of course my

474
00:21:56,320 --> 00:21:58,119
Speaker 2: and then of course my favorite thing to say in

475
00:21:58,160 --> 00:22:01,480
Speaker 2: a British accent is actually it cracks me up.

476
00:22:01,960 --> 00:22:02,480
Speaker 3: I put it.

477
00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:05,680
Speaker 2: On Instagram and stuff at the time, but it didn't

478
00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:09,080
Speaker 2: really take off. But my favorite thing to say was

479
00:22:09,119 --> 00:22:11,760
Speaker 2: when twenty one Savage they found everybody found out he

480
00:22:11,840 --> 00:22:14,560
Speaker 2: was from not from America, he was from Britain or whatever.

481
00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:20,600
Speaker 2: And I'm just looking to the cameras like twenty one

482
00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:22,879
Speaker 2: Savage that.

483
00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:26,720
Speaker 3: I don't know why that cracks me up. I'm not

484
00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:30,360
Speaker 3: even saying I'm not even saying that it just when

485
00:22:30,359 --> 00:22:33,000
Speaker 3: it sounds. Yeah, I'm not even saying that. It's so

486
00:22:33,440 --> 00:22:35,280
Speaker 3: I don't know. I got tears in my eyes just

487
00:22:35,320 --> 00:22:36,200
Speaker 3: thinking about it, man.

488
00:22:36,280 --> 00:22:39,600
Speaker 2: But twenty one Savage is I just wanted him to

489
00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:42,080
Speaker 2: say that after all these years of rapping, like you know,

490
00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:45,320
Speaker 2: from a down south Atlanta person. No, I'm not accusing

491
00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:50,119
Speaker 2: him of of cultural appropriation, but I'm just saying I

492
00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:52,479
Speaker 2: wish he would have just like flipped it all the

493
00:22:52,480 --> 00:22:56,439
Speaker 2: way like the next time they interviewed him, like the

494
00:22:56,480 --> 00:22:58,359
Speaker 2: next time he had a song come onstead of been

495
00:22:58,400 --> 00:22:58,840
Speaker 2: like twenty one.

496
00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:05,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, like oh turn out.

497
00:23:07,119 --> 00:23:10,359
Speaker 4: Down with a snapshot. Yes, go over your head like

498
00:23:10,480 --> 00:23:13,320
Speaker 4: a slap, back loaded the picture, but that and your

499
00:23:13,320 --> 00:23:17,440
Speaker 4: flow so old night just run. Yeah, I'm way too

500
00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:20,200
Speaker 4: much like a black cap. What you stop chining the

501
00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:24,960
Speaker 4: clock for? That's from my lam, your your polo and

502
00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:28,239
Speaker 4: you ye bada dada among the roads. Come back. Let

503
00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:31,960
Speaker 4: me do this first rama dad, because hard, I'm a

504
00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:35,520
Speaker 4: take picture catagraph. Yeah, crazy chamarine and a rack to

505
00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:44,320
Speaker 4: your office real bra oh Jesus, oh lord jesus. A couple, Yeah,

506
00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:49,359
Speaker 4: there's no debain. Come on, I'll turn them out of

507
00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:52,800
Speaker 4: a girl, like shall I shout down the dance like that?

508
00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:59,680
Speaker 4: We break down the dolls like left I be the

509
00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:04,320
Speaker 4: one even have done the world from one that you want.

510
00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:06,480
Speaker 3: A from.

511
00:24:08,440 --> 00:24:12,359
Speaker 4: I can't believe that some good wake up and don't

512
00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:13,520
Speaker 4: even brush that tea.

513
00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:19,960
Speaker 3: Brush that tea tea. Oh that's my ship. But yeah,

514
00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:22,480
Speaker 3: that's all I know about British black people. Sorry, that's that.

515
00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:22,960
Speaker 4: I love that.

516
00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:27,680
Speaker 3: So that's gonna go hard oh man anyway. Uh, let's

517
00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:29,920
Speaker 3: get to uh the pole. Do you dance when no

518
00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:32,920
Speaker 3: one is around? Yes? And only then? Yes?

519
00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:35,480
Speaker 2: And I dance when people are around to No, I

520
00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:40,960
Speaker 2: never dance being all the time, all right, Uh and yes,

521
00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:43,879
Speaker 2: I dance only when people aren't around. So it's like

522
00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:46,000
Speaker 2: a tree falling in the woods and nobody's around.

523
00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:46,840
Speaker 4: To see it, nobody but me.

524
00:24:49,359 --> 00:24:52,040
Speaker 3: And uh no, I really I dance may when you're

525
00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:54,320
Speaker 3: not here. I really go in oh lor.

526
00:24:56,520 --> 00:25:00,560
Speaker 2: Uh No, I never danced six percent sixty five percent

527
00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:03,720
Speaker 2: dance all the time with people around, with any anytime,

528
00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:06,359
Speaker 2: and then people they dance like me when no one

529
00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:10,560
Speaker 2: else is around, twenty dancing by myself.

530
00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:11,680
Speaker 4: I just like to dance.

531
00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:13,440
Speaker 3: Ama says I love dancing.

532
00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:15,120
Speaker 2: I just ready to stay, and says dancing can help

533
00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:17,120
Speaker 2: with your memory, which is why I think kids ought

534
00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:18,960
Speaker 2: to try to stop their parents dancing. They're trying to

535
00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:23,600
Speaker 2: get us to forget. It's a conspiracy, Sofa King says, not.

536
00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:24,960
Speaker 3: Only no, but hell no.

537
00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:29,120
Speaker 2: Brooklyn shoe Ba says, I don't dance around my kids

538
00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:31,440
Speaker 2: because they get embarrassed. But I dance at work, in

539
00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:33,840
Speaker 2: my house and sometimes while waiting for the train.

540
00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:36,520
Speaker 3: Most of this. My little old uncle too step in

541
00:25:36,600 --> 00:25:38,880
Speaker 3: spin black.

542
00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:41,080
Speaker 2: Steve says, y'all know I ain't shot. I'll cut a

543
00:25:41,200 --> 00:25:45,000
Speaker 2: damn rug yep, Felix says, still recovering from a video

544
00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:47,320
Speaker 2: of me dancing in my twelfth birthday being shared around

545
00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:49,440
Speaker 2: school and me being made fun of for it for years.

546
00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:52,080
Speaker 2: So I out of trouble getting comfortable dancing in public. Sadly,

547
00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:53,720
Speaker 2: that's sad Steve.

548
00:25:53,800 --> 00:25:54,920
Speaker 3: I had a similar experience.

549
00:25:55,359 --> 00:25:58,440
Speaker 2: I was breakdancing, well, I call myself breakdancing for my

550
00:25:58,880 --> 00:26:01,800
Speaker 2: family with my cuts, and I broke something all right,

551
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:04,280
Speaker 2: the top of my head when it banged up against

552
00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:04,800
Speaker 2: the floor, and.

553
00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:06,560
Speaker 3: I said, oh, dancing is some bullshit.

554
00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:08,840
Speaker 2: You know how I could have stopped that from happening,

555
00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:12,680
Speaker 2: But not dancing so ever since then, Guys Monique aka

556
00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:14,960
Speaker 2: Kim Doc says, my cat looks at me with no

557
00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:17,879
Speaker 2: feeling when I be dancing and wish and washing dishes.

558
00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:21,879
Speaker 3: Lol. He a hater. I'll be killing it. Cat's a

559
00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:24,320
Speaker 3: terrible pets. My dog would have would have cysed you.

560
00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:26,399
Speaker 4: Up, girl'all, would have danced with you.

561
00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:28,600
Speaker 3: Dog would have would have gashed you up.

562
00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:36,760
Speaker 2: Nineteen seventy one, Kanye Sunday School was the Monday episode.

563
00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:43,520
Speaker 2: We have really dark knights say regarding Kanye, the most dangerous.

564
00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:43,800
Speaker 3: People in the world.

565
00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:45,679
Speaker 2: In this world are those with little respect for their

566
00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:48,840
Speaker 2: own history, little knowledge, and a very large platform. I

567
00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:50,760
Speaker 2: don't care how hard the beats go. I can't co

568
00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:52,840
Speaker 2: sign a man who will chill while the maga crowd

569
00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:54,080
Speaker 2: runs up on me and mine.

570
00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:56,440
Speaker 3: I can't do that. I feel you.

571
00:26:57,480 --> 00:27:00,679
Speaker 2: Donald Trump is an existential threat and this negroes run

572
00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:02,840
Speaker 2: around the country acting like he's Stephen from Django.

573
00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:05,760
Speaker 3: I just can't fuck with this dude. Now, this is

574
00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:06,280
Speaker 3: a choice.

575
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:09,479
Speaker 2: Well, as we speak, Uh, this morning he was at

576
00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:13,400
Speaker 2: Howard during his Sunday school dance stuff uh.

577
00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:17,400
Speaker 3: Sunday recital for the for the kids. I heard.

578
00:27:17,520 --> 00:27:21,000
Speaker 2: I heard it was sparsely attended, but still Howard let

579
00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:26,520
Speaker 2: him come there, and unlike slavery, that was a choice, Uh,

580
00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:29,720
Speaker 2: Phil g says regarding the music lawsuits a man issuing

581
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:31,840
Speaker 2: the X Man for the song from the nineties cartoon.

582
00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:34,639
Speaker 3: We covered that on The nerd Off yesterday, so if

583
00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:38,040
Speaker 3: you guys are Premium, on our last episode of The

584
00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:40,920
Speaker 3: nerd Off, we talked about that and we played both

585
00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:49,920
Speaker 3: of the themes them things did sound kind of kind

586
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:52,080
Speaker 3: of similar. I'm just saying, I don't know.

587
00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:55,639
Speaker 2: I mean, I love how the petty and them for

588
00:27:55,800 --> 00:28:00,639
Speaker 2: waiting thirty something years just for Disney, the by X

589
00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:05,000
Speaker 2: Men and Fox and Benson and that's so smart, But man,

590
00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:06,120
Speaker 2: that's petty as fuck.

591
00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:08,639
Speaker 3: Evie says, I.

592
00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:10,760
Speaker 2: Want to feel bad for Amanda because we talked a

593
00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:13,200
Speaker 2: little bit about a Manda Seales on this because it

594
00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:14,920
Speaker 2: can't be good to be the only one in the

595
00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:18,239
Speaker 2: cash not invited to such an important party. But if

596
00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:21,080
Speaker 2: everyone has a problem with you, then the problem is

597
00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:24,200
Speaker 2: probably you. Self reflection doesn't seem to be her strong suit.

598
00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:25,560
Speaker 4: Man.

599
00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:27,879
Speaker 3: I'm just telling you, it's crazy.

600
00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:31,000
Speaker 2: Even after we did this episode, because I I'm friends

601
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:33,840
Speaker 2: with a lot of comedians and stuff, another person read

602
00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 2: the y'all probably and was like, she did some bullshit

603
00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:37,320
Speaker 2: with me too.

604
00:28:37,960 --> 00:28:40,560
Speaker 3: I'm like, it's uncanny, and what's funny.

605
00:28:40,960 --> 00:28:45,920
Speaker 2: Everybody I'm naming hasn't told their story in public, right,

606
00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:49,880
Speaker 2: So even in this her hour of getting drug on

607
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:53,120
Speaker 2: Twitter and whatever, a lot of people are still giving

608
00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:55,720
Speaker 2: her a lot of grace, which I think is extended

609
00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:58,160
Speaker 2: to her kind of because she's a black woman. Maybe

610
00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:00,400
Speaker 2: because she's in the industry and popping and people are

611
00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:03,520
Speaker 2: scared to like burn that bridge, which I understand, but

612
00:29:04,680 --> 00:29:06,720
Speaker 2: like even now there are people that are like, I

613
00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:09,320
Speaker 2: have a story about her being a horrible person to me,

614
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:11,680
Speaker 2: and I'm gonna just keep it to myself.

615
00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:15,160
Speaker 3: So you know, the man just never forget you.

616
00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:18,640
Speaker 2: A lot of us are getting by on some grace, man,

617
00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:21,520
Speaker 2: So there's always somebody out there that's grundled about some shit.

618
00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:23,520
Speaker 3: And as long as you just kind of keep it

619
00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:26,240
Speaker 3: in line, keep you know that like it's cool.

620
00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:29,040
Speaker 2: But when you had that moment where everybody can hop

621
00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:31,000
Speaker 2: on top of you and be like, Hey, this motherfucker

622
00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:33,480
Speaker 2: right here, ain't shit. Oh they come out to woodwork.

623
00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:38,120
Speaker 2: The poem was, is Amanda seals tripping? Yes, she knows

624
00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:40,960
Speaker 2: she is doing too much. No, she made some good points.

625
00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:42,880
Speaker 4: Karen, Oh, she's doing too much.

626
00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:45,720
Speaker 2: Eighty seven percent, she's doing too much. Thirteen percent say no,

627
00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:49,280
Speaker 2: she made some good points. Shout out to y'all the faithful.

628
00:29:50,320 --> 00:29:53,720
Speaker 2: Rebecca says, talk about subscriptions to issues. She has a

629
00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:57,000
Speaker 2: lot going on there, none of it's good. Ah Alicia says,

630
00:29:57,040 --> 00:29:59,320
Speaker 2: I hope Amanda accepts that she is a common denominator

631
00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:01,720
Speaker 2: and all this situa with different people and uses this

632
00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:04,960
Speaker 2: as a learning experience. I doubt it, though, Bean says,

633
00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:06,640
Speaker 2: I listened to a man this podcast and like it

634
00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:08,800
Speaker 2: and her. However, as I was listening to it, especially

635
00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:11,240
Speaker 2: when she talks about this year's incidents, I wonder why

636
00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:14,240
Speaker 2: she won decided to go because most people would operate

637
00:30:14,320 --> 00:30:16,120
Speaker 2: out of a who else gonna be there?

638
00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:18,800
Speaker 3: Or oh that bitch just throwing it. Nah, I'm good too.

639
00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:21,920
Speaker 2: I was a little confused at how this story played

640
00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:25,960
Speaker 2: into professionalism. Yeah, I didn't even mention that part of podcasts,

641
00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:30,360
Speaker 2: but she starts off talking about her own personal history

642
00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:35,200
Speaker 2: of working in certain restaurants and what professionalism means privately

643
00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:38,200
Speaker 2: and professionally on the clock and all this stuff and

644
00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:42,720
Speaker 2: no offense. It was a huge setup to come into

645
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:44,040
Speaker 2: this personal beat she got.

646
00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:44,480
Speaker 3: With this woman.

647
00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:47,080
Speaker 2: That's all that shit was, because it really had no

648
00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:52,360
Speaker 2: bearing on what professionalism meant later in the episode, because

649
00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:56,240
Speaker 2: it's literally like the opposite by the end. By the end,

650
00:30:56,280 --> 00:30:58,640
Speaker 2: professionalism just means be on her side, no matter what

651
00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:01,600
Speaker 2: it was supposed to be profession For the bouncers to

652
00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:04,360
Speaker 2: quit on the spot and be like we refuse to

653
00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:07,400
Speaker 2: remove this woman, this sister. You know, it was supposed

654
00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:10,760
Speaker 2: to be professionalism for the woman who was instructed.

655
00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:12,120
Speaker 4: By her boss to not let her in the party

656
00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:14,040
Speaker 4: to be like, no, I have to let this.

657
00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:17,000
Speaker 3: Woman in the party. What if one day she has

658
00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:18,240
Speaker 3: a job and she won't let me.

659
00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:21,000
Speaker 2: Work for her, you know, like it was all this weird,

660
00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:23,520
Speaker 2: Like whatever's on my side at the moment is what

661
00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:26,400
Speaker 2: people should have done. I understand how it started, but

662
00:31:26,480 --> 00:31:28,080
Speaker 2: it did venture off and the Hey, y'all listen to

663
00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:29,920
Speaker 2: what happened to me. But I'm trash and don't mind

664
00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:31,920
Speaker 2: listening to a little bit of gossip, so it definitely

665
00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:32,920
Speaker 2: does skin off my back.

666
00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:35,400
Speaker 3: Y'all want to know what I think?

667
00:31:35,480 --> 00:31:35,600
Speaker 4: Is it?

668
00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:37,120
Speaker 3: Well? I finish this in our say what's sentes.

669
00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:40,120
Speaker 2: I can understand Vanessa from the management group not being

670
00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:42,360
Speaker 2: professional to a degree, but she also doesn't have to

671
00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:45,200
Speaker 2: treat you more than the usual scoop of human decency.

672
00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:48,040
Speaker 2: So long as it's respectful, it doesn't mean that she

673
00:31:48,080 --> 00:31:51,680
Speaker 2: feels otherwise. I'm having similar issues with professionalism with coworkers myself,

674
00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:53,640
Speaker 2: and I just keep it along the lines or speak

675
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:55,800
Speaker 2: when spoken to answer to the best of my knowledge,

676
00:31:56,000 --> 00:31:58,240
Speaker 2: don't get physical with anyone, even though they may want

677
00:31:58,280 --> 00:32:01,840
Speaker 2: to push you to that point, and any problems they

678
00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:05,000
Speaker 2: are that are had are spoken about privately, with no

679
00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:08,520
Speaker 2: intentions of humiliating someone and seeking the supervisor. If you're

680
00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:11,320
Speaker 2: at an impass I see if Amanda was embarrassed from

681
00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:13,640
Speaker 2: last years incident, but personally speaking, that would have been

682
00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:16,240
Speaker 2: enough to stare clear of going to any events that

683
00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:19,840
Speaker 2: person was in charge of, if I knew they were

684
00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:23,680
Speaker 2: holding on holding it, or even if the agent their

685
00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:25,720
Speaker 2: agency was throwing the party, so I can avoid any

686
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:27,840
Speaker 2: possible issues at the very least, I don't want to

687
00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:30,160
Speaker 2: be uncomfortable myself. Hopefully next year should have a sense

688
00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:32,320
Speaker 2: of stay away or throw her own party, or go

689
00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:34,320
Speaker 2: to one where she absolutely sure she's on the list.

690
00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:36,520
Speaker 4: She'll be back trying to get in again.

691
00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:37,320
Speaker 3: Possibly.

692
00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:40,040
Speaker 2: What I was gonna say is, it's been over a

693
00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:42,800
Speaker 2: week now, anyone noticed we don't have no stories about

694
00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:47,240
Speaker 2: this Vanessa woman in an environment where people couldn't wait

695
00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:50,440
Speaker 2: to be like, well this is what this is what

696
00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:53,160
Speaker 2: Amanda did to me. There has to be other people,

697
00:32:54,160 --> 00:32:57,760
Speaker 2: right If Vanessa is this terrible, unprofessional person that just

698
00:32:58,680 --> 00:33:00,720
Speaker 2: starts hating out of no reason and then keep kicking

699
00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:01,320
Speaker 2: people out of them.

700
00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:02,360
Speaker 4: Know, people go dig.

701
00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:04,760
Speaker 3: How can a man be the only one the only

702
00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:05,480
Speaker 3: one complaining?

703
00:33:06,760 --> 00:33:08,600
Speaker 2: Man says, I didn't vote because even though I think

704
00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:11,240
Speaker 2: she's tripping, I'm not sure if she knows it. It

705
00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:14,920
Speaker 2: started to sound like she personally wouldn't allow her personality,

706
00:33:14,920 --> 00:33:17,960
Speaker 2: wouldn't even allow her to consider herself being wrong. I

707
00:33:18,040 --> 00:33:20,200
Speaker 2: follow her on IG and I never seen her apologize

708
00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:23,040
Speaker 2: or say she's wrong about anything. Yeah, that was a

709
00:33:23,120 --> 00:33:26,120
Speaker 2: big thing I noticed about people in general, and I

710
00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:27,480
Speaker 2: just stopped fucking with people like that.

711
00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:32,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, you can't apologize. You always right, everybody's tripping. You

712
00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:35,960
Speaker 4: always the victim, Like you don't. Nothing you do is

713
00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:39,560
Speaker 4: based in reality. It's basing your reality, but not in

714
00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:40,600
Speaker 4: the reality reality.

715
00:33:40,880 --> 00:33:43,200
Speaker 2: Now, you stay dragging people, You stay pointing out how

716
00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 2: everybody else ain't shit, ain't ain't right about stuff, and

717
00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:48,320
Speaker 2: what they should do when they're wrong, and how they

718
00:33:48,320 --> 00:33:51,600
Speaker 2: should apologize and all this shit, And it's like, nah,

719
00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:55,760
Speaker 2: you're really just on some massacres shit Because whenever someone

720
00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:57,880
Speaker 2: points out, well, you're wrong, because a person that gets

721
00:33:57,920 --> 00:34:00,320
Speaker 2: hot takes all day about shit, it's gonna run a

722
00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:02,480
Speaker 2: foul of people at some point, and when you see

723
00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:05,160
Speaker 2: how they deal with conflict, how they deal with people disagreeing,

724
00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:08,160
Speaker 2: it's almost always fuck you, I'm right always, or.

725
00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:09,799
Speaker 4: Where you either ignore the fuck out of them.

726
00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:13,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I'm like, you know what, that's why I

727
00:34:13,640 --> 00:34:15,719
Speaker 2: can't really fuck with y'all, because y'all full of shit.

728
00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:19,960
Speaker 2: You're not really righteous, You just you just you just

729
00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:22,359
Speaker 2: want to be the person deciding what everybody has to think.

730
00:34:23,120 --> 00:34:26,360
Speaker 2: Monique Akakim doc says I follow amandol Ig for the

731
00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:28,479
Speaker 2: cat videos and her commentary on some of the social

732
00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:31,560
Speaker 2: justice issues. I find her to be cantankerous and immature.

733
00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:34,719
Speaker 2: The way she asks people for she attacks people for

734
00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:37,160
Speaker 2: DM and her any form of critique tells me all

735
00:34:37,200 --> 00:34:37,600
Speaker 2: I need to know.

736
00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:37,920
Speaker 3: Yeah.

737
00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:40,240
Speaker 2: Other people said, like why she don't got no friends.

738
00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:43,560
Speaker 2: I'm like, I mean, if you put people on blast

739
00:34:43,680 --> 00:34:45,440
Speaker 2: for reaching out to you to be like, hey, I

740
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:48,600
Speaker 2: don't think you should do it out or in the

741
00:34:48,680 --> 00:34:51,280
Speaker 2: case of her in the beginning of this podcast, her friend.

742
00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:53,080
Speaker 2: She said, I talked to her friend and my friend

743
00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:56,000
Speaker 2: was like, yo, I'm not gonna talk with you when

744
00:34:56,040 --> 00:34:58,440
Speaker 2: you're just upset, and she's like, meet me and my

745
00:34:58,560 --> 00:35:00,440
Speaker 2: man and when the person I'm like, you should calm

746
00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:03,120
Speaker 2: down and not do this podcast, she was like, why

747
00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:03,920
Speaker 2: can't you ever meet me?

748
00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:06,120
Speaker 3: And like it was the other person's fault on that too.

749
00:35:06,560 --> 00:35:09,960
Speaker 2: It's like, you know, people always say stuff like you know,

750
00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:12,799
Speaker 2: I can't believe this person doesn't have friends or on them. Yeah,

751
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:17,359
Speaker 2: well I can, because normally it's you've run those kind

752
00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:18,120
Speaker 2: of friends off.

753
00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:20,919
Speaker 3: Yes you have, or you've done.

754
00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:24,120
Speaker 2: If you're the kind of person that takes on Joe public,

755
00:35:24,200 --> 00:35:26,799
Speaker 2: whenever you know you pissed everybody off, You're like, fuck them.

756
00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:28,080
Speaker 3: Everyone else is wrong. I'm right.

757
00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:31,920
Speaker 2: If you're that kind of person, chances are you're not

758
00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:35,400
Speaker 2: gonna be open to anyone telling you, yo, I think

759
00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:39,120
Speaker 2: you might have this wrong. And she has absolutely no

760
00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:41,400
Speaker 2: chill in how she goes about addressing people zero to

761
00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:41,920
Speaker 2: a thousand.

762
00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:44,960
Speaker 3: She goes way too hard. That Caitlyn Jenner thing changed her.

763
00:35:45,680 --> 00:35:47,399
Speaker 2: Oh I don't even know what that is. I don't

764
00:35:47,400 --> 00:35:49,840
Speaker 2: follow her like that. The personal issues that surround her

765
00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:53,879
Speaker 2: always hate so hazy type of stuff. They are where

766
00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:56,040
Speaker 2: you give her the benefit of doubt. But the one

767
00:35:56,120 --> 00:35:58,040
Speaker 2: thing that will perhaps get her to change is if

768
00:35:58,040 --> 00:36:00,680
Speaker 2: her bag is fucked up. She's already fumbling at time

769
00:36:00,719 --> 00:36:02,920
Speaker 2: at the time, but her live show is critically acclaimed,

770
00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:06,640
Speaker 2: she has a book coming out, and she's being looked

771
00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:07,840
Speaker 2: at as a legit comedian.

772
00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:10,920
Speaker 3: The thing with the lawyer football player was questionable. He

773
00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:11,680
Speaker 3: should have sued.

774
00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:14,279
Speaker 2: He had a case against her at the very least,

775
00:36:14,320 --> 00:36:16,040
Speaker 2: but he probably didn't want to go through the discovery

776
00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:18,440
Speaker 2: process where the women would get dragged into it. And

777
00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:21,960
Speaker 2: now this I just don't get her. Yeah, I think

778
00:36:22,080 --> 00:36:25,399
Speaker 2: that was something roll. I cannot remember that dude's name.

779
00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:28,359
Speaker 2: And I had listened to an episode of the Red

780
00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:31,839
Speaker 2: Pill podcast or her and then Robert Latau from Black

781
00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:36,480
Speaker 2: Sports Online had debated about her doing that shit, and

782
00:36:37,560 --> 00:36:39,880
Speaker 2: he was explaining why he thought it was fucked up

783
00:36:39,960 --> 00:36:42,960
Speaker 2: for her to, like, you know, basically accuse this dude

784
00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:47,279
Speaker 2: of being rapie and all this stuff with women, and

785
00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:50,160
Speaker 2: she basically defended it as this is the right thing

786
00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:52,520
Speaker 2: to do, And you're the one that's really fucked up

787
00:36:52,560 --> 00:36:54,719
Speaker 2: for telling people that I was saying these things on

788
00:36:54,880 --> 00:36:59,200
Speaker 2: Instagram and you know, embellishing it in headlines and stuff

789
00:36:59,719 --> 00:37:01,680
Speaker 2: to me. And it was like two people kind of

790
00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:04,560
Speaker 2: being wrong at the same time. But I listened to

791
00:37:04,640 --> 00:37:07,040
Speaker 2: it to see like what are their perspectives. And the

792
00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:09,360
Speaker 2: thing I came away with it was thinking, like, Amanda

793
00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:11,960
Speaker 2: Seals is one of those people where you can't really

794
00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:18,000
Speaker 2: build a foundation of defending her or having her back

795
00:37:18,239 --> 00:37:20,200
Speaker 2: because she's one of those people that's always kind of

796
00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:21,239
Speaker 2: wrong too.

797
00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:24,040
Speaker 3: So it's like, while you're trying to be like, well, as.

798
00:37:23,960 --> 00:37:26,480
Speaker 2: A black woman, I want to support this sister, because

799
00:37:26,719 --> 00:37:29,520
Speaker 2: she's also doing something fucked up in the background, and

800
00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:31,600
Speaker 2: now you look stupid because people are like, well, what

801
00:37:31,680 --> 00:37:33,279
Speaker 2: about when she did this other thing. It's like I

802
00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:35,640
Speaker 2: didn't even know she was doing this shit or so

803
00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:38,239
Speaker 2: you just have to almost let her go out there.

804
00:37:38,280 --> 00:37:39,960
Speaker 2: And that's the other thing. She's always gonna be in

805
00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:43,279
Speaker 2: some shit. She is always gonna be another thing, you know.

806
00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:47,000
Speaker 2: And so there's certain people and it works for them.

807
00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:49,640
Speaker 2: It's lucrative. I mean certain people that the reason we

808
00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:51,520
Speaker 2: know them is because they stay in some shit and

809
00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:54,200
Speaker 2: they're always one foot right, one foot wrong.

810
00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:56,080
Speaker 3: And that's the thing that drives conversation.

811
00:37:56,200 --> 00:37:58,920
Speaker 2: We've been talking about this woman for however long on

812
00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:02,600
Speaker 2: the show and personal lives and on Twitter because she

813
00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:05,879
Speaker 2: drives conversations because that's kind of you know what, what's

814
00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:09,040
Speaker 2: keeping her relevant? You know, is us being like it's

815
00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:11,279
Speaker 2: you know, let's discuss the nuance of this thing. Let's

816
00:38:11,280 --> 00:38:14,200
Speaker 2: discuss the back and forth. And she's very good at

817
00:38:14,280 --> 00:38:18,160
Speaker 2: starting shit that makes people talk about it. So but yeah,

818
00:38:18,160 --> 00:38:20,800
Speaker 2: I don't know the Caitlyn Jenner thing or the I

819
00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:22,800
Speaker 2: really don't follow her Like I wasn't joking when I

820
00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:23,840
Speaker 2: said I don't follow her like that.

821
00:38:24,880 --> 00:38:26,560
Speaker 3: Every time she pops up. It's just some most shit

822
00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:33,200
Speaker 3: she got into. So so good luck with all of that.

823
00:38:35,040 --> 00:38:37,040
Speaker 3: It was funny as the podcast called Professional is a

824
00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:39,400
Speaker 3: Part one, so I want to I will be tuning

825
00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:40,319
Speaker 3: in to see if that's a part.

826
00:38:40,239 --> 00:38:43,160
Speaker 4: Two, right, that's the thing. It may or may not be.

827
00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:44,040
Speaker 3: She may have did that.

828
00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:46,680
Speaker 4: Next episode they move on like she never happened, or

829
00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:48,440
Speaker 4: that she just might be like, hey, part two.

830
00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:51,040
Speaker 3: Like after the response, it's almost like I got to see,

831
00:38:51,440 --> 00:38:54,680
Speaker 3: how does this come on? Is it gonna be a series?

832
00:38:55,840 --> 00:38:59,480
Speaker 2: Falcons Diva left us a comment for episode nineteen seventy two,

833
00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:02,279
Speaker 2: which was Queen of ny Rap.

834
00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:04,600
Speaker 3: Falcons Diva says.

835
00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:07,800
Speaker 2: This show art because it was a screenshot from the

836
00:39:07,920 --> 00:39:10,479
Speaker 2: bars that that sister was dropping that tried to touch

837
00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:11,000
Speaker 2: that line.

838
00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:12,240
Speaker 3: Lol.

839
00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:15,120
Speaker 2: I just started listening, and I'm very excited interested in

840
00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:17,879
Speaker 2: discovering a reason for me almost screaming when I opened

841
00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:20,920
Speaker 2: this episode of my podcast app, Phil g says, Hey,

842
00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:24,160
Speaker 2: the Black Autist fan, Fam. I know you're you all

843
00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:26,960
Speaker 2: love each other and us listeners as well, But Karen,

844
00:39:27,040 --> 00:39:28,719
Speaker 2: I think you need to pull Rod to the side

845
00:39:28,760 --> 00:39:31,120
Speaker 2: before the show and at least give him a heads

846
00:39:31,200 --> 00:39:33,840
Speaker 2: up on your random thought so he doesn't sound so lost.

847
00:39:34,280 --> 00:39:35,320
Speaker 3: I enjoyed the deep.

848
00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:38,520
Speaker 2: Cut off of you mentioning stain from my hero Academia,

849
00:39:38,880 --> 00:39:41,279
Speaker 2: but it seemed to catch Rod off of guard. You

850
00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:43,400
Speaker 2: know what, I can't even keep it straight face as

851
00:39:43,480 --> 00:39:46,680
Speaker 2: I'm typing this, trying to recreate that post you are

852
00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:47,399
Speaker 2: from a year ago.

853
00:39:47,600 --> 00:39:50,160
Speaker 3: Love the show, Fam. I don't even remember that post.

854
00:39:50,800 --> 00:39:50,920
Speaker 5: Well.

855
00:39:51,040 --> 00:39:53,800
Speaker 2: I do regularly remember somebody saying something like that, but

856
00:39:55,360 --> 00:39:57,000
Speaker 2: you know, you know, hate man, you gotta let it

857
00:39:57,080 --> 00:40:00,480
Speaker 2: roll off your back. I don't even remember says that

858
00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:06,320
Speaker 2: bloody judge bruh, that bloody blade judge bruh, spouting the

859
00:40:06,719 --> 00:40:12,239
Speaker 2: completing other bullocks religious folks. The procacy is so maddening. Yeah,

860
00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:18,040
Speaker 2: the judge was crying because people wasn't feeling her hugging

861
00:40:18,080 --> 00:40:22,800
Speaker 2: in that cop and giving her a Bible, Like, and

862
00:40:22,920 --> 00:40:25,719
Speaker 2: then I think I read this may happen after we

863
00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:28,080
Speaker 2: did this episode. But then she had an article of

864
00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:32,279
Speaker 2: the quote with something like if she wasn't white, people

865
00:40:32,320 --> 00:40:35,239
Speaker 2: wouldn't even be mad that I hugged her and gave

866
00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:39,160
Speaker 2: her a Bible. And I hate to tell you this, ma'am.

867
00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:42,879
Speaker 3: If she was black, If she was a black cop

868
00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:46,160
Speaker 3: that killed somebody and you came down there and hugged

869
00:40:46,719 --> 00:40:49,560
Speaker 3: her and gave her a bible, it just be different people.

870
00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:51,640
Speaker 4: Mad, be different people upset.

871
00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:54,120
Speaker 3: Stay your ass in the booth. What the fuck are

872
00:40:54,120 --> 00:40:54,560
Speaker 3: you doing?

873
00:40:55,640 --> 00:40:57,680
Speaker 2: Even he says, I think the judge's move was more

874
00:40:57,719 --> 00:41:02,040
Speaker 2: politically motivated than religious, considering that she was endorsed by

875
00:41:02,239 --> 00:41:04,960
Speaker 2: the Dallas PD. Fuck her at all our scam folks

876
00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:07,960
Speaker 2: are not. I can't folks just like that line. Later

877
00:41:08,040 --> 00:41:10,680
Speaker 2: the crazy jumped out at that picture. And you know

878
00:41:10,800 --> 00:41:16,919
Speaker 2: she lives off of alkaline water and hotel chips. Yeah, yeah,

879
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:19,480
Speaker 2: I think I speculated about that too with the judge,

880
00:41:19,600 --> 00:41:24,600
Speaker 2: that her being endorsed by the police association may maybe

881
00:41:24,640 --> 00:41:27,680
Speaker 2: that's why she did it cynically, you know, I don't

882
00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:30,840
Speaker 2: even know what's worse. If she did it genuinely thinking

883
00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:33,080
Speaker 2: that that's the Christian thing to do, which I think

884
00:41:33,200 --> 00:41:35,839
Speaker 2: is ridiculous because you've never done that before, or if

885
00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:40,800
Speaker 2: she did that because she was just it, you know,

886
00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:45,160
Speaker 2: because of the police union thing. The poe was, have

887
00:41:45,239 --> 00:41:46,960
Speaker 2: you ever left a job for mental health reasons?

888
00:41:47,040 --> 00:41:47,200
Speaker 3: Yes?

889
00:41:47,360 --> 00:41:47,520
Speaker 6: Or no?

890
00:41:49,040 --> 00:41:49,080
Speaker 4: Me?

891
00:41:49,320 --> 00:41:52,480
Speaker 3: No, I don't think I have either, although I should

892
00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:56,200
Speaker 3: have same. Looking back, it's like saying.

893
00:41:56,040 --> 00:41:57,400
Speaker 4: It's a lot of jobs. I should have told you

894
00:41:57,480 --> 00:41:58,360
Speaker 4: to kiss mask.

895
00:41:58,480 --> 00:41:59,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was not happy.

896
00:42:00,920 --> 00:42:02,799
Speaker 4: If I had the knowledge that I know now it's

897
00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:04,640
Speaker 4: a lot of jobs, I'd be like, fuck this and.

898
00:42:04,719 --> 00:42:07,040
Speaker 3: Fuck oh you know what. I take it back, y'all.

899
00:42:07,360 --> 00:42:10,200
Speaker 2: I have, I did, But it's just I guess I

900
00:42:10,320 --> 00:42:12,160
Speaker 2: never thought of it in these ways because we didn't

901
00:42:12,160 --> 00:42:13,759
Speaker 2: have all these woke words for at the time. But

902
00:42:13,840 --> 00:42:19,520
Speaker 2: when I quit Wendy's in college, yes, yes, with this, Yeah,

903
00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:22,360
Speaker 2: they knew you ain't coming when yourses and show up.

904
00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:24,880
Speaker 2: No more, Like they kept putting me on the schedule

905
00:42:25,520 --> 00:42:28,600
Speaker 2: at night, and I told him I was a college student.

906
00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:31,120
Speaker 3: When I applied, I told him I did not want

907
00:42:31,120 --> 00:42:31,719
Speaker 3: to close or.

908
00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:38,560
Speaker 2: Work nights, specifically because I had morning classes, and they

909
00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:40,560
Speaker 2: did it for a few weeks. They just let me

910
00:42:40,640 --> 00:42:42,600
Speaker 2: work the schedule I was supposed to work, and then

911
00:42:42,680 --> 00:42:44,719
Speaker 2: just one day they started sliding me into the nights

912
00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:46,560
Speaker 2: like oh so and so, okay, come in, can you

913
00:42:46,640 --> 00:42:46,840
Speaker 2: make it?

914
00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:48,560
Speaker 3: Can you do it tonight? Okay?

915
00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:50,279
Speaker 2: Then I come in the next day, now I want

916
00:42:50,320 --> 00:42:52,640
Speaker 2: to schedule to close two three nights.

917
00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:53,920
Speaker 3: In the round. Was like, I'm not doing this. What

918
00:42:54,000 --> 00:42:56,560
Speaker 3: areyall doing? Oh my bad? Okay, you're right, you're right.

919
00:42:56,560 --> 00:42:58,920
Speaker 2: I forgot You're gonna close all right, We're gonna put

920
00:42:58,920 --> 00:43:01,000
Speaker 2: you back on the daytime ship or whatever. And then

921
00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:04,640
Speaker 2: at one point it was like, uh they told me

922
00:43:04,680 --> 00:43:06,799
Speaker 2: they were going to do that, and then I said, okay, cool,

923
00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:09,080
Speaker 2: I'm back on the daytime shift. I can do these hours.

924
00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:11,400
Speaker 2: I'm out of here by like and I wasn't even

925
00:43:11,440 --> 00:43:13,880
Speaker 2: being a dick like nine ten, I just need to

926
00:43:13,960 --> 00:43:18,960
Speaker 2: get back shower study, and they were like back to

927
00:43:19,040 --> 00:43:21,759
Speaker 2: closing after like the when I came in one week,

928
00:43:21,920 --> 00:43:24,320
Speaker 2: all five of my days was like close, close, closed,

929
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:29,520
Speaker 2: and I just went home and uh yeah, I just

930
00:43:29,560 --> 00:43:29,920
Speaker 2: went home.

931
00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:35,239
Speaker 3: And then the next uh uh, because what it was

932
00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:37,160
Speaker 3: I was at work when I saw the new schedule.

933
00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:39,239
Speaker 3: So I just went home.

934
00:43:39,280 --> 00:43:40,960
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, that's what my new schedule is,

935
00:43:41,040 --> 00:43:43,640
Speaker 2: and yeah, fuck that shit. I already don't talked to

936
00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:45,840
Speaker 2: y'all once, and so I just went home. Got a

937
00:43:45,920 --> 00:43:50,400
Speaker 2: call on my on my at my dorm a couple

938
00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:53,279
Speaker 2: of like the day I was supposed to work, like, hey,

939
00:43:53,400 --> 00:43:56,400
Speaker 2: you coming in. I was like, no, why not because

940
00:43:56,400 --> 00:43:59,520
Speaker 2: I told y'all I'm not closing. And then I remember

941
00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:02,800
Speaker 2: too when I told him I wasn't closing the you know,

942
00:44:02,840 --> 00:44:04,080
Speaker 2: I was like, y'all told me y'all weren't going to

943
00:44:04,200 --> 00:44:05,400
Speaker 2: put me on schedule like that, and I was like,

944
00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:06,120
Speaker 2: you're gonna work, but we.

945
00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:08,440
Speaker 3: Need you to work. I was like, the fuck do

946
00:44:08,480 --> 00:44:08,719
Speaker 3: you think?

947
00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:09,120
Speaker 4: This? Is?

948
00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:12,759
Speaker 2: Like I had been there when there were motherfuckers that

949
00:44:12,920 --> 00:44:14,760
Speaker 2: just were And this is what I hate about jobs

950
00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:16,000
Speaker 2: like that, just in general.

951
00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:19,080
Speaker 3: The people that ain't ship get to get the like

952
00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:21,040
Speaker 3: nice treatment, right.

953
00:44:21,000 --> 00:44:22,600
Speaker 4: Because they don't want to fight scared of them, they

954
00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:23,399
Speaker 4: don't want to fall out.

955
00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:25,160
Speaker 3: With them, right. Like the people that's like I come

956
00:44:25,200 --> 00:44:26,840
Speaker 3: in when I want to, I come in late, I

957
00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:29,439
Speaker 3: leave early, I don't give a fuck about this job.

958
00:44:29,760 --> 00:44:32,320
Speaker 3: They always like begging them like, come on, Bobby, you

959
00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:35,799
Speaker 3: gotta work the grill, please, Bob. I'm like, okay, now,

960
00:44:36,120 --> 00:44:38,640
Speaker 3: my black ass takes it serious. I'm here on time.

961
00:44:39,000 --> 00:44:41,319
Speaker 3: I leave when I scheduled too. I only I always make.

962
00:44:41,280 --> 00:44:43,880
Speaker 2: Sure my job is done. I'm the one that you're like,

963
00:44:44,040 --> 00:44:46,239
Speaker 2: fuck you niggas. Work till midnight, work till two or

964
00:44:46,239 --> 00:44:46,839
Speaker 2: three in the morning.

965
00:44:46,880 --> 00:44:49,040
Speaker 3: Again. I'm a college student, man, I told you I

966
00:44:49,120 --> 00:44:51,719
Speaker 3: can't do this. Well, too bad. You want the job,

967
00:44:51,800 --> 00:44:54,359
Speaker 3: don't you. You know what? Actually, actually I'm good.

968
00:44:54,880 --> 00:44:59,120
Speaker 2: I'll go back to the cafeteria and uh and and

969
00:44:59,360 --> 00:45:01,640
Speaker 2: just you know, playing basketball every day.

970
00:45:01,719 --> 00:45:02,000
Speaker 3: Fuck it.

971
00:45:03,320 --> 00:45:04,640
Speaker 4: And they were shocked too, wouldn't he.

972
00:45:05,120 --> 00:45:07,400
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, she was like Rod, come on, like she

973
00:45:07,520 --> 00:45:09,799
Speaker 2: changed our whole time, like ride, It's nothing I could

974
00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:12,040
Speaker 2: do to convince you. I was like, no, I said,

975
00:45:12,080 --> 00:45:14,000
Speaker 2: we tried this. I said, yo, you lied to me

976
00:45:14,120 --> 00:45:15,800
Speaker 2: before and said y'all weren't gonna.

977
00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:17,879
Speaker 4: Do it right, which means you lying now right.

978
00:45:18,040 --> 00:45:19,879
Speaker 3: I said, it's just not worth it. It's cool.

979
00:45:20,000 --> 00:45:22,040
Speaker 2: I said, I can't close it all. I'm never doing

980
00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:24,399
Speaker 2: it again. I'll bring y'all uniform get my last check.

981
00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:28,160
Speaker 2: Alicia says, my therapist suggested that my psychologists actually gave

982
00:45:28,239 --> 00:45:31,040
Speaker 2: me the paperwork to short short term term disability leave

983
00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:33,719
Speaker 2: from my job without me even asking for this.

984
00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:34,680
Speaker 3: And you know what I did.

985
00:45:34,800 --> 00:45:37,320
Speaker 2: I threw those papers away. I would have felt like

986
00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:39,799
Speaker 2: a quitter, which was a stupid thought.

987
00:45:40,320 --> 00:45:43,279
Speaker 4: And what was the society makes you think?

988
00:45:43,640 --> 00:45:43,799
Speaker 3: Right?

989
00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:46,920
Speaker 2: And what was I gonna tell them when or if

990
00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:49,320
Speaker 2: I came back? What would I tell my next employer

991
00:45:49,400 --> 00:45:51,960
Speaker 2: if I didn't go back? And I was also concerned

992
00:45:51,960 --> 00:45:54,880
Speaker 2: about being judged by my family and losing income.

993
00:45:55,160 --> 00:45:57,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, because disability is still only six percent of the income.

994
00:45:57,600 --> 00:46:00,319
Speaker 2: Correct, I assume short term disability would give a certain

995
00:46:00,360 --> 00:46:02,279
Speaker 2: percentage of the income and I needed my whole check.

996
00:46:02,800 --> 00:46:07,560
Speaker 2: Also side note, I was a predominantly black doctor office,

997
00:46:08,040 --> 00:46:10,360
Speaker 2: and as a doctor was giving me my disability papers

998
00:46:10,360 --> 00:46:12,200
Speaker 2: to get an HR. One of the front desk clerical

999
00:46:12,239 --> 00:46:14,880
Speaker 2: workers was like, must be nice. Can I be excused

1000
00:46:14,880 --> 00:46:15,359
Speaker 2: from work too?

1001
00:46:15,719 --> 00:46:17,680
Speaker 3: Bitch? That was about three.

1002
00:46:17,600 --> 00:46:19,759
Speaker 2: Years ago, and I'm still struggling, but hey, at least

1003
00:46:19,800 --> 00:46:23,040
Speaker 2: I'm still here. Well, I'm glad you're still here as

1004
00:46:23,120 --> 00:46:27,480
Speaker 2: far as just life and shit. But you know, like

1005
00:46:27,760 --> 00:46:30,560
Speaker 2: I would just say, for disability, don't forget. Also, like

1006
00:46:31,400 --> 00:46:36,840
Speaker 2: it's possible. Maybe your costs would be cut with travel

1007
00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:39,320
Speaker 2: and eating lunch and all that stuff.

1008
00:46:39,800 --> 00:46:42,680
Speaker 3: So maybe sixty percent of your income might be a

1009
00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:44,400
Speaker 3: thing you could get by with.

1010
00:46:45,280 --> 00:46:47,080
Speaker 2: I don't know, you'll find out the situation, but I'm saying,

1011
00:46:47,200 --> 00:46:50,279
Speaker 2: just maybe you've already considered this, but just think about it.

1012
00:46:50,680 --> 00:46:52,880
Speaker 3: Maybe maybe it's not as hard to budget as you

1013
00:46:53,000 --> 00:46:54,520
Speaker 3: think now.

1014
00:46:54,560 --> 00:46:55,640
Speaker 4: I think a lot of people panic.

1015
00:46:56,320 --> 00:46:57,520
Speaker 3: I know I would. I know I would.

1016
00:46:57,760 --> 00:46:59,160
Speaker 2: I mean if you talked me you only getting sixty

1017
00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:00,520
Speaker 2: percent of what you was getting pay I'd be like,

1018
00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:03,640
Speaker 2: oh fuck no, I'll just stay here and try not

1019
00:47:03,719 --> 00:47:05,000
Speaker 2: to kill myself every morning.

1020
00:47:05,120 --> 00:47:07,320
Speaker 4: You know what. The thing about it, women who have

1021
00:47:07,360 --> 00:47:09,320
Speaker 4: attorney lead have to deal with that I'm pregnant. I

1022
00:47:09,360 --> 00:47:11,800
Speaker 4: don't have an option like you know. And then you

1023
00:47:11,920 --> 00:47:13,759
Speaker 4: have printed women to literally go to work every day

1024
00:47:13,920 --> 00:47:16,880
Speaker 4: until they fucking literally having the baby in front of

1025
00:47:16,960 --> 00:47:19,040
Speaker 4: fucking Greece and Fries because they can't afford it.

1026
00:47:19,600 --> 00:47:22,919
Speaker 3: Right. A Cottera queen said, Oh, and did I say

1027
00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:25,400
Speaker 3: the percentages? I don't think I did. Fifty three percent

1028
00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:28,040
Speaker 3: said yes they have a fajab for mental health reasons,

1029
00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:29,320
Speaker 3: at forty seven percent say no.

1030
00:47:29,800 --> 00:47:32,279
Speaker 2: A Cota Queen says, I worked at one of the

1031
00:47:32,360 --> 00:47:34,560
Speaker 2: top three banks in the world. At any given time,

1032
00:47:34,680 --> 00:47:36,920
Speaker 2: thirty percent of the staff was on temporary disability due

1033
00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:39,719
Speaker 2: to stress of the environment. That's what the supervisor told me.

1034
00:47:39,840 --> 00:47:41,840
Speaker 2: I joined those ranks after three years of being in

1035
00:47:41,920 --> 00:47:44,520
Speaker 2: that toxic environment. I did the work while on leave,

1036
00:47:44,600 --> 00:47:47,520
Speaker 2: the on leave therapy, taking my mess for depression and

1037
00:47:47,520 --> 00:47:50,600
Speaker 2: anxiety regularly, but when I came back the environment was

1038
00:47:50,640 --> 00:47:53,640
Speaker 2: the same. My request of transferred departments was repeatedly denied

1039
00:47:53,680 --> 00:47:57,320
Speaker 2: because for the business I handled in a department of

1040
00:47:57,360 --> 00:48:00,480
Speaker 2: one hundred, only five were trained for this discipline. And

1041
00:48:00,600 --> 00:48:03,279
Speaker 2: if those five, two were using INDI minut F m

1042
00:48:03,440 --> 00:48:06,399
Speaker 2: l A, which meaning at any given day, neither were

1043
00:48:06,440 --> 00:48:07,479
Speaker 2: guaranteed to show up.

1044
00:48:07,480 --> 00:48:12,080
Speaker 3: Right needs for the jobs. Hate that bullshit needs of.

1045
00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:14,200
Speaker 2: The business is not a reason to me to keep

1046
00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:16,400
Speaker 2: someone stifled in a stressful position.

1047
00:48:16,840 --> 00:48:18,799
Speaker 3: Within the year of having to take lead, I left

1048
00:48:18,840 --> 00:48:19,280
Speaker 3: the company.

1049
00:48:19,640 --> 00:48:19,759
Speaker 4: Well.

1050
00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:20,920
Speaker 3: The other thing, too, is like.

1051
00:48:22,520 --> 00:48:26,560
Speaker 2: Let's say they fired you, Let's say you died, someone

1052
00:48:26,600 --> 00:48:29,240
Speaker 2: would figure out how to do that job. And that's

1053
00:48:29,280 --> 00:48:31,520
Speaker 2: why it's bullshit to tell you can't transfer because you

1054
00:48:31,640 --> 00:48:35,359
Speaker 2: too important. Nah, Nah, I'm not too important. That's why

1055
00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:37,600
Speaker 2: y'all don't mind me being fucking stressed the fuck out

1056
00:48:37,640 --> 00:48:38,040
Speaker 2: every day.

1057
00:48:39,160 --> 00:48:41,839
Speaker 4: Yeah, and when I mean flm A is bullshit. It's

1058
00:48:41,920 --> 00:48:45,120
Speaker 4: not bullshit. Jobs hate that in your job? Consider it bullshit.

1059
00:48:45,200 --> 00:48:46,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that's what you said.

1060
00:48:46,239 --> 00:48:47,920
Speaker 4: You said job, Okay. I wanted to be sure that

1061
00:48:48,040 --> 00:48:49,040
Speaker 4: I made that clear.

1062
00:48:49,360 --> 00:48:52,160
Speaker 2: I'm still I still live with mental illness, but now

1063
00:48:52,360 --> 00:48:54,600
Speaker 2: I don't have to take hourly sit in the bathroom

1064
00:48:54,600 --> 00:48:57,040
Speaker 2: and fight tears back breaks. I took less money and

1065
00:48:57,080 --> 00:48:59,880
Speaker 2: a job with less responsibility in exchange for work life balance.

1066
00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:00,680
Speaker 3: Yep.

1067
00:49:00,760 --> 00:49:02,600
Speaker 2: A lot of people don't understand that move, man, But

1068
00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:04,680
Speaker 2: I have work jobs or I'm like it's a dad

1069
00:49:04,800 --> 00:49:08,080
Speaker 2: end job, or it's a job that's less stressful. But

1070
00:49:08,160 --> 00:49:11,200
Speaker 2: at least I'm not stressed out even though I'm not

1071
00:49:11,280 --> 00:49:14,520
Speaker 2: making as much money. Ama says I once didn't take

1072
00:49:14,560 --> 00:49:16,319
Speaker 2: on a new client who wanted to book me as

1073
00:49:16,360 --> 00:49:20,520
Speaker 2: her birth dueler. I was having such a hard mental

1074
00:49:20,600 --> 00:49:23,480
Speaker 2: health moment. I was holding it together for my other clients,

1075
00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:25,040
Speaker 2: but I knew I'd probably break if I took on

1076
00:49:25,160 --> 00:49:27,680
Speaker 2: anyone else. I was really sad about it, and I

1077
00:49:27,760 --> 00:49:29,399
Speaker 2: talked to my therapist about it. She made me feel

1078
00:49:29,400 --> 00:49:31,480
Speaker 2: a lot better and praise my good judgment. I love

1079
00:49:31,560 --> 00:49:33,719
Speaker 2: helping women, especially black women, but I wouldn't want to

1080
00:49:33,760 --> 00:49:35,920
Speaker 2: cause und harm because I couldn't emotionally be there for

1081
00:49:35,960 --> 00:49:38,000
Speaker 2: a client. It may not be the same thing as

1082
00:49:38,080 --> 00:49:39,839
Speaker 2: leaving a job, but I don't understand putting your mental

1083
00:49:39,880 --> 00:49:40,640
Speaker 2: health before a check.

1084
00:49:40,760 --> 00:49:40,920
Speaker 3: Yes.

1085
00:49:41,280 --> 00:49:44,080
Speaker 4: Yes, yes. And even if you're at a current job

1086
00:49:44,160 --> 00:49:46,520
Speaker 4: and you love your job, sometimes you got to learn

1087
00:49:46,560 --> 00:49:48,759
Speaker 4: how to say no. And that's something that I had

1088
00:49:48,800 --> 00:49:50,880
Speaker 4: to learn how to do that work balance has to

1089
00:49:50,960 --> 00:49:53,680
Speaker 4: be within the job itself. No, I can't do this,

1090
00:49:54,160 --> 00:49:57,440
Speaker 4: particularly if you're good at something, or you were in

1091
00:49:57,560 --> 00:49:59,680
Speaker 4: one department and you went to another department and an

1092
00:49:59,680 --> 00:50:02,880
Speaker 4: old apartment constantly tries to pull on you because they

1093
00:50:02,880 --> 00:50:05,239
Speaker 4: don't quote unquote really won't let you go. No, bitch

1094
00:50:05,320 --> 00:50:08,360
Speaker 4: y'all figured out. I'm not here no longer. This is

1095
00:50:08,440 --> 00:50:11,439
Speaker 4: the cutoff date I'm doing with my training. Figure it out.

1096
00:50:12,320 --> 00:50:15,160
Speaker 3: Black Steve says, Nah, my parents were refugees. We worked

1097
00:50:15,160 --> 00:50:17,759
Speaker 3: for fun. I'm gonna lose it one day probably. Yep.

1098
00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:20,880
Speaker 2: That's how I be though, Like just you work yourself

1099
00:50:21,000 --> 00:50:23,480
Speaker 2: till you breaking and it's like, oh shit, how I'm

1100
00:50:23,480 --> 00:50:24,840
Speaker 2: gonna get back together, you.

1101
00:50:24,880 --> 00:50:25,480
Speaker 6: Know, like.

1102
00:50:27,160 --> 00:50:29,560
Speaker 2: Try not to ignore the signs. But yeah, man, you

1103
00:50:29,680 --> 00:50:33,000
Speaker 2: have to like really examine some of the things that

1104
00:50:33,080 --> 00:50:34,719
Speaker 2: we were taught in some of the things that we

1105
00:50:34,960 --> 00:50:38,840
Speaker 2: believe in internalives about ourselves, especially as brown people in America,

1106
00:50:38,960 --> 00:50:41,439
Speaker 2: Like there's a whole lot of imposter syndrome. Shit, there's

1107
00:50:41,440 --> 00:50:43,960
Speaker 2: a whole lot of work twice as hard for half

1108
00:50:44,000 --> 00:50:47,360
Speaker 2: as much mentality. And when we buy into it and

1109
00:50:47,440 --> 00:50:50,000
Speaker 2: the low long term effects, is us running ourselves down.

1110
00:50:49,880 --> 00:50:50,359
Speaker 3: To the bone.

1111
00:50:50,719 --> 00:50:53,399
Speaker 4: Yes, yes, And I'm very very very rogic noo fat,

1112
00:50:53,440 --> 00:50:55,759
Speaker 4: I'm very very guilty that somebody sit in the chat

1113
00:50:55,840 --> 00:50:57,120
Speaker 4: room you're dying and walk over here.

1114
00:50:57,200 --> 00:50:57,359
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1115
00:50:57,520 --> 00:50:59,799
Speaker 4: Yeah. I've had family members who have worked at places

1116
00:50:59,840 --> 00:51:01,640
Speaker 4: with people have literally dropped dead at the job. They

1117
00:51:01,719 --> 00:51:03,680
Speaker 4: put a blanket over them and told people to keep

1118
00:51:03,680 --> 00:51:05,600
Speaker 4: it pushing around them until somebody came and got the

1119
00:51:05,640 --> 00:51:06,120
Speaker 4: dead body.

1120
00:51:06,600 --> 00:51:09,080
Speaker 2: Brooklyn Shoe Base says, I've taken time off to spend

1121
00:51:09,280 --> 00:51:11,200
Speaker 2: a week in the mental hospital. Then I had so

1122
00:51:11,320 --> 00:51:14,920
Speaker 2: many outpatient visits after my release, I couldn't go to work. Luckily,

1123
00:51:15,040 --> 00:51:17,160
Speaker 2: my job had paid in the state disability fund and

1124
00:51:17,200 --> 00:51:21,759
Speaker 2: my strength declared me temporarily disabled. Shady dame says, Yes,

1125
00:51:21,920 --> 00:51:24,280
Speaker 2: I worked at a bank rhymes which smells cargo.

1126
00:51:25,120 --> 00:51:28,560
Speaker 3: I wonder what pick it was, Oh, Bank of America,

1127
00:51:28,719 --> 00:51:32,919
Speaker 3: I see. I was at Union. I was the first union. Damn,

1128
00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:35,239
Speaker 3: we took it back, We taking it way back. I

1129
00:51:35,400 --> 00:51:36,839
Speaker 3: was in the new accounts at left.

1130
00:51:38,239 --> 00:51:40,360
Speaker 2: I was in new accounts and left because I just

1131
00:51:40,560 --> 00:51:43,520
Speaker 2: really got tired of the shaky practices. I felt like

1132
00:51:43,600 --> 00:51:47,640
Speaker 2: a terrible person singing, signing up people's grandmas for shit

1133
00:51:47,719 --> 00:51:51,200
Speaker 2: that they didn't need, seeing people a whole motherfucking check

1134
00:51:51,280 --> 00:51:53,920
Speaker 2: wiped out when they direct deposit hits because the bank

1135
00:51:54,000 --> 00:51:56,200
Speaker 2: charges hundreds of dollars in overdraft fees because they were

1136
00:51:56,239 --> 00:51:59,720
Speaker 2: fifty dollars over drawn, and working what felt like endless

1137
00:51:59,760 --> 00:52:02,280
Speaker 2: hours that honestly felt like I worked as a widget

1138
00:52:02,360 --> 00:52:04,840
Speaker 2: maker for the devil. My dad always taught us to

1139
00:52:04,880 --> 00:52:06,600
Speaker 2: save money in case you need to walk away from

1140
00:52:06,640 --> 00:52:09,680
Speaker 2: a situation that doesn't serve you. I'm a most sure

1141
00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:12,520
Speaker 2: he meant a romantic relationship, but gaining all that bad

1142
00:52:12,600 --> 00:52:13,120
Speaker 2: harm at.

1143
00:52:13,040 --> 00:52:14,799
Speaker 3: That shitty job didn't serve me either.

1144
00:52:15,239 --> 00:52:17,879
Speaker 2: I quit the job, and I took about six months

1145
00:52:17,960 --> 00:52:22,000
Speaker 2: off of work to rebuild my spirit. Now I work

1146
00:52:22,120 --> 00:52:25,239
Speaker 2: at a regular ass a stressful job, but it's not

1147
00:52:26,000 --> 00:52:28,640
Speaker 2: something that makes me feel like I'm doing anyone wrong.

1148
00:52:28,719 --> 00:52:30,960
Speaker 2: When I leave work, I don't have to look at

1149
00:52:31,040 --> 00:52:34,319
Speaker 2: people literally crying and stell myself against their feelings, even

1150
00:52:34,360 --> 00:52:36,640
Speaker 2: though nine times out of ten they were in the right.

1151
00:52:37,800 --> 00:52:41,360
Speaker 3: Yep. I never understood, especially that era when before Obama

1152
00:52:41,520 --> 00:52:43,200
Speaker 3: with the bank draft feeds, well you.

1153
00:52:43,280 --> 00:52:45,960
Speaker 4: A penny over, oh, we get ready to cause. The

1154
00:52:46,120 --> 00:52:48,360
Speaker 4: thing is a lot of people have a tendency to

1155
00:52:48,520 --> 00:52:51,920
Speaker 4: forget how they used to the computers used to actually calculate,

1156
00:52:52,200 --> 00:52:54,800
Speaker 4: how can we make your shit bounce? Like literally, no

1157
00:52:54,960 --> 00:52:57,520
Speaker 4: matter what you did that two PM shit, that shit

1158
00:52:57,600 --> 00:53:01,160
Speaker 4: didn't matter if they could rearrange. They rearranged it and

1159
00:53:01,760 --> 00:53:03,560
Speaker 4: put that shit, and they didn't have no limits on

1160
00:53:03,719 --> 00:53:06,000
Speaker 4: how much they could fear you. The shit was fucking wild.

1161
00:53:07,200 --> 00:53:07,439
Speaker 3: Yep.

1162
00:53:09,440 --> 00:53:11,920
Speaker 2: Even he says, my last office job stressed me out

1163
00:53:12,000 --> 00:53:16,120
Speaker 2: so much I went into premature labor. The final straw

1164
00:53:16,280 --> 00:53:17,919
Speaker 2: was when I was on maternity leave and they asked

1165
00:53:17,960 --> 00:53:19,960
Speaker 2: me to come back early. When I came back, I

1166
00:53:20,040 --> 00:53:22,320
Speaker 2: knew it was with the intent to hand in my resignation.

1167
00:53:22,440 --> 00:53:25,200
Speaker 2: And let me tell you, when I handed in my notice.

1168
00:53:25,239 --> 00:53:26,840
Speaker 2: I felt like a weight had been lifted off of

1169
00:53:26,920 --> 00:53:29,680
Speaker 2: my shoulder. You know, it's so interesting, man, because there's

1170
00:53:29,680 --> 00:53:31,719
Speaker 2: been situations in my life where I thought I was

1171
00:53:31,760 --> 00:53:34,960
Speaker 2: stressed out because like I didn't want to do something

1172
00:53:34,960 --> 00:53:36,120
Speaker 2: because I was like I don't want to do with

1173
00:53:36,160 --> 00:53:36,719
Speaker 2: the stress of that.

1174
00:53:37,280 --> 00:53:38,160
Speaker 3: It's gonna be changed.

1175
00:53:38,160 --> 00:53:40,600
Speaker 2: It's gonna be work, it's gonna be this, and then

1176
00:53:40,800 --> 00:53:44,280
Speaker 2: like you lose it or something happens and the situation

1177
00:53:44,440 --> 00:53:45,080
Speaker 2: falls out.

1178
00:53:45,040 --> 00:53:47,000
Speaker 3: Either way, because it's gonna fall out.

1179
00:53:47,400 --> 00:53:49,799
Speaker 2: Either the job gonna stress you out, you're gonna pass out,

1180
00:53:49,840 --> 00:53:52,080
Speaker 2: something gonna happen. It's gonna fuck up because it's just

1181
00:53:52,120 --> 00:53:54,920
Speaker 2: an untenable situation and that's what's stressing you out. But

1182
00:53:55,239 --> 00:53:58,320
Speaker 2: no matter how it's resolved, once it's resolved, I always

1183
00:53:58,360 --> 00:54:02,560
Speaker 2: felt better, didn't even matter. It didn't even matter, like

1184
00:54:02,680 --> 00:54:04,919
Speaker 2: it could be a fuck it could have a fucked

1185
00:54:05,000 --> 00:54:07,560
Speaker 2: up resolution where it's like, damn me and this person

1186
00:54:07,600 --> 00:54:10,640
Speaker 2: aren't friends anymore, or damn me, I'm not working at

1187
00:54:10,680 --> 00:54:13,800
Speaker 2: this job they laid me off, or you know whatever

1188
00:54:13,880 --> 00:54:17,760
Speaker 2: it was. I immediately, like not immediately, but over time,

1189
00:54:18,719 --> 00:54:22,880
Speaker 2: I felt the pressure gone, and it's really made me

1190
00:54:22,960 --> 00:54:26,200
Speaker 2: go back and go. I wasted time being in that situation,

1191
00:54:26,960 --> 00:54:29,400
Speaker 2: so it almost doesn't matter how you get out of it.

1192
00:54:30,080 --> 00:54:32,439
Speaker 2: My financial future was uncertain, but I was happy those

1193
00:54:32,520 --> 00:54:35,080
Speaker 2: last two weeks. I took two hour lunches and did

1194
00:54:35,120 --> 00:54:37,480
Speaker 2: absolute bare minimal and dared them to say shit to me.

1195
00:54:37,800 --> 00:54:39,040
Speaker 3: But it was so good to let go.

1196
00:54:39,360 --> 00:54:41,600
Speaker 2: Sometimes it's better walk away from the second your mental

1197
00:54:41,680 --> 00:54:44,959
Speaker 2: health or you'll be miserable all time, all the time.

1198
00:54:45,440 --> 00:54:49,120
Speaker 3: Yep, I love I love these stories, guys. That was dope.

1199
00:54:51,280 --> 00:54:53,879
Speaker 2: Doctor dou Bro was the last episode of the week.

1200
00:54:55,120 --> 00:54:58,200
Speaker 2: It was our Walking Dad recap, and you guys left

1201
00:54:58,200 --> 00:55:03,000
Speaker 2: four comments, so I really do care. Uh in Mine says,

1202
00:55:03,080 --> 00:55:07,319
Speaker 2: I'm so excited. Thank y'all for bringing the recast back.

1203
00:55:07,440 --> 00:55:09,600
Speaker 3: I know over the years you both talk about how

1204
00:55:09,640 --> 00:55:12,120
Speaker 3: the show is losing viewers, but because of your recast,

1205
00:55:12,280 --> 00:55:12,960
Speaker 3: it gained one.

1206
00:55:13,480 --> 00:55:16,200
Speaker 2: I love the start of this episode. If I if

1207
00:55:16,280 --> 00:55:19,839
Speaker 2: only they yelled out this is fought of, but did again.

1208
00:55:20,000 --> 00:55:23,400
Speaker 2: Three hundred all died, so maybe not h man. I

1209
00:55:23,480 --> 00:55:26,319
Speaker 2: wish I could pull niggas like Rosita a man, right,

1210
00:55:26,560 --> 00:55:26,840
Speaker 2: don't she?

1211
00:55:27,360 --> 00:55:31,640
Speaker 3: She keep listen? Rosita keep a bed, Okay, she keep

1212
00:55:31,680 --> 00:55:32,680
Speaker 3: a man around?

1213
00:55:32,760 --> 00:55:35,360
Speaker 4: Her so deep, even if she not snugging, if she

1214
00:55:35,400 --> 00:55:37,200
Speaker 4: gonna keep the man, they get along too.

1215
00:55:37,440 --> 00:55:37,960
Speaker 3: Yeah they do.

1216
00:55:38,480 --> 00:55:40,040
Speaker 4: I thought you three dads in the baby.

1217
00:55:40,239 --> 00:55:42,279
Speaker 3: She came over there and was resolving that shit. Don't

1218
00:55:42,320 --> 00:55:44,239
Speaker 3: you talk to seek like that man?

1219
00:55:44,280 --> 00:55:46,080
Speaker 2: I wish I could pull niggas like Rosita, a man

1220
00:55:46,160 --> 00:55:48,120
Speaker 2: to check my baby's health, a man to smash, and

1221
00:55:48,160 --> 00:55:49,120
Speaker 2: a man the babysit.

1222
00:55:49,640 --> 00:55:52,000
Speaker 3: And all I have to do is breastfeed and work

1223
00:55:52,040 --> 00:55:54,879
Speaker 3: on myself. Yeah, she was like, all I'm just trying

1224
00:55:54,920 --> 00:55:57,200
Speaker 3: to get back in shape and this baby. Wait on

1225
00:55:57,600 --> 00:55:59,719
Speaker 3: this baby, uh work.

1226
00:56:00,040 --> 00:56:03,400
Speaker 2: He's an eagan fun coo pop idea. It's going to

1227
00:56:03,520 --> 00:56:04,960
Speaker 2: be so much fun this season.

1228
00:56:05,000 --> 00:56:07,919
Speaker 3: I can't wait. And please let Darryl and Connie's ship

1229
00:56:08,080 --> 00:56:12,200
Speaker 3: fully manifest, please show so to please show runners, please

1230
00:56:12,600 --> 00:56:15,360
Speaker 3: end note. King Zeke is so then thirsty, but I

1231
00:56:15,480 --> 00:56:19,920
Speaker 3: love it. Hey, hey so awkward.

1232
00:56:20,120 --> 00:56:23,719
Speaker 2: Hey Carol, you look you look good doing you're looking nice? Hey,

1233
00:56:24,719 --> 00:56:27,400
Speaker 2: tou guitar says, and we're back. I was on the

1234
00:56:27,440 --> 00:56:30,400
Speaker 2: fear ride, so this no breaks thing is cool. I

1235
00:56:30,560 --> 00:56:33,000
Speaker 2: enjoyed the season opener. The pacent was good. However, I

1236
00:56:33,080 --> 00:56:36,360
Speaker 2: agree that the conversation repeats we're all Gray, Dicka Taro.

1237
00:56:36,960 --> 00:56:40,120
Speaker 2: I liked having the episode set up as chapters. I

1238
00:56:40,200 --> 00:56:42,719
Speaker 2: wonder how long they're gonna do that, But I liked

1239
00:56:42,760 --> 00:56:43,359
Speaker 2: it me too.

1240
00:56:43,640 --> 00:56:46,160
Speaker 4: It actually made the stories move quicker, in my opinion,

1241
00:56:46,280 --> 00:56:48,000
Speaker 4: made it easier to recap. Yes, it did.

1242
00:56:48,520 --> 00:56:51,640
Speaker 3: It was a nice change of pace. Micheuan, missus her Man, girl,

1243
00:56:51,840 --> 00:56:55,200
Speaker 3: we all do. Thanks for the recap. Y'all rightbody, miss

1244
00:56:55,360 --> 00:57:00,160
Speaker 3: Rick to tell you the truth, Phil G said, it's

1245
00:57:00,200 --> 00:57:00,800
Speaker 3: a new doctor.

1246
00:57:01,040 --> 00:57:05,320
Speaker 2: Oh and Henry the phil G says the new doctor

1247
00:57:05,400 --> 00:57:08,480
Speaker 2: guy will be trading healthcare for cheeks before the end

1248
00:57:08,520 --> 00:57:08,960
Speaker 2: of the season.

1249
00:57:09,080 --> 00:57:13,000
Speaker 3: Most likely. I got that look about him, You got

1250
00:57:13,040 --> 00:57:15,279
Speaker 3: that look. I can't wait the but the things you

1251
00:57:15,320 --> 00:57:17,880
Speaker 3: can do for these painkillers, I mean, if you can't afford.

1252
00:57:17,560 --> 00:57:20,200
Speaker 2: It, even he says, I completely forgot the walka Dad

1253
00:57:20,320 --> 00:57:21,840
Speaker 2: was coming back on, but I'm glad to have it

1254
00:57:21,920 --> 00:57:25,000
Speaker 2: back for your recaps, which I look forward to. Carol

1255
00:57:25,040 --> 00:57:27,760
Speaker 2: did zeke so dirty, But I hope he wins her

1256
00:57:27,840 --> 00:57:31,200
Speaker 2: back Detroit style because he knows how cold. He knows

1257
00:57:31,240 --> 00:57:34,840
Speaker 2: how cold it can get into d I wonder if

1258
00:57:34,920 --> 00:57:38,680
Speaker 2: they kill outfing them, if Carol would be willing to

1259
00:57:38,840 --> 00:57:40,840
Speaker 2: go back with Zeke because I can't.

1260
00:57:40,880 --> 00:57:43,680
Speaker 3: I don't know. It feels almost like it's over for

1261
00:57:43,840 --> 00:57:45,320
Speaker 3: her no matter how it turns out.

1262
00:57:45,360 --> 00:57:48,160
Speaker 2: But then part of this is definitely centered around the

1263
00:57:48,240 --> 00:57:51,400
Speaker 2: fact that outpharing them is still out there and she's

1264
00:57:51,520 --> 00:57:56,560
Speaker 2: mad they won't like go in this threat because she

1265
00:57:56,680 --> 00:57:59,439
Speaker 2: ain't scared. She's just more like, if y'all not willing

1266
00:57:59,520 --> 00:58:01,600
Speaker 2: to do it, just leave me the fuck out of this, right.

1267
00:58:02,760 --> 00:58:05,040
Speaker 2: What the Yeah, I'll go be on a boat and

1268
00:58:05,160 --> 00:58:05,720
Speaker 2: catch fish.

1269
00:58:05,960 --> 00:58:07,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't want no boundaries.

1270
00:58:09,040 --> 00:58:11,240
Speaker 2: I know this is far a far out prediction, but

1271
00:58:12,040 --> 00:58:14,560
Speaker 2: I think Meagan might try to smash Machean's cakes.

1272
00:58:14,840 --> 00:58:16,960
Speaker 4: What Wow, I don't see that.

1273
00:58:17,160 --> 00:58:19,080
Speaker 3: I hope not. I don't know why I want this

1274
00:58:19,240 --> 00:58:19,640
Speaker 3: to happen.

1275
00:58:19,840 --> 00:58:23,080
Speaker 2: Just with just that, with Rick gone, the Knights get

1276
00:58:23,200 --> 00:58:25,600
Speaker 2: lonely and who is Sean gonna cutle with Scott? No

1277
00:58:25,680 --> 00:58:27,880
Speaker 2: one even remembers who Scott is. I know who she's

1278
00:58:27,920 --> 00:58:32,160
Speaker 2: gonna cuddle with. Okay, I think you got some black

1279
00:58:32,240 --> 00:58:36,360
Speaker 2: characters on the show. One of them is pining over

1280
00:58:36,400 --> 00:58:40,800
Speaker 2: a white woman haha. And I think, uh, Michean gonna

1281
00:58:40,800 --> 00:58:42,480
Speaker 2: come through and be like, you need you need to

1282
00:58:42,720 --> 00:58:45,800
Speaker 2: get over that okay, and they're gonna combine their dreads

1283
00:58:46,040 --> 00:58:49,440
Speaker 2: like the Navvy and Avatar Uh.

1284
00:58:49,480 --> 00:58:51,640
Speaker 3: The best both. They wings gonna take on the life

1285
00:58:51,680 --> 00:58:52,080
Speaker 3: of their own.

1286
00:58:53,040 --> 00:58:53,960
Speaker 4: They don't gonna walk away.

1287
00:58:54,000 --> 00:58:56,120
Speaker 3: It's gonna be a bad Wig love session.

1288
00:58:58,040 --> 00:59:01,240
Speaker 4: They're gonna be like the with all them black people

1289
00:59:01,400 --> 00:59:04,200
Speaker 4: down in the city New Zion.

1290
00:59:04,920 --> 00:59:07,040
Speaker 3: They're gonna be having Uh. They're gonna be having that

1291
00:59:07,680 --> 00:59:11,800
Speaker 3: that Zane uh Skinner Maac sex. Uh.

1292
00:59:11,880 --> 00:59:14,160
Speaker 2: The best part of this episode is remembering that Henry

1293
00:59:14,320 --> 00:59:17,800
Speaker 2: is dead. I hope he's riding in hell. Jesus, I'll

1294
00:59:17,920 --> 00:59:18,800
Speaker 2: never changed either.

1295
00:59:18,840 --> 00:59:22,560
Speaker 3: He stayed classy. I still notice you haven't taken a

1296
00:59:22,600 --> 00:59:23,360
Speaker 3: picture of Ivories.

1297
00:59:23,480 --> 00:59:26,680
Speaker 2: But it's only been a month. I mean for a

1298
00:59:26,720 --> 00:59:28,520
Speaker 2: restaurant you love so much. I'm sure you've been in

1299
00:59:28,560 --> 00:59:29,440
Speaker 2: there plenty of times.

1300
00:59:29,920 --> 00:59:30,040
Speaker 3: Uh.

1301
00:59:30,080 --> 00:59:32,440
Speaker 2: Should Micheon and Gay tell everyone that they found a

1302
00:59:32,480 --> 00:59:34,760
Speaker 2: skin mask? Yes, the people deserve to know, or know

1303
00:59:34,920 --> 00:59:37,600
Speaker 2: it'll just lead to more problems care.

1304
00:59:38,280 --> 00:59:41,040
Speaker 4: They tell them. Mh is the catch twin two. Yes

1305
00:59:41,080 --> 00:59:44,240
Speaker 4: they should tell them, Okay, but so yes, it just start, yeah,

1306
00:59:44,320 --> 00:59:46,480
Speaker 4: start paining. But yes, they eventual they're gonna either way,

1307
00:59:46,480 --> 00:59:47,160
Speaker 4: you're going to tell.

1308
00:59:47,120 --> 00:59:49,600
Speaker 2: Him, Aman says I've been listening to y'all recasts for

1309
00:59:49,680 --> 00:59:51,400
Speaker 2: a long time, and I just started watching the show

1310
00:59:51,440 --> 00:59:53,240
Speaker 2: last season when the show introduced to Whispers.

1311
00:59:53,520 --> 00:59:56,520
Speaker 3: So from your recast, every time community leadership keep stuff

1312
00:59:56,840 --> 00:59:58,880
Speaker 3: from folks, it seems to blow up in their faces.

1313
00:59:58,960 --> 01:00:01,080
Speaker 3: So yeah, they should tell the folks and have a discussions.

1314
01:00:01,080 --> 01:00:04,720
Speaker 2: So glad y'all are back. I'm excited. Yes, we love it,

1315
01:00:04,840 --> 01:00:06,960
Speaker 2: and glad that you are. Glad that we are back.

1316
01:00:08,040 --> 01:00:11,760
Speaker 2: That's the whole point, you know. All right, we need

1317
01:00:11,840 --> 01:00:14,440
Speaker 2: to get into voicemails. That's all the comments, all the

1318
01:00:14,520 --> 01:00:16,919
Speaker 2: polls and stuff. Of course, on the line to seven

1319
01:00:17,000 --> 01:00:20,919
Speaker 2: oh four five five seven zero one eighty six. Lead

1320
01:00:20,960 --> 01:00:23,720
Speaker 2: the voicemails. Make sure they're two minutes or less. You

1321
01:00:23,840 --> 01:00:26,200
Speaker 2: will get cut off. And once you get cut off,

1322
01:00:26,240 --> 01:00:28,760
Speaker 2: that ain't our fault. Okay, now you're a jerk.

1323
01:00:29,520 --> 01:00:32,400
Speaker 6: Hey, what's going on y'all? This is Adam Chiming and

1324
01:00:32,480 --> 01:00:36,720
Speaker 6: Always from County, California. And let me just say this, man,

1325
01:00:37,800 --> 01:00:40,400
Speaker 6: I'm kind of like new to the whole podcast thing,

1326
01:00:41,440 --> 01:00:43,680
Speaker 6: but just being a truck driver, man, and I'm in

1327
01:00:43,840 --> 01:00:47,120
Speaker 6: traffic all day, you kind of get like dumped down

1328
01:00:47,240 --> 01:00:51,280
Speaker 6: to like radio and you know, it's only so much

1329
01:00:51,440 --> 01:00:53,920
Speaker 6: music you can listen to on your phone, so then

1330
01:00:53,960 --> 01:00:56,240
Speaker 6: I'm chiming in every day. Man, I've been listening to

1331
01:00:56,400 --> 01:00:57,080
Speaker 6: like a lot of.

1332
01:00:57,120 --> 01:00:58,320
Speaker 4: Your stuff from.

1333
01:01:00,200 --> 01:01:00,600
Speaker 7: His post.

1334
01:01:00,840 --> 01:01:07,960
Speaker 6: I found y'all on h on Spotify, and uh, man,

1335
01:01:09,320 --> 01:01:14,040
Speaker 6: every day even old episodes back probably mean nothing to

1336
01:01:14,240 --> 01:01:16,920
Speaker 6: like nobody now because the news are so old that

1337
01:01:17,080 --> 01:01:19,600
Speaker 6: it's already been you know, play through, you know what

1338
01:01:19,600 --> 01:01:20,919
Speaker 6: I'm saying. Whatever, But man, I'll.

1339
01:01:20,840 --> 01:01:21,600
Speaker 7: Listen to you every day.

1340
01:01:21,640 --> 01:01:25,880
Speaker 6: Man, keeping good work and yeah, man, just keep being

1341
01:01:25,920 --> 01:01:27,800
Speaker 6: who y'all are, because at the end of the day,

1342
01:01:28,520 --> 01:01:31,320
Speaker 6: that's what makes you genuine, is a person that who

1343
01:01:31,880 --> 01:01:32,760
Speaker 6: stays who they are.

1344
01:01:35,160 --> 01:01:40,320
Speaker 2: Oh man, that's so nice, because I think I think

1345
01:01:40,600 --> 01:01:42,240
Speaker 2: it was uh it stayed on for a little bit,

1346
01:01:42,320 --> 01:01:45,760
Speaker 2: but yeah, that's super nice of you. And yo, truck

1347
01:01:45,840 --> 01:01:47,560
Speaker 2: My uncle's a truck driving. Truck driving is one of

1348
01:01:47,600 --> 01:01:49,880
Speaker 2: those things. And you on the road so long sometimes,

1349
01:01:50,160 --> 01:01:50,920
Speaker 2: how was days?

1350
01:01:51,000 --> 01:01:51,320
Speaker 4: Weeks?

1351
01:01:51,640 --> 01:01:56,080
Speaker 2: Right, especially if you long distance, But yeah, your your

1352
01:01:56,160 --> 01:01:58,920
Speaker 2: mind will go crazy. You need something to focus on.

1353
01:01:59,320 --> 01:02:01,280
Speaker 2: And well, I was at a job where it was

1354
01:02:01,280 --> 01:02:03,640
Speaker 2: a desk job, but it was a mind numbering type

1355
01:02:03,680 --> 01:02:05,600
Speaker 2: of job, and I needed things to be able to

1356
01:02:05,680 --> 01:02:09,600
Speaker 2: focus on. And podcasts are great escape, you know, when

1357
01:02:09,640 --> 01:02:14,160
Speaker 2: I'm doing like malt spreadsheets and invoices and all this stuff,

1358
01:02:14,160 --> 01:02:16,360
Speaker 2: it was just a great like, okay, cool, let me like,

1359
01:02:17,240 --> 01:02:19,520
Speaker 2: you know, listen to something to pass the time. And

1360
01:02:19,840 --> 01:02:21,760
Speaker 2: that's how I ended up falling in love with so

1361
01:02:21,800 --> 01:02:24,040
Speaker 2: many podcasts. And I'm glad you enjoyed our show. And

1362
01:02:24,600 --> 01:02:27,440
Speaker 2: you know, whether it's a passing phase or something that

1363
01:02:27,560 --> 01:02:30,280
Speaker 2: we're you're here to stay, We're just glad that you listen.

1364
01:02:30,520 --> 01:02:33,600
Speaker 2: And you know, and that's the thing, man, I'm not

1365
01:02:34,000 --> 01:02:36,520
Speaker 2: there's no episode of our show that I'm ashamed of doing,

1366
01:02:38,280 --> 01:02:41,640
Speaker 2: because every last one of our episodes has been authentic.

1367
01:02:41,720 --> 01:02:45,000
Speaker 2: We never pretended We never came out here and fake personalities.

1368
01:02:45,720 --> 01:02:49,280
Speaker 3: We never you know, tried to act like we were

1369
01:02:49,280 --> 01:02:51,560
Speaker 3: bigger than we really are any of that shit.

1370
01:02:51,680 --> 01:02:51,840
Speaker 4: Man.

1371
01:02:52,000 --> 01:02:56,040
Speaker 2: So you know, and everything you hear, every opinion you hear,

1372
01:02:56,200 --> 01:02:58,760
Speaker 2: is what we really believed at the time. And if

1373
01:02:58,800 --> 01:03:01,959
Speaker 2: you listen to us over time, you've heard us change grow,

1374
01:03:02,520 --> 01:03:06,040
Speaker 2: you know all that stuff. And so yeah, I just

1375
01:03:06,120 --> 01:03:08,040
Speaker 2: try to I just try to make sure that what

1376
01:03:08,200 --> 01:03:10,320
Speaker 2: we do is reflective of who we are. So thank

1377
01:03:10,360 --> 01:03:10,800
Speaker 2: you listening.

1378
01:03:10,920 --> 01:03:13,120
Speaker 4: Thank you, baby, be safe out down the road.

1379
01:03:13,520 --> 01:03:16,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, we got one from a mon.

1380
01:03:17,720 --> 01:03:20,680
Speaker 2: Let me let that voicemail load up and we'll get

1381
01:03:20,720 --> 01:03:25,280
Speaker 2: into that as well. But uh yeah, thanks man. Shout

1382
01:03:25,280 --> 01:03:29,080
Speaker 2: out to Bompton, Hey, Rod and Karen.

1383
01:03:28,920 --> 01:03:30,800
Speaker 5: Listen to say mon TF You guys are having a

1384
01:03:30,880 --> 01:03:34,400
Speaker 5: great week. I haven't actually gotten to the episode where

1385
01:03:34,480 --> 01:03:37,800
Speaker 5: you talked about the whole Amanda Feels thing, but I

1386
01:03:37,920 --> 01:03:41,000
Speaker 5: see that you did talk about it that I kind

1387
01:03:41,040 --> 01:03:44,720
Speaker 5: of I've seen it on Facebook and everything, but it

1388
01:03:44,840 --> 01:03:48,000
Speaker 5: had me irked, and I had to like contemplate why

1389
01:03:48,360 --> 01:03:50,800
Speaker 5: it irked me so much. And I realized it because

1390
01:03:51,200 --> 01:03:55,680
Speaker 5: my daughter, like earlier this year until recently, she was

1391
01:03:55,760 --> 01:03:58,320
Speaker 5: going through this know it all phase and I was

1392
01:03:58,480 --> 01:04:02,200
Speaker 5: really concerned and it was always like got under my skin.

1393
01:04:02,760 --> 01:04:04,760
Speaker 5: I was just like, you're eight, you don't know at all.

1394
01:04:05,480 --> 01:04:07,000
Speaker 4: But and I talked to my sister.

1395
01:04:06,840 --> 01:04:09,800
Speaker 5: About it, and she's like, no, no, no, your baby's

1396
01:04:09,800 --> 01:04:12,000
Speaker 5: gonna be fine. It's like, and aren't you glad now

1397
01:04:12,080 --> 01:04:13,200
Speaker 5: that we're always trolling her?

1398
01:04:13,280 --> 01:04:15,240
Speaker 1: I was like, you're her auntie, you shouldn't be.

1399
01:04:15,240 --> 01:04:17,320
Speaker 4: Telling her so hard. But they do.

1400
01:04:17,520 --> 01:04:19,880
Speaker 5: And it's like, Okay, I'm gonna leave y'all alone, because honestly,

1401
01:04:19,960 --> 01:04:23,320
Speaker 5: if they keep her grounded, and my sister's like, yeah,

1402
01:04:23,360 --> 01:04:25,840
Speaker 5: that's what Amanda Sils probably didn't have that growing up

1403
01:04:26,400 --> 01:04:29,800
Speaker 5: as an only child. She didn't have anybody trolling her

1404
01:04:30,240 --> 01:04:34,760
Speaker 5: or someone who was like her sister telling her about herself.

1405
01:04:35,200 --> 01:04:37,720
Speaker 5: I was like, maybe, I don't know, but I just

1406
01:04:37,800 --> 01:04:39,400
Speaker 5: don't want my baby to end up like that.

1407
01:04:39,720 --> 01:04:40,240
Speaker 1: But she's not.

1408
01:04:40,440 --> 01:04:41,160
Speaker 7: She's really be okay.

1409
01:04:41,520 --> 01:04:45,680
Speaker 1: I was like, all right, because I'm really worried, but yeah,

1410
01:04:46,000 --> 01:04:46,600
Speaker 1: isn't that sad?

1411
01:04:46,800 --> 01:04:48,760
Speaker 4: But you know, she wrote that song you just got

1412
01:04:48,800 --> 01:04:50,640
Speaker 4: me fucked up? And now she's gonna.

1413
01:04:53,240 --> 01:04:55,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, anyway, I love you guys.

1414
01:04:56,600 --> 01:04:58,200
Speaker 5: You enjoy the rest of your week and have a

1415
01:04:58,240 --> 01:04:58,840
Speaker 5: great weekend.

1416
01:04:59,400 --> 01:05:02,439
Speaker 2: I'm fine, Bye bye baby, bye, thank you of mine.

1417
01:05:02,760 --> 01:05:04,840
Speaker 2: And I haven't even heard the niggas got me fucked up,

1418
01:05:04,880 --> 01:05:05,760
Speaker 2: so I don't even know.

1419
01:05:05,960 --> 01:05:08,040
Speaker 3: Like that's the thing. I wasn't even like a floor

1420
01:05:08,160 --> 01:05:11,000
Speaker 3: tree fan, like all this stuff to me is just tangential.

1421
01:05:11,160 --> 01:05:13,720
Speaker 4: And yeah, they're back to my floord. I'm going wo.

1422
01:05:14,160 --> 01:05:16,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I'm just gonna take her her word with

1423
01:05:16,760 --> 01:05:20,120
Speaker 2: her podcast and just take her in small doses, man,

1424
01:05:20,280 --> 01:05:21,800
Speaker 2: like she ain't canceled to me.

1425
01:05:21,920 --> 01:05:22,920
Speaker 3: I'm not mad at her.

1426
01:05:23,040 --> 01:05:23,240
Speaker 1: I'm not.

1427
01:05:24,240 --> 01:05:26,200
Speaker 3: It's just a matter of like that.

1428
01:05:26,560 --> 01:05:29,520
Speaker 2: She just gonna be one of those people that's never

1429
01:05:29,760 --> 01:05:32,480
Speaker 2: fully on point when she's making a point, and that's

1430
01:05:32,520 --> 01:05:35,320
Speaker 2: just something y'all live with, and it's been working for

1431
01:05:35,480 --> 01:05:37,280
Speaker 2: this far. I mean shit, she don't got further than

1432
01:05:37,320 --> 01:05:41,400
Speaker 2: a lot of motherfuckers that probably you know, would kill

1433
01:05:41,440 --> 01:05:42,040
Speaker 2: the trades.

1434
01:05:41,840 --> 01:05:51,160
Speaker 3: Places with her. So look, but you do already know

1435
01:05:51,200 --> 01:05:56,200
Speaker 3: what it is, so hold on trying to pause it.

1436
01:05:56,320 --> 01:05:59,480
Speaker 3: This is a voicemail from Black Steve. That was a

1437
01:05:59,560 --> 01:06:01,800
Speaker 3: phone call all that. I don't know how why that

1438
01:06:01,880 --> 01:06:02,560
Speaker 3: person called dur.

1439
01:06:02,480 --> 01:06:05,800
Speaker 8: In the middle of a she Steve aka, I got

1440
01:06:05,880 --> 01:06:08,320
Speaker 8: three drives, nigga, they call me Steve, Jives and nigga

1441
01:06:09,520 --> 01:06:11,200
Speaker 8: ship Man had to call in. Man, you know you're

1442
01:06:11,240 --> 01:06:13,760
Speaker 8: going with premium this week or something.

1443
01:06:14,200 --> 01:06:14,680
Speaker 1: I don't even know.

1444
01:06:14,800 --> 01:06:15,800
Speaker 3: Man, you not getting happy?

1445
01:06:15,840 --> 01:06:18,360
Speaker 1: Look listen, just sucking the pregame, bro. And first I

1446
01:06:18,440 --> 01:06:20,200
Speaker 1: was about to call you because I heard you playing

1447
01:06:20,240 --> 01:06:23,000
Speaker 1: my boy Brihannah back there in the background that I

1448
01:06:23,120 --> 01:06:24,439
Speaker 1: told you about at the throw talk.

1449
01:06:24,760 --> 01:06:25,480
Speaker 3: First of all, I just.

1450
01:06:25,520 --> 01:06:27,120
Speaker 1: Want to hear what you think of that. Nigga I

1451
01:06:27,200 --> 01:06:30,640
Speaker 1: think he the illess R and B singer out right now. Brohanna, Brohanna,

1452
01:06:30,680 --> 01:06:34,760
Speaker 1: that's my dude. Second talking about you ain't ever smoked dragon.

1453
01:06:34,480 --> 01:06:37,440
Speaker 6: But so dog, I've been wanting to smoke you up forever.

1454
01:06:37,720 --> 01:06:37,840
Speaker 5: Bro.

1455
01:06:39,120 --> 01:06:42,720
Speaker 1: Well, you know, hey, ship which whatever, but I hope

1456
01:06:42,840 --> 01:06:46,800
Speaker 1: just to get you right. Man, Hey, that's crazy, but

1457
01:06:46,920 --> 01:06:47,960
Speaker 1: that's all I wanted to say.

1458
01:06:48,640 --> 01:06:49,040
Speaker 3: What's up?

1459
01:06:49,120 --> 01:06:49,400
Speaker 4: Karen?

1460
01:06:49,520 --> 01:06:49,680
Speaker 3: Hey?

1461
01:06:49,760 --> 01:06:50,080
Speaker 4: Baby?

1462
01:06:52,000 --> 01:06:54,160
Speaker 1: All right, y'all, y'all came in the show, man. I

1463
01:06:54,240 --> 01:06:57,480
Speaker 1: can't believe man on pre premium, Bro, I've been laughing

1464
01:06:57,600 --> 01:07:00,920
Speaker 1: crying in my car every day. This fucking balls deep

1465
01:07:01,560 --> 01:07:02,880
Speaker 1: in the pregame alone.

1466
01:07:02,920 --> 01:07:04,640
Speaker 8: I don't know if I listened to anything else, yes,

1467
01:07:04,760 --> 01:07:06,479
Speaker 8: so far, but that shit got me dying.

1468
01:07:06,560 --> 01:07:09,160
Speaker 1: Y'all killing it man, like I always say, Man, I

1469
01:07:09,320 --> 01:07:11,560
Speaker 1: love y'all, y'all my favorite, keep doing it.

1470
01:07:11,720 --> 01:07:12,640
Speaker 3: I'm proud of y'all.

1471
01:07:13,120 --> 01:07:16,160
Speaker 1: Keep going. God damn yet once again Black Steve.

1472
01:07:16,200 --> 01:07:18,880
Speaker 3: All right, y'all, I'm gonna be out. Oh man, that's

1473
01:07:18,920 --> 01:07:22,000
Speaker 3: when man, Steve. H that's the dude we always talk about.

1474
01:07:22,000 --> 01:07:23,720
Speaker 2: When we were just walking down the street one day,

1475
01:07:23,800 --> 01:07:26,960
Speaker 2: it's randomly out the blue, he just just came out,

1476
01:07:27,040 --> 01:07:29,480
Speaker 2: running out of a like I think it's called the

1477
01:07:29,560 --> 01:07:30,920
Speaker 2: Company Store or something.

1478
01:07:31,080 --> 01:07:32,360
Speaker 3: It was like all right.

1479
01:07:32,240 --> 01:07:36,680
Speaker 4: Again, it was like yes, like yeah, because we didn't

1480
01:07:36,720 --> 01:07:38,520
Speaker 4: know because, like I said, that's the thing, y'all know us,

1481
01:07:38,600 --> 01:07:39,280
Speaker 4: but we don't.

1482
01:07:39,120 --> 01:07:41,440
Speaker 2: Know y'all right, but nah, it was real, dope. We

1483
01:07:41,520 --> 01:07:44,080
Speaker 2: sat down and talked for like twenty thirty minutes, bought

1484
01:07:44,160 --> 01:07:44,560
Speaker 2: us dreams.

1485
01:07:45,440 --> 01:07:47,840
Speaker 3: He bought us dreams. We was talking to the people

1486
01:07:47,880 --> 01:07:48,760
Speaker 3: at the bar stuff and.

1487
01:07:49,160 --> 01:07:50,680
Speaker 4: Find out I think this was time the restaurant was

1488
01:07:50,760 --> 01:07:51,960
Speaker 4: like right beside where we were.

1489
01:07:52,840 --> 01:07:54,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, we were trying to go to a restaurant over

1490
01:07:55,040 --> 01:07:57,960
Speaker 2: in that area and it was this was right next door.

1491
01:07:58,520 --> 01:08:02,160
Speaker 2: So nah, man, it was real man. So and yeah,

1492
01:08:02,200 --> 01:08:04,560
Speaker 2: he just went premium. So he's getting introduced to some

1493
01:08:04,680 --> 01:08:07,520
Speaker 2: of these other shows that we do. And I mean,

1494
01:08:07,600 --> 01:08:10,680
Speaker 2: I'm look, man, I'm not trying to brag. I'm not

1495
01:08:10,800 --> 01:08:14,560
Speaker 2: trying to post, but I swear to God, our behind

1496
01:08:14,600 --> 01:08:18,680
Speaker 2: the paywall shit it's better than some people's like what

1497
01:08:18,880 --> 01:08:21,559
Speaker 2: they do. You see what I'm saying, Like all they

1498
01:08:21,720 --> 01:08:23,720
Speaker 2: do is this ship. And it's like, we got a

1499
01:08:23,800 --> 01:08:26,400
Speaker 2: nerd show that could be one of the best nerd

1500
01:08:26,479 --> 01:08:29,840
Speaker 2: shows on iTunes, and we just put it out there. Yes, yeah,

1501
01:08:29,960 --> 01:08:32,439
Speaker 2: you know, you know, we put our movie reviews out there.

1502
01:08:32,479 --> 01:08:35,040
Speaker 2: It's different than everybody else's movie reviews. We put our

1503
01:08:36,040 --> 01:08:38,040
Speaker 2: you know, like even with the sports stuff. Man, like

1504
01:08:38,120 --> 01:08:41,200
Speaker 2: I put it behind the paywall. But every once in

1505
01:08:41,240 --> 01:08:43,080
Speaker 2: a while, I put an episode on the regular feed

1506
01:08:43,120 --> 01:08:45,160
Speaker 2: for people to hear, like what they missing kind of,

1507
01:08:45,760 --> 01:08:48,360
Speaker 2: and we talk about sports in the way that nobody

1508
01:08:48,400 --> 01:08:48,680
Speaker 2: else is.

1509
01:08:48,720 --> 01:08:52,559
Speaker 3: Talking about it, you know, so you know, and we're

1510
01:08:52,640 --> 01:08:54,639
Speaker 3: just as funny, silly and all that shit as well.

1511
01:08:54,720 --> 01:08:57,599
Speaker 3: And Justin is on there and joints right in. All right,

1512
01:08:57,760 --> 01:08:58,080
Speaker 3: let's do.

1513
01:08:58,200 --> 01:09:02,160
Speaker 2: The last one is from I believe James from PA

1514
01:09:03,200 --> 01:09:06,200
Speaker 2: leaving us the last voicemail before we get into our emails.

1515
01:09:06,960 --> 01:09:10,240
Speaker 7: Good morning, Rodin Kerry. It's your boy, James, and I

1516
01:09:10,280 --> 01:09:13,000
Speaker 7: would like to say two things, if you will allow me.

1517
01:09:14,040 --> 01:09:17,640
Speaker 7: Number one, there's been something going on this last two

1518
01:09:17,760 --> 01:09:21,040
Speaker 7: three weeks where I have to make a decision and

1519
01:09:22,080 --> 01:09:24,519
Speaker 7: short term versus long term, and I know I'm not

1520
01:09:24,600 --> 01:09:27,360
Speaker 7: the only one, so I'm gonna make the long term

1521
01:09:27,479 --> 01:09:30,280
Speaker 7: decision because I wanted to benefit my family and I'm

1522
01:09:30,320 --> 01:09:32,920
Speaker 7: saying this for the rest of the Black Gully Tip's family.

1523
01:09:33,680 --> 01:09:36,719
Speaker 7: If there's something you all been weighing over back and forth,

1524
01:09:36,840 --> 01:09:39,320
Speaker 7: like which one, this one, that one, this one, that one.

1525
01:09:39,680 --> 01:09:42,840
Speaker 7: Plead the long term choice that will benefit you and

1526
01:09:42,880 --> 01:09:46,960
Speaker 7: your family. Put your pride aside and take the short

1527
01:09:47,080 --> 01:09:50,440
Speaker 7: term issue or a short term loss for the eventual

1528
01:09:51,200 --> 01:09:53,600
Speaker 7: prize at the end long term. I know I'm not

1529
01:09:53,640 --> 01:09:56,240
Speaker 7: the only one, because that's why we're all connected, because

1530
01:09:56,280 --> 01:09:59,720
Speaker 7: we're on the same wavelength. The number two. Thank you

1531
01:09:59,800 --> 01:10:03,679
Speaker 7: for being a little open with your sexuality. It's helping

1532
01:10:03,760 --> 01:10:08,280
Speaker 7: me and it's helping my wife because we're just fighting

1533
01:10:08,320 --> 01:10:11,680
Speaker 7: a whole lifetime of shame for liking certain things. So

1534
01:10:11,760 --> 01:10:13,880
Speaker 7: you just put it that way. But shout out to

1535
01:10:13,920 --> 01:10:16,920
Speaker 7: Adam and Eve. I went there brouh and it got

1536
01:10:16,960 --> 01:10:21,200
Speaker 7: a little naughty Necke's. It was a little nerve wracking

1537
01:10:21,280 --> 01:10:23,040
Speaker 7: at her because I felt like I was a bad person.

1538
01:10:23,160 --> 01:10:27,519
Speaker 7: But it's a piece that comes with the sexual liberation,

1539
01:10:27,800 --> 01:10:32,880
Speaker 7: like being content with yourself and with your partner. Like

1540
01:10:33,040 --> 01:10:36,120
Speaker 7: my wife, she digs herself. I'm starting to dig myself

1541
01:10:36,240 --> 01:10:38,240
Speaker 7: and it's just a I think we're gonna be in

1542
01:10:38,280 --> 01:10:38,760
Speaker 7: a new level.

1543
01:10:38,840 --> 01:10:39,160
Speaker 3: That's though.

1544
01:10:39,240 --> 01:10:40,920
Speaker 7: But I wanted to shout out to Adam and Eve

1545
01:10:40,960 --> 01:10:44,080
Speaker 7: and de Broa because the naughty necke it stay all right,

1546
01:10:44,240 --> 01:10:48,920
Speaker 7: bruhl them try to do with the grown up way

1547
01:10:49,200 --> 01:10:52,200
Speaker 7: went and got me a hard a flash drive and

1548
01:10:52,320 --> 01:10:54,000
Speaker 7: I'm taking what I like, you know what I mean,

1549
01:10:55,080 --> 01:10:57,479
Speaker 7: and to do it like a like a responsible person

1550
01:10:57,560 --> 01:10:58,240
Speaker 7: with a four one K.

1551
01:10:58,720 --> 01:10:59,400
Speaker 3: I thank you so.

1552
01:10:59,479 --> 01:11:02,519
Speaker 7: Much for being honest and open about how you feel

1553
01:11:02,560 --> 01:11:04,040
Speaker 7: in things, because.

1554
01:11:04,120 --> 01:11:06,400
Speaker 2: You know, you give a lot of folks all you

1555
01:11:06,439 --> 01:11:09,880
Speaker 2: got cut off and he leave another message, but no, actually,

1556
01:11:09,920 --> 01:11:12,080
Speaker 2: you know, like at first I was like, what is

1557
01:11:12,120 --> 01:11:15,639
Speaker 2: he talking about? But I was like, oh, yeah, like listen,

1558
01:11:16,040 --> 01:11:18,519
Speaker 2: I try to be open like one cause I think

1559
01:11:18,520 --> 01:11:19,519
Speaker 2: it's humorous.

1560
01:11:19,600 --> 01:11:19,760
Speaker 7: You know.

1561
01:11:19,840 --> 01:11:23,160
Speaker 2: I talk about pornography sometimes to talk about sex and stuff.

1562
01:11:23,200 --> 01:11:24,800
Speaker 3: We don't do a sex podcast.

1563
01:11:24,960 --> 01:11:27,800
Speaker 2: We don't do a pornography podcast, and we're not really

1564
01:11:27,840 --> 01:11:30,080
Speaker 2: doing it to be like revolutionary on something like. I

1565
01:11:30,160 --> 01:11:31,720
Speaker 2: know there are people that are like, this is a

1566
01:11:31,880 --> 01:11:34,599
Speaker 2: sex positive such and such podcasts.

1567
01:11:34,800 --> 01:11:36,760
Speaker 3: Look, I ain't no sex expert. I don't know all that.

1568
01:11:37,520 --> 01:11:40,639
Speaker 2: And I also don't have the confidence to be telling

1569
01:11:40,680 --> 01:11:42,479
Speaker 2: people what they need to be doing, which is what

1570
01:11:42,600 --> 01:11:45,120
Speaker 2: a lot of those folks have is to be like,

1571
01:11:45,280 --> 01:11:47,040
Speaker 2: you need to be having sex this way you need

1572
01:11:47,120 --> 01:11:49,759
Speaker 2: to be doing this. I know about twelve different types.

1573
01:11:49,840 --> 01:11:53,120
Speaker 2: I know about my relationship. Yes, that's the one I

1574
01:11:53,200 --> 01:11:55,439
Speaker 2: know how to work. Okay, So I could tell you

1575
01:11:55,520 --> 01:11:57,559
Speaker 2: some shit that don't even work for you. Right, I'm right,

1576
01:11:57,880 --> 01:11:59,680
Speaker 2: you know, come home but naked and just be a

1577
01:11:59,720 --> 01:12:00,320
Speaker 2: hop the bed.

1578
01:12:00,400 --> 01:12:02,880
Speaker 3: It's like what I got run. I listen to your advice.

1579
01:12:02,920 --> 01:12:04,599
Speaker 3: I have a restraining order out against my wife.

1580
01:12:04,720 --> 01:12:07,519
Speaker 2: Now she thought I was an intruder, so nah, I'm

1581
01:12:07,760 --> 01:12:10,080
Speaker 2: just you know, But now I do try to be

1582
01:12:10,160 --> 01:12:13,240
Speaker 2: open about it because I think it's sad that we're

1583
01:12:13,280 --> 01:12:19,840
Speaker 2: a society where so many people are sexually repressed and puritanical,

1584
01:12:20,000 --> 01:12:22,960
Speaker 2: while at the same time America is.

1585
01:12:22,920 --> 01:12:25,240
Speaker 3: One of the most horniest countries on the fucking planet.

1586
01:12:26,080 --> 01:12:27,479
Speaker 4: So you have sights, don't lie.

1587
01:12:27,800 --> 01:12:28,679
Speaker 3: Yeah, you have both.

1588
01:12:28,720 --> 01:12:31,280
Speaker 2: And I think there's one thing for people to say,

1589
01:12:31,439 --> 01:12:34,280
Speaker 2: like I don't think shame or nothing's wrong with it's

1590
01:12:34,280 --> 01:12:35,479
Speaker 2: between two consenting adults.

1591
01:12:35,920 --> 01:12:38,559
Speaker 3: But then in practice they don't actually believe that shit.

1592
01:12:38,680 --> 01:12:40,519
Speaker 4: Oh they don't. You can tell it as soon as you.

1593
01:12:40,600 --> 01:12:43,560
Speaker 3: Bring up some like scenario or something, they're just I

1594
01:12:43,560 --> 01:12:44,200
Speaker 3: don't know about that.

1595
01:12:44,840 --> 01:12:47,080
Speaker 2: And then also when you have a religious aspect that

1596
01:12:47,160 --> 01:12:49,720
Speaker 2: a lot of black people have coming from, and the

1597
01:12:49,800 --> 01:12:51,959
Speaker 2: fact that we're taught to be ashamed of our bodies,

1598
01:12:52,520 --> 01:12:56,360
Speaker 2: shot to be ashamed of sexual desire. Women are supposed

1599
01:12:56,400 --> 01:12:59,880
Speaker 2: to be okay with not being sexually satisfied, not masturbate.

1600
01:13:01,600 --> 01:13:01,760
Speaker 4: You know.

1601
01:13:01,960 --> 01:13:03,800
Speaker 2: Men are supposed to believe that penis is to be

1602
01:13:03,920 --> 01:13:08,639
Speaker 2: all end all to all things, and you know, they

1603
01:13:08,680 --> 01:13:12,040
Speaker 2: can't be in any vulnerable position. Married couples are told,

1604
01:13:12,479 --> 01:13:15,479
Speaker 2: you know, if someone's watching porn or using a vibrator

1605
01:13:15,560 --> 01:13:17,639
Speaker 2: or something, they cheating on you. Like, it's a lot

1606
01:13:17,680 --> 01:13:20,240
Speaker 2: of hang ups around it. You know, your body is

1607
01:13:20,320 --> 01:13:23,479
Speaker 2: only for pro creation. Like, there's a lot of fucked

1608
01:13:23,560 --> 01:13:25,439
Speaker 2: up things. And my belief is we only get one

1609
01:13:25,520 --> 01:13:28,560
Speaker 2: go around on this bitch one, so you have some

1610
01:13:28,680 --> 01:13:31,680
Speaker 2: fucking fun. And it's amazing because I think if you

1611
01:13:31,800 --> 01:13:35,160
Speaker 2: live like that guilt existence, you're gonna keep waiting for

1612
01:13:35,280 --> 01:13:38,120
Speaker 2: this moment to not feel guilty. But the truth is

1613
01:13:38,479 --> 01:13:41,679
Speaker 2: it's never gonna happen if you don't dismantle it actively.

1614
01:13:42,080 --> 01:13:44,320
Speaker 2: Because that's why a lot of people actually end up

1615
01:13:44,400 --> 01:13:46,479
Speaker 2: married and stuff like that, because they keep waiting for

1616
01:13:46,560 --> 01:13:50,040
Speaker 2: this time where Okay, now, the religious guilt will and

1617
01:13:50,120 --> 01:13:52,240
Speaker 2: the shame will come off of me because God is

1618
01:13:52,320 --> 01:13:55,720
Speaker 2: sanctioned that I'm with my wife. We're married now now

1619
01:13:55,920 --> 01:13:58,400
Speaker 2: I can't I won't be. But they're still more hurt.

1620
01:13:58,800 --> 01:14:03,920
Speaker 2: Well are you having because you're having children? That should

1621
01:14:03,920 --> 01:14:04,519
Speaker 2: be the only.

1622
01:14:04,400 --> 01:14:06,720
Speaker 3: Real reason to have sex. If you're having more sex

1623
01:14:06,800 --> 01:14:09,280
Speaker 3: than that, you should really think about is this wrong?

1624
01:14:09,560 --> 01:14:14,000
Speaker 3: You know, shit like that. Okay, you're married, but what

1625
01:14:14,200 --> 01:14:15,200
Speaker 3: is this naughty video?

1626
01:14:15,840 --> 01:14:16,000
Speaker 5: Oh?

1627
01:14:16,240 --> 01:14:16,640
Speaker 4: Is it? So?

1628
01:14:16,800 --> 01:14:19,479
Speaker 3: Do you not find your wife attractive? What is this?

1629
01:14:20,240 --> 01:14:23,880
Speaker 3: Bbw's at work? Three? So you want me to be

1630
01:14:23,960 --> 01:14:25,840
Speaker 3: a BBW? You know, stuff like that?

1631
01:14:26,120 --> 01:14:27,639
Speaker 4: Bring this, dude, don't win it? All of a sudden,

1632
01:14:27,640 --> 01:14:29,479
Speaker 4: I got to challenge my man, who this is a

1633
01:14:29,680 --> 01:14:31,920
Speaker 4: fucking rush? Like what are we talking about here? Right?

1634
01:14:32,040 --> 01:14:35,240
Speaker 3: So it's just like beliefs that I have, you know whatever.

1635
01:14:35,320 --> 01:14:37,679
Speaker 2: And then and even with what we share, we share

1636
01:14:37,720 --> 01:14:39,880
Speaker 2: what we're comfortable sharing, Like we're gonna come on here

1637
01:14:39,920 --> 01:14:41,040
Speaker 2: and tell y'all all our business.

1638
01:14:41,920 --> 01:14:43,479
Speaker 3: I doubt anyone does that.

1639
01:14:43,720 --> 01:14:45,960
Speaker 2: If they do, we probably all look at them the

1640
01:14:45,960 --> 01:14:47,519
Speaker 2: same way, like you sure you want to tell everybody

1641
01:14:47,560 --> 01:14:51,160
Speaker 2: that you know? But yeah, man, I do feel like

1642
01:14:51,200 --> 01:14:53,160
Speaker 2: people should be more open and honest to that stuff.

1643
01:14:53,200 --> 01:14:58,640
Speaker 2: And since we have this platform, why not do that ourselves,

1644
01:14:58,720 --> 01:14:59,320
Speaker 2: you know what I mean?

1645
01:14:59,479 --> 01:15:01,679
Speaker 4: So shout out to you and your wife and I'm

1646
01:15:01,680 --> 01:15:05,200
Speaker 4: glad y'all use the code and then taking the advantage

1647
01:15:05,240 --> 01:15:06,040
Speaker 4: of the half off.

1648
01:15:06,760 --> 01:15:09,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, and also this why motherfucker is like be so

1649
01:15:10,160 --> 01:15:14,879
Speaker 2: unhappy and shit, you know, like you sexually repressed, stretch

1650
01:15:14,960 --> 01:15:17,720
Speaker 2: the fuck out. You're not getting any release, You're not

1651
01:15:17,880 --> 01:15:21,040
Speaker 2: having fun. You know, shit just turns into a cycle

1652
01:15:21,680 --> 01:15:25,439
Speaker 2: over and over again. And you're not being honest. You know,

1653
01:15:26,240 --> 01:15:30,120
Speaker 2: you're putting too much pressure on yourself. There's so many

1654
01:15:30,280 --> 01:15:32,400
Speaker 2: things that are hang ups. And the older you get,

1655
01:15:32,479 --> 01:15:34,240
Speaker 2: the more there is your body's.

1656
01:15:33,880 --> 01:15:37,120
Speaker 3: Gonna let you change, let you down a different ways.

1657
01:15:37,280 --> 01:15:39,280
Speaker 4: I tell you can't bend like you used to, squat

1658
01:15:39,400 --> 01:15:39,920
Speaker 4: like you used to.

1659
01:15:40,120 --> 01:15:43,240
Speaker 2: It ain't the same, right, So, you know, I think

1660
01:15:43,400 --> 01:15:47,680
Speaker 2: I think a lot of stuff is just uh, we're

1661
01:15:47,720 --> 01:15:49,880
Speaker 2: made to feel like almost like it's not normal.

1662
01:15:49,960 --> 01:15:52,320
Speaker 3: But sex is part of life and you're.

1663
01:15:52,160 --> 01:15:54,160
Speaker 4: Gonna desire it to today you die, and that's something

1664
01:15:54,200 --> 01:15:55,200
Speaker 4: that people don't understand.

1665
01:15:55,400 --> 01:15:59,479
Speaker 2: Possibly possibly, you know. All right, let's go with uh

1666
01:16:00,120 --> 01:16:03,400
Speaker 2: the emails, guys. The blackoutis at gmail dot com so

1667
01:16:03,520 --> 01:16:06,639
Speaker 2: many thoughts regarding Queen of ny Wrap episode just bout.

1668
01:16:07,360 --> 01:16:11,519
Speaker 3: Ember a good one and who says wow? So I

1669
01:16:11,600 --> 01:16:13,479
Speaker 3: have a lot of thoughts on this episode. I hope I.

1670
01:16:13,560 --> 01:16:16,720
Speaker 2: Remember everything all right. Let me actually make this a

1671
01:16:16,760 --> 01:16:21,840
Speaker 2: little small on my screen. One lighting up bitch had

1672
01:16:21,920 --> 01:16:23,240
Speaker 2: me gone for several minutes.

1673
01:16:23,479 --> 01:16:26,920
Speaker 3: Lol. I can't even remember who or when that was said,

1674
01:16:27,000 --> 01:16:30,000
Speaker 3: but that was quoted on Twitter a lot too, so

1675
01:16:30,600 --> 01:16:31,880
Speaker 3: I don't remember how it was what it is in

1676
01:16:31,960 --> 01:16:34,599
Speaker 3: reference to, but glad it made people laugh. Two.

1677
01:16:34,920 --> 01:16:37,120
Speaker 2: I am indeed a millennial that quit a job for

1678
01:16:37,280 --> 01:16:40,400
Speaker 2: mental health reasons. I worked at nonprofits for five years

1679
01:16:40,400 --> 01:16:43,320
Speaker 2: as a social worker. During those years, I truly came

1680
01:16:43,400 --> 01:16:47,759
Speaker 2: to understand the phrase the shit rose downhill. Despite graduating

1681
01:16:47,760 --> 01:16:49,760
Speaker 2: from the top university in the country from my field,

1682
01:16:49,880 --> 01:16:53,160
Speaker 2: University of Michigan Goblu, I was still working for pennies

1683
01:16:53,200 --> 01:16:55,800
Speaker 2: and having to work multiple site jobs to make ends meet.

1684
01:16:56,479 --> 01:16:58,760
Speaker 2: I also faced a specific type of trauma working as

1685
01:16:58,800 --> 01:17:01,120
Speaker 2: a black woman in a predominant white field that is

1686
01:17:01,200 --> 01:17:05,799
Speaker 2: primarily focused on helping black, brown poor children and families.

1687
01:17:06,160 --> 01:17:08,920
Speaker 2: I had to be an advocate for systemic issues including

1688
01:17:09,000 --> 01:17:11,080
Speaker 2: racism and classism. Because most of the white people I

1689
01:17:11,240 --> 01:17:13,599
Speaker 2: work with were clueless on this matter, so I had

1690
01:17:13,640 --> 01:17:16,200
Speaker 2: to constantly risk my job speaking up when someone or

1691
01:17:16,280 --> 01:17:19,280
Speaker 2: something was out of pocket. I've seen some stuff, y'all,

1692
01:17:19,360 --> 01:17:22,800
Speaker 2: but I digress. Sound like you're working at we got y'all.

1693
01:17:25,800 --> 01:17:28,760
Speaker 2: My field is trash for a lot of reasons. But

1694
01:17:28,880 --> 01:17:32,360
Speaker 2: that's a whole other subject. Anyway, a year of being

1695
01:17:32,479 --> 01:17:37,320
Speaker 2: treated less than by employers despite being well liked by clients,

1696
01:17:37,439 --> 01:17:40,879
Speaker 2: not getting paid a living wage, and developing pretty acute

1697
01:17:41,280 --> 01:17:44,360
Speaker 2: anxiety and depression as a result, I decided to quit.

1698
01:17:44,640 --> 01:17:47,360
Speaker 2: And let me tell you something about acute depression and anxiety.

1699
01:17:47,840 --> 01:17:52,920
Speaker 2: Ain't nothing acute about it. Okay, it's actually ugly. I'm

1700
01:17:52,920 --> 01:17:56,040
Speaker 2: struggling financially right now, but I was struggling working full

1701
01:17:56,120 --> 01:17:58,680
Speaker 2: time as well. But at least now I had the

1702
01:17:58,760 --> 01:18:00,840
Speaker 2: time and brain space to make take inventory of my

1703
01:18:00,920 --> 01:18:03,040
Speaker 2: life and career, figure out the next steps, and gets

1704
01:18:03,080 --> 01:18:03,960
Speaker 2: so much need to rest.

1705
01:18:05,160 --> 01:18:06,519
Speaker 3: Well. I hope it works out for you, and I

1706
01:18:06,600 --> 01:18:08,360
Speaker 3: hope that you find yourself in a better.

1707
01:18:08,200 --> 01:18:11,760
Speaker 2: Situation, because even if you're just not as mentally stressed out,

1708
01:18:11,960 --> 01:18:14,800
Speaker 2: there's a cost to being stressed out, even when you're

1709
01:18:14,800 --> 01:18:16,880
Speaker 2: making a lot of money. Yes, it is, and you

1710
01:18:16,960 --> 01:18:18,760
Speaker 2: weren't making a lot of money, so I mean, shit,

1711
01:18:19,400 --> 01:18:20,880
Speaker 2: you probably be all right. As long as you get

1712
01:18:20,920 --> 01:18:24,240
Speaker 2: that less stressed job, you probably be okay. Three of

1713
01:18:24,320 --> 01:18:29,360
Speaker 2: the worst white pronounced white women always have my name Amber.

1714
01:18:29,720 --> 01:18:32,280
Speaker 2: I'm a good Amber, y'all. I swear this whole thing

1715
01:18:32,760 --> 01:18:35,880
Speaker 2: has me beyond pissed and frustrated. Right, has a great point,

1716
01:18:36,240 --> 01:18:39,080
Speaker 2: So compassion does exist, but only for fragile white women.

1717
01:18:39,160 --> 01:18:41,880
Speaker 2: I'm sick to my stomach with all this. Yeah, let

1718
01:18:41,920 --> 01:18:45,680
Speaker 2: me add this too. After this only started after that

1719
01:18:45,800 --> 01:18:46,959
Speaker 2: episode where.

1720
01:18:51,120 --> 01:18:54,599
Speaker 3: Chadwick Boseman went on Saturday Night Live. But this new

1721
01:18:54,680 --> 01:18:55,559
Speaker 3: thing where they.

1722
01:18:55,520 --> 01:18:58,960
Speaker 2: Say Karen is the white woman name, they came out

1723
01:18:59,000 --> 01:19:03,519
Speaker 2: of nowhere. Like it wasn't always like not all karings. Yeah,

1724
01:19:03,560 --> 01:19:06,759
Speaker 2: it wasn't always cares. Now it's all of a sudden

1725
01:19:06,960 --> 01:19:08,720
Speaker 2: caring is the new white woman placeholder.

1726
01:19:08,880 --> 01:19:11,240
Speaker 4: So that's my joke, particularly on Facebook.

1727
01:19:10,840 --> 01:19:11,960
Speaker 3: I be not all karens.

1728
01:19:12,240 --> 01:19:13,920
Speaker 2: Yes, someone made a T shirt for us and it's

1729
01:19:13,920 --> 01:19:16,960
Speaker 2: in our store on Tea Public as well as our

1730
01:19:17,040 --> 01:19:19,599
Speaker 2: new Star Wars design is in the store and it's

1731
01:19:19,640 --> 01:19:20,320
Speaker 2: on sale.

1732
01:19:20,640 --> 01:19:22,080
Speaker 3: For now for the next three days.

1733
01:19:23,200 --> 01:19:25,640
Speaker 2: For uh rod, you were able to go on, you

1734
01:19:25,720 --> 01:19:27,479
Speaker 2: were about to go on a tangent about black churches

1735
01:19:27,520 --> 01:19:29,559
Speaker 2: and religion, and I love to hear it if y'all

1736
01:19:29,600 --> 01:19:32,320
Speaker 2: have time on another episode as a black person raising

1737
01:19:32,360 --> 01:19:35,240
Speaker 2: the Black church, I have critiques, my thoughts again, could

1738
01:19:35,320 --> 01:19:38,360
Speaker 2: be another email. I love to hear an outside perspectives.

1739
01:19:38,360 --> 01:19:40,080
Speaker 2: I think about this stuff a lot, and I'm constantly

1740
01:19:40,120 --> 01:19:43,040
Speaker 2: trying to dismant a white, Western based Christianity and distance

1741
01:19:43,080 --> 01:19:45,439
Speaker 2: myself from those beliefs while still maintaining my faith.

1742
01:19:45,479 --> 01:19:48,840
Speaker 3: It's a struggle, man. Yeah.

1743
01:19:48,880 --> 01:19:52,360
Speaker 4: Like I said, periodically things come up, and you know, yeah,

1744
01:19:52,720 --> 01:19:55,960
Speaker 4: we kind of kind of talk about them as they

1745
01:19:56,200 --> 01:19:56,599
Speaker 4: come up.

1746
01:19:57,120 --> 01:19:59,000
Speaker 3: Yeah. I haven't talked about it in a long time.

1747
01:19:59,080 --> 01:20:00,760
Speaker 2: I know, back when we first started to show that

1748
01:20:00,800 --> 01:20:03,920
Speaker 2: as an episode where we'll specifically just some of my

1749
01:20:04,040 --> 01:20:05,439
Speaker 2: thoughts about church in general.

1750
01:20:07,160 --> 01:20:09,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's real old, but I haven't really done it

1751
01:20:09,280 --> 01:20:09,719
Speaker 3: in a while.

1752
01:20:09,800 --> 01:20:12,639
Speaker 2: I think people a lot of times they can't handle

1753
01:20:12,880 --> 01:20:17,920
Speaker 2: any level of like disbelief or critique of the church,

1754
01:20:18,120 --> 01:20:21,759
Speaker 2: or they feel like I'm like only shitting on Christians.

1755
01:20:21,840 --> 01:20:24,800
Speaker 2: But I mean, America's run by Christians, so that's the one.

1756
01:20:25,520 --> 01:20:27,719
Speaker 2: If it was run by Muslims, and I had problems

1757
01:20:27,760 --> 01:20:29,240
Speaker 2: with the way they ran shit. I'm sure I'll be

1758
01:20:29,320 --> 01:20:31,080
Speaker 2: telling you like it. I don't like this shit either.

1759
01:20:31,200 --> 01:20:35,040
Speaker 2: So I just think religion is a very dangerous fucking

1760
01:20:35,439 --> 01:20:39,240
Speaker 2: reason to do things, period. And a lot of bigotry

1761
01:20:39,280 --> 01:20:42,320
Speaker 2: in our society has been indoctrinated into religion.

1762
01:20:42,360 --> 01:20:44,639
Speaker 3: And some chicken in the chicken or the egg shit.

1763
01:20:45,280 --> 01:20:49,160
Speaker 2: Because racism is in the Bible if the right person

1764
01:20:49,479 --> 01:20:52,240
Speaker 2: is reading it, and guess what normally happens. It's normally

1765
01:20:52,280 --> 01:20:56,280
Speaker 2: a racist person that's making it racist. Same thing with homophobia.

1766
01:20:56,400 --> 01:20:59,800
Speaker 2: It's normally a homophobic person that's choosing that this is

1767
01:20:59,840 --> 01:21:01,720
Speaker 2: the message of the Bible and this is what we

1768
01:21:01,840 --> 01:21:04,720
Speaker 2: need to concentrate all of our efforts on. It's a

1769
01:21:04,840 --> 01:21:07,640
Speaker 2: it's a mirror, and the mirror is often reflecting the

1770
01:21:07,680 --> 01:21:09,600
Speaker 2: bigotry of the person looking into it.

1771
01:21:10,200 --> 01:21:11,320
Speaker 3: And it's very.

1772
01:21:11,240 --> 01:21:14,680
Speaker 2: Scary to me, as a non believer to think that

1773
01:21:14,800 --> 01:21:18,439
Speaker 2: there's this mass of people out there that on a whim,

1774
01:21:18,720 --> 01:21:24,320
Speaker 2: can just choose today it is justified to ostracize, oppress,

1775
01:21:25,040 --> 01:21:30,000
Speaker 2: and harassed X type of person you know, in addition

1776
01:21:30,120 --> 01:21:34,360
Speaker 2: to the misogyny, in addition to the greed of a

1777
01:21:34,439 --> 01:21:37,280
Speaker 2: lot of these pastors and the way that they flaunt

1778
01:21:37,320 --> 01:21:42,000
Speaker 2: their wealth and the way that like congregation members are

1779
01:21:42,080 --> 01:21:46,120
Speaker 2: proud of that shit mascots. Yes, our pastor got this

1780
01:21:46,280 --> 01:21:48,320
Speaker 2: type of car I've seen. I've been in rooms where

1781
01:21:48,320 --> 01:21:51,080
Speaker 2: that's a discussion. Well, people are going off like they're

1782
01:21:51,200 --> 01:21:53,519
Speaker 2: like a room for a fucking basketball team. And this

1783
01:21:53,640 --> 01:21:55,879
Speaker 2: is all supposed to be done on the ospice of religion.

1784
01:21:56,000 --> 01:21:59,000
Speaker 2: Even sometimes even the way the church gives people are

1785
01:21:59,120 --> 01:22:01,680
Speaker 2: doing it on some life we give more than y'all are,

1786
01:22:02,240 --> 01:22:06,360
Speaker 2: like like like you're flossing and giving almost that's before

1787
01:22:06,400 --> 01:22:08,920
Speaker 2: you even get into the fact that this is a

1788
01:22:09,040 --> 01:22:10,720
Speaker 2: white Christianity.

1789
01:22:10,800 --> 01:22:12,480
Speaker 3: We've been taught in America.

1790
01:22:14,080 --> 01:22:17,080
Speaker 2: And it's an export of the country, one that goes

1791
01:22:17,160 --> 01:22:20,519
Speaker 2: to Africa and then further oppresses people back in the

1792
01:22:20,720 --> 01:22:25,719
Speaker 2: in the continent about LGBTQ issues and to the point

1793
01:22:25,800 --> 01:22:30,679
Speaker 2: of killing people, like taking that money and putting people

1794
01:22:30,720 --> 01:22:34,320
Speaker 2: in prison, making it outlawed as a crime to to

1795
01:22:34,520 --> 01:22:39,360
Speaker 2: to punish and kill from the government. And that's exported,

1796
01:22:39,479 --> 01:22:41,920
Speaker 2: that's not even like originating there.

1797
01:22:42,120 --> 01:22:43,040
Speaker 3: That's us in.

1798
01:22:43,120 --> 01:22:46,400
Speaker 2: America empowering people who go overseas where there's no laws

1799
01:22:46,800 --> 01:22:49,120
Speaker 2: to stop it. Or where they have enough money to

1800
01:22:49,280 --> 01:22:51,639
Speaker 2: then be like, hey, we'll give you this much money

1801
01:22:51,680 --> 01:22:52,960
Speaker 2: to the ya Gandhian.

1802
01:22:52,640 --> 01:22:55,120
Speaker 3: President and then you go kill all the fucking gay

1803
01:22:55,160 --> 01:22:55,599
Speaker 3: people there.

1804
01:22:55,640 --> 01:22:58,479
Speaker 2: Okay, let's just make that that's what we want to do,

1805
01:22:58,640 --> 01:23:00,000
Speaker 2: and the fact that we know that's what they want

1806
01:23:00,000 --> 01:23:01,439
Speaker 2: want to do there, What do you think they want

1807
01:23:01,479 --> 01:23:01,840
Speaker 2: to do here?

1808
01:23:02,080 --> 01:23:02,200
Speaker 4: Right?

1809
01:23:02,960 --> 01:23:04,800
Speaker 3: You know, we have to fight tooth and nail for

1810
01:23:05,080 --> 01:23:10,639
Speaker 3: things like marriage equality. That's you know. Misogyny is another one.

1811
01:23:11,000 --> 01:23:12,840
Speaker 2: I've sat in so many churches where the only people

1812
01:23:12,880 --> 01:23:14,800
Speaker 2: in there were women, and the fucking pastors up there

1813
01:23:14,800 --> 01:23:15,960
Speaker 2: telling women how they ain't shit.

1814
01:23:16,840 --> 01:23:18,800
Speaker 3: You know, Oh you're not with the father of your child.

1815
01:23:18,880 --> 01:23:22,360
Speaker 3: You ain't shit. Are you be having sex? You ain't shit.

1816
01:23:23,160 --> 01:23:23,680
Speaker 3: That's why you.

1817
01:23:23,680 --> 01:23:26,160
Speaker 2: Ain't got no man, nigga I'm here. You ain't got

1818
01:23:26,240 --> 01:23:28,840
Speaker 2: no congregation if it ain't for me. You know, it's

1819
01:23:28,920 --> 01:23:31,479
Speaker 2: just such a it's such a head fuck. And I

1820
01:23:31,640 --> 01:23:33,200
Speaker 2: was just glad to be done with it. As soon

1821
01:23:33,240 --> 01:23:34,760
Speaker 2: as I was old enough to be able to make

1822
01:23:34,800 --> 01:23:37,040
Speaker 2: the decision on my own whether or not I go

1823
01:23:37,160 --> 01:23:38,400
Speaker 2: to church, I was like, I'm.

1824
01:23:38,320 --> 01:23:40,400
Speaker 3: Good on this shit. You know. I went a few

1825
01:23:40,479 --> 01:23:45,000
Speaker 3: times in college I think mostly for either like social

1826
01:23:45,080 --> 01:23:48,639
Speaker 3: pressure or like someone wanted to go and I knew

1827
01:23:48,680 --> 01:23:49,280
Speaker 3: them and their.

1828
01:23:49,120 --> 01:23:50,760
Speaker 2: A friend or something. I'm like, I guess I'll go

1829
01:23:50,840 --> 01:23:53,320
Speaker 2: to your church. But yeah, as soon as I can

1830
01:23:53,360 --> 01:23:55,479
Speaker 2: make that decision myself, I'm like, why am I doing

1831
01:23:55,600 --> 01:23:59,120
Speaker 2: this to myself? Like because there was like trying to

1832
01:23:59,160 --> 01:24:02,240
Speaker 2: find a ue unquote good church is like down here,

1833
01:24:02,439 --> 01:24:05,400
Speaker 2: there's one on every block. But it's also like finding

1834
01:24:05,439 --> 01:24:07,759
Speaker 2: a needle in a haystack to fit with my beliefs,

1835
01:24:08,479 --> 01:24:12,240
Speaker 2: you know. So, And I'm not even saying that I'm

1836
01:24:12,520 --> 01:24:15,120
Speaker 2: one hundred percent sure that there's no God or something

1837
01:24:15,200 --> 01:24:17,160
Speaker 2: like that, Like when atheists say that, I'm like, I

1838
01:24:17,200 --> 01:24:17,800
Speaker 2: don't even know what.

1839
01:24:17,880 --> 01:24:20,880
Speaker 3: To say with that, because I don't know all this

1840
01:24:20,920 --> 01:24:21,719
Speaker 3: shit is a miracle.

1841
01:24:21,760 --> 01:24:24,400
Speaker 2: I don't know what, like the fact that we are

1842
01:24:24,520 --> 01:24:27,280
Speaker 2: sentient beings on a planet that can sustain life. Of

1843
01:24:27,520 --> 01:24:30,280
Speaker 2: all the fucking billions of planets in this distance, and

1844
01:24:30,360 --> 01:24:32,120
Speaker 2: we don't know of another one that we could that

1845
01:24:32,240 --> 01:24:35,680
Speaker 2: fucking got people on it, or or alien life or anything. Like,

1846
01:24:35,760 --> 01:24:37,559
Speaker 2: I don't know what the fuck is happening out there,

1847
01:24:37,600 --> 01:24:40,280
Speaker 2: And I'm not smart enough to say or arrogant enough

1848
01:24:40,320 --> 01:24:43,240
Speaker 2: to say, I know everything. What I do know is

1849
01:24:43,320 --> 01:24:46,560
Speaker 2: that the way we treat each other and couching that

1850
01:24:46,640 --> 01:24:49,800
Speaker 2: shit in a magical sky. Dad is the one telling

1851
01:24:49,880 --> 01:24:53,200
Speaker 2: everybody to treat people like shit. So so as if

1852
01:24:53,240 --> 01:24:57,479
Speaker 2: we have no responsibility for that shit. I refuse to

1853
01:24:57,640 --> 01:25:00,120
Speaker 2: let that be okay, you know, I refuse to to

1854
01:25:00,200 --> 01:25:03,280
Speaker 2: promote that kind of shit. So that's you know, that's

1855
01:25:03,360 --> 01:25:06,200
Speaker 2: the stuff that's always on my mind. And that's why

1856
01:25:06,320 --> 01:25:09,360
Speaker 2: when people go, you know, oh he hugged or see,

1857
01:25:09,439 --> 01:25:12,080
Speaker 2: religion is fucked up because it got us forgiving out

1858
01:25:12,080 --> 01:25:16,640
Speaker 2: oppressors and shit, I'm like, we'll take it further. You know,

1859
01:25:16,840 --> 01:25:20,560
Speaker 2: how many of y'all are repressed sexually? How many of

1860
01:25:20,640 --> 01:25:24,360
Speaker 2: y'all are repressed financially? You're giving your money away because

1861
01:25:24,360 --> 01:25:25,800
Speaker 2: the pastors say, he needs your money?

1862
01:25:26,000 --> 01:25:30,000
Speaker 3: God? What fuck God need money for on earth?

1863
01:25:30,240 --> 01:25:32,920
Speaker 2: What the fuck he's got, Daddy, he can make some

1864
01:25:33,000 --> 01:25:35,120
Speaker 2: more money. Like, it's just a bunch of it's just

1865
01:25:35,200 --> 01:25:36,880
Speaker 2: a bunch of shit tied up in it. And that's

1866
01:25:36,960 --> 01:25:39,720
Speaker 2: not to demean the people that are good people that

1867
01:25:39,840 --> 01:25:42,799
Speaker 2: are Christians. But my personal belief is that them motherfuckers

1868
01:25:42,840 --> 01:25:44,519
Speaker 2: would be good people whether there was Christians or not.

1869
01:25:45,720 --> 01:25:47,599
Speaker 2: You know, I don't think it's the Bible that made

1870
01:25:47,880 --> 01:25:51,439
Speaker 2: my friends that are Christians, that are actually empathetic, kind

1871
01:25:51,520 --> 01:25:54,840
Speaker 2: human beings who look out for other folks and help folks.

1872
01:25:54,920 --> 01:25:57,479
Speaker 2: And I don't think God made them have to be

1873
01:25:57,640 --> 01:25:59,400
Speaker 2: that way. I think they be that way whether they

1874
01:25:59,479 --> 01:26:01,519
Speaker 2: believe or went to church or not. I think they're

1875
01:26:01,560 --> 01:26:03,720
Speaker 2: good people. And I hate when they come down on

1876
01:26:03,800 --> 01:26:05,640
Speaker 2: themselves and to hear them kind of shit on their

1877
01:26:05,720 --> 01:26:07,960
Speaker 2: selves for like, quote unquote falling short.

1878
01:26:08,040 --> 01:26:09,559
Speaker 3: I just won't be like you, a good person, man.

1879
01:26:09,600 --> 01:26:10,600
Speaker 3: Don't let that book make you.

1880
01:26:10,600 --> 01:26:13,640
Speaker 2: Feel like you bad cause you fuck somebody or you

1881
01:26:14,280 --> 01:26:17,160
Speaker 2: cussed or you drink or something like that. So that's

1882
01:26:17,200 --> 01:26:18,519
Speaker 2: the kind of shit I be thinking about, and I

1883
01:26:18,640 --> 01:26:20,559
Speaker 2: just try not to say it all the time because

1884
01:26:20,560 --> 01:26:23,200
Speaker 2: it's not you know, hopefully I haven't. I'm not trying

1885
01:26:23,240 --> 01:26:25,400
Speaker 2: my goals never to piss people off with these opinions.

1886
01:26:25,640 --> 01:26:29,280
Speaker 2: But these are my beliefs, and it doesn't seem to

1887
01:26:29,320 --> 01:26:31,000
Speaker 2: be too much of a problem for people to express

1888
01:26:31,040 --> 01:26:34,400
Speaker 2: the other way. But whenever someone starts saying, well, I

1889
01:26:34,479 --> 01:26:37,040
Speaker 2: don't believe these things, that's when people get nervous. And

1890
01:26:38,040 --> 01:26:40,360
Speaker 2: you know, it's been like that my whole life, so

1891
01:26:40,479 --> 01:26:41,839
Speaker 2: I normally just keep it to myself.

1892
01:26:41,960 --> 01:26:43,840
Speaker 4: You feel they put laws on the books.

1893
01:26:43,960 --> 01:26:45,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I'm not a dig about it.

1894
01:26:45,240 --> 01:26:48,519
Speaker 2: I'm not a dick atheist person that shows up at

1895
01:26:48,560 --> 01:26:50,320
Speaker 2: the Thanksgiving and when they say it's time to pray,

1896
01:26:50,360 --> 01:26:53,640
Speaker 2: I'm like, I won't be doing that, and I run

1897
01:26:53,680 --> 01:26:54,040
Speaker 2: out on the.

1898
01:26:54,200 --> 01:26:55,479
Speaker 3: Fucking like, na, it's not.

1899
01:26:56,360 --> 01:26:58,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not. It's not even a big deal to me.

1900
01:26:58,640 --> 01:27:01,080
Speaker 2: Like if I have a that's in the hospital and

1901
01:27:01,120 --> 01:27:03,760
Speaker 2: they're like, man, your thoughts and prayers, I'll throw up

1902
01:27:03,760 --> 01:27:06,160
Speaker 2: a prayer for you too, cause, like, what if I'm

1903
01:27:06,200 --> 01:27:08,560
Speaker 2: wrong and it's a point one percent chance that that

1904
01:27:08,600 --> 01:27:09,439
Speaker 2: shit helped you live?

1905
01:27:09,479 --> 01:27:09,880
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1906
01:27:10,360 --> 01:27:12,719
Speaker 2: I don't know, is the point. I don't know the rules,

1907
01:27:13,720 --> 01:27:17,160
Speaker 2: but I wish people stop acting like they do. Five

1908
01:27:17,320 --> 01:27:21,960
Speaker 2: Karen never gives you Karen never gives your cars. At first,

1909
01:27:22,000 --> 01:27:24,160
Speaker 2: I thought, well, maybe she doesn't get the reference, but

1910
01:27:24,280 --> 01:27:26,120
Speaker 2: I know y'all had a game of Throng part of

1911
01:27:26,240 --> 01:27:29,080
Speaker 2: your podcast, so that can't be it. Karen gives us

1912
01:27:29,120 --> 01:27:31,799
Speaker 2: your cars just once. No shade, Karen, I'm just kidding.

1913
01:27:32,160 --> 01:27:35,160
Speaker 2: It's just always funny to see Rod like, like your

1914
01:27:35,240 --> 01:27:36,960
Speaker 2: cars and Karen like one hundred.

1915
01:27:37,240 --> 01:27:40,360
Speaker 3: Ll, I don't know why. Is there a reason you

1916
01:27:40,400 --> 01:27:42,400
Speaker 3: don't through your cars? Is it a personal no?

1917
01:27:43,600 --> 01:27:45,800
Speaker 4: No, And a lot of it is just I know

1918
01:27:45,880 --> 01:27:47,720
Speaker 4: we got your cars, like, but I'm just used to

1919
01:27:47,760 --> 01:27:49,400
Speaker 4: seeing a hundred, so i just go one hundred.

1920
01:27:49,560 --> 01:27:51,080
Speaker 3: Okay. Six.

1921
01:27:51,240 --> 01:27:55,720
Speaker 2: Hugging Bible passing Out Judge could be a show on NBC.

1922
01:27:56,920 --> 01:27:57,679
Speaker 3: Shown Fox.

1923
01:28:02,200 --> 01:28:06,680
Speaker 2: On the next episode instead of God, I can't remember that.

1924
01:28:06,960 --> 01:28:09,799
Speaker 2: That the woman with the blonde hair and the short aircut.

1925
01:28:09,880 --> 01:28:12,640
Speaker 2: That's mean as fuck. That's always she used to be

1926
01:28:12,680 --> 01:28:14,600
Speaker 2: a prosecutor. She was on Dancing with the Stars for

1927
01:28:14,600 --> 01:28:16,200
Speaker 2: a little bit. Y'all know who I'm talking about.

1928
01:28:16,439 --> 01:28:18,439
Speaker 4: Yes, what is that white woman's name?

1929
01:28:18,560 --> 01:28:21,120
Speaker 2: Instead of her, they have hugging Bible passing out black

1930
01:28:21,200 --> 01:28:25,680
Speaker 2: judge woman. Yes, instead of her, they have whatever that.

1931
01:28:25,960 --> 01:28:29,000
Speaker 3: That judge was. They should have her come on there

1932
01:28:29,680 --> 01:28:32,439
Speaker 3: and Steavi be the new thing. Somebody do something racist.

1933
01:28:32,520 --> 01:28:37,519
Speaker 3: She just hand them a Bible huggle. That ship is

1934
01:28:37,600 --> 01:28:39,320
Speaker 3: cute for a sick call. She had no business doing

1935
01:28:39,360 --> 01:28:41,479
Speaker 3: that ship for a couple of different reasons. Love the show.

1936
01:28:41,560 --> 01:28:43,519
Speaker 2: Thanks so much for providing your personal insight on some

1937
01:28:43,560 --> 01:28:46,840
Speaker 2: difficult topics. Best Amber, A good one, and thank you Amber.

1938
01:28:48,479 --> 01:28:53,720
Speaker 2: Let's go to the next one. This is from Let

1939
01:28:53,800 --> 01:28:57,160
Speaker 2: me see how they pronounce I don't know how to

1940
01:28:57,280 --> 01:29:01,800
Speaker 2: pronounce their name. Let me see if they signed it differently. Nope, okay,

1941
01:29:01,920 --> 01:29:04,680
Speaker 2: so I'm just gonna go with Dashaun and Hope. I

1942
01:29:04,760 --> 01:29:08,880
Speaker 2: pronounced that right, the Queen of ny rap Hey, Karon

1943
01:29:08,880 --> 01:29:11,160
Speaker 2: and Rod. This episode saved me from an annoying flight

1944
01:29:11,240 --> 01:29:15,960
Speaker 2: on United will I will only fly Delta now. Anyways,

1945
01:29:16,320 --> 01:29:18,519
Speaker 2: I wanted to tell y'all story I experienced quitting a

1946
01:29:18,640 --> 01:29:20,960
Speaker 2: job for my mental health. I worked as an insurance

1947
01:29:20,960 --> 01:29:23,560
Speaker 2: ag just for almost two years with Geico, and I

1948
01:29:23,680 --> 01:29:27,439
Speaker 2: quit this past July. I've always known companies then don't

1949
01:29:27,479 --> 01:29:29,400
Speaker 2: give a crap, but I had to protect myself. I

1950
01:29:29,479 --> 01:29:33,000
Speaker 2: had long a strong work ethic and I always keep trucking.

1951
01:29:33,120 --> 01:29:36,360
Speaker 2: It's a job. It's a job. Deal with the mentality.

1952
01:29:36,840 --> 01:29:39,000
Speaker 2: I worked in a call center environment where people call

1953
01:29:39,040 --> 01:29:41,679
Speaker 2: about car accidents. I never knew that I would get once.

1954
01:29:43,680 --> 01:29:45,320
Speaker 2: I never knew what I would get once. I said

1955
01:29:45,360 --> 01:29:48,000
Speaker 2: thanks for calling, and no matter what transpired, I was

1956
01:29:48,040 --> 01:29:49,160
Speaker 2: required to take the next call.

1957
01:29:49,800 --> 01:29:52,000
Speaker 3: Adam Man called me and say my daughter just got shot.

1958
01:29:52,040 --> 01:29:55,080
Speaker 2: In the head by her fiance while she was driving,

1959
01:29:55,160 --> 01:29:57,400
Speaker 2: and she was graduated from law school in a few weeks.

1960
01:29:57,640 --> 01:29:59,519
Speaker 2: I had a mental breakdown with the stress of that

1961
01:29:59,640 --> 01:30:02,599
Speaker 2: job my own life, So the stats are real. I'm

1962
01:30:02,640 --> 01:30:05,160
Speaker 2: thirty two and black, and I took time to care for.

1963
01:30:05,240 --> 01:30:07,640
Speaker 3: My mental health. My family didn't understand I had to

1964
01:30:07,680 --> 01:30:10,960
Speaker 3: bring up stuff families don't like to discuss. Mom.

1965
01:30:11,080 --> 01:30:13,960
Speaker 2: Maybe that's why your mom left y'all and disappear when

1966
01:30:13,960 --> 01:30:16,080
Speaker 2: you as a child. Maybe my brother really is a

1967
01:30:16,080 --> 01:30:19,280
Speaker 2: schizophrenic and it shouldn't be a family joke. Maybe my

1968
01:30:19,360 --> 01:30:23,680
Speaker 2: aunt pistol whipping someone who cut her daughter hair before.

1969
01:30:23,479 --> 01:30:25,040
Speaker 3: Asking her was having an episode.

1970
01:30:25,479 --> 01:30:28,240
Speaker 2: Maybe her brother never and my uncle's stories are crazy

1971
01:30:28,400 --> 01:30:30,720
Speaker 2: enough for me to not hold long conversations with him

1972
01:30:31,160 --> 01:30:31,960
Speaker 2: when I see him.

1973
01:30:32,520 --> 01:30:32,920
Speaker 3: AnyWho.

1974
01:30:33,080 --> 01:30:35,080
Speaker 2: I'm fixing that relationship with my mom slowly because I

1975
01:30:35,160 --> 01:30:37,720
Speaker 2: learned people don't like the truth because it hurts. Yeah,

1976
01:30:37,880 --> 01:30:39,640
Speaker 2: I mean, well, also, it depends on how you tell it,

1977
01:30:39,800 --> 01:30:43,080
Speaker 2: you know, Like, it's not that the truth has to hurt,

1978
01:30:43,560 --> 01:30:47,519
Speaker 2: but it really depends on each individual situation.

1979
01:30:47,680 --> 01:30:51,000
Speaker 3: Some people just refuse to hear the truth and that's

1980
01:30:51,040 --> 01:30:53,400
Speaker 3: why it hurts. And some people tell the truth in

1981
01:30:53,479 --> 01:30:54,120
Speaker 3: a harsh way.

1982
01:30:54,360 --> 01:30:58,000
Speaker 2: That means that it's more than just it being the truth,

1983
01:30:58,200 --> 01:31:02,519
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. Like like, for example, let's

1984
01:31:02,520 --> 01:31:04,160
Speaker 2: say I'm hanging out with Justin and I happened to

1985
01:31:04,240 --> 01:31:06,200
Speaker 2: notice that his breath stinks.

1986
01:31:07,080 --> 01:31:09,840
Speaker 3: I could be like, in front of everybody, damn, nigga,

1987
01:31:09,880 --> 01:31:12,519
Speaker 3: your breath stink. And then when he'd be like, damn,

1988
01:31:12,600 --> 01:31:14,320
Speaker 3: you have to put me on blast in front of

1989
01:31:14,360 --> 01:31:17,200
Speaker 3: everybody that was rude, I could be like, true, hurt, bitch,

1990
01:31:17,439 --> 01:31:18,960
Speaker 3: is that what's wrong? You're gonna cry?

1991
01:31:19,360 --> 01:31:21,160
Speaker 4: That's that's some people do it and then they wonder why.

1992
01:31:21,200 --> 01:31:22,960
Speaker 4: People be like what and fuck you? Right?

1993
01:31:23,400 --> 01:31:26,200
Speaker 2: Or I could pull justice to the side and be like,

1994
01:31:26,400 --> 01:31:29,400
Speaker 2: hey man, I didn't want to tell you this in

1995
01:31:29,439 --> 01:31:32,439
Speaker 2: front of everybody, but I got some some life savers

1996
01:31:32,439 --> 01:31:36,240
Speaker 2: for you because breath something going on. And he could

1997
01:31:36,240 --> 01:31:38,600
Speaker 2: be like, all right, man, you know what, dog, I

1998
01:31:38,680 --> 01:31:40,880
Speaker 2: feel you appreciate you pulling to the side like that.

1999
01:31:41,360 --> 01:31:41,640
Speaker 3: Thank you.

2000
01:31:42,120 --> 01:31:44,320
Speaker 2: So you know it could depend on that too. I

2001
01:31:44,360 --> 01:31:47,240
Speaker 2: don't I don't know both sides of the situation. I'm

2002
01:31:47,240 --> 01:31:48,519
Speaker 2: gonna just assume and hope that.

2003
01:31:48,560 --> 01:31:50,519
Speaker 3: You said it in a nice way and she just

2004
01:31:50,560 --> 01:31:53,280
Speaker 3: couldn't take it. I take care of my mental health

2005
01:31:53,320 --> 01:31:53,799
Speaker 3: and silence.

2006
01:31:53,880 --> 01:31:54,000
Speaker 4: Now.

2007
01:31:54,160 --> 01:31:56,360
Speaker 2: I have a part time job now and I'm happy.

2008
01:31:57,360 --> 01:31:59,599
Speaker 2: Oh and then also let me add one more thing. Also,

2009
01:31:59,680 --> 01:32:03,920
Speaker 2: when people are very comfortable living the fucked up way

2010
01:32:04,520 --> 01:32:08,200
Speaker 2: that shit is going already, you may have to just

2011
01:32:08,640 --> 01:32:11,640
Speaker 2: like cut yourself off of them for a while to

2012
01:32:11,760 --> 01:32:14,240
Speaker 2: get to get yourself healthy, because you.

2013
01:32:14,280 --> 01:32:16,960
Speaker 3: Can't drown trying to save everybody else. And you can't drown.

2014
01:32:17,080 --> 01:32:19,040
Speaker 2: You can't just jump in the ocean because everybody else

2015
01:32:19,160 --> 01:32:22,080
Speaker 2: is out there drowning them too. Like sometimes you gotta

2016
01:32:22,120 --> 01:32:25,040
Speaker 2: be like, well, if y'all ain't, if y'all ain't saving yourselves,

2017
01:32:25,120 --> 01:32:25,519
Speaker 2: I have to.

2018
01:32:25,520 --> 01:32:25,960
Speaker 3: Do it for me.

2019
01:32:26,240 --> 01:32:28,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, y'all punch Josie on boats. I'm not sinking too.

2020
01:32:29,240 --> 01:32:31,400
Speaker 3: I ended up. That's a great analogy. Can you did

2021
01:32:31,479 --> 01:32:32,160
Speaker 3: it better than I did?

2022
01:32:32,680 --> 01:32:34,679
Speaker 2: I ended up going to a mental health facility twice

2023
01:32:34,720 --> 01:32:36,599
Speaker 2: in one month due the stress and depression. They said

2024
01:32:37,040 --> 01:32:38,400
Speaker 2: I have bipolar depression.

2025
01:32:38,479 --> 01:32:38,880
Speaker 3: I don't know.

2026
01:32:39,040 --> 01:32:40,960
Speaker 2: I don't know how true that is because I take years.

2027
01:32:41,520 --> 01:32:43,720
Speaker 2: It takes years for an accurate diagnosis. But a work

2028
01:32:43,800 --> 01:32:45,639
Speaker 2: environment can be very unhealthy.

2029
01:32:46,320 --> 01:32:49,439
Speaker 3: That's all. That's all. Sorry, So long. I love y'all back,

2030
01:32:49,760 --> 01:32:50,679
Speaker 3: and I wanted to share.

2031
01:32:50,800 --> 01:32:53,840
Speaker 2: And Rod, I tweeted you about pumpkin spice at these

2032
01:32:54,000 --> 01:32:57,759
Speaker 2: two die for it tasted like who made the potato salad?

2033
01:32:58,000 --> 01:33:02,920
Speaker 3: Sad face. Lol. Well, I'm gonna just tell you right now,

2034
01:33:05,439 --> 01:33:08,679
Speaker 3: don't blame the Punkinspie on depression or anything like that. Okay,

2035
01:33:09,000 --> 01:33:11,400
Speaker 3: Like like, no, when you.

2036
01:33:11,520 --> 01:33:13,360
Speaker 2: Ready for the Punkin Spis, it'll be that for you.

2037
01:33:13,640 --> 01:33:15,720
Speaker 2: It's all I'm saying. It was there for me and

2038
01:33:15,800 --> 01:33:20,559
Speaker 2: it embraced me. Okay, and you do, I'll never go back, okay.

2039
01:33:22,160 --> 01:33:25,880
Speaker 2: And then she includes a screenshot of the whole autobiography

2040
01:33:25,920 --> 01:33:27,599
Speaker 2: in five chapters by Porsia Nelson.

2041
01:33:27,640 --> 01:33:30,439
Speaker 3: There is a poem, but I'm not gonna put I'm

2042
01:33:30,439 --> 01:33:31,880
Speaker 3: not gonna read the poem on the show. But thank you.

2043
01:33:33,880 --> 01:33:37,800
Speaker 2: All right, y'ama Lee right saying, says new TV show

2044
01:33:37,920 --> 01:33:39,240
Speaker 2: for a twenty nineteen season.

2045
01:33:40,080 --> 01:33:41,120
Speaker 3: Dear Rod and Karen.

2046
01:33:42,040 --> 01:33:44,800
Speaker 2: First, let me say love, love, love you guys. It

2047
01:33:44,960 --> 01:33:46,760
Speaker 2: is so much fun listening to you guys talk about

2048
01:33:46,800 --> 01:33:47,400
Speaker 2: things happening.

2049
01:33:47,479 --> 01:33:47,599
Speaker 5: Now.

2050
01:33:47,720 --> 01:33:49,840
Speaker 3: I know I am giving away my age, but.

2051
01:33:49,920 --> 01:33:52,759
Speaker 2: I used to watch Old Rebus, The Burns and Allen

2052
01:33:52,880 --> 01:33:55,559
Speaker 2: Show as a kid with my grandmother and the comedy

2053
01:33:55,600 --> 01:33:58,240
Speaker 2: of relationship you guys have is similar to that classic show.

2054
01:33:58,600 --> 01:34:01,240
Speaker 2: I'm not really sure that's what you guys are going for,

2055
01:34:01,520 --> 01:34:04,280
Speaker 2: but that's what we can possibly be going for it

2056
01:34:04,280 --> 01:34:05,680
Speaker 2: because I ain't never heard of that show, and I'm

2057
01:34:05,720 --> 01:34:06,800
Speaker 2: so sorry me too.

2058
01:34:06,880 --> 01:34:08,920
Speaker 4: I was thinking to it. I was going to do

2059
01:34:09,040 --> 01:34:10,439
Speaker 4: the Memory Bank and I don't remember that one.

2060
01:34:10,479 --> 01:34:12,880
Speaker 3: I'm gonna have to check it out. I'm sorry. It's

2061
01:34:12,920 --> 01:34:14,960
Speaker 3: probably on Hulu, so well, maybe I didn't know the

2062
01:34:15,080 --> 01:34:15,960
Speaker 3: name of it. I don't know.

2063
01:34:16,640 --> 01:34:21,280
Speaker 2: Oh, it's similar, but you guys are with the chemistry,

2064
01:34:21,320 --> 01:34:23,679
Speaker 2: the relationship you guys have is similar to that classic show.

2065
01:34:23,960 --> 01:34:26,040
Speaker 2: I'm not really sure that's what you guys are going for,

2066
01:34:26,560 --> 01:34:28,880
Speaker 2: but that's what the show reminds me of, a loving

2067
01:34:28,920 --> 01:34:31,040
Speaker 2: relationship that was fun, that has fun.

2068
01:34:30,960 --> 01:34:33,080
Speaker 3: And shares your good times. Thank you, thank you.

2069
01:34:33,280 --> 01:34:36,000
Speaker 2: Okay, So here's my question. What new shows for twenty

2070
01:34:36,120 --> 01:34:38,679
Speaker 2: nineteen have you been watching. I took your advice about

2071
01:34:38,720 --> 01:34:40,120
Speaker 2: Sherman's Showcase and love it.

2072
01:34:40,280 --> 01:34:41,080
Speaker 3: Oh so good.

2073
01:34:41,200 --> 01:34:41,960
Speaker 4: That show is good.

2074
01:34:42,080 --> 01:34:44,840
Speaker 2: I have also been watching Southside on Comedy Central and

2075
01:34:44,880 --> 01:34:45,720
Speaker 2: it's pretty funny too.

2076
01:34:46,080 --> 01:34:48,479
Speaker 3: That's also so good. Keep stick with it.

2077
01:34:48,600 --> 01:34:51,280
Speaker 2: Stick with it because it gets it takes a while

2078
01:34:51,360 --> 01:34:53,840
Speaker 2: to get the rhythm of south Side. Because south Side,

2079
01:34:54,960 --> 01:34:56,600
Speaker 2: best way I could compare it, think of it like

2080
01:34:56,680 --> 01:35:00,519
Speaker 2: a black Simpsons. It's live action, but think of it

2081
01:35:00,640 --> 01:35:04,160
Speaker 2: like the Simpsons. It's a cast of literally like fifty

2082
01:35:04,240 --> 01:35:07,639
Speaker 2: something people. Like there is no true main Like there's

2083
01:35:07,720 --> 01:35:10,519
Speaker 2: episodes where you're like, oh, this, I thought this is

2084
01:35:10,600 --> 01:35:13,719
Speaker 2: the main character. And it's not not that there aren't

2085
01:35:13,760 --> 01:35:15,680
Speaker 2: certain people that are recurring all the time, but just

2086
01:35:16,120 --> 01:35:19,920
Speaker 2: there's so many speaking lines, so many situations. It's oh,

2087
01:35:20,200 --> 01:35:23,160
Speaker 2: that is one of my favorite fucking shows. I actually

2088
01:35:23,560 --> 01:35:28,120
Speaker 2: bought that and Southside on Amazon Prime because I just

2089
01:35:28,240 --> 01:35:29,200
Speaker 2: was like, I have to have this.

2090
01:35:31,640 --> 01:35:36,280
Speaker 3: But yeah, the same the same goes to both shows.

2091
01:35:37,080 --> 01:35:39,439
Speaker 2: Best line I'm gonna need the best line is I'm

2092
01:35:39,439 --> 01:35:41,120
Speaker 2: gonna need you to pick that afro all the way

2093
01:35:41,120 --> 01:35:42,600
Speaker 2: out or pat that all the.

2094
01:35:42,640 --> 01:35:47,839
Speaker 4: Way yes, like make your son me and my halfway

2095
01:35:48,120 --> 01:35:48,479
Speaker 4: Me and my.

2096
01:35:48,560 --> 01:35:50,759
Speaker 2: Friend laughed about that for hours. Have you been watching

2097
01:35:50,840 --> 01:35:53,720
Speaker 2: David makes Man on Own? That show is so good,

2098
01:35:53,920 --> 01:35:56,680
Speaker 2: best news show of the year. I have not been

2099
01:35:56,720 --> 01:35:59,439
Speaker 2: watching that. People have been recommended to me, someone's been

2100
01:35:59,439 --> 01:36:02,040
Speaker 2: recommended to me, and BOSSI on Twitter over and over

2101
01:36:02,160 --> 01:36:06,599
Speaker 2: over again. But really, my play is so far right

2102
01:36:06,680 --> 01:36:08,720
Speaker 2: now might be able to binge it, but I heard

2103
01:36:08,720 --> 01:36:11,000
Speaker 2: it's really good. I would love to hear a recap

2104
01:36:11,080 --> 01:36:13,559
Speaker 2: from you guys on that show. The young man playing

2105
01:36:13,680 --> 01:36:16,760
Speaker 2: David is an unbelievable talent. Someone please give him all

2106
01:36:16,800 --> 01:36:19,600
Speaker 2: the awards. The first two episodes took from getting used to,

2107
01:36:19,680 --> 01:36:21,760
Speaker 2: but that third episode where he is acting as three

2108
01:36:21,840 --> 01:36:23,240
Speaker 2: versions of himself is incredible.

2109
01:36:23,479 --> 01:36:24,840
Speaker 3: The characters are smart and deep.

2110
01:36:25,040 --> 01:36:27,439
Speaker 2: It's not afraid the show of showing black people with

2111
01:36:27,560 --> 01:36:30,719
Speaker 2: depth and feelings being from Miami in the South Florida area.

2112
01:36:31,120 --> 01:36:32,679
Speaker 3: I also love that it takes place.

2113
01:36:32,520 --> 01:36:35,200
Speaker 2: In Miami area Homestead mostly, and it shows of South

2114
01:36:35,240 --> 01:36:38,800
Speaker 2: Florida that you do not see so much on TV.

2115
01:36:39,880 --> 01:36:42,200
Speaker 2: People sometimes forget the South Florida is in the south,

2116
01:36:42,439 --> 01:36:44,760
Speaker 2: but David Makes a Man shows a more southern side

2117
01:36:44,760 --> 01:36:45,479
Speaker 2: of South Florida.

2118
01:36:45,840 --> 01:36:49,280
Speaker 3: Please consider adding it to your recap list. Thanks, thanks

2119
01:36:49,360 --> 01:36:50,840
Speaker 3: for being great and lots of fun.

2120
01:36:51,280 --> 01:36:54,160
Speaker 2: Thanks John Beilee, can't promise we're gonna do that, but

2121
01:36:55,240 --> 01:36:59,040
Speaker 2: you are like the third or fourth person who to

2122
01:36:59,320 --> 01:37:02,839
Speaker 2: pitch that show to us, and like I said, especially

2123
01:37:02,880 --> 01:37:03,439
Speaker 2: me and BOSSI.

2124
01:37:03,600 --> 01:37:06,120
Speaker 3: So maybe I will watch it at some point, though.

2125
01:37:07,600 --> 01:37:12,839
Speaker 2: No more whack bitches by Kaitanya who says Happy Saturday,

2126
01:37:12,920 --> 01:37:15,720
Speaker 2: Rod and Karen again. Rod loved Joe ad libs this week.

2127
01:37:15,960 --> 01:37:18,320
Speaker 2: It really lightened up my day. Thanks so much for

2128
01:37:18,400 --> 01:37:20,120
Speaker 2: both of your reactions and support in regard to me.

2129
01:37:20,240 --> 01:37:22,280
Speaker 2: Not as Septing, my former supervisors offered to be a

2130
01:37:22,360 --> 01:37:25,120
Speaker 2: mentor after finding out that she chose the other candidate

2131
01:37:25,200 --> 01:37:27,599
Speaker 2: over me. After making a decision to sending an email,

2132
01:37:27,640 --> 01:37:30,000
Speaker 2: I was starting to question myself and feel like I

2133
01:37:30,080 --> 01:37:32,360
Speaker 2: did something wrong. However, using the tunes from Talk to

2134
01:37:32,520 --> 01:37:36,200
Speaker 2: Therapy to counteract sparreling thoughts, I was able to borrow

2135
01:37:36,280 --> 01:37:40,080
Speaker 2: from your life experiences to assuage the negative thoughts. Looking

2136
01:37:40,160 --> 01:37:42,160
Speaker 2: back on my experience of my old job, or realized

2137
01:37:42,160 --> 01:37:44,880
Speaker 2: that my former supervisor did love by me at some

2138
01:37:45,040 --> 01:37:47,080
Speaker 2: of my colleagues. At the beginning of her tenure, she

2139
01:37:47,240 --> 01:37:49,400
Speaker 2: was a professor that was promoted to being a dean

2140
01:37:49,439 --> 01:37:52,160
Speaker 2: of the department, so she actually became my supervisor a

2141
01:37:52,280 --> 01:37:56,720
Speaker 2: year to me already having being in position and a

2142
01:37:56,840 --> 01:37:58,040
Speaker 2: study abroad advisor.

2143
01:37:58,600 --> 01:37:59,960
Speaker 3: One of her work trips allowed her to.

2144
01:38:00,120 --> 01:38:01,800
Speaker 2: Go to Paris and she brought us back each a

2145
01:38:01,880 --> 01:38:03,840
Speaker 2: box of weal teas from a well known brand.

2146
01:38:03,880 --> 01:38:04,040
Speaker 5: There.

2147
01:38:04,640 --> 01:38:06,680
Speaker 2: Also, she told the whole staff that she wanted to

2148
01:38:06,720 --> 01:38:08,880
Speaker 2: get to know everyone's bio rhythms, i e. If they

2149
01:38:08,920 --> 01:38:11,160
Speaker 2: were a morning person or a night person and they

2150
01:38:11,320 --> 01:38:15,080
Speaker 2: worked best, so that she could adjust our working hours

2151
01:38:15,240 --> 01:38:16,760
Speaker 2: to best suit the office and the needs of the

2152
01:38:16,800 --> 01:38:17,840
Speaker 2: students we served.

2153
01:38:18,240 --> 01:38:20,679
Speaker 3: After her survey of our office team, we were four

2154
01:38:20,760 --> 01:38:21,519
Speaker 3: people in total.

2155
01:38:21,800 --> 01:38:24,280
Speaker 2: It turned out that I was the only one who

2156
01:38:24,400 --> 01:38:26,120
Speaker 2: was a night person that wanted to start one of

2157
01:38:26,160 --> 01:38:29,639
Speaker 2: the later start times, which, to her credit, she allowed

2158
01:38:29,680 --> 01:38:31,720
Speaker 2: me to come in a half hour later than everyone else.

2159
01:38:32,040 --> 01:38:34,760
Speaker 2: My other coworkers were coming around eight thirty and I

2160
01:38:34,800 --> 01:38:37,160
Speaker 2: would come in at nine. There was also an international

2161
01:38:37,240 --> 01:38:39,519
Speaker 2: festival that she organized for the school which had a

2162
01:38:39,560 --> 01:38:42,080
Speaker 2: big name artist's performance. She made sure that all of

2163
01:38:42,160 --> 01:38:44,000
Speaker 2: us in the office got free tickets to go to

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01:38:44,120 --> 01:38:47,240
Speaker 2: the performance. However, then she started to ask us to

2165
01:38:47,320 --> 01:38:49,320
Speaker 2: check our emails on weekends, which I was the only

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01:38:49,360 --> 01:38:51,960
Speaker 2: one to push back on. And a really big flag

2167
01:38:52,320 --> 01:38:55,760
Speaker 2: looking back now was that I was on vacation with

2168
01:38:55,800 --> 01:38:58,040
Speaker 2: my family and my co workers and her sent me

2169
01:38:58,120 --> 01:39:01,280
Speaker 2: a work email and expected me to answer it during vacation.

2170
01:39:02,520 --> 01:39:02,760
Speaker 3: Wow.

2171
01:39:02,920 --> 01:39:04,519
Speaker 2: And state in all this, it really is for the

2172
01:39:04,560 --> 01:39:06,760
Speaker 2: best that I no longer work in that office, nor

2173
01:39:06,880 --> 01:39:09,000
Speaker 2: have my former supervisor as a mentor. She did not

2174
01:39:09,080 --> 01:39:11,880
Speaker 2: respect my boundaries and life outside of the office. I

2175
01:39:11,920 --> 01:39:14,639
Speaker 2: didn't realize that I needed I needed it. However, thank

2176
01:39:14,680 --> 01:39:16,960
Speaker 2: you to again for validating that I'm not crazy for

2177
01:39:17,080 --> 01:39:20,160
Speaker 2: saying no to her. Yeah, that's the other thing, man, Like,

2178
01:39:22,040 --> 01:39:23,960
Speaker 2: now that it's happened to me a couple of times

2179
01:39:24,080 --> 01:39:27,479
Speaker 2: that love bomb and shit dog, I actually now have

2180
01:39:27,640 --> 01:39:31,400
Speaker 2: a negative reaction, and I had not been thinking about it,

2181
01:39:31,479 --> 01:39:32,920
Speaker 2: but I have. That's why I think I have a

2182
01:39:33,000 --> 01:39:35,920
Speaker 2: negative reaction when people really really like me out of nowhere,

2183
01:39:36,600 --> 01:39:41,160
Speaker 2: because I'm always like, okay, what's the other shoe? Like,

2184
01:39:41,240 --> 01:39:43,280
Speaker 2: when are you gonna cash in your chips on?

2185
01:39:43,720 --> 01:39:46,240
Speaker 3: Nigga? I liked you and now you did something I

2186
01:39:46,320 --> 01:39:49,000
Speaker 3: don't agree with. You owe me, you know what I mean?

2187
01:39:49,080 --> 01:39:51,479
Speaker 3: He was like, well, I never asked you to do that.

2188
01:39:51,600 --> 01:39:54,120
Speaker 3: I never you know, I don't you know me. I

2189
01:39:54,200 --> 01:39:56,160
Speaker 3: don't ask for shit. I don't beg for shit.

2190
01:39:56,280 --> 01:39:59,559
Speaker 2: We don't do cash app on Tuesdays on the blackout

2191
01:39:59,600 --> 01:40:03,320
Speaker 2: tips like everything is just we do a product. If

2192
01:40:03,320 --> 01:40:06,120
Speaker 2: you like that, product cool if not, we understand that.

2193
01:40:06,680 --> 01:40:10,719
Speaker 2: And I've had people do that shit where literally one word,

2194
01:40:10,840 --> 01:40:12,960
Speaker 2: one sentence, one thing they don't like and now they

2195
01:40:13,000 --> 01:40:15,439
Speaker 2: don't fuck with us no more. And I'm like, oh,

2196
01:40:15,760 --> 01:40:17,880
Speaker 2: I remember when you was all up in the chat.

2197
01:40:18,000 --> 01:40:20,680
Speaker 2: I remember when you were all on my Twitter. I

2198
01:40:20,840 --> 01:40:23,680
Speaker 2: remember when everything we did was the greatest, everything was

2199
01:40:23,720 --> 01:40:27,320
Speaker 2: an email, everything, and then just one fucking day, one.

2200
01:40:27,280 --> 01:40:30,840
Speaker 3: Thing is just we ain't shit. And that's that narcissism

2201
01:40:30,920 --> 01:40:33,360
Speaker 3: shit where someone can go from good to ain't shit

2202
01:40:33,560 --> 01:40:34,200
Speaker 3: that fast.

2203
01:40:35,080 --> 01:40:37,200
Speaker 4: It wasn't based it was based on a friendship.

2204
01:40:37,479 --> 01:40:39,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, And a lot of people are dealing with their

2205
01:40:39,479 --> 01:40:41,519
Speaker 2: own mental health issues and shit, and I don't need

2206
01:40:41,640 --> 01:40:43,360
Speaker 2: to be a part of that. Like do your thing,

2207
01:40:44,040 --> 01:40:45,400
Speaker 2: I don't got to be a part of that. So

2208
01:40:45,439 --> 01:40:47,960
Speaker 2: I sure don't random a side. Try some more trade

2209
01:40:47,960 --> 01:40:50,120
Speaker 2: of Joe's pumpkin idems this week. I would also recommend

2210
01:40:50,160 --> 01:40:52,120
Speaker 2: the pumpkin old Cereal had it and the trade of

2211
01:40:52,160 --> 01:40:55,160
Speaker 2: Joe's Pumpkin Cookies had them the best, actually, if you.

2212
01:40:55,240 --> 01:40:56,479
Speaker 3: Haven't had them as yet.

2213
01:40:56,520 --> 01:40:58,720
Speaker 2: Other random aside, Rod, since your birthday is nine twenty

2214
01:40:58,760 --> 01:41:00,519
Speaker 2: three and you're right at the beginning of the lead season.

2215
01:41:01,040 --> 01:41:02,960
Speaker 2: Have you ever had the experience of people stating that

2216
01:41:03,080 --> 01:41:05,320
Speaker 2: you're a weird liber because your birthday falls on customer

2217
01:41:05,400 --> 01:41:10,240
Speaker 2: Virgo Libra switch? Not really, Noah, If anything, I'm in

2218
01:41:10,400 --> 01:41:12,720
Speaker 2: the motherfucking pocket of libram.

2219
01:41:12,760 --> 01:41:16,080
Speaker 3: The I'm the textbook, basic bitch definition of libra.

2220
01:41:17,040 --> 01:41:21,559
Speaker 2: Like everything some white girl named Julie believes about herself

2221
01:41:22,520 --> 01:41:25,240
Speaker 2: is what the fuck I represent. It's it's actually really

2222
01:41:25,320 --> 01:41:27,799
Speaker 2: weird that that's the day, Like, is it the beginning

2223
01:41:27,880 --> 01:41:29,439
Speaker 2: of the time you the most libra or is it

2224
01:41:29,520 --> 01:41:31,680
Speaker 2: the end? Because I feel like I'm if it's a

2225
01:41:31,760 --> 01:41:35,000
Speaker 2: libra competition, I'm near the beginning of like like I

2226
01:41:35,080 --> 01:41:38,080
Speaker 2: don't even need to know, Like I thought about doing

2227
01:41:38,160 --> 01:41:39,400
Speaker 2: a reading or something, but.

2228
01:41:39,479 --> 01:41:41,840
Speaker 3: Then I was like, I don't even think I need

2229
01:41:41,960 --> 01:41:43,440
Speaker 3: to know my time.

2230
01:41:43,400 --> 01:41:45,360
Speaker 2: And rise and signs and none of this shit because

2231
01:41:45,840 --> 01:41:48,320
Speaker 2: everything that just encapsulates libra.

2232
01:41:48,360 --> 01:41:49,240
Speaker 3: I'm like that's just me.

2233
01:41:50,439 --> 01:41:53,880
Speaker 2: So anyway, love you to keep being amazing authentic Basketaya,

2234
01:41:54,160 --> 01:41:54,519
Speaker 2: thank you.

2235
01:41:54,840 --> 01:41:59,040
Speaker 3: Thank you, And now is the last email? And uh yeah,

2236
01:41:59,120 --> 01:42:00,320
Speaker 3: I think that's it for the show.

2237
01:42:00,840 --> 01:42:04,519
Speaker 4: Gift I did where is it over there on your

2238
01:42:05,439 --> 01:42:05,760
Speaker 4: right here?

2239
01:42:06,680 --> 01:42:10,439
Speaker 3: This is yes, that's not a gift. Dude, ship Well

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01:42:10,479 --> 01:42:14,599
Speaker 3: hold up, okay, all right, hold on how much time

2241
01:42:14,600 --> 01:42:14,840
Speaker 3: we got?

2242
01:42:16,080 --> 01:42:16,599
Speaker 4: Three minutes?

2243
01:42:16,720 --> 01:42:20,040
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, this is uh. I said this from the

2244
01:42:20,120 --> 01:42:23,320
Speaker 2: Green Eyed Bandit deer Rod and Karen. I myself am

2245
01:42:23,400 --> 01:42:25,560
Speaker 2: no basic bitch, but when I came across these, I

2246
01:42:25,640 --> 01:42:28,040
Speaker 2: thought of you, my two favorite white women of color.

2247
01:42:28,479 --> 01:42:32,479
Speaker 2: May you put them to good use during your self

2248
01:42:32,560 --> 01:42:35,679
Speaker 2: care days? Much love, will aka the Green Eyed Bandit.

2249
01:42:35,760 --> 01:42:42,599
Speaker 3: Okay, let's see what these are. Ooh pumpkin spice face.

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01:42:42,760 --> 01:42:44,800
Speaker 4: Man. Yes, I can't wait to do them with you.

2251
01:42:44,880 --> 01:42:46,760
Speaker 4: We're gonna have to tell we're gonna put them on

2252
01:42:46,840 --> 01:42:48,280
Speaker 4: one day and tell everybody about it.

2253
01:42:48,520 --> 01:42:54,839
Speaker 3: Oh shit, I'm all right. Well we can do facials

2254
01:42:54,920 --> 01:42:55,280
Speaker 3: up in here.

2255
01:42:55,520 --> 01:42:56,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, we can do facials.

2256
01:42:56,800 --> 01:42:59,560
Speaker 2: Okay, you know Caring only gonna do facials, you know,

2257
01:42:59,720 --> 01:43:01,400
Speaker 2: shout after my man in Pennsylvania.

2258
01:43:01,439 --> 01:43:02,280
Speaker 3: You know what I'm talking about.

2259
01:43:03,320 --> 01:43:06,880
Speaker 4: All Right, I'll do them a facial.

2260
01:43:07,600 --> 01:43:08,360
Speaker 3: I'll just mess it.

2261
01:43:09,040 --> 01:43:10,360
Speaker 4: Call me a brood if you want to.

2262
01:43:11,040 --> 01:43:14,639
Speaker 2: It's that Puritanic religion over there, that's what they ain't

2263
01:43:14,640 --> 01:43:17,719
Speaker 2: nothing but the white man Christianity stopping you from getting

2264
01:43:17,760 --> 01:43:18,679
Speaker 2: a face full of seamen.

2265
01:43:18,760 --> 01:43:21,400
Speaker 4: Girl, that is, you can keep that cream to yourself.

2266
01:43:22,600 --> 01:43:25,320
Speaker 3: That's Jesus. Jesus don't care. That's what I do.

2267
01:43:25,760 --> 01:43:27,840
Speaker 2: He probably is going around getting bucockied by all the

2268
01:43:28,400 --> 01:43:32,720
Speaker 2: wise men's and uh and uh, all his thirteen apostles

2269
01:43:32,760 --> 01:43:33,080
Speaker 2: and ship.

2270
01:43:33,240 --> 01:43:35,920
Speaker 3: Well, I care all the men and no women. Come

2271
01:43:35,960 --> 01:43:39,560
Speaker 3: on now, I still don't care. All right, y'all, that's it.

2272
01:43:39,720 --> 01:43:42,479
Speaker 3: We'll talk to y'all later. Till that time. I love you,

2273
01:43:42,600 --> 01:43:42,920
Speaker 3: I love you.

2274
01:43:43,280 --> 01:43:43,439
Speaker 5: Wh