1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:04,440 Speaker 1: Hey, y'all, it's doctor Joy. In collaboration with author and 2 00:00:04,519 --> 00:00:08,280 Speaker 1: breathwork expert z Clark, Therapy for Black Girls is exciting 3 00:00:08,360 --> 00:00:12,160 Speaker 1: to present to you a six part meditation series thoughtfully 4 00:00:12,200 --> 00:00:15,320 Speaker 1: crafted to guide you easily through the moments that might 5 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:19,800 Speaker 1: make the holiday season difficult. Happy holidays, y'all, and take 6 00:00:19,840 --> 00:00:20,520 Speaker 1: good care. 7 00:00:21,239 --> 00:00:29,400 Speaker 2: Alone on the holidays. Another situation you might experience is 8 00:00:29,520 --> 00:00:36,400 Speaker 2: spending the holidays alone. Whether you're taking personal space away 9 00:00:36,479 --> 00:00:41,240 Speaker 2: from toxic family dynamics or you've recently experienced a break up, 10 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:46,440 Speaker 2: spending the holidays alone can bring up a lot of 11 00:00:46,600 --> 00:00:53,360 Speaker 2: challenging emotions. Know that it's okay to feel whatever you're 12 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 2: feeling right now. Take the time to feel the feelings, 13 00:01:01,720 --> 00:01:13,400 Speaker 2: whether it's loneliness, sadness, emptiness. You are a beautiful soul 14 00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:21,720 Speaker 2: and your feelings matter. It is important to notice them 15 00:01:21,959 --> 00:01:39,720 Speaker 2: and to honor them. When you're ready, Think about what 16 00:01:39,880 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 2: might bring you joy during this period. Maybe it's watching 17 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:54,280 Speaker 2: your favorite movie, eating your favorite dessert, curling up with 18 00:01:54,400 --> 00:01:57,680 Speaker 2: a book you have always wanted to make time to read. 19 00:02:00,520 --> 00:02:05,560 Speaker 2: Think about what might make you smile right now, what 20 00:02:05,840 --> 00:02:21,920 Speaker 2: feels super indulgent and just for you. This is your time, 21 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:32,320 Speaker 2: so be sure to give yourself the joy that you deserve. Now, 22 00:02:32,440 --> 00:02:38,799 Speaker 2: answer this question, what does being alone during the holidays 23 00:02:38,840 --> 00:02:44,240 Speaker 2: give me the opportunity to do? What can I do 24 00:02:44,480 --> 00:02:52,960 Speaker 2: now that I wouldn't otherwise be able to do. Perhaps 25 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:55,960 Speaker 2: it's working on a creative project that you've had in 26 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:58,280 Speaker 2: the back of your mind but haven't had the space 27 00:02:58,360 --> 00:03:07,200 Speaker 2: to explore. Maybe it's sleeping in. Maybe it's blasting the 28 00:03:07,320 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 2: music that you love but others maybe don't love as much. 29 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:20,320 Speaker 2: Maybe it's lounging around in your favorite pajamas all day long. 30 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:29,880 Speaker 2: Repeat this in your mind's eye. I have the power 31 00:03:30,520 --> 00:03:38,720 Speaker 2: to bring joy into my life. I have the power 32 00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:50,720 Speaker 2: to bring joy into my life. Deep breath in, Deep 33 00:03:50,880 --> 00:04:03,800 Speaker 2: breath out. Oh,