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Speaker 1: because she committed the worst crime imaginable.

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Speaker 2: I mean, did she have her bridesmaids wearing different colors

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Speaker 1: Of the bride'smaids wore white and the only way to

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Speaker 1: fix that is to make that dress red with murder.

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Speaker 2: Let's get let's get the SWAT team in on this one.

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Speaker 2: Let's like really shut it down.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, like we're gonna shut it down. We're gonna

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Speaker 1: shut it down style national squat every wedding there we go, yeah,

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Speaker 1: oh there's a bomb thread at the sow and Zoe's wedding, Oh, swatty.

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Speaker 1: And then the swat comes and it's like I met,

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Speaker 1: this party is the ball And then the swat seems like,

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Speaker 1: my god, a great joke. Everyone dies. I female thirty two.

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Speaker 1: Lost my mom when I was twenty three. I love

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Speaker 1: how we go from that. Just sit this my good

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Speaker 1: most traumatic loss I had experienced. I just couldn't and

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Speaker 1: didn't want to accept her death. It was unfair, untimely,

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Speaker 1: and preventable, dang and preventable. It's acually wonder what happened. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I got in therapy and was doing better,

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Speaker 1: but I had issues with my dad's new wife and

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Speaker 1: her daughter who's twenty five and just got married two

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Speaker 2: I mean, you know, stepmom isn't always the best thing

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Speaker 2: to throw in those situations. You know, it makes it

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Speaker 2: a little. They're not world renowned for Yeah, it making me.

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Speaker 1: Has taught me anything is to distrust all step things.

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Speaker 2: They've really just sown, sown the distrust into your psyche.

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Speaker 1: Disney has told me to distrust the steps, and porn

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Speaker 1: can happen mixed signals. We do not have a close relationship,

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Speaker 1: but we were cordial enough to sit at dinner tables.

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Speaker 1: My stepsister treats me as a relative and was very

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Speaker 1: though she's always visiting. When I moved in to help

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Speaker 1: brought with me all of my mom's belongings, and my

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Speaker 1: stepsister showed interest in my mom's necklace hmmm, and asked

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Speaker 1: her she could borrow it to wear at her wedding. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I'm just gonna borrow it. Yeah, it looks cute. It

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Speaker 1: looks cute and might be haunted, so it's fun for

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Speaker 1: my Halloween themed wedding. Yeah, trying to. I just want

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Speaker 1: to bring your mom into the wedding.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I'm really being selfless here to be inclusive.

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Speaker 2: I want to include your mother's jewelry into my possessions so.

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Speaker 1: Exactly, and I want her to possess me. Yeah, there

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Speaker 1: we go. I refused, and she tried every method in

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Speaker 1: the book to get me. It's me to the point

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Speaker 1: I thought it would be safe after my stepmother got involved. Wow,

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Speaker 1: I mean that is that's egregious, Like, yeah, it's her,

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Speaker 1: it's it's op's mom's property. Put to try to take

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Speaker 1: her dead mom stuff from her insanity. It's like, but

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Speaker 1: it looks so good. I love it so much. It's antique.

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Speaker 1: I need it, please.

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Speaker 2: It's incredible. How that just like, but it just looks

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Speaker 1: How they just lean on it, like, bro, just it's

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Speaker 1: it's my mom, it's my dead mom's jewelry. You just

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Speaker 2: Could I at least have that?

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Speaker 1: Please? As the wedding approached, they both kept convincing me

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Speaker 1: showing who's in control. Yikes, geez. I stood my ground

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Speaker 2: Why Why do the people of his stories always do this?

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Speaker 1: After searching for hours, I called my step mom and

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Speaker 1: she said not to worry. My stepsister took it and

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Speaker 2: So first off, you have to worry. You have the

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Speaker 2: you have the audacity first to steal it, period. Then

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Speaker 1: And also, how does this logic work anywhere? Like you

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Speaker 2: I'll give it back later, yeah, my wedding, and then

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna get back though. Yeah, go to McDonald's. Oh,

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Speaker 1: gonna return it later. Oh yeah, and you're gonna love

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Speaker 1: you will. I screamed at her to return it, but

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Speaker 1: the wedding had already started. Bro you playing this perfectly,

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Speaker 1: I told her I'd get it myself. But she forbid

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Speaker 1: for wanting to make a scene. Maybe you shouldn't have

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Speaker 1: I called the police and explain to them what was happening.

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Speaker 1: I informed them my stepsister intended to leave for her

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Speaker 2: It's getting dicey now, I mean yo calling the cop

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Speaker 1: I now pronounce you man, and put your hand to

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Speaker 1: the sky where I can see the freeze. Take all

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Speaker 1: it was a bad night. I might have overreacted by

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Speaker 1: with them in the past, I guess like return it.

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Speaker 1: Am I the A hole? I want to know who

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Speaker 1: freaking second. But while you're doing that, John, what do

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Speaker 2: Okay, I think we do have the obvious a hole

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Speaker 2: move of sealing the necklace pretty plain cut, right?

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Speaker 2: But I will say the issue of doing it at

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Speaker 2: That the stepsister deserves this treatment. I would probably go

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Speaker 2: I'll give you, and I'll tell I'll tell her like

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Speaker 2: I gave you the grace of not like I could

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Speaker 1: But I'm here right now. You got to give it

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Speaker 1: make sure that Op gets it back before the wedding's over, exactly,

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Speaker 1: And like if you don't, I if there's no guarantee

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Speaker 2: like I'm here, pulled up as soon as she goes

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Speaker 2: I'll call the cops right now. If you want to

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Speaker 1: But that's me. Yeah. I mean I think Opie went

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So I think op is a little bit of

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Speaker 1: is the stepsister and the stepmother. The entitlement is just

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Speaker 1: or maybe both hmmm sexy maybe Anyway, let me know

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Speaker 2: Am I the a hole for not bathing my friend's

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Speaker 2: autistic child?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. Is the role of

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Speaker 2: The friend must bathe the autistic child.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's Roman's twelve three right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Oh, there is an answer for that. We have scripture, Yes, scripture.

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Speaker 2: So I female thirty five, agreed to watch my friend

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Speaker 1: That's a lot of freaking sexes and ages we made it.

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Speaker 2: Planned to watch him overnight when her dad had a

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Speaker 2: of course I said yes.

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Speaker 1: Bro. That sucks.

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Speaker 2: Got really escalated really quickly. The next evening when she

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Speaker 1: Wait, a little sweet man's a little sweaty.

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Speaker 1: Bro I'm a little sweaty, and John's not gonna be

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Speaker 2: Bathe?

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Speaker 1: I'm like John, Bathe me up? Where's my rubber ducky?

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Speaker 2: I want to be sudsy. It's not sunsyne five minutes

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Speaker 2: we're over.

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Speaker 1: You know you won't like me when I'm not sudzy.

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Speaker 2: Next next okop series Okop, but in and we're just in.

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Speaker 2: That would actually be amazing. That would be amazing. We're

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Speaker 2: just like rubber ducky, like full of phones.

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Speaker 1: You know, it would be funny. We would have to

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Speaker 1: maybe do this at the end or something. But okop

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Speaker 1: in the ice bath, Yes, I you're reading a story.

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Speaker 2: Now here's the thing. Her son is autistic and terrified

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Speaker 2: Seems like a pretty reasonable compromise.

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Speaker 1: Fair.

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Speaker 2: She put him in his car seat and then returned

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Speaker 2: to the house to say that I had messed up

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Speaker 1: Was a better friend than that. What is this dirtiness?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 1: All right? Back in the good old day, you had

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Speaker 1: kids I played in the mud put shit on themselves,

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Speaker 2: Come on, walking to school five miles with no shoes

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Speaker 2: I found a rabbit, killed it and strapped to my

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Speaker 2: I just killed this ram some shoes.

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Speaker 1: That's how the original child labor started.

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Speaker 2: Freaking making their own shoes. Side note, my grandpa told

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Speaker 2: and all this stuff, and he would eat uh squirrel

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Speaker 2: I think he ate a lot of squirrel brains. Dude,

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Speaker 2: Jesus kill kill the squirrels. The brain is kind of

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Speaker 2: like the you know, like the little treat you have,

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Speaker 2: you start with that and then you I would never

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Speaker 2: have thought that, bro, I neither. I'm just imagining like

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Speaker 1: Squirrel brains, they're everywhere. He's the murderer.

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Speaker 2: Call the police, my grandpa, just like John good Eating.

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Speaker 2: She couldn't believe that I'd send her son home dirty

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Speaker 1: That's so shitty, crazy, that's that's that's so shitty, that's

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Speaker 1: a that's a bad friend.

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Speaker 2: After your friend watched your kid, after you know you

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Speaker 1: I'm making grateful. Yeah, like, this ain't the Marriott, this

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Speaker 1: is my house, Marriott, what's the This ain't the Four Seasons?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, is like, this isn't a two and a

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Speaker 1: Establishment.

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Speaker 2: This isn't a Motel six with all the grandeur this is.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna start saying that. It's like, like, what do

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Speaker 1: you expect Motel six? We started some fantasy establishment. What

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Speaker 1: do you want fresh soap in the wrapper? What do

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Speaker 1: you want cumbstans? Not off your blanket?

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Speaker 2: This is luxury.

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Speaker 1: Now.

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Speaker 2: I thought our time together had gone well. He cried

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Speaker 1: And I put him to bed. Yeah, that sounds great.

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Speaker 2: In the morning he woke up asking for her but

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Speaker 2: then I wiped him as clean as like good. So

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Speaker 2: am I the A hole? Should I have pressed the

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Speaker 2: shower issue? I have admittedly very little experience with autism.

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Speaker 2: He's the only person I know that has been diagnosed,

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Speaker 2: and based on prior extructions, I feel I did the

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Speaker 2: best I could in the circumstances.

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Speaker 1: All Right, if you want, like, if you explicitly want

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Speaker 1: a shower, then just ask for it, you know. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think it's ridiculous.

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Speaker 2: I think it's too much, like your your your friend

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Speaker 2: offered it's too much.

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Speaker 1: Yeah much, Like that's what that's what the friend gets

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Speaker 1: for doing them a favor. Yeah, come on, that's ridiculous. Yeah,