WEBVTT - Taraji P Henson and Tracie Jenkins Interview and More

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<v Speaker 1>The walmost Dangerous Morning Show, the Breakfast Club. Put y'all together.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all are like a mega for us. Y'all just took

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<v Speaker 1>over every past is Chris Brown. I've officially joined the

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<v Speaker 1>Breakfast Club. Say something. I'm with it, Walock, Dangerous Morning Show,

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<v Speaker 1>breakfas Clubs, Good morning, Usa yo yo yo yo yo

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<v Speaker 1>yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo

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<v Speaker 1>yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo

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<v Speaker 1>yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo

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<v Speaker 1>yo yo Yo angelas a little lee Cholomie was popping

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<v Speaker 1>piece to the plane that is Tuesday, Yes six today,

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<v Speaker 1>life is good. Man is great. You got my beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>seven uh seven pound ten ounce bundle of joy here,

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<v Speaker 1>congratulations my new baby girl, my third baby girl. And

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<v Speaker 1>oh man, it's so much fun young, so much fun

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<v Speaker 1>as a baby, so much fun in that infant stage.

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<v Speaker 1>And now I ain't gonna say all that. Let's stay

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<v Speaker 1>all man, about seven eight months, no one feeding them,

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<v Speaker 1>watching them lifting a little neck and pushed themselves up

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<v Speaker 1>like that. Yeah, that's all everything that mama does. Now

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<v Speaker 1>you know, daddy holds the baby for a little wide

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<v Speaker 1>and you feel like you're about to hurt them hurt her,

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<v Speaker 1>so he'd be like, here, this is your third time

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<v Speaker 1>you should be out and you should know what you're doing.

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<v Speaker 1>Never get used to it, bro, you never get used

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<v Speaker 1>to it. I will say this though, the more kids

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<v Speaker 1>you get, the older you definitely start to feel I

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<v Speaker 1>know why the old dirty Bathtt called himself the old

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<v Speaker 1>dirty Bathtt. Bro. Really he had about twelve man, But

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<v Speaker 1>you're doing with I'm a little different. You got a

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<v Speaker 1>headline though. For me not having a headline and then

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<v Speaker 1>having three kids, it's like, I'm I'm officially washed. Bro.

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<v Speaker 1>It's fun to me. My little daughter, she's she's five

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<v Speaker 1>years old. She's playing flag football. My son is full

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<v Speaker 1>playing flag Like that's fun to me. Yeah. The fun

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<v Speaker 1>ages two year old is you know, just being a nuisance,

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<v Speaker 1>But it's just fun. Those are the fun ages when

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<v Speaker 1>you get them and you get them to about that

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<v Speaker 1>age when they can like you know, start crawling and

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<v Speaker 1>walking and laughing and loving you back. Yeah, infant stages

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<v Speaker 1>are difficult, enjoy it, of course that's the best. PN. Listen,

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<v Speaker 1>I am in awe of my wife right now because

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<v Speaker 1>my wife, uh, you know, they told her that she

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<v Speaker 1>could not have a vaginal birth. Because she had a

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<v Speaker 1>c section last time, because the baby came mom for

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<v Speaker 1>early my second child, but thanks to late some time.

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<v Speaker 1>It's dropped on a clue bombs for lath and Thomas Thomas,

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<v Speaker 1>the Globe baby and all the tips and stuff that

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<v Speaker 1>she gave her. She ended up having a vaginal birth

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<v Speaker 1>and no epidural. I told not on purpose. Though it

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<v Speaker 1>was no doctors available. The doctors were available, but they

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<v Speaker 1>were busy with other people. So it was like two

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<v Speaker 1>doctors in the whole hospital and they were busy with

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<v Speaker 1>other people. They had anesth geology, I mean not doctors. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe they are doctors. I don't freaking know. I just

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<v Speaker 1>know that the drugs weren't there, Okay, So she had

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<v Speaker 1>to push it out on her own. Two hours, three pushes,

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<v Speaker 1>baby dropping on a clues bombs from my wife. Damn,

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<v Speaker 1>it was great shout out to her. I don't have

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<v Speaker 1>that kind of shrimp in me. I told you all

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<v Speaker 1>you had to do was call me. I'd have got

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<v Speaker 1>that baby a bout of the day out of gave

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<v Speaker 1>us some castra oil. That's yesterday, the first of all

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<v Speaker 1>stopped giving away Latham's tips for free. I get it.

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<v Speaker 1>I shouldn't even be game. I shouldn't even have gave

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<v Speaker 1>out Latham's tip. That baby would have would have just

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<v Speaker 1>slipped out. Latham told my wife to take a shot

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<v Speaker 1>of cast oil on Saturday night because she was dilating

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<v Speaker 1>two inches or two some minute or two centimeters I

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<v Speaker 1>don't freaking know to something. And then she took the

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<v Speaker 1>shot of cath oil and the contraction started that morning,

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<v Speaker 1>and that baby popped right out at twelve twenty pm

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<v Speaker 1>on Sunday. The same oil I put in my old

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<v Speaker 1>school call. We to put it right in. That thig

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<v Speaker 1>would have came slip baby to start. That's that's old

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<v Speaker 1>school methods. Baby. That's why. By the way, I'm from

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<v Speaker 1>the country. I'm from South Carolina, so I loved them

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<v Speaker 1>kind of methods or oil. Something we can drink, something,

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<v Speaker 1>we can rub on something to get it done. I

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<v Speaker 1>love that. Yes, we usually told you have a lot

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<v Speaker 1>more sex, and that just makes the baby just start

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<v Speaker 1>to listen. I was soft that. I was softening that

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<v Speaker 1>servex with my seamen for months. It's the best, man,

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<v Speaker 1>Frankly see, I love it. Sex is the best. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ready to lay on my wife. I'm ready to

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<v Speaker 1>lay on top. You're not gonna lie to you. I

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<v Speaker 1>can't wait till these six weeks old. Let's get the

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<v Speaker 1>show cracking. To g p Henson dropping a clues box

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<v Speaker 1>between to Rogie p Henson and her best friend Tracy Jenkins. Right, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know Troji had launched her foundation. Is the Boris

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<v Speaker 1>Craig Help me with this? Boris lost in asking me. Okay, yeah, right,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not on the paper, Dame wrong, I got it

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<v Speaker 1>right here. Hold on. It is the Boris Lawrence Henson Foundation,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's Chris L. Hinton. Yes, eradicating the stigma of

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<v Speaker 1>mental health in the black community. You know, I'm all

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<v Speaker 1>about that. I've been telling y'all to get mentally healthy

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<v Speaker 1>for the past year and some change. You know. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I deal with anxiety issues and PTSD and trauma, and

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<v Speaker 1>I've been going to therapy to work it all out.

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<v Speaker 1>And I love that she's launching this foundation because it's

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<v Speaker 1>to eradicate the stigma of mental health in the black community. Man.

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<v Speaker 1>So I cannot wait to talk to Rogie this morning.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right. So we're gonna talk with her in a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit. Also, today is will Smith's birthday. An ti

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<v Speaker 1>Anti Well wild Smith is doing something crazy. This is

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<v Speaker 1>his fiftieth, so for his fiftieth, I believe he's getting

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<v Speaker 1>in the plane and jumping out of a plane over

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<v Speaker 1>the Grand Canyon at a parachute with a helmet. Something

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<v Speaker 1>crazy he's about to do. Uncle Field not alive. Uncle

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<v Speaker 1>Phield is alive. You could have threw him and Jazzy

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<v Speaker 1>Jeff out of a plane. Now, that would have been

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<v Speaker 1>does and that would have been hard for the culture.

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<v Speaker 1>You hear me? Can you not tell me that would

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<v Speaker 1>not have been dope for the coach of Wolvesmid's fiftieth

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<v Speaker 1>one day and Uncle Phil throws him and Jesse Jeff

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<v Speaker 1>out of a plane. Resfu peace, Uncle Phil. First thing, first,

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<v Speaker 1>resume peace, Uncle Phil, drop on a clues bump funkle

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<v Speaker 1>Field for real? We syndicated in a heavy that's right today, Scottie.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's get the uh show cracking front page news. What

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<v Speaker 1>you wanna talk about front page news? As angel job,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know about no front page now. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know either. We're gonna talk about something front page news. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>let me see what I've seen on the news. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>Shut up, man, we'll wing it. What are you about

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<v Speaker 1>to play. What you think little duvall, smile, bitch, that's

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<v Speaker 1>what we should be playing. Yeah, yeah, can you pull

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<v Speaker 1>that up right first? Hey? Pulling up a little? Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you mean because ive radios. It feels good, feels good.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a good man. Charlomne just had another baby, girl, baby,

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<v Speaker 1>best life. You know some kids is out here healthy.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm living my best life. Duval got the number two

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<v Speaker 1>songs in the country. Number one. He about to get

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<v Speaker 1>it number one. He only lost about forty forty spins.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all don't know nothing about that spin jogging. But don't

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<v Speaker 1>worry about it. We know what we're doing all right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Taji pe Hinson will be joining us in a little bit. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>we got I'm just I'm just you got it. That's it.

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<v Speaker 1>Come on, here you go, come on, I get smile.

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<v Speaker 1>It's performing at our annual concert this year called Powers Playing.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's play here you gonnahit it hit. It ain't going

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<v Speaker 1>back and forth with you drop. That's right, my partner,

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<v Speaker 1>a little duvalk got the number two songs in the country.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna telling you something else, man, what's that? He

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<v Speaker 1>got another one? Man, another one. I'll be wanting to

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<v Speaker 1>tell a little duvall his music so whack, so bad.

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<v Speaker 1>But he got a number one. Ain't you got another one? Man?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, you got another one cover. He's gonna wait

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<v Speaker 1>to drop it when he goes number one with small

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<v Speaker 1>bit no he got. He's gonna be the one for

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of weeks because Drake is way behind. I

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<v Speaker 1>know that sometimes just be cool, be cool for a little.

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<v Speaker 1>I got another one, but let's get us some front

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<v Speaker 1>page news. Last night and Monday night football, the Steelers

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<v Speaker 1>beat the Buccaneers thirty to twenty seven. I didn't watch

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<v Speaker 1>football last night, but that's because I was in Harlem

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<v Speaker 1>one twenty fifth doing an event on my man, Amery Jones.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think I'm about I'm about to start back

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<v Speaker 1>watching football, man, Because Nike sponsors the NFL. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>Colin Kaepernick is signing Nike. Colin is being looked at

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<v Speaker 1>by a couple of teams he wants to play. If

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<v Speaker 1>Colin still wants to be in the league, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know why I'm not watching football. And since y'all running

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<v Speaker 1>around here acting like the Nike logo of the new

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<v Speaker 1>Black Power Fast like Nike hoodies, the dashikis I'm about

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<v Speaker 1>to start watching football again. All right? Well, can you

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<v Speaker 1>imagine this? A T and T tech comes to your

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<v Speaker 1>crib to fix your Wi fi. He fixes the WiFi,

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<v Speaker 1>it has to use your phone to set it up.

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<v Speaker 1>So when he takes your phone to use your phone,

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<v Speaker 1>he cash apps himself fifty dollars. Did you have to

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<v Speaker 1>pay him fifty dollars anyway with that? No service? No,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not the service. He just took the fifty dollars,

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<v Speaker 1>but then he has to get paid for his that's

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<v Speaker 1>through at and T. You just can't take somebody's phone

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<v Speaker 1>to just cash app. Yeah, that's kind of crazy. Well

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<v Speaker 1>let's hear. We actually have audio of the lady confront

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<v Speaker 1>of them. I'm on my cash app now and it's saying,

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<v Speaker 1>at ten twenty one, you took you took the fifty

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<v Speaker 1>dollars and then the thing is, the thing is when

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<v Speaker 1>you took the fifty dollars the three when you took

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<v Speaker 1>the fifty you had a fake name. And then I

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<v Speaker 1>just want to know what would make you do that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have an answer, I really don't. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I will do anything and everything in my power to

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<v Speaker 1>make this right. It's right. Now. Your job is depending

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<v Speaker 1>on me. I know the thing, the thing, the single job. Listen,

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<v Speaker 1>the thing is oh now you think about that, listen.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm old. I got two kids. I'm old. So people

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<v Speaker 1>be asking me do you have cash App? And I'd

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<v Speaker 1>be like, no, matter of fact, cash happing? What's happened

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<v Speaker 1>to two things I keep getting after I have? And

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be like, no, I don't have either one of

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<v Speaker 1>those things. Well, what's happen It's a lot different, but ahead, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but okay. Like my homie Pete Davidson, he paid somebody

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<v Speaker 1>with cash app this weekend, and I was sitting there

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<v Speaker 1>thinking like can people fake that? Like? Can I fake

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<v Speaker 1>pay you? In that moment? I fake like I's sent

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<v Speaker 1>you the money? How do I know that? It It goes?

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<v Speaker 1>It goes right to your phone immediately you can see it. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>this person just paid you. So you can't never like

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<v Speaker 1>bounce a cash app. No, you can pay the wrong

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<v Speaker 1>person like I did that time. But that's about it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's about it. So the money is dead when you

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<v Speaker 1>send some money is the bouncing The money's dead? Okay, cool,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not cool, man. You can't just take my phone

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<v Speaker 1>and cash ap yourself. Bro, you shouldn't have hand nobody

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<v Speaker 1>your goddamn phon whytout handing the person in her phone

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<v Speaker 1>again because he was fishing the Wi Fi on the crib.

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<v Speaker 1>What the phone got to do with that? Man? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I'm not digitally intellectual. I call I can

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<v Speaker 1>tell wow. That is front page news. Now, let's get

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<v Speaker 1>it off your chest. Eight hundred five eight five one

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<v Speaker 1>on five one. If you're upset, you need to venting.

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<v Speaker 1>Hit this up right now. Maybe had a bad night

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<v Speaker 1>or bad morning, or maybe somebody took your phone and

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<v Speaker 1>casht app to you, whatever it may be. Eight hundred

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<v Speaker 1>five eight five one on five one, get it off

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<v Speaker 1>your chest. Hit us up right now. It's the breakfast club.

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning, the breakfast club. This is your time to

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<v Speaker 1>get it off your chest. Whether you're man from you

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<v Speaker 1>on the breakfast club, but you got something on your mind.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Adam, good morning. Yo. What's up? Bro? Man? What's up? Man?

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<v Speaker 1>Get you off her chest? Bro? Yeah, one the off

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<v Speaker 1>you know, happy more happy Tuesday mornings and everything. I

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<v Speaker 1>just want to get it off my chest. I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>blood man, you know what I'm saying. My daughter wide

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<v Speaker 1>away at five in the morning here in Wisconsin and everything.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying. She's giving me good love

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<v Speaker 1>and everything. So I just want to get off my

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<v Speaker 1>chest that I love the world and now I wish

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<v Speaker 1>the world would have more better people in it. There

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<v Speaker 1>you gay man, that's all we can hope for. Man.

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<v Speaker 1>How's your daughter brother? She's um four months old right now,

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<v Speaker 1>so enjoy get they get big fast. One last thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Charlotte Magne got my daughter's name the Ron. The last

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<v Speaker 1>time I called there, he caught her inn diet Zenda Zendaya,

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<v Speaker 1>like the actress. Yeah, yeah, so yeah. I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to check. I just want to check you on that

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<v Speaker 1>real quick. You gotta check me. Just correcting me. It's

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<v Speaker 1>called correcting me, sir. It's not a check. We'll give

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<v Speaker 1>your daughter kissing the breakfast club. I want to check people.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a good morning, Kayla Bay good morning, Kayla

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<v Speaker 1>what Kayla? Good morning? Abeted to hear your guys as

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<v Speaker 1>boy you good morning will kill something good. Um. I

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<v Speaker 1>am driving in traffic right now, and I just moved

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<v Speaker 1>out of New York, so I thought that I was

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<v Speaker 1>done with traffic. Orlando is no better. Let me tell

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<v Speaker 1>you guys. I mean Orlando, got a lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>there though, so I can understand why it's horrible and

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<v Speaker 1>they're all crazy. Like you say, the whole state of

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<v Speaker 1>Florida is crazy. I'm glad you know that all the

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<v Speaker 1>craziest people in America come from the Bronson all of

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<v Speaker 1>a Florida, All of Florida. That's a scientific fact. And

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<v Speaker 1>shout out to our family in Orlando. I one on

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<v Speaker 1>four five to beat. That's what you're listening to us?

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<v Speaker 1>Are yes? I love you guys. You guys are great.

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<v Speaker 1>We love you too. I love Orlando, man. My aunt

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<v Speaker 1>lives in Orlando. I got family land. I used to

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<v Speaker 1>go to Orlando like every summer, and now you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I got to the course we take all our kids

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<v Speaker 1>at Disney World. That's right. Hello, who's this Hi? It's

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<v Speaker 1>say hey till look, good morning, get it off your

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<v Speaker 1>che morning Taylor, Good morning morning, Charidae are you? Basically

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good? How yea? I do have work? So I

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<v Speaker 1>feel good. Word, I'm blessed. Black and Holley favorite power

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<v Speaker 1>to you. Yeah, I want to get off my test. Basically,

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<v Speaker 1>I have a five year old sign and currently he

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<v Speaker 1>can started living with his dad and what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>I've lost people, family friends a lot this year over

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<v Speaker 1>the argument that supposedly I'm wrong for letting him live

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<v Speaker 1>with his dad. I find that like crazy and it

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<v Speaker 1>makes me mad. It's wrong with letting your son live

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<v Speaker 1>with his father because they everyone just says like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you're his mom, and you're like abanding in him, And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I'm not. He's five. Oh no, not at all.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not abandoning him. And that's like saying the father's

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<v Speaker 1>abandoning him just because he lives with you full time.

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<v Speaker 1>Like yo, if a good parent, y'all can co parent together. Absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>they're all with good co parenting. Yeah, that's why I think, like,

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<v Speaker 1>we haven't been together in five years. I hadn't set

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<v Speaker 1>their first five His dad wanted to step in and

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<v Speaker 1>do it full time, so I let him. Like I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's done. I don't nothing against the mom's out there,

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<v Speaker 1>but I personally don't think a woman can't raise up man.

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<v Speaker 1>I personally saw that way. Sorry, okay, I mean a

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<v Speaker 1>woman can raise the man, but I mean there's nothing

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<v Speaker 1>wrong with letting the father raising him full time. Is

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely nothing wrong with that man. You know how many

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<v Speaker 1>women out there wish their fathers would step in full time,

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<v Speaker 1>not even just full time, part time, a quarter at

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<v Speaker 1>the time, temp service time. True. Thank you guys. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys have a great day too. What's wrong with that?

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<v Speaker 1>Brothers out here changing the narrative? You know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>holding that down full time? Get it off your chests.

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<v Speaker 1>Eight hundred five eight five one oh five one. If

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<v Speaker 1>you need to vent, hit us up right now. It's

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<v Speaker 1>the breakfast club. Good morning, the breakfast Club, the mother

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<v Speaker 1>mother phone and down. This is your time to get

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<v Speaker 1>it off your chat nother. You're man. We want to

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<v Speaker 1>hear from you on the Breakfast Club, so you better

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<v Speaker 1>have the same energy. Oh Donna, good morning, good morning.

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<v Speaker 1>It is somebody's birthday. Hum, it's my birthday. I you

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<v Speaker 1>share the same birthdays, Will Smith, Ti Donald Glover and

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<v Speaker 1>Scottie Pippin and Catherine Data Jones and Michael Tuglas. Nobody

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<v Speaker 1>cares about them to Nobody cares about them too. White

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<v Speaker 1>people you get name God bless them, no disrespect to them,

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<v Speaker 1>but we don't care. Thirty eight Okay, what happy birthday, mama, Michael.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to say for the cash app, you can

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<v Speaker 1>put a pen. If they had a pen on their phones,

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<v Speaker 1>the person wouldn't have been able to send it. Oh okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what that means. You can put like

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<v Speaker 1>a pen, so it'll verify that you want to send it?

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<v Speaker 1>All got you. I still don't know what you're talking about,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm act like, well, thank you mama, and happy birthday,

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<v Speaker 1>Julia day, Happy hello? Who's this you? You always Franklin? Listen?

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<v Speaker 1>What's cracking Franklin the turtle? What's up? Franklin? Hey, listen?

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<v Speaker 1>This is what I want to know. Man, A lot

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<v Speaker 1>of the script with you, that, at least I think. So.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to know what qualifies someone for saying the

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<v Speaker 1>N word? Are you white and black? I'm black? Well

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<v Speaker 1>you can say the N word. That's all that matter. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I know who? I know that book? What makes what

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<v Speaker 1>makes other races of this word? Like? Who? Like Mexic

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<v Speaker 1>and Spanish people? Spanish people get Spanish people got to

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<v Speaker 1>pass from from I don't know when I was a kid,

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<v Speaker 1>I will say that that's only in New York though,

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<v Speaker 1>and La they don't allow that at all. Florida they

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<v Speaker 1>allot out in Florida, and the other thing because like

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<v Speaker 1>you want to go, you want to go with a

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<v Speaker 1>with a hardship for the Spanish people. If he's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>say that, what about the Jewish people? Can they say,

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<v Speaker 1>didn't word because they went too hard? No, that's what

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<v Speaker 1>I think. The Edward is reserved for the black and

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<v Speaker 1>the brown. Brother and I guess Latinos in New York.

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<v Speaker 1>He's saying, but the black in the brown. Like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean when I say brown, I mean in the

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<v Speaker 1>Latino community. But I mean, listen, I don't think we

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<v Speaker 1>should be using the word at all. I think we

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<v Speaker 1>should be using the higher vibration words. You know. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I like to call my people brother and king

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<v Speaker 1>and God and queen. You know, I like higher vibration

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<v Speaker 1>words personally. If I call you it, I'm using it

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<v Speaker 1>in the context of the white man to ask. So

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I mean, lay wrapper say that an't word too?

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<v Speaker 1>Then man, let me alone? Just how about that? Goodbye

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<v Speaker 1>man us Louise Louise centers, I see, I see not

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<v Speaker 1>your grandde ariana grand day belt grandde to YouTube. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my goodness, Louis, what's up? Bro? Hey, what's going on? Guys?

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<v Speaker 1>So I have a situation with being homeless until I'm

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<v Speaker 1>you know, getting my new apartment on the eighteenth, all

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<v Speaker 1>because I buy a new two iPhones for me and

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<v Speaker 1>my partner and my sisters. First of all, first of all,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you call homeless? I don't like when people

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<v Speaker 1>use the word homeless, Luisily, what do you mean homeless?

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<v Speaker 1>His sister kicked him out? Here is no place to

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<v Speaker 1>stay living in a vehicle with my dog because I

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<v Speaker 1>have families that live in housing and they don't accept dogs.

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<v Speaker 1>So my dog's basically keeping me from having a place

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<v Speaker 1>to say yet, So I've been staying in my car

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<v Speaker 1>for the past three days, and I've been going to

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<v Speaker 1>the YMCA to Shawood so so that I can go

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<v Speaker 1>to my work routine and my dogs choosing my car

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<v Speaker 1>while my work. Do you have a place you can go? Mom?

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<v Speaker 1>Grand mom? I all, you have my mom, but she

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<v Speaker 1>has housing, so I can't stay with her. So she

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<v Speaker 1>made a big de out of it. She's like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you can stay here, but she all can I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I had my dog for nine years by I just

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<v Speaker 1>can't get rid of my dog and family. Well, you

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<v Speaker 1>got kicked out because you brought your boyfriend and iPhone

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<v Speaker 1>and not your sister. I bought my boyfriend and I

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<v Speaker 1>an iPhone. I put on Snapchat. She she hits me

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<v Speaker 1>up on Snapchat. She goes, yo, tito, Um, just do

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<v Speaker 1>you want to spend money on two iPhones? How about

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<v Speaker 1>you got yourself when you get out of my house

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<v Speaker 1>because it's not happening over here. You're not spending money

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<v Speaker 1>over here. Oh you got a boyfriend and your homeless

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<v Speaker 1>bro I got a boyfriend homeless, and my game is trash, trash,

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<v Speaker 1>Well your mouth game, your jaw game is trash. You

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<v Speaker 1>got you got a whole boyfriend out here? You homeless.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm disgusted. Where hour and a half away? So I

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<v Speaker 1>don't care. And if he, if he really loves you

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<v Speaker 1>and your jaw was about something, have you out there

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<v Speaker 1>right now? He would never let you be out here

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<v Speaker 1>in these streets three days homeless game. But no, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not that a game stake, okay, if the situation is

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<v Speaker 1>that just honestly, as to choose, I just doing my

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<v Speaker 1>partner for two months, you know, so I try to

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<v Speaker 1>move in with him, My dogs and stuff y'all game

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<v Speaker 1>trash button game too loose? All right, what's the lose?

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<v Speaker 1>You know? I just don't want to lose. He said,

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<v Speaker 1>loose the name of a mixtape. All right, went to loose.

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<v Speaker 1>The name is Louis. What do you want, man, I lose, Booty.

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<v Speaker 1>You wanted to pray for you for being what you

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to do. I want you to find me at home, man,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, Man, have a blessed day, sir. Be cool

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<v Speaker 1>out in the streets. You know what I'm saying, Yo,

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<v Speaker 1>shop you guys. I appreciate all the morning talking to

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<v Speaker 1>you guys. Talk about I love it all, love you man.

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<v Speaker 1>I all right, Bron, the praying for you, man, wish

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<v Speaker 1>you the best. Man taking that booty do some caggles.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what you say. I'm praying for your brother. You

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<v Speaker 1>come on, man, ask me for no house in September.

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<v Speaker 1>Holiday's right around the corner, my goodness. Get it off

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<v Speaker 1>your chest. Eight hundred five A five one on five

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<v Speaker 1>one Now if you need the event, you can always

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<v Speaker 1>hit us up when we come back. Hopefully year be

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<v Speaker 1>here by now, but if not, we're gonna talk. Lebron James.

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<v Speaker 1>He moved to Hollywood. Let's find out why. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>breakfast to Roger Hinton will be here next hour with

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<v Speaker 1>her friend Tracy Jenkins talking about mental Health're gonna get

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<v Speaker 1>your mentally healthy. Mental health is wealth, so don't move.

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<v Speaker 1>It's to Breakfast Club, Go Morning, the Breakfast Club Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody is dj MVY, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We

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<v Speaker 1>are the breakfast Club. Let's get to these rumors to

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<v Speaker 1>talk Bill Cosby. It's about is the rumor report, Angela Yee,

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<v Speaker 1>Let's found the breakfast club. Well. Today is the day

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<v Speaker 1>that Bill Cosby will be sentenced for a drugging and

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<v Speaker 1>sexually assaulting Area constant that happened fourteen years ago at

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<v Speaker 1>his home near Philadelphia. Prosecutors are asking for the maximum

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<v Speaker 1>ten years in prison. They will give him the opportunity

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<v Speaker 1>to speak to the court before they hand down the

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<v Speaker 1>sentence today. We don't know whether or not he will speak,

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<v Speaker 1>but they're saying it's almost certain he won't express remorse

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<v Speaker 1>because he is planning on appealing his conviction. They do

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<v Speaker 1>say that he is likely to be incarcerated, but they

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<v Speaker 1>don't know for how long. Now his lawyer has asked

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<v Speaker 1>for a sentence of house arrests, and they still have

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<v Speaker 1>to see whether or not Bill Cobby will be classified

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<v Speaker 1>as a sexually violent predator, which means he could have

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<v Speaker 1>a sentence at the higher end of that range. So

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<v Speaker 1>we'll see what happens today. I never thought we would

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<v Speaker 1>see the day that Bill Cobby got sentence, because I

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<v Speaker 1>honestly thought he would have died first. Well, they do

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<v Speaker 1>expect a defense witness to testify to the expect him

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<v Speaker 1>to hie later on today. I mean, listen, part of

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<v Speaker 1>what the defense is is that what is he going

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<v Speaker 1>to do. He's eighty one years old, he's legally blind,

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<v Speaker 1>he's no risk. So they're saying that there's no reason

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<v Speaker 1>that there will be any new allegations, so he's not violent.

0:21:00.840 --> 0:21:04.840
<v Speaker 1>Any any long jail sentence, even if it's a year,

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<v Speaker 1>two years, three years, it could possibly be a life

0:21:07.240 --> 0:21:09.280
<v Speaker 1>sentence for Bill. He's still got to feel it. Thought

0:21:09.880 --> 0:21:12.280
<v Speaker 1>he's one hundred and thirty seven years old, he'll be dead,

0:21:12.320 --> 0:21:15.199
<v Speaker 1>he'll do one years old. And he's still denying these

0:21:15.280 --> 0:21:18.359
<v Speaker 1>charges and he still plans to appeal. So clearly, if

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<v Speaker 1>he does decide to speak, which we don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>he will, he's not going to say I am remorseful

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<v Speaker 1>for things that have happened. So all right, Billboard has

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<v Speaker 1>announced they're gonna do their first ever R and B

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<v Speaker 1>hip Hop Power Players event. It's going to be award

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<v Speaker 1>show focusing on artists who are driving, influencing, and guiding

0:21:35.960 --> 0:21:38.360
<v Speaker 1>the industry. It's going to be invite only, and they're

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<v Speaker 1>planning on having the top one hundred artists and execs

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<v Speaker 1>in R and B hip hop and R and B. Well,

0:21:43.600 --> 0:21:45.840
<v Speaker 1>don't nitche us like that, because we're not niche, all right?

0:21:46.119 --> 0:21:47.919
<v Speaker 1>Hip hop and R and B is the culture now,

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<v Speaker 1>ay we not no niche. You don't got to do

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<v Speaker 1>a separate award show for us. We should dominate your

0:21:51.320 --> 0:21:53.720
<v Speaker 1>main award show. Well, this year's event is going to

0:21:53.800 --> 0:21:55.639
<v Speaker 1>honor Meek Mill. He's going to get the R and

0:21:55.680 --> 0:21:58.840
<v Speaker 1>B hip Hop Power Players Impact Award. You know, you

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<v Speaker 1>know why they're doing that because they just a whitewash

0:22:00.640 --> 0:22:02.320
<v Speaker 1>the main awards. You know, the main awards are the

0:22:02.400 --> 0:22:04.760
<v Speaker 1>ones they paid on TV. They want all of America

0:22:04.800 --> 0:22:07.600
<v Speaker 1>to watch, but they're not reflecting the actual culture, which

0:22:07.680 --> 0:22:10.160
<v Speaker 1>is totally black. At the Van Jones will be giving

0:22:10.240 --> 0:22:13.240
<v Speaker 1>that award to him. Also Coach k and he will

0:22:13.240 --> 0:22:16.080
<v Speaker 1>be from Quality Control. They're going to be given the

0:22:16.200 --> 0:22:19.200
<v Speaker 1>Executive of the Year awards. They deserve that, regardless of

0:22:19.320 --> 0:22:21.359
<v Speaker 1>course they do. Man, they should be Executive of the Year,

0:22:21.440 --> 0:22:24.640
<v Speaker 1>the Main Awards, the me goals, Little Yati, Little Baby,

0:22:24.720 --> 0:22:26.520
<v Speaker 1>the City Girls dropped on a clues bomp for QC.

0:22:26.680 --> 0:22:28.440
<v Speaker 1>Damn it. They are the coach and now Cardi b

0:22:28.960 --> 0:22:32.040
<v Speaker 1>cardis managed by them. Yet all right, Well, that's all

0:22:32.080 --> 0:22:34.119
<v Speaker 1>going to happen on September twenty seventh, and it's in

0:22:34.240 --> 0:22:37.720
<v Speaker 1>New York City and they won't be televised, FYI, f yi.

0:22:38.040 --> 0:22:41.879
<v Speaker 1>That's that's Billboard on over Defermative Action and d J

0:22:42.040 --> 0:22:45.400
<v Speaker 1>Clark Kennedys DJ my god, shout, I'm going to cluse

0:22:45.440 --> 0:22:48.480
<v Speaker 1>boon for Billboard doing the BT Awards. All right, Billboard

0:22:48.480 --> 0:22:51.040
<v Speaker 1>decided to have their own BT Awards. They're saying that

0:22:51.160 --> 0:22:55.160
<v Speaker 1>Bob is gonna be there, Blackboy, JB Jadenna, Kid, Playboy,

0:22:55.240 --> 0:22:58.280
<v Speaker 1>Cardy Keeler Bennett. Wow, I wouldn't show up A ball

0:22:58.320 --> 0:23:00.480
<v Speaker 1>was all Yell, be honest with you. They don't invite

0:23:00.520 --> 0:23:02.440
<v Speaker 1>y'all to the main Billboard A warsh I wouldn't show

0:23:02.520 --> 0:23:04.400
<v Speaker 1>up to that. I don't understand why they're even doing

0:23:04.480 --> 0:23:07.520
<v Speaker 1>that event. Hip popping R and B is the culture. Hey,

0:23:07.840 --> 0:23:10.080
<v Speaker 1>clearly none of us were invited. No niche. My first

0:23:10.119 --> 0:23:12.400
<v Speaker 1>time hearing about it, we wouldn't win it. And that's

0:23:12.400 --> 0:23:14.680
<v Speaker 1>the right word. Niche. Niche. I thought it was niche,

0:23:14.720 --> 0:23:17.720
<v Speaker 1>but niche, it's no niche. Event I think it's niche.

0:23:18.440 --> 0:23:20.840
<v Speaker 1>Y'all know what I'm trying to fan, and we just

0:23:20.960 --> 0:23:23.320
<v Speaker 1>not that kind of a man, all right, serious, extam.

0:23:23.400 --> 0:23:27.000
<v Speaker 1>It's buying Pandor for a three point five billion dollars deal,

0:23:27.400 --> 0:23:29.440
<v Speaker 1>but it's all stock, so it's not a three point

0:23:29.480 --> 0:23:32.960
<v Speaker 1>five billion dollars Everybody listen to I heart, that's a

0:23:33.040 --> 0:23:36.399
<v Speaker 1>fact and serious, right, people listen to I heard, No,

0:23:36.480 --> 0:23:39.240
<v Speaker 1>you don't listen to say people don't listen to Pandora

0:23:39.359 --> 0:23:42.840
<v Speaker 1>or serious listen I heard all day be all right,

0:23:42.960 --> 0:23:47.199
<v Speaker 1>So just giving y'all that you're reporting that. Y'all need

0:23:47.240 --> 0:23:48.800
<v Speaker 1>to know what's no, we don't just in the case

0:23:48.840 --> 0:23:51.600
<v Speaker 1>you might have stock in something and got stocking. Eye

0:23:51.600 --> 0:23:55.480
<v Speaker 1>heart meet okay, her radio right now, drop on a

0:23:55.520 --> 0:24:00.560
<v Speaker 1>blue bonfire her radio, damnit? Alright, page man. People are

0:24:00.640 --> 0:24:03.240
<v Speaker 1>trying to say that Lebron joined the Lakers to be

0:24:03.320 --> 0:24:06.760
<v Speaker 1>closer to Hollywood, and he refutes that. Here's what he said.

0:24:07.080 --> 0:24:10.840
<v Speaker 1>My decision was based solely on my family and the Lakers. Listen,

0:24:11.040 --> 0:24:13.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm a basketball player and that's when I live by

0:24:13.480 --> 0:24:14.800
<v Speaker 1>and when I do it at the level, I'll do

0:24:14.880 --> 0:24:17.320
<v Speaker 1>it at everything else take care of herself. So you know,

0:24:17.680 --> 0:24:19.360
<v Speaker 1>as far as my business, those things have been taking

0:24:19.359 --> 0:24:21.199
<v Speaker 1>care of herself away before I even came out here.

0:24:21.520 --> 0:24:24.000
<v Speaker 1>So to being part of the Lakers franchise, Knock it off, Lebron,

0:24:24.080 --> 0:24:26.600
<v Speaker 1>nobody believes that that's That's like you coming back with

0:24:26.680 --> 0:24:28.080
<v Speaker 1>the headline next year and trying to tell us the

0:24:28.119 --> 0:24:30.080
<v Speaker 1>headline is roll. I know he's got late twenty five

0:24:30.119 --> 0:24:32.440
<v Speaker 1>shows right now. Exactly. We know why you moved to Hollywood,

0:24:32.440 --> 0:24:34.159
<v Speaker 1>and it's fine. That's gonna be a tough season for Like,

0:24:34.200 --> 0:24:36.560
<v Speaker 1>why would you go to a tough sideway? It's gonna

0:24:36.560 --> 0:24:41.480
<v Speaker 1>be tough. What do you mean, spurs ok, the Western Beast,

0:24:41.480 --> 0:24:43.480
<v Speaker 1>The Lakers will probably be like a six seat. Nothing

0:24:43.520 --> 0:24:46.800
<v Speaker 1>wrong with challenging yourself. Exactly. He's Lebron James, you know, right,

0:24:47.840 --> 0:24:50.440
<v Speaker 1>and he still feels like everything's gonna happen successfully. But

0:24:50.520 --> 0:24:51.960
<v Speaker 1>he has so many movies coming out. He has a

0:24:52.000 --> 0:24:55.320
<v Speaker 1>new house party, the Space Jam, two movies shows to

0:24:55.359 --> 0:24:58.720
<v Speaker 1>shut Up and drivel documentary setting himself up for life

0:24:58.760 --> 0:25:00.840
<v Speaker 1>after basketball. He's fine and he's not going to La

0:25:00.920 --> 0:25:03.800
<v Speaker 1>to wind now, goddamn ring, knock it off. All right, Well,

0:25:03.800 --> 0:25:06.399
<v Speaker 1>I'm Angela Yee and that is your rumor report. All right,

0:25:06.480 --> 0:25:09.320
<v Speaker 1>thank you, miss Ye. Now when we come back to

0:25:09.520 --> 0:25:12.160
<v Speaker 1>ro g P. Hinton and her best friend Tracy Jenkins

0:25:12.240 --> 0:25:13.960
<v Speaker 1>will be joining us. Love what they're doing. Man. They

0:25:14.040 --> 0:25:17.360
<v Speaker 1>have the Boris Lawrence Hnston Foundation, which is named after

0:25:17.440 --> 0:25:20.200
<v Speaker 1>her father, and it's a foundation that is here to

0:25:20.280 --> 0:25:23.639
<v Speaker 1>eradicate the stigma of mental health in the African American community.

0:25:23.680 --> 0:25:26.040
<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm all about being mentally healthy, so I'm

0:25:26.080 --> 0:25:28.040
<v Speaker 1>happy they're here. A lot of times people don't want

0:25:28.080 --> 0:25:30.320
<v Speaker 1>to go see a therapist because they don't see people

0:25:30.359 --> 0:25:33.159
<v Speaker 1>that look like them right in the black community and

0:25:33.359 --> 0:25:35.560
<v Speaker 1>don't want to even pursue that as part of their

0:25:35.680 --> 0:25:38.360
<v Speaker 1>career choices. So they want to make sure that that's

0:25:38.400 --> 0:25:41.000
<v Speaker 1>an option. Yeah, we're gonna talk to them when we

0:25:41.080 --> 0:25:43.560
<v Speaker 1>come back. We're talking mental health this morning. Don't move.

0:25:43.680 --> 0:25:47.840
<v Speaker 1>It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, it's DJ Envy, Angela Yee,

0:25:48.000 --> 0:25:50.920
<v Speaker 1>Charlemagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Now we

0:25:51.040 --> 0:25:54.560
<v Speaker 1>got some but man, ask people from Howard University here today,

0:25:54.920 --> 0:25:57.840
<v Speaker 1>come and talk that Howard stuff. I'm trying to be

0:25:58.000 --> 0:26:00.200
<v Speaker 1>nicey like who we're in a fake hu stuff. We

0:26:00.320 --> 0:26:08.159
<v Speaker 1>have to Roger from the real Hume and hey, thank you. Now.

0:26:08.160 --> 0:26:11.240
<v Speaker 1>I didn't go to college. I sold crack. But my niece,

0:26:11.440 --> 0:26:13.840
<v Speaker 1>michaelis Luther Michaelis. She brought me this month ago and

0:26:13.920 --> 0:26:16.159
<v Speaker 1>she hit me this weekend. She said to Rodger's coming Monday,

0:26:16.400 --> 0:26:18.600
<v Speaker 1>you better wear that shirt. I said, you know what,

0:26:18.640 --> 0:26:24.119
<v Speaker 1>I'm aware today because you went to Howard. Let's talk

0:26:24.160 --> 0:26:26.960
<v Speaker 1>about mental health a little bit. Yes. First of all,

0:26:27.000 --> 0:26:28.960
<v Speaker 1>can I just say I'm proud of you, thank you,

0:26:29.200 --> 0:26:32.639
<v Speaker 1>I really am, because brothers have at the hardest and

0:26:33.480 --> 0:26:36.920
<v Speaker 1>it's it's so incredible to see how you have put

0:26:37.000 --> 0:26:40.680
<v Speaker 1>the shame away and you've stepped up your soldier. And

0:26:40.840 --> 0:26:43.920
<v Speaker 1>I love you for it. I really do. We're damaged people,

0:26:44.040 --> 0:26:45.600
<v Speaker 1>and you know we got to go work on that damage.

0:26:45.600 --> 0:26:48.080
<v Speaker 1>Talk about it, talk about it. We're pret just brost

0:26:48.080 --> 0:26:50.960
<v Speaker 1>to depression. Look at the history against that sample. Turn

0:26:51.000 --> 0:26:53.320
<v Speaker 1>on the TV. That's PTSD right there. I don't care

0:26:53.359 --> 0:26:55.920
<v Speaker 1>what color you are, but in our community we don't

0:26:55.960 --> 0:26:59.359
<v Speaker 1>talk about it. And that's an issue. Um. My son's

0:26:59.400 --> 0:27:01.840
<v Speaker 1>father was when he was nine. My father died two

0:27:01.920 --> 0:27:04.680
<v Speaker 1>years later on me in the room. I saw the

0:27:04.760 --> 0:27:07.240
<v Speaker 1>last look. I felt his body go called that's traumatic.

0:27:07.920 --> 0:27:10.040
<v Speaker 1>Those are things you can't pray away. And for so

0:27:10.200 --> 0:27:12.200
<v Speaker 1>long we've been told, oh, just pray it away. Jesus

0:27:12.280 --> 0:27:14.959
<v Speaker 1>gonna take all your problems away. It's not that simple,

0:27:15.600 --> 0:27:19.040
<v Speaker 1>or you're weak, or we're demonize when we express our

0:27:19.080 --> 0:27:21.840
<v Speaker 1>feelings because they've been bottled up for so long. When

0:27:21.880 --> 0:27:23.720
<v Speaker 1>it was time for me to look seek help for

0:27:23.800 --> 0:27:27.239
<v Speaker 1>myself and my son, couldn't find anybody that look like us.

0:27:27.760 --> 0:27:29.600
<v Speaker 1>So now I know my son is gonna have issues.

0:27:29.880 --> 0:27:31.879
<v Speaker 1>When the person on the opposite side of this sofa

0:27:31.920 --> 0:27:34.200
<v Speaker 1>doesn't look like you, you're not gonna tell your truth.

0:27:34.840 --> 0:27:36.800
<v Speaker 1>So I called my friend, my best friend here and

0:27:36.920 --> 0:27:40.159
<v Speaker 1>frustrated because I was like, who can we talk to?

0:27:40.400 --> 0:27:43.000
<v Speaker 1>Like I have this pain? My son is not talking,

0:27:43.080 --> 0:27:46.080
<v Speaker 1>like how do we fix this? And looking for a

0:27:46.200 --> 0:27:49.320
<v Speaker 1>black therapist was like looking for a unicorn. Yeah, this

0:27:49.520 --> 0:27:52.800
<v Speaker 1>world is jacked up and I wouldn't want to raise

0:27:52.840 --> 0:27:55.280
<v Speaker 1>another kid in this With the social media and the

0:27:55.359 --> 0:27:57.159
<v Speaker 1>bullying and the sea, we didn't have to deal with

0:27:57.280 --> 0:28:01.200
<v Speaker 1>this stuff. So now you talk about all mental issues

0:28:01.359 --> 0:28:05.160
<v Speaker 1>added stress with this social media thing just on your phone.

0:28:05.240 --> 0:28:07.800
<v Speaker 1>Somebody can break you down if you're not strong enough,

0:28:07.960 --> 0:28:11.040
<v Speaker 1>you know, and I'm pretty strong. I'm a tough cookie.

0:28:11.520 --> 0:28:15.920
<v Speaker 1>Pun intended. That gets to me sometimes, you know, you

0:28:16.000 --> 0:28:18.000
<v Speaker 1>don't see my little clock backs in the shave wrong

0:28:18.080 --> 0:28:20.199
<v Speaker 1>something because I'm human. You know. It's like being an

0:28:20.200 --> 0:28:22.639
<v Speaker 1>abusive relationship. You wake up every day and somebody verbally

0:28:22.640 --> 0:28:24.240
<v Speaker 1>abusing you, and I'm like, why do we put ourselves

0:28:24.280 --> 0:28:25.920
<v Speaker 1>through that every day? But back to your son, So,

0:28:26.119 --> 0:28:27.920
<v Speaker 1>so where did you find a therapist? You said you

0:28:28.080 --> 0:28:30.119
<v Speaker 1>were looking for a therapist. What did you do? I

0:28:30.280 --> 0:28:33.840
<v Speaker 1>still haven't found the right one, you know. Um, we

0:28:34.040 --> 0:28:38.280
<v Speaker 1>found a three brothers and a sister in Pasadena, in LA.

0:28:38.560 --> 0:28:42.160
<v Speaker 1>But we live in Los Angeles, so that commute alone.

0:28:42.520 --> 0:28:44.640
<v Speaker 1>You know. It's just like when I started looking, they

0:28:44.680 --> 0:28:48.240
<v Speaker 1>were in other states. What's the statistics, Tracy about how

0:28:48.320 --> 0:28:50.880
<v Speaker 1>many degrees were given out and how many were given

0:28:50.920 --> 0:28:54.160
<v Speaker 1>to African Americans? So African Americans, you know, when we're

0:28:54.200 --> 0:28:56.680
<v Speaker 1>looking for these therapists, were wondering why they don't exist.

0:28:56.720 --> 0:28:59.600
<v Speaker 1>It's because they're not actually going to school to get

0:28:59.640 --> 0:29:02.440
<v Speaker 1>the p HD in order to become the therapist. Because

0:29:02.440 --> 0:29:04.479
<v Speaker 1>we don't talk about it at home. Yeah, and then

0:29:04.720 --> 0:29:07.720
<v Speaker 1>the two I think maybe they're wondering, is this really

0:29:07.920 --> 0:29:10.840
<v Speaker 1>a viable career for me? Black people are not coming

0:29:10.880 --> 0:29:13.600
<v Speaker 1>into the office and sitting on my couch and having

0:29:13.640 --> 0:29:17.440
<v Speaker 1>these conversations. But the statistics are ridiculous, like five percent

0:29:18.200 --> 0:29:23.320
<v Speaker 1>of all graduates from with PhDs are black in psychology

0:29:23.680 --> 0:29:26.520
<v Speaker 1>five percent out of one hundred percent and seventy six

0:29:26.600 --> 0:29:30.200
<v Speaker 1>percent are white. So, you know, we were looking at

0:29:30.240 --> 0:29:32.320
<v Speaker 1>those numbers and we're going, what is going on? I

0:29:32.440 --> 0:29:34.520
<v Speaker 1>was sick to my stomach. The first thing we thought

0:29:34.520 --> 0:29:37.720
<v Speaker 1>about was a perhaps they don't have the money to

0:29:37.840 --> 0:29:40.640
<v Speaker 1>go to college and get that degree. So we wanted

0:29:40.680 --> 0:29:43.040
<v Speaker 1>to make sure that we built something within our programming

0:29:43.280 --> 0:29:46.520
<v Speaker 1>that would support that effort. You know, at b we

0:29:46.640 --> 0:29:49.440
<v Speaker 1>don't talk about it enough. It's not a household conversation. Mommy,

0:29:49.440 --> 0:29:51.400
<v Speaker 1>I want to go be a basketball player, I want

0:29:51.440 --> 0:29:54.280
<v Speaker 1>to go meet cheering on whatever. Even if you say doctor,

0:29:54.280 --> 0:29:57.120
<v Speaker 1>you don't break it down in like psycho, right, So

0:29:57.240 --> 0:29:59.520
<v Speaker 1>if we can sort of normalize the conversation in the

0:29:59.640 --> 0:30:03.320
<v Speaker 1>language and press on the importance of it, maybe our

0:30:03.360 --> 0:30:05.360
<v Speaker 1>kids will then say, hey, maybe that's something I want

0:30:05.400 --> 0:30:09.240
<v Speaker 1>to do. So we're looking to help children especially see

0:30:09.400 --> 0:30:14.000
<v Speaker 1>that there is that the importance of mental health is

0:30:14.120 --> 0:30:18.080
<v Speaker 1>present in our community especially, and that there is something

0:30:18.160 --> 0:30:21.200
<v Speaker 1>they can do to change it, not just observe that

0:30:21.280 --> 0:30:22.760
<v Speaker 1>it is happening. No, you're right, because a lot of

0:30:22.800 --> 0:30:24.760
<v Speaker 1>times in school they'll say if a kid has a D,

0:30:24.920 --> 0:30:27.200
<v Speaker 1>they'll say they have ADD or ADHD. But what it

0:30:27.360 --> 0:30:29.360
<v Speaker 1>is is there's some things going on at home and

0:30:29.400 --> 0:30:32.080
<v Speaker 1>they need some extra attention, and then automatically they try

0:30:32.120 --> 0:30:34.360
<v Speaker 1>to put them in a different class or you know,

0:30:34.480 --> 0:30:37.600
<v Speaker 1>they fall behind. I know that firsthand. Before I booked

0:30:37.600 --> 0:30:42.480
<v Speaker 1>a baby boy, I was a substitute teacher and I

0:30:42.600 --> 0:30:44.640
<v Speaker 1>went into I remember, there's a class you have to

0:30:44.680 --> 0:30:46.320
<v Speaker 1>take a class you to take a series of tests,

0:30:46.320 --> 0:30:48.800
<v Speaker 1>and then they divided the class into two sections. They're like,

0:30:48.880 --> 0:30:51.080
<v Speaker 1>who wants to work with special ed children. I saw

0:30:51.160 --> 0:30:52.800
<v Speaker 1>on the side of the special there were maybe one

0:30:52.880 --> 0:30:55.600
<v Speaker 1>person over there, so I was like, I should me

0:30:55.720 --> 0:30:58.400
<v Speaker 1>go over there? You know, So I'm going to these

0:30:58.400 --> 0:31:01.080
<v Speaker 1>schools and then I decide I chose to work in

0:31:01.120 --> 0:31:04.200
<v Speaker 1>the hood, and so I get to Crenshaw Crenshaw district.

0:31:04.200 --> 0:31:07.480
<v Speaker 1>I forget to school and um, go to the class

0:31:07.520 --> 0:31:12.440
<v Speaker 1>and I'm waiting to see physically disabled children. No. I

0:31:12.600 --> 0:31:16.800
<v Speaker 1>had a classroom full of all black boys, all boys,

0:31:17.480 --> 0:31:20.880
<v Speaker 1>and they were like, I'm special ed. And I said, well,

0:31:20.880 --> 0:31:23.680
<v Speaker 1>what does that mean, because you're walking. There's nothing wrong

0:31:23.720 --> 0:31:26.960
<v Speaker 1>with you. Um. What hurt my heart is that they

0:31:27.040 --> 0:31:29.760
<v Speaker 1>believed it, because I'm like, you're believing this label that

0:31:29.840 --> 0:31:32.920
<v Speaker 1>they put on you. I did little, you know, inventive

0:31:33.000 --> 0:31:36.200
<v Speaker 1>things to motivate them. A lot of times they were hungry,

0:31:37.200 --> 0:31:38.680
<v Speaker 1>you know. I would go get food and bring it

0:31:38.720 --> 0:31:40.280
<v Speaker 1>to the class terrible, but I would be like, you

0:31:40.400 --> 0:31:42.840
<v Speaker 1>can't have this dessert until you do that math problem.

0:31:43.040 --> 0:31:45.640
<v Speaker 1>Well I'm special ed, No you're not. And he does it.

0:31:45.840 --> 0:31:48.480
<v Speaker 1>He would do it, give him a piece of pie

0:31:48.560 --> 0:31:51.480
<v Speaker 1>or whatever, and like, stop calling yourself special ed just

0:31:51.480 --> 0:31:56.760
<v Speaker 1>because somebody says. I hate them, ladies. I hate that

0:31:56.920 --> 0:31:58.720
<v Speaker 1>because it makes kids feel like I don't have to

0:31:58.760 --> 0:32:01.080
<v Speaker 1>do it because I can't because I got this label

0:32:01.120 --> 0:32:05.160
<v Speaker 1>on my medial class for English and math. But that's

0:32:05.160 --> 0:32:07.720
<v Speaker 1>because I failed the standardized test. Though at one point

0:32:07.800 --> 0:32:08.960
<v Speaker 1>that they put me in the media class and I

0:32:09.000 --> 0:32:11.320
<v Speaker 1>was in there with the so called special led kids. Yeah,

0:32:12.120 --> 0:32:14.640
<v Speaker 1>but that brought my heart. This is a class full

0:32:14.680 --> 0:32:17.840
<v Speaker 1>of young kings thinking that they are incapable of learning

0:32:18.280 --> 0:32:21.320
<v Speaker 1>when your brain is functioning fine. And teaching those special

0:32:21.440 --> 0:32:23.800
<v Speaker 1>ledge kids prepare you to work with tires and maybe

0:32:27.040 --> 0:32:29.560
<v Speaker 1>taught me. It helped me work with a lot of people.

0:32:33.480 --> 0:32:35.520
<v Speaker 1>All right, we have more with to Rogi p Henson

0:32:35.640 --> 0:32:37.920
<v Speaker 1>and her best friend Tracy Jenkins, don't move, It's to

0:32:37.920 --> 0:32:42.200
<v Speaker 1>breakfast club. Go morning e j Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne,

0:32:42.200 --> 0:32:44.680
<v Speaker 1>the guy we are the breakfast club to Rodgi p

0:32:44.840 --> 0:32:47.440
<v Speaker 1>Henson and her friend her best friend, Tracy Jenkins is

0:32:47.440 --> 0:32:49.080
<v Speaker 1>in the building. Who did you talk to when you

0:32:49.120 --> 0:32:50.720
<v Speaker 1>said you had to deal with all your stuff? Who

0:32:50.800 --> 0:32:52.440
<v Speaker 1>was your your shoulder to lean on? I had to

0:32:52.520 --> 0:32:56.640
<v Speaker 1>go to a professional because friends are great, but they

0:32:56.760 --> 0:32:59.440
<v Speaker 1>have too many stakes involved. And a lot of times

0:32:59.520 --> 0:33:02.000
<v Speaker 1>your friends is because they're not professional. They just want

0:33:02.040 --> 0:33:04.600
<v Speaker 1>you to be fixed, so they're just gonna say whatever,

0:33:05.080 --> 0:33:07.280
<v Speaker 1>and a lot of times that whatever they say isn't

0:33:07.320 --> 0:33:09.200
<v Speaker 1>not the thing you need that's gonna help you. And

0:33:09.240 --> 0:33:11.960
<v Speaker 1>you were comfortable talking to that that person once I

0:33:12.040 --> 0:33:16.320
<v Speaker 1>found someone that looked like because that's the problem it's like,

0:33:16.360 --> 0:33:18.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, to talk to somebody that you feel doesn't

0:33:18.240 --> 0:33:20.440
<v Speaker 1>get you right, doesn't understand you. It's like, well why,

0:33:20.480 --> 0:33:22.400
<v Speaker 1>you know, it's almost like you feel like I'm I'm

0:33:22.480 --> 0:33:24.320
<v Speaker 1>talking to to the man, Like why am I gonna

0:33:24.320 --> 0:33:26.200
<v Speaker 1>give you all my information? You're gonna use it against me?

0:33:26.240 --> 0:33:27.880
<v Speaker 1>You know. That's the same hardest part about it. And

0:33:28.000 --> 0:33:30.880
<v Speaker 1>I think for African Americans when you walk in that room,

0:33:30.920 --> 0:33:33.120
<v Speaker 1>and it's very important who that person looks like on

0:33:33.200 --> 0:33:35.480
<v Speaker 1>the other side of the sofa, because we have trust

0:33:35.560 --> 0:33:41.040
<v Speaker 1>issues and because we've been misdiagnosed years for years because

0:33:41.120 --> 0:33:45.840
<v Speaker 1>of a cultural u divide. Your father for mental health issues,

0:33:46.040 --> 0:33:48.280
<v Speaker 1>yes he did. Did you see any symptoms early and

0:33:48.360 --> 0:33:50.160
<v Speaker 1>your son that made you think like, oh, my father

0:33:50.240 --> 0:33:52.200
<v Speaker 1>went through that too. Well, um, a little bit. I

0:33:52.280 --> 0:33:55.640
<v Speaker 1>saw like anger issues in the early beginning of his

0:33:56.000 --> 0:33:58.560
<v Speaker 1>um when he was really really young. You know. But

0:33:59.400 --> 0:34:02.240
<v Speaker 1>once you get control and an understanding of who you are,

0:34:02.360 --> 0:34:04.680
<v Speaker 1>no one can use you against you. That's why it's

0:34:04.720 --> 0:34:08.160
<v Speaker 1>so important your book. No one can ever use your

0:34:08.239 --> 0:34:10.560
<v Speaker 1>mental illness against you. You've already spoke about it. So

0:34:10.640 --> 0:34:13.440
<v Speaker 1>what you got now, let's let me help you, let

0:34:13.520 --> 0:34:16.640
<v Speaker 1>me inspire you, you know, and what about her? You

0:34:16.719 --> 0:34:18.520
<v Speaker 1>know your son spy there when he passed. I know

0:34:18.640 --> 0:34:21.040
<v Speaker 1>you had to have some really intense conversations with him

0:34:21.600 --> 0:34:23.960
<v Speaker 1>about that, or did you. I'm not even gonna lie.

0:34:24.200 --> 0:34:27.279
<v Speaker 1>I remember when the light left his eyes and I

0:34:27.400 --> 0:34:29.720
<v Speaker 1>because I took you know how you do school pictures

0:34:29.800 --> 0:34:32.520
<v Speaker 1>every year, and I lined them all up and it

0:34:32.640 --> 0:34:36.279
<v Speaker 1>was always the goofy, silly I laughing lights, sparkle in

0:34:36.360 --> 0:34:40.200
<v Speaker 1>the eyes, ninth grade dead eyes. It was years later

0:34:40.280 --> 0:34:43.399
<v Speaker 1>when we got the therapy. But when I started looking back,

0:34:43.600 --> 0:34:45.719
<v Speaker 1>I was like, I dropped the ball. That's when I

0:34:45.760 --> 0:34:47.920
<v Speaker 1>should have taken them. But thank god I did pick

0:34:48.000 --> 0:34:49.880
<v Speaker 1>the ball up and I ran with it. And my

0:34:49.960 --> 0:34:52.520
<v Speaker 1>son is very open and up about it, and I

0:34:52.600 --> 0:34:55.560
<v Speaker 1>think that's good, like you are it. The more men

0:34:55.680 --> 0:34:58.440
<v Speaker 1>that step up to the plate and come out, the

0:34:58.640 --> 0:35:00.600
<v Speaker 1>more men that will feel safe enough to do it.

0:35:00.719 --> 0:35:03.040
<v Speaker 1>It's difficult. It's difficult to think. It's even with depression.

0:35:03.120 --> 0:35:04.680
<v Speaker 1>Like talking about depression, it's like, you know, you can

0:35:04.680 --> 0:35:06.160
<v Speaker 1>go in the baber shop. We could talk about everything

0:35:06.200 --> 0:35:08.719
<v Speaker 1>in the ballber shop. Who smashing this person, who's doing this?

0:35:08.760 --> 0:35:10.960
<v Speaker 1>But when it comes to depression, it's kind of like, oh,

0:35:11.120 --> 0:35:13.319
<v Speaker 1>man up. And that's how like people feel that men

0:35:13.440 --> 0:35:17.319
<v Speaker 1>can't cry, A man can't be unable. My son cry

0:35:17.480 --> 0:35:19.279
<v Speaker 1>let it out when he was little. I was like, baby,

0:35:19.400 --> 0:35:21.600
<v Speaker 1>let it out, because that's a passive emotion. You need

0:35:21.680 --> 0:35:23.359
<v Speaker 1>to deal with it and let it out because if

0:35:23.400 --> 0:35:26.399
<v Speaker 1>you harbor it, it festers and it becomes something else.

0:35:26.760 --> 0:35:29.120
<v Speaker 1>And that's the story. That's what I would always tell him.

0:35:29.120 --> 0:35:31.680
<v Speaker 1>I would be like, Marcella, you gotta express your feelings.

0:35:31.880 --> 0:35:34.239
<v Speaker 1>You must express I'm not gonna raise another black man

0:35:34.320 --> 0:35:37.239
<v Speaker 1>who's afraid to express his feelings. I'm not gonna do it.

0:35:37.480 --> 0:35:40.200
<v Speaker 1>What it the initial steps to eliminate the stigma and

0:35:40.280 --> 0:35:43.560
<v Speaker 1>mental illness and open dialogue. First of all, you gotta

0:35:43.600 --> 0:35:45.160
<v Speaker 1>talk about what we're doing, because right now we're not

0:35:45.280 --> 0:35:48.719
<v Speaker 1>talking about pray it away. Prayer doesn't work all the time.

0:35:49.520 --> 0:35:52.320
<v Speaker 1>You know, might praying God may say go see a therapist.

0:35:54.040 --> 0:35:57.160
<v Speaker 1>How about that? You know? Um? So, I think the

0:35:57.320 --> 0:36:01.640
<v Speaker 1>first step is open dialect, putting faces to it that

0:36:01.719 --> 0:36:04.359
<v Speaker 1>people look up to say, hey, look, I go see

0:36:04.480 --> 0:36:07.360
<v Speaker 1>my therapist. And this is the problem I'm going to

0:36:07.400 --> 0:36:10.680
<v Speaker 1>address my people. Why is it that we can talk

0:36:10.719 --> 0:36:14.200
<v Speaker 1>about our thyroid? Right that's a part of our body.

0:36:14.400 --> 0:36:17.000
<v Speaker 1>Is your brain not attached to your body, So why

0:36:17.160 --> 0:36:19.840
<v Speaker 1>is that so difficult to talk about. It's still a

0:36:19.880 --> 0:36:22.120
<v Speaker 1>part of your body, it's still consider mental, it's still

0:36:22.160 --> 0:36:26.200
<v Speaker 1>consider health. And I don't think we were inclusive with

0:36:26.360 --> 0:36:29.359
<v Speaker 1>the mental part as African Americans when we talk about health.

0:36:29.600 --> 0:36:31.120
<v Speaker 1>I think a lot of a lot of with our

0:36:31.160 --> 0:36:33.160
<v Speaker 1>community too. I think a lot of people feel like

0:36:33.200 --> 0:36:35.440
<v Speaker 1>they can't afford it. You know, when you talk about thyroid,

0:36:35.480 --> 0:36:36.960
<v Speaker 1>I can go to the doc and my health coverage

0:36:36.960 --> 0:36:39.040
<v Speaker 1>is gonna cover right, you know. If I'm talking about

0:36:39.080 --> 0:36:41.399
<v Speaker 1>my back ache, health coverage. But when I talk about

0:36:41.400 --> 0:36:43.279
<v Speaker 1>mental a lot of times they don't cover it, you know,

0:36:43.360 --> 0:36:45.800
<v Speaker 1>and that's a problem. I went through a breakdown. I

0:36:45.840 --> 0:36:50.360
<v Speaker 1>suffer with anxiety depression. And when I had my first breakdown,

0:36:50.880 --> 0:36:53.719
<v Speaker 1>I went to the hospital emergency room because what's wrong.

0:36:54.400 --> 0:36:57.000
<v Speaker 1>There's nothing I could do. My parents and nobody happen

0:36:57.640 --> 0:37:02.560
<v Speaker 1>don't know, I do, I do? I M I woke

0:37:02.680 --> 0:37:06.360
<v Speaker 1>up out of my sleep and I could physically, I

0:37:06.400 --> 0:37:09.480
<v Speaker 1>could not understand how to move my body right. So

0:37:09.680 --> 0:37:14.120
<v Speaker 1>I forgot how to walk, move my arms, all of that.

0:37:14.840 --> 0:37:17.600
<v Speaker 1>And at that point, I'm still with my parents and

0:37:17.800 --> 0:37:23.520
<v Speaker 1>my dad came into I was fourteen, and he actually

0:37:24.000 --> 0:37:25.959
<v Speaker 1>had to lift me up, put me on his back,

0:37:26.520 --> 0:37:29.120
<v Speaker 1>and take me to the emergency room because at my

0:37:29.239 --> 0:37:32.520
<v Speaker 1>having a heart attack or what's going on. And when

0:37:32.560 --> 0:37:35.880
<v Speaker 1>I got there. Once I pulled up to the hospital,

0:37:36.320 --> 0:37:40.640
<v Speaker 1>I was fine, And it was because I did not

0:37:40.840 --> 0:37:43.680
<v Speaker 1>understand something. I think the big part of anxiety and

0:37:43.719 --> 0:37:47.160
<v Speaker 1>depression is that you have this great fear because you

0:37:47.239 --> 0:37:52.560
<v Speaker 1>don't understand right, so so then that just takes over.

0:37:53.000 --> 0:37:54.839
<v Speaker 1>But once I got to a place where I knew

0:37:55.000 --> 0:37:57.440
<v Speaker 1>that I would be able to understand or somebody could

0:37:57.480 --> 0:38:01.160
<v Speaker 1>fix it right then and there, the fear and anxiety left,

0:38:01.680 --> 0:38:04.839
<v Speaker 1>and I went into the emergency room and nothing was wrong.

0:38:04.880 --> 0:38:08.200
<v Speaker 1>They did the EKG. My mother said, and my mother

0:38:08.360 --> 0:38:10.840
<v Speaker 1>suffers with it as well. It's actually in my families,

0:38:10.880 --> 0:38:13.920
<v Speaker 1>my mom, myself and my daughter. She said, we need

0:38:14.160 --> 0:38:20.200
<v Speaker 1>an EKG in every corner store because seriously, it always

0:38:20.200 --> 0:38:21.960
<v Speaker 1>feels like a heart attack. It always feels like a

0:38:22.040 --> 0:38:24.759
<v Speaker 1>heart attack. Did anxiety of impact you throughout you? When

0:38:24.800 --> 0:38:28.800
<v Speaker 1>he came to like performing, Um, No, anxiety affects me

0:38:28.920 --> 0:38:31.920
<v Speaker 1>in my life, I think, and as I get older,

0:38:32.000 --> 0:38:34.120
<v Speaker 1>it's starting to affect me even more. I was talking

0:38:34.160 --> 0:38:37.439
<v Speaker 1>to my therapists about that, like, I have these overwhelming

0:38:37.680 --> 0:38:41.560
<v Speaker 1>sensations of not of being out of control, you know

0:38:41.640 --> 0:38:44.080
<v Speaker 1>what I mean, Like, and you know the state of

0:38:44.120 --> 0:38:48.480
<v Speaker 1>the world. I have a young black son who drives,

0:38:48.560 --> 0:38:50.399
<v Speaker 1>who is out here in the world. So every time

0:38:50.440 --> 0:38:54.080
<v Speaker 1>a hashtag with a black chas, I go into a

0:38:54.160 --> 0:38:57.360
<v Speaker 1>panic attack. I can't sleep, my eating is off. You know,

0:38:57.719 --> 0:39:00.839
<v Speaker 1>that's mental. I call that parental paranoia. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

0:39:00.960 --> 0:39:03.080
<v Speaker 1>and I walk around with it. It doesn't go away

0:39:03.120 --> 0:39:05.680
<v Speaker 1>when they get grown. You know, it's funny you say

0:39:05.680 --> 0:39:07.520
<v Speaker 1>that about your therapist. I've been talking about therapist about that,

0:39:07.520 --> 0:39:09.279
<v Speaker 1>and I guess that's when you have to implement like

0:39:09.360 --> 0:39:12.359
<v Speaker 1>your old school spiritual principles and bring into serenity prayer.

0:39:12.840 --> 0:39:15.440
<v Speaker 1>But then I'll be wondering, like, yo, can't we control things? Oh?

0:39:15.480 --> 0:39:17.000
<v Speaker 1>These things just out of our control, do you? Some

0:39:17.120 --> 0:39:18.560
<v Speaker 1>things are just out of our control. A lot of

0:39:18.640 --> 0:39:20.759
<v Speaker 1>things out of our control. Is how you handle them,

0:39:20.920 --> 0:39:23.960
<v Speaker 1>is how you process everything. You know, therapy is great,

0:39:24.000 --> 0:39:27.480
<v Speaker 1>and maybe some people want alternative methods of healing. Right,

0:39:27.880 --> 0:39:31.799
<v Speaker 1>So if, for example, if you understand your triggers at

0:39:31.880 --> 0:39:35.400
<v Speaker 1>least I just don't go into spaces where I know

0:39:35.560 --> 0:39:38.160
<v Speaker 1>that trigger is gonna be work. She has done a

0:39:38.239 --> 0:39:41.360
<v Speaker 1>lot of work. I remember when we were in college,

0:39:41.400 --> 0:39:44.560
<v Speaker 1>we went to Hong Kong to do a play. They

0:39:44.760 --> 0:39:46.839
<v Speaker 1>some producer pay for our entire product because we were

0:39:46.880 --> 0:39:52.040
<v Speaker 1>that good at the real Hu whatever, Who are you

0:39:52.120 --> 0:39:53.840
<v Speaker 1>too busy to go to another country and put on

0:39:53.880 --> 0:40:00.360
<v Speaker 1>a play? So um, she was all drug up on

0:40:00.400 --> 0:40:02.400
<v Speaker 1>the plane. I have a picture. We were making fun

0:40:02.480 --> 0:40:04.200
<v Speaker 1>of it back then because that's what we did. It

0:40:04.280 --> 0:40:06.400
<v Speaker 1>was uncomfortable to talk about. And she did a picture

0:40:06.440 --> 0:40:08.800
<v Speaker 1>with all those little pills. But she had to do

0:40:09.000 --> 0:40:12.000
<v Speaker 1>that to get on that plane. Once upon a time

0:40:12.000 --> 0:40:14.800
<v Speaker 1>she wouldn't even get on the plane. And I'm still

0:40:14.880 --> 0:40:17.759
<v Speaker 1>and now I'm back to contemplating whether I'm getting on

0:40:17.840 --> 0:40:21.120
<v Speaker 1>the plane. But the part of the problem to us,

0:40:21.120 --> 0:40:24.040
<v Speaker 1>I think we try to self medicate ourselves. Yah, start

0:40:24.080 --> 0:40:27.080
<v Speaker 1>off with with weed, and then from we go to pills,

0:40:27.239 --> 0:40:30.680
<v Speaker 1>and we think we usually start off with alcohol. Yeah,

0:40:30.760 --> 0:40:32.359
<v Speaker 1>and then we don't know what we're taking, we don't

0:40:32.360 --> 0:40:34.200
<v Speaker 1>know the dosage, and then you look up and then

0:40:34.239 --> 0:40:36.200
<v Speaker 1>we're stuck on something we can't get off of it. Yeah,

0:40:36.400 --> 0:40:39.600
<v Speaker 1>because that's your coping mechanism. That you've been doing it

0:40:39.760 --> 0:40:43.160
<v Speaker 1>for so long and it's not even helping. All right,

0:40:43.200 --> 0:40:45.319
<v Speaker 1>we have more with to Rogi p Henson and her

0:40:45.400 --> 0:40:48.000
<v Speaker 1>best friend Tracy Jenkins. Don't Oover's to breakfast Club, Go

0:40:48.120 --> 0:40:55.440
<v Speaker 1>Morning Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy,

0:40:55.520 --> 0:40:57.920
<v Speaker 1>we are the breakfast club. To RODG. P Henson and

0:40:58.040 --> 0:41:01.040
<v Speaker 1>her best friend Tracy Jenkins is here, Charlemagne, we have

0:41:01.120 --> 0:41:03.320
<v Speaker 1>not even telling what we're talking about. Taragi has the

0:41:03.360 --> 0:41:07.680
<v Speaker 1>Foundation Foundation. We had this great conversation about mental health

0:41:10.760 --> 0:41:13.040
<v Speaker 1>and named after my father who passed away in two

0:41:13.080 --> 0:41:16.239
<v Speaker 1>thousand and six from liver cancer. She's given us the

0:41:16.360 --> 0:41:19.640
<v Speaker 1>history of how this organization came to be UM and

0:41:20.000 --> 0:41:23.720
<v Speaker 1>and our targets are basically trying to eradicate the stigma

0:41:23.800 --> 0:41:26.600
<v Speaker 1>first of all around mental health UM challenges and issues.

0:41:27.000 --> 0:41:30.520
<v Speaker 1>But we want to do that by bringing some more

0:41:30.600 --> 0:41:34.520
<v Speaker 1>supports into the urban community around mental health, specifically in schools.

0:41:34.800 --> 0:41:38.880
<v Speaker 1>The suicide rate for young African American children have risen,

0:41:39.040 --> 0:41:41.840
<v Speaker 1>have doubled since the nineties. Have you even heard of

0:41:42.040 --> 0:41:44.479
<v Speaker 1>black children saying I'm gonna go kill myself at nine?

0:41:45.360 --> 0:41:48.480
<v Speaker 1>And we don't hear about it, but you do a

0:41:48.520 --> 0:41:52.400
<v Speaker 1>little research and the numbers will alarm me. It's a crisis.

0:41:52.600 --> 0:41:54.520
<v Speaker 1>So we definitely want to make sure that we're hitting

0:41:54.560 --> 0:41:58.600
<v Speaker 1>the young people um first by bringing more black mental

0:41:58.680 --> 0:42:02.319
<v Speaker 1>health therapists in to the school system. We also want

0:42:02.400 --> 0:42:06.160
<v Speaker 1>to support young people who are interested in the field,

0:42:06.320 --> 0:42:10.000
<v Speaker 1>so scholarships, and then we also want to attack the

0:42:10.200 --> 0:42:13.040
<v Speaker 1>recidivism rate. We have a lot of work to do,

0:42:13.840 --> 0:42:16.279
<v Speaker 1>you know, and I think it just takes celebrity. It

0:42:16.600 --> 0:42:20.120
<v Speaker 1>takes people like us to stand up and say, hey,

0:42:20.600 --> 0:42:23.040
<v Speaker 1>you're not alone. And let me just say this. The

0:42:23.120 --> 0:42:26.560
<v Speaker 1>brothers that have stepped up, put them on blast Snoop

0:42:26.600 --> 0:42:31.560
<v Speaker 1>Doll exhibit, Kevin Hart. It's just the men, the black

0:42:31.640 --> 0:42:34.040
<v Speaker 1>men that have stepped up and understand the cause and

0:42:34.080 --> 0:42:36.719
<v Speaker 1>who have written checks with no questions, said, baby, I

0:42:36.920 --> 0:42:39.920
<v Speaker 1>got you. This is so important for us, Tracy Morgan,

0:42:40.520 --> 0:42:43.240
<v Speaker 1>like just a phone call and they wrote five figure

0:42:43.320 --> 0:42:47.040
<v Speaker 1>check just like that because they know how important this is.

0:42:48.960 --> 0:42:53.440
<v Speaker 1>To go to Boris L. Henson Foundation dot org. And

0:42:53.560 --> 0:42:55.160
<v Speaker 1>one thing that I noticed it we had this I

0:42:55.239 --> 0:42:57.360
<v Speaker 1>did this segment up here called ask ye Right, And

0:42:57.520 --> 0:42:59.920
<v Speaker 1>so certain days it'll be all guys calling up for

0:43:00.040 --> 0:43:02.360
<v Speaker 1>advice and send any emails, and I think part of

0:43:02.400 --> 0:43:04.279
<v Speaker 1>the problem is like they might be upset about a

0:43:04.320 --> 0:43:07.359
<v Speaker 1>breakup or something like that that their friends might make

0:43:07.440 --> 0:43:09.879
<v Speaker 1>fun of them for it, but they really do need help.

0:43:09.960 --> 0:43:12.160
<v Speaker 1>And I hate that we put that pressure on our men.

0:43:12.280 --> 0:43:15.239
<v Speaker 1>It's not fair. They're human just like the rest of us,

0:43:15.320 --> 0:43:17.880
<v Speaker 1>and they shouldn't have to be normal stronger than we do,

0:43:18.160 --> 0:43:22.279
<v Speaker 1>you know. So it is. And for women it's hard

0:43:22.320 --> 0:43:25.040
<v Speaker 1>to be as strong like you've been a strong single mother,

0:43:25.480 --> 0:43:26.799
<v Speaker 1>you know, for as long as you have. And that's

0:43:26.800 --> 0:43:28.960
<v Speaker 1>a lot of pressure too. You know, when I got

0:43:29.040 --> 0:43:31.520
<v Speaker 1>free the first time, I said I'm not a strong

0:43:31.640 --> 0:43:35.239
<v Speaker 1>black woman. I'm weak today. Damn it. I don't want

0:43:35.239 --> 0:43:37.520
<v Speaker 1>to be strong. Somebody come over and lift me up

0:43:39.520 --> 0:43:45.040
<v Speaker 1>strong when I'm saying that. When I finally spoke that

0:43:45.200 --> 0:43:48.680
<v Speaker 1>out of my mouth, I was free. I was free.

0:43:48.800 --> 0:43:51.680
<v Speaker 1>We think that's cute, be strong black woman. First of all,

0:43:51.719 --> 0:43:56.520
<v Speaker 1>that scares men. They're like, well, what am I supposed

0:43:56.520 --> 0:44:01.960
<v Speaker 1>to do? Hey day? Got my old life. I've been

0:44:02.000 --> 0:44:03.839
<v Speaker 1>grew up around Schrome black women. Like I'm in all

0:44:03.840 --> 0:44:05.640
<v Speaker 1>of my wife right now because I saw her deliver

0:44:06.160 --> 0:44:11.879
<v Speaker 1>our third baby yesterday, congratulating, congratulate, and I'm like, oh,

0:44:12.200 --> 0:44:14.759
<v Speaker 1>that could not have been me. Well, let me congratulations

0:44:14.800 --> 0:44:17.840
<v Speaker 1>on your pregnancy too. Oh God, Eavy, why would you

0:44:17.920 --> 0:44:20.800
<v Speaker 1>do that? I can say you not just was on

0:44:20.960 --> 0:44:24.960
<v Speaker 1>good day? Good morning, good day? What was on? Say?

0:44:25.000 --> 0:44:27.520
<v Speaker 1>I say this now, it's like I'm still sing everybody

0:44:28.200 --> 0:44:30.040
<v Speaker 1>right now every day that you are gonna have to

0:44:30.120 --> 0:44:32.600
<v Speaker 1>say I'm not pregnant. Every day I get, oh, we're

0:44:32.640 --> 0:44:36.800
<v Speaker 1>so happy for you. I didn't even ask you like

0:44:36.840 --> 0:44:43.440
<v Speaker 1>you got like some Howard University. She was pregnancy to

0:44:43.600 --> 0:44:49.640
<v Speaker 1>rise you from Howard is not How did you? How

0:44:49.680 --> 0:44:51.560
<v Speaker 1>did you do with your father having mental issues when

0:44:51.560 --> 0:44:52.920
<v Speaker 1>you were young? Because you didn't really know what that

0:44:53.080 --> 0:44:55.800
<v Speaker 1>was then, did you? M I really didn't. He was

0:44:56.160 --> 0:44:58.520
<v Speaker 1>the reason why I was able to maneuver through it all.

0:44:58.840 --> 0:45:04.360
<v Speaker 1>My dad was very honest, good, brutally brutally honest about

0:45:04.520 --> 0:45:07.400
<v Speaker 1>his truth about things that were going on in the world.

0:45:07.640 --> 0:45:10.160
<v Speaker 1>He never hid anything. He would show you the wound

0:45:10.200 --> 0:45:12.239
<v Speaker 1>in his head from when he tried to commit suicide.

0:45:12.560 --> 0:45:14.040
<v Speaker 1>He was just you know, I would have to give

0:45:14.120 --> 0:45:19.560
<v Speaker 1>my friends a disclosure before. Don't take anything. He sins

0:45:19.640 --> 0:45:30.160
<v Speaker 1>personal buckwheat. Yeah, wait a minute, issues were light skin dark.

0:45:32.880 --> 0:45:35.560
<v Speaker 1>He would come in buckwheat. I thought you were like,

0:45:35.640 --> 0:45:42.719
<v Speaker 1>please like that or something. No, I baby, we were

0:45:42.800 --> 0:45:46.680
<v Speaker 1>letting not. He just look at you and call you another.

0:45:47.840 --> 0:45:50.880
<v Speaker 1>Friends who were very tall, they were like six feet tall, sisters.

0:45:51.120 --> 0:45:55.160
<v Speaker 1>He called them baby Hue and Louis. I had a

0:45:55.239 --> 0:45:57.400
<v Speaker 1>girlfriend who did a play. We did a plague and

0:45:57.480 --> 0:45:59.919
<v Speaker 1>she carried an egg in the play. And he till

0:46:00.040 --> 0:46:01.879
<v Speaker 1>he died, he called her egg. He would not call

0:46:01.960 --> 0:46:06.040
<v Speaker 1>her where is that egg? My girlfriend has slanted eyes.

0:46:06.440 --> 0:46:10.880
<v Speaker 1>He called her China woman. Yeah, it's just it's just

0:46:10.960 --> 0:46:17.360
<v Speaker 1>straight up. Anybody in your family have mental health issues. Absolutely, me,

0:46:18.040 --> 0:46:22.239
<v Speaker 1>my sister, my daughter. So for us, it's it's like

0:46:22.360 --> 0:46:27.080
<v Speaker 1>a genetic kind of thing. I mean we realized that now, um,

0:46:27.239 --> 0:46:29.480
<v Speaker 1>but we didn't talk about it coming up. It was

0:46:29.600 --> 0:46:31.680
<v Speaker 1>very quiet with the secret in the house. You know,

0:46:32.040 --> 0:46:35.080
<v Speaker 1>you don't want to give people permission to label you.

0:46:35.280 --> 0:46:37.359
<v Speaker 1>That's how my how we grew up in my house.

0:46:37.440 --> 0:46:39.560
<v Speaker 1>And it's sad back to the labels again. And this

0:46:39.719 --> 0:46:42.800
<v Speaker 1>is a pet peeve of mine. How I was introduced

0:46:42.840 --> 0:46:45.359
<v Speaker 1>to ADD was the crack baby. That's when I first

0:46:45.400 --> 0:46:48.280
<v Speaker 1>started hearing them label kids. It's add. Now it's just loose.

0:46:48.560 --> 0:46:51.840
<v Speaker 1>Everybody got it, and I'm like, well, isn't the point

0:46:52.040 --> 0:46:54.480
<v Speaker 1>of kids? The beauty, beauty of kids is that they

0:46:54.560 --> 0:46:57.960
<v Speaker 1>are so full of energy and they so I'm just

0:46:58.000 --> 0:47:00.040
<v Speaker 1>a little because I remember one time I teach you

0:47:00.160 --> 0:47:01.960
<v Speaker 1>try to say my son was a d D and

0:47:02.200 --> 0:47:06.520
<v Speaker 1>its good about every kid at some point, man, let

0:47:06.560 --> 0:47:08.520
<v Speaker 1>me tell you all, it took everybody. Took about ten

0:47:08.560 --> 0:47:10.240
<v Speaker 1>people to keep me from going up the kid putting

0:47:10.239 --> 0:47:12.680
<v Speaker 1>my foot in her ass. Not only that because he

0:47:12.840 --> 0:47:14.640
<v Speaker 1>was like one of them, maybe three black kids in

0:47:14.719 --> 0:47:16.880
<v Speaker 1>the school. So you're gonna drug my black son up

0:47:16.880 --> 0:47:20.440
<v Speaker 1>because he's rambunctious. It's your job to figure out a

0:47:20.480 --> 0:47:22.600
<v Speaker 1>way to teach him the way he needs to learn.

0:47:22.800 --> 0:47:24.400
<v Speaker 1>My kids didn't grow up like like I grew up.

0:47:24.640 --> 0:47:26.440
<v Speaker 1>I grew up in Queens a lot different. We all

0:47:26.560 --> 0:47:28.440
<v Speaker 1>had the same energy. It was all black. We all

0:47:28.560 --> 0:47:32.799
<v Speaker 1>did everything. My kids because they're not like the quote

0:47:32.880 --> 0:47:35.000
<v Speaker 1>unquote white kids, they're a little different. Just say it.

0:47:35.040 --> 0:47:41.759
<v Speaker 1>We're genetically superior. They just it's a different way. Like

0:47:41.920 --> 0:47:44.840
<v Speaker 1>because my kid is so aggressive, like for instance, and

0:47:44.920 --> 0:47:47.520
<v Speaker 1>this is probably bad parenting. You hit me, I hit

0:47:47.560 --> 0:47:49.560
<v Speaker 1>you back. That's when my parents taught me. I took

0:47:49.600 --> 0:47:52.359
<v Speaker 1>my kids in that area. They don't and as soon

0:47:52.400 --> 0:47:55.160
<v Speaker 1>as you do, he's aggressive. Yes, happens, It's what I'm saying.

0:47:55.880 --> 0:47:59.040
<v Speaker 1>But that's the thing we people don't take into account

0:47:59.120 --> 0:48:01.640
<v Speaker 1>that we have a call true difference. Right, So we

0:48:01.719 --> 0:48:04.120
<v Speaker 1>were raised in a certain way. These cycles that you

0:48:04.160 --> 0:48:06.640
<v Speaker 1>continue to tell your kids what your parents told you,

0:48:07.040 --> 0:48:11.359
<v Speaker 1>it's about how I protect myself from all that's going

0:48:11.440 --> 0:48:14.080
<v Speaker 1>on out there. So what I'm what, I think, what

0:48:14.200 --> 0:48:16.359
<v Speaker 1>we want to do is say, let's figure out how

0:48:16.400 --> 0:48:19.960
<v Speaker 1>we can break the cycle so that these what we're

0:48:20.000 --> 0:48:23.520
<v Speaker 1>telling our kids is something that's changing the way that

0:48:23.680 --> 0:48:26.520
<v Speaker 1>we look at mental health in our community. We thank

0:48:26.560 --> 0:48:30.600
<v Speaker 1>you guys for joining. Yeah. One question though, this is

0:48:30.640 --> 0:48:32.600
<v Speaker 1>from Arroager's book, because I was really thinking about this.

0:48:32.680 --> 0:48:35.320
<v Speaker 1>You said, you met Mary J just random as a

0:48:36.200 --> 0:48:37.680
<v Speaker 1>You met Mary J back in the day, But she

0:48:37.760 --> 0:48:39.960
<v Speaker 1>was rude to you the first time, Yes, but we

0:48:40.120 --> 0:48:41.960
<v Speaker 1>laugh about it now. But then as you glowed up,

0:48:42.000 --> 0:48:46.239
<v Speaker 1>she wanted to be your friend anybody, you know, She

0:48:46.440 --> 0:48:48.400
<v Speaker 1>just at that particular potion went in up a good

0:48:48.440 --> 0:48:49.759
<v Speaker 1>place in her life, you know what I mean. And

0:48:49.840 --> 0:48:53.279
<v Speaker 1>then she grew and blossomed and and we talked. We

0:48:53.480 --> 0:48:56.160
<v Speaker 1>laugh about it now and I never held it against her.

0:48:56.440 --> 0:48:57.839
<v Speaker 1>That's what I wanted to do, you know why, because

0:48:57.840 --> 0:48:59.719
<v Speaker 1>I'm a celebrity now and when I don't feel like

0:48:59.800 --> 0:49:02.160
<v Speaker 1>being bothers, you might get slacked by her or my

0:49:02.320 --> 0:49:05.120
<v Speaker 1>friends or my sister out there. So I get it. Now.

0:49:06.120 --> 0:49:08.400
<v Speaker 1>Shut out the Empire new season, and of course what

0:49:08.600 --> 0:49:10.600
<v Speaker 1>men went, which I'm really excited to see because I

0:49:10.719 --> 0:49:12.400
<v Speaker 1>loved watching what women went, but I would love to

0:49:12.400 --> 0:49:14.120
<v Speaker 1>see if from a woman's point of view, it's really

0:49:14.160 --> 0:49:17.920
<v Speaker 1>good likely so see what those men are thinking about us,

0:49:18.040 --> 0:49:19.600
<v Speaker 1>although I don't know if in real life we would

0:49:19.640 --> 0:49:21.480
<v Speaker 1>want to know that. I don't want to know, but

0:49:21.600 --> 0:49:25.080
<v Speaker 1>I told you this, we all want the same thing. Well,

0:49:25.560 --> 0:49:35.560
<v Speaker 1>I want sex. I the Breakfast Club. Would you get

0:49:35.600 --> 0:49:44.919
<v Speaker 1>food for your soul? The Breakfast Club's fill the team.

0:49:45.200 --> 0:49:48.440
<v Speaker 1>This is the rumor report with Angela Yee on the

0:49:48.520 --> 0:49:52.400
<v Speaker 1>Breakfast Club. Well, little Zanne was in the hospital now.

0:49:52.480 --> 0:49:54.480
<v Speaker 1>He had posted a picture of himself writing in the

0:49:54.520 --> 0:49:57.640
<v Speaker 1>back of an ambulance. Nobody knew what had happened, but

0:49:57.760 --> 0:50:01.200
<v Speaker 1>he revealed why he was in the hospital because of

0:50:01.280 --> 0:50:03.520
<v Speaker 1>too much of this. I just want to let everybody

0:50:03.560 --> 0:50:06.520
<v Speaker 1>now I was in the hospital not do to any drugs.

0:50:06.680 --> 0:50:10.960
<v Speaker 1>But I guess I ate too many hot Cheetos and

0:50:11.560 --> 0:50:16.040
<v Speaker 1>it ripped my stomach. God, so I cheered the little blood,

0:50:16.440 --> 0:50:19.320
<v Speaker 1>so we get how many hot Cheetos would you have

0:50:19.440 --> 0:50:21.560
<v Speaker 1>to eat for that to make your stomach believe? I'm

0:50:21.560 --> 0:50:23.799
<v Speaker 1>a grown ass man. I'm a grown ass man who

0:50:23.840 --> 0:50:25.880
<v Speaker 1>has told a lot of lies to my parents. Okay,

0:50:25.920 --> 0:50:27.880
<v Speaker 1>you think I'm falling for that one. I didn't know

0:50:27.960 --> 0:50:31.440
<v Speaker 1>that flaming hot cheetosco you taught for that, honey. I

0:50:31.520 --> 0:50:33.719
<v Speaker 1>wish I had you as a mom growing up. That's

0:50:33.960 --> 0:50:36.640
<v Speaker 1>the lining of his soul. Really, yeah, yeah, yeah, you know.

0:50:36.760 --> 0:50:41.040
<v Speaker 1>If I was Cheetos, I was suited. Yeah, why are

0:50:41.080 --> 0:50:43.040
<v Speaker 1>you going too far? Why are you saying that too

0:50:43.080 --> 0:50:45.680
<v Speaker 1>many cheating? Yeah? You too many Cheetos put you in

0:50:45.719 --> 0:50:47.839
<v Speaker 1>the hospital. Well you're right, Yeah, teach that little boy

0:50:47.920 --> 0:50:51.360
<v Speaker 1>lesson about lying. She was a little ass who was right? Now? Yeah, Cheetos?

0:50:51.400 --> 0:50:54.120
<v Speaker 1>What's the tiger name from Cheetos? Chet cheat on the tiger?

0:50:54.400 --> 0:50:56.319
<v Speaker 1>That's his name? Did you make that out? I made

0:50:56.320 --> 0:51:00.239
<v Speaker 1>it up? Chester Chester? She was ass Chester. I was

0:51:00.280 --> 0:51:03.160
<v Speaker 1>the Chester was Yeah, it's the worst name to have

0:51:04.800 --> 0:51:09.880
<v Speaker 1>Chester cheat to Chester, all right? Cardi B Congratulations, she

0:51:10.080 --> 0:51:13.080
<v Speaker 1>got her third number one single on Billboards Hot one

0:51:13.320 --> 0:51:15.640
<v Speaker 1>I want to close for body. Damn it. Yes see

0:51:15.719 --> 0:51:18.680
<v Speaker 1>the first female rapper with three Hot one hundred number

0:51:18.840 --> 0:51:21.719
<v Speaker 1>one single. So congratulations, that's the song she has in

0:51:21.800 --> 0:51:24.120
<v Speaker 1>my Room five? And wasn't am I making this up?

0:51:24.280 --> 0:51:26.400
<v Speaker 1>Was that yesterday the one year anniversary of Bold at

0:51:26.440 --> 0:51:28.960
<v Speaker 1>Yellow actually going number one? Two? Was it? I don't know.

0:51:29.080 --> 0:51:30.719
<v Speaker 1>I saw that somewhere. I don't know. I think I

0:51:30.800 --> 0:51:33.160
<v Speaker 1>saw Elliot Wilson and somebody post as Luke Elliott Wilson.

0:51:33.280 --> 0:51:36.840
<v Speaker 1>But congratulations to her. Now. Of course, everything always has

0:51:36.920 --> 0:51:39.120
<v Speaker 1>to come with some drama. People are talking about the

0:51:39.239 --> 0:51:43.440
<v Speaker 1>fact that they say that Rihanna unfollowed her on Instagram

0:51:43.560 --> 0:51:45.080
<v Speaker 1>or here's what Cardi B has to say about that,

0:51:45.320 --> 0:51:48.120
<v Speaker 1>and a lot of people was doing rumors of that

0:51:48.280 --> 0:51:50.719
<v Speaker 1>a couple of celebrities they don't follow me, and that

0:51:50.920 --> 0:51:54.080
<v Speaker 1>was not even true. Those celebrities wasn't even following me.

0:51:54.400 --> 0:51:56.719
<v Speaker 1>Why can't I just stop making rumors trying to make

0:51:56.760 --> 0:52:00.480
<v Speaker 1>me look like I'm just over and everything y'all will

0:52:00.520 --> 0:52:04.440
<v Speaker 1>see when my time is over, like they wasn't even

0:52:04.440 --> 0:52:07.720
<v Speaker 1>following me in the first Damn Pardy gonna be fine. Okay,

0:52:07.880 --> 0:52:10.359
<v Speaker 1>I love Cardi B. I heard I love Cardi too.

0:52:10.400 --> 0:52:13.040
<v Speaker 1>We all love Cardy. I've heard new body music. Body

0:52:13.160 --> 0:52:15.480
<v Speaker 1>gonna be fine now. I shout out to Mike Kaiser

0:52:15.719 --> 0:52:17.800
<v Speaker 1>from Atlantic Records. He actually had on a Cardi B

0:52:17.880 --> 0:52:20.680
<v Speaker 1>T shirt over the weekend at the iHeartRadio Music Festival.

0:52:21.160 --> 0:52:22.799
<v Speaker 1>I guess she has the T shirt and it has

0:52:22.840 --> 0:52:25.279
<v Speaker 1>a not picture on the picture with the knot on

0:52:25.320 --> 0:52:28.000
<v Speaker 1>her head and it says I will not tolerate disrespect. Yeah,

0:52:28.000 --> 0:52:29.200
<v Speaker 1>I saw that. Let me let me let me tell

0:52:29.200 --> 0:52:33.920
<v Speaker 1>you what SI and short by the way, dropping as

0:52:34.440 --> 0:52:36.719
<v Speaker 1>football court, bro, you don't need to wear short. Fine

0:52:36.760 --> 0:52:40.520
<v Speaker 1>some sweatpantes. It actually sweatpants, but they just short kays

0:52:40.640 --> 0:52:43.719
<v Speaker 1>look good at some caprice him what else? What he

0:52:43.760 --> 0:52:46.320
<v Speaker 1>looked good in stopping this guy right here now. Cardie

0:52:46.360 --> 0:52:47.799
<v Speaker 1>heard I was doing a car shot and she said

0:52:48.040 --> 0:52:49.799
<v Speaker 1>she reached out in and said, I can use her

0:52:49.880 --> 0:52:51.879
<v Speaker 1>call for the car show. So good because car isn't

0:52:51.920 --> 0:52:54.520
<v Speaker 1>name Cardi. You can't say Cardi without so I appreciate

0:52:54.600 --> 0:52:58.200
<v Speaker 1>that Cardi B. All right. Well. She also has caused

0:52:58.440 --> 0:53:02.720
<v Speaker 1>the sale for the sex enhancement pill to actually soar.

0:53:03.320 --> 0:53:06.560
<v Speaker 1>She posted ladies, have you ever tried the pink Pussycat pill?

0:53:07.000 --> 0:53:09.480
<v Speaker 1>What to think about it? And she posted that and

0:53:09.680 --> 0:53:12.280
<v Speaker 1>when that happened, they normally sell about a one hundred

0:53:12.280 --> 0:53:14.680
<v Speaker 1>thousand units a month, but now after this they got

0:53:15.200 --> 0:53:19.279
<v Speaker 1>a ridiculous amount of set. What is the pink pussycat pill?

0:53:19.440 --> 0:53:21.600
<v Speaker 1>What is that? Don't you worry about? It's for women.

0:53:21.920 --> 0:53:23.239
<v Speaker 1>You want to try it and see what happens. I

0:53:23.280 --> 0:53:24.600
<v Speaker 1>don't know what it is. I'm just curious what does

0:53:24.640 --> 0:53:27.719
<v Speaker 1>it get your butt? For you? But it's a sex

0:53:27.960 --> 0:53:37.120
<v Speaker 1>contensual and all right, well, I guess you won't try that,

0:53:37.160 --> 0:53:39.800
<v Speaker 1>all right. Kevin Gates was on with Zane Low and

0:53:40.000 --> 0:53:44.680
<v Speaker 1>he talked about just basically battling inner demons and how

0:53:44.760 --> 0:53:47.520
<v Speaker 1>people have listened to his music as a form of therapy.

0:53:48.080 --> 0:53:51.440
<v Speaker 1>Here's what he has to say about rehab rehabits for quitters.

0:53:51.800 --> 0:53:55.840
<v Speaker 1>You have to replace negative habits with positive habits because

0:53:55.920 --> 0:53:58.439
<v Speaker 1>everything for me is a trigger. And there's so many

0:53:58.480 --> 0:54:01.040
<v Speaker 1>people that come to me and tell me your music

0:54:01.239 --> 0:54:03.960
<v Speaker 1>has helped me. So I'm not trying to be an

0:54:03.960 --> 0:54:07.320
<v Speaker 1>advocate for people that battle with depression, but I know

0:54:07.480 --> 0:54:10.719
<v Speaker 1>that I am all right. And he also goes on

0:54:10.920 --> 0:54:14.040
<v Speaker 1>to talk about for the first time, he feels truly free.

0:54:14.480 --> 0:54:17.080
<v Speaker 1>This is my first time truly being free. I always

0:54:17.120 --> 0:54:19.360
<v Speaker 1>had something over my head. I always was fighting a

0:54:19.440 --> 0:54:21.920
<v Speaker 1>court case. I always had a warrant or something pending.

0:54:22.120 --> 0:54:25.080
<v Speaker 1>It isn't my first time truly enjoying life for the

0:54:25.200 --> 0:54:27.960
<v Speaker 1>first time. And I've been taking a slow and I've

0:54:28.000 --> 0:54:31.480
<v Speaker 1>been enjoying the simplest things. I've been joining the small things,

0:54:31.920 --> 0:54:34.720
<v Speaker 1>and by focusing on enjoying the small things, it allows

0:54:34.800 --> 0:54:39.000
<v Speaker 1>you to be appreciative of the large things. What that says.

0:54:39.040 --> 0:54:40.440
<v Speaker 1>He hasn't been doing a lot of interviews since he

0:54:40.480 --> 0:54:43.279
<v Speaker 1>got out of jail, so it was good to hear

0:54:43.400 --> 0:54:46.880
<v Speaker 1>him out and about doing some more presses. Okay, all right,

0:54:46.960 --> 0:54:49.680
<v Speaker 1>well I'm Angela Yee and that is your ruined reports

0:54:50.160 --> 0:54:52.080
<v Speaker 1>to my homie Dion too. Man out there listening to

0:54:52.160 --> 0:54:55.080
<v Speaker 1>the La dropping the clues box with Dion make up

0:54:55.120 --> 0:55:01.640
<v Speaker 1>by Dion. But that's what you look. Yeah, you've been looking, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>Gonna stop dishes up. I'm gonna stop disrespecting. Doctor Natasha's saying,

0:55:05.760 --> 0:55:08.200
<v Speaker 1>okay and just find polished. Look I have all right,

0:55:08.320 --> 0:55:10.440
<v Speaker 1>but Dr may show you good when you look. Somebody

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<v Speaker 1>tweet at us about the flaming hot Cheetos story. Um

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<v Speaker 1>shout out to the Nightcap t LJ. She said, those

0:55:15.920 --> 0:55:17.800
<v Speaker 1>flaming hot Cheetos will do that. They messed up my

0:55:17.880 --> 0:55:20.160
<v Speaker 1>daughter's esophagus. If you read up on it, the red

0:55:20.239 --> 0:55:24.239
<v Speaker 1>dye is extremely damaging to your inside lining. Ye see,

0:55:25.000 --> 0:55:26.800
<v Speaker 1>little Zam might have really went to the hospital for

0:55:26.840 --> 0:55:29.319
<v Speaker 1>overdosing on red hot flaming Cheetos. We'll stop feeding your

0:55:29.400 --> 0:55:31.600
<v Speaker 1>kids red hot flaming Cheetos. First of all, you can't

0:55:31.640 --> 0:55:33.680
<v Speaker 1>die his own. What the hell flavor is red hot

0:55:33.719 --> 0:55:36.759
<v Speaker 1>flaming cheeto? Hot man? Shut up? What flavor is that?

0:55:37.280 --> 0:55:39.480
<v Speaker 1>Stop feeding your kids this processed food with a bunch

0:55:39.520 --> 0:55:41.120
<v Speaker 1>of diye on it, and then when they die, you're

0:55:41.120 --> 0:55:42.839
<v Speaker 1>looking crazy. I think he brought it on his own.

0:55:42.840 --> 0:55:44.719
<v Speaker 1>I don't think his parents fed it to him. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna tell you, your kids die off red hot flaming Cheetos.

0:55:47.560 --> 0:55:50.839
<v Speaker 1>They don't deserve a funeral. That's why would you say

0:55:50.880 --> 0:55:53.200
<v Speaker 1>a thing like that. Kids attack. There's a whole story

0:55:53.239 --> 0:55:55.800
<v Speaker 1>about it. Why flaming hot Cheetos are sending kids to

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<v Speaker 1>er Well? Take him off the freaking childs Then yew

0:56:00.080 --> 0:56:02.040
<v Speaker 1>Kind of should go off the show. I'm trying to

0:56:02.080 --> 0:56:04.840
<v Speaker 1>I've never heard of this before. But then again, cigarettes

0:56:04.920 --> 0:56:06.759
<v Speaker 1>cause cancer. People still smoke it. You should hold the

0:56:06.760 --> 0:56:09.319
<v Speaker 1>parents responsibility if your kids die from eating red hot

0:56:09.360 --> 0:56:13.360
<v Speaker 1>flame and Cheetos, all right, your stool red or orange,

0:56:13.719 --> 0:56:16.680
<v Speaker 1>that'd be kind of dope, and they and they might

0:56:16.760 --> 0:56:19.279
<v Speaker 1>mistakenly think it's a sign of blood, which means that

0:56:19.360 --> 0:56:21.480
<v Speaker 1>you get panicked and you go to the hospital and

0:56:21.600 --> 0:56:24.359
<v Speaker 1>they said, the good news is there is probably nothing wrong. Well,

0:56:24.640 --> 0:56:27.080
<v Speaker 1>now you got you got a reason explaining to your

0:56:27.120 --> 0:56:29.600
<v Speaker 1>wife while your your stool is get it out. Get

0:56:29.600 --> 0:56:31.960
<v Speaker 1>the joke out. I'm get just saying, get it out.

0:56:32.040 --> 0:56:33.640
<v Speaker 1>Now you have a reason next playing to your wife

0:56:33.680 --> 0:56:35.360
<v Speaker 1>while your stool is bloody. That's all. It would have

0:56:35.360 --> 0:56:36.680
<v Speaker 1>been funny the first time you got it out the

0:56:36.800 --> 0:56:38.799
<v Speaker 1>right way, And it's funny if you got it out

0:56:38.800 --> 0:56:40.279
<v Speaker 1>the right way. I was thinking of my mom making

0:56:40.480 --> 0:56:43.239
<v Speaker 1>I wasn't cursing then my mind I was cursing. I'm

0:56:43.239 --> 0:56:44.840
<v Speaker 1>being honest. I could hear it in my mind. Goodn't

0:56:44.840 --> 0:56:49.399
<v Speaker 1>this gracious? All right? Ernie relaxed? Who are you giving

0:56:49.440 --> 0:56:51.920
<v Speaker 1>your don't keep two over there? Listen four after the hour.

0:56:51.960 --> 0:56:55.280
<v Speaker 1>We need to have a quick conversation with everyone who's

0:56:55.360 --> 0:56:59.080
<v Speaker 1>acting like Nike is the new black power fish. All right, okay, please,

0:56:59.200 --> 0:57:01.799
<v Speaker 1>let's let's all get around sim A down a little

0:57:01.800 --> 0:57:04.480
<v Speaker 1>bit and have a conversation. Okay, okay, all right, we'll

0:57:04.480 --> 0:57:05.920
<v Speaker 1>get into that next. Keep it locked. Just a breakfast

0:57:05.920 --> 0:57:15.640
<v Speaker 1>club of morning time for Donkey of the Day, being

0:57:15.719 --> 0:57:18.080
<v Speaker 1>Dunky of the day, a little bit of a mixture,

0:57:18.200 --> 0:57:25.840
<v Speaker 1>so like an o the day. Now, I've been called

0:57:25.880 --> 0:57:27.880
<v Speaker 1>a lot of my twenty three years, but Donkey of

0:57:27.960 --> 0:57:30.080
<v Speaker 1>the Day is a new wife. Yes, it's Donkey of

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<v Speaker 1>the Day for Tuesday, September twenty fifth, is going to

0:57:32.640 --> 0:57:35.320
<v Speaker 1>all of you people out there who are acting like

0:57:35.440 --> 0:57:38.760
<v Speaker 1>the Nike logo is the new black power fish. Listen, man,

0:57:38.880 --> 0:57:41.880
<v Speaker 1>I support Colin kaepernickle heartily dropped one a clues bomb

0:57:41.920 --> 0:57:44.840
<v Speaker 1>for Colin Kaepernick. Uh. That's the man I consider a

0:57:44.960 --> 0:57:47.560
<v Speaker 1>friend and I am. I am extremely glad that Colin

0:57:47.640 --> 0:57:49.919
<v Speaker 1>did a business deal with Nike. I have been saying

0:57:50.000 --> 0:57:52.000
<v Speaker 1>on this radio for a while that the first company

0:57:52.040 --> 0:57:55.000
<v Speaker 1>who signs Colin to a sneaker our peril deal is

0:57:55.040 --> 0:57:57.400
<v Speaker 1>gonna win and win big. And we are seeing that

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<v Speaker 1>now because according to rute It. Since to Colinkaepernick Nike

0:58:00.680 --> 0:58:03.640
<v Speaker 1>AD was released, Nike has sold sixty one more merchandise

0:58:03.920 --> 0:58:07.040
<v Speaker 1>and added almost six billion dollars to the company's market value.

0:58:07.080 --> 0:58:09.920
<v Speaker 1>That would have happened with damn near any sneaker company

0:58:10.520 --> 0:58:14.040
<v Speaker 1>Colin would have signed to, except maybe Underarma. Right Underharma,

0:58:14.080 --> 0:58:15.840
<v Speaker 1>you need new designers for your sneakers in some of

0:58:15.880 --> 0:58:18.400
<v Speaker 1>your apparel because it's trash. But back to the matter

0:58:18.520 --> 0:58:21.760
<v Speaker 1>at hand, Colin Kaepernick is great for the business of Nike.

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<v Speaker 1>And I really feel in my heart that a lot

0:58:23.440 --> 0:58:26.440
<v Speaker 1>of you people have forgot that there is no permanent

0:58:26.600 --> 0:58:30.520
<v Speaker 1>friends are enemies when it comes to business, and that's all.

0:58:30.640 --> 0:58:32.640
<v Speaker 1>Nike is a business. But a lot of y'all out

0:58:32.680 --> 0:58:35.640
<v Speaker 1>here acting like knikehood. These are Dashiki's. Okay, y'all acting

0:58:35.720 --> 0:58:38.200
<v Speaker 1>like the Nike logo is the new symbol of resistance

0:58:38.240 --> 0:58:40.160
<v Speaker 1>in America, and I'm here to tell you that it's not.

0:58:40.720 --> 0:58:43.160
<v Speaker 1>It's the same old swooice it always was, Okay, but

0:58:43.520 --> 0:58:47.240
<v Speaker 1>you know it doesn't warrant churches like Metro Baptist Albany

0:58:47.280 --> 0:58:51.440
<v Speaker 1>in New York to have Nike Sunday. Oh yes, on

0:58:51.480 --> 0:58:55.080
<v Speaker 1>Sunday September thirty, if Metro Baptist Albany is having Nike Sunday,

0:58:55.320 --> 0:58:57.360
<v Speaker 1>where the minister will preach on the subject of being

0:58:57.440 --> 0:59:00.480
<v Speaker 1>more than conquerors. The flyer has an image of Colin

0:59:00.560 --> 0:59:03.200
<v Speaker 1>Kaepernick on it with the Nike logo, Like, come on, man,

0:59:03.320 --> 0:59:05.400
<v Speaker 1>knock it off. All right, you want to incorporate what

0:59:05.520 --> 0:59:07.600
<v Speaker 1>Colin has done in your sermon, great, but what the

0:59:07.720 --> 0:59:09.240
<v Speaker 1>hell Nike got to do with it? All right? They

0:59:09.560 --> 0:59:11.960
<v Speaker 1>just the corporation who's getting money from all sides. So

0:59:12.040 --> 0:59:14.760
<v Speaker 1>let's not forget. They still sponsor the NFL, which is

0:59:14.800 --> 0:59:18.800
<v Speaker 1>the same organization that haha, blackballed Kaepernick in the first place,

0:59:19.040 --> 0:59:21.040
<v Speaker 1>and as a right now, it's still blackballing him. Not

0:59:21.120 --> 0:59:23.520
<v Speaker 1>to mention go read an article on the scranger dot

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<v Speaker 1>com with the headline, despite progressive rebranding, Nike donates more

0:59:28.200 --> 0:59:30.600
<v Speaker 1>more to the GOP, all right. According to the Center

0:59:30.640 --> 0:59:34.680
<v Speaker 1>for Responsive Politics, during the twenty eighteen election cycle, Nike employees,

0:59:34.720 --> 0:59:37.480
<v Speaker 1>along with the company pat contributed over four hundred thousand

0:59:37.520 --> 0:59:40.560
<v Speaker 1>to Republican candidates and the GOP, compared with only one

0:59:40.680 --> 0:59:42.960
<v Speaker 1>hundred and twenty two thousand to the Democrats. That means

0:59:43.040 --> 0:59:46.080
<v Speaker 1>seventy eight percent of the company's political contributions were to

0:59:46.160 --> 0:59:48.160
<v Speaker 1>the GOP in twenty and eighteen. And look, call me

0:59:48.200 --> 0:59:51.360
<v Speaker 1>a hypocrite, but I'm still rock Knike. But I'm rocking

0:59:51.400 --> 0:59:53.960
<v Speaker 1>Knick for the same old reasons. I always rock Nike

0:59:54.120 --> 0:59:55.880
<v Speaker 1>because I like it, and I like it even more

0:59:56.000 --> 0:59:57.920
<v Speaker 1>now because they have signed Colin Kaepernick. But what I'm

0:59:57.960 --> 1:00:00.440
<v Speaker 1>not about to do is where Nike offits an award

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<v Speaker 1>show and act like it's made it can take off,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. I love Jennifer Lewis. That's not a shot

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<v Speaker 1>at her in any way, shape or form. I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>telling you what I'm not gonna do and how I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like people are going too far, because once again,

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<v Speaker 1>the night logo is not a sign of resistance in America.

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<v Speaker 1>And if we don't get this right and draw the line,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna have more misfires like the one we saw

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<v Speaker 1>Gray's Anatomy start. Jesse Williams make yesterday. Jesse is doing

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<v Speaker 1>a movie on Emmett Till title Till the Fourteen Year.

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<v Speaker 1>If you don't know who Emmetill is, He's the fourteen

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<v Speaker 1>year old black man who was murdered in the South

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<v Speaker 1>on August twenty eighth, nineteen fifty five, for allegedly whistling

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<v Speaker 1>at a white woman. Well, Jesse Williams decided to conflate

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<v Speaker 1>the two subjects, and he had Colin Kaepernick's night campaign

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<v Speaker 1>ads with picks of Emmettill's funeral. Okay, One pick in

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<v Speaker 1>particular had Emmet's mom, Mammy, standing over Emmet's casket with

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<v Speaker 1>the phrase believe in something, even if it means sacrificing everything. Jesse,

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<v Speaker 1>I expect more from you, my brother. All right, this

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<v Speaker 1>is the type of tone definis that happens in the

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<v Speaker 1>corporate boardroom full of Caucasians with no diversity in sight.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm meeting. The mayonnaise was heavy on these memes, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>I looked at these and said, no way, Jesse Williams

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<v Speaker 1>really sent these out. But he did, and the backlash

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<v Speaker 1>was swift, heavy and deserving. So Jesse pulled depicts all right.

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, Emmetill was not a sacrifice, and Mitail

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<v Speaker 1>was murdered by white supremacists, by racist bigot cracker ass

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<v Speaker 1>crack of white devils. Okay, he was brutally and unjustly killed.

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<v Speaker 1>There was no sacrifice, all right. His mom didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>that to happen. Her son wasn't an offering to God

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<v Speaker 1>or some divine supernatural figure. Okay, e Mittill wasn't killed

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<v Speaker 1>as a religious sacrifice, so it doesn't even make any sense.

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<v Speaker 1>But Jesse and his team got caught up in the

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<v Speaker 1>hype of everybody out here acting like the Nike logo

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<v Speaker 1>is the equivalent of a Malcolm X hat or an

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<v Speaker 1>African medallion. All Right, you want to make a statement

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<v Speaker 1>at an award show, were an actual arm with cap

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<v Speaker 1>shirt or a Black Lives Matter T shirt, I'll wait

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<v Speaker 1>until Colin's actual Nike line drops and wear that. Be

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<v Speaker 1>intentional with your messaging. Okay, those teams I just named

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<v Speaker 1>are actual signs of resistance. The Nike logo is not that,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. Nike is a business playing all sides because

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<v Speaker 1>they understand what we don't and that it's no permanent

1:02:07.400 --> 1:02:10.360
<v Speaker 1>friends our enemies in business. When I see that in

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<v Speaker 1>two ten, two twelve, and two thou fourteen election cycles,

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<v Speaker 1>Nike gave hundreds of thousands of dollars to Republicans, with

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<v Speaker 1>seventy six percent six fifty nine percent of their contributions

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<v Speaker 1>going to the GOP, and each of those cycles, respectively.

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<v Speaker 1>And when I see almost half of this year's donations

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<v Speaker 1>come from Nike found to Field Knight and his wife,

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<v Speaker 1>who have donated at least one point five million to

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<v Speaker 1>Oregon Republican candidate named Nut Buller, who supports lower taxes

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<v Speaker 1>for corporations and wants to in Oregon sanctuary law for

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<v Speaker 1>undocumented immigrants. How can you fools act like Nike is

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<v Speaker 1>anything but a corporation who wants to cover all bases.

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<v Speaker 1>They want all the money. Look, I'm all for supporting

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<v Speaker 1>progressive companies, but despite the Colin Kaepernick campaign, Nike, ain't it.

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<v Speaker 1>So please give everyone acting like Nike is the symbol

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<v Speaker 1>of resistance in America the biggest he are I ain't

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<v Speaker 1>going back and forth with you niggas about this either.

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<v Speaker 1>Look all right, well thank you for that donkey to day, sir.

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<v Speaker 1>Now when we come back, what happened Insecure you? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>our girl Issarey has a new man. It's well, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if that's really her boyfriend, but she was

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<v Speaker 1>dating someone and all of a sudden he went ghosts

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<v Speaker 1>Now we know he's alive and he's around because he's

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<v Speaker 1>been speaking to Left about an incident that happened when

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<v Speaker 1>she was driving her lift. But he's not answering her

1:03:29.760 --> 1:03:32.080
<v Speaker 1>cause she can't find him, so she's got to track him. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>she doesn't have to track him down, but clearly she

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<v Speaker 1>wants to. So a lot of things can be happening.

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<v Speaker 1>He could be in the hospital, he could be in jail.

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<v Speaker 1>But he's talking to Lift about the incident that happened

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<v Speaker 1>in the lift, so we know that he's been speaking

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<v Speaker 1>to someone. Man. I saw then episode when they smash.

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<v Speaker 1>She was out all day. You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Could have had a little older, could have turned him off.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying, but what are some reasons that people

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<v Speaker 1>go ghosts? When you've been dating, you feel like everything's

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<v Speaker 1>going really well, Why would a man disappear? First thing

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<v Speaker 1>that always comes in my head is he's got a

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<v Speaker 1>family at home, especially because they didn't know each other

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<v Speaker 1>that well, we're just talking about ghost in the relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. I can honestly say, in my later discretions

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<v Speaker 1>in life, even though I am of the faithful Black community, now,

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<v Speaker 1>that is exactly why I would clost to woman. I

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<v Speaker 1>have a whole family. I'm being If I'm being good

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<v Speaker 1>time it got hot. If I'm being gone, what happened

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<v Speaker 1>to Charlotte? Man? Yes, if I'm being would be like

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know he was. That is not true. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't tell that, lie. Women five out here in the

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<v Speaker 1>street ghosted. I did get ghosted by R Kelly. Great,

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<v Speaker 1>let's tell that story when we come out. Put a

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<v Speaker 1>period on that. Let's talk about it when we come back.

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<v Speaker 1>Eight hundred. See y'all make it sound so crazy, but

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<v Speaker 1>eight hundred, yes all, Kelly didn't got out. Don't tell

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<v Speaker 1>Tim about it when we come back. Eight hundred, y'all

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<v Speaker 1>a foul you I was young? Eight hundred getting good

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<v Speaker 1>young girl should say eight hundred and five, this is

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<v Speaker 1>getting good? Clean me right back. Man, if you have

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<v Speaker 1>a ghost, somebody call us now as the Breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 1>When you brainwashed the Breakfast Club, everybody is DJ Envy,

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<v Speaker 1>Angela Yee, Charlemagne, the guy. We all the Breakfast Club. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>if you just joined us, we're talking ghosting. Now, where

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<v Speaker 1>does this come from? You? This came from Insecure, but

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<v Speaker 1>it also comes from real life. Lisa just got ghosted

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<v Speaker 1>by a guy who appeared to really like her and

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<v Speaker 1>seemed to be a nice guy. What could have went wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, so we're asking eight hundred five A five

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<v Speaker 1>one oh five one? Did you ever have to go somebody? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you've been ghosted. I wasn't necessarily ghosted, right, So what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>What happened was this is worth about how old were you?

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<v Speaker 1>I must have been. I was like twenty or twenty one,

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<v Speaker 1>twenty one years old, fresh, young, tender, flown in Chicago

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<v Speaker 1>by Robert the pedal file Kelly Kelly did. He did

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<v Speaker 1>fly me to Chicago too, first class, first class. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>now it wasn't first class. He flew into Chicago middle seat,

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't the middle state? I have my own seat. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't say, was it your own seat? I say, was

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<v Speaker 1>it the middle? I think had a window? Laugh we were.

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<v Speaker 1>He flew me down there to do a mixtape. I

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<v Speaker 1>had to. We was gonna do a mixtape. And I

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<v Speaker 1>had the DJ function for after the all Kelly tape.

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<v Speaker 1>You tell them you do music for the R Kelly tape,

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<v Speaker 1>before the Kelly before we knew he was a predator. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>So he flew me out. I checked into the hotel,

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<v Speaker 1>and then when I got into the hotel, he never called.

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<v Speaker 1>He never called, Oh my gosh, had a free trip

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<v Speaker 1>to Chicago. Yeah, you just I just went. And this

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<v Speaker 1>was the time where I really didn't have money, so

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<v Speaker 1>it was like I could just be like, yo, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>out and buy my own ticket. So I had to

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<v Speaker 1>wait to my flight left Damna. Knowing all, Kelly probably

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<v Speaker 1>turned his assistant and said, how oldly again, that's too

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<v Speaker 1>old for me. You know how I like my tender Charlomagne. You,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure you go to somebody in your previous life. Listen,

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<v Speaker 1>let's be clear. I am a proud member of the

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<v Speaker 1>faithful Blackmail community. It's a gated community. You know what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. Um, I have sworn off all infidelities. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>three years sober, three years clean now. Um. But in

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<v Speaker 1>my day, okay, when I was a junkie, UM, I

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely did go women. And the reason I go to them,

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<v Speaker 1>it's because I got a whole family at home. But

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<v Speaker 1>did I say it's a number one reason that if

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<v Speaker 1>somebody says he goes to me, like, you know, he

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<v Speaker 1>probably got a whole family hot. Once the block get hot,

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<v Speaker 1>once the block get hot, and you know, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like the fat they came. My wife is barrel barreling

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<v Speaker 1>down on me. I'm out, you gotta burden down, saying

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<v Speaker 1>or if you as the other woman a little too attached.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying, I gotta do it's best

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<v Speaker 1>for me, but best for you and us and buy us.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean me and my family. Got to separate myself

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<v Speaker 1>from me but laying and she's like, our kids are

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be so cute. It's stupid stuff. You be in

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<v Speaker 1>the bed, you know what I mean. No, you're being

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<v Speaker 1>the bed and you know your your your your wife

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<v Speaker 1>will show you to the story. Yes, okay, you're being

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<v Speaker 1>the bed and your wife will call and you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying. She want to FaceTime and you FaceTime

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<v Speaker 1>and the girl you would to jump under the covers

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<v Speaker 1>and you like and then when you get off the FaceTime,

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<v Speaker 1>she'd be like that was good, right, And I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh no, no, no, I don't like that. This don't

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<v Speaker 1>it don't make me feel good. I'm gonna be totally

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<v Speaker 1>honest with you. So you would FaceTime with your wife out.

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<v Speaker 1>We were stupid, man, We was dumb. It was dumb.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I mean, listen, I mean I was a youn

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<v Speaker 1>be honest with you. Men are stupid. They are. No,

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<v Speaker 1>we are dumb. We are dumb. I've been looking at

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<v Speaker 1>dudes now getting caught up, man, and they'd be trying

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<v Speaker 1>to juggle all of these different women. I'm like, Yo,

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<v Speaker 1>they look so stupid to me now, I say to myself,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe that used to be me. Well you

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<v Speaker 1>know what? Or like, let's say you get too attached

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<v Speaker 1>to the girl's child and you're reading them a book

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<v Speaker 1>and they say good night, daddy. Oh so when another

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<v Speaker 1>woman's child is calling you daddy, it's time to go ghost?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you go? Then? You know what I'm cause I

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<v Speaker 1>don't hear you telling those stories. But you got some stories? No,

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<v Speaker 1>forget all telling all right, let's talk at let's got

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<v Speaker 1>the phone. Hello, Hello, Yeah, what's up? What's up? Man?

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<v Speaker 1>Why are you mad at him? Why are you so mad?

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<v Speaker 1>Why are you so aggressive? Who know you were aggressive

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<v Speaker 1>trying to get away from charlomne? I see okay, sir?

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<v Speaker 1>What's your name? Pat? What are the reasons that you've

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<v Speaker 1>gone ghost? Um? Ugly seat calls from the seat and

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<v Speaker 1>when the pomp pomers kicked you right when it ain't right,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta go. I told you that institute. He's saying

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<v Speaker 1>that dude was out all day long, so she might

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<v Speaker 1>have had a little valginal older. He might have had

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<v Speaker 1>a standches damn. That might be on the next episode.

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<v Speaker 1>Next episode might be all about how he didn't call

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<v Speaker 1>her back and she had a little smell. Hello, who's

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<v Speaker 1>this Alicia? Hey Alicia, you had to go somebody. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was one of my old co workers from years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>He sent me a picture and it was not impressive.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh he sent you a penis pick? Yeah, Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a little bit much. Yeah. To a question, if

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<v Speaker 1>it's not impressive, why would he send you a non

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<v Speaker 1>impressive penis picture. I don't even though I guess he

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<v Speaker 1>was confident in what he had, but it just wasn't stand. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>let me ask you a question. If it was up

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<v Speaker 1>to your standards, would you would you have appreciated that

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<v Speaker 1>penis picture. Yeah, I would have appreciated it if it

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<v Speaker 1>was up to standard. See what I'm saying. You had

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<v Speaker 1>to see him at work after that, Yeah, I did.

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<v Speaker 1>I kept it horridial, you know, but anything that didn't

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<v Speaker 1>have to do with work, it was no extra talking.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like this, And the reason I don't like

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<v Speaker 1>this because the penis pick was up to that, she

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't have been offended. That's sure, being that it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>up to stand that she's offended. I don't like that.

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<v Speaker 1>You should just be offended that he sent you a

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<v Speaker 1>penis picture. Period. Well, she liked it, she just didn't

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<v Speaker 1>like his I don't like that, you know because you

1:10:09.280 --> 1:10:12.760
<v Speaker 1>you know mind eight hundred five eight five one five one.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever ghosted somebody? And if you did, call

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<v Speaker 1>us up and let us know why. I had. It's

1:10:17.040 --> 1:10:22.920
<v Speaker 1>a breakfast single morning. He's quinting. Everybody's DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlemagne,

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<v Speaker 1>the guy we are the breakfast club now if he

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<v Speaker 1>just joined us with talking ghost sisters comes from insecure

1:10:27.400 --> 1:10:29.840
<v Speaker 1>explain easy, Yes, he said. Ray the guy that she

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<v Speaker 1>was dating ghosted her, and no one knows where he is.

1:10:33.320 --> 1:10:36.479
<v Speaker 1>What could have happened? Vaginal older, Um, he might have

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<v Speaker 1>a whole family. Whole family, know what I'm saying. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a lot of different reas. Sometimes X comes back

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<v Speaker 1>into your life where you were in another situation and

1:10:43.520 --> 1:10:45.479
<v Speaker 1>that starts to work out, So you gotta cut off

1:10:45.520 --> 1:10:48.360
<v Speaker 1>everything else that you just started. And we're also forgetting

1:10:48.840 --> 1:10:51.080
<v Speaker 1>something that people don't talk about it anymore. But he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't quit it as a real thing. He didn't quit

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<v Speaker 1>it as something. But it wasn't a hitting and quit situation.

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<v Speaker 1>They went out a few times, not on Insecure. Yeah

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<v Speaker 1>they did in Secure. They had to lift fry. They

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<v Speaker 1>went out and they jumped in the pool to the ass,

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<v Speaker 1>and then they hung out at Coachella. Yeah, but they

1:11:05.640 --> 1:11:07.840
<v Speaker 1>didn't actually go out on an official date. And then

1:11:07.880 --> 1:11:13.160
<v Speaker 1>they had that lunch date. That's more than just one time. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess. All right, Well, let's go to the phone lines. Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>who's this? Hey mama? With chat there we're talking insecure

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<v Speaker 1>and ghosting. You ever had to go somebody? Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>like the ultimate ghost though, like leave you alone because

1:11:27.880 --> 1:11:30.720
<v Speaker 1>like my regular relationship. And then like seven up later,

1:11:31.000 --> 1:11:36.280
<v Speaker 1>I felt like, hey, why are you here? Why are

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<v Speaker 1>you ghost? Oh? Because sometimes I need a little variety.

1:11:40.800 --> 1:11:45.240
<v Speaker 1>But they aren't necessarily important enough. So he just wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to play around a little bit and then get right back,

1:11:47.560 --> 1:11:50.240
<v Speaker 1>you know, and then one base acting like there's no

1:11:50.439 --> 1:11:53.439
<v Speaker 1>need to entertain, so they have to get put back

1:11:53.439 --> 1:11:55.720
<v Speaker 1>on themself and then you take them off later, don't come. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna tell you something. Don't get haunted. Don't get

1:11:57.840 --> 1:11:59.840
<v Speaker 1>haunted by ghost. You know what getting harnted by ghost is.

1:12:00.000 --> 1:12:02.240
<v Speaker 1>It's a Christmas path. You're sleeping around with, getting all

1:12:02.280 --> 1:12:08.479
<v Speaker 1>this variety, and then you get Lamydia. Hello, who's this?

1:12:09.040 --> 1:12:12.080
<v Speaker 1>You know this the boy j Big Drea out to

1:12:12.160 --> 1:12:14.439
<v Speaker 1>listenship A Jr. Big Dre. Which one is it? Bro

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<v Speaker 1>Ray day d d We're talking ghost to men. You

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<v Speaker 1>ever had to go somebody all day? Every day? Man?

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<v Speaker 1>I had to man. I was a dating this chick

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<v Speaker 1>like we had went out on two days, right, and

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<v Speaker 1>on the second day we was kind of getting hot

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<v Speaker 1>and heavy and everything, and you know, about to really

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<v Speaker 1>get into it, and we're kissing and grinding and she

1:12:35.200 --> 1:12:38.000
<v Speaker 1>likes his men and chests with both hands, pushes off

1:12:38.040 --> 1:12:39.880
<v Speaker 1>for me. Looked to me dead in my face. Yoke

1:12:40.160 --> 1:12:42.120
<v Speaker 1>looks at me dead in my face and say, don't

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<v Speaker 1>make me have to fuck you up, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean? So I was like after that, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, that's right here, it's not going any fun. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that didn't sound like you sent to me. Brother. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>glad you stopped right then and there gosh right, like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I just took it ass. You know, this

1:12:59.360 --> 1:13:01.680
<v Speaker 1>chick like here is a fighter. She's gonna really And

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<v Speaker 1>this was years ago, man, Like this was so long ago,

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<v Speaker 1>but it sounds kind of wow. Maybe she was just

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<v Speaker 1>into S and M and she was trying to test

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<v Speaker 1>the waters. What it was for me was, hey, if

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<v Speaker 1>you know you on some bs, you better stop now.

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<v Speaker 1>And I stopped now. Oh, I see what you're saying,

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<v Speaker 1>Like she was telling you, like, if I do this

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<v Speaker 1>to you, if we have sex, don't maybe have to

1:13:21.520 --> 1:13:23.480
<v Speaker 1>f you up because I'm gonna be all into your

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<v Speaker 1>Let me get out of here. Thank you, brother. Either way,

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<v Speaker 1>you made the right decision. What's the more at the story, guys?

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<v Speaker 1>The more of the story is, don't get haunted by ghosts?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, y'all doing all of this ghosting, But what

1:13:33.360 --> 1:13:35.639
<v Speaker 1>happens when you get Lamidia? What happens when you get herpes?

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<v Speaker 1>What happens when you get syphilist? All right? That's when

1:13:38.040 --> 1:13:40.320
<v Speaker 1>those ghosts come back to hunt you. Well, she had

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<v Speaker 1>to tell he here who says that when she gets ghosted,

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<v Speaker 1>she creates fake accounts to stop the person who ghosted her.

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<v Speaker 1>Why we bring Taylor here? Wish she had Taylor, bring

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<v Speaker 1>you if she has she has fake accounts on faces?

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<v Speaker 1>Coming run over here and tell we got Taylor coming

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<v Speaker 1>over here. Taylor be lying. I'm gonna tell y'all something.

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<v Speaker 1>Taylor got us some extreme stories that she'd be telling.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if this is true or not, because

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<v Speaker 1>she'd be walking around here a single as hell, but

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<v Speaker 1>she claimed to be breaking up with all of these

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<v Speaker 1>different dudes. Tell us about a ghost in scenario Taylor,

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<v Speaker 1>they said, Taylor, they said, you create different accounts when

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<v Speaker 1>people ghost you to make sure that they never go,

1:14:10.080 --> 1:14:14.360
<v Speaker 1>so they could never leave. What happened, you can never happen.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not what happened. I made an account and I

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<v Speaker 1>was in high school. Me and my friends did this

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<v Speaker 1>to see that the boyfriend I was dating at the time.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, he was acting right, So you know I

1:14:25.479 --> 1:14:31.680
<v Speaker 1>made a fake account account. You still have Facebook. I

1:14:31.720 --> 1:14:33.800
<v Speaker 1>haven't looked on it. It was just she knows me

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<v Speaker 1>faying with him to see if he was gonna actually

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<v Speaker 1>fair back. No, he was good. He was good. Some

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<v Speaker 1>girl I don't know my Space probably like this is

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<v Speaker 1>clearly well. I mean I did go some people too.

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<v Speaker 1>I go sit on some guy yesterday actually, Oh, I

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<v Speaker 1>hope he was listening and because he was too high,

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<v Speaker 1>I had time for it. And yes I just met him. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't know who told you that about

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<v Speaker 1>the single last idea? All right, what's the moil of

1:15:02.720 --> 1:15:05.080
<v Speaker 1>the story? Already had the morl of the story? I

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<v Speaker 1>got it? Well, yeah, he got rules on the way. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>let's talk about Kanye West and Nick Cannon. They had

1:15:10.840 --> 1:15:14.080
<v Speaker 1>gotten into it and it looks like they are making up.

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<v Speaker 1>So we'll tell you what happened. All right, We'll get

1:15:15.840 --> 1:15:17.560
<v Speaker 1>into all that when we come back. Keeping locked this

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<v Speaker 1>to Breakfast Club. Good morning the Breakfast Club. Let's get

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<v Speaker 1>to these rumors. Let's talk Pete Davidson. Listen, it's just

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<v Speaker 1>oh Gosport got Breakfast Club? All right, Pete Davidson, he

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<v Speaker 1>was on the Howard Sterns Show and he talks about

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<v Speaker 1>people wanting to kill him because he's with Ariana Grande.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's what he said, Yeah, I got a death fred

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<v Speaker 1>because I want someone wanted to shoot me in the face,

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<v Speaker 1>like a legitimate because she's so hot. Well, of course

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<v Speaker 1>John saying that is I was like, am my dad

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<v Speaker 1>ugly that people want to shoot me in the face?

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<v Speaker 1>Peza was really bad. Anxiety too, by the one, seriously

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<v Speaker 1>profn cluz bums from my guy Pete. I'll get Pete

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<v Speaker 1>over the weekend. Happy, Happy, related born day to his mother.

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<v Speaker 1>His mother just turned fifty. Salute to Amy. She had

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<v Speaker 1>a little shit dig at the house. Nice and his

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<v Speaker 1>cousin Dave I was over there. All right. Now, let's

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<v Speaker 1>talk about Nick Cannon and Kanye West making up. If

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<v Speaker 1>you guys recall, they had a bit of a back

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<v Speaker 1>and forth. It started with Nick Cannon saying this on

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<v Speaker 1>Everyday Struggle and again this is as a fan, just

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<v Speaker 1>stepping back, there's something personal going on in that world

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<v Speaker 1>to where Drake was like, because knowing Drake, Drake is

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<v Speaker 1>the most calculated dude, I think that he just leaked

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<v Speaker 1>his personal conversations enough. Yeah, there's something that Drake holds

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<v Speaker 1>over that whole family. And he's like, y'all don't want

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<v Speaker 1>me to let this out exactly. And I always think

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<v Speaker 1>about it. Who does Kanye West kid about in the

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<v Speaker 1>world beside himself? I was thinking the same all right. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>if you guys recall, Kanye responded to that interview by

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<v Speaker 1>saying this, first of all, I want to address Nick Cannon,

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<v Speaker 1>I understand that you used to date my wife, but

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<v Speaker 1>you know you're getting an of you don't mention my wife.

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<v Speaker 1>As someone brings my wife up, you say, hey, I

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<v Speaker 1>respect that, man. I'm not speaking on that. How the

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<v Speaker 1>next thing is with Drake. Now, if I wasn't in

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<v Speaker 1>a medicative state, I might have had the wherewith all

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<v Speaker 1>to say, hey, pusha, don't dish Drake on my beat.

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<v Speaker 1>The fact that it's people making rumors or thinking that

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<v Speaker 1>my wife and you're not saying nothing, and you're carrying

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<v Speaker 1>it like that, I don't sit well with my spirit. Well.

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<v Speaker 1>And here's the last piece of this puzzle, right, just

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<v Speaker 1>so you guys have a recap of everything that happened.

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<v Speaker 1>Nick Cannon responded to Kanye's request like this. First off,

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<v Speaker 1>let me say I'm welcome back, yay from the something place.

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<v Speaker 1>Nothing but love and respectful. You know I've always had that,

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<v Speaker 1>But I honestly gotta say this, my dude, I've never

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<v Speaker 1>said anything disrespectful or harmful to you in my opinion,

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<v Speaker 1>to your marriage or your union. I salute it, but

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<v Speaker 1>you're not gonna tell me what I can and what

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<v Speaker 1>I can't say. I'm a solid individual. Somebody asks me

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<v Speaker 1>a question, I'm an answer. Well, it looks like the

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<v Speaker 1>two of them have hash things out. They actually spoke

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<v Speaker 1>to each other and they're not gonna no longer beef

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<v Speaker 1>about this. Apparently they both said why they felt disrespected.

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<v Speaker 1>Kanye was upset about what Nick said to Glad TV

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<v Speaker 1>about Kim's body, and Nick was upset that Kanye told

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<v Speaker 1>him not to say what he wants to say in interview.

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<v Speaker 1>So now they're going to be mindful of one another

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<v Speaker 1>going forward, and potentially Kanye will come back on to

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<v Speaker 1>wilding out, so we'll see what happens. Mindfulness is very important,

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<v Speaker 1>man stuff. I was listening to Oprah Super Soul conversation

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<v Speaker 1>this morning. I forgot who the presence she had on there,

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<v Speaker 1>but the whole thing is about mindfulness. Mindfulness is very

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<v Speaker 1>very important. And if I can't tell you what to say,

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<v Speaker 1>can I ask you? Can I ask you? Can I say, yo?

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<v Speaker 1>Can you please stop talking about my wife? Yeah? You

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<v Speaker 1>could ask me. Yeah, you can't tell me say, but

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<v Speaker 1>can I ask yo? I would appreciate if you would

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<v Speaker 1>please stop talking about my wife? Can you do that

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<v Speaker 1>for me? All right now? When Jennie Mayer was on

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<v Speaker 1>the rail. She talked about being sexually abused by a

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<v Speaker 1>family member, and she said it started when she was

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<v Speaker 1>just nine years old. Here's what she had to say

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<v Speaker 1>as a person who was sexually assaulted at a young

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<v Speaker 1>age by somebody very close to me. I remember the

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<v Speaker 1>trifecta that I would continuously process, which is fear, anger, shame, Fear?

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<v Speaker 1>What am I getting? What's going to happen to our

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<v Speaker 1>family if I say something? And anger? Why did you

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<v Speaker 1>just sit there? Why did you let this go on

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<v Speaker 1>for four years? How long with you? I was nine

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<v Speaker 1>and it went on until I was about twelve. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't tell anybody because this was somebody I really cared about.

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<v Speaker 1>If somebody who was a stranger did it to me,

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<v Speaker 1>oh I know what to do. That's one of my

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<v Speaker 1>biggest fans as a father, that somebody touches my daughter

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<v Speaker 1>and she's scared to tell me or she doesn't tell me.

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<v Speaker 1>So I try to have that conversation with her every day.

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<v Speaker 1>Is you know about everything? Oh? I tell my daughter

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<v Speaker 1>that all the time. My oldest he's ten, and I

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<v Speaker 1>always say, when somebody tells you not to tell your parents,

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<v Speaker 1>tell me, that's when you definitely come tell her. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But for Jennie May in particular, she was saying it

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<v Speaker 1>was somebody she cared about, and it was kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like a Stockholm syndrome thing there too, she said, because

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it wasn't a stranger, it was somebody that

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<v Speaker 1>she cared about, and she said, she just froze. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>for me, it was somebody in my family when I

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<v Speaker 1>was eight, but I processed it different because I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>even realize that it was something bad and telling my

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<v Speaker 1>twenties and still really processed it now and when I

1:20:10.439 --> 1:20:12.320
<v Speaker 1>when I was in my thirties. So a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people talk about speaking up. I'm just thinking about it.

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<v Speaker 1>And people talk about speaking up and speaking out about things.

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<v Speaker 1>But people have to process things in their own time

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<v Speaker 1>and when they're ready to do that. Hey man. For me,

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<v Speaker 1>it was Tyler Perry on Oprah. When I saw Tyler

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<v Speaker 1>on Oprah and Tyler was on there crying about getting

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<v Speaker 1>touched by a woman in his family, I said, what

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<v Speaker 1>is wrong with him? And then I had to start thinking, well,

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<v Speaker 1>what is wrong with me? Right that I don't react

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<v Speaker 1>to it in that way? All right, Well, let me

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<v Speaker 1>anew la yee, And that is your rumor report and

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<v Speaker 1>as a father, that's why I picked the schools that

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<v Speaker 1>has camera so I could watch the cameras all day

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<v Speaker 1>and just check. And I got cameras in the crave

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<v Speaker 1>just in case. Anyway, that's just me, all right. Up

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<v Speaker 1>next the People's Choice Mix Revote. We'll see you tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 1>Whose birthday is it? All? It's Will Smith's birthday includes

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<v Speaker 1>Will Smith. He turned fifty to day and also tas birthday,

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<v Speaker 1>one of my top seven favorite rappers of all time,

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<v Speaker 1>dropping a clues box for Clipper. So we're gonna get

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<v Speaker 1>on a tr mix and a Will Smith minna say,

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<v Speaker 1>Donald Glove and Hunt Today's birthday. We played Donald Glover

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<v Speaker 1>all the time. I lay the Summertime Joint to Chimbino

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<v Speaker 1>aka Donald Glover, who performed at the iHeartRadio Music Festival.

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<v Speaker 1>Even though we saw him go buy in a wheelchair

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<v Speaker 1>and a leg Bracey removed that before he got on stage,

1:21:24.439 --> 1:21:26.840
<v Speaker 1>they said there were some type of injury to his foot.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, did he talk? No, we didn't even see him.

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<v Speaker 1>Besides when he rolled past, we were working. All right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>let's get this mix, so let me know your favorite

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<v Speaker 1>TI joint. Let's go