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Speaker 1: Ready, Tanya. No, Becca, I'm ready a day. I'll tell

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Speaker 1: you that. Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and I Heart

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Speaker 1: Radio podcast. Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. Yes we are.

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Speaker 1: I just did this on my Insta story so you'll

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Speaker 1: see it soon. Um, how is everyone's weekend? So good?

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Speaker 1: So good? If I'm sorry to jump in, if I

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Speaker 1: may my weekend, we almost had the ultimate parent dream night.

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Speaker 1: What does that mean? Both of our kids away at

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Speaker 1: sleepovers and we did have partial because we had a

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Speaker 1: we didn't get to sleep in part of the date night.

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Speaker 1: But we had a nice night. So you had a

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Speaker 1: good date night. We had a very good date night. Yes,

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Speaker 1: thank you for asking. Thank you. I feel people don't

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Speaker 1: babysitters taking them on all right, Easton, what about you?

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Speaker 1: My mom was in town and she got to see

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Speaker 1: I haven't seen her this weekend. I looked at her

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Speaker 1: Mojojo Mojo is back. I get a sound effect that

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Speaker 1: ding ding ding ding ding dinging ding ding ding anyone Okay, um,

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Speaker 1: that's mainly my the one goal in life these days,

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Speaker 1: needy on what day was that? That Saturday? And I

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Speaker 1: I am not gonna lie. I was complete zombie this weekend.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if there's that much pressure on friendships.

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Speaker 1: It's Becca, Tanya, Mark Easton, Amy. We're all here, the whole, Dame.

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Speaker 1: I'm so excited. How's it going good? How are you good?

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Speaker 1: How was your weekend? Super good? Super for the first time.

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Speaker 1: Where do you live? Um? I live in Corona fun.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so it's you. It's super warm today then right,

426
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Speaker 1: oh man, and everything it's good. Yes, my Girlfriendssae actually

427
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Speaker 1: lives in l A. Oh wait, we're gonna call Carissa.

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Speaker 1: Yeah wait tell us about yeah, tell us, Yeah, we

429
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Speaker 1: want to know about Carrissa. Like how did you all

430
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Speaker 1: become friends? What's the backstory? Yeah, we've been best friends

431
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Speaker 1: since high school. Um. We met in choir actually, um,

432
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Speaker 1: and we did like tourism stuff with our choir group.

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Speaker 1: And then we say, this is Carissa. Hi Carissa, Um,

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Speaker 1: what company are you with? DNA Stacy? Oh Hi, this

435
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Speaker 1: is Beck Antonia from scrubbing in Oh and you and

436
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Speaker 1: Beggin's on the phone too. Oh my goodness, what is

437
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Speaker 1: this about. We just were calling to say, hey, we

438
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Speaker 1: heard you love the podcast. I'm best kidding me. Oh,

439
00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:44,040
Speaker 1: you're the sweetest and we heard that your boyfriend moved

440
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Speaker 1: away and that you're kind of sad about it, and

441
00:23:45,960 --> 00:23:48,199
Speaker 1: we just wanted to send some love your way. That

442
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Speaker 1: is so sweet. I know. I just visited him in

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Speaker 1: San Francisco and I had a fake bine. I was

444
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Speaker 1: so sad. Was that the first was at the first

445
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Speaker 1: visit up there since he moved. It was the first

446
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Speaker 1: he moved away, like a month out. So wait, So

447
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Speaker 1: here's my question, because I was also in a long

448
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Speaker 1: distance relationship. Do you keep anything like what do you

449
00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:08,000
Speaker 1: keep of his like in your bed? Do you keep

450
00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:10,280
Speaker 1: his clone? Like I used to keep his clone. I

451
00:24:10,280 --> 00:24:12,560
Speaker 1: would spray my pillows with it when I was missing him. Really,

452
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Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like that's the thought that

453
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Speaker 1: wasn't literally about to be my next statement. It was like, Wow,

454
00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:22,920
Speaker 1: nothing's more Tanya than that. I love the most Tanya.

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Speaker 1: In fact, it would be like, no, thanks, I don't

456
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Speaker 1: know any of his stuff. Yeah, Like, I'm fine on

457
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Speaker 1: my own. He's gone. I finally have the space and

458
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Speaker 1: myself totally love, like wearing one of his t shirts

459
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Speaker 1: to bed because they're always the comfiest when they're really big.

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Speaker 1: That's cute. So is the plan? Are you thinking you'll

461
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Speaker 1: move up there or are you seeing like how the

462
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Speaker 1: promotion goes and maybe he'll come back? Yes, exactly like

463
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Speaker 1: you might come back that. We're just waiting for that. Okay,

464
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Speaker 1: how old are you? How old are you? Crisa? I'm

465
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Speaker 1: seven and you'll have been best friend since high school.

466
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Speaker 1: We have four of us. There's four friends that are

467
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Speaker 1: like in the group. Yeah, asked for Gina and Hannah.

468
00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:07,960
Speaker 1: Also we call each other the sisterhood. Wait, Megan, did

469
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Speaker 1: you tell them how you started listening and like what happened? No,

470
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Speaker 1: I didn't tell us what happened. So when we were

471
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Speaker 1: driving up to visit um for the fourth friends, she

472
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Speaker 1: lives up in like Tahoe and like back in high school,

473
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Speaker 1: we made a rule like you can never live more

474
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Speaker 1: than what was our radio for four hours away, and

475
00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:29,080
Speaker 1: she moved like whatever eight or nine hours away. So

476
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Speaker 1: we were so sad she moved away. So when we're

477
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Speaker 1: driving up, there's the three of us and we listened

478
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Speaker 1: to Your Guys podcast. For like five hours because I

479
00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:39,760
Speaker 1: hadn't heard he's been going on for a few weeks.

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Speaker 1: So we listened to like three or four and I

481
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Speaker 1: was like, oh my gosh, that there us so fun

482
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Speaker 1: I know it was her favorite, so yeah, I know,

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Speaker 1: I know. Megan said she's more of a mark out

484
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Speaker 1: of all the crew, which I respect. We were like, oh,

485
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Speaker 1: so she's emotionally balanced, is what you're saying. He's a

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Speaker 1: hundred of her. That's the mark. Is what are you? Chris?

487
00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:06,520
Speaker 1: Who are you? Um? I'm probably mixed of back to Antonio,

488
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Speaker 1: both of you. Okay, all right, what about the other two?

489
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Speaker 1: Do you have any diagnosis for them? What do you think? Megan?

490
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:19,800
Speaker 1: And it's probably like a mark to uh. They're both married,

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Speaker 1: so I don't know, not emotionally emotionally stable, emotionally stable

492
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Speaker 1: humans listen to the Yeah, love that's good. God know,

493
00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:32,040
Speaker 1: maybe we can learn a thing or two from them. Totally.

494
00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:34,919
Speaker 1: We always like listen and then we talk about it

495
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Speaker 1: every week. So we're listening on Monday after work and

496
00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:42,320
Speaker 1: then Tuesday's making an idbrief every single week. I love

497
00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:46,720
Speaker 1: this so much. That is so funny. Yeah, And then

498
00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:49,119
Speaker 1: my sister listens to it too, so then still texted

499
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Speaker 1: to be like, oh my god, did you listen to

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Speaker 1: this minute? You'll like, go listen to it. Well, they're

501
00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:56,080
Speaker 1: all going to be very excited this week. Oh I

502
00:26:56,160 --> 00:27:01,360
Speaker 1: know they're gonna die a birthday today. How how happy?

503
00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:05,880
Speaker 1: Half birth loving? I'll celebrate that. So Megan has been

504
00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:07,639
Speaker 1: telling me to answer the phone for I don't know

505
00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:11,200
Speaker 1: how long, and every single time I get so mad

506
00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:13,159
Speaker 1: at her. I'm like, why can't you tell me what

507
00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:16,200
Speaker 1: it's about, because like you'll see, you'll be happy, I promise,

508
00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:18,679
Speaker 1: And I'm like, what are you talking about? Why do

509
00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:20,200
Speaker 1: I have to answer in the middle of the day

510
00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:23,480
Speaker 1: at work? Oh? Well, we're so happy that you answered.

511
00:27:23,520 --> 00:27:26,239
Speaker 1: And Megan, thank you so much for emailing us. We

512
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Speaker 1: really really appreciate you guys so much. Have no idea,

513
00:27:29,200 --> 00:27:31,840
Speaker 1: so good talking to y'all. It was so fun. It

514
00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:34,719
Speaker 1: was so fun. I feel so natural. I know, it

515
00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:40,080
Speaker 1: feels like we should be part of the sisterhood. All right,

516
00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:42,359
Speaker 1: Well y'all have yeah, go ahead. We're waiting for you

517
00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:44,720
Speaker 1: guys to do something live so we can come to that.

518
00:27:45,320 --> 00:27:50,760
Speaker 1: We're so just for all your listeners. We're excited about that.

519
00:27:50,760 --> 00:27:53,000
Speaker 1: When it if it happens good. It's going to happen

520
00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:55,600
Speaker 1: so good. We'll be on the lookout for that. And

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00:27:55,640 --> 00:27:57,719
Speaker 1: I'll also be on the lookout because I live in Venice,

522
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Speaker 1: so I'll probably run into you on the street one day. Perfect,

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00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:07,960
Speaker 1: I hope, so than have a good week, bye bye.

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00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:11,280
Speaker 1: It's very true. I've been running into podcast listeners all

525
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:15,400
Speaker 1: over the place Disneyland. One of them was at church yesterday. Yeah,

526
00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:17,960
Speaker 1: they're all over l A. I know. It's nice that

527
00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:20,199
Speaker 1: a lot of people come that. When people like have

528
00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:22,080
Speaker 1: come up to me in public, it's they're like, I

529
00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:24,399
Speaker 1: love the podcast. It used to just be Bachelor, and

530
00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:27,960
Speaker 1: I feel like, oh if something else I have something

531
00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:31,960
Speaker 1: else under my belt? Are we gonna wait to do

532
00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:33,960
Speaker 1: our next surprise? We can try one more. I think

533
00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:37,800
Speaker 1: we have time. You know. Should we talk about some

534
00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:41,840
Speaker 1: beverages that would go great right about now? Yeah? I agree,

535
00:28:41,960 --> 00:28:45,560
Speaker 1: because what's better with friends than a glass of wine?

536
00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:49,720
Speaker 1: Not much, not much? Um. We have talked about Wink before.

537
00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:54,200
Speaker 1: It is such a brilliant idea. It is a wine

538
00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:58,160
Speaker 1: subscription where they send you wine straight to your door. Yeah,

539
00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:02,600
Speaker 1: I mean again and again. Becca really, Um, she's one

540
00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:04,600
Speaker 1: of those I feel like you're such a millennial in

541
00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:06,480
Speaker 1: the fact that anything that you can get delivered to

542
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:10,280
Speaker 1: you you opt in for, like anything, There's been people

543
00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:11,720
Speaker 1: in the past to have been on their couches so

544
00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:13,840
Speaker 1: long they actually grow into the couch and have to

545
00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:17,040
Speaker 1: be surgically removed from it. I feel like, most likely, Listen,

546
00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:21,320
Speaker 1: I was out this week, so maybe I've turned over

547
00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:24,120
Speaker 1: a new leaf. But listen, I still like my groceries

548
00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:26,680
Speaker 1: and my wine being delivered to me. That won't change

549
00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:28,760
Speaker 1: whether I leave the couch or not. And the best,

550
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Speaker 1: I mean, the best part for me is that these

551
00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:33,440
Speaker 1: wines started just thirteen dollars a bottle. That's such a

552
00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:36,280
Speaker 1: good deal, I know. And they do a taste test

553
00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:38,920
Speaker 1: so when you you have like a little palette profile

554
00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:41,040
Speaker 1: quiz when you go on the site and they ask

555
00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:44,640
Speaker 1: you questions like, um, how do you take your coffee?

556
00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:47,080
Speaker 1: Certain things like that, so they can match you with

557
00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:49,560
Speaker 1: the wine that they're going to send you. And if

558
00:29:49,600 --> 00:29:51,760
Speaker 1: they send you a bottle that you were just like

559
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:53,960
Speaker 1: I'm not really into it, you send it back and

560
00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:55,600
Speaker 1: they'll replace it. I don't even know if you have

561
00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:57,400
Speaker 1: to do you have to send it back, well, they'll

562
00:29:57,440 --> 00:29:59,760
Speaker 1: just replace me because you would have drink it. That's

563
00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:01,720
Speaker 1: when actually right, So you're not sending it back, but

564
00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:04,360
Speaker 1: they will replace it. Please don't send your wine back

565
00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:07,840
Speaker 1: bottle and have them drink wine back. Thank you? Yeah,

566
00:30:08,400 --> 00:30:12,920
Speaker 1: um okay, called out um each mind that they have

567
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Speaker 1: new wines. They have the super popular Summer Water Rose,

568
00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:18,560
Speaker 1: which is one of my favorites because I love rose.

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Speaker 1: And there's no membership fees. You can skip any month,

570
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Speaker 1: cancel any time, which I love. Yeah, but why would

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00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:25,800
Speaker 1: you know? Yeah, but what if there really want to

572
00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:28,640
Speaker 1: cleanse or something, or if you're like going out of town? True?

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Speaker 1: Um okay, so if you want to I know that

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00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:33,480
Speaker 1: we both have talked about we struggle like going to

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Speaker 1: the storm picking out wine. It's the worst because you're

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00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:42,880
Speaker 1: not a Somalia, not at all. Um. Discover great wine today.

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Speaker 1: Go to try wink dot com slash Rebecca. You'll get

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Speaker 1: twenty dollars off of your first shipment. Again, that's t

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Speaker 1: R y W I n C dot com slash Becca.

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Speaker 1: That's b E c C A for twenty dollars off.

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Speaker 1: One more time. Try wink dot com slash Alright. This

582
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:04,040
Speaker 1: next one is a little bit more a risky one

583
00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:08,760
Speaker 1: because uh, we don't have the emailers number, but we

584
00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:10,480
Speaker 1: do have the friends numbers. We can try her and

585
00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:13,240
Speaker 1: see what happens. This is from Rachel. She says, Tanya

586
00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:15,000
Speaker 1: and beccam my best friend. Alyssa is the reason I

587
00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:17,480
Speaker 1: started listening to Scrubbing In. She wouldn't stop talking about

588
00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:19,400
Speaker 1: how relatable you two are and how she's obsessed with

589
00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:22,360
Speaker 1: the podcast. She's a p a F physicians assistant and

590
00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:24,800
Speaker 1: super into your graves references in medical talks where I

591
00:31:24,840 --> 00:31:27,520
Speaker 1: started listening and now I'm obsessed too. After dating a

592
00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:29,760
Speaker 1: horrible guy on and off for almost ten years, Elizza

593
00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:32,480
Speaker 1: finally broke off the relationship for good and met the

594
00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:35,560
Speaker 1: most incredible guy, Scott. They hit it off instantly and

595
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:38,320
Speaker 1: didn't take long for him to propose. They are the sweetest,

596
00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:40,880
Speaker 1: most loving, and genuine couple I have ever met, and

597
00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:44,920
Speaker 1: that's majorly downplaying how truly amazing they are. I've never

598
00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:47,640
Speaker 1: seen a couple more perfect for each other. We're planning

599
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Speaker 1: a Lissa's bachelorette party in the Finger Lakes, New York

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00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:53,640
Speaker 1: sometime in April. This is my official invitation for your

601
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:55,400
Speaker 1: girls to join us. I know it's a long shot.

602
00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:57,280
Speaker 1: But if you can just call to congratulators, she would

603
00:31:57,280 --> 00:31:59,000
Speaker 1: freak out. Please help me out. I'd love to be

604
00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:01,120
Speaker 1: able to see her reaction to hearing your voices or

605
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:05,840
Speaker 1: you know, maybe tasting some wine with you from Wink.

606
00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:08,840
Speaker 1: But let's try, or I mean, we're gonna try, a Lissa.

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00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:10,240
Speaker 1: I don't know if you'll answer or not because we're

608
00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:15,360
Speaker 1: calling on random, so we don't have we don't have Rachel. Correct. Oh,

609
00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:20,920
Speaker 1: I guess she'll be able to hear it on the podcasts. Wait,

610
00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 1: let's pretend we're somebody else, so like, hello, Hi, is

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Speaker 1: a Lissa there? Yes, this is hi Ellis. I'm so sorry.

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00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:36,200
Speaker 1: Is this a bad time for you? It's fine, it's

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00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:39,920
Speaker 1: a good time. Okay. My name is Tiffany and I

614
00:32:39,960 --> 00:32:43,080
Speaker 1: was just calling to see if you enjoy wine on

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00:32:43,120 --> 00:32:47,800
Speaker 1: the weekends. Yeah, you do, because somebody told me that

616
00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:51,320
Speaker 1: you had a bachelrette party coming up. Is that true?

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Speaker 1: Oh that's really cool. Can you hang tight one second,

618
00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:57,120
Speaker 1: my assistant needs to talk to you. Oh, hi, Hi,

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Speaker 1: this is back. This is back a Telly Um and

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Speaker 1: Tony rad Are you say your your friend Rachel emailed

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Speaker 1: us and said that you sorry. I tried so hard

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00:33:15,560 --> 00:33:17,680
Speaker 1: to pretend. I was like a telemarketer, but I had

623
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Speaker 1: no idea what to do with it. I didn't not

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Speaker 1: tell marketers had assistance. I was like, oh, no, what's

625
00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:25,800
Speaker 1: funny is because someone would be calling me about a

626
00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:32,480
Speaker 1: wine tour today. Oh gosh, I should have kept it going.

627
00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:37,600
Speaker 1: I thought you were. That is hilarious. That is a chance,

628
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Speaker 1: so funny. Wait, Alyssa, we're so excited that you're getting married.

629
00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:47,960
Speaker 1: No congratulations right now. Um yeah, we heard that you

630
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Speaker 1: have met your like with the most amazing guy ever,

631
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:54,000
Speaker 1: now engaged to him. Yeah, he is amazing. Can you

632
00:33:54,040 --> 00:33:59,280
Speaker 1: tell us how you did that? I'm really not sure how,

633
00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:03,560
Speaker 1: but he is great. He proposed me after ten months

634
00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:06,120
Speaker 1: of dating. Oh so it was like you knew. You

635
00:34:06,360 --> 00:34:09,239
Speaker 1: both just knew. We both knew after a third day.

636
00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:12,799
Speaker 1: Oh how did you meet? What was the contract? At

637
00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:19,280
Speaker 1: a Man Morris concert? Country That's where you've got to go, Tanya,

638
00:34:19,360 --> 00:34:23,240
Speaker 1: the country boys. I'm telling her, listen, this is so crazy,

639
00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:24,960
Speaker 1: because I was actually just telling Becca was like, I

640
00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:27,360
Speaker 1: think when I meet my dude, it's going to be fast,

641
00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:30,640
Speaker 1: like ten months. I was pretty good. Yes, if I

642
00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:32,760
Speaker 1: may jump in. We are joined by a special guest.

643
00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:37,240
Speaker 1: Rachel is on the phone. Oh, Rachel is on the phone.

644
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:46,520
Speaker 1: Like we were like we couldn't get Rachel, but we

645
00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:48,839
Speaker 1: were like, let's just try and cold call. Listen, see

646
00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:58,880
Speaker 1: what happens. I like, I believe. So So where do

647
00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:07,280
Speaker 1: you all live? Um? Yeah, so you're having a big

648
00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:12,080
Speaker 1: Oh yeah he got excited or yeah she's really excited.

649
00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:15,239
Speaker 1: The Bachelor at weekend is what did this weekend? Or

650
00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 1: actually make? Oh? Make fit Sinco Mayo? How fun are

651
00:35:21,040 --> 00:35:28,560
Speaker 1: you guys? Part of our Facebook group over Rachel? You are? Yes?

652
00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:30,960
Speaker 1: Will you post pictures of your bachelor of this Bachelor

653
00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:33,480
Speaker 1: at weekend in the group so we can also Ya,

654
00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:37,759
Speaker 1: this is so fun. I'm so happy it worked out.

655
00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:41,279
Speaker 1: I know, I like, don't I don't want to go there,

656
00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:42,879
Speaker 1: but like I kind of want to go there with

657
00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:46,560
Speaker 1: your with your tenure on and off, terrible relationship. What

658
00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:49,640
Speaker 1: made you realize that you wanted to get out? We

659
00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:55,440
Speaker 1: do want me? Melissa? Yeah? Yes, Um, I just knew

660
00:35:55,480 --> 00:35:57,440
Speaker 1: that he was not the one for me. Um, there

661
00:35:57,520 --> 00:35:59,560
Speaker 1: was always like doubts in my mind in the back

662
00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:01,440
Speaker 1: of my head where I just wasn't sure and that

663
00:36:01,520 --> 00:36:05,279
Speaker 1: I questioned it got it and they have a lot

664
00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:10,080
Speaker 1: of words that I could use. Oh he didn't treat

665
00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:14,319
Speaker 1: you right? Okay, No, no doubts with Scott, Oh absolutely

666
00:36:14,320 --> 00:36:18,520
Speaker 1: not never once picture, but I spent of them. Are

667
00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:23,360
Speaker 1: literally like Barbie and Ken. Wait, Alyssa, do you collect

668
00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:28,640
Speaker 1: like Scott products like the toilet paper and Tanya, what

669
00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:31,640
Speaker 1: the heck? I dated a Scott in high school and

670
00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:34,759
Speaker 1: I used to like only buy, like only make my

671
00:36:34,840 --> 00:36:37,279
Speaker 1: parents buy like Scott toilet paper and like all the

672
00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:40,840
Speaker 1: Scott products. Once again, that is so Tanya. Do you

673
00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:44,960
Speaker 1: not do that, Elissa, I used toilet paper. See, it's

674
00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 1: not a coincident. I don't. Yeah, that little it's a

675
00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:54,560
Speaker 1: little weird, Tanya. I think your future husband will appreciate that.

676
00:36:57,360 --> 00:37:03,239
Speaker 1: You're You're just a gym, you know, one of a kind. Well,

677
00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:05,239
Speaker 1: this was so fun. Well, we wish we could come

678
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:07,600
Speaker 1: to New York, but we were hoping this would be enough,

679
00:37:07,719 --> 00:37:09,320
Speaker 1: you know, since we can't make it out there a

680
00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:17,560
Speaker 1: wedding present ever. Congratulation of course, we're so happy for you.

681
00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:20,600
Speaker 1: It gives us hope that we'll meet someone and we'll

682
00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:23,200
Speaker 1: know right off the bat. Yeah you will, and you

683
00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:25,960
Speaker 1: guys just wait for that person. I'm serious. When you know,

684
00:37:26,200 --> 00:37:29,680
Speaker 1: you will know best. I found the picture that Rachel

685
00:37:29,719 --> 00:37:31,200
Speaker 1: sent us. Do you mind if we posted in the

686
00:37:31,200 --> 00:37:39,759
Speaker 1: Facebook group. It's up to you, okay, Facebook. Yeah, that's

687
00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:42,239
Speaker 1: like the only thing I use Facebook for anymore, to

688
00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:45,880
Speaker 1: look on the group. So all right, well, thank you

689
00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:55,160
Speaker 1: for talking. Oh my gosh, he's a you're both soul

690
00:37:56,480 --> 00:38:01,279
Speaker 1: serially perfect, like like I gotta get some babies out

691
00:38:01,320 --> 00:38:08,279
Speaker 1: real quick. Yeah. Yes, Well we're so happy that you

692
00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:09,719
Speaker 1: answered and that we get to talk to you for

693
00:38:09,719 --> 00:38:13,319
Speaker 1: a little bit. Yeah, yes, excited. All right, we love

694
00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:18,680
Speaker 1: you guys. Yeah, thank you for listening. Love y'all. Bye.

695
00:38:19,040 --> 00:38:21,600
Speaker 1: I mean this list the listeners to this podcast are

696
00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:24,560
Speaker 1: the best people. They're like we should send them. We

697
00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:26,560
Speaker 1: should send like a video for them to play on

698
00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:29,840
Speaker 1: their backs. I was gonna say, or we should send like, um,

699
00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:33,000
Speaker 1: like a gift or something that's there get like and

700
00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:44,839
Speaker 1: like send it yea some wine and some Scott products

701
00:38:44,520 --> 00:38:47,240
Speaker 1: box Man Crates will look. I know, I'm like listening.

702
00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:48,839
Speaker 1: We have a lot of options. We have a lot

703
00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:51,440
Speaker 1: of options that we can send. Um is Candice here?

704
00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:58,759
Speaker 1: Not yet? Oh okay, um wait do we talk about

705
00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:00,920
Speaker 1: we didn't talk about Grays anatomy at because we were like, oh,

706
00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:05,000
Speaker 1: we don't want to. We didn't. But Tania was very

707
00:39:05,080 --> 00:39:09,000
Speaker 1: upset because she feels like she was introduced to Meredith

708
00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:11,279
Speaker 1: potential new love interest, and then it was just we

709
00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:13,839
Speaker 1: got nothing about that. I think we have not seen

710
00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:16,080
Speaker 1: the last of him. That's definitely not no and I

711
00:39:16,080 --> 00:39:18,719
Speaker 1: think he's got an arc. Yeah, but like how annoying

712
00:39:19,520 --> 00:39:23,400
Speaker 1: okay by no means and I think it definitely was

713
00:39:23,440 --> 00:39:27,560
Speaker 1: not a great episode. There was there's just am I

714
00:39:27,600 --> 00:39:30,240
Speaker 1: invested in anything? What happened at the end. I guess

715
00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:33,080
Speaker 1: April told Maggie that she tried to jump. She was like,

716
00:39:33,120 --> 00:39:35,399
Speaker 1: then I dumped my husband back and that's great. She's

717
00:39:35,440 --> 00:39:39,040
Speaker 1: back on trash. She's apologized. Um. I like that they

718
00:39:39,080 --> 00:39:42,719
Speaker 1: brought back the woman from a hundred years ago his sponsor,

719
00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:46,920
Speaker 1: because I just like that because it respects the length

720
00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:48,960
Speaker 1: of this show has been on the shared history we

721
00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:52,839
Speaker 1: all have with this show. Someone coming back from years

722
00:39:52,880 --> 00:39:54,960
Speaker 1: ago or something that's a wonderful thing that we've all

723
00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:57,440
Speaker 1: shared together. I think that's great. I'm glad I want

724
00:39:57,520 --> 00:39:59,359
Speaker 1: them to do more of that. Yeah, I was glad

725
00:39:59,400 --> 00:40:00,920
Speaker 1: Ben was back who I thought he was going. I

726
00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:02,960
Speaker 1: thought he was just going to be on the new show. No,

727
00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:05,800
Speaker 1: because she there's Grace people on the new show too,

728
00:40:06,719 --> 00:40:09,400
Speaker 1: like they like Bailey's on the Station nineteen. Now. He

729
00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:13,040
Speaker 1: said it was part of the the I'm a deal

730
00:40:13,120 --> 00:40:15,200
Speaker 1: or whatever, but that they would he would do both

731
00:40:16,120 --> 00:40:18,680
Speaker 1: right Grays and Station nineteen. I think we're in a

732
00:40:18,680 --> 00:40:19,960
Speaker 1: good run right now. I thought it was a pretty

733
00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:22,480
Speaker 1: good one. I thought I was really thrown off with

734
00:40:22,520 --> 00:40:24,920
Speaker 1: the Arizona thing because I was like, oh, she has

735
00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:29,400
Speaker 1: breast cancer and that's like, I no, wait, did you

736
00:40:29,400 --> 00:40:31,440
Speaker 1: guys see the thing that a listener sent us and

737
00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:33,240
Speaker 1: it said I wonder if they're going to start filming

738
00:40:33,239 --> 00:40:35,080
Speaker 1: Grayson at me in Heaven because that's where all my

739
00:40:35,160 --> 00:40:39,399
Speaker 1: favorite character. I posted that meme like a long time

740
00:40:39,440 --> 00:40:43,000
Speaker 1: ago on my Instagram because it's that was like before

741
00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:47,040
Speaker 1: Derek even died, so now I'm like everyone's died. Have

742
00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:49,720
Speaker 1: you all seen the new show? Christina is in Sandro

743
00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:53,160
Speaker 1: I haven't seen that. The trailer, she's like like a

744
00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:55,440
Speaker 1: stalker or something that's after this girl and she's like

745
00:40:55,480 --> 00:40:59,120
Speaker 1: crazy obsessed. That's not Christine. I know it's an imposter

746
00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:06,520
Speaker 1: watching Station. I've watched it. Um you don't like it.

747
00:41:06,520 --> 00:41:09,000
Speaker 1: It's okay. I find it to be like a little

748
00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:12,279
Speaker 1: bit corny. Like sometimes I'm just like, oh, you know,

749
00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:14,320
Speaker 1: you know what I'm obsessed with right now is the resident.

750
00:41:15,640 --> 00:41:18,000
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. It's really good. It's like the

751
00:41:18,120 --> 00:41:22,080
Speaker 1: dark side of doctors. Yeah. Yeah, like the like kind

752
00:41:22,080 --> 00:41:26,040
Speaker 1: of politics and that, which is super like sketchy. Now

753
00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:28,680
Speaker 1: I'm like so paranoid about doctor. Every time I'm telling

754
00:41:28,760 --> 00:41:32,080
Speaker 1: you goes to like another doctor's appointment, She's like, I

755
00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:34,040
Speaker 1: don't know, I don't know about this one. He might

756
00:41:34,040 --> 00:41:37,440
Speaker 1: just need his quota on giving me this whatever. Meanwhile,

757
00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:39,960
Speaker 1: she needs a hearing age, she needs all these medical

758
00:41:40,120 --> 00:41:42,359
Speaker 1: I'm just hearing about the hearing anything. I didn't even

759
00:41:42,360 --> 00:41:44,600
Speaker 1: know that was an issue. Have we talked about this

760
00:41:44,640 --> 00:41:46,879
Speaker 1: in the podcast, that you have hearing problems? No, because

761
00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:50,520
Speaker 1: it's something I just kind of discovered one. She wants

762
00:41:50,520 --> 00:41:53,080
Speaker 1: to hear it, wanted out hearing it. Yeah, like an

763
00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:56,719
Speaker 1: Ariana Grande in here. How cool would that be? It

764
00:41:56,760 --> 00:41:58,359
Speaker 1: would help me so much. I want him to say,

765
00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:00,799
Speaker 1: what every five she might just have wax in your

766
00:42:00,880 --> 00:42:02,799
Speaker 1: ears or something. You should see a professional before just

767
00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:04,800
Speaker 1: purchasing hearing it. Yeah, well, I think you have to

768
00:42:04,840 --> 00:42:07,160
Speaker 1: see a professional to get a hearing aid, right, No,

769
00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:11,680
Speaker 1: you can just order them. No, please, don't. I feel

770
00:42:11,719 --> 00:42:13,680
Speaker 1: like that would do more. Gonna try the wax thing first,

771
00:42:13,680 --> 00:42:16,000
Speaker 1: and then yeah, thank you. I also think a lot

772
00:42:16,040 --> 00:42:18,319
Speaker 1: of people just do like why like there, everyone's on

773
00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:20,239
Speaker 1: their phone, not paying attention, and so it gets it

774
00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:22,279
Speaker 1: becomes like a habit to say what That's what I

775
00:42:22,320 --> 00:42:25,000
Speaker 1: thought it was for the longest time. But then I

776
00:42:25,040 --> 00:42:26,680
Speaker 1: started realizing I was doing it more and more, and

777
00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:29,160
Speaker 1: I started to discern like I'd put all my stuff

778
00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:31,840
Speaker 1: away and I'm like, in actual conversation, nothing distracting me,

779
00:42:31,840 --> 00:42:34,719
Speaker 1: and I'm still saying, huh. She wanted to buy one

780
00:42:34,760 --> 00:42:37,680
Speaker 1: of those candles with a cone that sucks that wax

781
00:42:37,719 --> 00:42:41,080
Speaker 1: out of your ear. So she went on Amazon wax candles,

782
00:42:41,120 --> 00:42:42,880
Speaker 1: and she just ordered a bunch of bees wax candles

783
00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:44,520
Speaker 1: that have nothing to do with your ears at all.

784
00:42:44,680 --> 00:42:46,160
Speaker 1: She has like ten of them right in front of her.

785
00:42:48,360 --> 00:42:51,759
Speaker 1: There doesn't even need a line of Menora because I'm

786
00:42:51,800 --> 00:42:55,720
Speaker 1: your girl. That's the beauty and the trap of Amazon

787
00:42:55,760 --> 00:42:59,719
Speaker 1: dot Com. It's also the beauty in the trap of Donya.

788
00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:03,480
Speaker 1: I do I think it's like a serious, actual problem

789
00:43:03,520 --> 00:43:05,279
Speaker 1: that I've just been like listening to my music super

790
00:43:05,320 --> 00:43:07,640
Speaker 1: loud in my headphones. I've never I've never noticed you

791
00:43:07,719 --> 00:43:09,640
Speaker 1: saying what or like acting like you couldn't hear. I

792
00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:12,279
Speaker 1: have some friends where if I'm thinking, if they say

793
00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:15,120
Speaker 1: what one more time, I'm gonna lose my mind. There

794
00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:16,960
Speaker 1: are some people that get into the habit of it,

795
00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:19,360
Speaker 1: and I'm doing to buy themselves time to come up

796
00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:21,200
Speaker 1: with a response to what you just said. And it

797
00:43:21,320 --> 00:43:24,200
Speaker 1: drives me nothing. That's what I'm saying. That's what I like.

798
00:43:24,320 --> 00:43:27,280
Speaker 1: Sometimes my sisters do it, or they'll ask me a question,

799
00:43:27,320 --> 00:43:29,120
Speaker 1: then I answer and they're on their phone and they're like,

800
00:43:29,719 --> 00:43:32,360
Speaker 1: what do you say? And I'm like, nothing doesn't matter anymore.

801
00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:35,240
Speaker 1: I'm over it, and thank you for the spieswe scandal.

802
00:43:35,280 --> 00:43:38,920
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you have it back. Can you tell

803
00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:41,160
Speaker 1: us about threat up and then we'll take emails until

804
00:43:41,160 --> 00:43:44,600
Speaker 1: Candice gets here. Perfect Um. Thread Up is something that

805
00:43:44,680 --> 00:43:47,400
Speaker 1: we have discussed on the podcast. It is the world's

806
00:43:48,040 --> 00:43:51,640
Speaker 1: largest online thrift store. They have over thirty five thousand

807
00:43:51,760 --> 00:43:56,640
Speaker 1: brands at up to off the retail price. That's insane. Yeah,

808
00:43:56,719 --> 00:44:00,759
Speaker 1: so like free people dresses or only ten dollars. They

809
00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:03,320
Speaker 1: have J Crew jeans that are around twelve dollars. The

810
00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:07,480
Speaker 1: Kate hand Spade handbags are thirty dollars. You can go

811
00:44:07,520 --> 00:44:11,759
Speaker 1: on the site and you can three hundred dollars. I

812
00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:15,239
Speaker 1: don't know if God good at math, but a lot um.

813
00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:18,040
Speaker 1: You can go on the site and you can actually select,

814
00:44:18,520 --> 00:44:20,400
Speaker 1: like if you want to look at designer brands that

815
00:44:20,440 --> 00:44:22,120
Speaker 1: they have on there, or you can select it by

816
00:44:22,120 --> 00:44:25,719
Speaker 1: your size or the style. It's really amazing and makes

817
00:44:25,760 --> 00:44:28,480
Speaker 1: it so much easier to shop at a thrift store

818
00:44:28,520 --> 00:44:31,319
Speaker 1: than it is, like if you're in an actual store. Yeah,

819
00:44:31,360 --> 00:44:33,120
Speaker 1: and every item on the site goes through a twelve

820
00:44:33,160 --> 00:44:37,480
Speaker 1: point quality inspection process, so your items are like basically

821
00:44:37,480 --> 00:44:40,080
Speaker 1: a new condition, and many of the brand names even

822
00:44:40,120 --> 00:44:43,080
Speaker 1: have their tagstill on them. Yeah. I actually ordered an

823
00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:45,719
Speaker 1: air Mez scarf and it was I think it was

824
00:44:45,760 --> 00:44:47,840
Speaker 1: like eight hundred dollars originally and I got it for

825
00:44:47,880 --> 00:44:51,080
Speaker 1: two hundred and which I know is still expensive or scarf,

826
00:44:51,160 --> 00:44:53,280
Speaker 1: but it's like, I know, that's like I'm just saying.

827
00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:57,360
Speaker 1: It was a huge dis No, it was like a

828
00:44:57,480 --> 00:45:00,439
Speaker 1: silk scarf, but I like put it in my hair

829
00:45:00,520 --> 00:45:02,799
Speaker 1: and all my Mexico pictures and everyone was like, where

830
00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:05,480
Speaker 1: did you get that? And You're like, threat Up Yeah,

831
00:45:05,960 --> 00:45:08,279
Speaker 1: so um, I know, like two dollars still a lot

832
00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:09,799
Speaker 1: for a scarf. I get that, but I'm just saying,

833
00:45:09,840 --> 00:45:11,640
Speaker 1: like for what its original price was, and it was

834
00:45:11,680 --> 00:45:14,640
Speaker 1: in perfect condition, Like I don't know why there was nothing.

835
00:45:14,640 --> 00:45:18,400
Speaker 1: It was basically like new um. They offer free shipping

836
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Speaker 1: on qualified orders and it's super easy to return to

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Speaker 1: is Becca. This is a really tough one from Shantel.

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Speaker 1: Oh no made your help right now. Recently, my boyfriend

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Speaker 1: of almost a year has been super protective of his phone.

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Speaker 1: I saw he was texting my younger sister and I

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Speaker 1: want to know what they're talking about, but it wouldn't

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Speaker 1: tell me. I've never been one to snoop or not

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Speaker 1: trust him. We have an open relationship, not open like that,

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Speaker 1: just we're very communicative and the past year has been great,

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Speaker 1: but last weekend, I opened his phone to read the

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Speaker 1: text between him and my sister, only to find the

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Speaker 1: last text saying I got your dad's approval. The one

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Speaker 1: time I decided to snoop, I see everything, including the

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Speaker 1: picture of the ring he bought me, which is absolutely stunning.

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Speaker 1: I didn't mean to see all this, and now I

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Speaker 1: feel so guilty. I don't want to hide it from him,

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Speaker 1: but I also don't want to feel like the whole

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Speaker 1: engagement is ruined. I want him to feel just as

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Speaker 1: special as I do on that day. What do I do?

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Speaker 1: Do I keep it a secret until the day I die?

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Speaker 1: Or do I tell him I snooped? Help? Yes? I

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Speaker 1: love your podcast. My boyfriend and I are actually two

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Speaker 1: hours apart from each other, so listening to your podcast

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Speaker 1: on the drivers made a lot more fun. Love you all,

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Speaker 1: so that's very sweet. I feel like I actually feel like, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I hope he's not listening. I hope. I feel like

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Speaker 1: y'all should give an opinion, because I feel like this

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Speaker 1: is important from a guy's perspective, what you would want

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Speaker 1: her to do? He said, you can go first. Mark's

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Speaker 1: gonna dwell on this. What was that? This is really

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Speaker 1: really tough because my initial reaction is just keeping his seat.

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Speaker 1: That's what I was going to say, because he's gonna

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Speaker 1: be bummed if he thinks you suspected him of doing

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Speaker 1: something like that, even though look, you know, these kind

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Speaker 1: of things sounds like shady and that's just how it goes,

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Speaker 1: you know, when you're playing a surprise. But you could say,

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Speaker 1: I saw a text from my sister, so I just

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Speaker 1: I felt like I was okay to read that. But

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Speaker 1: they've already had the conversation. She's been saying, what are

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Speaker 1: you and my sister talking about? And he said nothing,

881
00:47:36,520 --> 00:47:41,640
Speaker 1: it's done. If you're concerned, don't worry about it. So

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Speaker 1: she went in, I mean, did you think he was

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Speaker 1: cheating with her sister? That's not good because as a guy,

884
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Speaker 1: to be offended by that, like, how little do you

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Speaker 1: trust him? I would I do not, I wouldn't say

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00:47:51,719 --> 00:47:55,400
Speaker 1: anything forever. That's the worst advice. But I think that's why,

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Speaker 1: I really that's the way why that that's the worst advice,

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00:47:57,680 --> 00:47:59,960
Speaker 1: the worst advice ever. She did not want to enter

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Speaker 1: into a marriage with lies and secrets, which just like

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Speaker 1: what in the world. Okay, So okay, let's just say

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Speaker 1: she decides to tell him. So she saying she knows everything, saying,

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Speaker 1: I know the proposal, when he's going to do it

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Speaker 1: and everything. Are we assuming if she knows, maybe she goes.

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Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. I looked at your phone. I saw

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Speaker 1: my sister text you. I was just so curious to

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Speaker 1: know what y'all were talking about. I opened the text

897
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Speaker 1: and I saw everything, and I have been so torn

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Speaker 1: on if I should tell you or not. But I

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Speaker 1: wanted to be honest with you and say you're curious.

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Speaker 1: Not you thought he was cheating. I was curious. I

901
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Speaker 1: was like dying. You know what y'all were talking about. Yeah,

902
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Speaker 1: I still give it a secret. Yeah he's going to

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Speaker 1: eat her, Like I don't know. I don't know Shantal,

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Speaker 1: I don't know you at all. But maybe you say

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Speaker 1: your sister, actually she needs to tell her sister that

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Speaker 1: she knows, and then her sister can tell him, Hey,

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Speaker 1: she saw a text or something and knows she like

908
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Speaker 1: read information. So we wait through the grapevine. Well, no,

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Speaker 1: that's it was the conversation with the sister. So you

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Speaker 1: just tell the sister like, hey, I saw you text him,

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Speaker 1: and so I picked up the phone. I was like,

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Speaker 1: so curious to know what you were talking about. And

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Speaker 1: I saw everything about the proposal, but I don't want

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Speaker 1: to spoil things for him. So then the sister can

915
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Speaker 1: tell him, like, hey, we got to rearrange some things.

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Speaker 1: She saw the text. This is brilliant. I'm so confused

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Speaker 1: why everyone's staring at me because it goes back to

918
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Speaker 1: the remember the expression, what a tangled web we we've

919
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Speaker 1: no one knows that expression. When we begin to deceive,

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Speaker 1: you're making it a deeper deception, isn't that? I think? So? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't feel like it is. I think the responsible

922
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Speaker 1: advice here it's to come clean and apologize and tell

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Speaker 1: him you will never not trust him again, and you're

924
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Speaker 1: so sorry, and maybe you'll cry when you tell him.

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Speaker 1: And if I'm the guy, when I see those tears,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna say, it's fine, it's okay. I hope you've

927
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Speaker 1: learned from this. I hope you know you can trust me.

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Speaker 1: And I'm going to change my plans for when I

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Speaker 1: do this, so it'll still be a surprise, like you

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Speaker 1: can work together and it will become a joke throughout

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Speaker 1: your whole life. Yeah, because I like such an evil

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Speaker 1: person that everyone just thought. I was just like, it's

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Speaker 1: not evil because that was my gut too, is to

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Speaker 1: just keep the lie going. But I think responsible you

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Speaker 1: should know. And I just think, like, for her own sake,

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Speaker 1: it's going to eat at her and like, who wants

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Speaker 1: that on their heart? Not me. Yeah, but once you

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Speaker 1: got through the proposal, if you acted well enough, it

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Speaker 1: would never come up again. But she it would be

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Speaker 1: in the back of her head always, I think, So, no,

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Speaker 1: am I crazy? Am I the crazy one? I don't know?

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Speaker 1: Or he is having an affair with her sister very well, yeah,

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Speaker 1: the ring is actually for her sister. Oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: well good luck. Yeah. So the tell just said, tell

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Speaker 1: him open up and just be cute and sweet and loving,

946
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Speaker 1: and but do it soon enough that he has time

947
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Speaker 1: to like change his plans. Maybe he'll just do it

948
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Speaker 1: right there and be like, yeah, I don't need a

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Speaker 1: grand proposal. Mikhaela met a hot guy in a plane.

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Speaker 1: She was flying home from vacation with her mom and

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Speaker 1: as she was born in the plane, she saw a

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Speaker 1: guy that had caught her attention while waiting to board,

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Speaker 1: and there he is sitting next to the empty seat

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Speaker 1: next to her mom. So it goes mom her seat

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Speaker 1: hot guy, like, what are they? That never happened? Fantastic,

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Speaker 1: So they She talked to the mom for a little bit. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: the five hour flight, it wasn't five hours like three

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Speaker 1: hour flight with a two hour delay, but they're sending

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Speaker 1: the plane for five hours. They talked for like four

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Speaker 1: of them. The conversation was awesome. Similar interest sensits of humor,

961
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Speaker 1: the same values and views. After we landed, he hinted

962
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Speaker 1: at me coming to visit him in Chicago, where he lives.

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Speaker 1: He asked for my number, Well, my mom was sitting

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Speaker 1: right there. He lives in Chicago. I live in Minneapolis,

965
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Speaker 1: but my mom lives in Chicago. It's been a few

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Speaker 1: days since the flight. He shot me a follow on Instagram.

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Speaker 1: Yesterday was his birthday, so I wished I'm a happy

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Speaker 1: birthday via d M. Five messages back and forth. So

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Speaker 1: this guy has my number. He's yet to text me

970
00:52:06,160 --> 00:52:08,160
Speaker 1: though he has my number, but it's all been through Instagram.

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Speaker 1: He hasn't texted me yet. I don't know if I

972
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Speaker 1: should invest more energy into this or just kind of

973
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Speaker 1: go with the flow. I actually applied for a job.

974
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Speaker 1: It's like thirty minutes from where he lives last week.

975
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Speaker 1: So the connection I felt was so real. I find

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Speaker 1: him attractive, But why would he ask for my number

977
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Speaker 1: if he wasn't a little bit interested as well? I'd

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Speaker 1: love your thoughts and advice. He just turned six, I'm

979
00:52:24,480 --> 00:52:29,080
Speaker 1: almost twenty three. It seems really good to me. I know,

980
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Speaker 1: it seems very serendipitous. It's all positive, right, yeah, So,

981
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Speaker 1: but I'm confused to I mean, I'm as confused as

982
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Speaker 1: she is of why he has her number and he

983
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Speaker 1: hasn't texted her. I think he's just being shy. He's

984
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Speaker 1: playing it cool. I think I don't know. But he

985
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Speaker 1: asked for the number in front of her mom. How

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Speaker 1: shy can he be? Well, that's a good point. But

987
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Speaker 1: there's been Instagram interactions. I can't with the Instagram interactions, Tanya.

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Speaker 1: I mean, seriously, nothing irks might pickle more somebody that says,

989
00:53:05,680 --> 00:53:09,600
Speaker 1: there you go. Then a guy that sends me a pickle,

990
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Speaker 1: like why do you you're why pickle? Don't we all

991
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Speaker 1: have a pickle? Not? Not all of us have pickles, Dona.

992
00:53:19,280 --> 00:53:22,040
Speaker 1: When a guy sends you a d M on Instagram,

993
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Speaker 1: when they have your phone number, it literally just nothing

994
00:53:27,800 --> 00:53:29,640
Speaker 1: that's a good point. But the only thing that I'm

995
00:53:29,680 --> 00:53:34,080
Speaker 1: thinking is if sometimes I have someone's number and if

996
00:53:34,080 --> 00:53:36,319
Speaker 1: they post a story, I'll respond to that, and then

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Speaker 1: the conversation continues there. So it's like that the conversation

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Speaker 1: is happening in that moment. I don't want to throw

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Speaker 1: it off because of the story, right, Okay, okay, okay, wow.

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Speaker 1: You rarely just like agree with me and pleasantly back

1001
00:53:49,680 --> 00:53:53,879
Speaker 1: down like that, thank you. It still drives me nuts,

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00:53:53,920 --> 00:53:56,440
Speaker 1: but I do see. But if it's when it's not

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Speaker 1: a comment on the story and they're just messaging me,

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00:53:58,880 --> 00:54:01,920
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, I mean, because that takes effort. You

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Speaker 1: have to go up with the assage, like you have

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Speaker 1: my phone number, call me FaceTime me, I don't know.

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00:54:08,239 --> 00:54:10,160
Speaker 1: But she doesn't have his number, so it's not like

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Speaker 1: I mean, not that I would. I don't always say like, oh,

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Speaker 1: just text him first, because you know, I like to

1010
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Speaker 1: be texted first. But I was going to say, if

1011
00:54:18,520 --> 00:54:20,879
Speaker 1: she really was interested to text him, but she didn't

1012
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Speaker 1: have that option, that'd be a reason that he hasn't texted,

1013
00:54:23,239 --> 00:54:24,640
Speaker 1: or because he doesn't want to give up his phone

1014
00:54:24,719 --> 00:54:28,520
Speaker 1: number because that opens the door seems super sketchy. That's

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Speaker 1: what it sounds like to me. I think. I think

1016
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Speaker 1: when when he has the number and he's like exclusively

1017
00:54:33,239 --> 00:54:35,719
Speaker 1: using another form of communication that could probably be covered

1018
00:54:35,760 --> 00:54:38,600
Speaker 1: up pretty easily. Oh so he might have a girlfriend

1019
00:54:39,000 --> 00:54:42,000
Speaker 1: or you know, I'm not saying that, but yeah, he

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Speaker 1: might be attached. He might be attached. He east makes

1021
00:54:45,840 --> 00:54:51,040
Speaker 1: a good point. Yeah, so I guess her advice is

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Speaker 1: go with the flow. Yeah. I was gonna say, just wait,

1023
00:54:53,440 --> 00:54:55,239
Speaker 1: there's really nothing else you can do. It's not like

1024
00:54:55,320 --> 00:54:57,200
Speaker 1: you should text him and be like, what's your number,

1025
00:54:57,719 --> 00:55:00,520
Speaker 1: because he already made that move. So I would say

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Speaker 1: just wait. But that's such a bummer because every time

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Speaker 1: I'm like waiting in line for the flight, if I

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Speaker 1: see a hot guy, I'm like, please let me sit

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Speaker 1: by him, and he's never sitting by me. No, it's great,

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Speaker 1: And they talked for three out four hours. But yeah,

1031
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Speaker 1: maybe there's enough chance of that that you go with

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Speaker 1: the flow. Yeah, go with the flow and listen to

1033
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Speaker 1: that Maroon five song while you're at it, which one

1034
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Speaker 1: is wait, just wait, wait, I think Candice is on

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Speaker 1: our way up, so let's uh, Jordan's is having a

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Speaker 1: rebound fling. She went through a break up two months ago.

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Speaker 1: It's been really hard. Recently, I've reconnected with the guy

1038
00:55:35,880 --> 00:55:38,000
Speaker 1: used to have a fling with nothing serious. I found

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Speaker 1: it be a really good distraction for me. A rebound,

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Speaker 1: I guess you might say, in the most innocent way,

1041
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Speaker 1: a pretty confident and one't catch real feelings for him,

1042
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Speaker 1: but I might he might. Is this wrong? What are

1043
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Speaker 1: your thoughts on rebounds after tough breakups? And I would

1044
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Speaker 1: like two podcasts a week? Thank you. Jordan's just throwing

1045
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Speaker 1: it out there, Jordan's I like it. Um, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I haven't. I don't have. I had a rebound after

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Speaker 1: a fling. I feel like my rebound was like my

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00:56:03,960 --> 00:56:06,440
Speaker 1: I mean, you're fling was your rebound here? I know

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00:56:06,520 --> 00:56:09,080
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I know, I'm saying a rebound after relationship.

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00:56:09,719 --> 00:56:12,040
Speaker 1: I mean I feel like my rebound, like Robert and

1051
00:56:12,360 --> 00:56:15,799
Speaker 1: are rebound was each other, which I guess kept things

1052
00:56:15,800 --> 00:56:18,360
Speaker 1: either messy or clean. Or just say, is she asking

1053
00:56:19,080 --> 00:56:21,880
Speaker 1: is there potential having that be a relationship? No? I

1054
00:56:21,880 --> 00:56:24,279
Speaker 1: think she has nothing but a rebound fling and is

1055
00:56:24,280 --> 00:56:26,319
Speaker 1: that okay? Or my twining with that guy's emotions? Am

1056
00:56:26,320 --> 00:56:28,879
Speaker 1: I gonna mess with my own head. She I guess

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00:56:28,880 --> 00:56:31,279
Speaker 1: she's trying to focus on the downsides. So I think

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Speaker 1: that if you're really intentional with yourself and it's just

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00:56:36,840 --> 00:56:38,200
Speaker 1: a fling to you, I think you have to make

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00:56:38,239 --> 00:56:40,719
Speaker 1: that very clear to him, and there's ways to do

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00:56:40,800 --> 00:56:43,839
Speaker 1: that without making, you know, being a jerk about it,

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00:56:43,960 --> 00:56:45,760
Speaker 1: you know, Like I think there's ways of making somebody

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Speaker 1: know that you're not in a place to be in

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00:56:47,280 --> 00:56:49,680
Speaker 1: a relationship, nor do you want a relationship, And then

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00:56:49,719 --> 00:56:52,120
Speaker 1: you leave the ball on his court. If he wants

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00:56:52,160 --> 00:56:54,000
Speaker 1: to play the game, then he'll pick it up. If

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00:56:54,040 --> 00:56:56,279
Speaker 1: he doesn't want to play, then he'll go. There's a guy.

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00:56:56,280 --> 00:56:58,000
Speaker 1: If he has feelings, he's going to keep it going

1069
00:56:58,480 --> 00:57:00,759
Speaker 1: and just get hurt farther down the road, right, But

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00:57:00,800 --> 00:57:03,399
Speaker 1: who someone's going to have feeling Most of the time,

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00:57:03,440 --> 00:57:06,200
Speaker 1: someone's gonna have feelings in that situation, one person is

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00:57:06,200 --> 00:57:09,000
Speaker 1: going to get hurt. Yeah, So that's the downside of

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00:57:09,080 --> 00:57:13,080
Speaker 1: a rebound fling or whatever. Someone eventually, whether to you

1074
00:57:13,160 --> 00:57:15,720
Speaker 1: or the other person, is going to get hurt because

1075
00:57:15,760 --> 00:57:19,360
Speaker 1: it's very hard to maintain that without someone developing feelings.

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00:57:19,360 --> 00:57:24,680
Speaker 1: Are you saying abort mission? I mean, I don't know,

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00:57:24,720 --> 00:57:28,439
Speaker 1: because like they're fun and just like lighthearted. But I've

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00:57:28,440 --> 00:57:31,360
Speaker 1: gotten hurt from flings, like I've been like done, you know,

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00:57:31,600 --> 00:57:33,520
Speaker 1: rebound and all that kind of stuff, and I've I've

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Speaker 1: been the one that's been hurt by it um And

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00:57:35,280 --> 00:57:37,919
Speaker 1: it's like I probably wouldn't change that, you know, because

1082
00:57:38,280 --> 00:57:42,080
Speaker 1: each one taught me something. Yeah, I guess it's how

1083
00:57:42,120 --> 00:57:44,800
Speaker 1: you look at it, find the positives in it. B

1084
00:57:45,000 --> 00:57:48,240
Speaker 1: I would say, definitely be open with him, like very

1085
00:57:48,360 --> 00:57:51,000
Speaker 1: upfront with him about what where your head's at with

1086
00:57:51,040 --> 00:57:53,200
Speaker 1: the whole thing, and then if he wants to keep

1087
00:57:53,320 --> 00:57:56,400
Speaker 1: doing it, then go for it again. Get a girl,

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Speaker 1: we are so everyone. Everyone I told that you were

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Speaker 1: going to be on here was so excited, Like my

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Speaker 1: my younger sister was like I think she was trying

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Speaker 1: to find a way to come in and I was like,

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Speaker 1: that's so cute. Yeah, I mean people just love you.

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Speaker 1: We're kind of a big deal. Yeah, well thank um,

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Speaker 1: but you're a really big deal because my god, her

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Speaker 1: Natasha really wanted to come so she could see you

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Speaker 1: and hang out with you. So I was I went

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Speaker 1: to a dinner and she was supposed to be sitting

1143
01:01:10,120 --> 01:01:11,680
Speaker 1: next to me and I saw her name and they're like, oh,

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Speaker 1: Natasha's not coming, and I was like, we were finally

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01:01:14,000 --> 01:01:16,200
Speaker 1: going to get to hang out. You should make her

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01:01:16,240 --> 01:01:21,040
Speaker 1: a video, daughter, Yeah, we'll do a video. But she

1147
01:01:21,160 --> 01:01:22,960
Speaker 1: was doing a live. You were doing a live one

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Speaker 1: time and I was like on it and I said

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Speaker 1: something you're like and she was like, mom, the beck

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Speaker 1: is on here and You're like, who's Becca? And she's

1151
01:01:29,640 --> 01:01:33,160
Speaker 1: like Becky Tilly. So then we she and I connected

1152
01:01:33,200 --> 01:01:35,120
Speaker 1: through that. Yeah, well she was but I told her

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01:01:35,160 --> 01:01:37,200
Speaker 1: to come this morning and then she asked me, but

1154
01:01:37,280 --> 01:01:41,200
Speaker 1: I was working before I came over here, and because

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Speaker 1: she would have had to drive, she didn't want to

1156
01:01:44,800 --> 01:01:48,880
Speaker 1: d I totally understand that. Um, yeah, you have probably

1157
01:01:48,920 --> 01:01:51,840
Speaker 1: more going You're like the Ryan Seacrest of what you

1158
01:01:51,880 --> 01:01:55,400
Speaker 1: do because you just have everything going on. You did

1159
01:01:55,560 --> 01:01:59,480
Speaker 1: so much like all together, like it's kind of awesome.

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Speaker 1: So I may everyone, well you do a good job,

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01:02:03,400 --> 01:02:06,000
Speaker 1: because it does seem that way. Um, I feel like

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01:02:06,160 --> 01:02:08,280
Speaker 1: I don't know. I feel like I kind of grew

1163
01:02:08,360 --> 01:02:11,280
Speaker 1: up watching you and which is so it's so strange

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01:02:11,880 --> 01:02:14,360
Speaker 1: you being here because you're like my age in my head,

1165
01:02:14,920 --> 01:02:18,680
Speaker 1: but I was like so young older, You're not so

1166
01:02:18,760 --> 01:02:23,120
Speaker 1: much older. You look like you're like twenty. It's so crazy,

1167
01:02:23,360 --> 01:02:26,840
Speaker 1: but I just remember, like it's just so fun having

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Speaker 1: this happen. It's like a big moment. I'm like having

1169
01:02:28,920 --> 01:02:32,680
Speaker 1: fan girl moment right now. I'm kind of too. It's

1170
01:02:32,800 --> 01:02:37,080
Speaker 1: like everyone's big sister. Yeah that's what it feels like. Yeah, okay,

1171
01:02:37,080 --> 01:02:40,720
Speaker 1: so I want you got married at twenty correct? Yes?

1172
01:02:41,200 --> 01:02:43,960
Speaker 1: How and you got set up through a coworker? Yes?

1173
01:02:44,160 --> 01:02:45,840
Speaker 1: Is that like a good way to go because I

1174
01:02:45,840 --> 01:02:47,720
Speaker 1: feel like a lot of our listeners, our listeners are

1175
01:02:47,720 --> 01:02:51,439
Speaker 1: either your coworker is and what they think of you, well,

1176
01:02:51,440 --> 01:02:56,400
Speaker 1: like that up with someone bad? You know, you're everyone

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01:02:56,440 --> 01:02:59,080
Speaker 1: loves you, Your co workers love you, Tanya, That's true,

1178
01:02:59,120 --> 01:03:01,720
Speaker 1: but I feel like this is like, um, our listeners

1179
01:03:01,760 --> 01:03:04,800
Speaker 1: are either married or like really striving for that. So

1180
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Speaker 1: I feel like your love story could be really encouraging. Oh,

1181
01:03:08,160 --> 01:03:11,040
Speaker 1: I think your friends have they know you best, so

1182
01:03:11,080 --> 01:03:13,440
Speaker 1: I think being set up by a mutual friend is

1183
01:03:13,440 --> 01:03:16,120
Speaker 1: always a really good thing. And it was, if I may,

1184
01:03:16,320 --> 01:03:18,400
Speaker 1: it was Dave. It's pretty cool. And he didn't really

1185
01:03:18,400 --> 01:03:20,200
Speaker 1: know Val. He just knew that he was a really

1186
01:03:20,240 --> 01:03:24,200
Speaker 1: good hockey player, So this is really cool. So he

1187
01:03:24,280 --> 01:03:28,160
Speaker 1: does want rogue. He doesn'tant rogue. He was like, like

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01:03:28,240 --> 01:03:30,840
Speaker 1: his hockey skills, that's way. But hockey players kind of

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Speaker 1: have like reputations. Were you not? Was that not a no?

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Speaker 1: And a Russian one too? Oh no, but mine doesn't

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01:03:36,640 --> 01:03:39,320
Speaker 1: have a reputation. He was twenty and I was eighteen

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Speaker 1: and he when we first met, and he is the

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Speaker 1: most family driven person I know to date, So even

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Speaker 1: when we met, he was like, yeah, partying and hang

1195
01:03:49,560 --> 01:03:51,720
Speaker 1: and clubbing and all that is not my thing. I

1196
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Speaker 1: really would like to get married and have a family.

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Speaker 1: So you got you had a rare when he proposed

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Speaker 1: to me. To be honestly, I was twenty because I

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Speaker 1: didn't think it would happen that fast. It was within

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Speaker 1: less than a year when we met, but I was

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Speaker 1: totally in love and I was like, okay, my parents

1202
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Speaker 1: were like, what, well, I mean, and you know, like

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Speaker 1: I feel like, especially lately with like the Jenna Dawan

1204
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Speaker 1: and Channing tatums, like everybody's splitting up and you're going strong.

1205
01:04:17,280 --> 01:04:20,200
Speaker 1: What's like the number one seems like it? But there's

1206
01:04:20,240 --> 01:04:22,320
Speaker 1: a lot of strong married couples out there. We only

1207
01:04:22,360 --> 01:04:26,080
Speaker 1: hear about the ones totally that aren't together anymore or

1208
01:04:26,120 --> 01:04:28,680
Speaker 1: it's heartbreaking for us to see their breakups. What's like

1209
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Speaker 1: a good um? Like, how do you keep your marriage

1210
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Speaker 1: so strong? Well, there are lots of things, I mean,

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Speaker 1: and and uh, I'm not a psychologist, but I think

1212
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Speaker 1: at the end of the day, it's really putting your

1213
01:04:44,720 --> 01:04:49,040
Speaker 1: spouse's needs before your own. It's about being selfless and

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01:04:49,040 --> 01:04:51,520
Speaker 1: you're married because a lot of us especially want to

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01:04:51,560 --> 01:04:55,160
Speaker 1: focus on ourselves. It's most natural to do that. And

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Speaker 1: it's not saying that with everything you know you have

1217
01:04:58,040 --> 01:05:00,720
Speaker 1: to do everything your spouse says. But when think of

1218
01:05:00,760 --> 01:05:03,919
Speaker 1: them in that way, to honor them, respect them, love them,

1219
01:05:03,960 --> 01:05:08,480
Speaker 1: and you take yourself out of it and and hopefully

1220
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Speaker 1: in return, your spouse is thinking the same, right, okay, Um,

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Speaker 1: that's what really continues to honor one another throughout your marriage.

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Speaker 1: So it's not about how can you meet my needs?

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01:05:19,800 --> 01:05:22,280
Speaker 1: It's about how can we do life together and be

1224
01:05:22,400 --> 01:05:25,680
Speaker 1: there for one another. It's beautiful, I know. And I

1225
01:05:25,720 --> 01:05:28,080
Speaker 1: also think a big part of it, like you're very

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Speaker 1: strong in your faith, and I think there's I mean,

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Speaker 1: I I remember watching you on the View sometimes and

1228
01:05:34,120 --> 01:05:37,160
Speaker 1: being like she's my hero because like just being able

1229
01:05:37,200 --> 01:05:40,240
Speaker 1: to like stand up and for what you believe in

1230
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Speaker 1: that situation. I can't imagine it's easy. I mean, yeah,

1231
01:05:45,280 --> 01:05:47,280
Speaker 1: some days were really hard on that show, let me

1232
01:05:47,320 --> 01:05:50,720
Speaker 1: tell you. But actually when it comes to faith topics

1233
01:05:50,760 --> 01:05:53,360
Speaker 1: of faith, that was my comfort zone. So it's very

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Speaker 1: easy to stand up in that situation. But sometimes when

1235
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Speaker 1: we just got into politics, I'm like, oh my goodness, well,

1236
01:05:59,360 --> 01:06:02,040
Speaker 1: I mean that came stations almost just impossible no matter

1237
01:06:02,240 --> 01:06:05,240
Speaker 1: where what platform, whether you're and you know what, that

1238
01:06:05,360 --> 01:06:08,800
Speaker 1: you do it with such class and like kindness, thank you,

1239
01:06:09,040 --> 01:06:12,880
Speaker 1: which that is such a wonderful transition. That was amazing.

1240
01:06:15,120 --> 01:06:18,000
Speaker 1: It's true though, It's true, like you know you were.

1241
01:06:18,400 --> 01:06:20,400
Speaker 1: It's can get very heated, but I feel like you

1242
01:06:20,400 --> 01:06:23,280
Speaker 1: always have um I think you can like there's two

1243
01:06:23,280 --> 01:06:25,440
Speaker 1: ways to take a road. You can either dig or

1244
01:06:25,520 --> 01:06:26,720
Speaker 1: you can take the high road, and I feel like

1245
01:06:26,720 --> 01:06:29,080
Speaker 1: you always take the high road, thank you. I try to,

1246
01:06:29,680 --> 01:06:32,840
Speaker 1: especially during my time on The View, which was what

1247
01:06:33,080 --> 01:06:36,800
Speaker 1: magnified that more and and why I wrote my newest

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Speaker 1: book that's coming out soon, kind is the New Classy,

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01:06:40,760 --> 01:06:43,360
Speaker 1: because I did get that feedback from a lot of people,

1250
01:06:43,360 --> 01:06:45,080
Speaker 1: and I always wanted to take the high road. I

1251
01:06:45,120 --> 01:06:48,360
Speaker 1: wanted to be able to have conversations with people I

1252
01:06:48,440 --> 01:06:51,720
Speaker 1: disagree with respectfully and not have it turned into an

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01:06:51,760 --> 01:06:55,520
Speaker 1: angry argument or to end a friendship over it, and say, hey,

1254
01:06:55,600 --> 01:06:57,880
Speaker 1: we can still be friends. We can still disagree, but

1255
01:06:58,200 --> 01:07:00,400
Speaker 1: why don't we actually listen to each other, and why

1256
01:07:00,440 --> 01:07:02,680
Speaker 1: don't you tell me why you believe the things you

1257
01:07:02,680 --> 01:07:05,640
Speaker 1: believe and let me tell you what I believe and

1258
01:07:05,640 --> 01:07:09,000
Speaker 1: and why that There's probably some substance behind it oror

1259
01:07:09,120 --> 01:07:11,480
Speaker 1: background or where we came from as to why we

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01:07:11,520 --> 01:07:15,240
Speaker 1: have the viewpoints in worldviews that we do, and it

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01:07:15,280 --> 01:07:19,200
Speaker 1: doesn't always have to turn out poorly the discussion. And

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01:07:19,280 --> 01:07:22,200
Speaker 1: so I hope that I reflected that during my time

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01:07:22,240 --> 01:07:24,760
Speaker 1: on The View. Yeah, well, I remember always saying I

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01:07:24,880 --> 01:07:26,680
Speaker 1: thought this for a while, but I think when I

1265
01:07:26,760 --> 01:07:29,760
Speaker 1: moved from Louisiana, originally, and when I moved out to California,

1266
01:07:30,200 --> 01:07:32,040
Speaker 1: my views and like what I thought about a lot

1267
01:07:32,080 --> 01:07:34,120
Speaker 1: of things were so opposite of like the people I

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01:07:34,200 --> 01:07:37,360
Speaker 1: was meeting, And I remember thinking, like, I can disagree,

1269
01:07:37,360 --> 01:07:39,440
Speaker 1: we can disagree, and it doesn't have to be hateful,

1270
01:07:39,560 --> 01:07:41,840
Speaker 1: it doesn't have to be like such a negative thing.

1271
01:07:41,960 --> 01:07:44,280
Speaker 1: Can just be like, wow, wouldn't it kind of be

1272
01:07:44,320 --> 01:07:47,520
Speaker 1: boring if everyone had the exact same mentality on everything,

1273
01:07:47,760 --> 01:07:51,040
Speaker 1: you know? And so I've always I like totally respect

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01:07:51,040 --> 01:07:53,400
Speaker 1: that you were able that that's what you're trying to

1275
01:07:53,440 --> 01:07:56,040
Speaker 1: put out there, because I think people need to let's

1276
01:07:56,120 --> 01:08:00,280
Speaker 1: bridge build, let's connect. We know that the world we're

1277
01:08:00,400 --> 01:08:02,960
Speaker 1: never going to agree on everything. We're all going to

1278
01:08:03,040 --> 01:08:08,320
Speaker 1: have different viewpoints, but let's let's hold hands together and

1279
01:08:08,520 --> 01:08:11,720
Speaker 1: kind of figure out why. And it's okay to be opinionated,

1280
01:08:11,760 --> 01:08:14,840
Speaker 1: and it's okay to stand your ground and maybe not

1281
01:08:15,120 --> 01:08:18,960
Speaker 1: be persuaded. I think it's you know, to the other

1282
01:08:19,040 --> 01:08:23,000
Speaker 1: person's viewpoint, it's okay, but we all have to really

1283
01:08:23,040 --> 01:08:25,040
Speaker 1: listen to one another and we need to have grace

1284
01:08:25,080 --> 01:08:28,720
Speaker 1: with one another and say it's okay to agree to disagree. Yeah,

1285
01:08:28,760 --> 01:08:31,840
Speaker 1: I love that. Every time I say I love that.

1286
01:08:31,880 --> 01:08:38,200
Speaker 1: I think of The Bachelor arive that so much. Um.

1287
01:08:38,200 --> 01:08:39,680
Speaker 1: Do you know who could write the sequel to this?

1288
01:08:39,720 --> 01:08:42,240
Speaker 1: And when you're like talking about it is Selena Gomez.

1289
01:08:42,560 --> 01:08:44,320
Speaker 1: I feel like she always in the same way, like

1290
01:08:44,360 --> 01:08:47,880
Speaker 1: she always chooses kindness, she always takes the high road. Um.

1291
01:08:47,920 --> 01:08:49,160
Speaker 1: But I just think it's really cool that you have

1292
01:08:49,200 --> 01:08:52,439
Speaker 1: a whole book that's, you know, dedicated to that and

1293
01:08:52,520 --> 01:08:55,920
Speaker 1: kind of talking about your journey with you. I would

1294
01:08:55,920 --> 01:08:58,479
Speaker 1: love to know from Candice because I love your book.

1295
01:08:58,520 --> 01:09:02,960
Speaker 1: I love your instagram. On your Instagram with I think

1296
01:09:02,960 --> 01:09:05,960
Speaker 1: it was Dave's wife even but anyway, my goodness, I've

1297
01:09:05,960 --> 01:09:09,800
Speaker 1: been told not to use knives anymore on my Instagram

1298
01:09:09,880 --> 01:09:12,200
Speaker 1: because I'm so bad at so good. I like your

1299
01:09:12,240 --> 01:09:16,800
Speaker 1: car chats, you'd thank you. So my question is I

1300
01:09:16,800 --> 01:09:21,080
Speaker 1: would like to be kind. Yeah, I don't feel good

1301
01:09:21,120 --> 01:09:25,479
Speaker 1: when I'm not kind, But in the business world, that's

1302
01:09:25,479 --> 01:09:27,519
Speaker 1: what I want to know from you. Because you're an author,

1303
01:09:27,520 --> 01:09:32,439
Speaker 1: you're an actress, producer, you do all these things, and

1304
01:09:32,520 --> 01:09:35,519
Speaker 1: it is very hard to be kind and to be tough,

1305
01:09:36,160 --> 01:09:38,280
Speaker 1: and I don't. It's not even a woman man thing,

1306
01:09:38,760 --> 01:09:41,200
Speaker 1: but it's like I have to fight, fight for what

1307
01:09:41,400 --> 01:09:44,000
Speaker 1: these guys need, fight for what I need, fight for

1308
01:09:44,040 --> 01:09:47,640
Speaker 1: what he needs, fight for budgets, fight, fight, fight. And

1309
01:09:47,680 --> 01:09:50,719
Speaker 1: it's really hard to be kind and soft and loving

1310
01:09:51,439 --> 01:09:54,479
Speaker 1: and tough. Yeah, well that's the thing I think you can.

1311
01:09:55,240 --> 01:09:59,160
Speaker 1: Kindness should never be mistaken for weakness because it's not.

1312
01:09:59,400 --> 01:10:02,920
Speaker 1: There two very different things, and you can still be

1313
01:10:03,320 --> 01:10:07,360
Speaker 1: kind and go kick but uh, and that's that's ambition.

1314
01:10:07,640 --> 01:10:10,040
Speaker 1: And I talk a lot about ambition, and we don't

1315
01:10:10,040 --> 01:10:13,280
Speaker 1: have to be afraid to be ambitious women, especially in

1316
01:10:13,320 --> 01:10:19,200
Speaker 1: the workplace where we need to um, really be confident

1317
01:10:19,280 --> 01:10:21,599
Speaker 1: and not be afraid to ask for what we want

1318
01:10:21,920 --> 01:10:24,439
Speaker 1: and be afraid to be labeled as you know, you

1319
01:10:24,520 --> 01:10:28,160
Speaker 1: know what like that that that witchy word you know

1320
01:10:28,240 --> 01:10:31,240
Speaker 1: that I don't really say. And it's a hard balance.

1321
01:10:31,760 --> 01:10:35,559
Speaker 1: And honestly, some of the most simple steps that I

1322
01:10:35,640 --> 01:10:39,080
Speaker 1: take to be able to do that one is it's practice.

1323
01:10:39,320 --> 01:10:42,440
Speaker 1: I mean, it's really it's practiced to be kind and

1324
01:10:42,439 --> 01:10:45,640
Speaker 1: and uh, be patient with your answers, because let me

1325
01:10:45,680 --> 01:10:48,080
Speaker 1: tell you, it's not my first inclination at all times

1326
01:10:48,080 --> 01:10:50,240
Speaker 1: to be really kind and nice to people when they

1327
01:10:50,280 --> 01:10:53,439
Speaker 1: really upset me or hurt me, and when I'm fighting

1328
01:10:53,439 --> 01:10:57,479
Speaker 1: for something but I know that the calmer that I

1329
01:10:57,720 --> 01:11:01,120
Speaker 1: the calmer I am, the the breath that I take

1330
01:11:01,240 --> 01:11:04,960
Speaker 1: before to gather my thoughts and speak confidently instead of

1331
01:11:04,960 --> 01:11:09,960
Speaker 1: out of an emotional um, you know, anger or because

1332
01:11:10,320 --> 01:11:12,960
Speaker 1: yeah that uh, then it just kind of comes off

1333
01:11:12,960 --> 01:11:15,760
Speaker 1: as this frenzy that, oh, maybe you don't even know

1334
01:11:15,800 --> 01:11:18,280
Speaker 1: what you're talking about, you're just your emotional about it.

1335
01:11:18,520 --> 01:11:21,040
Speaker 1: And emotions are a great thing, but we just have

1336
01:11:21,120 --> 01:11:24,400
Speaker 1: to be in control of them, especially when we're fighting

1337
01:11:24,439 --> 01:11:27,680
Speaker 1: for things. And so there are some practical steps to

1338
01:11:27,760 --> 01:11:31,080
Speaker 1: take before going into those types of conversations, and they're

1339
01:11:31,160 --> 01:11:34,240
Speaker 1: especially hard when you get surprised with that conversation because

1340
01:11:34,280 --> 01:11:36,160
Speaker 1: I really like to prep I like to know if

1341
01:11:36,200 --> 01:11:38,120
Speaker 1: I'm going into a meeting and I have to ask

1342
01:11:38,200 --> 01:11:40,679
Speaker 1: for this and it's probably not going to be received well,

1343
01:11:41,120 --> 01:11:43,160
Speaker 1: or they I think they might brush me off. I mean,

1344
01:11:43,439 --> 01:11:46,200
Speaker 1: I prepare the entire conversations. In my head. I go

1345
01:11:46,280 --> 01:11:49,360
Speaker 1: through every person that I'm going to be sitting with

1346
01:11:49,400 --> 01:11:51,479
Speaker 1: at that meeting. I think of their back story, I

1347
01:11:51,520 --> 01:11:53,360
Speaker 1: think of where they came from. I think of their

1348
01:11:53,720 --> 01:11:58,040
Speaker 1: their viewpoints, their worldview, and then I try to anticipate

1349
01:11:58,200 --> 01:12:01,920
Speaker 1: the arguments the uh where what direction they're going to

1350
01:12:02,000 --> 01:12:05,120
Speaker 1: go with. So I have a rebuttal and something I

1351
01:12:05,200 --> 01:12:08,800
Speaker 1: learned from the view, and I try to go and

1352
01:12:08,840 --> 01:12:12,240
Speaker 1: as poised as possible. I also pray a lot. I'll

1353
01:12:12,240 --> 01:12:15,760
Speaker 1: be honest, I do a lot of praying. Yeah, I don't.

1354
01:12:15,840 --> 01:12:19,120
Speaker 1: I think I think that's very underestimated how powerful that

1355
01:12:19,240 --> 01:12:26,920
Speaker 1: is really, even if it's just like Jesus helped me help. Yeah, um,

1356
01:12:27,240 --> 01:12:29,680
Speaker 1: I want to talk about did So. I met Lori

1357
01:12:30,000 --> 01:12:33,280
Speaker 1: Laughlin at a Dodger game and it was I don't,

1358
01:12:33,360 --> 01:12:37,040
Speaker 1: I don't know what came over me. I was like,

1359
01:12:37,400 --> 01:12:39,000
Speaker 1: I have to go say hi to her. There was

1360
01:12:39,080 --> 01:12:42,439
Speaker 1: other people there that everyone was talking to, but I

1361
01:12:42,479 --> 01:12:44,000
Speaker 1: was like, I have to go say hi to and

1362
01:12:44,200 --> 01:12:46,679
Speaker 1: Becky because you would think she's like the nicest person

1363
01:12:46,720 --> 01:12:52,600
Speaker 1: in the world, and she is the like I was like,

1364
01:12:53,040 --> 01:12:57,400
Speaker 1: I was just kidding because she really she really is

1365
01:12:57,600 --> 01:13:00,679
Speaker 1: like the sweetest so you wanted to I went over

1366
01:13:01,000 --> 01:13:04,680
Speaker 1: and she was like, Um, she was like Becca, I

1367
01:13:04,720 --> 01:13:07,000
Speaker 1: watched I watched your season of the Bachelor, and I

1368
01:13:07,040 --> 01:13:10,240
Speaker 1: was just like, the best things that were happening in

1369
01:13:10,320 --> 01:13:12,800
Speaker 1: my entire life. She and Aaron Craiko. I think her

1370
01:13:12,880 --> 01:13:16,800
Speaker 1: like Bachelor junkies and they just watched every episode together.

1371
01:13:16,960 --> 01:13:20,400
Speaker 1: Well was that an even? Um? Uh? Olivia was there

1372
01:13:20,479 --> 01:13:22,599
Speaker 1: and so we like hung out the whole time with her.

1373
01:13:23,400 --> 01:13:26,920
Speaker 1: She was like sixteen. What is she like? Sixteen? Yeah,

1374
01:13:26,680 --> 01:13:31,320
Speaker 1: yeah she was. It was a few years ago. So

1375
01:13:31,360 --> 01:13:34,280
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, well, you know, just hanging out

1376
01:13:34,680 --> 01:13:39,679
Speaker 1: with the cool kids at the party. But um, yeah,

1377
01:13:39,880 --> 01:13:42,720
Speaker 1: it was I just get very excited. Like when you

1378
01:13:42,760 --> 01:13:45,160
Speaker 1: walked in, I was like, there she is. That makes

1379
01:13:45,200 --> 01:13:47,719
Speaker 1: me feel good. Maybe because of you will have season

1380
01:13:47,840 --> 01:13:50,960
Speaker 1: five of Fuller House, I know. I mean that's so crazy.

1381
01:13:50,960 --> 01:13:55,120
Speaker 1: I the first episode, Um, what did you sing forever?

1382
01:13:55,280 --> 01:13:57,960
Speaker 1: What were there was? He did? John did sing it

1383
01:13:57,960 --> 01:14:04,719
Speaker 1: in right? It was so emotional. He's had a great year. Yeah,

1384
01:14:04,840 --> 01:14:10,320
Speaker 1: I mean marriage, baby on the way, and he still

1385
01:14:10,360 --> 01:14:15,000
Speaker 1: never ages for ages. Yeah. He raised my uncle Jesse,

1386
01:14:15,240 --> 01:14:20,040
Speaker 1: but my uncle Jay. But he is so handsome. You're

1387
01:14:20,040 --> 01:14:25,639
Speaker 1: allowed to say it, you know. When we were John

1388
01:14:25,720 --> 01:14:27,799
Speaker 1: came out. We finally convinced John to come to Vegas

1389
01:14:27,880 --> 01:14:29,920
Speaker 1: for the I Heart Music Fest. Of all, I think

1390
01:14:30,400 --> 01:14:32,640
Speaker 1: you might have missed some of it. Becca was a

1391
01:14:32,640 --> 01:14:35,719
Speaker 1: little tipsy. Listen, I had a rough night that night. However,

1392
01:14:36,520 --> 01:14:38,920
Speaker 1: I also he was with Britt and I was like,

1393
01:14:38,960 --> 01:14:40,960
Speaker 1: if he seems like I don't want to be I

1394
01:14:41,000 --> 01:14:45,280
Speaker 1: don't want to bother him, you know. So in that state,

1395
01:14:45,360 --> 01:14:47,640
Speaker 1: I'm really glad I didn't try because I would have

1396
01:14:47,640 --> 01:14:53,360
Speaker 1: been mortified. But so nice and his lovely girlfriend at

1397
01:14:53,360 --> 01:14:56,760
Speaker 1: the time fiance wife. Now she is so cool but

1398
01:14:56,840 --> 01:15:00,799
Speaker 1: they're married, right yeah, now sorry. So when he left,

1399
01:15:00,840 --> 01:15:02,800
Speaker 1: he was thanking us all like we were like, no,

1400
01:15:02,960 --> 01:15:04,800
Speaker 1: thank you, and I remember him like giving me a

1401
01:15:04,840 --> 01:15:07,680
Speaker 1: kiss on the lips, one of those very friendly yes,

1402
01:15:08,080 --> 01:15:11,559
Speaker 1: not nothing weird everybody listening, yes. And one of my

1403
01:15:11,640 --> 01:15:14,840
Speaker 1: girlfriends looked at me and was like, can you beat this?

1404
01:15:14,960 --> 01:15:18,320
Speaker 1: Get the beeB ready? That is bucket lish right there.

1405
01:15:20,120 --> 01:15:23,639
Speaker 1: Sums it up because like, oh my god, you kiss

1406
01:15:25,160 --> 01:15:29,400
Speaker 1: like you can die. It's all good. You can die.

1407
01:15:29,960 --> 01:15:34,800
Speaker 1: So good. That's a good one. Um. But your daughter

1408
01:15:34,920 --> 01:15:37,879
Speaker 1: she's is she acting? I know she does like YouTube

1409
01:15:37,920 --> 01:15:39,960
Speaker 1: and kind of does similar things what I do, But

1410
01:15:40,040 --> 01:15:43,040
Speaker 1: does she wanting to get into that? So she she's

1411
01:15:43,080 --> 01:15:45,800
Speaker 1: auditioning with the rest of them? Um? She did. She

1412
01:15:45,920 --> 01:15:49,120
Speaker 1: was in my last Christmas movie on Homework Channel that

1413
01:15:49,200 --> 01:15:51,360
Speaker 1: was switched for Christmas. She was in that. She played

1414
01:15:51,360 --> 01:15:53,640
Speaker 1: my daughter in it. She did a great job. And

1415
01:15:53,680 --> 01:15:56,080
Speaker 1: then she does have a new movie coming out. I

1416
01:15:56,840 --> 01:15:59,000
Speaker 1: don't I don't know if it's the Spring or in

1417
01:15:59,080 --> 01:16:03,080
Speaker 1: the early fall. It's called Faith, Love and Hope. It's

1418
01:16:03,120 --> 01:16:07,519
Speaker 1: with Peter Murgatroyd who's on Dancing with Dancing with Stars,

1419
01:16:08,000 --> 01:16:11,559
Speaker 1: and uh, some other really great actors who's I'm kind

1420
01:16:11,600 --> 01:16:13,760
Speaker 1: of blanking he names right now. But that movie will

1421
01:16:13,760 --> 01:16:16,400
Speaker 1: be coming out soon. So she's yeah, she's acting, and

1422
01:16:16,439 --> 01:16:21,040
Speaker 1: she's still singing and recording all her own stuff with

1423
01:16:21,080 --> 01:16:23,240
Speaker 1: her friends, and I kind of stay out of the

1424
01:16:23,320 --> 01:16:26,839
Speaker 1: music world part of it at this point until contracts

1425
01:16:26,840 --> 01:16:31,120
Speaker 1: are involved. We did it scare like for her to

1426
01:16:31,160 --> 01:16:33,559
Speaker 1: get into this world that you've been in? Or was

1427
01:16:33,560 --> 01:16:35,960
Speaker 1: it like, were you hesitant about her or No? I

1428
01:16:36,000 --> 01:16:39,240
Speaker 1: wasn't because I've been in this industry since I was five,

1429
01:16:39,439 --> 01:16:42,479
Speaker 1: and I'm comfortable with it. I know what I know,

1430
01:16:43,120 --> 01:16:46,080
Speaker 1: I know I know what goes on, and I've been

1431
01:16:46,120 --> 01:16:51,280
Speaker 1: able to help her navigate through it. But also really,

1432
01:16:51,320 --> 01:16:55,640
Speaker 1: when she made a decision that hey, this is the

1433
01:16:55,760 --> 01:16:58,760
Speaker 1: industry that I want to be in, she wasn't. Uh,

1434
01:16:58,800 --> 01:17:02,240
Speaker 1: it wasn't until she was about sixteen. I mean, it's

1435
01:17:02,240 --> 01:17:05,240
Speaker 1: been really recent or seventeen years old. So I feel

1436
01:17:05,280 --> 01:17:07,439
Speaker 1: like at that point she's coming into it and into

1437
01:17:07,520 --> 01:17:12,160
Speaker 1: adulthood and it's different, you know, And so I feel

1438
01:17:12,360 --> 01:17:15,160
Speaker 1: more confident in that sense that she's almost an adult.

1439
01:17:15,280 --> 01:17:18,000
Speaker 1: It's not something that I pushed her into doing, but

1440
01:17:18,280 --> 01:17:22,720
Speaker 1: trust me, I'm there right along her side. Um creatively,

1441
01:17:22,800 --> 01:17:25,600
Speaker 1: I want her to do whatever she wants to do.

1442
01:17:25,640 --> 01:17:28,040
Speaker 1: But she's great and in the sense that she comes

1443
01:17:28,040 --> 01:17:30,320
Speaker 1: and asks me things all the time because she's like, Mom,

1444
01:17:30,360 --> 01:17:31,680
Speaker 1: what should I do with this? What should I do

1445
01:17:31,720 --> 01:17:34,320
Speaker 1: with this? And listen, We've had tons of those discussions

1446
01:17:34,320 --> 01:17:36,680
Speaker 1: of like, most people are not looking out for your

1447
01:17:36,720 --> 01:17:40,840
Speaker 1: best interests, so don't trust everything you see, you hear

1448
01:17:40,920 --> 01:17:43,480
Speaker 1: what they tell you. And it's not to be pessimistic

1449
01:17:43,560 --> 01:17:45,639
Speaker 1: about it, but it's just the reality of it. So

1450
01:17:46,000 --> 01:17:48,280
Speaker 1: she knows like Mama bears by her side. But at

1451
01:17:48,320 --> 01:17:51,000
Speaker 1: the same time, she has the freedom too. I mean,

1452
01:17:51,080 --> 01:17:53,360
Speaker 1: she's almost twenty years old to do make the choice

1453
01:17:53,439 --> 01:17:55,280
Speaker 1: that she wants. I mean, it's so nice to have

1454
01:17:55,400 --> 01:17:58,360
Speaker 1: you though, to be like, oh, stay away from that.

1455
01:17:59,240 --> 01:18:02,040
Speaker 1: I think she a pre shades it now, maybe happen

1456
01:18:02,240 --> 01:18:04,640
Speaker 1: years ago, but now she kind of gets it, like

1457
01:18:04,920 --> 01:18:08,120
Speaker 1: this is scary and mom knows, yeah exactly. Um. Do

1458
01:18:08,160 --> 01:18:11,320
Speaker 1: you have any guilty pleasure TV that you watch? TV

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01:18:11,400 --> 01:18:15,920
Speaker 1: shows that you like? Um, well yeah, but my guilty

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01:18:15,960 --> 01:18:22,200
Speaker 1: pleasure show probably isn't everyone else's. It's Game of Thrones. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So like I just I'm on season four, but I uh,

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Speaker 1: you know, I've my audience gets really nervous when I

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Speaker 1: because there's nudity in it and there's language, and so

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01:18:35,280 --> 01:18:37,800
Speaker 1: people are like, how could you watch that show? But

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01:18:37,960 --> 01:18:41,040
Speaker 1: it's so good. It's so good, and I feel like

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Speaker 1: just because it's like way back way back when, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: but that's how it was during that time. So I'm

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Speaker 1: really enjoying that show. But it actually is a guilty

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01:18:50,400 --> 01:18:52,880
Speaker 1: pleasure because even my husband and my kids are all

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Speaker 1: older teenagers. But he's like, you cannot have that on

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Speaker 1: when the kids are right now. There's too much language

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01:18:58,640 --> 01:19:01,840
Speaker 1: in it. There's a lot of Yes, I've actually wanted

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01:19:01,880 --> 01:19:04,439
Speaker 1: to watch that show because I've heard people are obsessive,

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01:19:04,439 --> 01:19:06,400
Speaker 1: but I feel like I'm too far gone now. It's like, no,

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01:19:06,560 --> 01:19:09,320
Speaker 1: you're not, you're not. I just started its season seven,

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01:19:09,360 --> 01:19:13,080
Speaker 1: but I'm on scary No, No, But it's it's it

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01:19:13,120 --> 01:19:17,559
Speaker 1: can be gruesome at times. Uh yeah, yeah, I just

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01:19:17,640 --> 01:19:20,880
Speaker 1: I don't like scary, so I don't know. Okay, I

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01:19:20,960 --> 01:19:27,040
Speaker 1: watched Gray No never, Howasha does No. I work a

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01:19:27,120 --> 01:19:30,080
Speaker 1: lot and I don't have much time for television, so

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01:19:30,120 --> 01:19:32,880
Speaker 1: I basically watch one television show at a time. And

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01:19:33,000 --> 01:19:34,960
Speaker 1: right now I'm watching Game with you. I get it.

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01:19:35,000 --> 01:19:38,160
Speaker 1: I I I love in my head not picturing you

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01:19:38,240 --> 01:19:40,240
Speaker 1: like sitting on the couch. Has been watching shows and

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01:19:40,240 --> 01:19:43,000
Speaker 1: it just doesn't go like you're like so busy, it's

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01:19:43,000 --> 01:19:45,880
Speaker 1: not like you have time. Yeah. The other show that's

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01:19:45,920 --> 01:19:49,160
Speaker 1: on our house constantly, because my kids have probably watched

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01:19:50,200 --> 01:19:53,000
Speaker 1: every season, I mean the entire show, and they're probably

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01:19:53,040 --> 01:19:56,920
Speaker 1: through it their fourth or fifth time now is The Office.

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01:19:57,040 --> 01:20:00,720
Speaker 1: I've never watched The Office. It's even a watching never.

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01:20:01,040 --> 01:20:04,320
Speaker 1: It's so funny. Everyone everyone that watches it loves it.

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01:20:05,000 --> 01:20:07,040
Speaker 1: I'm a fan of both the British and American versions.

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01:20:07,240 --> 01:20:11,160
Speaker 1: Oh there's two. I have like just like a question

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01:20:11,200 --> 01:20:16,080
Speaker 1: just about your life, Um, but that's very how do

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01:20:16,120 --> 01:20:19,320
Speaker 1: you balance it all? Like in terms of like obviously

1496
01:20:19,400 --> 01:20:21,160
Speaker 1: right now, you're so funny. Because I have a book

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01:20:21,160 --> 01:20:26,439
Speaker 1: called Balancing it All. That's one of my other books.

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01:20:27,439 --> 01:20:29,120
Speaker 1: Because I think a lot of times, you know, like

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01:20:29,240 --> 01:20:31,280
Speaker 1: I think it's been a topic of conversation because Cardi

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01:20:31,360 --> 01:20:33,240
Speaker 1: b I don't know, I'm obviously obsessed with right now.

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01:20:33,240 --> 01:20:35,599
Speaker 1: I mentioned her twice this podcast, but she just now

1502
01:20:35,680 --> 01:20:38,800
Speaker 1: she's pregnant, and everybody's saying, why would she do that?

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01:20:38,880 --> 01:20:40,720
Speaker 1: It's going to kill her career bl BLA. And I

1504
01:20:40,720 --> 01:20:43,120
Speaker 1: feel like there's such a misconception with having sad that

1505
01:20:43,160 --> 01:20:46,320
Speaker 1: people think a baby's going to kill a total that's awful.

1506
01:20:46,960 --> 01:20:51,360
Speaker 1: Only make her a better in her life, and because

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01:20:51,360 --> 01:20:54,000
Speaker 1: it completely shifts your focus when you do have a child,

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01:20:54,120 --> 01:20:57,639
Speaker 1: and we'll probably make her a better businesswoman and performer

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01:20:57,680 --> 01:21:01,040
Speaker 1: and everything, because children are an amazing sing and sad

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01:21:01,080 --> 01:21:04,840
Speaker 1: when people look at it that way. But you know what,

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01:21:05,080 --> 01:21:11,040
Speaker 1: when I talking about balancing, I believe it's juggling. There's

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01:21:11,080 --> 01:21:15,559
Speaker 1: really no balancing. It's juggling. So you you can have

1513
01:21:16,240 --> 01:21:18,679
Speaker 1: you know, different plates spinning. You gotta drop a few

1514
01:21:18,680 --> 01:21:21,240
Speaker 1: at times, you pick them back up later, and that's

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01:21:21,400 --> 01:21:25,320
Speaker 1: what it's all about. And so I've it's juggling within

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01:21:25,360 --> 01:21:28,519
Speaker 1: the seasons of your life, even from when my kids

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01:21:28,520 --> 01:21:32,240
Speaker 1: were younger to them being teenagers. Um, it's being a

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01:21:32,240 --> 01:21:36,080
Speaker 1: stay at home mom working, it's you have to set

1519
01:21:36,160 --> 01:21:39,960
Speaker 1: up your priorities. And that's the biggest thing that people

1520
01:21:40,720 --> 01:21:42,960
Speaker 1: I think don't do and where you can kind of

1521
01:21:43,040 --> 01:21:46,479
Speaker 1: get in trouble because if you don't actually sit down

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01:21:46,479 --> 01:21:48,599
Speaker 1: and say, hey, this is number one in my life,

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01:21:48,640 --> 01:21:50,640
Speaker 1: this is number two in my life, and maybe a

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01:21:50,760 --> 01:21:53,840
Speaker 1: number three, and then all the other stuff are the

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01:21:53,880 --> 01:21:57,080
Speaker 1: things that you can put down for a season or

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01:21:57,120 --> 01:21:59,640
Speaker 1: a time and pick up later. But it's like my

1527
01:21:59,720 --> 01:22:03,400
Speaker 1: really ship with God, my family, and my work. Obviously

1528
01:22:03,439 --> 01:22:07,400
Speaker 1: those are big priorities. But you know sometimes even friendships

1529
01:22:07,439 --> 01:22:09,640
Speaker 1: relationships that way. They might come in and out of

1530
01:22:09,640 --> 01:22:11,800
Speaker 1: my life at times, but you know, the good friendships

1531
01:22:11,800 --> 01:22:13,679
Speaker 1: will stick around when they know you're having a busy

1532
01:22:13,720 --> 01:22:16,519
Speaker 1: season and you can pick up where you left off

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01:22:16,560 --> 01:22:21,559
Speaker 1: like no time has passed. Yeah, so important. Wow, I

1534
01:22:21,560 --> 01:22:26,679
Speaker 1: mean we could talk to you all day. Be respectful

1535
01:22:26,680 --> 01:22:28,840
Speaker 1: of your time. I love it. I love it. Um

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01:22:29,080 --> 01:22:31,000
Speaker 1: so kind is the new Classy? Is the book? And

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01:22:31,040 --> 01:22:32,880
Speaker 1: where can people get it? Go ahead and plug it?

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01:22:33,160 --> 01:22:36,479
Speaker 1: Oh cool? Well, if you can preorder right now at

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01:22:36,560 --> 01:22:39,840
Speaker 1: any major online retailer, and if you actually go to

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01:22:39,880 --> 01:22:43,639
Speaker 1: my website, which is can't can't remember I dot net. Uh,

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01:22:43,800 --> 01:22:50,160
Speaker 1: we've been trying to figure like a hat either one

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Speaker 1: just not burr or beer. Yeah, that's the big If

1543
01:22:54,960 --> 01:22:58,559
Speaker 1: you're a hockey fan, you know it's burret. But I

1544
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Speaker 1: guess if you don't, then you don't anyway. Um, Candice

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Speaker 1: carmeron beret And right now I have there's like a

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Speaker 1: there's still a few personally signed autograph copies left that

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Speaker 1: you can enter your receipt code through my website and

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Speaker 1: then you get a bunch of extra fun stuff too

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Speaker 1: on it in the first two chapters on audio and

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Speaker 1: you can read that. But it comes out April, I

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01:23:24,000 --> 01:23:27,760
Speaker 1: believe at all major on all major retail stores. But

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01:23:27,840 --> 01:23:31,200
Speaker 1: you can pre order right now online. Well, thank you.

1553
01:23:31,240 --> 01:23:34,320
Speaker 1: I know you're so busy. We we were so excited

1554
01:23:34,400 --> 01:23:37,720
Speaker 1: to have you. Is awesome excited to come here. So

1555
01:23:37,800 --> 01:23:40,880
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Speaker 1: on Demand. UM, thank you all for your emails, Thank

1558
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Speaker 1: you for the Facebook group comments. We love you all

1559
01:23:52,960 --> 01:23:55,760
Speaker 1: so much, so much. Um, you call time of death.

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01:23:56,360 --> 01:23:58,479
Speaker 1: We have a quick email about that. Why do you

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01:23:58,520 --> 01:24:02,000
Speaker 1: call time of death before the heart beating, just like

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01:24:02,160 --> 01:24:04,639
Speaker 1: I'm not technically, you're not dadal after the beep yet,

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01:24:04,680 --> 01:24:07,240
Speaker 1: y'all call it before the beep. You guys were just

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01:24:07,280 --> 01:24:09,799
Speaker 1: interns here. We're just learning as we are, like medical

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01:24:09,920 --> 01:24:13,519
Speaker 1: students were not even interns yet. So sorry, we're learning.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for thank you for teaching us. I'm here

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01:24:15,680 --> 01:24:18,120
Speaker 1: to learn. Yeah, so let's wait till the heart stops beating.

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01:24:18,400 --> 01:24:23,280
Speaker 1: All right? Um pressure, wait I wanted to give. The

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Speaker 1: email is scrubbing in at iHeart media dot com. Now

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Speaker 1: I'm really uncomfortable, Tony, call it okay, time of death.

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Speaker 1: It's fourteen three. I'm not good at army time. Oh

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Speaker 1: it would have been fourteen No, it's twelve plus four