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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocates Law dot com.

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Speaker 2: Zayin is on the phone today for our first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Marissa, who we

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Speaker 2: went on a date with. So in a few minutes

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Speaker 2: we're going to call her and see if she tell

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Speaker 2: us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date.

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Speaker 2: But first zaying, how long has it been since you

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Speaker 2: heard from Marissa?

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Speaker 3: It's been about a week since I've since I've texted

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Speaker 3: her and I haven't gotten a respond.

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Speaker 4: How many times you try to reach out to her

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Speaker 4: in the week.

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Speaker 3: Honestly, the last thing I sent it was just asking

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Speaker 3: her if we were going to catch up again since

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Speaker 3: I I messaged her follow up. We had a we

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Speaker 3: had a couple of glasses of wine in our date

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Speaker 3: and whatnot, and I kind of made made reilly joke

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Speaker 3: about a wine hangover or something, and she just give

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Speaker 3: me this like winky tongue, skin out face. So I

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Speaker 3: kind of thought it was flirty and whatnot, and I said, Hey,

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Speaker 3: when are we going to do this again? And that's

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Speaker 3: really been it. I haven't I don't want to push

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Speaker 3: because I kind of want to you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, that's like the worst one to

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Speaker 1: get on selfies. And then when it's like when are

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Speaker 1: we gonna hang.

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Speaker 4: Out and.

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Speaker 1: Let's go backwards sane, Why don't you tell us about

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Speaker 1: the date? How did you meet Marissa?

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Speaker 5: Oh? So we met work.

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Speaker 3: We're going out and they wanted to go to a

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Speaker 3: karaoke bar, and I at a karaoke bar person, I

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Speaker 3: don't like it, for I have a musician music background

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Speaker 3: and just hearing people singing poorly just kind of racks

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Speaker 3: my brain. But I mean more to him, I want

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Speaker 3: them to have fun. I just don't need to listen

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Speaker 3: to it, you know. But I went anyway because it

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Speaker 3: was a group, and you know, I felt like kind

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Speaker 3: of a spoiled sport not going. So I went and

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Speaker 3: I met Marissa at the Marsa was and myself and

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Speaker 3: here we met and we actually.

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Speaker 5: Started flirting a lot, which was a great distraction.

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Speaker 3: From the bad singing, and we chatted and chatted and

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Speaker 3: just had a great time. We ended up getting up

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Speaker 3: and do a karaoke song and again not a karaoke singer,

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Speaker 3: but we've seen something from Grief on the Summer.

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Speaker 5: Eleven, but we had an absolute blast and taught like

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Speaker 5: about it. We finished the night, I got her number.

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Speaker 3: It was very friendly but very fun, but nothing so forward,

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Speaker 3: you know, got her number. We ended up meeting up

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Speaker 3: at a wine bar and I had a really great time.

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Speaker 3: Talked the entire time. We did the whole tasting menu too,

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Speaker 3: so I'm sure the wine helped. The conversation is back

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Speaker 3: and forth. A lot of great bands are back and forth,

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Speaker 3: and it was like we were bouncing off of each other.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 5: So the time went really fast and.

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Speaker 3: Just not a dull moment, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 3: And yeah, we talked literally about everything. So no, I'm

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Speaker 3: a little confused, as said, why, what's going on? And

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Speaker 3: how I didn't hear anything?

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Speaker 5: I guess was there.

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Speaker 1: A moment at any point where it was like this

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Speaker 1: could be why?

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Speaker 3: So yeah, during the whole conversation or during the whole

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Speaker 3: time where we're going through these wine tests and like

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Speaker 3: we're chatting and I can drink relatively fast, but it

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Speaker 3: was obviously that she was a obviously a slow drinker,

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Speaker 3: so I was.

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Speaker 5: Kind of helping her along so we could get to

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Speaker 5: the next palate.

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Speaker 6: So did you tell your drinks and you chugged hers.

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Speaker 3: Also, well, I mean I wouldn't say chug. She would

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Speaker 3: take a ship, maybe another ship, and I'm done, and

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Speaker 3: I'm oh, let me.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, that's nice, isn't it. Let me take another

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Speaker 5: ship of that? Isn't that nice?

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Speaker 3: And I just kind of help her along, you know,

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Speaker 3: And maybe maybe they's a little really.

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Speaker 5: Crappy, right, best to play it as a joke, like

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Speaker 5: I wasn't trying to be at a whole about it,

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Speaker 5: which I was making. But that's the only thing I

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Speaker 5: could think that maybe she didn't take it funny.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that could that could be.

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Speaker 7: It's like this dude's just drinking my drink. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 7: she thought you just were so cirty. Okay, all right,

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Speaker 7: well we'll try to figure it out for you.

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Speaker 2: Then we'll play a song come back, and then call

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Speaker 2: her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting

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Speaker 2: you and hopefully get you another day to.

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Speaker 5: Okay, fantastic, that'd be awesome.

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Speaker 2: Well, please don't come back to get your first day follow

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Speaker 2: up next. Right in the middle of today's first day

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Speaker 2: follow up, if you're just joining us, the Saine is

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Speaker 2: on the phone and he's getting ghosted from a date

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Speaker 2: he went on with a girl named Marissa. So we're

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Speaker 2: about to call her and see if she'll tell us

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Speaker 2: why she's ghosting him and hopefully get him another date.

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Speaker 2: But first zaying, why don't you recap your date with Marissa?

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Speaker 5: All right? Sure, thing?

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Speaker 3: We met at karaoke bar. We got along really really well.

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Speaker 3: We even sang together, which is unheard of for me.

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Speaker 3: We went on a date. It was fantastic. I may,

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Speaker 3: outside of possibly drinking too much of her wine instead

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Speaker 3: of as well as my own, it may it was

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Speaker 3: a perfect date.

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Speaker 5: It was fantastic. So just looking to see what happened.

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Speaker 4: All right? You ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, let's do it.

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Speaker 4: Okay, here we go. Hello, I speak to Marissa. Please.

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Speaker 5: This is she?

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Speaker 2: Hey Marissa, how are you? My name is Jewbell and

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Speaker 2: I host a radio show. It's called The Jewbill Show.

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Speaker 6: Hi, Marissa, the Jewbill Show is here.

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Speaker 4: I'm Nina.

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Speaker 6: Hi, I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 4: How are you?

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Speaker 6: I'm doing good?

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Speaker 4: Did you listen to the show?

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Speaker 5: I do well?

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Speaker 4: Marissa? Have you ever heard a first date follow up before?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: I do listen to those?

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Speaker 2: Okay, great, how would you like to be on one?

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Speaker 8: I honestly am not sure, but I'm here for the rhye.

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Speaker 2: Okay, sweet, Well, we got an email about you from

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Speaker 2: a guy that you're ghosting.

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Speaker 4: Do you have any idea who that could be?

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Speaker 6: I would imagine you're talking about Zaye.

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Speaker 4: Yes, okay, correct. Zaye emailed us.

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Speaker 2: I said it's been about a week since your date

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Speaker 2: and he hasn't heard anything from you, and he's wondering why.

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Speaker 8: Well, after so we went on a date to a

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Speaker 8: wine bar, right and it was a great time.

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Speaker 5: I had a good time.

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Speaker 6: But then we were like we were getting.

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Speaker 8: A little buzzed, and he admitted that he his favorite

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Speaker 8: show was vander Pump Rules and like he loves the

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Speaker 8: Bravo Network. And that to me was a bit of

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Speaker 8: an ick because I mean, I'm a theater kid and

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Speaker 8: I don't really like reality TV. I think it cheapens television.

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Speaker 8: I think it takes away from people who are real artists.

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Speaker 8: If I'm like, if I'm going to watch something on TV,

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Speaker 8: it's going to be meaningful. I mean, the people that

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Speaker 8: are on reality television, they're famous for no reason.

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Speaker 4: It just it.

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Speaker 8: She spends TV.

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Speaker 6: For me, I just love that it's vander Pump Rules

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Speaker 6: for him though, it was just cringe.

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Speaker 4: I just don't I don't know.

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Speaker 6: It really turned me off.

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Speaker 4: In a moment. And when you get dick, you just

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Speaker 4: get the hick.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, you just can't get rid of it. I couldn't

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Speaker 8: see him the same after that.

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Speaker 4: Because he likes vander Pump Rules.

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Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, okay, well, thank you for telling us.

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Speaker 2: Appreciate that Zaan is actually on the phone listening and

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Speaker 2: wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 4: It's like a reality.

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Speaker 5: Show, that's it.

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Speaker 3: That's it, because I like, like, I understand that none

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Speaker 3: but it is dumb, simple comedy to me, and it

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Speaker 3: just you don't have to think about it. I don't understand.

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Speaker 3: Why is that, like a that's so odd to me?

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Speaker 3: Why would you not want to talk to me? Because

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Speaker 3: I like to cool down with a little bit of

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Speaker 3: really stupid, mindless television. I work in like really high stress,

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Speaker 3: nonsense tech industry, all that good stuff, so I'm high

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Speaker 3: ten out of the day and sometimes I just want

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Speaker 3: to turn on the TV and watch idiots the idiots

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Speaker 3: and just laugh and not think.

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Speaker 5: And it's fantastic. But I mean, that's really, that's why

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Speaker 5: you do You ghosted me. We had such a good

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Speaker 5: time and that the uh, that's that's it. I mean,

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Speaker 5: I'm pathetic.

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Speaker 8: I'm honestly rigarissed. I didn't really I want you to

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Speaker 8: hear what I thought.

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Speaker 6: And I don't.

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Speaker 5: I certainly don't want to hurt your feelings. Well, trust me,

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Speaker 5: I did not hurt my feelings.

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Speaker 8: It's just comes down to the fact that like, you're

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Speaker 8: not the one, Like I don't want to pursue you.

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Speaker 5: I don't want to pursue you.

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Speaker 6: Well, I didn't.

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Speaker 3: Realize that the RAP network had that much of an

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Speaker 3: influence on your dating outcomes.

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Speaker 5: But okay, I'm my feelings aren't hurt. I understand. Cool,

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Speaker 5: you don't like it, but.

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Speaker 4: Would you like to go on another day with Zaye?

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Speaker 4: We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 8: I really am sorry about all this. I don't think

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Speaker 8: I'm interested. I mean, the reality TV of it all

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Speaker 8: is just not for me. I wouldn't want to be

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Speaker 8: around that for an extended period of time. And if

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Speaker 8: that's an interest of yours, that's great for you, but it's.

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Speaker 5: Not for me.

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Speaker 3: Well that is perfectly okay, because if it's.

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Speaker 5: Going to be about someone being so sanati about something.

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Speaker 3: Is watching something on television that I think the feeling's mutual.

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Speaker 5: Now thing, We're all good.

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Speaker 6: Okay, great, have a nice life with all the reality

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Speaker 6: TV

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Speaker 5: Starts, have a fun time getting a stick out your

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Speaker 5: bumble first day to follow up,