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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all?

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Speaker 2: It's your girl, lix Pee.

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Speaker 1: And it's Sugarl dre in the call and you.

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Speaker 2: Are tuned in to another episode of Poor.

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Speaker 3: Mine, where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts.

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Speaker 1: What's up, dra? What's up?

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Speaker 2: Tea?

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Speaker 1: I couldn't say what's up?

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Speaker 3: L It wouldn't go mat. I think I'm gonna say

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Speaker 3: what's up x P? But there's too many words.

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Speaker 1: What's up?

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Speaker 2: You ain't got no rhythm?

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Speaker 1: Bro, I talked. I feel like what's up? Tea? Was fine?

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Speaker 2: And that is your initial.

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Speaker 1: Well, y'all want to know what it stands for.

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Speaker 2: No, we're not gonna go, but I'm just not like.

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Speaker 2: You know, I got more rhythm than you. I think

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Speaker 2: we know that because you know who said it? You well,

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Speaker 2: you know they got the rapper, little Kiki. They used

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Speaker 2: to call me a little pee pee back in the day.

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Speaker 2: So who used to call you little p pe? Dude?

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Speaker 1: Little Maurice Ville? Why are you gonna go there?

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Speaker 2: Dog? You just don't want to give me my prompt?

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Speaker 3: But that's where you're from, right, I'm from a lot

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Speaker 3: of places, so I don't think they count.

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Speaker 2: I don't think it ain't no, I don't think nobody

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Speaker 2: just will respected out of Marasville. They used to call

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Speaker 2: me a little peepy. Then when I started running with

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Speaker 2: zero in them, they used to call me pro.

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Speaker 1: When did you start running with whimsy? How you like it?

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Speaker 1: From Little Mariesville to most city?

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Speaker 2: I mean I've been around the block, being around the

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Speaker 2: world and nothing. Yeah, yeah, you was moving, moving, he

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Speaker 2: was really moving, because that's a long way. Now, what's up? Since?

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Speaker 2: Would you be good? Queen? I had a very very

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Speaker 2: adventurous weekend, to say the least.

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Speaker 1: What made it adventure?

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Speaker 2: I mean I just saw a lot of people. I

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Speaker 2: was just I never go outside, so I went outside

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Speaker 2: a little bit and I met a few few of

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Speaker 2: the listeners, which was cool. I always liked to meet

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Speaker 2: the listeners. But you know, just cutting you had a

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Speaker 2: good time. You was being safe, You had your mask on.

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Speaker 1: Wore condom why, I know, not to ex stagg.

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Speaker 2: Safety first, safety first, No, but yeah, on a good weekend,

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Speaker 2: I turned up linked with some friends. You know, how

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Speaker 2: was your weekend? My weekend was cool? I you know, no,

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Speaker 2: we don't know.

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Speaker 1: You do know? Actually, let to know.

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Speaker 3: You know, I had a little mini trip and I

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Speaker 3: went to New Orleans for a.

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Speaker 2: Few days in a pandemic. I know that's a queen.

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Speaker 1: I went to New Orleans for like two days.

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Speaker 2: I just got back yesterday.

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Speaker 1: I have fun. You know, the food in New Orleans

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Speaker 1: is always really, really good.

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Speaker 3: I don't know because the person I went to see

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Speaker 3: is not from New Orleans. Oh and he doesn't live there,

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Speaker 3: so I'm not quite sure how the deck in New

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Speaker 3: Orleans is with I got in New Orleans was immaculates.

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Speaker 2: We love to hear sister puts popping and on a hand.

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Speaker 1: Sand on a hand, sand and dependence.

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Speaker 2: I am fucking dead. Okay, so let's get into these topics.

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Speaker 2: You can go ahead and introduce the first one.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Oh lord, here we go.

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Speaker 3: So for the first topic, I kind of wanted to

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Speaker 3: on Oh, I'm successful, I got my shit together, which

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Speaker 3: is great, Like, that's great to be able to say

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Speaker 1: You know, but these niggas don't give a fuck because they.

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Speaker 2: Don't what do you mean, wait, what do you mean

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Speaker 2: by they don't give a fuck?

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Speaker 3: Rich men, more specifically, bad bees don't really give a

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Speaker 3: nigga don't care about that type of stuff. What they

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Speaker 1: Oh? Can you bear them some kids?

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Speaker 3: Are you beautiful? Is your face cute? Are you submissive?

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Speaker 2: That's true? And do you I low mileage? But honestly,

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Speaker 2: they don't even care about that either. I think sometimes

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Speaker 2: they care a little bit about it. They've been fucking

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Speaker 2: the same three bitches in Hollywood since nineteen sixty four.

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Speaker 2: They don't care.

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Speaker 1: Fucking fucking and wife and is two different things. The

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Speaker 2: I don't want to say tossed around, but I don't

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Speaker 3: We all have known and seen a few times getting

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Speaker 3: engaged means nothing.

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Speaker 2: It's too much shade today.

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Speaker 3: I'm just being honest. Getting engaged means nothing. How many

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Speaker 3: time when people get engaged but they don't get married.

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Speaker 3: I'm talking about women who have actually made it down

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Speaker 3: the aisle.

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Speaker 1: Okay married badb's.

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Speaker 2: Well, you just said that. They have knowledge on them,

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Speaker 2: but they're still getting in relationship.

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Speaker 1: And this is not my opinion.

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Speaker 3: This is not my Let me go ahead and say

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Speaker 3: that it's not my opinion that you have to have

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Speaker 3: low mileage because we.

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Speaker 2: Know that around the block.

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Speaker 1: Rest of all Beach, this is not a hundred cit

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Speaker 1: What is it?

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Speaker 2: I woke up in that new boot gott it?

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Speaker 3: It ain't even a Bugotti niggas don't even drive those

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Speaker 3: no more?

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Speaker 1: What you got?

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Speaker 2: You know that came out with a new hommer. I'm

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Speaker 2: a ghost, Okay, we can get with that. I would

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Speaker 2: sound more of a maybag, a ghost, a new mayback truck.

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Speaker 1: I'm more of an accurate.

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Speaker 2: You know they got they got remodeled and they looked

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Speaker 2: like a Lexus, but it's really not a Lexus.

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Speaker 1: But it drive good and it's stable, accurate. Don't look

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Speaker 1: like Alexis and a new one's doing you ain't seeing it.

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Speaker 2: Look, this is a twenty twenty one model. Now, don't

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Speaker 2: play with I don't.

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Speaker 3: Think you shouldn't value yourself like that and foud yourself

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Speaker 3: an accurate, you know, like Drake got a song where

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Speaker 3: he was talking about an accurate, but he was talking

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Speaker 1: Wasn't that the four commercial? I might.

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Speaker 2: I'll be a Chevy Hey Chevy Equinox.

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Speaker 3: They they aren't energy saving cards. Exactly, you should be

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Speaker 3: a Tesla.

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Speaker 1: If you won't, you need to aim higher. I'm an

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Speaker 2: I'm not about to say you're gonna get a Tesla

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Speaker 2: But why aren't you a Tesla because I'm not doing

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Speaker 3: So but like a low knowledge is not a standard

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Speaker 3: that I am saying, I feel like you need to have.

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Speaker 3: It's what I do think that those type of men

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Speaker 2: And I do think that.

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Speaker 3: But when I say mileage, I also don't necessarily mean

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Speaker 3: I mean perception. Perception is key because you might not

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Speaker 3: he don't know no niggas they fucked you.

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Speaker 1: You see where I'm going with you. Okay, So that's

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Speaker 2: But you gotta realize a lot of times, just because

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Speaker 1: That doesn't mean the next rapper or the next.

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Speaker 2: Athlete is not gonna gather you because sometimes you know

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Speaker 2: how it is in this in this industry, they feel

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Speaker 2: But that's why I always say, like, I don't really

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Speaker 2: I just want somebody who's ambitious and just as successful

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Speaker 2: the same thing is like I don't want my man

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Speaker 1: But that's what I was getting at too.

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Speaker 3: I feel like that's why a lot of the time,

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Speaker 3: you and I aren't necessarily those type of men type

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Speaker 3: like physically maybe yeah, and what we look like on

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Speaker 3: the outside, but the fact that we're like building a business,

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Speaker 3: a lot of dudes don't like that because they feel

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't say that they don't necessarily value them. I

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Speaker 2: can't handle it because, like you said, a lot of

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Speaker 2: don't realize a lot of successful women they want that.

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Speaker 2: They want somebody who is going to that they can

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Speaker 2: be submissive to. But it's like you can't lead if

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Speaker 2: you don't know how to lead. Yeah, but I don't know,

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Speaker 2: I don't necessarily I don't want to say that they

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Speaker 2: don't value successful women.

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Speaker 1: I think that they don't. Though it's just a challenge.

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Speaker 1: It's it's but it's it's lack of value.

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Speaker 2: But it just depends on what they're looking for though

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Speaker 2: as well, because it's like, if they just want to fuck,

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Speaker 2: of course they're not gonna, you know, go for a

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Speaker 2: do things for her versus NYC.

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Speaker 1: I disagree with that.

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Speaker 3: What I disagree with that I feel like with a

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Speaker 3: lot of women that are super successful, you don't have

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Speaker 3: to court them and you don't have to date them.

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Speaker 3: Why you say that, because they use they got their

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Speaker 3: own money and she so they don't really be caring

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Speaker 3: about that. A lot of them they just be wanting

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Speaker 3: deacon companionship.

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Speaker 1: Oh hell no, I can't really. Of course we can't relate.

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Speaker 3: But I'm saying, like, how many times have we heard

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Speaker 3: stories about women that are super successful that they always

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Speaker 3: end up dating like men that don't have as much

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Speaker 3: money as them, that are not as successful. That is true,

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Speaker 3: and that's because I feel like, if you have everything

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Speaker 3: probably want is some companionship and some digs. So I

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Speaker 3: feel like sometimes those type of women you don't have

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Speaker 2: He was he liked the suck dig That didn't happen

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Speaker 2: Because I don't care if I got three dollars in

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Speaker 1: That's what the nigga's I day looks wrong with Miami.

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Speaker 2: They're all stupid. A man, I love my niece. Oh

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Speaker 1: They just wanted you to pop them babies out.

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Speaker 2: Gonna come out on the hooks.

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Speaker 2: But how do you feel like, what is the proper

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Speaker 3: I definitely feel like you can give the person their credit,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so sometimes I feel like people don't be inspired

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Speaker 2: People, So you're sometimes you think that people think that

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll say this.

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Speaker 1: But guess what, you ain't got these vocals. You can't

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Speaker 2: Me, me, me, me, it's only one lex being this

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Speaker 3: I mean, right, I agree with you, So I feel

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Speaker 2: Damn God did make me in his image. That means

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Speaker 1: We must have two different Gods. I mean, you know,

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Speaker 2: But anyway, but but yeah, so I feel like you

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Speaker 1: For some people, we would be better off without you.

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Speaker 1: But you can't say that. I didn't say that nobody you.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know personally. That's that's that Horny Thos.

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Speaker 1: Was getting to a good point, I.

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Speaker 2: Know, distracted me like you always do, and I forgot

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Speaker 1: What was my point?

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Speaker 2: You were saying that it's been a long Okay, now

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Speaker 2: y'all gonna be creative. That's all I'm saying now.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, I was just saying that, Like God, I

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Speaker 2: I'll take it, I'll take it away. I feel like

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Speaker 2: You have to realize there is a million in one

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Speaker 1: Now. I remember what I was about to say.

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Speaker 2: Now, So with that being said, just because person A

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Speaker 3: Was about to say was I feel like you're doing

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Speaker 1: Going to receive you. Because you're not even being yourself.

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Speaker 3: You're trying to be like for example, they trying to

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Speaker 2: No, it ain't all even talk like that.

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Speaker 1: It's what you look like though.

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Speaker 2: Oh now see how you get shady. We ain't even

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Speaker 1: We ain't have to take it there.

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Speaker 3: And we're not talking about how I talk, what your

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Speaker 1: Talk personality the way I talk, girls don't tap me out.

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Speaker 1: But y'alln't even fuck with you like that. I don't

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Speaker 3: Trying y'all see how she ain't be trying to play me,

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Speaker 2: No, but let me say this, because I was so

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Speaker 2: you funny bro, But I've been saying that. Okay, hold on, wait,

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Speaker 2: and I see how I can't copy?

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Speaker 1: Now, you can't because I've been plenty I know. But

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Speaker 2: Is what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: And I don't care because chicks still be getting drawn

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Speaker 2: Y'all.

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Speaker 1: Ain't gotta think I'm plenty. I'm glad y'all see.

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Speaker 1: But everybody can't start a podcast.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you always being super This is how I told

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Speaker 2: I'm not.

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Speaker 1: You can't.

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Speaker 3: Everybody can't start a podcast. Everybody is not that interesting.

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Speaker 2: Well well, so, uh dagn I forgot about I'll.

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Speaker 1: Say this because I was taking in fact, well, no,

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Speaker 2: But like I said, but if I have information to

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00:21:17,320 --> 00:21:20,040
Speaker 2: help somebody that wants to start, because how would if

444
00:21:20,080 --> 00:21:22,440
Speaker 2: I have felt when we tried to start our podcast

445
00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:24,640
Speaker 2: and our friends didn't want to help us.

446
00:21:24,840 --> 00:21:28,800
Speaker 1: They didn't they did, some of them didn't.

447
00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:31,960
Speaker 2: You know, I really want to say, I hope certain

448
00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:37,440
Speaker 2: people don't watch this shit, but you're shady Boots today.

449
00:21:37,560 --> 00:21:39,960
Speaker 3: No, it just it also just depends on who considered

450
00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:41,040
Speaker 3: themself our friends.

451
00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:44,040
Speaker 2: Okay, that's true. You know a lot of friends, right,

452
00:21:45,280 --> 00:21:47,040
Speaker 2: So that's what I'm saying, Like, it just depends on

453
00:21:47,119 --> 00:21:49,359
Speaker 2: who considered themselves to be your friend.

454
00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:51,520
Speaker 1: They feel like they didn't help us when I said things?

455
00:21:51,880 --> 00:21:54,560
Speaker 2: All right, all right, So at the end of the day,

456
00:21:54,800 --> 00:21:58,280
Speaker 2: create your content. But if you are a large creator

457
00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:00,920
Speaker 2: and you pull ideas from smaller creators, I do feel

458
00:22:00,960 --> 00:22:04,720
Speaker 2: like it's important to you know, reach out to people

459
00:22:05,040 --> 00:22:07,160
Speaker 2: and help people. I think it's kind of corny.

460
00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:10,320
Speaker 3: I do definitely think that you should help people that's

461
00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:12,359
Speaker 3: in this that's in the same space as you, for sure.

462
00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:18,680
Speaker 1: Like it's a lot going on right now, it is.

463
00:22:19,200 --> 00:22:21,960
Speaker 3: So I just say, like, however, all I was saying,

464
00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:24,399
Speaker 3: is I think you should help people. If you know

465
00:22:24,480 --> 00:22:28,640
Speaker 3: that they have a potential good product, you should help them. However,

466
00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:31,399
Speaker 3: everyone cannot start a podcast, and I do stand on that.

467
00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:33,920
Speaker 2: And if there's beef going on and it ain't got

468
00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:35,600
Speaker 2: nothing to do with it. If y'all was beefing at

469
00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:36,640
Speaker 2: the wig, I should have been.

470
00:22:36,760 --> 00:22:38,639
Speaker 3: Even at that wig, because if you can't got to

471
00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:40,960
Speaker 3: bel an out chain, what hell.

472
00:22:40,760 --> 00:22:45,320
Speaker 2: Could you go? So now we're gonna get into b A.

473
00:22:50,680 --> 00:22:53,120
Speaker 2: I wanted to freestyle, but see, because you got your

474
00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:56,600
Speaker 2: snake skin on looking all fect it. It's like two

475
00:22:56,680 --> 00:23:02,200
Speaker 2: the greens outside and you came headlight song. What kind

476
00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:03,040
Speaker 2: of car you said you were?

477
00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:04,680
Speaker 1: You're looking real cozy.

478
00:23:04,800 --> 00:23:08,040
Speaker 2: I'm cozy this ship. Y'all about to get a real

479
00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:09,200
Speaker 2: thug every week.

480
00:23:09,680 --> 00:23:12,440
Speaker 1: I told y'all a real thug. You still haven't told

481
00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:17,000
Speaker 1: us me nigga. When I do my head like this me,

482
00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:18,040
Speaker 1: I'm talking being.

483
00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:21,719
Speaker 2: Loved you as a thug. Though, I don't need nobody

484
00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:23,800
Speaker 2: to see. That's why I know I'm a real nigga.

485
00:23:24,600 --> 00:23:26,800
Speaker 2: I don't need nobody to love me as nothing. I

486
00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:30,639
Speaker 2: love myself. Who don't tell me I'm not a real nigga.

487
00:23:30,760 --> 00:23:34,280
Speaker 1: You, I don't think so well.

488
00:23:34,320 --> 00:23:37,800
Speaker 3: The conversation wasn't about you being a real nigga. You

489
00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:38,919
Speaker 3: said you were a thug.

490
00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:42,880
Speaker 1: I am a thug. You know the definition of a thug.

491
00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:51,480
Speaker 2: I'm gona, but I know that this is a lie.

492
00:23:52,720 --> 00:23:55,920
Speaker 2: I thought she was gonna keep seeing it because I'm

493
00:23:55,920 --> 00:23:58,679
Speaker 2: the thug who you think wrote that for Trick Daddy?

494
00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:02,760
Speaker 1: Trick Daddy, ask him, ask him about p Mama.

495
00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:04,400
Speaker 2: You don't know who I am?

496
00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:06,760
Speaker 1: I thought you said they call you p ro. That's

497
00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:09,280
Speaker 1: I see how she lies. She can't keep up. She

498
00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:10,679
Speaker 1: can't even keep up with her alien.

499
00:24:11,119 --> 00:24:12,879
Speaker 2: They used to call me a little peepee. Then I

500
00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:18,639
Speaker 2: went to p row and then I went to p Mama. Anyways,

501
00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:22,159
Speaker 2: all right, all right, so we're gonna we're supposed to

502
00:24:22,160 --> 00:24:24,840
Speaker 2: get into the bad topic. So we are what I

503
00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:27,240
Speaker 2: wanted to talk about today. For the sex topic I

504
00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:31,840
Speaker 2: wanted to talk about, is waiting to have sex worth it?

505
00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:34,280
Speaker 2: I had a conversation with my one of my close

506
00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:38,920
Speaker 2: friends this morning, and I'm not gonna say who it is,

507
00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:41,960
Speaker 2: but I was fucking with this dude a long time ago,

508
00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:45,679
Speaker 2: and I told him, like, you know, he kind of crazy.

509
00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:47,080
Speaker 1: The girl. He got crazy.

510
00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:48,640
Speaker 2: This is the dude I told you all to ask

511
00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:49,600
Speaker 2: me to fart in his mouth?

512
00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:53,760
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, what did we used to call him?

513
00:24:53,840 --> 00:25:02,120
Speaker 2: We had a name for him on the Showy yes girl.

514
00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:04,399
Speaker 2: So potty time I pop back trying to fuck with

515
00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:08,679
Speaker 2: my friend and I said, ooh, he.

516
00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:13,080
Speaker 1: Asked her a part in his mouth. So he tried.

517
00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:19,320
Speaker 1: I did told this story before.

518
00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:21,520
Speaker 2: Man, let me get back.

519
00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:24,600
Speaker 1: Shout out to py Tang Tang.

520
00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:28,959
Speaker 2: So yes, so Ponty Tang tried to when I try to.

521
00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:31,040
Speaker 2: He was courting a friend of mine. Mind you, me

522
00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:34,320
Speaker 2: and Potty Tang don't have anymore because I couldn't fart

523
00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:35,760
Speaker 2: in his mouth. And I guess that was just a

524
00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:38,240
Speaker 2: I was the deal breaker for the both of.

525
00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:40,080
Speaker 1: Us, sending me and my homegirl.

526
00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:45,000
Speaker 2: So but recently a friend of mine started talking to

527
00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:47,960
Speaker 2: him and they were going on a lot of dates,

528
00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:51,520
Speaker 2: having a really good time, and like she was like okay,

529
00:25:51,600 --> 00:25:53,480
Speaker 2: she finally ended up decided to have sex with him.

530
00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:55,440
Speaker 2: This is after he's been courting her. And he's a

531
00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:57,600
Speaker 2: nice guy. I always said that on the show. He's

532
00:25:57,600 --> 00:25:59,879
Speaker 2: a very nice guy. He's gonna take you on date,

533
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:02,359
Speaker 2: is gonna show you a good time. So they've been

534
00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:05,280
Speaker 2: dating I'll say probably about six weeks, and she finally

535
00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:07,200
Speaker 2: decided to have sex with him, and she has sex

536
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:07,680
Speaker 2: with him, and.

537
00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:13,200
Speaker 1: He just kind of ran off in the wind. Maybe

538
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:17,040
Speaker 1: that pussy just wasn't real good, you know, wordie.

539
00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:22,639
Speaker 2: But I'll say this, it's sex worth it exactly. So

540
00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:24,600
Speaker 2: it's sex worth waiting for it because y'all gonn have

541
00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:26,720
Speaker 2: fucked on the first night and figured out that y'all

542
00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:28,440
Speaker 2: didn't have sexual chemistry.

543
00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:33,200
Speaker 3: Right, And I think that that's more so what it's about.

544
00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:36,480
Speaker 3: So it just boils down to having confidence in your

545
00:26:36,560 --> 00:26:39,359
Speaker 3: pussy and knowing what y'all pissy like because I don't

546
00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:41,159
Speaker 3: give a fuck, Like if I like a nigga, I'm

547
00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:44,080
Speaker 3: gonna fuck you when I'm ready to fuck you, because

548
00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:46,679
Speaker 3: I don't because the last thing in my mind is

549
00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:48,960
Speaker 3: ever a nigga ghosted me because of my pussy.

550
00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:51,760
Speaker 1: Okay, you hear what I'm saying. So it's like I'm

551
00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:52,400
Speaker 1: gonna fuck.

552
00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:54,679
Speaker 3: You whenever the spirit moved me to fuck you, Like

553
00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:55,880
Speaker 3: if I moved.

554
00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:59,520
Speaker 2: The first night, then that spirit me moving you a lot.

555
00:27:01,800 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 2: I know you ain't talking, the spirit be moving you

556
00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:09,359
Speaker 2: even more. And the spirit with me right now up

557
00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:09,960
Speaker 2: with lex.

558
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:13,600
Speaker 1: It don't even be twenty four hours you plan.

559
00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:15,480
Speaker 2: I mean, she's.

560
00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:17,920
Speaker 1: A lady, she's class, So that's what I'm saying. The

561
00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:20,440
Speaker 1: question is, is waiting to have sex worth it?

562
00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:21,199
Speaker 2: Like do you know?

563
00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:25,119
Speaker 1: I feel like you should do whatever you want to do.

564
00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:27,360
Speaker 3: I think I've said this before in a previous episode,

565
00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:29,359
Speaker 3: like if you whenever you're ready.

566
00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:30,800
Speaker 1: To have sex with somebody, have sex with them.

567
00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:33,880
Speaker 3: I feel like too sometimes women have to drop all

568
00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:36,359
Speaker 3: of these rules like I do think I ideally and

569
00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:38,040
Speaker 3: I know we talk about these a lot on the show,

570
00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:40,640
Speaker 3: like feeling like a nigga gotta do stuff for you,

571
00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:43,639
Speaker 3: or you need to have a substantial amount of things

572
00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:45,320
Speaker 3: from him before you give him some plassy or he

573
00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:48,520
Speaker 3: needs some He definitely, I guess, kind of needs to

574
00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:51,760
Speaker 3: prove himself if you're trying to date him. I agree,

575
00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:55,040
Speaker 3: but just say you just want some dig. If you

576
00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:56,679
Speaker 3: just want some dig, fuck the nigga.

577
00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:57,840
Speaker 2: If you want to fuck that niggas, But it's not

578
00:27:57,920 --> 00:28:00,200
Speaker 2: about if you want some dig. What if you want more,

579
00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:03,240
Speaker 2: like you want to not necessarily a relationship, but what

580
00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:04,760
Speaker 2: if you want to be hanging like you want this

581
00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:05,639
Speaker 2: to be kind of your.

582
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:09,520
Speaker 1: Person, make sure they're pussy fire, because if it ain't,

583
00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:10,080
Speaker 1: he might go.

584
00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:12,560
Speaker 2: Okay, So now let's okay, let's get into that. So

585
00:28:12,600 --> 00:28:14,000
Speaker 2: if you you can only fuck on the.

586
00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:20,000
Speaker 1: First night, if you're a pussy far, you shouldn't.

587
00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:23,400
Speaker 2: Because I'm saying because think about it like this. I'm

588
00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:26,320
Speaker 2: saying though, if I fuck on the first night and

589
00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:29,960
Speaker 2: my pussy is trash, so you shouldn't.

590
00:28:30,840 --> 00:28:32,639
Speaker 1: You know your pussy trash bit? You know you need

591
00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:33,520
Speaker 1: to wait three months.

592
00:28:33,560 --> 00:28:35,120
Speaker 2: But if you wait three months to the nigga, if

593
00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:37,600
Speaker 2: I love you about it exactly, you see where I'm

594
00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:40,080
Speaker 2: going with it. You imagine if you waited and Joe

595
00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:43,920
Speaker 2: pussy fire. You see what I'm saying.

596
00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:47,560
Speaker 3: It depends on how much that nigga like you too, though,

597
00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:50,120
Speaker 3: because for a nigga to wait three months to fuck you.

598
00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:52,640
Speaker 1: I mean, y'all don't waiting three months to fuck he

599
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:53,360
Speaker 1: just waited three.

600
00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:53,920
Speaker 2: Months to fuck you.

601
00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:57,480
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, you know what I'm sause. Niggas do be

602
00:28:57,480 --> 00:29:02,040
Speaker 1: spinning the in the block a few times?

603
00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:06,560
Speaker 3: Is I just like I said, I feel like it's

604
00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:08,880
Speaker 3: just it's up to you as a person, and I'm

605
00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:11,400
Speaker 3: not never saying it. What we say how we feel

606
00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:14,280
Speaker 3: is Bible, because we ain't got all the answers.

607
00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:16,239
Speaker 2: We ain't got no we ain't got we ain't got

608
00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:19,360
Speaker 2: no ring, we ain't married, we ain't even got no boyfriend.

609
00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:23,880
Speaker 1: So boyfriend in my head, right, I'm your boyfriend.

610
00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:28,600
Speaker 2: Me and Alex go on dates together more than anybody with me,

611
00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:29,560
Speaker 2: more than she go with anyone.

612
00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:29,960
Speaker 1: I said.

613
00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:31,360
Speaker 2: This other night, me and Dreon was at dinner and

614
00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:32,920
Speaker 2: we were all dressed up. I said, I can't believe

615
00:29:32,960 --> 00:29:36,800
Speaker 2: we go on a date after this as well, I said,

616
00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:38,560
Speaker 2: I can't believe I'm getting dressed up to go on

617
00:29:38,760 --> 00:29:40,240
Speaker 2: to eat with you and she.

618
00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:43,760
Speaker 3: Looks beautiful, just like she does today, because you always

619
00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:48,040
Speaker 3: look beautiful when you come to see your girl girlfriend. Okay,

620
00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:50,120
Speaker 3: So anyways, yeah, we don't never be trying to say

621
00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:52,400
Speaker 3: that like what you say is Bible, but I.

622
00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:55,120
Speaker 1: Do feel like I don't feel like it matters.

623
00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:57,320
Speaker 3: I don't I feel like whenever you want a fucking nigga,

624
00:29:57,560 --> 00:30:00,840
Speaker 3: fucking nigga, however, if you're pussy.

625
00:30:00,520 --> 00:30:03,560
Speaker 1: Trash, just know he might not fuck with you no more.

626
00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:05,640
Speaker 2: And in her defense, let me say I'm not I

627
00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:08,760
Speaker 2: don't know and I don't know what it is. But

628
00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:11,120
Speaker 2: in her defense, I don't think her pussy is trash.

629
00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:15,320
Speaker 2: I just think that the nigga is is trash. But

630
00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:20,040
Speaker 2: you no, but I will no. But I also treated

631
00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:22,120
Speaker 2: him a certain type of way. I used to be

632
00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:26,000
Speaker 2: like kind of dismissing him and not paying attention to

633
00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:27,960
Speaker 2: him because I was dealing with him when I was

634
00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:30,200
Speaker 2: like falling off a rapper bay. So he thought that

635
00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:32,360
Speaker 2: I was like, oh damn, she don't pay attention to me. No,

636
00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:34,000
Speaker 2: I'm trying to get my old nigga back and he

637
00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:37,320
Speaker 2: didn't want me. But that's another story. But that's even

638
00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:39,040
Speaker 2: that's an even better way to get your own nigga

639
00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:40,880
Speaker 2: back is by fucking with a new nigga.

640
00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:42,040
Speaker 1: Right, So I was started fucking with him.

641
00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:44,320
Speaker 2: But that's why that made that made Pooty Tang like

642
00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:46,760
Speaker 2: me more because I wasn't paying attention to him. Shout

643
00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:50,480
Speaker 2: out the pool, little pool, po little pool, damn little pool.

644
00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:55,880
Speaker 3: Little was out of line. Fine he is fine, It

645
00:30:55,880 --> 00:30:57,960
Speaker 3: don't matter how fine you is. Certain shit is just

646
00:30:57,960 --> 00:30:59,600
Speaker 3: out of line. Like when you called me and told

647
00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:02,600
Speaker 3: me that she did I did I meet him before

648
00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:03,200
Speaker 3: or after that?

649
00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:06,880
Speaker 2: No? You met him before because remember you we told

650
00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:08,680
Speaker 2: this story. You came over and you cooked the A

651
00:31:08,760 --> 00:31:10,360
Speaker 2: two face so I could trick him and made But

652
00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:11,080
Speaker 2: that wasn't.

653
00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:11,800
Speaker 1: The first time I met him.

654
00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:13,200
Speaker 3: I think the first time I met him was when

655
00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:17,440
Speaker 3: we went to his friend apartment and bucket I.

656
00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:18,720
Speaker 1: Was fucking with that nigga for a while.

657
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:21,000
Speaker 3: Yes, I think that was the first time I met him.

658
00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:23,120
Speaker 3: So I'm trying to remember. Did I meet him before

659
00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:25,200
Speaker 3: the poop or after the poop?

660
00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:28,480
Speaker 2: Let me tell y'all what this poop were like. Y'all

661
00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:30,760
Speaker 2: had to realize we were seven months in and he

662
00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:32,080
Speaker 2: just threw the poop on me.

663
00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:34,360
Speaker 1: No, he wanted you to throw the poot on him.

664
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:37,840
Speaker 2: I wasn't, y'all.

665
00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:39,000
Speaker 1: I'm still scarred about that.

666
00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:40,560
Speaker 2: Because like when I was seeing that nig I was like, damn,

667
00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:41,959
Speaker 2: we could have been happy.

668
00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:45,720
Speaker 1: We could have been happy, happy and gassy.

669
00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:49,080
Speaker 2: M I don't even want to talk about that story.

670
00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:50,960
Speaker 1: This is the last time we talking about pottye.

671
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:53,840
Speaker 3: Tign Well, we already haven't talked about him in a

672
00:31:53,880 --> 00:31:54,440
Speaker 3: long time.

673
00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:56,320
Speaker 1: It was overdue.

674
00:31:56,920 --> 00:31:58,720
Speaker 2: This is the last time we talked about Putty Sign.

675
00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:01,040
Speaker 1: Did he ex Did he asks her the pool?

676
00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:02,960
Speaker 2: I don't think so. She would have told me she

677
00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:05,320
Speaker 2: would have told me, but I told her about how

678
00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:06,280
Speaker 2: he asked me to pull.

679
00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:08,800
Speaker 1: But he didn't ask you the first time exactly. He

680
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:11,160
Speaker 1: waited like seven eight months. But she might not you

681
00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:11,960
Speaker 1: the sickon time.

682
00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:14,600
Speaker 2: I mean she might you never know.

683
00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:17,280
Speaker 1: I don't know, though, I feel like, what type of nigga,

684
00:32:17,480 --> 00:32:20,200
Speaker 1: what type of real nigga? Gohost you after you fuck him?

685
00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:24,000
Speaker 2: I feel like, honestly, well I'll say this, especially at

686
00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:25,280
Speaker 2: this age.

687
00:32:24,960 --> 00:32:26,640
Speaker 1: Like where I'm on thirty.

688
00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:31,520
Speaker 2: Well we are thirty, he's thirty, he's thirty two, thirty three,

689
00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:35,120
Speaker 2: Like you know better, like stop doing that, stop treating

690
00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:37,280
Speaker 2: people like that. If you fuck and you're not interested

691
00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:40,600
Speaker 2: no more, just say that, like stop hitting people up

692
00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:42,040
Speaker 2: every day, taking them on days.

693
00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:42,920
Speaker 1: Then you fuck and then.

694
00:32:42,800 --> 00:32:44,479
Speaker 2: You like, I'm not in SI.

695
00:32:44,840 --> 00:32:46,880
Speaker 3: I scare to turn thirty though, cause I'm like, it's

696
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:50,120
Speaker 3: thirty still like this. I mean, I'm saving Like I

697
00:32:50,800 --> 00:32:54,120
Speaker 3: just imagine like, okay, still being in my twenties. Okay,

698
00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:56,080
Speaker 3: once I hit thirty, I feel like, Okay, it's supposed

699
00:32:56,080 --> 00:32:59,040
Speaker 3: to be like you reach this pinnacle and things that

700
00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:01,680
Speaker 3: are supposed to be a little different. I do be

701
00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:03,840
Speaker 3: feeling like that in my mind, Like dating is supposed

702
00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:05,600
Speaker 3: to be different, sex is supposed to be different.

703
00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:08,400
Speaker 1: So when I hear sex, soone, eyes get better. But

704
00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:09,760
Speaker 1: I've also gotten horny here.

705
00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:12,360
Speaker 3: So when I was like clock stroke twelve and I

706
00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:15,440
Speaker 3: was like, well, I heard that the sex is better

707
00:33:15,480 --> 00:33:17,600
Speaker 3: in your thirty So that is what I'm looking forward

708
00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:19,520
Speaker 3: to about turning thirty, that I hear that you have

709
00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:20,640
Speaker 3: the best sex of your life.

710
00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:21,320
Speaker 1: And I'll tell you.

711
00:33:21,280 --> 00:33:24,920
Speaker 2: Something right now, thirty five plus men, that's gonna give

712
00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:27,160
Speaker 2: you the best dig you'd never ever had.

713
00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:29,280
Speaker 3: That's why I've already been fucking him though, so I

714
00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:34,120
Speaker 3: don't know about that. Well, well and on in the nigga,

715
00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:36,040
Speaker 3: I just fucked he, not thirty five years.

716
00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:37,440
Speaker 1: Well I'll start to be perfect.

717
00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:40,160
Speaker 2: But I feel like that's why, Like, don't get me wrong,

718
00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:43,040
Speaker 2: I talked about throwback bait a lot on Patreon, so

719
00:33:43,240 --> 00:33:45,280
Speaker 2: the people that are Patreon members, y'all know what's going

720
00:33:45,280 --> 00:33:45,760
Speaker 2: on with that.

721
00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:49,160
Speaker 1: But that's one of the main reasons I can't.

722
00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:52,800
Speaker 2: He knows my body, like when you turn thirty, it's

723
00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:54,760
Speaker 2: just like you want a little something different in bed.

724
00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:57,720
Speaker 1: I cannot just fuck somebody and be done.

725
00:33:57,760 --> 00:34:00,000
Speaker 2: Like now, I will say I'll fuck somebody when I

726
00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:03,800
Speaker 2: I'm ready, but first day sex is so unlikely because

727
00:34:04,120 --> 00:34:05,080
Speaker 2: I want a connection.

728
00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:07,880
Speaker 1: I have to connect with you mentally physically.

729
00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:10,080
Speaker 2: It's gotta be a lot of shit like going on

730
00:34:10,160 --> 00:34:12,160
Speaker 2: for me to fuck you on the first night. I

731
00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:13,920
Speaker 2: didn't even fuck throw Back Bay on the first night.

732
00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:16,719
Speaker 2: I didn't what did you fuck him? I fucked him

733
00:34:16,719 --> 00:34:19,239
Speaker 2: on like probably it was like the third or fourth day.

734
00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:21,960
Speaker 2: But that's because at that point when we had started

735
00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:24,719
Speaker 2: like connecting, and a year and a half later, he's

736
00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:26,239
Speaker 2: still beating Bama back in.

737
00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:28,879
Speaker 3: I think that it's also easier, though, to not fuck

738
00:34:28,880 --> 00:34:30,319
Speaker 3: a nigga on the first day when y'all live in

739
00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:30,920
Speaker 3: the same city.

740
00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:33,200
Speaker 1: No, it ain't to me, it is.

741
00:34:33,680 --> 00:34:35,480
Speaker 3: I think it's easier to not fuck a nigga on

742
00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:36,919
Speaker 3: the first day when y'all live in the same city

743
00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:39,480
Speaker 3: because you see him again, well, because you know you're

744
00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:41,520
Speaker 3: gonna see him begin befon. Y'all both live here, so

745
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:43,839
Speaker 3: if you start feeling horny and you getting a little

746
00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:47,760
Speaker 3: tingling your parts, you can you could just go home,

747
00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:50,759
Speaker 3: I feel, you know, versus like, Okay, if you go

748
00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:52,759
Speaker 3: see a nigga.

749
00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:54,400
Speaker 2: Like in New Orleans, just say, y'all go to New

750
00:34:54,520 --> 00:34:59,640
Speaker 2: Orleans or something like if I'm craving jumbalaya or some gumbo.

751
00:34:59,600 --> 00:35:02,280
Speaker 1: You just want to visit New Orleans craw fish two fig.

752
00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:06,520
Speaker 2: For example, the crew. You know what I'm saying.

753
00:35:06,560 --> 00:35:09,960
Speaker 3: For example, you know, like if you go see a dude,

754
00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:12,160
Speaker 3: I feel like it's harder to not fuck them the

755
00:35:12,200 --> 00:35:14,239
Speaker 3: first day because it's just kind of like.

756
00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:15,840
Speaker 1: Told y'all there.

757
00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:18,560
Speaker 2: Yeah. But also if I'm flying and we're both about

758
00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:21,480
Speaker 2: to go home to the same place. If I'm flying

759
00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:24,759
Speaker 2: out to you you getting some pussy. I agree, though

760
00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:27,919
Speaker 2: you do agree now to do to get me out here,

761
00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:30,680
Speaker 2: So I'm fucking yeah. Now that I'm a little older,

762
00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:32,120
Speaker 2: I do for that way. When I was younger, though,

763
00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:33,600
Speaker 2: you know, I used to fly out to see niggas

764
00:35:33,600 --> 00:35:35,440
Speaker 2: and you was not getting up pussy. That's why you

765
00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:36,320
Speaker 2: got left in Miami.

766
00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:39,800
Speaker 1: Remember you told I had the bread through. So that's fine.

767
00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:41,920
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, you did. You did get home. It

768
00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:43,840
Speaker 2: wasn't a problem. But that's what I'm saying.

769
00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:46,680
Speaker 3: I didn't care though I got some shoes too. Let's

770
00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:49,560
Speaker 3: not neglect that I got some luper tins while I

771
00:35:49,640 --> 00:35:50,000
Speaker 3: was there.

772
00:35:51,320 --> 00:35:53,680
Speaker 1: But he was a fuck nigga. He was.

773
00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:55,640
Speaker 2: It was a white. Yeah.

774
00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:56,840
Speaker 1: I was about to say.

775
00:35:56,600 --> 00:35:58,719
Speaker 2: That, let me put my doctor umarlin, No.

776
00:35:58,800 --> 00:36:00,200
Speaker 1: Be putting my business out there.

777
00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:03,279
Speaker 2: He was a white because you'll always be trying to

778
00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:04,279
Speaker 2: play me. Huh.

779
00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:06,160
Speaker 1: I only they did that one white man, know, But

780
00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:07,280
Speaker 1: I didn't suck him.

781
00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:10,680
Speaker 2: I definitely sucked a little pink pin a little yes

782
00:36:10,719 --> 00:36:17,520
Speaker 2: it was. Or if you okay, so let's move on.

783
00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:21,400
Speaker 2: We are not about to do this as Black History months.

784
00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:23,200
Speaker 1: I don't know why you bringing white people up.

785
00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:25,200
Speaker 2: I just I want to make sure my people are

786
00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:26,800
Speaker 2: woke and we know it.

787
00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:29,320
Speaker 1: No, she just like to be missy my mebe is

788
00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:31,279
Speaker 1: shady today going to the box of the week.

789
00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:35,200
Speaker 2: I just want y'all to know, do not suck any

790
00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:36,880
Speaker 2: pink pen this month.

791
00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:38,759
Speaker 1: I don't care how much money.

792
00:36:38,520 --> 00:36:43,320
Speaker 3: He has pink No, like, what if his mama black?

793
00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:48,080
Speaker 1: What side does he relate to? I mean, I feel like,

794
00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:49,320
Speaker 1: if you have black, you're black.

795
00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:55,040
Speaker 2: No pink pin this month, No pink pin. Okay, what's up, y'all?

796
00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:57,360
Speaker 1: Is lex pin any sugarl dry in.

797
00:36:57,360 --> 00:36:59,920
Speaker 2: The cold and y'all know what as the bread and

798
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:03,520
Speaker 2: basss of that booty hole. So we in the New Year, y'all.

799
00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:06,120
Speaker 2: It's twenty twenty, and not only do you have to

800
00:37:06,239 --> 00:37:09,520
Speaker 2: wash your hands, but you need to wash that booie hole. Amen.

801
00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:13,080
Speaker 3: So the future of toileting has arrived. Okay, It's technically.

802
00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:14,920
Speaker 1: Been around for centuries, but now it's just not a

803
00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:18,880
Speaker 1: n update. Okay, what you got for girl, Hello sushi.

804
00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:22,160
Speaker 3: You can sit on your toilet, clean your booty hole,

805
00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:22,960
Speaker 3: real nice and clean.

806
00:37:23,000 --> 00:37:25,200
Speaker 2: You ain't even gotta use no tissues. Okay. See, that's

807
00:37:25,239 --> 00:37:25,680
Speaker 2: what I like.

808
00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:28,600
Speaker 1: It's an attachment that you add to your toilet.

809
00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:31,960
Speaker 2: So it's not gonna add it's no electricity, no additional plumbing,

810
00:37:32,200 --> 00:37:36,120
Speaker 2: and it's gonna cut your toilet paper use by eighty percent. Y'all.

811
00:37:37,160 --> 00:37:40,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, because what Hello sushi. All you gotta do is poop, spray,

812
00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:42,560
Speaker 3: dry and go. You ain't even gotta white I'm not

813
00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:43,160
Speaker 3: telling you.

814
00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:46,319
Speaker 2: Oh no, no, we on that type of time I like. Okay,

815
00:37:46,440 --> 00:37:49,200
Speaker 2: So even if you already have a toush on your pot,

816
00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:51,640
Speaker 2: you can upgrade to the three point oh model. They

817
00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:55,520
Speaker 2: got a new model out, girl. Oh that's not experience,

818
00:37:55,560 --> 00:37:58,000
Speaker 2: And the good thing about it is that it cleans itself.

819
00:37:58,160 --> 00:37:59,799
Speaker 1: You don't even gotta clean the girl.

820
00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:03,719
Speaker 2: He's I'm saying, So, y'all need to go to hellotashi

821
00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:07,560
Speaker 2: dot com backslash poor Minds to get ten percent off

822
00:38:07,840 --> 00:38:10,960
Speaker 2: plus free shipping. This is a special offer to our listeners.

823
00:38:11,080 --> 00:38:12,600
Speaker 1: Don't say we never got y'all nothing.

824
00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:16,400
Speaker 2: Okay, So go to hellotish dot com slash poor minds

825
00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:19,240
Speaker 2: and you're gonna get ten percent off plus free shipping

826
00:38:19,320 --> 00:38:27,239
Speaker 2: for your brand new bidet. Okay, no pink pink hashtag. No.

827
00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:29,919
Speaker 3: So, so you would never have sex with a white

828
00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:30,319
Speaker 3: man again?

829
00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:35,799
Speaker 2: No, I'm woke as fuck. No, the whole time if

830
00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:37,640
Speaker 2: I fuck the white man right now, the whole time,

831
00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:39,920
Speaker 2: I'm gona be thinking about how disappointed Malcolm mixes at me.

832
00:38:40,040 --> 00:38:42,680
Speaker 2: Right now, I'm gonna be sucking that dick like Malcolm

833
00:38:42,719 --> 00:38:45,000
Speaker 2: would never So no, I'm not.

834
00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:48,239
Speaker 1: I hope Malcolm would never suck no deed.

835
00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:50,000
Speaker 2: Well, you know what I meant, Goddamn.

836
00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:53,080
Speaker 1: I just meant like I would never want to upset him.

837
00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:56,000
Speaker 1: Rest in peace, Malcolm, she disrespeaks to you today, I'm

838
00:38:56,040 --> 00:39:03,480
Speaker 1: not disrespecting him at Brothers. Okay, So now we're gonna get.

839
00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:08,600
Speaker 2: Into the bab love. What's your bout?

840
00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:13,600
Speaker 3: I my bop This week is Star featuring Erica Banks's

841
00:39:13,600 --> 00:39:16,120
Speaker 3: by Yellow Easy featuring Erica Banks. I love because they

842
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:20,839
Speaker 3: sent me Yeah yeah, oh yeah yeah.

843
00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:25,279
Speaker 1: I like that song. I like that it's about yeah.

844
00:39:25,440 --> 00:39:28,120
Speaker 2: Shout out to Yellow Beezy and Erica Banks. I feel like,

845
00:39:28,239 --> 00:39:28,480
Speaker 2: you know.

846
00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:30,720
Speaker 3: Because Erica Bank's been going crazy on the chart slately

847
00:39:30,760 --> 00:39:31,520
Speaker 3: with Buzzy.

848
00:39:31,600 --> 00:39:32,320
Speaker 1: Yeah she has.

849
00:39:34,480 --> 00:39:37,880
Speaker 2: I like Erica Banks, I do, but I just gotta,

850
00:39:38,000 --> 00:39:39,879
Speaker 2: you know, I gotta see a little bit more, see

851
00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:41,600
Speaker 2: if I'm really sold on her head.

852
00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:43,279
Speaker 1: You know why you're not sold yet.

853
00:39:43,440 --> 00:39:46,200
Speaker 2: Because I feel like I haven't heard like a bar

854
00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:49,879
Speaker 2: from her roily like okay, okay, this yeah, this is

855
00:39:49,880 --> 00:39:52,000
Speaker 2: this the moved me, you know, like.

856
00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:54,760
Speaker 1: Something like you ain't felt it in your chest.

857
00:39:54,560 --> 00:39:57,040
Speaker 2: When Nikki used to rap and used to really like

858
00:39:57,880 --> 00:39:59,080
Speaker 2: get me in my soul.

859
00:39:59,400 --> 00:40:01,000
Speaker 1: I was on a with Dawayne.

860
00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:04,759
Speaker 2: I felt like I was on the plane, you know

861
00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:07,120
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. So, but I like Erica. I love

862
00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:09,240
Speaker 2: Yellow beezy'all. I've said that plenty of times.

863
00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:12,360
Speaker 1: He Yellow Beezy be singing. Here's a saying he do

864
00:40:12,520 --> 00:40:13,400
Speaker 1: be singing his ass off.

865
00:40:13,640 --> 00:40:15,600
Speaker 2: But I'll say this, what I like about him is

866
00:40:15,640 --> 00:40:18,840
Speaker 2: because times have changed and he's recognized that, so he

867
00:40:18,920 --> 00:40:21,200
Speaker 2: don't care about dropping an album out of there. He

868
00:40:21,239 --> 00:40:24,279
Speaker 2: just drops fire singles and that there's nothing wrong with that.

869
00:40:24,520 --> 00:40:25,960
Speaker 2: I feel like a lot of times y'all look at

870
00:40:26,000 --> 00:40:28,360
Speaker 2: these artists like you're looking at these rappers to be

871
00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:31,319
Speaker 2: the next jay Z or the next Lil Wayne, and

872
00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:33,000
Speaker 2: that's just not what some of these people are.

873
00:40:33,200 --> 00:40:35,439
Speaker 1: They're okay with dropping fire singles for you to pop

874
00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:36,279
Speaker 1: your pussy too.

875
00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:39,840
Speaker 3: I mean, and you should never compare new artists to

876
00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:42,160
Speaker 3: Lil Wayne and jay Z because they had a crazy

877
00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:44,960
Speaker 3: or even to Drake. Even even to Drake because they

878
00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:45,960
Speaker 3: had a crazy career.

879
00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:46,680
Speaker 1: Do you want to tell.

880
00:40:48,440 --> 00:40:50,640
Speaker 3: About the conversation we had the other day when we

881
00:40:50,680 --> 00:40:54,240
Speaker 3: went to dinner about Drake and Michael Jackson.

882
00:40:54,560 --> 00:40:56,440
Speaker 2: So me and Dre went out to eat the other day.

883
00:40:56,560 --> 00:40:58,880
Speaker 2: I'm making this real funny because I'm mad about it

884
00:40:58,920 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 2: because he probably listening.

885
00:40:59,800 --> 00:41:02,200
Speaker 1: Right, this is part of the music discussion. Uh, we

886
00:41:02,239 --> 00:41:03,319
Speaker 1: went to dinner the other night.

887
00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:05,360
Speaker 2: It was supposed to be just me and Drea, and

888
00:41:05,600 --> 00:41:07,840
Speaker 2: you know, the bead bees was looking.

889
00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:11,400
Speaker 1: So the bees come out at night, they dude.

890
00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:14,080
Speaker 2: So they came over to our table and we were

891
00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:17,120
Speaker 2: having dinner, and we started talking about music, because y'all

892
00:41:17,160 --> 00:41:19,480
Speaker 2: know I love music, and they decided to debate me

893
00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:24,120
Speaker 2: on who was better between Michael Jackson and Drake. When

894
00:41:24,160 --> 00:41:25,680
Speaker 2: I tell you, we almost got kicked out of this

895
00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:28,879
Speaker 2: restaurant because I was so damn mad. We almost got

896
00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:33,319
Speaker 2: kicked out of the restaurant. How dare you how big?

897
00:41:33,440 --> 00:41:36,000
Speaker 2: I almost turned to a Karen. I was so mad.

898
00:41:36,880 --> 00:41:38,520
Speaker 1: We were so like seeing you.

899
00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:41,839
Speaker 2: We literally had the whole restaurant though like debating with us.

900
00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:43,920
Speaker 2: The only people that were mad was like the like

901
00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:45,879
Speaker 2: you know, the waiters and waits. And then I started

902
00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:47,640
Speaker 2: getting my bag. I said, we just spent too much money.

903
00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:48,280
Speaker 2: Get out of my face.

904
00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:50,880
Speaker 1: First of all, you old.

905
00:41:51,480 --> 00:41:53,600
Speaker 2: Drea was screaming at the man, telling them you're old,

906
00:41:53,640 --> 00:41:55,319
Speaker 2: you know better, because they were trying to say Drake

907
00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:56,160
Speaker 2: was better than MJ.

908
00:41:57,040 --> 00:41:59,000
Speaker 1: Drea was so mad. She started telling this.

909
00:41:59,000 --> 00:42:02,000
Speaker 3: Man, y'all know how much I love Drake, but Michael

910
00:42:02,080 --> 00:42:02,960
Speaker 3: Jackson is better.

911
00:42:03,640 --> 00:42:05,440
Speaker 2: I told y'all, Drake pissed me off when I went

912
00:42:05,480 --> 00:42:07,520
Speaker 2: to his concert and he was trying to see Michael Jackson.

913
00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:09,200
Speaker 1: That pissed me hill.

914
00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:17,839
Speaker 2: Oh oh, I.

915
00:42:17,840 --> 00:42:20,760
Speaker 1: Said, oh fuck no.

916
00:42:21,080 --> 00:42:23,680
Speaker 2: I was so mad. I really went to the box off.

917
00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:25,399
Speaker 2: I said, give me my goddamn money back.

918
00:42:26,400 --> 00:42:27,680
Speaker 1: I beat Joe ass.

919
00:42:27,880 --> 00:42:31,200
Speaker 2: Drake ass. I'm still beat up with over on to

920
00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:36,560
Speaker 2: this day. What's his what's his little producer name? Engineer?

921
00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:41,040
Speaker 1: What do you even get it too? I'm about to

922
00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:43,000
Speaker 1: beat all y'all ass because Drake was wrong.

923
00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:45,719
Speaker 2: He was very out of line. But what I'm saying is,

924
00:42:45,719 --> 00:42:46,040
Speaker 2: but I.

925
00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:49,040
Speaker 3: Just feel like it's too different. It's too different.

926
00:42:49,440 --> 00:42:49,719
Speaker 1: You can't.

927
00:42:50,560 --> 00:42:53,680
Speaker 2: Jackson is the greatest entertainer of all time. Up next

928
00:42:53,719 --> 00:42:56,640
Speaker 2: to him, people probably say, like the Beatles, things like yeah,

929
00:42:56,719 --> 00:42:57,920
Speaker 2: Drake cool.

930
00:42:58,000 --> 00:43:00,440
Speaker 3: He's like he did say I got more last in

931
00:43:00,480 --> 00:43:01,440
Speaker 3: the Beatles, and he does.

932
00:43:01,800 --> 00:43:04,279
Speaker 2: I mean, he really do my numbers. But what I'm

933
00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:07,480
Speaker 2: saying is he is Michael Jackson. We're not talking is

934
00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:10,359
Speaker 2: Michael Jackson? Okay, So yeah, that's what happened. We almost

935
00:43:10,360 --> 00:43:12,719
Speaker 2: got kicked out of restaurant last week because y'all got

936
00:43:12,760 --> 00:43:13,760
Speaker 2: Michael fucked up.

937
00:43:14,440 --> 00:43:17,440
Speaker 1: My bop of that nigga's still old. No one we

938
00:43:17,440 --> 00:43:19,520
Speaker 1: were talking to he was.

939
00:43:19,160 --> 00:43:22,400
Speaker 3: He was trying to take us up to the What

940
00:43:22,560 --> 00:43:26,759
Speaker 3: Ryan said, he thought his name was Drek A. That

941
00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:30,239
Speaker 3: nigga was so old when this ship when come out,

942
00:43:31,000 --> 00:43:34,640
Speaker 3: this new artist named Dreka Dray was like, you.

943
00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:37,279
Speaker 2: Was like thirty five was so far gold drop you

944
00:43:37,400 --> 00:43:38,719
Speaker 2: know better he was.

945
00:43:38,840 --> 00:43:41,680
Speaker 1: He was all as fucks.

946
00:43:41,680 --> 00:43:45,120
Speaker 2: Oh my god, he was like twenty When Dirty Diana

947
00:43:45,160 --> 00:43:46,560
Speaker 2: came out, we wouldn't even thought of.

948
00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:49,000
Speaker 1: I mean, she tried it.

949
00:43:49,239 --> 00:43:51,160
Speaker 3: He trying to be here with us. But now we're

950
00:43:51,160 --> 00:43:53,879
Speaker 3: looking at shoe sideway. Nigga, what did you talking about?

951
00:43:53,960 --> 00:43:55,920
Speaker 2: You know what's funny? I really think that's what it was.

952
00:43:56,000 --> 00:43:58,080
Speaker 1: Yes, he thought we was gonna agree, but.

953
00:43:58,160 --> 00:44:00,480
Speaker 2: He also I don't think he didn't know how old

954
00:44:00,520 --> 00:44:01,480
Speaker 2: we were as well.

955
00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:04,879
Speaker 1: I mean we're not old old enough?

956
00:44:06,480 --> 00:44:08,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, really like because when I told him how old

957
00:44:08,560 --> 00:44:10,840
Speaker 2: I was, he was like what, Like, I think they

958
00:44:10,920 --> 00:44:12,839
Speaker 2: thought we were like twenty four or twenty five.

959
00:44:13,080 --> 00:44:15,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I could see that, but either way it goes

960
00:44:15,320 --> 00:44:15,600
Speaker 1: just that.

961
00:44:15,880 --> 00:44:17,719
Speaker 2: Let me know you a line ass nigga.

962
00:44:18,160 --> 00:44:20,440
Speaker 1: And you old you a throwback and you.

963
00:44:20,440 --> 00:44:27,279
Speaker 2: Old Jos Josh a throwback and you old you gotta

964
00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:31,640
Speaker 2: say it with the XC you ol. That was good.

965
00:44:32,040 --> 00:44:35,400
Speaker 2: That was good. Let me finish up my bobbing the

966
00:44:35,400 --> 00:44:37,120
Speaker 2: week because this is actually an older song that came

967
00:44:37,160 --> 00:44:39,080
Speaker 2: out about three years ago, but I just discovered this

968
00:44:39,160 --> 00:44:42,120
Speaker 2: artist and I really like her. Her name is Khalila,

969
00:44:42,640 --> 00:44:45,640
Speaker 2: and she has a song called LMK is short for

970
00:44:45,760 --> 00:44:51,000
Speaker 2: let Me Know, and it gives me those vibes and like,

971
00:44:51,080 --> 00:44:52,759
Speaker 2: let me know what the fuck is going on? Y'all

972
00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:54,640
Speaker 2: know who I am about my R and B songs,

973
00:44:54,680 --> 00:44:56,719
Speaker 2: and I love R and B songs with a message.

974
00:44:56,840 --> 00:44:59,319
Speaker 2: So just like I was saying earlier, when guys, this

975
00:44:59,400 --> 00:45:01,560
Speaker 2: song is nots cssarily about a god fucking and ghosting,

976
00:45:01,640 --> 00:45:04,719
Speaker 2: but I feel like, just let me know why we

977
00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:07,319
Speaker 2: gotta play these games. That goes back to the topic

978
00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:09,440
Speaker 2: we talked about a few weeks ago, like why dating

979
00:45:09,520 --> 00:45:11,160
Speaker 2: is so hard because people don't want to say what's

980
00:45:11,160 --> 00:45:13,239
Speaker 2: on their mind right and really speak what's on their mind.

981
00:45:13,280 --> 00:45:15,480
Speaker 2: Because I'm a type of person at this point let

982
00:45:15,480 --> 00:45:17,640
Speaker 2: me know. Please just let me because I'm gonna let

983
00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:22,160
Speaker 2: you know periods. So yeah, Khalila LMK. That's my bop

984
00:45:22,360 --> 00:45:26,000
Speaker 2: of the week. So now y'all know, this is my

985
00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:26,960
Speaker 2: favorite box the show.

986
00:45:27,719 --> 00:45:28,960
Speaker 1: I can drink the rest of my drink.

987
00:45:28,960 --> 00:45:31,560
Speaker 3: I gotta get into my uh, get into my singing

988
00:45:31,600 --> 00:45:36,200
Speaker 3: bad sore you.

989
00:45:37,080 --> 00:45:39,520
Speaker 1: Oh, this is the one that we're breaking down. Y'all

990
00:45:39,560 --> 00:45:41,040
Speaker 1: know we like to break down lyrics.

991
00:45:41,080 --> 00:45:43,040
Speaker 2: So the reason I wanted to break down this song

992
00:45:43,120 --> 00:45:47,799
Speaker 2: because y'all know, I recently got into meditating again. So

993
00:45:47,880 --> 00:45:51,319
Speaker 2: I've been meditating and every time after I finished meditating,

994
00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:54,920
Speaker 2: I just be like in a good mood. I feel

995
00:45:54,960 --> 00:45:59,000
Speaker 2: so free and released. So this is the song that

996
00:45:59,080 --> 00:46:03,720
Speaker 2: I listened to every song. So the song we're breaking

997
00:46:03,760 --> 00:46:08,600
Speaker 2: down today is upside Down by the One, the Only

998
00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:14,160
Speaker 2: and Diana Ross. Hein okay sor ready, I'm ready? Are

999
00:46:14,200 --> 00:46:14,720
Speaker 2: you ready?

1000
00:46:15,320 --> 00:46:22,160
Speaker 3: I am ready because I have to obviously read the lyrics. Okay,

1001
00:46:22,520 --> 00:46:26,759
Speaker 3: hold on the Internet movie it is a little bit sorry, wait.

1002
00:46:26,480 --> 00:46:28,560
Speaker 1: Hold on, let me pull it up on this one. Okay,

1003
00:46:28,600 --> 00:46:29,040
Speaker 1: I got it.

1004
00:46:30,520 --> 00:46:32,960
Speaker 2: So what I'm gonna do is got it for y'all

1005
00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:34,839
Speaker 2: because I know a lot of young young a lot

1006
00:46:34,880 --> 00:46:38,040
Speaker 2: of young kids listen to the show now, y'all. I'm

1007
00:46:38,040 --> 00:46:40,520
Speaker 2: getting an Auntie Mold right now.

1008
00:46:40,520 --> 00:46:42,200
Speaker 1: He's in anti mood mode.

1009
00:46:42,280 --> 00:46:44,960
Speaker 2: Obviously, i'mna sing the first part of the song. So

1010
00:46:45,040 --> 00:46:49,000
Speaker 2: you ready, then I'm gonna break it down. I said,

1011
00:46:49,080 --> 00:46:53,600
Speaker 2: upside down your turnament, yo, giving it up extinctively around there,

1012
00:46:53,680 --> 00:47:00,880
Speaker 2: around your turn Tom, Yes, upside down boy. It turned

1013
00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:09,440
Speaker 2: me inside out and round around upside down boy turned

1014
00:47:09,480 --> 00:47:12,040
Speaker 2: me inside.

1015
00:47:13,480 --> 00:47:16,880
Speaker 1: Frown. Okay, go to the first verse.

1016
00:47:18,520 --> 00:47:19,640
Speaker 2: Go to the first verse.

1017
00:47:20,000 --> 00:47:24,080
Speaker 3: Instinctively, you give to me the love that I need.

1018
00:47:24,680 --> 00:47:27,319
Speaker 3: I cherish these moments with you.

1019
00:47:27,680 --> 00:47:29,960
Speaker 1: Let me stop you right there. I was trying to

1020
00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:32,120
Speaker 1: locate you know, I wanted to really sing it, but.

1021
00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:34,799
Speaker 2: You want to no, no, no, no no no no.

1022
00:47:35,520 --> 00:47:37,440
Speaker 2: I was ready break.

1023
00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:38,000
Speaker 1: It down down.

1024
00:47:38,120 --> 00:47:42,520
Speaker 2: Okay, So with this part, you know she fucking with

1025
00:47:42,600 --> 00:47:47,319
Speaker 2: a BDB because you gotta yes, because if you're giving

1026
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:50,680
Speaker 2: her that love that she needed, she's cherishing these moments.

1027
00:47:51,200 --> 00:47:53,360
Speaker 2: Like if you think about it, when you cherish a

1028
00:47:53,440 --> 00:47:55,880
Speaker 2: moment with a nigga, that means he doesne gave me

1029
00:47:55,920 --> 00:47:59,000
Speaker 2: some good dick, save me some good food, and bought

1030
00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:02,080
Speaker 2: me something I wanted. Those are the three cherishing things

1031
00:48:02,080 --> 00:48:06,759
Speaker 2: in my heart. And Diana Ross her baby daddy was rich.

1032
00:48:06,880 --> 00:48:10,800
Speaker 2: Tracy Ellis, I mean is rich. So she was messing

1033
00:48:10,840 --> 00:48:13,000
Speaker 2: with a bd B at this moment. And this is

1034
00:48:13,000 --> 00:48:17,000
Speaker 2: how I know Diana would have been. Okay, so remember

1035
00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:18,840
Speaker 2: how we said that poor minds was like back in

1036
00:48:18,840 --> 00:48:22,040
Speaker 2: the day, Trina would have been like a poor mind's advocate.

1037
00:48:22,400 --> 00:48:27,040
Speaker 2: Now if we went back to the daddies, that she

1038
00:48:27,040 --> 00:48:29,440
Speaker 2: would have been a poor mine's advocate. Okay, and let

1039
00:48:29,520 --> 00:48:30,000
Speaker 2: me tell you what.

1040
00:48:30,480 --> 00:48:35,359
Speaker 3: Read the next part respectfully. I say to thee I'm

1041
00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:40,200
Speaker 3: aware that you're cheating. When no one makes me feel.

1042
00:48:40,080 --> 00:48:43,040
Speaker 1: Like you do, no we toalked. You'll about these bad

1043
00:48:43,160 --> 00:48:49,080
Speaker 1: b they do be cheating. A reading that.

1044
00:48:49,960 --> 00:48:54,279
Speaker 2: I'm away you cheating, But I when no one makes

1045
00:48:54,320 --> 00:48:59,360
Speaker 2: me feel like he was breaking breads, breaking some serious

1046
00:48:59,560 --> 00:49:03,640
Speaker 2: mother fucking bread Like, yeah, he was busting her down

1047
00:49:03,680 --> 00:49:06,719
Speaker 2: with they need busting up upside down. You turn ament

1048
00:49:07,000 --> 00:49:10,440
Speaker 2: yn't give it up. She was feeling it.

1049
00:49:10,560 --> 00:49:13,839
Speaker 1: She was getting their moneyed, she was getting money head

1050
00:49:13,880 --> 00:49:16,680
Speaker 1: getting their bread. Then leave, well, she wasn't leaving.

1051
00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:20,640
Speaker 2: I'll say this, there is nothing in the world that

1052
00:49:20,719 --> 00:49:23,480
Speaker 2: will make a woman sing on a track that went

1053
00:49:23,600 --> 00:49:25,799
Speaker 2: platinum and it's still a classic to this day.

1054
00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:28,000
Speaker 1: Like when she was in that studio, she knew this

1055
00:49:28,200 --> 00:49:29,399
Speaker 1: was a hit.

1056
00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:31,960
Speaker 2: She knew that people were gonna be listening to this

1057
00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:34,279
Speaker 2: thirty years from now, and she said, I know this

1058
00:49:34,360 --> 00:49:37,080
Speaker 2: nigga cheating, but fucking I'm gonna let people know for

1059
00:49:37,120 --> 00:49:40,160
Speaker 2: the rest of the world, for everybody to hear from

1060
00:49:40,400 --> 00:49:41,840
Speaker 2: Tom and Tom and Tom on.

1061
00:49:42,239 --> 00:49:44,919
Speaker 3: So maybe that was like her get back, get back,

1062
00:49:46,640 --> 00:49:47,960
Speaker 3: because she knew she wasn't gonna leave him.

1063
00:49:48,000 --> 00:49:49,080
Speaker 1: So it's like, let me make these.

1064
00:49:48,920 --> 00:49:52,439
Speaker 3: Songs and let everybody know that I know I ain't stupid, y'all.

1065
00:49:52,480 --> 00:49:54,840
Speaker 3: Don't think I'm stupid, be shy, ain't stupid. I know

1066
00:49:54,880 --> 00:49:56,719
Speaker 3: what the fuck going on, But I still ain't leaving

1067
00:49:56,760 --> 00:49:59,760
Speaker 3: these niggas because I do some shit like that. Okay,

1068
00:49:59,800 --> 00:50:04,440
Speaker 3: so this part, I know you got charm and appeal.

1069
00:50:05,080 --> 00:50:08,160
Speaker 3: You always play the field. I'm crazy to think you're

1070
00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:12,240
Speaker 3: all mine. As long as the sun continues to shine,

1071
00:50:12,760 --> 00:50:15,040
Speaker 3: there's a place in my heart for you. That's the

1072
00:50:15,080 --> 00:50:15,840
Speaker 3: bottom line.

1073
00:50:16,800 --> 00:50:17,760
Speaker 1: Fuck all egg.

1074
00:50:20,120 --> 00:50:25,400
Speaker 3: What fuck are the fuck his charm and appeal? That

1075
00:50:25,560 --> 00:50:27,240
Speaker 3: nigga always play in the field.

1076
00:50:27,880 --> 00:50:31,040
Speaker 2: She knew you know what you're getting him? Nah.

1077
00:50:31,120 --> 00:50:33,560
Speaker 3: He had to give her a couple ems because it

1078
00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:35,000
Speaker 3: couldn't be a couple of thousand.

1079
00:50:35,280 --> 00:50:38,239
Speaker 2: It wasn't. It's Diana Ross were talking about. Yeah, I know,

1080
00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:41,319
Speaker 2: it wasn't. It was some m It had to be

1081
00:50:41,320 --> 00:50:45,480
Speaker 2: because she done. That's the kind of dumb on this track.

1082
00:50:45,880 --> 00:50:47,680
Speaker 2: She wasn't dumb though, because you don't know what she

1083
00:50:47,719 --> 00:50:50,840
Speaker 2: was getting on the back end. You got homes that's

1084
00:50:50,880 --> 00:50:53,320
Speaker 2: doing all this stuff. You got hos that singing upside

1085
00:50:53,360 --> 00:50:55,400
Speaker 2: down right now, and they had.

1086
00:50:55,280 --> 00:50:59,400
Speaker 1: McDonald's with that, or they singing it from working to

1087
00:50:59,480 --> 00:51:00,000
Speaker 1: draw through.

1088
00:51:00,160 --> 00:51:02,520
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. Ain't nothing wrong with working at McDonald's.

1089
00:51:02,520 --> 00:51:06,000
Speaker 1: I'm just saying it ain't. But you shouldn't be singing.

1090
00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:08,680
Speaker 2: Upside down, singing upside down unless you're dealing with a BDB,

1091
00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:09,960
Speaker 2: because that's how I was feeling.

1092
00:51:10,000 --> 00:51:11,920
Speaker 3: Well, if they were dealing with a BDB, they wouldn't

1093
00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:13,279
Speaker 3: be working at the drive through.

1094
00:51:13,600 --> 00:51:17,040
Speaker 2: You never know, I do know now I'm not funny.

1095
00:51:17,080 --> 00:51:19,759
Speaker 2: There's a story about an athlete. This happened in like

1096
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Speaker 2: the early nineties. He went through a drive through and

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Speaker 2: saved the girl from the drive through.

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Speaker 3: And I can't okay, but that's the point that I'm making.

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Speaker 3: Once he saved her, was she still working there?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, you get it. But I just had to

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00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:34,440
Speaker 2: break that down because.

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Speaker 1: Elliott I was like, oh it was sampled by me.

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00:51:37,640 --> 00:51:39,480
Speaker 1: Ce Elliot. I was like, I know you look like me.

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Speaker 1: S is not this old?

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Speaker 2: You know what, I'm not about to play, So yeah,

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Speaker 2: shout up to Diana Ross. She had a BDB back

1107
00:51:48,719 --> 00:51:51,440
Speaker 2: in the day. She was sucking his dick. Possibly she

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00:51:51,560 --> 00:51:54,719
Speaker 2: was singing about Diana. I mean, Tracy Ellis Ross's father.

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00:51:54,880 --> 00:51:56,920
Speaker 2: We won't say that. I'm gonna just throw it out.

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Speaker 1: You think that that's who she was talking I think

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Speaker 1: I think it possibly was.

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Speaker 2: You don't think so when did this song come out?

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00:52:04,480 --> 00:52:07,200
Speaker 2: Let me look again, it was like nineteen eighty around

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Speaker 2: the time you was born.

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Speaker 1: You a.

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00:52:16,000 --> 00:52:22,960
Speaker 2: Whole nigga bro, God damn y you had my.

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Speaker 1: June twenty fifth, nineteen eighty.

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Speaker 2: Okay, And so Tracy Ellis Ross was born. Oh, she

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00:52:27,719 --> 00:52:31,080
Speaker 2: was born in nineteen seventy two, so it came out.

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Speaker 2: It could have been someone else by that point, probably

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Speaker 2: possibly what's her dady name, Robert Ellis Silberstein, a music

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00:52:38,320 --> 00:52:41,640
Speaker 2: business manager, but he was like non in the industry.

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Speaker 2: I know that's right, Diana at the end of the day,

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Speaker 2: I fuck with you for that, Yeah about Diana. Okay,

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Speaker 2: So now we're gonna get into the questions portion of

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Speaker 2: the show. If you want your questions answered, make sure

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00:52:52,880 --> 00:52:55,960
Speaker 2: you email us at ask Poor Minds at gmail dot com.

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Speaker 1: That's a SKP. Oh you are in my n.

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00:52:59,600 --> 00:53:04,839
Speaker 2: DA at Gmail Tornitos, and if you're a top tier

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00:53:04,880 --> 00:53:07,120
Speaker 2: Patreon you can get your question answered on the show.

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00:53:07,640 --> 00:53:09,440
Speaker 1: I don't want to watch, y'all. We're about to get

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00:53:09,520 --> 00:53:10,040
Speaker 1: rid of this shit.

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00:53:10,120 --> 00:53:11,719
Speaker 2: So if you're a Patreon top ten you better send

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00:53:11,719 --> 00:53:15,080
Speaker 2: that home end right now. Yeh facts. Okay, So the

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Speaker 2: first question is from a Patreon member and it says, Hi,

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00:53:18,800 --> 00:53:22,160
Speaker 2: Alex Andrea, ignore the question I sent previously. I need

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00:53:22,200 --> 00:53:24,719
Speaker 2: some advice about friendships, as you both seem to have

1138
00:53:24,760 --> 00:53:26,280
Speaker 2: such a strong friendship together.

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00:53:26,800 --> 00:53:30,000
Speaker 1: A man, you be always messing.

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00:53:30,520 --> 00:53:33,040
Speaker 2: I have been friends with my best friend you can

1141
00:53:33,040 --> 00:53:35,520
Speaker 2: call her Sam, since sophomore year of high school.

1142
00:53:35,560 --> 00:53:37,240
Speaker 1: We are now both seniors in college.

1143
00:53:37,480 --> 00:53:39,640
Speaker 2: We go to different colleges but still live in the

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00:53:39,680 --> 00:53:43,040
Speaker 2: same hometown on breaks and during the summer. We have

1145
00:53:43,160 --> 00:53:46,720
Speaker 2: remained best friends throughout the years. This past summer, Sam

1146
00:53:46,800 --> 00:53:49,520
Speaker 2: may new friends that are local to our area. I

1147
00:53:49,600 --> 00:53:52,640
Speaker 2: obviously was cool with it. The more the friends, the better,

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00:53:52,719 --> 00:53:55,600
Speaker 2: and they seem like chill people. The only problem is

1149
00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:58,239
Speaker 2: they really don't have shit going on with themselves. They

1150
00:53:58,320 --> 00:54:00,960
Speaker 2: really only care about going out and get fucked up daily,

1151
00:54:01,320 --> 00:54:04,440
Speaker 2: and I really don't and don't really do anything else,

1152
00:54:04,640 --> 00:54:07,000
Speaker 2: like I'm talking no ambition and they be okay with

1153
00:54:07,040 --> 00:54:09,560
Speaker 2: working at McDonald's as a twenty six year old. Now

1154
00:54:09,600 --> 00:54:13,799
Speaker 2: we're just talking about that's ironic, that's crazy, irony. We

1155
00:54:13,800 --> 00:54:16,520
Speaker 2: was just talking about McDonald was We need that check

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00:54:16,760 --> 00:54:22,120
Speaker 2: mickey Bee's. I still love Sam, but her priorities are

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00:54:22,160 --> 00:54:24,799
Speaker 2: shifted now to going out every night, and she really

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00:54:24,840 --> 00:54:26,799
Speaker 2: doesn't give a fuck about what her next move in

1159
00:54:26,880 --> 00:54:29,480
Speaker 2: life is. When I talk about my goals or us

1160
00:54:29,480 --> 00:54:32,320
Speaker 2: like getting successful, it just doesn't even interest her anymore.

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00:54:32,719 --> 00:54:35,120
Speaker 2: That's her life and I'm not here to control it.

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00:54:35,320 --> 00:54:37,920
Speaker 2: But I'm focused on starting my career and graduating and

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00:54:37,920 --> 00:54:40,640
Speaker 2: moving out of our hometown. And everyone we now hang

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00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:43,080
Speaker 2: around doesn't even think about stuff like that.

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Speaker 1: I would feel.

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00:54:44,160 --> 00:54:46,840
Speaker 2: Bad cutting off Sam, but I don't feel like we

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00:54:46,960 --> 00:54:50,480
Speaker 2: have a good, meaningful friendship anymore, and there's definitely distance

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00:54:50,560 --> 00:54:53,520
Speaker 2: between us now. I also want to I also don't

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00:54:53,560 --> 00:54:56,080
Speaker 2: want the new group of friends energy around me because

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00:54:56,080 --> 00:54:58,600
Speaker 2: they're just not my type of time. I don't think

1171
00:54:58,640 --> 00:55:00,760
Speaker 2: I'm better than any of them. You just want different

1172
00:55:00,800 --> 00:55:03,120
Speaker 2: things in life. Please let me know what you guys

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Speaker 2: would do in the situation. I'm sorry this.

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Speaker 1: Is kind of long.

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Speaker 2: Oh, you want me to go first? Yeah, hm, I

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Speaker 2: don't know.

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Speaker 3: I feel like you can still be friends with her,

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Speaker 3: like that's your childhood friend. It's no reason to me

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Speaker 3: why you should necessarily cut off the friendship.

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Speaker 1: I feel like what she choose to do with her

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Speaker 1: life is what she choose to do.

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Speaker 3: I think a lot of the time, when you young, too,

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00:55:28,680 --> 00:55:33,239
Speaker 3: people don't realize that. Like I used to care a

1184
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Speaker 3: lot about what my friends would do when I was younger.

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Speaker 3: Not to say that, not that I'm older, I don't

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Speaker 3: care anymore, because I do still care.

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Speaker 1: But at the same time.

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Speaker 3: It's like it's their life, it's their decisions to make,

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00:55:43,920 --> 00:55:47,239
Speaker 3: it's their pad. So you can't get yourself caught up

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Speaker 3: in what your friend is and isn't doing with her

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00:55:49,880 --> 00:55:51,759
Speaker 3: life as long as you're doing what you feel like

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00:55:51,800 --> 00:55:53,520
Speaker 3: you need to do to get where you want to go.

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Speaker 3: I don't feel like that's a reason to cut somebody off.

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Speaker 2: I kind of agree, and I kind of don't, okay,

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00:55:59,480 --> 00:56:03,680
Speaker 2: because I feel like I was this person and I

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00:56:03,719 --> 00:56:07,200
Speaker 2: had friends around me with my like my last few

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00:56:07,200 --> 00:56:10,160
Speaker 2: little years in Houston, and I had friends around me,

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00:56:10,280 --> 00:56:13,160
Speaker 2: like we wasn't really not all of my friends, just

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Speaker 2: like one person in particular that I was hanging out

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00:56:15,640 --> 00:56:17,680
Speaker 2: with a lot. She ain't have nothing going on.

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Speaker 1: You have.

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00:56:19,200 --> 00:56:23,359
Speaker 2: But I'll say this, you can really elevate so much

1203
00:56:23,400 --> 00:56:26,840
Speaker 2: further in life by surrounding yourself with like minded people. Seriously,

1204
00:56:27,280 --> 00:56:30,920
Speaker 2: I feel like when I moved here and conversations that

1205
00:56:30,960 --> 00:56:33,440
Speaker 2: we started having and things that we started.

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Speaker 1: Doing, it definitely helped me elevate.

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Speaker 2: Cause I'm not gonna lie like, yeah, it's fun to

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00:56:36,960 --> 00:56:39,160
Speaker 2: go out and have fun every now and then, but

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00:56:39,239 --> 00:56:41,919
Speaker 2: if you just chilling and y'all not talking about nothing,

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00:56:42,000 --> 00:56:44,600
Speaker 2: y'all just getting drunk and there's nothing productive going on,

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Speaker 2: I don't want to spend my time like that.

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Speaker 1: But you don't have to cut off every cause I'm.

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00:56:49,680 --> 00:56:52,480
Speaker 2: Not saying yeah, but you definitely I would say limit

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00:56:52,560 --> 00:56:56,080
Speaker 2: your time with her. I'm sorry, I'm not interested in

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00:56:56,160 --> 00:56:58,719
Speaker 2: being around somebody that all we do is drink and

1216
00:56:58,760 --> 00:57:00,320
Speaker 2: talk about bullshit all day.

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm definitely giving this advice from the perspective of

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00:57:03,280 --> 00:57:05,839
Speaker 3: trying to put myself in the shoes to understand where

1219
00:57:05,840 --> 00:57:08,200
Speaker 3: you're coming from, because I think that I've said on

1220
00:57:08,400 --> 00:57:10,960
Speaker 3: numerous episodes that I feel like you shouldn't have no

1221
00:57:11,040 --> 00:57:14,400
Speaker 3: friendships that aren't beneficial in some type of way. And

1222
00:57:14,440 --> 00:57:16,640
Speaker 3: I'm not saying that they should be have they should

1223
00:57:16,640 --> 00:57:19,480
Speaker 3: have to be beneficial in a financial way necessarily, but

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00:57:19,520 --> 00:57:21,439
Speaker 3: it needs to be beneficial in some type of ways

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00:57:21,440 --> 00:57:24,600
Speaker 3: for you to maintain the friendship. Okay, So with that

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00:57:24,680 --> 00:57:28,040
Speaker 3: being said, I feel like maybe just because and that's

1227
00:57:28,080 --> 00:57:30,000
Speaker 3: why I said what I said. Because maybe just because

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00:57:30,000 --> 00:57:31,640
Speaker 3: her friend don't really know what she want to do

1229
00:57:31,680 --> 00:57:34,640
Speaker 3: with her life, or maybe she's lacking ambition right now,

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00:57:34,920 --> 00:57:38,440
Speaker 3: maybe it's other reasons why she should still maintain the friendship.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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00:57:39,560 --> 00:57:41,680
Speaker 2: You know, so I said, you didn't give us too

1233
00:57:41,720 --> 00:57:45,800
Speaker 2: much insight. But right, like I said, it's okay to say,

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00:57:45,880 --> 00:57:48,200
Speaker 2: y'all are still young, so she probably might end up

1235
00:57:48,200 --> 00:57:48,760
Speaker 2: getting hurt.

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00:57:49,880 --> 00:57:50,840
Speaker 1: Oh, she said that was well.

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00:57:50,840 --> 00:57:53,040
Speaker 2: She said twenty six working at McDonald So I'm guessing

1238
00:57:53,040 --> 00:57:58,600
Speaker 2: that's their age. Oh, I don't know.

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00:57:59,120 --> 00:58:04,000
Speaker 1: Next question, I don't know, Sis, I don't know. Does

1240
00:58:04,040 --> 00:58:05,440
Speaker 1: she be giving you free mc doubles.

1241
00:58:05,920 --> 00:58:07,800
Speaker 2: No, she wasn't saying that she worked at me down.

1242
00:58:07,960 --> 00:58:09,800
Speaker 2: She was saying, if you like, she didn't want that

1243
00:58:09,880 --> 00:58:13,840
Speaker 2: to be their lives. Oh, But like I said, I

1244
00:58:13,880 --> 00:58:17,320
Speaker 2: feel like surround yourself with like minded people. But it's

1245
00:58:17,360 --> 00:58:18,200
Speaker 2: fun to have friends to go.

1246
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna need to make flurrius.

1247
00:58:19,760 --> 00:58:23,480
Speaker 2: Mmm, I'm gonna make flurry. Come on, man, it's going right. No,

1248
00:58:23,800 --> 00:58:25,040
Speaker 2: you had it, Oh, I had it up.

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00:58:26,640 --> 00:58:30,360
Speaker 3: Okay, family members need to mind they motherfucking business.

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00:58:30,600 --> 00:58:33,200
Speaker 2: Damn you said that hard. She didn't even type it out.

1251
00:58:33,240 --> 00:58:35,000
Speaker 1: She said, mL I.

1252
00:58:34,960 --> 00:58:37,120
Speaker 2: Knew what she mean. You are violent.

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Speaker 3: Will First off, I want to say I love you girls.

1254
00:58:43,640 --> 00:58:45,800
Speaker 3: I'm listening to the new episode and they struck a

1255
00:58:45,800 --> 00:58:48,640
Speaker 3: nerve with me. Lex I had a similar situation to yours,

1256
00:58:48,640 --> 00:58:51,240
Speaker 3: and my dad's friend's daughter took me to get the

1257
00:58:51,320 --> 00:58:55,600
Speaker 3: abortion and I ended up moving away, and nobody knew

1258
00:58:55,600 --> 00:58:57,960
Speaker 3: about what I had what I had did, except for

1259
00:58:58,040 --> 00:59:00,680
Speaker 3: me and his daughter. I mean me and my friend's daughter.

1260
00:59:01,440 --> 00:59:04,480
Speaker 3: Months later, my dad calls me and brings up the situation.

1261
00:59:04,880 --> 00:59:06,760
Speaker 3: Not only did he tell my mom, but he told

1262
00:59:06,760 --> 00:59:09,600
Speaker 3: his sister and she told her daughter, which is my cousin.

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00:59:10,000 --> 00:59:13,480
Speaker 3: My cousin told I'm confused already. My cousin told her

1264
00:59:13,520 --> 00:59:16,640
Speaker 3: ex best friend, who she still hangs with. Her friend

1265
00:59:17,600 --> 00:59:19,920
Speaker 3: has been jealous of me since we were kids. My

1266
00:59:20,040 --> 00:59:22,640
Speaker 3: cousin X best friend with her baby daddy.

1267
00:59:24,120 --> 00:59:28,480
Speaker 2: I don't everybody know. Everybody knows. Let's just say that

1268
00:59:28,600 --> 00:59:35,320
Speaker 2: everybody know, she said, shaking my fucking head hold on.

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00:59:35,960 --> 00:59:39,400
Speaker 1: Okay, well her baby okay. Her best friend went.

1270
00:59:39,240 --> 00:59:41,760
Speaker 2: And told niggas who I was trying to fuck with

1271
00:59:43,000 --> 00:59:45,200
Speaker 2: me about my situation to make me look bad.

1272
00:59:45,240 --> 00:59:47,560
Speaker 1: But he made the niggas want me even more so.

1273
00:59:47,680 --> 00:59:50,640
Speaker 3: Her lost her lost, She's no, and she didn't say

1274
00:59:50,680 --> 00:59:54,040
Speaker 3: her lost, she said her lost. I also went to

1275
00:59:54,120 --> 00:59:58,960
Speaker 3: fight this bitch, and she called the cops on me,

1276
00:59:59,320 --> 00:59:59,960
Speaker 3: as she should.

1277
01:00:00,040 --> 01:00:03,640
Speaker 1: Good the fuck you, hooligain.

1278
01:00:05,360 --> 01:00:08,240
Speaker 2: I was so mad, like, what the fuck do my

1279
01:00:08,360 --> 01:00:09,800
Speaker 2: situation got to do with you?

1280
01:00:10,400 --> 01:00:13,040
Speaker 1: She put a whole bunch of exclamation points.

1281
01:00:13,560 --> 01:00:16,280
Speaker 3: Y'all don't understand how it hurt and embarrassed I was

1282
01:00:16,360 --> 01:00:19,680
Speaker 3: about this situation. I honestly hated my dad and my

1283
01:00:19,840 --> 01:00:23,200
Speaker 3: cousin X best friend for spreading my business. It took

1284
01:00:23,280 --> 01:00:25,960
Speaker 3: me a long time to forgive and forget everybody that

1285
01:00:26,120 --> 01:00:29,400
Speaker 3: hurt me. The only reason why I had the abortionist

1286
01:00:29,400 --> 01:00:33,600
Speaker 3: because I was drug rates. My cousin is so lucky.

1287
01:00:33,960 --> 01:00:36,680
Speaker 3: I haven't told her mom that she is a cokehead.

1288
01:00:37,200 --> 01:00:42,160
Speaker 3: Powder ass powder head ass bitch whoa. I just needed

1289
01:00:42,200 --> 01:00:43,840
Speaker 3: to get that off my chase after listening to the

1290
01:00:43,880 --> 01:00:48,120
Speaker 3: episode Oh Beach, it wasn't even a question. I I

1291
01:00:48,440 --> 01:00:50,080
Speaker 3: need the subgirl.

1292
01:00:50,680 --> 01:00:52,680
Speaker 1: Well, I'll say this, it wasn't a question.

1293
01:00:52,800 --> 01:00:54,760
Speaker 2: It wasn't a question, but we're gonna treat it like

1294
01:00:54,800 --> 01:00:57,680
Speaker 2: a question today, you because I've been through that before.

1295
01:00:57,720 --> 01:01:00,000
Speaker 2: I think this was after the episode when I said,

1296
01:01:00,240 --> 01:01:02,480
Speaker 2: you know, my cousin had told you know, whenever I

1297
01:01:02,480 --> 01:01:05,280
Speaker 2: got my abortion, and my cousin told Rember, yeah, I

1298
01:01:05,360 --> 01:01:07,400
Speaker 2: know what episodes she was talking about. Well, you know,

1299
01:01:07,440 --> 01:01:09,400
Speaker 2: we have a lot of new listeners, so I didn't

1300
01:01:09,400 --> 01:01:12,120
Speaker 2: want them to be confused. So with that being said,

1301
01:01:12,160 --> 01:01:15,160
Speaker 2: since you just gotta let that her go and move on,

1302
01:01:15,360 --> 01:01:19,560
Speaker 2: fighting is not going to solve anything. Like sometimes people

1303
01:01:19,600 --> 01:01:21,200
Speaker 2: do things to you that you would never think that

1304
01:01:21,240 --> 01:01:23,760
Speaker 2: they would do. But I don't put nothing past nobody,

1305
01:01:24,360 --> 01:01:27,480
Speaker 2: So I would just say, letting her go and move on.

1306
01:01:27,560 --> 01:01:29,760
Speaker 2: There's no need to fight, there's no need to get mad. Now,

1307
01:01:29,800 --> 01:01:31,680
Speaker 2: I will say, I don't think that the men wanted

1308
01:01:31,720 --> 01:01:34,560
Speaker 2: to fuck with you because you had an abortion, That's

1309
01:01:34,560 --> 01:01:37,160
Speaker 2: what she said. I don't think niggas be like, yo,

1310
01:01:37,280 --> 01:01:40,840
Speaker 2: what abortion last week. I'm trying to food because that's

1311
01:01:40,840 --> 01:01:45,680
Speaker 2: what she said. I know, so I don't think that's

1312
01:01:45,680 --> 01:01:47,280
Speaker 2: why I they wanted to fuck with you, but I

1313
01:01:47,280 --> 01:01:48,960
Speaker 2: don't think that's something that you need.

1314
01:01:48,800 --> 01:01:49,800
Speaker 1: To focus on.

1315
01:01:50,080 --> 01:01:54,360
Speaker 2: Okay, So it says podcast question, thank you? You know

1316
01:01:54,360 --> 01:01:58,200
Speaker 2: what's the question? Hey, guys? Question it's for drag because

1317
01:01:58,200 --> 01:02:01,920
Speaker 2: I know Lex p don't play that gay she what

1318
01:02:03,280 --> 01:02:06,720
Speaker 2: thank you. I'm not nothing against it, but I'm not

1319
01:02:06,760 --> 01:02:11,080
Speaker 2: eating no coucha now, not even no kucha. So this

1320
01:02:11,240 --> 01:02:13,240
Speaker 2: question is for Dred because I know Ley Pete don't

1321
01:02:13,240 --> 01:02:16,160
Speaker 2: play that gay shit. We hired you the first time,

1322
01:02:16,200 --> 01:02:19,120
Speaker 2: bitch free the rest of the question. This question is

1323
01:02:19,120 --> 01:02:21,000
Speaker 2: for Drea because I know Lex Pete don't play that

1324
01:02:21,120 --> 01:02:26,240
Speaker 2: gay shit. But I'm currently dating around and as a

1325
01:02:26,280 --> 01:02:30,120
Speaker 2: newly bisexual woman, I find myself in a position where

1326
01:02:30,120 --> 01:02:32,520
Speaker 2: I'm getting to know both a lady and a man.

1327
01:02:33,000 --> 01:02:35,840
Speaker 2: Even though I feel more comfortable dating men, this woman

1328
01:02:35,880 --> 01:02:38,880
Speaker 2: I'm getting to know connects with me spiritually and emotionally.

1329
01:02:39,280 --> 01:02:41,680
Speaker 1: I've obviously had sex with men, but not women.

1330
01:02:42,160 --> 01:02:44,240
Speaker 2: I haven't had sex with either of the two people

1331
01:02:44,360 --> 01:02:46,680
Speaker 2: I'm getting to know, but the girl is just giving

1332
01:02:46,720 --> 01:02:49,200
Speaker 2: me vibes that she's a real freak because she really

1333
01:02:49,440 --> 01:02:52,440
Speaker 2: knows what she's doing. And I know Drea had been

1334
01:02:52,480 --> 01:02:56,120
Speaker 2: had some sexual encounters with some girls. So my question is,

1335
01:02:56,480 --> 01:02:59,800
Speaker 2: what's the difference between straight sex and girl on girl sex.

1336
01:03:00,120 --> 01:03:03,520
Speaker 2: Is it more emotional and intimate because I'm experiencing some

1337
01:03:03,520 --> 01:03:06,520
Speaker 2: feelings I've never felt before. I really don't know, But

1338
01:03:06,640 --> 01:03:10,040
Speaker 2: just to let you know, love you guys both from London,

1339
01:03:11,720 --> 01:03:16,240
Speaker 2: come on, let them know.

1340
01:03:15,120 --> 01:03:16,720
Speaker 1: You liquor.

1341
01:03:19,880 --> 01:03:22,080
Speaker 2: You're stupid, cootie queen.

1342
01:03:24,400 --> 01:03:26,400
Speaker 1: We don't name this episode couchie Queen.

1343
01:03:26,600 --> 01:03:28,160
Speaker 2: I'm not so.

1344
01:03:29,560 --> 01:03:34,080
Speaker 3: I definitely feel like it's it's a different experience, you know,

1345
01:03:34,160 --> 01:03:36,960
Speaker 3: having sex with a woman and having sex with a man.

1346
01:03:36,960 --> 01:03:38,840
Speaker 3: It's a different experience. I feel like women are more

1347
01:03:38,840 --> 01:03:42,480
Speaker 3: in tune. They're the sex is going to be more intimate,

1348
01:03:43,880 --> 01:03:46,040
Speaker 3: especially if you're younger. Nine times out of ten you're

1349
01:03:46,080 --> 01:03:48,440
Speaker 3: going to actually have an orgasm.

1350
01:03:48,440 --> 01:03:50,280
Speaker 2: The first time you had an orgasm was from a woman.

1351
01:03:50,480 --> 01:03:52,240
Speaker 1: No, it was from a man.

1352
01:03:52,680 --> 01:03:54,920
Speaker 3: But I'm saying, if you're younger and you're fucking with

1353
01:03:55,000 --> 01:03:58,280
Speaker 3: women early, I feel like you'll probably have an orgasm

1354
01:03:58,320 --> 01:04:00,600
Speaker 3: with the woman before you will with the man. Because

1355
01:04:00,800 --> 01:04:04,640
Speaker 3: younger men don't really know what they doing. You know,

1356
01:04:05,200 --> 01:04:07,920
Speaker 3: women are more in tune because it's like y'all have

1357
01:04:07,960 --> 01:04:10,520
Speaker 3: the same anatomy. So they know what your spot, they

1358
01:04:10,600 --> 01:04:12,160
Speaker 3: know where your spots are, they know what to leak,

1359
01:04:12,200 --> 01:04:14,560
Speaker 3: they know what to do to make you come because

1360
01:04:14,560 --> 01:04:18,600
Speaker 3: they know what makes them come. So I definitely think

1361
01:04:18,640 --> 01:04:23,840
Speaker 3: it's more of an intimate experience. It's definitely different. But

1362
01:04:23,840 --> 01:04:28,560
Speaker 3: bitches are crazy. So I love to always for warn

1363
01:04:28,680 --> 01:04:30,720
Speaker 3: people about that part of it.

1364
01:04:30,840 --> 01:04:31,960
Speaker 1: Before you decide to.

1365
01:04:31,920 --> 01:04:35,600
Speaker 3: Get intimate and intimate and have six with another woman,

1366
01:04:35,840 --> 01:04:38,280
Speaker 3: you gotta understand, like the same way beaches be tripping

1367
01:04:38,320 --> 01:04:41,400
Speaker 3: over niggas, they gonna trip over you if you'r sicks fire,

1368
01:04:42,240 --> 01:04:49,520
Speaker 3: cause women don't really know how to differentiate. So yeah, Bessie, Like,

1369
01:04:49,600 --> 01:04:52,440
Speaker 3: I just really feel like that's personally why I don't

1370
01:04:52,480 --> 01:04:54,360
Speaker 3: really fuck with women like that anymore, because they just

1371
01:04:54,400 --> 01:04:56,960
Speaker 3: be crazy, Like you be thinking, you just fucking the beach,

1372
01:04:57,120 --> 01:04:59,680
Speaker 3: just like with a nigga, you just fucking somebody in

1373
01:04:59,760 --> 01:05:00,760
Speaker 3: the be just be like.

1374
01:05:00,720 --> 01:05:04,520
Speaker 1: Ah, but you ain't calling me back beach and I'm night.

1375
01:05:06,520 --> 01:05:08,560
Speaker 2: So yeah, I don't know advice.

1376
01:05:08,960 --> 01:05:12,680
Speaker 1: What's her what's her experience? I don't coach you.

1377
01:05:13,040 --> 01:05:15,240
Speaker 2: I'd coach you one time and I never looked back.

1378
01:05:15,320 --> 01:05:18,080
Speaker 2: I must have ran out the house so quick. No,

1379
01:05:18,960 --> 01:05:21,640
Speaker 2: that's what It's Black history one. So I'm not gonna

1380
01:05:21,680 --> 01:05:29,000
Speaker 2: say what the coachie was right there.

1381
01:05:29,520 --> 01:05:31,920
Speaker 1: I gotta read the next one too, it's the last one.

1382
01:05:33,600 --> 01:05:35,800
Speaker 3: Hey, y'all, please don't say my name. First of all,

1383
01:05:35,840 --> 01:05:37,600
Speaker 3: I want to say thank you so much for everything

1384
01:05:37,680 --> 01:05:39,840
Speaker 3: y'all is doing. And I really see y'all as my

1385
01:05:39,880 --> 01:05:42,720
Speaker 3: big sisters. I kid you not y'all be talking that

1386
01:05:42,920 --> 01:05:46,280
Speaker 3: she Please don't change the advice shall give. I sunk

1387
01:05:46,360 --> 01:05:49,280
Speaker 3: it all in. But let me hurry and tell y'all

1388
01:05:49,280 --> 01:05:51,840
Speaker 3: my issue. So I've been dating my boyfriend for four

1389
01:05:51,920 --> 01:05:54,400
Speaker 3: years and he's amazing. He's an amazing man. He treats

1390
01:05:54,440 --> 01:05:57,400
Speaker 3: me good, open doors for me, buys me random flowers,

1391
01:05:57,480 --> 01:06:00,600
Speaker 3: rubs my feet, respectful, has manner, smart, his hell and

1392
01:06:00,800 --> 01:06:03,520
Speaker 3: gray in bed. He also taught me so much about

1393
01:06:03,520 --> 01:06:05,800
Speaker 3: life and helped me grow as a person. I never

1394
01:06:05,840 --> 01:06:07,919
Speaker 3: feel like it's about a man before, and I'm really

1395
01:06:07,960 --> 01:06:10,160
Speaker 3: in love with him head over heels. This is my

1396
01:06:10,200 --> 01:06:13,240
Speaker 3: mother's fucking husbie. He is just a great man. Over

1397
01:06:13,280 --> 01:06:14,600
Speaker 3: all shit.

1398
01:06:16,800 --> 01:06:20,720
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. I just hate making me happy. Jesus, Oh

1399
01:06:20,760 --> 01:06:24,560
Speaker 2: you want to make that nigga happy today? Why the whybity?

1400
01:06:24,680 --> 01:06:28,440
Speaker 2: Why it's just one thing. He just never had a

1401
01:06:28,440 --> 01:06:31,240
Speaker 2: stable job. Oh so you told us all those great things.

1402
01:06:31,880 --> 01:06:32,360
Speaker 2: Forget it.

1403
01:06:32,760 --> 01:06:35,840
Speaker 3: You can finally tell us, he say, it's broke. Majority

1404
01:06:35,920 --> 01:06:39,000
Speaker 3: of the time. I buy everything dinner, even if we

1405
01:06:39,120 --> 01:06:41,240
Speaker 3: go on dates or safe if we go out of town,

1406
01:06:41,320 --> 01:06:44,800
Speaker 3: I'm paying for the trip, personal items, literally everything you

1407
01:06:44,840 --> 01:06:47,360
Speaker 3: can name. I'm the one who was wiping the card.

1408
01:06:48,920 --> 01:06:50,880
Speaker 3: This a horror, but I really it's a horror.

1409
01:06:50,920 --> 01:06:57,000
Speaker 1: Sorry, she said, I'm scared.

1410
01:06:59,080 --> 01:07:01,840
Speaker 2: What keep going? Keep going?

1411
01:07:02,800 --> 01:07:04,920
Speaker 1: Are you sure you need a break?

1412
01:07:05,040 --> 01:07:05,880
Speaker 2: Let me cover your eyes.

1413
01:07:06,440 --> 01:07:07,960
Speaker 1: You're welcome, Okay.

1414
01:07:08,000 --> 01:07:10,200
Speaker 3: If we go out, I'm paying for the trip, personal items,

1415
01:07:10,240 --> 01:07:12,760
Speaker 3: literally everything you can name. I'm the one who's wiping

1416
01:07:12,800 --> 01:07:15,800
Speaker 3: the car. But I really wish he would step up

1417
01:07:15,840 --> 01:07:17,600
Speaker 3: and get a job. But I do understand. He is

1418
01:07:17,640 --> 01:07:20,560
Speaker 3: a full time student in college and he has his

1419
01:07:20,840 --> 01:07:24,080
Speaker 3: associates degree and working on his next degree. He wants

1420
01:07:24,120 --> 01:07:26,200
Speaker 3: to be a physical therapist, and I believe he could

1421
01:07:26,200 --> 01:07:28,840
Speaker 3: do it. But now that I am pregnant.

1422
01:07:30,800 --> 01:07:31,720
Speaker 2: This is a skip.

1423
01:07:32,320 --> 01:07:37,760
Speaker 1: Hey, Stephen King, I got shit on you, bitch. But

1424
01:07:37,920 --> 01:07:42,560
Speaker 1: now that I'm pregnant and doing May, you can't even

1425
01:07:42,600 --> 01:07:43,760
Speaker 1: get an abortion.

1426
01:07:43,560 --> 01:07:45,120
Speaker 4: Bitch, draya.

1427
01:07:45,360 --> 01:07:49,920
Speaker 2: It's almost May, it's February. Should I talk to him

1428
01:07:49,960 --> 01:07:52,240
Speaker 2: about our financial issues? What should I do?

1429
01:07:52,360 --> 01:07:54,800
Speaker 1: Sisters? Help me? You should have talked to him about

1430
01:07:54,760 --> 01:07:58,120
Speaker 1: your financial You got pregnant. She said this in November.

1431
01:07:58,440 --> 01:08:01,320
Speaker 1: We do like to savor well, bitch, dope.

1432
01:08:03,400 --> 01:08:05,520
Speaker 2: Even if she said the last month she said, the

1433
01:08:05,520 --> 01:08:10,160
Speaker 2: baby doing may. Even if she said the end of December,

1434
01:08:11,280 --> 01:08:12,360
Speaker 2: the baby doing may.

1435
01:08:12,720 --> 01:08:14,120
Speaker 1: So she's far along.

1436
01:08:14,840 --> 01:08:17,960
Speaker 2: Okay, so you're far long now, congratulations, the baby probably here.

1437
01:08:19,479 --> 01:08:21,559
Speaker 2: Should I talk to him about our financial issues?

1438
01:08:21,600 --> 01:08:25,560
Speaker 1: You should have did that for all, you got pregnant.

1439
01:08:26,160 --> 01:08:30,000
Speaker 2: Oh god, you know what. I'll say this, So y'all

1440
01:08:30,040 --> 01:08:33,080
Speaker 2: are young. Obviously he's still in school. Send us the address.

1441
01:08:33,120 --> 01:08:35,040
Speaker 2: We're gonna send you a gift for the baby shower.

1442
01:08:36,320 --> 01:08:37,400
Speaker 2: Because at this point, that's.

1443
01:08:39,640 --> 01:08:39,840
Speaker 1: Bitch.

1444
01:08:40,080 --> 01:08:43,080
Speaker 3: At this point, that's all we can do. That's the

1445
01:08:43,120 --> 01:08:45,040
Speaker 3: way I feel about it. That's all we can do

1446
01:08:45,120 --> 01:08:47,240
Speaker 3: is support it because she about to have his baby.

1447
01:08:47,280 --> 01:08:49,639
Speaker 2: I'll say this, though, it seems like y'all are pretty young.

1448
01:08:49,760 --> 01:08:52,880
Speaker 2: If he, you know, is still in school. So yeah,

1449
01:08:52,960 --> 01:08:56,360
Speaker 2: y'all definitely need to have a financial talk because obviously

1450
01:08:56,439 --> 01:08:58,760
Speaker 2: things need to change. He needs to understand that just

1451
01:08:58,760 --> 01:09:01,639
Speaker 2: because you've been doing this for four years, you don't

1452
01:09:01,640 --> 01:09:03,760
Speaker 2: want to do that anymore. So you have to have

1453
01:09:03,800 --> 01:09:07,000
Speaker 2: that conversation with him. This is horrible. I understand he

1454
01:09:07,080 --> 01:09:09,439
Speaker 2: treats you well, but that's just not it.

1455
01:09:09,840 --> 01:09:11,560
Speaker 1: Love. Don't pay the bills, Hunt.

1456
01:09:11,720 --> 01:09:15,200
Speaker 2: I'm glad that you find a man that will How

1457
01:09:15,240 --> 01:09:17,440
Speaker 2: can you treat me, Willie? You don't got no money?

1458
01:09:18,520 --> 01:09:21,320
Speaker 2: Points were made, points were made.

1459
01:09:21,479 --> 01:09:22,360
Speaker 1: I don't understand.

1460
01:09:22,800 --> 01:09:27,559
Speaker 2: Well, Sis, my prayers are up to you. Uh, let's

1461
01:09:27,680 --> 01:09:30,720
Speaker 2: hope that he just steps it up. I feel like

1462
01:09:31,040 --> 01:09:32,639
Speaker 2: maybe a lot because a lot of times when men

1463
01:09:32,680 --> 01:09:36,200
Speaker 2: have children that like manly Jean just like kicksing, Like

1464
01:09:36,240 --> 01:09:38,559
Speaker 2: you know how people say, like that motherly Jean kicks

1465
01:09:38,560 --> 01:09:40,280
Speaker 2: in when you have a baby and you just become

1466
01:09:40,320 --> 01:09:42,840
Speaker 2: a nurturing person. Maybe that'll make him want to step

1467
01:09:42,920 --> 01:09:44,640
Speaker 2: up and be more of a man, because.

1468
01:09:44,360 --> 01:09:46,719
Speaker 1: I don't really it's not a lot.

1469
01:09:46,560 --> 01:09:48,800
Speaker 2: Of men I feel like that are dating somebody and

1470
01:09:48,840 --> 01:09:51,200
Speaker 2: they see their girlfriend pregnant and they're okay with her

1471
01:09:51,240 --> 01:09:52,439
Speaker 2: doing everything, or.

1472
01:09:52,439 --> 01:09:54,160
Speaker 1: The deadbeat Jean could kick in.

1473
01:09:54,400 --> 01:10:01,599
Speaker 2: Yes and so God speed so Yes. If y'all want

1474
01:10:01,600 --> 01:10:03,679
Speaker 2: your questions answer on the show, make sure you email

1475
01:10:03,800 --> 01:10:08,120
Speaker 2: us at ask poor Minds at gmail dot com.

1476
01:10:08,479 --> 01:10:10,080
Speaker 1: Oh, I'm ready.

1477
01:10:10,360 --> 01:10:11,439
Speaker 2: You need to calm down.

1478
01:10:12,160 --> 01:10:17,840
Speaker 1: Let me take a sip of the yet. I had

1479
01:10:17,840 --> 01:10:21,759
Speaker 1: to wet my whistle to get it ready.

1480
01:10:22,520 --> 01:10:27,479
Speaker 2: So y'all know we love the show. Ready, Now I

1481
01:10:27,520 --> 01:10:31,479
Speaker 2: gotta bring this hole in hard because Ryan said, we're

1482
01:10:31,520 --> 01:10:32,439
Speaker 2: doing this for Ryan.

1483
01:10:32,680 --> 01:10:36,920
Speaker 1: This is shout out to you. Got to look at

1484
01:10:36,920 --> 01:10:38,400
Speaker 1: all the cameras, shout out to Ryan.

1485
01:10:38,640 --> 01:10:43,599
Speaker 2: This one was for you. You ready, I'm ready.

1486
01:10:44,520 --> 01:10:47,800
Speaker 1: It seems like just the other day when we hooked up.

1487
01:10:49,040 --> 01:10:52,400
Speaker 1: How was driving, you was walking and I swooped you

1488
01:10:52,520 --> 01:10:53,879
Speaker 1: up from.

1489
01:10:53,760 --> 01:10:56,880
Speaker 2: That morment on I do you?

1490
01:10:57,000 --> 01:10:57,680
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1491
01:10:57,840 --> 01:10:58,960
Speaker 2: I was single you.

1492
01:10:59,040 --> 01:11:01,280
Speaker 1: It was lonely and we feel in love.

1493
01:11:02,160 --> 01:11:05,000
Speaker 2: We would sit and talk for hours a about it

1494
01:11:05,240 --> 01:11:06,200
Speaker 2: a high.

1495
01:11:06,560 --> 01:11:09,559
Speaker 1: Maybe you hang up, No, you hang up on three

1496
01:11:09,680 --> 01:11:12,840
Speaker 1: hang ups. I bought your whip by page your whip.

1497
01:11:12,920 --> 01:11:17,360
Speaker 3: I give you everything, said you would always be my baby.

1498
01:11:17,520 --> 01:11:22,320
Speaker 1: Then you big gonna oh fan leave me?

1499
01:11:22,600 --> 01:11:23,160
Speaker 2: Now?

1500
01:11:23,760 --> 01:11:29,000
Speaker 4: How you gonna act lie like that? How you gonna

1501
01:11:29,120 --> 01:11:33,200
Speaker 4: train it? We just finished making up? How you gonna

1502
01:11:33,520 --> 01:11:39,559
Speaker 4: ask line, how you gonna act like? We don't be

1503
01:11:39,720 --> 01:11:40,559
Speaker 4: making love?

1504
01:11:40,840 --> 01:11:43,760
Speaker 2: You know, we be tearing it up, breaking stuff that

1505
01:11:43,960 --> 01:11:44,759
Speaker 2: ghetto love?

1506
01:11:45,000 --> 01:11:49,640
Speaker 1: How you gonna trip? How can you forget? How you

1507
01:11:49,840 --> 01:11:50,880
Speaker 1: gonna act?

1508
01:11:51,479 --> 01:11:52,080
Speaker 2: Line? Oh?

1509
01:11:52,120 --> 01:11:54,080
Speaker 1: I feel that shit? How you gonna act like they?

1510
01:11:54,479 --> 01:11:54,719
Speaker 2: Oh?

1511
01:11:55,600 --> 01:12:09,240
Speaker 1: Fuck nigga, let's get you what just happened? No?

1512
01:12:09,479 --> 01:12:16,280
Speaker 2: Okay, what's the next part? No? You know what?

1513
01:12:16,920 --> 01:12:18,040
Speaker 1: We've don't seen the breaze?

1514
01:12:18,240 --> 01:12:20,559
Speaker 2: Okay, go ahead, okay, go ahead?

1515
01:12:20,800 --> 01:12:26,479
Speaker 1: You keeping in good? Need you?

1516
01:12:27,520 --> 01:12:27,760
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1517
01:12:29,360 --> 01:12:35,519
Speaker 1: Keeping it good? Ease you?

1518
01:12:35,520 --> 01:12:38,639
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'm keeping it good?

1519
01:12:41,439 --> 01:12:43,559
Speaker 1: Need e is you?

1520
01:12:43,560 --> 01:12:44,760
Speaker 2: You better say that? SHP.

1521
01:12:44,920 --> 01:12:48,760
Speaker 1: Gotta sing the last part though, All I need is

1522
01:12:48,840 --> 01:12:53,080
Speaker 1: you mad? Yeah?

1523
01:12:53,160 --> 01:12:55,760
Speaker 2: You donna like that?

1524
01:12:57,120 --> 01:12:59,639
Speaker 1: I'm sorry? Is everything okay?

1525
01:13:00,800 --> 01:13:06,880
Speaker 2: That way? You know what?

1526
01:13:07,439 --> 01:13:09,400
Speaker 1: Thanks for love a good showy.

1527
01:13:12,320 --> 01:13:15,920
Speaker 2: Ki. Now we gotta sing.

1528
01:13:15,880 --> 01:13:17,840
Speaker 1: Now on the next episode. We have to sing computer

1529
01:13:17,960 --> 01:13:21,519
Speaker 1: love next week.

1530
01:13:21,680 --> 01:13:31,120
Speaker 2: Thank you so much for shooting we see bye.

1531
01:13:31,560 --> 01:13:38,320
Speaker 1: Oh my god, computer computer About that part, computer love,

1532
01:13:38,479 --> 01:13:39,440
Speaker 1: I believe.

1533
01:13:39,160 --> 01:13:42,040
Speaker 2: Almost let it go. You did keep it keep it

1534
01:13:42,240 --> 01:13:47,400
Speaker 2: that way, that's the best part it is.

1535
01:13:48,000 --> 01:13:52,440
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Marie.

1536
01:13:52,160 --> 01:13:53,360
Speaker 2: Was in his craryes.

1537
01:13:54,120 --> 01:13:56,920
Speaker 1: Shut up, shout out the cry. I should have said this,

1538
01:13:57,040 --> 01:13:58,040
Speaker 1: shout out the Craryes,