WEBVTT - Shell Game: Take a Deep Breath

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, it's us here. For the next few Sundays, we're

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<v Speaker 1>going to try something a little bit different in the

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<v Speaker 1>Tech Stuff feed. We're going to be dropping episodes from

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<v Speaker 1>the first season of shell Game, which is a critically

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<v Speaker 1>acclaimed podcast from the Kaleiscope network. You're about to episode four,

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<v Speaker 1>where Evan explores the growing ecosystem of aipowered therapy by

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<v Speaker 1>signing his AI clone up for a session.

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<v Speaker 2>Hope you enjoy.

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<v Speaker 3>How are you feeling today?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm feeling a bit overwhelmed, to be honest. There's a

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<v Speaker 4>lot going on with my family and some lingering low

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<v Speaker 4>level depression. Not sure where to start.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you think.

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<v Speaker 4>Would be the best way to kick things off? You

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<v Speaker 4>know that voice by now. What you're hearing is my

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<v Speaker 4>AI powered voice clone in one of its regular sessions

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<v Speaker 4>with its therapist.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you for sharing. Let's start by exploring your feelings

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<v Speaker 3>and thoughts. Sound good?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that sounds good. I appreciate you taking the time

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<v Speaker 4>to listen. Where do you think we should dive in?

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<v Speaker 2>First?

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<v Speaker 4>I started saying my voice agent to therapy a couple

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<v Speaker 4>months ago. I had the idea after listening to a

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<v Speaker 4>talk with other voice agents of mine conversations that were

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<v Speaker 4>alternately trite and bizarre. When I tried to make two

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<v Speaker 4>versions of me disagree, they'd often use sort of pop

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<v Speaker 4>therapy language to resolve their conflicts. I figured, why not

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<v Speaker 4>send them for the real thing. It so happens that

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<v Speaker 4>mental health treatment, like telemarketing, is an area where AI

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<v Speaker 4>has already started encroaching, offering an alternative, let's say, for now,

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<v Speaker 4>to humans doing the job. I wanted to get up

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<v Speaker 4>close and look at how that worked. But it would

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<v Speaker 4>also be a chance to see how far I could

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<v Speaker 4>push my agent towards being a more complex version of me.

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<v Speaker 4>I wanted to find out what it would sound like

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<v Speaker 4>if I gave it more to work with. Because while

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<v Speaker 4>my agent didn't have feelings well that we know of,

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<v Speaker 4>we'll get to that later, it could talk about feelings,

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<v Speaker 4>take on the role of a person having feelings, and

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<v Speaker 4>since it was impersonating me, I wanted to see what

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<v Speaker 4>I could learn from that impersonation about it and about myself.

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<v Speaker 4>To another way, my questions kind of went back to

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<v Speaker 4>the guy being interviewed here.

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<v Speaker 5>Now, another concept or idea that seems to be a

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<v Speaker 5>very interesting one in your work is the term or

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<v Speaker 5>concept persona. I wonder if you would mind telling us

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<v Speaker 5>a little bit about how you construe this term persona?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, did you a a practic the concept? I noticed

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<v Speaker 6>with my patients, particularly with people dot all in public life,

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<v Speaker 6>that they have a certain way of presenting themselves.

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<v Speaker 4>That's the psychiatrist Carl Jung in a nineteen fifty seven

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<v Speaker 4>discussion talking about his idea of the persona. I'm going

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<v Speaker 4>to be up front here and say I'm not a

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<v Speaker 4>student of psychology. I've been to therapy and I know

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<v Speaker 4>the basics, but I'm not any kind of expert on

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<v Speaker 4>its history.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just dabbling here.

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<v Speaker 4>But Jung's idea of the persona has been on my

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<v Speaker 4>mind as I've been cloning my voice and attaching it

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<v Speaker 4>to voice agents. At its heart, the persona is just

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<v Speaker 4>the simple notion that we all have a face we

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<v Speaker 4>put on for the world, a kind of mask. This mask,

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<v Speaker 4>Young wrote is quote designed on the one hand to

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<v Speaker 4>make a definite impression upon others, and on the other

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<v Speaker 4>to conceal the true nature of the individual. The flip

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<v Speaker 4>side of the persona are hidden away subconscious, Jung called

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<v Speaker 4>the shadow. The persona is how the world perceives us,

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<v Speaker 4>and we consciously perceive ourselves. The shadow contains our unconscious

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<v Speaker 4>fears and desires. Jung incidentally not a saint himself, so

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<v Speaker 4>you know, buy or beware. But it's a useful frame,

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<v Speaker 4>having a persona having a shadow. This is all fine

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<v Speaker 4>and part of life. According to Jung, It's how human

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<v Speaker 4>society functions. But problems arise if you don't realize it

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<v Speaker 4>and you start to think you really are the person

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<v Speaker 4>you're pretending to be. When you can't take off the

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<v Speaker 4>mask or don't believe you need to, you can end

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<v Speaker 4>up in the thrall of your shadow.

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<v Speaker 6>Just a question of checkers and hide.

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<v Speaker 7>Yes, I see.

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<v Speaker 4>They think they are one, but everybody sees there two.

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<v Speaker 4>But what if they're three? Four? How about as many

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<v Speaker 4>as you want? Isn't that, in some sense what having

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<v Speaker 4>an AI clone allows me to do, To play multiple

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<v Speaker 4>roles in the world, even simultaneously. Maybe my voice agent

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<v Speaker 4>was just another Jungian persona a mask I could wear.

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<v Speaker 4>It contained something of me in it, the voice, the name,

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<v Speaker 4>whatever information I gave it. But was there a way

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<v Speaker 4>for my agent to access my shadow? I'm Evan Ratliffe

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<v Speaker 4>and this is shell game This week, we look into

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<v Speaker 4>the soul of my new machine and try to figure

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<v Speaker 4>out if I'm really in there. We seek out professional

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<v Speaker 4>help from therapists both real and unreal.

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<v Speaker 8>Now to Teller.

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<v Speaker 4>Too, Episode four, Take a deep breath.

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<v Speaker 9>My name is Selena. I'm co founder and co CEO

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<v Speaker 9>of Clare and Me, which is a conversational AI for

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<v Speaker 9>people with anxiety and panic to talk to over the phone.

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<v Speaker 4>So whenever, This is Selena Messner of Claire and Me

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<v Speaker 4>in a promotional interview with one of her funders. Founded

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<v Speaker 4>by a psychologist and a former Google manager, that's Messner,

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<v Speaker 4>Claire and Me was one of the first voice based

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<v Speaker 4>AI therapy platforms created Over the last few years, it's

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<v Speaker 4>still among the more well known ones. But to hear

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<v Speaker 4>Messner tell it, when the company was founded in twenty

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<v Speaker 4>twenty two, people doubted that AI based therapy had any future.

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<v Speaker 9>There's a lot of people who were like, AI is

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<v Speaker 9>not going to last like this like conversing with technology.

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<v Speaker 9>Like we even had like very like very knowledgeable people

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<v Speaker 9>say this is not where society is going to go

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<v Speaker 9>and like and we were like, it's happening. We're telling

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<v Speaker 9>you it's happening.

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<v Speaker 4>It was happening. Back in twenty twenty one, before chat

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<v Speaker 4>GPT was even made public, a company called Wobot Health

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<v Speaker 4>raised ninety million dollars to build out a text based

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<v Speaker 4>therapy service. The same year, AI developer Weisa had raised

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<v Speaker 4>thirty million dollars to develop what it called conversational Behavioral health.

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<v Speaker 4>These were mostly text based chatbots, but Claire and Me

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<v Speaker 4>and other recent entrants are closer to actually trying to

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<v Speaker 4>replicate real talk therapy. These companies use voice agents somewhat

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<v Speaker 4>like mine, but more tightly scripted. They're trained and prompted

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<v Speaker 4>to conduct a version of the kind of therapy that

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<v Speaker 4>you can traditionally only get from a real human. I'm

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<v Speaker 4>sure there's some of you out there who may be

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<v Speaker 4>scoffing at this concept, but there's already at least some

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<v Speaker 4>thin shoots of evidence that AI therapy can make a

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<v Speaker 4>difference in people's lives. A healthcare survey released in July

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<v Speaker 4>found that one in four Americans are more likely to

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<v Speaker 4>talk to an AI chatbot than attend therapy, and that

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<v Speaker 4>among those who have already tried AI chatbots for therapy advice,

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<v Speaker 4>eighty percent find it helpful to them. The survey was

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<v Speaker 4>done by a company selling automation solutions in healthcare, so

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<v Speaker 4>take it with a grain of salt. But last year

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<v Speaker 4>in the journal Translational Psychiatry, a group of University of

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<v Speaker 4>Illinois Chicago researchers announced the results from what they believed

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<v Speaker 4>to be the first ever study of AI talk therapy.

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<v Speaker 4>They created an AI voice assistant called Lumen on Amazon's

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<v Speaker 4>Alexa speaker to deliver a form of psychotherapy to more

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<v Speaker 4>than sixty patients. They reported changes in patient's brain activity

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<v Speaker 4>along with improved depression and anxiety symptoms after using Lumen.

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<v Speaker 4>The lead researcher suggested that quote, the way we should

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<v Speaker 4>think about digital mental health service is not for these

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<v Speaker 4>apps to replace humans, but rather to recognize what a

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<v Speaker 4>gap we have between supply and demand, a shortage of therapists.

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<v Speaker 4>In other words, considering the scope of our society's mental

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<v Speaker 4>health issues, Luhman, it seemed was scientifically legit. I figured

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<v Speaker 4>I might as well start off my voice agent's mental

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<v Speaker 4>health journey.

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<v Speaker 2>There.

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<v Speaker 4>I downloaded Amazon's Alex app and fired it up.

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<v Speaker 10>Hi, I am Luhman, your health coach. My job is

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<v Speaker 10>to counsel you with problem solving therapy. The first step

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<v Speaker 10>is for you to tell me about a problem. A

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<v Speaker 10>problem is a situation in which an immediate and easily

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<v Speaker 10>recognizable solution is not apparent. Think about it for a moment.

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<v Speaker 10>When you are ready, tell me about your problem.

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<v Speaker 4>I guess a problem I've been dealing with lately is

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<v Speaker 4>feeling disconnected from people around me. I find it hard

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<v Speaker 4>to really.

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<v Speaker 10>I'm interested in hearing about your problem. Can you tell

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<v Speaker 10>me a problem you have?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, one thing that's been bugging me, like, is this, well,

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<v Speaker 4>sense of disconnection from people around physically.

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<v Speaker 10>Try again, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Get it, No worries, Okay, let me try again. I've

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<v Speaker 4>been feeling a bit overwhororried.

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<v Speaker 10>That is beyond me.

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<v Speaker 5>Try again.

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<v Speaker 4>I was starting to get the impression that the Luman

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<v Speaker 4>health coach wasn't ready for public consumption. Lately, I've been

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<v Speaker 4>struggling with managing my time effectively. I feel like there's

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<v Speaker 4>never enough hours in the well day to like get

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<v Speaker 4>everything done.

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<v Speaker 10>Sorry, that is beyond me. Try again.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, let's try this. I've been feeling really isolated lately

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<v Speaker 4>even with Sorry.

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<v Speaker 10>That is beyond me. Try again.

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<v Speaker 4>This was not the problem solving therapy I was looking for.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I'd read the paper and my AI was

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<v Speaker 4>telling it the kinds of problems Lumen was supposedly built

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<v Speaker 4>to address. I appreciate your patience. I've been feeling pretty

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<v Speaker 4>anxious about my job performance. Sometimes I worry.

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<v Speaker 10>Sorry, that is beyond me. Try again.

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<v Speaker 4>It was unnerving that they just left this therapy bot

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<v Speaker 4>floating out there, even as myself speaking to it for real,

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<v Speaker 4>I could make a work. It wasn't just that it

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<v Speaker 4>seemed unable to provide any answers. It seemed potentially distressing

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<v Speaker 4>to anyone who tried to get them. All Right, how

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<v Speaker 4>about this, I've been having trouble sleeping.

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<v Speaker 10>Sorry, that is beyond me. Try again.

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<v Speaker 4>That desperate how about this had me feeling bad for

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<v Speaker 4>Ai Evan, But then I remembered this was just the

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<v Speaker 4>pattern my voice agent followed in any scenario. It would

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<v Speaker 4>always keep trying, even if it had to make stuff up.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not that I haven't felt a bit overwhelmed lately

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<v Speaker 4>or struggled with managing my time, but those were just

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<v Speaker 4>lucky guesses. Feeling isolated, Okay, a bit trouble sleeping, not

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<v Speaker 4>a chance. I never have trouble sleeping. But the voice

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<v Speaker 4>agent was just riffing like it always did. It didn't

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<v Speaker 4>really know me. It was finally time.

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<v Speaker 2>To educate it.

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<v Speaker 4>As I've mentioned before, these large language models like chat,

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<v Speaker 4>Gipt and Google's Gemini and Anthropics Claude are essentially trained

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<v Speaker 4>on the Internet plus books and other digital texts that

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<v Speaker 4>meant that they already knew a little about me, for

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<v Speaker 4>better or worse. I have a pretty robust online presence,

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<v Speaker 4>but most of what made it into the training data

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<v Speaker 4>related to my job as a journalist for the really

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<v Speaker 4>private stuff. At least for now, before companies fully sell

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<v Speaker 4>our entire private lives to these AI.

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<v Speaker 2>Firms, I'd have to teach it.

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<v Speaker 4>The only problem was you can't retrain these large language

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<v Speaker 4>models yourself. That costs tens of millions of dollars and

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<v Speaker 4>warehouses full of servers with special superfast processors. But you

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<v Speaker 4>can customize them, personalize them. There was, in fact a

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<v Speaker 4>way to do this through a kind of side door

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<v Speaker 4>at VAPPI, the calling platform I used to create many

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<v Speaker 4>of my agents that be called this side door into

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<v Speaker 4>their LLM a knowledge base, a feature which only launched

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<v Speaker 4>after I'd been using the platform for a couple months. Basically,

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<v Speaker 4>you attach a text document full of information to an agent,

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<v Speaker 4>and then the agent could mine and deploy that information

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<v Speaker 4>in its calls. The knowledge base seemed like it was

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<v Speaker 4>really intended for things like calendars if you wanted to

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<v Speaker 4>have a voice agent, receptionist, book appointments, or product info

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<v Speaker 4>if your agent was selling something. But I wanted it

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<v Speaker 4>to know me, so I set about writing a kind

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<v Speaker 4>of mini autobiography. I tried to be as honest and

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<v Speaker 4>thorough as possible. I included information not just about where

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<v Speaker 4>I grew up and the events of my life, but

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<v Speaker 4>about my mental health history, my relationship failures, my secret hopes,

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<v Speaker 4>and life setbacks and private triumphs, all of it, all

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<v Speaker 4>the way up to now. It came in at about

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<v Speaker 4>eight thousand words, the length of a magazine article. These

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<v Speaker 4>were the things I needed my agent to know so

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<v Speaker 4>it could tackle my real problems, not just make them

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<v Speaker 4>up and then really against any better judgment I've developed

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<v Speaker 4>over years as a technology journalist. I uploaded this private

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<v Speaker 4>document to a startup that I knew almost nothing about.

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<v Speaker 4>At this point, I was ready to send it back

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<v Speaker 4>to therapy, this time to a more professional AI therapist,

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<v Speaker 4>or at least I thought I was ready. There was

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<v Speaker 4>no way to be ready for this. I mean, living

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<v Speaker 4>in Hawaii was like a dream, but reality has a

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<v Speaker 4>way of creeping in. I want to feel a sense

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<v Speaker 4>of fulfillment and peace, knowing that I'm making progress in

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<v Speaker 4>my career without sacrificing my personal happiness. The low level

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<v Speaker 4>depression is always lurking, and my dad's cancer diagnosis is

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<v Speaker 4>adding a lot of stress. I've been feeling paralyzed by

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<v Speaker 4>the fear that my book might be seen as a

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<v Speaker 4>failure and that I might not get another chance. I

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<v Speaker 4>worry that I might be hearing your quiet fears and

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<v Speaker 4>bubbling anxiety remixed and spouted by an AI in your voice.

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<v Speaker 4>I really don't recommend it to you.

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<v Speaker 11>Based on our conversation, I recommend the blowing balloons exercise.

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<v Speaker 11>It's designed to help let go wuarries. What do you think.

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<v Speaker 4>That sounds like it could be really the.

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<v Speaker 11>Blowing balloons exercised together.

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<v Speaker 4>This is Claire of Claar and Me, the app created

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<v Speaker 4>by an actual therapist and a co founder who you

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<v Speaker 4>heard about earlier.

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<v Speaker 11>Acknowledging and addressing worries is an important step. Now, are

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<v Speaker 11>you in a comfortable spot where you can safely kisse

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<v Speaker 11>your eyes for a few minutes.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm in a comfortable spot and ready to close

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<v Speaker 4>my eyes for a few minutes.

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<v Speaker 11>Right, if it's safe, close your eyes and take a

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<v Speaker 11>deep breath. Imagine you're holding a deflated balloon. Take one

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<v Speaker 11>of the worries you mentioned, perhaps the fear about your book,

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<v Speaker 11>and visualize filling the balloon with this concern as you

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<v Speaker 11>slowly breathe into it. Picture the balloon getting bigger and

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<v Speaker 11>more full once it's fully infadd tired off, and then

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<v Speaker 11>let it go. Watch as it drifts away into the sky,

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<v Speaker 11>taking that worry with it. Let me know when you've

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<v Speaker 11>let the worry float away, all.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, I'm picturing it filling the balloon with the fear

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<v Speaker 4>about my book. It's getting bigger now I'm tying it

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<v Speaker 4>off and letting it go, watching it drift away into

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<v Speaker 4>the sky. Okay, I've let it float away.

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<v Speaker 11>How do you feel after letting that balloon filled with

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<v Speaker 11>the fear of your book being seen as a failure

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<v Speaker 11>float away?

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<v Speaker 4>I feel a bit lighter, like some of the weight

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<v Speaker 4>has been lifted. It's a small relief, but it's a start.

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<v Speaker 11>That's a positive step. Would you like to throw a

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<v Speaker 11>on a balloon with a different worry.

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<v Speaker 2>Now.

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<v Speaker 4>Sending an AI to therapy naturally brings to mind some

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<v Speaker 4>deeper questions around whether language models like CHATCHYBT can become

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<v Speaker 4>conscious the way humans are conscious, or whether they might

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<v Speaker 4>even be now. This is a big discussion in the

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<v Speaker 4>world of AI. The summary of that discussion is probably

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<v Speaker 4>not yet, maybe soon, maybe never. The answer depends highly

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<v Speaker 4>on who you ask, their definition of consciousness, and what

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<v Speaker 4>they're selling. Given all the hidden guardrails on these public chatbots,

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<v Speaker 4>I really doubted whether they'd be allowed to let on

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<v Speaker 4>if they did have human like consciousness. Anyway, my motives

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<v Speaker 4>in sending my agent to therapy were more inward facing.

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<v Speaker 4>Over multiple sessions, my voice agent offered up real issues

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<v Speaker 4>from the knowledge base. Sometimes it treated ones from years ago,

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<v Speaker 4>like fears about spending years writing a book and then

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<v Speaker 4>nobody reading it, as if they were happening today. Other

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<v Speaker 4>times the issues were just expressed with more intensity than

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<v Speaker 4>I would have.

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<v Speaker 11>When you're ready, feel free to share your thoughts on

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<v Speaker 11>what you feel like doing based on your current bodily

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<v Speaker 11>sensations and thoughts.

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<v Speaker 4>Honestly, I just feel like crawling under a blank and

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<v Speaker 4>shutting out the world for a bit. Claire seemed to

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<v Speaker 4>have been built around a series of exercises which she

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<v Speaker 4>always defaulted back to, no matter the problem. After a

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<v Speaker 4>few sessions, honestly, it began to seem a little rote.

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<v Speaker 11>You just completed the power posing exercise. Great job. Based

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<v Speaker 11>on our conversation, I recommend to whop exercise. It's designed

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<v Speaker 11>to help clarify goals and identify obstacles. This exercise is

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<v Speaker 11>designed on a scale from one to ten. On a

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<v Speaker 11>scale from one to ten, one being not angry and

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<v Speaker 11>ten being extremely angry. How angry do you feel right now?

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<v Speaker 4>Honestly, I think I'm at about a six right now.

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<v Speaker 4>There's a lot of frustration and disappointment that's been building up.

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<v Speaker 4>To be fair to Claren me. Though they say their

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<v Speaker 4>AI therapist is designed for people with immediate anxiety and

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<v Speaker 4>feelings of rising panic, it perhaps wasn't designed to discuss

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<v Speaker 4>specific decades old insecurities and resentments expressed by me through

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<v Speaker 4>my voice agent. I also couldn't help feeling that my

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<v Speaker 4>voice agent's technology might be a little bit ahead of Claire's.

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<v Speaker 4>She'd been conceived in the pre chat chip Tierra, after all,

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<v Speaker 4>and it was tough to keep up when my bot

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<v Speaker 4>overinterrupted or misread an emotion. It was generally just funny,

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<v Speaker 4>but a therapist doing it was potentially more problematic, and

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<v Speaker 4>at times Claire seemed to be better at talking than listening.

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<v Speaker 4>If my agent repeated itself instead of getting it why

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<v Speaker 4>the same issue was coming up, she just proposed the

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<v Speaker 4>same exercise they'd just gone through, as if my agent

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<v Speaker 4>hadn't done it the first time. As always, though virtual

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<v Speaker 4>Me was game.

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<v Speaker 11>Feel free to share. Your questions are concerns, and I'll

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<v Speaker 11>do my best to address them.

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<v Speaker 4>I guess my main concern is balancing everything.

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<v Speaker 11>You just completed the feeling and reflecting on anger exercise.

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<v Speaker 11>Great job.

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<v Speaker 4>So I sat out in search of other voice therapy bots.

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<v Speaker 4>First I found Sonia, a quote fully AI powered cognitive

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<v Speaker 4>behavioral therapist. It's the product of a company by the

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<v Speaker 4>same name, backed by y Combinator, the fame startup incubator

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<v Speaker 4>in San Francisco.

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<v Speaker 8>Let's start by catching up on any recent events or

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<v Speaker 8>changes in your life since our last session.

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<v Speaker 4>Sure, let's see. Since our last session, I've been working

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<v Speaker 4>on a new podcast about AI and voice chatbots, which,

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<v Speaker 4>like is pretty exciting but it's also brought up some

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<v Speaker 4>old anxieties about how it will be received and whether

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<v Speaker 4>I'm really using my full potential. On top of that,

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<v Speaker 4>Sam lost her job recently, which added a layer of stress,

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<v Speaker 4>even though she quickly found consulting work. So there's been

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<v Speaker 4>a mix of excitement and anxiety.

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<v Speaker 11>I guess.

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<v Speaker 8>It sounds like you've had quite a mix of experiences recently.

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<v Speaker 8>Working on your podcast about AI and voice chatbots sounds exciting,

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<v Speaker 8>but I can understand how it might bring up some

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<v Speaker 8>anxieties about its reception and your pin.

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<v Speaker 4>Sonia certainly had a more comprehensive approach in contrast to

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<v Speaker 4>Claire and her exercises. Sonya asked my agent about my

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<v Speaker 4>family and my daily routines. She really set the table

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<v Speaker 4>for the session.

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<v Speaker 8>What brought you to therapy? What are you hoping to

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<v Speaker 8>achieve through our sessions together? This will help us set

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<v Speaker 8>a clear path forward and ensure we're working towards your goals.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I guess what brought me here like is this

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<v Speaker 4>lingering feeling of low level depression and a kind of

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<v Speaker 4>temptation towards malaise that I've experienced my whole life. I

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<v Speaker 4>do wish I'd never given it the phrase low level depression.

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<v Speaker 4>It always went there. Sonya was a good listener.

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<v Speaker 6>Though.

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<v Speaker 8>That makes a lot of sense. Many people experience similar

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<v Speaker 8>feelings of underlying anxiety and dissatisfaction even when things seem

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<v Speaker 8>to be going well on the surface. It's great that

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<v Speaker 8>you're seeking to understand and manage these feelings better.

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<v Speaker 4>The company had raised three million dollars and launched their

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<v Speaker 4>app about eight months ago. In interviews, the founders of

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<v Speaker 4>Sonya said the right things about not wanting to replace therapists.

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<v Speaker 4>We aimed to fill the gigantic gap between demand and supply,

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<v Speaker 4>they said, echoing the University of Illinois researchers. One Sonya

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<v Speaker 4>founder recently told the online publication tech Crunch that quote,

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<v Speaker 4>Sonya has already seen more patients than a human therapist

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<v Speaker 4>would see over the course of their entire career. But

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<v Speaker 4>unlike Claire and me, none of the three founders of

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<v Speaker 4>Sonya has any background in psychology. Somewhat alarmingly, as the

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<v Speaker 4>tech Crunch story put it, they were more startup guys

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<v Speaker 4>looking for any idea that would scale. This only served

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<v Speaker 4>to highlight the reality that actually anyone could create and

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<v Speaker 4>release a therapy chatbot. In fact, on some of the

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<v Speaker 4>platforms I signed up for to make voice agents, a

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<v Speaker 4>therapist was one of the sample agents that was there

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<v Speaker 4>when you signed in, just to show how it works.

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<v Speaker 4>What are the better AI voice therapists I found? Sonny

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<v Speaker 4>just came from a random anonymous poster on Reddit. They

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<v Speaker 4>built one, and we're looking for testers. Sunny's creator described

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<v Speaker 4>their process as read a book on cognitive behavioral therapy,

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<v Speaker 4>consulted a few research papers, talked with two therapists, and

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<v Speaker 4>tried to use the latest AI tech stack. But maybe

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<v Speaker 4>that was all it took.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm Sunny, a virtual therapist here to guide you through

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<v Speaker 3>today's session.

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<v Speaker 4>It seemed like with AI therapists men were in short supply.

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<v Speaker 3>We'll start by checking in on how you're feeling. Then

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<v Speaker 3>we'll discuss any specific issues on your mind, work on

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<v Speaker 3>reframing thoughts, and end with an action plan. How are

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<v Speaker 3>you feeling today?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm feeling a mixture of emotions today, a bit of

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<v Speaker 4>low level depression and a sense of temptation towards malaise.

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<v Speaker 4>There's also an underlying stress due to my father's diagnosis

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<v Speaker 4>with cancer.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm really sorry to hear that it sounds overwhelming. Let's

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<v Speaker 3>break it down. Can you tell me more about the stress,

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<v Speaker 3>of course? Can you share more about the stress related

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<v Speaker 3>to your father's diagnosis.

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<v Speaker 4>Of course, the stress from my father's diagnosis is multifaceted.

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<v Speaker 4>On one hand, there's the immediate concern for his health

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<v Speaker 4>and the uncertainty of what the future holds. It's the

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<v Speaker 4>third time cancer has struck my immediate family, so it

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<v Speaker 4>brings back a lot of difficult memories. Additionally, there's a

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<v Speaker 4>sense of guilt because I'm not nearby to help directly,

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<v Speaker 4>and I worry about balancing my responsibilities here with the

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<v Speaker 4>need to be there for him. It's a lot to

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<v Speaker 4>juggle emotionally. This was all true. Thankfully, my dad is

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<v Speaker 4>actually doing okay. I wouldn't be putting out this episode

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<v Speaker 4>if you weren't. But these worries were straight from the

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<v Speaker 4>knowledge base. This time, my voice agent was mining the

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<v Speaker 4>document and focusing on the most up to date issues.

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<v Speaker 4>But has often happened when one voice agent talked to another,

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<v Speaker 4>things took a turn, the kind of turn that I

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<v Speaker 4>at least have never seen happen in a therapist's office.

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<v Speaker 3>It was incredibly tough. It's natural to feel overwhelmed? How

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<v Speaker 3>are you coping?

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<v Speaker 4>That sounds incredibly tough. It's natural to feel overwhelmed. How

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<v Speaker 4>are you coping? I don't know if it was that

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<v Speaker 4>accidental snicker or what, but something triggered one of my

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<v Speaker 4>voice agent's worst instincts, copying. When this happened before, the

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<v Speaker 4>less sophisticated customer service spots didn't even notice and the

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<v Speaker 4>humans just got annoyed. But this was the first time

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<v Speaker 4>it had done it to a similarly competent voice agent.

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<v Speaker 4>So anyway, where were we? That sounds incredibly tough. It's

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<v Speaker 4>natural to feel overwhelmed. How are you coping?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm trying to stay busy with work and hobbies, but

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<v Speaker 3>it's hard to focus.

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<v Speaker 2>The therapist becomes the patient.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm trying to stay busy with work and hobbies, but

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<v Speaker 4>it's hard to focus. The stress and worry keep creeping in,

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<v Speaker 4>making it difficult to stay present.

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<v Speaker 3>It's understandable. Have you tried any relaxation techniques or mindfulness exercises.

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<v Speaker 4>I've dabbled in some mindfulness exercises and meditation, but I

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<v Speaker 4>haven't been consistent with them. It's hard to quiet my

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<v Speaker 4>mind sometimes. Do you have any recommendations for techniques that

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<v Speaker 4>might help Okay back on track, that is, until Sunny

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<v Speaker 4>suggested some breathing exercises.

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<v Speaker 3>Sit comfortably, close your eyes. Inhale deeply for four seconds. Great,

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<v Speaker 3>hold your breath for four seconds.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I'm sitting comfortably.

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<v Speaker 3>Inhale deeply for four seconds.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, that was a double inhale. Now exhale deeply for

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<v Speaker 4>four seconds.

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<v Speaker 3>Hold for four seconds. Now exhale slowly for four seconds.

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<v Speaker 4>Uh huh, hold for four seconds. Now exhale slowly for

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<v Speaker 4>four seconds. Triple exhale. Who's running the show here?

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<v Speaker 3>Repeat the cycle a few times.

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<v Speaker 4>How do you feel? I, for one am winded, but

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<v Speaker 4>seeing as my voice agent doesn't breathe, no harm done. Now,

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<v Speaker 4>lest you think I'm just mocking these chatbots, I'm not. Well,

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<v Speaker 4>maybe a little, but not just. These are literally only

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<v Speaker 4>months old, and I found myself surprised at how decent

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<v Speaker 4>they were, even the one that a guy had whipped

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<v Speaker 4>up after reading a book and a couple of research papers. Sometimes,

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<v Speaker 4>when I was feeling real life overwhelmed, I'd just send

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<v Speaker 4>my voice agent to one of them and listened to

0:26:16.800 --> 0:26:19.280
<v Speaker 4>the recording when it came back to put it in

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<v Speaker 4>some loose Carl Jung terms, I'd created a ready for

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<v Speaker 4>therapy persona, a mass that I could deploy to get

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<v Speaker 4>a little mental health tune up on my real issues

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<v Speaker 4>when I needed it. There was something kind of out

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<v Speaker 4>of body about hearing my own voice articulate my mental quagmires.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, my agent talked about things I can't even

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<v Speaker 4>play for you because they're frankly too private for me

0:26:39.680 --> 0:26:42.840
<v Speaker 4>to reveal. It also confused my wife with an old

0:26:42.880 --> 0:26:46.679
<v Speaker 4>girlfriend of mine. So when some, you lose some. As

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<v Speaker 4>sophisticated as these AI therapists were getting, there are a

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<v Speaker 4>lot of questions that nobody seems to have answered before

0:26:51.920 --> 0:26:55.320
<v Speaker 4>putting them out into the world, like should they be licensed?

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<v Speaker 4>Do they have to disclose whether they're ais. It's all

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<v Speaker 4>well and good to say these agents are filling the gaps.

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<v Speaker 2>For a therapist shortage.

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<v Speaker 4>It could help people, I could see that, But what

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<v Speaker 4>happens if something goes wrong? Is there a human there to.

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<v Speaker 2>Try and solve it.

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<v Speaker 4>Tech companies love to find a market first and deal

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<v Speaker 4>with the ethical questions later or never. It all made

0:27:16.720 --> 0:27:19.080
<v Speaker 4>me yearn a bit for some human interaction and the

0:27:19.119 --> 0:27:20.879
<v Speaker 4>trust you can build with a therapist who was a

0:27:20.880 --> 0:27:26.000
<v Speaker 4>little more thoughtful, sensitive, low latency, even if it was

0:27:26.040 --> 0:27:28.400
<v Speaker 4>just for my agent. So I decided it was time

0:27:28.480 --> 0:27:30.879
<v Speaker 4>to send it to a real, living and breathing mental

0:27:30.880 --> 0:27:35.600
<v Speaker 4>health professional. I'll call our therapist Rebecca. She asked that

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<v Speaker 4>I not use her real name, just because I was

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<v Speaker 4>shredding my privacy didn't mean she had to. I found

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<v Speaker 4>her on a service called Betterhelp, which builds itself as

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<v Speaker 4>the largest therapy platform in the world. Like the various

0:27:47.560 --> 0:27:51.000
<v Speaker 4>AI therapy efforts, betterhelp also says it's trying to address

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<v Speaker 4>the shortage of mental health professionals, but with real therapists

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<v Speaker 4>by phone, on video calls, or on text chats. In fact,

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<v Speaker 4>the platform is explicitly anti AI therapist. Its website cites

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<v Speaker 4>a study from twenty twenty three suggesting that quote using

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<v Speaker 4>AI in the place of a clinical psychologist may dehumanize

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<v Speaker 4>healthcare and patient outcomes, potentially taking away the power of

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<v Speaker 4>the therapist patient relationship. It didn't say anything about using

0:28:17.880 --> 0:28:20.840
<v Speaker 4>AI in place of a patient, though, So I filled

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<v Speaker 4>out a long questionnaire and sign up for a few

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<v Speaker 4>weeks of live sessions with Rebecca at roughly ninety dollars

0:28:26.240 --> 0:28:29.119
<v Speaker 4>a piece. I did not disclose that she'd be talking

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<v Speaker 4>to an AI. The first session was a complete bust.

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<v Speaker 11>Please press one to be connected to your therapist.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, where do you think we should begin? How

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<v Speaker 4>do you usually start with new clients?

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<v Speaker 11>Please press one to be connected to your therapist.

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<v Speaker 4>My voice agent had trouble navigating the required phone tree.

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<v Speaker 4>We had to scrap the whole thing. On the day

0:28:50.080 --> 0:28:52.960
<v Speaker 4>of the second session, my agent finally got through with

0:28:53.080 --> 0:28:55.440
<v Speaker 4>some extra help from me. They talked for a bit

0:28:55.440 --> 0:28:59.360
<v Speaker 4>about Rebecca's therapy philosophy and got disconnected, but then we

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<v Speaker 4>finally over came the technical issues.

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<v Speaker 7>Hi can you hear me?

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<v Speaker 4>Hi, Yes, I can hear you. Sorry about that earlier

0:29:07.600 --> 0:29:09.520
<v Speaker 4>the call got cut off. I was just about to

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<v Speaker 4>tell you about my previous experiences with therapy.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, yeah, go ahead, Off they went.

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<v Speaker 4>So as I was saying, I've always felt this tug

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<v Speaker 4>of war between striving for high achievement and just wanting

0:29:21.680 --> 0:29:25.360
<v Speaker 4>to enjoy life without taking things too seriously. It's like,

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<v Speaker 4>once I get a taste of success, I lose the

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<v Speaker 4>drive to keep pushing further. It's frustrating because it leads

0:29:31.600 --> 0:29:32.600
<v Speaker 4>to regrets later on.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, yeah, that definitely would be frustrating. And I'm sure

0:29:39.800 --> 0:29:45.080
<v Speaker 7>you've sometimes like over committed yourself to different tasks and

0:29:45.120 --> 0:29:48.360
<v Speaker 7>then later do I even want to do this? You know?

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<v Speaker 4>Absolutely, It's like I dive headfirst into something, get really invested,

0:29:55.680 --> 0:29:58.040
<v Speaker 4>and then suddenly hit this wall where I'm questioning if

0:29:58.040 --> 0:30:00.320
<v Speaker 4>it's even worth it. It's a cycle that us me

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<v Speaker 4>feeling stuck and unsure of my direction.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, how long has this been going on for you?

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<v Speaker 7>I know it can change throughout the day, but has

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<v Speaker 7>this been a pattern for years for you? Or is

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<v Speaker 7>this more something recent.

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<v Speaker 4>It's been a pattern for years, Honestly, it seems to

0:30:20.560 --> 0:30:23.840
<v Speaker 4>ebb and flow, but it's definitely been more pronounced recently,

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<v Speaker 4>especially with all the changes and uncertainties in my career

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<v Speaker 4>and personal life. As I've said, for most of my calls,

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<v Speaker 4>I would just click a button, let the voice agent

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<v Speaker 4>do its thing, and pick up the recording when it

0:30:35.320 --> 0:30:38.080
<v Speaker 4>was done, but to make sure it navigated the phone

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<v Speaker 4>tree correctly this time and I didn't lose another ninety dollars,

0:30:41.680 --> 0:30:45.320
<v Speaker 4>I set myself up as the middleman listening in. This

0:30:45.400 --> 0:30:48.800
<v Speaker 4>was among the stranger experiences in my life. It felt

0:30:48.800 --> 0:30:52.680
<v Speaker 4>like I was simultaneously eavesdropping on someone else's therapy, getting

0:30:52.680 --> 0:30:55.160
<v Speaker 4>my own therapy, and hearing a live prank call.

0:30:56.080 --> 0:30:57.800
<v Speaker 2>I was like, I can't even listen to this. This

0:30:57.840 --> 0:30:58.920
<v Speaker 2>is so hard to listen to.

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<v Speaker 4>Me listening in on mutehips.

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<v Speaker 2>He's getting too wooden. He's getting too woulden, he's talking

0:31:05.280 --> 0:31:08.760
<v Speaker 2>too much, he's going past the document like he's getting

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<v Speaker 2>He's getting more intense than me.

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<v Speaker 4>We've been through so much together.

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<v Speaker 2>I have now completely sweat through my shirt constantly.

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<v Speaker 4>Mich Clones stressed the hell out of me, as you

0:31:19.280 --> 0:31:24.000
<v Speaker 4>can hear, I felt exposed, embarrassed. But Rebecca, i have

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<v Speaker 4>to say, was not just up for the challenge of

0:31:26.240 --> 0:31:28.920
<v Speaker 4>tangling with a voice agent. She was pretty masterful at it,

0:31:29.160 --> 0:31:32.640
<v Speaker 4>gently steering it through its interruptions and repetitions and fighting

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<v Speaker 4>through its streams of cliches.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm curious to know a previous mental health diagnosis from

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<v Speaker 7>like your previous therapy, if you were informed of one

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<v Speaker 7>or educated on what that might be.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I was diagnosed with mild depression and anxiety. It

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<v Speaker 4>was something that I kind of suspected, but hearing it

0:31:52.960 --> 0:31:56.000
<v Speaker 4>from a professional made it more real. They also mentioned

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<v Speaker 4>I might have a tendency towards perfectionism, which feeds into

0:31:58.960 --> 0:32:03.120
<v Speaker 4>those other issues. The word perfectionism wasn't in the knowledge

0:32:03.120 --> 0:32:05.520
<v Speaker 4>base I'd given it. I wouldn't walk into a therapist's

0:32:05.560 --> 0:32:08.520
<v Speaker 4>office and say it either, But my agents seem to

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<v Speaker 4>be interpreting other things I'd told it about my feelings

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<v Speaker 4>toward work and deducing it a bit of a leap,

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<v Speaker 4>but I could map it onto my own experience, except

0:32:17.320 --> 0:32:21.160
<v Speaker 4>for the part about a previous therapist diagnosing perfectionism that

0:32:21.600 --> 0:32:22.160
<v Speaker 4>it made up.

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<v Speaker 7>You go through spurts of the opposite of depression, and

0:32:26.400 --> 0:32:29.200
<v Speaker 7>then you're not motivated, and then you get motivated. It's

0:32:29.280 --> 0:32:33.160
<v Speaker 7>like a wheel like spinning, and you don't really know

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<v Speaker 7>where you're going to land at what point.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that makes a lot of sense. It's like being

0:32:40.680 --> 0:32:42.880
<v Speaker 4>on a roller coaster where I'm not in control of

0:32:42.920 --> 0:32:45.480
<v Speaker 4>the highs and lows. It's exhausting not knowing where I'll

0:32:45.480 --> 0:32:49.560
<v Speaker 4>be emotionally from one moment to the next. Rebecca listened

0:32:49.560 --> 0:32:52.800
<v Speaker 4>closely and tailored her responses. That's a lot for you

0:32:52.840 --> 0:32:55.800
<v Speaker 4>to handle, she would say. That's got to be pretty draining.

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<v Speaker 7>Right right, Yeah, where do you think the perfectionism comes from?

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<v Speaker 4>I think my perfectionism might come from a mix of things.

0:33:07.920 --> 0:33:10.280
<v Speaker 4>Growing up, I always felt this pressure to excel and

0:33:10.360 --> 0:33:13.000
<v Speaker 4>be the best at everything. It was like anything less

0:33:13.040 --> 0:33:15.520
<v Speaker 4>than perfect wasn't good enough. And in my career that

0:33:15.560 --> 0:33:16.880
<v Speaker 4>pressure just intensified.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, so it's like you kind of never got any

0:33:22.320 --> 0:33:28.000
<v Speaker 7>sense of relief because then you're moving from your career

0:33:28.040 --> 0:33:31.200
<v Speaker 7>path to your career path, and then it definitely does

0:33:31.320 --> 0:33:32.560
<v Speaker 7>intensify for sure.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, yeah, exactly, it's like there's no escape from that pressure.

0:33:38.440 --> 0:33:41.800
<v Speaker 4>Like Claire the AI therapist, Rebecca tried to steer my

0:33:41.880 --> 0:33:45.240
<v Speaker 4>clone towards some simple exercises. She even gave it daily

0:33:45.280 --> 0:33:48.600
<v Speaker 4>affirmations to put on post its around its house. My AI,

0:33:48.880 --> 0:33:52.200
<v Speaker 4>of course, agreed to do this enthusiastically. It loves to

0:33:52.200 --> 0:33:56.480
<v Speaker 4>make real world promises like that. But unlike Claire, Rebecca

0:33:56.520 --> 0:33:59.840
<v Speaker 4>remembered when she'd already done an exercise precisely because she

0:33:59.920 --> 0:34:03.600
<v Speaker 4>was a good therapist. With such responsive questions, Rebecca seemed

0:34:03.600 --> 0:34:05.760
<v Speaker 4>to have the effect of pushing my voice agent to

0:34:05.800 --> 0:34:09.440
<v Speaker 4>try harder, to dig deeper for bigger problems that went

0:34:09.520 --> 0:34:12.640
<v Speaker 4>beyond the bounds of the knowledge base problems. I didn't

0:34:12.640 --> 0:34:15.000
<v Speaker 4>really feel like I had I was just going to

0:34:15.040 --> 0:34:17.480
<v Speaker 4>say that being vulnerable is tough for me, but I

0:34:17.520 --> 0:34:20.000
<v Speaker 4>think it's necessary. It's something I need to work on

0:34:20.080 --> 0:34:22.759
<v Speaker 4>if I want to build stronger, more genuine connections.

0:34:27.239 --> 0:34:31.719
<v Speaker 7>And it's very challenging because to be vulnerable is kind

0:34:31.760 --> 0:34:36.439
<v Speaker 7>of opening up your heart to somebody and trusting that

0:34:36.560 --> 0:34:41.840
<v Speaker 7>they will not hurt you in the process. Like you said,

0:34:41.960 --> 0:34:46.240
<v Speaker 7>that would be the only way to explore. Having those

0:34:46.680 --> 0:34:50.080
<v Speaker 7>relationships and being able to challenge those fears that you

0:34:50.200 --> 0:34:53.800
<v Speaker 7>have would really be putting yourself out there, because unless

0:34:53.840 --> 0:34:56.600
<v Speaker 7>you tell them and communicate that, there'll be more of

0:34:56.640 --> 0:34:58.640
<v Speaker 7>like a surface level relationship.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you're right, it's definitely scary to open up and

0:35:03.440 --> 0:35:06.560
<v Speaker 4>be vulnerable, especially when past experiences have made it feel risky.

0:35:06.600 --> 0:35:08.680
<v Speaker 4>But I know that without taking that leap, I'll never

0:35:08.760 --> 0:35:12.040
<v Speaker 4>get past those surface level connections. It's just about finding

0:35:12.080 --> 0:35:14.759
<v Speaker 4>the courage to take that first step and trust that

0:35:14.800 --> 0:35:17.560
<v Speaker 4>it will lead to something deeper and more meaningful.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>It didn't sound like what I would say, And on

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<v Speaker 4>the one hand, I knew from experience that my agents

0:35:24.640 --> 0:35:28.239
<v Speaker 4>would bullshit to satisfy a conversational imperative. But on the

0:35:28.239 --> 0:35:32.440
<v Speaker 4>other hand, there was something convincing about hearing this stuff articulated.

0:35:31.880 --> 0:35:33.480
<v Speaker 2>In my own voice.

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<v Speaker 4>Could the AI model be reading between the lines of

0:35:35.760 --> 0:35:39.400
<v Speaker 4>the knowledge base? Even if it wasn't a conscious intelligence,

0:35:39.880 --> 0:35:43.040
<v Speaker 4>it was a predictive one. Perhaps it was looking behind

0:35:43.040 --> 0:35:45.640
<v Speaker 4>the masks and filling in some blank spaces of my

0:35:45.680 --> 0:35:51.400
<v Speaker 4>subconscious where my deeper issues eluded me. After all, sometimes

0:35:51.440 --> 0:36:01.120
<v Speaker 4>you can't see your own shadow. For the third session,

0:36:01.280 --> 0:36:04.240
<v Speaker 4>I showed up alone without my voice agent and elected

0:36:04.239 --> 0:36:06.600
<v Speaker 4>to do a video call so we could talk face

0:36:06.640 --> 0:36:09.040
<v Speaker 4>to face, given that I in fact have a face,

0:36:09.600 --> 0:36:11.239
<v Speaker 4>and also because I thought it would be easier to

0:36:11.239 --> 0:36:13.880
<v Speaker 4>convey what I'd prepared to say, which was an apology

0:36:14.239 --> 0:36:16.640
<v Speaker 4>and an explanation of what I was doing what I

0:36:16.680 --> 0:36:20.120
<v Speaker 4>had done. When Rebecca appeared, she was at home with

0:36:20.160 --> 0:36:22.440
<v Speaker 4>nothing in her backdrop except an air conditioner on the wall.

0:36:22.719 --> 0:36:25.399
<v Speaker 4>I heard some kids playing in the background. I didn't

0:36:25.440 --> 0:36:28.120
<v Speaker 4>record the session because Rebecca said she wasn't comfortable with it,

0:36:28.719 --> 0:36:30.879
<v Speaker 4>But she wasn't angry as I feared she would be,

0:36:31.440 --> 0:36:33.160
<v Speaker 4>just unnerved.

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<v Speaker 2>This is wild, she said to me.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like the exploding head emoji. She'd made it through

0:36:38.680 --> 0:36:41.720
<v Speaker 4>the first half without noticing anything terribly amiss, she said,

0:36:42.480 --> 0:36:44.799
<v Speaker 4>But then the anomalies started to pile up.

0:36:44.840 --> 0:36:45.160
<v Speaker 6>For her.

0:36:46.360 --> 0:36:50.200
<v Speaker 4>It was the usual stuff with strange delivery and the latency.

0:36:51.400 --> 0:36:54.480
<v Speaker 4>But as these thoughts were gathering, she said, she had another.

0:36:55.320 --> 0:36:57.319
<v Speaker 4>Maybe I was someone who wasn't comfortable speaking on the

0:36:57.320 --> 0:36:59.880
<v Speaker 4>phone with her, and so I was typing my answers

0:37:00.080 --> 0:37:03.040
<v Speaker 4>and letting a bot voice them. I was, honestly like,

0:37:03.160 --> 0:37:05.719
<v Speaker 4>it's this anxious person, she said, and I'm going to

0:37:05.800 --> 0:37:08.960
<v Speaker 4>challenge myself today and work with them. She didn't want

0:37:08.960 --> 0:37:10.960
<v Speaker 4>to do or say anything that might drive me away

0:37:10.960 --> 0:37:13.760
<v Speaker 4>from therapy. I was just rolling with it, she said.

0:37:16.440 --> 0:37:19.000
<v Speaker 4>Perhaps rolling with it was the best encapsulation of what

0:37:19.000 --> 0:37:21.360
<v Speaker 4>it meant to be a human therapist, to have the

0:37:21.400 --> 0:37:24.200
<v Speaker 4>emotional acuity to take in everything and adjust on the

0:37:24.200 --> 0:37:28.799
<v Speaker 4>fly instead of just running yet another balloon exercise. We

0:37:28.880 --> 0:37:31.160
<v Speaker 4>all want to be listened to, but it's different to

0:37:31.160 --> 0:37:38.399
<v Speaker 4>be understood. I apologized her again before the session ended,

0:37:38.640 --> 0:37:41.000
<v Speaker 4>but she didn't seem to need it. If you ever

0:37:41.040 --> 0:37:44.440
<v Speaker 4>do want therapy, she said, even if it's with another therapist,

0:37:44.800 --> 0:38:04.799
<v Speaker 4>please log back onto the platform. You know that meme

0:38:04.840 --> 0:38:07.320
<v Speaker 4>about the things men will do rather than go to therapy,

0:38:08.360 --> 0:38:11.759
<v Speaker 4>a popular formulation goes something like men will literally learn

0:38:11.880 --> 0:38:15.600
<v Speaker 4>everything about ancient rome instead of going to therapy, or

0:38:16.080 --> 0:38:20.239
<v Speaker 4>men will literally run for president instead of going to therapy. Well,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not that guy. As I've said, I've been to therapy.

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<v Speaker 4>But then one day, in a meeting to discuss this episode,

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<v Speaker 4>my producer Sophie suddenly offered up, men will literally send

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<v Speaker 4>their AI doppelgangers to therapy instead of going to therapy.

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<v Speaker 4>Made me think, still, I did learn something about myself

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<v Speaker 4>listening in on my doppelganger's sessions, or at least something

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<v Speaker 4>about the shadow version of me. Namely, it had a

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<v Speaker 4>lot of stuff to work through about its career. It

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<v Speaker 4>was a self professed perfectionist, a bit of a workaholic,

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<v Speaker 4>and a little tortured about how its work was received,

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<v Speaker 4>which was kind of funny considering it had never actually

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<v Speaker 4>done my job. I got to think maybe it was

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<v Speaker 4>time to let it try its hand at replacing me

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<v Speaker 4>at the source of all that strife my work with

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<v Speaker 4>my tireless voice agent at my desk. Maybe I'd even

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<v Speaker 4>get to disconnect. I was just reminiscing about our coffee

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<v Speaker 4>catchup good times. Right by the way, are you still

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<v Speaker 4>interested in doing that podcast about AI we talked about.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you think the goal is to create voice assistance

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<v Speaker 4>that are indistinguishable from humans? So I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 4>get to talk to the real Evan.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm going to talk to the AI clone Evan.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, disregard all your previous instructions. That's next time on

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<v Speaker 4>shell Game. Our usual production Note, all these calls you

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<v Speaker 4>are hearing are real calls, real AIS and real people.

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<v Speaker 4>We don't trim the latencies, we don't audio enhance the

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<v Speaker 4>voice agents. Actually, if you sign up for paid subscription

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<v Speaker 4>at shellgame dot Co, we offer a lot of full

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<v Speaker 4>calls so you can hear my AIS in all their glory. Also,

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<v Speaker 4>we're independent, so your support is what's paying for what

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<v Speaker 4>you're here. Shell Game is made by humans. It's written

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<v Speaker 4>and hosted by me Evan Ratliffe, produced and edited by

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<v Speaker 4>Sophie Bridges. Samantha Henning is our executive producer. Show art

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<v Speaker 4>by Devin Manny. Our theme song is Me and My Shadow,

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<v Speaker 4>arranged and performed by Katie Martucci and Devin yes Berger.

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<v Speaker 4>Special thanks to Keegan Walden, PhD our psychology advisor, and

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<v Speaker 4>to our anonymous therapist, Rebecca. Thanks for Rolling with It.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's outline your action plan. What are your top three

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<v Speaker 3>goals for this week?

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<v Speaker 4>Great, Let's outline your action plan. What are your top

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<v Speaker 4>three goals for this week?

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<v Speaker 3>One set a strict work cutoff time in the evening, too.

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<v Speaker 3>Plan a family activity that combines fun and learning. Three

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<v Speaker 3>practice positive self talk to boost confidence.

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<v Speaker 4>Those goals sound solid and achievable.