Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heart Radio Podcast.
Speaker 2: Okay, so I'm very excited for this week's podcast because
Speaker 2: we've got an in house guest. I think I need
Speaker 2: to know when it's going to be in house because
Speaker 2: I try to look like I care like you always
Speaker 2: show up so like just a little borderline que right,
Speaker 2: Well are you going to say no? No? Like so
Speaker 2: cute and I'm always like in the gym shorts, no
Speaker 2: makeup whatsoever. The only reason I have makeup on today
Speaker 2: because I have an audition that I have to do
Speaker 2: after this before the sitter leads. Well, maybe I should
Speaker 2: pretend like I have auditionally from far away the camera,
Speaker 2: you really can't tell anyways, but you're good there because
Speaker 2: I don't.
Speaker 3: You're naturally beautiful. You're great.
Speaker 2: Let's see what I could do with myself to make
Speaker 2: we have a guest. Sorry, So Josie's here. She is
Speaker 2: the host of the Weekly trash Pot and she's adorable.
Speaker 2: She's so young. I just are you so young? I
Speaker 2: just did her podcast. Oh well, that makes me feel
Speaker 2: a lot better because I gotta tell you, is it
Speaker 2: the baby at a biblical age? That's done it to me?
Speaker 2: I think it's Salt Lake. She's from Salt Lake. Oh yeah,
Speaker 2: I got that Utah the Utah Utah. Look, well, you hat,
Speaker 2: you're just stunning.
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. Can I come every week?
Speaker 2: I mean, you really are, thank you, But I want
Speaker 2: you to really appreciate how young and pretty you are.
Speaker 2: I will, because I don't think I did that enough
Speaker 2: at your age.
Speaker 3: No, No, I have three kids, so I'm really I.
Speaker 1: Like this.
Speaker 3: I never look like that, and.
Speaker 2: I always look like this.
Speaker 1: I usually look like that, but you look gorgeous, so
Speaker 1: I actually don't look like that, but kind of my
Speaker 1: hair is usually greasy.
Speaker 2: Here. I'm excited that Jose's here because her podcast is
Speaker 2: so much fun. I mean to be called weekly Trash.
Speaker 2: I think that's just what is your favorite trash to
Speaker 2: talk about?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 2: I love pop culture, but what is your favorite pop
Speaker 2: cultured topic at the moment right now?
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, I'm kind of like fascinated with the
Speaker 1: Montana Boys and all of the that they're doing right now.
Speaker 2: Can I just tell you something really fast about the
Speaker 2: Montana Boys because I'm in the bath the other day,
Speaker 2: not in the bath, sorry, Roman is taking a bath,
Speaker 2: and I was just looking at my bath. Roman's taking
Speaker 2: a little bath and his thing. He's very protected. Don't worry.
Speaker 2: I'm watching him like, you know, the whole Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm being a good mom. But I'm also like, just
Speaker 2: it's a moment to sit as well, absolutely while my
Speaker 2: hand is still touching him, making sure that he's fine.
Speaker 2: But it's usually where I pee pee right next to
Speaker 2: the bathroom and I can do it. I'm like, look
Speaker 2: at me, I'm liberated. But I was swaping river and
Speaker 2: I put my thumb back to it because I was
Speaker 2: on TikTok and I see the Montana boat Boys and
Speaker 2: Alan walks in at that exact moment. He's like, why
Speaker 2: are you watching that doing?
Speaker 4: It's just they're like I felt caught like by like
Speaker 4: like there's just these Jews and they lip sync and
Speaker 4: I don't I don't know they're trying to be cowboys,
Speaker 4: but I just think it's.
Speaker 3: Kind of funny. This is one And I was like,
Speaker 3: this is what was Kristen Cavialerre is dating? So I
Speaker 3: just want to see one of them.
Speaker 1: Mark, Yeah, I Mark, I couldn't tell you. I just
Speaker 1: call him the hot one because I think he's the
Speaker 1: hottest one. She does too obviously. Yeah, I didn't realize.
Speaker 3: He was part of that.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yes, I just knew he want a famous
Speaker 1: pop culture.
Speaker 3: I don't even know because it's like TikTok.
Speaker 2: They just like sing. So now I've been kind of
Speaker 2: deep driving on them. So they just lip sync? Do
Speaker 2: they can they actually sing? Like? Is there?
Speaker 3: I don't think so. I don't think so.
Speaker 1: But they've been interviewed by like podcasters and they're hilarious.
Speaker 3: Like Hannah Burner, do you know who that is?
Speaker 2: I don't.
Speaker 1: She's a comedian. She podcasted them on the street of
Speaker 1: New York City. Go look it up on TikTok. It
Speaker 1: is hilarious.
Speaker 2: They are funny, like they're not trying to be funny,
Speaker 2: they're just they're trying to be serious.
Speaker 1: They're bumpkins, you know, they just from the country. They
Speaker 1: don't know anything. Like Hannah's like, oh, what's your your
Speaker 1: zodiac side? And he was like, mmm, I think like
Speaker 1: Tori or something?
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, and clothes. So they're not really super funny.
Speaker 1: No, No, they're just kind of dumb in the nicest
Speaker 1: way possible.
Speaker 2: I like you a lot, really enjoy her. Yeah, they
Speaker 2: provide entertainment yeah, people, I think I think I have
Speaker 2: to be the political one. You can be politically, somebody's
Speaker 2: got to be. So that's I'm I'm Switzerland and more
Speaker 2: than I have got the Well, it's your show, so
Speaker 2: you have to be.
Speaker 3: It's your rep. Not well, I think I would tell them.
Speaker 1: I'd like, you guys are so hot and that's great
Speaker 1: because like you're a little dumb, but I'm dumb, so
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm not.
Speaker 3: People don't know why I am dumb as rocks.
Speaker 1: No, you're just a What do you think classifies you
Speaker 1: as dumb? Busy? My brain functions at the weirdest pace.
Speaker 1: It's I don't know how I have a podcast truly,
Speaker 1: Like when I talk, I'm like, am I making any sense?
Speaker 1: Like something is going on in my head. But you're
Speaker 1: so smart. Like when I was on your podcast, you
Speaker 1: were saying how you she? I mean, she does it
Speaker 1: all by herself. She reaches out to people, she gets
Speaker 1: the ads. I'm like that takes skill and brains, taking that, making.
Speaker 2: That season for myself. Yeah, I'm like, guess who's opening
Speaker 2: up for partnership? Yes, Christy who so happy to see you?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Nope, exactly right. I just gotta fake it with
Speaker 1: three kids. That's a lot of what I think we
Speaker 1: all experience. It'll probably feels smarter in my thirties hopefully, wow,
Speaker 1: because my kids will be didn't work out well for me,
Speaker 1: but I hope it does for you.
Speaker 3: How old are your kids?
Speaker 2: Eight? The same?
Speaker 3: Okay?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Five? Brand new?
Speaker 3: Oh that's brand new. We love brand new.
Speaker 2: I kind of have a brand new too, So Montana
Speaker 2: and then Montana boys. What else in pop culture at
Speaker 2: the moment?
Speaker 1: Oh? Okay, right now, I'm trying to think what I
Speaker 1: last spoke on, because we love some pop culture over here.
Speaker 2: I mean depending on you to keep me up to
Speaker 2: date so that I feel like cool.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, okay, well now I'm just like brain fart.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 3: Here's the thing. I am obsessed with Taylor Swodon Travis
Speaker 3: right now.
Speaker 2: Okay, so is my daughter.
Speaker 3: I'm obsessed.
Speaker 1: And I had a trasher that's what I call my listeners,
Speaker 1: had dinner with her what pearn Travis literally had dinner.
Speaker 3: I was shook. I was shook.
Speaker 1: She she couldn't really like take pictures or video it
Speaker 1: because she didn't want to be that creep. That's like
Speaker 1: I'm with Taylor Swift, but she did take a photo,
Speaker 1: but she didn't want to post it and be that
Speaker 1: girl that was like fangirling.
Speaker 3: But she sent it to me and I about prapped myself.
Speaker 2: So it's legitimate.
Speaker 3: It's legit, like it actually happened. So all the people
Speaker 3: with the.
Speaker 1: Conspiracies like they're not in love, they're in love, Okay,
Speaker 1: it's real. They're gonna have babies, they're gonna get married.
Speaker 1: I'm obsessed.
Speaker 2: I don't know that I trust any woman super in love.
Speaker 2: That is also true, say that I don't trust myself
Speaker 2: super you love. I said, I don't trust any woman
Speaker 2: super in love. I think we rose colored glasses and
Speaker 2: we see what we want to see, and it's it's
Speaker 2: not a bad thing. Yeah, it's just a really sweet
Speaker 2: moment of insanity where everything is is you want to
Speaker 2: see it?
Speaker 3: Yeah, So what was your rose colored moment with Preston?
Speaker 2: Then I think, well, there's a couple. That's why it
Speaker 2: takes me a second. I think I loved that he
Speaker 2: owned his own business because I came from raising a
Speaker 2: husband before him, and I was the breadwinner, and it
Speaker 2: was just relieving to me that he was motivated and
Speaker 2: established he's in music, so that takes some grit too.
Speaker 2: It also takes a tiny slice of narcissism. So I
Speaker 2: would say that when the glasses popped off, that's where
Speaker 2: you see artists I think have to have a little
Speaker 2: to believe in themselves when other people don't. Yeah, I
Speaker 2: think it was probably that. I think he was so
Speaker 2: hard in the paint for me that I maybe ignored
Speaker 2: some of the riff raff that was still lingering on
Speaker 2: the sides. You know. But I was also in a
Speaker 2: time of transition when I met him, like with my
Speaker 2: marriage and ending and all the things. So but I
Speaker 2: would say, you know, I just think that I look
Speaker 2: back and I'm like, it's always always there. Maybe we
Speaker 2: just don't see it for what it's worth. Speaking of dating,
Speaker 2: does anybody want to talk about Sophia Bush? Oh?
Speaker 3: I know that pop culture I know that as well.
Speaker 1: I almost talked about it, but I was like, I
Speaker 1: don't know enough to like really deep dive this.
Speaker 2: But that's tell me.
Speaker 3: Tell me two Q community does not like her right now?
Speaker 3: A home wrecker.
Speaker 2: Oh well, guys, I don't know, can you fill me in?
Speaker 2: And probably maybe somebody else that's in their forties it
Speaker 2: doesn't know.
Speaker 1: Well, I don't even know the soccer player's name. Oh,
Speaker 1: Ashlyn Harris beautiful. Oh she's beautiful, stunning. I would go
Speaker 1: for her stunning. It's like a Doyle Part two. No
Speaker 1: soccer player.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, kind of okay, Yeah, I mean because Abby
Speaker 2: and I mean Abby we Bach is a soccer player. Yeah.
Speaker 2: They were like, I've met Abby once and I was
Speaker 2: just like starstruck. I loved I loved Abby. One do
Speaker 2: you are you a sot? I mean you're married to
Speaker 2: a soccer player.
Speaker 3: So I was like, what's really.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I wasn't, but I was. I thought she was
Speaker 2: like if I was ever I think attracted to a woman,
Speaker 2: it was Abby Wambach And then I'm then I saw
Speaker 2: Ashlon Harris and I was like, oh wow, she's beautiful.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah no, I feel like I would go more
Speaker 1: for Ashland. Yeah, I like like the tattoos and stuff.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: So Sophia Bush wrote a article in Glamour about coming
Speaker 2: out a queer and now she's with Ashlton. But I
Speaker 2: think where the the drama. The drama is that technically
Speaker 2: Ashton was still married to Ali, who was also a
Speaker 2: soccer player at the time, and I think Sophia was
Speaker 2: going through her divorce at the time, potentially that that
Speaker 2: piece I don't know, but that they were discussing. But
Speaker 2: when you know, Ashton was still technically married and stuff.
Speaker 2: So the time, they never really address it. It's kind
Speaker 2: of like the elephant in the room.
Speaker 1: But they don't really ya talk about it, And so
Speaker 1: everyone's upset because they're like, be honest, say what really happened.
Speaker 1: Because Sophia apparently like befriended them, was friends with both
Speaker 1: of them, and then basically stole.
Speaker 3: Ashland and was like you're mine now, and now they're together,
Speaker 3: and Ashlyn and Abbie have two kids together.
Speaker 1: So it's like breaking this family and it's just like
Speaker 1: this whole thing, and wow.
Speaker 2: I have kind of two things to it, where it's
Speaker 2: two sides of it, where it's you don't know the
Speaker 2: ins and outs, just like we have all the time.
Speaker 2: There's so many things that I have not said publicly
Speaker 2: and we'll always keep private, sure to protect my family
Speaker 2: or my kids or myself whatever, you know, my friends,
Speaker 2: So you just don't really know. Some things may look
Speaker 2: a little gray, But I also think on the flip
Speaker 2: side that too, life is a little gray. It's not
Speaker 2: very great. It's not black or white. I think probably
Speaker 2: more of it with you than any other friend. There's
Speaker 2: so many things people still don't know. You can write
Speaker 2: five more books and there's still things that are so
Speaker 2: protected for you, Yeah, because you also have children. And
Speaker 2: I do think it's hard sometimes because it's just so skewed.
Speaker 2: We can't know. We just can't know it all, and
Speaker 2: if we I don't think we should know it all.
Speaker 2: Maybe well, I think there's yeah, I mean I agree
Speaker 2: with that. I think there's certain things that could be harmful,
Speaker 2: but then also things that not everybody has this kind
Speaker 2: of life and platform that has lived in the open,
Speaker 2: and I think if more people had cameras and mics
Speaker 2: in their faces and had that, everybody would have a
Speaker 2: little point where Okay, it wasn't done to perfection or
Speaker 2: it wasn't perfect. And it's unfair too, I think for
Speaker 2: anybody to go into comments and be hurtful when you
Speaker 2: just really don't know. And that's kind of the thing
Speaker 2: where projection is one thing, but there's always a truth
Speaker 2: and there's always gray. So it's just I don't know.
Speaker 2: I kind of go, we're all humans and we might
Speaker 2: make mistakes, but and even their version of reality might
Speaker 2: not be reality. Like I always think there's three sides
Speaker 2: to every story. For she here's mine and God saw
Speaker 2: it all. But then I always go back to but
Speaker 2: I just want everyone to be happy. There's a piece
Speaker 2: of me too, Like in my twenties and thirties, I
Speaker 2: was constantly always trying to chase who I was and
Speaker 2: trying to figure it out through relationships. And so I think,
Speaker 2: you know, reading the article, and I just I hope
Speaker 2: she slows down. Is she's she's stopped running and is
Speaker 2: like actually happy and like you know, and she can breathe,
Speaker 2: Yeah she can. Yeah, Like she said that she can breathe.
Speaker 2: So I think that's a great thing that we should
Speaker 2: all feel one day.
Speaker 3: No, I'm happy for her, but.
Speaker 2: I don't know if I could ever. It's interesting too
Speaker 2: because I was reading another book and one of the
Speaker 2: main characters ended up being lesbian, and then I'm just like,
Speaker 2: I just love my man and you sausages, wow, Scottish
Speaker 2: especially important sausages. Importantage.
Speaker 3: Oh yes, they'll say group.
Speaker 2: So I just agreed, but I just want to go
Speaker 2: on record. But I think there's a thing too, though,
Speaker 2: where you can have a connection with someone, but I've
Speaker 2: just never experienced that person. That time describes Abby's encounter
Speaker 2: for the very first time. I mean it's like I
Speaker 2: would say, that's how my encounter with Preston was, and
Speaker 2: I had never felt that way before. And that's why
Speaker 2: I was so swept and irritated because I'm like, I
Speaker 2: don't even like your gender, Like I don't want to.
Speaker 2: Men have never been notoriously reliable for me. Like, I'm
Speaker 2: not interested. I'm good, it's going to be single and
Speaker 2: have a big career. Yeah, And then I was annoyed
Speaker 2: that I liked him, but it was like the world
Speaker 2: went away and I had never felt that in my life.
Speaker 3: Wait, have you been with a woman?
Speaker 2: No? Oh, have you ever kissed a girl? Spring break?
Speaker 3: You did? Spring break?
Speaker 2: Did you use tongue? No? No, no, no, it was
Speaker 2: more like three way kissy.
Speaker 3: What about you, Jenna? Have you ever been with never? Never?
Speaker 2: No. We do talk about some stuff on wine down
Speaker 2: on the Road. That is so fun though, So everyone
Speaker 2: should come to see those shows. I did have a
Speaker 2: uh huh, I love it. Yeah, No, it's fun.
Speaker 3: But have you so I'm from Utah.
Speaker 2: So are you Mormon? I always say I'm kind of Mormon.
Speaker 2: He's your I Mormon. Isn't the one where he hands
Speaker 2: a bunch of wives?
Speaker 1: Okay, so that's polygamy, which is like old that's f LGS.
Speaker 3: The fundamental isn't that Utah? That's it's in Utah. But
Speaker 3: it's not common at all. It's also illegal, so it's not.
Speaker 2: Has it always been illegal?
Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure?
Speaker 2: Is there a TV show? For sure?
Speaker 1: That's what I always wondered. But this is But they're
Speaker 1: not Mormon. They have nothing to do with FLDS. They're
Speaker 1: like a totally FLDS is the fundamentalists of the Latter
Speaker 1: day Saints.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I'm sorry. And if this is so,
Speaker 2: I just have to sidebar this really fast. This is disrespectful.
Speaker 2: I apologize, and I'm gonna say it. Say it, go
Speaker 2: for it. It's like my favorite lead office.
Speaker 3: Who cares? You're going weekly rash?
Speaker 2: Like The Book of Mormons is probably the funniest freaking
Speaker 2: play I've ever seen my entire so I saw it
Speaker 2: your thoughts as a Mormon.
Speaker 1: Honestly, I didn't have any thoughts where it was like
Speaker 1: I hated this or I thought it was funny.
Speaker 3: I was just kind of neutral because I hate plays.
Speaker 3: I hate Broadway, I hate musicals. Not my thing.
Speaker 1: Okay, my husband, who served a Mormon mission, was like,
Speaker 1: this is so spot on, it's freaking hilarious.
Speaker 3: He loved it.
Speaker 2: He loved it, and he's like the more active members.
Speaker 2: So I was like, I wonder if Mormons hate this
Speaker 2: because it's literally making fun of Mormons.
Speaker 3: No, Mormons do hate it.
Speaker 1: They do, like, like, if you're an active member of
Speaker 1: the church, you're not going.
Speaker 2: To see it's like fun.
Speaker 3: If you can.
Speaker 1: Laugh at yourself, you can see it. But if you
Speaker 1: take things way too seriously, because at the end of
Speaker 1: the day, like that is a very disrespecial play.
Speaker 2: There are some very disc in the language.
Speaker 1: You know, people who are members of the church try
Speaker 1: not to use profanity. I obviously use profanity. So I
Speaker 1: always say I'm kind of Mormon, like there are certain
Speaker 1: things about the religion that I really appreciate and I
Speaker 1: really love. And it's hard when I'm on a platform
Speaker 1: because I'm not perfect and I don't want to be
Speaker 1: the poster child for the community because I A don't
Speaker 1: know everything. B I'm not perfect, and see, I don't
Speaker 1: even know if I believe in half of it. So
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't ever want to be like, yes,
Speaker 1: I am a member of the church blah blah blah
Speaker 1: blah blah, because I don't even know. And I feel
Speaker 1: like at twenty eight years old, you're still kind of
Speaker 1: figuring out your faith a little. Like I know I
Speaker 1: believe in God, that for sure, but religion is where
Speaker 1: I have a hard time. Are you guys religious?
Speaker 2: Are Mormons are allowed to drink?
Speaker 3: No, that's it. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I number not being one of the things that no, no, no, no,
Speaker 2: that's it because I remember there was something I was like,
Speaker 2: there's a lot of women's like can't.
Speaker 3: There's a lot of.
Speaker 1: Things, and then no, you can't have tea coffee. I
Speaker 1: mean when I say can't, you can do whatever you want.
Speaker 1: You have free will. It's just recommended. It's called the
Speaker 1: Word of wisdom, and it's been given to us by
Speaker 1: prophets that you shouldn't do this for your health.
Speaker 3: It's just benefits you.
Speaker 1: And there's other certain things that they used to say,
Speaker 1: like you can't have double piercings, like that was something
Speaker 1: where a prophet came out.
Speaker 3: I was like, don't do that.
Speaker 1: So there's just like a new prophet. It was no,
Speaker 1: it was back in what was it? Harley's very active,
Speaker 1: my my assistant, my video girl. But there's just random things.
Speaker 1: They kind of change rules everywhere while.
Speaker 2: But yeah, no, I'm a Christian. You're Christian? Christian Christian?
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, but I was gonna say, like Joseph an
Speaker 2: amazing technical or dream coat, like we're making plays to
Speaker 2: be entertaining and to have the laughability.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I mean I also say I'm a Christian, but I'm like,
Speaker 2: I go to your death sex. Were you good marriage? Yeah? Yeah,
Speaker 2: like that's just my like, I know that's not the
Speaker 2: thing that Jesus said, but I also think there's you know.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you do you want to buy a car before
Speaker 3: test driving it?
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm gonna sit this one up. Did you
Speaker 2: wait till marriage, ma'am? My daughter was born. I was
Speaker 2: married in September. My baby was born in January. Oh
Speaker 2: all right, yeah that's a healthy preemie.
Speaker 3: Yeah, very healthy.
Speaker 2: So I'll carry the one.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I just think that, like I think with anything
Speaker 2: I have always like, comedy is my favorite. Yeah, and
Speaker 2: so like I think laughing at anything that it makes
Speaker 2: them I mean I'm an adult child of been alcoholic,
Speaker 2: So if I didn't laugh at things like, that's a
Speaker 2: pretty sad little life for me, you know. So like listen,
Speaker 2: is it comical? No, But like I've made light of
Speaker 2: a lot, and like I try to make it fun
Speaker 2: and relatable and that I think plays like that are
Speaker 2: made for that. It's entertainment.
Speaker 3: Absolutely.
Speaker 2: I think more people are looking up what it's like
Speaker 2: to be Mormon now probably than before.
Speaker 1: Sure, for sure it is hard though, because people who
Speaker 1: don't know anything about it will look at this and
Speaker 1: it already kind of puts a negative light on some
Speaker 1: things where there is a lot of good.
Speaker 3: And I think in every religion there's good and there's bad,
Speaker 3: right sure, And the.
Speaker 1: Book of Mormon is so crude at times the play
Speaker 1: that I think people have a different idea of what
Speaker 1: it is and then they google it and then they're like,
Speaker 1: oh wait, this is this actually isn't the same thing
Speaker 1: as the play, which you have to realize you're going
Speaker 1: to play for entertainment.
Speaker 2: It's not done to me, and I think in the
Speaker 2: end to in the play, it's all about just believing
Speaker 2: in something to have hope in your day, and that's
Speaker 2: I love the message that it ended up telling for sure.
Speaker 2: So I was a big fan of Big Love on
Speaker 2: HBOK fascinated. Okay, I don't think I watched it so
Speaker 2: good to get me?
Speaker 3: Oh it was.
Speaker 1: See I watched Sister Wives. I was like a huge
Speaker 1: Sister Wives fan. I loved that show because I couldn't
Speaker 1: fathom it. I could never share share it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, could you even understand how I feel like that?
Speaker 2: I mean you already have no you have without your
Speaker 2: idea it was any women? Yeah, yeah, I just couldn't
Speaker 2: understand how anybody married more than one woman would be
Speaker 2: interested in him specifically, Yeah, not my guy.
Speaker 3: Also, how are they affording it?
Speaker 1: Like, especially in Sister Wives, each wife has like their
Speaker 1: own house, Like what does he do for work?
Speaker 2: I need him to be a really cool better dude
Speaker 2: for like eighteen people to be married him. Yeah, I
Speaker 2: would love just a bunch of wives. But I don't
Speaker 2: want to do anything with the girls.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I can see that.
Speaker 2: And they can't touch my husband. That's how we have
Speaker 2: that already. Yeah, dandam Yeah, you can't touch my husband.
Speaker 2: But I'd love to all be in the same little comment.
Speaker 2: I think we all need a wife. Honestly, wives are
Speaker 2: the best. Yeah, I would love him.
Speaker 1: Anie me.
Speaker 2: It's time to hear her side of the story. I
Speaker 2: love the show so much. I was like, please throw
Speaker 2: my name in the mix. I need to be in
Speaker 2: on this.
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Speaker 2: Hey, have you got any pop culture you got or
Speaker 2: a topic that you just I had? I had something, Okay,
Speaker 2: talk to me. I don't know how well this is
Speaker 2: going to play out, but I have I no, no,
Speaker 2: not great? Have you ever? I don't know why this
Speaker 2: is so ridiculous. But have you ever said something that
Speaker 2: like literally someone took the wrong way, probably and you
Speaker 2: just think about it for years. Yes, Okay, you guys.
Speaker 2: I have this embarrassing moment and every single time I
Speaker 2: wash my face, which is a lot of times, I
Speaker 2: think of this comment that I made to a woman
Speaker 2: that gave me a facial once. Oh god, what you say.
Speaker 2: It's just so I didn't mean it the way I
Speaker 2: said it. Oh no, So she's talking about like, you know,
Speaker 2: she gives this facial and I have pregnancy brain at
Speaker 2: the time. We're at Little paulm Island, and I'm so excited,
Speaker 2: right yes, and she goes, well, you know, like you
Speaker 2: can't just she was like, if you're going to ever
Speaker 2: do extractions on your skin, like you know, you need
Speaker 2: to like lather up and warm up and like you know,
Speaker 2: she's like you have to massage. And she was like,
Speaker 2: you just can't go right in. And I literally said, well,
Speaker 2: we're all I mean, that's kind of how we're all wired,
Speaker 2: Like that's how you should treat everything, isn't that we
Speaker 2: don't none of us want to go right in. And
Speaker 2: I meant it like conversationally or like you would want
Speaker 2: to warm up or habitly moment, and there I am
Speaker 2: naked with a bump, thinking this woman is probably like
Speaker 2: what is this woman? And every single time I wash
Speaker 2: my face, I think about the fact that this woman
Speaker 2: probably thinks I'm some dirty bird that needs to like
Speaker 2: have a lot of foreplay or something before I go
Speaker 2: right in. And I'm so the other day I thought,
Speaker 2: when will I ever let go of that? Am I
Speaker 2: going to make right? Do I need to reach.
Speaker 3: Out to her?
Speaker 2: Honey? That is like nothing?
Speaker 3: What do you even know?
Speaker 2: I mean, go in your memory bank. I just feel
Speaker 2: like I was like, I didn't mean it like that,
Speaker 2: but I didn't even I didn't even think of it.
Speaker 2: She just kind of got awkward after and then I
Speaker 2: was like, well, that's weird. Why would she And then
Speaker 2: later I thought that's why she thinks I'm a pervert. No,
Speaker 2: she doesn't. You gotta I don't know, you gotta let
Speaker 2: go of it.
Speaker 3: Wash it off.
Speaker 2: I will go girl, to wash your face. Okay, do
Speaker 2: you have one pun intended? I mean all the time
Speaker 2: I say things and I go when I say that,
Speaker 2: I say things that aren't When I'm like nervous or
Speaker 2: I don't know what to say, because I do get
Speaker 2: social anxiety.
Speaker 3: Yeah, So do you have certain phrases that you use often?
Speaker 3: Like when things get awkward?
Speaker 2: Well, Alan always says I go okay, okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 2: So now I'm like stop now, I'm how complex? Okay.
Speaker 2: I definitely have things I say. It's kind of like
Speaker 2: That's why I think sometimes I even get insecure on
Speaker 2: wine down because I like have these like little one
Speaker 2: line things where I'm like, I don't want to seem
Speaker 2: like I'm.
Speaker 1: Rehearsed either, saying it all the time too, right, Like, oh,
Speaker 1: put it on a T shirt?
Speaker 2: Right? I would you should sell that merch? So what
Speaker 2: as a mom of three, how do you keep things
Speaker 2: alive with your husband?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 1: Right now it's looking rough. I'm just so busy right
Speaker 1: now that I almost feel bad. I was talking about
Speaker 1: this with a friend, like when you have a lot
Speaker 1: of things on your plate, You're like, what can I drop?
Speaker 1: Like what's what's plastic, what's glass?
Speaker 3: What will shatter?
Speaker 1: And what can handle it? And I'm like, oh, our
Speaker 1: sex life can handle being dropped right now because we're good, like.
Speaker 3: We're I love each other.
Speaker 2: You know, I don't ask, so they say, you know,
Speaker 2: God the relationship, then the kids.
Speaker 3: Yeah no, what for sure?
Speaker 2: Right, yeah, because if y'all aren't intact and it's gonna
Speaker 2: the whole absolutely dam damn is gonna can't handle the
Speaker 2: intact hand motion, the intact Yeah.
Speaker 1: No, we we choose for one. We always do it
Speaker 1: once a week. Oh that's great, it's a week always.
Speaker 3: Yeah. But it's not like this crazy passion.
Speaker 1: It like it's almost like, okay, this is we have
Speaker 1: to do this so we're connected, but like I got
Speaker 1: things to do, so we have like twenty minutes, let's go.
Speaker 2: So that's this is interesting and I just want to
Speaker 2: because I'm this audition that I'm auditioning for is almost
Speaker 2: like a sex life show where she just feels in
Speaker 2: the script, she's like, I can't even remember the last
Speaker 2: time we actually fucked. Okay, f uc k whatever. This
Speaker 2: is escalated quickly for me. I have sweaty hands and
Speaker 2: so you know, and I was reading like the sides
Speaker 2: with Alan and.
Speaker 3: Then you fucked well no, no, no, no, nogain that no.
Speaker 2: But it was an interesting conversation because I think there
Speaker 2: should be balance between like making love and then also
Speaker 2: having that passionate and not just like a taking because
Speaker 2: I know women we can just be like, oh, well,
Speaker 2: just you know, check off the box. I'm a very
Speaker 2: sexual person, so like I have very like a good
Speaker 2: sex life. But also you know, when you have the
Speaker 2: three kids now, it is there's times and I'm like, oh, okay,
Speaker 2: we need to have sex, you know, but also you
Speaker 2: want it to have you want to be able to
Speaker 2: have those two different types of having sex.
Speaker 1: Exactly, and right now, my sex is just che I
Speaker 1: need you to that's your homework report back to us.
Speaker 3: I will, I will him.
Speaker 2: But sometimes it is homework though, to have to like
Speaker 2: just I want you to rely so busy well and
Speaker 2: because you also like you guys, it's so enjoyable, it is.
Speaker 3: That's the thing. It's like, once you start going, it's like,
Speaker 3: oh wait.
Speaker 2: I just have the best sex life. I mean, I'll
Speaker 2: tell you that's what saved us a lot of time. Really,
Speaker 2: There's zero other people I'd ever want to make out
Speaker 2: with in my life. He is like, he knows, he
Speaker 2: just knows me. It's it doesn't even make sense. And
Speaker 2: so there's times where I'm like, gosh, that would really
Speaker 2: suck if it wasn't the case, because you know, that's
Speaker 2: where someone women wander. Yeah, and we're pretty diligent, Like,
Speaker 2: but I like want to because I'm like, it's just
Speaker 2: epic all the time.
Speaker 1: Let's do that. I want you to do that. Okay, Wow,
Speaker 1: the bar has been set.
Speaker 2: Well, I think again, because you're managing so much the kids,
Speaker 2: You've got your podcasts. Like you also, you know women,
Speaker 2: it's it feels like a chore. But when it's not
Speaker 2: made to feel that way, it's like she said, great, yeah,
Speaker 2: Like I also, I just think this is where I've
Speaker 2: been before in a previous marriage, right, like it was
Speaker 2: more checkboxy. I think there's just a level of intimacy,
Speaker 2: Like I think it's worth Oh if I could tell
Speaker 2: twenty eight year old me this, I would tell me this.
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna say it to you. I want you
Speaker 2: to like be honest with him about what you love,
Speaker 2: what you don't like, like lots of I love you,
Speaker 2: like good eye connections sometimes sure, meet in the laundry room, right, okay,
Speaker 2: whatever whatever is your thing. I like it to not
Speaker 2: be like crazy, Like we're still respectful, Like we're not
Speaker 2: all lips and chains. That's for like the word people. No, ma'am,
Speaker 2: you're not there yet. No, I'm more hopeless romantic than that. Okay,
Speaker 2: but I do feel like there's been a different level
Speaker 2: of intimacy over the last couple of years where we've
Speaker 2: just been like, okay, but what do we want? Like
Speaker 2: it's just I don't know, you know.
Speaker 1: I definitely think out of all my friends, I'm probably
Speaker 1: the most sexual, and so my friends are always asking
Speaker 1: me for advice and I'm like, this is crazy because
Speaker 1: I'm at a phase of my life where I'm actually
Speaker 1: not very sexual right now, So can you actually give
Speaker 1: me advice?
Speaker 3: Because growing up, oh, I was, I was getting around.
Speaker 1: I was I loved I loved it. I met my
Speaker 1: husband and I was like, let's do it every day
Speaker 1: all day. Like I was a horny little girl. And
Speaker 1: now I'm.
Speaker 3: Like I'm tired.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so you's a break place, yeah, a season. Yeah.
Speaker 2: But I also do think we don't get to just
Speaker 2: be girlfriends, Like I just want to be as girlfriends sometimes,
Speaker 2: you know, like I just want to feel like a
Speaker 2: girl unless roommate yu less. I have this to do
Speaker 2: and that to do, and that's like the one area
Speaker 2: of life fe I'm like, yeah, like soak me up
Speaker 2: and like love on me.
Speaker 3: You know, speaking of soaking. Do you know what soaking
Speaker 3: is in Utah?
Speaker 2: No, I'm nervous.
Speaker 3: Wait, you guys don't know now what?
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, speaking of crazy Mormon coldre in Utah.
Speaker 1: Because you don't want to have sex before marriage, like
Speaker 1: most Christian religions, people do this thing called soaking.
Speaker 2: I'm so nervous.
Speaker 3: So I'm trying to explain it in a way that's appropriate.
Speaker 3: But there's not a way.
Speaker 1: We've already said that. So basically, they stick their genitals
Speaker 1: in your genital but they don't move.
Speaker 3: It soaks.
Speaker 2: No, ma'am, Oh my god, that's still sex in general,
Speaker 2: I said, because.
Speaker 3: There's no friction, so it doesn't count as it doesn't.
Speaker 3: They soak it. They soak loophole sexual.
Speaker 2: Name, absolutely not. That's what's come on.
Speaker 3: People do it in Utah. Soak, they soak.
Speaker 2: I want, we'll soak it up. I do this thing
Speaker 2: I call soaking prayer, which makes me regret everything I've
Speaker 2: done for the last four years. It's my bathtub. I
Speaker 2: just sit and I just like, you know, soaking up.
Speaker 2: No more of that. Well, now you'll like, Josie, it
Speaker 2: was amazing having you, enlightening enlightening.
Speaker 3: I think I might go take a bath and take
Speaker 3: a good soak.
Speaker 2: Wow, I'm blown away. Notice that we had a sex
Speaker 2: talk without Catherine here. Oh, Kat would just be crawling out.
Speaker 2: Understand she would hate it all right, Well, everyone, make
Speaker 2: sure to listen to Weekly Trash with your Girl Josie
Speaker 2: and we love y'all, Love y'all, Bye bye,