WEBVTT - Trash Talk with Josie from The Weekly Trash

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<v Speaker 1>Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heart Radio Podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so I'm very excited for this week's podcast because

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<v Speaker 2>we've got an in house guest. I think I need

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<v Speaker 2>to know when it's going to be in house because

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<v Speaker 2>I try to look like I care like you always

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<v Speaker 2>show up so like just a little borderline que right,

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<v Speaker 2>Well are you going to say no? No? Like so

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<v Speaker 2>cute and I'm always like in the gym shorts, no

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<v Speaker 2>makeup whatsoever. The only reason I have makeup on today

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<v Speaker 2>because I have an audition that I have to do

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<v Speaker 2>after this before the sitter leads. Well, maybe I should

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<v Speaker 2>pretend like I have auditionally from far away the camera,

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<v Speaker 2>you really can't tell anyways, but you're good there because

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<v Speaker 2>I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>You're naturally beautiful. You're great.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's see what I could do with myself to make

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<v Speaker 2>we have a guest. Sorry, So Josie's here. She is

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<v Speaker 2>the host of the Weekly trash Pot and she's adorable.

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<v Speaker 2>She's so young. I just are you so young? I

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<v Speaker 2>just did her podcast. Oh well, that makes me feel

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<v Speaker 2>a lot better because I gotta tell you, is it

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<v Speaker 2>the baby at a biblical age? That's done it to me?

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's Salt Lake. She's from Salt Lake. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I got that Utah the Utah Utah. Look, well, you hat,

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<v Speaker 2>you're just stunning.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh. Can I come every week?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, you really are, thank you, But I want

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<v Speaker 2>you to really appreciate how young and pretty you are.

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<v Speaker 2>I will, because I don't think I did that enough

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<v Speaker 2>at your age.

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<v Speaker 3>No, No, I have three kids, so I'm really I.

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<v Speaker 1>Like this.

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<v Speaker 3>I never look like that, and.

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<v Speaker 2>I always look like this.

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<v Speaker 1>I usually look like that, but you look gorgeous, so

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<v Speaker 1>I actually don't look like that, but kind of my

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<v Speaker 1>hair is usually greasy.

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<v Speaker 2>Here. I'm excited that Jose's here because her podcast is

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<v Speaker 2>so much fun. I mean to be called weekly Trash.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's just what is your favorite trash to

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<v Speaker 2>talk about?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>I love pop culture, but what is your favorite pop

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<v Speaker 2>cultured topic at the moment right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my goodness, I'm kind of like fascinated with the

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<v Speaker 1>Montana Boys and all of the that they're doing right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Can I just tell you something really fast about the

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<v Speaker 2>Montana Boys because I'm in the bath the other day,

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<v Speaker 2>not in the bath, sorry, Roman is taking a bath,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was just looking at my bath. Roman's taking

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<v Speaker 2>a little bath and his thing. He's very protected. Don't worry.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm watching him like, you know, the whole Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm being a good mom. But I'm also like, just

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<v Speaker 2>it's a moment to sit as well, absolutely while my

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<v Speaker 2>hand is still touching him, making sure that he's fine.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's usually where I pee pee right next to

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<v Speaker 2>the bathroom and I can do it. I'm like, look

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<v Speaker 2>at me, I'm liberated. But I was swaping river and

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<v Speaker 2>I put my thumb back to it because I was

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<v Speaker 2>on TikTok and I see the Montana boat Boys and

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<v Speaker 2>Alan walks in at that exact moment. He's like, why

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<v Speaker 2>are you watching that doing?

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<v Speaker 4>It's just they're like I felt caught like by like

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<v Speaker 4>like there's just these Jews and they lip sync and

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<v Speaker 4>I don't I don't know they're trying to be cowboys,

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<v Speaker 4>but I just think it's.

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<v Speaker 3>Kind of funny. This is one And I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>this is what was Kristen Cavialerre is dating? So I

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<v Speaker 3>just want to see one of them.

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<v Speaker 1>Mark, Yeah, I Mark, I couldn't tell you. I just

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<v Speaker 1>call him the hot one because I think he's the

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<v Speaker 1>hottest one. She does too obviously. Yeah, I didn't realize.

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<v Speaker 3>He was part of that.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, yes, I just knew he want a famous

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<v Speaker 1>pop culture.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't even know because it's like TikTok.

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<v Speaker 2>They just like sing. So now I've been kind of

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<v Speaker 2>deep driving on them. So they just lip sync? Do

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<v Speaker 2>they can they actually sing? Like? Is there?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think so. I don't think so.

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<v Speaker 1>But they've been interviewed by like podcasters and they're hilarious.

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<v Speaker 3>Like Hannah Burner, do you know who that is?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>She's a comedian. She podcasted them on the street of

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<v Speaker 1>New York City. Go look it up on TikTok. It

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<v Speaker 1>is hilarious.

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<v Speaker 2>They are funny, like they're not trying to be funny,

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<v Speaker 2>they're just they're trying to be serious.

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<v Speaker 1>They're bumpkins, you know, they just from the country. They

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<v Speaker 1>don't know anything. Like Hannah's like, oh, what's your your

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<v Speaker 1>zodiac side? And he was like, mmm, I think like

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<v Speaker 1>Tori or something?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, and clothes. So they're not really super funny.

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<v Speaker 1>No, No, they're just kind of dumb in the nicest

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<v Speaker 1>way possible.

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<v Speaker 2>I like you a lot, really enjoy her. Yeah, they

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<v Speaker 2>provide entertainment yeah, people, I think I think I have

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<v Speaker 2>to be the political one. You can be politically, somebody's

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<v Speaker 2>got to be. So that's I'm I'm Switzerland and more

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<v Speaker 2>than I have got the Well, it's your show, so

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<v Speaker 2>you have to be.

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<v Speaker 3>It's your rep. Not well, I think I would tell them.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd like, you guys are so hot and that's great

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<v Speaker 1>because like you're a little dumb, but I'm dumb, so

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I'm not.

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<v Speaker 3>People don't know why I am dumb as rocks.

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<v Speaker 1>No, you're just a What do you think classifies you

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<v Speaker 1>as dumb? Busy? My brain functions at the weirdest pace.

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<v Speaker 1>It's I don't know how I have a podcast truly,

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<v Speaker 1>Like when I talk, I'm like, am I making any sense?

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<v Speaker 1>Like something is going on in my head. But you're

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<v Speaker 1>so smart. Like when I was on your podcast, you

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<v Speaker 1>were saying how you she? I mean, she does it

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<v Speaker 1>all by herself. She reaches out to people, she gets

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<v Speaker 1>the ads. I'm like that takes skill and brains, taking that, making.

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<v Speaker 2>That season for myself. Yeah, I'm like, guess who's opening

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<v Speaker 2>up for partnership? Yes, Christy who so happy to see you?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Nope, exactly right. I just gotta fake it with

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<v Speaker 1>three kids. That's a lot of what I think we

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<v Speaker 1>all experience. It'll probably feels smarter in my thirties hopefully, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>because my kids will be didn't work out well for me,

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<v Speaker 1>but I hope it does for you.

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<v Speaker 3>How old are your kids?

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<v Speaker 2>Eight? The same?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Five? Brand new?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh that's brand new. We love brand new.

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<v Speaker 2>I kind of have a brand new too, So Montana

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<v Speaker 2>and then Montana boys. What else in pop culture at

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<v Speaker 2>the moment?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh? Okay, right now, I'm trying to think what I

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<v Speaker 1>last spoke on, because we love some pop culture over here.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean depending on you to keep me up to

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<v Speaker 2>date so that I feel like cool.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, okay, okay, well now I'm just like brain fart.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Here's the thing. I am obsessed with Taylor Swodon Travis

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<v Speaker 3>right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so is my daughter.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm obsessed.

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<v Speaker 1>And I had a trasher that's what I call my listeners,

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<v Speaker 1>had dinner with her what pearn Travis literally had dinner.

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<v Speaker 3>I was shook. I was shook.

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<v Speaker 1>She she couldn't really like take pictures or video it

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<v Speaker 1>because she didn't want to be that creep. That's like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm with Taylor Swift, but she did take a photo,

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<v Speaker 1>but she didn't want to post it and be that

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<v Speaker 1>girl that was like fangirling.

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<v Speaker 3>But she sent it to me and I about prapped myself.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's legitimate.

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<v Speaker 3>It's legit, like it actually happened. So all the people

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<v Speaker 3>with the.

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<v Speaker 1>Conspiracies like they're not in love, they're in love, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's real. They're gonna have babies, they're gonna get married.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm obsessed.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know that I trust any woman super in love.

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<v Speaker 2>That is also true, say that I don't trust myself

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<v Speaker 2>super you love. I said, I don't trust any woman

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<v Speaker 2>super in love. I think we rose colored glasses and

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<v Speaker 2>we see what we want to see, and it's it's

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<v Speaker 2>not a bad thing. Yeah, it's just a really sweet

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<v Speaker 2>moment of insanity where everything is is you want to

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<v Speaker 2>see it?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So what was your rose colored moment with Preston?

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<v Speaker 2>Then I think, well, there's a couple. That's why it

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<v Speaker 2>takes me a second. I think I loved that he

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<v Speaker 2>owned his own business because I came from raising a

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<v Speaker 2>husband before him, and I was the breadwinner, and it

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<v Speaker 2>was just relieving to me that he was motivated and

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<v Speaker 2>established he's in music, so that takes some grit too.

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<v Speaker 2>It also takes a tiny slice of narcissism. So I

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<v Speaker 2>would say that when the glasses popped off, that's where

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<v Speaker 2>you see artists I think have to have a little

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<v Speaker 2>to believe in themselves when other people don't. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>think it was probably that. I think he was so

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<v Speaker 2>hard in the paint for me that I maybe ignored

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<v Speaker 2>some of the riff raff that was still lingering on

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<v Speaker 2>the sides. You know. But I was also in a

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<v Speaker 2>time of transition when I met him, like with my

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<v Speaker 2>marriage and ending and all the things. So but I

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<v Speaker 2>would say, you know, I just think that I look

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<v Speaker 2>back and I'm like, it's always always there. Maybe we

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<v Speaker 2>just don't see it for what it's worth. Speaking of dating,

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<v Speaker 2>does anybody want to talk about Sophia Bush? Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>I know that pop culture I know that as well.

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<v Speaker 1>I almost talked about it, but I was like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know enough to like really deep dive this.

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<v Speaker 2>But that's tell me.

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<v Speaker 3>Tell me two Q community does not like her right now?

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<v Speaker 3>A home wrecker.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh well, guys, I don't know, can you fill me in?

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<v Speaker 2>And probably maybe somebody else that's in their forties it

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I don't even know the soccer player's name. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>Ashlyn Harris beautiful. Oh she's beautiful, stunning. I would go

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<v Speaker 1>for her stunning. It's like a Doyle Part two. No

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<v Speaker 1>soccer player.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, kind of okay, Yeah, I mean because Abby

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<v Speaker 2>and I mean Abby we Bach is a soccer player. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>They were like, I've met Abby once and I was

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<v Speaker 2>just like starstruck. I loved I loved Abby. One do

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<v Speaker 2>you are you a sot? I mean you're married to

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<v Speaker 2>a soccer player.

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<v Speaker 3>So I was like, what's really.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I wasn't, but I was. I thought she was

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<v Speaker 2>like if I was ever I think attracted to a woman,

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<v Speaker 2>it was Abby Wambach And then I'm then I saw

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<v Speaker 2>Ashlon Harris and I was like, oh wow, she's beautiful.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah no, I feel like I would go more

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<v Speaker 1>for Ashland. Yeah, I like like the tattoos and stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So Sophia Bush wrote a article in Glamour about coming

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<v Speaker 2>out a queer and now she's with Ashlton. But I

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<v Speaker 2>think where the the drama. The drama is that technically

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<v Speaker 2>Ashton was still married to Ali, who was also a

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<v Speaker 2>soccer player at the time, and I think Sophia was

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<v Speaker 2>going through her divorce at the time, potentially that that

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<v Speaker 2>piece I don't know, but that they were discussing. But

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<v Speaker 2>when you know, Ashton was still technically married and stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>So the time, they never really address it. It's kind

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<v Speaker 2>of like the elephant in the room.

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<v Speaker 1>But they don't really ya talk about it, And so

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<v Speaker 1>everyone's upset because they're like, be honest, say what really happened.

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<v Speaker 1>Because Sophia apparently like befriended them, was friends with both

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<v Speaker 1>of them, and then basically stole.

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<v Speaker 3>Ashland and was like you're mine now, and now they're together,

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<v Speaker 3>and Ashlyn and Abbie have two kids together.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's like breaking this family and it's just like

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<v Speaker 1>this whole thing, and wow.

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<v Speaker 2>I have kind of two things to it, where it's

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<v Speaker 2>two sides of it, where it's you don't know the

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<v Speaker 2>ins and outs, just like we have all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>There's so many things that I have not said publicly

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<v Speaker 2>and we'll always keep private, sure to protect my family

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<v Speaker 2>or my kids or myself whatever, you know, my friends,

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<v Speaker 2>So you just don't really know. Some things may look

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<v Speaker 2>a little gray, But I also think on the flip

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<v Speaker 2>side that too, life is a little gray. It's not

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<v Speaker 2>very great. It's not black or white. I think probably

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<v Speaker 2>more of it with you than any other friend. There's

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<v Speaker 2>so many things people still don't know. You can write

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<v Speaker 2>five more books and there's still things that are so

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<v Speaker 2>protected for you, Yeah, because you also have children. And

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<v Speaker 2>I do think it's hard sometimes because it's just so skewed.

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<v Speaker 2>We can't know. We just can't know it all, and

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<v Speaker 2>if we I don't think we should know it all.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe well, I think there's yeah, I mean I agree

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<v Speaker 2>with that. I think there's certain things that could be harmful,

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<v Speaker 2>but then also things that not everybody has this kind

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<v Speaker 2>of life and platform that has lived in the open,

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<v Speaker 2>and I think if more people had cameras and mics

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<v Speaker 2>in their faces and had that, everybody would have a

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<v Speaker 2>little point where Okay, it wasn't done to perfection or

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<v Speaker 2>it wasn't perfect. And it's unfair too, I think for

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<v Speaker 2>anybody to go into comments and be hurtful when you

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<v Speaker 2>just really don't know. And that's kind of the thing

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<v Speaker 2>where projection is one thing, but there's always a truth

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<v Speaker 2>and there's always gray. So it's just I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I kind of go, we're all humans and we might

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<v Speaker 2>make mistakes, but and even their version of reality might

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<v Speaker 2>not be reality. Like I always think there's three sides

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<v Speaker 2>to every story. For she here's mine and God saw

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<v Speaker 2>it all. But then I always go back to but

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<v Speaker 2>I just want everyone to be happy. There's a piece

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<v Speaker 2>of me too, Like in my twenties and thirties, I

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<v Speaker 2>was constantly always trying to chase who I was and

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<v Speaker 2>trying to figure it out through relationships. And so I think,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, reading the article, and I just I hope

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<v Speaker 2>she slows down. Is she's she's stopped running and is

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<v Speaker 2>like actually happy and like you know, and she can breathe,

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah she can. Yeah, Like she said that she can breathe.

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<v Speaker 2>So I think that's a great thing that we should

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<v Speaker 2>all feel one day.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I'm happy for her, but.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if I could ever. It's interesting too

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<v Speaker 2>because I was reading another book and one of the

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<v Speaker 2>main characters ended up being lesbian, and then I'm just like,

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<v Speaker 2>I just love my man and you sausages, wow, Scottish

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<v Speaker 2>especially important sausages. Importantage.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yes, they'll say group.

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<v Speaker 2>So I just agreed, but I just want to go

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<v Speaker 2>on record. But I think there's a thing too, though,

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<v Speaker 2>where you can have a connection with someone, but I've

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<v Speaker 2>just never experienced that person. That time describes Abby's encounter

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<v Speaker 2>for the very first time. I mean it's like I

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<v Speaker 2>would say, that's how my encounter with Preston was, and

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<v Speaker 2>I had never felt that way before. And that's why

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<v Speaker 2>I was so swept and irritated because I'm like, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't even like your gender, Like I don't want to.

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<v Speaker 2>Men have never been notoriously reliable for me. Like, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not interested. I'm good, it's going to be single and

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<v Speaker 2>have a big career. Yeah, And then I was annoyed

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<v Speaker 2>that I liked him, but it was like the world

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<v Speaker 2>went away and I had never felt that in my life.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, have you been with a woman?

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<v Speaker 2>No? Oh, have you ever kissed a girl? Spring break?

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<v Speaker 3>You did? Spring break?

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<v Speaker 2>Did you use tongue? No? No, no, no, it was

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<v Speaker 2>more like three way kissy.

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<v Speaker 3>What about you, Jenna? Have you ever been with never? Never?

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<v Speaker 2>No. We do talk about some stuff on wine down

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<v Speaker 2>on the Road. That is so fun though, So everyone

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<v Speaker 2>should come to see those shows. I did have a

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<v Speaker 2>uh huh, I love it. Yeah, No, it's fun.

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<v Speaker 3>But have you so I'm from Utah.

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<v Speaker 2>So are you Mormon? I always say I'm kind of Mormon.

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<v Speaker 2>He's your I Mormon. Isn't the one where he hands

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<v Speaker 2>a bunch of wives?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so that's polygamy, which is like old that's f LGS.

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<v Speaker 3>The fundamental isn't that Utah? That's it's in Utah. But

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<v Speaker 3>it's not common at all. It's also illegal, so it's not.

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<v Speaker 2>Has it always been illegal?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm pretty sure?

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<v Speaker 2>Is there a TV show? For sure?

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I always wondered. But this is But they're

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<v Speaker 1>not Mormon. They have nothing to do with FLDS. They're

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<v Speaker 1>like a totally FLDS is the fundamentalists of the Latter

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<v Speaker 1>day Saints.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, I'm sorry. And if this is so,

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<v Speaker 2>I just have to sidebar this really fast. This is disrespectful.

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<v Speaker 2>I apologize, and I'm gonna say it. Say it, go

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<v Speaker 2>for it. It's like my favorite lead office.

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<v Speaker 3>Who cares? You're going weekly rash?

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<v Speaker 2>Like The Book of Mormons is probably the funniest freaking

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<v Speaker 2>play I've ever seen my entire so I saw it

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<v Speaker 2>your thoughts as a Mormon.

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<v Speaker 1>Honestly, I didn't have any thoughts where it was like

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<v Speaker 1>I hated this or I thought it was funny.

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<v Speaker 3>I was just kind of neutral because I hate plays.

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<v Speaker 3>I hate Broadway, I hate musicals. Not my thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, my husband, who served a Mormon mission, was like,

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<v Speaker 1>this is so spot on, it's freaking hilarious.

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<v Speaker 3>He loved it.

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<v Speaker 2>He loved it, and he's like the more active members.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was like, I wonder if Mormons hate this

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<v Speaker 2>because it's literally making fun of Mormons.

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<v Speaker 3>No, Mormons do hate it.

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<v Speaker 1>They do, like, like, if you're an active member of

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<v Speaker 1>the church, you're not going.

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<v Speaker 2>To see it's like fun.

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<v Speaker 3>If you can.

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<v Speaker 1>Laugh at yourself, you can see it. But if you

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<v Speaker 1>take things way too seriously, because at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the day, like that is a very disrespecial play.

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<v Speaker 2>There are some very disc in the language.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, people who are members of the church try

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<v Speaker 1>not to use profanity. I obviously use profanity. So I

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<v Speaker 1>always say I'm kind of Mormon, like there are certain

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<v Speaker 1>things about the religion that I really appreciate and I

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<v Speaker 1>really love. And it's hard when I'm on a platform

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm not perfect and I don't want to be

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<v Speaker 1>the poster child for the community because I A don't

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<v Speaker 1>know everything. B I'm not perfect, and see, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even know if I believe in half of it. So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I don't ever want to be like, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I am a member of the church blah blah blah

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<v Speaker 1>blah blah, because I don't even know. And I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like at twenty eight years old, you're still kind of

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<v Speaker 1>figuring out your faith a little. Like I know I

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<v Speaker 1>believe in God, that for sure, but religion is where

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<v Speaker 1>I have a hard time. Are you guys religious?

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<v Speaker 2>Are Mormons are allowed to drink?

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<v Speaker 3>No, that's it. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I number not being one of the things that no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 2>that's it because I remember there was something I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>there's a lot of women's like can't.

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<v Speaker 3>There's a lot of.

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<v Speaker 1>Things, and then no, you can't have tea coffee. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean when I say can't, you can do whatever you want.

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<v Speaker 1>You have free will. It's just recommended. It's called the

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<v Speaker 1>Word of wisdom, and it's been given to us by

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<v Speaker 1>prophets that you shouldn't do this for your health.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just benefits you.

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<v Speaker 1>And there's other certain things that they used to say,

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<v Speaker 1>like you can't have double piercings, like that was something

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<v Speaker 1>where a prophet came out.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, don't do that.

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<v Speaker 1>So there's just like a new prophet. It was no,

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<v Speaker 1>it was back in what was it? Harley's very active,

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<v Speaker 1>my my assistant, my video girl. But there's just random things.

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<v Speaker 1>They kind of change rules everywhere while.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, no, I'm a Christian. You're Christian? Christian Christian?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, but I was gonna say, like Joseph an

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<v Speaker 2>amazing technical or dream coat, like we're making plays to

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<v Speaker 2>be entertaining and to have the laughability.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I also say I'm a Christian, but I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>I go to your death sex. Were you good marriage? Yeah? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>like that's just my like, I know that's not the

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<v Speaker 2>thing that Jesus said, but I also think there's you know.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you do you want to buy a car before

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<v Speaker 3>test driving it?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I'm gonna sit this one up. Did you

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<v Speaker 2>wait till marriage, ma'am? My daughter was born. I was

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<v Speaker 2>married in September. My baby was born in January. Oh

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<v Speaker 2>all right, yeah that's a healthy preemie.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, very healthy.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'll carry the one.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I just think that, like I think with anything

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<v Speaker 2>I have always like, comedy is my favorite. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 2>so like I think laughing at anything that it makes

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<v Speaker 2>them I mean I'm an adult child of been alcoholic,

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<v Speaker 2>So if I didn't laugh at things like, that's a

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<v Speaker 2>pretty sad little life for me, you know. So like listen,

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<v Speaker 2>is it comical? No, But like I've made light of

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<v Speaker 2>a lot, and like I try to make it fun

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<v Speaker 2>and relatable and that I think plays like that are

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<v Speaker 2>made for that. It's entertainment.

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely.

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<v Speaker 2>I think more people are looking up what it's like

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<v Speaker 2>to be Mormon now probably than before.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure, for sure it is hard though, because people who

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<v Speaker 1>don't know anything about it will look at this and

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<v Speaker 1>it already kind of puts a negative light on some

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<v Speaker 1>things where there is a lot of good.

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<v Speaker 3>And I think in every religion there's good and there's bad,

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<v Speaker 3>right sure, And the.

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<v Speaker 1>Book of Mormon is so crude at times the play

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<v Speaker 1>that I think people have a different idea of what

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<v Speaker 1>it is and then they google it and then they're like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh wait, this is this actually isn't the same thing

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<v Speaker 1>as the play, which you have to realize you're going

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<v Speaker 1>to play for entertainment.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not done to me, and I think in the

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<v Speaker 2>end to in the play, it's all about just believing

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<v Speaker 2>in something to have hope in your day, and that's

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<v Speaker 2>I love the message that it ended up telling for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was a big fan of Big Love on

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<v Speaker 2>HBOK fascinated. Okay, I don't think I watched it so

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<v Speaker 2>good to get me?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh it was.

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<v Speaker 1>See I watched Sister Wives. I was like a huge

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<v Speaker 1>Sister Wives fan. I loved that show because I couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>fathom it. I could never share share it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, could you even understand how I feel like that?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean you already have no you have without your

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<v Speaker 2>idea it was any women? Yeah, yeah, I just couldn't

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<v Speaker 2>understand how anybody married more than one woman would be

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<v Speaker 2>interested in him specifically, Yeah, not my guy.

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<v Speaker 3>Also, how are they affording it?

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<v Speaker 1>Like, especially in Sister Wives, each wife has like their

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<v Speaker 1>own house, Like what does he do for work?

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<v Speaker 2>I need him to be a really cool better dude

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<v Speaker 2>for like eighteen people to be married him. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>would love just a bunch of wives. But I don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to do anything with the girls.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, I can see that.

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<v Speaker 2>And they can't touch my husband. That's how we have

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<v Speaker 2>that already. Yeah, dandam Yeah, you can't touch my husband.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'd love to all be in the same little comment.

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<v Speaker 2>I think we all need a wife. Honestly, wives are

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<v Speaker 2>the best. Yeah, I would love him.

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<v Speaker 1>Anie me.

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<v Speaker 2>It's time to hear her side of the story. I

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<v Speaker 2>love the show so much. I was like, please throw

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<v Speaker 2>my name in the mix. I need to be in

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<v Speaker 2>on this.

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<v Speaker 5>We were sure she was going to be the next

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<v Speaker 5>bachelorette and then something changed.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm keeping things very very hush hush.

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<v Speaker 5>Fans of The Bachelor know exactly what we're talking about.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, have you got any pop culture you got or

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<v Speaker 2>a topic that you just I had? I had something, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>talk to me. I don't know how well this is

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<v Speaker 2>going to play out, but I have I no, no,

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<v Speaker 2>not great? Have you ever? I don't know why this

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<v Speaker 2>is so ridiculous. But have you ever said something that

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<v Speaker 2>like literally someone took the wrong way, probably and you

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<v Speaker 2>just think about it for years. Yes, Okay, you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>I have this embarrassing moment and every single time I

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<v Speaker 2>wash my face, which is a lot of times, I

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<v Speaker 2>think of this comment that I made to a woman

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<v Speaker 2>that gave me a facial once. Oh god, what you say.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just so I didn't mean it the way I

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<v Speaker 2>said it. Oh no, So she's talking about like, you know,

0:22:04.240 --> 0:22:06.840
<v Speaker 2>she gives this facial and I have pregnancy brain at

0:22:06.840 --> 0:22:09.760
<v Speaker 2>the time. We're at Little paulm Island, and I'm so excited,

0:22:09.840 --> 0:22:13.919
<v Speaker 2>right yes, and she goes, well, you know, like you

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<v Speaker 2>can't just she was like, if you're going to ever

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<v Speaker 2>do extractions on your skin, like you know, you need

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<v Speaker 2>to like lather up and warm up and like you know,

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<v Speaker 2>she's like you have to massage. And she was like,

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<v Speaker 2>you just can't go right in. And I literally said, well,

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<v Speaker 2>we're all I mean, that's kind of how we're all wired,

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<v Speaker 2>Like that's how you should treat everything, isn't that we

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<v Speaker 2>don't none of us want to go right in. And

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<v Speaker 2>I meant it like conversationally or like you would want

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<v Speaker 2>to warm up or habitly moment, and there I am

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<v Speaker 2>naked with a bump, thinking this woman is probably like

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<v Speaker 2>what is this woman? And every single time I wash

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<v Speaker 2>my face, I think about the fact that this woman

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<v Speaker 2>probably thinks I'm some dirty bird that needs to like

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<v Speaker 2>have a lot of foreplay or something before I go

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<v Speaker 2>right in. And I'm so the other day I thought,

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<v Speaker 2>when will I ever let go of that? Am I

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<v Speaker 2>going to make right? Do I need to reach.

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<v Speaker 3>Out to her?

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<v Speaker 2>Honey? That is like nothing?

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<v Speaker 3>What do you even know?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, go in your memory bank. I just feel

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<v Speaker 2>like I was like, I didn't mean it like that,

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<v Speaker 2>but I didn't even I didn't even think of it.

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<v Speaker 2>She just kind of got awkward after and then I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, well, that's weird. Why would she And then

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<v Speaker 2>later I thought that's why she thinks I'm a pervert. No,

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<v Speaker 2>she doesn't. You gotta I don't know, you gotta let

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<v Speaker 2>go of it.

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<v Speaker 3>Wash it off.

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<v Speaker 2>I will go girl, to wash your face. Okay, do

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<v Speaker 2>you have one pun intended? I mean all the time

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<v Speaker 2>I say things and I go when I say that,

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<v Speaker 2>I say things that aren't When I'm like nervous or

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what to say, because I do get

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<v Speaker 2>social anxiety.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So do you have certain phrases that you use often?

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<v Speaker 3>Like when things get awkward?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, Alan always says I go okay, okay, okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So now I'm like stop now, I'm how complex? Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I definitely have things I say. It's kind of like

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<v Speaker 2>That's why I think sometimes I even get insecure on

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<v Speaker 2>wine down because I like have these like little one

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<v Speaker 2>line things where I'm like, I don't want to seem

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<v Speaker 2>like I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Rehearsed either, saying it all the time too, right, Like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>put it on a T shirt?

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<v Speaker 2>Right? I would you should sell that merch? So what

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<v Speaker 2>as a mom of three, how do you keep things

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<v Speaker 2>alive with your husband?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Right now it's looking rough. I'm just so busy right

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<v Speaker 1>now that I almost feel bad. I was talking about

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<v Speaker 1>this with a friend, like when you have a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of things on your plate, You're like, what can I drop?

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<v Speaker 1>Like what's what's plastic, what's glass?

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<v Speaker 3>What will shatter?

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<v Speaker 1>And what can handle it? And I'm like, oh, our

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<v Speaker 1>sex life can handle being dropped right now because we're good, like.

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<v Speaker 3>We're I love each other.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I don't ask, so they say, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>God the relationship, then the kids.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah no, what for sure?

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<v Speaker 2>Right, yeah, because if y'all aren't intact and it's gonna

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<v Speaker 2>the whole absolutely dam damn is gonna can't handle the

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<v Speaker 2>intact hand motion, the intact Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>No, we we choose for one. We always do it

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<v Speaker 1>once a week. Oh that's great, it's a week always.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. But it's not like this crazy passion.

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<v Speaker 1>It like it's almost like, okay, this is we have

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<v Speaker 1>to do this so we're connected, but like I got

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<v Speaker 1>things to do, so we have like twenty minutes, let's go.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's this is interesting and I just want to

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<v Speaker 2>because I'm this audition that I'm auditioning for is almost

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<v Speaker 2>like a sex life show where she just feels in

0:25:18.160 --> 0:25:20.840
<v Speaker 2>the script, she's like, I can't even remember the last

0:25:20.880 --> 0:25:25.199
<v Speaker 2>time we actually fucked. Okay, f uc k whatever. This

0:25:25.280 --> 0:25:27.399
<v Speaker 2>is escalated quickly for me. I have sweaty hands and

0:25:27.480 --> 0:25:30.600
<v Speaker 2>so you know, and I was reading like the sides

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<v Speaker 2>with Alan and.

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<v Speaker 3>Then you fucked well no, no, no, no, nogain that no.

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<v Speaker 2>But it was an interesting conversation because I think there

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<v Speaker 2>should be balance between like making love and then also

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<v Speaker 2>having that passionate and not just like a taking because

0:25:44.280 --> 0:25:46.600
<v Speaker 2>I know women we can just be like, oh, well,

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<v Speaker 2>just you know, check off the box. I'm a very

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<v Speaker 2>sexual person, so like I have very like a good

0:25:52.400 --> 0:25:54.600
<v Speaker 2>sex life. But also you know, when you have the

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<v Speaker 2>three kids now, it is there's times and I'm like, oh, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>we need to have sex, you know, but also you

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<v Speaker 2>want it to have you want to be able to

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<v Speaker 2>have those two different types of having sex.

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly, and right now, my sex is just che I

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<v Speaker 1>need you to that's your homework report back to us.

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<v Speaker 3>I will, I will him.

0:26:15.560 --> 0:26:17.960
<v Speaker 2>But sometimes it is homework though, to have to like

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<v Speaker 2>just I want you to rely so busy well and

0:26:21.000 --> 0:26:24.040
<v Speaker 2>because you also like you guys, it's so enjoyable, it is.

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<v Speaker 3>That's the thing. It's like, once you start going, it's like,

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<v Speaker 3>oh wait.

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<v Speaker 2>I just have the best sex life. I mean, I'll

0:26:28.680 --> 0:26:30.840
<v Speaker 2>tell you that's what saved us a lot of time. Really,

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<v Speaker 2>There's zero other people I'd ever want to make out

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<v Speaker 2>with in my life. He is like, he knows, he

0:26:35.960 --> 0:26:38.639
<v Speaker 2>just knows me. It's it doesn't even make sense. And

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<v Speaker 2>so there's times where I'm like, gosh, that would really

0:26:41.440 --> 0:26:43.800
<v Speaker 2>suck if it wasn't the case, because you know, that's

0:26:43.840 --> 0:26:48.439
<v Speaker 2>where someone women wander. Yeah, and we're pretty diligent, Like,

0:26:48.600 --> 0:26:50.399
<v Speaker 2>but I like want to because I'm like, it's just

0:26:50.440 --> 0:26:51.400
<v Speaker 2>epic all the time.

0:26:51.480 --> 0:26:54.360
<v Speaker 1>Let's do that. I want you to do that. Okay, Wow,

0:26:54.600 --> 0:26:55.840
<v Speaker 1>the bar has been set.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I think again, because you're managing so much the kids,

0:27:00.040 --> 0:27:04.200
<v Speaker 2>You've got your podcasts. Like you also, you know women,

0:27:04.840 --> 0:27:07.919
<v Speaker 2>it's it feels like a chore. But when it's not

0:27:08.080 --> 0:27:11.680
<v Speaker 2>made to feel that way, it's like she said, great, yeah,

0:27:11.720 --> 0:27:14.200
<v Speaker 2>Like I also, I just think this is where I've

0:27:14.240 --> 0:27:16.560
<v Speaker 2>been before in a previous marriage, right, like it was

0:27:16.640 --> 0:27:22.440
<v Speaker 2>more checkboxy. I think there's just a level of intimacy,

0:27:22.480 --> 0:27:24.160
<v Speaker 2>Like I think it's worth Oh if I could tell

0:27:24.160 --> 0:27:25.960
<v Speaker 2>twenty eight year old me this, I would tell me this.

0:27:26.000 --> 0:27:27.320
<v Speaker 2>So I'm gonna say it to you. I want you

0:27:27.359 --> 0:27:29.200
<v Speaker 2>to like be honest with him about what you love,

0:27:29.240 --> 0:27:32.200
<v Speaker 2>what you don't like, like lots of I love you,

0:27:32.280 --> 0:27:36.200
<v Speaker 2>like good eye connections sometimes sure, meet in the laundry room, right, okay,

0:27:36.400 --> 0:27:40.000
<v Speaker 2>whatever whatever is your thing. I like it to not

0:27:40.080 --> 0:27:42.840
<v Speaker 2>be like crazy, Like we're still respectful, Like we're not

0:27:42.880 --> 0:27:47.399
<v Speaker 2>all lips and chains. That's for like the word people. No, ma'am,

0:27:47.480 --> 0:27:50.280
<v Speaker 2>you're not there yet. No, I'm more hopeless romantic than that. Okay,

0:27:50.800 --> 0:27:54.040
<v Speaker 2>but I do feel like there's been a different level

0:27:54.040 --> 0:27:55.800
<v Speaker 2>of intimacy over the last couple of years where we've

0:27:55.840 --> 0:27:57.520
<v Speaker 2>just been like, okay, but what do we want? Like

0:27:57.560 --> 0:27:59.600
<v Speaker 2>it's just I don't know, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely think out of all my friends, I'm probably

0:28:03.240 --> 0:28:06.080
<v Speaker 1>the most sexual, and so my friends are always asking

0:28:06.080 --> 0:28:08.520
<v Speaker 1>me for advice and I'm like, this is crazy because

0:28:08.520 --> 0:28:09.919
<v Speaker 1>I'm at a phase of my life where I'm actually

0:28:09.920 --> 0:28:12.360
<v Speaker 1>not very sexual right now, So can you actually give

0:28:12.400 --> 0:28:12.920
<v Speaker 1>me advice?

0:28:13.400 --> 0:28:16.640
<v Speaker 3>Because growing up, oh, I was, I was getting around.

0:28:16.440 --> 0:28:21.439
<v Speaker 1>I was I loved I loved it. I met my

0:28:21.520 --> 0:28:23.760
<v Speaker 1>husband and I was like, let's do it every day

0:28:23.800 --> 0:28:26.160
<v Speaker 1>all day. Like I was a horny little girl. And

0:28:26.200 --> 0:28:27.200
<v Speaker 1>now I'm.

0:28:27.000 --> 0:28:28.240
<v Speaker 3>Like I'm tired.

0:28:28.520 --> 0:28:32.280
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so you's a break place, yeah, a season. Yeah.

0:28:32.320 --> 0:28:34.560
<v Speaker 2>But I also do think we don't get to just

0:28:34.600 --> 0:28:37.240
<v Speaker 2>be girlfriends, Like I just want to be as girlfriends sometimes,

0:28:37.359 --> 0:28:39.280
<v Speaker 2>you know, like I just want to feel like a

0:28:39.320 --> 0:28:42.479
<v Speaker 2>girl unless roommate yu less. I have this to do

0:28:42.520 --> 0:28:44.320
<v Speaker 2>and that to do, and that's like the one area

0:28:44.360 --> 0:28:46.560
<v Speaker 2>of life fe I'm like, yeah, like soak me up

0:28:46.640 --> 0:28:47.720
<v Speaker 2>and like love on me.

0:28:48.040 --> 0:28:50.400
<v Speaker 3>You know, speaking of soaking. Do you know what soaking

0:28:50.440 --> 0:28:51.120
<v Speaker 3>is in Utah?

0:28:51.360 --> 0:28:54.920
<v Speaker 2>No, I'm nervous.

0:28:55.560 --> 0:28:57.080
<v Speaker 3>Wait, you guys don't know now what?

0:28:57.400 --> 0:29:01.160
<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, speaking of crazy Mormon coldre in Utah.

0:29:01.320 --> 0:29:03.400
<v Speaker 1>Because you don't want to have sex before marriage, like

0:29:03.480 --> 0:29:06.680
<v Speaker 1>most Christian religions, people do this thing called soaking.

0:29:06.960 --> 0:29:08.200
<v Speaker 2>I'm so nervous.

0:29:08.240 --> 0:29:11.040
<v Speaker 3>So I'm trying to explain it in a way that's appropriate.

0:29:11.040 --> 0:29:11.640
<v Speaker 3>But there's not a way.

0:29:11.640 --> 0:29:16.080
<v Speaker 1>We've already said that. So basically, they stick their genitals

0:29:16.240 --> 0:29:18.360
<v Speaker 1>in your genital but they don't move.

0:29:18.640 --> 0:29:19.440
<v Speaker 3>It soaks.

0:29:20.040 --> 0:29:25.200
<v Speaker 2>No, ma'am, Oh my god, that's still sex in general,

0:29:25.280 --> 0:29:26.640
<v Speaker 2>I said, because.

0:29:26.400 --> 0:29:28.840
<v Speaker 3>There's no friction, so it doesn't count as it doesn't.

0:29:30.200 --> 0:29:35.000
<v Speaker 3>They soak it. They soak loophole sexual.

0:29:34.640 --> 0:29:36.960
<v Speaker 2>Name, absolutely not. That's what's come on.

0:29:37.520 --> 0:29:40.360
<v Speaker 3>People do it in Utah. Soak, they soak.

0:29:40.480 --> 0:29:48.480
<v Speaker 2>I want, we'll soak it up. I do this thing

0:29:48.520 --> 0:29:51.280
<v Speaker 2>I call soaking prayer, which makes me regret everything I've

0:29:51.320 --> 0:29:53.240
<v Speaker 2>done for the last four years. It's my bathtub. I

0:29:53.320 --> 0:29:55.239
<v Speaker 2>just sit and I just like, you know, soaking up.

0:29:55.640 --> 0:29:58.640
<v Speaker 2>No more of that. Well, now you'll like, Josie, it

0:29:58.760 --> 0:30:01.760
<v Speaker 2>was amazing having you, enlightening enlightening.

0:30:02.040 --> 0:30:04.160
<v Speaker 3>I think I might go take a bath and take

0:30:04.160 --> 0:30:04.800
<v Speaker 3>a good soak.

0:30:05.800 --> 0:30:09.800
<v Speaker 2>Wow, I'm blown away. Notice that we had a sex

0:30:09.840 --> 0:30:13.440
<v Speaker 2>talk without Catherine here. Oh, Kat would just be crawling out.

0:30:13.600 --> 0:30:16.600
<v Speaker 2>Understand she would hate it all right, Well, everyone, make

0:30:16.640 --> 0:30:19.600
<v Speaker 2>sure to listen to Weekly Trash with your Girl Josie

0:30:19.640 --> 0:30:24.800
<v Speaker 2>and we love y'all, Love y'all, Bye bye,