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Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heart Radio Podcast.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so I'm very excited for this week's podcast because

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Speaker 2: we've got an in house guest. I think I need

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Speaker 2: to know when it's going to be in house because

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Speaker 2: I try to look like I care like you always

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Speaker 2: show up so like just a little borderline que right,

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Speaker 2: Well are you going to say no? No? Like so

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Speaker 2: cute and I'm always like in the gym shorts, no

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Speaker 2: makeup whatsoever. The only reason I have makeup on today

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Speaker 2: because I have an audition that I have to do

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Speaker 2: after this before the sitter leads. Well, maybe I should

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Speaker 2: pretend like I have auditionally from far away the camera,

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Speaker 2: you really can't tell anyways, but you're good there because

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 3: You're naturally beautiful. You're great.

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Speaker 2: Let's see what I could do with myself to make

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Speaker 2: we have a guest. Sorry, So Josie's here. She is

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Speaker 2: the host of the Weekly trash Pot and she's adorable.

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Speaker 2: She's so young. I just are you so young? I

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Speaker 2: just did her podcast. Oh well, that makes me feel

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Speaker 2: a lot better because I gotta tell you, is it

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Speaker 2: the baby at a biblical age? That's done it to me?

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Speaker 2: I think it's Salt Lake. She's from Salt Lake. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 2: I got that Utah the Utah Utah. Look, well, you hat,

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Speaker 2: you're just stunning.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. Can I come every week?

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Speaker 2: I mean, you really are, thank you, But I want

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Speaker 2: you to really appreciate how young and pretty you are.

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Speaker 2: I will, because I don't think I did that enough

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Speaker 2: at your age.

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Speaker 3: No, No, I have three kids, so I'm really I.

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Speaker 1: Like this.

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Speaker 3: I never look like that, and.

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Speaker 2: I always look like this.

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Speaker 1: I usually look like that, but you look gorgeous, so

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Speaker 1: I actually don't look like that, but kind of my

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Speaker 1: hair is usually greasy.

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Speaker 2: Here. I'm excited that Jose's here because her podcast is

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Speaker 2: so much fun. I mean to be called weekly Trash.

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Speaker 2: I think that's just what is your favorite trash to

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Speaker 2: talk about?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 2: I love pop culture, but what is your favorite pop

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Speaker 2: cultured topic at the moment right now?

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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, I'm kind of like fascinated with the

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Speaker 1: Montana Boys and all of the that they're doing right now.

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Speaker 2: Can I just tell you something really fast about the

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Speaker 2: Montana Boys because I'm in the bath the other day,

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Speaker 2: not in the bath, sorry, Roman is taking a bath,

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Speaker 2: and I was just looking at my bath. Roman's taking

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Speaker 2: a little bath and his thing. He's very protected. Don't worry.

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Speaker 2: I'm watching him like, you know, the whole Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm being a good mom. But I'm also like, just

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Speaker 2: it's a moment to sit as well, absolutely while my

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Speaker 2: But it's usually where I pee pee right next to

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Speaker 2: the bathroom and I can do it. I'm like, look

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Speaker 2: at me, I'm liberated. But I was swaping river and

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Speaker 2: I put my thumb back to it because I was

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Speaker 2: on TikTok and I see the Montana boat Boys and

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Speaker 2: Alan walks in at that exact moment. He's like, why

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Speaker 2: are you watching that doing?

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Speaker 4: It's just they're like I felt caught like by like

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Speaker 4: like there's just these Jews and they lip sync and

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Speaker 4: I don't I don't know they're trying to be cowboys,

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Speaker 4: but I just think it's.

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Speaker 3: Kind of funny. This is one And I was like,

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Speaker 3: this is what was Kristen Cavialerre is dating? So I

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Speaker 3: just want to see one of them.

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Speaker 1: Mark, Yeah, I Mark, I couldn't tell you. I just

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Speaker 1: call him the hot one because I think he's the

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Speaker 1: hottest one. She does too obviously. Yeah, I didn't realize.

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Speaker 3: He was part of that.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yes, I just knew he want a famous

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Speaker 1: pop culture.

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Speaker 3: I don't even know because it's like TikTok.

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Speaker 2: They just like sing. So now I've been kind of

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Speaker 2: deep driving on them. So they just lip sync? Do

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Speaker 2: they can they actually sing? Like? Is there?

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Speaker 3: I don't think so. I don't think so.

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Speaker 1: But they've been interviewed by like podcasters and they're hilarious.

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Speaker 3: Like Hannah Burner, do you know who that is?

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 1: She's a comedian. She podcasted them on the street of

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Speaker 1: New York City. Go look it up on TikTok. It

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Speaker 2: They are funny, like they're not trying to be funny,

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Speaker 2: they're just they're trying to be serious.

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Speaker 1: They're bumpkins, you know, they just from the country. They

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Speaker 1: don't know anything. Like Hannah's like, oh, what's your your

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Speaker 1: zodiac side? And he was like, mmm, I think like

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Speaker 1: Tori or something?

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, and clothes. So they're not really super funny.

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Speaker 1: No, No, they're just kind of dumb in the nicest

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Speaker 2: I like you a lot, really enjoy her. Yeah, they

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Speaker 2: provide entertainment yeah, people, I think I think I have

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Speaker 2: to be the political one. You can be politically, somebody's

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Speaker 2: got to be. So that's I'm I'm Switzerland and more

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Speaker 2: than I have got the Well, it's your show, so

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Speaker 2: you have to be.

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Speaker 3: It's your rep. Not well, I think I would tell them.

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Speaker 1: I'd like, you guys are so hot and that's great

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Speaker 1: because like you're a little dumb, but I'm dumb, so

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Speaker 1: I feel like I'm not.

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Speaker 3: People don't know why I am dumb as rocks.

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Speaker 1: No, you're just a What do you think classifies you

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Speaker 1: as dumb? Busy? My brain functions at the weirdest pace.

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Speaker 1: It's I don't know how I have a podcast truly,

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Speaker 1: Like when I talk, I'm like, am I making any sense?

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Speaker 1: Like something is going on in my head. But you're

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Speaker 1: so smart. Like when I was on your podcast, you

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Speaker 1: were saying how you she? I mean, she does it

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Speaker 1: all by herself. She reaches out to people, she gets

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Speaker 1: the ads. I'm like that takes skill and brains, taking that, making.

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Speaker 2: That season for myself. Yeah, I'm like, guess who's opening

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Speaker 2: up for partnership? Yes, Christy who so happy to see you?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Nope, exactly right. I just gotta fake it with

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Speaker 1: three kids. That's a lot of what I think we

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Speaker 1: all experience. It'll probably feels smarter in my thirties hopefully, wow,

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Speaker 1: because my kids will be didn't work out well for me,

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Speaker 1: but I hope it does for you.

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Speaker 3: How old are your kids?

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Speaker 2: Eight? The same?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Five? Brand new?

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Speaker 3: Oh that's brand new. We love brand new.

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Speaker 2: I kind of have a brand new too, So Montana

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Speaker 2: and then Montana boys. What else in pop culture at

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Speaker 1: Oh? Okay, right now, I'm trying to think what I

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Speaker 2: I mean depending on you to keep me up to

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, okay, well now I'm just like brain fart.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 3: Here's the thing. I am obsessed with Taylor Swodon Travis

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Speaker 3: right now.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so is my daughter.

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Speaker 3: I'm obsessed.

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Speaker 1: And I had a trasher that's what I call my listeners,

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Speaker 1: had dinner with her what pearn Travis literally had dinner.

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Speaker 3: I was shook. I was shook.

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Speaker 1: She she couldn't really like take pictures or video it

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Speaker 1: because she didn't want to be that creep. That's like

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Speaker 1: I'm with Taylor Swift, but she did take a photo,

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Speaker 3: But she sent it to me and I about prapped myself.

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Speaker 2: So it's legitimate.

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Speaker 3: It's legit, like it actually happened. So all the people

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Speaker 1: Conspiracies like they're not in love, they're in love, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm obsessed.

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Speaker 2: I don't know that I trust any woman super in love.

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Speaker 2: That is also true, say that I don't trust myself

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Speaker 2: super you love. I said, I don't trust any woman

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Speaker 2: not a bad thing. Yeah, it's just a really sweet

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Speaker 2: moment of insanity where everything is is you want to

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So what was your rose colored moment with Preston?

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Speaker 2: Then I think, well, there's a couple. That's why it

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Speaker 2: It also takes a tiny slice of narcissism. So I

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Speaker 2: to believe in themselves when other people don't. Yeah, I

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Speaker 2: just don't see it for what it's worth. Speaking of dating,

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Speaker 2: does anybody want to talk about Sophia Bush? Oh?

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Speaker 3: I know that pop culture I know that as well.

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Speaker 1: I almost talked about it, but I was like, I

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Speaker 2: But that's tell me.

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Speaker 3: Tell me two Q community does not like her right now?

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Speaker 3: A home wrecker.

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Speaker 2: Oh well, guys, I don't know, can you fill me in?

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Speaker 2: And probably maybe somebody else that's in their forties it

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Speaker 1: Well, I don't even know the soccer player's name. Oh,

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Speaker 1: Ashlyn Harris beautiful. Oh she's beautiful, stunning. I would go

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Speaker 2: and I mean Abby we Bach is a soccer player. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: They were like, I've met Abby once and I was

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Speaker 2: just like starstruck. I loved I loved Abby. One do

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Speaker 2: you are you a sot? I mean you're married to

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Speaker 2: a soccer player.

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Speaker 3: So I was like, what's really.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I wasn't, but I was. I thought she was

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Speaker 2: like if I was ever I think attracted to a woman,

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Speaker 2: it was Abby Wambach And then I'm then I saw

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Speaker 2: Ashlon Harris and I was like, oh wow, she's beautiful.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah no, I feel like I would go more

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Speaker 1: for Ashland. Yeah, I like like the tattoos and stuff.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So Sophia Bush wrote a article in Glamour about coming

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Speaker 2: out a queer and now she's with Ashlton. But I

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Speaker 2: think where the the drama. The drama is that technically

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Speaker 2: Ashton was still married to Ali, who was also a

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Speaker 2: going through her divorce at the time, potentially that that

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Speaker 2: when you know, Ashton was still technically married and stuff.

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Speaker 2: So the time, they never really address it. It's kind

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Speaker 2: Is there a TV show? For sure?

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Speaker 3: Who cares? You're going weekly rash?

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Speaker 1: Honestly, I didn't have any thoughts where it was like

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Speaker 3: Absolutely.

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Speaker 1: Sure, for sure it is hard though, because people who

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Speaker 3: And I think in every religion there's good and there's bad,

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Speaker 2: It's not done to me, and I think in the

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Speaker 2: Yeah, could you even understand how I feel like that?

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Speaker 2: idea it was any women? Yeah, yeah, I just couldn't

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00:19:38,240 --> 00:19:40,760
Speaker 2: understand how anybody married more than one woman would be

440
00:19:40,760 --> 00:19:43,360
Speaker 2: interested in him specifically, Yeah, not my guy.

441
00:19:43,480 --> 00:19:45,080
Speaker 3: Also, how are they affording it?

442
00:19:45,440 --> 00:19:48,600
Speaker 1: Like, especially in Sister Wives, each wife has like their

443
00:19:48,640 --> 00:19:50,600
Speaker 1: own house, Like what does he do for work?

444
00:19:51,040 --> 00:19:54,520
Speaker 2: I need him to be a really cool better dude

445
00:19:54,720 --> 00:19:57,560
Speaker 2: for like eighteen people to be married him. Yeah, I

446
00:19:57,600 --> 00:20:00,400
Speaker 2: would love just a bunch of wives. But I don't

447
00:20:00,400 --> 00:20:01,760
Speaker 2: want to do anything with the girls.

448
00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:03,080
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I can see that.

449
00:20:03,160 --> 00:20:05,240
Speaker 2: And they can't touch my husband. That's how we have

450
00:20:05,280 --> 00:20:08,919
Speaker 2: that already. Yeah, dandam Yeah, you can't touch my husband.

451
00:20:09,200 --> 00:20:11,480
Speaker 2: But I'd love to all be in the same little comment.

452
00:20:11,520 --> 00:20:13,840
Speaker 2: I think we all need a wife. Honestly, wives are

453
00:20:13,880 --> 00:20:15,359
Speaker 2: the best. Yeah, I would love him.

454
00:20:15,359 --> 00:20:15,679
Speaker 1: Anie me.

455
00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:29,479
Speaker 2: It's time to hear her side of the story. I

456
00:20:29,520 --> 00:20:31,920
Speaker 2: love the show so much. I was like, please throw

457
00:20:32,000 --> 00:20:33,639
Speaker 2: my name in the mix. I need to be in

458
00:20:33,680 --> 00:20:34,000
Speaker 2: on this.

459
00:20:34,320 --> 00:20:36,440
Speaker 5: We were sure she was going to be the next

460
00:20:36,480 --> 00:20:39,680
Speaker 5: bachelorette and then something changed.

461
00:20:39,960 --> 00:20:41,880
Speaker 2: I'm keeping things very very hush hush.

462
00:20:42,080 --> 00:20:45,159
Speaker 5: Fans of The Bachelor know exactly what we're talking about.

463
00:20:45,680 --> 00:20:49,439
Speaker 5: Joe and Serena sit down for an intimate conversation with

464
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Speaker 5: Maria Georgis on Bachelor Happy Hour.

465
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Speaker 2: I have to ask.

466
00:20:53,680 --> 00:20:57,280
Speaker 1: I heard a rumor that you were dating at one

467
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Speaker 1: point one of Drake's best friends.

468
00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:01,320
Speaker 2: Oh, we have more, Sammy.

469
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470
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473
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Speaker 2: Hey, have you got any pop culture you got or

474
00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:27,480
Speaker 2: a topic that you just I had? I had something, Okay,

475
00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:29,000
Speaker 2: talk to me. I don't know how well this is

476
00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:32,760
Speaker 2: going to play out, but I have I no, no,

477
00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:36,119
Speaker 2: not great? Have you ever? I don't know why this

478
00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:39,679
Speaker 2: is so ridiculous. But have you ever said something that

479
00:21:39,800 --> 00:21:43,399
Speaker 2: like literally someone took the wrong way, probably and you

480
00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:48,080
Speaker 2: just think about it for years. Yes, Okay, you guys.

481
00:21:48,119 --> 00:21:50,840
Speaker 2: I have this embarrassing moment and every single time I

482
00:21:50,960 --> 00:21:54,000
Speaker 2: wash my face, which is a lot of times, I

483
00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:55,840
Speaker 2: think of this comment that I made to a woman

484
00:21:55,880 --> 00:21:57,880
Speaker 2: that gave me a facial once. Oh god, what you say.

485
00:21:58,800 --> 00:22:00,560
Speaker 2: It's just so I didn't mean it the way I

486
00:22:00,560 --> 00:22:04,159
Speaker 2: said it. Oh no, So she's talking about like, you know,

487
00:22:04,240 --> 00:22:06,840
Speaker 2: she gives this facial and I have pregnancy brain at

488
00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:09,760
Speaker 2: the time. We're at Little paulm Island, and I'm so excited,

489
00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:13,919
Speaker 2: right yes, and she goes, well, you know, like you

490
00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:16,000
Speaker 2: can't just she was like, if you're going to ever

491
00:22:16,040 --> 00:22:18,480
Speaker 2: do extractions on your skin, like you know, you need

492
00:22:18,520 --> 00:22:21,159
Speaker 2: to like lather up and warm up and like you know,

493
00:22:21,240 --> 00:22:23,199
Speaker 2: she's like you have to massage. And she was like,

494
00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:25,560
Speaker 2: you just can't go right in. And I literally said, well,

495
00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:27,719
Speaker 2: we're all I mean, that's kind of how we're all wired,

496
00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:29,720
Speaker 2: Like that's how you should treat everything, isn't that we

497
00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:32,080
Speaker 2: don't none of us want to go right in. And

498
00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:34,919
Speaker 2: I meant it like conversationally or like you would want

499
00:22:34,960 --> 00:22:38,040
Speaker 2: to warm up or habitly moment, and there I am

500
00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:41,040
Speaker 2: naked with a bump, thinking this woman is probably like

501
00:22:41,119 --> 00:22:43,639
Speaker 2: what is this woman? And every single time I wash

502
00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:45,640
Speaker 2: my face, I think about the fact that this woman

503
00:22:45,640 --> 00:22:47,600
Speaker 2: probably thinks I'm some dirty bird that needs to like

504
00:22:47,640 --> 00:22:49,840
Speaker 2: have a lot of foreplay or something before I go

505
00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:52,560
Speaker 2: right in. And I'm so the other day I thought,

506
00:22:52,920 --> 00:22:54,399
Speaker 2: when will I ever let go of that? Am I

507
00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:55,840
Speaker 2: going to make right? Do I need to reach.

508
00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:56,200
Speaker 3: Out to her?

509
00:22:56,600 --> 00:22:58,320
Speaker 2: Honey? That is like nothing?

510
00:22:58,840 --> 00:22:59,879
Speaker 3: What do you even know?

511
00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:03,800
Speaker 2: I mean, go in your memory bank. I just feel

512
00:23:03,800 --> 00:23:05,040
Speaker 2: like I was like, I didn't mean it like that,

513
00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:06,800
Speaker 2: but I didn't even I didn't even think of it.

514
00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:08,800
Speaker 2: She just kind of got awkward after and then I

515
00:23:08,800 --> 00:23:10,119
Speaker 2: was like, well, that's weird. Why would she And then

516
00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:14,040
Speaker 2: later I thought that's why she thinks I'm a pervert. No,

517
00:23:14,520 --> 00:23:16,720
Speaker 2: she doesn't. You gotta I don't know, you gotta let

518
00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:17,119
Speaker 2: go of it.

519
00:23:17,680 --> 00:23:18,280
Speaker 3: Wash it off.

520
00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:20,800
Speaker 2: I will go girl, to wash your face. Okay, do

521
00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:23,160
Speaker 2: you have one pun intended? I mean all the time

522
00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:25,160
Speaker 2: I say things and I go when I say that,

523
00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:28,199
Speaker 2: I say things that aren't When I'm like nervous or

524
00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:30,200
Speaker 2: I don't know what to say, because I do get

525
00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:30,960
Speaker 2: social anxiety.

526
00:23:31,640 --> 00:23:34,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, So do you have certain phrases that you use often?

527
00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:35,320
Speaker 3: Like when things get awkward?

528
00:23:35,920 --> 00:23:42,040
Speaker 2: Well, Alan always says I go okay, okay, okay, okay.

529
00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:46,920
Speaker 2: So now I'm like stop now, I'm how complex? Okay.

530
00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:49,800
Speaker 2: I definitely have things I say. It's kind of like

531
00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:52,879
Speaker 2: That's why I think sometimes I even get insecure on

532
00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:54,679
Speaker 2: wine down because I like have these like little one

533
00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:56,520
Speaker 2: line things where I'm like, I don't want to seem

534
00:23:56,520 --> 00:23:56,960
Speaker 2: like I'm.

535
00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:59,440
Speaker 1: Rehearsed either, saying it all the time too, right, Like, oh,

536
00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:00,639
Speaker 1: put it on a T shirt?

537
00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:04,040
Speaker 2: Right? I would you should sell that merch? So what

538
00:24:04,280 --> 00:24:06,800
Speaker 2: as a mom of three, how do you keep things

539
00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:08,040
Speaker 2: alive with your husband?

540
00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:08,960
Speaker 3: Oh?

541
00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:13,560
Speaker 1: Right now it's looking rough. I'm just so busy right

542
00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:16,520
Speaker 1: now that I almost feel bad. I was talking about

543
00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:18,119
Speaker 1: this with a friend, like when you have a lot

544
00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:20,240
Speaker 1: of things on your plate, You're like, what can I drop?

545
00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:22,679
Speaker 1: Like what's what's plastic, what's glass?

546
00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:23,359
Speaker 3: What will shatter?

547
00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:25,800
Speaker 1: And what can handle it? And I'm like, oh, our

548
00:24:25,840 --> 00:24:28,880
Speaker 1: sex life can handle being dropped right now because we're good, like.

549
00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:30,200
Speaker 3: We're I love each other.

550
00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:35,520
Speaker 2: You know, I don't ask, so they say, you know,

551
00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:38,000
Speaker 2: God the relationship, then the kids.

552
00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:39,400
Speaker 3: Yeah no, what for sure?

553
00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:45,160
Speaker 2: Right, yeah, because if y'all aren't intact and it's gonna

554
00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:48,320
Speaker 2: the whole absolutely dam damn is gonna can't handle the

555
00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:52,520
Speaker 2: intact hand motion, the intact Yeah.

556
00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:54,639
Speaker 1: No, we we choose for one. We always do it

557
00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:56,760
Speaker 1: once a week. Oh that's great, it's a week always.

558
00:24:57,080 --> 00:24:59,960
Speaker 3: Yeah. But it's not like this crazy passion.

559
00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:02,600
Speaker 1: It like it's almost like, okay, this is we have

560
00:25:02,640 --> 00:25:05,320
Speaker 1: to do this so we're connected, but like I got

561
00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:08,480
Speaker 1: things to do, so we have like twenty minutes, let's go.

562
00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:11,320
Speaker 2: So that's this is interesting and I just want to

563
00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:14,479
Speaker 2: because I'm this audition that I'm auditioning for is almost

564
00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:18,119
Speaker 2: like a sex life show where she just feels in

565
00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:20,840
Speaker 2: the script, she's like, I can't even remember the last

566
00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:25,199
Speaker 2: time we actually fucked. Okay, f uc k whatever. This

567
00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:27,399
Speaker 2: is escalated quickly for me. I have sweaty hands and

568
00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:30,600
Speaker 2: so you know, and I was reading like the sides

569
00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:33,320
Speaker 2: with Alan and.

570
00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:36,680
Speaker 3: Then you fucked well no, no, no, no, nogain that no.

571
00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:39,199
Speaker 2: But it was an interesting conversation because I think there

572
00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:41,600
Speaker 2: should be balance between like making love and then also

573
00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:44,280
Speaker 2: having that passionate and not just like a taking because

574
00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:46,600
Speaker 2: I know women we can just be like, oh, well,

575
00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:50,000
Speaker 2: just you know, check off the box. I'm a very

576
00:25:50,040 --> 00:25:52,400
Speaker 2: sexual person, so like I have very like a good

577
00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:54,600
Speaker 2: sex life. But also you know, when you have the

578
00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:57,160
Speaker 2: three kids now, it is there's times and I'm like, oh, okay,

579
00:25:57,200 --> 00:26:00,439
Speaker 2: we need to have sex, you know, but also you

580
00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:02,800
Speaker 2: want it to have you want to be able to

581
00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:06,760
Speaker 2: have those two different types of having sex.

582
00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:10,280
Speaker 1: Exactly, and right now, my sex is just che I

583
00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:12,840
Speaker 1: need you to that's your homework report back to us.

584
00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:15,520
Speaker 3: I will, I will him.

585
00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:17,960
Speaker 2: But sometimes it is homework though, to have to like

586
00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:20,879
Speaker 2: just I want you to rely so busy well and

587
00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:24,040
Speaker 2: because you also like you guys, it's so enjoyable, it is.

588
00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:26,199
Speaker 3: That's the thing. It's like, once you start going, it's like,

589
00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:26,840
Speaker 3: oh wait.

590
00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:28,680
Speaker 2: I just have the best sex life. I mean, I'll

591
00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:30,840
Speaker 2: tell you that's what saved us a lot of time. Really,

592
00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:32,720
Speaker 2: There's zero other people I'd ever want to make out

593
00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:35,880
Speaker 2: with in my life. He is like, he knows, he

594
00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:38,639
Speaker 2: just knows me. It's it doesn't even make sense. And

595
00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:41,400
Speaker 2: so there's times where I'm like, gosh, that would really

596
00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:43,800
Speaker 2: suck if it wasn't the case, because you know, that's

597
00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:48,439
Speaker 2: where someone women wander. Yeah, and we're pretty diligent, Like,

598
00:26:48,600 --> 00:26:50,399
Speaker 2: but I like want to because I'm like, it's just

599
00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:51,400
Speaker 2: epic all the time.

600
00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:54,360
Speaker 1: Let's do that. I want you to do that. Okay, Wow,

601
00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:55,840
Speaker 1: the bar has been set.

602
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:59,760
Speaker 2: Well, I think again, because you're managing so much the kids,

603
00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:04,200
Speaker 2: You've got your podcasts. Like you also, you know women,

604
00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:07,919
Speaker 2: it's it feels like a chore. But when it's not

605
00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:11,680
Speaker 2: made to feel that way, it's like she said, great, yeah,

606
00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:14,200
Speaker 2: Like I also, I just think this is where I've

607
00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:16,560
Speaker 2: been before in a previous marriage, right, like it was

608
00:27:16,640 --> 00:27:22,440
Speaker 2: more checkboxy. I think there's just a level of intimacy,

609
00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:24,160
Speaker 2: Like I think it's worth Oh if I could tell

610
00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:25,960
Speaker 2: twenty eight year old me this, I would tell me this.

611
00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:27,320
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna say it to you. I want you

612
00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:29,200
Speaker 2: to like be honest with him about what you love,

613
00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:32,200
Speaker 2: what you don't like, like lots of I love you,

614
00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:36,200
Speaker 2: like good eye connections sometimes sure, meet in the laundry room, right, okay,

615
00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:40,000
Speaker 2: whatever whatever is your thing. I like it to not

616
00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:42,840
Speaker 2: be like crazy, Like we're still respectful, Like we're not

617
00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:47,399
Speaker 2: all lips and chains. That's for like the word people. No, ma'am,

618
00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:50,280
Speaker 2: you're not there yet. No, I'm more hopeless romantic than that. Okay,

619
00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:54,040
Speaker 2: but I do feel like there's been a different level

620
00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 2: of intimacy over the last couple of years where we've

621
00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:57,520
Speaker 2: just been like, okay, but what do we want? Like

622
00:27:57,560 --> 00:27:59,600
Speaker 2: it's just I don't know, you know.

623
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:03,200
Speaker 1: I definitely think out of all my friends, I'm probably

624
00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:06,080
Speaker 1: the most sexual, and so my friends are always asking

625
00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 1: me for advice and I'm like, this is crazy because

626
00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:09,919
Speaker 1: I'm at a phase of my life where I'm actually

627
00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:12,360
Speaker 1: not very sexual right now, So can you actually give

628
00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:12,920
Speaker 1: me advice?

629
00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:16,640
Speaker 3: Because growing up, oh, I was, I was getting around.

630
00:28:16,440 --> 00:28:21,439
Speaker 1: I was I loved I loved it. I met my

631
00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 1: husband and I was like, let's do it every day

632
00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:26,160
Speaker 1: all day. Like I was a horny little girl. And

633
00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:27,200
Speaker 1: now I'm.

634
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:28,240
Speaker 3: Like I'm tired.

635
00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:32,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, so you's a break place, yeah, a season. Yeah.

636
00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:34,560
Speaker 2: But I also do think we don't get to just

637
00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:37,240
Speaker 2: be girlfriends, Like I just want to be as girlfriends sometimes,

638
00:28:37,359 --> 00:28:39,280
Speaker 2: you know, like I just want to feel like a

639
00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:42,479
Speaker 2: girl unless roommate yu less. I have this to do

640
00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:44,320
Speaker 2: and that to do, and that's like the one area

641
00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:46,560
Speaker 2: of life fe I'm like, yeah, like soak me up

642
00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:47,720
Speaker 2: and like love on me.

643
00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:50,400
Speaker 3: You know, speaking of soaking. Do you know what soaking

644
00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:51,120
Speaker 3: is in Utah?

645
00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:54,920
Speaker 2: No, I'm nervous.

646
00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:57,080
Speaker 3: Wait, you guys don't know now what?

647
00:28:57,400 --> 00:29:01,160
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, speaking of crazy Mormon coldre in Utah.

648
00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:03,400
Speaker 1: Because you don't want to have sex before marriage, like

649
00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:06,680
Speaker 1: most Christian religions, people do this thing called soaking.

650
00:29:06,960 --> 00:29:08,200
Speaker 2: I'm so nervous.

651
00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:11,040
Speaker 3: So I'm trying to explain it in a way that's appropriate.

652
00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:11,640
Speaker 3: But there's not a way.

653
00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:16,080
Speaker 1: We've already said that. So basically, they stick their genitals

654
00:29:16,240 --> 00:29:18,360
Speaker 1: in your genital but they don't move.

655
00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:19,440
Speaker 3: It soaks.

656
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Speaker 2: No, ma'am, Oh my god, that's still sex in general,

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Speaker 2: I said, because.

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Speaker 3: There's no friction, so it doesn't count as it doesn't.

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Speaker 3: They soak it. They soak loophole sexual.

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Speaker 2: Name, absolutely not. That's what's come on.

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Speaker 3: People do it in Utah. Soak, they soak.

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Speaker 2: I want, we'll soak it up. I do this thing

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Speaker 2: I call soaking prayer, which makes me regret everything I've

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Speaker 2: done for the last four years. It's my bathtub. I

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Speaker 2: just sit and I just like, you know, soaking up.

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Speaker 2: No more of that. Well, now you'll like, Josie, it

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Speaker 2: was amazing having you, enlightening enlightening.

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Speaker 3: I think I might go take a bath and take

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Speaker 3: a good soak.

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Speaker 2: Wow, I'm blown away. Notice that we had a sex

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Speaker 2: talk without Catherine here. Oh, Kat would just be crawling out.

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Speaker 2: Understand she would hate it all right, Well, everyone, make

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Speaker 2: sure to listen to Weekly Trash with your Girl Josie

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Speaker 2: and we love y'all, Love y'all, Bye bye,