1 00:00:01,720 --> 00:00:09,479 Speaker 1: You're listening to I Choose Me with Jenny Garth. Hi there, 2 00:00:09,640 --> 00:00:14,640 Speaker 1: welcome to not an episode of I Choose Me. There's 3 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:16,360 Speaker 1: not going to be an episode this week because it's 4 00:00:16,400 --> 00:00:19,880 Speaker 1: fourth of July. Happy fourth of July everyone. There won't 5 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:22,799 Speaker 1: be a new pod this week, just this little me 6 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:25,600 Speaker 1: talking to you part. We will be back next week 7 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:28,760 Speaker 1: for sure. But I'm very excited because this week, my 8 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:32,879 Speaker 1: daughter Luca, who lives in New York City, she's coming home. 9 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:36,080 Speaker 1: It's been too long. I haven't seen her in a 10 00:00:36,080 --> 00:00:39,680 Speaker 1: couple of months, and it's her birthday, and we have 11 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:44,559 Speaker 1: a weekend full of celebrating her and just all being together. 12 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:48,120 Speaker 1: And I could not be happier about that. And then 13 00:00:48,320 --> 00:00:50,360 Speaker 1: that is going to roll right into our Fourth of 14 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:53,320 Speaker 1: July festivities. I have no idea what that is going 15 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:55,160 Speaker 1: to be yet. I don't know what we're doing, but 16 00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:57,440 Speaker 1: I'm sure it'll be fun, because, like I said, we're 17 00:00:57,480 --> 00:01:00,440 Speaker 1: going to be together. Speaking of all being together, I 18 00:01:00,520 --> 00:01:04,120 Speaker 1: want to share with you guys something really quickly the 19 00:01:04,120 --> 00:01:07,160 Speaker 1: good that has come from this pod. This is just 20 00:01:07,200 --> 00:01:09,759 Speaker 1: one of the things. Actually, there's been so many things, 21 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:15,640 Speaker 1: but specifically the episode with my ex Peter. Guys, we 22 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:20,640 Speaker 1: are officially friends now. Yeah, uh huh. He even unblocked 23 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:24,800 Speaker 1: me from Instagram. I've been blocked on his socials for 24 00:01:24,840 --> 00:01:30,479 Speaker 1: so long that I stop caring years ago. But I'm 25 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:35,039 Speaker 1: unblocked now, you guys. That's that's big news. And not 26 00:01:35,200 --> 00:01:38,480 Speaker 1: just that he let me borrow his cooler for a 27 00:01:38,520 --> 00:01:40,080 Speaker 1: shoot that I had this past weekend. 28 00:01:40,280 --> 00:01:40,920 Speaker 2: Mm hmmmm. 29 00:01:41,240 --> 00:01:43,880 Speaker 1: He let me use his guest room for some fittings 30 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:46,040 Speaker 1: that we had to do with some people. 31 00:01:46,600 --> 00:01:47,520 Speaker 2: Okay, get this. 32 00:01:47,680 --> 00:01:55,040 Speaker 1: He invited me to his son Jack's christening and this week, 33 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 1: get ready for it. We are all gonna be going 34 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:03,040 Speaker 1: on a boat together with the whole family. Whether we 35 00:02:03,080 --> 00:02:05,440 Speaker 1: push one another overboard, yeah. 36 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 2: That's still tbd. But this is the power of the pod, people, 37 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 2: potp power of the pod, not to be confused with 38 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:21,360 Speaker 2: Ppa d if you know, you know. So, Yeah, a 39 00:02:21,520 --> 00:02:25,519 Speaker 2: very good week is ahead of me, indeed, and I 40 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:30,440 Speaker 2: hope that you choose to have a fulfilling, adventurous and 41 00:02:30,600 --> 00:02:32,880 Speaker 2: fun week ahead too. I like to. 42 00:02:32,840 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 1: Remember how incredibly lucky I am during this Fourth of 43 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:41,400 Speaker 1: July holiday, So lucky to have the choices. 44 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:41,799 Speaker 2: That we do have. 45 00:02:42,360 --> 00:02:46,840 Speaker 1: I mean, man, that's fortune right there. I encourage you 46 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:50,320 Speaker 1: guys to take some beats over this next week and 47 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 1: check in with yourself amidst it all, do some I 48 00:02:53,960 --> 00:02:58,120 Speaker 1: choose me, And remember it doesn't have to be big moments. 49 00:02:58,160 --> 00:03:00,799 Speaker 1: It doesn't have to be big important things every time 50 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:03,359 Speaker 1: you choose yourself. It can be little things. Like just 51 00:03:03,480 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 1: last night, I had at least two I choose me moments. 52 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:11,720 Speaker 1: I said no thank you to an eight thirty pm 53 00:03:11,800 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 1: work call. I knew that that could wait until today, 54 00:03:15,840 --> 00:03:18,840 Speaker 1: which it did. And I also said no thank you 55 00:03:18,880 --> 00:03:21,920 Speaker 1: to the dishes. I just went to bed with a 56 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:24,880 Speaker 1: sink full of dirty dishes. I told myself that they 57 00:03:24,919 --> 00:03:27,800 Speaker 1: could wait, but that I needed to go get some 58 00:03:27,919 --> 00:03:30,040 Speaker 1: rest after I'd had a really long day and I 59 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:33,639 Speaker 1: needed to get myself ready for another jam and day today. 60 00:03:33,840 --> 00:03:36,040 Speaker 1: So guess what, the dirty dishes were fine with it. 61 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:39,480 Speaker 1: And the best thing that happened, someone either Dave or 62 00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 1: Lola saw them in the sink and chose to clean 63 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:46,840 Speaker 1: it up from me. I didn't even have to ask, 64 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:48,960 Speaker 1: So I think I might be onto something there. Just 65 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 1: leave the dirty dishes and see who chooses to do them. 66 00:03:54,480 --> 00:03:57,200 Speaker 1: So see there, it can just be the little choices 67 00:03:57,280 --> 00:04:01,400 Speaker 1: that we make that prioritize ourselves and put ourselves first, 68 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 1: and you never know what good will come from it. 69 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:07,320 Speaker 1: But when it happens, I want you to clock it. 70 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:09,520 Speaker 1: Say to yourself, Hey. 71 00:04:09,840 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 2: Look at that. 72 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:14,480 Speaker 1: I chose myself Right there, I'm having an I Choose 73 00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:17,920 Speaker 1: Me moment. You're gonna feel so good. And you know 74 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:19,160 Speaker 1: what else I want you to do. I want you 75 00:04:19,279 --> 00:04:22,320 Speaker 1: to take a pic or put up a video, share 76 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:25,560 Speaker 1: your I Choose me moments so that it inspires other 77 00:04:25,600 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 1: people to have them and it inspires me. And let's 78 00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:31,520 Speaker 1: use the hashtag I Choose me so we can all 79 00:04:31,520 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 1: share our progress and our triumphs with each other. I 80 00:04:35,040 --> 00:04:38,520 Speaker 1: love seeing you happy. It makes me happy. Be sure 81 00:04:38,520 --> 00:04:40,680 Speaker 1: to get caught up on all the episodes that you 82 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:44,080 Speaker 1: may have missed, and rest assured we will have some 83 00:04:44,160 --> 00:04:47,919 Speaker 1: really great conversations coming your way that I know you 84 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:52,120 Speaker 1: are going to love. So stay safe out there. I 85 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:56,240 Speaker 1: love you. Happy Independence Day. I will be right here 86 00:04:56,279 --> 00:04:58,920 Speaker 1: next week. I hope you choose to be here too. 87 00:04:59,320 --> 00:05:00,960 Speaker 1: Wow