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Speaker 2: Scandalous, very scandalous.

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Speaker 1: I Male twenty five had a small get together with

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Speaker 2: This is this is a party. This is a booby party.

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Speaker 1: This is yeah, this is a big booby everywhere. So

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Speaker 3: And I'm not some.

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Speaker 1: Fourty year old boy who loses his mind when he

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Speaker 4: That's right, you know, we're just we're just fourteen year

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Speaker 1: Yeah boo boy, boo boys, yeah boo boy. A few

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Speaker 1: And I said, I guess, so sorry, I didn't mean

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Speaker 1: Steve did too, but only one of the girls put

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Speaker 2: It, but yeah, a little bit okay, yeah, and.

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Speaker 3: They're like it went like people will getting a little frisky.

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Speaker 1: So I understand our protagonists misreading the situation, but I'd

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Speaker 3: I think it's an escalation. I actually don't think there's any.

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Speaker 1: Case where a gaggle of nipples equals a wang, I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I was about to say. Is the

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Speaker 1: Yeah right, If someone gives a bottom, then you can off. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that makes sense.

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Speaker 1: It was quiet for a few minutes until normal conversation

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Speaker 3: And things seemed to go back to normal.

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Speaker 3: And I get a text from Allie.

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Speaker 1: She says she thinks it was really inappropriate to take

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Speaker 1: I told her again that I didn't mean to make

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Speaker 3: He did that of his.

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Speaker 2: Own position, Steve, take your way out now.

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Speaker 1: She responded that it was inappropriate because they were taking

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Speaker 1: Yeah, plus two guys surrounded by topless girls were bound

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Speaker 1: I told her that that was unreasonable and sexist, but

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Speaker 1: But she's still upset, and my other friends that were

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and says like you're being sexisting.

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Speaker 2: He's not a massive a hole.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, I actually don't think that taking off of

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I think it's all like reading a room, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: And then there's Steve.

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Speaker 3: And then there's.

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Speaker 2: Steve just hanging out, hanging out. He's just falling the crowd.

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Speaker 2: That Steve. I wonder if he's Steve from the other story.

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Speaker 2: Came to high five Steve, shout out to you if

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Speaker 3: There's actually an update.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I've been doing my best keep on top of

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Speaker 1: the comments and genuinely listening to all of your advice,

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Speaker 1: which is not an asshole move.

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Speaker 3: That's a nice move. Yes, And I made the decision

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Speaker 1: Ali and ask her if it would be all right

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Speaker 1: if I called her talk and it would be all right.

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Speaker 1: So I called her and right away I apologize without

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Speaker 1: forced Steve to take off his strunks too, because that

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Speaker 1: and consenting to everything happening and we are still good friends.

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Speaker 4: Now, that is an awesome conversation. That's a great a communication.

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Speaker 1: Stand up guy, Stand up guy, Opie, you you're doing

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Speaker 1: a solid yeah, because like he could have been bitter

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Speaker 1: because again, like he didn't make Steve take take off

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Speaker 4: So it's like everyone got what they wanted in the end.

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Speaker 4: Through the communication, he was able to truly apologize and

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Speaker 4: she was able to say, you know what, like, you

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Speaker 4: know this part that I accuse you about that that

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Speaker 2: Yeah, everybody wins.

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Speaker 3: It sounds like a very productive conversation.

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Speaker 1: If you are apologizing and you know you're in the wrong, try.

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Speaker 3: To apologize without concession.

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Speaker 1: I think that's like a really good yeah, if you

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Speaker 1: if and but you did this, and that's why I

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Speaker 1: did this, that's what you're gonna do. Reassessle right, Just

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Speaker 1: and says like, hey, I messed up here too.

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Speaker 2: Totally.

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Speaker 3: I say that totally, own up the way.

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Speaker 2: Own up to it.

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Speaker 4: Communicate, okayop am I n a hole for throwing my

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Speaker 4: daughter a second birthday party after the special needs girl

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Speaker 4: I invited her ruined her first party. My daughter turned

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Speaker 4: wanted a pizza a double feature movie at the dry In.

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Speaker 3: This sounds like I said in the nineteen SIXTIESE.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I know. I was like, I was like, what

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Speaker 4: I was like, I guess there's two movies like, yeah,

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Speaker 5: Eh FU bunnies and us not gonna miss And at

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Speaker 4: I told her she could invite four friends, and I

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Speaker 3: Asked, like, that's awesome.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I was just gonna say, that's awesome, Like including

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Speaker 1: it reluctantly, did teach your daughter that you should do that,

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Speaker 3: That's like awesome and.

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Speaker 4: And I mean we're young, but you know, it's a

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, I think people are just a lot

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Speaker 4: Shout out Opie. Well, Molly seemed to be very sweet kid.

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Speaker 4: She was absolutely awful at the party. She cried when

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Speaker 4: Things get worse at the movie. The first movie Kruella

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Speaker 4: scarier parts or close her eyes, but she was inconsolable.

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Speaker 2: I tried calling Molly's mom a few times to pick

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Speaker 4: Eventually, We ended up having to leave before the second movie,

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Speaker 4: Black Widow, which was the movie my daughter really wanted

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Speaker 4: to see. Oh no, Yeah, it's turned out to be,

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Speaker 2: You know, being you know, twelve and you know.

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Speaker 4: Hey, this is my special day. And you know, I

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Speaker 1: And also it's like you extend this kindness and then

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and I think I think it's a blameless thing, right,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Molly can't help it. The daughter is, you know,

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Speaker 2: it's just unfortunate.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's a very unfortunate situation. I don't even know.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I think the mother and the daughter did

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Speaker 1: I don't think you can really blame the person, you know,

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Speaker 1: cognitive development issues, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Three were palities or anything. And it seems like everyone

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Speaker 3: behaved as they should.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it seems seems like, yeah, like it so.

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Speaker 4: That night at our house, things still got worse. Oh no,

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Speaker 4: Molly threw a we remote after she lost at Just Dance.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, you know, I might do that rage quit, you

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Speaker 4: Dance, and then she didn't want to play any of

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Speaker 4: the other games that the girls did. The next morning,

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Speaker 4: I called Molly's parents and asked to pick her up early.

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Speaker 4: Her mom apologized for Mollie's behavior, admitting that she is

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Speaker 4: prone to outbursting when she gets over stimulated, but she'd

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Speaker 2: Better lately in her therapy.

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Speaker 4: A few days later, though, Molly's mom told me that

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Speaker 4: she can't stop talking about how much she loved the

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Speaker 2: So at least Molly, you know.

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Speaker 3: Had a good time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, had a good time, felt included, So you know,

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Speaker 1: They did their job, like Eve, even though it was

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Speaker 5: They didn't what they said out to do. They wanted

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Speaker 5: to include this girl and they did and op OPI

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Speaker 5: handled it very well, I think, you know. So that evening,

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Speaker 5: after all the other girls had left, my daughter was

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Speaker 5: clearly upset about having her birthday ruined. I felt bad

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Speaker 5: for asking her to invite Molly, so I told her

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Speaker 5: the next weekend I would take her and her friends

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Speaker 5: and go out for pizza and see Black Widow in

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Speaker 3: Great when when?

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Speaker 2: When? But my partner still thinks this is a real

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Speaker 2: jerk move. Wait what why?

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Speaker 3: Why?

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Speaker 2: Partner?

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Speaker 4: He points it out that sometimes life isn't fair and

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Speaker 4: things get ruined. He also doesn't think it's a good

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Speaker 4: idea to show our daughter it's okay to exclude people

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Speaker 2: Anyway, I'm a little torn here.

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Speaker 1: I get where he's coming I mean, I get where

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Speaker 1: he's coming from, but that like they are pretty included

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Speaker 1: or that doesn't mean you have to include her in

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Speaker 1: to see Black Widow and this girl wouldn't want to

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Speaker 1: watch Black Widow anyway, it is well, I know, this

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Speaker 1: seems like the perfect solution.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I think her partner is being a little

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Speaker 4: bit self righteous here.

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Speaker 3: It sounds like self righteous is the right word.

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Speaker 2: I know the solution, and this is what you should

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Speaker 2: be doing. Why aren't you doing this? How you know what?

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Speaker 3: Why don't you invite her to your birthday.

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Speaker 2: Hey, there we go. No, we're talking. You get the

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Speaker 2: right pizza toppings.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you kicked the good movies.

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Speaker 4: And people are accusing Molly's mother of being out of

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Speaker 4: contact on purpose. I do not think that was the case.

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Speaker 4: I had to leave this detail out to meet character limits.

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Speaker 4: But we called Molly's mom twice around eleven thirty PM

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Speaker 4: and got no answer. Yeah, that's that's totally. Molly's mom

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Speaker 4: actually called me back around three a m. And I

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Speaker 4: apologized greatly for missing my call and offered to come

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Speaker 4: get Molly. Since the girls were already asleep. I told

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Speaker 2: That's whack. I don't know why people are assuming that

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Speaker 2: red we got.

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Speaker 3: We got these Reddit sleuths in there.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, dude, the Internet slew surreal though, Like they really

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Speaker 4: do be cracking cases.

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Speaker 2: But this one, y'all. Yeah, didn't crack you drop the case.

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Speaker 3: You're no charlock.

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Speaker 2: That's right.

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Speaker 3: They're a mere wattson a mess all right. I think

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Speaker 3: that's another wrap episode of bok lp.

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Speaker 4: Oh you don't forget though, subskinta night, smashtair, subscribe button

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Speaker 4: smash it we'll see you next time.