1 00:00:01,680 --> 00:00:06,200 Speaker 1: The discretion of a man defereth his anger, and it 2 00:00:06,240 --> 00:00:12,879 Speaker 1: is his glory to pass over a transgression Proverbs nineteen eleven. 3 00:00:13,640 --> 00:00:17,880 Speaker 1: Dear God, as we come before you today, we pray 4 00:00:17,960 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 1: for the wisdom and humility necessary to cultivate a gentle 5 00:00:23,360 --> 00:00:28,600 Speaker 1: and patient spirit. Help us to overlook offenses and to 6 00:00:28,760 --> 00:00:33,960 Speaker 1: extend grace and forgiveness to those who wrong us. May 7 00:00:34,040 --> 00:00:39,520 Speaker 1: our words be filled with kindness and our actions reflect 8 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:44,920 Speaker 1: your love even when we face difficult situations. We pray 9 00:00:45,040 --> 00:00:48,720 Speaker 1: for your guidance and strength to live in this way, 10 00:00:49,040 --> 00:00:53,400 Speaker 1: trusting in you to work all things together for good. 11 00:00:54,000 --> 00:00:58,800 Speaker 1: In Jesus' name, Amen, thank you for joining me in prayer. 12 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:02,760 Speaker 1: Stay tuned for today today's free podcast Meditative Prayers with 13 00:01:02,920 --> 00:01:06,200 Speaker 1: Zach Clinton, where you can draw close to God and 14 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:09,959 Speaker 1: find strength in him. 15 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:14,080 Speaker 2: My friends, welcome to your meditative prayer on releasing anger. 16 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:16,720 Speaker 2: To get the most out of your spiritual journey, usepray 17 00:01:16,760 --> 00:01:19,800 Speaker 2: dot com every day and make prayer a priority in 18 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 2: your life again. Our goal for today's meditative prayer is 19 00:01:22,760 --> 00:01:26,440 Speaker 2: all about releasing anger. So go to your secret place, 20 00:01:27,120 --> 00:01:31,080 Speaker 2: a place of personal intimacy where you can relax tune 21 00:01:31,120 --> 00:01:35,800 Speaker 2: out everything else breathing deep through your nose and slowly 22 00:01:35,880 --> 00:01:39,280 Speaker 2: exhale through your mouth, and lift your heart and your 23 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 2: mind to God's presence. Today we'll be meditating on Proverbs 24 00:01:43,880 --> 00:01:48,600 Speaker 2: nineteen eleven from the King James version. It reads the 25 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 2: discretion of a man defereth his anger, and it is 26 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:58,559 Speaker 2: his glory to pass over a transgression. Take a moment now, 27 00:01:58,600 --> 00:02:02,280 Speaker 2: just to pour out your adoration to God, Heavenly Father. 28 00:02:02,360 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 2: I praise you for you are light, and in you 29 00:02:05,480 --> 00:02:09,520 Speaker 2: there is no darkness. I will worship you, and in 30 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:13,840 Speaker 2: all my ways I acknowledge you. You make my path straight. 31 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:17,120 Speaker 2: I praise you for you are a son and a shield. 32 00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:21,120 Speaker 2: You bestow favor and honor. No good thing You withhold 33 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:25,720 Speaker 2: from those whose walk is blameless. Lord Almighty blessed is 34 00:02:25,760 --> 00:02:31,640 Speaker 2: the one who trusts in you self. Reflection is painful 35 00:02:31,720 --> 00:02:35,519 Speaker 2: but necessary for survival. To let go of anger, you 36 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:38,240 Speaker 2: must be able to reflect on your own actions and 37 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:42,080 Speaker 2: have patience. There are many causes in triggers for anger. 38 00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:45,280 Speaker 2: People will say and do things out of malice and spite. 39 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:48,880 Speaker 2: Some will even behave with ill intentions to purposefully get 40 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:51,880 Speaker 2: under your skin. The only way to overcome this, though, 41 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:55,080 Speaker 2: is to be aware of yourself and to ignore insults. 42 00:02:55,639 --> 00:02:59,560 Speaker 2: Try not to take other people's offenses to heart. Sometimes 43 00:02:59,560 --> 00:03:04,119 Speaker 2: this is possible and will fail. Let's be honest. Sometimes 44 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 2: anger becomes a crippling weight around your neck. But do 45 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:10,800 Speaker 2: not accept this burden. You were not made to carry it, 46 00:03:10,919 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 2: nor does it belong to you. So, my friends, in 47 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:16,920 Speaker 2: this moment, lift up to God those situations that seem 48 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:21,560 Speaker 2: to be stirring anger in your heart. And now let's 49 00:03:21,560 --> 00:03:24,560 Speaker 2: think for a moment on all the times God removed 50 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:27,960 Speaker 2: your wrath. Think of past times when you were burdened 51 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:32,440 Speaker 2: by anger, when God came and cleansed your heart, undeserved 52 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 2: mercies God bestowed upon you simply because He loves you. 53 00:03:36,440 --> 00:03:39,360 Speaker 2: Moments you thought anger would consume your heart, yet God 54 00:03:39,440 --> 00:03:43,960 Speaker 2: provided relief. The reality is God is good all the time. 55 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 2: So thank Him for all the past blessings he has 56 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 2: bestowed upon your life. Thank him for all the times 57 00:03:50,560 --> 00:03:53,360 Speaker 2: he helped you process your anger, and for the times 58 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:57,480 Speaker 2: still to come. Remember God is present and he is 59 00:03:57,560 --> 00:04:01,360 Speaker 2: listening to you. Be mindful that self reflection is a 60 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 2: necessary choice. God never said being self aware would be easy, 61 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 2: but he promised the result would be worth the effort. 62 00:04:09,720 --> 00:04:12,480 Speaker 2: God sent the Holy Spirit to be your helper. He 63 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:15,880 Speaker 2: wants you to succeed. So ask the Holy Spirit to 64 00:04:15,880 --> 00:04:18,520 Speaker 2: help you let go of anger. Ask him to help 65 00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:21,159 Speaker 2: you be self aware, Ask him to teach you to 66 00:04:21,200 --> 00:04:24,440 Speaker 2: ignore insults, and ask him to help you process your 67 00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:29,400 Speaker 2: emotions and to only hold on to the good stuff. Remember, 68 00:04:29,960 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 2: God expects you to defer anger and to pass over transgressions. 69 00:04:35,200 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 2: To do so is counted as an honor and credit 70 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:41,560 Speaker 2: to your personhood. As difficult as it may seem, you 71 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:45,240 Speaker 2: can and should let go of anger. So choose to 72 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:49,200 Speaker 2: be the better person, to ignore insults and offenses, to 73 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:51,880 Speaker 2: be the person God has called you to be, and 74 00:04:51,960 --> 00:04:56,120 Speaker 2: do not be afraid. Through self reflection, you will acquire patience, 75 00:04:56,480 --> 00:05:00,000 Speaker 2: and with patience you will be able to ignore insults 76 00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 2: and doing so, my friends, you will conquer anger. My friends, 77 00:05:04,640 --> 00:05:07,880 Speaker 2: thank you for completing today's meditative prayer on pray dot com. 78 00:05:08,160 --> 00:05:10,880 Speaker 2: By incorporating this healthy habit as a daily practice, you 79 00:05:10,960 --> 00:05:14,599 Speaker 2: are making prayer priority and your strengthening your walk with God. 80 00:05:15,279 --> 00:05:17,960 Speaker 2: As always, my name is Zach Clinton, Vice President of 81 00:05:17,960 --> 00:05:21,560 Speaker 2: the American Association of Christian Counselors, and we love being 82 00:05:21,600 --> 00:05:27,160 Speaker 2: a part of your life,