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Speaker 1: Why are you forced to bring a man home earlier

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Speaker 1: than you'd like to any context here?

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Speaker 2: Yes, dear, so, I I want to go.

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Speaker 3: To my cabin and my parents will be there and

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Speaker 3: the man will be with me.

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Speaker 4: Why can't you just go another weekend?

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Speaker 3: Because they're up.

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Speaker 2: There every weekend in the summer. They don't give up

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Speaker 2: any weekends up there. That's right, they paid for it,

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Speaker 2: so I don't really get to say, so, yeah, I'm

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Speaker 2: bringing a boy home for the first time in ten

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Speaker 2: years later, see.

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Speaker 1: What I'm talking about? And how long have you guys

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Speaker 3: A couple of months? Probably?

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Speaker 4: Oh, that's that's it's quick.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a strong that is fast to.

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Speaker 4: Bring me home.

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Speaker 2: No, it did take years, but that's not for lack

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Speaker 4: And she never brought me I've no for almost a decades.

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Speaker 3: We did, and you met my grandma.

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Speaker 6: Is he allowed to stay at the cabin or has

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Speaker 3: Yes, it's fifty he's in the same room. You'll make

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Speaker 1: Oh, I mean, like, come on, now, that's the interesting

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Speaker 1: and call the same number eight five five five three five,

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Speaker 1: I don't know if it was my mom or my dad.

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Speaker 1: To be honest, I think it was my mom. But

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Speaker 1: even earlier, maybe later than that, I wasn't really supposed

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Speaker 3: Oh I remember that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, my mom.

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Speaker 1: She lived in Oklahoma City. It was like a three

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Speaker 1: very nice girl. But she's like, hey, you want to

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Speaker 1: And then I don't know, A month goes by and

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna break up with her, Like I don't I'm

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Speaker 1: And she said, but but it's polite. She invited you

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Speaker 4: I'm terrible. I'm an awful person.

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Speaker 1: I never opened up the letter until and she did

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Speaker 4: Anyway. My question is did your parents.

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Speaker 1: Try and enforce some form of like antiquated rules.

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Speaker 4: You know, no, you'd have girls in your room? Yeah, overnight? Yeah? Really,

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Speaker 4: I knew what we were doing from the earliest age.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, from and yeah whatever friends like from girlfriends to

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we're also going to take them.

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Speaker 1: Really, and your parents were just like down the hall

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Speaker 6: I mean, well my mom was at work. She worked

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Speaker 4: And the bees talk were It was just like it

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Speaker 1: My parents can't be the only ones that tried to

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Speaker 4: I don't even know if it's morality.

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Speaker 1: It is kind of an antiquated I mean, I think

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Speaker 2: I mean, my sister's room is right across from me

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Speaker 2: for my parents, I never put them in that position anyways,

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Speaker 3: Cabin is like different. I'm thirty two. You know they're

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Speaker 4: It in the cabin. One question, is it your parents?

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Speaker 3: No, I haven't thought about it. Probably not. I mean

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Speaker 1: I think everybody was asking, like everybody in their in

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Speaker 4: Are you still going to try and do it?

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I haven't blamed not the bad dog. No, No,

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Speaker 3: he's not coming. No, I got to show chance some

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Speaker 2: I haven't thought about it. If we're going to do

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Speaker 2: I'm forty years old. It wasn't until I was married,

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Speaker 4: Now they don't care, like.

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Speaker 3: You've don't yet.

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Speaker 2: My mom like asked me last week, like are you

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Speaker 2: sure you're not a lesbian? Like my mom's like ready

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Speaker 4: I think that's where my mom is. Honestly, I think

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Speaker 1: I think it's like, look, if I want him to

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Speaker 3: I've never heard Sean Vaughan answer so quickly in my life.

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Speaker 2: I literally was like, do you guys care if I

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Speaker 2: he was like yes, Like they were so cool. Like

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Speaker 2: I mean she's a saver. I don't know how much

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not really interested in Yeah, we'll just go

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Speaker 4: Just give me the chat, or.

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Speaker 3: Just not get married and just give me the chat,

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Speaker 3: right that too?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, my money, I'm the only boy. I got away

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Speaker 1: with a lot. Somebody check said, I can't say the

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Speaker 1: same for my sisters. No, it was the other way.

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Speaker 1: My sister got away with everything.

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Speaker 6: Oh yes, plus for me my I mean, I have

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Speaker 6: an older brother that was doing way worse things than

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Speaker 1: So they're just like whatever. Hard to believe. Hey, Caaitylen,

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Speaker 1: are you gonna hate Kaylan? Are you going to make

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Speaker 3: Make a man? Well, he is still a virgin, so

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Speaker 3: I'm not sure.

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Speaker 4: I wanted to be special for you. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Well the cab, I would like to.

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Speaker 4: The picturesque cabin with your parents in the background.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I know.

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Speaker 3: That's that makes me real horny.

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Speaker 1: We had to sit in the living room the whole time.

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Speaker 1: Somebody said, in the living room, Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Sleep right overnight, we just sat, I.

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Speaker 1: Guess so all night long. Hey Jessica, good morning, how

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Speaker 4: Hey morning guys, So what is what was it like?

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Speaker 1: This is your boyfriend's parents who were like this, or

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Speaker 1: are your parents too?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, so it's both sets of parents just happened to

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Speaker 7: be pretty traditional. So it's, uh, it's pretty locked down

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Speaker 7: when we travel together or go places together. But there

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Speaker 7: just kind of let us, you know, like they turn

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Speaker 4: Cheek turn the other ways. Yeah, I see, it's still

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Speaker 4: like this, how old are you? I'm twenty eight, Okay,

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Speaker 4: so that's old.

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Speaker 1: Enough that like everybody knows what you guys do. You

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Speaker 7: We don't live together, so that also probably doesn't help

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Speaker 7: the you know.

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Speaker 3: Understanding of like sleeping in the same room. But you know,

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Speaker 3: I also, I.

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Speaker 8: Don't know, I kinda I kind of.

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Speaker 3: Like and respect that about like our parents.

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Speaker 7: I think I might be the same way.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, So yeah, I would have a hard

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Speaker 1: time I think if I had a young son or

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Speaker 1: a teenage son teenage daughter being like sure, just our

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Speaker 1: house can be the bang house, Like no it can't,

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Speaker 1: Like no, it cannot. And I realize it's probably happening,

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Speaker 1: but like, I don't know, there's something about it almost

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Speaker 1: to do that. I mean, come on, man, I mean

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Speaker 1: not that I was doing anything in high school, but

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Speaker 1: I had to sneak around.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so you figure it out. Yeah, but I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah also oh well yeah except not really but yeah,

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Speaker 1: but thank you, Jessic.

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Speaker 4: I have a good day. I love you.

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Speaker 2: But no, I did want to ask you guys if

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Speaker 2: you had any ideas, because I do want to mess

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Speaker 2: you know, like something like on TikTok, Like you know,

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Speaker 2: he can't eat dinner unless he says like the you.

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Speaker 1: Know, the.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I mean, Like he's really uncomfortable,

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Speaker 2: just to like see if they'll do it, like just

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Speaker 3: So if anyone has any ideas on how to mess

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Speaker 3: with them, and you know, like he's his family's a

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Speaker 3: little odd, like they have different.

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Speaker 4: Traditions, you should mess with him. You guys should do something.

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Speaker 3: Well, I'll do a double.

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Speaker 4: You know, I think you should.

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Speaker 1: You should tell your parents, like you do some sort

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, we couldn't scare him. That's fine.

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Speaker 4: No, I like that.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't think he'd be surprised he's met you. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: same with my Like, I don't think anybody would be

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Speaker 1: surprised if my mom was way over the top.

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Speaker 4: So she is, Hey, Nancy, how you doing?

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Speaker 6: I am good?

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Speaker 8: How are you this morning?

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Speaker 4: Very well?

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Speaker 1: Thank you for calling, Thank you for listening. What's your story?

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Speaker 7: Okay?

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Speaker 8: So I was living in Minnesota and I was like

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Speaker 8: fifty five years old, and I.

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Speaker 4: Was, where are you loving, Nancy? Where are you living?

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Speaker 9: Are you going to make fun of the way?

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Speaker 4: I said? You would not. I actually wouldn't. I just

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Speaker 4: didn't hear it broke up a little bit. What was it? Oh, Minnesota? Okay?

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Speaker 4: Well you said a different you, a different Nancy. I

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Speaker 4: liked you.

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Speaker 1: Break You just said a different Minnesota. You live in

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Speaker 1: Minnesota anyway, So what happened in Minnesota?

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Speaker 4: Nancy? Okay?

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Speaker 3: So we were on a motorcycle trip to go to

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Speaker 3: the Harley Fest in in Wisconsin.

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Speaker 7: Where wherever it was.

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Speaker 8: Anyways, we stopped at my mom's and we stayed overnight.

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Speaker 3: And she she said we have to sleep in separate rooms,

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Speaker 3: and she actually put a little bell on.

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Speaker 8: One of the jewels, but she was here if it opened.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, wow? And how old were you?

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Speaker 8: Like fifty five?

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Speaker 4: Oh god? Did you have kids?

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Speaker 2: She's like this, yes, yes, we're grown.

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Speaker 4: See mom, bad news.

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Speaker 5: I did it.

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Speaker 4: Oh wow, okay, Nancy, that's wild. Thank you. Have a

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Speaker 4: great day.

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Speaker 8: You guys have a great day.

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Speaker 4: Wow listening, I'm glad you called. Good morning, Julie. How

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Speaker 3: I'm good.

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Speaker 5: How are you?

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Speaker 4: Hey, Julie? What's your story?

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Speaker 8: So I am the youngest, So I got away with

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Speaker 8: a lot more. And since I was the youngest, I

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Speaker 8: was like the only one home with my parents, like

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Speaker 8: my sisters were away at college or have already been married.

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Speaker 6: So my I got.

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Speaker 8: Into a lot of trouble just because I was a rebel.

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Speaker 8: But I got away with a lot, a lot, a.

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Speaker 4: Lot, Like what like what did you get away with?

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Speaker 8: So like I would this is horrible, but like I

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Speaker 8: this was back when like you had like footphones. So

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Speaker 8: I would get home i'd like tell my mom like.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm home, but I was really like sometimes an

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Speaker 3: But when I heard.

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Speaker 4: My phone, it was wrong with it right. That never

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Speaker 4: would have worked with my parents.

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Speaker 1: They were not playing twelve a clock, not twelve oh one. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: not twelve o five, twelve a clock, and somebody was

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh yeah, yeah yeah. But I didn't have

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Speaker 4: For the night.

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Speaker 5: You know you could?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you, Julie, have a good one.

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Speaker 8: You're welcome you too.

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Speaker 4: By key, did you ever get away with any shenanigans

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Speaker 9: I don't know if I got away with it or

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Speaker 9: she just didn't have the energy to like to tell

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Speaker 9: but I feel like she the whole time she knew everything.

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Speaker 9: But I grew up in the house with all brothers,

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Speaker 4: Whatever.

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Speaker 3: But so my boyfriend, he was the only.

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Speaker 9: Boy at his house, so he got away with everything,

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Speaker 9: so I would just go to his house.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah. There were always those girls.

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Speaker 1: I remember that, like whose parents were I don't know absent,

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Speaker 1: I mean, you got to know what's happening in your

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Speaker 2: In my experience, those parents were the ones who wanted

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Speaker 3: I guess I don't know.

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Speaker 1: That's how it was with parents' weekend at my college,

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Speaker 1: and I was just my buddy just went to parents'

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Speaker 1: But then there were the dads that like went to

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Speaker 1: oh yeah, all they wanted to do is hang out,

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Speaker 1: But it was like their chance to like revel in

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Speaker 1: that they were cool. Hey, Rico, Hey, what's up? Hey man?

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Speaker 1: You're the middle child and you got away with a

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Speaker 5: Oh man built One time, I actually got home in

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Speaker 4: In the middle of the night.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, in the middle of well, like no, at like

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Speaker 4: Was going to getting in Oh yeah, you're exactly right.

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Speaker 4: I just woke up.

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Speaker 1: God, Ah, Rico, thank you, have a good day, all right.

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Speaker 1: I think with my sister, she's seven and almost eight

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Speaker 1: I think my parents were just tired, Like I think

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Speaker 4: She had too much going on.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she had a lot going on.

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Speaker 9: And I wasn't a bad kid because I think I

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Speaker 9: because I was like, I can do it. But my

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Speaker 9: And now you talk.

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Speaker 3: To their kids when you go to them them school exactly.

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Speaker 4: That's the hard part.

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Speaker 1: It is like as a parent, you know, you don't

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Speaker 1: can't be the parent that's like, don't do anything, don't drink,

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Speaker 1: don't have sex, don't party, don't do this, don't experiment

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Speaker 1: because you know, don't because I think that.

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Speaker 4: You're just asking for your kids to do it. So

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Speaker 4: it's got to be hard.

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Speaker 1: I mean I'm not a parent, but it's got to

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Speaker 1: be hard to be somewhere in the middle of like,

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Speaker 1: I am not going to enable you, but I'm not

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Speaker 1: going to shun it, because if I shun it, then

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Speaker 1: I think I'm just basically telling you to go do it.

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Speaker 3: R right.

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Speaker 2: I think you just need to instill them with like

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Speaker 2: the tools to know how to make their own decisions

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Speaker 2: and then have trust that they will do that.

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Speaker 1: You know, like, my parents never told me not to

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Speaker 1: do Heroin. I never did Heroin though, you know, so

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Speaker 1: I worked out just fine. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, trending stories, it's a perfect example.