WEBVTT - Why Are You Fighting With Men? 0:00:04.000 --> 0:00:05.520 I saw us on the side. What's going on? 0:00:05.519 --> 0:00:08.680 We're back from vacation and I'm here with diamond Head there. 0:00:08.920 --> 0:00:14.360 Hi, how was vacation? Okay? What is that? It was 0:00:14.600 --> 0:00:17.840 nothing spectacular? Like I hung out with family, which I 0:00:17.880 --> 0:00:19.680 always do in vacation. That sounds awesome. 0:00:19.880 --> 0:00:20.160 Cool. 0:00:20.520 --> 0:00:24.400 No, it's chill. Yeah, I think I overplayed the sims. 0:00:25.000 --> 0:00:28.760 Oh no, I do so. Our intervention did not help. No, 0:00:28.840 --> 0:00:31.600 But but you know, just like a lot of other things, 0:00:31.600 --> 0:00:35.279 it runs its course. Like I'm I haven't played in 0:00:35.320 --> 0:00:37.680 about two weeks. Yeah. 0:00:37.800 --> 0:00:41.000 Do you know what I caught Andrew doing yesterday here at. 0:00:40.880 --> 0:00:43.800 Work, playing that game where build a city, the. 0:00:43.720 --> 0:00:46.320 Great Escapes thing or Grand Escapes whatever it was. He 0:00:46.440 --> 0:00:48.080 was on his phone and I walked by and he 0:00:48.120 --> 0:00:50.800 did one of these, put the phone down and scooted 0:00:50.800 --> 0:00:52.479 it away real quick. I said, Andrew already saw it. 0:00:52.560 --> 0:00:55.960 Yep. What you doing, buddy? He's like, I'm building a landscape. 0:00:56.120 --> 0:00:58.720 I'm like, what that mister over here clock and what 0:00:58.760 --> 0:01:00.440 everybody else is doing all day long? 0:01:00.640 --> 0:01:01.200 Busted? 0:01:01.640 --> 0:01:05.000 So his intervention didn't work. Your intervention didn't work. I 0:01:05.040 --> 0:01:08.120 am still talking to chat GPT, not in the ways 0:01:08.160 --> 0:01:10.960 I used to. We have a different relationship now, and 0:01:11.000 --> 0:01:13.200 I don't even know what goes on with Josh. 0:01:13.360 --> 0:01:16.200 Josh doesn't even know what goes on with Josh. Okay, 0:01:16.720 --> 0:01:18.679 that guy is on. Well, let me tell you. 0:01:18.760 --> 0:01:21.840 I missed you so much on our vacation because we 0:01:21.920 --> 0:01:23.720 had a lot of fun and I was like, off, Diamond, 0:01:23.760 --> 0:01:25.560 we're here. This would have been like a little off 0:01:25.600 --> 0:01:28.119 the grid thing. And I got microphones because I was like, oh, 0:01:28.120 --> 0:01:30.360 maybe I'll just do a podcast. Well, no, there was 0:01:30.440 --> 0:01:34.000 no chance of doing a podcast, hy because those two 0:01:34.240 --> 0:01:37.000 were hammered like every day they started drinking from the 0:01:37.000 --> 0:01:38.559 time they woke up to time and get to sleep, 0:01:38.680 --> 0:01:42.319 which I respect. Brandon is the exact opposite, where he's 0:01:42.360 --> 0:01:45.600 just smoking weed all day, so they're very talkative. He's 0:01:45.640 --> 0:01:48.040 just sitting there staring at a wall, and I was like, 0:01:49.280 --> 0:01:50.720 this is not the time for a podcast. 0:01:51.560 --> 0:01:53.920 Were you looking around like somebody safety? Truly? 0:01:54.080 --> 0:01:56.200 And then I was like, you know, I'm sick of 0:01:56.200 --> 0:01:57.960 the boys. I wish there was a girl here with me. 0:01:58.280 --> 0:02:01.000 Oh god, yeah, yeah, no, I don't think I would 0:02:01.040 --> 0:02:06.120 have been that fun. Why overstimulation Okay, yeah. 0:02:05.720 --> 0:02:07.800 I think you're fine with overstimulation if it's simulation. 0:02:07.880 --> 0:02:10.720 You care about yeah, but I don't care about three 0:02:10.760 --> 0:02:14.200 men in one space. Oh my god. I was arguing 0:02:14.200 --> 0:02:15.560 with men this past weekend. 0:02:15.680 --> 0:02:19.280 Let's talk about this, so on the show today actually, 0:02:19.520 --> 0:02:21.160 because when you guys hear this, it's going to be 0:02:21.200 --> 0:02:22.200 tomorrow Wednesday. 0:02:22.240 --> 0:02:23.480 Today is Tuesday. 0:02:23.919 --> 0:02:26.559 On the show today, we were talking about how allegedly 0:02:26.800 --> 0:02:28.959 a little survey came out that said, and this is 0:02:29.000 --> 0:02:32.360 not a study, it's a survey, eighty percent of single 0:02:32.400 --> 0:02:35.880 women surveyed said that they have zero interest in dating. 0:02:36.000 --> 0:02:38.480 And Diamond is one of that eighty percent, as is 0:02:38.480 --> 0:02:40.680 our girl Abby, who was on a podcast not long ago. 0:02:40.880 --> 0:02:43.280 So we were talking on the show today about why 0:02:43.320 --> 0:02:45.160 that is why you have no interest? And I thought 0:02:45.160 --> 0:02:50.080 your answers were great, very well, put very on the nose. 0:02:51.280 --> 0:02:55.959 Basically, you said that men are exhausting, and they are. 0:02:56.440 --> 0:03:00.160 They I think that we just like the whole like 0:03:00.240 --> 0:03:02.280 men are from Mars, women are from Venus. 0:03:02.320 --> 0:03:02.519 Thing. 0:03:02.800 --> 0:03:05.720 I'm like, oh no, we're even further apart now, like 0:03:05.840 --> 0:03:09.679 we're on two different and mercury. I mean, like it 0:03:09.760 --> 0:03:14.720 is exhausting to talk to men, Okay, why we just 0:03:14.720 --> 0:03:16.480 don't see eye to eye And I don't think it's 0:03:16.520 --> 0:03:19.680 just a me thing. Like I was at a barbecue 0:03:19.880 --> 0:03:26.600 over the weekend and I think me and my cousin's 0:03:26.600 --> 0:03:28.680 friends started going back and forth with each other and 0:03:28.720 --> 0:03:30.720 it was playful at first, but I felt myself getting 0:03:30.800 --> 0:03:34.280 hot and we were talking about there weren't multiple conversations. 0:03:34.280 --> 0:03:36.040 Like I told him at the end of the night, 0:03:36.080 --> 0:03:37.720 I'm like, leave me alone. I feel like you're just 0:03:37.760 --> 0:03:40.600 trying to argue with me. Because there were three different arguments. 0:03:41.000 --> 0:03:47.160 One was about like men saying that they can't watch 0:03:47.160 --> 0:03:50.200 a woman give birth because it'll change their like view 0:03:50.360 --> 0:03:54.280 of said vagina, and I was like that was his take. Ever, 0:03:54.640 --> 0:03:56.720 he tried to make it seem like, oh, yeah, well, 0:03:56.760 --> 0:03:58.680 what's wrong with saying that, And I'm like, don't ever 0:03:58.840 --> 0:04:02.119 say that to a woman. I don't say it. Let 0:04:02.120 --> 0:04:04.240 them know who you are that too. But I'm like, 0:04:04.680 --> 0:04:07.840 I haven't given birth, but I think that like most 0:04:07.920 --> 0:04:13.240 women already know that, Like, nobody who isn't a doctor 0:04:13.520 --> 0:04:17.160 or in the medical field really wants to watch a 0:04:17.200 --> 0:04:21.640 baby be born, like you want to have this, like, oh, 0:04:21.680 --> 0:04:24.160 it was amazing to watch it's my child. I love 0:04:24.160 --> 0:04:28.040 the child, but honestly, nobody really wants to watch it. Right. Okay, honestly, 0:04:28.120 --> 0:04:31.240 I don't think many women actually want to go through childbirth. 0:04:31.240 --> 0:04:33.200 They just want to have a baby. I certainly don't 0:04:33.279 --> 0:04:37.400 thank you. Yeah, so like you telling a woman that 0:04:37.920 --> 0:04:40.279 you don't want to see that and blah blah blah, 0:04:40.320 --> 0:04:43.680 when basically she's doing it for you, like it's your 0:04:43.760 --> 0:04:46.480 kid too, She's putting her life on the life. Shut up. 0:04:47.360 --> 0:04:50.480 I find that to be such a disgusting take from 0:04:50.520 --> 0:04:53.080 men in so many ways, because one how many men 0:04:53.120 --> 0:04:54.840 do you know who are like, oh, she doesn't want kids, 0:04:54.880 --> 0:04:57.680 absolute deal breaker. No, I need somebody to have my babies. 0:04:57.720 --> 0:04:59.880 That's how they say it. I mean not all of them, 0:05:00.160 --> 0:05:02.159 but there are a lot of them who do say 0:05:02.800 --> 0:05:04.560 I need somebody who's gonna have my kids. My kids, 0:05:04.560 --> 0:05:07.240 my kids. Okay, so they are your kids. But now 0:05:07.279 --> 0:05:10.320 you're gonna shame me about what my body can do 0:05:10.360 --> 0:05:13.200 that yours cannot do, and talk about how now you're 0:05:13.200 --> 0:05:16.440 gonna look at me completely differently because I helped deliver 0:05:16.560 --> 0:05:19.240 this thing that we both wanted but only one of 0:05:19.320 --> 0:05:21.320 us could actually do. Now you're gonna give me shit 0:05:21.400 --> 0:05:22.960 about it, and you're never gonna look at me the 0:05:22.960 --> 0:05:23.479 same again. 0:05:23.960 --> 0:05:26.200 Off with your head. I literally was like and the 0:05:26.240 --> 0:05:29.640 guy's like, wait, what's wrong with saying that? I'm like, 0:05:29.720 --> 0:05:32.479 and that is an issue that you don't know what's wrong. 0:05:33.000 --> 0:05:35.120 Nothing is wrong with saying it. Don't discourage them from 0:05:35.160 --> 0:05:35.560 saying it. 0:05:35.720 --> 0:05:38.400 I'm like, say it, say that if they think it, 0:05:38.680 --> 0:05:40.120 say it, Like what the hell? 0:05:40.279 --> 0:05:44.080 And then he's like, oh, so, like what do you say? 0:05:44.240 --> 0:05:46.240 So like if we had a kid, and I hate 0:05:46.240 --> 0:05:48.880 when people do that, like no, you and I never, 0:05:49.240 --> 0:05:51.760 but if we had a kid and I was talking 0:05:51.800 --> 0:05:54.800 to my family about it, and like on the car 0:05:54.880 --> 0:05:57.000 ride home, So on the car ride home, whether it 0:05:57.040 --> 0:05:59.000 was a five minute car ride or a thirty five 0:05:59.040 --> 0:06:01.360 minute car ride, when your ass up the entire time, 0:06:01.400 --> 0:06:03.800 don't ever fucking embarrass me by saying something like that 0:06:03.839 --> 0:06:06.679 out loud. Are you crazy? Because you know what happens. 0:06:07.120 --> 0:06:07.840 Here's what happens. 0:06:07.839 --> 0:06:09.720 So, first of all, if you encourage them to not 0:06:09.839 --> 0:06:11.880 say these things, which I understand what you're saying, but 0:06:11.880 --> 0:06:13.960 I think it should be more, don't think this thing. 0:06:14.680 --> 0:06:16.560 But if you think it, please say it, because you 0:06:16.600 --> 0:06:18.680 need to warn the women that are coming your way 0:06:18.720 --> 0:06:20.440 what kind of person you are, or else you end 0:06:20.520 --> 0:06:24.640 up like a shanty who now has this bum ass Nelly, 0:06:25.080 --> 0:06:29.720 who had the audacity to say he doesn't understand how 0:06:29.839 --> 0:06:32.480 she wakes up when the baby cries at night, and 0:06:32.480 --> 0:06:34.760 that he has nothing for that child until they're four 0:06:34.839 --> 0:06:36.680 years old. But he says nothing for you. Are you 0:06:36.800 --> 0:06:37.520 fucking kidding me? 0:06:37.760 --> 0:06:39.240 He's a little bit off with his head. Do you 0:06:39.279 --> 0:06:42.120 want to know what? She's even crazier because he said 0:06:42.160 --> 0:06:44.760 that they had that conversation before a baby was even 0:06:44.800 --> 0:06:47.720 a thought. Sick okay, And this is not like two 0:06:47.800 --> 0:06:51.159 thousand and four or twenty eleven conversation. This is twenty 0:06:51.200 --> 0:06:51.719 twenty four. 0:06:51.760 --> 0:06:51.920 Sick. 0:06:52.000 --> 0:06:54.880 They have this conversation, damant. So I don't even blame 0:06:54.960 --> 0:06:57.520 him because he said it absolutely not there about who 0:06:57.520 --> 0:07:01.200 he was. You're a loser. You were honest about who 0:07:01.200 --> 0:07:03.120 you were she decided to have a kid. That makes 0:07:02.880 --> 0:07:06.920 me so, said girl? Please, okay, why I don't get it. 0:07:07.200 --> 0:07:12.080 I don't understand. I think that we as a society, 0:07:12.160 --> 0:07:15.440 not just women, people tell us who they are and 0:07:15.520 --> 0:07:18.160 we think like we don't believe them for whatever reason, 0:07:18.200 --> 0:07:20.280 and then we're mad after the fact, which is why 0:07:20.320 --> 0:07:22.200 she's probably not mad. He told her who she was. 0:07:22.360 --> 0:07:25.360 Exactly whatever I am at a loss. What else did 0:07:25.360 --> 0:07:26.200 you fight with men about? 0:07:27.840 --> 0:07:31.440 We thought about the term situationship, okay, and the fact 0:07:31.440 --> 0:07:34.280 that I think that like as a society, we've made 0:07:34.280 --> 0:07:37.160 it normal and that it shouldn't be normal. You're either 0:07:37.160 --> 0:07:39.880 in a relationship where you're not. I don't this whole 0:07:39.920 --> 0:07:43.880 like situationship thing is so toxic that it's like why. 0:07:43.680 --> 0:07:46.520 Are we It's the same thing as like old school 0:07:46.560 --> 0:07:48.120 just talking like we're talking, we're dating. 0:07:48.120 --> 0:07:50.240 We're in a situation ship, right, I say, we're dating? Well, 0:07:50.240 --> 0:07:54.720 see they've made situationships into one, into that little category. Okay. 0:07:54.720 --> 0:07:57.000 I started off as like, this is a toxic on 0:07:57.120 --> 0:08:00.600 and off thing. Why aren't we calling it what it is? 0:08:00.680 --> 0:08:03.000 So what is your definition of a situationship? It's a 0:08:03.080 --> 0:08:05.320 toxic on and off thing? Which way, I don't feel 0:08:05.320 --> 0:08:07.040 like they should be a thing I might be in 0:08:07.040 --> 0:08:07.840 a situationship? 0:08:08.920 --> 0:08:13.720 Okay, Well, okay, listen, this long distance we'll see each 0:08:13.720 --> 0:08:15.600 other all the time, like we don't care, we don't 0:08:15.600 --> 0:08:19.480 have this thing that's like a hardcore is that? But 0:08:19.520 --> 0:08:21.680 I don't think it's toxic. It might be toxic. No, 0:08:22.000 --> 0:08:23.800 I wish he was here, So toxic is. 0:08:23.760 --> 0:08:26.760 Like for me a lot of the times the situationship 0:08:26.800 --> 0:08:29.880 is where one person thinks they're in a relationship with 0:08:29.920 --> 0:08:31.880 someone and the other person, who's just living their life 0:08:31.960 --> 0:08:34.280 that is not. And so it's like that's what makes 0:08:34.320 --> 0:08:37.679 it toxic because you're sticking around with someone who doesn't 0:08:37.720 --> 0:08:40.520 really want you. I don't I just for me. We're 0:08:40.559 --> 0:08:42.440 either together or you're a friend. 0:08:42.800 --> 0:08:44.839 But like situationships, I feel like there's a lot of 0:08:44.920 --> 0:08:50.360 hobosexuality happening. Also, Clockett and I will say this is 0:08:50.360 --> 0:08:52.319 like turning into a y men's suck podcast, And I'm 0:08:52.320 --> 0:08:53.280 not gonna say all men's. 0:08:53.120 --> 0:08:54.880 Suck, just a lot. 0:08:55.760 --> 0:09:00.400 Yeah, but like the amount of hobosexuals seeing to be 0:09:00.520 --> 0:09:04.520 much more men than women most of the women I know, 0:09:04.559 --> 0:09:06.440 and I can only say based on the information I have, 0:09:06.559 --> 0:09:08.959 so most of the women I know have their shit together, 0:09:09.040 --> 0:09:11.480 have jobs, pay for their own apartment, their car, everything, 0:09:11.480 --> 0:09:14.080 they can take care of themselves, and a lot of 0:09:14.080 --> 0:09:15.880 them are with some bum ass dudes who cannot do 0:09:15.960 --> 0:09:19.840 the same thing, and they're basically just supporting this full 0:09:19.840 --> 0:09:22.880 grown human while they pursue a passion of some sort. 0:09:23.320 --> 0:09:25.760 The tal all about if you are passionate about something, 0:09:25.760 --> 0:09:27.840 pursue it also be able to pay your bills. You 0:09:27.880 --> 0:09:29.959 cannot just rely on another person to take care of 0:09:30.040 --> 0:09:31.920 you constantly. And I see that a lot more coming 0:09:31.960 --> 0:09:34.400 from dudes now, and guys also at the same time 0:09:34.440 --> 0:09:36.880 have this thing. Women just want someone to take care 0:09:36.880 --> 0:09:39.240 of them. From the guys who ask off the bat, 0:09:39.320 --> 0:09:41.800 can you cook? Can you clean? What are you bringing 0:09:41.840 --> 0:09:44.280 to the table. You want to be taken care of. 0:09:44.320 --> 0:09:46.040 Everybody wants to be taken care of in some way, 0:09:46.080 --> 0:09:46.600 So don't. 0:09:46.440 --> 0:09:48.920 Fault people for that. That's crazy, which is why I 0:09:48.920 --> 0:09:50.880 don't have an issue saying I want a man with money. 0:09:50.920 --> 0:09:54.360 Okay, I don't fault you for that. I did at 0:09:54.400 --> 0:09:57.480 one point, I did. I don't think I necessarily do anymore. 0:09:58.280 --> 0:10:00.320 But when you say money, you want a which man 0:10:00.360 --> 0:10:01.360 or you just want a man who can take care 0:10:01.360 --> 0:10:02.160 of himself. 0:10:01.840 --> 0:10:04.560 A man who can take care of himself. Okay, But 0:10:04.679 --> 0:10:06.800 I mean, if if your bank account has a little 0:10:06.880 --> 0:10:09.240 razzle dazzle in it, who am I to turn that down? 0:10:09.440 --> 0:10:13.160 You know what I mean, like I'd like it cool? Whatever, 0:10:13.640 --> 0:10:16.720 But yeah, no, you gotta stand firm in that these days, 0:10:16.760 --> 0:10:19.160 because these guys they lie about the jobs that they 0:10:19.200 --> 0:10:23.240 don't have, like these oh my God, horrible. Everyone needs 0:10:23.240 --> 0:10:25.280 to be in this like are you what is it 0:10:25.320 --> 0:10:27.520 the group on Facebook? Are we dating the same guy? 0:10:28.280 --> 0:10:30.480 There's so much more than are we dating the same 0:10:30.480 --> 0:10:32.760 guy in these groups, like does this guy have a job? 0:10:33.440 --> 0:10:36.680 They're like, oh, one guy was outed like two weeks 0:10:36.720 --> 0:10:39.400 ago about the fact that he the guy said that 0:10:39.440 --> 0:10:41.959 he was an immigration lawyer and blah blah blah. And 0:10:42.000 --> 0:10:44.600 he tells all this woman the same thing. Apparently his 0:10:44.840 --> 0:10:51.920 girlfriend is the immigration lawyer. He's jobless, okay, and he 0:10:52.320 --> 0:10:54.480 just like puts on a front. But like, this is 0:10:54.480 --> 0:10:57.840 what I'm talking about. These men are lying. 0:10:58.040 --> 0:11:00.560 The audacity in the year twenty twenty five to try 0:11:00.559 --> 0:11:03.560 and lie about really anything that can be verified now 0:11:03.640 --> 0:11:05.720 in seventy five different ways. Except I will say this 0:11:06.400 --> 0:11:07.800 a guy that I used to day, the guy that 0:11:07.840 --> 0:11:10.280 I did when I was first moving here. You cannot 0:11:10.320 --> 0:11:12.720 google anything about him anywhere. 0:11:12.880 --> 0:11:13.720 Oh I love that. 0:11:13.679 --> 0:11:17.040 First middle last name. Poof nothing. He's on no social media. 0:11:17.600 --> 0:11:23.280 He has a pretty high security clearance job with that 0:11:23.400 --> 0:11:26.599 came from the government. You can't find a picture of 0:11:26.679 --> 0:11:30.640 him nothing, Damn. Mister six one seven is non existent. 0:11:31.200 --> 0:11:33.480 But I know that he actually like is what he 0:11:33.520 --> 0:11:35.040 says he is and does what he says he does. 0:11:35.120 --> 0:11:37.640 I am very aware that he is, but it's just weird. However, 0:11:38.040 --> 0:11:41.400 in the year twenty twenty five, lying about stuff that's 0:11:41.440 --> 0:11:44.199 so verifiable as wild but getting away with it is wilder. 0:11:44.760 --> 0:11:46.160 How long do you let somebody pretend to be a 0:11:46.200 --> 0:11:48.480 lawyer before you're like, something's just eate meth in here. 0:11:48.800 --> 0:11:51.640 Well, I think as a society we don't use our 0:11:51.679 --> 0:11:56.559 brains the way that we should. Like there are I'm nosy, 0:11:56.800 --> 0:11:58.880 so I'm always going to try to find stuff out. 0:11:59.160 --> 0:12:02.000 I don't did I would? Did I ever tell you the story? 0:12:02.000 --> 0:12:04.240 I told you this story? What about? How Like? I 0:12:04.320 --> 0:12:06.120 googled a guy that I was going on a date 0:12:06.160 --> 0:12:09.000 with and something didn't add up, And so I waited 0:12:09.080 --> 0:12:10.640 until we were at the table and I had had 0:12:10.640 --> 0:12:12.640 like a drink, so I was like, oh, yeah, so 0:12:12.760 --> 0:12:15.760 you lied about something. No, what did he lie about? 0:12:17.760 --> 0:12:21.600 He said that he was from Dallas, But I googled 0:12:21.600 --> 0:12:24.760 his family and it had like it was an article 0:12:24.760 --> 0:12:29.880 about his family and they were from some part of Arkansas. 0:12:30.000 --> 0:12:31.720 And I was like, what the hell is this? Like, 0:12:31.720 --> 0:12:33.680 why do you have to lie about being from Dallas 0:12:33.679 --> 0:12:35.520 if you're not from not I don't get it was 0:12:35.559 --> 0:12:41.360 this dating, but it was a long story which he 0:12:41.440 --> 0:12:43.400 decided to tell me on the first date, which I 0:12:43.400 --> 0:12:45.880 thought was like okay, but well, you made him a 0:12:45.880 --> 0:12:48.480 whole bunch of yeah, a whole bunch of family drama 0:12:49.080 --> 0:12:56.000 that resulted in his mother moving to Arkansas and then 0:12:56.400 --> 0:13:00.080 basically the family moved there afterward. And then but he 0:13:00.120 --> 0:13:02.800 like went to school in Dallas blah blah, and it's 0:13:02.800 --> 0:13:05.000 not that far when you really think about it, but 0:13:05.080 --> 0:13:07.520 it was just like a lot and it was I 0:13:07.559 --> 0:13:10.200 was very embarrassed because, like, now you thought you'd bust 0:13:10.200 --> 0:13:13.520 a hand about your family traumas, and it's not my business. 0:13:15.120 --> 0:13:17.080 I think though, I would be very nervous about something 0:13:17.120 --> 0:13:18.679 like that. If somebody told me they were from one 0:13:18.679 --> 0:13:20.480 place and I found out they were from another place. 0:13:20.760 --> 0:13:23.000 There might have been ways to get to that without 0:13:23.040 --> 0:13:27.880 exposing the family drama, trauma, whatever it was. But I 0:13:27.920 --> 0:13:30.560 get it there, I told you this. I had somebody 0:13:30.600 --> 0:13:33.640 who was a lunatic soccer. After I hung out with 0:13:33.720 --> 0:13:36.600 him for a very short time and I mean a weekend, 0:13:37.840 --> 0:13:40.960 I didn't google him until after the fact, when I 0:13:41.000 --> 0:13:43.720 was like, this crazy person has got to be in 0:13:43.720 --> 0:13:45.680 the system somewhere, and I googled him, and in fact. 0:13:45.440 --> 0:13:51.319 He was for horrible things. Oh, ladies, gentlemen, always google 0:13:51.400 --> 0:13:51.719 your date. 0:13:52.080 --> 0:13:53.719 I know people are saying you shouldn't do that, you 0:13:53.720 --> 0:13:56.560 should let there be some mystery, But I don't know. 0:13:56.600 --> 0:13:58.160 People are crazy. He was crazy. 0:13:58.320 --> 0:14:00.320 Had I googled him ahead of time, which I bet 0:14:00.360 --> 0:14:02.559 he wouldn't have given me enough information ahead of time 0:14:02.600 --> 0:14:05.559 to google him based on what I found, but I 0:14:05.600 --> 0:14:07.839 would never have hung out with him, gone out with him, 0:14:07.880 --> 0:14:11.240 seen his face, talk to him ever again. Save yourself 0:14:11.280 --> 0:14:14.480 the hassle, just at least looking like the criminal registries. 0:14:14.600 --> 0:14:15.880 Oh I love that. 0:14:16.240 --> 0:14:19.160 I love that he was horrible what he was a 0:14:19.160 --> 0:14:21.960 bad guy, And I can tell I got the vibes 0:14:22.000 --> 0:14:25.480 like pretty immediately. Ah, and he lived up to all 0:14:25.480 --> 0:14:29.280 the expectations. So me too, Like I'm nervous to even 0:14:29.320 --> 0:14:33.520 mention his name. He will randomly, he's so crazy. He 0:14:33.520 --> 0:14:35.080 will call me from other phone. And once I blocked 0:14:35.120 --> 0:14:36.520 him because I figured a lot of stuff out, I 0:14:36.520 --> 0:14:38.960 blocked him, stopped talking to him. My friend was like, 0:14:39.040 --> 0:14:41.120 she went off at him. He started it. He went 0:14:41.160 --> 0:14:43.080 off at her first because he was like, you dumb bitch, 0:14:43.480 --> 0:14:45.360 you ended this thing. You ruined what would have been 0:14:45.360 --> 0:14:48.160 a good thing because he thought everything came from her. Meanwhile, 0:14:48.160 --> 0:14:51.240 I found the information like whatever he went off at her, 0:14:51.240 --> 0:14:52.720 He told her he was gonna have these girls come 0:14:52.760 --> 0:14:55.640 fight her. So I just blocked him everywhere. He would 0:14:55.680 --> 0:14:57.920 come up with different phone numbers to call me and 0:14:58.040 --> 0:15:01.560 text me blocked numbers. He showed up at my place 0:15:01.600 --> 0:15:04.400 of employment, he showed up in my parking. 0:15:04.040 --> 0:15:07.480 Garage, creep sauce. He was the worst. 0:15:08.240 --> 0:15:10.360 Yeah, but randomly he will still create like a new 0:15:10.400 --> 0:15:14.480 Snapchat user and snapchat me. I'm like, can you just 0:15:14.840 --> 0:15:19.840 fall off the planet please? God people because women do this? Yeah, yeah, 0:15:19.840 --> 0:15:20.120 for sure. 0:15:21.000 --> 0:15:23.200 They're out of control. And that's all I have to say. 0:15:23.440 --> 0:15:33.680 It's exhausting. So that was your second fight? What was 0:15:33.680 --> 0:15:37.240 your third fight? I don't love island. 0:15:37.520 --> 0:15:39.200 Oh you got in a fight with a man about 0:15:39.240 --> 0:15:42.040 love Island, same guy three times, the same Wait are 0:15:42.040 --> 0:15:42.560 you guys dating? 0:15:42.720 --> 0:15:47.040 No? Oh please? It sounds romantic. No. I think that 0:15:47.160 --> 0:15:49.440 some people. He may be one of these people like 0:15:49.560 --> 0:15:51.600 once they see they've gotten a rise out of you, 0:15:51.640 --> 0:15:53.840 they want to keep going and there's a level of 0:15:53.920 --> 0:15:57.720 enjoyment for I was just like I am sick of 0:15:57.760 --> 0:15:59.160 you go away. 0:15:59.360 --> 0:16:00.840 Did you really want to go away though, or were 0:16:00.840 --> 0:16:02.840 you like, I'm kind of flirting with you going. 0:16:02.720 --> 0:16:04.760 No, no, no, no, there was no flirting. I didn't find 0:16:04.760 --> 0:16:06.920 it funny at all because I was just disgusted. 0:16:06.440 --> 0:16:07.880 By Was it the Love Island thing that pushed you 0:16:07.920 --> 0:16:08.440 over the edge? 0:16:08.840 --> 0:16:13.760 No, Love Island was the last. No, I don't even remember. 0:16:14.120 --> 0:16:16.440 I know the first thing was the the baby stuff, 0:16:16.840 --> 0:16:21.640 and then I think Love Island was last. I think 0:16:21.640 --> 0:16:25.040 it was last. But it was just like, oh, Hooda 0:16:25.120 --> 0:16:27.120 is really cute. That's the only reason why I will 0:16:27.120 --> 0:16:29.800 watch the show. After we had we had just had 0:16:29.840 --> 0:16:36.000 a big discussion, as is cute? Yeah, and and he 0:16:36.120 --> 0:16:38.360 just and then like we went inside to watch it 0:16:38.400 --> 0:16:39.840 like all the girls who were talking about it, and 0:16:39.920 --> 0:16:42.040 he comes in and sits right down. He's like, which 0:16:42.080 --> 0:16:44.120 one is hood up? I said, I thought you thought 0:16:44.120 --> 0:16:46.160 hood it was cute? What are you talking about? 0:16:46.440 --> 0:16:48.320 My favorite is when you call Andrew out for using 0:16:48.360 --> 0:16:50.800 little quotes and saying from shows that he doesn't watch. 0:16:50.960 --> 0:16:52.560 You're like, you don't even watch that, don't even say that, 0:16:52.600 --> 0:16:53.360 you don't even go here. 0:16:54.000 --> 0:16:56.160 Literally, Andrew gets under my skin when he does that 0:16:56.240 --> 0:16:58.880 because she's which only makes him do it more. I 0:16:58.960 --> 0:17:01.280 know he gave me love Island take the other day 0:17:01.280 --> 0:17:03.960 that was straight from the internet, and I was like, 0:17:04.200 --> 0:17:06.959 you haven't watched oh, so have fun? Okay, I am 0:17:07.040 --> 0:17:08.960 sick of man a soul. 0:17:09.600 --> 0:17:11.439 Can we talk about how Scotty pissed the two of 0:17:11.480 --> 0:17:14.080 us off this morning with his crazy hot take on 0:17:14.160 --> 0:17:15.560 why we don't find him attractive? 0:17:15.760 --> 0:17:16.280 Please? 0:17:17.680 --> 0:17:21.640 Scott aka Scott Boden Buden, how do you even say 0:17:21.680 --> 0:17:24.119 his last name? Boden Boden. I got it right the 0:17:24.119 --> 0:17:29.720 first time. Scott Oden aka Scotty b aka most illusional 0:17:29.760 --> 0:17:33.240 man on the planet absolutely said the only reason Diamond 0:17:33.320 --> 0:17:36.640 and I do not find him attractive. 0:17:36.280 --> 0:17:43.879 Is because he's white. I'm like, are you saying he's crazy? 0:17:45.040 --> 0:17:48.679 The list of things about Scott that are crazy is 0:17:48.760 --> 0:17:52.960 long and intensive, but that one. 0:17:53.680 --> 0:17:54.600 I mean when the two. 0:17:54.480 --> 0:17:56.159 Of us cackled and there was an intern sitting in 0:17:56.160 --> 0:17:58.600 the room, why tell you her jaw hit the floor. 0:17:59.119 --> 0:18:03.080 She was like, what, he's serious, and he is serious. 0:18:03.119 --> 0:18:06.879 He's dead serious. Scott thinks if you have eyes, you 0:18:06.920 --> 0:18:09.600 will be attracted to him, unless you are a person 0:18:09.600 --> 0:18:12.240 of color, in which case then you're only not attracted 0:18:12.280 --> 0:18:14.439 to him because he's not a person of color. 0:18:14.920 --> 0:18:17.399 My thing is, my issue with him is that, like, 0:18:18.160 --> 0:18:19.680 he's cute for an old guy. 0:18:19.760 --> 0:18:22.880 I think everybody can acknowledge that, right, Like, I don't 0:18:22.880 --> 0:18:23.840 find that to be the case. 0:18:23.880 --> 0:18:26.040 Okay, well a lot of people because I know him. 0:18:26.160 --> 0:18:28.439 Well maybe if I just saw him, Okay, if you 0:18:28.520 --> 0:18:30.960 saw him walking down the street, you could say, oh, okay, 0:18:30.960 --> 0:18:34.560 he's cute or whatever. But once you get to know him, 0:18:34.640 --> 0:18:37.520 you get the instant it. And I think that that 0:18:37.720 --> 0:18:41.120 is what makes him the most unattractive man on the planet. Like, 0:18:41.440 --> 0:18:45.080 and maybe that's what it is. Oh, you don't think 0:18:45.080 --> 0:18:47.680 I'm cute? Oh and he only thinks this way when 0:18:47.680 --> 0:18:49.560