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Speaker 1: Second date update. It can be pretty frustrating when a

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Speaker 2: Well yeah, yeah, like.

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Speaker 1: When you go to the movie theater you find the

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Speaker 1: the band forgot their guitar. I don't think that you

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Speaker 1: go skydiving. They're out of parachutes, right, but they do

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Speaker 1: have a big bundle of those helium party balloons. So

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Speaker 1: you know, you give it a go, but it's just

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Speaker 2: I don't think you're after that skydiving day.

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Speaker 1: That's what happened to one of our listeners, justin, not skydiving,

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Speaker 1: but just his date didn't go the way he wanted

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Speaker 1: it to. So justin welcome to the show man.

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Speaker 3: Hey, thank you for having me out there.

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Speaker 2: Well, but you didn't say she jumped first.

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Speaker 1: Well we'll get to what you did on your date

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Speaker 1: in just a second, but first, tell us about the

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Speaker 1: person that you were meeting up with. Who, what, where,

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Speaker 1: when and why? That's a lot well just who, I

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Speaker 1: guess right now? Everything.

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Speaker 3: Well, her name was Robin. She's beautiful, has these really

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Speaker 2: I mean like, wow, oh that's awesome.

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Speaker 1: Brook has some sexy green eyes over there, like little

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Speaker 1: line of beans, like a like a mountain dew.

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Speaker 4: See them, probably like an almost compliment into an insult.

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Speaker 2: I get you, I get you us green eyed girls?

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Speaker 2: Were you know we stick together with rare.

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Speaker 3: Breed are Yeah, like real green eyes, not contacts or anything.

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Speaker 2: Like what you're going on? Okay, so wait where did

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Speaker 2: you meet her? Where'd you meet Robin?

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Speaker 3: We met on a dating app and we decided to

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Speaker 3: do like a dinner date.

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Speaker 4: Okay, was were you feeling a lot of pressure going

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Speaker 4: into this because it sounds like there's a lot of

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Speaker 3: Little bit, but like, I try not to get too

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Speaker 3: but the other person's probably feeling the same. So I

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Speaker 2: That is a good it's good life lesson right there?

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Speaker 5: Really they always say be yourself. I feel like a

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Speaker 5: lot of times if people try too hard, that's ruins.

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Speaker 1: Right. So you go to the restaurant for the date,

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Speaker 1: How does it go.

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Speaker 3: I ended up getting there a couple of minutes early, like,

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Speaker 1: Nice, bro, don't set that precedent. You're gonna be late

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Speaker 3: Forget this. So I'm there about fifteen minutes early, and

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Speaker 3: then I get a text that she's running late. So

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Speaker 3: I was like, oh, in there, of course.

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Speaker 2: That's how it always wears.

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Speaker 5: Yeah right, like.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but you know, like I completely understand. So I

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, how long that here was a while?

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Speaker 3: Like I'll tell you, Like, I saw another couple come

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Speaker 2: But she she did show up, right, and she stayed

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Speaker 3: She did. She stayed in contact. She showed up. You know,

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Speaker 1: And that can be hard though, after you've been waiting

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Speaker 4: A couple of drinks, I know, But you know, the

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and all the other couples around are looking over

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Speaker 5: Server, you know, this guy wants to make money off

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't do that. So how did it go

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Speaker 3: Well, I was happy just to like, you know, have

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Speaker 3: I didn't want to like make herself conscious. She's I

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Speaker 2: That's hard though, Like was she super frazzled.

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Speaker 3: She seemed a bit flustered. I don't know if it

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you just want to move forward, move on. And

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Speaker 3: I tried, but the vibe was just different from before,

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Speaker 3: like a really nice cocktail. When they brought it out,

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Speaker 1: She was really stressed out.

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Speaker 2: Yeah that's not a good look.

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Speaker 1: So some people broke speak for yourself was a huge

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I really like her. I feel like

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Speaker 3: She just seemed really distracted, like she got food, she

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Speaker 1: Okay, So how did you end this date with her?

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Speaker 3: So? I asked if she wanted to just go for

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Speaker 2: That's kind, that's suthful.

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Speaker 3: He said that she just kind of felt like she

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Speaker 3: I said, that's not a problem.

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Speaker 4: Did she give any indication that she wanted to see

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Speaker 4: I would feel really apologetic, right, like, like, oh my god,

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Speaker 4: I ruined this day. I was super late. I've been

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Speaker 4: totally distracted. Can you just give me a redo?

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Speaker 3: You know, she didn't even say sorry when she came in.

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Speaker 2: Ouch.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it definitely doesn't sound like you did anything wrong. No,

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Speaker 1: it sounds like there was something going on with her.

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Speaker 1: But let's call her and find out and we'll try

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Speaker 1: and get your second date update.

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Speaker 3: All right, that'd be great.

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Speaker 1: All right, man, hold on second date update. Let's take

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Speaker 1: this from the woman's perspective. Okay, she shows up an

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Speaker 1: hour light, She's in a sour mood, she's gulping down cocktails,

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Speaker 1: the guy still wants to see her again. Bro That's

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Speaker 1: how powerful it is to have a pair of sexy

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Speaker 1: green eyes. I bet Brooke wishes that she had a

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Speaker 2: Kay, Listen, my eyes don't work well, but they are green.

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Speaker 1: that's why one of our listeners, justin wants to call

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Speaker 1: Robin after he waited an hour at the restaurant for

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Speaker 1: got off the ground once she did. But those darn

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Speaker 2: Do you hit lima beans and now you're going to asparagus?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, like a sexy Diesel gas pupp Right, you

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Speaker 1: should say like an emerald or like a that's class,

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Speaker 1: that's what everybody does. What what do you think they

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Speaker 1: looks like? Justin how would you describe those green eyes?

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Speaker 3: I don't know, like magical little kiwi.

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Speaker 1: The outside, Yeah, kind of they're exotic.

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Speaker 4: O. Justin the thing For me with this girl, she

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Speaker 4: didn't apologize after she was so late. That doesn't rub

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Speaker 4: you wrong.

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Speaker 3: It does, But you know, just taking all the history

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Speaker 3: in the consideration, I thought like, maybe she's just something

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's nice.

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Speaker 5: The way you've been describing her. A lot of times,

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Speaker 1: They're used to people waiting on them.

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Speaker 5: Are you worried maybe this girl has like a ton

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Speaker 1: Trying to project onto him.

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Speaker 4: I waited on a positive note on you try one

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Speaker 2: I just did not have experience with Let's let Jose

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we have a lot of theories justin but we're

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Speaker 1: all right, just picture those beautiful key we eyes. There

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Speaker 6: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hi is this Robin?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Hey, my name is Jeff work on the morning radio

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Speaker 1: show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, and this is Jose.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and that is.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, thanks Jeff.

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Speaker 3: This is weird.

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Speaker 2: Wow, this is Brook. It sounds like you're busy, Robin.

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Speaker 1: And it is.

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Speaker 2: Hi, am Alexis.

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Speaker 1: That is Alexis.

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Speaker 2: I don't think she was asking for a round table introduction.

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Speaker 1: And you are now part of this thing called Brook

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Speaker 1: and Jeffrey in the Morning. Welcome, so bad.

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Speaker 6: Okay, what's going on? Did I win something or what's up?

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Speaker 2: Possibly?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, we're doing a segment called a second date update.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 1: The way that works is one of our listeners reaches

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Speaker 1: out to us and we call the person who they

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Speaker 1: went out on a date with and has been ghosting them,

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Speaker 1: and we're trying to help him figure out the reason why.

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Speaker 1: So the guy you went out with recently, his name's Justin.

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Speaker 3: Oh Justin.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, you can just tell him I'm not interested anymore.

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Speaker 2: You're not interesting.

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Speaker 4: Okay, you're not interested in Justin. He sounded like a

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Speaker 6: No, I mean, I've got my reasons.

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Speaker 1: Okay. Well, look that's okay, Like you're allowed to choose

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Speaker 1: for Justin's sanity, he's trying to figure out what went

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Speaker 1: wrong because he told us it took you a while

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Speaker 6: Mean, yeah I did, and I do feel bad about.

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Speaker 1: That, Like that seems like it's more on you and

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Speaker 1: it's less of what Justin did or are we are

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Speaker 6: No, it's totally what he did.

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Speaker 4: Wait, wait, wait, the one hour late thing was a test?

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Speaker 7: I mean I didn't like planet ahead of time, but

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Speaker 7: Like what is that?

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Speaker 4: It's a gentleman called patience and kindness and forgiveness.

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Speaker 2: No, I mean you were texting him the whole time.

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Speaker 2: You were leading him on. It's not like he sat

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Speaker 7: I only texted him twice and kept saying like I'm

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Speaker 4: Right.

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Speaker 1: Wait, so you're are you seriously saying that you're mad

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Speaker 7: No, I'm not mad at him. I just he's not

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Speaker 2: There, and he's too nice.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it's just kind of pathetic and it's just like

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Speaker 6: For like his master to show up.

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Speaker 7: Love puppies, I mean, yeah, I like an actual puppy,

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Speaker 4: I okay, I understand that you want somebody who's confident.

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Speaker 4: But to me, it's not that he wasn't confident, it's

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Speaker 4: just that he was forgiving. Those are two separate things,

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Speaker 4: and I think, like god, the world needs more of

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Speaker 6: I mean, no, spare me.

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Speaker 7: I think the world needs more men who like have

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Speaker 1: I think it takes a lot of backbone, Robin, to

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Speaker 1: whole time wanted to talk to you. Isn't that right, Justin?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, that's true My point.

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Speaker 1: Okay, point, come on, mister, confidences show it, Robin.

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Speaker 3: The reason I was waiting for you for so long

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Speaker 3: to you. Good, Look, I just hope you guys don't

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Speaker 7: Now you're just kind of like lashing out.

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Speaker 2: So no, it's kind of put that now, slashing out.

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Speaker 2: I thought that that's what you wanted him to do.

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Speaker 7: No, I wanted him to be confident and to like

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Speaker 4: Like.

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Speaker 1: No, okay, you wanted to be confident without being told

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Speaker 6: There's like a happy balance.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it really is.

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Speaker 2: But there is something mean not mean nice. Is there

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Speaker 6: No, I mean no, it's done.

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Speaker 7: I mean I hope I hope that just like teaches

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Speaker 3: But that's the thing. I'm not trying to go out

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Speaker 1: Right there, Let's go Justin.

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Speaker 4: Honestly, Robin, I never got not confident from Justin this

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Speaker 7: I did, really.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you should hear the way that he talks

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Speaker 3: Honestly, I've looked at Robin's green eyes in the flesh,

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Speaker 1: You think she's a phony green eyed girl?

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Speaker 3: Did you hear that? That was a thick burn on you? Robin?

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Speaker 1: Older?

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Speaker 6: Are you?

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Speaker 2: I mean, do we ask this?

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Speaker 1: I mean there's definitely some sort of fiery passion going.

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Speaker 5: I have to ask by saying you don't want to

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Speaker 1: Say, yes, do it? So, Robin, this is the time

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Speaker 1: to go on it. I don't think he even wants

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Speaker 1: hanging there. That's the type of guy, confident person that yes,

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Speaker 6: Thanks for the reverse psychology. I'm still good. I will

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's hard, all this testosterone in the room.

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Speaker 2: It's really strong. Actually, Jeffrey Jose.

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Speaker 1: And I screwed up. You know what, Robin, he should

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Speaker 1: be the one that asks you, as the strong, independent

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Speaker 1: man that he is. Go ahead, go ahead, justin.

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Speaker 3: Hey, Robin, I'd like to officially ask you out on

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Speaker 3: a date to a restaurant that's not even open. It's

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Speaker 2: But the health is that another bird?

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Speaker 1: Yeah you want some food poison.

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Speaker 7: Rob, You know, I don't know what the hell is

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Speaker 3: Because you're failing again?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, you're creating a monster.

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Speaker 4: Here's at this point, this is getting very unsexy. I

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Speaker 3: You can say what you want. But that's another sick burn.

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Speaker 5: Comedy you want to open anytime you want.

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Speaker 3: I'm just saying I'll take you up on that comedy.

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Speaker 3: I just need a clown like Robin to you know,

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Speaker 6: Why am I still on this phone call?

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 6: I think you're done now right.

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Speaker 1: I feel like you would have left if you really

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Speaker 3: I mean, it's just like he wants grave.

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Speaker 6: It's funny.

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Speaker 1: Well, he's stuck around for you and you're doing the

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 1: I call it kindness. Some call it weakness.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. My goal was to like defend him, like I

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Speaker 4: I was like.

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Speaker 1: He's just too sweet.

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Speaker 5: He has no bad or mean bone in his body.

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Speaker 5: Even know what he was trying to be mean, it

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Speaker 2: And I still don't like the girl. Like I hate tests.

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Speaker 4: I think tests sucks, you know, especially tests that make

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Speaker 5: Of the.

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Speaker 1: I know it's already like dating is already a hard

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: No, clearly women just don't want to have a nice,

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Speaker 4: That's not true, exactly, not a jerk. You can be

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Speaker 1: Like, Brook, I love you, but shut up for now,

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Speaker 1: because I gotta.

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Speaker 4: Tell everybody if that was aggressive, you are so with makeup.

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Speaker 2: Take it. Those are like backhanded compliments, all right.

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Speaker 1: Well, look, if you want to get a second date update,

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Speaker 1: you can always email the show and we'll try to

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Speaker 1: call the person who wasn't calling you back. I'm sure

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Speaker 1: it's going to be disappointing a brook In somewhere Brook

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