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We could 11 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:38,559 Speaker 1: be reading your letter live on the air, just like 12 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:42,160 Speaker 1: we're gonna read this one right here, right now. Ladies 13 00:00:42,159 --> 00:00:44,479 Speaker 1: and gentlemen, it is that time. It's time for today's 14 00:00:44,520 --> 00:00:49,479 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter with my good French Shirleys Strawberry. Thank you, junior. 15 00:00:49,640 --> 00:00:53,479 Speaker 1: Subject He's louder than I am, Dear Stephen Shirley. I 16 00:00:53,520 --> 00:00:56,000 Speaker 1: am a thirty three year old woman, and I recently 17 00:00:56,040 --> 00:00:59,400 Speaker 1: started dating a twenty five year old man. The age 18 00:00:59,440 --> 00:01:02,400 Speaker 1: difference really didn't bother me at first, but I am 19 00:01:02,440 --> 00:01:04,520 Speaker 1: starting to notice that he seems to be a little 20 00:01:04,560 --> 00:01:07,959 Speaker 1: bit inexperienced When it comes to sex. The first time 21 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 1: we got together, there was a lot of kissing involved, 22 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:14,200 Speaker 1: so I didn't quite notice how much noise he makes 23 00:01:14,319 --> 00:01:18,280 Speaker 1: in bed. I did notice that he was talking really dirty, 24 00:01:18,520 --> 00:01:20,880 Speaker 1: and maybe he thinks that all women are into that, 25 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:24,440 Speaker 1: or he hasn't been with that many women. Now that 26 00:01:24,520 --> 00:01:26,840 Speaker 1: we've done it a few times, it's starting to get 27 00:01:26,840 --> 00:01:30,600 Speaker 1: a little awkward and embarrassing. The other night, we tried 28 00:01:30,640 --> 00:01:33,000 Speaker 1: doing it in a few different positions, and he got 29 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:38,440 Speaker 1: louder each time. He was moaning and cursing. Then he 30 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:41,440 Speaker 1: started to scream my name, and I thought the neighbors 31 00:01:41,440 --> 00:01:44,480 Speaker 1: were going to think something was wrong. I should probably 32 00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:47,680 Speaker 1: take it as a compliment, but this is too over 33 00:01:47,720 --> 00:01:49,560 Speaker 1: the top to me, and I think he might be 34 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:52,760 Speaker 1: faking or exaggerating because he thinks that's what he's supposed 35 00:01:52,800 --> 00:01:55,720 Speaker 1: to do. He got very embarrassed when I called him 36 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:59,320 Speaker 1: out on it and said it's completely natural. I told 37 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:01,760 Speaker 1: him I don't like to be rude or obnoxious to 38 00:02:01,800 --> 00:02:04,840 Speaker 1: my neighbors, so he needs to work on being less noisy. 39 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:08,560 Speaker 1: I know this is a strange request because usually it's 40 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:12,120 Speaker 1: the woman the women that are the most vocal during intimacy, 41 00:02:12,240 --> 00:02:15,360 Speaker 1: but this guy cannot keep it down. I have tried 42 00:02:15,360 --> 00:02:17,840 Speaker 1: to play music or I'll leave the TV on to 43 00:02:17,960 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 1: drown out all of his screams and curse words, but 44 00:02:20,919 --> 00:02:24,000 Speaker 1: nothing works. He's a great guy and this is something 45 00:02:24,080 --> 00:02:29,000 Speaker 1: we can work on. I need some advice. Wow, you 46 00:02:29,120 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 1: just got to say something. I mean, you gotta let 47 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:34,480 Speaker 1: him know how you feel. You said you've talked to 48 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:37,560 Speaker 1: him before and he said it was natural. But I 49 00:02:37,639 --> 00:02:40,960 Speaker 1: think it's a little more serious than maybe you know 50 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:44,960 Speaker 1: you guys think it is, or especially him. You want 51 00:02:44,960 --> 00:02:46,800 Speaker 1: the sex to be good, but you don't want it 52 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:50,680 Speaker 1: to be annoying and embarrassing like you said, and awkward. 53 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:54,120 Speaker 1: You don't want it to be too too loud. I 54 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:57,440 Speaker 1: guess because of your neighbors. He's just in there, just 55 00:02:57,680 --> 00:03:02,600 Speaker 1: cussing and just hollering. Huh. Anyway, your neighbors don't need 56 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:04,520 Speaker 1: to know all your business. They don't need to know 57 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 1: what you're doing. They don't need to hear all of 58 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:09,360 Speaker 1: at all the time. I think the problem with letting 59 00:03:09,440 --> 00:03:14,320 Speaker 1: him know you know what you want is that you 60 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:16,640 Speaker 1: know you gotta be careful. You can do it, but 61 00:03:16,760 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 1: just don't crush the man. Don't crush you just you know, 62 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:23,800 Speaker 1: say you're telling him again because you know you really 63 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:26,000 Speaker 1: wanted to work out. Like you say, this is something 64 00:03:26,040 --> 00:03:28,680 Speaker 1: you guys can work on. But just be mindful of 65 00:03:28,720 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 1: his very fragile ego. You know men have fragile egos. 66 00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:34,920 Speaker 1: He's only twenty five, you have eight years on him, 67 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:38,800 Speaker 1: so um, let him know how you feel nicely. Hopefully 68 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:41,600 Speaker 1: he'll get the message and shut up with all that hollering. 69 00:03:41,880 --> 00:03:47,200 Speaker 1: Steve Na Shelley, that ain't it nice? Try to give 70 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:54,040 Speaker 1: a nice answer. Wholesome family entertainment. I got it for you, though, 71 00:03:54,480 --> 00:03:59,600 Speaker 1: no spread it. Three year old woman just started dating 72 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:05,720 Speaker 1: at it? Five year old man eight years Yeah, Now 73 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:10,200 Speaker 1: already a man is not fully matured at twenty five. 74 00:04:11,880 --> 00:04:17,800 Speaker 1: A woman is around thirty three. Women mature faster than men. 75 00:04:19,160 --> 00:04:22,800 Speaker 1: So your eight years difference in dog years is about 76 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:28,640 Speaker 1: twenty years years. These are humans. You way past this 77 00:04:28,839 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 1: board right here. You thirty three, twenty five. You putting 78 00:04:33,200 --> 00:04:38,680 Speaker 1: something on him. He ain't all hey, and it is 79 00:04:38,720 --> 00:04:43,839 Speaker 1: starting to show and he can't healthy. You say the 80 00:04:43,839 --> 00:04:47,480 Speaker 1: age didn't didn't bother you, but now you didn't notice it. 81 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:50,520 Speaker 1: You know, be a little bit experienced when it come 82 00:04:50,560 --> 00:04:54,440 Speaker 1: to say, man, you know, he just don't know what 83 00:04:54,520 --> 00:04:59,360 Speaker 1: you know? Now? Is he in experience or you some 84 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:07,640 Speaker 1: mal question? Again? Is he in experienced? Or are you 85 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:12,440 Speaker 1: something else? Are you a low end? Behold all hell? Now, 86 00:05:13,040 --> 00:05:15,559 Speaker 1: she don't sound reserved to me because first got together 87 00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:17,920 Speaker 1: a lot of kissing, so I ain't quite noticed how 88 00:05:17,960 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 1: much noise he was making it bad. I did notice 89 00:05:21,640 --> 00:05:23,719 Speaker 1: that he was talking really dirty, and maybe he thinks 90 00:05:23,760 --> 00:05:26,120 Speaker 1: that's what all women into. That he ain't been with 91 00:05:26,160 --> 00:05:29,240 Speaker 1: that many women. Now I don't know what he was saying. 92 00:05:29,520 --> 00:05:34,080 Speaker 1: We'll get to that in a minute. Oh lord, But 93 00:05:34,279 --> 00:05:36,400 Speaker 1: now that we didn't done it a few times, we 94 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:40,200 Speaker 1: just started get a little awkward embarrassed. Another night, we 95 00:05:40,440 --> 00:05:43,279 Speaker 1: tried doing it in a few positions, and he got 96 00:05:43,360 --> 00:05:50,640 Speaker 1: louder each time. He was morning, Oh oh, we're switching 97 00:05:50,920 --> 00:06:01,279 Speaker 1: positions out, another trick, tricking me again? Oh now you 98 00:06:01,320 --> 00:06:04,880 Speaker 1: want to put your knee on the night stand while 99 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:14,600 Speaker 1: I got my leg on the hater He na, crazy, man, 100 00:06:15,640 --> 00:06:18,120 Speaker 1: I'm gonna do it now, he was moaning and cousin. 101 00:06:18,440 --> 00:06:24,159 Speaker 1: Then he started to screaming, my name, achare dolie hockeys? 102 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:36,480 Speaker 1: Do it all? Listen to me? Do me the fucus 103 00:06:36,520 --> 00:06:44,000 Speaker 1: my ain't got true. Ye all right, Look, we'll let 104 00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:46,560 Speaker 1: part two of seeing the response coming up in twenty 105 00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:49,480 Speaker 1: three minutes after the hour today subject he's allowed, and 106 00:06:49,480 --> 00:06:52,760 Speaker 1: then I am. We'll get back into it right after this. 107 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:58,480 Speaker 1: You're listening to Steven Show. Come on, Steve, let's recap 108 00:06:58,520 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 1: today's strawberry letter. I think Key's louder than I am. Wow, 109 00:07:04,480 --> 00:07:07,840 Speaker 1: ye old grown third, This grown woman right here met 110 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:11,320 Speaker 1: the little boy. Well ain't grown man, but he twenty five. 111 00:07:12,160 --> 00:07:14,640 Speaker 1: She didn't that putting something on it he never had before. 112 00:07:15,840 --> 00:07:18,400 Speaker 1: She ain't noticed how much noise he made his bed. 113 00:07:19,280 --> 00:07:24,440 Speaker 1: Ain't talking me or dirty too? It too? I think, Yeah, 114 00:07:24,440 --> 00:07:26,360 Speaker 1: but I don't want to do that because y'all gonna 115 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:30,720 Speaker 1: But then he started to screaming my name. I'm a 116 00:07:30,880 --> 00:07:34,640 Speaker 1: repeat putting name for you, just the way he said it. 117 00:07:35,720 --> 00:07:44,840 Speaker 1: Oh my shall he just holloed. You thought the neighbors 118 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:47,760 Speaker 1: was gonna think something's wrong. I should probably take it 119 00:07:47,800 --> 00:07:50,360 Speaker 1: as a compliment, but this is too over the top 120 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:53,160 Speaker 1: for me, and I think we might be faking it. 121 00:07:55,200 --> 00:08:02,320 Speaker 1: Faking it, how you faking holly hold and cussing. I 122 00:08:02,400 --> 00:08:05,080 Speaker 1: think he's exaggerating because he thinks that's what he's supposed 123 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:07,120 Speaker 1: to do. He got very in burst what I call 124 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:10,280 Speaker 1: him out on it and staid it's completely natural. I 125 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:12,760 Speaker 1: told him I don't like to be rude obnoxious to 126 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:15,800 Speaker 1: my neighbors, so we need to work on being less noisy. 127 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:18,560 Speaker 1: I know this is a strange question because usually it's 128 00:08:18,560 --> 00:08:21,320 Speaker 1: the woman that's the most vocal doing intimacy, but this 129 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:23,680 Speaker 1: guy can't keep it down. I'm trying to play music, 130 00:08:23,840 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 1: I lead a TV on the drawing out all the 131 00:08:25,720 --> 00:08:29,320 Speaker 1: screams and cuts word, but ain't nothing work. He's a 132 00:08:29,360 --> 00:08:31,040 Speaker 1: great guy, and this is something we can work on. 133 00:08:31,080 --> 00:08:35,119 Speaker 1: I need some advice. Well, me and Shirley gonna reenact 134 00:08:35,360 --> 00:08:39,559 Speaker 1: something on radio. You know it's gonna be read radio 135 00:08:39,720 --> 00:08:43,640 Speaker 1: version of So Shirley, what I want you to do. 136 00:08:44,600 --> 00:08:48,080 Speaker 1: It's just not this is what we're doing. This is 137 00:08:48,120 --> 00:08:52,600 Speaker 1: actually happening in real time. They're in bed and all 138 00:08:52,679 --> 00:08:56,839 Speaker 1: she's trying to do is have a normal conversation with him. 139 00:08:56,880 --> 00:09:02,240 Speaker 1: But he ain't trying to have It's just a normal conversation, okay, 140 00:09:02,800 --> 00:09:07,040 Speaker 1: like your I mean, you know, just regular conversation about 141 00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:10,240 Speaker 1: how the day winning, anything like that. He turning it 142 00:09:10,320 --> 00:09:19,040 Speaker 1: all around. Okay, yeah, high honey, Hi, hell whoa girl? 143 00:09:19,720 --> 00:09:25,480 Speaker 1: Highway better than low? Come on over here, high for you? 144 00:09:25,840 --> 00:09:29,400 Speaker 1: I know getting here? Well, i'm him. We both handsled everything. 145 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:33,880 Speaker 1: I got handsome, I got a hand and song for you. 146 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:38,960 Speaker 1: Come on over here, got about to get gnashed, honey. 147 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:40,600 Speaker 1: How was your day? Did you have a good day? 148 00:09:40,760 --> 00:09:43,200 Speaker 1: How to hear you think my day was? I was 149 00:09:43,280 --> 00:09:48,040 Speaker 1: thinking about tonight the whole damn day and touching and 150 00:09:48,120 --> 00:09:51,800 Speaker 1: snatching and biting and chewing, rastling and flipping and snipping 151 00:09:51,840 --> 00:09:56,319 Speaker 1: and skidding baby long. Really that's all lights, all everything. 152 00:09:56,360 --> 00:09:59,200 Speaker 1: I got everything over here. Well, you're hungry, honey. I 153 00:09:59,280 --> 00:10:04,000 Speaker 1: was gonna yeah, yeah, like a snap. You fitning it 154 00:10:04,440 --> 00:10:07,000 Speaker 1: like a pepper road at pizza with it your meat 155 00:10:07,120 --> 00:10:10,360 Speaker 1: or the girl. I was gonna just take care you up. 156 00:10:10,640 --> 00:10:13,400 Speaker 1: I'm steaking potatoes in a veggie that you are. You 157 00:10:13,520 --> 00:10:18,280 Speaker 1: look like a steak air potato. Yeah, you look like 158 00:10:18,320 --> 00:10:21,160 Speaker 1: a hungry man TV dinner. Come on me and cut 159 00:10:21,160 --> 00:10:23,320 Speaker 1: that TV off. So come back to fact, cut that 160 00:10:23,360 --> 00:10:25,280 Speaker 1: TV off. So the neighbor game hit me. He did 161 00:10:25,320 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 1: a hungry man dinner. But I didn't know what you wanted, mate, 162 00:10:28,880 --> 00:10:32,000 Speaker 1: But did you just say but that's exactly what I'm 163 00:10:32,040 --> 00:10:36,560 Speaker 1: looking for some mod But what did you want for 164 00:10:36,600 --> 00:10:39,520 Speaker 1: a dessert? Honey? With this, I got all the dessert 165 00:10:39,600 --> 00:10:44,360 Speaker 1: I need. I want so putting back. I want so 166 00:10:44,559 --> 00:10:48,640 Speaker 1: putting back that what I want? Did you want drink first? 167 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:54,600 Speaker 1: Or did you first? Nobody want nothing to drank? Girl, 168 00:10:54,640 --> 00:11:00,480 Speaker 1: I finna drink your bad water? What I fitna drank? Well, well, 169 00:11:00,480 --> 00:11:02,880 Speaker 1: I am kind of tired. I did need like a 170 00:11:02,960 --> 00:11:05,920 Speaker 1: foot rub or something, but I got tired to rub 171 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:10,000 Speaker 1: your foot. Yeah, let's put your foot in my mouth. 172 00:11:10,200 --> 00:11:13,680 Speaker 1: I want I want to do good. Put your whole 173 00:11:13,960 --> 00:11:16,720 Speaker 1: foot down in my nash, in myth while I'm cussing. 174 00:11:17,080 --> 00:11:19,160 Speaker 1: I want your foot in my mouth while I'm cussing 175 00:11:19,240 --> 00:11:23,520 Speaker 1: on it, cussing on your toes. Well, honey, after dinner, 176 00:11:23,640 --> 00:11:26,319 Speaker 1: did you want to watch a movie or something? Yeah, 177 00:11:26,400 --> 00:11:31,040 Speaker 1: y'all want to watch a movie, pawto a matter of fact, 178 00:11:31,120 --> 00:11:34,520 Speaker 1: let's make it our damn self nasty movie. We don't 179 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:37,400 Speaker 1: call it two nasty people making a movie after dinner. 180 00:11:38,400 --> 00:11:43,280 Speaker 1: That's a lost. Everybody gonna want it. I got a 181 00:11:43,320 --> 00:11:46,040 Speaker 1: old sun. We have to meet me seeing on the 182 00:11:46,080 --> 00:11:51,240 Speaker 1: shower curtain. Well, you know this weekend is labor day, 183 00:11:51,400 --> 00:11:57,760 Speaker 1: so um label you try to have a baby. All 184 00:11:57,760 --> 00:11:59,320 Speaker 1: are we gonna be doing it that? All? We're gonna 185 00:11:59,320 --> 00:12:03,679 Speaker 1: have a baby Friday. You were trying to get some 186 00:12:03,800 --> 00:12:06,000 Speaker 1: of this hill. I wanted to know if you wanted 187 00:12:06,040 --> 00:12:07,719 Speaker 1: to have people over or did you want to go 188 00:12:07,880 --> 00:12:15,120 Speaker 1: to people Argent, Harry, everybody can come over your shifted 189 00:12:15,280 --> 00:12:19,839 Speaker 1: nat Neil Gardine Neil everybody. Yeah, we could, you know, 190 00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:22,079 Speaker 1: like to put some barbecue on the grill or something. 191 00:12:22,160 --> 00:12:27,800 Speaker 1: Put some meat on the grill, real real, yo, that's 192 00:12:27,800 --> 00:12:29,920 Speaker 1: what I've been trying to ral. Put a grill mark 193 00:12:30,040 --> 00:12:32,520 Speaker 1: on it right now, look like a scratchlor went across 194 00:12:32,559 --> 00:12:39,079 Speaker 1: that spack spack. That's the problem. She's happy you got 195 00:12:39,120 --> 00:12:43,480 Speaker 1: out of you old boy man. Everything you say to 196 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:48,400 Speaker 1: a twenty for his hormones is raging and there's nothing 197 00:12:48,440 --> 00:12:51,240 Speaker 1: you could do about it. I want to applaud myself 198 00:12:51,320 --> 00:12:55,240 Speaker 1: for it. Give it an edited, nasty version with no 199 00:12:55,480 --> 00:12:59,360 Speaker 1: cussing and very radio playable. They'll be running that back 200 00:12:59,600 --> 00:13:02,000 Speaker 1: on the car to contract. Thank you so much, post 201 00:13:02,000 --> 00:13:04,839 Speaker 1: your comments. Thank you Steve on Today's Strawberry Letter and 202 00:13:04,920 --> 00:13:09,400 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook, and check out 203 00:13:09,400 --> 00:13:12,120 Speaker 1: the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand now coming up in 204 00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:14,559 Speaker 1: forty six minutes after you know what time it is, 205 00:13:14,960 --> 00:13:17,920 Speaker 1: our girl from The Talk, Cheryl Underwood, would be here. 206 00:13:18,320 --> 00:13:21,000 Speaker 1: You're listening to The Steve Harvey Morning Show.