1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:00,440 Speaker 1: Mourning. 2 00:00:00,440 --> 00:00:03,680 Speaker 2: Everybody is DJ n V Charlemagne the God. We are 3 00:00:03,720 --> 00:00:05,680 Speaker 2: the Breakfast Club. We got our guest co host, Kim 4 00:00:05,680 --> 00:00:08,320 Speaker 2: Whitley head joining us. Now, if you're just joining us, 5 00:00:08,400 --> 00:00:11,000 Speaker 2: we're talking about Ebony k Williams. She talked about she 6 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 2: would never date a bus driver, and then she doubled 7 00:00:13,800 --> 00:00:14,880 Speaker 2: down and said this. 8 00:00:15,120 --> 00:00:18,960 Speaker 3: I only saw a handful that even considered the possibility 9 00:00:19,320 --> 00:00:23,160 Speaker 3: of a bus owner being a more aspirational position. Now, 10 00:00:23,160 --> 00:00:25,279 Speaker 3: I suspect that some of y'all are the same men 11 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:28,400 Speaker 3: that were bringing home c's and d's on your report cards, 12 00:00:28,640 --> 00:00:31,160 Speaker 3: only to then be coddled by parents that said, well, 13 00:00:31,160 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 3: that's okay as long as you're doing your best. Well, listen, 14 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 3: I love and believe in the excellence of black men. 15 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:40,479 Speaker 3: So no, my dear c's and d's or any other 16 00:00:40,560 --> 00:00:44,239 Speaker 3: form of mediocrity is not okay. But could it be 17 00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:48,160 Speaker 3: that black America has been sold a narrative of average, 18 00:00:48,400 --> 00:00:53,320 Speaker 3: regular and typical being good enough for us? Well, see, 19 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:54,760 Speaker 3: that's called white supremacy. 20 00:00:54,920 --> 00:00:57,040 Speaker 2: So we're taking your phone calls this morning. What's your thoughts? 21 00:00:57,040 --> 00:00:57,680 Speaker 1: Hell her? Who's this? 22 00:00:58,160 --> 00:00:58,360 Speaker 3: Hi? 23 00:00:58,440 --> 00:00:59,320 Speaker 2: My name is j Nay. 24 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:01,840 Speaker 4: I'm tining some Detroit. 25 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 1: Shirley, name him what Mama. 26 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:08,920 Speaker 5: I definitely feel like this is the reason why she's single. 27 00:01:08,959 --> 00:01:11,919 Speaker 6: I feel like, if the person is putting God first, 28 00:01:12,520 --> 00:01:15,400 Speaker 6: is loving you unconditionally, why should the occupation matter? 29 00:01:15,880 --> 00:01:18,959 Speaker 4: Because she want to go to dinner somewhere I guess expensive, 30 00:01:19,000 --> 00:01:20,760 Speaker 4: and you know women are like who paying? 31 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:26,000 Speaker 5: So I'm with him, like me and my husband. 32 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:27,319 Speaker 3: We get out here, we work harrd. 33 00:01:27,680 --> 00:01:30,840 Speaker 4: You know, I have I fears praying to him. 34 00:01:30,920 --> 00:01:33,880 Speaker 5: He has too. He's but he loves God first, and 35 00:01:33,920 --> 00:01:36,600 Speaker 5: he loves me and my kids. So long as he's 36 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:38,680 Speaker 5: somebody and meeting all I needs. 37 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:41,160 Speaker 6: Get out here and do what you need to do 38 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:41,679 Speaker 6: to get out. 39 00:01:41,560 --> 00:01:44,199 Speaker 5: Of here, and hustle and make sure that your family 40 00:01:44,280 --> 00:01:46,520 Speaker 5: is doing you know, you're taking care of your family. 41 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 6: But that's probably why she sings her now. 42 00:01:48,480 --> 00:01:52,000 Speaker 4: So yeah, all right, thank there's some good advertisement for 43 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:53,600 Speaker 4: I'm telling you, we just said her name so many 44 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 4: times this morning, several times. 45 00:01:57,320 --> 00:01:58,600 Speaker 2: But you know, you know what I maybe think about 46 00:01:58,600 --> 00:02:00,840 Speaker 2: it too, is the people that support Ebony, that watch 47 00:02:00,840 --> 00:02:03,400 Speaker 2: her shows, that watch her own reality shows, that watch 48 00:02:03,560 --> 00:02:06,760 Speaker 2: her new judge show. Those are quote unquote. 49 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:10,200 Speaker 6: The average average, Those average people you're talking about the 50 00:02:10,320 --> 00:02:14,080 Speaker 6: everyday working class are who you want to support your podcast. 51 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 4: You don't want them to turn away from you because 52 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:18,560 Speaker 4: it's gonna go down, gonna go dowsh Right. 53 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:22,080 Speaker 1: Hello, who's this Hi? It's Rachel Rachel. 54 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 2: Good morning, talk to us. Rachel, what do you think 55 00:02:23,440 --> 00:02:24,959 Speaker 2: about Emny K Williams comments? 56 00:02:25,240 --> 00:02:29,000 Speaker 5: Good morning? I myself am attended for all the many 57 00:02:29,120 --> 00:02:36,440 Speaker 5: students that I've educated who have become bus drivers, plumbers, electricians. 58 00:02:36,840 --> 00:02:41,079 Speaker 5: She needs to retract her comment and make it more personal. Yeah, 59 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:45,000 Speaker 5: she's a millionaire and she prefers to date one. She 60 00:02:45,080 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 5: should say that, but she should not pluck down about 61 00:02:49,600 --> 00:02:53,440 Speaker 5: men who are out there working hard normal quote unquote 62 00:02:53,440 --> 00:02:56,280 Speaker 5: normal job. But I'm more offended about it. He's and 63 00:02:56,400 --> 00:03:01,160 Speaker 5: D's comments right, educating students ninety nine and I am 64 00:03:01,160 --> 00:03:05,960 Speaker 5: a mother and that is so disrespectful. Yeah, there are 65 00:03:06,040 --> 00:03:09,120 Speaker 5: children out here who can only get a seat. Do 66 00:03:09,160 --> 00:03:09,840 Speaker 5: you know why? 67 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:10,200 Speaker 3: Why? 68 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:16,680 Speaker 6: Learning learning disabilities? I said learning disabilities, but it also 69 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:18,720 Speaker 6: a systemic bias and education. 70 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:20,640 Speaker 3: Yep, thank you, And. 71 00:03:20,919 --> 00:03:21,840 Speaker 5: There's a good bias. 72 00:03:21,880 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 7: My kids are taking a New York to Day mouth esterday. 73 00:03:24,200 --> 00:03:28,080 Speaker 7: They're not ready for it, right, because it's a bias. Yes, 74 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:31,560 Speaker 7: so how to see though these weren't their best and 75 00:03:31,560 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 7: if parents weren't doing their best, that was a horror. 76 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:39,160 Speaker 7: A promise and she really really need say something again. 77 00:03:39,760 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 2: Well, thank you, Rachel, and we appreciate you being a teacher. 78 00:03:42,040 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 2: We know how tough it is, we know how difficult 79 00:03:43,680 --> 00:03:45,440 Speaker 2: it is. I know you don't get the supplies you need. 80 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 2: I know you overwork, and I know you got to 81 00:03:47,480 --> 00:03:50,240 Speaker 2: deal with some of them crazy kids. Sometimes we appreciate you, Yes, 82 00:03:50,320 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 2: we do, thank you. 83 00:03:51,600 --> 00:03:55,040 Speaker 5: I appreciate you, guys, because promise like this should. 84 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:57,160 Speaker 4: Be just stuff, but this might be a learning lesson 85 00:03:57,160 --> 00:03:57,720 Speaker 4: for Rachel. 86 00:03:57,720 --> 00:03:59,240 Speaker 2: Where you could be from, Rachel. 87 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 1: I'm from the Bronx. 88 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:02,040 Speaker 5: I teach in the Bronx as well. 89 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:04,560 Speaker 2: Oh j have mercy God? Can we buy you some 90 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 2: mos today? Can we buy you some lunch today? Could 91 00:04:06,440 --> 00:04:08,040 Speaker 2: send you a teacher from the Bronx. What's your cash? 92 00:04:08,080 --> 00:04:11,080 Speaker 7: App Absolutely? But what I was prefered is I on 93 00:04:11,280 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 7: au start in parliament. I support there. 94 00:04:14,680 --> 00:04:15,400 Speaker 6: You go see. 95 00:04:15,440 --> 00:04:18,040 Speaker 1: I like that. Go ahead, go Faith. 96 00:04:18,400 --> 00:04:21,360 Speaker 7: I'm at Faith ninety too. 97 00:04:21,480 --> 00:04:24,400 Speaker 2: Madison Avenue unks place? What's it called ninety two? What 98 00:04:24,480 --> 00:04:25,680 Speaker 2: Madison Avenue. 99 00:04:25,680 --> 00:04:27,000 Speaker 7: Nineteen sixty two? 100 00:04:27,120 --> 00:04:30,720 Speaker 2: Madison Avenue nineteen sixty two, Madison Avenue. If you're in Harlem, 101 00:04:30,760 --> 00:04:33,240 Speaker 2: go check her out. And we appreciate you again, Rachel. 102 00:04:33,360 --> 00:04:34,120 Speaker 5: Thank you, Thank you. 103 00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:35,680 Speaker 7: Guys, appreciate the Bright Club. 104 00:04:36,320 --> 00:04:37,040 Speaker 4: Absolutely. 105 00:04:37,120 --> 00:04:37,599 Speaker 7: I'm rich. 106 00:04:37,640 --> 00:04:41,039 Speaker 1: Good morning, rich, good morning, good morning son. Now you 107 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:41,680 Speaker 1: agree with. 108 00:04:41,680 --> 00:04:43,480 Speaker 2: Me, you agree with Abney Kate Williams. 109 00:04:43,880 --> 00:04:47,080 Speaker 1: I bet that she could have worded that better. But 110 00:04:47,400 --> 00:04:50,359 Speaker 1: at the same tour game. All right, So I was 111 00:04:50,440 --> 00:04:54,760 Speaker 1: I was a trash worker for twenty years, right and 112 00:04:55,640 --> 00:04:58,159 Speaker 1: they and they made us out here. I started my 113 00:04:58,200 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 1: own company with my wife from I saw the home 114 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:03,359 Speaker 1: companies this then. But there's nothing wrong with being a 115 00:05:03,400 --> 00:05:07,160 Speaker 1: trash worker. Nobody aspire us to be a trash worker, 116 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:10,200 Speaker 1: you see what I'm saying. So we have to do so, 117 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 1: you know, our parents have to do better, to push 118 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:17,640 Speaker 1: us to do better. You know, although we we are 119 00:05:17,680 --> 00:05:20,680 Speaker 1: sex workers, we we are needed out here, we are necessary, 120 00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:23,719 Speaker 1: but we're not looking. We'll always look down upon. 121 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:25,159 Speaker 2: No, you're not. 122 00:05:25,720 --> 00:05:28,880 Speaker 6: No, you're not not not in New York Because when 123 00:05:28,880 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 6: that trash start piling up the front, where is the 124 00:05:30,960 --> 00:05:32,039 Speaker 6: sanitation workers? 125 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:34,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, where a pick. 126 00:05:34,320 --> 00:05:34,840 Speaker 3: Up the work. 127 00:05:35,279 --> 00:05:37,680 Speaker 1: But I'm gonna put up. I'm gonna put a thude 128 00:05:37,720 --> 00:05:40,760 Speaker 1: like this, we are we all want this when we 129 00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:44,200 Speaker 1: are needed, but when we aren't needed, they don't. They 130 00:05:44,200 --> 00:05:45,280 Speaker 1: don't want to look at us like that. 131 00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:48,400 Speaker 2: But that's the y y'all, you're always needed. I can't 132 00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:49,760 Speaker 2: think of the time that y'are not needed. 133 00:05:49,839 --> 00:05:50,039 Speaker 6: Never. 134 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:52,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it's changed. I think that might have 135 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:54,719 Speaker 4: been twenty years ago. I tried to holler at my 136 00:05:54,920 --> 00:05:57,640 Speaker 4: uh my trash worker. He was so fine he got 137 00:05:57,640 --> 00:06:01,240 Speaker 4: off that truck. I was like, wait a minute, I. 138 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:03,400 Speaker 2: Said, how you doing? Let me help you with that 139 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:07,080 Speaker 2: bad I canna lie. I mean, I appreciate all the 140 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 2: sanitation under all of them. Sometimes when you block the streets, 141 00:06:10,080 --> 00:06:11,480 Speaker 2: sometimes we can't get by. But other than that, I 142 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:15,599 Speaker 2: appreciate you got that's right, that's right. What's the biler story. 143 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:17,560 Speaker 6: That the moral of the story is that everyday working 144 00:06:17,560 --> 00:06:21,080 Speaker 6: class people are not average, they're not mediocre, they're not typical. 145 00:06:21,320 --> 00:06:23,800 Speaker 6: And it's the level of eliticism in those words that 146 00:06:23,839 --> 00:06:25,640 Speaker 6: I don't like. And you know, Ebany is the homie. 147 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:28,280 Speaker 6: She's entitled her preference. She can date whoever she wants 148 00:06:28,279 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 6: to date, she can have whatever standard she wants. Well, 149 00:06:30,480 --> 00:06:33,560 Speaker 6: let's not put down everyday working class people in the process, 150 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:37,719 Speaker 6: and us entertainers. We need to stop over inflating our worth. Okay, 151 00:06:37,760 --> 00:06:40,640 Speaker 6: we are not essential and if those everyday working class 152 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:43,279 Speaker 6: people don't support us, we don't have careers. 153 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:46,400 Speaker 2: Right, no, right, it's the Breakfast Club. Good morning,