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Speaker 1: The Nicky Glazer. Yes, nick, here's Nikki here. I am hello.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the Nicki Glazer Podcast. It's Monday morning here

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Speaker 1: in St. Louis, Missouri. UM, if you're watching the YouTube feed,

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Speaker 1: I'm wearing a robe. Um it's a robe day. I

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Speaker 1: just felt like it. We have a special guest on

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Speaker 1: the show who has a matching robe, so we decided

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Speaker 1: to match my best friend from fourth grade and on

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Speaker 1: um Kirsten, who many of you already know. You've heard

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Speaker 1: her on my previous podcast You Up, and she was

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Speaker 1: on my serious show You Up. I talked about her

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Speaker 1: all the time on here. She's like my funniest first friend,

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Speaker 1: UM and still kind of the funniest person ever. She's

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Speaker 1: been here, she's been staying with me all weekend, and

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Speaker 1: I gotta I gotta be honest. There are times where

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Speaker 1: I'm like, will you just fill in for me? Like you?

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Speaker 1: She's given me so many good ideas for for bits.

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Speaker 1: She just thinks in a way she thinks with a

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Speaker 1: comedian's mind of like observing little things that you go,

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Speaker 1: oh my god. She really just, like you know, um,

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Speaker 1: articulated that annoying thing that I didn't even know that

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Speaker 1: I that I do know, you know, as I say

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Speaker 1: this on stage, but a comedian's job we have if

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Speaker 1: we're doing the ven diagram of what a comedian does.

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Speaker 1: A good comedian, Um, the idea that something is funny

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Speaker 1: is when something is extremely true. So that's one circle

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Speaker 1: is it's true, like the most true thing ever, right,

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Speaker 1: and then the other circle is you hadn't thought of

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Speaker 1: it before, like the general public hadn't thought of it before.

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Speaker 1: So if you're able to get those perfectly one circle,

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Speaker 1: you have the best joke ever. If you you could

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Speaker 1: either do one of one of each, you know, like

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Speaker 1: you could be in just the true thing and sometimes

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Speaker 1: that's funny enough, or you could just be in the

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Speaker 1: never thought of it before, but the reaction you went

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Speaker 1: from a crowd. At least I do. And what I

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Speaker 1: think causes laughter laughter is a response that we have.

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Speaker 1: I mean, the evolutionary theory I think behind it is

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Speaker 1: that when you laugh, like it makes a loud noise

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Speaker 1: and it's um scarce, it will scare away something. So

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Speaker 1: it's something that you do in response to surprise. UM.

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Speaker 1: That's why a lot of people laugh when they when

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Speaker 1: something traumatic is happening. UM, like you know when Louis apparently,

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Speaker 1: you know, like allegedly took out his penis and the

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Speaker 1: girls laughed. Everyone kind of goes, uh, well, why were

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Speaker 1: they laughing? They then they enjoyed it. It's like no,

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Speaker 1: they were like scared. And that's what you do in

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Speaker 1: response to like something scary. When I hit a garbage

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Speaker 1: van with my car when I was sixteen, I put

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Speaker 1: my car in park after I hit him, and I

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Speaker 1: started laughing because I was just like that was did

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Speaker 1: that happen? I was just like like there there. Then

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Speaker 1: came the tears and the guilt and the reef and everything,

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Speaker 1: but like my first reaction was like laughter. It was

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Speaker 1: really bizarre. But it also shows your teeth, which you know,

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Speaker 1: when we were dealing with predators and things, if you

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Speaker 1: bare your teeth, that's a sign of aggression, to be like,

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Speaker 1: back off, you're surprising me, and I'm trying to scare

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Speaker 1: you away. Like nothing scared someone away more than someone

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Speaker 1: cackling needlessly. But you laugh when you're surprised, right, And

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Speaker 1: so the best response from an audience member is to

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Speaker 1: go is to have them whispered, just to go, oh

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Speaker 1: my god, that's so true. You do that I do that.

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Speaker 1: I didn't even realize I did that. That's why, Like,

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Speaker 1: there's one joke I'm doing right now in my act

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Speaker 1: that is so disgusting Noah, Like I can't even say

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Speaker 1: what it is because I don't want to ruin it

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Speaker 1: because I think it's gonna go in my special. But

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Speaker 1: it is so such a bad image. But it's true

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Speaker 1: and no one can deny it's true. And that's the

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Speaker 1: that's the joy I have in it where I go,

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Speaker 1: you know, I don't want to do that joke, not

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Speaker 1: trying to like make you guys go like, oh my god.

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Speaker 1: I like it because it's something that is true for

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Speaker 1: almost every single human in the world. I found something

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Speaker 1: that no one has thought of that is true for

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Speaker 1: every single human. That is seriously crazy and um and

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Speaker 1: I but but the thing a lot of comedians, I

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Speaker 1: think before comedians become comedians, I have memories a lot

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Speaker 1: of real life like this particular joke. It's a disgusting joke,

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Speaker 1: like truly incestually disgusting, right, Um. But I thought of

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Speaker 1: it probably in like third grade, like made the realization

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Speaker 1: that's oh my god. And I remember thinking that maybe,

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Speaker 1: like every human has probably arrived at this realization, but

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Speaker 1: in my act too, because I kind of deconstruct the

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Speaker 1: just doing jokes to shock people, and this thing is

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Speaker 1: so shocking that it's almost seems like that, especially as

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Speaker 1: a female comic, like you just get so much ridicule

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Speaker 1: and criticism for like she's just you'll be talking about sucks,

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Speaker 1: which people think is easy to get laughs, which sometimes

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Speaker 1: it is because it's taboo equals surprising equals easy laughter.

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Speaker 1: It's you know, it's like sprinkling your act with fuck

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Speaker 1: or sprinkling your act with Listen, you guys are not

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Speaker 1: gonna like this. No, no, no, tell us we're gonna

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Speaker 1: like it. You guys know the tricks of the edge. Um,

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Speaker 1: but I uh, yeah, I have to go into this

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Speaker 1: whole like deconstruction of this joke because I feel so

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Speaker 1: guilty that it's so gross and everyone in the crowd

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Speaker 1: is just like, and I go, but that's our job.

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Speaker 1: Is to I go that ven diagram, I kind of

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Speaker 1: describe it. I go, that is that's a full circle

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Speaker 1: right there, like that that joke, And are certain things

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Speaker 1: like that in my life that I've stumbled upon, Like

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Speaker 1: the skeletons are always laughing. That's something that like has

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Speaker 1: always been there and I'm sure other people have thought

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Speaker 1: of it positive that someone else has been like, it's

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Speaker 1: funny that skeletons always look like they're smiling, or burn

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Speaker 1: victims always look like they're smiling, which is ironic because

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Speaker 1: skeletons are are dead people and burn victims are you know,

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Speaker 1: badly injured people generally, why would they be like it's

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Speaker 1: it's it's funny because it's ironic because like when you

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Speaker 1: have no lists, it looks like you're siling constantly. Um.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what my point is, um, but skeletons

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Speaker 1: as do you ever just think like, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to die and like be in a grave,

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Speaker 1: like you'll be just like very happy. You've never seen

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Speaker 1: a weepie skeleton, um or a depressed skeleton. Uh, that's

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Speaker 1: it actually sounds like a children's book The Depressed Skeleton. Um, well,

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Speaker 1: I was in in college. I think you were talking about, um,

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Speaker 1: Kirsten being like the ven Diagram of comedy than me. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and just like this weekend, Noah, did you see my

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Speaker 1: stories where we were making fun of Instagram. I'm I

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Speaker 1: it a little too good. The thing is we're not

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Speaker 1: the first ones to mock this like faux sincerity. Um.

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Speaker 1: Kind of like like the presentation that your life is

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Speaker 1: cozy and perfect and you're just like you're you're a

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Speaker 1: cute girl, but you're like trying to be like you're not.

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Speaker 1: Like that's been mocked endlessly. Like there's so many you know,

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Speaker 1: Instagram accounts just making fun of these things. What Kirsten

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Speaker 1: at dinner on Friday night, was that she did this.

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Speaker 1: She did a selfie where I think she was looking

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Speaker 1: doesn't this look like a post where someone would be like, guys,

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Speaker 1: I've really thought a lot about my life this week,

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Speaker 1: and I challenge all of you to really contemplate and

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Speaker 1: take a break for yourself. And it was just like

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Speaker 1: the way it was just such a you know that

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Speaker 1: I've always said that when celebrities do face masks, you know, well,

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Speaker 1: guess what your whole face is. There's nothing vulnerable about that.

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Speaker 1: That is not no makeup. That's extra, that's clown makeup,

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Speaker 1: being like, aren't I vulnerable? I just hate the if

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Speaker 1: someone's not aware of what they're doing, fine, but if

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Speaker 1: me about this couple she knows that like started an

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Speaker 1: accounts to put fire emojis under their Like how sad

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Speaker 1: Like you know, I'm I used to wake up every

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Speaker 1: guess it's the same thing as as putting a fire

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Speaker 1: emoji on your own account, because it's something that I

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Speaker 1: I didn't want to have, and people looking for validation

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Speaker 1: outwardly and creating brands. Some may argue they're creating a

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Speaker 1: brand to get money for their family, so for their

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Speaker 1: loved ones, that's different. But this seems to be about

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Speaker 1: as you know, food addiction. It's just filling a hole

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Speaker 1: because you're not enough. I was just talking to Kristen

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Speaker 1: about this about exactly what we started talking about. No

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Speaker 1: this week. I'm sure i'll get to that. I can't

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Speaker 1: But this weekend they were filming Kirsten and I getting

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Speaker 1: talk about. I did a local show here, fucking insane,

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Speaker 1: I mean six, I this town is going to get

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Speaker 1: buck wild. I mean I love when a team wins

425
00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:09,159
Speaker 1: and then our house will somehow get destroyed, like you

426
00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:10,640
Speaker 1: know what I mean, Oh, you know what we're gonna

427
00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:13,200
Speaker 1: do to celebrate. I'm gonna light my own car on fire.

428
00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:17,320
Speaker 1: It's like this is a way for people to just

429
00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:21,360
Speaker 1: get insurance or insurance money if their team wins. It's like, no,

430
00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:27,520
Speaker 1: it's hometown pride or is a hurricane coming? How is

431
00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:33,160
Speaker 1: excitement lead to destruction? It's interesting how they like intertwined

432
00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:36,320
Speaker 1: the love and hate things right because they hate there's

433
00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:39,280
Speaker 1: destruction too. But it's like I don't know, it's like,

434
00:23:39,359 --> 00:23:43,320
Speaker 1: let's burn the shopping center because Tommy pitched. Well, did

435
00:23:43,359 --> 00:23:47,199
Speaker 1: you meet besties at the show? Uh? There were some

436
00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:50,600
Speaker 1: besties afterwards. There was the one I really loved the

437
00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:53,560
Speaker 1: first of all, the girl that was outside our apartment,

438
00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:56,879
Speaker 1: who was like the nicest girl ever, who randomly was

439
00:23:57,080 --> 00:23:59,439
Speaker 1: literally outside our door. I mean that was insane. That's

440
00:23:59,440 --> 00:24:00,919
Speaker 1: who I wanted to talk about. I forgot you were

441
00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:02,960
Speaker 1: there for that, and I'm so glad that you were.

442
00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:07,679
Speaker 1: We were driving back from getting spray t hands for

443
00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:11,439
Speaker 1: the show. We're I'm in Kurston's car, driving Curson's car,

444
00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:15,199
Speaker 1: pulling into my apartment and we park and these this

445
00:24:15,359 --> 00:24:18,280
Speaker 1: guy who's kind of trailed by a girl probably twenty

446
00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:20,720
Speaker 1: ft behind him, comes up and I don't really hear.

447
00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:23,159
Speaker 1: They're just like, are you did? What do they say?

448
00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:26,679
Speaker 1: He said? Are you Andrew? Did he say that something like?

449
00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:30,679
Speaker 1: I also have the whole All the people that are

450
00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:33,360
Speaker 1: usually following us with cameras are now not with cameras.

451
00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:35,440
Speaker 1: But just like you know, we're not filming right now,

452
00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:38,440
Speaker 1: so we're just going back into the department from shooting

453
00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:43,199
Speaker 1: at this Tanning place. Yeah, just for fun, And uh,

454
00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:44,919
Speaker 1: I mean, it's for fun and it could be for

455
00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:48,560
Speaker 1: something else, but no, I'm not saying that. And this

456
00:24:48,600 --> 00:24:50,720
Speaker 1: guy was like, are you nick And I'm like yeah,

457
00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:53,840
Speaker 1: and I was like he was like, my girlfriends like

458
00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:56,520
Speaker 1: a huge fan. And this girl, this adorable girl named

459
00:24:56,600 --> 00:25:00,000
Speaker 1: Annie is behind him, blonde hair, looks a little bit

460
00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:05,800
Speaker 1: Taylor Swift and me, I'm flattering myself, but she's adorable,

461
00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:08,359
Speaker 1: and she is like, oh my god. And I was

462
00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:11,240
Speaker 1: like are you guys, like, did you like know I

463
00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:13,520
Speaker 1: lived because they're like, we're just visiting from Memphis, were

464
00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:15,720
Speaker 1: coming to your show tonight. And I was like, wait

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00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:17,639
Speaker 1: where your did you like, no, I lived here and

466
00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:20,120
Speaker 1: we're like hanging out and they were like I think

467
00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:22,359
Speaker 1: they knew the neighborhood and so they were in the

468
00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:25,439
Speaker 1: neighborhood already. But she was just like, oh, I know

469
00:25:25,520 --> 00:25:27,800
Speaker 1: Nikki goes to that Whole Foods. But she was like,

470
00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:29,600
Speaker 1: there's no chance I'm gonna see her. And then all

471
00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:31,480
Speaker 1: of a sudden, I drive by and she was like,

472
00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:34,440
Speaker 1: oh my god, I think her boyfriend's name is Mark

473
00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:38,320
Speaker 1: or her husband Mark. That's that's Nicky Glazer. And he's like,

474
00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:39,840
Speaker 1: no way, and she's like I don't want to say anything.

475
00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:42,120
Speaker 1: And he is a salesman and so she was like,

476
00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:45,560
Speaker 1: he thought nothing of it. So he ran up into

477
00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:48,399
Speaker 1: the parking garage like it's an open thing, so he

478
00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:51,200
Speaker 1: doesn't like sneaking under a gate or something, and he

479
00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:54,080
Speaker 1: he came up to us and she's she was so sweet,

480
00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:56,879
Speaker 1: and I'm so glad she said hi, because I really

481
00:25:57,480 --> 00:26:00,800
Speaker 1: I hate when big fans don't say hi. And then

482
00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:02,600
Speaker 1: later on they're like, I was too scared. It's like,

483
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:05,160
Speaker 1: get that. I know what it's like to be nervous

484
00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:07,359
Speaker 1: to like say hi to someone. I'm telling you, I

485
00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:09,600
Speaker 1: won't make you feel weird about it. It will be

486
00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:14,600
Speaker 1: a good experience. And she was like shaking and crying.

487
00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:20,280
Speaker 1: It was so but I know she was unbelie and

488
00:26:20,359 --> 00:26:24,440
Speaker 1: she was a scientist and like, it's a cute scientist

489
00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:26,600
Speaker 1: likes me and listens to us all the time. And

490
00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:30,400
Speaker 1: she got into the podcast during the pandemic when I

491
00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:32,479
Speaker 1: was like going through depression having to like do my

492
00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:34,480
Speaker 1: show every day. She had just moved to Memphis, didn't

493
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:36,800
Speaker 1: have any friends, and she was like, you were my friend,

494
00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:38,320
Speaker 1: and I kind of didn't have any friends in St.

495
00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:40,600
Speaker 1: Louis either. I was just living with my parents. She's

496
00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:44,119
Speaker 1: living with her guy and like lonely, and she was like,

497
00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:46,200
Speaker 1: you kept me company. I'm like, you kept me company

498
00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:48,880
Speaker 1: and it was just lovely. And you know, some people

499
00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:50,560
Speaker 1: say this to me sometimes, but she was like, you're

500
00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:53,560
Speaker 1: like my Taylor Swift like to to make me understand

501
00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:56,560
Speaker 1: how it feels. And I I just get that because

502
00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:58,159
Speaker 1: you know, what I know is that I know if

503
00:26:58,440 --> 00:27:00,359
Speaker 1: when I meet I know how Taylor Swift is with

504
00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:03,040
Speaker 1: her fans, and she treats them exactly the way I do,

505
00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:06,240
Speaker 1: because she knows that they love her and like are

506
00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:10,520
Speaker 1: her friend in a way that I like. Taylor Swift

507
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:12,200
Speaker 1: would have listening parties with her fans. She's the only

508
00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:15,360
Speaker 1: person that would invite her fans. She'd find them online.

509
00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:19,800
Speaker 1: Her biggest fans invite them to her house, her home

510
00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:22,480
Speaker 1: for an all night listening party where they dance and fun.

511
00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:25,040
Speaker 1: Her mom goes through the crowds at her shows to

512
00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:27,679
Speaker 1: find the biggest fans that just like would love it

513
00:27:27,720 --> 00:27:31,080
Speaker 1: the most to bring them backstage. Like she's very much

514
00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:34,440
Speaker 1: like I love my fans so like I wonder how

515
00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:36,240
Speaker 1: long they hang out at the house after the party.

516
00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:38,720
Speaker 1: I need to set up. Yeah, I wonder what it's like.

517
00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:44,720
Speaker 1: Taylor's just like they're still like chatting. Yeah, So what's

518
00:27:44,880 --> 00:27:48,800
Speaker 1: what's the other part of the house look like? Yeah? Right,

519
00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:53,760
Speaker 1: speaking of having someone stay at your house, um, and

520
00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:57,760
Speaker 1: I just never want her to leave. My best friend

521
00:27:57,800 --> 00:28:00,760
Speaker 1: Kristen is going to come on the show right now.

522
00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:10,600
Speaker 1: Let's bring her in. Kursten Kurston, who Welcome to the show, Luigi.

523
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:13,159
Speaker 1: I love this. This is like a not me is

524
00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:16,719
Speaker 1: right next to you. This is actually kind of wild

525
00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:20,359
Speaker 1: right now. I'm not kidding, dude. Kirsten and I have

526
00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:23,160
Speaker 1: been best friend since fourth grade. We met because she

527
00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:25,920
Speaker 1: was acting out in class and got moved and set

528
00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:28,560
Speaker 1: next to me, and then, um, I realized that someone

529
00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:31,560
Speaker 1: was as weird as me, and um funny, and it

530
00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:34,240
Speaker 1: was just like very what about your cake on that day?

531
00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:37,840
Speaker 1: Do you remember that day that you met, Nikki? I do.

532
00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:41,000
Speaker 1: I just like I just remember getting in trouble and

533
00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:44,560
Speaker 1: then getting rewarded because of it. Honestly, I had kind

534
00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:46,480
Speaker 1: of clocked you, Nikki for a while. I knew you

535
00:28:46,520 --> 00:28:50,200
Speaker 1: were I had a feeling we were very similar. I

536
00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:53,920
Speaker 1: saw you with your little like blonde ponytail, little shorts

537
00:28:53,920 --> 00:28:58,000
Speaker 1: pulled up high, little T shirt and shorts pulled up high.

538
00:28:58,000 --> 00:29:00,160
Speaker 1: I remember how like in ninety four it was you

539
00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:04,239
Speaker 1: could we all dressed like yeah, yeah, I don't know.

540
00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:07,720
Speaker 1: I remember feeling kind of excited to get to move

541
00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:09,840
Speaker 1: by next to you, but I don't really remember our

542
00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:12,000
Speaker 1: first conversation. I really wish I did. It was about

543
00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:15,440
Speaker 1: the markers. Yeah, yeah, So I had a pair, like

544
00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:18,239
Speaker 1: a set of bold markers in my desk, Remember, like

545
00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:20,960
Speaker 1: markers that you just like cradle the markers could have

546
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:23,200
Speaker 1: like you could have like the regular colors. I think

547
00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:27,120
Speaker 1: it was like eight, like BIV and then you could

548
00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:29,560
Speaker 1: have the there was like in the nineties, this was

549
00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:33,080
Speaker 1: new on the scene, were bold colors and it was

550
00:29:33,120 --> 00:29:37,520
Speaker 1: like a darker purple and like a maroon and like

551
00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:40,480
Speaker 1: it was like the waiting room, like the reception area

552
00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:43,400
Speaker 1: at a doctor's office that was constructed in the nineties,

553
00:29:43,440 --> 00:29:47,640
Speaker 1: like maroon and hell and hell was a part of

554
00:29:47,680 --> 00:29:49,640
Speaker 1: the bold markers. I feel like you're going to die.

555
00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:54,160
Speaker 1: And I remember just kind office that we're probably going

556
00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:58,760
Speaker 1: to die because is that the sound of debt? What

557
00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:02,120
Speaker 1: that you you do that game? Oh no, no, we'll

558
00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:04,800
Speaker 1: do at But what I wanted to say was yeah,

559
00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:07,520
Speaker 1: I asked her for bold markers and she was like, sure,

560
00:30:07,640 --> 00:30:09,680
Speaker 1: you can borrow some. But I had clocked her because

561
00:30:09,720 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 1: I saw in her desk she had on her marker

562
00:30:12,320 --> 00:30:14,880
Speaker 1: Kate on her on her pencil case she had little

563
00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:18,000
Speaker 1: dots of Elmer's glue, and I was like, I remember

564
00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:19,880
Speaker 1: we were lining up, and I go, whoever's desk that

565
00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:24,640
Speaker 1: is is putting glue dots to pick them off and

566
00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:27,400
Speaker 1: likes picking glue and I love pick and glue. And

567
00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:29,960
Speaker 1: I just remember being like, oh my god, someone else

568
00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:34,320
Speaker 1: likes to do this weird thing. And Kirsten loved all

569
00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:37,200
Speaker 1: these weird things that I loved, like um, torturing mosquito bites.

570
00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:38,840
Speaker 1: I've talked about this on the show before and some

571
00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:41,360
Speaker 1: of our listeners have have written in about it. When

572
00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:43,400
Speaker 1: you get a mosquito bite, we like to do exes

573
00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:46,800
Speaker 1: in it with our with our nail and like torture

574
00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:49,400
Speaker 1: like hot cross bun to make it like one time

575
00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:51,240
Speaker 1: you took a curling arm, Do you remember when you

576
00:30:51,280 --> 00:30:54,040
Speaker 1: tried to burn yours, like hover it right over the

577
00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:59,080
Speaker 1: bite and just go yes, yeah. I remember where our

578
00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:01,160
Speaker 1: desks were. It was like the back right corner you know,

579
00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:03,640
Speaker 1: everyone would line up at the door. That's so weird.

580
00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:05,600
Speaker 1: I remember that point, I know, I know, and that's

581
00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:08,240
Speaker 1: where you saw inside the desk that like little, um,

582
00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:10,479
Speaker 1: did you ever get glue on your on your hands

583
00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:12,200
Speaker 1: and be like I'm ripping it off like it's skin.

584
00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:17,880
Speaker 1: Oh yeah? And sometimes ever know, but you know there

585
00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:20,520
Speaker 1: is I think like kids who eat glue, there's like

586
00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:23,400
Speaker 1: a that's like a thing, you know, like there's a

587
00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:25,520
Speaker 1: thing of like, oh he was one of those glue eaters.

588
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:27,560
Speaker 1: But now you know that that's like just like a

589
00:31:27,960 --> 00:31:30,960
Speaker 1: probably like a a tick or a spectrum thing like

590
00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:33,280
Speaker 1: I could see how you could fall into that. And

591
00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:36,920
Speaker 1: then I mean, I love stigmatized. Watch Love on the Spectrum.

592
00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:39,240
Speaker 1: We watched the first Oh my god, how good people

593
00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:40,800
Speaker 1: are dying for us to talk about it. By the way,

594
00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:42,840
Speaker 1: because I'm a huge Love on the Spectrum fan. It's

595
00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:46,080
Speaker 1: showing Netflix that um, you know, follows around autistic people

596
00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:50,520
Speaker 1: in Australia who are trying to date and it's all

597
00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:52,800
Speaker 1: different types of people on different types of the spectrm

598
00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:56,920
Speaker 1: autism spectrum, And my god, is it the best fucking show?

599
00:31:57,040 --> 00:32:00,200
Speaker 1: And season two is not disappointing. How cute is the

600
00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:04,720
Speaker 1: first season. The first episode, I almost get emotional. Yeah,

601
00:32:04,880 --> 00:32:08,280
Speaker 1: Michael is the might be the funniest person on Netflix.

602
00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:12,120
Speaker 1: Like he is his expressions when she goes, I don't

603
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:15,160
Speaker 1: have a TV and he goes, that sucks and it's

604
00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:17,320
Speaker 1: just like you can just see and he goes on

605
00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:19,520
Speaker 1: these speed dates and this guy, you can just see

606
00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:23,480
Speaker 1: they don't lie. Autistic people, you know. Amy Amy Schumer

607
00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:26,320
Speaker 1: covered this and HERD special about having her husband has

608
00:32:26,360 --> 00:32:30,440
Speaker 1: Aspergers and like, he doesn't lie, and so there's something

609
00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:32,520
Speaker 1: good about that, and like can be bad because it

610
00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:35,040
Speaker 1: can be hurtful, and I think a lot of times

611
00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:37,240
Speaker 1: I deal with that as well of trying to be honest,

612
00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:39,840
Speaker 1: and um, you have to like phrase things in a

613
00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:42,560
Speaker 1: way that won't be hurtful because the truth hurts, right.

614
00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:45,840
Speaker 1: I think Lizzo wrote a song about it. But um,

615
00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:48,240
Speaker 1: Michael's on these speed dates and these girls sit down

616
00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:51,479
Speaker 1: and he's just asking them questions and you can just

617
00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:54,360
Speaker 1: see when he goes frothing like you like TV too,

618
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:56,719
Speaker 1: And then they'll say like, oh, I like I like

619
00:32:56,760 --> 00:33:00,480
Speaker 1: watching like the Bachelort and he just goes and his

620
00:33:00,520 --> 00:33:03,600
Speaker 1: face just falls. There's no there's no ability for him

621
00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:06,600
Speaker 1: to be like, oh you do, like there's no fakeness

622
00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:09,640
Speaker 1: and it's lovely, and the conversation goes to like he

623
00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:13,320
Speaker 1: was pausing for a second, and he goes, my mind

624
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:15,040
Speaker 1: is at a crossroads right now. I can't think of

625
00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:17,920
Speaker 1: another question, and he's just kind of like his face

626
00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:19,800
Speaker 1: is like yeah, they just say my mind, I can't

627
00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:24,520
Speaker 1: think of a question, and he's like, honest, he's like

628
00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:29,160
Speaker 1: your So if he's complimenting you, it feels so authentic

629
00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:31,760
Speaker 1: and nice and real because he's not gonna lie because

630
00:33:31,760 --> 00:33:33,840
Speaker 1: they'll tell you your shirt shit if he thinks it ship,

631
00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:37,920
Speaker 1: it's you know, I think they've learned, or enough of

632
00:33:37,960 --> 00:33:39,959
Speaker 1: them have learned how to socially interact that if they

633
00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:42,480
Speaker 1: do think something is bad, to keep it maybe inside,

634
00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:45,200
Speaker 1: so they don't say. But like his the thing he

635
00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:47,760
Speaker 1: couldn't help with his facial expressions when he was sad

636
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Speaker 1: that some girl was like showing so much promise and

637
00:33:50,320 --> 00:33:56,600
Speaker 1: then you go, yeah, right. So many times I was like,

638
00:33:56,640 --> 00:33:58,920
Speaker 1: this girl is like everything you wanted to be, Michael.

639
00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:01,560
Speaker 1: She likes this and this, and then um oh. At

640
00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:03,880
Speaker 1: one point he's like, you know, I like I like

641
00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:06,920
Speaker 1: collecting toys and she's like, what kind of toys and

642
00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:09,279
Speaker 1: he's like, you know, Thomas the train engine and she

643
00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:12,799
Speaker 1: was like, oh my, my, my nephew loves Thomas. And

644
00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:15,000
Speaker 1: he was like, how old is your nephew and she

645
00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:18,719
Speaker 1: goes three and he's like, oh, Like he's just like

646
00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:23,040
Speaker 1: he's a German phile, which is the best word. He loves.

647
00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:27,600
Speaker 1: He loves culture, so he loves the English culture he

648
00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:30,640
Speaker 1: loves and he loves British celebrities. So Michael goes on

649
00:34:30,680 --> 00:34:33,480
Speaker 1: all of these speed dates. Right, how do you feel

650
00:34:33,520 --> 00:34:37,560
Speaker 1: about there were some people that were neurotypical and then

651
00:34:37,719 --> 00:34:40,120
Speaker 1: it wasn't. There was one girl that was actually also

652
00:34:40,160 --> 00:34:43,200
Speaker 1: on the spectrum and the rest were not. At first

653
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:46,480
Speaker 1: I did feel I was like, well, are they handicapped?

654
00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:50,240
Speaker 1: Like is that like dating? Is that like a normal

655
00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:54,319
Speaker 1: person dating someone that's like less intelligent? But people are

656
00:34:54,360 --> 00:34:57,239
Speaker 1: less intelligent. That's what I was saying to Chris when

657
00:34:57,239 --> 00:34:58,640
Speaker 1: I was watching it with them. I go, if I

658
00:34:58,760 --> 00:35:01,239
Speaker 1: date someone that went to Harvard IT or Yale, that's

659
00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:05,960
Speaker 1: a bigger difference than if I dated someone that was Like.

660
00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:09,719
Speaker 1: The thing is, people in the spectrum are also hyper intelligent.

661
00:35:09,760 --> 00:35:11,400
Speaker 1: There's a lot of people that go to Harvard and

662
00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:15,160
Speaker 1: Neal that are on the spectrum, and so I just

663
00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:18,040
Speaker 1: don't see anything wrong with it. Um, I think that

664
00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:21,440
Speaker 1: if you're if you're doing it to take advantage of

665
00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:23,839
Speaker 1: them and then like lock them into it like a

666
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:26,080
Speaker 1: room and have sex with them all day or whatever

667
00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:29,239
Speaker 1: it is. Like, but I think that, I mean, I

668
00:35:29,400 --> 00:35:32,040
Speaker 1: there are things about these men on this show that

669
00:35:32,080 --> 00:35:34,839
Speaker 1: make me feel like, man, I feel like I would

670
00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:38,160
Speaker 1: want to date someone who is Uh, what I do

671
00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:40,560
Speaker 1: know is I want to have friends that are on

672
00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:44,600
Speaker 1: the autistic spectrum. Like I'm going to actively pursue working

673
00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:49,440
Speaker 1: with people with autism because they they are just as

674
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:52,360
Speaker 1: interested in things that as I am interested. Like I

675
00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:55,080
Speaker 1: get obsessed with things and want to know everything about them,

676
00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:57,960
Speaker 1: and like I know they're swifties out there that are autistic,

677
00:35:58,040 --> 00:36:00,319
Speaker 1: and like would like I'm a little too stick when

678
00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:02,880
Speaker 1: it comes to Taylor Swift and um or have the

679
00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:07,280
Speaker 1: same kind of obsession and Taylor Taylor Swift. Sorry, yeah,

680
00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:16,319
Speaker 1: and like I exactly that perfect. That was good. Um,

681
00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:19,600
Speaker 1: But I was I was watching Love on the Spectrum

682
00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:24,840
Speaker 1: with chris My Ex and we were talking about it

683
00:36:25,160 --> 00:36:28,560
Speaker 1: and there was one part where this girl who's fairly

684
00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:31,799
Speaker 1: highly functioning on the spectrum. What was her name? I

685
00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:34,880
Speaker 1: forget the girl with the who was eating with her

686
00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:38,160
Speaker 1: friends at the table and women, and she's she's very

687
00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:41,520
Speaker 1: into costplay because it let her be different characters and

688
00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:44,000
Speaker 1: and kind of escape into a character as its opposed

689
00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:46,880
Speaker 1: to being herself, which feels like awkward. She was talking

690
00:36:46,920 --> 00:36:51,040
Speaker 1: about how, you know, I have had to learn how

691
00:36:51,040 --> 00:36:54,439
Speaker 1: to say things so that it doesn't upset people, even

692
00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:56,760
Speaker 1: though the thing I'm saying should not be upsetting because

693
00:36:56,800 --> 00:37:00,760
Speaker 1: it's just the thing, it's just the truth. And Chris goes,

694
00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:03,399
Speaker 1: I want an example of that, and I go, I've

695
00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:06,879
Speaker 1: got one for when I have to do the same thing.

696
00:37:07,360 --> 00:37:10,400
Speaker 1: Because you know, there's this I remember I was eating

697
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:12,560
Speaker 1: once with Lizzie Cooperman in l a and we were

698
00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:16,520
Speaker 1: at the place called Craft Cafe Gratitude, where you um,

699
00:37:16,560 --> 00:37:19,120
Speaker 1: you know, it's it's very like it's all vegan. I

700
00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:21,600
Speaker 1: love it, but you order things that are called like

701
00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:24,279
Speaker 1: I am strong, and that's like the Caesar salad, so

702
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:25,920
Speaker 1: you have to tell the waiter I am strong, and

703
00:37:25,960 --> 00:37:28,600
Speaker 1: that means you want to Caesar salad. I am brave

704
00:37:28,719 --> 00:37:32,400
Speaker 1: with dressing on the side, I am easy going with

705
00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:34,640
Speaker 1: dressing on the side and like like can you make

706
00:37:34,680 --> 00:37:38,120
Speaker 1: it um with like light chicken and like a drizzle

707
00:37:38,320 --> 00:37:44,040
Speaker 1: of the balsamic um. But yeah, I am low maintenance. Uh.

708
00:37:44,080 --> 00:37:46,640
Speaker 1: But then they also go after the end and they

709
00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:49,000
Speaker 1: don't really hold you to that, but that's what they're called.

710
00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:50,560
Speaker 1: Usually I just go can I have this? And I

711
00:37:50,600 --> 00:37:54,880
Speaker 1: point at it because I don't feel you know, yeah,

712
00:37:54,960 --> 00:37:58,600
Speaker 1: And then they always there's after your order, they go okay, UM,

713
00:37:58,680 --> 00:38:01,040
Speaker 1: thank you for that. Um. Would you guys like to

714
00:38:01,040 --> 00:38:02,680
Speaker 1: hear our question of the day? And they always have

715
00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:05,719
Speaker 1: some kind of question that's like what, um, what's the

716
00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:09,360
Speaker 1: you know, what's the biggest risk you've ever taken? And

717
00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:12,000
Speaker 1: it's just supposed to conjure an interesting conversation to like

718
00:38:12,080 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 1: be introspective and like share And they always go, would

719
00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:17,040
Speaker 1: you like to hear a question of the day? And

720
00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:19,480
Speaker 1: the guy was very nice our waiter, and we ordered

721
00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:22,239
Speaker 1: getting along He's like, would you guys okay, I'll be

722
00:38:22,239 --> 00:38:23,400
Speaker 1: back with you drinks. Would you guys like to hear

723
00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:26,320
Speaker 1: the question of to day? And I don't know and

724
00:38:26,320 --> 00:38:28,440
Speaker 1: and he goes okay and he walks away, and Lizzie

725
00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:32,759
Speaker 1: was just like, I mean there is. Yeah, he wasn't

726
00:38:32,760 --> 00:38:37,919
Speaker 1: ask that. He's probably never been told no. Well, first

727
00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:39,919
Speaker 1: of all, I don't want the question of the day.

728
00:38:40,600 --> 00:38:43,319
Speaker 1: We didn't need a question to get us talking. Uh

729
00:38:43,480 --> 00:38:46,839
Speaker 1: no is an answer, um no, thank you maybe would

730
00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:49,200
Speaker 1: have been a better way, But I didn't say it

731
00:38:49,239 --> 00:38:52,400
Speaker 1: like no, I just got no. And she was laughing.

732
00:38:52,440 --> 00:38:53,920
Speaker 1: She was like, just the way you said that, like

733
00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:56,239
Speaker 1: I would never say that, And I was like, but

734
00:38:56,320 --> 00:38:59,640
Speaker 1: why there's I wasn't being rude, and he didn't seem

735
00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:01,560
Speaker 1: bothered by it, but she was like, it was like

736
00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:03,720
Speaker 1: you getting embarrassed when I pick up dogship with leaves

737
00:39:03,760 --> 00:39:06,560
Speaker 1: like he was. She was so embarrassed that I had been.

738
00:39:06,640 --> 00:39:10,400
Speaker 1: So it's like it's very your enthusiasm, where like Larry

739
00:39:10,840 --> 00:39:13,719
Speaker 1: always talks about like what would he do in a

740
00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:16,920
Speaker 1: situation if he was just being really honest, you know

741
00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:20,560
Speaker 1: what I mean? Is are you doing? Is that Larry's impression? No? You.

742
00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:25,400
Speaker 1: I had a dream last night Larry David that I

743
00:39:25,440 --> 00:39:28,400
Speaker 1: was dating that I was like hooking up with Larry

744
00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:31,240
Speaker 1: David and actively pursuing him, and like it was between

745
00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:33,640
Speaker 1: him and another guy. I remember being like, who am

746
00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:36,239
Speaker 1: I gonna pick? And I was like, I don't know him,

747
00:39:36,239 --> 00:39:38,640
Speaker 1: just really attracted to Larry David. Like we're having a

748
00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:40,959
Speaker 1: good time. He's like sexy to me. I want to

749
00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:43,120
Speaker 1: make out with him. And I like was horny for

750
00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:46,840
Speaker 1: Larry David and I I think I could be honestly.

751
00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:50,880
Speaker 1: I mean he's I think he's married. Yeah, he definitely is.

752
00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:54,200
Speaker 1: He knows exactly who he is. That's why he's so hot.

753
00:39:54,320 --> 00:39:57,680
Speaker 1: That's it. Yeah, he wears his khakis, He's got like

754
00:39:57,719 --> 00:40:01,360
Speaker 1: three different sweaters. He's got comfortable was on. He's happy

755
00:40:01,400 --> 00:40:03,560
Speaker 1: with being bald. There's somebody about a bald man who

756
00:40:03,600 --> 00:40:06,560
Speaker 1: doesn't shave his head, who keeps it long on the sides.

757
00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:09,640
Speaker 1: It's very confident. I mean him walking on stage before

758
00:40:09,680 --> 00:40:14,000
Speaker 1: you throw it out. Yeah, the most confidence of walking

759
00:40:14,040 --> 00:40:16,520
Speaker 1: on stage at Shore Stand up New York. There's a

760
00:40:16,560 --> 00:40:18,480
Speaker 1: famous story of him being a comic. And this is

761
00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:22,200
Speaker 1: before you know he was known for Seinfeld, or maybe

762
00:40:22,200 --> 00:40:24,680
Speaker 1: he was still developing it or whatever. But he walked

763
00:40:24,719 --> 00:40:27,319
Speaker 1: on stage, he looked at the crowd. They're like Larry Dave,

764
00:40:27,400 --> 00:40:28,560
Speaker 1: and he walks up and he just looks at the

765
00:40:28,560 --> 00:40:32,759
Speaker 1: ground and he just goes now. And that's you with

766
00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:35,839
Speaker 1: the question of the day. Yea, the same thing. I mean,

767
00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:38,000
Speaker 1: that's why when you said Larry David, I was like,

768
00:40:38,160 --> 00:40:39,640
Speaker 1: all of a sudden arouse and I was like, oh

769
00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:41,120
Speaker 1: my god, my dream. Do you ever have that where

770
00:40:41,120 --> 00:40:43,560
Speaker 1: you're like remember a dream that you would have forgotten?

771
00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:49,000
Speaker 1: I also blew Larry David last night. Let's get to

772
00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:58,839
Speaker 1: the news. Real last name, I think David. Yeah, it's

773
00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:02,040
Speaker 1: probably more Jewey. Oh really, it's interesting. I love that

774
00:41:02,040 --> 00:41:05,480
Speaker 1: we're like, he's just who he is? Did he changes

775
00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:09,200
Speaker 1: to He has that one joke about jerking off? He

776
00:41:09,239 --> 00:41:19,520
Speaker 1: goes to close? Can you imagine? Wait? What did you say?

777
00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:22,160
Speaker 1: What is this joke? I like that there's an oven

778
00:41:22,239 --> 00:41:25,960
Speaker 1: there due to make you. It's almost like, um, you

779
00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:30,440
Speaker 1: know handmade stale where they're all named of of Corey.

780
00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:32,719
Speaker 1: That would be your name, right of that's because your

781
00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:35,360
Speaker 1: husband's name is Corey, would be of Corey. Yeah, he

782
00:41:35,400 --> 00:41:38,840
Speaker 1: has a joke that close I ever came to dying

783
00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:41,520
Speaker 1: is jerking off with a hundred and four fever? Have

784
00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:44,719
Speaker 1: you ever masturbated when you shouldn't? Like where you're on

785
00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:48,440
Speaker 1: the verge of death? I mastered I had mono, which

786
00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:51,200
Speaker 1: is a funny thing to jerk off too, because the

787
00:41:51,239 --> 00:41:54,399
Speaker 1: kissing disease, well, it's a kissing disease. And the more

788
00:41:54,520 --> 00:41:58,960
Speaker 1: you activate your body, the more you're sick. You're literally

789
00:41:59,000 --> 00:42:02,880
Speaker 1: going a ends. You're like a salmon who's trying to

790
00:42:02,960 --> 00:42:08,120
Speaker 1: spawn upstream. And picture you activating your body. O my

791
00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:16,520
Speaker 1: god out there had a great weekend. We sure did.

792
00:42:16,520 --> 00:42:18,400
Speaker 1: We had great shows in St. Louis. Thank you for

793
00:42:18,480 --> 00:42:23,840
Speaker 1: everyone coming out of the closet. Um okay first story,

794
00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:27,319
Speaker 1: a product review company scan tweets and found that KFC

795
00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:32,440
Speaker 1: not are the KC we know. Kentucky Fried Chicken is

796
00:42:32,480 --> 00:42:35,520
Speaker 1: the most hated food fast food chain in the world,

797
00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:40,200
Speaker 1: with customers mostly complaining about quality. In the US, Domino's

798
00:42:40,239 --> 00:42:42,960
Speaker 1: Pizza is the most hated, getting flag for its subpart

799
00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:47,560
Speaker 1: customer service issues with delivery. What is what's you're feeling

800
00:42:47,680 --> 00:42:50,600
Speaker 1: on fast food hate? Starbucks got a lot of hate.

801
00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:54,640
Speaker 1: You know, the Starbucks gets hate because people are paying

802
00:42:55,040 --> 00:42:59,760
Speaker 1: six dollars for milk and coffee and they feel entitled

803
00:43:00,200 --> 00:43:03,360
Speaker 1: and they like their specific order. And I watched people

804
00:43:03,800 --> 00:43:07,640
Speaker 1: people that's entitlement. No one should be upset about any

805
00:43:07,680 --> 00:43:10,560
Speaker 1: of this cheapass food because it's so fucking cheap that

806
00:43:10,640 --> 00:43:14,000
Speaker 1: people making it for you are making not enough money

807
00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:17,600
Speaker 1: to even have a one bedroom apartment in America, Why

808
00:43:17,640 --> 00:43:21,359
Speaker 1: should Dominos give you good customer service? They don't. You

809
00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:24,879
Speaker 1: don't tip well. Americans are not good tippers, even though

810
00:43:24,920 --> 00:43:29,120
Speaker 1: the tipping is of failed you know, form of like

811
00:43:29,200 --> 00:43:31,560
Speaker 1: we're not supposed to have a tipping culture. Is like

812
00:43:31,680 --> 00:43:35,120
Speaker 1: bad for the economy and bad for people. I guess

813
00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:39,520
Speaker 1: from what I've understood, but I don't the when I

814
00:43:39,560 --> 00:43:42,920
Speaker 1: get bad service at a place that has like endless

815
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:46,760
Speaker 1: salad bar for something like it should be bad service,

816
00:43:46,840 --> 00:43:51,960
Speaker 1: like stop expecting good service when you're paying for chickens,

817
00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:54,880
Speaker 1: you're paying seven dollars for a coffee, don't you think

818
00:43:54,880 --> 00:43:58,960
Speaker 1: you should get great service? My argument there is don't Okay,

819
00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:02,520
Speaker 1: let me take that back, don't expect good service for

820
00:44:02,840 --> 00:44:06,120
Speaker 1: when you are supporting a company that doesn't compensate their

821
00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:10,160
Speaker 1: employees accordingly, Like, whenever there's bad service, it's because these

822
00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:12,879
Speaker 1: people aren't being paid enough or aren't being appreciated enough

823
00:44:12,920 --> 00:44:15,799
Speaker 1: for the work they're doing. So if it's it's it's

824
00:44:15,880 --> 00:44:18,399
Speaker 1: unhappy employees. But I guess you could also say that

825
00:44:18,800 --> 00:44:21,600
Speaker 1: plenty of people that make a great salary are shitty

826
00:44:21,640 --> 00:44:25,200
Speaker 1: fucking workers too. But that's right. But like if you

827
00:44:25,239 --> 00:44:27,320
Speaker 1: went into a pizza place and it was forty dollars

828
00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:29,799
Speaker 1: for a pizza, maybe you get a waiter that would

829
00:44:29,840 --> 00:44:34,840
Speaker 1: be like service. Yeah, yeah, I'm not seeing you in

830
00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:37,600
Speaker 1: the good table, no, because then there would be more

831
00:44:37,640 --> 00:44:40,200
Speaker 1: complaints online about high end places when you go to

832
00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:42,880
Speaker 1: a high end restaurant and you have a dining like

833
00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:45,800
Speaker 1: they the guy the other night was calling us baby,

834
00:44:45,920 --> 00:44:49,360
Speaker 1: and but you know they wait on new hand and

835
00:44:49,400 --> 00:44:53,520
Speaker 1: foot because they're they're charging a bigger a bigger price.

836
00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:57,040
Speaker 1: And like what is your favorite fast food? Or when

837
00:44:57,040 --> 00:45:00,680
Speaker 1: really kicks me off? When people get like like the

838
00:45:00,760 --> 00:45:04,080
Speaker 1: customers always right at a pizza hut, like these people

839
00:45:04,080 --> 00:45:07,080
Speaker 1: are making eight dollars an hour, shut the funk off?

840
00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:11,160
Speaker 1: Like this, I just um and and tip so much.

841
00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:13,680
Speaker 1: Tip if you can, if you can afford it, you

842
00:45:13,800 --> 00:45:18,439
Speaker 1: must tip on really cheap steps even deeper there and go, Well,

843
00:45:18,560 --> 00:45:21,640
Speaker 1: the person that is paying eight dollars for this pizza,

844
00:45:21,719 --> 00:45:25,040
Speaker 1: they also get paid a barely living wage. So that's

845
00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:27,960
Speaker 1: a lot of money about how I get it. But

846
00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:31,319
Speaker 1: but also just know that you shouldn't at your job

847
00:45:31,360 --> 00:45:34,120
Speaker 1: where you work and make that shitty price. You don't

848
00:45:34,120 --> 00:45:36,480
Speaker 1: want to. Maybe you do have pride and you are

849
00:45:36,520 --> 00:45:38,960
Speaker 1: really good at your job and stuff, but you're not

850
00:45:39,080 --> 00:45:40,960
Speaker 1: this person who might have had a really hard day

851
00:45:41,040 --> 00:45:43,600
Speaker 1: or whatever. Just more empathy across the board. Fast food

852
00:45:43,680 --> 00:45:46,719
Speaker 1: for me, I subway is the only place I would

853
00:45:46,880 --> 00:45:49,600
Speaker 1: Subway was hated a lot here. Yeah, I get that

854
00:45:50,400 --> 00:45:53,319
Speaker 1: subway When you walk past it, that smell is like, um,

855
00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:56,640
Speaker 1: it's it's an interesting smell. Do you eat fast food?

856
00:45:58,440 --> 00:46:00,719
Speaker 1: I like fast casual? Like there's some places that I

857
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:02,719
Speaker 1: just can go pick up like a It's like it's

858
00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:06,040
Speaker 1: more like bowls and like not fast food like Chick

859
00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:11,120
Speaker 1: fil a. Yeah, um don't. I don't know. People are right,

860
00:46:11,160 --> 00:46:12,759
Speaker 1: you know how slow I am nicky. I don't need

861
00:46:12,960 --> 00:46:16,120
Speaker 1: fast anything. Yeah yeah, yeah that's true. But maybe like

862
00:46:16,160 --> 00:46:18,719
Speaker 1: crazy bowls of someone Like do you ever eat nut butter?

863
00:46:18,800 --> 00:46:21,480
Speaker 1: Like just a scoop of nut butter just on the

864
00:46:21,520 --> 00:46:24,239
Speaker 1: go it's and I go, I just rather have like

865
00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:26,440
Speaker 1: a protein bar that has the same stuff in it,

866
00:46:26,520 --> 00:46:28,480
Speaker 1: you know, Like the protein bars I eat are pretty

867
00:46:28,560 --> 00:46:30,799
Speaker 1: raw and like, and I go, I just rather have

868
00:46:30,840 --> 00:46:32,440
Speaker 1: it and she goes, you know, just like when you're

869
00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:35,120
Speaker 1: like in a rush, and I'm like, what a protein

870
00:46:35,160 --> 00:46:38,600
Speaker 1: bar is the most easily rushed food ever? Well, just

871
00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:40,359
Speaker 1: to like to add to a meal, like I like

872
00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:42,359
Speaker 1: to have like a lunch and then when I want

873
00:46:42,400 --> 00:46:45,520
Speaker 1: that little delicious like these nut butters they're making now

874
00:46:45,560 --> 00:46:49,680
Speaker 1: are so you're try the one about last night, like

875
00:46:49,840 --> 00:46:55,480
Speaker 1: nuts so fix and fog. They're like artisan with syrup

876
00:46:55,560 --> 00:46:58,080
Speaker 1: and cash shows. It's like they're it's not peanut butter

877
00:46:58,080 --> 00:47:00,080
Speaker 1: and almond butter. They're like, you're right, it's a a

878
00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:03,440
Speaker 1: dessert like those r X the RX almond butter with

879
00:47:03,520 --> 00:47:07,960
Speaker 1: vanilla and egg white. And Kristen created a thing where

880
00:47:08,000 --> 00:47:09,960
Speaker 1: she puts them in the freezer. Yeah, so when of

881
00:47:10,040 --> 00:47:12,520
Speaker 1: the gym told me this, shout out to Stephanie. You

882
00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:16,040
Speaker 1: put those little packets in the freezer, squish them up first,

883
00:47:16,080 --> 00:47:18,759
Speaker 1: get the oil mixed around, and then pop it out

884
00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:22,560
Speaker 1: and it's like it's it's like fozend like treats on

885
00:47:22,600 --> 00:47:25,800
Speaker 1: the go and you just like suck it out of

886
00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:28,120
Speaker 1: the package, like well you figure it out. A lot

887
00:47:28,120 --> 00:47:32,080
Speaker 1: of ways they eat unhealthy healthy like a lot of

888
00:47:32,080 --> 00:47:34,600
Speaker 1: the chocolates you get that I try, it's like this

889
00:47:34,680 --> 00:47:37,560
Speaker 1: come right from the cocoa tree. Like it really doesn't.

890
00:47:37,840 --> 00:47:39,799
Speaker 1: Like I eat a lot of Snickers and then I'm like,

891
00:47:39,840 --> 00:47:42,759
Speaker 1: oh wait, this is what chocolate should taste like like

892
00:47:43,360 --> 00:47:46,279
Speaker 1: the Honey Mamas. But you love Chick fil A. I'm

893
00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:51,600
Speaker 1: obsessed And talk about service. I mean, it's unbelievable. You

894
00:47:51,719 --> 00:47:57,120
Speaker 1: drive through the pay well, they just benefits. Think yeah,

895
00:47:57,160 --> 00:47:59,200
Speaker 1: I think so. I think they take care of the

896
00:47:59,200 --> 00:48:01,960
Speaker 1: people that work. And they got a lot of slack

897
00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:06,640
Speaker 1: for the homophobic stuff. But I mean I think, well,

898
00:48:06,680 --> 00:48:08,759
Speaker 1: I'm just getting chicken is good. But no, But I

899
00:48:08,800 --> 00:48:11,640
Speaker 1: do they probably employ a ton of I would say

900
00:48:11,680 --> 00:48:13,600
Speaker 1: there's a ton of gay people that actually probably worked

901
00:48:13,600 --> 00:48:16,800
Speaker 1: for Chick fil A. And it was it was the

902
00:48:16,800 --> 00:48:21,080
Speaker 1: head guy was very homophobic. Who's now dead. Let's be honest.

903
00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:24,520
Speaker 1: The head guys of most corporations are probably pretty homophobis

904
00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:27,680
Speaker 1: I'm sure of Taco Bell doesn't love gay guys. You

905
00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:30,959
Speaker 1: know I did. I did a salary search for Chick

906
00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:35,880
Speaker 1: Fili employees and Starbucks and it's their salaries are pretty comparable.

907
00:48:36,000 --> 00:48:40,440
Speaker 1: Just so you know what about KFC UM. I do

908
00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:43,719
Speaker 1: want to say though, that Starbucks, uh, just going on

909
00:48:43,760 --> 00:48:47,279
Speaker 1: their subreddit, I know so much like the they used

910
00:48:47,320 --> 00:48:49,600
Speaker 1: to have a business model that was very pro like

911
00:48:49,719 --> 00:48:53,759
Speaker 1: Starbucks employee, they had benefits, they had great they all

912
00:48:54,000 --> 00:48:57,560
Speaker 1: they called themselves partners, not employees, and um, and now

913
00:48:57,719 --> 00:49:01,240
Speaker 1: something has happened where they've just become like the mobile

914
00:49:01,320 --> 00:49:05,479
Speaker 1: orders are just those are nightmares for Starbucks people. They've

915
00:49:05,560 --> 00:49:08,440
Speaker 1: now doubled how many drinks they need to make, and

916
00:49:08,680 --> 00:49:11,240
Speaker 1: people that mobile order will mobile order and then arrive

917
00:49:11,440 --> 00:49:13,560
Speaker 1: one minute later and be like, where's my drink. It's like,

918
00:49:13,880 --> 00:49:16,000
Speaker 1: that's not how this is to drive through. And then

919
00:49:16,080 --> 00:49:18,600
Speaker 1: there's people walking in and you have three people back.

920
00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:20,680
Speaker 1: It's like walking into a triage every time you go

921
00:49:20,760 --> 00:49:23,879
Speaker 1: into a Starbucks. Really, I feel so much for those

922
00:49:23,880 --> 00:49:26,480
Speaker 1: employees and we'd love to hear voice memos or any

923
00:49:26,520 --> 00:49:29,920
Speaker 1: kind of um uh, like a store tale of working

924
00:49:29,960 --> 00:49:32,200
Speaker 1: in fast food and if it is because of what

925
00:49:32,239 --> 00:49:37,040
Speaker 1: you're making, um, let's get to the next story. Next story. UM.

926
00:49:37,120 --> 00:49:40,000
Speaker 1: A study you suggest that a way of person cheats

927
00:49:40,160 --> 00:49:43,800
Speaker 1: depicts the kind of affair they will have, which is

928
00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:46,359
Speaker 1: kind of interesting. So those who admitted to cheating out

929
00:49:46,360 --> 00:49:49,000
Speaker 1: of lack of love or resentment towards their partners had

930
00:49:49,000 --> 00:49:52,279
Speaker 1: affairs that lasted longer, and we're more likely to end

931
00:49:52,280 --> 00:49:55,319
Speaker 1: their primary relationship. That makes sense. Those who cheated because

932
00:49:55,320 --> 00:49:58,759
Speaker 1: of situational considerations like stress or alcohol head shorter and

933
00:49:58,800 --> 00:50:03,239
Speaker 1: less sexually gratifying engagements, because you know, whenever you you

934
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:05,200
Speaker 1: get cheated. I always said that, like if you get

935
00:50:05,280 --> 00:50:08,560
Speaker 1: cheated on and you're like, you cheated on me John,

936
00:50:08,600 --> 00:50:12,040
Speaker 1: and he's like, yeah, it's like where just at this

937
00:50:12,120 --> 00:50:15,440
Speaker 1: bar with my friends? So you were just like wasted? No,

938
00:50:15,560 --> 00:50:17,000
Speaker 1: I actually just doesn't need a driver that night. And

939
00:50:17,080 --> 00:50:19,560
Speaker 1: she was just like, so you're sober. She even not

940
00:50:19,719 --> 00:50:22,680
Speaker 1: like wait, can you just tell me you were wasted?

941
00:50:22,719 --> 00:50:25,000
Speaker 1: It just like it lessens the blow, Like you must

942
00:50:25,040 --> 00:50:27,640
Speaker 1: hate me. All your drunk friends were in the car

943
00:50:27,760 --> 00:50:31,920
Speaker 1: with the girl you cheated in the back. Do they

944
00:50:32,000 --> 00:50:34,760
Speaker 1: like her? Or is she like about her hangs? Pretty cool?

945
00:50:35,040 --> 00:50:39,080
Speaker 1: That's the problem. If cheating is happening because you're not

946
00:50:39,120 --> 00:50:42,440
Speaker 1: getting your needs met in a relationship, emotionally, physically, whatever

947
00:50:42,440 --> 00:50:45,880
Speaker 1: it is. Of course those relationships are going to those

948
00:50:46,239 --> 00:50:50,360
Speaker 1: you know, affairs are going to have longer lasting um,

949
00:50:50,480 --> 00:50:52,480
Speaker 1: you know, they're doing the last longer because they are

950
00:50:52,520 --> 00:50:55,759
Speaker 1: based on things that are you know, fulfilling a need,

951
00:50:56,040 --> 00:50:58,520
Speaker 1: a basic human need, as opposed to just a flank,

952
00:50:58,600 --> 00:51:00,880
Speaker 1: like getting your dick sucked or whatever. This is interesting.

953
00:51:00,920 --> 00:51:04,759
Speaker 1: People who cheat because of anger are more likely to

954
00:51:04,840 --> 00:51:07,200
Speaker 1: tell their partners, which makes sense because they're doing it

955
00:51:07,360 --> 00:51:09,399
Speaker 1: not because they want new pussy. They want to hurt

956
00:51:09,440 --> 00:51:12,640
Speaker 1: the pussy they I always say that in my act

957
00:51:12,680 --> 00:51:14,920
Speaker 1: about like girls who go when I tell girls you

958
00:51:14,960 --> 00:51:16,680
Speaker 1: shouldn't sleep with a guy who's not your boyfriend if

959
00:51:16,680 --> 00:51:18,359
Speaker 1: you want him to be your boyfriend, and they go,

960
00:51:18,680 --> 00:51:21,239
Speaker 1: but I like sex Nikki. I you know, I'm just

961
00:51:21,320 --> 00:51:23,239
Speaker 1: making up a character that's like, but I want to

962
00:51:23,360 --> 00:51:25,120
Speaker 1: And I'm like, okay, She's like, you know what if

963
00:51:25,120 --> 00:51:27,799
Speaker 1: he doesn't want to be my boyfriend, I'll just say, fine,

964
00:51:27,840 --> 00:51:31,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna sleep with other guys. And it's like, but

965
00:51:31,120 --> 00:51:32,520
Speaker 1: you want this guy to be your boyfriend. So I'm

966
00:51:32,520 --> 00:51:34,440
Speaker 1: guessing if you're sleeping with him, you're probably in love

967
00:51:34,480 --> 00:51:36,560
Speaker 1: with him, right, So yeah, you're gonna go sleep with

968
00:51:36,600 --> 00:51:38,880
Speaker 1: other guys. Let me guess you're probably not gonna be

969
00:51:38,880 --> 00:51:40,440
Speaker 1: able to do that, because when a girl's in love,

970
00:51:40,480 --> 00:51:42,399
Speaker 1: she kind of is just tunnel vision for one guy.

971
00:51:42,640 --> 00:51:44,160
Speaker 1: The best you'll be able to do his bludge on

972
00:51:44,200 --> 00:51:45,879
Speaker 1: yourself with alcohol, to the point that you can make

973
00:51:45,880 --> 00:51:48,440
Speaker 1: out with some guy that kind of reminds you of

974
00:51:48,560 --> 00:51:51,360
Speaker 1: your boyfriend, and then you're gonna in the middle of it,

975
00:51:51,360 --> 00:51:53,680
Speaker 1: you're gonna kind of like forget that it's not You're

976
00:51:53,680 --> 00:51:55,439
Speaker 1: gonna remember it's on him, and then you're gonna start

977
00:51:55,480 --> 00:51:57,120
Speaker 1: crying and be like, I cheated on him. Then you're

978
00:51:57,120 --> 00:51:58,840
Speaker 1: gonna call your the guy that you want to be

979
00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:00,759
Speaker 1: your boyfriend and be like and think that this is

980
00:52:00,760 --> 00:52:02,879
Speaker 1: going to get him to be like I do love

981
00:52:02,920 --> 00:52:04,799
Speaker 1: you don't be with other guys, but instead it makes

982
00:52:04,880 --> 00:52:07,800
Speaker 1: him fucking hate you and never talk to you again.

983
00:52:08,200 --> 00:52:10,440
Speaker 1: And that's what happens strategy, But I think that's what

984
00:52:10,520 --> 00:52:14,000
Speaker 1: girls at least. Yeah, Like, you go and you make

985
00:52:14,000 --> 00:52:16,480
Speaker 1: out with someone to be like, fine, he's going to

986
00:52:16,520 --> 00:52:18,640
Speaker 1: see that I can cheat. I can be with other

987
00:52:18,640 --> 00:52:20,040
Speaker 1: people too. If he doesn't want to commit to me,

988
00:52:20,040 --> 00:52:21,799
Speaker 1: and it's like that's not going to work on him.

989
00:52:21,880 --> 00:52:24,399
Speaker 1: He's not gonna like you after then you're like, fine,

990
00:52:24,440 --> 00:52:26,240
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna go back to the guy that kissed

991
00:52:26,280 --> 00:52:27,640
Speaker 1: me in the bar. And then you go back to him,

992
00:52:27,680 --> 00:52:30,440
Speaker 1: he goes, I was fucking drunk. I like you like

993
00:52:30,640 --> 00:52:36,200
Speaker 1: you like like I just didn't three and me and I.

994
00:52:36,320 --> 00:52:38,080
Speaker 1: We can't go back to this is our house, bar

995
00:52:38,160 --> 00:52:41,960
Speaker 1: at our parents house, and we're in the basement. Let's

996
00:52:41,960 --> 00:52:43,640
Speaker 1: take a quick break and we'll be right back with

997
00:52:43,719 --> 00:52:50,080
Speaker 1: why do I care? All right, Andrew? Why do I care?

998
00:52:50,480 --> 00:52:52,760
Speaker 1: I don't know to this day. Why do I care?

999
00:52:53,520 --> 00:52:58,040
Speaker 1: All right? Kristen or Kristen Kristen Belle, I don't look

1000
00:52:58,080 --> 00:53:02,600
Speaker 1: at me? Wait do you know? Wait? Christine reveals why

1001
00:53:02,719 --> 00:53:08,120
Speaker 1: she dislikes the term relationship goals being applied to her

1002
00:53:08,400 --> 00:53:12,480
Speaker 1: and marriage with Dax because it's been authentic. I don't

1003
00:53:12,480 --> 00:53:16,920
Speaker 1: know why, I just because it's and says the messy

1004
00:53:17,080 --> 00:53:21,000
Speaker 1: pair go to therapy to keep their relationship healthy. Yeah,

1005
00:53:21,000 --> 00:53:24,840
Speaker 1: when people go relationship goals underneath people's pictures on Instagram,

1006
00:53:24,920 --> 00:53:28,080
Speaker 1: like yeah, that that must be irritating for people who

1007
00:53:28,120 --> 00:53:31,560
Speaker 1: are like, no, this isn't what you see on camera

1008
00:53:31,719 --> 00:53:33,920
Speaker 1: and on Instagram. We're not showing you, like all the

1009
00:53:33,920 --> 00:53:36,040
Speaker 1: work that goes into it, and it's just not like

1010
00:53:36,239 --> 00:53:37,879
Speaker 1: I know, but I love when people go, well, don't

1011
00:53:37,880 --> 00:53:40,680
Speaker 1: you show the real relation? It's like, oh, you want

1012
00:53:40,760 --> 00:53:44,239
Speaker 1: us to show us crying and me getting hit by her? Like,

1013
00:53:44,320 --> 00:53:47,200
Speaker 1: is that the photo you want to see? People don't

1014
00:53:47,200 --> 00:53:49,080
Speaker 1: want to see that, but I do that for people.

1015
00:53:49,120 --> 00:53:51,600
Speaker 1: There's some people that I go relationship goals like there

1016
00:53:51,640 --> 00:53:54,640
Speaker 1: are like Megan Fox and Machine Gun Kelly. For me

1017
00:53:54,800 --> 00:53:58,759
Speaker 1: right now, is relationship goals like that? Yeah? We just

1018
00:53:58,800 --> 00:54:01,120
Speaker 1: see them like on a mortar cycle making out with

1019
00:54:01,200 --> 00:54:06,600
Speaker 1: hard tongues and we're not like filling out the lawyer. Yeah, yeah,

1020
00:54:06,640 --> 00:54:12,280
Speaker 1: we're just eating at freaking KFC. You and your husband Corey.

1021
00:54:12,560 --> 00:54:16,040
Speaker 1: I would say our relationship goals like the way they that.

1022
00:54:16,400 --> 00:54:19,680
Speaker 1: I feel really great hearing that because I would like that.

1023
00:54:19,800 --> 00:54:21,560
Speaker 1: I would like that kind of partnership. I feel like

1024
00:54:21,560 --> 00:54:23,960
Speaker 1: you both give each other space, You both like love

1025
00:54:24,000 --> 00:54:26,560
Speaker 1: each other, You both fulfill each other's needs in ways

1026
00:54:26,600 --> 00:54:29,680
Speaker 1: that aren't like, um, I can't live without you, but

1027
00:54:29,719 --> 00:54:33,800
Speaker 1: like you make each other happy. Like he is okay

1028
00:54:33,800 --> 00:54:37,400
Speaker 1: with you having like friendships outside of him, He's not

1029
00:54:37,480 --> 00:54:41,839
Speaker 1: threatened by He doesn't seem to be a Jellis person you. Um,

1030
00:54:41,920 --> 00:54:45,080
Speaker 1: he's you know, not that everything in your life is perfect,

1031
00:54:45,120 --> 00:54:46,759
Speaker 1: But I would say that you guys seem to have

1032
00:54:46,760 --> 00:54:49,160
Speaker 1: a healthy relationship. What um, what do you think of

1033
00:54:49,200 --> 00:54:52,919
Speaker 1: that and what do you attribute it to? And would

1034
00:54:52,960 --> 00:54:55,120
Speaker 1: you say that that's a correct assumption. I think that's

1035
00:54:55,120 --> 00:54:58,000
Speaker 1: a very correct assumption. I think it's because we met

1036
00:54:58,120 --> 00:55:01,359
Speaker 1: in our late twenties early thirties. Like I was twenty eight,

1037
00:55:01,360 --> 00:55:03,160
Speaker 1: he was thirty. I'd already been an adult and like

1038
00:55:03,800 --> 00:55:06,160
Speaker 1: made my life how I wanted it to be. We

1039
00:55:06,239 --> 00:55:10,600
Speaker 1: both had worked on ourselves before then, and I just

1040
00:55:10,640 --> 00:55:13,759
Speaker 1: did wait to have sex. And we waited how long,

1041
00:55:14,760 --> 00:55:19,520
Speaker 1: probably like four months. Because we were dating. I was okay.

1042
00:55:19,520 --> 00:55:22,399
Speaker 1: I was coming out of a relationship that was three

1043
00:55:22,480 --> 00:55:24,520
Speaker 1: years with an older guy, and I just was like,

1044
00:55:24,600 --> 00:55:26,879
Speaker 1: I'm you said one time you were leaving a gas

1045
00:55:26,920 --> 00:55:29,000
Speaker 1: station and someone asked you if he was here. Yeah,

1046
00:55:29,000 --> 00:55:31,520
Speaker 1: we were going to the lake and down in Missouri somewhere,

1047
00:55:31,520 --> 00:55:33,680
Speaker 1: and this woman walked up. She was like, is that

1048
00:55:33,800 --> 00:55:37,040
Speaker 1: your dad. It was like a quick trip and I

1049
00:55:37,080 --> 00:55:39,719
Speaker 1: just felt like I had like baby bangs at the time,

1050
00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:41,719
Speaker 1: So I kind of I was playing it up a

1051
00:55:41,760 --> 00:55:44,560
Speaker 1: little bit, but I don't know, after a long relationship

1052
00:55:44,640 --> 00:55:47,640
Speaker 1: like that, Yeah, yeah, I had a baby bonnet on

1053
00:55:47,840 --> 00:55:52,800
Speaker 1: in a big Daddy gave me a naughty pop. She

1054
00:55:52,880 --> 00:55:55,280
Speaker 1: was in a baby beard a chest to his chest

1055
00:55:55,719 --> 00:55:59,960
Speaker 1: with the bottle. So it was yeah, so like come

1056
00:56:00,000 --> 00:56:01,840
Speaker 1: going out of that. I knew I just was like

1057
00:56:02,120 --> 00:56:04,799
Speaker 1: a relationship I don't want I will never again kind

1058
00:56:04,800 --> 00:56:08,759
Speaker 1: of fake being calm and like put together and like

1059
00:56:08,840 --> 00:56:12,600
Speaker 1: stylish and like blog or for anybody, They're gonna see

1060
00:56:12,600 --> 00:56:14,719
Speaker 1: me as like my spasi, like they have to see

1061
00:56:14,760 --> 00:56:17,200
Speaker 1: the grossest faced I make, like I can make when

1062
00:56:17,200 --> 00:56:20,359
Speaker 1: I'm trying to make someone laugh, like be spas and like,

1063
00:56:21,320 --> 00:56:24,160
Speaker 1: and they'd still buy me attractive and fun? Did you

1064
00:56:24,680 --> 00:56:27,279
Speaker 1: didn't take me that way with Corey? Instantly? Though? Yes,

1065
00:56:27,440 --> 00:56:31,000
Speaker 1: I I remember because I in my head, I go,

1066
00:56:31,600 --> 00:56:34,359
Speaker 1: I'm not, I like really like this guy, but I

1067
00:56:34,400 --> 00:56:36,640
Speaker 1: am not. I don't love him enough to be like

1068
00:56:37,320 --> 00:56:39,520
Speaker 1: I'm like shape who he wants me to be. I

1069
00:56:39,560 --> 00:56:41,960
Speaker 1: just knew I was cute and to know that he

1070
00:56:42,200 --> 00:56:45,239
Speaker 1: just wanted me to be myself. I don't know how

1071
00:56:45,760 --> 00:56:48,320
Speaker 1: just through friends, and I'm not trying to say that

1072
00:56:48,360 --> 00:56:50,759
Speaker 1: like it was, So why did you wait to sex? Well,

1073
00:56:50,760 --> 00:56:52,640
Speaker 1: I was dating a couple other guys at the time,

1074
00:56:52,719 --> 00:56:57,000
Speaker 1: so a couple of other virgos were lined up, and

1075
00:56:57,040 --> 00:56:58,840
Speaker 1: I was I was really just dating because I was

1076
00:56:58,880 --> 00:57:02,400
Speaker 1: having like summer of fun. One I kind of stopped drinking.

1077
00:57:02,800 --> 00:57:04,920
Speaker 1: I mean, I still drink you know that. But I

1078
00:57:05,000 --> 00:57:08,919
Speaker 1: was saying that you drink is you drink like one

1079
00:57:08,920 --> 00:57:11,680
Speaker 1: glass of wine every three weeks. I probably have like

1080
00:57:11,760 --> 00:57:14,880
Speaker 1: four drinks in a month. Maybe. Okay, So there we

1081
00:57:14,920 --> 00:57:18,120
Speaker 1: go all the same night and well and the night

1082
00:57:18,160 --> 00:57:20,560
Speaker 1: we met. The night we met, I it was like

1083
00:57:20,560 --> 00:57:22,360
Speaker 1: a first Friday art event and I was down in

1084
00:57:22,400 --> 00:57:24,800
Speaker 1: the crossroads. Were at this big party thing and she's

1085
00:57:24,800 --> 00:57:27,120
Speaker 1: from kids. I think I had biked down there, and

1086
00:57:27,160 --> 00:57:28,880
Speaker 1: I was like wearing a little dress. I was like

1087
00:57:28,920 --> 00:57:31,160
Speaker 1: living that life where I had a bag full of

1088
00:57:31,240 --> 00:57:33,040
Speaker 1: spinach from the farmer's market and I was just like

1089
00:57:33,040 --> 00:57:35,160
Speaker 1: walking around this huge maga spinach frond, like the girl

1090
00:57:35,200 --> 00:57:36,959
Speaker 1: that I would try to be to get a guy.

1091
00:57:37,120 --> 00:57:39,320
Speaker 1: But I was like a hippy vibe. I was like

1092
00:57:39,440 --> 00:57:43,960
Speaker 1: just here and he was like spinach No, I just

1093
00:57:46,400 --> 00:57:48,840
Speaker 1: and I was literally and we've never done. I was

1094
00:57:48,880 --> 00:57:52,600
Speaker 1: in like an f boy f by mode where I

1095
00:57:52,680 --> 00:57:55,680
Speaker 1: just was like I'm not having any of this bullshit

1096
00:57:55,760 --> 00:57:59,840
Speaker 1: of trying to be this person. So we literally dated.

1097
00:58:00,360 --> 00:58:01,760
Speaker 1: I would send him home at the end of the

1098
00:58:01,800 --> 00:58:03,280
Speaker 1: night because I didn't want him to see me in

1099
00:58:03,320 --> 00:58:04,920
Speaker 1: the morning just yet. I was like, Okay, I just

1100
00:58:04,960 --> 00:58:08,080
Speaker 1: want to do my thing was living alone and he

1101
00:58:08,200 --> 00:58:10,800
Speaker 1: was totally cool with that. And like seeing him leave

1102
00:58:11,320 --> 00:58:13,800
Speaker 1: at the end of the night when we've been like

1103
00:58:13,840 --> 00:58:16,080
Speaker 1: hanging out and I gotta get up in the morning,

1104
00:58:16,120 --> 00:58:18,640
Speaker 1: and he would walk away and Okay, I have a

1105
00:58:18,640 --> 00:58:20,360
Speaker 1: great night. And just like seeing him walk away and

1106
00:58:20,360 --> 00:58:22,800
Speaker 1: get on his bike to go home, I was like, God,

1107
00:58:22,840 --> 00:58:26,480
Speaker 1: he's the one. So when did you finally he would

1108
00:58:26,520 --> 00:58:29,280
Speaker 1: just like bike? Yeah, like we would you know, when

1109
00:58:29,320 --> 00:58:33,240
Speaker 1: you're younger, you're like bike everywhere. Like just like, what

1110
00:58:33,440 --> 00:58:35,680
Speaker 1: when did you finally sleep together? Like when when you

1111
00:58:35,720 --> 00:58:38,640
Speaker 1: were ready to lock it in? Yeah? It was like

1112
00:58:38,680 --> 00:58:40,880
Speaker 1: we were both ready for that. Did you have to

1113
00:58:40,920 --> 00:58:44,280
Speaker 1: talk about like what you were? Yeah, But it wasn't

1114
00:58:44,320 --> 00:58:46,840
Speaker 1: like we were consciously like before we define anything. But

1115
00:58:46,920 --> 00:58:51,120
Speaker 1: I think just the waves of energy we're telling us

1116
00:58:51,200 --> 00:58:56,080
Speaker 1: to wait until we were like waiting for Jesus or anything.

1117
00:58:56,080 --> 00:58:59,400
Speaker 1: We were lival waiting until it felt right. Yeah, so

1118
00:58:59,440 --> 00:59:02,240
Speaker 1: we I think we are both vulnerable and like he

1119
00:59:02,280 --> 00:59:04,320
Speaker 1: hadn't been in a serious relationship and he knew this

1120
00:59:04,400 --> 00:59:06,960
Speaker 1: was love by the time he had sex. That's so

1121
00:59:07,000 --> 00:59:09,360
Speaker 1: special and then it was really good? Was it? Like, So,

1122
00:59:09,600 --> 00:59:11,120
Speaker 1: do you remember the first time you had sex and

1123
00:59:11,160 --> 00:59:14,760
Speaker 1: like it was a special moment. It was very late

1124
00:59:14,800 --> 00:59:17,080
Speaker 1: and then it was like late night, like three am.

1125
00:59:17,120 --> 00:59:19,400
Speaker 1: I feel like I've reached the same exact place where

1126
00:59:19,400 --> 00:59:23,880
Speaker 1: you're at, where it's like I can't go into anything

1127
00:59:23,960 --> 00:59:28,000
Speaker 1: anymore of like trying to be and it's and it's

1128
00:59:28,040 --> 00:59:31,960
Speaker 1: obviously sounds like so the why not just be yourself?

1129
00:59:32,000 --> 00:59:35,120
Speaker 1: But like truly, like I I'm not ashamed of who

1130
00:59:35,120 --> 00:59:37,280
Speaker 1: I am anymore. And I think that so the reason

1131
00:59:37,320 --> 00:59:38,760
Speaker 1: I used to try to be other women was not

1132
00:59:38,800 --> 00:59:40,680
Speaker 1: because I was trying to be the version of this

1133
00:59:40,720 --> 00:59:42,680
Speaker 1: girl that this guy would love, was because I really

1134
00:59:42,720 --> 00:59:45,720
Speaker 1: just I didn't want to be myself, even without trying

1135
00:59:45,760 --> 00:59:48,000
Speaker 1: to impress a guy, like I was always trying to

1136
00:59:48,000 --> 00:59:50,480
Speaker 1: be someone else. And now when my room is a mess,

1137
00:59:51,160 --> 00:59:53,840
Speaker 1: like and I have a guy over, like I don't,

1138
00:59:54,280 --> 00:59:56,040
Speaker 1: I don't. I'm not like can I go in first?

1139
00:59:56,080 --> 00:59:58,280
Speaker 1: And like I mean, I don't want like dirty underwear

1140
00:59:58,320 --> 01:00:00,960
Speaker 1: on the floor, just because like that something sometimes I

1141
01:00:01,040 --> 01:00:03,720
Speaker 1: leave behind in a rush. But like I am the

1142
01:00:03,760 --> 01:00:05,840
Speaker 1: cardinal streak. I just like I'm like, you know what

1143
01:00:07,000 --> 01:00:10,320
Speaker 1: they're gonna I'm not a bad person because my room

1144
01:00:10,360 --> 01:00:12,960
Speaker 1: is is I have a cluttered desk that doesn't and

1145
01:00:13,000 --> 01:00:15,320
Speaker 1: if you can't love me for that, or if that's

1146
01:00:15,320 --> 01:00:17,200
Speaker 1: going to be a red flag for you, it just

1147
01:00:17,320 --> 01:00:19,920
Speaker 1: isn't gonna work at work. And I know that's easier

1148
01:00:19,920 --> 01:00:21,560
Speaker 1: said than done, because I used to hear this all

1149
01:00:21,560 --> 01:00:24,120
Speaker 1: the time, Like who hasn't heard that advice of like

1150
01:00:24,520 --> 01:00:26,440
Speaker 1: if they can't love you at your worst or like,

1151
01:00:26,680 --> 01:00:29,520
Speaker 1: but it's really about like accepting yourself for those things

1152
01:00:29,520 --> 01:00:31,040
Speaker 1: and being like, you know what when I look in

1153
01:00:31,080 --> 01:00:33,960
Speaker 1: the mirror in the morning and I look like discuss

1154
01:00:34,160 --> 01:00:37,200
Speaker 1: the most let's say, disgusting version of myself with no

1155
01:00:37,400 --> 01:00:40,880
Speaker 1: kind of like just and I go like, I still

1156
01:00:40,960 --> 01:00:43,560
Speaker 1: love that version of myself. I'm not like I can't

1157
01:00:43,560 --> 01:00:46,200
Speaker 1: go out. People can't see this, Like I'm still worthy

1158
01:00:46,400 --> 01:00:48,800
Speaker 1: of love. I feel like you as a guy when

1159
01:00:49,280 --> 01:00:52,880
Speaker 1: like if like I love Brando very much, like if

1160
01:00:52,920 --> 01:00:56,440
Speaker 1: she doesn't have makeup on, and like there obviously she

1161
01:00:56,480 --> 01:00:59,120
Speaker 1: looks different with makeup on, Like everyone looks more put together.

1162
01:00:59,400 --> 01:01:03,080
Speaker 1: It's not like like registering like oh, now you don't

1163
01:01:03,120 --> 01:01:05,520
Speaker 1: have like, oh I don't like this face, you know

1164
01:01:05,520 --> 01:01:07,120
Speaker 1: what I mean. It's like I just love your face.

1165
01:01:07,880 --> 01:01:10,880
Speaker 1: Whether it's like I don't see a difference. You start,

1166
01:01:11,360 --> 01:01:13,320
Speaker 1: you start not to see it different. You're not like

1167
01:01:13,480 --> 01:01:18,520
Speaker 1: clocking in like oh wait, this is who you are.

1168
01:01:18,760 --> 01:01:20,880
Speaker 1: It's early. It could be girls. I just want to

1169
01:01:20,920 --> 01:01:23,720
Speaker 1: say the girls listening out there, like the pressure to

1170
01:01:23,760 --> 01:01:25,440
Speaker 1: have sex with guys. If a guy is going to

1171
01:01:25,520 --> 01:01:27,160
Speaker 1: make you feel bad because you don't have sex, you

1172
01:01:27,200 --> 01:01:29,040
Speaker 1: don't have to have any reason for why you don't

1173
01:01:29,040 --> 01:01:31,320
Speaker 1: want have sex. You don't have to ever say it's

1174
01:01:31,360 --> 01:01:34,200
Speaker 1: because of this. You can just say, okay, let's call tonight.

1175
01:01:34,280 --> 01:01:37,240
Speaker 1: I still have pangs of like, oh I'm I'm he's

1176
01:01:37,400 --> 01:01:39,919
Speaker 1: he probably has a boner and like wants to get off,

1177
01:01:39,960 --> 01:01:42,160
Speaker 1: and I'm not going to get him off. It's fine,

1178
01:01:42,320 --> 01:01:44,720
Speaker 1: send them away. I swear to you, they're only going

1179
01:01:44,760 --> 01:01:46,560
Speaker 1: to like you more. And I know it goes against

1180
01:01:46,640 --> 01:01:49,320
Speaker 1: everything you're thinking of, Like but he's gonna be mad

1181
01:01:49,360 --> 01:01:51,280
Speaker 1: at me or disappointed. That's always in the back of

1182
01:01:51,320 --> 01:01:54,240
Speaker 1: my head as well. Just try out doing what you

1183
01:01:54,280 --> 01:01:57,000
Speaker 1: want to do. Always when it comes to sexuality, like

1184
01:01:57,360 --> 01:02:00,760
Speaker 1: don't ever do anything because they want it, you know,

1185
01:02:00,960 --> 01:02:02,520
Speaker 1: do it if they want it because you want to

1186
01:02:02,640 --> 01:02:05,160
Speaker 1: do something for them because you love them. You know,

1187
01:02:05,240 --> 01:02:08,120
Speaker 1: Like girls aren't sucking dick because they love the feel

1188
01:02:08,160 --> 01:02:09,960
Speaker 1: of it, but because they're doing it because the guy

1189
01:02:10,040 --> 01:02:16,920
Speaker 1: wants it. No one, not if girls don't suck their

1190
01:02:16,960 --> 01:02:21,040
Speaker 1: dildos for fun, but guys don't eat out exactly. You

1191
01:02:21,080 --> 01:02:24,640
Speaker 1: guys are doing it because you enjoy giving us pleasure. Yes,

1192
01:02:25,040 --> 01:02:27,479
Speaker 1: but you don't like a penis in your mouth. Not

1193
01:02:27,880 --> 01:02:30,360
Speaker 1: I I do. When I'm with with the person who

1194
01:02:30,600 --> 01:02:32,440
Speaker 1: is his penis, it is and I can see that

1195
01:02:32,480 --> 01:02:34,480
Speaker 1: they're getting pleasure from it and it tastes like them

1196
01:02:34,480 --> 01:02:37,000
Speaker 1: and stuff like if I just had a penis that

1197
01:02:37,080 --> 01:02:39,680
Speaker 1: tasted like my boyfriend, that wasn't attached to him, and like,

1198
01:02:39,920 --> 01:02:43,000
Speaker 1: I would not just suck it for fun. No, I wouldn't.

1199
01:02:43,160 --> 01:02:45,040
Speaker 1: And that's how you determine if you're doing something for fun.

1200
01:02:45,080 --> 01:02:47,200
Speaker 1: When it's like out, when people go I love tequila,

1201
01:02:47,240 --> 01:02:49,640
Speaker 1: I go, okay, if tequila didn't have alcohol in it,

1202
01:02:49,720 --> 01:02:51,640
Speaker 1: would you really drink it? And they go yeah, And

1203
01:02:51,680 --> 01:02:54,680
Speaker 1: I'm like, well, do you drink non alcoholic beer? Actually

1204
01:02:54,760 --> 01:02:57,560
Speaker 1: I told you I drink no alcoholic beer. I know,

1205
01:02:57,640 --> 01:03:02,280
Speaker 1: and I think you're you also likes like match and

1206
01:03:02,280 --> 01:03:06,040
Speaker 1: that's it's like that we'll talk about later. Yeah, we're

1207
01:03:06,080 --> 01:03:07,800
Speaker 1: gonna do top one bottom one for a I don't

1208
01:03:07,880 --> 01:03:10,160
Speaker 1: thought because I gotta get on a call here in

1209
01:03:10,200 --> 01:03:13,240
Speaker 1: a ten minutes. Um. The top one bottom one topic

1210
01:03:13,280 --> 01:03:19,400
Speaker 1: for today is basic things that people like. Yeah, basic

1211
01:03:19,480 --> 01:03:23,000
Speaker 1: bitch stuff like things that would be described as basic

1212
01:03:23,680 --> 01:03:26,240
Speaker 1: that either that we both you know, a thing that

1213
01:03:26,280 --> 01:03:28,960
Speaker 1: you love the most that you indulgent, and a thing

1214
01:03:29,000 --> 01:03:31,360
Speaker 1: that you hate the most that either you indulgent or

1215
01:03:31,640 --> 01:03:34,800
Speaker 1: let other people do. I'll start us off the number

1216
01:03:34,800 --> 01:03:38,800
Speaker 1: one thing that I love that is so basic about Wait, sorry,

1217
01:03:38,800 --> 01:03:42,120
Speaker 1: we're starting with hate, Nikki. Come on, um, I'll start

1218
01:03:42,160 --> 01:03:44,480
Speaker 1: with mine. The thing that I hate the most is

1219
01:03:44,520 --> 01:03:48,520
Speaker 1: what I just said. People who UM glamorized drinking and

1220
01:03:48,520 --> 01:03:51,320
Speaker 1: they're like it's one o'clock, or like, who needs a

1221
01:03:51,400 --> 01:03:53,720
Speaker 1: therapist when I have wine and act like they like

1222
01:03:53,880 --> 01:03:58,120
Speaker 1: the taste of alcohol. You don't. You like the way

1223
01:03:58,240 --> 01:04:01,320
Speaker 1: it makes you drunk, and that's okay, But don't lie

1224
01:04:01,360 --> 01:04:03,360
Speaker 1: to me and say you like the taste of whiskey.

1225
01:04:03,720 --> 01:04:07,080
Speaker 1: You don't. Um, you don't. You just don't. And if

1226
01:04:07,120 --> 01:04:10,000
Speaker 1: you think you do, you I know that people out

1227
01:04:10,000 --> 01:04:14,080
Speaker 1: there raging right now, but I always proved this. When

1228
01:04:14,080 --> 01:04:16,840
Speaker 1: I went to UM. There was a fro yo shop

1229
01:04:16,880 --> 01:04:22,200
Speaker 1: that was doing a Guinness flavored fro yo okay, and

1230
01:04:22,200 --> 01:04:24,400
Speaker 1: people say they love guinness the taste of guinness, and

1231
01:04:24,440 --> 01:04:26,200
Speaker 1: maybe you're like, well, I don't like these. There are

1232
01:04:26,200 --> 01:04:28,280
Speaker 1: people that would claim they love the taste of guinness

1233
01:04:28,440 --> 01:04:30,479
Speaker 1: or love the taste of beer. There was a beer

1234
01:04:30,560 --> 01:04:34,760
Speaker 1: flavored fro yo and which obviously did not have alcohol

1235
01:04:34,800 --> 01:04:37,120
Speaker 1: in it. And I went up to the It was

1236
01:04:37,160 --> 01:04:39,400
Speaker 1: at sixteen Handles in New York, and I go, how

1237
01:04:39,400 --> 01:04:41,280
Speaker 1: many people are getting that? And he goes, oh, people

1238
01:04:41,320 --> 01:04:43,800
Speaker 1: just try it, but no one actually gets it. It's like, yeah,

1239
01:04:43,840 --> 01:04:46,480
Speaker 1: because no one likes the taste of alcohol. You like

1240
01:04:46,600 --> 01:04:50,280
Speaker 1: the taste. It's like blow jobs. You don't like blow jobs.

1241
01:04:50,480 --> 01:04:53,080
Speaker 1: If blow jobs weren't connected to the feeling you get

1242
01:04:53,120 --> 01:04:56,080
Speaker 1: from giving someone a good feeling and getting the feedback back,

1243
01:04:56,400 --> 01:04:59,880
Speaker 1: you wouldn't like blow jobs. Inherently, blow jobs don't taste good.

1244
01:05:00,560 --> 01:05:03,960
Speaker 1: The taste might remind you of all that coffee doesn't

1245
01:05:04,000 --> 01:05:07,040
Speaker 1: taste good. But I like black coffee because it gives

1246
01:05:07,040 --> 01:05:11,080
Speaker 1: me energy and I'm addicted to it. So that's that

1247
01:05:11,240 --> 01:05:13,280
Speaker 1: not to me. I know that you're like, nikky, get

1248
01:05:13,280 --> 01:05:15,160
Speaker 1: off your high horse about this. But why don't you

1249
01:05:15,200 --> 01:05:17,160
Speaker 1: read the Easy Way to stop drinking my Alan car

1250
01:05:17,160 --> 01:05:19,240
Speaker 1: and you get back to me. So that's my least

1251
01:05:19,280 --> 01:05:23,640
Speaker 1: favorite basic thing is like drinking culture. My least favorite,

1252
01:05:23,800 --> 01:05:28,840
Speaker 1: I think is the people that the hustle hard culture of,

1253
01:05:28,880 --> 01:05:33,280
Speaker 1: like waking up at four am, like Mark Wahlberg mindset.

1254
01:05:33,480 --> 01:05:38,360
Speaker 1: Yeah it's yeah, any of that, Like what the fund

1255
01:05:38,440 --> 01:05:40,400
Speaker 1: is wrong? When you just pull yourself up, but you

1256
01:05:40,400 --> 01:05:43,520
Speaker 1: didn't have to go to college. College, just fucking buy

1257
01:05:43,560 --> 01:05:47,800
Speaker 1: a fucking lemonade. Stand open, nineteen of them, sell the lemonade.

1258
01:05:48,000 --> 01:05:52,120
Speaker 1: Then by lines, turn those lines into more lemons, and

1259
01:05:52,120 --> 01:05:54,360
Speaker 1: the next thing you know, you own the fucking world.

1260
01:05:55,840 --> 01:05:59,120
Speaker 1: Shut up, Gary, But yeah, the four a m. Or

1261
01:05:59,200 --> 01:06:01,680
Speaker 1: like I wake up, I don't even see the sun rise.

1262
01:06:01,760 --> 01:06:05,480
Speaker 1: The sun has never rise. I fucking I eat dumbbells

1263
01:06:05,520 --> 01:06:08,840
Speaker 1: at one in the morning, Like fuck you man. But

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01:06:09,000 --> 01:06:11,720
Speaker 1: also I'm like projecting a little because I'm like, man,

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01:06:11,720 --> 01:06:15,680
Speaker 1: that's pretty cool that you got of the of course,

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01:06:15,960 --> 01:06:17,880
Speaker 1: of course, the one time I filmed you in the

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01:06:17,920 --> 01:06:20,360
Speaker 1: caves when you were passed out and your shirt was

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01:06:20,400 --> 01:06:23,000
Speaker 1: like up against like like you're just passed out, like

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01:06:23,320 --> 01:06:25,720
Speaker 1: just looks like a drunk pass out on the couch

1270
01:06:25,800 --> 01:06:28,720
Speaker 1: and David Goggan's audiobook is playing to be like you

1271
01:06:28,760 --> 01:06:30,600
Speaker 1: get up every morning and you look in the mirror,

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01:06:30,600 --> 01:06:33,520
Speaker 1: and you hustle, you don't take no for an answer,

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01:06:33,880 --> 01:06:40,120
Speaker 1: and you push yourself to you. It was just echoing

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01:06:40,200 --> 01:06:42,880
Speaker 1: through that. It was so ironic, it was hilarious. That's

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01:06:42,880 --> 01:06:45,680
Speaker 1: the funniest thing I've ever Okay, person, what is your

1276
01:06:45,760 --> 01:06:48,600
Speaker 1: least favorite basic thing? I think my least favorite basic

1277
01:06:48,640 --> 01:06:51,240
Speaker 1: thing would be And I'm so sorry. I really don't

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01:06:51,280 --> 01:06:56,400
Speaker 1: want to offend anybody, but like influencer culture, influencers, there's

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01:06:56,440 --> 01:06:59,120
Speaker 1: a scale. There's some people are doing good, but I

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01:06:59,160 --> 01:07:03,840
Speaker 1: just think the overall culture it's a little hard to witness. Um,

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01:07:03,880 --> 01:07:05,400
Speaker 1: I've talked about you at the top of the show,

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01:07:05,480 --> 01:07:07,920
Speaker 1: us making fun of it. Oh perfect, So just people.

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01:07:07,920 --> 01:07:11,040
Speaker 1: I just feel like people living their life through what

1284
01:07:11,120 --> 01:07:13,960
Speaker 1: will the masses? Like? Wait, what was can you do

1285
01:07:14,000 --> 01:07:16,400
Speaker 1: a picture right now for us of like the wacky

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01:07:16,400 --> 01:07:18,640
Speaker 1: face Wednesday? Like where a girl would do the picture

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01:07:18,720 --> 01:07:27,880
Speaker 1: like hold, oh it's okay, sorry, up up, okay, So

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01:07:27,960 --> 01:07:32,520
Speaker 1: it would be this face okay, and then that caption

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01:07:32,560 --> 01:07:41,520
Speaker 1: would be work hard, play hard Wednesday vibes. It's just

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01:07:41,560 --> 01:07:43,320
Speaker 1: like the face she's making is kind of like a

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01:07:43,360 --> 01:07:47,360
Speaker 1: scrunch up, like with her eyebrows bigger. It's like yeah,

1292
01:07:47,360 --> 01:07:49,520
Speaker 1: like kind of like duck face. But like, what would

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01:07:49,560 --> 01:07:52,560
Speaker 1: your podcast be called? As an influencer that believes in

1294
01:07:52,640 --> 01:07:56,280
Speaker 1: Wednesday vibes? Like m M, I'm I gonna need to

1295
01:07:56,320 --> 01:08:01,400
Speaker 1: think about this one, like some with millionaire mindset in it,

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01:08:01,520 --> 01:08:07,960
Speaker 1: like yeah, like fitness. I don't know, Like I was

1297
01:08:08,040 --> 01:08:11,200
Speaker 1: trying to think of what I couldn't day women like

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01:08:11,240 --> 01:08:16,960
Speaker 1: the Wednesday Women Patrol. It's like we're groundbreakers. We wake

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01:08:17,040 --> 01:08:20,040
Speaker 1: up at three am for a four hour ritual and

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01:08:20,160 --> 01:08:22,720
Speaker 1: go to bed at seven, even though that kind of

1301
01:08:22,840 --> 01:08:26,439
Speaker 1: like my life, but I don't put out there like

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01:08:26,880 --> 01:08:31,120
Speaker 1: four thirty am, get started. I got my sixty minute meditation,

1303
01:08:31,280 --> 01:08:35,680
Speaker 1: macho routine. It's just bragging. Also, you didn't and we

1304
01:08:35,720 --> 01:08:37,880
Speaker 1: all know that this is the most basic to make

1305
01:08:37,920 --> 01:08:41,040
Speaker 1: fun of influencers, but like they all have to have

1306
01:08:41,120 --> 01:08:43,599
Speaker 1: someone take their picture, like whenever you see a girl

1307
01:08:43,640 --> 01:08:46,760
Speaker 1: with a cozy cup of tea and like journaling, she

1308
01:08:46,800 --> 01:08:50,559
Speaker 1: had to go, honey, will you take this picture? And

1309
01:08:50,600 --> 01:08:51,800
Speaker 1: like I had to go and I had to go

1310
01:08:51,880 --> 01:08:53,400
Speaker 1: set it up in press the timer and then go

1311
01:08:53,439 --> 01:08:55,880
Speaker 1: sit and then go grab her phone. Like there's think

1312
01:08:55,880 --> 01:08:59,080
Speaker 1: of the book ends of all of these in there

1313
01:08:59,400 --> 01:09:02,360
Speaker 1: to think about the gression behind it, Like no, I

1314
01:09:02,479 --> 01:09:08,160
Speaker 1: need to get over what get over? Why are you wearing?

1315
01:09:08,560 --> 01:09:14,559
Speaker 1: Why aren't you wearing shorts? Brian the influencer husband is

1316
01:09:15,800 --> 01:09:22,519
Speaker 1: I mean, becomes part of it. He gets tagged yeah

1317
01:09:22,720 --> 01:09:25,720
Speaker 1: and I would say my number one, and he has

1318
01:09:25,720 --> 01:09:27,800
Speaker 1: the passwords to her Instagram so he can see if

1319
01:09:27,800 --> 01:09:29,720
Speaker 1: she's like cheating on him. He probably feels a sense

1320
01:09:29,720 --> 01:09:34,960
Speaker 1: of control. Um my number one. Uh, you help me

1321
01:09:35,080 --> 01:09:37,479
Speaker 1: build this. I hope you build it. And now you're

1322
01:09:37,520 --> 01:09:43,240
Speaker 1: cheated on? Empire and Tuna? Tom who who who wakes up,

1323
01:09:43,439 --> 01:09:48,080
Speaker 1: grinds hard and cuts tuna. My number one favorite basic

1324
01:09:48,160 --> 01:09:51,360
Speaker 1: thing is Starbucks. Like I I'm embarrassed that, Like, I

1325
01:09:51,800 --> 01:09:55,240
Speaker 1: not someone who wants the Mom pop coffee shop. I don't.

1326
01:09:55,479 --> 01:09:58,559
Speaker 1: I'm not someone who's like, oh, this roast is my favorite.

1327
01:09:58,600 --> 01:10:01,920
Speaker 1: I just like your Bucks. And it's not because the coffee.

1328
01:10:01,920 --> 01:10:03,920
Speaker 1: It's because of the milk that they use. It's because

1329
01:10:04,000 --> 01:10:05,439
Speaker 1: the cup feels good in my hand. It's all the

1330
01:10:05,479 --> 01:10:11,680
Speaker 1: marketing behind it. I am a I am brainwashed Lemming. First, Starbucks.

1331
01:10:11,720 --> 01:10:13,479
Speaker 1: I love it. I'm a basic bitch. I'm not a

1332
01:10:13,520 --> 01:10:15,599
Speaker 1: pumpkin spice music a bit, but I have no judgment

1333
01:10:15,640 --> 01:10:18,720
Speaker 1: of them. Um Andrew, what is your favorite? I mean,

1334
01:10:18,720 --> 01:10:21,200
Speaker 1: it's probably a tie between golf and Chick fil A,

1335
01:10:21,800 --> 01:10:25,840
Speaker 1: but d my Corolla. Like those three things combine just

1336
01:10:25,960 --> 01:10:28,720
Speaker 1: makes me such a basic simp bitch. Like all I

1337
01:10:28,760 --> 01:10:31,320
Speaker 1: do is drive a two thousand, twenty one Corolla to

1338
01:10:31,479 --> 01:10:34,680
Speaker 1: the golfing range with a golf shirt on, and I've

1339
01:10:34,720 --> 01:10:37,439
Speaker 1: never been happier. That's all I need in life. It's

1340
01:10:37,560 --> 01:10:42,080
Speaker 1: those three things and we're so happy that, Like it

1341
01:10:42,120 --> 01:10:46,439
Speaker 1: makes me happy that you get so much joy out

1342
01:10:46,439 --> 01:10:48,160
Speaker 1: of golf, like it was a thing that you weren't

1343
01:10:48,160 --> 01:10:50,320
Speaker 1: doing in your life. That's like brought you so much

1344
01:10:50,360 --> 01:10:54,080
Speaker 1: freaking joy. Like sometimes dog or a cat and you're like,

1345
01:10:54,320 --> 01:10:57,360
Speaker 1: how did you exist before this thing in your life?

1346
01:10:57,760 --> 01:11:02,639
Speaker 1: I mean I I it's it's just like the every

1347
01:11:02,720 --> 01:11:05,240
Speaker 1: day is different with golf, and it sounds so cheesy

1348
01:11:06,160 --> 01:11:08,599
Speaker 1: the older I get. I go to these different golf

1349
01:11:08,680 --> 01:11:11,200
Speaker 1: courses and I look around them like this. There's this

1350
01:11:11,240 --> 01:11:13,479
Speaker 1: one called an Brier and it's in the middle of

1351
01:11:13,520 --> 01:11:17,000
Speaker 1: a cornfield. You drive down a road where you think

1352
01:11:17,080 --> 01:11:19,360
Speaker 1: they kill Jewish people. And I'm like, maybe I shouldn't

1353
01:11:19,400 --> 01:11:21,120
Speaker 1: drive down this road. You know, I'm not gonna tell

1354
01:11:21,120 --> 01:11:23,760
Speaker 1: anyone I'm Jewish whatever, you know, I you know, and uh,

1355
01:11:23,840 --> 01:11:27,000
Speaker 1: And I drive and I make Yeah Andrew Star of Colin,

1356
01:11:27,040 --> 01:11:29,439
Speaker 1: which would be a great country club. Um. And then

1357
01:11:29,479 --> 01:11:31,960
Speaker 1: I drive down and it just opens up and there's

1358
01:11:32,040 --> 01:11:34,720
Speaker 1: hills and you know, like a guy wakes up at

1359
01:11:35,040 --> 01:11:36,640
Speaker 1: four in the more in the hustle hard to make

1360
01:11:36,680 --> 01:11:39,200
Speaker 1: that green perfect. And I don't know, and like you

1361
01:11:39,240 --> 01:11:41,479
Speaker 1: just think of like all the thought that went into

1362
01:11:41,560 --> 01:11:43,920
Speaker 1: like making these hills and making the sand trap, and

1363
01:11:43,920 --> 01:11:46,320
Speaker 1: you're like, funk, there's so much history here. I don't know.

1364
01:11:46,360 --> 01:11:48,800
Speaker 1: It's like like I I never thought about that as

1365
01:11:48,840 --> 01:11:50,880
Speaker 1: a kid, of like how long it took to cut

1366
01:11:50,920 --> 01:11:54,360
Speaker 1: the grass or like whoever designed this? How how how

1367
01:11:54,439 --> 01:11:56,759
Speaker 1: do you have to like be creative? Just like love

1368
01:11:57,400 --> 01:12:00,720
Speaker 1: consuming golf and like it makes me I know that

1369
01:12:00,800 --> 01:12:04,519
Speaker 1: feeling of like because I love anything Taylor Swift and

1370
01:12:04,520 --> 01:12:06,479
Speaker 1: it like sends a surge through my body that I

1371
01:12:06,600 --> 01:12:08,559
Speaker 1: never had before. And I'm like, oh my god, like

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01:12:08,760 --> 01:12:12,120
Speaker 1: what would I do without this thing that I'm yes

1373
01:12:12,240 --> 01:12:15,840
Speaker 1: you are and to take us out firston we Gotta Go.

1374
01:12:15,840 --> 01:12:17,320
Speaker 1: But what is the number one thing that you love? That?

1375
01:12:17,479 --> 01:12:19,360
Speaker 1: So it hands down? We kind of covered it, but

1376
01:12:20,640 --> 01:12:25,680
Speaker 1: active where I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I love Lulu. I

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01:12:26,120 --> 01:12:28,800
Speaker 1: be where I live in leggings. I mean I am

1378
01:12:28,840 --> 01:12:32,240
Speaker 1: a trainer, so I can do it for the reason. Um,

1379
01:12:32,280 --> 01:12:35,599
Speaker 1: but it's comfortable, it's pretty. I heard you and Brenna

1380
01:12:35,680 --> 01:12:37,680
Speaker 1: talking about like some dress of the built of braw

1381
01:12:37,840 --> 01:12:41,240
Speaker 1: and I was like, I can't with this. It works

1382
01:12:41,240 --> 01:12:44,080
Speaker 1: great on a like an active Um what is it called?

1383
01:12:44,120 --> 01:12:46,240
Speaker 1: Like not saying like a fit body, but like a

1384
01:12:46,240 --> 01:12:49,439
Speaker 1: athletic frame. I just I think it's a great option

1385
01:12:49,520 --> 01:12:52,360
Speaker 1: for just for a tire. And do you want to

1386
01:12:52,360 --> 01:12:54,400
Speaker 1: give us a promo code? And I'm not a little

1387
01:12:55,080 --> 01:12:58,960
Speaker 1: caption for your active war picture off if you mentioned

1388
01:12:59,080 --> 01:13:03,120
Speaker 1: k flow fit right in here, Um, that's my maiden.

1389
01:13:03,320 --> 01:13:05,320
Speaker 1: You start an active where coming? I feel like you should.

1390
01:13:05,400 --> 01:13:07,760
Speaker 1: I do have a full line you're asking. Actually it's

1391
01:13:07,760 --> 01:13:11,040
Speaker 1: a good promo. I have, no, I don't now there's

1392
01:13:11,200 --> 01:13:13,360
Speaker 1: enough active we're out there. I just like to consume it.

1393
01:13:13,400 --> 01:13:15,160
Speaker 1: And lu Lemon is the most basic one and I

1394
01:13:15,439 --> 01:13:18,200
Speaker 1: love it. I'm we gotta go thank you so much

1395
01:13:18,280 --> 01:13:20,479
Speaker 1: for being here, Kirsten. It's been a great weekend with you.

1396
01:13:20,640 --> 01:13:23,479
Speaker 1: I've loved having this all road robe episode. Look for

1397
01:13:23,560 --> 01:13:24,960
Speaker 1: this one on YouTube and a couple of days you

1398
01:13:25,000 --> 01:13:27,200
Speaker 1: guys if you're listening to it. Um, thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: We'll be here all week. We love you, Busti is

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01:13:29,320 --> 01:13:31,240
Speaker 1: so good to meet you after the shows this weekend

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01:13:31,479 --> 01:13:34,800
Speaker 1: or the show this weekend. More tickets available on Nikki

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01:13:34,840 --> 01:13:37,760
Speaker 1: Glaser dot com. Slash tour and we'll see tomorrow. Don't

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Speaker 1: be cut out there and