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Speaker 2: Ain't nobody thought about it until they shot.

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Speaker 2: have to understand. I'm big dog. Yeah, I'm the eight

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Speaker 2: So so homecoming rolled around? Yeah, I said, my mom

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Speaker 5: You got to go back and get that.

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Speaker 3: Man, I'm fifty five. That's the one boy.

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Speaker 1: She had your clothes folded whites, lights and darks in college.

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Speaker 6: Well?

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Speaker 3: Now, man, who bad? Please?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Ship. Ain't like that.

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Speaker 1: I like that, Bud. Then with a day, boy, that's

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Speaker 3: Joe, I ain't like oo.

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Speaker 2: To be able to be between the ages of nineteen

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Speaker 3: I get two million dollar cash money right now. Mm hmm.

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Speaker 7: Now with what I have to go back, boy, but

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Speaker 3: But I have to have Oh.

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Speaker 2: John, oh Joe, No, what I don't done twenty one?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Hey doc, Oh my god, babe, Oh Joe boy

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Speaker 5: Oh he pulled up on you. He pulled up on you.

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Speaker 5: Oh you put can you pull that scrap out?

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Speaker 2: No, I had two situations. Check this out. I had

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Speaker 2: I called. I said, hey, you see anybody. She's like, no,

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Speaker 5: Being fast? You're being hot?

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Speaker 2: No, check this out? Oh yo, check this out? She said, no,

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Speaker 3: Oh Joe.

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Speaker 2: You ever been a sleep You feel like you can't move,

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Speaker 2: I felt like I was dreaming, but I could hear

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Speaker 5: Oo Like right move talking about.

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Speaker 2: After a while, boom the door flows, the hinges. So

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Speaker 2: you got to understand, Oyo, your boy, your boy about

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Speaker 2: to be twenty two. So I'm saying, hey, you know

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Speaker 2: I'm proud. Okay, I'm mad. Contact huh oh, bro, it

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Speaker 2: wouldn't have been good, O Joe.

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Speaker 5: What happened?

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Speaker 2: He had a couple of bodies on the resume, so

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Speaker 2: So he's like shop. I said, yeah, man, he said, man,

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Speaker 2: I love man. Hey, congratulations going to the Broncos live, Hey,

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Speaker 2: he said, man, you Savannah State boy. I used to

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Speaker 2: my shoes on, haveing socks on everything. Check this out,

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Speaker 2: O Joe, I said, God, if you get me out

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Speaker 2: of this situation, I wouldn't get back in another one.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Three years later, I go back to Savannah State homecoming.

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Speaker 3: I called it. I said, what's going on? I said,

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Speaker 2: No, no, different one. She said, check this out with Joe.

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Speaker 2: I said, you know your boy, and she said come on,

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Speaker 2: come on. I said, okay, I ride with my homeboy.

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Speaker 3: Bucket.

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Speaker 2: I said, bucket, turn around because we had just left campus.

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Speaker 2: I said, turn this thing around, bucket. He turned around.

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Speaker 2: We pull up, so I said, homeboy, you know watch

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Speaker 2: Houmban said, hey, no home going back to homeboy all right?

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Speaker 3: So he gets Jet magazine, so you know, I got

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Speaker 2: I got Jane eighty four, so you know, you know,

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Speaker 2: she's like, I feel the good. I feel the good

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Speaker 2: I got my I got my shirt. I took my

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Speaker 2: what what the hell? My homeboy thinking, dude came in

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Speaker 2: that thing with the ak and with the a K. Now,

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Speaker 2: so I done. Just came up with my T shirt

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Speaker 2: he looked at me. I look at him. I said,

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Speaker 3: My man.

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Speaker 2: He's like, yeah, I said, okay, my bad. Guess what

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Speaker 2: he asked me. He said, my man, you shocked? I

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Speaker 2: said yeah, he said, I thought so so I look

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Speaker 5: Yes, say okay, okay.

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Speaker 2: So I get my stuff and say, my bad bro,

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Speaker 2: I said, I ain't. No, I say, you know me,

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Speaker 2: I don't know who you are, my bad I thought,

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Speaker 2: I'm wrong. So I get my necklace. I'm sure, I'm sure.

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Speaker 3: Sure. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So I leave and I'm thinking, like, oh ship, I said, homeboy,

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Speaker 2: I left my roller in there. He said, man if

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Speaker 2: I said, man, you better turn this more for a rod.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to get my joint.

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Speaker 3: You got it, did I? Boy?

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Speaker 2: That was fifty bands? Why did I?

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Speaker 3: Hey? I said, my man, my roller on the dresser.

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Speaker 3: He said, hey, you go go man, I got it.

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Speaker 5: I said no again. So that's why it's been thirty years. Huh.

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Speaker 3: I can't, I can't.

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Speaker 5: I can't slap enough.

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Speaker 3: For the longest time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I would not go to a female's house with

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Speaker 2: that thing on the table right right right right right. No,

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Speaker 2: I say, you know what, just let me just look.

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Speaker 2: I feel comfortable in my own home or were gonna

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Speaker 2: I said, I can't risk it anymore. I say, because

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Speaker 2: can run rough shot over them. I say, it ain't

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Speaker 2: even worth it, old shoe, I say, But I say,

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Speaker 2: you got me out of that one. Yeah, and closing

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Speaker 2: my eyes of another and closed my eyes of another

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Speaker 3: The dude walked in on us in ninety three. That's it.

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Speaker 3: So thirty years and.

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Speaker 1: Listen, I'm never don't. I don't have a story of

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Speaker 1: that magnitude of story that great. I never had that problem.

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Speaker 1: I rarely really ever go to people's house, especially spending

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Speaker 1: I got to be able to play.

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Speaker 5: With my video game.

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Speaker 1: So I'm not staying at your house. But God, but

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Speaker 1: that was a good story, boy. And the funny the

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Speaker 1: funny thing about that story is that happened to a

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Speaker 3: Was.

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Speaker 2: I believe had he not known who I was, now,

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Speaker 2: I do I ate another story I was at I

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Speaker 2: So you know, used to have an old pay phone, right,

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Speaker 3: You could punch it in and pull it up.

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Speaker 2: So so she told me her address and I drove.

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Speaker 3: I said, damn, so I'm not even thinking.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I'm on thirty seventh in bull If you're

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Speaker 2: So I pull up there and the dude run up

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Speaker 2: my man, everything I got in Hey, so my wallet's

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Speaker 2: in the car. Everything I got is in the car,

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Speaker 2: he said, sharp. I said, yeah, I'm a man, hey,

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Speaker 2: he said. He said, Bro, you in the league. You

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Speaker 2: better get a cell phone. Get out of here, right.

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Speaker 2: You ain't got to tell me no more. Hey, But

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Speaker 2: I still made that calling with the shot.

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Speaker 3: I did do that.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Hey, bro, I got to friend of your call. Bro,

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Speaker 1: you you ain't pass that up. Don't don't do no

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Speaker 1: man shot down. Man, Listen what I got? I got

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Speaker 1: some good stories, man, but nothing nothing, nothing.

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Speaker 3: Like that I told you.

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Speaker 5: Were you were you tripping?

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Speaker 3: Oho?

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Speaker 2: You just be All they do is to tell me

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Speaker 2: they have somebody, and I'll have never stepped forward.

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Speaker 3: Man, You know, I was just women.

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Speaker 1: I don't I don't think women never tell the truth

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Speaker 1: and listen. And you just got to the league too.

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Speaker 1: You think they finish ruined the opportunity in that chest?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she.

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Speaker 2: Ruin please ruin it. I think I think your later

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Speaker 2: ruin my chances. I thank your later. But but I

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Speaker 2: wanted my story, and from time to time I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: share a few stories with you. And I got a

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Speaker 2: bunch of them over my fifty five years.

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Speaker 1: I got I got some good ones. I just just

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Speaker 1: not not like that though.

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Speaker 2: All right, oh Joe, that was in there. It was

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Speaker 2: in the early nineties. I met this chick.

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Speaker 5: Okay, wait a minute, what's her name? Man, give us

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Speaker 5: a full story.

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Speaker 2: At Black College Beach with She was fine, she probably

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Speaker 3: She was petite, but she had big natural booths, nice hair.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you know.

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Speaker 3: So it was a bunch of us and we were

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Speaker 3: playing this game called questions.

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Speaker 2: You asked somebody a question and they got to answer

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Speaker 2: So if I ask you your name, you can't say,

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Speaker 2: oh Joe, you gotta ask where you're from or what

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Speaker 2: do you have a car?

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Speaker 3: How old are you?

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Speaker 2: So every time somebody asked you a question, you can't

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Speaker 2: answer it. You have to respond with a question. So

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Speaker 2: we playing the game. But I noticed, you know, if

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Speaker 2: some other heavyweights in the room. So she keep asking

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Speaker 2: me questions. Now we met them at the gas stage.

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Speaker 2: They was getting gassed me and me and my other

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Speaker 2: partners that we would you know, and so you know,

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Speaker 2: I jump out the car. We got some other heavyweights

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Speaker 2: of other NFL players come you're part Yeah, okay, but

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Speaker 2: now you know you saw how you boy, I posted

441
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Speaker 2: a picture back when it back to thirty five years ago?

442
00:21:08,280 --> 00:21:12,120
Speaker 3: You talking about it now? Yeah, you're wrong, yo, Joe.

443
00:21:12,240 --> 00:21:13,880
Speaker 2: Now remember now I told you I was hell when

444
00:21:13,880 --> 00:21:16,520
Speaker 2: I was well. But anyway, you know what I'm saying.

445
00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:20,080
Speaker 2: So mind you this April, so I've been working out.

446
00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:22,160
Speaker 2: So you know your boy Tever sick.

447
00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:25,359
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah right, I was right like.

448
00:21:25,359 --> 00:21:26,280
Speaker 3: A Trump tax turn.

449
00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:29,760
Speaker 2: You know what I'm talking about, Joe yeahed you broke

450
00:21:29,800 --> 00:21:34,439
Speaker 2: me traded, So you know we talked, uh you know

451
00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:37,840
Speaker 2: we exchanged information because this was like a Saturday, I'm

452
00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:38,680
Speaker 2: leaving to go back.

453
00:21:39,160 --> 00:21:43,320
Speaker 3: Excuse me, I'm leaving to go back to Savannah Sunday.

454
00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:47,920
Speaker 2: We exchanged information, were talking, you know, hey, you got somebody, No,

455
00:21:48,160 --> 00:21:48,879
Speaker 2: I done broke up.

456
00:21:48,920 --> 00:21:49,720
Speaker 3: Blah blah blah.

457
00:21:49,760 --> 00:21:53,840
Speaker 2: I ain't got nobody, right, I said, okay, cool, I said, man.

458
00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:56,880
Speaker 2: So my brother said, hey, bro, I need you. I'm

459
00:21:56,880 --> 00:22:00,240
Speaker 2: having to get together. I need you to come. I said, okay,

460
00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:05,000
Speaker 2: no problem. I said, look, yeah, I'm gonna bring you

461
00:22:05,040 --> 00:22:08,040
Speaker 2: to my brother's place in South Carolina. She's like, okay, cool.

462
00:22:09,520 --> 00:22:11,120
Speaker 3: We come. Have a good old time.

463
00:22:11,160 --> 00:22:13,760
Speaker 2: You know, my brother have a pool party, you know, cookings,

464
00:22:13,800 --> 00:22:16,240
Speaker 2: few and everything. Were having a good old time, you know.

465
00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:17,080
Speaker 3: Woop woop whoop.

466
00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:19,320
Speaker 2: I said, okay, I kind of like this more folks

467
00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:22,400
Speaker 2: night had a great time. When I say, great, great

468
00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:24,080
Speaker 2: great great great.

469
00:22:26,560 --> 00:22:26,760
Speaker 3: Yeah.

470
00:22:26,960 --> 00:22:27,080
Speaker 2: Right.

471
00:22:28,400 --> 00:22:31,399
Speaker 3: But anyway, so now it's my turn to return to Flavor.

472
00:22:31,440 --> 00:22:32,119
Speaker 3: I'm going to her.

473
00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:34,080
Speaker 5: Mm hmm.

474
00:22:36,800 --> 00:22:38,479
Speaker 2: I get down there. She picks me up and say

475
00:22:38,520 --> 00:22:39,720
Speaker 2: we got to go by the hospital.

476
00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:42,000
Speaker 5: I said, what we gotta wait, west state, west State.

477
00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:46,399
Speaker 3: We're in Florida. Yeah, oh Miami. No. No.

478
00:22:46,880 --> 00:22:48,320
Speaker 2: As a matter of fact, I can't tell you because

479
00:22:48,359 --> 00:22:50,160
Speaker 2: people gonna try to pain point everything and I'm gonna

480
00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:50,600
Speaker 2: tell you.

481
00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:52,639
Speaker 5: But anyway, okay, okay, go ahead.

482
00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:55,000
Speaker 2: You picked up at the airport. She said, we got

483
00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:56,199
Speaker 2: to go by the hospital. I said, well, we got

484
00:22:56,280 --> 00:22:58,199
Speaker 2: to go to the hospital. She said, my sister is

485
00:22:58,200 --> 00:22:59,320
Speaker 2: about to have a baby.

486
00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:01,480
Speaker 3: But no problem.

487
00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:04,600
Speaker 2: We go by the hospital. By the time we get there,

488
00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:08,840
Speaker 2: sister had the baby. I was like, I never met you.

489
00:23:08,920 --> 00:23:10,920
Speaker 2: So she said, no, you want to meet you. So

490
00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:13,439
Speaker 2: I go in there, I meet the sister, meet the

491
00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:17,280
Speaker 2: meet her husband, meet the baby. To the day that

492
00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:19,439
Speaker 2: she remembered me because we know we.

493
00:23:19,280 --> 00:23:22,679
Speaker 3: Were cool, you know. But anyway, so I'm like, so

494
00:23:24,240 --> 00:23:25,080
Speaker 3: go get a hotel.

495
00:23:25,359 --> 00:23:28,680
Speaker 2: Now, mind you, I'm in the state of Florida, big

496
00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:32,479
Speaker 2: and it's a big city. Remember she told me she

497
00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:36,960
Speaker 2: ain't got nobody. I take her out of a word. So

498
00:23:37,119 --> 00:23:39,439
Speaker 2: I let you know, you know, your boy layer that

499
00:23:39,560 --> 00:23:43,639
Speaker 2: thing on a Friday, bight. You don't you know that

500
00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:46,880
Speaker 2: did it? That went by? You know that went about

501
00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:49,920
Speaker 2: five round? You know, your boy, young man, you boy five?

502
00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:53,560
Speaker 3: I got five on it. You know what I'm saying,

503
00:23:53,560 --> 00:23:57,919
Speaker 3: O Joe? So five five.

504
00:23:57,880 --> 00:24:00,639
Speaker 1: Like hold on you did, you did like five like

505
00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:03,840
Speaker 1: in three minute intervals like like me, or you went

506
00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:04,879
Speaker 1: like five once.

507
00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:08,080
Speaker 2: But I'm saying no, that that that whole day was

508
00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:11,000
Speaker 2: five rounds because once we went and saw something, you know,

509
00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:13,680
Speaker 2: we got a couple of rounds in, took a nap,

510
00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:16,840
Speaker 2: got up, got another another. You know, we got something

511
00:24:16,840 --> 00:24:20,919
Speaker 2: to eat. So you know, we got up the next morning.

512
00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:28,240
Speaker 2: I was like, okay, get some breakfast. Every window in

513
00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:35,720
Speaker 2: the car busted out, every tie flat. Her boyfriend umb

514
00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:38,760
Speaker 2: found out what hotel we at and did that to

515
00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:39,240
Speaker 2: the car.

516
00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:41,879
Speaker 3: Who car was it?

517
00:24:41,880 --> 00:24:49,119
Speaker 5: It was hers? Wait, she had a friend you see.

518
00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:50,240
Speaker 5: You see what I'm talking about.

519
00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:54,640
Speaker 3: Man, and he don't put it on flats every window.

520
00:24:57,800 --> 00:24:59,800
Speaker 2: He wasn't not there when you went out. He wasn't

521
00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:02,560
Speaker 2: about got a with you, because that was that was

522
00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:06,840
Speaker 2: some guard to stuff that you did. Real dudes don't

523
00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:07,920
Speaker 2: do no stuff like that.

524
00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:11,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, real dudes don't do that. But you got to

525
00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:14,480
Speaker 1: stay in your place. If she lied, if I lied,

526
00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:20,879
Speaker 1: got nobody. That ain't your fight. She she puts you,

527
00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:22,280
Speaker 1: She puts you in harm's way.

528
00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:28,520
Speaker 3: I don't know what it is. Oh so now who

529
00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:31,000
Speaker 3: you think gotta repair everything?

530
00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:36,000
Speaker 5: I hope you ain't shd me.

531
00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:38,560
Speaker 1: Boy, you you're a better man than me. For one,

532
00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:41,560
Speaker 1: I'm thinking about what if it didn't go that way?

533
00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:44,520
Speaker 1: What if it didn't go to what if he flattened

534
00:25:44,520 --> 00:25:47,600
Speaker 1: the tires? What if you're waiting on you outside and

535
00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:50,320
Speaker 1: you have a situation like you had before when Buddy

536
00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:51,600
Speaker 1: pulled out that goddamn gun.

537
00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:53,440
Speaker 5: There have been many.

538
00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:56,879
Speaker 1: Instances with with with fellas like this, For women have

539
00:25:57,080 --> 00:25:59,960
Speaker 1: lied saying they ain't got nobody. Sometimes some of those

540
00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:03,600
Speaker 1: fellas aren't even here to tell a story. I don't

541
00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:05,720
Speaker 1: know what you want me to tell, Yojo, jealousy.

542
00:26:05,840 --> 00:26:11,199
Speaker 3: It was it look didn't have a boyfriend.

543
00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:15,360
Speaker 2: Now I later found out she had broken up with

544
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:18,760
Speaker 2: the guy for like a week or like a week.

545
00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:22,359
Speaker 2: I'm just telling you because you know, I read a

546
00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:25,000
Speaker 2: couple of the messages, and you know, I couldn't believe

547
00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:27,119
Speaker 2: you did this to me and all that kind of stuff,

548
00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:29,199
Speaker 2: because I say, you put me in harms way. I

549
00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:31,560
Speaker 2: just said the exact same thing. I said, you know

550
00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:34,439
Speaker 2: who I am. And at this time, Ojo, I've just

551
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:37,040
Speaker 2: started to become Shannon Shark. I said you put me

552
00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:39,479
Speaker 2: in harms way, I say this thing could have been

553
00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:40,840
Speaker 2: a lot of I said, this thing could have been

554
00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:44,600
Speaker 2: a lot of different ways. So I was like, look,

555
00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:50,119
Speaker 2: all you had to do is say, Shannon, I've just

556
00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:53,439
Speaker 2: broke up with my boyfriend within a month or something

557
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:56,560
Speaker 2: like that. Because that's still now, give me an opportunity.

558
00:26:57,160 --> 00:27:00,960
Speaker 2: I'm probably still said Ojo that time, I was living.

559
00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:03,280
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, O Joe, I was living living.

560
00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:09,440
Speaker 2: I was living living, just joking and put every jump

561
00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:13,480
Speaker 2: bust out. All this was before Jasmine Cellar came A

562
00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:16,480
Speaker 2: bust the window, not your car, I bust the window.

563
00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:20,359
Speaker 5: Yeah, you gotta be kerevil.

564
00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:24,320
Speaker 1: You remember just just last year, remember the situation where

565
00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:28,040
Speaker 1: young boy rest in peace. Trouble you know, trouble you

566
00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 1: from at the girl house. The ex come over out

567
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:36,639
Speaker 1: of the Bluejo He emotionally, emotionally unstable.

568
00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:37,320
Speaker 5: Not trouble.

569
00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:43,959
Speaker 3: Ain't here, Joe, But like I wasn't at a house.

570
00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:47,000
Speaker 5: Wait, how you even found out what she?

571
00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:48,120
Speaker 3: No idea?

572
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:51,480
Speaker 2: Do you know the effort that he had to put

573
00:27:51,520 --> 00:27:54,160
Speaker 2: in because I guess he he done rolled but had

574
00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:55,679
Speaker 2: the bride because she at the time she lived with

575
00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:59,000
Speaker 2: a sister. She he had that rolled by there and

576
00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:02,600
Speaker 2: didn't see the car now normally with creatures of habit

577
00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:06,440
Speaker 2: right right, Okay, he rolled by. He know his sister

578
00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:10,439
Speaker 2: was pregnant. Car it at the hospital. Okay, If not

579
00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:15,399
Speaker 2: at the house, where could she be? Maybe maybe she

580
00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:18,600
Speaker 2: gave him sign that she started acting. But I don't know, Ojo.

581
00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:19,800
Speaker 2: But I'm just telling you.

582
00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:22,400
Speaker 5: Right right, right right, Yeah, you gotta pay attention.

583
00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:25,679
Speaker 2: Now the signs of now he makes me well, I

584
00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:28,879
Speaker 2: want to even more. I want him more now. Now

585
00:28:29,119 --> 00:28:32,360
Speaker 2: you can't get a back. You not finna get a back.

586
00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:35,639
Speaker 2: If you thought about you could. It's over for you, clown.

587
00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:39,400
Speaker 1: And now that I think about it, you had to

588
00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:41,520
Speaker 1: be in a small city. You had to be in

589
00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:42,760
Speaker 1: the smaller city in Florida.

590
00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:43,160
Speaker 3: You know why.

591
00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:46,920
Speaker 5: You know why I say that, because he had I

592
00:28:46,960 --> 00:28:50,520
Speaker 5: was in Tampa. Go to the park, Okay, so stay

593
00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:51,520
Speaker 5: with me, now, stay with me.

594
00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:54,520
Speaker 1: He had to go to all the hotels in the

595
00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:58,600
Speaker 1: surrounding area and check the parking lot looking for her. Yeah,

596
00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:02,160
Speaker 1: and that's exactly how you yeah found y'all. So there

597
00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:05,920
Speaker 1: wasn't no damn apple tag back then. Yeah, yeah, that's

598
00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:07,720
Speaker 1: what he did. Or he went through a lot too,

599
00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:10,800
Speaker 1: So that means he was mad he was mad. He

600
00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:14,000
Speaker 1: had to was yea to find that car. That's that's that,

601
00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:17,160
Speaker 1: that's that. Yeah, it's still it's still fresh a week,

602
00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:20,040
Speaker 1: even a even a month like.

603
00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:23,280
Speaker 2: That again because we went to we went to a

604
00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:26,440
Speaker 2: black college, beat Daytonah, Black college beat a week and

605
00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:29,480
Speaker 2: then if you you went to a black college or

606
00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:32,040
Speaker 2: you know anything about Daytona. So it was like it

607
00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:34,560
Speaker 2: was like the first or second week in April. She

608
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:38,720
Speaker 2: came to my brother's place in May, and I went

609
00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:40,040
Speaker 2: down to her in June.

610
00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:42,520
Speaker 3: So it happened very rapidly.

611
00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:46,360
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, but but I don't, I don't.

612
00:29:46,440 --> 00:29:51,120
Speaker 3: I'm like ro so now I can't let I can't let.

613
00:29:51,040 --> 00:29:58,880
Speaker 2: Him win, right, you were younger, I probably, yeah, twenty three,

614
00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:01,200
Speaker 2: twenty four, and you.

615
00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:02,840
Speaker 1: Know, and you know how it is at that age

616
00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:05,480
Speaker 1: when you're in your twenties, when you in your twenties

617
00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:08,400
Speaker 1: and you're dealing with somebody and that person becomes a

618
00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:11,880
Speaker 1: part of your everyday routine because you don't have that

619
00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:16,160
Speaker 1: much going on at that age. For men or fellas,

620
00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:20,920
Speaker 1: it's even that much harder to let go. It's even

621
00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:23,360
Speaker 1: that much harder to let go. The less you have

622
00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:26,800
Speaker 1: going on, the more your life is about the individual you're.

623
00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:30,440
Speaker 3: Dealing with, and thank your whole thing.

624
00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:33,040
Speaker 2: That was the first matter of fact, that was the

625
00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:37,160
Speaker 2: first time that I was I'm talking about like I'm

626
00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:39,680
Speaker 2: talking about, I'm talking about I ain't got I ain't

627
00:30:39,760 --> 00:30:40,720
Speaker 2: talking to nobody.

628
00:30:40,960 --> 00:30:42,280
Speaker 3: I'm talking about I'm scar right.

629
00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:47,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, so you were good, you were yes, yes, yeah.

630
00:30:47,200 --> 00:30:49,320
Speaker 1: But they see she didn't give you the same respect

631
00:30:49,360 --> 00:30:50,280
Speaker 1: because things could have.

632
00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:52,680
Speaker 3: Gone lest Yeah. The only thing probably real quick.

633
00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:56,680
Speaker 2: I probably wouldn't have went down there if I knew

634
00:30:56,720 --> 00:31:01,000
Speaker 2: she had somebody. I'll still make Okay, you gotta come,

635
00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:03,720
Speaker 2: you gotta come to me. You gotta come to me,

636
00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:04,440
Speaker 2: because that.

637
00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:19,520
Speaker 3: Situation from happening. Oh yo, uh, I don't know what

638
00:31:19,680 --> 00:31:20,120
Speaker 3: it is.

639
00:31:20,240 --> 00:31:24,000
Speaker 2: Man, and people tell about man, bro, oh yo, I

640
00:31:24,000 --> 00:31:28,560
Speaker 2: ain't gonna lie my grandma and my sister done saying

641
00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:31,720
Speaker 2: some prayers for me, because ain't no way, bro. If

642
00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:35,160
Speaker 2: you actually knew a lot of the stuff, oh Joe,

643
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:37,640
Speaker 2: I guarantee you, I could write a book and y'all

644
00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:39,000
Speaker 2: would and y'all like, man.

645
00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:42,520
Speaker 5: Oh lie, yeah, you wouldn't believe the stories.

646
00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:44,960
Speaker 3: Because people don't believe that the dude walked in on

647
00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:45,479
Speaker 3: the chopper.

648
00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:48,040
Speaker 2: I could get my homeboy bucket and he'll tell you

649
00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:51,440
Speaker 2: verbatim what I'm saying. And when I was sleep and

650
00:31:51,520 --> 00:31:53,880
Speaker 2: I thought I had sleep, Paraule said, I'm just I

651
00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 2: can hear boys and dude kick the door off the hinges.

652
00:31:58,160 --> 00:31:59,720
Speaker 3: But this happened to me.

653
00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:01,600
Speaker 5: That sounds like some That sounds like some shit.

654
00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:05,360
Speaker 2: Otoe this the I mean flattening the tires and busted

655
00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:08,960
Speaker 2: out the windows. Yeah, I alea lie. Oh yo, not

656
00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:15,520
Speaker 2: that happened to me by five timesamn.

657
00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:16,719
Speaker 3: Five five.

658
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:19,560
Speaker 5: You gotta start stop messing with people with ojo.

659
00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:22,800
Speaker 3: How about you tell me you got a boyfriend? Oh?

660
00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:25,760
Speaker 2: How about you tell me you got a crazy ex husband.

661
00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:28,400
Speaker 2: I don't, oh Joe, I'm taking people that they word,

662
00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:30,840
Speaker 2: O Joe, I ain't doing no background You can't do that.

663
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:33,560
Speaker 3: I'm a background check your asses, not si.

664
00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:36,240
Speaker 1: You know, women don't tell the truth. They tell little

665
00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:38,680
Speaker 1: white lies. It'll never be the full truth or truth

666
00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:41,320
Speaker 1: if they the women to tell you sixty five seventy

667
00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:42,640
Speaker 1: of the truth.

668
00:32:42,800 --> 00:32:48,080
Speaker 3: I'm and the I'm running background check on everybody. O Joe.

669
00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:51,920
Speaker 3: The chat disagrees with would you pay to fix her car?

670
00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:56,360
Speaker 2: Uh? Seventeen percent? Yeah, I gotta eighty three percent say

671
00:32:56,440 --> 00:33:00,000
Speaker 2: now unk tripping? Yeah shit, I would I wasn't paying

672
00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:04,880
Speaker 2: pay for who what? No, sir, No, sir reed and listen.

673
00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:07,880
Speaker 2: Thing could have win south. You know I could have

674
00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:09,240
Speaker 2: been out there, We could have been in the car.

675
00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:11,000
Speaker 5: I could have been. Ain't no telling what he would

676
00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:11,240
Speaker 5: have done.

677
00:33:11,320 --> 00:33:13,840
Speaker 1: And you think I'm for the paper and you don't

678
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:15,480
Speaker 1: put me in this way by telling me a little

679
00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:18,120
Speaker 1: white lions. I was telling me the truth, No, sir,

680
00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:20,520
Speaker 1: matter of fact, I'm surprised you kept dealing with it

681
00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:21,000
Speaker 1: after that.

682
00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:27,800
Speaker 3: Did Oh, come on, man, you bad oo oh, Joe?

683
00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:30,360
Speaker 3: You bad oh bad?

684
00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:34,160
Speaker 5: If she was that bad, If she was that bad,

685
00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:38,320
Speaker 5: y'all will still be friends. If she was that bad y'all.

686
00:33:40,800 --> 00:33:41,040
Speaker 3: Today.

687
00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:45,200
Speaker 1: Okay, my bad, my bad Oh, that's why you ain't

688
00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:45,840
Speaker 1: want to say name.

689
00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:47,160
Speaker 5: Okay, my bad, oh, Joe.

690
00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:50,360
Speaker 3: Ain't happen to be one time and we walk out

691
00:33:50,440 --> 00:33:53,640
Speaker 3: in the now. Hold check this out on yo. Back

692
00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:54,120
Speaker 3: I go.

693
00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:56,560
Speaker 2: I go by alias, so I don't put my real

694
00:33:56,640 --> 00:34:03,120
Speaker 2: name down. Yeah, tell okay, same thing you done. Drove

695
00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:07,000
Speaker 2: around flatten all the times. Bust the windows out again?

696
00:34:08,200 --> 00:34:09,160
Speaker 5: Where you where you got?

697
00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:09,719
Speaker 3: Bad o? Joe?

698
00:34:09,800 --> 00:34:12,640
Speaker 2: Check this out on yo dude, bamming on the dough.

699
00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:16,239
Speaker 2: How you know what room you they told him at

700
00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:20,960
Speaker 2: the front desk. Oh, that's Cardinal's.

701
00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:24,360
Speaker 5: Hotel. You never get old.

702
00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:30,440
Speaker 3: Oh Joe. So I'm looking at her. I was like,

703
00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:36,000
Speaker 3: oh what outside she said, let's go.

704
00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:43,000
Speaker 2: Go with She said, let's go say okay, so we

705
00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:43,600
Speaker 2: walk out.

706
00:34:46,000 --> 00:34:46,400
Speaker 3: Oh.

707
00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:48,759
Speaker 2: I can't believe you do this to me. I thought

708
00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:53,360
Speaker 2: you and me was cool. Oh Joe, So I'm walking Oho, like,

709
00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:58,440
Speaker 2: remember now this product like may Yeah, now you know

710
00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:01,800
Speaker 2: I'm probably so you know how I'm I just it's made.

711
00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:03,719
Speaker 3: I've been working out three months.

712
00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:07,360
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, so you ready? You ready?

713
00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:09,640
Speaker 3: I gave old boy a look.

714
00:35:11,280 --> 00:35:15,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, this ain't what you want now, she said.

715
00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:21,560
Speaker 2: By the time I get to my mama's house, right

716
00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:25,960
Speaker 2: and I get back because I'm going to eat brunch

717
00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:29,760
Speaker 2: with him, my car better be fixed.

718
00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:33,319
Speaker 5: Oh but who?

719
00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:33,759
Speaker 2: But who?

720
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:35,680
Speaker 5: She she talking like she was out of the.

721
00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:37,880
Speaker 3: Blanco When we got back from brunch.

722
00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:44,560
Speaker 2: Car was parked in a mama's driveway and everything was done.

723
00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:47,520
Speaker 5: But who was you dating?

724
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:47,640
Speaker 3: What?

725
00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:49,239
Speaker 1: Who was she?

726
00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:52,560
Speaker 3: So?

727
00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:56,000
Speaker 2: Y'all understand y'all talking about yeah, up being in some trauma,

728
00:35:57,440 --> 00:36:01,239
Speaker 2: up be in some trauma. So excuse me if ain't

729
00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:05,640
Speaker 2: the most trusted because they had un over a babe.

730
00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:09,520
Speaker 5: And you got you, you got it. You can't. You

731
00:36:09,560 --> 00:36:10,920
Speaker 5: can't be listening to him like that.

732
00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:11,120
Speaker 1: Man.

733
00:36:11,160 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 5: You got to do your homework.

734
00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:15,560
Speaker 3: Man, man, Oh and I have you can look at.

735
00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:17,960
Speaker 2: I had a chick. Man, I was talking to this

736
00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:22,839
Speaker 2: chick and we were cool. She was fine, And I

737
00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:26,160
Speaker 2: don't know what I said, yes, sir.

738
00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:29,920
Speaker 3: Oh yoall.

739
00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:31,759
Speaker 5: Mm hmm.

740
00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:33,160
Speaker 3: She went up under pillar.

741
00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:38,240
Speaker 5: What she had? She put it to your head.

742
00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:51,040
Speaker 3: Oh y'all, what you did wrong? By you? Had you had?

743
00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:54,760
Speaker 2: I probably, oh your god, on the truth, I probably

744
00:36:54,800 --> 00:36:56,600
Speaker 2: should have been. I probably should have been, like I said,

745
00:36:56,680 --> 00:36:59,080
Speaker 2: my grandma's sister. I probably should have been dead about

746
00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:04,160
Speaker 2: six times. Oh Joe, we was having Oh yoe, we

747
00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:07,680
Speaker 2: was having a good time. We were just joking. And

748
00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:12,479
Speaker 2: I don't even remember what I said, right, I don't

749
00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:16,319
Speaker 2: even remember, because all I remember is that she went

750
00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:18,880
Speaker 2: up on the pillow and she put that chrome forty

751
00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:21,719
Speaker 2: five to my head.

752
00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:22,759
Speaker 5: You know what derry might be?

753
00:37:25,520 --> 00:37:29,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, she had a real thing.

754
00:37:32,680 --> 00:37:36,600
Speaker 2: Oh man, man, man, she said, trade this out on

755
00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:42,640
Speaker 2: your book, she said, And to kill you m cause

756
00:37:42,680 --> 00:37:44,840
Speaker 2: you've been She said, you've been and playing with me

757
00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:45,760
Speaker 2: all this time.

758
00:37:49,920 --> 00:37:51,520
Speaker 5: Oh you had you a crazy man.

759
00:37:52,520 --> 00:37:55,759
Speaker 2: I'm gonna let you get your issue and you getting

760
00:37:55,800 --> 00:38:00,360
Speaker 2: at my effing house. Don't call me, don't like me.

761
00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:03,400
Speaker 2: I got my stuff?

762
00:38:06,400 --> 00:38:07,520
Speaker 3: TI did you?

763
00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:08,919
Speaker 5: Did you? Did you call her back?

764
00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:09,319
Speaker 3: Hell?

765
00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:09,520
Speaker 2: No?

766
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:11,359
Speaker 3: She said, oh, calla.

767
00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:14,600
Speaker 5: But did you at least apologize?

768
00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:17,480
Speaker 2: I don't even know what I did. So check this out.

769
00:38:17,480 --> 00:38:21,479
Speaker 2: Oh yo, you know, oh yo, I swear I don't

770
00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:29,280
Speaker 2: to this day go this had This is like early

771
00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:38,760
Speaker 2: two thousands, twelve thirteen years later, phone ring. Yeah, I'm sorry,

772
00:38:39,640 --> 00:38:45,400
Speaker 2: I said, who is this? She said, I'm sorry I

773
00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:48,400
Speaker 2: said this? She said, yeah, she said I was wrong.

774
00:38:49,160 --> 00:38:51,000
Speaker 2: She said I was just having a bad day. It

775
00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:51,680
Speaker 2: wasn't nothing.

776
00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:54,839
Speaker 5: Now, bad bad, bad day. You pull a gun out

777
00:38:54,880 --> 00:38:57,120
Speaker 5: on me, and you having a bad day. You're having

778
00:38:57,120 --> 00:38:58,600
Speaker 5: a bad day and you pull a gun.

779
00:38:58,760 --> 00:39:00,919
Speaker 1: You put a gun to bad that could have went off,

780
00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:02,960
Speaker 1: but you having a bad That.

781
00:39:03,000 --> 00:39:03,640
Speaker 5: Was how you said.

782
00:39:03,680 --> 00:39:03,879
Speaker 3: Hey.

783
00:39:04,160 --> 00:39:06,680
Speaker 2: She said, you've been good. She said, you've been good

784
00:39:06,680 --> 00:39:11,560
Speaker 2: to me. She said, Shannon, we've been She said, we've

785
00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:16,279
Speaker 2: been cool for this. So this this was like we

786
00:39:16,320 --> 00:39:18,440
Speaker 2: had been we had been like fooling around for a

787
00:39:18,480 --> 00:39:24,719
Speaker 2: minute for like like a decade, and this happened. So

788
00:39:25,200 --> 00:39:29,960
Speaker 2: she she did that. I ain't hear him from him

789
00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:39,080
Speaker 2: for like a minute. Popped up, she apologized, guess what

790
00:39:39,160 --> 00:39:41,760
Speaker 2: I do?

791
00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:43,040
Speaker 5: Don't tell me? You went right back.

792
00:39:43,080 --> 00:39:44,160
Speaker 3: I went to see her at work.

793
00:39:45,719 --> 00:39:58,120
Speaker 5: Man, I'm gone. Man, she put a gun to your head.

794
00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:03,879
Speaker 3: Man, God, she didn't mean to. She didn't be too

795
00:40:05,080 --> 00:40:05,520
Speaker 3: come on.

796
00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:12,400
Speaker 1: Hey, hey, the fact that you've been able to a

797
00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:17,520
Speaker 1: court remain a cordial relationship with people that you've dated

798
00:40:17,520 --> 00:40:21,200
Speaker 1: and been intimate with even after the fact, it's very commenable,

799
00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:24,400
Speaker 1: very very very commenable, because most of the time, you know,

800
00:40:24,520 --> 00:40:27,160
Speaker 1: things always end on bad terms and there is no

801
00:40:28,120 --> 00:40:31,480
Speaker 1: you know, being friends once you cross a certain.

802
00:40:33,080 --> 00:40:35,719
Speaker 2: It took me a while to get it took me

803
00:40:35,760 --> 00:40:39,759
Speaker 2: a while. It took me a while because I was

804
00:40:39,800 --> 00:40:43,040
Speaker 2: allowing these women to hold my feelings hostage. They were

805
00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:46,120
Speaker 2: gone on with their line, but I was in bondage,

806
00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:50,080
Speaker 2: so I said, I am not going on allow you

807
00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:53,480
Speaker 2: to hold my feelings hostage. I refused to be in bondage,

808
00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:56,359
Speaker 2: so I had to forgive them. And yet it took

809
00:40:56,400 --> 00:40:58,960
Speaker 2: me a while because some of them did some things

810
00:40:59,000 --> 00:40:59,920
Speaker 2: they didn't have to do.

811
00:41:00,160 --> 00:41:00,879
Speaker 3: You could have just.

812
00:41:02,480 --> 00:41:04,040
Speaker 2: I tell people all the time, Oh Joe, I don't

813
00:41:04,040 --> 00:41:06,040
Speaker 2: have bars on my house, so it's not to keep

814
00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:08,399
Speaker 2: you in or out. You walk in the door, I'll

815
00:41:08,400 --> 00:41:09,239
Speaker 2: want you to walk out.

816
00:41:11,080 --> 00:41:14,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, boy. And so for me, it took it took

817
00:41:14,520 --> 00:41:15,919
Speaker 3: me a while. It took me a while.

818
00:41:16,080 --> 00:41:20,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've had situation, but i've all because I believe,

819
00:41:20,840 --> 00:41:22,560
Speaker 2: oh cho, that I'm always gonna come out on the

820
00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:25,920
Speaker 2: winning side. And so when they've done things to me,

821
00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:27,920
Speaker 2: I was like, Okay, it is what it is. Then

822
00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:30,000
Speaker 2: you felt that's what you needed to do. But I'm

823
00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:34,160
Speaker 2: gonna win. I'm gonna win. Yeah, I've had said I've

824
00:41:34,160 --> 00:41:37,359
Speaker 2: had situations, oh Joe, with women that I've dated, they

825
00:41:37,440 --> 00:41:40,799
Speaker 2: ended up getting married when they're going through hard time. Befo,

826
00:41:40,880 --> 00:41:42,839
Speaker 2: you think they called for Shanon. I wanna get a door.

827
00:41:42,880 --> 00:41:44,640
Speaker 2: So I said, no, you're not. I said you better

828
00:41:44,680 --> 00:41:46,759
Speaker 2: stay with that man. I said, you gotta understand how

829
00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:50,799
Speaker 2: old you think you are? You got two kids? You

830
00:41:50,920 --> 00:41:52,560
Speaker 2: this age. I said, I tell you what I'm gonna do.

831
00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:55,759
Speaker 2: I'm gonna get you a hotel room. You stayed there

832
00:41:55,800 --> 00:41:58,560
Speaker 2: for a week, y'all figured it's issh out. But you

833
00:41:58,600 --> 00:42:01,280
Speaker 2: don't need to leave him.

834
00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:05,799
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, we talked, We talked. We talked about it

835
00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:07,279
Speaker 5: last night. Now he.

836
00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:11,440
Speaker 2: Said, I said, who you think you're about to get?

837
00:42:11,640 --> 00:42:12,839
Speaker 2: Who you think you about to get?

838
00:42:12,880 --> 00:42:13,440
Speaker 3: You and your.

839
00:42:15,280 --> 00:42:19,399
Speaker 1: Listen, well react where reality will hit once you get

840
00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:21,400
Speaker 1: out there in the streets and you see.

841
00:42:21,239 --> 00:42:21,960
Speaker 5: What's just sober?

842
00:42:22,560 --> 00:42:26,080
Speaker 2: I said, because y'all have a disagreement. Oh, he's saying

843
00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:28,000
Speaker 2: something that you didn't like or you don't like the

844
00:42:28,000 --> 00:42:31,160
Speaker 2: way he Oh hell, now y'all better solve that. And

845
00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:33,160
Speaker 2: as a matter of fact, hey, I already got it

846
00:42:33,200 --> 00:42:36,000
Speaker 2: taken care of. You ain't gotta show nothing. Everything that

847
00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:39,120
Speaker 2: you need. The room and the incidentals are taken care of. Hey,

848
00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:42,759
Speaker 2: stay your ass that and makes a make sure you

849
00:42:42,760 --> 00:42:44,120
Speaker 2: make the right decision.

850
00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:48,640
Speaker 5: Now, Yeah, yeah, you make the one.

851
00:42:48,640 --> 00:42:50,480
Speaker 1: You're gonna look, you're gonna be looking back and be

852
00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:52,239
Speaker 1: looking back.

853
00:42:51,560 --> 00:42:54,600
Speaker 3: Ten years later they still married. Thank you. I appreciate that.

854
00:42:56,200 --> 00:42:56,600
Speaker 2: Mm hmm.

855
00:42:57,120 --> 00:42:59,040
Speaker 5: Look but you are you are?

856
00:42:59,200 --> 00:42:59,720
Speaker 3: You are?

857
00:43:00,640 --> 00:43:02,600
Speaker 2: Oh tr the way I look at look, you and

858
00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:05,240
Speaker 2: I didn't work out. I don't think you're a bad person.

859
00:43:05,840 --> 00:43:07,520
Speaker 2: You might have not been right for me. I might

860
00:43:07,520 --> 00:43:09,319
Speaker 2: have not been right for you, But you might be

861
00:43:09,360 --> 00:43:10,520
Speaker 2: perfect for someone, is right.

862
00:43:12,000 --> 00:43:16,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's okay, and that's okay at the end of

863
00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:17,960
Speaker 1: the day, I want you to be happy.

864
00:43:18,239 --> 00:43:20,560
Speaker 2: I might not can give you the happiness that you're

865
00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:23,120
Speaker 2: looking for, but that doesn't mean I don't want you

866
00:43:23,160 --> 00:43:23,680
Speaker 2: to have it.

867
00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:26,280
Speaker 3: And if you found it at one point in time,

868
00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:29,200
Speaker 3: stay there. I said, it's easy.

869
00:43:29,280 --> 00:43:32,239
Speaker 2: I said, damn, y'all the minute of heart, I thought,

870
00:43:32,440 --> 00:43:36,520
Speaker 2: riches is important, sickness in the health, and well, damn that.

871
00:43:36,840 --> 00:43:38,319
Speaker 2: So y'all just talking up there in front of the

872
00:43:38,320 --> 00:43:40,440
Speaker 2: main hunh, y'all up there in the church, and y'all just.

873
00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:44,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, they be ready to go now, and just say

874
00:43:45,040 --> 00:43:48,680
Speaker 1: any of the slightest inconvenienced things don't go well, or

875
00:43:49,040 --> 00:43:51,440
Speaker 1: or you do something that don't don't sit right with them,

876
00:43:51,719 --> 00:43:53,960
Speaker 1: you're ready to go. They ready to go, matter of fact,

877
00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:55,440
Speaker 1: and they ready to go to somebody else that can

878
00:43:55,560 --> 00:43:56,560
Speaker 1: it were the same thing.

879
00:43:58,840 --> 00:44:00,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, But you know, you know, like.

880
00:44:00,520 --> 00:44:03,360
Speaker 1: My grandma said, My grandma always told me that you

881
00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:04,920
Speaker 1: don't have to lie to You don't have to lie

882
00:44:04,960 --> 00:44:06,560
Speaker 1: to a woman because she like you enough.

883
00:44:06,800 --> 00:44:09,759
Speaker 5: She lied to herself for sure. You don't have to

884
00:44:09,800 --> 00:44:10,080
Speaker 5: lie to.

885
00:44:10,080 --> 00:44:12,759
Speaker 1: A woman because she like you enough for them red

886
00:44:12,800 --> 00:44:20,200
Speaker 1: flags like six flags, the color Oh yeah, when it's

887
00:44:20,239 --> 00:44:25,680
Speaker 1: when it's convenient based on But I want.

888
00:44:24,920 --> 00:44:27,760
Speaker 2: I want all the women that I've been with and

889
00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:29,560
Speaker 2: in my time, I want them to find happiness.

890
00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:31,839
Speaker 3: It wasn't for me. You know, we didn't work out.

891
00:44:33,120 --> 00:44:35,520
Speaker 2: But if there's anything I can do to help you,

892
00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:39,279
Speaker 2: and and you're in a situation, I got you. We

893
00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:41,560
Speaker 2: didn't work for me all that, like I said, And

894
00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:43,719
Speaker 2: even though sometimes, oh Joe, it didn't end on the

895
00:44:43,719 --> 00:44:45,680
Speaker 2: best no, the best term, we didn't end on.

896
00:44:45,680 --> 00:44:48,799
Speaker 3: The best terms. That's all right.

897
00:44:50,560 --> 00:44:53,160
Speaker 2: I mean I think that that came from my grandmother

898
00:44:53,600 --> 00:44:56,000
Speaker 2: and my sister, because my sister like, Shanna, you just

899
00:44:56,040 --> 00:44:56,560
Speaker 2: pray about it.

900
00:44:56,560 --> 00:44:57,320
Speaker 3: It's gonna be okay.

901
00:44:58,000 --> 00:45:00,799
Speaker 2: You still she's like, still my little She always tells

902
00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:02,920
Speaker 2: me this when I every time, every time I'm always

903
00:45:02,960 --> 00:45:07,000
Speaker 2: gone through something a breakup, she always she always reminds me,

904
00:45:07,080 --> 00:45:10,520
Speaker 2: who I am you still shouting sharp? You're still my

905
00:45:10,560 --> 00:45:12,879
Speaker 2: little brother, and you're gonna be okay.

906
00:45:12,840 --> 00:45:13,040
Speaker 3: Yeah.

907
00:45:14,920 --> 00:45:17,480
Speaker 2: She's a she's that calming voice because a lot of

908
00:45:17,560 --> 00:45:20,080
Speaker 2: time I'm like, hey, I want to I want to

909
00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:20,440
Speaker 2: bury it.

910
00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:22,879
Speaker 3: If you know what say Shanna, what do you get

911
00:45:22,880 --> 00:45:27,239
Speaker 3: out of that? What do you get out of that? Right?

912
00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:28,239
Speaker 3: I mean?

913
00:45:28,520 --> 00:45:30,440
Speaker 2: My sister. Look, look, let me tell you what my

914
00:45:30,480 --> 00:45:35,040
Speaker 2: sister did. I was in a relationship. M hm, my sister.

915
00:45:37,960 --> 00:45:39,760
Speaker 2: Let me tell you what my sister did. My sister

916
00:45:39,880 --> 00:45:45,879
Speaker 2: really because like if you call my sister, if you automatically,

917
00:45:46,120 --> 00:45:47,400
Speaker 2: I would think my.

918
00:45:47,320 --> 00:45:50,399
Speaker 3: Sister would take up for me. That what my sister did.

919
00:45:50,840 --> 00:45:55,520
Speaker 5: Right, Wait, when you're wrong, you're wrong. Now she got

920
00:45:55,520 --> 00:45:56,280
Speaker 5: to hold you account.

921
00:45:56,600 --> 00:45:59,600
Speaker 3: Leave it. Mm hm.

922
00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:03,879
Speaker 2: He ain't doing right? So why you're gonna stay? Why

923
00:46:03,880 --> 00:46:05,920
Speaker 2: are you gonna stay in a situation which you're unhappy?

924
00:46:06,160 --> 00:46:09,160
Speaker 2: You know he makes you unhappy, You're not happy, but

925
00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:09,839
Speaker 2: you're gonna stay?

926
00:46:09,840 --> 00:46:18,080
Speaker 3: Why leave? And if it's if it's y'all all be together, you'll.

927
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:19,600
Speaker 5: Come back like.

928
00:46:20,760 --> 00:46:21,399
Speaker 3: What the hell?

929
00:46:21,520 --> 00:46:22,240
Speaker 5: You not done?

930
00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:29,240
Speaker 3: What you think? What you think the girl did? Left?

931
00:46:31,640 --> 00:46:35,320
Speaker 5: Let you serious?

932
00:46:35,680 --> 00:46:38,840
Speaker 1: He look back, man, it's that's too nice in the

933
00:46:38,920 --> 00:46:42,160
Speaker 1: road and then told me somebody like that, it's okay.

934
00:46:42,239 --> 00:46:50,280
Speaker 3: It's not the end of the world. Oh yo, oh yoall.

935
00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:56,359
Speaker 2: CBS, c CBS, CBS, take me go with I went

936
00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:58,880
Speaker 2: to under few, that got bigger under few. Let me

937
00:46:58,920 --> 00:47:01,520
Speaker 2: go now look at it. Look at the subs. I

938
00:47:01,560 --> 00:47:04,160
Speaker 2: got more subs than undisputed. You look at that.

939
00:47:04,320 --> 00:47:05,759
Speaker 3: Look at the talent they got over there.

940
00:47:06,080 --> 00:47:09,120
Speaker 2: I got, I got, we got a new podcast, and

941
00:47:09,239 --> 00:47:12,759
Speaker 2: we got more subs than everybody that got over there combined.

942
00:47:13,160 --> 00:47:17,640
Speaker 2: So that cat, I'm okay. I'm gonna be okay. I

943
00:47:17,719 --> 00:47:20,080
Speaker 2: believe in me. I'm always gonna better on black.

944
00:47:22,239 --> 00:47:25,160
Speaker 3: Yeah. So I don't. I don't. I don't get you know,

945
00:47:25,760 --> 00:47:26,840
Speaker 3: when when something happens.

946
00:47:26,880 --> 00:47:29,880
Speaker 2: I remember I wanted a situation and my agent said, hey,

947
00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:34,239
Speaker 2: don't worry about it. Don't worry about it. Next contract.

948
00:47:34,400 --> 00:47:35,880
Speaker 2: Somebody else will pay for what you lost.

949
00:47:38,960 --> 00:47:40,160
Speaker 3: I don't like. I don't.

950
00:47:40,200 --> 00:47:41,759
Speaker 2: I don't get upset. Man, It's not the end of

951
00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:48,520
Speaker 2: the world. I'm strong. I'm strong. Hey, I'm born in

952
00:47:48,600 --> 00:47:53,319
Speaker 2: sixty eight. I came from good stock, not woodstock. She

953
00:47:53,360 --> 00:47:56,040
Speaker 2: would have understand where I came from and how I.

954
00:47:55,960 --> 00:48:02,640
Speaker 3: Came to be. Damn what you like?

955
00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:07,000
Speaker 1: You're a good dude, man, because I'm like like that.

956
00:48:07,000 --> 00:48:10,880
Speaker 1: That that that's that's that's the man. That's that's two times.

957
00:48:11,600 --> 00:48:15,000
Speaker 1: It's two times, somebody, oh the first the first time.

958
00:48:16,000 --> 00:48:17,879
Speaker 3: That is the first time. That's not the second time.

959
00:48:17,960 --> 00:48:18,480
Speaker 3: I was dating.

960
00:48:18,719 --> 00:48:20,960
Speaker 2: I was dating the female and and we were living together,

961
00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:22,080
Speaker 2: and when I came home, she was.

962
00:48:22,080 --> 00:48:33,800
Speaker 5: Gone, oh hell hell h like that's the type of

963
00:48:33,800 --> 00:48:34,239
Speaker 5: ship you.

964
00:48:34,160 --> 00:48:36,280
Speaker 2: See, And that was I guess I was living a movie.

965
00:48:36,320 --> 00:48:43,439
Speaker 2: Then hey, oh joey looking. Listen, when I tell people

966
00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:46,600
Speaker 2: I could write a book, y'all think I'm lying.

967
00:48:47,160 --> 00:48:50,080
Speaker 3: I know, y'all think I'm lying. But that man, you

968
00:48:50,200 --> 00:48:50,759
Speaker 3: came home.

969
00:48:50,920 --> 00:48:53,560
Speaker 1: You came home like like on some gone Girl ship,

970
00:48:53,640 --> 00:48:54,600
Speaker 1: like the movie Gone Girl.

971
00:48:54,680 --> 00:49:02,160
Speaker 2: She was gone, big gie, big old biggie bi gone.

972
00:49:03,520 --> 00:49:05,080
Speaker 3: Bye bye bverden man.

973
00:49:08,200 --> 00:49:11,040
Speaker 5: And that's like respectful. Because if you, if you, if

974
00:49:11,080 --> 00:49:11,560
Speaker 5: you love.

975
00:49:15,280 --> 00:49:18,239
Speaker 1: Yeah any anymore, will you tell me that you if you,

976
00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:21,319
Speaker 1: if you, if you've checked out mentally and you still

977
00:49:21,320 --> 00:49:24,000
Speaker 1: here physically and you're not feeling the situation we're in.

978
00:49:24,320 --> 00:49:26,440
Speaker 1: I need you to communicate. Isn't that what women always

979
00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:26,839
Speaker 1: talking about?

980
00:49:27,000 --> 00:49:30,000
Speaker 5: Women not big on communications? The communication?

981
00:49:30,320 --> 00:49:33,800
Speaker 1: If anyone, why wait until you leave on some sucker

982
00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:35,920
Speaker 1: ship and then pack your ship and leave in when

983
00:49:36,080 --> 00:49:38,840
Speaker 1: when I ain't here and not face face the walker,

984
00:49:39,800 --> 00:49:40,719
Speaker 1: face the worm.

985
00:49:42,320 --> 00:49:46,280
Speaker 2: Come on nine, I mean, oh yo, everybody can't handle

986
00:49:46,440 --> 00:49:48,839
Speaker 2: situations like I don't know how you have those situations.

987
00:49:49,120 --> 00:49:51,239
Speaker 2: But I can sit down. I can have a conversation.

988
00:49:51,600 --> 00:49:54,760
Speaker 2: You're not happy, you want to move on, I'm not happy.

989
00:49:54,800 --> 00:49:56,200
Speaker 2: I want to move on. I can have that kind

990
00:49:56,239 --> 00:50:00,799
Speaker 2: of conversation. But everybody can't have that conversation. Everybody's not

991
00:50:00,920 --> 00:50:02,040
Speaker 2: built like you or that like.

992
00:50:02,360 --> 00:50:05,399
Speaker 3: I can't speak for you. I'm built I can.

993
00:50:06,400 --> 00:50:08,480
Speaker 1: But but listen, let me, let me tell you something.

994
00:50:08,560 --> 00:50:11,080
Speaker 1: Let me tell you how I feel, and to me,

995
00:50:11,239 --> 00:50:13,359
Speaker 1: you're on the same page. I was born a seven

996
00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:15,480
Speaker 1: eight man. I were born a seven eight. But one

997
00:50:15,520 --> 00:50:20,279
Speaker 1: thing about it is I'll give my all and do

998
00:50:20,400 --> 00:50:23,520
Speaker 1: all I can. Now if you choose to lose, I

999
00:50:23,680 --> 00:50:26,200
Speaker 1: never see it as a loss. I see it as

1000
00:50:26,440 --> 00:50:30,680
Speaker 1: one less expense. Right, that's it because I'm doing everything.

1001
00:50:30,800 --> 00:50:33,840
Speaker 1: So now that's somebody else responsibility. If they want to

1002
00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:36,520
Speaker 1: pick up where I left off and do more, so

1003
00:50:36,600 --> 00:50:39,279
Speaker 1: be Yeah, good luck, We'll be in good luck.

1004
00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:39,920
Speaker 5: But I always I.

1005
00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:43,439
Speaker 1: Always see someone actually leaving me or ship that's better

1006
00:50:43,480 --> 00:50:45,200
Speaker 1: for me. I just think about how much I can

1007
00:50:45,200 --> 00:50:45,680
Speaker 1: say from this.

1008
00:50:46,120 --> 00:50:46,719
Speaker 3: I don't I don't.

1009
00:50:46,840 --> 00:50:49,479
Speaker 2: I don't I don't get upset, I don't fuss and fight.

1010
00:50:50,960 --> 00:50:53,520
Speaker 2: I want things a certain way. I like people that

1011
00:50:53,600 --> 00:50:55,640
Speaker 2: after you've been with me for a while, you kind

1012
00:50:55,640 --> 00:50:57,880
Speaker 2: of understand my manner rhythm, you know what.

1013
00:50:57,920 --> 00:51:01,400
Speaker 3: I okay, really want to talk let him be.

1014
00:51:02,640 --> 00:51:04,840
Speaker 2: I don't want right right something like this, or she

1015
00:51:04,920 --> 00:51:07,360
Speaker 2: don't want something like that. Let me have this ready

1016
00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:10,359
Speaker 2: for me. I want people to like study me and

1017
00:51:10,400 --> 00:51:13,040
Speaker 2: have without me having to tell your no, no, no no.

1018
00:51:13,200 --> 00:51:13,640
Speaker 3: I think the.

1019
00:51:13,560 --> 00:51:18,600
Speaker 2: Best relationships are you've been with someone long enough you understand.

1020
00:51:20,760 --> 00:51:22,759
Speaker 1: Hey, you know it's funny. I like that you just

1021
00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:26,719
Speaker 1: said that. Like I've been moreal like so long. Now

1022
00:51:27,040 --> 00:51:29,880
Speaker 1: we started to look like I can start a sentence,

1023
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:32,480
Speaker 1: I can start it. I can started, I can start

1024
00:51:32,480 --> 00:51:34,319
Speaker 1: a sentence, and before I even finish what I'm saying,

1025
00:51:34,760 --> 00:51:36,960
Speaker 1: she finished the damn sentence. I'm like, but can I

1026
00:51:37,080 --> 00:51:38,600
Speaker 1: And it kind of irks me a little bit, like

1027
00:51:38,640 --> 00:51:39,960
Speaker 1: can I get my thoughts out?

1028
00:51:40,760 --> 00:51:41,040
Speaker 5: I know?

1029
00:51:41,120 --> 00:51:44,760
Speaker 1: You know, because I'm increase your habit, huh, you don't change.

1030
00:51:44,800 --> 00:51:47,040
Speaker 1: My routine doesn't change, and the things that I say

1031
00:51:47,200 --> 00:51:50,480
Speaker 1: based on the situation, it never changes as well. So

1032
00:51:50,560 --> 00:51:54,240
Speaker 1: I'll start saying something and she had finished it whatever

1033
00:51:54,280 --> 00:51:57,200
Speaker 1: it was, I know, I know, I know, I know,

1034
00:51:57,280 --> 00:52:00,759
Speaker 1: ye say let me let me say it.

1035
00:52:00,840 --> 00:52:01,400
Speaker 3: Let me finish.

1036
00:52:01,840 --> 00:52:02,920
Speaker 5: So it basically it's like you.

1037
00:52:03,160 --> 00:52:05,840
Speaker 1: It sounds like you irritated because you already know what

1038
00:52:05,920 --> 00:52:06,720
Speaker 1: I'm getting ready.

1039
00:52:06,520 --> 00:52:08,440
Speaker 3: To say and you don't want me to say it.

1040
00:52:08,440 --> 00:52:12,200
Speaker 5: It's smart. Yeah, yeah, small, little, small, little discrepancy. We'll

1041
00:52:12,200 --> 00:52:14,680
Speaker 5: be having you know that. That that starts, but it's

1042
00:52:14,680 --> 00:52:15,200
Speaker 5: gonna happen.

1043
00:52:15,239 --> 00:52:15,640
Speaker 3: O Joe.

1044
00:52:18,239 --> 00:52:22,920
Speaker 2: There's a woman that recorded herself refusing refusing to get

1045
00:52:22,920 --> 00:52:25,279
Speaker 2: out of a car because her date took it to

1046
00:52:25,360 --> 00:52:26,440
Speaker 2: the cheesecake factory.

1047
00:52:28,239 --> 00:52:29,320
Speaker 5: What's wrong with cheesecakes?

1048
00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:33,520
Speaker 3: It's a chain? So is mascros, so is del Frisco?

1049
00:52:34,320 --> 00:52:38,920
Speaker 3: So is uh uh? What's the what's that other one? Catch?

1050
00:52:39,239 --> 00:52:42,680
Speaker 2: Catch l A That's a chain? Waally's is a chain.

1051
00:52:43,080 --> 00:52:48,040
Speaker 2: Ruth Chris is a chain. Joe's crab shot is a chain.

1052
00:52:48,800 --> 00:52:51,080
Speaker 2: So let me ask you a question. Have you ever

1053
00:52:51,120 --> 00:52:51,680
Speaker 2: had a situation?

1054
00:52:51,680 --> 00:52:52,239
Speaker 3: What would you do?

1055
00:52:52,280 --> 00:52:52,440
Speaker 6: Now?

1056
00:52:52,440 --> 00:52:55,239
Speaker 2: I'm just oo, you drive up, you pull up and

1057
00:52:55,280 --> 00:52:58,760
Speaker 2: she's like, okay, heybaby, we're here, or you meet Because

1058
00:52:58,880 --> 00:53:01,479
Speaker 2: until I got the l A yo, I had never

1059
00:53:02,280 --> 00:53:04,239
Speaker 2: I had never not gone I don't know if I

1060
00:53:04,239 --> 00:53:06,680
Speaker 2: could use double negative, but I had always gone to

1061
00:53:06,760 --> 00:53:09,319
Speaker 2: the ladies home to pick her up or to her

1062
00:53:09,360 --> 00:53:10,560
Speaker 2: apartment or picked her.

1063
00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:12,840
Speaker 3: Up from a parents' house. I never like.

1064
00:53:12,960 --> 00:53:14,480
Speaker 2: And when I got there, lady, it's like, okay, I'll

1065
00:53:14,520 --> 00:53:16,799
Speaker 2: just meet you. I was like, and now you know

1066
00:53:16,840 --> 00:53:19,880
Speaker 2: it's Donald. Okay, you don't ay, they don't know me

1067
00:53:20,000 --> 00:53:21,960
Speaker 2: like that, so it's cool. But before I got to

1068
00:53:22,120 --> 00:53:24,879
Speaker 2: LA I would always go pick the young lady up.

1069
00:53:25,200 --> 00:53:28,040
Speaker 2: So now you get to the state, whether you pick

1070
00:53:28,040 --> 00:53:30,560
Speaker 2: her up or you meet her there and she's and

1071
00:53:30,680 --> 00:53:32,560
Speaker 2: she gets there and she's like, well, I ain't getting

1072
00:53:32,560 --> 00:53:34,799
Speaker 2: out because this here, this is beneath me.

1073
00:53:36,320 --> 00:53:36,520
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1074
00:53:37,760 --> 00:53:39,759
Speaker 5: For one, that that is a woman that's really nice.

1075
00:53:40,000 --> 00:53:40,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure.

1076
00:53:40,520 --> 00:53:43,480
Speaker 1: In general, that's just a woman not interested in you

1077
00:53:43,560 --> 00:53:45,520
Speaker 1: in general, and that and most of the time, obviously

1078
00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:47,479
Speaker 1: it's the era that we're in right now.

1079
00:53:47,800 --> 00:53:52,480
Speaker 5: Men are are are being I don't want to.

1080
00:53:52,440 --> 00:53:55,680
Speaker 1: Say use for food, but if you have to go

1081
00:53:55,760 --> 00:53:59,280
Speaker 1: to these high end restaurants, first dates.

1082
00:53:59,080 --> 00:54:02,160
Speaker 2: But everybody I didn't like, oh Joe, everybody ain't making

1083
00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:04,200
Speaker 2: seven pigures. Everybody and got it like that to go

1084
00:54:04,280 --> 00:54:06,719
Speaker 2: drop two three hundred dollars on a meal, Damn.

1085
00:54:06,719 --> 00:54:09,000
Speaker 5: It makes it makes no sense.

1086
00:54:09,000 --> 00:54:10,960
Speaker 1: If you gotta leave with money, if you have to leave.

1087
00:54:11,040 --> 00:54:13,440
Speaker 1: If you have to lead with money, If you have

1088
00:54:13,520 --> 00:54:15,400
Speaker 1: to leave with money, you already know the time. You

1089
00:54:15,400 --> 00:54:17,440
Speaker 1: already know what the place, You already.

1090
00:54:17,120 --> 00:54:18,160
Speaker 3: Know what the it.

1091
00:54:18,960 --> 00:54:21,520
Speaker 2: If I got first of all, I'm a firm believer

1092
00:54:21,560 --> 00:54:24,000
Speaker 2: in this, O Joe. If I gotta borrow my brother's car,

1093
00:54:24,040 --> 00:54:26,200
Speaker 2: if I got to borrow a homeboy car, if I

1094
00:54:26,239 --> 00:54:28,719
Speaker 2: gotta borrow money to take somebody on the date, they

1095
00:54:28,840 --> 00:54:29,279
Speaker 2: not for me.

1096
00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:30,440
Speaker 3: They not for me.

1097
00:54:30,520 --> 00:54:32,239
Speaker 2: Because all I can do is this is a what

1098
00:54:32,400 --> 00:54:35,160
Speaker 2: this is a singular act, because I'm not gonna borrow

1099
00:54:35,160 --> 00:54:38,000
Speaker 2: money every time to take you somewhere. I'm not gonna

1100
00:54:38,040 --> 00:54:41,239
Speaker 2: borrow my brothers or my homeboy's car to take you somewhere. Man,

1101
00:54:41,239 --> 00:54:44,359
Speaker 2: Oh your man, Look, I don't even want to tell

1102
00:54:44,360 --> 00:54:46,120
Speaker 2: you this story. I don't even want to tell you

1103
00:54:46,160 --> 00:54:46,960
Speaker 2: the story. What happened to me?

1104
00:54:47,040 --> 00:54:49,399
Speaker 5: Ojo, you got to give it to me, come on, man,

1105
00:54:49,440 --> 00:54:49,879
Speaker 5: oh joy.

1106
00:54:49,920 --> 00:54:53,360
Speaker 2: This was this nineteen ninety I met this young lady

1107
00:54:54,040 --> 00:54:57,839
Speaker 2: and she's so and she's like, we're gonna go We're

1108
00:54:57,840 --> 00:54:59,640
Speaker 2: gonna go out. I was like, okay, now, oh your

1109
00:54:59,640 --> 00:55:02,120
Speaker 2: mind you I'm only make it sixty three five. I

1110
00:55:02,160 --> 00:55:04,439
Speaker 2: got a three hundred and thirty five dollars four door

1111
00:55:04,440 --> 00:55:07,560
Speaker 2: blazer payment. I think my my my rent at Mill

1112
00:55:07,640 --> 00:55:10,840
Speaker 2: Pond in Denver. I think it was about five fifty plus.

1113
00:55:10,880 --> 00:55:13,879
Speaker 2: You know, I gotta you know, take you know, take

1114
00:55:13,920 --> 00:55:16,040
Speaker 2: care of my send money home for my grandmother, my sister.

1115
00:55:16,400 --> 00:55:19,560
Speaker 2: I'm helping my girlfriend who's going to school. I'm helping her.

1116
00:55:19,600 --> 00:55:22,319
Speaker 2: I'm paying for her to go to school. So I

1117
00:55:22,360 --> 00:55:23,799
Speaker 2: ain't got a whole lot of money. But you know

1118
00:55:23,840 --> 00:55:25,560
Speaker 2: what I say, you know what I'm gonna do. I'm

1119
00:55:25,560 --> 00:55:29,000
Speaker 2: gonna deny myself something to get her nice, nice little

1120
00:55:29,120 --> 00:55:31,560
Speaker 2: you know, get a nice little meal. So we get

1121
00:55:31,560 --> 00:55:34,560
Speaker 2: there and so you know, I'm gonna order something, but

1122
00:55:34,640 --> 00:55:36,279
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna get what I would normally get, but

1123
00:55:36,280 --> 00:55:38,560
Speaker 2: I'm gonna get something a little down just in case

1124
00:55:38,640 --> 00:55:41,799
Speaker 2: she goes up. So we get there, so you know,

1125
00:55:42,320 --> 00:55:44,480
Speaker 2: we get a little appetizer. I think back then I

1126
00:55:44,560 --> 00:55:46,960
Speaker 2: was into caesar salad. Now I had never had a

1127
00:55:47,000 --> 00:55:50,120
Speaker 2: really had caesar salad. So I got a little Caesar salad.

1128
00:55:50,160 --> 00:55:53,480
Speaker 2: You know, I got ordered caesar. She got something. And

1129
00:55:53,520 --> 00:55:56,640
Speaker 2: so the server comes back says, you know, okay, you

1130
00:55:56,719 --> 00:55:59,040
Speaker 2: ready to or what I'm like, Yeah, So I got

1131
00:55:59,280 --> 00:56:01,759
Speaker 2: I think I think I got something, probably cost like

1132
00:56:01,800 --> 00:56:03,600
Speaker 2: thirty forty dollars and so on.

1133
00:56:03,800 --> 00:56:04,160
Speaker 3: Your shit.

1134
00:56:04,160 --> 00:56:06,800
Speaker 2: Got the menu and she just looking. I'm like, damn,

1135
00:56:06,880 --> 00:56:09,719
Speaker 2: what she gonna order? I say, I say, you're gonna

1136
00:56:09,719 --> 00:56:13,880
Speaker 2: go ahead, you gonna order something. She say, uh, I'm

1137
00:56:13,920 --> 00:56:16,040
Speaker 2: trying to figure out what go with? What go with lobster?

1138
00:56:16,760 --> 00:56:19,480
Speaker 2: I say, condoms? I say, because if you order that,

1139
00:56:19,840 --> 00:56:25,600
Speaker 2: we're gonna have sex tonight. Needless to say, needless to say.

1140
00:56:25,960 --> 00:56:28,520
Speaker 2: She didn't order that, and I never saw her again.

1141
00:56:28,960 --> 00:56:36,440
Speaker 2: Real I put that on everything. Oh yo, see on

1142
00:56:36,600 --> 00:56:38,680
Speaker 2: y'all you bad. You get me on here on you,

1143
00:56:38,760 --> 00:56:40,520
Speaker 2: I get on here with you mad, and you have

1144
00:56:40,680 --> 00:56:42,840
Speaker 2: me be telling a story. Man, I was supposed to

1145
00:56:42,880 --> 00:56:49,360
Speaker 2: take this to my grade bad. He talking about she

1146
00:56:49,480 --> 00:56:52,440
Speaker 2: trying to figure out what go with lobster? Condoms?

1147
00:56:54,280 --> 00:56:55,280
Speaker 5: Hey, we're lost.

1148
00:56:55,520 --> 00:56:58,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, condoms cause we having sex if you order that,

1149
00:56:58,960 --> 00:57:00,719
Speaker 2: lofter ain't bread like that?

1150
00:57:00,800 --> 00:57:01,320
Speaker 3: Oh Joe.

1151
00:57:01,400 --> 00:57:03,480
Speaker 2: I can see if I was making If I came in,

1152
00:57:03,520 --> 00:57:05,840
Speaker 2: I'm a first round or second round draft pick, because

1153
00:57:05,880 --> 00:57:07,560
Speaker 2: back then, a first round draft pick got like a

1154
00:57:07,600 --> 00:57:10,839
Speaker 2: million dollars signing bonus. Oh Joe, I came in, they

1155
00:57:10,880 --> 00:57:13,840
Speaker 2: gave me like twenty two, five hundred dollars.

1156
00:57:14,040 --> 00:57:15,920
Speaker 3: Okay, when you.

1157
00:57:15,840 --> 00:57:17,520
Speaker 5: Gotta make, you gotta make, you gotta make that down.

1158
00:57:17,600 --> 00:57:20,080
Speaker 2: And so when when when when they when they take

1159
00:57:20,120 --> 00:57:21,360
Speaker 2: the taxes out of it.

1160
00:57:21,480 --> 00:57:22,680
Speaker 3: Not need a whole lot of money.

1161
00:57:23,000 --> 00:57:25,360
Speaker 2: But y'all ladies out there, look, I understand that you

1162
00:57:25,400 --> 00:57:28,280
Speaker 2: want to be treated nice. But everybody ain't making bread

1163
00:57:28,320 --> 00:57:31,000
Speaker 2: like no professional athlete. Everybody ain't got no six and

1164
00:57:31,080 --> 00:57:34,120
Speaker 2: no seven figure jobs. Some of these dudes making seventy

1165
00:57:34,120 --> 00:57:37,520
Speaker 2: five thousand, seventy five thousand to a dude and after taxes,

1166
00:57:37,720 --> 00:57:40,200
Speaker 2: he can't be breaking bread on no five hundred dollars meal.

1167
00:57:41,640 --> 00:57:43,200
Speaker 5: And this is this is the funny thing. This is

1168
00:57:43,200 --> 00:57:43,680
Speaker 5: the funny thing.

1169
00:57:43,720 --> 00:57:46,720
Speaker 1: It's a tough situation because there will always be men willing.

1170
00:57:47,000 --> 00:57:49,040
Speaker 1: Women will always be able to get who and what

1171
00:57:49,080 --> 00:57:51,240
Speaker 1: they want, but it not might be from the guy

1172
00:57:51,280 --> 00:57:53,240
Speaker 1: they want, because they will always be a man willing

1173
00:57:53,560 --> 00:57:55,840
Speaker 1: to spend the money based on what it is that

1174
00:57:55,880 --> 00:57:57,439
Speaker 1: women want, because they will alway to be a guy

1175
00:57:57,440 --> 00:57:58,080
Speaker 1: with to do it.

1176
00:57:58,160 --> 00:58:00,720
Speaker 2: But he's trying to impress them though, O Joe, Yeah,

1177
00:58:00,600 --> 00:58:02,040
Speaker 2: always oh way, try to impress them.

1178
00:58:02,640 --> 00:58:05,200
Speaker 5: The more money you have, the easier it is get

1179
00:58:05,240 --> 00:58:07,240
Speaker 5: to your end goal. That's just life. That's the way

1180
00:58:07,280 --> 00:58:07,520
Speaker 5: it is.

1181
00:58:07,520 --> 00:58:10,560
Speaker 1: But I tell dudes all the time, dudes, stay within

1182
00:58:10,600 --> 00:58:12,480
Speaker 1: your salary cap and accuate.

1183
00:58:13,360 --> 00:58:17,040
Speaker 5: Stay within your salary cap and accuate. What's for you

1184
00:58:17,240 --> 00:58:17,919
Speaker 5: will be there.

1185
00:58:18,000 --> 00:58:20,720
Speaker 1: And as your as your money continues to grow and

1186
00:58:20,840 --> 00:58:23,720
Speaker 1: gets hired and hire the caliber of the caliber of

1187
00:58:23,800 --> 00:58:26,480
Speaker 1: women you want to choose, it gets hired.

1188
00:58:29,080 --> 00:58:32,080
Speaker 5: At the end of the day. It's all pink on

1189
00:58:32,120 --> 00:58:32,600
Speaker 5: the inside.

1190
00:58:34,040 --> 00:58:38,240
Speaker 3: I hope you're talking about a stake, but anyway.

1191
00:58:38,120 --> 00:58:40,640
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm talking about.

1192
00:58:40,760 --> 00:58:41,160
Speaker 3: Right there with.

1193
00:58:43,080 --> 00:58:43,400
Speaker 2: The thing.

1194
00:58:44,560 --> 00:58:48,240
Speaker 3: Choose the woman that likes you, not the woman you like.

1195
00:58:48,600 --> 00:58:52,520
Speaker 3: If you choose the woman that likes you, you'll be straight.

1196
00:58:53,760 --> 00:58:54,440
Speaker 3: That's a good one.

1197
00:58:54,480 --> 00:58:55,840
Speaker 1: Straight, that's a good one.

1198
00:58:56,400 --> 00:58:56,680
Speaker 3: That's what.

1199
00:58:57,240 --> 00:58:59,000
Speaker 5: If you got to leave with money, she don't like you,

1200
00:59:00,240 --> 00:59:01,640
Speaker 5: I like you. If you gotta leave with.

1201
00:59:01,600 --> 00:59:03,120
Speaker 1: Money, And if she say, if you got to apply

1202
00:59:03,200 --> 00:59:06,320
Speaker 1: pressure she don't like you, don't fall any time.

1203
00:59:07,640 --> 00:59:09,800
Speaker 2: If you if you tell me I don't need your money,

1204
00:59:09,840 --> 00:59:12,840
Speaker 2: I make my own money, I'm going another way. That's

1205
00:59:13,160 --> 00:59:18,240
Speaker 2: I've heard that lot too many times to be true. Dahn, Yeah, yeah,

1206
00:59:18,680 --> 00:59:18,800
Speaker 2: like that.

1207
00:59:19,240 --> 00:59:20,640
Speaker 5: But this isn't a good thing. This is a good

1208
00:59:20,680 --> 00:59:21,200
Speaker 5: thing for women.

1209
00:59:21,200 --> 00:59:23,320
Speaker 1: Though women will never go it out because they will

1210
00:59:23,360 --> 00:59:26,760
Speaker 1: always be a man with her always.

1211
00:59:27,280 --> 00:59:29,760
Speaker 3: But I couldn't. Like I said, I I don't mind.

1212
00:59:30,320 --> 00:59:32,120
Speaker 2: But at the end of the day, like I said,

1213
00:59:32,160 --> 00:59:34,280
Speaker 2: I didn't have And you know what, O Joe, if

1214
00:59:34,320 --> 00:59:36,760
Speaker 2: I was making money like I was my fourth or

1215
00:59:36,760 --> 00:59:38,520
Speaker 2: fifth year, if she wanted to get the life, to

1216
00:59:38,560 --> 00:59:41,200
Speaker 2: have baby, get to take one home, I ain't got

1217
00:59:41,280 --> 00:59:43,880
Speaker 2: but I didn't. But I didn't have no bread like that.

1218
00:59:44,120 --> 00:59:46,960
Speaker 2: At that point in time. My my focus was, Okay,

1219
00:59:48,000 --> 00:59:52,200
Speaker 2: pay my bills, help my grandmother. You know, my mom working,

1220
00:59:52,280 --> 00:59:54,439
Speaker 2: But I still got to break her off. So when

1221
00:59:54,440 --> 00:59:56,640
Speaker 2: I when I get back and the cell phone see

1222
00:59:57,080 --> 00:59:59,760
Speaker 2: before Ojo, cell phone with the sall phone was probably

1223
00:59:59,760 --> 01:00:02,360
Speaker 2: about I was a minute and if you left the city,

1224
01:00:02,440 --> 01:00:03,400
Speaker 2: it started roaming.

1225
01:00:04,680 --> 01:00:08,560
Speaker 5: Man, Oh Joe, Man had I.

1226
01:00:08,480 --> 01:00:12,520
Speaker 3: Had a cell phone bill twelve hundred One time back

1227
01:00:12,560 --> 01:00:16,000
Speaker 3: then my brother, my brother called me and say turn

1228
01:00:16,080 --> 01:00:18,240
Speaker 3: it off, turn it off.

1229
01:00:18,840 --> 01:00:21,560
Speaker 2: Because back then, oh Joe, if you waited after I

1230
01:00:21,600 --> 01:00:25,120
Speaker 2: think it's after seven o'clock, the minutes were freeing and

1231
01:00:25,160 --> 01:00:28,680
Speaker 2: then on weekend minutes were free But man, who would

1232
01:00:28,680 --> 01:00:30,480
Speaker 2: the hell gon't wait till after seven o'clock to talk

1233
01:00:30,520 --> 01:00:33,960
Speaker 2: to Somebody'll wait to damn Saturday, Friday night, Saturday night, Sunday,

1234
01:00:34,120 --> 01:00:35,880
Speaker 2: nod I want to talk. When I wanted to talk,

1235
01:00:39,160 --> 01:00:42,800
Speaker 2: six thousand people that voted, they said fifty three percent say,

1236
01:00:42,840 --> 01:00:44,240
Speaker 2: farting in front of your man is over.

1237
01:00:46,080 --> 01:00:47,440
Speaker 3: I need to see the age Democrats.

1238
01:00:48,480 --> 01:00:55,800
Speaker 1: No, don't try to change it is. Listen, this is wait.

1239
01:00:56,560 --> 01:00:58,440
Speaker 3: Chewing go ahead ahead, let me figure gonna let you

1240
01:00:58,440 --> 01:00:59,080
Speaker 3: fin go ahead, go.

1241
01:01:00,920 --> 01:01:04,680
Speaker 5: Passing gas, fraudulating is normal.

1242
01:01:05,000 --> 01:01:07,080
Speaker 1: Telling your spouse they have to go to a man,

1243
01:01:09,480 --> 01:01:12,760
Speaker 1: going to going to a completely different room just to do.

1244
01:01:12,840 --> 01:01:14,080
Speaker 5: What is natural.

1245
01:01:14,400 --> 01:01:16,280
Speaker 1: And you got to have your stomach hurting because they're

1246
01:01:16,320 --> 01:01:22,080
Speaker 1: holding it. That's not right. That is imprisonment. Not okay,

1247
01:01:22,360 --> 01:01:26,360
Speaker 1: chewing your food is natural. But time saying someone's.

1248
01:01:25,960 --> 01:01:30,280
Speaker 5: Smacking, I understand. That's like nails on the truck.

1249
01:01:30,720 --> 01:01:31,840
Speaker 3: Chewing food is natural.

1250
01:01:31,960 --> 01:01:33,240
Speaker 5: You can do it with your mouth closes.

1251
01:01:34,520 --> 01:01:37,480
Speaker 3: Okay, you can go to the bathroom in part from.

1252
01:01:37,160 --> 01:01:38,880
Speaker 5: Me, but but you know, to each his own, to

1253
01:01:38,920 --> 01:01:39,480
Speaker 5: each his own.

1254
01:01:39,840 --> 01:01:42,040
Speaker 6: But what we're saying, you're not gonna make it far

1255
01:01:42,600 --> 01:01:45,680
Speaker 6: in a relationship with us, Like we you cool with

1256
01:01:45,760 --> 01:01:47,760
Speaker 6: a fartherer, We're cool you cool.

1257
01:01:48,120 --> 01:01:51,240
Speaker 1: Well, listen about it. They're going to do it anyway.

1258
01:01:51,280 --> 01:01:54,240
Speaker 1: They're gonna do it like they got.

1259
01:01:54,640 --> 01:01:58,760
Speaker 6: You just said, Mama farty. You just said Mama farty,

1260
01:01:58,960 --> 01:01:59,560
Speaker 6: and I hate you.

1261
01:01:59,720 --> 01:02:02,720
Speaker 1: She did because I can smell it. I can smell

1262
01:02:02,720 --> 01:02:04,640
Speaker 1: I can smell it. I remember Mama rest in peace.

1263
01:02:04,920 --> 01:02:07,160
Speaker 1: I could smell it. But she was staying it came

1264
01:02:07,240 --> 01:02:09,040
Speaker 1: from somewhere and it wasn't me.

1265
01:02:10,440 --> 01:02:11,960
Speaker 5: She did it that.

1266
01:02:12,560 --> 01:02:16,560
Speaker 2: I just said, I've never I haven't. I never experienced that.

1267
01:02:16,680 --> 01:02:19,320
Speaker 2: Knock on wood, thank you, because that that that's not

1268
01:02:19,440 --> 01:02:22,520
Speaker 2: gonna go well, I never I'm gonna tell, but it

1269
01:02:22,640 --> 01:02:24,919
Speaker 2: happened one time. I'm gonna tell the story another day time.

1270
01:02:26,480 --> 01:02:33,080
Speaker 3: But huh, I mean knowing you was it during but

1271
01:02:33,440 --> 01:02:35,920
Speaker 3: knowing you was during something, Yeah.

1272
01:02:36,320 --> 01:02:46,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I don't know. Hey you out fish fish,

1273
01:02:46,880 --> 01:02:49,520
Speaker 2: I got it. This would happened we were having sex.

1274
01:02:51,880 --> 01:02:55,800
Speaker 3: I put this on. I put this on everything. I

1275
01:02:56,000 --> 01:02:56,880
Speaker 3: was having safe.

1276
01:02:57,320 --> 01:02:59,560
Speaker 1: Hold on the whole picture. That don't don't get don't

1277
01:02:59,600 --> 01:03:02,880
Speaker 1: cheat me, don't. Yeah, don't either, Okay, I want detail,

1278
01:03:03,080 --> 01:03:09,520
Speaker 1: having details. Where has this physician? Yeah yeah, yeah, you.

1279
01:03:09,640 --> 01:03:14,080
Speaker 3: Know, y'all know what Jesus he doing. But she don't

1280
01:03:14,200 --> 01:03:16,840
Speaker 3: know that is.

1281
01:03:19,160 --> 01:03:21,919
Speaker 2: And what I'm about to say is one thought of baby.

1282
01:03:22,560 --> 01:03:27,200
Speaker 2: So she passed, she said, she said, excuse me. I said,

1283
01:03:27,240 --> 01:03:35,720
Speaker 2: that's why door. Yes, she passed, excuse me, don't Yeah,

1284
01:03:37,320 --> 01:03:41,919
Speaker 2: she knew tired, tired, she said, excuse me. I said,

1285
01:03:42,960 --> 01:03:46,800
Speaker 2: to make him ship. Hey, she said, excuse me. I said,

1286
01:03:46,800 --> 01:03:48,439
Speaker 2: that's all right, baby, I generally make him ship.

1287
01:03:48,440 --> 01:03:49,880
Speaker 3: It kept going.

1288
01:03:58,920 --> 01:04:09,800
Speaker 5: Come on, man, man, both y'all nasty dog. Hey, don't

1289
01:04:09,840 --> 01:04:11,880
Speaker 5: do that, y'all.

1290
01:04:11,880 --> 01:04:13,280
Speaker 3: Ain't no good that chatting.

1291
01:04:13,360 --> 01:04:16,480
Speaker 5: That's not Don't do that, y'all. Y'all.

1292
01:04:16,880 --> 01:04:18,760
Speaker 3: What you want, what you want to? You want? What

1293
01:04:18,840 --> 01:04:23,680
Speaker 3: you how to look back and say, excuse me with it?

1294
01:04:24,240 --> 01:04:27,520
Speaker 5: Hey, I gotta write that down there, I gotta write

1295
01:04:27,560 --> 01:04:27,919
Speaker 5: that down.

1296
01:04:28,560 --> 01:04:29,520
Speaker 3: Don't he write that down?

1297
01:04:30,440 --> 01:04:40,600
Speaker 5: Yes, there's a song. Chat.

1298
01:04:41,440 --> 01:04:43,760
Speaker 1: There's a song at the beginning of a song by

1299
01:04:43,840 --> 01:04:49,240
Speaker 1: Bobbi wo Mack. Chat Bobby back Bob Bobby wo Mack,

1300
01:04:49,280 --> 01:04:50,960
Speaker 1: and he talks about what we're talking about right now.

1301
01:04:51,720 --> 01:04:53,000
Speaker 5: It's called the facts of Life.

1302
01:04:53,680 --> 01:04:56,560
Speaker 1: Listen to the beginning of the facts of Life and

1303
01:04:56,680 --> 01:04:58,800
Speaker 1: you'll get a better understanding of what we talk about.

1304
01:05:00,200 --> 01:05:02,960
Speaker 1: Bobby wo Mac, the facts of life. I'd never forget it,

1305
01:05:03,880 --> 01:05:06,120
Speaker 1: he told her. Listen, he would to buy the lady

1306
01:05:06,200 --> 01:05:09,120
Speaker 1: a drink. You want to come up to my room,

1307
01:05:09,200 --> 01:05:11,960
Speaker 1: the lady say, what you need me to come up

1308
01:05:11,960 --> 01:05:14,000
Speaker 1: to your room for? You could buy me a drink?

1309
01:05:14,040 --> 01:05:15,720
Speaker 1: You just want to get me up to your room.

1310
01:05:16,160 --> 01:05:18,040
Speaker 5: Well huh, hello, huh.

1311
01:05:18,120 --> 01:05:21,920
Speaker 1: I'm only here for one night. Come on now, that's

1312
01:05:21,920 --> 01:05:24,040
Speaker 1: what Luther said. You remember, that's aw what Luther said.

1313
01:05:24,040 --> 01:05:27,440
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I'm on, but no way, I can't sing.

1314
01:05:27,520 --> 01:05:32,360
Speaker 5: I forgot if only for one night, that's it. Oh man,

1315
01:05:32,360 --> 01:05:35,680
Speaker 5: it's so many good stories, man, but that's for another day.

1316
01:05:36,120 --> 01:05:39,880
Speaker 2: But see, here is the thing, O, Joe, I know

1317
01:05:40,200 --> 01:05:44,240
Speaker 2: you'll act accordingly in my face? Yeah, oh yeah, when

1318
01:05:44,280 --> 01:05:48,680
Speaker 2: I'm not around, will you still accept that drink? Will

1319
01:05:48,760 --> 01:05:52,160
Speaker 2: you still talk as if I'm not there? You see

1320
01:05:52,160 --> 01:05:54,080
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. Oo, I don't worry about you because

1321
01:05:54,080 --> 01:05:55,960
Speaker 2: I first of all, I am not worried about to

1322
01:05:56,000 --> 01:05:58,880
Speaker 2: dude disrespecting me, And I'm not worried about her disrespect

1323
01:05:58,920 --> 01:06:01,560
Speaker 2: to me because I give respect, and I wouldn't let

1324
01:06:01,600 --> 01:06:02,280
Speaker 2: my teammates.

1325
01:06:02,760 --> 01:06:06,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, we had their bad chicks walking in and they do.

1326
01:06:07,640 --> 01:06:11,120
Speaker 2: Bro, We're not finna disrespect my man, just because you

1327
01:06:11,440 --> 01:06:14,240
Speaker 2: make this and you feel you can whip him. That's

1328
01:06:14,360 --> 01:06:16,960
Speaker 2: not gonna happen because I'm gonna be with him, right

1329
01:06:17,640 --> 01:06:19,880
Speaker 2: because you wouldn't let nobody do that if you walked

1330
01:06:19,920 --> 01:06:22,160
Speaker 2: in here with your woman and dude tried to holler

1331
01:06:22,200 --> 01:06:23,800
Speaker 2: at us, already know what's gonna happen.

1332
01:06:24,080 --> 01:06:25,640
Speaker 3: So we're gonna do this thing the same way.

1333
01:06:26,640 --> 01:06:30,320
Speaker 2: That's how we're gonna do it, Oh Joe, when you're

1334
01:06:30,360 --> 01:06:33,480
Speaker 2: around me, able one way to do things that's right, right,

1335
01:06:33,600 --> 01:06:35,400
Speaker 2: And I'm gonna tell you I would say, look here, now, hey,

1336
01:06:35,840 --> 01:06:37,880
Speaker 2: now you know hey, they gonna maneuver a way and

1337
01:06:37,920 --> 01:06:39,720
Speaker 2: pretend like they got to go to the bathroom because

1338
01:06:39,720 --> 01:06:40,800
Speaker 2: they done made our contact.

1339
01:06:42,520 --> 01:06:43,160
Speaker 3: Okay, now.

1340
01:06:48,120 --> 01:06:53,320
Speaker 5: It's a dirty game, man, Okay, dirty game.

1341
01:06:55,800 --> 01:06:59,000
Speaker 2: I don't like I said. I'm just I'm just I'm

1342
01:06:59,080 --> 01:07:01,520
Speaker 2: just real. I'm just real with it. I don't I

1343
01:07:01,560 --> 01:07:04,680
Speaker 2: don't like disrespect on no level. I'm not gonna let

1344
01:07:04,760 --> 01:07:10,160
Speaker 2: my teammates disrespect a guy just because he doesn't have

1345
01:07:10,320 --> 01:07:13,080
Speaker 2: the money, he doesn't have the cachet, he doesn't have

1346
01:07:13,240 --> 01:07:15,120
Speaker 2: the the the name recognition.

1347
01:07:15,400 --> 01:07:17,440
Speaker 3: We ain't gonna do that, not on my walk. Now.

1348
01:07:18,120 --> 01:07:19,240
Speaker 3: If I didn't go out that night.

1349
01:07:19,280 --> 01:07:20,760
Speaker 2: If I didn't go out on a Thursday night, because

1350
01:07:20,760 --> 01:07:22,360
Speaker 2: that was really the only night I kind of went out,

1351
01:07:22,640 --> 01:07:26,200
Speaker 2: unless unless I had my homeboys in town. My homeboy

1352
01:07:26,200 --> 01:07:28,840
Speaker 2: would coming that Friday. We go out that Saturday night.

1353
01:07:29,400 --> 01:07:31,600
Speaker 2: But it was the same thing. If I was somewhere

1354
01:07:32,640 --> 01:07:34,960
Speaker 2: and my teammate showed up and there was a chicken

1355
01:07:35,000 --> 01:07:37,120
Speaker 2: there and chicks came in there with their boyfriend. We're

1356
01:07:37,160 --> 01:07:40,400
Speaker 2: not finna do that, right, That ain't gonna happen, right

1357
01:07:41,240 --> 01:07:43,320
Speaker 2: because at the end of the day, now that he's

1358
01:07:43,320 --> 01:07:47,080
Speaker 2: still a man, Now he's still a man, and you know,

1359
01:07:47,280 --> 01:07:52,080
Speaker 2: man would both his back in front of his lady. Yeah,

1360
01:07:52,760 --> 01:07:55,160
Speaker 2: then what for what happened? We got in the bral

1361
01:07:55,200 --> 01:07:58,840
Speaker 2: We got into a fighting in h at night in

1362
01:07:58,880 --> 01:08:00,360
Speaker 2: my rookie year by the.

1363
01:08:00,440 --> 01:08:03,560
Speaker 3: Chick y'all were brawling in there by the chick go

1364
01:08:03,760 --> 01:08:06,080
Speaker 3: look it up. Damn huh.

1365
01:08:07,000 --> 01:08:09,800
Speaker 5: She must hey, she must have been bad. She must

1366
01:08:09,840 --> 01:08:11,000
Speaker 5: have been bad to the world life.

1367
01:08:11,360 --> 01:08:19,240
Speaker 3: She was fire five. You're only worth what somebody's willing

1368
01:08:19,280 --> 01:08:21,280
Speaker 3: to pay. People like man.

1369
01:08:21,280 --> 01:08:23,519
Speaker 2: I wouldn't pay twenty million for no house, okay, but

1370
01:08:23,680 --> 01:08:26,439
Speaker 2: somebody else did. I will pay two million for a

1371
01:08:26,520 --> 01:08:30,680
Speaker 2: car but somebody else will. Worth is only determined by

1372
01:08:30,800 --> 01:08:32,680
Speaker 2: what someone is willing to pay for it.

1373
01:08:33,240 --> 01:08:33,639
Speaker 3: Mm hmm.

1374
01:08:34,920 --> 01:08:38,120
Speaker 2: That's what worth is. You don't get determine your worth

1375
01:08:38,200 --> 01:08:40,120
Speaker 2: because you don't get to say. You don't get to

1376
01:08:40,200 --> 01:08:46,679
Speaker 2: pay yourself. Hey how at EFPN, Hey get me forty

1377
01:08:46,720 --> 01:08:51,200
Speaker 2: million a year? Hey, hey, that sounds like ladies and

1378
01:08:51,400 --> 01:08:52,439
Speaker 2: on ig.

1379
01:08:52,760 --> 01:08:55,040
Speaker 3: Hey know you're worth? Know your self worth?

1380
01:08:55,120 --> 01:08:55,320
Speaker 1: Girl?

1381
01:08:55,640 --> 01:08:59,240
Speaker 3: Yeah? Oh I work, I'm worth this. I worth that.

1382
01:08:59,720 --> 01:09:01,400
Speaker 3: Not a dude ain't willing to give it to you.

1383
01:09:01,520 --> 01:09:01,760
Speaker 3: You not.

1384
01:09:03,960 --> 01:09:06,880
Speaker 2: Understand, you know, baby, you think you worth a burking

1385
01:09:06,960 --> 01:09:09,840
Speaker 2: bag and a colorist and a private jet.

1386
01:09:10,400 --> 01:09:10,880
Speaker 3: I get that.

1387
01:09:10,960 --> 01:09:13,320
Speaker 2: You think you're supposed to get all of that, but

1388
01:09:13,520 --> 01:09:19,519
Speaker 2: that ain't how I value you. Yes, so unless look, hey, now, Giel,

1389
01:09:19,600 --> 01:09:21,639
Speaker 2: I had a situation. I was talking to this young

1390
01:09:21,720 --> 01:09:25,840
Speaker 2: lady and she says the I want to watch So

1391
01:09:26,000 --> 01:09:29,600
Speaker 2: you know, I'm thinking you don't what you want? I

1392
01:09:29,720 --> 01:09:30,240
Speaker 2: want an AP?

1393
01:09:30,960 --> 01:09:34,559
Speaker 3: Gil? I only got one AP. Now, I got one

1394
01:09:34,640 --> 01:09:36,080
Speaker 3: AP after playing.

1395
01:09:35,880 --> 01:09:38,759
Speaker 2: Fourteen years in the NFL, being a Hall of Famer,

1396
01:09:39,040 --> 01:09:41,080
Speaker 2: and having a seventeen year career in TV.

1397
01:09:41,560 --> 01:09:46,400
Speaker 3: I got one AP. And you come in and say

1398
01:09:46,439 --> 01:09:48,639
Speaker 3: you want an AP? Upter an ap.

1399
01:09:50,120 --> 01:09:54,120
Speaker 2: I say, hey, Gilgail, I see, and she said, if

1400
01:09:54,160 --> 01:09:57,080
Speaker 2: you don't get it, we can't see each other no more.

1401
01:09:58,120 --> 01:10:05,160
Speaker 3: Cool walk right downstairs, she gil right hand before God.

1402
01:10:05,240 --> 01:10:08,840
Speaker 2: She already knew I was gonna get it because as

1403
01:10:08,880 --> 01:10:12,280
Speaker 2: I walking, as I'm walking down the stairs, she had

1404
01:10:12,320 --> 01:10:13,360
Speaker 2: an oober out there waiting.

1405
01:10:14,040 --> 01:10:14,160
Speaker 1: Mm.

1406
01:10:14,840 --> 01:10:18,640
Speaker 2: She already know I won't get it. I saw, I

1407
01:10:18,800 --> 01:10:22,080
Speaker 2: saw Gil, I saw three days later. Guess what she

1408
01:10:22,200 --> 01:10:23,000
Speaker 2: had on on.

1409
01:10:23,200 --> 01:10:28,600
Speaker 3: I g ap. Somebody got it? Oh, Shane Sharp was

1410
01:10:28,640 --> 01:10:29,080
Speaker 3: gonna get it.

1411
01:10:31,760 --> 01:10:32,479
Speaker 5: Honestly, I don't.

1412
01:10:32,520 --> 01:10:34,160
Speaker 3: I don't. I don't know. I don't know.

1413
01:10:34,320 --> 01:10:39,080
Speaker 1: Brother Jalen, you know I don't. Yeah, I mean we

1414
01:10:39,200 --> 01:10:41,360
Speaker 1: can't be mad. We gotta be happy for him. I mean,

1415
01:10:41,360 --> 01:10:43,320
Speaker 1: it's no point of being mad now that the baby

1416
01:10:43,360 --> 01:10:47,240
Speaker 1: on the way. I wish them nothing but the best.

1417
01:10:48,400 --> 01:10:50,000
Speaker 3: The best. One of the guys.

1418
01:10:50,040 --> 01:10:52,799
Speaker 2: Shan't have been twenty two in the NFL.

1419
01:10:53,400 --> 01:10:54,080
Speaker 5: Yeah what.

1420
01:10:55,600 --> 01:10:57,920
Speaker 3: If she look like that? Yeah, she.

1421
01:10:59,520 --> 01:11:02,760
Speaker 5: She got you hook, Yo would have got shake.

1422
01:11:03,120 --> 01:11:09,720
Speaker 3: Oh she's got no shake and one almost have o Joe.

1423
01:11:09,840 --> 01:11:12,880
Speaker 1: She had me. Are you you're trying to get the

1424
01:11:12,920 --> 01:11:16,880
Speaker 1: fut of the hu you're trying to get I shoot

1425
01:11:16,920 --> 01:11:18,439
Speaker 1: the hook got my mouth. You don't know, big mouth

1426
01:11:18,479 --> 01:11:20,280
Speaker 1: band fight the water ship.

1427
01:11:21,720 --> 01:11:24,280
Speaker 2: I shoot now, I shoot now hoo went on back

1428
01:11:24,280 --> 01:11:26,280
Speaker 2: in the water swimmer ain't buying no moto.

1429
01:11:26,880 --> 01:11:29,880
Speaker 5: Yeah you got hey. Listen, listen, the game is the game.

1430
01:11:29,960 --> 01:11:30,040
Speaker 3: Now.

1431
01:11:30,040 --> 01:11:30,839
Speaker 5: You gotta understand.

1432
01:11:31,160 --> 01:11:33,840
Speaker 3: You gotta bad.

1433
01:11:34,280 --> 01:11:35,880
Speaker 5: I know she was, I know she was. That's that's

1434
01:11:36,040 --> 01:11:36,880
Speaker 5: that's how they catch him.

1435
01:11:39,600 --> 01:11:39,840
Speaker 3: You know what?

1436
01:11:39,920 --> 01:11:42,760
Speaker 1: You know what they playing, right? They playing a long game. Yeah,

1437
01:11:43,200 --> 01:11:44,160
Speaker 1: they're playing a long game.

1438
01:11:45,000 --> 01:11:48,080
Speaker 5: I need I need Hey, I need financial security. Huh.

1439
01:11:48,600 --> 01:11:50,880
Speaker 1: I'm trying to I'm trying to maintain. I'm trying to

1440
01:11:50,960 --> 01:11:55,360
Speaker 1: maintain the lifestyle that I want to live. And how

1441
01:11:55,400 --> 01:11:59,439
Speaker 1: am I going to afford that? I got to you know, O, Joe,

1442
01:11:59,760 --> 01:12:01,479
Speaker 1: not this chest, not check is now?

1443
01:12:01,920 --> 01:12:06,400
Speaker 2: Man, that's the only OO in all my life. That's

1444
01:12:06,439 --> 01:12:10,639
Speaker 2: the only time. Yeah, my mama has ever said anything

1445
01:12:10,720 --> 01:12:10,880
Speaker 2: to me.

1446
01:12:11,280 --> 01:12:21,519
Speaker 3: M hm hm the only time. Yeah mm hmm. I

1447
01:12:21,640 --> 01:12:21,960
Speaker 3: didn't know.

1448
01:12:22,520 --> 01:12:25,360
Speaker 2: I didn't know until years later my sister told me. Yeah,

1449
01:12:26,320 --> 01:12:31,920
Speaker 2: I wonder, I'm I didn't know, but I guess I

1450
01:12:32,080 --> 01:12:32,519
Speaker 2: had left.

1451
01:12:33,479 --> 01:12:38,360
Speaker 3: I had left my mom and my sister was there. Yeah,

1452
01:12:39,000 --> 01:12:40,400
Speaker 3: and she came to my apartment.

1453
01:12:40,840 --> 01:12:44,800
Speaker 5: Oh come on, now, I was on the door.

1454
01:12:45,600 --> 01:12:48,439
Speaker 3: My mom open the door. My mom like, who you? Oh,

1455
01:12:49,040 --> 01:12:52,080
Speaker 3: such and such. My mom said, you look a little old,

1456
01:12:52,240 --> 01:12:56,200
Speaker 3: my son. How old are you? She told her. My

1457
01:12:56,280 --> 01:13:00,120
Speaker 3: mom said, look here, my son just got here. You're

1458
01:13:00,120 --> 01:13:04,360
Speaker 3: gonna miss it over with you. Mm hmm. You get

1459
01:13:04,400 --> 01:13:05,719
Speaker 3: your damn man's away from my son.

1460
01:13:10,160 --> 01:13:12,760
Speaker 5: So you cut off god off?

1461
01:13:13,439 --> 01:13:17,280
Speaker 3: Oh I had you. It broke my heart.

1462
01:13:18,760 --> 01:13:21,599
Speaker 5: All along, hold on, like wait, y'all went out? Did

1463
01:13:21,760 --> 01:13:26,519
Speaker 5: you got some first? Yeah?

1464
01:13:27,479 --> 01:13:32,439
Speaker 3: Boy, I was in there like section eight you thought about?

1465
01:13:33,240 --> 01:13:37,760
Speaker 3: Did I please? What about old John?

1466
01:13:40,479 --> 01:13:40,719
Speaker 2: Oh?

1467
01:13:40,960 --> 01:13:45,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, man, what are you talking about? Did I?

1468
01:13:47,120 --> 01:13:48,640
Speaker 5: You was in there like and you was in there

1469
01:13:48,720 --> 01:13:50,120
Speaker 5: like what section eight?

1470
01:13:51,000 --> 01:13:58,360
Speaker 3: Deep? Off up in that thing? But bad.

1471
01:14:03,160 --> 01:14:04,160
Speaker 5: There are no umb rules.

1472
01:14:04,200 --> 01:14:07,160
Speaker 1: You just obviously the three The three that nobody needs

1473
01:14:07,200 --> 01:14:09,800
Speaker 1: to say is obviously you don't talk about nobody wife,

1474
01:14:09,800 --> 01:14:11,760
Speaker 1: You don't try to holler at nobody wife no no,

1475
01:14:12,160 --> 01:14:14,640
Speaker 1: And you don't talk about nobody goddamn kids no.

1476
01:14:15,200 --> 01:14:19,000
Speaker 5: No, and ship. That's pretty much it. Yeah, I mean,

1477
01:14:19,120 --> 01:14:21,960
Speaker 5: just just the common common you know that thing was

1478
01:14:22,040 --> 01:14:23,439
Speaker 5: you know out hold on?

1479
01:14:24,360 --> 01:14:26,360
Speaker 2: I was I think it was little Gills. The podcast

1480
01:14:26,520 --> 01:14:31,240
Speaker 2: they were talking about about how the situation like Okay,

1481
01:14:31,280 --> 01:14:33,240
Speaker 2: your wife is off limit, and then you get the

1482
01:14:33,320 --> 01:14:34,800
Speaker 2: you know you get you know, you get the.

1483
01:14:34,880 --> 01:14:39,800
Speaker 3: Girl you know you put you get one. Your wife

1484
01:14:39,960 --> 01:14:40,599
Speaker 3: is on the shelf.

1485
01:14:41,320 --> 01:14:43,520
Speaker 5: Everybody else, everybody else, everybody.

1486
01:14:43,200 --> 01:14:47,040
Speaker 3: Everybody else touchable, everybody reachable, everybody checked out.

1487
01:14:47,080 --> 01:14:48,880
Speaker 5: Hey, that was a good episode to me.

1488
01:14:49,479 --> 01:14:53,120
Speaker 2: Hey, remember, if you got a wife and you got

1489
01:14:53,200 --> 01:14:55,600
Speaker 2: a badi ch, you think you're gonna be able to

1490
01:14:55,600 --> 01:14:57,040
Speaker 2: save both of them, know you not.

1491
01:14:57,240 --> 01:14:59,720
Speaker 3: You're not gonna say that girl, your wife. I ain't

1492
01:14:59,720 --> 01:14:59,960
Speaker 3: trying to.

1493
01:15:00,000 --> 01:15:02,160
Speaker 2: I ain't even looking at her, but oh, you best

1494
01:15:02,240 --> 01:15:05,000
Speaker 2: believe I'm throwing I'm throwing her there out there trying

1495
01:15:05,000 --> 01:15:05,560
Speaker 2: to relay in.

1496
01:15:06,000 --> 01:15:07,800
Speaker 1: Hey, it was so funny in the conversation he was

1497
01:15:07,880 --> 01:15:11,840
Speaker 1: having right there there. Somebody said, oh, I see so

1498
01:15:11,960 --> 01:15:13,920
Speaker 1: and so on the stands to night. Okay, which onuny,

1499
01:15:13,960 --> 01:15:15,760
Speaker 1: y'all got so and so here at this game?

1500
01:15:16,400 --> 01:15:18,200
Speaker 5: Hey man, I was funny. Listen.

1501
01:15:18,479 --> 01:15:21,880
Speaker 1: But the basketball players, they got them. They moved different. Boy,

1502
01:15:22,040 --> 01:15:24,439
Speaker 1: they do, but they moved, they got they moved different.

1503
01:15:24,840 --> 01:15:29,000
Speaker 2: I an't if you if you if you talk to him,

1504
01:15:29,160 --> 01:15:30,960
Speaker 2: if you tell me you used to if they told

1505
01:15:31,000 --> 01:15:32,760
Speaker 2: me they talked to you know, I used to talk to.

1506
01:15:32,840 --> 01:15:35,080
Speaker 2: Somebody took my tailor run. I ain't got that kind

1507
01:15:35,120 --> 01:15:37,760
Speaker 2: of per I can't fight him. I can't fight.

1508
01:15:38,040 --> 01:15:40,920
Speaker 3: I can't. I can't fight what he can do for you? Noah,

1509
01:15:40,960 --> 01:15:41,160
Speaker 3: I can.

1510
01:15:41,400 --> 01:15:42,720
Speaker 2: You know, back in the day, and you know your

1511
01:15:42,760 --> 01:15:44,800
Speaker 2: boy used to be ready to tussle at the drop.

1512
01:15:45,120 --> 01:15:48,240
Speaker 2: But I done got old now that that ain't in

1513
01:15:48,360 --> 01:15:51,040
Speaker 2: me no more. But oh they say, oh yeah, you

1514
01:15:51,160 --> 01:15:53,120
Speaker 2: get you get your you get your you get your wife.

1515
01:15:54,000 --> 01:15:55,599
Speaker 3: No no, no, no, no, no, no no you don't.

1516
01:15:55,920 --> 01:15:57,080
Speaker 3: Oh no, hell no.

1517
01:15:57,600 --> 01:16:00,600
Speaker 2: You get to put one on the shelf and she

1518
01:16:00,800 --> 01:16:03,599
Speaker 2: can't be touched. Now, if it could be your wife,

1519
01:16:03,880 --> 01:16:06,439
Speaker 2: it can be your girl. But you don't get too

1520
01:16:06,720 --> 01:16:09,920
Speaker 2: Oh damn you know. Oh no, sir, I don't know where.

1521
01:16:10,040 --> 01:16:11,160
Speaker 2: I don't know where they do that at.

1522
01:16:12,240 --> 01:16:15,200
Speaker 3: Listen for them boys, vicious boy. They could be vicious

1523
01:16:15,200 --> 01:16:15,760
Speaker 3: all they want to.

1524
01:16:16,040 --> 01:16:19,240
Speaker 1: But I know if I them boys play a different

1525
01:16:19,280 --> 01:16:21,040
Speaker 1: ball games don't play.

1526
01:16:22,160 --> 01:16:24,800
Speaker 2: That's why I can't get zero. They got that kind

1527
01:16:24,800 --> 01:16:26,560
Speaker 2: of See, they got that kind of money. If you

1528
01:16:26,600 --> 01:16:28,320
Speaker 2: want to keep up with them, you don't need tracks.

1529
01:16:28,360 --> 01:16:30,200
Speaker 2: You you need a check book. And I ain't I

1530
01:16:30,200 --> 01:16:33,560
Speaker 2: got a check book. Oh yeah, So nah, nah, but

1531
01:16:33,840 --> 01:16:35,960
Speaker 2: I would talk to Gil about that when you come

1532
01:16:36,000 --> 01:16:38,559
Speaker 2: back on the web that like here, I heard y'all talking.

1533
01:16:38,920 --> 01:16:39,120
Speaker 3: Y'all.

1534
01:16:39,360 --> 01:16:41,920
Speaker 2: You can't say no, you get to save one now

1535
01:16:42,000 --> 01:16:45,599
Speaker 2: you gotta. Yo, you got a choice, two people drowning.

1536
01:16:46,000 --> 01:16:47,160
Speaker 2: You could only say one.

1537
01:16:47,240 --> 01:16:49,479
Speaker 5: You can't, Nah, you can't.

1538
01:16:49,560 --> 01:16:52,200
Speaker 2: You can't swim back to shore with two drowning people. Now,

1539
01:16:52,280 --> 01:16:54,080
Speaker 2: which one you want to put up there to make

1540
01:16:54,160 --> 01:16:54,960
Speaker 2: sure she's saved?

1541
01:16:56,040 --> 01:16:58,719
Speaker 3: Come the other one? Mm hmm, we coming.

1542
01:16:59,240 --> 01:17:02,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm a rip tie hey howl though you that

1543
01:17:02,640 --> 01:17:06,360
Speaker 2: rip curR, that rip car Yeah, that powerful even come

1544
01:17:06,400 --> 01:17:10,080
Speaker 2: of the strongest women's me you got you gotta let

1545
01:17:10,200 --> 01:17:10,760
Speaker 2: just go with it.

1546
01:17:10,880 --> 01:17:12,720
Speaker 3: Those women get it because all they do is tie

1547
01:17:12,720 --> 01:17:13,639
Speaker 3: you out and drown.

1548
01:17:13,720 --> 01:17:14,479
Speaker 6: You go with it.

1549
01:17:14,520 --> 01:17:16,800
Speaker 3: It's all that a little bit and then come on back.

1550
01:17:16,880 --> 01:17:18,360
Speaker 5: You know what the funny thing is?

1551
01:17:18,439 --> 01:17:20,560
Speaker 1: You know what makes it makes it even worse, is

1552
01:17:20,680 --> 01:17:24,759
Speaker 1: there's so many, so many fine, I'm about the finest

1553
01:17:24,840 --> 01:17:26,040
Speaker 1: of the finest women, right.

1554
01:17:27,080 --> 01:17:29,080
Speaker 5: How many athletes is it that really got it?

1555
01:17:29,600 --> 01:17:30,120
Speaker 3: Think about it.

1556
01:17:31,320 --> 01:17:33,479
Speaker 1: It's only a select few, it's only a smart it's

1557
01:17:33,520 --> 01:17:36,719
Speaker 1: only a handful of me. But there's so many women

1558
01:17:36,880 --> 01:17:39,960
Speaker 1: and all the women want to select few athletes, so.

1559
01:17:40,040 --> 01:17:43,160
Speaker 3: Gus select few athletes. Want the women, and they.

1560
01:17:43,160 --> 01:17:45,960
Speaker 5: Want the women they picked. They pick who.

1561
01:17:46,439 --> 01:17:50,599
Speaker 2: Man, it don't matter, and it's it's a certain type

1562
01:17:50,600 --> 01:17:53,360
Speaker 2: of woman that athlete really has to have.

1563
01:17:54,120 --> 01:17:57,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, and if love light.

1564
01:17:57,240 --> 01:18:00,120
Speaker 2: Man, they got that hair, whether if the hair the

1565
01:18:00,200 --> 01:18:03,320
Speaker 2: barry crop, whether it's long and wavy, they bought the

1566
01:18:03,479 --> 01:18:04,320
Speaker 2: they mixed.

1567
01:18:04,560 --> 01:18:06,880
Speaker 3: You know, I don't know what it is. My grandma

1568
01:18:06,960 --> 01:18:09,200
Speaker 3: used to say, my grandma without a little boy, she said, boy,

1569
01:18:09,240 --> 01:18:10,000
Speaker 3: you color struck.

1570
01:18:10,439 --> 01:18:15,240
Speaker 2: What she meant by that, but the red ball hot. Yeah,

1571
01:18:18,640 --> 01:18:21,840
Speaker 2: women be doing that too, telling like they sleep faking.

1572
01:18:21,960 --> 01:18:24,719
Speaker 2: You should to keep her from keeping from doing Oh

1573
01:18:24,800 --> 01:18:27,320
Speaker 2: your true story. I broke up with I broke up

1574
01:18:27,360 --> 01:18:28,439
Speaker 2: with my girlfriend and my.

1575
01:18:30,600 --> 01:18:32,000
Speaker 5: You broke up her. She broke up with you.

1576
01:18:32,320 --> 01:18:33,800
Speaker 3: I broke I broke up my girlfriend. This was this

1577
01:18:33,840 --> 01:18:35,760
Speaker 3: one years ago. That's probably twenty to twenty five years.

1578
01:18:35,840 --> 01:18:37,599
Speaker 5: Every time you tell a story, it's years ago.

1579
01:18:37,720 --> 01:18:41,240
Speaker 3: I'm thinking this. This don't know nothing.

1580
01:18:42,280 --> 01:18:46,840
Speaker 2: And uh, my sister, My sister told my grandma to say, Granny,

1581
01:18:46,880 --> 01:18:49,519
Speaker 2: you know, yelling such and such, not going together. They

1582
01:18:49,720 --> 01:18:52,800
Speaker 2: they're not together no more. My grandma, I ain't tell

1583
01:18:52,800 --> 01:18:54,040
Speaker 2: you her name, but you know what it is. You

1584
01:18:54,080 --> 01:18:57,280
Speaker 2: know what my grandma said? What she say she wasn't

1585
01:18:57,320 --> 01:19:01,080
Speaker 2: doing the nightly duties. Oh wait a minute, that was

1586
01:19:01,200 --> 01:19:02,840
Speaker 2: my granted, and say that's what my grant is.

1587
01:19:02,920 --> 01:19:04,920
Speaker 1: Sake, Wait, let me sit up because I went wait,

1588
01:19:05,000 --> 01:19:06,360
Speaker 1: let me let me give me no, let me give

1589
01:19:06,400 --> 01:19:09,600
Speaker 1: my note pad out with a nightly duty so I

1590
01:19:09,640 --> 01:19:11,439
Speaker 1: can make sure you know what.

1591
01:19:12,160 --> 01:19:14,439
Speaker 3: You know what night the duty or everybody that watching

1592
01:19:14,479 --> 01:19:15,639
Speaker 3: this know what nightly duties.

1593
01:19:16,160 --> 01:19:18,720
Speaker 1: I need you Listen, I'm trying to get where you are.

1594
01:19:18,840 --> 01:19:20,840
Speaker 1: You have a little bit more life experience in me,

1595
01:19:20,920 --> 01:19:22,440
Speaker 1: so give me. Let me Joe.

1596
01:19:23,800 --> 01:19:26,720
Speaker 2: She was doing like the female European common from She

1597
01:19:27,000 --> 01:19:30,679
Speaker 2: was fake, oh oh the time, pretending like he would sleep.

1598
01:19:31,160 --> 01:19:36,840
Speaker 5: Oh but y'all living. Yeah, wait, wait a minute, let's

1599
01:19:36,880 --> 01:19:37,599
Speaker 5: dive a little deeper.

1600
01:19:37,640 --> 01:19:37,880
Speaker 3: Listen.

1601
01:19:37,920 --> 01:19:40,519
Speaker 5: Is a lot to unpack now, y'all live together. And

1602
01:19:40,680 --> 01:19:41,680
Speaker 5: she wasn't doing her I.

1603
01:19:41,640 --> 01:19:44,599
Speaker 3: Got to roll back light light. I don't ever check,

1604
01:19:44,640 --> 01:19:46,000
Speaker 3: no look, and so you want.

1605
01:19:45,960 --> 01:19:49,880
Speaker 5: That wait, understand that the last time I checked, I

1606
01:19:50,000 --> 01:19:51,960
Speaker 5: saw it. I saw it on on.

1607
01:19:53,479 --> 01:19:53,719
Speaker 3: Murder.

1608
01:19:53,800 --> 01:19:56,160
Speaker 1: She wrote A woman that was getting sleep every time

1609
01:19:56,240 --> 01:19:58,680
Speaker 1: he came home and just to come to find out

1610
01:19:58,720 --> 01:20:00,840
Speaker 1: towards the end of the story that happened to be

1611
01:20:00,920 --> 01:20:06,280
Speaker 1: another man. M yeah, and that happened. That happens a

1612
01:20:06,360 --> 01:20:10,040
Speaker 1: lot in life in general. The person you with start

1613
01:20:10,120 --> 01:20:12,439
Speaker 1: acting funny, and when you're diving a little bit deeper,

1614
01:20:12,520 --> 01:20:15,920
Speaker 1: you always tend to find out the routine changes from

1615
01:20:15,960 --> 01:20:17,680
Speaker 1: who they used to be when you're first met and

1616
01:20:17,760 --> 01:20:20,640
Speaker 1: you start listen that because it happened to me.

1617
01:20:21,160 --> 01:20:23,760
Speaker 5: That's how I know it happened to me, And you

1618
01:20:23,880 --> 01:20:26,960
Speaker 5: started acting funny. And what did I do? I put

1619
01:20:27,000 --> 01:20:30,559
Speaker 5: on my black dickies, I put on a black skull cap.

1620
01:20:30,960 --> 01:20:33,400
Speaker 5: Or you sleep? So what I did? I jumped in

1621
01:20:33,520 --> 01:20:35,840
Speaker 5: the car. Are you sleep? Okay?

1622
01:20:35,920 --> 01:20:36,080
Speaker 6: Bet?

1623
01:20:36,160 --> 01:20:37,880
Speaker 5: Wait a minute? How you sleep at eight thirty?

1624
01:20:38,760 --> 01:20:39,000
Speaker 3: Okay?

1625
01:20:39,080 --> 01:20:41,240
Speaker 5: Bet? Well you go ahead and get your nice license.

1626
01:20:41,479 --> 01:20:44,799
Speaker 3: So I get in the car. You know I gotta.

1627
01:20:46,600 --> 01:20:53,360
Speaker 1: Now, Yeah, I had to because listen, I could be

1628
01:20:53,400 --> 01:20:55,400
Speaker 1: honest with you, because we family, I could be honest

1629
01:20:55,400 --> 01:20:57,960
Speaker 1: with you, like I listen, I get in the car.

1630
01:20:58,640 --> 01:21:00,680
Speaker 5: I go to the house you know, staying on she's

1631
01:21:00,680 --> 01:21:02,920
Speaker 5: staying over there all at the time. She in Carroll City.

1632
01:21:02,960 --> 01:21:04,599
Speaker 5: You know that one nothing by the thirty minute drive

1633
01:21:04,640 --> 01:21:06,040
Speaker 5: real quickly. I jumped on the highway.

1634
01:21:06,040 --> 01:21:09,599
Speaker 3: I jumped on minutes. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.

1635
01:21:10,080 --> 01:21:12,879
Speaker 5: I pull up to the house. The can in the driveway.

1636
01:21:13,439 --> 01:21:17,040
Speaker 5: Wait a minute, Wait a minute, how the conn in

1637
01:21:17,120 --> 01:21:17,559
Speaker 5: the driveway.

1638
01:21:17,560 --> 01:21:19,240
Speaker 1: But you just told me you sleep, That's what I'm

1639
01:21:19,280 --> 01:21:21,560
Speaker 1: saying in my head, I'm saying, Oh no, oh, she

1640
01:21:21,720 --> 01:21:23,160
Speaker 1: want to play back.

1641
01:21:24,120 --> 01:21:24,559
Speaker 3: I waited.

1642
01:21:24,600 --> 01:21:28,519
Speaker 1: I waited bout five minutes. I called the phone back, oh,

1643
01:21:29,280 --> 01:21:32,800
Speaker 1: slapping the phone in ring. I kept calling over and

1644
01:21:32,880 --> 01:21:34,960
Speaker 1: over mine. It ain't been number thirty minutes. So how

1645
01:21:35,040 --> 01:21:35,920
Speaker 1: you sleep already?

1646
01:21:36,760 --> 01:21:38,679
Speaker 5: I ain't chilling. So I sat on the front porch.

1647
01:21:39,000 --> 01:21:41,240
Speaker 5: I took a picture, right, I took a picture at

1648
01:21:41,240 --> 01:21:46,800
Speaker 5: the front door like this, Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, Hey,

1649
01:21:47,240 --> 01:21:47,880
Speaker 5: I took a picture.

1650
01:21:48,000 --> 01:21:50,400
Speaker 3: Did you you?

1651
01:21:50,920 --> 01:21:53,240
Speaker 5: I sent it to her. Oh but you sleep?

1652
01:21:53,360 --> 01:21:53,519
Speaker 6: Huh?

1653
01:21:53,840 --> 01:21:57,519
Speaker 1: Okay, back eighty eight, listen and block and blocked the

1654
01:21:57,600 --> 01:21:59,160
Speaker 1: number and went on about and went on about my

1655
01:21:59,240 --> 01:22:03,200
Speaker 1: business in my life now acting guess who are trying

1656
01:22:03,240 --> 01:22:05,599
Speaker 1: to spin the block? You know, she started she started seeing,

1657
01:22:05,680 --> 01:22:07,640
Speaker 1: you know, I start. I had a little motion, A

1658
01:22:07,680 --> 01:22:10,320
Speaker 1: little motion was back in effect. You know, my visibility

1659
01:22:10,400 --> 01:22:13,519
Speaker 1: started being back popping. It was too late then, because

1660
01:22:13,760 --> 01:22:15,960
Speaker 1: real had done, came and snatched me up real quick.

1661
01:22:17,080 --> 01:22:19,679
Speaker 3: Oh man, I'm good.

1662
01:22:19,760 --> 01:22:20,120
Speaker 5: I'm good.

1663
01:22:20,840 --> 01:22:27,120
Speaker 2: I sometimes been hapless sometimes in a relationship, Yes, sir,

1664
01:22:27,320 --> 01:22:29,360
Speaker 2: one party wants to move on, but they don't know

1665
01:22:29,479 --> 01:22:29,720
Speaker 2: how to.

1666
01:22:29,720 --> 01:22:31,439
Speaker 3: Tell the other they want to move on.

1667
01:22:32,479 --> 01:22:33,120
Speaker 5: That's a good one.

1668
01:22:33,360 --> 01:22:35,240
Speaker 1: That's that's because a lot of people watching right now,

1669
01:22:35,280 --> 01:22:37,400
Speaker 1: A lot of people watching right now. I'm gonna tell

1670
01:22:37,400 --> 01:22:39,760
Speaker 1: you no lie, because a lot of people are watching

1671
01:22:39,840 --> 01:22:42,080
Speaker 1: right now with someone and they don't know how to.

1672
01:22:42,040 --> 01:22:42,559
Speaker 5: Break it off.

1673
01:22:43,040 --> 01:22:45,240
Speaker 1: Not only do they not only do they not want

1674
01:22:45,240 --> 01:22:47,519
Speaker 1: to break it off. In this economy, you have someone

1675
01:22:47,560 --> 01:22:49,519
Speaker 1: that's helping you and taking care of you, you really

1676
01:22:49,560 --> 01:22:52,599
Speaker 1: don't want to lose that sense of security and help.

1677
01:22:53,439 --> 01:22:56,439
Speaker 1: Some men as well, they were women. Yeah, they gotta stay.

1678
01:22:56,439 --> 01:22:58,040
Speaker 1: They gotta stay with the women because you need a

1679
01:22:58,080 --> 01:22:58,800
Speaker 1: roof over your head.

1680
01:22:59,160 --> 01:23:00,200
Speaker 3: But I like that.

1681
01:23:00,280 --> 01:23:02,840
Speaker 2: I can I can never let I can't never. I

1682
01:23:02,880 --> 01:23:04,360
Speaker 2: can never let a woman take care of me. I

1683
01:23:04,400 --> 01:23:05,240
Speaker 2: can never let a woman go.

1684
01:23:05,320 --> 01:23:07,120
Speaker 5: But I'm not saying I'm not saying take care of it.

1685
01:23:07,200 --> 01:23:09,519
Speaker 5: I'm just some men are. Some men are.

1686
01:23:09,640 --> 01:23:12,760
Speaker 1: Some men aren't fortunate, and they're in situations where they

1687
01:23:12,880 --> 01:23:14,439
Speaker 1: need that roof over their head and they're dealing with

1688
01:23:14,520 --> 01:23:15,920
Speaker 1: someone that's able to provide that.

1689
01:23:17,320 --> 01:23:20,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, and that that's that's that's tough. That's tough when

1690
01:23:20,120 --> 01:23:22,599
Speaker 2: you're somewhere you don't want to be. Because I told

1691
01:23:22,600 --> 01:23:24,160
Speaker 2: you the lowelss My grand used to say, boy, the

1692
01:23:24,240 --> 01:23:26,040
Speaker 2: lowless place in the world is to be somewhere you're

1693
01:23:26,040 --> 01:23:29,439
Speaker 2: not wanted, right right, And and if you don't know

1694
01:23:29,600 --> 01:23:32,120
Speaker 2: you're not wanting, it's another thing to know you're not wanted.

1695
01:23:32,800 --> 01:23:34,519
Speaker 2: In college, I remember in college, I broke over with

1696
01:23:34,560 --> 01:23:35,719
Speaker 2: my girlfriend. I was moping.

1697
01:23:35,880 --> 01:23:36,400
Speaker 3: I used to work.

1698
01:23:36,439 --> 01:23:38,240
Speaker 2: We used to have work study, and I worked for

1699
01:23:38,320 --> 01:23:40,600
Speaker 2: Coach Davis rest and sould Coach David and if I

1700
01:23:40,680 --> 01:23:42,320
Speaker 2: used to go to his office every day, and when

1701
01:23:42,360 --> 01:23:44,680
Speaker 2: I wasn't in class, I would do my homework. Uh,

1702
01:23:44,800 --> 01:23:46,920
Speaker 2: if we didn't look the professor would cancel class or

1703
01:23:46,960 --> 01:23:49,360
Speaker 2: something happened. I would go to Coach Davis's office get

1704
01:23:49,439 --> 01:23:51,640
Speaker 2: my hours in, but I would do my homework. A

1705
01:23:51,680 --> 01:23:53,800
Speaker 2: couple of days go by, he see me moping. He's like, so,

1706
01:23:54,040 --> 01:23:58,160
Speaker 2: He's like, so, what's going on, Coach I broke over

1707
01:23:58,200 --> 01:24:00,839
Speaker 2: with my girlfriend? I see me my So my girlfriend

1708
01:24:00,880 --> 01:24:02,960
Speaker 2: and I broke up. He said, well, damn son. He

1709
01:24:03,000 --> 01:24:05,760
Speaker 2: said everything okay, I said, coach, we were both sick.

1710
01:24:06,240 --> 01:24:07,080
Speaker 2: And he looked at me.

1711
01:24:07,320 --> 01:24:09,800
Speaker 3: He said, y'all were both I said, yeah, Coach, I

1712
01:24:09,960 --> 01:24:11,240
Speaker 3: was sick of her and she was sick of me.

1713
01:24:14,640 --> 01:24:16,200
Speaker 1: Hey, that's a good one. Let me let me let

1714
01:24:16,240 --> 01:24:17,640
Speaker 1: me tell you something. Let me let me tell you

1715
01:24:17,680 --> 01:24:21,600
Speaker 1: something I always think about. Obviously, it's it's okay to her,

1716
01:24:21,760 --> 01:24:24,479
Speaker 1: it's okay to morn it's good. Yeah, it's okay to

1717
01:24:24,560 --> 01:24:26,840
Speaker 1: be sad when things don't work out. But I tell

1718
01:24:26,960 --> 01:24:29,519
Speaker 1: min this all the time, when when you're moping and

1719
01:24:29,560 --> 01:24:31,960
Speaker 1: you're chasing your fighting back to get a woman back

1720
01:24:32,040 --> 01:24:33,800
Speaker 1: that that you might have been with for a long

1721
01:24:33,880 --> 01:24:39,880
Speaker 1: time the last time, think about this. When someone leaves you,

1722
01:24:39,960 --> 01:24:42,840
Speaker 1: a woman doesn't want to be with you anymore. I

1723
01:24:43,080 --> 01:24:45,439
Speaker 1: always see it as one less expense. And I mean

1724
01:24:45,479 --> 01:24:49,320
Speaker 1: that in the most respectful way possible. I just see

1725
01:24:49,320 --> 01:24:51,400
Speaker 1: it as one less expense that I have to worry

1726
01:24:51,400 --> 01:24:55,360
Speaker 1: about that becomes someone else's responsibility. So I've never seen

1727
01:24:55,600 --> 01:24:59,639
Speaker 1: who want to chase and added an extra bill? Why

1728
01:24:59,720 --> 01:25:00,640
Speaker 1: why do you want to do that?

1729
01:25:00,760 --> 01:25:02,760
Speaker 5: I see it in that way, and trying to put

1730
01:25:02,800 --> 01:25:04,640
Speaker 5: things into perspective in hindsight.

1731
01:25:05,240 --> 01:25:07,360
Speaker 1: If you if you have one hundred dollars as a dude, right,

1732
01:25:08,280 --> 01:25:10,200
Speaker 1: if you have one hundred dollars as a dude and

1733
01:25:11,640 --> 01:25:14,160
Speaker 1: you lose that hundred dollars trying to chase someone because

1734
01:25:14,200 --> 01:25:20,160
Speaker 1: you have to pay, in which I call transition, transition, transactional, transactional.

1735
01:25:20,760 --> 01:25:21,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, it doesn't.

1736
01:25:21,479 --> 01:25:24,360
Speaker 1: It doesn't bring any value to you because it's taking

1737
01:25:24,479 --> 01:25:26,920
Speaker 1: what you have bring and adding nothing to it.

1738
01:25:27,080 --> 01:25:28,760
Speaker 5: So why did that you? Why are you hurting?

1739
01:25:29,560 --> 01:25:30,280
Speaker 3: Why are you sad?

1740
01:25:30,800 --> 01:25:32,720
Speaker 5: And that's just a small analogy.

1741
01:25:32,280 --> 01:25:34,639
Speaker 1: And I mean that in the most respectful way possible.

1742
01:25:35,560 --> 01:25:37,400
Speaker 1: It happens on a small scale, and it happens on

1743
01:25:37,520 --> 01:25:39,600
Speaker 1: the grand of scale. Depends what you don't look at it,

1744
01:25:40,080 --> 01:25:42,439
Speaker 1: but you know what it is. It's kind of like

1745
01:25:42,600 --> 01:25:43,960
Speaker 1: from me, and I don't want and I don't want

1746
01:25:43,960 --> 01:25:45,360
Speaker 1: people to take this the wrong way. It says I'm

1747
01:25:45,360 --> 01:25:47,720
Speaker 1: trying to compare a woman to sport, but I'm What

1748
01:25:47,800 --> 01:25:51,000
Speaker 1: I'm saying is that when you invest something, when you

1749
01:25:51,160 --> 01:25:56,160
Speaker 1: invest for damn the when I invest my time, my energy, my.

1750
01:25:56,320 --> 01:26:00,000
Speaker 2: Heart and soul like I did the sport, it hurts

1751
01:26:00,080 --> 01:26:02,960
Speaker 2: when you lose. So I'm looking at it when I

1752
01:26:03,120 --> 01:26:06,400
Speaker 2: lose her. I'm hurt you damn right, I'm hurt. Yes,

1753
01:26:06,600 --> 01:26:12,240
Speaker 2: I cry, and even though I might not sure awkwardly, internally,

1754
01:26:12,360 --> 01:26:16,080
Speaker 2: I'm in a not I had a young lady telling

1755
01:26:16,120 --> 01:26:20,080
Speaker 2: me one time, She's like, you're not hurting. I said,

1756
01:26:20,120 --> 01:26:22,120
Speaker 2: what do you mean I'm not hurting? She say, because

1757
01:26:22,160 --> 01:26:24,240
Speaker 2: when I see you, you're not You're not in a ball.

1758
01:26:25,280 --> 01:26:27,960
Speaker 2: I said, is that what you want? I said, and

1759
01:26:28,080 --> 01:26:30,640
Speaker 2: you want me to hurt that bad? I said, you

1760
01:26:30,760 --> 01:26:32,599
Speaker 2: want me to not be able to function. You don't

1761
01:26:32,640 --> 01:26:34,800
Speaker 2: want me to be able to go to work. I

1762
01:26:34,880 --> 01:26:37,639
Speaker 2: was like, I get it, I get it. Yes, I'm

1763
01:26:37,760 --> 01:26:42,800
Speaker 2: sure I've hurt you. But just because I'm not curled

1764
01:26:42,880 --> 01:26:45,479
Speaker 2: up in a ball, because I'm not in a psych ward,

1765
01:26:45,840 --> 01:26:48,000
Speaker 2: trust me when I say this, and I say this

1766
01:26:48,120 --> 01:26:52,320
Speaker 2: in all sincerity, I'm hurting. But I've been able to

1767
01:26:52,439 --> 01:26:55,479
Speaker 2: compartmentalize because when you become a part, when you become

1768
01:26:55,520 --> 01:26:59,160
Speaker 2: a professional athlete, the one thing you must be able

1769
01:26:59,200 --> 01:27:01,960
Speaker 2: to do above all forget because you don't make it

1770
01:27:02,000 --> 01:27:03,839
Speaker 2: to the level that you make it as a professional athlete.

1771
01:27:04,000 --> 01:27:07,040
Speaker 2: If you can't play, You've got to be able to compartmentalize.

1772
01:27:07,240 --> 01:27:09,840
Speaker 2: If you cannot come apartmentalize. You can't play it on

1773
01:27:10,040 --> 01:27:12,439
Speaker 2: the level of the professional sport. You've got to be able,

1774
01:27:12,479 --> 01:27:15,160
Speaker 2: he says. Okay, I've got this going on being at home.

1775
01:27:15,360 --> 01:27:15,920
Speaker 3: My wife is.

1776
01:27:15,920 --> 01:27:18,960
Speaker 2: Gonna go my nerves or my girlfriend. My kids are sick,

1777
01:27:19,240 --> 01:27:21,760
Speaker 2: my mom is not my mom or my daddy. There's

1778
01:27:21,800 --> 01:27:23,840
Speaker 2: something going on. I've got to be able to say

1779
01:27:23,880 --> 01:27:26,720
Speaker 2: that aside for them two and a half hours and

1780
01:27:26,800 --> 01:27:28,400
Speaker 2: be able to get done when I need to get done,

1781
01:27:28,600 --> 01:27:31,000
Speaker 2: because you know what, them eighty five thousand fans and

1782
01:27:31,120 --> 01:27:33,880
Speaker 2: on my forty five teammates, Hey, they depending on me.

1783
01:27:33,920 --> 01:27:35,479
Speaker 2: They don't want to hear nothing. All they see is

1784
01:27:35,560 --> 01:27:37,639
Speaker 2: eighty four in the front and sharp on the back,

1785
01:27:37,880 --> 01:27:39,000
Speaker 2: and I need to get it done.