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Speaker 1: Hello, my Loves, Welcome back to the Give Them La

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Speaker 1: La Podcast. I feel like I didn't sleep last night

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Speaker 1: because we're doing an episode like we used to do,

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Speaker 1: but I'm not used to it. I'm like, wait, it's

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Speaker 1: just me and tea tomorrow. I'm kind of tripping.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you freak out? What it's just me and you

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Speaker 2: and I.

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Speaker 1: That's completely untrue. I get into a rhythm, and I

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Speaker 1: was in a rhythm where it was just the two

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Speaker 1: of us, and then any time we would say, like,

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Speaker 1: let's have a guest, I would tweak out over the

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Speaker 1: fact we were having a guest. And now we've had

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Speaker 1: so many back to backs and I feel comfortable that

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Speaker 1: it's about them.

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Speaker 2: Now you're worried about you.

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Speaker 1: I'm worried about a lot. It's a torture chamber in

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Speaker 1: my mind recently, and I don't know what it is.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, what is going on in the universe that

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Speaker 1: I continue to wake up? Even being on my lem

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Speaker 1: me sleep gummies, I still wake up. They used to

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Speaker 1: like put me to bed, And I'm sure people will

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Speaker 1: write in and like it's because you're used to them,

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Speaker 1: or it's because they don't work.

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Speaker 3: Okay, But now beyond that, I would Yeah, well I'll

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Speaker 3: piggyback on that. Okay, is something going on because I

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Speaker 3: am waking up crazy hours.

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Speaker 1: There there could be something in the universe that I'm not. Like.

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Speaker 1: I'm into astrology and like the science and stuff, but

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Speaker 1: I don't pay attention to exactly. I don't pay attention

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Speaker 1: to things like that. Although it does help tremendously. When

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Speaker 1: someone's like, it's because mercury is in retro grade, I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 1: that's exactly why I feel so much.

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Speaker 3: I just needed something to blame it on so I

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Speaker 3: can go, Okay, I'm not I'm not out of sorts. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: We talked about this in the car. Yeah, taking accountability,

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Speaker 1: but admitting sometimes where you're like, I just want to

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Speaker 1: blame someone.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, when some when someone in little quotes pisses you off,

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Speaker 3: it's like, they're not pissing me off the way I'm

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Speaker 3: handling this is what's irritating me, right, And what is

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Speaker 3: irritating me is knowing what I want to say to

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Speaker 3: them and not saying it. That's the other thing that

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Speaker 3: gives me anxiety because I'm like, I want to just

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Speaker 3: say this, but I'm too nervous to say it like.

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Speaker 1: I don't want the smoke, so I'm just gonna put

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Speaker 1: it under the rug until the rug becomes too high

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Speaker 1: and I explode and then ruin everything. That's kind of

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Speaker 1: how I do think.

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Speaker 3: That's kind of how our family does things.

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Speaker 1: I really yeah, but we're really good at therapists would

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Speaker 1: have a heyday unpacking that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we sweep things under the rug, but then again

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Speaker 3: we don't have I sweep little things, and the little

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Speaker 3: things still nah. By the end of the day, they evaporated,

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Speaker 3: the dust, hit water, evaporated.

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Speaker 1: What a therapist would have such a hat, it'd be like, no, no, unhealthy.

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Speaker 1: I know what you're referring to. Though sometimes it's easier

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Speaker 1: for mom to just accept her and you don't want

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Speaker 1: the fucking smoke.

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Speaker 3: Bro.

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Speaker 2: I learned it from my father, like.

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Speaker 1: Why is man?

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Speaker 3: Oh, just to let you know, yes, every day i'd

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Speaker 3: get home from work, he'd just be sitting on the

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Speaker 3: patio with his glass of wine. I'd grab one and

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Speaker 3: back then I'd grab one and have one, and he

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Speaker 3: would just bitch. And half the time he'd go, yeah,

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Speaker 3: your mother's coming home. Don't know what fucking plans you

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Speaker 3: made for me? Then I don't know about no. Oh,

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Speaker 3: immediately she would drive down the driveway, okay, get out

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Speaker 3: of the car, not even pull in the garage because

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Speaker 3: she can't ever, no matter where she lives, no garage

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Speaker 3: can be pulled into a standing can you move my

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Speaker 3: hang you in hair? And she would just come walking

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Speaker 3: in with her eight purses of whatever the hell she's

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Speaker 3: coming home with. We're going to dinner with this someone's house.

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Speaker 3: He'd just look at me with his wine just lifted

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Speaker 3: a bit like a Cheers drink. Hit and ruff told you,

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Speaker 3: and that was his night, you know, just depression.

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Speaker 1: That's marriage.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's marriage.

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Speaker 1: It's finest.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, No, Dad taught me that I can put

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Speaker 3: up with mother.

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Speaker 1: Well, she's a real job.

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Speaker 2: Is the greatest. That's why I tell people, And.

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Speaker 3: I probably said on here my mother is my mother,

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Speaker 3: but my mother is also my best friend. And we've

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Speaker 3: made very good like points on when I need my mother,

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Speaker 3: when my mother needs her son, and when we can

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Speaker 3: just be homies totally. Like when Mom calls me a

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Speaker 3: little fucker, there's nothing better? Is there?

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Speaker 2: Nothing better? I just got like thinking about it, real

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Speaker 2: little fucker.

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Speaker 1: I'm like Lisa, I don't think anyone would picture moms

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Speaker 1: saying the F.

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Speaker 3: Word, would word friend mode and mode. Yeah, yeah, it's

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Speaker 3: so fun, Lisa.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes a little cea next Tuesday comes out the actual word,

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Speaker 1: and I'll say it to her and she goes, well,

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Speaker 1: I learned from the best. I think when we do

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Speaker 1: it in front of people who like know us but

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Speaker 1: like not know us, like that, they're like shocked. Yeah

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Speaker 1: that I would say that to my mom.

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Speaker 2: I think you were at dance.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, did I drop it at dance?

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Speaker 3: No? No, no, no, you were at dance with Ocean

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Speaker 3: and I was with mom. I think we're at Michael's okay,

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Speaker 3: creating bracelets, you know, And I guess I was just

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Speaker 3: swearing a lot on accident, don't even remember. And Mom

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Speaker 3: like his leg, just smiling. You're swearing a lot today.

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Speaker 1: She doesn't like it when we cuss on the podcast.

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Speaker 1: She's like, she had a really serious conversation with me,

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Speaker 1: well as serious as one could happen, Lisa. She's like,

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Speaker 1: I really, it's just unbecoming. You guys have to stop.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, I think she's more upset about it because

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Speaker 3: people are like who raised.

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Speaker 1: Them to Oh, it's more of a selfish what will

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Speaker 1: the neighbors think of me?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: No, I always say parents can only do so much,

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Speaker 1: and then after that you're off to the races and

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Speaker 1: you what's done is done, and kids come how they

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Speaker 1: are Like. I constantly look at Ocean and I do

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Speaker 1: think that she well, and I've heard this from people.

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Speaker 1: She is very wise, very emotionally intelligent for her age,

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Speaker 1: and there's just something about her where I'm like, some

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Speaker 1: people may say she's like that because that's how you're

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Speaker 1: raising her. I think that God just made her this way,

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Speaker 1: where she's very much a calming force already at the

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Speaker 1: age of four. The other day, I was driving to

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Speaker 1: my eye appointment and the last person and we're not

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Speaker 1: going to get into it Easton, please, I don't want

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Speaker 1: the back and forth of who was in the car

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Speaker 1: last and who should have filled it up? Right, So

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Speaker 1: my mom bought this car because she wanted to zip

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Speaker 1: around in it. Right, She's done no zipping at all.

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Speaker 1: She makes other people drive it for her while she's

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Speaker 3: No, all she did was at an vehicle for me

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Speaker 3: to go wash.

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Speaker 1: Correct. Ethan went to wash it while we were gone.

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Speaker 1: And I'm driving to my eye appointment, and we're in

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Speaker 1: this car because my car doesn't fit into the doctor's

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Speaker 1: parking garage whatever I call Easton because I have to

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Speaker 1: turn around halfway up Beverly Glen to go back down

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Speaker 1: to get gas. And I'm furious. I'm like, this appointment

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Speaker 1: is important, and I wish that you would have filled

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Speaker 1: the car up. It becomes a pointing fingers of whose

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Speaker 1: fault it was, What was the point of this? Oh, Ocean.

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Speaker 1: Ocean's in the back seat, and I'm obviously annoyed, and

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Speaker 1: I start to cry. Mom tells me, don't cry, like,

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Speaker 1: it's okay, We'll be on time. Ocean says, it's okay

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Speaker 1: for you to cry. Mom, you can cry if you

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Speaker 1: need to cry, and she goes, but you need to

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Speaker 1: remember to breathe. You need to smell the roses and

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Speaker 1: blow out the candles. My four year olds telling me this,

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Speaker 1: which then causes me to stop even because I'm like,

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Speaker 1: who are you?

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Speaker 3: She says a lot of things where I'm just like, there,

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Speaker 3: I feel like I've never said that.

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Speaker 2: I don't think you've ever said that.

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Speaker 3: Now, where did you get this from?

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Speaker 1: I know? And she's very into praying right now. I

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Speaker 1: don't know where she saw this, Yeah, and like very

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Speaker 1: into like God. And again, we're a spiritual family. I'm

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Speaker 1: not preaching God in the household. But she grabs a

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Speaker 1: pillow and prays. And I'm like, where is this coming from?

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Speaker 1: And again, maybe we do things that we don't even realize.

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Speaker 1: You know, you your kids start doing things and you go,

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Speaker 1: where did they get that? And then all of this sudden,

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Speaker 1: you go, what the hell? And you go, oh, I

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Speaker 1: clocked it just now, And I didn't realize that I

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Speaker 3: Yeah, It's like being so close to somebody that you

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Speaker 3: never see them change.

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Speaker 2: You're so close to yourself that.

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Speaker 3: You don't even realize what you're doing totally. It's almost

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Speaker 3: second nature.

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Speaker 1: Right. So my point in all of this is I

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Speaker 1: like to think that if Ocean goes into the world

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Speaker 1: and is not an incredible human, not my fault, Not

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Speaker 1: that I can do. If she says a little too

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Speaker 1: often that one is probably my fault.

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Speaker 2: But if she's great, look no further.

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Speaker 1: I went to Palm Springs this weekend and had I

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Speaker 1: wanted to check on the house. Bro it was one

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Speaker 1: hundred and six there. I don't know what I was

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Speaker 1: thinking when I felt the pool and it was nighttime, right,

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Speaker 1: and I dip my foot in, and I'm like, I'm

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Speaker 1: just gonna heat it a little bit, dude. The next day,

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Speaker 1: I plan to have an entire pool day. The app

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Speaker 1: is lying to me. The app said it was only

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Speaker 1: eighty nine, and it could have been eighty nine and

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Speaker 1: one hundred and sixty, but probably just the combination just

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Speaker 1: feels hotter than it is.

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Speaker 3: Well, yeah, and you're getting out of like a hot

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Speaker 3: pool into like your warm water, into baking your Yeah,

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Speaker 3: that's it's important.

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Speaker 1: To know the size of the pool because the pool

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Speaker 1: here I heat to like ninety and it feels fantastic,

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Speaker 1: a little bit larger. By no means is it a

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Speaker 1: big pool. But I really fucked up. It was so hot,

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Speaker 1: and that was the day that we were just gonna

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Speaker 1: kick it by the pool and I couldn't even get in.

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Speaker 1: Mom was sitting in the water with the hose on

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Speaker 1: her not good.

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Speaker 3: And that's Lisa's that's her favorite place to be is

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Speaker 3: in a pool for fifteen hours of the day.

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Speaker 1: She was totally cool with it though, She's like, it's fine,

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Speaker 1: what are you gonna do it?

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Speaker 3: Fine, head, it's fine, I'm cool.

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Speaker 1: And I had caught up on all the Housewives. Right

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Speaker 1: now OC is airing and Miami. It is top tier television.

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you.

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Speaker 2: So I need this.

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Speaker 3: I don't.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but every time, like the family is seeing this,

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Speaker 1: Katla that then moves into the Today Show. He was

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Speaker 1: brought back on as of today, like he's back into

439
00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:46,480
Speaker 1: his position.

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00:23:46,640 --> 00:23:52,280
Speaker 2: Really mm hmm. So obviously it didn't affect it that much. Well.

441
00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:55,480
Speaker 1: I mean when someone says we're conducting an internal investigation,

442
00:23:55,600 --> 00:23:58,119
Speaker 1: I always wonder what that means, Like, do they go

443
00:23:58,400 --> 00:24:00,679
Speaker 1: and talk to people and they figure out the intent?

444
00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:02,880
Speaker 1: Do they go to the wife? Do they I don't

445
00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:04,040
Speaker 1: understand what that means.

446
00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:07,080
Speaker 2: She was like the CEO or whatever, and she was

447
00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:08,840
Speaker 2: like the HR.

448
00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:13,360
Speaker 1: I don't see how you keep one and not the other.

449
00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:15,640
Speaker 1: That's not a good look. Either you keep the guy

450
00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:17,840
Speaker 1: and let go of the woman. I don't love that

451
00:24:18,240 --> 00:24:19,960
Speaker 1: at all. Either both stay.

452
00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:22,280
Speaker 2: Or they're both like I think both will be let go.

453
00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:25,199
Speaker 1: But no, they they reinstated his position.

454
00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:28,399
Speaker 3: What I'm saying, I don't think she works for that company,

455
00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:30,960
Speaker 3: so it's like, there's no she's.

456
00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:33,240
Speaker 1: An employee of that's the same company.

457
00:24:33,760 --> 00:24:34,560
Speaker 3: I have no idea.

458
00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:38,640
Speaker 1: See then, Wow, someone's TikTok is only filled with love

459
00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:42,200
Speaker 1: island ship now that he's doing happy detours with Calvin.

460
00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:47,960
Speaker 2: Cobb, not even her FU You're welcome, Lisa.

461
00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:52,000
Speaker 1: It reminded me though, because I was thinking, like the

462
00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:55,280
Speaker 1: ex soon to be ex wife is going to be livid, right,

463
00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:59,000
Speaker 1: like she's going toes, You're gonna fucking pay me my

464
00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:01,320
Speaker 1: money and try to like make this as right as

465
00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:05,959
Speaker 1: you possibly can given the circumstances. And I started over

466
00:25:06,040 --> 00:25:09,960
Speaker 1: the weekend watching your Friends and Neighbors. Am I saying

467
00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:12,439
Speaker 1: it right? Your neighbors and friends? I think it's your

468
00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:17,080
Speaker 1: friends and neighbors right on the other it's John Ham,

469
00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:20,240
Speaker 1: Amanda Pete, Olivia Munn.

470
00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:22,640
Speaker 2: It is Apple TV, Apple TV.

471
00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:26,399
Speaker 1: It is so good it came out. I'm always a

472
00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:29,840
Speaker 1: little bit behind the hype. People get really excited about

473
00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:32,680
Speaker 1: something and I just I'm down.

474
00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:34,879
Speaker 3: It's like season two or three when people are like,

475
00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:37,280
Speaker 3: you guys have to start, and then it's like, okay,

476
00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:41,040
Speaker 3: now I'll binge the first two seasons and catch up.

477
00:25:41,119 --> 00:25:43,440
Speaker 3: But like, I'm not the type of person who will

478
00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:45,679
Speaker 3: see it and be like, oh a season one.

479
00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:46,520
Speaker 2: Let me give it a shot.

480
00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:50,200
Speaker 1: Yeah that's how I am, too, Like I just discovered

481
00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:53,440
Speaker 1: Righteous Gemstones and it was on I just finished the

482
00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:54,959
Speaker 1: finale episode last night.

483
00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:57,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm on season two.

484
00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:03,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, we need to watch more. But Landing, good Lord,

485
00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:11,000
Speaker 3: that man, that man can he binges TV shows? Yeah,

486
00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:13,280
Speaker 3: Like during the day, like all this like when he

487
00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:15,639
Speaker 3: lived at the house. I know he's still doing it

488
00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:18,320
Speaker 3: in New York though. Like I'd come in at like

489
00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:20,560
Speaker 3: noon and he'd be on the computer, you know, doing

490
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:24,320
Speaker 3: his work, but show, and then after work he'd be like.

491
00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:26,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, I got to Lake season five, We got to

492
00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:27,040
Speaker 2: start it.

493
00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:30,520
Speaker 1: It's like, nah, I'm very specific on the time of

494
00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:34,760
Speaker 1: day that I watch certain shows. Oh, very specific. If

495
00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:38,200
Speaker 1: I walk in the house and it's like noon and

496
00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:44,639
Speaker 1: someone's put on Seinfeld as background noise, no, really, absolutely not.

497
00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:48,960
Speaker 1: The only background noise that can be playing is either

498
00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:52,760
Speaker 1: a news channel, no sports either that's nighttime too, a

499
00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:56,560
Speaker 1: news channel, or obviously Housewives.

500
00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:57,000
Speaker 3: O G.

501
00:26:57,320 --> 00:27:01,399
Speaker 2: That's funny. I'm no, I'd never thought of it.

502
00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:04,840
Speaker 3: But like I love watching like ESPAN or sports in

503
00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:09,280
Speaker 3: the morning because it recaps the night and all of that.

504
00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:11,480
Speaker 3: But when it comes like eleven o'clock, I have to

505
00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:13,760
Speaker 3: turn it off and I can't go back to ESPN

506
00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:16,040
Speaker 3: or anything like that until like four point thirty when

507
00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:18,320
Speaker 3: a game's about to come on, right, because I'm like,

508
00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:21,240
Speaker 3: if I'm watching it during the day, it throws me off.

509
00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:25,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I get that. So the reason because I'm almost

510
00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:29,560
Speaker 1: done with the John Hamm yeah, show your Friends and Neighbors.

511
00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:34,800
Speaker 1: And there I was watching episode two in Palm Springs

512
00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:37,480
Speaker 1: and it was kind of at the same time as

513
00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:40,000
Speaker 1: this guy. The cold play thing happened with Andy Byron,

514
00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:44,560
Speaker 1: and there was a line in this show where Olivia

515
00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:47,600
Speaker 1: Munn is going through a divorce. I think you know

516
00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:49,800
Speaker 1: what I'm gonna say, She's going through a divorce with

517
00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:55,399
Speaker 1: this He's not appealing to the eye. This guy, to

518
00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:58,879
Speaker 1: your eye, his name's Paul. To my eye, beauty's in

519
00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:02,040
Speaker 1: the eye of the beholder always. And I can say that.

520
00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:05,600
Speaker 1: You know, we all know my little track record.

521
00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:08,760
Speaker 2: I think you just like shitty sold to dudes.

522
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:13,960
Speaker 1: Mm hmmmmm, couldn't you? Okay, ah, you're saying it because

523
00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:16,440
Speaker 1: most of them haven't been beautiful on the inside.

524
00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:19,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, And how funny though, back to your

525
00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:23,840
Speaker 3: first one, Yeah, who comes out head kids?

526
00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:26,680
Speaker 2: He was actually a good one.

527
00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:29,320
Speaker 1: It was a great one. And who comes out six'

528
00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:32,320
Speaker 1: four as a twin and you're both six four and

529
00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:33,040
Speaker 1: both way?

530
00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:37,639
Speaker 3: Hot they were good looking, DUDES i, know and not

531
00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:39,640
Speaker 3: only that their mom and dad were so.

532
00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:40,440
Speaker 2: DOPE i.

533
00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:44,520
Speaker 1: Know it was all just very. Fun, anyway back to the, Show,

534
00:28:46,040 --> 00:28:48,360
Speaker 1: john your neighbors and friends or your friends and. Neighbors

535
00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:53,640
Speaker 1: so they're having a guys night And, paul who Plays

536
00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:58,200
Speaker 1: Olivia's Olivia muns soon to be ex Husband paul has

537
00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:00,760
Speaker 1: cheated on her with this young twenty something year old

538
00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:05,560
Speaker 1: And John ham's sitting there Watching paul talk to the

539
00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:08,640
Speaker 1: boys about How olivia's trying to take him to the cleaners.

540
00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:12,800
Speaker 1: Whatever John ham's a little drunkie and he, says give

541
00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:17,720
Speaker 1: it a, Rest, paul and he's, like she's trying to drain.

542
00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:22,800
Speaker 1: Me trying to drain. Me coop is she's the mother

543
00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:26,800
Speaker 1: of your. Kids but before he says this very profound

544
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:31,520
Speaker 1: and very true, statement he, says she this isn't, verbatim

545
00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:35,720
Speaker 1: but she basically fucked your fat ass and tiny dick for.

546
00:29:35,880 --> 00:29:39,880
Speaker 1: Years she deserves a. Piece AND i sat there and was,

547
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:45,080
Speaker 1: like that line was written by a. Woman, there you've

548
00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:47,040
Speaker 1: worked in a writer's, room, right because WHEN i told you,

549
00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:49,160
Speaker 1: THAT i think it like a woman wrote. This you were,

550
00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:52,040
Speaker 1: like but it's a writer's room with multiple, People like

551
00:29:52,120 --> 00:29:52,480
Speaker 1: how does it?

552
00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:56,680
Speaker 3: Work, okay so one percent a woman wrote that, line

553
00:29:57,000 --> 00:30:00,480
Speaker 3: AND i this is WHAT i give. It it is,

554
00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:04,360
Speaker 3: Perfect but not only, That so what happens is like,

555
00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:09,959
Speaker 3: postcard a blank, wall huge blank, wall and like giant

556
00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:13,560
Speaker 3: like a whiteboard pretty, much, okay but we use like

557
00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:16,200
Speaker 3: tape and like because you want to be able to

558
00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:18,520
Speaker 3: rip off and misplace and do a whole bunch of.

559
00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:18,840
Speaker 2: Stuff.

560
00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:23,080
Speaker 3: Okay so when we walked in it literally is you

561
00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:26,160
Speaker 3: Pretty you have like a. Script obviously it gets picked

562
00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:27,680
Speaker 3: up to be in a writer's, room so you have

563
00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:31,000
Speaker 3: a layout of your room, print you have your first episode,

564
00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:37,080
Speaker 3: it so you put ON p two and then how

565
00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:41,360
Speaker 3: it'll start like literally bullet points of where you're going with.

566
00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:45,680
Speaker 3: It we're at the beach with, this this and, this,

567
00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:49,200
Speaker 3: okay so these people are gonna be, here what is this?

568
00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:53,160
Speaker 3: Scene and you structure it as like scenes in bullet

569
00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:58,280
Speaker 3: points with just where it is and who's. Involved from,

570
00:30:58,360 --> 00:31:02,080
Speaker 3: there the writers will kind of like be in contact

571
00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:06,920
Speaker 3: of like, Okay i'm taking the first, three you'll take these, three,

572
00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:10,080
Speaker 3: Okay and so all the riders get like a.

573
00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:10,840
Speaker 2: Bullet point of.

574
00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:14,360
Speaker 3: It so a woman will, get you, know this, piece this,

575
00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:17,360
Speaker 3: piece the guy will take this, piece this. Piece but

576
00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:20,120
Speaker 3: at the end of, it like we all are just

577
00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:22,200
Speaker 3: silent and you just hear.

578
00:31:22,360 --> 00:31:24,960
Speaker 2: Keyboards oh my, god.

579
00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:29,120
Speaker 3: Somebody gets, Up oh, yeah, no and it's, great and,

580
00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:31,440
Speaker 3: like you, know like that's the other thing is like

581
00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:35,760
Speaker 3: somebody's writing and he's, like hold, on what if on this,

582
00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:39,720
Speaker 3: scene this and, THIS i just had this Idea and

583
00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:43,520
Speaker 3: then everybody kind of sits back and you're, like, okay

584
00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:47,160
Speaker 3: let's sit back and get to the. Wall if we

585
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:50,200
Speaker 3: go this, way let's put this piece down here now

586
00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:54,160
Speaker 3: and this bullet point up here and have these scenes

587
00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:56,320
Speaker 3: kind of flip because now it'll make more. Sense.

588
00:31:56,520 --> 00:31:58,280
Speaker 2: Ah and then they just keep.

589
00:31:58,320 --> 00:32:00,800
Speaker 3: Writing and then like you, know at four o'clock or

590
00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:03,480
Speaker 3: even at two sometimes we're, like, hey let's just email

591
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:06,160
Speaker 3: or be on a phone call if we need, anything

592
00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:07,000
Speaker 3: but let's just go home and.

593
00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:08,720
Speaker 2: Write go home and.

594
00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:11,360
Speaker 3: Write, yeah you get back the next, day you have

595
00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:13,280
Speaker 3: like your print offs you're all read and throw them

596
00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:16,800
Speaker 3: and you see how that two planned, out and then

597
00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:18,920
Speaker 3: you go on to. Three and then once three hits

598
00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:20,760
Speaker 3: you can go back to two and see if it.

599
00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:23,160
Speaker 3: Does you'll go back and make green. Notes but it

600
00:32:23,320 --> 00:32:26,840
Speaker 3: gets like it's, wild and it's it's, yeah it's.

601
00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:31,080
Speaker 1: Difficult it sounds writing to. Me when you have a

602
00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:39,800
Speaker 1: show that is so perfectly, WRITTEN i sometimes wonder like

603
00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:44,000
Speaker 1: the number, one how many years it took to really

604
00:32:44,160 --> 00:32:48,480
Speaker 1: conquer the art of knowing how to. Write and it's

605
00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:51,920
Speaker 1: such a skill THAT i can tell you my ideas

606
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:55,240
Speaker 1: and HOW i see, something but to hone in and

607
00:32:55,400 --> 00:32:58,680
Speaker 1: put it in. Writing and then these people who can

608
00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:01,480
Speaker 1: take something that happens season one and be able to

609
00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:04,320
Speaker 1: tie it in in such an intricate way into season,

610
00:33:04,480 --> 00:33:07,720
Speaker 1: Four i'm, like how the fuck did you even remember? That?

611
00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:10,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, no it's.

612
00:33:12,320 --> 00:33:14,440
Speaker 1: The talent THAT i really would never.

613
00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:17,640
Speaker 2: Possess you think, that you really do think.

614
00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:21,080
Speaker 3: That let me put it this, way it really is

615
00:33:21,280 --> 00:33:25,120
Speaker 3: incredible when you walk into the room every. Day i'd

616
00:33:25,200 --> 00:33:30,400
Speaker 3: walk in and just the feeling of, LIKE i feel

617
00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:36,840
Speaker 3: so creative just around these, people, right because and that's

618
00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:39,040
Speaker 3: the other thing with these, people AND i felt, like

619
00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:42,560
Speaker 3: you feel so. Free there's nothing that you can actually

620
00:33:42,600 --> 00:33:45,560
Speaker 3: say that it is a stupid question or, anything so

621
00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:46,560
Speaker 3: you can just.

622
00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:48,040
Speaker 2: Throw shit at the.

623
00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:51,920
Speaker 3: Wall, yeah and people are all doing the same because

624
00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:55,560
Speaker 3: no one, cares because creativity comes from. Anywhere, Yeah so

625
00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:58,600
Speaker 3: you're not afraid to, like is that a good? Idea

626
00:33:58,760 --> 00:34:01,000
Speaker 3: you're just saying, it you feel.

627
00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:03,200
Speaker 1: Because what you say someone else could pick up on

628
00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:05,920
Speaker 1: and be, LIKE i love. This this reminds me what

629
00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:07,920
Speaker 1: if we did? That Ye oh my. GOD i want

630
00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:10,000
Speaker 1: to be in a writer's right. Now AND i.

631
00:34:10,239 --> 00:34:13,160
Speaker 3: Was that was the. THING i was an assistant to

632
00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:17,800
Speaker 3: the writer's. Room but they were amazing and like what

633
00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:20,200
Speaker 3: we were writing. On it didn't get picked, up AND

634
00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:24,680
Speaker 3: i really am sad for everybody else that it didn't

635
00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:26,359
Speaker 3: because it was an amazing.

636
00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:30,720
Speaker 1: Show, yeah and it's BEEN i, mean it's been talked about.

637
00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:32,120
Speaker 1: Publicly it.

638
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:34,839
Speaker 3: Was it was the show that was going to CAN

639
00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:37,040
Speaker 3: i say? It, yeah so it was going to be

640
00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:43,479
Speaker 3: Called Pump. Yeah And Michael konove, okay AND i Hope

641
00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:45,879
Speaker 3: i'm saying that. Correct it was he was the one

642
00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:49,080
Speaker 3: who wrote it got it picked, up But Michael.

643
00:34:49,160 --> 00:34:51,200
Speaker 2: Konove and it was.

644
00:34:51,239 --> 00:34:53,040
Speaker 1: With Arnold, schwarzenegger, Right Arnold.

645
00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:58,799
Speaker 3: Schwarzenegger and it was his life like in the early

646
00:34:58,960 --> 00:35:01,479
Speaker 3: days of The Body. Build it was At Muscle, Beach,

647
00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:05,279
Speaker 3: yeah like him not even, famous him literally working out

648
00:35:05,560 --> 00:35:09,879
Speaker 3: and like just with this guy and just putting him

649
00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:12,560
Speaker 3: in like positions that got him. Famous. Wow.

650
00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:16,400
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah amazing thing about that often how many shows

651
00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:18,960
Speaker 1: are pitched on a regular, Basis And i'm not trying

652
00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:21,120
Speaker 1: to be a, bitch but there are so many shows

653
00:35:21,200 --> 00:35:28,759
Speaker 1: THAT i see on streaming services or network, television and

654
00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:32,840
Speaker 1: BECAUSE i know the details and how long it takes

655
00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:36,120
Speaker 1: to get a show developed and then if it's good

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Speaker 2: OUT i missed you guys when you were you?

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Speaker 1: Adorable, NO i had a. Heyday, so speaking of being The,

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Speaker 1: so my mom does this thing where like she'll sit

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Speaker 1: routine and if you throw me off of, It i'm

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Speaker 1: not gonna sleep. Well so she's full blast on These instagram.

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Speaker 1: Videos finally we're pushing into the eleven o'clock. HOUR i walked.

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Speaker 1: DOWNSTAIRS i was, like, bro you gotta fucking turn it,

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Speaker 1: down LIKE i can't listen. Anymore and she looks at

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Speaker 1: Now she's you need to check Your. Instagram SO i

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Speaker 1: sent me you, Guys, Yes i'm still. Scrolling oh my,

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Speaker 1: god she sent me like. Me she has sent me

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Speaker 1: images look like son of ASTRONOMER'S ceo speaks out for first.

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Speaker 1: Hour it's another one she sent.

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Speaker 3: Me we're getting very different ones because she sent you different.

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Speaker 3: Ones texas officials say a dad raped his seventeen year old,

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Speaker 3: Quite, YEAH i. Didn't it just says. It and Then

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Speaker 3: montana man arrested after his best selling jerky is found

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Speaker 3: to be made of human.

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Speaker 1: Meat oh my. God, okay so those are the ones

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Speaker 1: she sent to. You she sent, me, WELL i wouldn't

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Speaker 3: A. DOUBLE i don't love.

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Speaker 1: That the next one is memes With Andy byron and that.

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Speaker 1: Woman next, One matthew McConaughey once, said never refriend someone

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Speaker 1: that has tried to destroy your, character, money or. RELATIONSHIP

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Speaker 1: a snake only sheds its skin to become a bigger. Snake,

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Speaker 1: Okay florida, Prediction fuck what your thumb says about your?

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Speaker 1: BRAIN i just and the final one to make me feel.

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Speaker 1: BETTER i have a feeling it says a woman with

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Speaker 1: most secure women you'll ever. Meet Thanks, MOM i don't

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Speaker 1: know why you would send me that. Bitch that's how

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Speaker 1: many Fucking instagram stories she sent me last. Night and

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Speaker 1: by the, way they started at seven. Nineteen, bro she

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Speaker 1: was scrolling for a hot. MINUTE i, said enough is?

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Speaker 1: Enough can we move on to some? News?

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Speaker 3: YEAH i mean was the rehabit of My, okay.

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00:43:13,400 --> 00:43:14,319
Speaker 1: WELL i don't want to sit here.

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Speaker 3: While you listen to your addictions of the weather In.

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Speaker 1: watched it yet BECAUSE i was already in full. Panic

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Speaker 1: so you, guys before we move into the, news this

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Speaker 1: is the first piece of news THAT i want to

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Speaker 1: share THAT i watched on The Today. Show So ocean

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Speaker 1: the other. Day we were ALL i don't want to,

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Speaker 1: say ignoring, her but she wanted to watch a show

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Speaker 1: and we were all, busy so she just like turned

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Speaker 1: it on by herself and On pops The jaws fiftieth.

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Speaker 1: Anniversary so it's basically a documentary On netflix or maybe

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Speaker 1: it's On disney about How jaws was, made and all

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Speaker 1: of the sudden she is obsessed With. JAWS i kid,

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Speaker 1: you not you. Guys she makes me Turn jaws on

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00:43:55,640 --> 00:43:57,520
Speaker 1: every single, night and FINALLY i was, LIKE i cannot

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00:43:57,520 --> 00:44:00,719
Speaker 1: Watch jaws. Again SO i entered dud her to like

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Speaker 1: The National Geographic portion.

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Speaker 2: At, disney plus shark.

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Speaker 1: Files Loves shark, files loves all of these like people

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Speaker 1: swimming with. Sharks she started watching shark. Attacks, yeah that

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Speaker 1: she's Really, Easton.

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Speaker 2: Easton he got bit by a.

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Speaker 1: Shark he bled and, died, LIKE i don't know IF

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Speaker 1: i should be showing this to, you but but then,

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Speaker 1: AGAIN i do not want you in the.

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Speaker 2: Waters that's.

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Speaker 1: Scary SO i learned today listen to. Me so, this

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Speaker 1: this surf instructor is in the water In miami teaching a.

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Speaker 1: LESSON a shark comes up grabs him by the. Foot he,

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Speaker 1: said it just felt like tugging and then it felt,

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Speaker 1: hot which is was the teeth going into my? Foot.

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Speaker 1: Right he ends up getting the shark off of him

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Speaker 1: before it severs his. Achilles, god BUT i learned by

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Speaker 1: the Way miami shark capital of the. World the coast.

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Speaker 1: RIGHT i feel like we've been hearing about so many shark.

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Speaker 1: Attacks but if this will put your mind at, Ease

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00:45:03,320 --> 00:45:07,239
Speaker 1: i'm gonna share. This there have only been so far

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Speaker 1: this year eight shark. Attacks there's been less sightings this

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00:45:12,120 --> 00:45:17,400
Speaker 1: year than last and also last year again eight this

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Speaker 1: year thirty six last. Year most of them happening In.

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Speaker 1: Florida so they were, saying we know that everyone's afraid

844
00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:28,040
Speaker 1: of the water right now because it seems like these

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00:45:28,080 --> 00:45:30,560
Speaker 1: are becoming more. Common but if it does make you

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00:45:30,600 --> 00:45:34,280
Speaker 1: feel any, better they've actually gone. Down SO i looked

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00:45:34,440 --> 00:45:38,680
Speaker 1: up why one of. Them one of the reasonings is

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Speaker 1: in certain parts of the, world there was a guy

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Speaker 1: who went all the way To South africa to swim

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00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:47,719
Speaker 1: with a great white and he never saw. One and

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00:45:48,200 --> 00:45:52,320
Speaker 1: the woman who works In South africa following. Sharks so

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Speaker 1: there's two. Reasons depending on the path where the sharks

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00:45:55,680 --> 00:46:00,200
Speaker 1: go to. Hunt there are a lot of boats who

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00:46:01,040 --> 00:46:04,439
Speaker 1: killed these sharks because it's a. Delicacy they.

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00:46:06,160 --> 00:46:07,160
Speaker 2: They're used for fins.

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00:46:07,239 --> 00:46:12,239
Speaker 1: Soup. Yeah the other massive reason is orcapods are now

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00:46:13,200 --> 00:46:19,200
Speaker 1: very selective when hunting and they specifically are, hunting, yes

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00:46:20,320 --> 00:46:25,399
Speaker 1: and they, know like they're so precise on what they carve.

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00:46:25,480 --> 00:46:28,640
Speaker 1: Out so orcas are like another reason why you're not

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00:46:28,719 --> 00:46:30,840
Speaker 1: going to be seeing as many, Sharks isn't that? Crazy?

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00:46:32,239 --> 00:46:33,560
Speaker 3: Yeah BUT i kind of like.

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00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:37,239
Speaker 1: THAT i, KNOW i Showed ocean my orca. Tattoo when

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00:46:37,400 --> 00:46:40,000
Speaker 1: we heard, THAT i was, Like, OCEAN i love, orcas

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Speaker 1: you know HOW i call it the. Pod that's why

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Speaker 1: that's an. Orcipod there's an orchipod killing that. Shark right,

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00:46:45,040 --> 00:46:48,880
Speaker 1: now we have a? Heyday what else has happened in the,

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Speaker 1: News Jax taylor is not returning for season three Of

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Speaker 1: The valley to focus on.

869
00:46:53,840 --> 00:46:56,000
Speaker 2: Recovery good for.

870
00:46:56,160 --> 00:47:00,120
Speaker 1: HIM i agree with, you AND i just feel like

871
00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:03,600
Speaker 1: it's a very delicate situation to be in because on

872
00:47:03,680 --> 00:47:08,120
Speaker 1: the one, Hand brittany is my nearest and dearest. Friend

873
00:47:08,160 --> 00:47:11,160
Speaker 1: she's one of my best, friends like we see each, other,

874
00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:15,319
Speaker 1: right AND i kind of am just following her lead

875
00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:18,840
Speaker 1: on how she wants me to handle this. Situation and

876
00:47:19,600 --> 00:47:24,719
Speaker 1: no matter what anybody thinks from the, outside recovery is

877
00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:27,400
Speaker 1: like the most important, thing Right And i'm the only

878
00:47:27,520 --> 00:47:31,560
Speaker 1: one a part of this friend group Besides jackson, now

879
00:47:31,640 --> 00:47:35,120
Speaker 1: but the only one who's in. Recovery SO i see

880
00:47:35,280 --> 00:47:42,040
Speaker 1: things not diminishing what he did To. Brittany BUT i

881
00:47:42,680 --> 00:47:45,600
Speaker 1: see that aspect of. Things so the fact that he's

882
00:47:45,640 --> 00:47:49,799
Speaker 1: saying he's taking a beat on focusing on his mental

883
00:47:49,880 --> 00:47:53,160
Speaker 1: health and his, Recovery, like no matter how any of

884
00:47:53,280 --> 00:47:57,560
Speaker 1: us view, him we can still stay true to viewing

885
00:47:57,640 --> 00:48:01,479
Speaker 1: him that. Way but with this specific thing of Saying

886
00:48:01,520 --> 00:48:04,480
Speaker 1: i'm taking a step back to focus on recovery and mental,

887
00:48:04,600 --> 00:48:09,319
Speaker 1: HEALTH i think that that is a very smart move

888
00:48:09,520 --> 00:48:13,520
Speaker 1: AND i think anybody who has half a brain can

889
00:48:13,600 --> 00:48:17,000
Speaker 1: get behind that. Statement you, know when.

890
00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:19,960
Speaker 3: You're trying to get, sober you're trying to get away

891
00:48:20,080 --> 00:48:22,399
Speaker 3: from everything that you kind of. Did you don't want

892
00:48:22,400 --> 00:48:27,480
Speaker 3: to believe how you, KNOW i mean speaking only for,

893
00:48:27,600 --> 00:48:29,640
Speaker 3: myself LIKE i didn't want to believe all the shitty

894
00:48:29,719 --> 00:48:32,600
Speaker 3: things THAT i did and things like. That and when

895
00:48:32,600 --> 00:48:34,960
Speaker 3: you're on a show like that and you're trying everything

896
00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:37,279
Speaker 3: that you can, do like trying to become better and

897
00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:40,680
Speaker 3: people are just like rehashing all of that mm, hmm

898
00:48:41,040 --> 00:48:43,440
Speaker 3: it's like it really.

899
00:48:44,120 --> 00:48:44,640
Speaker 2: Can fuck with.

900
00:48:44,719 --> 00:48:47,640
Speaker 3: You and so for him to just like take a

901
00:48:47,760 --> 00:48:50,920
Speaker 3: beat and to worry about that and to silence the outside,

902
00:48:51,000 --> 00:48:55,520
Speaker 3: noise you, KNOW i have a feeling that, things you,

903
00:48:55,600 --> 00:48:59,120
Speaker 3: know another show or even season four could appear for.

904
00:48:59,280 --> 00:49:02,360
Speaker 3: Him but if you were to take this, YEAR i

905
00:49:02,440 --> 00:49:05,560
Speaker 3: think a lot of people are gonna see a whole New,

906
00:49:05,640 --> 00:49:06,040
Speaker 3: jacks you.

907
00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:08,920
Speaker 1: Know, Yeah AND i don't want anything that we just

908
00:49:09,000 --> 00:49:11,200
Speaker 1: said to diminish What brittany has gone.

909
00:49:11,239 --> 00:49:14,840
Speaker 3: Through. Brittany and that's and that's the other thing that's you,

910
00:49:14,920 --> 00:49:20,320
Speaker 3: know speaking out of him, maybe but like For, jacks

911
00:49:20,360 --> 00:49:21,680
Speaker 3: that's he knows what he did To.

912
00:49:21,760 --> 00:49:24,440
Speaker 1: Brittany, WELL i don't entirely know if that's true or.

913
00:49:24,480 --> 00:49:27,080
Speaker 3: Not well, Maybe and that's there's a.

914
00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:28,879
Speaker 1: Thing it's going to take more than just a couple

915
00:49:29,160 --> 00:49:31,480
Speaker 1: months of sobriety to acknowledge it.

916
00:49:31,560 --> 00:49:34,640
Speaker 3: Will but it it being sober for those couple of

917
00:49:34,719 --> 00:49:37,719
Speaker 3: months and being, Like, Okay i'm getting, BETTER i am

918
00:49:37,840 --> 00:49:40,399
Speaker 3: doing those. Things i'm not that human Or i'm trying

919
00:49:40,480 --> 00:49:43,640
Speaker 3: to get away from that. Human but people are just rehashing.

920
00:49:43,680 --> 00:49:48,239
Speaker 3: It it's LIKE i, Like i'm, trying but Obviously i'm

921
00:49:48,920 --> 00:49:51,200
Speaker 3: AM i not doing well. Enough you. Know it's just

922
00:49:51,280 --> 00:49:53,279
Speaker 3: like you're trying to make other people happy when you

923
00:49:53,480 --> 00:49:55,640
Speaker 3: just need to focus on yourself and that. Day and

924
00:49:55,680 --> 00:49:58,360
Speaker 3: if you say sober that, day, great they'll.

925
00:49:58,680 --> 00:49:59,680
Speaker 2: Put a string.

926
00:49:59,760 --> 00:50:02,080
Speaker 3: Together the other three hundred and sixty five sober days

927
00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:05,200
Speaker 3: AND i hard for. Me i'm not saying THAT i

928
00:50:05,600 --> 00:50:08,600
Speaker 3: even can do, it BUT i found out in, that you,

929
00:50:08,680 --> 00:50:14,080
Speaker 3: know my sobriety that like the difference THAT i felt

930
00:50:14,440 --> 00:50:19,239
Speaker 3: Because i'm not getting whiplash from god knows how many, people,

931
00:50:19,600 --> 00:50:22,560
Speaker 3: Right but if you, know LIKE i was getting a

932
00:50:22,640 --> 00:50:25,799
Speaker 3: lot of love and if you're, NOT i can see

933
00:50:25,840 --> 00:50:30,000
Speaker 3: where that can turn you very sour.

934
00:50:31,000 --> 00:50:35,000
Speaker 2: And make you not worry about your. Sobriety, no you,

935
00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:36,600
Speaker 2: know but, No i'm.

936
00:50:36,480 --> 00:50:41,320
Speaker 1: Not saying, that especially when you feel like like you

937
00:50:41,600 --> 00:50:45,640
Speaker 1: you'll never be able to live down your actions that

938
00:50:45,760 --> 00:50:49,320
Speaker 1: were put out there on. Camera, yeah and there's.

939
00:50:49,160 --> 00:50:53,839
Speaker 3: The thing maybe in maybe you gotta just don't live them,

940
00:50:53,920 --> 00:50:58,719
Speaker 3: down just come to come to the fact that that's

941
00:50:58,960 --> 00:51:00,360
Speaker 3: just what you did and you gotta live with.

942
00:51:00,440 --> 00:51:03,120
Speaker 1: That and you, KNOW i think that's easier said than.

943
00:51:03,160 --> 00:51:05,120
Speaker 1: Done it is because you move on and then you

944
00:51:05,200 --> 00:51:07,719
Speaker 1: see one comment and realize everyone else hasn't moved, on

945
00:51:07,800 --> 00:51:12,239
Speaker 1: even if most people. Have you fixate on the. Negative But,

946
00:51:12,400 --> 00:51:15,719
Speaker 1: brittany through all of, This brittany's the victim in, this

947
00:51:15,960 --> 00:51:19,680
Speaker 1: and even The, internet she has, said has been pretty

948
00:51:19,719 --> 00:51:22,719
Speaker 1: hard on. Her AND i think that's completely. Unfair it's

949
00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:27,879
Speaker 1: very easy to throw stones from afar and every single

950
00:51:27,960 --> 00:51:29,920
Speaker 1: person lives in a. Glasshouse if we were to put

951
00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:34,960
Speaker 1: cameras on anybody's life and you lived, authentically we could

952
00:51:35,040 --> 00:51:38,360
Speaker 1: all find some things that you a lot of, faults

953
00:51:38,440 --> 00:51:40,480
Speaker 1: things that you maybe could be doing. Differently and we

954
00:51:40,600 --> 00:51:44,120
Speaker 1: also come from our own experiences traumas and, perspective which

955
00:51:44,160 --> 00:51:44,839
Speaker 1: is a real bitch as.

956
00:51:44,880 --> 00:51:47,200
Speaker 2: Well and that's a fault may not be a fault to,

957
00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:49,319
Speaker 2: you that it's a fault to. Me so how AM

958
00:51:49,400 --> 00:51:50,920
Speaker 2: i to judge you or you to judge?

959
00:51:50,960 --> 00:51:53,200
Speaker 1: Me, no it's a. Lot just being a person is a.

960
00:51:53,280 --> 00:51:58,120
Speaker 1: Lot AND i Think brittany has handled everything. Beautifully she's

961
00:51:58,120 --> 00:52:01,759
Speaker 1: stepped up taking care of her. Son Uh, no one

962
00:52:01,880 --> 00:52:06,080
Speaker 1: hustles harder Than britney cart, Right AND i do see

963
00:52:06,160 --> 00:52:09,400
Speaker 1: a version at some point of them being able to

964
00:52:09,520 --> 00:52:13,880
Speaker 1: co parent in a very healthy. WAY i think if

965
00:52:13,920 --> 00:52:16,680
Speaker 1: he puts his head, down focuses on the, work you,

966
00:52:16,760 --> 00:52:19,879
Speaker 1: know a year goes by so. Quickly if you just say,

967
00:52:20,120 --> 00:52:23,400
Speaker 1: Like i'm dedicating this year to, myself you, KNOW i

968
00:52:23,520 --> 00:52:28,880
Speaker 1: think about how hard it was for, me you, know

969
00:52:29,040 --> 00:52:32,200
Speaker 1: LEAVING tv and me saying LIKE i want to hunker.

970
00:52:32,320 --> 00:52:34,000
Speaker 1: DOWN i want TO i want to fall off the.

971
00:52:34,120 --> 00:52:37,239
Speaker 1: Map AND i just don't want. PEOPLE i don't want

972
00:52:37,280 --> 00:52:40,120
Speaker 1: people to look at, me notice, me talk about me them,

973
00:52:40,160 --> 00:52:43,160
Speaker 1: LIKE i just need a. Year and here we are

974
00:52:43,320 --> 00:52:48,080
Speaker 1: in talks, about you, know re entering the world beyond

975
00:52:48,200 --> 00:52:50,720
Speaker 1: just this, podcast And i'm having a full panic, attack

976
00:52:50,840 --> 00:52:54,040
Speaker 1: Like i'm not. READY i still you, know and it's

977
00:52:54,160 --> 00:52:55,640
Speaker 1: it's been a couple of, years And i'm, like, no,

978
00:52:55,760 --> 00:52:59,520
Speaker 1: no it's all, righty the time's. Done i'm Not i'm not.

979
00:52:59,719 --> 00:53:02,600
Speaker 1: Done AND i need a whole nother year to just.

980
00:53:02,680 --> 00:53:05,880
Speaker 2: Kind of like chill. OUT i needed a year to, LIKE.

981
00:53:07,520 --> 00:53:09,960
Speaker 1: I need just a year to, process and then a

982
00:53:10,040 --> 00:53:12,440
Speaker 1: year to come to, terms and then a year to

983
00:53:12,680 --> 00:53:14,600
Speaker 1: enter my. Life SO i need a solid three years

984
00:53:14,640 --> 00:53:15,480
Speaker 1: off and.

985
00:53:15,480 --> 00:53:18,320
Speaker 3: Then a year to, prepare and then a year to

986
00:53:18,360 --> 00:53:19,120
Speaker 3: prepare the four.

987
00:53:19,239 --> 00:53:22,520
Speaker 1: Years where do you see yourself in five years just

988
00:53:23,080 --> 00:53:28,920
Speaker 1: barely feeling? Prepared the next five? YEARS i picture myself,

989
00:53:29,160 --> 00:53:30,480
Speaker 1: prepared pretty.

990
00:53:30,560 --> 00:53:33,279
Speaker 2: Prepared how about it just start to do you see

991
00:53:33,320 --> 00:53:36,920
Speaker 2: yourself in five years? Prepared? NO i like you like

992
00:53:37,040 --> 00:53:38,799
Speaker 2: whatever you said to be pretty?

993
00:53:38,840 --> 00:53:44,840
Speaker 1: Prepared, then, yeah this is kind of A i was

994
00:53:44,880 --> 00:53:47,799
Speaker 1: hoping to go off on a high, note But Erica

995
00:53:47,920 --> 00:53:51,320
Speaker 1: jane's a strange. Hubby Tom girardi reports to prison to

996
00:53:51,400 --> 00:53:54,720
Speaker 1: begin his seven year sentence form buzzling millions of. Dollars

997
00:53:55,600 --> 00:53:57,640
Speaker 1: he was also ordered to pay two point three million in.

998
00:53:57,760 --> 00:54:00,400
Speaker 1: Restitution he's eighty, six, man.

999
00:54:01,239 --> 00:54:03,120
Speaker 3: He's dying in the.

1000
00:54:03,200 --> 00:54:07,239
Speaker 1: Clink oh, no how cold. Hearted at least stole a

1001
00:54:07,320 --> 00:54:09,200
Speaker 1: lot of. Money then he stole a lot of, Money

1002
00:54:09,360 --> 00:54:10,759
Speaker 1: so cold.

1003
00:54:10,800 --> 00:54:13,440
Speaker 3: Heart how many of those poor bastards are dead that

1004
00:54:13,560 --> 00:54:16,400
Speaker 3: he stole their money because they had no medical.

1005
00:54:16,520 --> 00:54:21,080
Speaker 2: Money, now because This girardy's.

1006
00:54:19,840 --> 00:54:21,799
Speaker 1: Getting a little too comfortable on the, MIC i think.

1007
00:54:21,719 --> 00:54:22,360
Speaker 3: We should wrap it.

1008
00:54:22,480 --> 00:54:25,920
Speaker 1: Up you. Guys thank you for thank you for listening

1009
00:54:25,960 --> 00:54:28,400
Speaker 1: to another episode of The Give Them While Up, podcast

1010
00:54:28,520 --> 00:54:33,000
Speaker 1: the episode where we Just Tangented Tangented Away love a tangent.

1011
00:54:33,040 --> 00:54:37,239
Speaker 1: Podcast thanks for being my. Ears we'll catch you guys

1012
00:54:37,320 --> 00:54:40,359
Speaker 1: on you were gonna watch say something? INAPPROPRIATE i, SAID

1013
00:54:40,400 --> 00:54:40,640
Speaker 1: i was.

1014
00:54:40,760 --> 00:54:42,600
Speaker 2: Here, oh we'll catch.

1015
00:54:42,480 --> 00:54:44,960
Speaker 1: You guys On monday for the bonus episode and again Next.

1016
00:54:45,040 --> 00:54:47,279
Speaker 1: Wednesday love. Y'all, Bye, yeah