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Speaker 1: Hey, you're here.

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Speaker 2: You found the Second Day podcast and we love that.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much you're here. You know what, if

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Speaker 2: you want us to.

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Speaker 3: Invade more of your life, we're on YouTube, yeah, with

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Speaker 3: Brook and Jeffrey.

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Speaker 2: Your address, I can show up Jose. Jose will come

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Speaker 2: to your house and give you hugs.

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Speaker 1: You give me food, uh huh.

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Speaker 3: And also there's forty five more minutes of this dumb

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Speaker 3: content that apparently you life, which.

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Speaker 2: We're really grateful for.

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Speaker 3: You can go over the main feed for the full

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Speaker 3: show Brook and Jeffrey.

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Speaker 2: But right now, let's get into this relationship stuff.

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Speaker 4: Second date up date.

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Speaker 5: Alexis, say, is there one sentence a random guy could

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Speaker 5: say to you that would make you instantly want to

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Speaker 5: kiss him? Write the gentlemen rather than ma'am, Can I

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Speaker 5: get your license and registration?

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Speaker 4: Please?

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Speaker 1: Oh he's gonna get you.

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Speaker 2: What about asking for like my Starbucks order?

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 2: You know that's simple, buying me a coffee that changes

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Speaker 2: my oday. I thought you had a higher price than that.

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Speaker 2: Can you try to.

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Speaker 1: Express over ice?

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Speaker 4: I'm wow. I don't know about that move.

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Speaker 5: But one of our listeners says he was taught something

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Speaker 5: that he claims can get any member of the opposite

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Speaker 5: sex to go in for the kiss right after you

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Speaker 5: meet them.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, after you meet them.

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Speaker 4: Right when you meet them.

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Speaker 1: That's wild. I don't believe this.

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Speaker 4: I'm curious to find out what it is. So let's

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Speaker 4: talk to Joseph.

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Speaker 5: Now, Joseph, you gotta be careful because we all might

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Speaker 5: try to kiss you once we hear it.

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Speaker 4: But tell us about this move that you learned.

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Speaker 7: Okay, well, I want to make this a parent I

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Speaker 7: want to make this known right now. I didn't even

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Speaker 7: develop this. This came from a female friend of mine.

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, yeah.

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Speaker 7: She said, if you've been making eye contact with the

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Speaker 7: woman you know at a bar or any man, or

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Speaker 7: maybe a party, all you have to do is welcome

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Speaker 7: to her, and you have to be non chalant, look

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Speaker 7: at him and say, hey, you're pretty. You want to

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Speaker 7: make out, with the attitude of not really wanting to

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Speaker 7: and don't care.

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Speaker 5: Hey you're pretty, want to make out?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? How do you come off like you don't want

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Speaker 2: to when you say that?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: Your entire demeanor, you know, maybe hold a drink, maybe

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Speaker 7: look away, but like you know what, I find you pretty?

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Speaker 7: You want to make out?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Maybe raise an eyebrow, you like, wink a little bit.

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Speaker 1: But Jeff, just why are practicing on me?

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Speaker 3: Bro's gonna I'm gonna tell you it is hard to

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Speaker 3: imagine this working.

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Speaker 2: No, okay, if you're attracted to the personnel works. If

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Speaker 2: it's not attracted, it's not gonna works.

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Speaker 5: How did you feel hearing that word of advice from

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Speaker 5: your friend?

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Speaker 7: It was horrible. I was so comfortable. I'm like, yeah,

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Speaker 7: I'm like, this would never work. I'm gonna get slapped.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so despite your better logic, you tried it.

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Speaker 4: We did.

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Speaker 7: We did because she said nine out of ten times,

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Speaker 7: they'll go forward. So she was like, you know, we're

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Speaker 7: going to go to a holiday party or her job,

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Speaker 7: a work event.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, work. It's not his.

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Speaker 8: Work, Yeah, it's her. It's hurry.

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Speaker 1: But still, you girl that brought the guns.

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Speaker 2: I wish this happened at our holiday party.

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Speaker 4: How many people work at her Yeah, at her office

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Speaker 2: They throw actually cool parties.

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Speaker 3: Yeah oh yeah, yeah, I've been to those with other friends.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, so it was like an open bar and she said,

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Speaker 7: So I was like, okay, you know with the skepticism,

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Speaker 7: you know. And she also told me that, you know,

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Speaker 7: we didn't have to hang hang around each other, just

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Speaker 7: get out there mingle, and that's what we did.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, because I was worried that you were going

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Speaker 2: to look like the boyfriend.

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Speaker 3: You know everyone, how are you there?

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Speaker 10: People?

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Speaker 4: How are you.

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Speaker 3: With hundreds when you go to those big ones and

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Speaker 3: nobody asked? You don't know what department do you work in?

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Speaker 10: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: So you you just went to the party and first

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Speaker 5: cute girl you saw, you just walked right up to

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Speaker 5: her and used the line.

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Speaker 4: Oh no, that is.

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Speaker 6: Not how that happened.

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Speaker 8: I was.

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Speaker 7: I was standing around for at least an hour and

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Speaker 7: a half, just I was nervous, think.

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Speaker 5: About this, meeting someone for the first time who's attractive

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Speaker 5: as a little nerve wrecking.

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Speaker 1: The first kiss is always nerve wrecking. Doing them at

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Speaker 1: the same time.

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Speaker 2: Like a public event. You can't just go to your bedroom.

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Speaker 2: You're in and you better not have eaten any of

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Speaker 2: the appetizers because you want to have good breath.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, So, like, at what point did you actually try

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Speaker 5: it or did you get.

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Speaker 7: There when the drinks came and this is an open bar.

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Speaker 7: The courage juice came in and I spotted this really

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Speaker 7: really cute girl and I went up to her and

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Speaker 7: I gave the line and she was like, you know what,

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Speaker 7: it's the holidays, why not shut And she grabbed me

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Speaker 7: by the hand led me to a quiet corner and

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Speaker 7: we made out.

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Speaker 3: No, oh my god, it wasn't even just like a

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Speaker 1: We made another location to kiss. That's kind of cool.

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Speaker 8: Did work?

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Speaker 9: It was crazy?

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Speaker 1: You did even take out?

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Speaker 2: At what point did you learn her name.

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Speaker 1: In the middle of it? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Did you get the name?

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Speaker 7: She did give me the name.

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Speaker 9: Her name was Katrina.

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay.

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Speaker 7: We talked like ten to fifteen minutes after our makeout.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, so you made a connection.

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Speaker 1: Get all the all the hard stuff out of the wood.

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Speaker 2: But then what the night?

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Speaker 4: Answered like, do you how many other women?

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Speaker 10: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: How many other women do you use this on at

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Speaker 4: the work party?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 7: No, it was it was just her and she gave

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Speaker 7: me her number and it was like wow.

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Speaker 9: I was like, I can't believe that actually worked.

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Speaker 1: Bro, So did you stop? Did you because you felt

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Speaker 1: chemistry with her? Or what?

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Speaker 6: No?

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Speaker 7: I feel like I was betting one for one.

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Speaker 9: I wanted to get out of it.

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Speaker 2: I want to be I like that, did you guys

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Speaker 2: get to connect? Did you talk after? Have you texted

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Speaker 2: or anything?

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Speaker 7: It was like here and there? You know, so some okay, yeah,

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Speaker 5: Maybe she feels awkward for making out with somebody at

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Speaker 2: A woman who leads a man into a corner is

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Speaker 8: She doesn't remember.

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Speaker 5: Yeah after an hour and a half of drinking. I mean,

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Speaker 5: what about what about your friend? What does your friend

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Speaker 5: say about her co worker? Like, did you tell her

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Speaker 7: Kind of? I told my friend at the move work

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Speaker 9: Like, oh my god, who was it?

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Speaker 7: But I didn't want to say because, you know, I

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Speaker 7: didn't want to like have it weird for her, like

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Speaker 7: at her company, what.

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Speaker 2: She brought you and told you to do it?

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Speaker 8: You know.

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Speaker 2: I mean, honestly, there's so many people that work there.

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Speaker 2: She may not even know her. She could be a

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Speaker 2: plus one of somebody.

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Speaker 1: I mean, that's a good point.

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Speaker 5: There's a lot of Okay, so your friend doesn't know

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Speaker 5: who it is, and you've been trying to reach Katrina

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Speaker 5: for how long?

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Speaker 3: Poor a little second, Now a little second, Well, actually

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Speaker 3: have a date and see if there's like a real

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Speaker 1: Yeah, a sober date, are starting sober man?

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Speaker 4: That doesn't sound very funny.

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Speaker 1: Okay, maybe not somewher, but a date.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Well, we'll try and arrange something for you with

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Speaker 5: you and Katrina when we come back. Get you your

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Speaker 5: second date update Right after this hold on second date update,

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Speaker 5: today we learned about a hot dating hack.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we kind of.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, short of where apparently if you go up to

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Speaker 5: any woman with a nonchalant attitude and casually say, hey,

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Speaker 5: you're cute, you want to make out a lot of

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Speaker 5: times if they're single, they'll say yes to that wow,

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Speaker 5: and maybe even if they're not single, if you deliver

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Speaker 5: it the right way.

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Speaker 3: Appurarently Jeff isn't nonchalant enough, because nobody in this room

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Speaker 3: is making out with them yet.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm saying I did not do it right.

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Speaker 5: But the thing is, we never asked what do you

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Speaker 5: do if the response back is no.

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Speaker 1: Or what?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Or just something besides yes?

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Speaker 1: Who are you?

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Speaker 2: You were embarrassed and you shy away?

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Speaker 4: Well that's not a good look.

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Speaker 2: You hope that you never see them again.

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Speaker 5: Let's ask our listener, Joseph, if any of our listeners

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Speaker 5: want to try this move for themselves, what are you

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Speaker 5: supposed to say to a rejection?

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Speaker 7: Well, if they say no, yeah, problem, just find me

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Speaker 7: when you're ready.

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Speaker 2: Oh, no problem, just find me when you're.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, that's so.

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Speaker 1: That's because then you really don't care. You're like, okay,

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Speaker 1: I to change your mind.

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Speaker 2: I would have said me neither. I don't want to

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Speaker 2: he asking you.

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Speaker 5: The thing is, Joseph liked Katrina, the girl that he

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Speaker 5: made out with at the holiday party. So let's reach

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Speaker 5: out to her and see if we can figure out

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Speaker 5: why she's not going for like an actual date.

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Speaker 3: By the way, can we not call him out on

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Speaker 3: this as a move that he like or that it

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Speaker 3: was even a bet, like when she picks up like.

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Speaker 1: The trick worked on you.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 2: The thing is is that he really likes her. That's

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Speaker 5: Why are you looking at me for that? Alexis is

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Speaker 2: So self aware.

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Speaker 5: Here, all right, Alexis, pipe down, We're going to call

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Speaker 10: Here we go, Hello, Hey, is this Katrina?

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Speaker 8: Yes, it's Katrina O yay morning.

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Speaker 3: Hey Katrina, Hello, this is a morning show.

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Speaker 5: We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we

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Speaker 5: are very very eager to talk to you.

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Speaker 1: You want to do a second date or something whatever?

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Speaker 8: Wow, Okay, how did you reach me? This is kind

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Speaker 5: It's hard to answer that because we got an email

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Speaker 5: from one of our listeners that met you recently at

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Speaker 5: a holiday party named Joseph.

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Speaker 8: Oh Joseph. Okay, yep, I remember him.

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Speaker 3: Would you describe him flat out?

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Speaker 8: I guess i'd describe him.

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Speaker 9: Is a liar?

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Speaker 4: Liar? You mean he lies down a lot.

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Speaker 1: I'm a liar.

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Speaker 8: No, he just completely lied to me. I met him. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Wait, yeah, you had such a brief interaction with this guy,

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Speaker 4: According to him what we've heard.

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Speaker 8: Oh, so we told you all about it. So I

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Speaker 8: we ended up making out. It's not usually the order

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Speaker 10: You don't normally do it that way, That's how we

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Speaker 8: So no, I do not definitely different from me. But

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Speaker 8: then he tells me he works at my company. Someone's like,

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Speaker 8: what are you doing here? I don't recognize you. So

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Speaker 8: I looked him up and there is no record of

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Speaker 3: I don't know why he said that, Okay with me

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Speaker 3: sometimes my friends, now maybe the bar and you could

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Speaker 2: Gonna end up liking them. So you've already made up like, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I work in whatever.

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Speaker 3: I mean that makes sense, alexis like, or it's just easier, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: it's easier to say, yeah, I work here too.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, maybe you own stock in the company and in

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Speaker 1: For our owner of the company.

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Speaker 5: What was that CBS show Undercover Boss or something, it's like, oh,

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Speaker 5: yeah I work here, and it's.

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Speaker 4: Like, oh no, actually I own the whole thing.

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Speaker 5: Maybe it's maybe some maybe some sort of like misunderstanding

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Speaker 8: Okay, I highly doubt that was the case.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so you're just mad because he lied to you

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Speaker 3: about working Yeah, there was.

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Speaker 8: No reason for him too. I mean he specifically said

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Speaker 8: respond to this guy because I don't know who he is.

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Speaker 8: He's just in the party. Is he some kind of pervert?

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Speaker 2: Oh, why would do you go to perverts? I mean,

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Speaker 2: why don't you just textim?

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Speaker 5: Don't have to text him or do anything like that,

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Speaker 5: because actually Joseph is on the other line right now

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Speaker 5: waiting to talk to you. Yeah, in a non pervy way.

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Speaker 8: The whole time he's been listening.

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Speaker 4: Oh god, no, it's because he likes you, Joseph tell.

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Speaker 9: Her, Katrina.

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Speaker 7: I am so sorry. I just let me just start

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Speaker 7: out with that.

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Speaker 4: I want to apologize.

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Speaker 7: I forgot that I did tell you those things, and

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Speaker 7: I want to tell you where that's coming from.

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Speaker 9: I'm not a pervert.

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Speaker 7: I'm not a stalker, any creepo, nothing like that.

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Speaker 4: Do you work there? I don't work there, Okay, I.

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Speaker 2: Know, No, he just said that.

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Speaker 8: All right, I'm going to tell you something.

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Speaker 9: I'm going to be transparent.

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Speaker 7: This came from a friend of mine who does work there,

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Speaker 7: and she actually made me kind of like a little bet.

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Speaker 9: Thing where it wasn't it wasn't a bed, not really

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Speaker 7: No, she gave me a move. If I want to

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Speaker 7: say it like that, as far as if I do

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Speaker 7: this particular things, if I say, hey, I think you're

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Speaker 7: pretty do you want to make out? I can make

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Speaker 7: out with any woman at that party.

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Speaker 2: It is a female friend that told him to do this.

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Speaker 2: I think that's very important.

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Speaker 10: Thanks.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, And I just want to say this, Christina,

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Speaker 9: when we did that, you were the only person that

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Speaker 9: I did that too, and then I wanted to do

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Speaker 7: Even afterwards, I just wanted to maybe change to to WI.

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Speaker 2: Was with you to sans.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I guess that's a release. But seriously, it's like

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Speaker 8: you just went there specifically to test out your mor.

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Speaker 4: When it was not his idea.

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Speaker 5: His friend is the one who was encouraging him, because

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Speaker 5: Joseph did not think saying no to a.

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Speaker 2: Free holiday party with the open bar. Yes, I mean

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Speaker 2: my friend worked at a big company.

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Speaker 5: Like yeah, if you should be mad at anybody, be

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Speaker 5: mad at Joseph's friend for pressuring him to kiss you.

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Speaker 4: Female friends, females.

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Speaker 2: I do think that's so important.

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Speaker 8: Okay, I've crashed parties before, that makes sense.

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Speaker 4: Invited. Yeah, you didn't crash it, and the only was

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Speaker 4: I worked there.

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Speaker 1: That's it, right.

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Speaker 2: You didn't lie about anything else, did you, Joseph?

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Speaker 9: No, No, No, that was it. That was it?

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Speaker 8: Because why about that Joseph, you could have told me

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Speaker 9: No, not really.

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Speaker 5: I came here to try out this line that my

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Speaker 8: Yes, it works, I guess it works. I gotta admit

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Speaker 8: it works. Okay, So I'm kind of curious. Would that

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Speaker 2: Of course, I think it'd work even better.

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Speaker 8: I think it would too. Actually, a hard part.

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Speaker 2: Is going to be finding a guy who you actually

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Speaker 2: want to make out with.

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Speaker 4: Why are you asking that?

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Speaker 8: To be honest, my boss is recently single, and I

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Speaker 7: Eye on Wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait

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Speaker 7: No no no no, no, no, no no, that's not

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Speaker 7: the way.

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Speaker 1: No, what's going to your boss?

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Speaker 4: You want to try this on your boss?

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Speaker 8: I would like to try it. I mean I'm smart.

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Speaker 1: Don't do that equivalent.

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Speaker 10: Trust me.

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Speaker 5: I've tried a lot of moves on our bosses and

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Speaker 5: none of them work. So it's I didn't think it's

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Speaker 5: a good idea.

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Speaker 2: Jeffrey hasn't gotten to raise in over five years.

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Speaker 4: No, keep getting demoted.

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Speaker 8: Listen. I don't even know how you guys are, so

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Speaker 8: don't tell me what to do.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but you got the idea from us from.

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Speaker 8: Him, Joseph. Joseph's got some smooth moves and maybe I should.

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Speaker 1: Well, are you going to kiss Joseph again?

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Speaker 5: Because the whole reason that we're doing this call is

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Speaker 5: little bit farther and go out on a real date.

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Speaker 5: And we would pay for that date if you're willing

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Speaker 5: to see him again.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean, maybe Joseph could be my wingman.

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Speaker 7: No, come on, I'm pouring out my heart here.

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Speaker 8: I like you.

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Speaker 9: I want to get to know you.

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Speaker 4: You guys had a connection.

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Speaker 5: Give it a chance with Joseph, and once that burns out,

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Speaker 5: then you can go after your bar.

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Speaker 1: There you go.

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Speaker 8: You know, I'm willing to go on a friendly date

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Speaker 2: We cover friendly dates.

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Speaker 8: We can change them dating tricks and tips.

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Speaker 3: Dude, you went from kissing this woman in the first

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Speaker 4: Wingman.

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Speaker 2: I've never been not this excited about friendship in my life.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it's rook Jeffrey in the morning, Man, I feel

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Speaker 6: so bad for Joseph in that scenario. He took a risk,

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Speaker 6: decided he was going to be one hundred percent honest

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Speaker 6: and transparent, and admitted he didn't really work at her company.

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Speaker 6: He was just there to do a makeout experiment.

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Speaker 5: And what happens, well, he goes from mystery hot guy

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Speaker 3: Oh Man, he went too far, He told too much,

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Speaker 3: like you got to keep your dating secrets to yourself.

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Speaker 5: Yes, when is it okay to be fully honest with

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Speaker 5: your partner, Brooke? How many years into the marriage do

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Speaker 5: you actually open up if.

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Speaker 2: They ask you got to tell them?

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Speaker 4: Oh, if you.

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Speaker 5: Never tell them anything, I'm hitty good one, Brook, But

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Speaker 5: if you ever want some dating advice, we'll be honest

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Speaker 5: with you and try and give you our best piece

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Speaker 5: of advice and help and whatever we can.

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Speaker 4: Just email the show.

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Speaker 5: We'll call that person who's not calling you back and

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Speaker 5: go check out all of our second dates wherever you

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Speaker 5: get your podcasts at Brook and Jeffrey Brook

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Speaker 4: And Jeffrey in the Morning,