1 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:21,720 Speaker 1: Hello, everyone, it's your girl Cheeky's and you've reached the 2 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 1: voicemail box for Dear Cheeky's. I'm here to give you 3 00:00:24,239 --> 00:00:27,160 Speaker 1: advice on anything and everything you need help with. Maybe 4 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:29,320 Speaker 1: you're going through a breakup, maybe you're having issues with 5 00:00:29,360 --> 00:00:32,159 Speaker 1: your family, or maybe you need help figuring out how 6 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:34,680 Speaker 1: to balance your checkbook or how to start a business. 7 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:37,560 Speaker 1: What are the cases I want to hear from you? 8 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 1: Remember these are my thoughts and opinions. And if you're 9 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:42,599 Speaker 1: suffering from an issue or hardship, you should seek help 10 00:00:42,640 --> 00:00:45,600 Speaker 1: from a qualified professional. All right, now, go ahead and 11 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:47,360 Speaker 1: leave your question at the sound of the beat. 12 00:00:49,159 --> 00:00:54,080 Speaker 2: Oh the Cheekys, and I have two funny questions. Two 13 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:57,480 Speaker 2: fun questions I should say for you, La priemera is 14 00:00:58,200 --> 00:01:02,640 Speaker 2: what is your favorite dessert? And when you go out 15 00:01:02,680 --> 00:01:05,240 Speaker 2: to eat, I mean, yeah, for dinner. If you got 16 00:01:05,240 --> 00:01:08,800 Speaker 2: to dinner and you're not gonna drink alcohol, what's your 17 00:01:08,920 --> 00:01:12,360 Speaker 2: go to drink? Do you go with water or a 18 00:01:12,400 --> 00:01:13,919 Speaker 2: different type of beverage? 19 00:01:14,600 --> 00:01:15,120 Speaker 3: Just want to know. 20 00:01:15,440 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 2: Have good day. Thank you for all your good vibes. 21 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 1: You guys. You see why I love this freaking podcast 22 00:01:23,240 --> 00:01:26,039 Speaker 1: so much, Crystal, I love these questions. I love them 23 00:01:26,080 --> 00:01:31,320 Speaker 1: so much. Okay, so my favorite type of dessert I 24 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:37,040 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, it's crazy, because damn it, I'm not 25 00:01:37,280 --> 00:01:39,640 Speaker 1: huge on dessert after I eat only in Mexico. I 26 00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:46,720 Speaker 1: don't know why, but I like. But anyways, I would 27 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:50,200 Speaker 1: probably say there's lettuce cake, which is weird because let 28 00:01:50,200 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 1: me tell you why, because if you were to ask me, cookies, 29 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:54,840 Speaker 1: ice cream or cake, cake would be at the bottom. 30 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:57,640 Speaker 1: It always cookies ice cream than cake. But when it 31 00:01:57,680 --> 00:02:02,320 Speaker 1: comes to desserts, and wants cake, but I don't know 32 00:02:02,520 --> 00:02:05,760 Speaker 1: I can have it. There's let ches any day. Love it, okay, 33 00:02:05,800 --> 00:02:08,720 Speaker 1: And if we're not drinking alcohol at a restaurant, I 34 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:12,760 Speaker 1: love these questions. Okay, what do I drink? Water? Always 35 00:02:12,760 --> 00:02:18,560 Speaker 1: water with ice. I didn't have ice before because when 36 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:21,760 Speaker 1: I went to China when I was twenty three, they 37 00:02:21,800 --> 00:02:24,280 Speaker 1: taught me that anything that's cold, like you shouldn't drink 38 00:02:24,280 --> 00:02:25,959 Speaker 1: anything cold because it's bad for your stomach. And I 39 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:28,080 Speaker 1: stopped doing it for a while, but now I crave 40 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:31,720 Speaker 1: I crave it ice water and that's what I drink. 41 00:02:31,760 --> 00:02:34,280 Speaker 1: And if it's not that, it'll be a nice tea 42 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:36,959 Speaker 1: and sweet and nice tea. But mainly all the time 43 00:02:36,960 --> 00:02:40,440 Speaker 1: it's water. Oh. I love these questions. Thank you so much, chrisco. 44 00:02:40,520 --> 00:02:47,520 Speaker 1: I appreciate you. I love that. Okay, let's go with me, Railey, 45 00:02:47,720 --> 00:02:49,840 Speaker 1: me Ralely, Let's go Hei Tikis. 46 00:02:49,880 --> 00:02:52,400 Speaker 4: My name is Me, RAILEI. I am from Florida, from 47 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:56,080 Speaker 4: the Sunshine State. I just want to say I absolutely 48 00:02:56,200 --> 00:03:00,760 Speaker 4: love you and I have two questions. My first question 49 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:03,880 Speaker 4: is if you would ever do a concert here in Florida. 50 00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:08,359 Speaker 4: I would love to see you over here. It's kind 51 00:03:08,360 --> 00:03:10,240 Speaker 4: of like a dream for me to see you in 52 00:03:10,360 --> 00:03:15,799 Speaker 4: concerts sometime. And my second question is, out of all 53 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:19,560 Speaker 4: of your mom's songs, which is your favorite? 54 00:03:20,000 --> 00:03:26,079 Speaker 1: Thanks? Okay, fun Okay me really I believe hopefully I'm 55 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:30,240 Speaker 1: pronouncing that right. Okay, Okay. So I would love to 56 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:32,679 Speaker 1: do a concert out in Miami or Florida. Should I 57 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:34,520 Speaker 1: say not just Miami every time I think of Florida, 58 00:03:34,520 --> 00:03:36,600 Speaker 1: I think Miami. Anyways, in Florida. I would love to. 59 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:41,000 Speaker 1: But you got to tell all your homies out there 60 00:03:41,040 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 1: in Florida to listen to my music a little more, 61 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:52,240 Speaker 1: because I've asked, because I love Florida, but not enough 62 00:03:52,320 --> 00:03:54,480 Speaker 1: people listen to my music out there. Actually, I guess 63 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:56,720 Speaker 1: regional is not huge. Is not like a big big 64 00:03:56,720 --> 00:03:59,360 Speaker 1: thing out there unless you're like freaking the bestl Plumas 65 00:03:59,360 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 1: of the world. I gets, but I still have a 66 00:04:02,040 --> 00:04:04,400 Speaker 1: little bit more work to do. Maybe I can do 67 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:05,840 Speaker 1: it a little bar. That'd be cool, that would be 68 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:08,240 Speaker 1: actually really fun. As soon as I figure this out, 69 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 1: I will let you know, and hopefully I can I 70 00:04:09,920 --> 00:04:12,480 Speaker 1: can meet you. So that's the first part of your question. 71 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:15,600 Speaker 1: The second part of your question, if I had to 72 00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:19,479 Speaker 1: choose a favorite song of my mom's, oh, there's so many. 73 00:04:19,800 --> 00:04:25,680 Speaker 1: Oh love that song, but the one song when I 74 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:28,920 Speaker 1: need strain, when I'm having a bad day, when I'm like, 75 00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 1: f this, f that I can't anymore. I listened to Singcapitan. 76 00:04:35,360 --> 00:04:38,279 Speaker 1: If you haven't heard that song, please listen to it. 77 00:04:38,279 --> 00:04:41,640 Speaker 1: It's very underrated. I feel like only people that know know, 78 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:45,720 Speaker 1: but that song is like an anthem for me. I 79 00:04:45,760 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 1: put it on and I'm just like, I'm back at it. 80 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:49,200 Speaker 1: I'm like, you know what got this? I got this? 81 00:04:49,600 --> 00:04:52,160 Speaker 1: Thank you Jenny Rivera. That's how I feel when I 82 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 1: listen to it. So listen to it if you have it. 83 00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:56,600 Speaker 1: But that's my favorite song. Yeah, thank you so much 84 00:04:56,600 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 1: for your question. Okay, next question comes from Lauda Hi Cheeky's. 85 00:05:04,920 --> 00:05:08,560 Speaker 5: I was just wondering how did you deal with your 86 00:05:08,720 --> 00:05:12,120 Speaker 5: first divorce? My husband has recently abandoned me. 87 00:05:13,560 --> 00:05:15,680 Speaker 1: I just don't know how to face the world. 88 00:05:15,760 --> 00:05:21,200 Speaker 5: It's it's just very embarrassing, very humiliating. He is narcissistic. 89 00:05:21,640 --> 00:05:24,920 Speaker 5: I have prayed and prayed and prayed for God's will 90 00:05:25,120 --> 00:05:28,279 Speaker 5: and I'm hoping for restoration. But I'm just wondering how 91 00:05:28,320 --> 00:05:31,840 Speaker 5: did you deal with your first divorce? Because I did 92 00:05:31,880 --> 00:05:38,240 Speaker 5: hear you say different interviews get so can you just 93 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:41,240 Speaker 5: please share how you dealt with your first divorce? 94 00:05:41,600 --> 00:05:47,119 Speaker 1: Thank you? Oh my goodness, Lauda Laura. Okay, it's tough, 95 00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:49,599 Speaker 1: and I will say that it was not easy. I 96 00:05:49,720 --> 00:05:56,520 Speaker 1: definitely decided to separate and divorce being in love because 97 00:05:56,520 --> 00:05:58,240 Speaker 1: now I know what it is to be in love. Really, 98 00:05:58,279 --> 00:06:00,040 Speaker 1: I think I was probably in lust. But whatever, it 99 00:05:59,920 --> 00:06:04,080 Speaker 1: was painful. I just had to. I told myself, I'm like, 100 00:06:04,760 --> 00:06:07,400 Speaker 1: I prayed for God's will to be done, and I 101 00:06:07,440 --> 00:06:08,800 Speaker 1: got a lot of signs, and I asked God for 102 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 1: many signs, signs that I ignored, and I was like, Okay, 103 00:06:10,960 --> 00:06:12,800 Speaker 1: well maybe it's not that one, and I would ask 104 00:06:12,800 --> 00:06:14,600 Speaker 1: for another sign and it was literally on a billboard, 105 00:06:14,600 --> 00:06:16,800 Speaker 1: and I would ignore that one, and I got so 106 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:20,120 Speaker 1: many signs. So finally I said, Okay, I can't anymore, 107 00:06:20,279 --> 00:06:23,279 Speaker 1: and I have to allow him to be himself because 108 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:26,000 Speaker 1: it's just not fitting. I can't change him. And I 109 00:06:26,120 --> 00:06:29,480 Speaker 1: just decided, and it was very difficult, and I was 110 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:36,480 Speaker 1: in the worst depression ever. And anyways, I think if 111 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:39,760 Speaker 1: he is narcissistic, this is my opinion, it might be 112 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:42,719 Speaker 1: a blessing in disguise. I know it's not easy. And 113 00:06:42,760 --> 00:06:44,680 Speaker 1: I know because you said that you feel embarrassed because 114 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:47,120 Speaker 1: he left you, I understand how that could be embarrassing. 115 00:06:47,120 --> 00:06:49,479 Speaker 1: I was also very embarrassed, especially with how he was 116 00:06:49,520 --> 00:06:52,240 Speaker 1: acting after the divorce, and I was just like here, 117 00:06:52,279 --> 00:06:54,359 Speaker 1: I am crying and you're out there just having a blast. 118 00:06:54,400 --> 00:06:59,080 Speaker 1: And I was very embarrassed. So I get that now, 119 00:06:59,120 --> 00:07:01,440 Speaker 1: I thank God, and I'm like, you know what, that 120 00:07:01,520 --> 00:07:04,480 Speaker 1: pain it sucked. It was so horrible, and I just 121 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:09,400 Speaker 1: dove into more of my faith and doing anything that 122 00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:11,360 Speaker 1: made me feel good, and going to church and reading 123 00:07:11,400 --> 00:07:14,960 Speaker 1: books and anything that made me feel good, not the 124 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 1: fate kind of feel good like drinking and doing things 125 00:07:17,920 --> 00:07:22,760 Speaker 1: or trying to, you know, hop on another dude doesn't work. 126 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:27,840 Speaker 1: Trust me. It was just really soul searching that really 127 00:07:27,880 --> 00:07:29,800 Speaker 1: helped me. And I left it in God's hands and 128 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:33,400 Speaker 1: I said, help me. I cannot wait until the day 129 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:36,920 Speaker 1: I can say I no longer love this person. And 130 00:07:36,960 --> 00:07:39,440 Speaker 1: I was like, God, please, and I prayed and I 131 00:07:39,480 --> 00:07:42,640 Speaker 1: prayed and I held on to God and I got 132 00:07:42,680 --> 00:07:46,800 Speaker 1: through it. It wasn't easy. It will be painful, but if 133 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:51,000 Speaker 1: he's a narcissist, he's probably doing you a favor because 134 00:07:51,040 --> 00:07:55,240 Speaker 1: that's very hard to change. And I think you just 135 00:07:55,280 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 1: have to let things be unless he completely changed it, 136 00:08:00,680 --> 00:08:02,760 Speaker 1: which is very hard to do. But if he's willing 137 00:08:02,800 --> 00:08:04,640 Speaker 1: to put in the work, it is possible. I believe 138 00:08:04,760 --> 00:08:11,000 Speaker 1: that people can change or modify whatever. But maybe just 139 00:08:11,040 --> 00:08:14,600 Speaker 1: start thinking God, thinking the universe, whatever it is, whatever 140 00:08:14,600 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 1: faith you have, just thinking because yeah, but it will 141 00:08:20,880 --> 00:08:23,040 Speaker 1: be tough, but you got this. I got through it, 142 00:08:23,120 --> 00:08:28,360 Speaker 1: and I'm in a much better place now, thank the Lord. 143 00:08:28,640 --> 00:08:31,680 Speaker 1: So I'm wishing you the best, Laura. I hope it 144 00:08:31,800 --> 00:08:36,680 Speaker 1: works out for you, whatever that means, whatever is best 145 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:41,760 Speaker 1: for you. So just embrace that pain. You got this. 146 00:08:41,920 --> 00:08:52,640 Speaker 1: We got this, girl, I believe in you keep us updated, please, Okay. 147 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:54,320 Speaker 1: Last question comes from Jason. 148 00:08:55,360 --> 00:08:59,480 Speaker 3: Hey, Jeeky's It's Jason. So I got an update on 149 00:08:59,559 --> 00:09:02,760 Speaker 3: those two guys I was dating girl. They both didn't 150 00:09:02,800 --> 00:09:06,120 Speaker 3: work out. The guy who I didn't like, I told 151 00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:09,559 Speaker 3: him and think he understood, and I blocked him right after, 152 00:09:10,679 --> 00:09:12,000 Speaker 3: and then the guy was like, Okay, now I can 153 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:14,960 Speaker 3: focus on the other guy who I really like until 154 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:18,360 Speaker 3: we started having like long term conversations where we saw 155 00:09:18,400 --> 00:09:21,600 Speaker 3: that we both weren't compatible because you know, I am 156 00:09:21,640 --> 00:09:23,840 Speaker 3: more of a career driven person. I just graduated from 157 00:09:23,880 --> 00:09:27,640 Speaker 3: college shout out to Rockers University, and I'm twenty four 158 00:09:28,040 --> 00:09:30,640 Speaker 3: and I'm really trying to get into my media career, 159 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:34,880 Speaker 3: media production and really trying to create content creation for latinos. 160 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:38,040 Speaker 3: And so he was just more off of, you know, 161 00:09:38,080 --> 00:09:40,439 Speaker 3: wanting to create a family and within the next three 162 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:43,600 Speaker 3: years and get married. And then he said a comment 163 00:09:43,679 --> 00:09:46,240 Speaker 3: that rubbed me the wrong way where he was just like, 164 00:09:46,760 --> 00:09:49,520 Speaker 3: you know, if we were going to be exclusive, I 165 00:09:49,520 --> 00:09:52,080 Speaker 3: would need you to lower your expectations when it comes 166 00:09:52,120 --> 00:09:55,520 Speaker 3: to your career. And that's one thing I was like, well, 167 00:09:55,520 --> 00:09:58,480 Speaker 3: that's not going to happen. Literally, I will always put 168 00:09:58,480 --> 00:10:01,960 Speaker 3: myself first when it comes to creating my stuff and 169 00:10:02,559 --> 00:10:06,120 Speaker 3: not letting, you know, being beneath somebody. And so my 170 00:10:06,240 --> 00:10:09,000 Speaker 3: question is, let's say, when it comes to looking into 171 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:12,040 Speaker 3: a relationship, but you're a career driven person, how do 172 00:10:12,080 --> 00:10:14,160 Speaker 3: you how would you say you balance that out? 173 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:18,720 Speaker 1: Ooh, Jason, Well, first of all, I love updates. Thank 174 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:21,120 Speaker 1: you for updating us. I'm sorry it didn't work out, 175 00:10:21,200 --> 00:10:23,920 Speaker 1: but like I just told loud I, it's probably blessing 176 00:10:23,920 --> 00:10:30,040 Speaker 1: in disguise. Look, yes, you're young, you're twenty four. I 177 00:10:30,040 --> 00:10:32,360 Speaker 1: think right now you're doing exactly what you need to do. 178 00:10:32,559 --> 00:10:36,719 Speaker 1: You are reaching for the stars as you should. You 179 00:10:36,840 --> 00:10:42,400 Speaker 1: are trying to accomplish everything and pursuing this career, which 180 00:10:42,440 --> 00:10:44,320 Speaker 1: I think is good. This is exactly where you should be. 181 00:10:45,480 --> 00:10:47,920 Speaker 1: There will come a point in your life, though, maybe 182 00:10:47,920 --> 00:10:50,719 Speaker 1: in your thirties, where in a relationship, if you want 183 00:10:50,720 --> 00:10:53,880 Speaker 1: a relationship to work, you need to be willing to compromise. 184 00:10:54,760 --> 00:10:57,080 Speaker 1: And no, that does not mean that you need to 185 00:10:57,160 --> 00:11:00,600 Speaker 1: dim your light for anyone, because a person that is 186 00:11:00,679 --> 00:11:03,720 Speaker 1: meant to be by your side will be okay. Even 187 00:11:03,760 --> 00:11:08,160 Speaker 1: if your light is brighter than theirs. There's nothing wrong 188 00:11:08,200 --> 00:11:11,239 Speaker 1: with that like, that person needs to be okay, and 189 00:11:10,840 --> 00:11:14,360 Speaker 1: their light will be brighter in other areas and they're 190 00:11:14,400 --> 00:11:16,520 Speaker 1: going to shine in their world and what they're doing 191 00:11:16,520 --> 00:11:19,679 Speaker 1: and in other ways that you won't. But it's very 192 00:11:19,720 --> 00:11:22,600 Speaker 1: important to know that. Okay, there are certain things that 193 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:25,960 Speaker 1: you need to compromise in. You know, for instance, I 194 00:11:26,000 --> 00:11:30,000 Speaker 1: have a husband now. I got married, and in my 195 00:11:30,200 --> 00:11:34,640 Speaker 1: past there was a person that I think what I 196 00:11:34,760 --> 00:11:38,880 Speaker 1: was doing upset them and they didn't like it, and 197 00:11:38,920 --> 00:11:41,920 Speaker 1: blah blah blah. You know, I actually talked about that 198 00:11:42,280 --> 00:11:48,040 Speaker 1: in this episode divorce anyways, and now I'm in a 199 00:11:48,080 --> 00:11:52,280 Speaker 1: relationship where there's a person I was very upfront. I 200 00:11:52,280 --> 00:11:55,440 Speaker 1: think the best thing you could do is be very 201 00:11:55,440 --> 00:11:59,160 Speaker 1: straightforward from the beginning and express your expectations from the 202 00:11:59,240 --> 00:12:01,240 Speaker 1: very beginning, because that is what's going to help you 203 00:12:01,280 --> 00:12:04,160 Speaker 1: build your foundation. Okay, Hey, this is what I like, 204 00:12:04,240 --> 00:12:06,240 Speaker 1: This is what I don't like? This, what do you like? 205 00:12:06,240 --> 00:12:08,720 Speaker 1: What do you It's not just one sided, it's both sides, obviously. 206 00:12:09,200 --> 00:12:12,680 Speaker 1: And this is my career and I don't feel like 207 00:12:12,720 --> 00:12:15,000 Speaker 1: I'm going to be changing my career anytime soon. Are 208 00:12:15,040 --> 00:12:16,880 Speaker 1: you going to be okay with that? Certain things happen 209 00:12:17,120 --> 00:12:20,880 Speaker 1: in this career, that person needs to be very confident, 210 00:12:21,480 --> 00:12:24,120 Speaker 1: very secure in who they are are you also have 211 00:12:24,200 --> 00:12:26,720 Speaker 1: to do your part and making sure that they feel secure. 212 00:12:27,559 --> 00:12:29,199 Speaker 1: So it's like it's a two way straight you know 213 00:12:29,240 --> 00:12:31,320 Speaker 1: what I mean? And I think communication is key and 214 00:12:31,400 --> 00:12:35,680 Speaker 1: being very straightforward, very respectfully. In the beginning of my 215 00:12:35,720 --> 00:12:40,319 Speaker 1: relationship with Emilia, I was very harsh. It was very direct, 216 00:12:40,800 --> 00:12:43,199 Speaker 1: but sometimes harsh in the way I delivered my message. 217 00:12:43,400 --> 00:12:45,960 Speaker 1: I learned to communicate with him because we need to 218 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:50,600 Speaker 1: learn to communicate with our partners in any relationship, friendship, business, love, relationship, 219 00:12:50,600 --> 00:12:53,520 Speaker 1: et cetera. And I learned how to communicate with him. 220 00:12:53,880 --> 00:12:55,760 Speaker 1: So I think I was just very straightforward and I 221 00:12:55,800 --> 00:12:57,840 Speaker 1: was like, this is who I am and don't intend 222 00:12:57,880 --> 00:13:01,319 Speaker 1: in changing, but if there's something that bothers you, please 223 00:13:01,320 --> 00:13:03,040 Speaker 1: bring it to my attention because I love you and 224 00:13:03,080 --> 00:13:08,000 Speaker 1: I care enough to change certain things, to adjust, to modify. 225 00:13:08,400 --> 00:13:10,600 Speaker 1: And I did that because he's someone that's important to me, 226 00:13:10,720 --> 00:13:13,600 Speaker 1: because I don't want to be a very successful woman 227 00:13:13,960 --> 00:13:17,320 Speaker 1: alone and a lot of that happens where it's like 228 00:13:17,360 --> 00:13:20,120 Speaker 1: there's a lot of career driven people, which is great, 229 00:13:21,800 --> 00:13:24,680 Speaker 1: but then they're alone, they're like, well, I'm alone because 230 00:13:24,679 --> 00:13:26,720 Speaker 1: I'm a dependent Yeah, but did you also do the 231 00:13:26,760 --> 00:13:30,200 Speaker 1: work in okay, allowing someone into your life, and that 232 00:13:30,360 --> 00:13:33,600 Speaker 1: means adjusting and moving and compromising. It's not just one 233 00:13:33,640 --> 00:13:36,000 Speaker 1: one side, you know. So anyways, I feel like I 234 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:38,400 Speaker 1: went all over the place with this freaking answer, But 235 00:13:38,679 --> 00:13:42,000 Speaker 1: hopefully that made sense and you will find your perfect fit. 236 00:13:42,040 --> 00:13:43,719 Speaker 1: And I think if you are the way you are 237 00:13:43,880 --> 00:13:45,840 Speaker 1: and you're very upfront and say, hey, this is what 238 00:13:45,880 --> 00:13:47,440 Speaker 1: I want, this is what I would like, but you 239 00:13:47,520 --> 00:13:50,280 Speaker 1: also have to be willing to make some changes. And 240 00:13:50,320 --> 00:13:51,880 Speaker 1: also because you want to be happy and you want 241 00:13:51,880 --> 00:13:53,880 Speaker 1: to be in love. It's beautiful. It's a beautiful thing 242 00:13:53,880 --> 00:13:55,360 Speaker 1: to be in love. But right now you're doing what 243 00:13:55,360 --> 00:13:58,560 Speaker 1: you gotta do. You are twenty four, live your life, 244 00:13:58,800 --> 00:14:03,400 Speaker 1: enjoy date, be straight up with everyone day, one person 245 00:14:03,440 --> 00:14:05,760 Speaker 1: at a time. It's always better, okay to just be 246 00:14:06,840 --> 00:14:08,720 Speaker 1: unless you're gonna be honest and be like, look, I'm 247 00:14:08,920 --> 00:14:10,360 Speaker 1: boning a lot of people right now. Are you okay 248 00:14:10,360 --> 00:14:13,280 Speaker 1: with that? You know? But just be straight up? That's it. 249 00:14:13,960 --> 00:14:16,040 Speaker 1: And I wish you all the very best in your 250 00:14:16,080 --> 00:14:18,240 Speaker 1: career and in your journey and keep us updated. Jason, 251 00:14:18,280 --> 00:14:20,240 Speaker 1: I love it. You're so I love your energy. I 252 00:14:20,240 --> 00:14:23,520 Speaker 1: love it. Wishing you all the best. Okay ta keo 253 00:14:23,600 --> 00:14:28,800 Speaker 1: mucho and okay so Crystal Me, Railey, Me, Railey, Laura 254 00:14:28,840 --> 00:14:31,080 Speaker 1: and Jason. Thank you guys so much for your questions. 255 00:14:31,120 --> 00:14:33,560 Speaker 1: Thank you for tuning in to Dear Cheeky's. All of 256 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:35,440 Speaker 1: you that are watching, thank you so much. If you 257 00:14:35,440 --> 00:14:37,680 Speaker 1: have a question, could be about anything you saw, you 258 00:14:37,720 --> 00:14:40,240 Speaker 1: heard it here, I am willing to answer it and 259 00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:43,600 Speaker 1: give you the best advice like a big sister. And yeah, 260 00:14:43,640 --> 00:14:46,600 Speaker 1: you can leave your question at speakpipe dot com, Slash 261 00:14:46,680 --> 00:14:50,680 Speaker 1: Cheeky's and Chill Podcasts. Ko you know Zamazaki on the 262 00:14:50,680 --> 00:14:56,360 Speaker 1: next episode of Dear Chikie. 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