WEBVTT - Episode 346: Mile High Club (Feat. Shenseea) 0:00:02.320 --> 0:00:05.320 What's up this lip Service. I'm Antila Yee, I'm g G. Maguire, 0:00:05.400 --> 0:00:12.720 I'm Stephanie Santiago, I'm Laura Maura. Leans back and let 0:00:12.720 --> 0:00:14.840 me tell you something. So much has happened from the 0:00:14.920 --> 0:00:18.040 last time, but I just want to put it out there. 0:00:18.120 --> 0:00:21.200 We were early sin see your fans, this is what 0:00:21.360 --> 0:00:27.200 it was, Tiger blessed and then listen. But that's how 0:00:27.240 --> 0:00:30.120 it's supposed to happen on the freestyles. I think people 0:00:30.320 --> 0:00:33.800 love when they see your freestyles. Yeah, yeah, I mean 0:00:34.000 --> 0:00:36.240 it's something that I keep exclusive though, because I don't 0:00:36.240 --> 0:00:38.400 want to do too much, you know, because I enjoyed 0:00:38.479 --> 0:00:40.360 that for a funct. It doesn't even feel like work 0:00:40.400 --> 0:00:42.640 to me, right, So it's just something that I do 0:00:42.720 --> 0:00:45.280 for fun, so I don't want to do it too 0:00:45.320 --> 0:00:49.680 often where people like too much. Free yeah, free. You 0:00:49.720 --> 0:00:51.240 said you got in trouble last time he was on 0:00:51.360 --> 0:00:56.400 lip service. Why because she blamed it on the shots 0:00:56.400 --> 0:00:58.160 were drinking and she was like, I'm not drinking it. 0:00:58.600 --> 0:01:00.240 Think of it. I mean, I know again up, but 0:01:00.240 --> 0:01:06.279 I don't remember for what. But listen, listen. You stay 0:01:06.400 --> 0:01:09.000 in the news, and I don't think that's a bad thing. No, 0:01:09.400 --> 0:01:13.080 I'm sure sometimes it's annoying. No, it's not. Actually would 0:01:13.080 --> 0:01:17.520 be worried if I wasn't, because I was like, oh no, exactly, No, 0:01:17.680 --> 0:01:21.800 I would never want that. So I'm blessed, thank god. Yeah, 0:01:21.840 --> 0:01:26.880 no pun intended. And the album is called Alpha. By 0:01:26.920 --> 0:01:28.400 the way, you're in the room with a bunch of 0:01:28.440 --> 0:01:31.720 Alpha's as well. Good, I'm in the right room. That's 0:01:31.720 --> 0:01:34.040 the whole point of live service. So let's talk about 0:01:34.120 --> 0:01:37.440 some things. First of all, congratulations and everything. You ended 0:01:37.520 --> 0:01:41.039 up on Kanye's album. Yes, so you said you recorded 0:01:41.080 --> 0:01:43.960 like a few songs though, yeah, I didn't let about 0:01:44.000 --> 0:01:49.520 six and I did like two days before the actual 0:01:49.560 --> 0:01:52.000 album came out. I didn't even know when the album 0:01:52.120 --> 0:01:53.840 was coming out, to be honest. But you know, I'm 0:01:53.880 --> 0:01:56.040 glad I made to call on two songs too. On 0:01:56.120 --> 0:01:58.840 top of it, I think Honey was really supportive because 0:01:58.840 --> 0:02:01.400 he knew that I could sing and also DJ slash Rop, 0:02:01.760 --> 0:02:03.960 so that's why he made me feature from both. So 0:02:04.440 --> 0:02:08.400 extremely grateful, exactly. But you're surprised when you got the 0:02:08.440 --> 0:02:10.680 call like Kanye wants you to come record. I was 0:02:10.760 --> 0:02:13.440 surprised because I didn't know if it was real or not. 0:02:14.160 --> 0:02:16.120 You know, and because I was in the midst of 0:02:16.560 --> 0:02:19.600 doing um some recordings and then I got the call. 0:02:19.680 --> 0:02:22.400 I was like, are you sure like me? Who did 0:02:22.440 --> 0:02:25.800 he call? Who called you to me? I was setting 0:02:25.800 --> 0:02:28.400 people on my team, like who did he come from? 0:02:28.440 --> 0:02:30.240 But then when I'm a team, it was like the 0:02:30.280 --> 0:02:33.360 real deal. Yah. Nice. So I know your dams are 0:02:33.400 --> 0:02:37.360 crazy because the guys love Shansia so and and the 0:02:37.440 --> 0:02:40.160 ladies did too. By the way, No, but that's dope. 0:02:40.200 --> 0:02:42.480 When you can be a person that like, women are like, yo, 0:02:42.560 --> 0:02:44.840 she's dope. I wanna you know, I like to see her. 0:02:44.960 --> 0:02:47.720 She represents for me, and the guys are like, I 0:02:47.760 --> 0:02:50.839 like her. I want her. Have you ever fanned out 0:02:50.840 --> 0:02:52.920 over anybody like man, I can't believe this person hit 0:02:52.960 --> 0:02:55.919 me up? No. Never, there's nobody that you're like when 0:02:55.919 --> 0:02:58.840 you were younger, Like damn, I look up to this person. Yeah, 0:02:58.880 --> 0:03:02.200 definitely a few, but not to go like crazy over, 0:03:02.600 --> 0:03:04.840 you know. I feel like the only person I said 0:03:04.880 --> 0:03:08.440 to myself, I will go like fanatic over is like Ariana. 0:03:08.480 --> 0:03:10.160 And then I met her and I managed to keep 0:03:10.160 --> 0:03:13.520 it cool too, and I was like, now we got nobody. 0:03:14.080 --> 0:03:19.160 But respect wise, I'm always respectful, but it's never nothing 0:03:19.200 --> 0:03:22.720 because I understand, as you know, just also as an artist, 0:03:22.720 --> 0:03:25.920 that I'm human, he's human, she's human. So I've I 0:03:25.960 --> 0:03:29.240 look at everybody the same. And when it comes to dating, 0:03:29.320 --> 0:03:32.480 for you now right, it's like, no matter what you do, 0:03:32.560 --> 0:03:34.680 you can't even be in a picture with somebody. You 0:03:34.720 --> 0:03:37.200 can't do anything because they're gonna link you. Yeah, I 0:03:37.320 --> 0:03:39.920 noticed that. I don't think that, but you know, I 0:03:39.920 --> 0:03:42.840 mean like overall, I know myself and I know what 0:03:42.880 --> 0:03:45.720 it's true from what's not true, so I don't really 0:03:45.800 --> 0:03:47.840 let it bother me too much. But in the same time, 0:03:47.960 --> 0:03:50.760 I try to naple myself in positions where people will 0:03:50.800 --> 0:03:54.280 actually call my name with you know. It's like I'm 0:03:54.320 --> 0:03:56.680 more mindful of that now. And one time I was 0:03:56.680 --> 0:03:59.560 sitting at this interview and another artist came and sit 0:03:59.640 --> 0:04:02.040 beside me and they were like, no, just let me move. 0:04:02.240 --> 0:04:03.760 I was like, what do you mean. I don't want 0:04:03.760 --> 0:04:06.400 to superside you either, But when when I sat down 0:04:06.400 --> 0:04:09.600 and pictures were flashing, I was like, that's why you 0:04:09.640 --> 0:04:14.680 know what you because it's like it's like society doesn't 0:04:14.720 --> 0:04:18.720 see like platonic situations or just a general you sit 0:04:18.760 --> 0:04:20.840 down next to me. It's like as soon as you 0:04:21.120 --> 0:04:23.520 see a man with a woman like automically, yeah, it's 0:04:24.400 --> 0:04:26.400 I can take a picture with somebody after doing an 0:04:26.400 --> 0:04:29.880 interview and they'll be like, oh she wants and I'm like, yeah, 0:04:29.920 --> 0:04:33.320 I'm working Like That's what I don't like. People try 0:04:33.360 --> 0:04:35.440 to throw that on a woman too all the time 0:04:35.839 --> 0:04:38.880 because they might not put men in the same box 0:04:38.960 --> 0:04:40.760 like oh, yeah, he just want to hit that before 0:04:40.760 --> 0:04:42.560 a woman is like, oh, she want to give him 0:04:42.560 --> 0:04:46.400 something exactly. You feel me like, why it's always a 0:04:46.400 --> 0:04:49.240 good look for the guy, yeah exactly, but then when 0:04:49.240 --> 0:04:51.599 the girl is just like normally is just completely different. 0:04:51.640 --> 0:04:55.839 How about we're just working together or that's why are 0:04:55.680 --> 0:04:59.160 we trying to put that out clear? Like we are 0:04:59.240 --> 0:05:01.880 in the studio. Yeah, there's the board in front of us. 0:05:02.080 --> 0:05:05.440 Every time we interview a rapper, there's somebody like in 0:05:06.000 --> 0:05:08.840 that small boy, I know he's shot a shot. I 0:05:09.040 --> 0:05:12.040 know my boy got in there. I'm like, yeah, like 0:05:12.160 --> 0:05:15.360 now we're on that. We're in a studio. That's why 0:05:15.360 --> 0:05:17.320 it's important to just know yourself, you know, and be 0:05:17.360 --> 0:05:20.560 gone because people just talk regardless what kind of guys. 0:05:20.640 --> 0:05:22.279 If you had to say okay, that's a kind of 0:05:22.320 --> 0:05:25.359 guy that I like, what would you say some qualities? 0:05:25.560 --> 0:05:27.760 Gotta be humble because I've met a couple of guys 0:05:28.400 --> 0:05:31.080 um since we last met. Let me tell you they 0:05:31.080 --> 0:05:34.240 were really bad. Boy. I was like, what are you 0:05:34.240 --> 0:05:36.040 telling me your house? Scott this four? I didn't even 0:05:36.080 --> 0:05:39.360 ask you that. You know, it's pretty pretty much corny. 0:05:40.000 --> 0:05:42.360 So of course, knowing me that I worked so hard 0:05:42.360 --> 0:05:44.160 and I made my own money, that for sure gotta 0:05:44.160 --> 0:05:46.919 be number one. You gotta be humble, like I know 0:05:47.000 --> 0:05:48.440 that you got it, but you ain't gotta show me 0:05:48.480 --> 0:05:51.120 that you got it like to flaunt. Guys will call 0:05:51.160 --> 0:05:53.360 women gold diggers, but then they at the same time 0:05:53.440 --> 0:05:55.320 be trying to tell you everything they have. But I 0:05:55.360 --> 0:05:57.720 feel like that's that's how they were the called girls 0:05:57.839 --> 0:06:00.680 gold diggers because I feel like certain girl show them 0:06:00.720 --> 0:06:02.680 that side. Is like they feel every girl is the same. 0:06:04.560 --> 0:06:06.880 And I'm not one of those persons. So how does 0:06:06.920 --> 0:06:10.719 a guy get your attention? M First of all, you 0:06:10.720 --> 0:06:15.040 gotta catch me in person. I would not take you 0:06:15.120 --> 0:06:20.200 serious if he verified. That even makes it worse. No, 0:06:20.880 --> 0:06:23.120 if you're verified that you're trying to get at me, 0:06:23.160 --> 0:06:24.600 I would be thinking you're trying to let me and 0:06:24.600 --> 0:06:31.560 put an opportunity a deal music acting something my my pages. 0:06:31.720 --> 0:06:34.640 I strictly I don't take anything serious when it comes 0:06:34.640 --> 0:06:36.919 on to my d M s or my comment section. Okay, 0:06:36.960 --> 0:06:38.839 you got to catch me, all right. So let's just 0:06:38.880 --> 0:06:41.000 say a guy shows up and he knows you're about 0:06:41.040 --> 0:06:43.640 to perform going on tour, he shows up to the show, 0:06:44.400 --> 0:06:49.280 and then what I won't pick him out. I mean, 0:06:49.440 --> 0:06:51.400 I feel like people would just come and be like, yeo, 0:06:51.520 --> 0:06:53.480 they love. I feel like everybody in that cirld would 0:06:53.480 --> 0:06:55.719 just love. So I wouldn't even know, like how much 0:06:55.800 --> 0:06:58.159 do you love me? Give me? And I never go 0:06:58.240 --> 0:06:59.880 to my show and look at somebody and be like, 0:07:00.240 --> 0:07:02.279 but he's trying to get to you. That's what I'm saying, Like, 0:07:02.320 --> 0:07:05.280 how does a guy even be able to say? That's 0:07:05.279 --> 0:07:07.479 got to catch me on one on one. So I said, 0:07:07.520 --> 0:07:10.120 for instance, if I have a press conference or if 0:07:10.120 --> 0:07:12.440 we are here right now and a guy shows up 0:07:12.480 --> 0:07:18.080 here where we sound creepy. No, I'm not saying that. 0:07:18.280 --> 0:07:20.800 I mean if honestly, if you really want it, it's 0:07:20.840 --> 0:07:23.320 gonna see him creepy because the end of the day, 0:07:23.360 --> 0:07:25.520 I have you have to catch me on that timing. 0:07:25.840 --> 0:07:29.360 If you catch me while I'm performing, I'm strictly in 0:07:29.360 --> 0:07:32.120 the mindset of I'm working. I don't look at anybody 0:07:32.200 --> 0:07:35.000 when i'm working. So if you go to an event 0:07:35.200 --> 0:07:37.320 where you know it's a lot of us in the room, 0:07:37.480 --> 0:07:39.640 or like you can get close to me that's not 0:07:39.760 --> 0:07:42.880 too busy, then you can get my attention that way too. Okay, 0:07:42.920 --> 0:07:44.720 these are just some tips. We're just trying to put 0:07:44.720 --> 0:07:47.040 it out of there. So you gotta get past my 0:07:47.040 --> 0:07:51.800 my managers though, going to what you're saying, it like, yeah, 0:07:51.880 --> 0:07:57.920 you just gotta or you gotta know my managers and 0:07:57.920 --> 0:08:00.640 then let's just go away. You gotta go through the people. 0:08:00.680 --> 0:08:04.480 To go through the people, it's not what you do it. Yeah, 0:08:04.560 --> 0:08:07.520 you gotta you gotta know them. Lick. Let's talk about 0:08:07.560 --> 0:08:09.800 that for a second, because first of all, I love 0:08:09.880 --> 0:08:11.520 that you did that song because we're all in favor, 0:08:13.480 --> 0:08:15.640 But I was like, the reason why I love that 0:08:15.640 --> 0:08:17.800 you do it because there's always been this taboo. You 0:08:17.840 --> 0:08:20.000 know what I'm saying in Jamaica, and I know that 0:08:20.000 --> 0:08:23.640 ship is a lie because I've definitely well I'm not 0:08:23.640 --> 0:08:25.760 going to say what I've had, but I'm just saying, 0:08:26.320 --> 0:08:29.000 but did you get any like where people mad about it, 0:08:29.080 --> 0:08:34.320 like it wasn't a frenzy about it. Mixed feelings to 0:08:34.440 --> 0:08:37.080 be honest, because you know some people would say they 0:08:37.160 --> 0:08:40.599 don't do it, but yeah, come on, come on. The 0:08:40.600 --> 0:08:42.680 first person who ever ate my pussy was Jamaican. And 0:08:42.679 --> 0:08:44.440 then on top of it, if you don't do it, 0:08:44.520 --> 0:08:47.640 we don't want you. Yeah, but they want you to 0:08:47.679 --> 0:08:50.880 do it, right to them, they want you to. It's 0:08:50.880 --> 0:08:57.080 a deal breaking for most men. There's a deal break. 0:08:57.240 --> 0:08:58.920 If you don't do that, I do not want you. 0:08:59.040 --> 0:09:00.760 So have you ever been with somebody and they said 0:09:00.760 --> 0:09:04.000 they wouldn't do it? Yeah? And I left him? What 0:09:04.200 --> 0:09:06.960 I meant it, I don't see a future with somebody 0:09:06.960 --> 0:09:12.199 who don't eat me. I don't because for me, it's 0:09:12.240 --> 0:09:14.360 like if I get in a relationship, I got I 0:09:14.400 --> 0:09:16.480 think ahead. I think about the future because I'm not 0:09:16.520 --> 0:09:18.600 one of those girls that I've run around. So if 0:09:18.600 --> 0:09:21.000 I'm gonna be with you, I'm looking to build with you. 0:09:21.320 --> 0:09:23.000 So if that's not in the cart, then my six 0:09:23.080 --> 0:09:25.120 life is being it's going to be Hella board and 0:09:25.120 --> 0:09:27.560 I'm not into it. Oh let's talk about your side 0:09:27.640 --> 0:09:31.120 check song. So my friend parents that is by the way, 0:09:31.160 --> 0:09:33.600 like she that's one of her favorite songs. Every time 0:09:33.640 --> 0:09:36.320 I talk to her, she playing the song. But anyway, 0:09:36.720 --> 0:09:42.000 so what inspired that song. It was definitely a true story. Okay, 0:09:42.120 --> 0:09:43.959 so break it down fast. You don't got a name 0:09:44.240 --> 0:09:46.760 if you if you hear what I said in the song, 0:09:47.360 --> 0:09:51.079 like I get treated like a wife, I get money, 0:09:51.240 --> 0:09:55.720 I get loving, No, no type of disrespect, none of that. 0:09:56.120 --> 0:09:59.880 But it's just on the down side, he has somebody else, 0:10:00.920 --> 0:10:03.240 you feel me, And it was it came to happen 0:10:03.440 --> 0:10:05.360 because I'm not that type of girl. That that was 0:10:05.440 --> 0:10:08.000 my very first situation where I'm actually in a relationship 0:10:08.000 --> 0:10:10.679 with somebody else's man. And that came about when I 0:10:10.760 --> 0:10:13.520 was at a party and I was drinking and then 0:10:13.520 --> 0:10:16.040 we hooked up, like because I knew that person for 0:10:16.080 --> 0:10:18.560 a long time and he was trying to get at me, 0:10:18.600 --> 0:10:20.960 but I wasn't interested. For three years. Did you know 0:10:21.040 --> 0:10:23.880 we had a girl? Yeah after in the midst Yeah 0:10:23.960 --> 0:10:25.839 after before he was trying to get at me. He 0:10:25.880 --> 0:10:28.920 didn't have anybody. But to show you that it was 0:10:29.000 --> 0:10:31.360 not I looked at him as a friend. It was 0:10:31.400 --> 0:10:34.239 not even like that because when you didn't have a girlfriend, 0:10:34.320 --> 0:10:37.160 I still did not, you know, take you seriously. So 0:10:37.320 --> 0:10:39.640 I was singing at the time, and then I was drinking. 0:10:39.679 --> 0:10:41.720 We went on a party. He used to always come 0:10:41.720 --> 0:10:43.319 over because we play games and stuff, and then we 0:10:43.480 --> 0:10:48.719 just play games. Yeah, and then and the weirdest thing 0:10:48.800 --> 0:10:51.319 is after that, I just said never say never, because 0:10:51.360 --> 0:10:54.760 I always before that. I remember, I tweeted like I 0:10:54.800 --> 0:10:57.960 don't know how people can fall into situations and say 0:10:58.080 --> 0:11:01.439 they blame it an alcohol, right, and then you and 0:11:01.600 --> 0:11:06.079 you're like, okay, you know what I'm anything is possible 0:11:06.120 --> 0:11:09.480 because that's exactly what happened to me. So how did 0:11:09.520 --> 0:11:12.240 you end it? I just told him that, like after 0:11:12.320 --> 0:11:14.880 a couple of months, I was like a three three 0:11:14.960 --> 0:11:17.839 or four months. Actually we're still friends now and still 0:11:17.920 --> 0:11:21.160 but I told him like, like it bothers me my personality. 0:11:21.200 --> 0:11:23.480 I'm not this type of girls, Like I can't be 0:11:23.600 --> 0:11:26.200 no shadows. I don't want to watch you when somebody 0:11:26.200 --> 0:11:28.720 else it's weird to me. Right, So let me ask 0:11:28.720 --> 0:11:31.040 you this. In a situation like that, right, Let's just 0:11:31.040 --> 0:11:32.880 say his girl found out and called you. Would you 0:11:32.920 --> 0:11:35.520 have his back? And like, what would you do? I'll 0:11:35.600 --> 0:11:38.800 tell her everything? You would because I reade for girls 0:11:39.320 --> 0:11:42.040 I know, but listen about I don't want a girl 0:11:42.040 --> 0:11:46.199 calling me over on niggle. That's one nothing it I 0:11:46.240 --> 0:11:49.440 don't want nobody calling me. But two, I would not 0:11:49.520 --> 0:11:52.320 lie to her, see because I wouldn't definitely want the truth. 0:11:52.520 --> 0:11:54.040 And you know I didn't lie. I didn't lie because 0:11:54.040 --> 0:11:55.760 he lied to me. That's what I was going to say. Now, 0:11:55.960 --> 0:11:57.520 I think of you. I think if you know the 0:11:57.559 --> 0:12:00.679 situation and you know you decide to then you kind 0:12:00.679 --> 0:12:02.680 of got to be like you need to ask him. 0:12:02.920 --> 0:12:05.120 But I need that if he lies to you, you 0:12:05.120 --> 0:12:08.280 should tell it all. Know. I'm I'm writing for females 0:12:08.640 --> 0:12:12.680 all the way. Well about the case five case situation, 0:12:12.840 --> 0:12:16.920 Like depending on how she approaches me, Like she's like, bitch, 0:12:17.120 --> 0:12:20.680 are you fucking I'm like, yes, yes. Me and this 0:12:20.720 --> 0:12:23.000 girl knew each other first of all, that's why he lied. 0:12:23.040 --> 0:12:24.439 I think the reason why he lied to me is 0:12:24.440 --> 0:12:26.480 because he knew that I knew her. Yeah, he knew 0:12:26.480 --> 0:12:31.400 that I wasn't going to be cool with that. When 0:12:31.440 --> 0:12:34.120 she and me and her head a conversation, I told 0:12:34.120 --> 0:12:37.120 her everything. Yeah, I feel like you gotta if somebody 0:12:37.120 --> 0:12:38.680 even approached me that that first of all, you are't 0:12:38.679 --> 0:12:40.200 hearing ship from me because I'm hanging on the phone. 0:12:40.240 --> 0:12:45.040 But if I know the situation going into it, you know, 0:12:46.040 --> 0:12:48.240 if she I don't want to hurt no women's because 0:12:48.280 --> 0:12:49.840 no matter what, yeah, you could tell her about then 0:12:49.840 --> 0:12:51.880 of d I'm hurting her feelings. So I would not tell. 0:12:52.480 --> 0:12:54.400 First of all, I wouldn't lighten her. I'll just say no, 0:12:54.559 --> 0:12:59.679 we get like sounds really broken like this, I'll be like, 0:12:59.720 --> 0:13:05.599 I'm I'm not loving it because I like, if you 0:13:05.679 --> 0:13:07.840 acted like this over nigger, you need to go. You 0:13:07.880 --> 0:13:11.040 need to leave because not good for you. If you 0:13:11.200 --> 0:13:14.480 calling me, then that ain't really like check your man 0:13:14.720 --> 0:13:17.480 all four, don't call. I would never call the next woman. 0:13:17.840 --> 0:13:19.439 I'm gonna check him at the end of the day. 0:13:19.480 --> 0:13:21.360 But I would just tell him like you know now, 0:13:21.880 --> 0:13:23.880 you know if I know of now if he lied 0:13:23.880 --> 0:13:27.240 to me, actually yes, but if I know the situation, 0:13:27.240 --> 0:13:29.719 I would not, But I would have a conversation with 0:13:29.800 --> 0:13:32.720 him all right now. If she's calling me, that means 0:13:32.760 --> 0:13:34.640 you're moving in a way. You out here playing the field. 0:13:34.679 --> 0:13:35.959 You don't even know how to play the field, so 0:13:36.000 --> 0:13:37.920 you need to figure this out. I'm out, Like I 0:13:37.920 --> 0:13:40.320 probably would be out after that because if you don't 0:13:40.320 --> 0:13:44.560 have I have so if you don't have it, And 0:13:44.600 --> 0:13:46.720 that's why I was just like, yo, you're mad nussy. 0:13:46.880 --> 0:13:48.920 If she's finding out it means you're not treating her 0:13:48.960 --> 0:13:51.040 how she needs to be treated where she's even wondering. 0:13:51.080 --> 0:13:53.720 You move in sloppy, so that means I can't really 0:13:53.760 --> 0:13:55.720 deal with you. So we're good. We could be friends. 0:13:55.720 --> 0:13:57.920 Were out, but I'm gonna save this heartbreak for her 0:13:57.920 --> 0:13:59.920 and I'm not gonna say anything, but you need to 0:14:00.040 --> 0:14:03.080 just retired again, because I feel like if she's already 0:14:03.080 --> 0:14:05.439 growing through that she needs to be freed. But she 0:14:05.520 --> 0:14:09.240 gonna be Right's gonna stay with her. Let her then 0:14:09.320 --> 0:14:11.760 let her decide that offer. But you can't say you 0:14:11.760 --> 0:14:15.280 didn't enlighten another woman was always gonna and you won't 0:14:15.320 --> 0:14:17.320 blame you if you reach to the point where you 0:14:17.360 --> 0:14:21.760 call me, I'm gonna help you out, girl, because happened. 0:14:22.120 --> 0:14:25.840 I didn't have my ex boyfriend. He got back together 0:14:25.920 --> 0:14:28.320 with his ex girlfriend. Like when I first met him, 0:14:28.320 --> 0:14:30.520 they had broken up right, and then they ended up 0:14:30.520 --> 0:14:32.760 getting back together. She called me and by the way, 0:14:32.800 --> 0:14:34.680 it was like my second day on a new job. 0:14:35.000 --> 0:14:36.680 I ended up in the hallway talking to the girl 0:14:36.760 --> 0:14:39.680 for like two hours. And when I tell you, I 0:14:39.720 --> 0:14:44.720 was telling her everything period. But I also felt like 0:14:44.760 --> 0:14:46.920 he was lying to me, like he was so grimy. 0:14:47.040 --> 0:14:49.400 Let me tell you something he did. So I had 0:14:49.440 --> 0:14:53.000 just moved and he came over to my house one day. 0:14:53.000 --> 0:14:54.520 He was like, I want to come to your new place. 0:14:54.560 --> 0:14:56.480 I was like, all right. He came over, he had 0:14:56.520 --> 0:14:58.720 on sweats or whatever. I was like, where are you 0:14:58.760 --> 0:15:00.400 about to go? And he was no, I was just 0:15:00.440 --> 0:15:02.160 at home. I'm just gonna come and then he left. 0:15:02.480 --> 0:15:05.160 So it turns out like we were matching updates. It 0:15:05.160 --> 0:15:06.880 turns out he told that he was running to the gym, 0:15:07.880 --> 0:15:09.800 so he came over my house and acting like he 0:15:09.920 --> 0:15:12.680 was going to the gym and his sweats, and then 0:15:12.720 --> 0:15:14.680 came back. I was just telling her everything, but she 0:15:14.680 --> 0:15:16.840 ain't want to leave you. But she did throw all 0:15:16.880 --> 0:15:19.200 his clothes out the window. She um smashed his TV 0:15:19.600 --> 0:15:22.560 and everything because he was at work, and she told 0:15:22.560 --> 0:15:25.360 me she was staying. I was like, they're still together. 0:15:25.480 --> 0:15:28.080 Then she told me that she was pregnant and about 0:15:28.120 --> 0:15:29.440 to have a baby. And she told me that he 0:15:29.480 --> 0:15:31.840 also gave her STD. Do you think do you think 0:15:31.880 --> 0:15:35.560 there's a sharks, agent man or something. Um, I mean 0:15:35.560 --> 0:15:39.120 it's a lot of them in jail. I don't know 0:15:39.240 --> 0:15:44.320 that there's the guys will use that excuse, right, but 0:15:44.680 --> 0:15:48.560 there's a lot more women and so that's why you 0:15:48.600 --> 0:15:50.520 know they do act like that. But I don't feel 0:15:50.560 --> 0:15:52.280 like that. Like people would say it's hard to find, 0:15:52.720 --> 0:15:55.160 you know, a good man, but I feel like there's 0:15:55.160 --> 0:15:59.320 guys everywhere. Of course, yeah, but I don't know if 0:15:59.320 --> 0:16:02.280 there's good ones. That's the thing as a woman, you 0:16:02.320 --> 0:16:05.320 can't sit through everyone. If I feel like, when you 0:16:05.360 --> 0:16:07.640 find somebody who you can at least more to become 0:16:07.760 --> 0:16:10.960 somebody who will suit you the best, because nobody who 0:16:10.960 --> 0:16:12.400 you're going to find it is going to be perfect. 0:16:12.760 --> 0:16:15.560 Right now, you're right, because it's like my friend would 0:16:15.560 --> 0:16:17.440 be like, hit me up with somebody. I'm like, but 0:16:17.480 --> 0:16:20.520 nobody I know she's the best. She'll be like, I mean, 0:16:20.640 --> 0:16:26.760 you can mess with him, but I like that. But 0:16:26.880 --> 0:16:29.240 if you choose, that's what I'm saying, that's what you 0:16:29.240 --> 0:16:32.400 should tell them if they call you because you enlightened them, 0:16:32.480 --> 0:16:35.720 let them make the decision after by themselves. But you 0:16:35.760 --> 0:16:38.480 can't say you fear me. Now, let me ask you 0:16:38.520 --> 0:16:40.880 this because you have a son, right, how does he 0:16:40.920 --> 0:16:44.880 feel seeing like his mom blow up like this? Oh man? 0:16:45.160 --> 0:16:48.040 Sometimes he told he used to tell me that I'm 0:16:48.080 --> 0:16:50.800 too famous because every time we go we can't have phone. 0:16:50.840 --> 0:16:55.440 I'm always taking pictures. So that's why he actually told 0:16:55.480 --> 0:16:57.200 me that he don't want to be too famous. And 0:16:57.280 --> 0:16:59.160 ever since that, I kind of be stopped posting him 0:16:59.160 --> 0:17:01.040 on social media too, because you know, he's a kid. 0:17:01.560 --> 0:17:03.520 He wants to enjoy himself as a kid, and I 0:17:03.600 --> 0:17:06.480 try my best now to allow that because if it's 0:17:06.480 --> 0:17:09.439 bothering him that when we go out to have over 0:17:09.560 --> 0:17:11.840 time that people are coming in and whatever, then I'm 0:17:11.840 --> 0:17:15.320 trying to limit that for him. So people already know him, 0:17:15.400 --> 0:17:18.280 which he loves too. But I'm just trying to not 0:17:18.359 --> 0:17:21.679 to make it that big of a thing because he's 0:17:21.680 --> 0:17:25.040 in school. Yeah, he's just online. He's an online because 0:17:25.040 --> 0:17:27.600 I was gonna say, I know he's famous at school. Yeah, 0:17:27.720 --> 0:17:31.480 when his mom becoming to the PTA meetings. I saw 0:17:31.520 --> 0:17:33.440 your post when you had to bump in the middle 0:17:33.480 --> 0:17:35.520 of four. I had it in the background. That was 0:17:35.560 --> 0:17:38.440 just so cute to hear him in the background. Yeah, 0:17:38.480 --> 0:17:41.040 that's my baby. Though he's a portsman everything. He loves 0:17:41.119 --> 0:17:43.800 my music. If you put on any song, he finished it. 0:17:43.800 --> 0:17:48.120 It's not even like I just got to listen. Don't 0:17:48.200 --> 0:17:51.439 say that. But that's why it's important for me to 0:17:51.560 --> 0:17:53.879 to make different types of music too, you know. But 0:17:54.080 --> 0:17:56.919 some songs I'm an adult. My son can't stop me 0:17:56.960 --> 0:17:59.760 from being an adult. So I make adult music and 0:17:59.800 --> 0:18:02.439 some songs for kis as well that they feel comfortable singing. 0:18:03.000 --> 0:18:05.360 And now I saw people being like, oh, we want 0:18:05.359 --> 0:18:07.160 you to see it to be a dance hall artist, 0:18:07.480 --> 0:18:10.280 but you want to be an artist artist. It doesn't 0:18:10.320 --> 0:18:13.280 have to be any type of one genre, right, So 0:18:13.320 --> 0:18:16.000 how do you feel about that? Because people love you, right, 0:18:16.080 --> 0:18:18.000 and they feel like they want to keep you to 0:18:18.119 --> 0:18:21.640 themselves and this dance hall box. But at the same time, 0:18:21.680 --> 0:18:23.199 you're like, now, I want to be more than just 0:18:23.560 --> 0:18:26.080 more than? So what is like what is going on 0:18:26.119 --> 0:18:28.920 in your head when you see these comments? I mean, one, 0:18:29.440 --> 0:18:32.080 I feel it's a bit of sweet feeling, you know. 0:18:32.280 --> 0:18:35.320 I feel like, one, I'm following my dreams and when 0:18:35.359 --> 0:18:38.280 I do that, at the end of it, everybody's gonna 0:18:38.280 --> 0:18:40.800 come on board. But also I feel good to know that, 0:18:40.840 --> 0:18:42.440 you know, they love me so much, they just want 0:18:42.480 --> 0:18:44.720 me to stick to this, but at the same time, 0:18:44.880 --> 0:18:47.840 it's my life. If he me and I started my 0:18:47.920 --> 0:18:54.240 musical journey alone alone, everybody is came after if he me. 0:18:54.359 --> 0:18:57.520 So I know that within myself that whichever where I go, 0:18:58.359 --> 0:19:01.160 they will follow. There were ones will follow, and then 0:19:01.240 --> 0:19:04.040 after the clout ones will follow two because they're gonna 0:19:04.040 --> 0:19:07.760 call once you're successful. Nobody gives a ship what you do, right, 0:19:07.920 --> 0:19:10.240 They're gonna be there and supporting you. Now, we always 0:19:10.240 --> 0:19:12.040 liked you from the beginning. Every time I say your name, 0:19:12.080 --> 0:19:15.760 I have to say, like Shania, like yeah, I know, 0:19:15.840 --> 0:19:19.320 I remember. I'm super fan of the freestyles, Like I 0:19:19.400 --> 0:19:21.720 listened to them like three times, four times in a row, 0:19:21.720 --> 0:19:24.399 and then when they come up again, I listened and 0:19:24.400 --> 0:19:26.560 I don't even be listening to the freestyles like that 0:19:27.119 --> 0:19:30.200 right me. But I think it's because you do really 0:19:30.240 --> 0:19:33.520 represent for women, you know, And I feel like that's why, 0:19:33.520 --> 0:19:35.159 you know, I'm not the type of person to be 0:19:35.200 --> 0:19:37.239