Speaker 1: Rooking Jewels. Second date update. I know a lot of
Speaker 1: times in the second date updates I make fun of
Speaker 1: people for their date choices. Yeah, but I think today's
Speaker 1: date actually sounds like a good time. Apparently, Olivia, who
Speaker 1: was on the phone to do a second date update,
Speaker 1: went with the dude that she met to go to
Speaker 1: the park and drink some boxed wine. Yeah, sounds like
Speaker 1: a good date to me. What's up, Olivia? What's up?
Speaker 1: Was this classy boxed wine or really really bad boxed wine?
Speaker 1: It was like in the middle. I feel like it
Speaker 1: was an okay choice. And you're not a homeless person
Speaker 1: or anything, right, No, I have a home. Okay, tell
Speaker 1: us a little bit about the guy that you want
Speaker 1: to call today. What's his name? First of all? Okay,
Speaker 1: his name is Thomas, and we met at the coffee
Speaker 1: shop on my block. We had like ended up there
Speaker 1: at the same time, like several mornings in a row,
Speaker 1: and I had noticed that he was really cute, and
Speaker 1: he eventually introduced himself to me. How that goes? Like,
Speaker 1: my name's Thomas, I like, Phronsia, Do you fan? So?
Speaker 1: Its like we're a matchma to heaven? No kidding? Good? No?
Speaker 1: He like introduced himself and asked if I lived in
Speaker 1: the neighborhood, and like he was super nice, really cute,
Speaker 1: like dark hair, blue eyes, like you know, pulled together,
Speaker 1: looked like a grown up. You were excited every time
Speaker 1: you saw this guy in the coffee shop. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: of course. I mean it's like every woman like goes
Speaker 1: into coffee shop like expecting to meet the man of
Speaker 1: her green where that's where you guys troll for. I
Speaker 1: actually go for a tall latte, but apparently I was
Speaker 1: looking for the wrong thing. Well yeah, if you can
Speaker 1: get both, then like it's even better. Yeah, all right,
Speaker 1: So you've admired this guy from Afar for a little
Speaker 1: while and he finally approached you, right, he gave me
Speaker 1: his number and we like started texting back and forth,
Speaker 1: and I don't know, he was like really funny and
Speaker 1: it was going really well. So whose idea was the
Speaker 1: box wine in the park? That was my idea? All right,
Speaker 1: I like it. And was it a daytime date or
Speaker 1: were we talking two am box wine in the park,
Speaker 1: because that's a totally mean two very different scenarios there. No,
Speaker 1: this is like Saturday afternoon, gorgeous day. We had planned
Speaker 1: to get together, but we hadn't decided what we were
Speaker 1: going to do. And then it was so nice out.
Speaker 1: I was like, let's just go to the park. I'll
Speaker 1: bring wine. I didn't say boxed them with boxed wine
Speaker 1: at the park. Did you like the date? Do you think?
Speaker 1: I think so. I had a great time, Like like, yeah,
Speaker 1: we like went into the park. They like walked around
Speaker 1: a little bit. I brought a frisbee and it's like,
Speaker 1: I don't know, I like park dates because like going
Speaker 1: to the park you can like feel like a little
Speaker 1: kid kind of and just play and like you get it.
Speaker 1: You guys played did you guys play freeze tag? No? Played?
Speaker 1: Didn't seek? Though you actually played and Seek? Yeah? Well,
Speaker 1: so we like falked around a little bit. We drank
Speaker 1: some of the wine and we played hide and Seek.
Speaker 1: But like you know, I first thought we were playing
Speaker 1: like for fun, and then he like, hey, all these
Speaker 1: places that were like not really fair, Like he hid
Speaker 1: in the men's room. So did you feel like he
Speaker 1: was just trying to actually get away from you at
Speaker 1: that point or was he still being playful? I don't
Speaker 1: know if he was. It didn't work because I went
Speaker 1: in there. All right, you went in there and hung
Speaker 1: out with a dude in the men's room at a park.
Speaker 1: A lot of bad stuff has happened on a Saturday, right, No, No,
Speaker 1: I think all the time. Just that's a very very
Speaker 1: dangerous place to be so funny, I really think that
Speaker 1: this is a great date so far. Thank you. Why
Speaker 1: do you think he's not calling you back? The only
Speaker 1: thing I can think of is that I like maybe
Speaker 1: drank a little bit more than I should have, and like,
Speaker 1: you know, when I drink, I get like kind of
Speaker 1: loud and silly, and maybe he doesn't like that, especially
Speaker 1: because we were in public. Un't think I did anything
Speaker 1: too embarrassing, but like, I don't know. That's the only
Speaker 1: thing I can figure out. I thought I went really well.
Speaker 1: I mean, when you say you drank a little bit
Speaker 1: too much, you remember all the date right totally? Yeah,
Speaker 1: we did. Like after we left in the men's room,
Speaker 1: we like went hung out on the blanket for a while.
Speaker 1: We just talked. Was super cool. He gave me a
Speaker 1: kiss before we left the park, well kind of kiss
Speaker 1: lip kiss cheek kiss. It was like half cheek haf lip,
Speaker 1: so like the side of your mouth. Awkward. Yeah, that
Speaker 1: sounds okay, you guys were going in for a hug
Speaker 1: and then a last minute decided to kind of kiss.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, maybe I hate those. What's the last thing
Speaker 1: that he said to you? You thought he would call me?
Speaker 1: But when I didn't hear from him for a couple
Speaker 1: of days, I texted and said that I had a
Speaker 1: great date, which like usually when most guys, all you
Speaker 1: have to do is say like I'm into what's happening,
Speaker 1: and they're like on board. And I didn't hear back
Speaker 1: from him at all, which was super weird, and so
Speaker 1: I waited a little longer and then I called him.
Speaker 1: He didn't answer, and I worry if he was like
Speaker 1: even okay, So I like blocked my number and called
Speaker 1: him from my work phone and he picked up. But
Speaker 1: then I got really nervous because I was I going
Speaker 1: to explain that I was like calling him through my
Speaker 1: work phone, So I hung up. Did you at least
Speaker 1: breathe heavily to him for a little bit? No? I
Speaker 1: probably like, when like, all right, do you feel like
Speaker 1: we in retrospect? You like you kind of were a
Speaker 1: little crazy for a second, I know, but you know
Speaker 1: how it as when you meet someone that you really
Speaker 1: like and then you got one vibe and then all
Speaker 1: of a sudden, the vibe is totally different. It's like,
Speaker 1: what what happened? Okay, So we know he's alive because
Speaker 1: he's answering his phone, you know that much. You just
Speaker 1: don't know why he doesn't want to talk to you, right, No,
Speaker 1: I hope you can get him on the phone to
Speaker 1: find out, because if I'm putting off a weird vibe,
Speaker 1: I guess I want to know about it. Okay, well,
Speaker 1: we'll play a song, come back, call him and get
Speaker 1: your second date update. Okay, sound good? All right, hang
Speaker 1: on brooking jubil in the morning right in the middle
Speaker 1: of a second date update, and Olivia is on the phone.
Speaker 1: She went out with a guy named Thomas on a
Speaker 1: date to the park. They played a little frisbee, ran around,
Speaker 1: had some fun, and then of course the box wine happened,
Speaker 1: and then the date became kind of a blur. She
Speaker 1: says she got a little tipsy, but she does know
Speaker 1: that at the end of the date they sort of
Speaker 1: shared an awkward hug slash side kiss. He hasn't answered
Speaker 1: any of her phone calls or text except for the
Speaker 1: one call that she made from her office phone, where
Speaker 1: she blocked the number just to see if he'd picked up.
Speaker 1: He picked up, she panicked and then hung up the
Speaker 1: phone and didn't talk to him. So we know that
Speaker 1: he's at least answering his phone, and we're gonna attempt
Speaker 1: to get him on the line right now. Olivia, you're
Speaker 1: ready to go, I'm ready. I hope you guys can
Speaker 1: figure out what happened. I really thought we hit it off.
Speaker 1: You sound really rad, But do you think that maybe
Speaker 1: he was, I don't know, looking for more of a
Speaker 1: stereotypical girly Yeah, And that's the only thing I can
Speaker 1: think of is that I like scared him away with
Speaker 1: my like silliness and being like kind of loud and crazy.
Speaker 1: All right, I'm gonna call him right now. Are you ready? Okay?
Speaker 1: I think so? Here we go. Hello, Hi, is Thomas
Speaker 1: there speaking? Hey? What's up? Thomas? How are you? My
Speaker 1: name is Jewil from brook and Jewil in the Morning. Okay,
Speaker 1: it's a it's a radio show. Oh man, I think
Speaker 1: you got the wrong number. I've never signed up for
Speaker 1: any no I know, well, I know you didn't sign up,
Speaker 1: but I don't think I have the wrong number. Did
Speaker 1: you go out on a date with a girl named
Speaker 1: Olivia to the park a little while ago. Um maybe, okay,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take that as a yes, because if you didn't,
Speaker 1: you could have probably said no to that question pretty easily. Um. Well,
Speaker 1: Olivia actually emailed us to get a hold of you,
Speaker 1: all right, What does that have to do with me?
Speaker 1: She wants to know why you're not calling her back?
Speaker 1: Are sitting No, It's a segment we do on our
Speaker 1: show called the Second Date Update. Olivia said that she
Speaker 1: had a great time with you at the park and
Speaker 1: was totally expecting on going out again. But you haven't
Speaker 1: been answering any of her phone calls and kind of
Speaker 1: been ignoring her. So you mustn't know why. Well I'd
Speaker 1: rather not say, I mean, especially not on a radio show.
Speaker 1: So you do have like one reason. It's complicated. I
Speaker 1: mean that's what dating is, right, Can you give us
Speaker 1: anything to go on? She really wants to know it.
Speaker 1: All we're gonna do is get the answer from you
Speaker 1: and then report back to her. No, man, I mean
Speaker 1: just well, okay, well you can just color that. Um,
Speaker 1: we didn't really hit it off, and sometimes you know,
Speaker 1: you figure that out early on and that's all it was.
Speaker 1: From her description of what you guys did, it sounds
Speaker 1: like you had a great time. No, she's a fun girl.
Speaker 1: She's really attractive, great sense of humor. That's something I
Speaker 1: think is really important. Honestly, I think she's really cool.
Speaker 1: It's just it's it's not gonna happen. So, okay, is
Speaker 1: there anything that I can tell her, any reason why
Speaker 1: it's not going to happen other than just you don't
Speaker 1: want to well, I mean even if it's complicated, because
Speaker 1: she feels like she's been left hanging. She just wants
Speaker 1: to know. Why can you imagine here that like, Oh,
Speaker 1: I'm attractive, I'm fun I'm funny. So the problem is what, Okay,
Speaker 1: I met someone. You met somebody. I met someone. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, that's pretty okay, straightforward. You you found somebody
Speaker 1: else that you like more. Yeah. Actually, as it turns out,
Speaker 1: I met somebody the very same day at the time
Speaker 1: that I was with her at the park. I did
Speaker 1: not plan on that. It just happened that way. So
Speaker 1: you're out on a date with her and then you're
Speaker 1: like hitting up other girls. No no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: Like I said, I didn't I didn't plan on this
Speaker 1: at all. I wasn't hitting on anybody when this took place.
Speaker 1: This was not me going after someone. Okay, So somebody
Speaker 1: came up to you sort of, was it like after
Speaker 1: your date was over and you were going to Like,
Speaker 1: I just don't understand how that could happen when you
Speaker 1: were with her on your date the whole time. Well,
Speaker 1: there was a time where the two of us separated
Speaker 1: for a short time. Okay, Okay, she sub we play
Speaker 1: hide and seek? Yeah, and that is that when you
Speaker 1: met somebody? Yes, wait, you meet somebody else while I
Speaker 1: was hiding. You were hiding and you met another woman. No,
Speaker 1: not not exactly like that. And I was actually hiding
Speaker 1: in the men's room at the time. Oh whoa, That
Speaker 1: changes a story a little bit. I mean that's cool too.
Speaker 1: You met another woman or a man. I met somebody
Speaker 1: that came into the man's room. Put it that way, okay,
Speaker 1: stalled out. Okay, I don't think anyone's gonna argue that one.
Speaker 1: So are you gay? I don't really go by that
Speaker 1: kind of a label. I just you know, I go
Speaker 1: either way, you could say, or I dabble in both flavors. Okay,
Speaker 1: you follow you went to hide in the men's bathroom
Speaker 1: and you ended up meeting a dude. Due. Yes, I'm
Speaker 1: going to say right now, if you would have texted
Speaker 1: her back or explained that to her, I am pretty
Speaker 1: sure any woman with that excuse is gonna be like,
Speaker 1: all right, well I or they'd be like, wow, he's
Speaker 1: making up that big of a lie. Is that what?
Speaker 1: You didn't say anthing to her? Do you think she's
Speaker 1: not gonna believe that? No? I just think that it
Speaker 1: comes off really, I didn't want to come off like
Speaker 1: I was hitting somebody else up. Yeah, the way it
Speaker 1: went down, I was I was hiding in the men's bathroom.
Speaker 1: I was in the stall. I actually didn't lock the
Speaker 1: stall or whatever. And the guy opened it up. He's like,
Speaker 1: whoa hey, and and I just went right into an explanation.
Speaker 1: I said, I'm hi, I'm playing hide in the seat
Speaker 1: and he said what I was like, I know, it
Speaker 1: sounds weird and stuff, and then he started laughing a lot,
Speaker 1: playing myself and we I don't know, we just had
Speaker 1: like instinct chemistry and really cute and number and that's
Speaker 1: we're not we've been seeing each other. Wow. Wow, was
Speaker 1: so much more exciting than any bathroom I've ever been
Speaker 1: in that happened. Was he still in there when she
Speaker 1: went in and found you in the bathroom stall? Now
Speaker 1: he had left like a minute before she came into
Speaker 1: the bathroom, and I'm grateful for that. Yeah, that would
Speaker 1: have been awkward for your two dates to run into
Speaker 1: each other in the men's restroom. It would absolutely the
Speaker 1: uh most unique and just craziest way I've ever met somebody.
Speaker 1: M But it just happened naturally, and it felt very romantic.
Speaker 1: We crouched on top of a bathroom toilet in the
Speaker 1: men's room, meeting another guy, and it just sounds so romantic.
Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's such an awesome story. I
Speaker 1: think it's not the most romantic places to meet somebody,
Speaker 1: but it sparks flew and you know, you can't can't
Speaker 1: deny it, all right. I bet I know somebody who's
Speaker 1: going to be even more shocked about this story than us.
Speaker 1: She's on the other life, I'm listening and wants to
Speaker 1: talk to you. You kidding me? No, sus No, I
Speaker 1: am serious, Olivia, you're there? Um what I don't know
Speaker 1: what to say? UM, tell me you're making this up.
Speaker 1: I'm not making this up. I'm so sorry. It's not
Speaker 1: something to happen. So let me get this straight. We
Speaker 1: go on this awesome romantic date and you met a
Speaker 1: dude in the bathroom at the park and then you
Speaker 1: just ghosted on me. It sounds bad when you put
Speaker 1: it that way, but yeah, that's what happened. Is this
Speaker 1: even for real? Like you're not in the realm of
Speaker 1: possibility of what I thought happened. I wasn't in the
Speaker 1: realm of possibility of what I think anybody time. I
Speaker 1: thought for sure you were an annoying drunk the whole time.
Speaker 1: Thank you. I guess I don't know which is words, Olivia,
Speaker 1: I sincerely apologize. It was not anything that you did.
Speaker 1: I'd like you. I thought it was going great, but
Speaker 1: I just met somebody that I had instantly stronger feelings for.
Speaker 1: You met him in a bathroom stall. Yeah, we were
Speaker 1: in there. Is because I'm super fun and playing games,
Speaker 1: You're right, I mean, like, Olivia, I guess I have
Speaker 1: you to say for me meeting him. Olivia, you're a
Speaker 1: matchmaker and you had no idea. I guess we're gonna
Speaker 1: put that on a dating profile, like really good at
Speaker 1: hooking dudes up with other dudes in bathroom hessive trait
Speaker 1: that not many other people can play. You'll probably get
Speaker 1: a lot of people hitting you up. You know what, Olivia,
Speaker 1: maybe the three of us can just meet up. You
Speaker 1: might really like him and we could, you know, go
Speaker 1: to the coffee shop or something. Wh All right, on
Speaker 1: that note, you are open, sir, Oh my god, I
Speaker 1: can't believe this is really happening. That's happening. On that note, Thomas,
Speaker 1: would you like to go out with Olivia again? We
Speaker 1: will pay for a second date. You can bring along
Speaker 1: that dude and you guys can all go out and
Speaker 1: grab dinner or something. If she wants to go on
Speaker 1: a three way date. I'm in Olivia, come on, this
Speaker 1: is actually a once in a lifetime opportunity for you.
Speaker 1: I mean, an attractive guy you're already into. You went
Speaker 1: from having no date it's now a three way at
Speaker 1: a coffee shop. And what's more fun than that? No, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: you say you're fun and crazy like this is right
Speaker 1: up there with the kind of thing you say you do.
Speaker 1: There is no possible way I am doing this. I
Speaker 1: cannot believe. But this is why I got got oh, well,
Speaker 1: at least you don't have yourself to blame. I guess,
Speaker 1: are you sure? I mean it could be a lot
Speaker 1: of fun for all three of us? Yeah, no thing,
Speaker 1: all right? Thanks well, Thomas, thank you for being honest
Speaker 1: with us. Yeah, congratulations on your newfound relationship. Thank you.
Speaker 1: Good luck for you two, and Olivia. Sorry that you
Speaker 1: didn't get a second date. I'm gonna like go drink
Speaker 1: another box to wineing. Normally, if you're on a date
Speaker 1: with one person and you meet someone else during that date,
Speaker 1: it's very rude. But today's second date update was so
Speaker 1: shocking that it was like, okay, okay, yeah, sure, get
Speaker 1: after it. Then, I guess if you missed the second
Speaker 1: d update. Olivia wanted us to call a guy named Thomas.
Speaker 1: They went to the park, hung out, got a little drunk,
Speaker 1: played some games, including hide and seek, and when we
Speaker 1: got him on the phone, he was very reluctant and
Speaker 1: telling us why he wasn't calling her back, but we
Speaker 1: finally got it out of him. Apparently, while they were
Speaker 1: playing hide and seek, he went into the men's bathroom
Speaker 1: to hide in the stall, and then a dude walked
Speaker 1: into that same stall, and those two had a little
Speaker 1: bit of a love connection, and they got each other's
Speaker 1: numbers and everything, and then he left. She ended up
Speaker 1: finding him in the bathroom for Hide and Zeke, and
Speaker 1: then she was confused why he wasn't calling back. Turns
Speaker 1: out he's not calling back because he started a relationship
Speaker 1: with that dude. He sounds very happy though in his relationship. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he does anybody anybody on another while you're on a
Speaker 1: date or you're kidding. Yeah, but if you met someone
Speaker 1: else while you're on a date, same sex, you're like,
Speaker 1: that's rude, you're a jerk. But if it's like this
Speaker 1: and you didn't know that the guy swung all kinds
Speaker 1: of directions, you're like, okay, well, and that's fine. I
Speaker 1: guess at least he didn't do it in front of her,
Speaker 1: like he wasn't heading on somebody else blatantly in front
Speaker 1: of her. And he said he wasn't looking. It's just
Speaker 1: that the man found him during Hide and Zeke before
Speaker 1: she did. You could tell he felt bad too. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he was sorry about it. He just found somebody else,
Speaker 1: another dude, and man, that guy has got serious game.
Speaker 1: He did. He did offer another date with her, though
Speaker 1: he was like, yeah, we can go out again. You,
Speaker 1: the guy that I'm now dating, and me can all
Speaker 1: go out and get coffee and see what happens. And
Speaker 1: she turned it down. She was not interested in that.
Speaker 1: So one brought it up on text message right now.
Speaker 1: He said, I can't believe all three of you were
Speaker 1: so disappointed that she didn't say yes. Yeah. I was.
Speaker 1: I was like, she's you know, turning, Yeah, turn those
Speaker 1: lemons into lemonade. Lots of lemonade all over the place.
Speaker 1: All right. Remember, if you want to do a second
Speaker 1: day update, all you have to do is email the
Speaker 1: show and we will call the person who didn't call
Speaker 1: you back.