WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Bathroom Bonanza

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking Jewels. Second date update. I know a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>times in the second date updates I make fun of

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<v Speaker 1>people for their date choices. Yeah, but I think today's

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<v Speaker 1>date actually sounds like a good time. Apparently, Olivia, who

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<v Speaker 1>was on the phone to do a second date update,

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<v Speaker 1>went with the dude that she met to go to

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<v Speaker 1>the park and drink some boxed wine. Yeah, sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>a good date to me. What's up, Olivia? What's up?

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<v Speaker 1>Was this classy boxed wine or really really bad boxed wine?

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<v Speaker 1>It was like in the middle. I feel like it

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<v Speaker 1>was an okay choice. And you're not a homeless person

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<v Speaker 1>or anything, right, No, I have a home. Okay, tell

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<v Speaker 1>us a little bit about the guy that you want

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<v Speaker 1>to call today. What's his name? First of all? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>his name is Thomas, and we met at the coffee

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<v Speaker 1>shop on my block. We had like ended up there

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<v Speaker 1>at the same time, like several mornings in a row,

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<v Speaker 1>and I had noticed that he was really cute, and

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<v Speaker 1>he eventually introduced himself to me. How that goes? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>my name's Thomas, I like, Phronsia, Do you fan? So?

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<v Speaker 1>Its like we're a matchma to heaven? No kidding? Good? No?

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<v Speaker 1>He like introduced himself and asked if I lived in

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<v Speaker 1>the neighborhood, and like he was super nice, really cute,

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<v Speaker 1>like dark hair, blue eyes, like you know, pulled together,

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<v Speaker 1>looked like a grown up. You were excited every time

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<v Speaker 1>you saw this guy in the coffee shop. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>of course. I mean it's like every woman like goes

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<v Speaker 1>into coffee shop like expecting to meet the man of

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<v Speaker 1>her green where that's where you guys troll for. I

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<v Speaker 1>actually go for a tall latte, but apparently I was

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<v Speaker 1>looking for the wrong thing. Well yeah, if you can

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<v Speaker 1>get both, then like it's even better. Yeah, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>So you've admired this guy from Afar for a little

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<v Speaker 1>while and he finally approached you, right, he gave me

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<v Speaker 1>his number and we like started texting back and forth,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't know, he was like really funny and

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<v Speaker 1>it was going really well. So whose idea was the

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<v Speaker 1>box wine in the park? That was my idea? All right,

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<v Speaker 1>I like it. And was it a daytime date or

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<v Speaker 1>were we talking two am box wine in the park,

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<v Speaker 1>because that's a totally mean two very different scenarios there. No,

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<v Speaker 1>this is like Saturday afternoon, gorgeous day. We had planned

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<v Speaker 1>to get together, but we hadn't decided what we were

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<v Speaker 1>going to do. And then it was so nice out.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, let's just go to the park. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>bring wine. I didn't say boxed them with boxed wine

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<v Speaker 1>at the park. Did you like the date? Do you think?

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<v Speaker 1>I think so. I had a great time, Like like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we like went into the park. They like walked around

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit. I brought a frisbee and it's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I like park dates because like going

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<v Speaker 1>to the park you can like feel like a little

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<v Speaker 1>kid kind of and just play and like you get it.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys played did you guys play freeze tag? No? Played?

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<v Speaker 1>Didn't seek? Though you actually played and Seek? Yeah? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>so we like falked around a little bit. We drank

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<v Speaker 1>some of the wine and we played hide and Seek.

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<v Speaker 1>But like you know, I first thought we were playing

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<v Speaker 1>like for fun, and then he like, hey, all these

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<v Speaker 1>places that were like not really fair, Like he hid

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<v Speaker 1>in the men's room. So did you feel like he

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<v Speaker 1>was just trying to actually get away from you at

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<v Speaker 1>that point or was he still being playful? I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if he was. It didn't work because I went

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<v Speaker 1>in there. All right, you went in there and hung

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<v Speaker 1>out with a dude in the men's room at a park.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of bad stuff has happened on a Saturday, right, No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I think all the time. Just that's a very very

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<v Speaker 1>dangerous place to be so funny, I really think that

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<v Speaker 1>this is a great date so far. Thank you. Why

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<v Speaker 1>do you think he's not calling you back? The only

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<v Speaker 1>thing I can think of is that I like maybe

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<v Speaker 1>drank a little bit more than I should have, and like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, when I drink, I get like kind of

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<v Speaker 1>loud and silly, and maybe he doesn't like that, especially

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<v Speaker 1>because we were in public. Un't think I did anything

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<v Speaker 1>too embarrassing, but like, I don't know. That's the only

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<v Speaker 1>thing I can figure out. I thought I went really well.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, when you say you drank a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>too much, you remember all the date right totally? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we did. Like after we left in the men's room,

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<v Speaker 1>we like went hung out on the blanket for a while.

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<v Speaker 1>We just talked. Was super cool. He gave me a

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<v Speaker 1>kiss before we left the park, well kind of kiss

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<v Speaker 1>lip kiss cheek kiss. It was like half cheek haf lip,

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<v Speaker 1>so like the side of your mouth. Awkward. Yeah, that

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<v Speaker 1>sounds okay, you guys were going in for a hug

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<v Speaker 1>and then a last minute decided to kind of kiss.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, maybe I hate those. What's the last thing

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<v Speaker 1>that he said to you? You thought he would call me?

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<v Speaker 1>But when I didn't hear from him for a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of days, I texted and said that I had a

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<v Speaker 1>great date, which like usually when most guys, all you

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<v Speaker 1>have to do is say like I'm into what's happening,

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<v Speaker 1>and they're like on board. And I didn't hear back

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<v Speaker 1>from him at all, which was super weird, and so

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<v Speaker 1>I waited a little longer and then I called him.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't answer, and I worry if he was like

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<v Speaker 1>even okay, So I like blocked my number and called

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<v Speaker 1>him from my work phone and he picked up. But

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<v Speaker 1>then I got really nervous because I was I going

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<v Speaker 1>to explain that I was like calling him through my

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<v Speaker 1>work phone, So I hung up. Did you at least

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<v Speaker 1>breathe heavily to him for a little bit? No? I

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<v Speaker 1>probably like, when like, all right, do you feel like

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<v Speaker 1>we in retrospect? You like you kind of were a

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<v Speaker 1>little crazy for a second, I know, but you know

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<v Speaker 1>how it as when you meet someone that you really

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<v Speaker 1>like and then you got one vibe and then all

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<v Speaker 1>of a sudden, the vibe is totally different. It's like,

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<v Speaker 1>what what happened? Okay, So we know he's alive because

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<v Speaker 1>he's answering his phone, you know that much. You just

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<v Speaker 1>don't know why he doesn't want to talk to you, right, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I hope you can get him on the phone to

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<v Speaker 1>find out, because if I'm putting off a weird vibe,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I want to know about it. Okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll play a song, come back, call him and get

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<v Speaker 1>your second date update. Okay, sound good? All right, hang

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<v Speaker 1>on brooking jubil in the morning right in the middle

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<v Speaker 1>of a second date update, and Olivia is on the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>She went out with a guy named Thomas on a

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<v Speaker 1>date to the park. They played a little frisbee, ran around,

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<v Speaker 1>had some fun, and then of course the box wine happened,

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<v Speaker 1>and then the date became kind of a blur. She

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<v Speaker 1>says she got a little tipsy, but she does know

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<v Speaker 1>that at the end of the date they sort of

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<v Speaker 1>shared an awkward hug slash side kiss. He hasn't answered

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<v Speaker 1>any of her phone calls or text except for the

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<v Speaker 1>one call that she made from her office phone, where

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<v Speaker 1>she blocked the number just to see if he'd picked up.

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<v Speaker 1>He picked up, she panicked and then hung up the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and didn't talk to him. So we know that

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<v Speaker 1>he's at least answering his phone, and we're gonna attempt

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<v Speaker 1>to get him on the line right now. Olivia, you're

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<v Speaker 1>ready to go, I'm ready. I hope you guys can

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<v Speaker 1>figure out what happened. I really thought we hit it off.

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<v Speaker 1>You sound really rad, But do you think that maybe

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<v Speaker 1>he was, I don't know, looking for more of a

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<v Speaker 1>stereotypical girly Yeah, And that's the only thing I can

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<v Speaker 1>think of is that I like scared him away with

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<v Speaker 1>my like silliness and being like kind of loud and crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, I'm gonna call him right now. Are you ready? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>I think so? Here we go. Hello, Hi, is Thomas

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<v Speaker 1>there speaking? Hey? What's up? Thomas? How are you? My

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<v Speaker 1>name is Jewil from brook and Jewil in the Morning. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a it's a radio show. Oh man, I think

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<v Speaker 1>you got the wrong number. I've never signed up for

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<v Speaker 1>any no I know, well, I know you didn't sign up,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't think I have the wrong number. Did

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<v Speaker 1>you go out on a date with a girl named

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<v Speaker 1>Olivia to the park a little while ago. Um maybe, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna take that as a yes, because if you didn't,

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<v Speaker 1>you could have probably said no to that question pretty easily. Um. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>Olivia actually emailed us to get a hold of you,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, What does that have to do with me?

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<v Speaker 1>She wants to know why you're not calling her back?

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<v Speaker 1>Are sitting No, It's a segment we do on our

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<v Speaker 1>show called the Second Date Update. Olivia said that she

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<v Speaker 1>had a great time with you at the park and

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<v Speaker 1>was totally expecting on going out again. But you haven't

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<v Speaker 1>been answering any of her phone calls and kind of

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<v Speaker 1>been ignoring her. So you mustn't know why. Well I'd

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<v Speaker 1>rather not say, I mean, especially not on a radio show.

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<v Speaker 1>So you do have like one reason. It's complicated. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean that's what dating is, right, Can you give us

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<v Speaker 1>anything to go on? She really wants to know it.

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<v Speaker 1>All we're gonna do is get the answer from you

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<v Speaker 1>and then report back to her. No, man, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>just well, okay, well you can just color that. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't really hit it off, and sometimes you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you figure that out early on and that's all it was.

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<v Speaker 1>From her description of what you guys did, it sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like you had a great time. No, she's a fun girl.

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<v Speaker 1>She's really attractive, great sense of humor. That's something I

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<v Speaker 1>think is really important. Honestly, I think she's really cool.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just it's it's not gonna happen. So, okay, is

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<v Speaker 1>there anything that I can tell her, any reason why

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<v Speaker 1>it's not going to happen other than just you don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to well, I mean even if it's complicated, because

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<v Speaker 1>she feels like she's been left hanging. She just wants

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<v Speaker 1>to know. Why can you imagine here that like, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm attractive, I'm fun I'm funny. So the problem is what, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I met someone. You met somebody. I met someone. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, that's pretty okay, straightforward. You you found somebody

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<v Speaker 1>else that you like more. Yeah. Actually, as it turns out,

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<v Speaker 1>I met somebody the very same day at the time

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<v Speaker 1>that I was with her at the park. I did

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<v Speaker 1>not plan on that. It just happened that way. So

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<v Speaker 1>you're out on a date with her and then you're

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<v Speaker 1>like hitting up other girls. No no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I said, I didn't I didn't plan on this

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<v Speaker 1>at all. I wasn't hitting on anybody when this took place.

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<v Speaker 1>This was not me going after someone. Okay, So somebody

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<v Speaker 1>came up to you sort of, was it like after

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<v Speaker 1>your date was over and you were going to Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't understand how that could happen when you

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<v Speaker 1>were with her on your date the whole time. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>there was a time where the two of us separated

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<v Speaker 1>for a short time. Okay, Okay, she sub we play

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<v Speaker 1>hide and seek? Yeah, and that is that when you

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<v Speaker 1>met somebody? Yes, wait, you meet somebody else while I

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<v Speaker 1>was hiding. You were hiding and you met another woman. No,

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<v Speaker 1>not not exactly like that. And I was actually hiding

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<v Speaker 1>in the men's room at the time. Oh whoa, That

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<v Speaker 1>changes a story a little bit. I mean that's cool too.

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<v Speaker 1>You met another woman or a man. I met somebody

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<v Speaker 1>that came into the man's room. Put it that way, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>stalled out. Okay, I don't think anyone's gonna argue that one.

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<v Speaker 1>So are you gay? I don't really go by that

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<v Speaker 1>kind of a label. I just you know, I go

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<v Speaker 1>either way, you could say, or I dabble in both flavors. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you follow you went to hide in the men's bathroom

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<v Speaker 1>and you ended up meeting a dude. Due. Yes, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to say right now, if you would have texted

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<v Speaker 1>her back or explained that to her, I am pretty

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<v Speaker 1>sure any woman with that excuse is gonna be like,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, well I or they'd be like, wow, he's

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<v Speaker 1>making up that big of a lie. Is that what?

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't say anthing to her? Do you think she's

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna believe that? No? I just think that it

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<v Speaker 1>comes off really, I didn't want to come off like

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<v Speaker 1>I was hitting somebody else up. Yeah, the way it

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<v Speaker 1>went down, I was I was hiding in the men's bathroom.

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<v Speaker 1>I was in the stall. I actually didn't lock the

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<v Speaker 1>stall or whatever. And the guy opened it up. He's like,

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<v Speaker 1>whoa hey, and and I just went right into an explanation.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, I'm hi, I'm playing hide in the seat

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<v Speaker 1>and he said what I was like, I know, it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds weird and stuff, and then he started laughing a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>playing myself and we I don't know, we just had

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<v Speaker 1>like instinct chemistry and really cute and number and that's

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<v Speaker 1>we're not we've been seeing each other. Wow. Wow, was

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<v Speaker 1>so much more exciting than any bathroom I've ever been

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<v Speaker 1>in that happened. Was he still in there when she

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<v Speaker 1>went in and found you in the bathroom stall? Now

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<v Speaker 1>he had left like a minute before she came into

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<v Speaker 1>the bathroom, and I'm grateful for that. Yeah, that would

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<v Speaker 1>have been awkward for your two dates to run into

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<v Speaker 1>each other in the men's restroom. It would absolutely the

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<v Speaker 1>uh most unique and just craziest way I've ever met somebody.

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<v Speaker 1>M But it just happened naturally, and it felt very romantic.

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<v Speaker 1>We crouched on top of a bathroom toilet in the

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<v Speaker 1>men's room, meeting another guy, and it just sounds so romantic.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I think it's such an awesome story. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's not the most romantic places to meet somebody,

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<v Speaker 1>but it sparks flew and you know, you can't can't

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<v Speaker 1>deny it, all right. I bet I know somebody who's

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<v Speaker 1>going to be even more shocked about this story than us.

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<v Speaker 1>She's on the other life, I'm listening and wants to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you. You kidding me? No, sus No, I

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<v Speaker 1>am serious, Olivia, you're there? Um what I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what to say? UM, tell me you're making this up.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not making this up. I'm so sorry. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>something to happen. So let me get this straight. We

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<v Speaker 1>go on this awesome romantic date and you met a

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<v Speaker 1>dude in the bathroom at the park and then you

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<v Speaker 1>just ghosted on me. It sounds bad when you put

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<v Speaker 1>it that way, but yeah, that's what happened. Is this

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<v Speaker 1>even for real? Like you're not in the realm of

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<v Speaker 1>possibility of what I thought happened. I wasn't in the

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<v Speaker 1>realm of possibility of what I think anybody time. I

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<v Speaker 1>thought for sure you were an annoying drunk the whole time.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you. I guess I don't know which is words, Olivia,

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<v Speaker 1>I sincerely apologize. It was not anything that you did.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd like you. I thought it was going great, but

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<v Speaker 1>I just met somebody that I had instantly stronger feelings for.

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<v Speaker 1>You met him in a bathroom stall. Yeah, we were

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<v Speaker 1>in there. Is because I'm super fun and playing games,

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<v Speaker 1>You're right, I mean, like, Olivia, I guess I have

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<v Speaker 1>you to say for me meeting him. Olivia, you're a

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<v Speaker 1>matchmaker and you had no idea. I guess we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>put that on a dating profile, like really good at

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<v Speaker 1>hooking dudes up with other dudes in bathroom hessive trait

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<v Speaker 1>that not many other people can play. You'll probably get

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people hitting you up. You know what, Olivia,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe the three of us can just meet up. You

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<v Speaker 1>might really like him and we could, you know, go

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<v Speaker 1>to the coffee shop or something. Wh All right, on

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<v Speaker 1>that note, you are open, sir, Oh my god, I

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<v Speaker 1>can't believe this is really happening. That's happening. On that note, Thomas,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to go out with Olivia again? We

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<v Speaker 1>will pay for a second date. You can bring along

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<v Speaker 1>that dude and you guys can all go out and

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<v Speaker 1>grab dinner or something. If she wants to go on

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<v Speaker 1>a three way date. I'm in Olivia, come on, this

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<v Speaker 1>is actually a once in a lifetime opportunity for you.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, an attractive guy you're already into. You went

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<v Speaker 1>from having no date it's now a three way at

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<v Speaker 1>a coffee shop. And what's more fun than that? No, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>you say you're fun and crazy like this is right

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<v Speaker 1>up there with the kind of thing you say you do.

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<v Speaker 1>There is no possible way I am doing this. I

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<v Speaker 1>cannot believe. But this is why I got got oh, well,

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<v Speaker 1>at least you don't have yourself to blame. I guess,

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<v Speaker 1>are you sure? I mean it could be a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of fun for all three of us? Yeah, no thing,

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<v Speaker 1>all right? Thanks well, Thomas, thank you for being honest

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<v Speaker 1>with us. Yeah, congratulations on your newfound relationship. Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Good luck for you two, and Olivia. Sorry that you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't get a second date. I'm gonna like go drink

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<v Speaker 1>another box to wineing. Normally, if you're on a date

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<v Speaker 1>with one person and you meet someone else during that date,

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<v Speaker 1>it's very rude. But today's second date update was so

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<v Speaker 1>shocking that it was like, okay, okay, yeah, sure, get

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<v Speaker 1>after it. Then, I guess if you missed the second

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<v Speaker 1>d update. Olivia wanted us to call a guy named Thomas.

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<v Speaker 1>They went to the park, hung out, got a little drunk,

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<v Speaker 1>played some games, including hide and seek, and when we

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<v Speaker 1>got him on the phone, he was very reluctant and

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<v Speaker 1>telling us why he wasn't calling her back, but we

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<v Speaker 1>finally got it out of him. Apparently, while they were

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<v Speaker 1>playing hide and seek, he went into the men's bathroom

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<v Speaker 1>to hide in the stall, and then a dude walked

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<v Speaker 1>into that same stall, and those two had a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit of a love connection, and they got each other's

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<v Speaker 1>numbers and everything, and then he left. She ended up

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<v Speaker 1>finding him in the bathroom for Hide and Zeke, and

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<v Speaker 1>then she was confused why he wasn't calling back. Turns

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<v Speaker 1>out he's not calling back because he started a relationship

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<v Speaker 1>with that dude. He sounds very happy though in his relationship. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he does anybody anybody on another while you're on a

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<v Speaker 1>date or you're kidding. Yeah, but if you met someone

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<v Speaker 1>else while you're on a date, same sex, you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's rude, you're a jerk. But if it's like this

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<v Speaker 1>and you didn't know that the guy swung all kinds

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<v Speaker 1>of directions, you're like, okay, well, and that's fine. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess at least he didn't do it in front of her,

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<v Speaker 1>like he wasn't heading on somebody else blatantly in front

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<v Speaker 1>of her. And he said he wasn't looking. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>that the man found him during Hide and Zeke before

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<v Speaker 1>she did. You could tell he felt bad too. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he was sorry about it. He just found somebody else,

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<v Speaker 1>another dude, and man, that guy has got serious game.

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<v Speaker 1>He did. He did offer another date with her, though

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<v Speaker 1>he was like, yeah, we can go out again. You,

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<v Speaker 1>the guy that I'm now dating, and me can all

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<v Speaker 1>go out and get coffee and see what happens. And

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<v Speaker 1>she turned it down. She was not interested in that.

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<v Speaker 1>So one brought it up on text message right now.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, I can't believe all three of you were

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<v Speaker 1>so disappointed that she didn't say yes. Yeah. I was.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, she's you know, turning, Yeah, turn those

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<v Speaker 1>lemons into lemonade. Lots of lemonade all over the place.

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<v Speaker 1>All right. Remember, if you want to do a second

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<v Speaker 1>day update, all you have to do is email the

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<v Speaker 1>show and we will call the person who didn't call

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<v Speaker 1>you back.