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Speaker 1: Two Teas in a Pod which Teddy Mellencamp and Cambridge Edge.

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Speaker 2: Hi guys, welcome to another episode of Two Teas and

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Speaker 2: a Pod with Tamay. Okay, I'm good. I have a

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Speaker 2: lot of questions about Watch What Happens Live. Oh my god,

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Speaker 2: it was so much fun. It really was. I haven't

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Speaker 2: watched it.

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Speaker 3: I don't watch myself, so I don't know how it

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Speaker 3: came out, but I.

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Speaker 2: Thought it came out great. But my first question is,

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Speaker 2: at what point did you realize that you were wearing

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Speaker 2: the same outfit that Teresa wore.

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Speaker 3: Somebody actually sent me a message. I had it all

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Speaker 3: packed in my suitcase. I have my subscribers, you know,

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Speaker 3: account on Instagram. Yeah, so I showed them what I

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Speaker 3: was going to be wearing and the somebody goes, oh

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Speaker 3: my god, that's great.

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Speaker 2: It's great. And then one person goes.

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Speaker 3: I think Teresa wore that recently, and I went, oh shit.

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Speaker 2: So they sent me a picture. I go, yep, that's

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Speaker 2: the same one, and I'm like, oh, well, what can

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Speaker 2: you do? Right? And so it is what it is.

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Speaker 3: But I had a gene on gene on gene outfit

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Speaker 3: that was gonna wear. Sorry, Jean you know, Gene on

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Speaker 3: Gene and Jean's very very in style right now. So

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Speaker 3: I had a Gene dress with Jean boots and all

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Speaker 3: this to wear and Revolve lost my order the first

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Speaker 3: time ever in ten years or however long they've been around.

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Speaker 3: They lost my order. And I was on the phone

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Speaker 3: with them on Sunday. They're like, oh my god, I

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Speaker 3: got lost in transit.

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Speaker 2: So I, oh, yeah.

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Speaker 3: So I was kind of bummed about that because I

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Speaker 3: thought it was a really cute, kind of funky.

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Speaker 2: I wanted to be more casual, So I what did

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Speaker 2: Teresa wear that too? I have no idea.

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Speaker 3: And the reason why I pink is because I thought, oh,

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Speaker 3: it's Barbie Week.

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Speaker 2: I thought, you know, this is kind of a Barbie

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Speaker 2: pink outfit. Why not? But anyway, it was. It was

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Speaker 2: a lot of fun. So I had fun with Emily.

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Speaker 3: I didn't really get to spend much time with her,

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Speaker 3: only at the clubhouse because I got in at ten.

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Speaker 3: We stayed at the Royal ten, which is beautiful. Oh

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Speaker 3: my god, the room was huge. I think I showed

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Speaker 3: you a little video of it. Went to bed, got

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Speaker 3: up in the morning at six, had breakfast, went to

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Speaker 2: To go to the airport.

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Speaker 3: Had I left just a little bit or later, I

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Speaker 3: would have found out that my flight was canceled. As

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Speaker 3: I'm getting driven to the airport, thunderstorms, thunder and I'm

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Speaker 3: looking on the weather map and it says it's gonna

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Speaker 3: stop at six and my flight was at like six

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Speaker 3: forty five, and I thought, oh, I'm gonna make it. It's

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Speaker 3: gonna be fine. Nope, every flight at Newark Airport was canceled.

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Speaker 3: I never fly into that airport ever, so I'm not

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Speaker 3: familiar with it. I was literally like looking at my

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Speaker 3: phone in tears, going I wasn't gonna go because I'm

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Speaker 3: so busy right now. So I was just, you know,

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Speaker 3: I thought, I'm just gonna do a twenty four our trip. Well,

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Speaker 3: I ended up having to stay another day. They're gonna

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Speaker 3: put me back up in the hotel. And I thought,

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Speaker 3: you know what, I mightna go to Julius's house because

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Speaker 3: I haven't been there yet.

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Speaker 2: Well, I saw that you were at dinner with Margaret.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so we went to his house and then I'm like,

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Speaker 3: let's go to dinner. So Margaret lives like fifteen minutes away,

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Speaker 3: and we went to this cute little restaurant in this

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Speaker 3: cutest little town. I can't remember the name of it,

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Speaker 3: but just had dinner and then I mean we didn't

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Speaker 3: even take pictures. I think Julius videoed us walking in

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Speaker 2: But yeah, it was fun. They're getting they're getting ready soon.

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Speaker 2: I liked some of the questions. I okay, we're gonna

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Speaker 2: start out. We'll start out with yours, your watch what

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Speaker 2: Happens Live, and then let's go go to Jin's watch

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Speaker 2: what happens on. Oh I never saw hers, but okay, okay.

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Speaker 2: So first question was uh Andy essentially said I loved

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Speaker 2: the old Emily YadA, YadA, YadA. Emily was then asked

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Speaker 2: about the Zimpic craze. She says she was on it

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Speaker 2: her weight loss. What I loved about what Emily said

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Speaker 2: was she did change other things about her life. Now,

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Speaker 2: my issue with Ozimpic is always that people don't change.

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Speaker 3: Right and then they're going to gain it all back,

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Speaker 3: she continued to work. She works out seven days a week.

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Speaker 3: She is really strict with her food. And I'm not

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Speaker 3: saying like she's starving herself by any means. She's just

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Speaker 3: she's doing a bodybuilder's diet. She's doing lots of protein,

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Speaker 3: at Watcher Happens Lives she had her first couple classes

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Speaker 2: So she's doing it right and it's working.

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Speaker 3: And now she said she's realized, like oh my, oh god,

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Speaker 3: this is not rocket science.

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Speaker 2: Like you change your diet, you move your body and

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Speaker 2: yell lose weight. Yeah. She did say that Shane was

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Speaker 2: a little worried about there being like an obsessive like

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Speaker 2: the beginning when I changed my life, I was more

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Speaker 2: learned a healthy balance.

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Speaker 3: Like I'm like, okay, but you're also going to maintain

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm also in maintenance. So I think that that

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Speaker 2: it sounds so extreme, that sounds so crazy. It actually,

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Speaker 2: if you're wanting to shed, it does take that kind

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Speaker 2: once you get to the place where you want to be,

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Speaker 2: no matter what that is it looks different for everybody,

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Speaker 2: then you can be a little bit freer. But either way,

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Speaker 2: she is what is great. She's doing what she feels

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Speaker 2: is best for her. And what I love the most

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Speaker 2: more important. She's very She's always been very body positive.

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Speaker 3: She would wear clothes and show her body off and

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Speaker 2: So yeah, it's about how you feel. It's about how

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Speaker 3: And I think when somebody has confidence like that they

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Speaker 2: Then the next thing is Heather Aman comes up about

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Speaker 2: this Ryan on. Ryan is not Heather's type and he's

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Speaker 2: usually an NBA or an NFL player. Yeah, but I

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, I hear you've been talking a lot

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Speaker 2: I haven't been talking a lot of shit about her.

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Speaker 2: I just said, I don't think she did. I don't

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Speaker 3: But she didn't hammer, she didn't raise her voice, she

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Speaker 2: I think it's Tamra saying, so you left your family

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Speaker 2: and kids for this man, blah blah blah. We don't

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Speaker 3: Thirty seconds of a twenty minute conversation, right, I saw.

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Speaker 2: In my opinion, that conversation would better be had, would

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Speaker 2: But do you know why she was there? Why?

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Speaker 3: Because Ryan and Jen were calling and threatening her after

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Speaker 2: And she goes okay. But the point that I don't

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Speaker 3: None of us care that Ryan is a cheater. That's

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Speaker 3: not the point. Do I think he's a douchebag? Does

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Speaker 2: I have a text message from Heather to Jen. I

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Speaker 2: love that she got a readers out. I don't she's

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Speaker 3: Because when she found out that Ryan cheated on her

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Speaker 3: during casting, Heather was the one there for her. Heather

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Speaker 3: was the one feeling sorry for her, and she said,

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Speaker 3: you still have shame for what you did, but you

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Speaker 3: actually have a lot of real awareness and this isn't

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Speaker 3: going to break you, meaning her and Ryan breaking up right.

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Speaker 3: I'm very impress on how you were handling all this.

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Speaker 3: I don't think I would handle it this way with

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Speaker 3: any grace whatsoever, what's important. You always should remember you

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Speaker 3: are enough. You showed up with true authenticity and gave

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Speaker 3: You don't you didn't deserve this, You were tricked. Just

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Speaker 3: be strong, stay in your power, and you don't let

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Speaker 2: Again.

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Speaker 3: Heather was there like that kind of friend, non stop

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Speaker 2: But the point is that we didn't see that so

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Speaker 2: all it looked like it was like another person.

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Speaker 3: Because they're saying so they are thinking that Heather's telling

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Speaker 3: me everything bad.

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Speaker 2: Heather's not.

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Speaker 3: Heather's from Chicago. She's an Italian from Chicago. She is

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Speaker 3: closed lips. She didn't say anything. It took her two

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Speaker 3: years to tell me that he walked in that gym

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Speaker 2: Can you explain to me bringing up the casting process

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Speaker 2: when you on the watch what happens live.

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Speaker 3: Because people think like, oh my god, this poor girl.

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Speaker 3: She had no idea, No, she knew she chose to

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Speaker 3: stay with him, and so when she comes on the show,

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Speaker 3: and I'm sitting back now. Keep in mind, the first

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Speaker 3: four episodes, it was Emily and Gina that brought up

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Speaker 3: the cheating. I had no intentions of it.

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Speaker 1: Know.

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Speaker 2: I brought that up on the last Yeah, and.

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Speaker 3: When she got on the show, I told her, I said, listen,

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Speaker 2: A lot of the girls know what went down. If

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Speaker 3: Be honest, my suggestion to you is to tell them

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Speaker 3: none of your business. It's none of your business. That way,

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Speaker 3: the first four episodes I had to sit there and

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Speaker 3: For sure, he's been trying to get a hat business

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Speaker 2: Well, I this is one part. I appreciate sex scheduling,

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Speaker 3: So I feel like she hears soundbites and she tries

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Speaker 3: Because Doctor Pepper is like disgusting? Well, you know what

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Speaker 2: the same face that you made in the scene with

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00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:57,359
Speaker 2: Vicky and Shannon when you were alluding to the fact

438
00:21:57,359 --> 00:22:02,840
Speaker 2: that I ever had brought Shannon. Oh my gosh. Okay.

439
00:22:03,080 --> 00:22:08,439
Speaker 2: Then the last thing is Jen is asked what her

440
00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:10,920
Speaker 2: reaction was to Shannon, saying, you may be an idiot,

441
00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:12,320
Speaker 2: but you have to figure it out on your own.

442
00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:15,280
Speaker 2: In regards to her relationship with Ryan, and Jen says

443
00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:18,840
Speaker 2: Shannon was surprising for her since she has been warned

444
00:22:18,880 --> 00:22:22,920
Speaker 2: about Shannon from Tamra for so long. Okay, so this

445
00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:24,440
Speaker 2: is where I'm confused.

446
00:22:24,480 --> 00:22:28,840
Speaker 3: Okay, I did not warn Jen about one person on

447
00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:31,760
Speaker 3: the show. This has even come out of Jen's mouth,

448
00:22:31,840 --> 00:22:34,119
Speaker 3: and this is another way that I can prove to

449
00:22:34,119 --> 00:22:36,800
Speaker 3: you that she has a weird relationship with the truth

450
00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:41,280
Speaker 3: aka liar. When she got cassed on the show, she

451
00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:45,040
Speaker 3: asked me about everybody. Shannon had never even heard Jen's name.

452
00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:47,240
Speaker 3: Jen had never even heard Shannon's name.

453
00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:47,840
Speaker 2: I didn't.

454
00:22:48,320 --> 00:22:50,439
Speaker 3: There wasn't a conversation. That wasn't the kind of friend

455
00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:52,280
Speaker 3: I was with Jen. She came in, she worked out

456
00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:54,480
Speaker 3: on my gym, not set. When she got cast, she

457
00:22:54,560 --> 00:22:56,480
Speaker 3: asked me and I said, you know what I'm not

458
00:22:56,480 --> 00:22:58,560
Speaker 3: going to say anything. I want you to make your

459
00:22:58,640 --> 00:23:03,040
Speaker 3: own decision based on your time with that person into story.

460
00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:05,720
Speaker 3: Jenna even publicly said that recently.

461
00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:10,080
Speaker 2: Well, I can say something exciting that I learned is

462
00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:14,919
Speaker 2: that Andy's favorite number one second hand items in the

463
00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:20,640
Speaker 2: clubhouse are you're used implants two sets. But then he's

464
00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:23,680
Speaker 2: this actually worried me. I started like checking my own tits.

465
00:23:23,920 --> 00:23:28,040
Speaker 2: He said that one of them dried out. Oh oh,

466
00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:31,000
Speaker 2: it did that? Oh you know what?

467
00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:33,199
Speaker 3: I think it was the saline one one the first ones.

468
00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:35,440
Speaker 3: They're bigger silicons, the second or saline, because when I

469
00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:36,920
Speaker 3: gave him to him, I had had him out for

470
00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:39,000
Speaker 3: I don't know, four months or so, and I was

471
00:23:39,040 --> 00:23:42,399
Speaker 3: looking at it. I'm like, the water's evaporating, but it was.

472
00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:44,160
Speaker 3: It was blowing up like a balloon, like.

473
00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:47,800
Speaker 2: A canal action really small. Oh it is small. Yeah,

474
00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:50,200
Speaker 2: Like it looks like it's like soon it's just gonna

475
00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:53,960
Speaker 2: be plastic, isn't that? Isn't that scary? That well? That

476
00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:55,920
Speaker 2: that's why I was like, good thing, I've got my

477
00:23:56,080 --> 00:23:58,199
Speaker 2: natrel implants that are might I.

478
00:23:58,200 --> 00:24:00,840
Speaker 3: Don't know if that was some see weird that was

479
00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:05,040
Speaker 3: giving me like autoimmune issues because the other implant that

480
00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:09,159
Speaker 3: was removed state intact. This one, the sailine inside of

481
00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:12,000
Speaker 3: it was evaporating, but the but it was ballooning out

482
00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:12,720
Speaker 3: getting hard.

483
00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:15,919
Speaker 2: So it's a chemical reaction. Oh my gosh. Okay. So

484
00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:18,720
Speaker 2: then the last thing that we need to talk about,

485
00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:22,720
Speaker 2: which is actually something that was happening to me while

486
00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:27,200
Speaker 2: you were gone, was these leaked. So there was somebody

487
00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:32,199
Speaker 2: on Twitter that leaked the text messages that were shown

488
00:24:32,359 --> 00:24:37,000
Speaker 2: at the Real Housewives of New Jersey that reunion that

489
00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:40,960
Speaker 2: Jacqueline wrote to Jackie about Teresa, and it was shared

490
00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:44,120
Speaker 2: on the reunion and then by the way, they deleted

491
00:24:44,119 --> 00:24:47,639
Speaker 2: the tweet finally after I but like there was you know,

492
00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:50,840
Speaker 2: something like one hundred thousand views, which meant I got

493
00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:54,720
Speaker 2: one hundred thousand dms of people not getting that they

494
00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:57,000
Speaker 2: were trying to make a joke about it and saying

495
00:24:57,040 --> 00:25:00,320
Speaker 2: that I said these terrible things about Sutton, and you know,

496
00:25:01,640 --> 00:25:05,439
Speaker 2: I can be an asshole, but I don't talk like that.

497
00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:07,520
Speaker 2: You don't talk like that. That's why I don't talk

498
00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:10,399
Speaker 2: like that. And I'm not somebody that would say those things.

499
00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:13,040
Speaker 2: And the part that I love the most is that

500
00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:16,600
Speaker 2: even though Sutton and I are not. You know, we're

501
00:25:16,600 --> 00:25:19,879
Speaker 2: not the best of pals. I put something on my

502
00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:23,399
Speaker 2: Instagram that just said, you know, it was the tweet,

503
00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:26,920
Speaker 2: and I just said, clearly, I never said this about

504
00:25:26,920 --> 00:25:29,640
Speaker 2: Sutton Strack. Twitter do better. This was a text stone

505
00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:34,040
Speaker 2: in the Real Housewives New Jersey reunion. I get that

506
00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:36,679
Speaker 2: whoever posted thought they were being funny, but fifty percent

507
00:25:36,680 --> 00:25:39,520
Speaker 2: of the people didn't realize it was a joke. And

508
00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:42,480
Speaker 2: once again people came for me for something I didn't do.

509
00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:45,840
Speaker 2: And I tagged Sutton and I didn't assume for her

510
00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:48,679
Speaker 2: to write back, but this is this made me appreciate Sutton.

511
00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:51,880
Speaker 2: She wrote back the little kiddy face, laughing, and then

512
00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:56,160
Speaker 2: she wrote me in a boob job question mark, haha,

513
00:25:56,240 --> 00:25:56,920
Speaker 2: how funny.

514
00:25:57,119 --> 00:26:01,000
Speaker 3: Within the account, then tweeted for the who can't tell

515
00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:02,680
Speaker 3: it's a joke, it's a joke.

516
00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:08,639
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, well Candace Dillard even no, Well, she

517
00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:13,879
Speaker 2: sent me a text and she's like, girl, Sutton's my girl.

518
00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:15,720
Speaker 2: But I'm ready for you to get back on the

519
00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:17,800
Speaker 2: show and give some reads and like my reads would

520
00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:20,719
Speaker 2: be better than that, and we shall see.

521
00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:25,560
Speaker 3: But yeah, friend, Whitfield was almost on vander Pump Rules

522
00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:28,440
Speaker 3: it was a massive fan. I was a massive fan

523
00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:31,040
Speaker 3: of Beverly Hills because my best friend's mom was on it,

524
00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:34,480
Speaker 3: and that would be your friend, Lisa vander Pump. I'm

525
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:37,240
Speaker 3: friends with Pandora and actually, back in the day when

526
00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:39,840
Speaker 3: they were starting vander Pump Rules, they were like, we

527
00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:42,640
Speaker 3: are starting the show, would you maybe want to think

528
00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:45,000
Speaker 3: about being on it? I was like, well, I do

529
00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:47,600
Speaker 3: have to quit my job at the PR firm and

530
00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:49,520
Speaker 3: work to work out a restaurant.

531
00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:52,440
Speaker 2: I think I made out with that manager Peter once.

532
00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:55,320
Speaker 2: Make out with Peter, I don't know.

533
00:26:55,400 --> 00:27:00,640
Speaker 3: He must have some kind of magic power and gettings. Yeah,

534
00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:02,560
Speaker 3: but once at Halloween party in two thousand and six,

535
00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:04,720
Speaker 3: when I read that, I thought, I feel like Brenn

536
00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:05,360
Speaker 3: was born in.

537
00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:07,879
Speaker 2: Two thousand and six. She's not that old.

538
00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:12,760
Speaker 3: I told Lisa and Pandy I would never do a reality.

539
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:14,720
Speaker 2: TV like that is so trashy.

540
00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:18,159
Speaker 3: The second I got it, Pandy screenshot at it and

541
00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:19,479
Speaker 3: was like, really, bitch.

542
00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:23,840
Speaker 2: I was like, I'm poor, so she never really want

543
00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:26,479
Speaker 2: to be on really TV. But hey, she's honest. I

544
00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:29,240
Speaker 2: need the money. I need the money, honey.

545
00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:32,360
Speaker 3: You know what, well, I know you uplifting your life

546
00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:34,439
Speaker 3: from New York, to move to la to quit a

547
00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:37,120
Speaker 3: PR job, to work at a rest, work at a restaurant.

548
00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:40,000
Speaker 2: It's a lot, It's a lot. Well. I also saw

549
00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:46,000
Speaker 2: today that Arianna is refusing to film with Tom Sandoval,

550
00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:50,520
Speaker 2: and I feel like this is not going to ultimately

551
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:54,040
Speaker 2: end well for her. I also saw a bunch of things, Oh,

552
00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:56,160
Speaker 2: I like try you dodged one of the questions also,

553
00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:59,080
Speaker 2: and watch What Happens Live when you said you'd be

554
00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:02,880
Speaker 2: too old to be friends with. But either way, Kristen duty,

555
00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:06,160
Speaker 2: I think it's duty, dowdy, Christian duty. Her nails says

556
00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:11,960
Speaker 2: on dooty Kristin dowdy, fine, fine dody, it's dooty, doody,

557
00:28:12,200 --> 00:28:17,439
Speaker 2: Dooty's like poop dooty. I don't know. I don't like

558
00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:21,480
Speaker 2: Kristen from that Green Dress from Sandoval has a lot

559
00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:27,119
Speaker 2: to say about James Kennedy and how everybody has come

560
00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:29,800
Speaker 2: to support him and to so that they can all

561
00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:32,840
Speaker 2: attack Sandoval, and I just feel like this season is

562
00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:36,280
Speaker 2: going to get a little dicey, especially when cast members

563
00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:39,360
Speaker 2: refuse to film. Yeah, that never works out either. I'm

564
00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:41,520
Speaker 2: worried it's going to backfire.

565
00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:44,200
Speaker 3: But the thing is even if you refuse to film, like,

566
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:47,280
Speaker 3: don't say it, don't don't put it out there that

567
00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:49,560
Speaker 3: I'm refuse, like be in the room and don't engage

568
00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:52,680
Speaker 3: if anything. But by the way, I will say, I

569
00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:55,080
Speaker 3: would love to be BFFs with Lalla because I love her,

570
00:28:55,160 --> 00:29:00,840
Speaker 3: But to be Terracey Vegas with her and James Kennedy, Yeah,

571
00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:04,360
Speaker 3: I don't think that gonna work out.

572
00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:07,600
Speaker 2: Yeah we anyways, Okay. The only thing I can think

573
00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:10,080
Speaker 2: of was I'm too old for that. Yeah, I know.

574
00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:12,160
Speaker 2: That's why I was like, you gave it a good

575
00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:14,240
Speaker 2: dodge and we yeah. Yeah, because I want that to

576
00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:18,520
Speaker 2: be their mothers. Yeah. We do have another headline, which

577
00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:21,680
Speaker 2: is people curious about the thousand dollars lawsuit against Drew

578
00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:25,760
Speaker 2: Sidora that keeps coming up on Real Housewife of Atlanta. Monique,

579
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:29,640
Speaker 2: the person filing the claim against Drew was a pro say,

580
00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:32,520
Speaker 2: which is acting as her own attorney, which is likely

581
00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:35,120
Speaker 2: due to the small amount of money involved. And then

582
00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:40,520
Speaker 2: essentially both Drew and Monique are representing themselves. They've written,

583
00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:42,160
Speaker 2: they're both written their statements.

584
00:29:42,360 --> 00:29:44,760
Speaker 3: This is comic hold to me, because it costs more

585
00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:48,000
Speaker 3: money to file than to get the money. I mean

586
00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:49,880
Speaker 3: I'm sure they're in a small claims court because it's

587
00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:53,360
Speaker 3: undred three thousand dollars, but oh my god, just but.

588
00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:55,880
Speaker 2: I mean, also, I really feel like if we're talking

589
00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:59,200
Speaker 2: about one thousand dollars and if Monique what we're learning,

590
00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:02,680
Speaker 2: what we learned is Monique is best friends with Drew's

591
00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:06,040
Speaker 2: assistant of like eighteen years. It seems like to me

592
00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:08,560
Speaker 2: she came over to shadow. First, she tried to come

593
00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:11,280
Speaker 2: over as a chef Drew's saying that there was a

594
00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:14,840
Speaker 2: hair in it. Monique then said she still wanted another

595
00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:18,920
Speaker 2: job and another capacity, so she came to Shadow Danielle.

596
00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:21,720
Speaker 2: She helped nanny for the kids. Blah blah blah. She

597
00:30:21,840 --> 00:30:24,760
Speaker 2: reached out to Ralph allegedly asked for money. Ralph paid

598
00:30:24,760 --> 00:30:28,080
Speaker 2: her one hundred and fifty bucks for the day. Then

599
00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:31,240
Speaker 2: she said owed a thousand. But I'm going to read

600
00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:33,160
Speaker 2: the whole thing because it's so so stupid.

601
00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:35,719
Speaker 3: But there is a moral thing about lawsuits, and our

602
00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:38,360
Speaker 3: legal system just sucks so bad here in California. I

603
00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:40,760
Speaker 3: don't know about other states, but people can see you

604
00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:43,640
Speaker 3: for whatever reason, and then you have to hire an attorney,

605
00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:45,440
Speaker 3: and you have to pay the bills, and you have

606
00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:47,240
Speaker 3: to go to court and take time off, and it

607
00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:48,000
Speaker 3: is stressful.

608
00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:51,000
Speaker 2: You put your hands in front of a judge and

609
00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:51,560
Speaker 2: if you.

610
00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:53,640
Speaker 3: Lose, you might have to pay their legal Like it's

611
00:30:54,520 --> 00:30:58,600
Speaker 3: ridiculous the way it works, and she probably is just

612
00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:00,880
Speaker 3: I'd be stressed too. It's a thousand I mean I

613
00:31:00,920 --> 00:31:03,640
Speaker 3: was in a million dollar lawsuit. Can imagine my legal

614
00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:05,160
Speaker 3: fees for five hundred thousand.

615
00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:08,360
Speaker 2: Dollars and neither of them hired lawyers. That's to the

616
00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:11,000
Speaker 2: level it was. And then in the end of the day,

617
00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:15,200
Speaker 2: it looks like with the judgment it takes nothing from

618
00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:18,320
Speaker 2: both sides, so it's like just a wat waste of time.

619
00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:23,560
Speaker 2: It's over. I like you would be the least one

620
00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:26,600
Speaker 2: to actually be able to graduate from law school or

621
00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:30,040
Speaker 2: pass the bar as well. I mean I learned at

622
00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:30,880
Speaker 2: what this means.

623
00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:32,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, I learned a lot just going through a lawsuit.

624
00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:36,840
Speaker 3: And you know, a lot of people go after people

625
00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:40,040
Speaker 3: legally because they know it's such a process and it's

626
00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:47,680
Speaker 3: so draining mentally, physically, emotionally and financially that people pay

627
00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:50,720
Speaker 3: them off. And people do this for a living. They

628
00:31:50,720 --> 00:31:52,480
Speaker 3: will go after you and try to find a reason

629
00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:54,760
Speaker 3: to sue you and then they are expecting you to

630
00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:57,000
Speaker 3: pay them off. Well, I'll take you know, fifty thousand.

631
00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:02,160
Speaker 2: But also here's the thing. This is if you pre

632
00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:06,400
Speaker 2: negotiate an amount, this kind of thing doesn't happen. So

633
00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:09,320
Speaker 2: for anybody that's going to go work for anybody. So

634
00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:14,080
Speaker 2: like before I hire a babysitter, a nanny, somebody to

635
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:17,240
Speaker 2: give me a massage, whatever the situation is, I ask,

636
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:21,760
Speaker 2: what is your rate? Right right? Because that like for example,

637
00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:24,720
Speaker 2: you know, like with glam, would some glam will charge

638
00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:29,640
Speaker 2: you five hundred dollars fifty yeah, and I have Then

639
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:32,480
Speaker 2: if I wait and have somebody just do my glam

640
00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:34,800
Speaker 2: and then I get an invoice for fifteen hundred dollars,

641
00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:38,520
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be pissed, right if I dolt. Yeah, it's

642
00:32:38,520 --> 00:32:42,600
Speaker 2: my unfault. It's all advance. It's like me accidentally buying

643
00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:45,480
Speaker 2: the sweatshirt yesterday. That's not even that cute because I

644
00:32:45,520 --> 00:32:47,680
Speaker 2: was freezing at this meeting I was at and it

645
00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:52,640
Speaker 2: was two hundred dollars too. Oh my god, I was freezing.

646
00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:56,000
Speaker 2: I was by so I was in a white dress

647
00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:58,520
Speaker 2: and I was like tantage freezing, Okay, So I just

648
00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:01,000
Speaker 2: ran and grabbed it and then I got signed the

649
00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:02,680
Speaker 2: thing and it said two hundred and forty eight dollars.

650
00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:04,080
Speaker 2: I almost had a mental break.

651
00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:10,120
Speaker 3: This is a airport sweatshirt because I went to New

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Speaker 3: York in my skims long dress and a jean jacket. Right,

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Speaker 3: I brought a pair of sweats to sleep. It just

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Speaker 3: sweat sweatpants and a tiny little tank top.

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Speaker 2: So that's what I slept in.

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Speaker 3: Well, after two days in the skims dress, going on

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Speaker 3: the airplane yesterday, I thought, I'm just wearing my sweats literally,

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Speaker 3: a tiny tank top and sweats, and I have my

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Speaker 3: jean jacket on and it wasn't very warm and it

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Speaker 3: was uncomfortable.

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Speaker 2: So I went to the airport what do you call

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Speaker 2: it store and.

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Speaker 3: Got a twenty five dollars hoodie, which I thought was

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Speaker 3: quite a steal.

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Speaker 2: That is yours?

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Speaker 3: What five dollars in mine? Yeah, and this is what

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Speaker 3: I wore on the flight. How my black sweats and

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Speaker 3: this black sweatshirt.

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Speaker 2: Well, I love it. Thank you guys for tuning in today.

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Speaker 2: We will be back tomorrow with another episode of two

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Speaker 2: Teas and a Pod to recap all the things I

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Speaker 2: talk to. Then Tam mhm