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Hurry offer ends today. 18 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:19,920 Speaker 1: Buggle up and hold on tight. We got it for you. Here. 19 00:01:19,959 --> 00:01:24,120 Speaker 1: It is Strawberry letter, subject I can't believe he cheated 20 00:01:24,160 --> 00:01:27,759 Speaker 1: on me. Dear Stephen Shirley. I've been dating my guy 21 00:01:27,959 --> 00:01:32,320 Speaker 1: for almost three years. He's married, and I love him 22 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:35,679 Speaker 1: beyond words. There has never been any talk of him 23 00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:38,400 Speaker 1: leaving his wife, and I don't ever pressure him to 24 00:01:38,440 --> 00:01:41,360 Speaker 1: do so. We spent the night together for the first 25 00:01:41,440 --> 00:01:45,240 Speaker 1: time ever this past weekend, and the experience has made 26 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 1: me love him even more. Here's the problem. Twice in 27 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:52,520 Speaker 1: the past six months, he has walked in on me 28 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:56,000 Speaker 1: cheating on him. I was not in the act, but 29 00:01:56,080 --> 00:02:00,960 Speaker 1: I was getting dressed both times. I naturally to responsibility 30 00:02:01,040 --> 00:02:03,760 Speaker 1: for my actions, but only to find out that he's 31 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:06,520 Speaker 1: been cheating on me as well. It wasn't really a 32 00:02:06,560 --> 00:02:11,400 Speaker 1: surprise because I had my intuitions, but he's always denied it. 33 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:14,799 Speaker 1: I refuse to argue about it. What should I do? 34 00:02:15,160 --> 00:02:21,239 Speaker 1: I can't imagine my life without him. Please help? What? What? 35 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:26,520 Speaker 1: What do you want us to do with this? I mean, really, Yeah, 36 00:02:26,760 --> 00:02:29,919 Speaker 1: you're in a relationship with a merry guy. He's cheating. 37 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 1: You're cheating. You guys have nothing. You you have nothing. 38 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:37,960 Speaker 1: There's no trust, there's no loyalty, there's no commitment, there's 39 00:02:38,160 --> 00:02:41,480 Speaker 1: no love in this relationship. Even though you say you 40 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:43,440 Speaker 1: really love him after you spent the night with this 41 00:02:43,480 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 1: married man. Come on, that's lust And it sounds like 42 00:02:46,919 --> 00:02:49,560 Speaker 1: you guys have some sort of open relationship because you 43 00:02:49,600 --> 00:02:52,440 Speaker 1: guys are doing everyone you're doing it. He's caught you 44 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:56,840 Speaker 1: cheating twice or putting on your clothes afterwards twice. You've 45 00:02:56,880 --> 00:03:00,440 Speaker 1: caught him, although he's denied it. Um, this is just mess, 46 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:03,160 Speaker 1: I mean really, really, really, what do you want us 47 00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:05,919 Speaker 1: to do with this? Uh? You can't imagine your life 48 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:09,040 Speaker 1: without him? Well, why don't you try it? Okay, try 49 00:03:09,120 --> 00:03:13,040 Speaker 1: to imagine your life without this married, cheating guy. Try 50 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:17,400 Speaker 1: to imagine a better life for yourself. Okay, Uh, stop 51 00:03:17,400 --> 00:03:20,440 Speaker 1: seeing this married man. He's not going to change. You're 52 00:03:20,440 --> 00:03:23,519 Speaker 1: not going to change. The cheating is not going to stop. 53 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 1: You're still going to be number two, number three, number 54 00:03:26,880 --> 00:03:30,200 Speaker 1: four whenever he can get to you in his life. Okay, 55 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:33,520 Speaker 1: you've already wasted three years with this guy. Let's not 56 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:39,040 Speaker 1: make it for all, right, Steve, Uh, this is pretty 57 00:03:39,120 --> 00:03:42,240 Speaker 1: much I don't even know all why you would write 58 00:03:42,280 --> 00:03:47,080 Speaker 1: anybody with this because we don't have a solution for you, 59 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:53,720 Speaker 1: and you're actually not even looking for a solution. What 60 00:03:53,720 --> 00:03:57,720 Speaker 1: what do what do you have nothing here. This is nothing. 61 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 1: Ain't nobody lied to nobody. I don't hear nothing. Okay, 62 00:04:08,760 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I disconnected. I didn't hear anything. It's just 63 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:16,320 Speaker 1: that this is nothing that you have. You've been dating 64 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:19,000 Speaker 1: the guy for three years. He's married, and I love 65 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:22,920 Speaker 1: him beyond words, right down the old man line when 66 00:04:22,960 --> 00:04:28,240 Speaker 1: we post what. There has never been any talk of 67 00:04:28,320 --> 00:04:30,760 Speaker 1: him leaving his wife, and I don't ever pressure him 68 00:04:30,760 --> 00:04:35,599 Speaker 1: to do so. He's not leaving Hu. We spent the 69 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 1: night together for the first time, and and this past weekend, 70 00:04:38,640 --> 00:04:41,640 Speaker 1: and that experience it made me love him even more. Okay, 71 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:45,240 Speaker 1: here's the problem, not not all, not at all. The 72 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 1: problem is everything you've been typed up till you said, 73 00:04:49,080 --> 00:04:54,599 Speaker 1: here is the problem. The problem, lady. What Twice in 74 00:04:54,640 --> 00:04:57,240 Speaker 1: the past six months he has walked in on me 75 00:04:57,360 --> 00:05:01,839 Speaker 1: cheating on him, walked in you putting your clothes on. 76 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:07,000 Speaker 1: Both times I was not an act, but I was 77 00:05:07,040 --> 00:05:10,960 Speaker 1: getting dressed both times. I naturally took responsibility for Michael, 78 00:05:11,040 --> 00:05:16,480 Speaker 1: who else was in there? He walked in there with you. Okay, 79 00:05:16,480 --> 00:05:19,840 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get to my ass in a minute. I 80 00:05:19,880 --> 00:05:22,920 Speaker 1: wasn't surprised because I hadn't and then find out he's 81 00:05:22,960 --> 00:05:26,480 Speaker 1: been cheating on me as well. He was he married, 82 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:33,800 Speaker 1: Did she? Girl? Did she? It has been in three 83 00:05:33,880 --> 00:05:40,840 Speaker 1: years ago. I found out he cheated, he married, he'd 84 00:05:40,880 --> 00:05:44,680 Speaker 1: been cheating when you when you went, he saw you, 85 00:05:44,839 --> 00:05:54,200 Speaker 1: y'all you've been cheating. Hell, stupid ass letter. But he 86 00:05:54,240 --> 00:05:57,359 Speaker 1: has denied it. I refused to argue about it. What 87 00:05:57,400 --> 00:06:00,560 Speaker 1: should I do? I can't imagine my life without you 88 00:06:00,680 --> 00:06:05,760 Speaker 1: have nothing with him? All right, he's deal, he's married. 89 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:11,440 Speaker 1: What should I do? You should figure out the difference. 90 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:14,400 Speaker 1: You should start, just start by learning the difference between 91 00:06:14,520 --> 00:06:18,560 Speaker 1: right and wrong. Just try that, just just some basic information. 92 00:06:18,839 --> 00:06:20,719 Speaker 1: See your whole lot of wrong, and you're trying to 93 00:06:20,760 --> 00:06:24,000 Speaker 1: work something right out of this. We can't help you. Look, 94 00:06:24,080 --> 00:06:26,680 Speaker 1: everybody make mistakes. We are judging, but you out, you 95 00:06:26,720 --> 00:06:28,560 Speaker 1: all out of bouncing. Then you want to know how 96 00:06:28,600 --> 00:06:30,840 Speaker 1: you can get in bound. You gotta get on the field. 97 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 1: You're playing the game wrong. You're cheating with this man. 98 00:06:35,640 --> 00:06:38,960 Speaker 1: We can't do that. I can't imagine without life without him. 99 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:41,680 Speaker 1: You have nothing without him? All right, here's the whole 100 00:06:41,680 --> 00:06:46,560 Speaker 1: relationship is built on nothing. Here let's let's let me 101 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:48,440 Speaker 1: just lay out a couple of facts. Maybe you ain't 102 00:06:48,440 --> 00:06:51,480 Speaker 1: thought about this. You're ready. Here's two things. He ain't 103 00:06:51,520 --> 00:06:59,280 Speaker 1: your husband, and you ain't his wife. Oh man hurts 104 00:06:59,360 --> 00:07:05,359 Speaker 1: that that's the truth. Ain't yours and you ain't his wife. 105 00:07:06,240 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 1: Here's the other thing. He has a wife and you 106 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:17,560 Speaker 1: got two other men. That's crazy that he'd have walked 107 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:22,000 Speaker 1: in on you getting dressed. Now you didn't find out 108 00:07:22,080 --> 00:07:24,440 Speaker 1: he didn't cheat it with somebody else, and he'd been 109 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:32,800 Speaker 1: cheating with you the whole time. He's got yeah, he 110 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:35,360 Speaker 1: got a key. Come on then when he wants to. 111 00:07:36,440 --> 00:07:39,000 Speaker 1: I can't imagine my life without him. It ain't nothing 112 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:43,760 Speaker 1: with him, right, it ain't nothing with him? You know what? 113 00:07:44,360 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 1: I bet you I would get to imagine in my 114 00:07:46,160 --> 00:07:49,239 Speaker 1: life without trying it. You know what he needs to do. 115 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:52,559 Speaker 1: But see, he didn't hear the sad part about this dude. 116 00:07:52,720 --> 00:07:57,440 Speaker 1: He gonna get busted. He's gonna lose his wife over you, 117 00:07:59,760 --> 00:08:04,880 Speaker 1: and you already seeing two other men m this dude, 118 00:08:04,880 --> 00:08:07,920 Speaker 1: and to throw his wife out the window over you, 119 00:08:09,240 --> 00:08:12,320 Speaker 1: and you can't even get yourself a husband because you 120 00:08:12,480 --> 00:08:17,680 Speaker 1: with this other woman's hush, donn this is a disaster. 121 00:08:17,760 --> 00:08:21,040 Speaker 1: Why are we still talking about this? Letters? D oh no, 122 00:08:23,520 --> 00:08:26,120 Speaker 1: sir asked me a question about this letter. Let me 123 00:08:26,160 --> 00:08:29,080 Speaker 1: just get I mean, you know, just some people, just 124 00:08:29,280 --> 00:08:32,480 Speaker 1: just just so you know, women out there will understand it. 125 00:08:32,600 --> 00:08:35,480 Speaker 1: She said in the letter, it wasn't really a surprise 126 00:08:35,559 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 1: to her that he was cheating, but she had her intuitions. Okay, 127 00:08:41,960 --> 00:08:44,960 Speaker 1: listen to your intuition, right, didn't she listen? Yeah? But see, 128 00:08:44,960 --> 00:08:47,920 Speaker 1: but them ain't intuitions. You don't even need intuition to 129 00:08:48,000 --> 00:08:50,800 Speaker 1: know he cheating because he's been married with you for 130 00:08:50,880 --> 00:08:57,840 Speaker 1: three years. He already cheating. That ain't intuition. That's an admission. 131 00:09:00,440 --> 00:09:04,720 Speaker 1: It ran with intuition, but it's merely an admission. We'll 132 00:09:04,760 --> 00:09:06,920 Speaker 1: be back with the rest of this. I don't even 133 00:09:06,960 --> 00:09:14,640 Speaker 1: know what you're listening. Can we be honest? You go 134 00:09:14,679 --> 00:09:22,400 Speaker 1: ahead keeping I don't want to have nothing to say that. 135 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:24,760 Speaker 1: I mean, why you you're not trying to do right? 136 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:28,439 Speaker 1: You can't imagine yourself without him in your life, so 137 00:09:28,800 --> 00:09:31,800 Speaker 1: please help you trying to find a way to keep it. Okay, 138 00:09:31,880 --> 00:09:35,760 Speaker 1: then just keep seeing the married man. That's all you 139 00:09:35,840 --> 00:09:38,880 Speaker 1: gotta do. You got to help her with that. Now 140 00:09:38,880 --> 00:09:41,400 Speaker 1: I'm helping her. Keep saying she don't want to help. 141 00:09:42,040 --> 00:09:45,080 Speaker 1: She don't want to stop. She can't imagine her life 142 00:09:45,080 --> 00:09:48,960 Speaker 1: without him. And she's not pressuring him to leave her husband, 143 00:09:49,520 --> 00:09:52,320 Speaker 1: I mean his wife, because she's seeing two dudes on 144 00:09:52,320 --> 00:09:56,200 Speaker 1: the side. Herself such a mess. She just doing what 145 00:09:56,360 --> 00:09:58,720 Speaker 1: she want to do, and she liked doing it a lot. 146 00:09:59,440 --> 00:10:03,600 Speaker 1: So now now you haven't all here's a deal. You're 147 00:10:03,640 --> 00:10:07,719 Speaker 1: gonna pay for that. That's a cost to this. You're 148 00:10:07,720 --> 00:10:09,480 Speaker 1: gonna pay for it. They hate to tell you this, 149 00:10:10,000 --> 00:10:16,240 Speaker 1: but you're going to pay for that. Everybody does. When 150 00:10:16,320 --> 00:10:19,160 Speaker 1: you do wrong, you gotta pay for it. It comes 151 00:10:19,200 --> 00:10:28,080 Speaker 1: in one way or another. Man, help me, God, help 152 00:10:28,160 --> 00:10:34,839 Speaker 1: me get it right? No, tell me what? Do you? What? 153 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:41,360 Speaker 1: Is what? She's she's cheating, But ever thenly she's cheating 154 00:10:41,400 --> 00:10:44,720 Speaker 1: in the wrong places for somebody to keep walking in. 155 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:54,920 Speaker 1: You gotta find yes, both of y'all stids. You and 156 00:10:55,040 --> 00:11:00,880 Speaker 1: j just see him say something stupid. You can't usually 157 00:11:00,880 --> 00:11:04,280 Speaker 1: agree with him. But that was even before I got here, 158 00:11:06,160 --> 00:11:10,000 Speaker 1: before you even got on down the show over there. 159 00:11:10,040 --> 00:11:16,480 Speaker 1: I listen, I'm up. Tommy's absolutely right. I mean, don't 160 00:11:16,480 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 1: you agree that if you're gonna cheat, you need to 161 00:11:18,440 --> 00:11:20,680 Speaker 1: cheat in a place where nobody can walk in on you, 162 00:11:21,240 --> 00:11:23,000 Speaker 1: and then none of this would really be out right now, 163 00:11:23,040 --> 00:11:24,679 Speaker 1: we wouldn't need to be talking about this, wouldn't even 164 00:11:24,679 --> 00:11:28,160 Speaker 1: be a letter and issue out the dough before you be. 165 00:11:28,360 --> 00:11:33,200 Speaker 1: U's what I'm saying, and these other men, that's her 166 00:11:33,400 --> 00:11:35,640 Speaker 1: preparing herself to have something to fall back on. You 167 00:11:35,679 --> 00:11:38,600 Speaker 1: have to fall back on something. Quick pause, let me 168 00:11:38,679 --> 00:11:43,160 Speaker 1: check the door, right. Do you know Javid Tommy recently 169 00:11:43,240 --> 00:11:47,240 Speaker 1: just got married. I'm aware of that. Well, that's a surprise. 170 00:11:56,760 --> 00:12:02,080 Speaker 1: That was the fool. I didn't know to what level. 171 00:12:07,120 --> 00:12:11,120 Speaker 1: Cheat doesn't love to man, That's all I'm saying. Now. 172 00:12:11,200 --> 00:12:13,960 Speaker 1: They don't they do. No, no, no, they don't. You're 173 00:12:14,000 --> 00:12:16,440 Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.