WEBVTT - Episode 143: The Big O (Feat. Oloni) 0:00:02.520 --> 0:00:05.160 That's service. What's up? What's up? It's a lip service 0:00:05.320 --> 0:00:08.840 and I'm Angela. Ye, I'm Maguire, I'm Laurial And here's 0:00:08.840 --> 0:00:13.600 our special guest alone Aloney. Now usually we are in 0:00:13.720 --> 0:00:16.000 engine room, but today we are in the breakfast club 0:00:16.040 --> 0:00:21.800 studio because you're special special. She's only here visiting. I've 0:00:21.800 --> 0:00:24.160 been away. I've been really super busy, but I wanted 0:00:24.160 --> 0:00:25.560 to make sure that we got you on lip service 0:00:25.640 --> 0:00:28.680 before you left, because we really enjoy following you on 0:00:28.720 --> 0:00:31.840 social media. Like you, I appreciate that. I actually feel 0:00:31.880 --> 0:00:33.960 so amazing to be here today. It's like an honor 0:00:34.080 --> 0:00:35.800 to be here and sit with you guys because I 0:00:35.800 --> 0:00:39.640 listen to you guys all the time back home. I 0:00:39.720 --> 0:00:42.160 love you guys. No, but you do have a book 0:00:42.200 --> 0:00:45.120 coming out, and um the book is The Big Oh yes, 0:00:45.240 --> 0:00:48.239 the Big, which should be coming out hopefully at the 0:00:48.320 --> 0:00:50.800 end of this year. So I'm very excited. It's going 0:00:50.840 --> 0:00:54.480 to be about sexuality and relationships for millennials, so please 0:00:54.480 --> 0:00:56.480 do keep an eye out for it. Yeah, and support 0:00:56.520 --> 0:00:58.440 that go fund me. We're actually gonna donate from lip 0:00:58.480 --> 0:01:01.640 Service is over to make sure you guys go and donate. 0:01:01.760 --> 0:01:04.120 But you always have some really funny topics. Now. Something 0:01:04.160 --> 0:01:08.640 I still you posted, okay was about a guy who 0:01:08.680 --> 0:01:12.720 found out that his wife named their child after her ex. 0:01:12.760 --> 0:01:15.640 And he didn't know until they ran into one of 0:01:15.640 --> 0:01:18.520 her former friends, one of her friends from school, and 0:01:18.600 --> 0:01:21.720 introduced and she, you know, asked about the child and yeah, 0:01:21.800 --> 0:01:24.600 the child had a very unique name. And her friend said, oh, 0:01:24.760 --> 0:01:28.480 like your ex. And I found that so worrying, because 0:01:28.880 --> 0:01:31.520 what do you do in that situation? Do you start 0:01:31.560 --> 0:01:34.240 calling the child by their middle name or I mean, 0:01:34.280 --> 0:01:36.240 I had someone told me that they'd take a paternity test. 0:01:37.560 --> 0:01:39.800 It was that serious because you start to wonder. But 0:01:39.840 --> 0:01:41.520 I think that's quite cool that you could name a 0:01:41.600 --> 0:01:45.960 child after a previous partner. I mean, you gotta let 0:01:46.000 --> 0:01:48.920 your what your man know though, don't you think you do? 0:01:49.000 --> 0:01:51.400 You do? But I don't think he wouldn't even agree 0:01:51.800 --> 0:01:54.200 he would agree to that madness. To be honest, what 0:01:54.280 --> 0:01:56.240 do you guys think? Do you have like an exit 0:01:56.360 --> 0:01:58.600 you name your child after because you liked his name, 0:02:00.200 --> 0:02:02.320 his name. I'm trying so hard to shut up, but 0:02:02.360 --> 0:02:05.320 I got to say that. Lario, please be hoive, don't 0:02:05.400 --> 0:02:09.760 drag me. Jay Z Funk with Blue Care Trail. Yeah, 0:02:10.000 --> 0:02:13.640 that came to my mind the baby name blue. Every 0:02:13.639 --> 0:02:16.160 time I've seen that, I thought of that, and you know, 0:02:16.280 --> 0:02:18.840 like I don't know whether Beyonce was taking the hill 0:02:19.000 --> 0:02:23.040 job and was like, fun, Blueca Trail, like that's where 0:02:23.080 --> 0:02:26.920 the favorite color is blue. I'm sorry, it's just like 0:02:27.000 --> 0:02:29.240 that's just a little rough for me, and like, I 0:02:29.280 --> 0:02:32.280 love Beyonce, So when I see now, I just thought 0:02:32.320 --> 0:02:35.560 maybe it was her being a little shady, you know 0:02:35.600 --> 0:02:37.560 what I mean, like, ha ha, bitch, stow your name 0:02:37.639 --> 0:02:40.560 and your man. But you know she did, but in afair, 0:02:40.560 --> 0:02:43.320 and then she didn't know that jay Z did date 0:02:43.320 --> 0:02:48.800 Blue Can Trail, so I was a secret. It'd be different, 0:02:48.880 --> 0:02:50.919 right if you named it after X and the person 0:02:50.960 --> 0:02:55.040 had no idea to the exactly That's exactly what happened 0:02:55.120 --> 0:02:57.440 in this scenario. They bumped into the X and it 0:02:57.520 --> 0:02:59.359 was just like, wait, hold on, it's not the name 0:02:59.360 --> 0:03:05.040 of our child, and it was just yeah, my little heart, 0:03:05.680 --> 0:03:07.360 because I'm like, what are you still in love with 0:03:07.400 --> 0:03:09.920 this bitch? That's what I would think. Guys have an 0:03:09.919 --> 0:03:14.280 ex boyfriend whose name you like though, no, Lucia, I 0:03:14.320 --> 0:03:16.400 don't like that name. You should call him Lucifer. Like 0:03:16.440 --> 0:03:19.280 when we broke up. I called him Lucifer and he's gay. 0:03:19.760 --> 0:03:24.960 Lucifer and he's gay. Now wait, so you think he 0:03:25.040 --> 0:03:26.600 was gay while you were with him? Do you know what? 0:03:26.600 --> 0:03:29.240 It's crazy because actually lost my virginity to him. I 0:03:29.280 --> 0:03:31.079 know it's got so I was actually gonna put this 0:03:31.080 --> 0:03:32.840 in my book as well, but I actually lost my 0:03:32.880 --> 0:03:35.400 virginity to him. But he went out with another girl 0:03:35.840 --> 0:03:38.320 after me, who was like Oriental, and I was just like, 0:03:38.320 --> 0:03:39.760 it was her, right, it was her. It wasn't me. 0:03:40.120 --> 0:03:42.280 It was her. Like we still talk as friends, and 0:03:42.280 --> 0:03:46.000 he was just like, sure, if you want it's Asian, 0:03:46.080 --> 0:03:51.119 because Angela has corrected me on this, I just feel 0:03:51.160 --> 0:03:57.880 like an abject, like a rug. She's Asian. So um yeah. 0:03:57.960 --> 0:04:00.960 So he was just like, out, sure, if that's what 0:04:01.040 --> 0:04:02.760 you want to go by. It was her, it wasn't you. 0:04:02.920 --> 0:04:04.840 But did you guys break up? We broke up. I 0:04:04.840 --> 0:04:09.880 think I was too crazy for him. He was good 0:04:10.720 --> 0:04:12.120 could be a good reason, but the fact that he 0:04:12.160 --> 0:04:14.880 went out with another woman after me, I was just like, dude, 0:04:14.960 --> 0:04:20.720 come on, but I couldn't. But there was one time 0:04:20.760 --> 0:04:22.880 I remember he couldn't get up. But because I was 0:04:22.920 --> 0:04:25.279 so comfortable in my sexuality, and I knew that it 0:04:25.320 --> 0:04:27.839 was a thing that sometimes guys go through phases where 0:04:27.839 --> 0:04:30.000 they can't always get it up. So I didn't even 0:04:30.000 --> 0:04:32.040 assume that he could possibly be gay. And I think 0:04:32.080 --> 0:04:34.600 because I was so young, I was like eighteen, so 0:04:34.720 --> 0:04:37.560 I just assumed that, you know, this is just what happens. 0:04:37.600 --> 0:04:39.760 I've read about it before. It's completely fine, and he 0:04:39.800 --> 0:04:46.760 could get it up other times, and he was he 0:04:46.839 --> 0:04:51.800 was very He wasn't even willing Grace. He wasn't will 0:04:51.880 --> 0:04:55.000 or even Jack. He was very like, he was very match. 0:04:55.160 --> 0:04:56.880 So it never crossed my mindset when he told me, 0:04:56.920 --> 0:04:58.839 I was just like, no, why do you feel like 0:04:58.839 --> 0:05:00.520 he had to tell you? Because we were comfortable? And 0:05:00.520 --> 0:05:02.400 I think because I talk about sexuality, a lot of 0:05:02.440 --> 0:05:04.720 people just feel comfortable about telling me about their whole 0:05:04.760 --> 0:05:08.400 sex lives. So when he told that he always know 0:05:08.520 --> 0:05:11.000 he was gay or did he not come to terms 0:05:11.040 --> 0:05:13.440 with it until he had inklings? Like I think he 0:05:13.760 --> 0:05:16.440 always had an idea, But he said he was like bisexual. 0:05:16.480 --> 0:05:22.520 I was just bisexual. Your game bi sexual? So minute, 0:05:22.720 --> 0:05:25.320 that's just I think, you know, we have he He's 0:05:25.320 --> 0:05:31.440 definitely a talk only women could be bisexual. That's true. True, 0:05:31.800 --> 0:05:35.200 that's true. If you put your penis inside another man, 0:05:35.240 --> 0:05:37.760 you're gay. I mean, okay, I get it. But they 0:05:37.839 --> 0:05:45.719 might feel like vagina though, like vagina just I'm just joking. 0:05:46.600 --> 0:05:50.960 What if they try it, that's not bisexual? If they 0:05:50.960 --> 0:05:52.719 tried it once about that and they're just like, that's 0:05:52.720 --> 0:05:57.440 not for me. They tried sexually, they experimented, you guys sexy, 0:05:57.560 --> 0:06:00.360 tried now, but what would make you go that far 0:06:00.640 --> 0:06:02.440 that you're like, fucking let me try to get a 0:06:02.440 --> 0:06:07.120 dick up my asscause that's pretty. That's gay, Like you 0:06:07.160 --> 0:06:09.560 might also like women. Listen, I'm not gonna lie now 0:06:09.640 --> 0:06:12.559 alonely you can because your book is about millennials and sex, 0:06:12.880 --> 0:06:15.360 and I do feel like millennials nowadays are very um, 0:06:15.400 --> 0:06:18.599 what do they call it? Fluid with fluid, sexuality, fluid, 0:06:18.640 --> 0:06:22.160 all of that. All these new words are coming out. 0:06:21.839 --> 0:06:25.400 I'll keep you have fluids, all kinds of fluids. They're fluids, 0:06:25.839 --> 0:06:29.280 fluids all right. Now, another thing that you talk about is, um, 0:06:29.680 --> 0:06:31.720 can women live their best life or do we still 0:06:31.720 --> 0:06:34.520 have to have quite some way to go? You said 0:06:34.560 --> 0:06:38.280 to maintain a sex positive attitude towards women, because right 0:06:38.320 --> 0:06:39.880 now it does seem like and even when we do 0:06:39.880 --> 0:06:42.159 lip service, I noticed people will say things like, a 0:06:42.160 --> 0:06:47.120 bunch of hose I hate that, that's your mama has sex. 0:06:47.200 --> 0:06:54.359 That's happen here, a whole bunch of brothers and sisters. 0:06:54.440 --> 0:06:57.400 You know you're calling me a hope, but you don't 0:06:57.400 --> 0:06:59.599 know your daddy. So I always feel like they've always 0:06:59.640 --> 0:07:02.159 had a They've been a lot more accepting about sexuality, 0:07:02.279 --> 0:07:04.760 like in Europe than they are in the United Absolutely, 0:07:05.040 --> 0:07:07.560 you would think that. But he here's the thing. We 0:07:07.600 --> 0:07:11.160 feel like Americans are more. We think that you guys 0:07:11.200 --> 0:07:12.840 are more in the future because you guys be eating 0:07:12.960 --> 0:07:19.960 us and everything eating us back home. No, I like 0:07:20.440 --> 0:07:27.520 that eating to us. It's that fancier like I would 0:07:27.600 --> 0:07:34.320 like some us. I would like you to take my ass. 0:07:34.720 --> 0:07:41.720 That's just fly like groceries like. But yeah, I know, 0:07:41.840 --> 0:07:43.680 like to us is very diabolical. We're just like, why 0:07:43.720 --> 0:07:48.200 would you do that? Why would you why? So we don't. 0:07:48.280 --> 0:07:50.560 I mean, people are doing it, but they're not talking 0:07:50.600 --> 0:07:53.880 about it, but you guys talk about a lot more. 0:07:53.920 --> 0:07:56.040 I feel like you guys are a bit more sex positive, 0:07:56.120 --> 0:07:59.720 even like platforms to do with sex positive sex positivity, 0:08:00.000 --> 0:08:02.440 it's more, um, it's more rife in America than it 0:08:02.560 --> 0:08:05.080 is back home. I mean, if you guys getting cool holes, 0:08:05.120 --> 0:08:06.960 I get holes. I mean they call me hold only, 0:08:07.080 --> 0:08:13.520 like I've seen that, right, But yeah, it's very I 0:08:13.640 --> 0:08:16.560 get hold all the time just for talking about sex. 0:08:16.720 --> 0:08:18.200 And we get there too. Guys would be like a 0:08:18.200 --> 0:08:20.680 bunch of holes talking about sex, Like it's actually really 0:08:20.720 --> 0:08:23.240 important for us to have these discussions so that we 0:08:23.280 --> 0:08:26.040 don't feel like we're doing something so nasty and taboo. 0:08:26.080 --> 0:08:28.760 That's how people end up having complexes about storing and 0:08:28.840 --> 0:08:31.200 the show is not for them. Like, if you feel 0:08:31.240 --> 0:08:34.120 like that, then watch something else. Money. They're like in 0:08:34.280 --> 0:08:37.320 so many other podcasts you could be watching instead of 0:08:37.400 --> 0:08:41.120 just listening to hus and just criticize. To criticize, like 0:08:41.200 --> 0:08:42.760 you don't have to listen to this. But the reason 0:08:42.800 --> 0:08:44.680 why I always thought that because whenever I would come 0:08:44.720 --> 0:08:47.720 over to like if I was in London or you 0:08:47.720 --> 0:08:50.079 know whatever, they would have like sex on television and 0:08:50.160 --> 0:08:53.640 nudity and all of that and we can't have it. 0:08:53.640 --> 0:08:55.480 It was a long time ago, but I would come 0:08:55.520 --> 0:08:56.800 out there and I would be like, dam they just 0:08:56.920 --> 0:08:59.680 naked on TV. And it would be at night torobably 0:08:59.720 --> 0:09:03.559 really soft, so you can't do that at all. You 0:09:03.600 --> 0:09:09.599 can't see a nipple, like even after noting nothing on 0:09:09.800 --> 0:09:12.160 regular basic TV. So when I was young and I 0:09:12.240 --> 0:09:13.800 used to be a year but I would go then 0:09:13.840 --> 0:09:15.480 I'd be like, damn, they just had people on TV 0:09:15.640 --> 0:09:18.240 naked and we weren't used to like people just having 0:09:18.240 --> 0:09:20.480 their baggies out there like that. I don't know. I 0:09:20.520 --> 0:09:24.040 feel like with London there's still a lot more room 0:09:24.080 --> 0:09:27.160 for improvement when it comes to sexuality because you know, 0:09:27.240 --> 0:09:29.760 even the conversations of should a woman have a t 0:09:30.040 --> 0:09:33.520 out when she's breastfeeding, people are still against that forgetting 0:09:33.520 --> 0:09:35.520 that you know, breast is supposed to be feeding a child. 0:09:36.120 --> 0:09:41.640 You know they're too Yeah, there's always a debate about it. Yeah. See, 0:09:41.679 --> 0:09:44.280 so I felt like maybe probably both then have still 0:09:44.320 --> 0:09:46.280 have a you know, a long way to go when 0:09:46.320 --> 0:09:48.199 it comes to sexuality, and then you have a long 0:09:48.240 --> 0:09:50.640 way to go to for accepting it, because I don't know, 0:09:51.000 --> 0:09:52.959 they get mad at women for having sex, but it's 0:09:53.000 --> 0:09:54.760 just like if we don't have sex, who will you 0:09:54.800 --> 0:09:59.400 have sex with sex? And you know what I don't 0:09:59.440 --> 0:10:02.080 like though, because then when we do have nudity, which 0:10:02.080 --> 0:10:05.439 would be on like HBO or Cinemax and something like that. 0:10:05.679 --> 0:10:08.720 You don't see much dicks like you always see a pussy. 0:10:09.160 --> 0:10:13.480 You always did, you see males, but the most you know, 0:10:13.720 --> 0:10:16.000 you see like the crack of males. But remember that 0:10:16.040 --> 0:10:19.240 shows The Odds or whatever it was when they were 0:10:19.240 --> 0:10:21.319 all in jail. That's the first time I've seen a 0:10:21.400 --> 0:10:25.360 dick on TV. But and the only time show. Yeah, 0:10:25.360 --> 0:10:26.839 and it's a jail show, and I feel like that's 0:10:26.840 --> 0:10:28.920 the only time I've never seen a dick on TV. 0:10:29.080 --> 0:10:31.640 I'm trying to think I'm talking to you, but you've 0:10:31.640 --> 0:10:35.800 seen puts in cities before. Guys be self conscious, since 0:10:35.840 --> 0:10:37.880 you said os. One of my friends was on Odds right, 0:10:39.120 --> 0:10:41.200 and he hit me up and I asked me should 0:10:41.240 --> 0:10:42.400 he do it because it was like, you know, he 0:10:42.440 --> 0:10:45.400 had to do a scene where he's gay on the show. 0:10:45.480 --> 0:10:47.000 I thought he was asking me to do it because 0:10:47.040 --> 0:10:48.560 he didn't want to like kiss another man, but he 0:10:48.600 --> 0:10:51.200 was self conscious about his dick. Yeah, I've seen so 0:10:51.240 --> 0:10:53.600 many little dicks on that show like this. That's when 0:10:53.600 --> 0:10:55.600 I first knew what a little dick was from watching 0:10:55.800 --> 0:10:58.560 Like dad, I've never seen something I was a kid, 0:10:58.800 --> 0:11:01.400 so I knew it was small though, like I didn't. 0:11:01.400 --> 0:11:03.720 I was just like, what is that little thing hanging? Like? 0:11:04.000 --> 0:11:06.439 Was he was he hard at the time? Now they were, 0:11:06.520 --> 0:11:09.000 but I didn't know the different, like because this ship 0:11:09.040 --> 0:11:12.120 came out when I was very young, so to me 0:11:12.240 --> 0:11:14.079 to see the dick, it was exciting. I'm like, oh 0:11:14.080 --> 0:11:19.080 my god, the dick. But we were always like I mean, 0:11:20.880 --> 0:11:22.760 I was so yelling, that's got her on the path 0:11:22.880 --> 0:11:27.120 she's on. Then stop talking about I wanted to go 0:11:27.160 --> 0:11:34.320 to jail. I almost wanted to go to jail after 0:11:34.360 --> 0:11:36.280 seeing if they were not seeing them little ones. I 0:11:36.400 --> 0:11:39.520 was like, no, that don't look at a damn stay 0:11:39.520 --> 0:11:41.520 out here. But now it's true. It's it's like very 0:11:41.640 --> 0:11:45.480 rare that you see penis on television and a lot 0:11:45.520 --> 0:11:50.080 of guys that growers too. Let's keep it real growers. Yeah, 0:11:52.520 --> 0:11:54.719 let me see, yeah, let me see now. I was 0:11:54.800 --> 0:11:56.839 also since your book is called The Big Oh, I 0:11:56.960 --> 0:11:59.320 was like, let's talk about the Big Oh and orgasms. 0:11:59.480 --> 0:12:01.560 So I was reading about it, right, and they said 0:12:01.600 --> 0:12:05.120 that only eight percent of women who had said that 0:12:05.280 --> 0:12:07.679 verginal penetration alone was enough to make them come. That's 0:12:07.679 --> 0:12:10.760 a really smart percentage. Yeah, it is a actually yes, 0:12:10.840 --> 0:12:14.480 between seven five and eighty that actually can climax through 0:12:14.920 --> 0:12:18.640 um clitoral stimulation and then the rest can climax through 0:12:18.760 --> 0:12:23.720 penetration alone. Is that right? Well, they only eighteen percent 0:12:24.080 --> 0:12:27.600 can come just from verginal penetration. Oh, yeah, that's true. Yeah, 0:12:27.800 --> 0:12:30.000 it's very hard for the rest is clitoral. Yeah, and 0:12:30.040 --> 0:12:33.200 I wasn't surprised because I faked it so many times. 0:12:33.520 --> 0:12:36.440 I just if it don't happen, it don't happen. Right, Yeah, 0:12:36.760 --> 0:12:39.599 I faked it, but I I mean, I have faked it, 0:12:39.720 --> 0:12:41.920 but I'm not I have. They said one and four 0:12:42.000 --> 0:12:44.960 men have faked orgasm. I did to make it stop. 0:12:45.400 --> 0:12:52.079 I had enough, Yeah out of here? You know, no, 0:12:52.200 --> 0:12:54.040 I think I think too sometimes until I got older 0:12:54.040 --> 0:12:56.480 and I said, you know, this ship like it's just 0:12:56.559 --> 0:13:00.520 not working out. We need stop. But guys have actually 0:13:00.520 --> 0:13:03.080 admitted to faking it to me as well. Um, guys 0:13:03.120 --> 0:13:04.839 are spoken too in the past. They said, yeah, they've 0:13:04.840 --> 0:13:06.319 done it, and I've said, but why, and they said, 0:13:06.360 --> 0:13:09.280 you know, they've had enough. The pussy was trash um, 0:13:09.800 --> 0:13:12.920 So why not just be honest, like listen, trash trash, 0:13:13.559 --> 0:13:16.120 go do some ki goes, go learn how to get 0:13:16.160 --> 0:13:18.400 with I don't know that, but I feel like I 0:13:18.480 --> 0:13:20.920 feel like if I feel like it's a man, they 0:13:21.000 --> 0:13:26.320 do that little shake with a humping about them. Yeah, 0:13:27.280 --> 0:13:29.880 but you can't feel that with every guy. There's this 0:13:29.960 --> 0:13:32.920 one guy I used to date, and every time he came, 0:13:33.040 --> 0:13:38.240 I could feel his dick. Yes, it should be every 0:13:38.280 --> 0:13:43.960 time what's his name? You got me? Would you recommend 0:13:44.000 --> 0:13:45.400 a guy to one of your friends that you used 0:13:45.440 --> 0:13:48.640 to if they were good? I would? I would, I would? 0:13:48.920 --> 0:13:52.199 You know what we call that? What community? Did that 0:13:52.360 --> 0:13:54.760 dick for? Everybody? I girl? Get you something, girl? It 0:13:54.800 --> 0:14:00.280 ain't no fun if the homies yea hello, gonna you know? 0:14:03.559 --> 0:14:05.559 But I always feel like it's not a bad thing 0:14:05.760 --> 0:14:08.280 if you especially if it's not serious. If the relationship 0:14:08.320 --> 0:14:10.679 hasn't been serious, the relationship was serious, then I keep 0:14:10.679 --> 0:14:12.760 it quiet and I'm not telling my friends. I think 0:14:12.800 --> 0:14:14.920 my boyfriend is the only person who's dick I've never 0:14:15.000 --> 0:14:17.600 shown to my friends before, and that's because I love him. 0:14:17.920 --> 0:14:20.000 Any other guy who sends me a dick pic, I'm 0:14:20.040 --> 0:14:26.120 just like your boyfriend sends you dick picks. Now he does, 0:14:28.080 --> 0:14:30.160 but I don't care. And then he has sent you 0:14:30.360 --> 0:14:32.760 here he hasn't known since I've been here none. If 0:14:32.760 --> 0:14:35.000 I've been here none, do you know what I think? 0:14:35.160 --> 0:14:38.440 Because we've literally only faced times a couple of times 0:14:38.520 --> 0:14:41.240 and it's just been been bamboom, like okay, hye bye, 0:14:41.320 --> 0:14:43.440 I'll see you later, and then that's been it. But 0:14:43.880 --> 0:14:45.680 he doesn't. We don't really send each other stuff like that. 0:14:45.680 --> 0:14:47.440 I don't know why, now I think about it. I 0:14:47.480 --> 0:14:50.120 don't know why. But I sent him stuff from time 0:14:50.120 --> 0:14:51.840 to time. He tells me I don't, but I feel 0:14:51.880 --> 0:14:54.240 like I do. Doesn't send video of him like jerking 0:14:54.320 --> 0:14:56.600 off and stuff. No, he would never do that. He 0:14:56.800 --> 0:14:59.400 is so I would, but he would never do it. 0:15:00.040 --> 0:15:05.200 I would never do he would. He would never do that. See, 0:15:05.200 --> 0:15:07.280 that's the thing that's the difference between guys from London 0:15:07.320 --> 0:15:10.200 and America. They would, I think like guys from America 0:15:10.240 --> 0:15:12.480 would probably do that, but guys from that's from America 0:15:12.520 --> 0:15:14.280 would do it if you don't even ask them for it. 0:15:14.640 --> 0:15:18.320 Guy from America sending there to your m I got 0:15:18.440 --> 0:15:22.560 a guy more than one, the money shot and everything 0:15:23.840 --> 0:15:27.160 I was, and some guy from America. We weren't cand 0:15:27.160 --> 0:15:30.600 creating some guy from America. He we literally just swapped 0:15:30.600 --> 0:15:33.200 our names. We took our number. The next morning, we'd 0:15:33.240 --> 0:15:36.320 woken up to so many messages of his dick and 0:15:36.400 --> 0:15:40.080 we would we screamed. We were like, oh, I have 0:15:40.200 --> 0:15:43.120 a friend. This reminded me. I have a friend. UM, 0:15:44.200 --> 0:15:47.120 and she's she was dating this guy. And she said 0:15:47.160 --> 0:15:50.280 that like she wasn't initially attracted to him, um, but 0:15:50.440 --> 0:15:52.200 she like was going out with him because he was 0:15:52.240 --> 0:15:54.400 taking her the nice restaurants and you know, giving a 0:15:54.480 --> 0:15:56.240 nice gifts and stuff. And she said she had no 0:15:56.360 --> 0:15:59.120 intentions on having sex with him until just randomly he 0:15:59.200 --> 0:16:01.000 sent her a pit sure of his dick, and she 0:16:01.120 --> 0:16:03.840 was like, from that on, everything changed, did you know how? 0:16:04.640 --> 0:16:06.920 And she she told him, m yeah, the sex and good, 0:16:07.000 --> 0:16:09.520 she says. But she she told her like a few 0:16:09.640 --> 0:16:11.800 months or years or whatever down the line that I 0:16:12.200 --> 0:16:14.640 that's that was his thing, Like I do like I know, 0:16:14.920 --> 0:16:17.760 like I know I'm not the best looking guy, you know, rip, 0:16:18.120 --> 0:16:19.880 but I know what I'm working with, so that's what 0:16:20.120 --> 0:16:21.760 like that's my get him girl. Like I send that 0:16:21.840 --> 0:16:25.400 out and instantly and he was like you and yeah, 0:16:25.480 --> 0:16:27.000 she even told me, like listen, I would I had 0:16:27.040 --> 0:16:28.560 no intends on happen sex with him, ntil I saw 0:16:28.560 --> 0:16:30.040 his dick and when I saw it, I was like, oh, yes, 0:16:32.360 --> 0:16:35.360 she still with him for me, And it actually happened recently. 0:16:35.680 --> 0:16:37.800 I was talking to a guy like and I've been 0:16:37.840 --> 0:16:40.240 talking to him without whatever, whatever, and then one day 0:16:40.320 --> 0:16:44.160 he sent me a damn video of his things right, 0:16:44.600 --> 0:16:47.200 and I'm like, and it was a good size and everything, 0:16:47.280 --> 0:16:49.840 but I just felt like it freaked me out. I 0:16:49.960 --> 0:16:51.800 don't know why. I think it was more self because 0:16:51.800 --> 0:16:54.400 of the fact that, like, I didn't really know him 0:16:54.480 --> 0:16:57.200 like that. We just started talking. We didn't never do nothing. 0:16:57.720 --> 0:17:00.720 I didn't I told you I'll know you again later, 0:17:01.200 --> 0:17:03.600 but like basically like and it was a good size, 0:17:03.680 --> 0:17:06.320 and it was like everything was good and he's nice looking, 0:17:06.400 --> 0:17:12.399 got everything. But I was just like, does he just guys? 0:17:12.480 --> 0:17:15.159 Do I learn that from my friends? And it kind 0:17:15.200 --> 0:17:17.320 of was a turn off to me. So even though 0:17:17.480 --> 0:17:20.280 everything else is good about him, his conversation, everything, everything, 0:17:20.320 --> 0:17:22.480 it was when he sent the dick that I just 0:17:22.640 --> 0:17:24.920 was like, alright, I met a guy and he sent 0:17:25.000 --> 0:17:27.440 me his dick the next day and I never even responded. 0:17:27.480 --> 0:17:29.200 I sent it to all my friends and never responded 0:17:29.200 --> 0:17:31.840 back to him. And that's weird. I didn't even want 0:17:31.840 --> 0:17:33.919 to show it and it's like this is good. Hi, 0:17:34.280 --> 0:17:36.840 I'm Joey. Here's my dick. Like I don't want you 0:17:37.000 --> 0:17:40.560 organ Joey. I got those in my m that's people 0:17:40.680 --> 0:17:42.480 asking me like, hey, lord me, I just want to 0:17:42.520 --> 0:17:47.800 know because you always talk about and I'm just like, 0:17:48.400 --> 0:17:51.719 we have an email for that. Really yeah, pretty dick 0:17:51.800 --> 0:17:55.960 swagging and we get all contexts and people do have 0:17:56.160 --> 0:17:57.919 You know what's funny is that guys do have questions 0:17:57.960 --> 0:18:00.960 about their dick because they're like insecure here about it sometimes, 0:18:01.240 --> 0:18:02.760 so they'll send a picture, what do you think of 0:18:02.840 --> 0:18:04.520 my dick? Please let me know? How would you rate this? 0:18:04.640 --> 0:18:06.680 I'm sorry, don't send it to me because I'm gonna 0:18:06.680 --> 0:18:08.399 make a whole joke out of it. And people be 0:18:08.560 --> 0:18:11.960 doing it all the time. Raid it from zero to ten. 0:18:12.320 --> 0:18:15.920 I'm gonna show we can raid. We just ain't gonna 0:18:16.000 --> 0:18:19.000 let you know. Motherfucker is at one. I had a 0:18:19.000 --> 0:18:21.639 guy want to told me like that. I basically got 0:18:21.680 --> 0:18:23.159 the idea that his dick was small. He was just 0:18:23.280 --> 0:18:25.359 like girls usually told me, I know how to use it. 0:18:25.400 --> 0:18:28.760 I was just like, I don't even want to know 0:18:29.240 --> 0:18:31.720 what I had. I had a guy who didn't really 0:18:31.800 --> 0:18:35.680 have a big penis and the fact was really good. 0:18:35.760 --> 0:18:38.560 Well no, that's a different but yeah, ourself was really good. 0:18:38.880 --> 0:18:41.879 Like I was surprised that he probably made me come 0:18:42.119 --> 0:18:45.040 on internally on a more consistent basis than anybody else. 0:18:45.080 --> 0:18:52.120 And then he got tell the little dick guyan too 0:18:52.520 --> 0:18:55.560 like a puzzle pieces. Hey, I feel like maybe his 0:18:55.680 --> 0:18:58.560 whatever your spot is, whatever his career is, the tipper 0:18:59.040 --> 0:19:01.840 just some people sucking fit right together. And that's just 0:19:02.080 --> 0:19:03.439 is what it is. You have like a booger up 0:19:03.480 --> 0:19:10.560 your nose. He could take his little dick and you 0:19:10.640 --> 0:19:14.520 never tried to stick a dick there. I just that's 0:19:14.560 --> 0:19:17.520 my mouth like when he's over my face. But I 0:19:17.560 --> 0:19:21.200 don't come to shoot up my nose. Really, you get 0:19:21.359 --> 0:19:23.720 dick in your nose and come shoot up my like 0:19:23.800 --> 0:19:25.399 I'm trying to get it on my face and it 0:19:25.520 --> 0:19:27.240 kind of like want did you sniff it up and 0:19:27.400 --> 0:19:31.399 let up? No? Did you like the challenge? Did you do? 0:19:31.440 --> 0:19:33.320 You know? Somebody while they were coming and went down 0:19:33.359 --> 0:19:37.399 the wrong run, the wrong party, choke, I don't know 0:19:37.560 --> 0:19:40.720 you're about to come to. Yeah, that's why I can't 0:19:40.720 --> 0:19:44.320 show us housing in one ways to die. You know that, No, man, 0:19:44.400 --> 0:19:48.200 if you choked on seven and you died. That's pretty horrible. 0:19:48.280 --> 0:20:01.240 My parents would be like, really right now? You also 0:20:01.320 --> 0:20:05.399 talk about sugar daddies and sugar babies yea, d okay, 0:20:07.000 --> 0:20:12.120 we know who else? Like okay, geez, we know you've 0:20:12.160 --> 0:20:14.960 had a sugar dad. Do you like being a sugar baby? It? 0:20:15.800 --> 0:20:19.720 Would you do it again? Yeah? Alright? If I wasn't 0:20:19.720 --> 0:20:21.760 with my boyfriend, I would. I probably would because I 0:20:21.880 --> 0:20:24.080 see so many girls enjoying their lives and I'm just like, 0:20:25.680 --> 0:20:28.119 what am I doing here? Suffering? But what a terrible 0:20:28.480 --> 0:20:30.920 What do these guys look like? I don't know, but 0:20:31.040 --> 0:20:33.000 I get so because I do like anonymous stories. I 0:20:33.080 --> 0:20:35.520 get so many girls who asked me for tips or 0:20:35.680 --> 0:20:38.200 girls who share the experiences with me all the time, 0:20:38.240 --> 0:20:40.160 and I'm just like, what type of life are my living? 0:20:40.320 --> 0:20:43.239 Like I had my chance, you know, from twenty one 0:20:43.280 --> 0:20:45.600 to twenty five, and here I am in a relationship, 0:20:45.800 --> 0:20:48.399 Like seriously, but I think the most I've ever had, 0:20:48.440 --> 0:20:49.879 like an older man do for me is pay my 0:20:49.960 --> 0:20:55.520 phone bill once like that's here and sugar, that's the case. 0:20:56.119 --> 0:20:58.520 The most I've had, that's the most, Like I mean, 0:20:58.720 --> 0:21:00.800