Speaker 1: That's service. What's up? What's up? It's a lip service
Speaker 1: and I'm Angela. Ye, I'm Maguire, I'm Laurial And here's
Speaker 1: our special guest alone Aloney. Now usually we are in
Speaker 1: engine room, but today we are in the breakfast club
Speaker 1: studio because you're special special. She's only here visiting. I've
Speaker 1: been away. I've been really super busy, but I wanted
Speaker 1: to make sure that we got you on lip service
Speaker 1: before you left, because we really enjoy following you on
Speaker 1: social media. Like you, I appreciate that. I actually feel
Speaker 1: so amazing to be here today. It's like an honor
Speaker 1: to be here and sit with you guys because I
Speaker 1: listen to you guys all the time back home. I
Speaker 1: love you guys. No, but you do have a book
Speaker 1: coming out, and um the book is The Big Oh yes,
Speaker 1: the Big, which should be coming out hopefully at the
Speaker 1: end of this year. So I'm very excited. It's going
Speaker 1: to be about sexuality and relationships for millennials, so please
Speaker 1: do keep an eye out for it. Yeah, and support
Speaker 1: that go fund me. We're actually gonna donate from lip
Speaker 1: Service is over to make sure you guys go and donate.
Speaker 1: But you always have some really funny topics. Now. Something
Speaker 1: I still you posted, okay was about a guy who
Speaker 1: found out that his wife named their child after her ex.
Speaker 1: And he didn't know until they ran into one of
Speaker 1: her former friends, one of her friends from school, and
Speaker 1: introduced and she, you know, asked about the child and yeah,
Speaker 1: the child had a very unique name. And her friend said, oh,
Speaker 1: like your ex. And I found that so worrying, because
Speaker 1: what do you do in that situation? Do you start
Speaker 1: calling the child by their middle name or I mean,
Speaker 1: I had someone told me that they'd take a paternity test.
Speaker 1: It was that serious because you start to wonder. But
Speaker 1: I think that's quite cool that you could name a
Speaker 1: child after a previous partner. I mean, you gotta let
Speaker 1: your what your man know though, don't you think you do?
Speaker 1: You do? But I don't think he wouldn't even agree
Speaker 1: he would agree to that madness. To be honest, what
Speaker 1: do you guys think? Do you have like an exit
Speaker 1: you name your child after because you liked his name,
Speaker 1: his name. I'm trying so hard to shut up, but
Speaker 1: I got to say that. Lario, please be hoive, don't
Speaker 1: drag me. Jay Z Funk with Blue Care Trail. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that came to my mind the baby name blue. Every
Speaker 1: time I've seen that, I thought of that, and you know,
Speaker 1: like I don't know whether Beyonce was taking the hill
Speaker 1: job and was like, fun, Blueca Trail, like that's where
Speaker 1: the favorite color is blue. I'm sorry, it's just like
Speaker 1: that's just a little rough for me, and like, I
Speaker 1: love Beyonce, So when I see now, I just thought
Speaker 1: maybe it was her being a little shady, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, like, ha ha, bitch, stow your name
Speaker 1: and your man. But you know she did, but in afair,
Speaker 1: and then she didn't know that jay Z did date
Speaker 1: Blue Can Trail, so I was a secret. It'd be different,
Speaker 1: right if you named it after X and the person
Speaker 1: had no idea to the exactly That's exactly what happened
Speaker 1: in this scenario. They bumped into the X and it
Speaker 1: was just like, wait, hold on, it's not the name
Speaker 1: of our child, and it was just yeah, my little heart,
Speaker 1: because I'm like, what are you still in love with
Speaker 1: this bitch? That's what I would think. Guys have an
Speaker 1: ex boyfriend whose name you like though, no, Lucia, I
Speaker 1: don't like that name. You should call him Lucifer. Like
Speaker 1: when we broke up. I called him Lucifer and he's gay.
Speaker 1: Lucifer and he's gay. Now wait, so you think he
Speaker 1: was gay while you were with him? Do you know what?
Speaker 1: It's crazy because actually lost my virginity to him. I
Speaker 1: know it's got so I was actually gonna put this
Speaker 1: in my book as well, but I actually lost my
Speaker 1: virginity to him. But he went out with another girl
Speaker 1: after me, who was like Oriental, and I was just like,
Speaker 1: it was her, right, it was her. It wasn't me.
Speaker 1: It was her. Like we still talk as friends, and
Speaker 1: he was just like, sure, if you want it's Asian,
Speaker 1: because Angela has corrected me on this, I just feel
Speaker 1: like an abject, like a rug. She's Asian. So um yeah.
Speaker 1: So he was just like, out, sure, if that's what
Speaker 1: you want to go by. It was her, it wasn't you.
Speaker 1: But did you guys break up? We broke up. I
Speaker 1: think I was too crazy for him. He was good
Speaker 1: could be a good reason, but the fact that he
Speaker 1: went out with another woman after me, I was just like, dude,
Speaker 1: come on, but I couldn't. But there was one time
Speaker 1: I remember he couldn't get up. But because I was
Speaker 1: so comfortable in my sexuality, and I knew that it
Speaker 1: was a thing that sometimes guys go through phases where
Speaker 1: they can't always get it up. So I didn't even
Speaker 1: assume that he could possibly be gay. And I think
Speaker 1: because I was so young, I was like eighteen, so
Speaker 1: I just assumed that, you know, this is just what happens.
Speaker 1: I've read about it before. It's completely fine, and he
Speaker 1: could get it up other times, and he was he
Speaker 1: was very He wasn't even willing Grace. He wasn't will
Speaker 1: or even Jack. He was very like, he was very match.
Speaker 1: So it never crossed my mindset when he told me,
Speaker 1: I was just like, no, why do you feel like
Speaker 1: he had to tell you? Because we were comfortable? And
Speaker 1: I think because I talk about sexuality, a lot of
Speaker 1: people just feel comfortable about telling me about their whole
Speaker 1: sex lives. So when he told that he always know
Speaker 1: he was gay or did he not come to terms
Speaker 1: with it until he had inklings? Like I think he
Speaker 1: always had an idea, But he said he was like bisexual.
Speaker 1: I was just bisexual. Your game bi sexual? So minute,
Speaker 1: that's just I think, you know, we have he He's
Speaker 1: definitely a talk only women could be bisexual. That's true. True,
Speaker 1: that's true. If you put your penis inside another man,
Speaker 1: you're gay. I mean, okay, I get it. But they
Speaker 1: might feel like vagina though, like vagina just I'm just joking.
Speaker 1: What if they try it, that's not bisexual? If they
Speaker 1: tried it once about that and they're just like, that's
Speaker 1: not for me. They tried sexually, they experimented, you guys sexy,
Speaker 1: tried now, but what would make you go that far
Speaker 1: that you're like, fucking let me try to get a
Speaker 1: dick up my asscause that's pretty. That's gay, Like you
Speaker 1: might also like women. Listen, I'm not gonna lie now
Speaker 1: alonely you can because your book is about millennials and sex,
Speaker 1: and I do feel like millennials nowadays are very um,
Speaker 1: what do they call it? Fluid with fluid, sexuality, fluid,
Speaker 1: all of that. All these new words are coming out.
Speaker 1: I'll keep you have fluids, all kinds of fluids. They're fluids,
Speaker 1: fluids all right. Now, another thing that you talk about is, um,
Speaker 1: can women live their best life or do we still
Speaker 1: have to have quite some way to go? You said
Speaker 1: to maintain a sex positive attitude towards women, because right
Speaker 1: now it does seem like and even when we do
Speaker 1: lip service, I noticed people will say things like, a
Speaker 1: bunch of hose I hate that, that's your mama has sex.
Speaker 1: That's happen here, a whole bunch of brothers and sisters.
Speaker 1: You know you're calling me a hope, but you don't
Speaker 1: know your daddy. So I always feel like they've always
Speaker 1: had a They've been a lot more accepting about sexuality,
Speaker 1: like in Europe than they are in the United Absolutely,
Speaker 1: you would think that. But he here's the thing. We
Speaker 1: feel like Americans are more. We think that you guys
Speaker 1: are more in the future because you guys be eating
Speaker 1: us and everything eating us back home. No, I like
Speaker 1: that eating to us. It's that fancier like I would
Speaker 1: like some us. I would like you to take my ass.
Speaker 1: That's just fly like groceries like. But yeah, I know,
Speaker 1: like to us is very diabolical. We're just like, why
Speaker 1: would you do that? Why would you why? So we don't.
Speaker 1: I mean, people are doing it, but they're not talking
Speaker 1: about it, but you guys talk about a lot more.
Speaker 1: I feel like you guys are a bit more sex positive,
Speaker 1: even like platforms to do with sex positive sex positivity,
Speaker 1: it's more, um, it's more rife in America than it
Speaker 1: is back home. I mean, if you guys getting cool holes,
Speaker 1: I get holes. I mean they call me hold only,
Speaker 1: like I've seen that, right, But yeah, it's very I
Speaker 1: get hold all the time just for talking about sex.
Speaker 1: And we get there too. Guys would be like a
Speaker 1: bunch of holes talking about sex, Like it's actually really
Speaker 1: important for us to have these discussions so that we
Speaker 1: don't feel like we're doing something so nasty and taboo.
Speaker 1: That's how people end up having complexes about storing and
Speaker 1: the show is not for them. Like, if you feel
Speaker 1: like that, then watch something else. Money. They're like in
Speaker 1: so many other podcasts you could be watching instead of
Speaker 1: just listening to hus and just criticize. To criticize, like
Speaker 1: you don't have to listen to this. But the reason
Speaker 1: why I always thought that because whenever I would come
Speaker 1: over to like if I was in London or you
Speaker 1: know whatever, they would have like sex on television and
Speaker 1: nudity and all of that and we can't have it.
Speaker 1: It was a long time ago, but I would come
Speaker 1: out there and I would be like, dam they just
Speaker 1: naked on TV. And it would be at night torobably
Speaker 1: really soft, so you can't do that at all. You
Speaker 1: can't see a nipple, like even after noting nothing on
Speaker 1: regular basic TV. So when I was young and I
Speaker 1: used to be a year but I would go then
Speaker 1: I'd be like, damn, they just had people on TV
Speaker 1: naked and we weren't used to like people just having
Speaker 1: their baggies out there like that. I don't know. I
Speaker 1: feel like with London there's still a lot more room
Speaker 1: for improvement when it comes to sexuality because you know,
Speaker 1: even the conversations of should a woman have a t
Speaker 1: out when she's breastfeeding, people are still against that forgetting
Speaker 1: that you know, breast is supposed to be feeding a child.
Speaker 1: You know they're too Yeah, there's always a debate about it. Yeah. See,
Speaker 1: so I felt like maybe probably both then have still
Speaker 1: have a you know, a long way to go when
Speaker 1: it comes to sexuality, and then you have a long
Speaker 1: way to go to for accepting it, because I don't know,
Speaker 1: they get mad at women for having sex, but it's
Speaker 1: just like if we don't have sex, who will you
Speaker 1: have sex with sex? And you know what I don't
Speaker 1: like though, because then when we do have nudity, which
Speaker 1: would be on like HBO or Cinemax and something like that.
Speaker 1: You don't see much dicks like you always see a pussy.
Speaker 1: You always did, you see males, but the most you know,
Speaker 1: you see like the crack of males. But remember that
Speaker 1: shows The Odds or whatever it was when they were
Speaker 1: all in jail. That's the first time I've seen a
Speaker 1: dick on TV. But and the only time show. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and it's a jail show, and I feel like that's
Speaker 1: the only time I've never seen a dick on TV.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think I'm talking to you, but you've
Speaker 1: seen puts in cities before. Guys be self conscious, since
Speaker 1: you said os. One of my friends was on Odds right,
Speaker 1: and he hit me up and I asked me should
Speaker 1: he do it because it was like, you know, he
Speaker 1: had to do a scene where he's gay on the show.
Speaker 1: I thought he was asking me to do it because
Speaker 1: he didn't want to like kiss another man, but he
Speaker 1: was self conscious about his dick. Yeah, I've seen so
Speaker 1: many little dicks on that show like this. That's when
Speaker 1: I first knew what a little dick was from watching
Speaker 1: Like dad, I've never seen something I was a kid,
Speaker 1: so I knew it was small though, like I didn't.
Speaker 1: I was just like, what is that little thing hanging? Like?
Speaker 1: Was he was he hard at the time? Now they were,
Speaker 1: but I didn't know the different, like because this ship
Speaker 1: came out when I was very young, so to me
Speaker 1: to see the dick, it was exciting. I'm like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, the dick. But we were always like I mean,
Speaker 1: I was so yelling, that's got her on the path
Speaker 1: she's on. Then stop talking about I wanted to go
Speaker 1: to jail. I almost wanted to go to jail after
Speaker 1: seeing if they were not seeing them little ones. I
Speaker 1: was like, no, that don't look at a damn stay
Speaker 1: out here. But now it's true. It's it's like very
Speaker 1: rare that you see penis on television and a lot
Speaker 1: of guys that growers too. Let's keep it real growers. Yeah,
Speaker 1: let me see, yeah, let me see now. I was
Speaker 1: also since your book is called The Big Oh, I
Speaker 1: was like, let's talk about the Big Oh and orgasms.
Speaker 1: So I was reading about it, right, and they said
Speaker 1: that only eight percent of women who had said that
Speaker 1: verginal penetration alone was enough to make them come. That's
Speaker 1: a really smart percentage. Yeah, it is a actually yes,
Speaker 1: between seven five and eighty that actually can climax through
Speaker 1: um clitoral stimulation and then the rest can climax through
Speaker 1: penetration alone. Is that right? Well, they only eighteen percent
Speaker 1: can come just from verginal penetration. Oh, yeah, that's true. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's very hard for the rest is clitoral. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: I wasn't surprised because I faked it so many times.
Speaker 1: I just if it don't happen, it don't happen. Right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I faked it, but I I mean, I have faked it,
Speaker 1: but I'm not I have. They said one and four
Speaker 1: men have faked orgasm. I did to make it stop.
Speaker 1: I had enough, Yeah out of here? You know, no,
Speaker 1: I think I think too sometimes until I got older
Speaker 1: and I said, you know, this ship like it's just
Speaker 1: not working out. We need stop. But guys have actually
Speaker 1: admitted to faking it to me as well. Um, guys
Speaker 1: are spoken too in the past. They said, yeah, they've
Speaker 1: done it, and I've said, but why, and they said,
Speaker 1: you know, they've had enough. The pussy was trash um,
Speaker 1: So why not just be honest, like listen, trash trash,
Speaker 1: go do some ki goes, go learn how to get
Speaker 1: with I don't know that, but I feel like I
Speaker 1: feel like if I feel like it's a man, they
Speaker 1: do that little shake with a humping about them. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but you can't feel that with every guy. There's this
Speaker 1: one guy I used to date, and every time he came,
Speaker 1: I could feel his dick. Yes, it should be every
Speaker 1: time what's his name? You got me? Would you recommend
Speaker 1: a guy to one of your friends that you used
Speaker 1: to if they were good? I would? I would, I would?
Speaker 1: You know what we call that? What community? Did that
Speaker 1: dick for? Everybody? I girl? Get you something, girl? It
Speaker 1: ain't no fun if the homies yea hello, gonna you know?
Speaker 1: But I always feel like it's not a bad thing
Speaker 1: if you especially if it's not serious. If the relationship
Speaker 1: hasn't been serious, the relationship was serious, then I keep
Speaker 1: it quiet and I'm not telling my friends. I think
Speaker 1: my boyfriend is the only person who's dick I've never
Speaker 1: shown to my friends before, and that's because I love him.
Speaker 1: Any other guy who sends me a dick pic, I'm
Speaker 1: just like your boyfriend sends you dick picks. Now he does,
Speaker 1: but I don't care. And then he has sent you
Speaker 1: here he hasn't known since I've been here none. If
Speaker 1: I've been here none, do you know what I think?
Speaker 1: Because we've literally only faced times a couple of times
Speaker 1: and it's just been been bamboom, like okay, hye bye,
Speaker 1: I'll see you later, and then that's been it. But
Speaker 1: he doesn't. We don't really send each other stuff like that.
Speaker 1: I don't know why, now I think about it. I
Speaker 1: don't know why. But I sent him stuff from time
Speaker 1: to time. He tells me I don't, but I feel
Speaker 1: like I do. Doesn't send video of him like jerking
Speaker 1: off and stuff. No, he would never do that. He
Speaker 1: is so I would, but he would never do it.
Speaker 1: I would never do he would. He would never do that. See,
Speaker 1: that's the thing that's the difference between guys from London
Speaker 1: and America. They would, I think like guys from America
Speaker 1: would probably do that, but guys from that's from America
Speaker 1: would do it if you don't even ask them for it.
Speaker 1: Guy from America sending there to your m I got
Speaker 1: a guy more than one, the money shot and everything
Speaker 1: I was, and some guy from America. We weren't cand
Speaker 1: creating some guy from America. He we literally just swapped
Speaker 1: our names. We took our number. The next morning, we'd
Speaker 1: woken up to so many messages of his dick and
Speaker 1: we would we screamed. We were like, oh, I have
Speaker 1: a friend. This reminded me. I have a friend. UM,
Speaker 1: and she's she was dating this guy. And she said
Speaker 1: that like she wasn't initially attracted to him, um, but
Speaker 1: she like was going out with him because he was
Speaker 1: taking her the nice restaurants and you know, giving a
Speaker 1: nice gifts and stuff. And she said she had no
Speaker 1: intentions on having sex with him until just randomly he
Speaker 1: sent her a pit sure of his dick, and she
Speaker 1: was like, from that on, everything changed, did you know how?
Speaker 1: And she she told him, m yeah, the sex and good,
Speaker 1: she says. But she she told her like a few
Speaker 1: months or years or whatever down the line that I
Speaker 1: that's that was his thing, Like I do like I know,
Speaker 1: like I know I'm not the best looking guy, you know, rip,
Speaker 1: but I know what I'm working with, so that's what
Speaker 1: like that's my get him girl. Like I send that
Speaker 1: out and instantly and he was like you and yeah,
Speaker 1: she even told me, like listen, I would I had
Speaker 1: no intends on happen sex with him, ntil I saw
Speaker 1: his dick and when I saw it, I was like, oh, yes,
Speaker 1: she still with him for me, And it actually happened recently.
Speaker 1: I was talking to a guy like and I've been
Speaker 1: talking to him without whatever, whatever, and then one day
Speaker 1: he sent me a damn video of his things right,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, and it was a good size and everything,
Speaker 1: but I just felt like it freaked me out. I
Speaker 1: don't know why. I think it was more self because
Speaker 1: of the fact that, like, I didn't really know him
Speaker 1: like that. We just started talking. We didn't never do nothing.
Speaker 1: I didn't I told you I'll know you again later,
Speaker 1: but like basically like and it was a good size,
Speaker 1: and it was like everything was good and he's nice looking,
Speaker 1: got everything. But I was just like, does he just guys?
Speaker 1: Do I learn that from my friends? And it kind
Speaker 1: of was a turn off to me. So even though
Speaker 1: everything else is good about him, his conversation, everything, everything,
Speaker 1: it was when he sent the dick that I just
Speaker 1: was like, alright, I met a guy and he sent
Speaker 1: me his dick the next day and I never even responded.
Speaker 1: I sent it to all my friends and never responded
Speaker 1: back to him. And that's weird. I didn't even want
Speaker 1: to show it and it's like this is good. Hi,
Speaker 1: I'm Joey. Here's my dick. Like I don't want you
Speaker 1: organ Joey. I got those in my m that's people
Speaker 1: asking me like, hey, lord me, I just want to
Speaker 1: know because you always talk about and I'm just like,
Speaker 1: we have an email for that. Really yeah, pretty dick
Speaker 1: swagging and we get all contexts and people do have
Speaker 1: You know what's funny is that guys do have questions
Speaker 1: about their dick because they're like insecure here about it sometimes,
Speaker 1: so they'll send a picture, what do you think of
Speaker 1: my dick? Please let me know? How would you rate this?
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, don't send it to me because I'm gonna
Speaker 1: make a whole joke out of it. And people be
Speaker 1: doing it all the time. Raid it from zero to ten.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna show we can raid. We just ain't gonna
Speaker 1: let you know. Motherfucker is at one. I had a
Speaker 1: guy want to told me like that. I basically got
Speaker 1: the idea that his dick was small. He was just
Speaker 1: like girls usually told me, I know how to use it.
Speaker 1: I was just like, I don't even want to know
Speaker 1: what I had. I had a guy who didn't really
Speaker 1: have a big penis and the fact was really good.
Speaker 1: Well no, that's a different but yeah, ourself was really good.
Speaker 1: Like I was surprised that he probably made me come
Speaker 1: on internally on a more consistent basis than anybody else.
Speaker 1: And then he got tell the little dick guyan too
Speaker 1: like a puzzle pieces. Hey, I feel like maybe his
Speaker 1: whatever your spot is, whatever his career is, the tipper
Speaker 1: just some people sucking fit right together. And that's just
Speaker 1: is what it is. You have like a booger up
Speaker 1: your nose. He could take his little dick and you
Speaker 1: never tried to stick a dick there. I just that's
Speaker 1: my mouth like when he's over my face. But I
Speaker 1: don't come to shoot up my nose. Really, you get
Speaker 1: dick in your nose and come shoot up my like
Speaker 1: I'm trying to get it on my face and it
Speaker 1: kind of like want did you sniff it up and
Speaker 1: let up? No? Did you like the challenge? Did you do?
Speaker 1: You know? Somebody while they were coming and went down
Speaker 1: the wrong run, the wrong party, choke, I don't know
Speaker 1: you're about to come to. Yeah, that's why I can't
Speaker 1: show us housing in one ways to die. You know that, No, man,
Speaker 1: if you choked on seven and you died. That's pretty horrible.
Speaker 1: My parents would be like, really right now? You also
Speaker 1: talk about sugar daddies and sugar babies yea, d okay,
Speaker 1: we know who else? Like okay, geez, we know you've
Speaker 1: had a sugar dad. Do you like being a sugar baby? It?
Speaker 1: Would you do it again? Yeah? Alright? If I wasn't
Speaker 1: with my boyfriend, I would. I probably would because I
Speaker 1: see so many girls enjoying their lives and I'm just like,
Speaker 1: what am I doing here? Suffering? But what a terrible
Speaker 1: What do these guys look like? I don't know, but
Speaker 1: I get so because I do like anonymous stories. I
Speaker 1: get so many girls who asked me for tips or
Speaker 1: girls who share the experiences with me all the time,
Speaker 1: and I'm just like, what type of life are my living?
Speaker 1: Like I had my chance, you know, from twenty one
Speaker 1: to twenty five, and here I am in a relationship,
Speaker 1: Like seriously, but I think the most I've ever had,
Speaker 1: like an older man do for me is pay my
Speaker 1: phone bill once like that's here and sugar, that's the case.
Speaker 1: The most I've had, that's the most, Like I mean,
Speaker 1: my boyfriend does if I need something, My boyfriend would
Speaker 1: do it for me. But you know, and this is
Speaker 1: I didn't even see him, Like I didn't even meet him.
Speaker 1: He thought I was gonna come and see him. I
Speaker 1: was just like, well, I need to pay my phone bill.
Speaker 1: And then he was just like I have done, and
Speaker 1: he gave me his credit card details and I thought, okay,
Speaker 1: I might as well go shopping with this as well.
Speaker 1: And I did that and then I just yeah, guy
Speaker 1: tells you like, let's go shopping or here's my card.
Speaker 1: Do you care? Like do you say to yourself, Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna go crazy with it, like I'm about
Speaker 1: stuff on sale. I'm not gonna like how much you know,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna go crazy. I'm I'm gonna go crazy,
Speaker 1: like because like what how much would you say you
Speaker 1: would tap it off? It probably wouldn't have been on
Speaker 1: like how much money that person had. Yes, that is
Speaker 1: that's a very good point. And you have to see
Speaker 1: what they're working with as well, and what type of
Speaker 1: money they spend on themselves. If you don't really know
Speaker 1: like that, they're like it's early on and you can
Speaker 1: be you can be like just cut through in that
Speaker 1: care and while out you can be a little bit conservative.
Speaker 1: But then if you know how much I like the guy,
Speaker 1: if I know it I didn't really like him like that,
Speaker 1: then I would swipe it into the decline because if
Speaker 1: you do that the first time, then that's probably no
Speaker 1: coming back. He did so that I got everything I
Speaker 1: never now I'm good for the summer. Give me an,
Speaker 1: what about you? You ever had a sugar daddy? So
Speaker 1: I had a very generous boyfriend. That's not I feel
Speaker 1: like he was better than a sugar daddy because like
Speaker 1: when I was younger, I had a guy that I
Speaker 1: would would say was a sugar daddy. I didn't realize
Speaker 1: that I was a sugar baby, but I was so
Speaker 1: stuff like stupid. We would do stuff like, well, go
Speaker 1: out to eat or something, and it'll get cold, and
Speaker 1: he'll be like, let me take you to get a coat,
Speaker 1: and he'll go and buy me like a cold But
Speaker 1: I was like in high school, so to me, I
Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, it was Kelly now. But
Speaker 1: that's that's what it was. It was like that I
Speaker 1: never had sex with him or nothing, and like every
Speaker 1: time or he would just send me stuffing and I
Speaker 1: thought it was great, and I actually met him by
Speaker 1: him buying me something like I was in the sneaking store.
Speaker 1: I was about to go buy myself some Jordans. I
Speaker 1: was not young, and he was like, I'll get those
Speaker 1: for you. Don't worry about it. That's creepy. So that
Speaker 1: was now. But he looked good, like he looked good.
Speaker 1: He wasn't not old. He he probably was like in
Speaker 1: his thirties. And how over you. I was like seventeen
Speaker 1: sixteen because I graduated when I was seventeen, So yeah,
Speaker 1: it was sucked up or whatever. And I wouldn't I
Speaker 1: kill my nieces and didn't do anything with him. No,
Speaker 1: I never did nothing with him, and he just like
Speaker 1: he I'm not gonna lie. He did a lot of
Speaker 1: stuff for me, and I didn't realize. I just thought,
Speaker 1: like me being young and naive, like oh, this is
Speaker 1: my friends. So okay um. I was doing music at
Speaker 1: the time and I had a manager and I told
Speaker 1: him and I was like, yeah, I got this guy.
Speaker 1: Y'all going to hell A He said hell find me
Speaker 1: Like I was like, I didn't know what then about
Speaker 1: He was like, bitch, are you dumb? And then he's
Speaker 1: gonna sell you in the prostitution. So I was scared
Speaker 1: of him after he said that. But so he would
Speaker 1: come to New York be like, you want to go
Speaker 1: to down Like no, because in the back of my
Speaker 1: mind he's gonna sell me and grab you get what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. But before then, I was having a great
Speaker 1: old time with him. I had the masque jackets all that,
Speaker 1: like he was making sure I was good like but
Speaker 1: that was like, I never try to sugar daddy my mom.
Speaker 1: I had guys that, like I date, do really great
Speaker 1: stuff for me. But I've never had like a straight
Speaker 1: up sugar daddy. I've had like a situation where I
Speaker 1: had a whole allowed one month for me. That's cool,
Speaker 1: and like he would he would give me like a
Speaker 1: certain amount of money every month and then I would
Speaker 1: see him probably like once a week, and we would
Speaker 1: like go to dinner. They would like go on a
Speaker 1: date like dinner, and what was your allowance? Three thousand
Speaker 1: a month or week a month? So we goddamn, that
Speaker 1: would be a last This might be a thousand dollars
Speaker 1: a coundred dollars a day. Wow, So he just wanted
Speaker 1: your company. He went to my company, all right, but
Speaker 1: we would we would we would right, we would go,
Speaker 1: I mean we would have dinner and go out on
Speaker 1: a date and everything usually would it would end up
Speaker 1: in sex or some head or something. But he was
Speaker 1: good looking, he was older. Don't have an ugly sugar daddy.
Speaker 1: I think I'm too shallow or I'm not, you know,
Speaker 1: I like to look up. I like the look of
Speaker 1: Benjamin Franklin Bill, and I like him at the bank
Speaker 1: going into my account, and he's pretty. If he was ugly,
Speaker 1: like ugly like girl, Okay, give me to paint flap.
Speaker 1: Give me a whole chocolate bar that edible, so I
Speaker 1: can be half this and I might be able to
Speaker 1: stand dinner. Okay. What if it was somebody that was
Speaker 1: like a disgusting person like Donald Trump? I don't know, No,
Speaker 1: you can't do. I wanted to do discussing things to you,
Speaker 1: like pee on you and stuff like that, like would
Speaker 1: you bet is it in the shower? Just pet on
Speaker 1: in the shower? In the shower? A girl with the yeah,
Speaker 1: you don't even sit right back off? Um, you know
Speaker 1: that it all depends on how that check weighing out.
Speaker 1: But I'm sorry, but like I tried to date, like
Speaker 1: even date like a guy that wasn't the best lucking guy,
Speaker 1: and that ship only lies for like a couple of months,
Speaker 1: because guys that are the best looking guy, it's all
Speaker 1: about the personality and a slat. But your face could
Speaker 1: kind of ruin your personality. Your personality can ruin your
Speaker 1: face too. So we had to choose between a guy
Speaker 1: who was broken but really good looking, nor rich but
Speaker 1: really ugly. I'm going rich. Guess what we can get surgery?
Speaker 1: We can we can get some face work, we can
Speaker 1: get plastic surgery. With all that money, we can go
Speaker 1: see a thermantalitist. That's a lot. You know. We can
Speaker 1: get some invisiligned, get them together. You know that takes years.
Speaker 1: So everybody says, um rich and ugly between you can't
Speaker 1: be in between? All right, what situation you now? Right now? Now?
Speaker 1: I'm not got Yeah, No, I could take a cute
Speaker 1: looking broken right now. Listen. Thing with guys, they don't
Speaker 1: even need to be good lucking anyway, like fat You
Speaker 1: know what, y'all know what cutty say, Cutty say that
Speaker 1: broke guys got the good dick, But you know what
Speaker 1: not sometimes yes, better, y'all don't too much on it.
Speaker 1: He's ugly. Okay, do you think jay Z is a
Speaker 1: nice looking man? No, he's something about him. But that's
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. But I know, I don't even know.
Speaker 1: I mean he's confidently. I don't mean jay Z. I
Speaker 1: mean like ugly. Okay, who's really ugly. Let's take it
Speaker 1: somebody that's sucking ugly Beetles? Shrek got a little no
Speaker 1: Shrek Shrek, No that I mean a human and as
Speaker 1: a human. Imagine a guy that looks like Shrek. No,
Speaker 1: but beetles, just as a real person and one that
Speaker 1: was on oh to beat up the little guy. Okay,
Speaker 1: I could not. You know, you don't I don't know that.
Speaker 1: I don't want that, don't need I don't want. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. Like somebody ugly Liken like private
Speaker 1: jet rides, anything you want, like value, a house, a car,
Speaker 1: a real real friend. Can I have a man on
Speaker 1: the side, right, daddy, not your man? Then sure? Why not? Definitely? Yeah,
Speaker 1: especially if I can have a man on the side,
Speaker 1: Thank you listening. I wouldn't. But I'm just saying this
Speaker 1: is I'm not gonna lie to I have a home
Speaker 1: girl that has a sugar daddy and he'll give her
Speaker 1: money to buy her boyfriend stuff, like because he knows
Speaker 1: that she has a boyfriend and he's not it. So
Speaker 1: isn't he a pimp nan in a way? Because she's
Speaker 1: taking Yeah, I had a sugar baby come to one
Speaker 1: of my shows back in London and her boyfriend came
Speaker 1: with her and they were talking about how they scheme together,
Speaker 1: like she goes on the days and they split the profits.
Speaker 1: A boyfriend saying, a boyfriend and yeah, that's what I'm saying. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm just like, the boys don't know about this. He
Speaker 1: doesn't know why he isn't he like, we're you're getting
Speaker 1: all this money from She says she works, she has
Speaker 1: a job, but he don't know how much she gets paid,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? So you can't tell them everything.
Speaker 1: And then when he finds out, like, look, how do
Speaker 1: you think you got all this? Okay, you should be
Speaker 1: thinking humble. You know, I just paid for the last
Speaker 1: trip he was on. Right now, as we get older,
Speaker 1: I feel like we've done so many things in the bedroom,
Speaker 1: it's hard for us to think of something we haven't done.
Speaker 1: So when's the last time you've done something brand new
Speaker 1: that you're like, oh, this is different. Oh, I think
Speaker 1: the only thing I've ever tried thought was new to
Speaker 1: me was probably a no. And I said, never gotten
Speaker 1: like either, ladies don't mind. What's the penis? Um, I
Speaker 1: became a rapist. I think that's the first thing that
Speaker 1: I'm saying that. I just say I became very aggressive
Speaker 1: in the bedroom. Like I became very aggressive. I take
Speaker 1: the dick, okay, So that was that was something new
Speaker 1: for me. And he wants it. Though he wants you
Speaker 1: to take it, he wants me to take crime. I love.
Speaker 1: That's a we can't even joke around about things like okay,
Speaker 1: but you guys and we talk about that because you
Speaker 1: said you never were very grave. And that's the thing
Speaker 1: I've evolved because the lip service you guys told me,
Speaker 1: like really like you you don't even just try. And
Speaker 1: I was like, no, I just laid here and wait
Speaker 1: for him to just guys like that. So now too,
Speaker 1: So now I'd be like the little shy a little
Speaker 1: and then I get the penis. SONI why didn't you
Speaker 1: like that? You know? Because I just feel like it's
Speaker 1: just hurts to go there and it huts. Maybe I
Speaker 1: didn't prepare prep No, I don't see I get so
Speaker 1: many cents courage, that's very courage. I love it, the
Speaker 1: pain reliever. I feel like I didn't prep right. Yeah,
Speaker 1: personal person whisky that's come burn. Yeah, And it's just
Speaker 1: I just it's not for me. I'm just like, I
Speaker 1: will give you head, I will let you do whatever
Speaker 1: else you want. But yeah, but no, a no for me.
Speaker 1: I just feel like it's too you know, like when
Speaker 1: guys get carried away, they want to double dip as well,
Speaker 1: and I'm just like, no, yeah, gross, like the worst
Speaker 1: thing to you go from the plussy to the but
Speaker 1: you can't go back without cleaning it first. Yeah, problem there,
Speaker 1: and it just gets a bit messy. I'm just like,
Speaker 1: can we just keep it? Basically? No, I didn't. I didn't,
Speaker 1: but it just went in the bad and I was like, no, okay,
Speaker 1: I'm not doing it. You gotta get past that initiow
Speaker 1: what it is when it goes in it's like you
Speaker 1: gotta get into v I p right is noney? General
Speaker 1: is not like you gotta get into you when you
Speaker 1: do it. I have one. I haven't climax from doing it,
Speaker 1: but it does get me really really wet. You come
Speaker 1: what amazing, Like You'll be like it was worth the page,
Speaker 1: even if I'm having sex and he has like his
Speaker 1: stumm in my butt and he's like really like you know,
Speaker 1: I'm crazy with his stuff. Yeah, I'm tike. I tried um.
Speaker 1: I mean it's it was sucking the same, but it
Speaker 1: was just a different position that the guy had threw
Speaker 1: me in my pissi or whatever I was. It was
Speaker 1: like some yoga posed type ship. How I felt, No,
Speaker 1: but it was like it threw me for a look
Speaker 1: because I think what I can't really remember exactly how
Speaker 1: it went, but I believe I was giving him head
Speaker 1: and then he just was like all right, but flipped
Speaker 1: me kind of and it was just amazing. It was
Speaker 1: like the explain this position? I don't know. I was
Speaker 1: like like I can't explain, but it's like if you
Speaker 1: ever get to it, because there's so many positions, and
Speaker 1: I feel like we think we've done so many things,
Speaker 1: but you look at those books and stuff like that,
Speaker 1: so you've got a book to do this or no.
Speaker 1: But I'm saying like I'm pretty sure that position is
Speaker 1: in that book. I like my sect and my legs
Speaker 1: are closed instead of open. Okay. It could be on
Speaker 1: your stomach. It could be. Oh, if you start to
Speaker 1: do it, okay, like reverse cow girl like that, that's
Speaker 1: your position, y'all. Did you say that. Yeah, that's that's
Speaker 1: our position. I like to do like squats. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: too lazy for that. That's look good from the back too,
Speaker 1: when you do it like that. I don't know what.
Speaker 1: I love you have videos, get that, get that. I
Speaker 1: love a good donkey. I think donkey is amazing for me.
Speaker 1: And I don't know, I feel like it's the only
Speaker 1: way I truly call them, like ilways st off missionary
Speaker 1: come that way. Oh my god, I'm so glad you
Speaker 1: said that again. We come on my back or on
Speaker 1: top from the bay with but I had an incident
Speaker 1: where that agreement is gone. Definitely can come on your stomach,
Speaker 1: like when you're on your stomach well that way, yeah,
Speaker 1: but not like on all four. A couple of polls
Speaker 1: under you as well, and then you're like the pillow
Speaker 1: thing because provides support a little and it also for
Speaker 1: the guy it like pushes pushes in, so like I
Speaker 1: don't know. I had a guy tell me before that
Speaker 1: his woman was a little overweight, and then she started
Speaker 1: working out and losing weight, and he said that she
Speaker 1: felt tighter and the inside once she started working out
Speaker 1: and losing weight, so it gives it that same effect
Speaker 1: like you're pushing, so it kind of like makes it
Speaker 1: tighter for her. I forget working out, ladies. I never
Speaker 1: did the pillow thing, like I didn't know what it
Speaker 1: was like, you know what I mean. That's how I asked,
Speaker 1: because like I always hear people great as well, like
Speaker 1: when you hold your breath as well. Have you ever
Speaker 1: like held your breath while it's having sex with being
Speaker 1: choked breath and hold it in for a couple of
Speaker 1: seconds and then you just carry on going at it
Speaker 1: like either whilst you're masturbating or you're having sex, and
Speaker 1: it just makes every like the experience a lot better.
Speaker 1: So like you're you're struggling for air really for a
Speaker 1: couple of seconds. That's how people do that. It's called asphyxiation.
Speaker 1: People end up feeling themselves like that. So we don't
Speaker 1: want to come into a sad to hold your breath,
Speaker 1: but it's different when you're actually getting choked or like
Speaker 1: some people will actually tell a noose while they masturbate
Speaker 1: and then I've seen that on like movie. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: that's way two same things. White safe. I'm a screaming
Speaker 1: scream about you masturbate. Oh no, no, no, that would
Speaker 1: be so crazy. But I've had made noise, you know,
Speaker 1: and it helps you know you watching either. I don't
Speaker 1: rather the porn then I'm not good at santsizing. I
Speaker 1: wear at the porn not that good. But I like
Speaker 1: to watch porn on you see, I don't. I want to.
Speaker 1: I want to English, and that I got to hear
Speaker 1: the noise. I don't know what that's a turn off.
Speaker 1: You're like, what the hell are you saying? They say
Speaker 1: they hate all black people. You just watch it. They're like, yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: it'd be better. And Larry, you can't speak Spanish a
Speaker 1: lot understand this. Poppy and Maddy Cone all right, now,
Speaker 1: we talked about learning new things from experimenting. Now you
Speaker 1: also said that no man should be sucking you for
Speaker 1: a long period of time. Absolutely right. What's a long
Speaker 1: period of time? I think anything over twenty five minutes,
Speaker 1: and I think just penetration alone. I've penetrated our penetration,
Speaker 1: special penetry. Did you guys have a break? No one
Speaker 1: came hours I did. He did eventually. That doesn't count
Speaker 1: because a nice session then for you. But it's on something.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you who it was, because something that
Speaker 1: I don't think that I told you know, I'm just assuming. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: I don't even think. I don't even think y'all know
Speaker 1: that I used to even see this person. He's famous though.
Speaker 1: We got a lot of stuff to talk about. I know,
Speaker 1: you know, I'm scared about changing names, changing all the
Speaker 1: names have changed. Is he somebody like that? Is he
Speaker 1: somebody that we you know, we all know him? He
Speaker 1: said he's famous. Yeah, if I said his name, you
Speaker 1: would definitely know who he is. No, okay, let's just
Speaker 1: let's not well ask her later. But I wanted to
Speaker 1: hear the story. So it was how many? It was
Speaker 1: like four hours? And then how was surprised that he
Speaker 1: just kept going and kept going, And then he came
Speaker 1: and we smoked and like laid up and talk and
Speaker 1: then we did it again for like another two hours.
Speaker 1: Got no job, ain't got no cramps like you ain't.
Speaker 1: I was so surprised, but it was so good. I
Speaker 1: was soaking, soaking wet. You've been so wet that it
Speaker 1: starts to like boogie up in his hairs, like you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. It was like that I was
Speaker 1: it was like clumping. I'm gonna say, come of that
Speaker 1: time stuck and but yeah, right right right, so it
Speaker 1: like I started to light and like yeah, it was yeah.
Speaker 1: See that doesn't count because it was four hours and
Speaker 1: you guys had a break. No, no, no, it was
Speaker 1: four hours until he came and then a break, then
Speaker 1: another two hours after that. I don't know if I
Speaker 1: would want to have sex before hour, and I didn't
Speaker 1: know that I was going to have sex for four hours,
Speaker 1: but I didn't stop him because it was really that good.
Speaker 1: I was amazing and this was my first time I
Speaker 1: having sex with this guy. Did you And I was
Speaker 1: like phone during that time? You know I would hours.
Speaker 1: I was so surprised if we kept going like I was.
Speaker 1: I just really after a while, I was just like,
Speaker 1: when is he ever going to stop? Seven he stopped
Speaker 1: and it was like so many different positions and like
Speaker 1: standing up, laying down on the bed on the floor
Speaker 1: in the bathroom saying pick me up? Is he an athlete?
Speaker 1: No need to be right, he needs to be in
Speaker 1: New York City, marathon. Now I could do like sessions
Speaker 1: as far as like we fucking all day, but we're
Speaker 1: gonna stop, like we're gonna have sex for thirty minutes,
Speaker 1: Come good, then we're gonna start again in another thirty
Speaker 1: minutes something like that. It's cool. Before normally I just
Speaker 1: felt like my leg's gonna cramp up, pussy gonna be sore,
Speaker 1: like it's just gonna be up as well. Like I
Speaker 1: feel like I don't know if I would dry up,
Speaker 1: but I definitely would. Mentally, I would not be my
Speaker 1: forty would be like you're tired. So yeah, like we
Speaker 1: were drunk and high drunk, not on any kind of drugs,
Speaker 1: but yeah, it was it was like what did you
Speaker 1: have water by the bad so at least like water
Speaker 1: at some point? Can you ever get the real drive out?
Speaker 1: Water in sight? Especially when you're smoking as well? Like
Speaker 1: you mouth so ye didn't know what. I can't even
Speaker 1: suck his dick. My mother just gonna be like it
Speaker 1: wants me to spit in his mouth. I can't even spit, ye,
Speaker 1: my mouth is dry. You never spit in somebody's mouth. Oh,
Speaker 1: I've had that recently actually your boyfriend. Yeah, and it
Speaker 1: was yeah, It was actually quite amazing. I was surprised
Speaker 1: I would be into it. He was just like, open
Speaker 1: your mouth. I was just like, okay, yeah, your mouth. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And I did it back. It wasn't bad you spit
Speaker 1: hit saying spit back, yeah, it was about in general
Speaker 1: is literally nasty. So boy like to me what he
Speaker 1: was like, spit my come in my mouth, Angela. You
Speaker 1: always got to look you're gone too far, too far, No, no, no,
Speaker 1: it live a little. I know you're about to kill
Speaker 1: me for saying this. You did this, but I don't
Speaker 1: know how to spit. Look the way you don't know
Speaker 1: how to do. I don't know how to spit. I
Speaker 1: don't know how to whistle. Whistle, but that's you could
Speaker 1: because you can't spit so that it wants to be
Speaker 1: able to spit in a guy's mouth. But I just
Speaker 1: don't know how to spin. I'm not good at it either.
Speaker 1: You know, I've had my ex has spit in my
Speaker 1: mouth before, and at first I thought it was the
Speaker 1: most disgusting thing in life. And I was like, it's
Speaker 1: kind of freaky that I need some spit. Let's put
Speaker 1: that on my list of neverse. You said, let's put
Speaker 1: that on my list of nevers. That's a very short list. Neither.
Speaker 1: I'll never spit in anybody's mouth, and I'll never hear
Speaker 1: anybody spit. Will hear it? Yeah, I'm doing it. I
Speaker 1: want you at homework. Yes, now she's she's aggressive and
Speaker 1: now she's gonna step. She's a spinner. What about some
Speaker 1: other things that's get some more homework of things that
Speaker 1: you think now lonely, since you're I guess, what are
Speaker 1: some other things you would recommend for us to try
Speaker 1: that maybe we haven't that you do? Um, I think
Speaker 1: you guys. You guys are pros. No, I listen to
Speaker 1: you guys at the time. I'm getting tips from you
Speaker 1: guys all the time. I'm just like, okay, I might
Speaker 1: try that. Like, especially when is giving her tips, is
Speaker 1: what I'm like, Okay, if you're doing it and your
Speaker 1: boyfriend's but you stick your finger, no, he doesn't even
Speaker 1: let me like pinch, no, but action he just clenches
Speaker 1: up all the time. He's just like no. But I
Speaker 1: realized now from this show it's the best way to
Speaker 1: do that. It's just kind of like wait till you
Speaker 1: a second stick and then just kind of slide if
Speaker 1: That's what I always say. I have friends who have
Speaker 1: done that. Like she's giving him head and then she
Speaker 1: like sticks it from behind and she's doing it, and
Speaker 1: I'm just like, okay, I'll try my boyfriend, got bet
Speaker 1: my boyfriend, what the hell? No, my boyfriend whenever I
Speaker 1: think he's scared that I might call him gay, like,
Speaker 1: I'm just like, it's okay, I know you're straight as hell.
Speaker 1: He might like it. No, he's scared that you're gonna
Speaker 1: get right on lips ever, and she's gonna be like
Speaker 1: you have a sticky finger up your boyfriends, but slides
Speaker 1: in there nice and easy. That's relevant. That's what it is.
Speaker 1: Don't hang around people like her and blame me. You
Speaker 1: will be sticking up finger up everybody's. But if it
Speaker 1: wasn't for him, if it wasn't for me, she knows you,
Speaker 1: so from then on they know you sticking friends of bus. Now,
Speaker 1: I want to talk about this. Two reasons that people
Speaker 1: break up other than infidelity. Okay, what's the reason that
Speaker 1: you would break up with somebody? And this is for
Speaker 1: the guys out there that are listening, because sometimes I
Speaker 1: get a lot of emails with guys that want to
Speaker 1: get their girl back and they don't know how to
Speaker 1: do it and they don't know if she's still interested.
Speaker 1: Are you about to spit? Loria? Huh? Are you about
Speaker 1: to spit? I was trying to learn, was teaching me
Speaker 1: over here. But what are some reasons that people actually
Speaker 1: break up other than cheating? Like why would you break
Speaker 1: up with a guy? Um? If they are if they
Speaker 1: just turn out boring. If I'm totally bored of them
Speaker 1: and nothing is new anymore, I'm not being surprised or
Speaker 1: wooed anymore. I'm just like, fuck this. I might as
Speaker 1: well be single and live a boring life then be
Speaker 1: with you. And so make sure you keep it spicy baby, Right,
Speaker 1: that's a good one. Um. So for me, lying lies
Speaker 1: and I hate a liar, but that will be the
Speaker 1: main thing that we'll be lying about. What because he
Speaker 1: started cheating? But I had a guy. I do not
Speaker 1: like a little lie. I don't like a big I
Speaker 1: was talking to this one guy once upon a time
Speaker 1: and we were talking. He said, you know, I've never
Speaker 1: done social media or nothing like that. Found a whole
Speaker 1: Instagram page follow him? Um, because that would have been funny. No,
Speaker 1: but I didn't let him know that I've seen this page,
Speaker 1: and I was like, you know, it's so funny what
Speaker 1: you know him self. I've just seen somebody post about
Speaker 1: that I don't know, And to this day, like it's
Speaker 1: so crazy because he listens to this. I'm sure he does.
Speaker 1: He started fucking following me, and now I don't funk
Speaker 1: with him or nothing. It's been years. He started following
Speaker 1: me like about a couple of months ago, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: motherfucker from the same Instagram page and all that half
Speaker 1: to the fucking death that he didn't have one. Even
Speaker 1: when I showed it to him, he was like, oh
Speaker 1: now my home girl set this up with like tried
Speaker 1: to make a lie and then finally he admitted to it.
Speaker 1: That's over. And from then on it's like like, even
Speaker 1: if I still speak to you, now, I'm looking at
Speaker 1: you crazy. I'm never gonna trust you. I'm never gonna
Speaker 1: but thanks been listenings. I've broken up with the guy
Speaker 1: before for um lying about having like a whole family,
Speaker 1: Well that'll do it. Like when we first got together
Speaker 1: and he had just got a jail and he was like, oh,
Speaker 1: you know, I just got out of jail and my
Speaker 1: sister is pregnant, so she's always at her boyfriend's house
Speaker 1: and I kind of like share her apartment until I
Speaker 1: get my own place or whatever. Um, long story short,
Speaker 1: that baby was his, That was his girlfriend, and um,
Speaker 1: when I'm found his sister. When I found out, I
Speaker 1: found out because he had gotten locked up and he
Speaker 1: sent me to Mindrew. He used to have had me
Speaker 1: in this apartment all the time, and I used to
Speaker 1: talk so much trash on the sister because she had
Speaker 1: like really big feet, and she would buy like cheap shoes,
Speaker 1: and I was always something like rainbow you know, I'll
Speaker 1: go and Steve Madden. It's cool, but like rainbow shoes
Speaker 1: like Ana Marie, you know what I'm talking about. And
Speaker 1: and then she wore like a like eleven and a
Speaker 1: half or twelve, so she at least a cheap bass shoes.
Speaker 1: And then she had like every victorious secret and backed
Speaker 1: and body works, body spray like all lined up on.
Speaker 1: So much I said so much trash about her. I've
Speaker 1: seen her, I've seen him. I've seen so much trash
Speaker 1: about her. And then, um, so the reason that what
Speaker 1: the way I found out was he had gotten locked
Speaker 1: up and he sent me to the sister's apartment to
Speaker 1: get money from her. But she came down with the
Speaker 1: baby and I like start talking to the baby and
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, you're so creel with your name, and
Speaker 1: she's like Derek, just like my daddy, and I'm like yeah.
Speaker 1: And the crazy part about it was she he was
Speaker 1: eventually yeah, so the crazy thing but by it was
Speaker 1: he hate evenually moved into my house. He was paying
Speaker 1: all my bills and taking care of my daughter, like
Speaker 1: taking care of me. He was my boyfriend when I
Speaker 1: got locked up for ninety days, and he like paid
Speaker 1: on my bills and took care of my house and
Speaker 1: everything while I was in jail, like took care of
Speaker 1: my daughter and everything. And so it's like, you're living
Speaker 1: with me and taking care of my child, but you
Speaker 1: deny on your own child. Yeah. After years later, guess
Speaker 1: what that maybe not even his whoa just like his daddy.
Speaker 1: Every other little girl it was a boy. Oh boy, okay.
Speaker 1: N I was like, why was the girl's named Derek?
Speaker 1: Cause I was a little boy. A lot of stories
Speaker 1: like that where bitches have been naming like and we
Speaker 1: talked about the name, but they'll name them after man
Speaker 1: and then come to find out it's not there. I
Speaker 1: think they name them after them, probably like hoping wish
Speaker 1: and then like we're trying to convince that and you
Speaker 1: had that fond like maybe or maybe that's like I
Speaker 1: feel like some women try to make that something to
Speaker 1: be the husbands that they never had, which I find
Speaker 1: it and you know what I mean. So I'm just like,
Speaker 1: especially on Instagram, when they'd be jush like why your
Speaker 1: son is full looking like a whole scam mother and
Speaker 1: he's not chipped in maybe matching with you like this
Speaker 1: ain't mommy daughter, I mean son thing? This is boyfriend girlfriend? Yeah,
Speaker 1: nobody wants you though, sis yea, you know who I'm
Speaker 1: talking about. Right now, let's discuss something else. Have you
Speaker 1: ever dated somebody? Right? And then they started hanging out
Speaker 1: with somebody that knows your whole past, like anybody dating
Speaker 1: somebody dude? Right? And then you see him on Instagram
Speaker 1: with a dude that knows your ex and knows you said,
Speaker 1: you know, all that stuff is about to come out.
Speaker 1: What do you do? I haven't had that. I've just
Speaker 1: had like guys who have messed around with before, and
Speaker 1: I've seen them in like an Instagram post and I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: fuck r they they know each other, and yeah, no,
Speaker 1: that's I think that's the most I've had. Like, I
Speaker 1: haven't ever been worried about a guy because I couldn't
Speaker 1: even bother me. Actually, I think just two guys knowing
Speaker 1: each other that I've spoken to you would probably scant
Speaker 1: me more than their friends. Yeah. Have you ever had
Speaker 1: two guys that know each other that you you talk
Speaker 1: to both of them? No? No, I never had thought.
Speaker 1: Luckily I don't. I don't eat so up just happened
Speaker 1: to you. Well, there's um, there's two people that I
Speaker 1: was with in the past, and I know that they
Speaker 1: have a mutual friend and I'm not with either one
Speaker 1: of them like currently, but I just found out that
Speaker 1: they have a mutual friend. So I wonder if there
Speaker 1: was like to each other. I know, I want to know,
Speaker 1: like if they are actually friends, because I know that
Speaker 1: they're really they're both really close friends with the mutual friends.
Speaker 1: So I don't know if these two people are friends
Speaker 1: or not. Might be hanging out, but I mean, I
Speaker 1: mean it's not it just what it is like. But
Speaker 1: like I just felt like niggas nowadays, certain ones maybe
Speaker 1: not all got to be a lament spot nowadays, Always
Speaker 1: you don't because I'm running to do guys like do that,
Speaker 1: They're like, yes, they do, And then you know what
Speaker 1: it is is because they'd be bragging. You know, guys
Speaker 1: like the brag and like tell all their business in
Speaker 1: the macho type of way, not really in the gossipy way,
Speaker 1: but in you know, with sometimes this gossipy too, because
Speaker 1: you know, like all right, I haven't been in the
Speaker 1: studio with everybody because you know, I did music for
Speaker 1: having and like I've sat back and even heard guys
Speaker 1: talk about certain females and I'm just like, damn, since
Speaker 1: you're dragging her, like like you a whole female and
Speaker 1: you want them nigga? You know what I mean? Like
Speaker 1: dudes will really ship on a girl, like I don't
Speaker 1: know if it's that they men is bitter, they're bitter.
Speaker 1: I don't know what it is, but I've heard it happen,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean in the situation like like
Speaker 1: I dealt with a guy or whatever. I dated a
Speaker 1: guy and um, people knew I dated this guy and
Speaker 1: then I see his friends hanging around a guy that
Speaker 1: I was talking to or what it? So, do you
Speaker 1: know what I mean, it makes me feel a little
Speaker 1: uneasy to see what is he saying about, because it's like,
Speaker 1: what is he saying? And you know that especially if
Speaker 1: you know, especially if it's end well and you're like
Speaker 1: because if we all have guys who dated in the past,
Speaker 1: and right, yeah, why did I date him? And then
Speaker 1: we're like and ship. Even the guy I'm talking about
Speaker 1: has told me stuff about the dude I used to date,
Speaker 1: so I know he you didn't say you know I
Speaker 1: used to date him to the guy, so he kind
Speaker 1: of hinted to me that he knew that I used
Speaker 1: to So I don't like talking about niggas that don't matter.
Speaker 1: Like now, if it was like an ex, that like, yeah,
Speaker 1: that mattered, that's anything. But like this nigga, he don't
Speaker 1: matter at all in life to me, nothing at all,
Speaker 1: Like it was just a dub, Like he a dub.
Speaker 1: So to me, I don't feel like I have to
Speaker 1: explain myself like he if you fell away then because
Speaker 1: you found out and then you talk to me about
Speaker 1: it and then let me, you know, let me fix
Speaker 1: it that way. But I'm not about to just volunteer
Speaker 1: that I funk with this. I used to funk with
Speaker 1: this clown. He is a whole clown him for listening,
Speaker 1: he probably is clown. You know. I feel like any
Speaker 1: guy that are dealt with or like is listen to
Speaker 1: lip service or does listen to lip service because they
Speaker 1: think I'm gonna say something about them, or sometimes I'll
Speaker 1: be talking about a whole another negative. I know you
Speaker 1: were trying to talk about me. I was talking about
Speaker 1: your one out of many. I've had some similar to that.
Speaker 1: A guy who I was messing around with. You guys
Speaker 1: say college, we say university back so we say university.
Speaker 1: So we used to mess around all the time. He
Speaker 1: was literally just a fun buddy, but he was such
Speaker 1: an asshole. But he was an asshole with some good
Speaker 1: dick like I can't deny it. But ever since you
Speaker 1: see me start doing my thing, especially with simply Lonny
Speaker 1: and just sexuality, and he was used to ask like,
Speaker 1: why don't you ever share your whole you know, your
Speaker 1: host stories and stuff like that, and I'm just like,
Speaker 1: are you talking about my stories with you? Because I'm
Speaker 1: very open, and he just started calling me every other
Speaker 1: type of you know, drugtory under the you know, he
Speaker 1: was just we were just going at it on via
Speaker 1: d M on Instagram. I was just like, that's why
Speaker 1: you were this. I was talking mad about his dick,
Speaker 1: but it was a lie. But you know, I just
Speaker 1: had to humble him a bit. And I realized that
Speaker 1: he had a girlfriend. I don't know if this is
Speaker 1: bad at me, but I went to his girlfriend and said,
Speaker 1: this is what your boyfriend is doing. He's trash and
Speaker 1: just to let you know, he was trying to hit
Speaker 1: me up when you guys were still together, and I scream.
Speaker 1: I enshoed it and I sent it to her. We
Speaker 1: had a phone call. She called me. I said, listen,
Speaker 1: if my man was a clown, I would want someone
Speaker 1: else to tell me. So I'm telling you and a
Speaker 1: woman to a woman I had to do. You know
Speaker 1: what I was searching and she didn't tweet him that much.
Speaker 1: You know, when you searched someone's name and you noticed
Speaker 1: that the interaction between two parties are not the same anyway,
Speaker 1: it's calmed down a lot. So because when a girl
Speaker 1: does actually, first of all, she automatically think she's going
Speaker 1: to be checking her timeline and she's embarrassed, you know,
Speaker 1: and she doesn't want you to see I'm still talking
Speaker 1: to this dude, even though you gave me all this
Speaker 1: information and she is still checking the time, But why
Speaker 1: didn't made him really mad? As if you follow her?
Speaker 1: I tried, I tried to. I'm very petty, like it
Speaker 1: would have been so good if he just left me alone,
Speaker 1: but since he started calling me every other name under
Speaker 1: the no he I was just like, right, so, yeah,
Speaker 1: and this is all because you don't want to talk
Speaker 1: about his whack dick. It was good, but because he
Speaker 1: was being disrespectful, like he should have just been like
Speaker 1: a normal person, like I see you doing your thing,
Speaker 1: keep it up. But I think he was hating and
Speaker 1: he didn't want to admit it. So he was just
Speaker 1: coming at me, calling me a whole Everybody used to
Speaker 1: talk about you, and I just like, no, he used
Speaker 1: to talk about me, Stop lying right, So yeah, so
Speaker 1: and he was still checking for me with something. He's
Speaker 1: coming meet him. I was just like to do what
Speaker 1: he was, just like to do what you talk about?
Speaker 1: I was. I was like, I was like relationships. He
Speaker 1: was just like no, sex was no, that's not happy
Speaker 1: right alone. Let's end on this one. You also said
Speaker 1: that monogamous relationships could be overrap. Are they should we
Speaker 1: just accepted some of us are built to be with
Speaker 1: more than one person. I think this is why we say,
Speaker 1: like in a lot of cultures around the world, open
Speaker 1: relationships is actually a thing. I think even if we
Speaker 1: just look at headlines in the media, monogamy is not working.
Speaker 1: Why are we playing ourselves? I mean, I don't want
Speaker 1: to say his name, but we all know who played
Speaker 1: the name Christian. I mean, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: So monogamy is not built for everyone, and I think
Speaker 1: we would be a lot we'd save a lot of
Speaker 1: more heartbreaks if we were just honest and openness sate.
Speaker 1: Do you know what, Maybe I want to be in
Speaker 1: a relationship, but I would like to have someone on
Speaker 1: the side as well, and hopefully you can find someone
Speaker 1: who would be open to that. And it does exist.
Speaker 1: I went to a sex workshop where I was in
Speaker 1: a room full of people who are in polygamous relationships,
Speaker 1: and they look like regular people that you see on
Speaker 1: the subway. Alien look like you just would never know that.
Speaker 1: The women women. It was actually the women who were
Speaker 1: who told me. This old white woman he was just like, yes,
Speaker 1: I have a husband and I've got a boyfriend, and
Speaker 1: I was just like your husband doesn't have anybody else,
Speaker 1: and she was just like no, and he's was just
Speaker 1: like you look like a liberrian. I would never know
Speaker 1: that two men on the goal like it's so. But
Speaker 1: I was very happy and it was very eye opening.
Speaker 1: So I just always tell people like, don't try and
Speaker 1: force yourself into yourself. I wonder about it. I think
Speaker 1: that maybe in the long run, I might be open
Speaker 1: to an open relationship, but I would definitely say monogamy
Speaker 1: is overrated. I've got good friends who are in open
Speaker 1: relationships and they're the happiest people out. Your boyfriend wanted
Speaker 1: to have an open relationship, like where he could date
Speaker 1: other women, You'll be down with that. He doesn't need
Speaker 1: to date anyone else but me date. But see, that's
Speaker 1: I think we say differently. So if he wanted to
Speaker 1: sleep with another woman, that would be fine, but dat
Speaker 1: is in her No, he doesn't. He doesn't if he
Speaker 1: did not, But if he asked you and was open
Speaker 1: about it, if we'd have a conversation about it, we'd
Speaker 1: have to start a bit by bit and then I
Speaker 1: think we'd work our way up into it, because it's
Speaker 1: not something you could just jump into, like, let's be real,
Speaker 1: like it has to be baby steps. And then we
Speaker 1: come back discussed it. How did you find it? Do
Speaker 1: you think this is something we can carry on doing
Speaker 1: and if it works, then it works. But I'm sorry
Speaker 1: that s it ain't for me? Relationship? Right, how is it?
Speaker 1: She didn't know? No, no, no, I didn't know. We
Speaker 1: were very we were very open about, you know, seeing
Speaker 1: other people. We had hell of three sums um and
Speaker 1: we were very open about seeing other people. But he
Speaker 1: was like super freak. He was a little older and
Speaker 1: he was like super freak. So he would want to
Speaker 1: know like details of being with other guys, you want
Speaker 1: to know, Yeah, he would want to know, Like he
Speaker 1: never wanted to like watch or be around, but that
Speaker 1: we wanted to know. He wanted to know details. And
Speaker 1: then eventually ended because he got somebody else pregnant and
Speaker 1: he lied to me about it, and I'm it's like
Speaker 1: I already knew you were sucking her so down that
Speaker 1: she's pregnant, I'm not having a baby. So with an
Speaker 1: open relationship. And this is why, because at some point,
Speaker 1: at some point, something's gonna happen. It's gonna be a bitch.
Speaker 1: I don't want to hope from relationship and he's gonna
Speaker 1: try to make that bit happy, and I just felt like,
Speaker 1: with me, I'm not down with that ship. It last
Speaker 1: two and a half years though, I mean, but that's
Speaker 1: not really that long. I mean two and a half
Speaker 1: years is, and it was it was, and it was
Speaker 1: completely open the entire time we went into relationship. I've
Speaker 1: never wanted to be in an open relationship. I'm not
Speaker 1: playing that ship, so I couldn't do it. But I
Speaker 1: also feel like as you get older, like when you're younger,
Speaker 1: you might feel that way, but then when you get
Speaker 1: older and they lonely and you don't want to you
Speaker 1: don't want to share somebody because I'm like, I'm too
Speaker 1: lazy for that ship. I'm not going out with other people.
Speaker 1: He's not gonna go out with other people because I'm
Speaker 1: not cool with it. And you know, at some point
Speaker 1: it's just like, Okay, it's too much work with me
Speaker 1: and him. Though it was more like we were together,
Speaker 1: we just had sex with other people, like I wasn't
Speaker 1: in a whole another relationship with anybody else. Just so
Speaker 1: that's what the problem is, and that's the yeah, like
Speaker 1: relationship thing is raw sex to me like, I'm not
Speaker 1: just going around having raw sex with this person, this person,
Speaker 1: that person. There's gonna be someone. That's the thing that
Speaker 1: open relationships, I feel like they're they're more open and honest.
Speaker 1: And the thing with monogomy is everybody you can be.
Speaker 1: You can be in a committed relationship with your significant
Speaker 1: other that's passing out raw dick to every time they
Speaker 1: can hearry that relationship Diane and Mary, that's beyond that,
Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, alonely let people know where they can
Speaker 1: find you, and let's talk about the girlfund me because
Speaker 1: we are gonna deals because we want this book to
Speaker 1: what our name on it. Yeah, thank much. So my
Speaker 1: book will be coming out hopefully at the end of
Speaker 1: this year, no fingers crossed. Um it's called The Big
Speaker 1: Oh as you know. Find me on simply lone dot
Speaker 1: com and just about the book. Like I said before,
Speaker 1: it's about sexuality relationships for millennials, So I'll be talking
Speaker 1: about everything from sugar at least two open relationships to
Speaker 1: um I don't know the LGBT community also, so it's
Speaker 1: going to be very interesting and I can't wait. But yeah,
Speaker 1: please do find you talk about fla auto Felacia. Haven't
Speaker 1: heard this word for relationship? Google it okay about your
Speaker 1: LGBT you hay talking about your LGBTs experiences. So I've
Speaker 1: never see I think that I could be um, I
Speaker 1: think a trisexual, but I've never ever gotten that, you know,
Speaker 1: all the way. Like I've always found like women attractive
Speaker 1: because I feel like we are the beautiful sex, like
Speaker 1: like we're more attractive than men in general. But I
Speaker 1: don't know. If I go all the way there, I
Speaker 1: think I'd be a very terrible lesbian. So I'm just
Speaker 1: like maybe a terrible lesbian. I don't know what to do.
Speaker 1: I'd be nervous, like I heard so much do not
Speaker 1: had so much but experience. I feel like I've been
Speaker 1: in so many h relationships that I'm experiencing that sex
Speaker 1: in that sense, So to be with someone who's the
Speaker 1: same sex as me, it will be starting all over again,
Speaker 1: and I'd just be nervous. So you're gonna give wagheads,
Speaker 1: which but you know what's interesting is the fact that
Speaker 1: lesbians have more orgasms than hurt your sexual relationship, which
Speaker 1: I think is amazing. It's like three D masturbation. It's
Speaker 1: like why I play with yourself when you're gonna play
Speaker 1: with her and she'll play with you. This is too fast,
Speaker 1: my goodness, your own dick? Wow? How do people get
Speaker 1: that flexible? They stretched their beds. I'm sorry, but I
Speaker 1: don't want to see nobody stretching exercises? How do you
Speaker 1: do that? Your like, let me try. I don't find
Speaker 1: nobody tonight. I want to get back your own. But
Speaker 1: you want to do something right, you gotta do what
Speaker 1: your saying, like, how do you know how to suck
Speaker 1: it dick? Right? So you know what you like? You
Speaker 1: know this is what I'm saying. No, but like I
Speaker 1: had to learn to really suck dick from sucking dick,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like this makes perfect, practice
Speaker 1: makes perfect. You don't think you can know what you
Speaker 1: want to do for yourself. You think you can eat
Speaker 1: pussy right now my own. I'm just like, I mean,
Speaker 1: you're making yourself. I'm sure if you make it something
Speaker 1: with your fingers. Why can't you make yourself with your
Speaker 1: talking about to eat pussy? Like? I felt like, first
Speaker 1: of all, I'll be like no, I would be like
Speaker 1: I wouldn't want to tell you how to do like
Speaker 1: I wouldn't you know what, You're right. Let the rest second, Dick,
Speaker 1: isn't that hard? Is very sorry, because you have to
Speaker 1: make sure this teeth Joel has to be on point.
Speaker 1: That has to be that this party, our lips get
Speaker 1: like it any yeah, okay, okay, that should be so
Speaker 1: all right out here from your two front tee, I'm
Speaker 1: a well never you just be biting. No, I don't
Speaker 1: since I was a teenager protector for you guys presence
Speaker 1: as well, so from right because they like it when
Speaker 1: I take it. Let's just say role play change. Let
Speaker 1: me get a shop. I'm gonna put no in front
Speaker 1: of her, So no consent, but thank you, thank you
Speaker 1: and having me appreciate you, and we are supporting you
Speaker 1: in your book and your movement right