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Speaker 1: love you guys. No, but you do have a book

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Speaker 1: to be about sexuality and relationships for millennials, so please

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Speaker 1: But you always have some really funny topics. Now. Something

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Speaker 1: I still you posted, okay was about a guy who

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Speaker 1: care and while out you can be a little bit conservative.

424
00:21:57,400 --> 00:21:59,320
Speaker 1: But then if you know how much I like the guy,

425
00:21:59,520 --> 00:22:01,080
Speaker 1: if I know it I didn't really like him like that,

426
00:22:01,160 --> 00:22:04,439
Speaker 1: then I would swipe it into the decline because if

427
00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:06,960
Speaker 1: you do that the first time, then that's probably no

428
00:22:07,080 --> 00:22:09,240
Speaker 1: coming back. He did so that I got everything I

429
00:22:09,320 --> 00:22:12,199
Speaker 1: never now I'm good for the summer. Give me an,

430
00:22:13,800 --> 00:22:16,399
Speaker 1: what about you? You ever had a sugar daddy? So

431
00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:23,640
Speaker 1: I had a very generous boyfriend. That's not I feel

432
00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:25,720
Speaker 1: like he was better than a sugar daddy because like

433
00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:28,560
Speaker 1: when I was younger, I had a guy that I

434
00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:31,960
Speaker 1: would would say was a sugar daddy. I didn't realize

435
00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:34,280
Speaker 1: that I was a sugar baby, but I was so

436
00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:38,280
Speaker 1: stuff like stupid. We would do stuff like, well, go

437
00:22:38,400 --> 00:22:41,200
Speaker 1: out to eat or something, and it'll get cold, and

438
00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:43,000
Speaker 1: he'll be like, let me take you to get a coat,

439
00:22:43,200 --> 00:22:45,920
Speaker 1: and he'll go and buy me like a cold But

440
00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:48,080
Speaker 1: I was like in high school, so to me, I

441
00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:52,760
Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, it was Kelly now. But

442
00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:55,000
Speaker 1: that's that's what it was. It was like that I

443
00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:57,680
Speaker 1: never had sex with him or nothing, and like every

444
00:22:57,720 --> 00:23:00,080
Speaker 1: time or he would just send me stuffing and I

445
00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:02,080
Speaker 1: thought it was great, and I actually met him by

446
00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:04,680
Speaker 1: him buying me something like I was in the sneaking store.

447
00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:06,520
Speaker 1: I was about to go buy myself some Jordans. I

448
00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:08,960
Speaker 1: was not young, and he was like, I'll get those

449
00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:11,119
Speaker 1: for you. Don't worry about it. That's creepy. So that

450
00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:13,880
Speaker 1: was now. But he looked good, like he looked good.

451
00:23:13,960 --> 00:23:16,320
Speaker 1: He wasn't not old. He he probably was like in

452
00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:19,200
Speaker 1: his thirties. And how over you. I was like seventeen

453
00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:22,880
Speaker 1: sixteen because I graduated when I was seventeen, So yeah,

454
00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:24,879
Speaker 1: it was sucked up or whatever. And I wouldn't I

455
00:23:25,040 --> 00:23:27,000
Speaker 1: kill my nieces and didn't do anything with him. No,

456
00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:29,359
Speaker 1: I never did nothing with him, and he just like

457
00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:31,600
Speaker 1: he I'm not gonna lie. He did a lot of

458
00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:33,960
Speaker 1: stuff for me, and I didn't realize. I just thought,

459
00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:35,960
Speaker 1: like me being young and naive, like oh, this is

460
00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:42,440
Speaker 1: my friends. So okay um. I was doing music at

461
00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:44,480
Speaker 1: the time and I had a manager and I told

462
00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:46,000
Speaker 1: him and I was like, yeah, I got this guy.

463
00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:48,000
Speaker 1: Y'all going to hell A He said hell find me

464
00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:50,800
Speaker 1: Like I was like, I didn't know what then about

465
00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:53,840
Speaker 1: He was like, bitch, are you dumb? And then he's

466
00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:58,359
Speaker 1: gonna sell you in the prostitution. So I was scared

467
00:23:58,400 --> 00:24:01,080
Speaker 1: of him after he said that. But so he would

468
00:24:01,119 --> 00:24:02,320
Speaker 1: come to New York be like, you want to go

469
00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:04,520
Speaker 1: to down Like no, because in the back of my

470
00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:07,520
Speaker 1: mind he's gonna sell me and grab you get what

471
00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:09,960
Speaker 1: I'm saying. But before then, I was having a great

472
00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:13,119
Speaker 1: old time with him. I had the masque jackets all that,

473
00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:16,040
Speaker 1: like he was making sure I was good like but

474
00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:19,120
Speaker 1: that was like, I never try to sugar daddy my mom.

475
00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:22,760
Speaker 1: I had guys that, like I date, do really great

476
00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:24,520
Speaker 1: stuff for me. But I've never had like a straight

477
00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:26,879
Speaker 1: up sugar daddy. I've had like a situation where I

478
00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:32,440
Speaker 1: had a whole allowed one month for me. That's cool,

479
00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:38,000
Speaker 1: and like he would he would give me like a

480
00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:40,359
Speaker 1: certain amount of money every month and then I would

481
00:24:40,359 --> 00:24:42,000
Speaker 1: see him probably like once a week, and we would

482
00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:43,520
Speaker 1: like go to dinner. They would like go on a

483
00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:46,879
Speaker 1: date like dinner, and what was your allowance? Three thousand

484
00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:50,440
Speaker 1: a month or week a month? So we goddamn, that

485
00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:53,720
Speaker 1: would be a last This might be a thousand dollars

486
00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:57,960
Speaker 1: a coundred dollars a day. Wow, So he just wanted

487
00:24:58,040 --> 00:25:00,280
Speaker 1: your company. He went to my company, all right, but

488
00:25:00,520 --> 00:25:03,480
Speaker 1: we would we would we would right, we would go,

489
00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:05,200
Speaker 1: I mean we would have dinner and go out on

490
00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:07,280
Speaker 1: a date and everything usually would it would end up

491
00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:10,560
Speaker 1: in sex or some head or something. But he was

492
00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:14,160
Speaker 1: good looking, he was older. Don't have an ugly sugar daddy.

493
00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:19,720
Speaker 1: I think I'm too shallow or I'm not, you know,

494
00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:21,280
Speaker 1: I like to look up. I like the look of

495
00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:25,720
Speaker 1: Benjamin Franklin Bill, and I like him at the bank

496
00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:29,400
Speaker 1: going into my account, and he's pretty. If he was ugly,

497
00:25:29,560 --> 00:25:36,960
Speaker 1: like ugly like girl, Okay, give me to paint flap.

498
00:25:38,320 --> 00:25:40,680
Speaker 1: Give me a whole chocolate bar that edible, so I

499
00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:42,720
Speaker 1: can be half this and I might be able to

500
00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:44,920
Speaker 1: stand dinner. Okay. What if it was somebody that was

501
00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:47,520
Speaker 1: like a disgusting person like Donald Trump? I don't know, No,

502
00:25:47,720 --> 00:25:49,800
Speaker 1: you can't do. I wanted to do discussing things to you,

503
00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:51,760
Speaker 1: like pee on you and stuff like that, like would

504
00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:55,960
Speaker 1: you bet is it in the shower? Just pet on

505
00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:59,280
Speaker 1: in the shower? In the shower? A girl with the yeah,

506
00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:02,440
Speaker 1: you don't even sit right back off? Um, you know

507
00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:04,880
Speaker 1: that it all depends on how that check weighing out.

508
00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:09,320
Speaker 1: But I'm sorry, but like I tried to date, like

509
00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:12,360
Speaker 1: even date like a guy that wasn't the best lucking guy,

510
00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:14,840
Speaker 1: and that ship only lies for like a couple of months,

511
00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:18,159
Speaker 1: because guys that are the best looking guy, it's all

512
00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:21,600
Speaker 1: about the personality and a slat. But your face could

513
00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:24,720
Speaker 1: kind of ruin your personality. Your personality can ruin your

514
00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:26,919
Speaker 1: face too. So we had to choose between a guy

515
00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:31,720
Speaker 1: who was broken but really good looking, nor rich but

516
00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:35,479
Speaker 1: really ugly. I'm going rich. Guess what we can get surgery?

517
00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:38,960
Speaker 1: We can we can get some face work, we can

518
00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:40,720
Speaker 1: get plastic surgery. With all that money, we can go

519
00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:43,760
Speaker 1: see a thermantalitist. That's a lot. You know. We can

520
00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:47,760
Speaker 1: get some invisiligned, get them together. You know that takes years.

521
00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:52,840
Speaker 1: So everybody says, um rich and ugly between you can't

522
00:26:52,840 --> 00:26:59,639
Speaker 1: be in between? All right, what situation you now? Right now? Now?

523
00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:05,359
Speaker 1: I'm not got Yeah, No, I could take a cute

524
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:08,880
Speaker 1: looking broken right now. Listen. Thing with guys, they don't

525
00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:12,280
Speaker 1: even need to be good lucking anyway, like fat You

526
00:27:12,320 --> 00:27:14,440
Speaker 1: know what, y'all know what cutty say, Cutty say that

527
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:16,520
Speaker 1: broke guys got the good dick, But you know what

528
00:27:16,640 --> 00:27:22,399
Speaker 1: not sometimes yes, better, y'all don't too much on it.

529
00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:24,879
Speaker 1: He's ugly. Okay, do you think jay Z is a

530
00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:28,880
Speaker 1: nice looking man? No, he's something about him. But that's

531
00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:30,480
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. But I know, I don't even know.

532
00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:32,720
Speaker 1: I mean he's confidently. I don't mean jay Z. I

533
00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:35,359
Speaker 1: mean like ugly. Okay, who's really ugly. Let's take it

534
00:27:35,440 --> 00:27:39,359
Speaker 1: somebody that's sucking ugly Beetles? Shrek got a little no

535
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:43,120
Speaker 1: Shrek Shrek, No that I mean a human and as

536
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:47,840
Speaker 1: a human. Imagine a guy that looks like Shrek. No,

537
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:49,760
Speaker 1: but beetles, just as a real person and one that

538
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:53,399
Speaker 1: was on oh to beat up the little guy. Okay,

539
00:27:54,320 --> 00:27:59,159
Speaker 1: I could not. You know, you don't I don't know that.

540
00:27:59,160 --> 00:28:02,440
Speaker 1: I don't want that, don't need I don't want. Yeah,

541
00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:05,560
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. Like somebody ugly Liken like private

542
00:28:05,680 --> 00:28:10,200
Speaker 1: jet rides, anything you want, like value, a house, a car,

543
00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:12,920
Speaker 1: a real real friend. Can I have a man on

544
00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:20,920
Speaker 1: the side, right, daddy, not your man? Then sure? Why not? Definitely? Yeah,

545
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:22,640
Speaker 1: especially if I can have a man on the side,

546
00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:25,399
Speaker 1: Thank you listening. I wouldn't. But I'm just saying this

547
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:28,000
Speaker 1: is I'm not gonna lie to I have a home

548
00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:32,359
Speaker 1: girl that has a sugar daddy and he'll give her

549
00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:36,840
Speaker 1: money to buy her boyfriend stuff, like because he knows

550
00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:38,800
Speaker 1: that she has a boyfriend and he's not it. So

551
00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:41,600
Speaker 1: isn't he a pimp nan in a way? Because she's

552
00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:45,920
Speaker 1: taking Yeah, I had a sugar baby come to one

553
00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:48,760
Speaker 1: of my shows back in London and her boyfriend came

554
00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:51,200
Speaker 1: with her and they were talking about how they scheme together,

555
00:28:51,320 --> 00:28:55,120
Speaker 1: like she goes on the days and they split the profits.

556
00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:59,400
Speaker 1: A boyfriend saying, a boyfriend and yeah, that's what I'm saying. Yeah,

557
00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:01,760
Speaker 1: I'm just like, the boys don't know about this. He

558
00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:04,800
Speaker 1: doesn't know why he isn't he like, we're you're getting

559
00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:07,600
Speaker 1: all this money from She says she works, she has

560
00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:09,520
Speaker 1: a job, but he don't know how much she gets paid,

561
00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:12,640
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? So you can't tell them everything.

562
00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:14,840
Speaker 1: And then when he finds out, like, look, how do

563
00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:17,680
Speaker 1: you think you got all this? Okay, you should be

564
00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:20,640
Speaker 1: thinking humble. You know, I just paid for the last

565
00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:23,040
Speaker 1: trip he was on. Right now, as we get older,

566
00:29:23,040 --> 00:29:25,160
Speaker 1: I feel like we've done so many things in the bedroom,

567
00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:27,120
Speaker 1: it's hard for us to think of something we haven't done.

568
00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:29,840
Speaker 1: So when's the last time you've done something brand new

569
00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:34,680
Speaker 1: that you're like, oh, this is different. Oh, I think

570
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:36,880
Speaker 1: the only thing I've ever tried thought was new to

571
00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:39,040
Speaker 1: me was probably a no. And I said, never gotten

572
00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:48,640
Speaker 1: like either, ladies don't mind. What's the penis? Um, I

573
00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:50,520
Speaker 1: became a rapist. I think that's the first thing that

574
00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:55,760
Speaker 1: I'm saying that. I just say I became very aggressive

575
00:29:55,800 --> 00:30:02,080
Speaker 1: in the bedroom. Like I became very aggressive. I take

576
00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:05,040
Speaker 1: the dick, okay, So that was that was something new

577
00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:06,480
Speaker 1: for me. And he wants it. Though he wants you

578
00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:08,960
Speaker 1: to take it, he wants me to take crime. I love.

579
00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:15,720
Speaker 1: That's a we can't even joke around about things like okay,

580
00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:17,840
Speaker 1: but you guys and we talk about that because you

581
00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:20,160
Speaker 1: said you never were very grave. And that's the thing

582
00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:22,680
Speaker 1: I've evolved because the lip service you guys told me,

583
00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:25,120
Speaker 1: like really like you you don't even just try. And

584
00:30:25,160 --> 00:30:26,440
Speaker 1: I was like, no, I just laid here and wait

585
00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:29,600
Speaker 1: for him to just guys like that. So now too,

586
00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:34,800
Speaker 1: So now I'd be like the little shy a little

587
00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:39,400
Speaker 1: and then I get the penis. SONI why didn't you

588
00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:41,280
Speaker 1: like that? You know? Because I just feel like it's

589
00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:43,240
Speaker 1: just hurts to go there and it huts. Maybe I

590
00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:48,200
Speaker 1: didn't prepare prep No, I don't see I get so

591
00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:57,160
Speaker 1: many cents courage, that's very courage. I love it, the

592
00:30:57,240 --> 00:31:00,240
Speaker 1: pain reliever. I feel like I didn't prep right. Yeah,

593
00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:08,400
Speaker 1: personal person whisky that's come burn. Yeah, And it's just

594
00:31:08,520 --> 00:31:10,160
Speaker 1: I just it's not for me. I'm just like, I

595
00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:12,960
Speaker 1: will give you head, I will let you do whatever

596
00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:18,040
Speaker 1: else you want. But yeah, but no, a no for me.

597
00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:20,080
Speaker 1: I just feel like it's too you know, like when

598
00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:22,120
Speaker 1: guys get carried away, they want to double dip as well,

599
00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:27,600
Speaker 1: and I'm just like, no, yeah, gross, like the worst

600
00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:30,280
Speaker 1: thing to you go from the plussy to the but

601
00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:35,800
Speaker 1: you can't go back without cleaning it first. Yeah, problem there,

602
00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:37,200
Speaker 1: and it just gets a bit messy. I'm just like,

603
00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:40,240
Speaker 1: can we just keep it? Basically? No, I didn't. I didn't,

604
00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:43,160
Speaker 1: but it just went in the bad and I was like, no, okay,

605
00:31:43,200 --> 00:31:46,040
Speaker 1: I'm not doing it. You gotta get past that initiow

606
00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:49,400
Speaker 1: what it is when it goes in it's like you

607
00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:54,000
Speaker 1: gotta get into v I p right is noney? General

608
00:31:54,320 --> 00:31:58,320
Speaker 1: is not like you gotta get into you when you

609
00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:01,160
Speaker 1: do it. I have one. I haven't climax from doing it,

610
00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:04,320
Speaker 1: but it does get me really really wet. You come

611
00:32:05,120 --> 00:32:09,240
Speaker 1: what amazing, Like You'll be like it was worth the page,

612
00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:11,760
Speaker 1: even if I'm having sex and he has like his

613
00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:14,480
Speaker 1: stumm in my butt and he's like really like you know,

614
00:32:14,560 --> 00:32:23,760
Speaker 1: I'm crazy with his stuff. Yeah, I'm tike. I tried um.

615
00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:26,680
Speaker 1: I mean it's it was sucking the same, but it

616
00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:30,680
Speaker 1: was just a different position that the guy had threw

617
00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:34,120
Speaker 1: me in my pissi or whatever I was. It was

618
00:32:34,200 --> 00:32:37,880
Speaker 1: like some yoga posed type ship. How I felt, No,

619
00:32:38,120 --> 00:32:40,760
Speaker 1: but it was like it threw me for a look

620
00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:43,719
Speaker 1: because I think what I can't really remember exactly how

621
00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:46,520
Speaker 1: it went, but I believe I was giving him head

622
00:32:46,600 --> 00:32:48,600
Speaker 1: and then he just was like all right, but flipped

623
00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:51,480
Speaker 1: me kind of and it was just amazing. It was

624
00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:54,120
Speaker 1: like the explain this position? I don't know. I was

625
00:32:54,200 --> 00:33:01,320
Speaker 1: like like I can't explain, but it's like if you

626
00:33:01,480 --> 00:33:05,000
Speaker 1: ever get to it, because there's so many positions, and

627
00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:07,360
Speaker 1: I feel like we think we've done so many things,

628
00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:10,120
Speaker 1: but you look at those books and stuff like that,

629
00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:12,560
Speaker 1: so you've got a book to do this or no.

630
00:33:12,720 --> 00:33:15,200
Speaker 1: But I'm saying like I'm pretty sure that position is

631
00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:17,560
Speaker 1: in that book. I like my sect and my legs

632
00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:22,920
Speaker 1: are closed instead of open. Okay. It could be on

633
00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:25,160
Speaker 1: your stomach. It could be. Oh, if you start to

634
00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:28,520
Speaker 1: do it, okay, like reverse cow girl like that, that's

635
00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:31,280
Speaker 1: your position, y'all. Did you say that. Yeah, that's that's

636
00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:35,560
Speaker 1: our position. I like to do like squats. Yeah, I'm

637
00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:38,000
Speaker 1: too lazy for that. That's look good from the back too,

638
00:33:38,040 --> 00:33:39,080
Speaker 1: when you do it like that. I don't know what.

639
00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:47,840
Speaker 1: I love you have videos, get that, get that. I

640
00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:50,960
Speaker 1: love a good donkey. I think donkey is amazing for me.

641
00:33:51,240 --> 00:33:53,040
Speaker 1: And I don't know, I feel like it's the only

642
00:33:53,120 --> 00:33:55,480
Speaker 1: way I truly call them, like ilways st off missionary

643
00:33:56,360 --> 00:33:58,560
Speaker 1: come that way. Oh my god, I'm so glad you

644
00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:00,600
Speaker 1: said that again. We come on my back or on

645
00:34:00,760 --> 00:34:04,360
Speaker 1: top from the bay with but I had an incident

646
00:34:04,560 --> 00:34:08,880
Speaker 1: where that agreement is gone. Definitely can come on your stomach,

647
00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:11,600
Speaker 1: like when you're on your stomach well that way, yeah,

648
00:34:11,760 --> 00:34:14,920
Speaker 1: but not like on all four. A couple of polls

649
00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:18,120
Speaker 1: under you as well, and then you're like the pillow

650
00:34:18,239 --> 00:34:23,640
Speaker 1: thing because provides support a little and it also for

651
00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:27,360
Speaker 1: the guy it like pushes pushes in, so like I

652
00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:29,080
Speaker 1: don't know. I had a guy tell me before that

653
00:34:29,719 --> 00:34:32,960
Speaker 1: his woman was a little overweight, and then she started

654
00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:34,840
Speaker 1: working out and losing weight, and he said that she

655
00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:37,319
Speaker 1: felt tighter and the inside once she started working out

656
00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:39,280
Speaker 1: and losing weight, so it gives it that same effect

657
00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:41,880
Speaker 1: like you're pushing, so it kind of like makes it

658
00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:46,960
Speaker 1: tighter for her. I forget working out, ladies. I never

659
00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:49,600
Speaker 1: did the pillow thing, like I didn't know what it

660
00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:51,160
Speaker 1: was like, you know what I mean. That's how I asked,

661
00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:55,040
Speaker 1: because like I always hear people great as well, like

662
00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:56,520
Speaker 1: when you hold your breath as well. Have you ever

663
00:34:56,600 --> 00:35:03,680
Speaker 1: like held your breath while it's having sex with being

664
00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:07,080
Speaker 1: choked breath and hold it in for a couple of

665
00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:09,279
Speaker 1: seconds and then you just carry on going at it

666
00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:12,400
Speaker 1: like either whilst you're masturbating or you're having sex, and

667
00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:14,919
Speaker 1: it just makes every like the experience a lot better.

668
00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:19,440
Speaker 1: So like you're you're struggling for air really for a

669
00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:22,279
Speaker 1: couple of seconds. That's how people do that. It's called asphyxiation.

670
00:35:22,360 --> 00:35:25,520
Speaker 1: People end up feeling themselves like that. So we don't

671
00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:28,279
Speaker 1: want to come into a sad to hold your breath,

672
00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:31,080
Speaker 1: but it's different when you're actually getting choked or like

673
00:35:31,280 --> 00:35:33,560
Speaker 1: some people will actually tell a noose while they masturbate

674
00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:36,360
Speaker 1: and then I've seen that on like movie. Yeah, and

675
00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:40,960
Speaker 1: that's way two same things. White safe. I'm a screaming

676
00:35:41,080 --> 00:35:43,719
Speaker 1: scream about you masturbate. Oh no, no, no, that would

677
00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:50,239
Speaker 1: be so crazy. But I've had made noise, you know,

678
00:35:50,760 --> 00:36:00,879
Speaker 1: and it helps you know you watching either. I don't

679
00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:03,960
Speaker 1: rather the porn then I'm not good at santsizing. I

680
00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:05,960
Speaker 1: wear at the porn not that good. But I like

681
00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:09,239
Speaker 1: to watch porn on you see, I don't. I want to.

682
00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:12,279
Speaker 1: I want to English, and that I got to hear

683
00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:17,520
Speaker 1: the noise. I don't know what that's a turn off.

684
00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:21,239
Speaker 1: You're like, what the hell are you saying? They say

685
00:36:21,320 --> 00:36:28,520
Speaker 1: they hate all black people. You just watch it. They're like, yeah, yeah, yeah,

686
00:36:29,719 --> 00:36:33,120
Speaker 1: it'd be better. And Larry, you can't speak Spanish a

687
00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:40,680
Speaker 1: lot understand this. Poppy and Maddy Cone all right, now,

688
00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:45,160
Speaker 1: we talked about learning new things from experimenting. Now you

689
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:47,120
Speaker 1: also said that no man should be sucking you for

690
00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:50,000
Speaker 1: a long period of time. Absolutely right. What's a long

691
00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:53,560
Speaker 1: period of time? I think anything over twenty five minutes,

692
00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:59,080
Speaker 1: and I think just penetration alone. I've penetrated our penetration,

693
00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:02,239
Speaker 1: special penetry. Did you guys have a break? No one

694
00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:06,799
Speaker 1: came hours I did. He did eventually. That doesn't count

695
00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:09,600
Speaker 1: because a nice session then for you. But it's on something.

696
00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:13,800
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you who it was, because something that

697
00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:19,160
Speaker 1: I don't think that I told you know, I'm just assuming. No, no, no,

698
00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:21,279
Speaker 1: I don't even think. I don't even think y'all know

699
00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:24,120
Speaker 1: that I used to even see this person. He's famous though.

700
00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:28,640
Speaker 1: We got a lot of stuff to talk about. I know,

701
00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:32,400
Speaker 1: you know, I'm scared about changing names, changing all the

702
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:36,040
Speaker 1: names have changed. Is he somebody like that? Is he

703
00:37:36,200 --> 00:37:38,880
Speaker 1: somebody that we you know, we all know him? He

704
00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:40,600
Speaker 1: said he's famous. Yeah, if I said his name, you

705
00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:43,080
Speaker 1: would definitely know who he is. No, okay, let's just

706
00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:45,520
Speaker 1: let's not well ask her later. But I wanted to

707
00:37:45,560 --> 00:37:48,719
Speaker 1: hear the story. So it was how many? It was

708
00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:50,880
Speaker 1: like four hours? And then how was surprised that he

709
00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:53,160
Speaker 1: just kept going and kept going, And then he came

710
00:37:53,320 --> 00:37:55,400
Speaker 1: and we smoked and like laid up and talk and

711
00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:57,040
Speaker 1: then we did it again for like another two hours.

712
00:37:57,560 --> 00:37:59,959
Speaker 1: Got no job, ain't got no cramps like you ain't.

713
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:02,120
Speaker 1: I was so surprised, but it was so good. I

714
00:38:02,239 --> 00:38:05,480
Speaker 1: was soaking, soaking wet. You've been so wet that it

715
00:38:05,560 --> 00:38:08,520
Speaker 1: starts to like boogie up in his hairs, like you

716
00:38:08,520 --> 00:38:10,400
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. It was like that I was

717
00:38:10,760 --> 00:38:12,279
Speaker 1: it was like clumping. I'm gonna say, come of that

718
00:38:12,320 --> 00:38:15,600
Speaker 1: time stuck and but yeah, right right right, so it

719
00:38:15,719 --> 00:38:19,960
Speaker 1: like I started to light and like yeah, it was yeah.

720
00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:22,440
Speaker 1: See that doesn't count because it was four hours and

721
00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:24,360
Speaker 1: you guys had a break. No, no, no, it was

722
00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:27,200
Speaker 1: four hours until he came and then a break, then

723
00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:30,080
Speaker 1: another two hours after that. I don't know if I

724
00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:32,120
Speaker 1: would want to have sex before hour, and I didn't

725
00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:33,920
Speaker 1: know that I was going to have sex for four hours,

726
00:38:34,000 --> 00:38:36,000
Speaker 1: but I didn't stop him because it was really that good.

727
00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:37,400
Speaker 1: I was amazing and this was my first time I

728
00:38:37,440 --> 00:38:39,120
Speaker 1: having sex with this guy. Did you And I was

729
00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:46,440
Speaker 1: like phone during that time? You know I would hours.

730
00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:49,279
Speaker 1: I was so surprised if we kept going like I was.

731
00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:51,800
Speaker 1: I just really after a while, I was just like,

732
00:38:51,880 --> 00:38:54,560
Speaker 1: when is he ever going to stop? Seven he stopped

733
00:38:54,719 --> 00:38:57,040
Speaker 1: and it was like so many different positions and like

734
00:38:57,120 --> 00:38:58,879
Speaker 1: standing up, laying down on the bed on the floor

735
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:02,000
Speaker 1: in the bathroom saying pick me up? Is he an athlete?

736
00:39:02,040 --> 00:39:08,120
Speaker 1: No need to be right, he needs to be in

737
00:39:08,239 --> 00:39:12,000
Speaker 1: New York City, marathon. Now I could do like sessions

738
00:39:12,080 --> 00:39:14,560
Speaker 1: as far as like we fucking all day, but we're

739
00:39:14,600 --> 00:39:17,040
Speaker 1: gonna stop, like we're gonna have sex for thirty minutes,

740
00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:20,120
Speaker 1: Come good, then we're gonna start again in another thirty

741
00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:24,000
Speaker 1: minutes something like that. It's cool. Before normally I just

742
00:39:24,080 --> 00:39:27,320
Speaker 1: felt like my leg's gonna cramp up, pussy gonna be sore,

743
00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:30,239
Speaker 1: like it's just gonna be up as well. Like I

744
00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:33,319
Speaker 1: feel like I don't know if I would dry up,

745
00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:37,160
Speaker 1: but I definitely would. Mentally, I would not be my

746
00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:40,440
Speaker 1: forty would be like you're tired. So yeah, like we

747
00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:45,280
Speaker 1: were drunk and high drunk, not on any kind of drugs,

748
00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:49,480
Speaker 1: but yeah, it was it was like what did you

749
00:39:49,640 --> 00:39:52,080
Speaker 1: have water by the bad so at least like water

750
00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:55,399
Speaker 1: at some point? Can you ever get the real drive out?

751
00:39:56,320 --> 00:39:59,239
Speaker 1: Water in sight? Especially when you're smoking as well? Like

752
00:39:59,360 --> 00:40:03,040
Speaker 1: you mouth so ye didn't know what. I can't even

753
00:40:03,040 --> 00:40:07,320
Speaker 1: suck his dick. My mother just gonna be like it

754
00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:09,759
Speaker 1: wants me to spit in his mouth. I can't even spit, ye,

755
00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:14,839
Speaker 1: my mouth is dry. You never spit in somebody's mouth. Oh,

756
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:18,600
Speaker 1: I've had that recently actually your boyfriend. Yeah, and it

757
00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:20,760
Speaker 1: was yeah, It was actually quite amazing. I was surprised

758
00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:22,239
Speaker 1: I would be into it. He was just like, open

759
00:40:22,239 --> 00:40:25,120
Speaker 1: your mouth. I was just like, okay, yeah, your mouth. Yeah,

760
00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:27,439
Speaker 1: And I did it back. It wasn't bad you spit

761
00:40:27,520 --> 00:40:32,880
Speaker 1: hit saying spit back, yeah, it was about in general

762
00:40:33,160 --> 00:40:36,640
Speaker 1: is literally nasty. So boy like to me what he

763
00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:39,719
Speaker 1: was like, spit my come in my mouth, Angela. You

764
00:40:39,800 --> 00:40:46,680
Speaker 1: always got to look you're gone too far, too far, No, no, no,

765
00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:49,080
Speaker 1: it live a little. I know you're about to kill

766
00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:51,359
Speaker 1: me for saying this. You did this, but I don't

767
00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:54,880
Speaker 1: know how to spit. Look the way you don't know

768
00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:56,560
Speaker 1: how to do. I don't know how to spit. I

769
00:40:56,600 --> 00:41:00,480
Speaker 1: don't know how to whistle. Whistle, but that's you could

770
00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:03,400
Speaker 1: because you can't spit so that it wants to be

771
00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:05,279
Speaker 1: able to spit in a guy's mouth. But I just

772
00:41:05,360 --> 00:41:07,000
Speaker 1: don't know how to spin. I'm not good at it either.

773
00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:09,560
Speaker 1: You know, I've had my ex has spit in my

774
00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:11,160
Speaker 1: mouth before, and at first I thought it was the

775
00:41:11,200 --> 00:41:13,759
Speaker 1: most disgusting thing in life. And I was like, it's

776
00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:16,920
Speaker 1: kind of freaky that I need some spit. Let's put

777
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:19,200
Speaker 1: that on my list of neverse. You said, let's put

778
00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:21,960
Speaker 1: that on my list of nevers. That's a very short list. Neither.

779
00:41:22,200 --> 00:41:24,000
Speaker 1: I'll never spit in anybody's mouth, and I'll never hear

780
00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:32,920
Speaker 1: anybody spit. Will hear it? Yeah, I'm doing it. I

781
00:41:33,080 --> 00:41:36,960
Speaker 1: want you at homework. Yes, now she's she's aggressive and

782
00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:40,200
Speaker 1: now she's gonna step. She's a spinner. What about some

783
00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:42,680
Speaker 1: other things that's get some more homework of things that

784
00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:45,000
Speaker 1: you think now lonely, since you're I guess, what are

785
00:41:45,040 --> 00:41:46,719
Speaker 1: some other things you would recommend for us to try

786
00:41:46,800 --> 00:41:50,480
Speaker 1: that maybe we haven't that you do? Um, I think

787
00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:54,440
Speaker 1: you guys. You guys are pros. No, I listen to

788
00:41:54,480 --> 00:41:56,000
Speaker 1: you guys at the time. I'm getting tips from you

789
00:41:56,080 --> 00:41:57,759
Speaker 1: guys all the time. I'm just like, okay, I might

790
00:41:57,840 --> 00:41:59,800
Speaker 1: try that. Like, especially when is giving her tips, is

791
00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:02,080
Speaker 1: what I'm like, Okay, if you're doing it and your

792
00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:05,120
Speaker 1: boyfriend's but you stick your finger, no, he doesn't even

793
00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:08,080
Speaker 1: let me like pinch, no, but action he just clenches

794
00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:10,040
Speaker 1: up all the time. He's just like no. But I

795
00:42:10,239 --> 00:42:12,880
Speaker 1: realized now from this show it's the best way to

796
00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:14,719
Speaker 1: do that. It's just kind of like wait till you

797
00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:16,440
Speaker 1: a second stick and then just kind of slide if

798
00:42:16,560 --> 00:42:19,680
Speaker 1: That's what I always say. I have friends who have

799
00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:21,520
Speaker 1: done that. Like she's giving him head and then she

800
00:42:21,640 --> 00:42:23,560
Speaker 1: like sticks it from behind and she's doing it, and

801
00:42:23,640 --> 00:42:26,280
Speaker 1: I'm just like, okay, I'll try my boyfriend, got bet

802
00:42:27,760 --> 00:42:30,480
Speaker 1: my boyfriend, what the hell? No, my boyfriend whenever I

803
00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:32,120
Speaker 1: think he's scared that I might call him gay, like,

804
00:42:32,160 --> 00:42:34,239
Speaker 1: I'm just like, it's okay, I know you're straight as hell.

805
00:42:34,440 --> 00:42:37,160
Speaker 1: He might like it. No, he's scared that you're gonna

806
00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:39,640
Speaker 1: get right on lips ever, and she's gonna be like

807
00:42:39,719 --> 00:42:43,520
Speaker 1: you have a sticky finger up your boyfriends, but slides

808
00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:47,560
Speaker 1: in there nice and easy. That's relevant. That's what it is.

809
00:42:47,600 --> 00:42:51,719
Speaker 1: Don't hang around people like her and blame me. You

810
00:42:51,760 --> 00:42:53,960
Speaker 1: will be sticking up finger up everybody's. But if it

811
00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:57,440
Speaker 1: wasn't for him, if it wasn't for me, she knows you,

812
00:42:57,640 --> 00:43:00,880
Speaker 1: so from then on they know you sticking friends of bus. Now,

813
00:43:01,560 --> 00:43:03,720
Speaker 1: I want to talk about this. Two reasons that people

814
00:43:03,960 --> 00:43:07,800
Speaker 1: break up other than infidelity. Okay, what's the reason that

815
00:43:07,920 --> 00:43:10,000
Speaker 1: you would break up with somebody? And this is for

816
00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:12,520
Speaker 1: the guys out there that are listening, because sometimes I

817
00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:14,160
Speaker 1: get a lot of emails with guys that want to

818
00:43:14,200 --> 00:43:15,759
Speaker 1: get their girl back and they don't know how to

819
00:43:15,840 --> 00:43:17,560
Speaker 1: do it and they don't know if she's still interested.

820
00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:20,000
Speaker 1: Are you about to spit? Loria? Huh? Are you about

821
00:43:20,000 --> 00:43:22,520
Speaker 1: to spit? I was trying to learn, was teaching me

822
00:43:22,640 --> 00:43:26,320
Speaker 1: over here. But what are some reasons that people actually

823
00:43:26,719 --> 00:43:28,839
Speaker 1: break up other than cheating? Like why would you break

824
00:43:28,880 --> 00:43:32,640
Speaker 1: up with a guy? Um? If they are if they

825
00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:35,279
Speaker 1: just turn out boring. If I'm totally bored of them

826
00:43:35,360 --> 00:43:38,320
Speaker 1: and nothing is new anymore, I'm not being surprised or

827
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:41,400
Speaker 1: wooed anymore. I'm just like, fuck this. I might as

828
00:43:41,400 --> 00:43:43,880
Speaker 1: well be single and live a boring life then be

829
00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:52,759
Speaker 1: with you. And so make sure you keep it spicy baby, Right,

830
00:43:53,160 --> 00:43:57,160
Speaker 1: that's a good one. Um. So for me, lying lies

831
00:43:57,480 --> 00:44:00,200
Speaker 1: and I hate a liar, but that will be the

832
00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:02,719
Speaker 1: main thing that we'll be lying about. What because he

833
00:44:02,960 --> 00:44:07,920
Speaker 1: started cheating? But I had a guy. I do not

834
00:44:08,200 --> 00:44:10,960
Speaker 1: like a little lie. I don't like a big I

835
00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:13,520
Speaker 1: was talking to this one guy once upon a time

836
00:44:14,320 --> 00:44:17,040
Speaker 1: and we were talking. He said, you know, I've never

837
00:44:17,120 --> 00:44:21,840
Speaker 1: done social media or nothing like that. Found a whole

838
00:44:22,120 --> 00:44:26,360
Speaker 1: Instagram page follow him? Um, because that would have been funny. No,

839
00:44:26,520 --> 00:44:28,320
Speaker 1: but I didn't let him know that I've seen this page,

840
00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:30,320
Speaker 1: and I was like, you know, it's so funny what

841
00:44:30,520 --> 00:44:35,920
Speaker 1: you know him self. I've just seen somebody post about

842
00:44:35,960 --> 00:44:39,000
Speaker 1: that I don't know, And to this day, like it's

843
00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:42,359
Speaker 1: so crazy because he listens to this. I'm sure he does.

844
00:44:42,960 --> 00:44:45,319
Speaker 1: He started fucking following me, and now I don't funk

845
00:44:45,360 --> 00:44:47,880
Speaker 1: with him or nothing. It's been years. He started following

846
00:44:47,960 --> 00:44:50,759
Speaker 1: me like about a couple of months ago, and I'm like,

847
00:44:50,920 --> 00:44:54,719
Speaker 1: motherfucker from the same Instagram page and all that half

848
00:44:55,040 --> 00:44:58,080
Speaker 1: to the fucking death that he didn't have one. Even

849
00:44:58,160 --> 00:44:59,839
Speaker 1: when I showed it to him, he was like, oh

850
00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:02,520
Speaker 1: now my home girl set this up with like tried

851
00:45:02,560 --> 00:45:04,680
Speaker 1: to make a lie and then finally he admitted to it.

852
00:45:04,880 --> 00:45:09,799
Speaker 1: That's over. And from then on it's like like, even

853
00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:12,040
Speaker 1: if I still speak to you, now, I'm looking at

854
00:45:12,120 --> 00:45:14,560
Speaker 1: you crazy. I'm never gonna trust you. I'm never gonna

855
00:45:14,600 --> 00:45:18,799
Speaker 1: but thanks been listenings. I've broken up with the guy

856
00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:22,240
Speaker 1: before for um lying about having like a whole family,

857
00:45:22,800 --> 00:45:28,040
Speaker 1: Well that'll do it. Like when we first got together

858
00:45:28,280 --> 00:45:31,040
Speaker 1: and he had just got a jail and he was like, oh,

859
00:45:31,600 --> 00:45:33,120
Speaker 1: you know, I just got out of jail and my

860
00:45:33,200 --> 00:45:36,000
Speaker 1: sister is pregnant, so she's always at her boyfriend's house

861
00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:38,040
Speaker 1: and I kind of like share her apartment until I

862
00:45:38,080 --> 00:45:41,120
Speaker 1: get my own place or whatever. Um, long story short,

863
00:45:41,280 --> 00:45:44,319
Speaker 1: that baby was his, That was his girlfriend, and um,

864
00:45:44,560 --> 00:45:49,320
Speaker 1: when I'm found his sister. When I found out, I

865
00:45:49,400 --> 00:45:51,360
Speaker 1: found out because he had gotten locked up and he

866
00:45:51,440 --> 00:45:52,800
Speaker 1: sent me to Mindrew. He used to have had me

867
00:45:52,840 --> 00:45:54,279
Speaker 1: in this apartment all the time, and I used to

868
00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:56,560
Speaker 1: talk so much trash on the sister because she had

869
00:45:56,600 --> 00:45:58,840
Speaker 1: like really big feet, and she would buy like cheap shoes,

870
00:45:59,000 --> 00:46:01,600
Speaker 1: and I was always something like rainbow you know, I'll

871
00:46:01,600 --> 00:46:04,280
Speaker 1: go and Steve Madden. It's cool, but like rainbow shoes

872
00:46:04,400 --> 00:46:06,400
Speaker 1: like Ana Marie, you know what I'm talking about. And

873
00:46:07,160 --> 00:46:09,640
Speaker 1: and then she wore like a like eleven and a

874
00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:12,000
Speaker 1: half or twelve, so she at least a cheap bass shoes.

875
00:46:12,400 --> 00:46:15,439
Speaker 1: And then she had like every victorious secret and backed

876
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:17,759
Speaker 1: and body works, body spray like all lined up on.

877
00:46:18,640 --> 00:46:21,239
Speaker 1: So much I said so much trash about her. I've

878
00:46:21,239 --> 00:46:24,200
Speaker 1: seen her, I've seen him. I've seen so much trash

879
00:46:24,200 --> 00:46:26,239
Speaker 1: about her. And then, um, so the reason that what

880
00:46:26,360 --> 00:46:28,439
Speaker 1: the way I found out was he had gotten locked

881
00:46:28,520 --> 00:46:30,560
Speaker 1: up and he sent me to the sister's apartment to

882
00:46:30,640 --> 00:46:32,320
Speaker 1: get money from her. But she came down with the

883
00:46:32,400 --> 00:46:34,719
Speaker 1: baby and I like start talking to the baby and

884
00:46:34,800 --> 00:46:36,680
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, you're so creel with your name, and

885
00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:40,040
Speaker 1: she's like Derek, just like my daddy, and I'm like yeah.

886
00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:45,120
Speaker 1: And the crazy part about it was she he was

887
00:46:45,320 --> 00:46:47,719
Speaker 1: eventually yeah, so the crazy thing but by it was

888
00:46:47,760 --> 00:46:50,000
Speaker 1: he hate evenually moved into my house. He was paying

889
00:46:50,040 --> 00:46:51,880
Speaker 1: all my bills and taking care of my daughter, like

890
00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:53,800
Speaker 1: taking care of me. He was my boyfriend when I

891
00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:56,120
Speaker 1: got locked up for ninety days, and he like paid

892
00:46:56,160 --> 00:46:57,360
Speaker 1: on my bills and took care of my house and

893
00:46:57,360 --> 00:46:58,680
Speaker 1: everything while I was in jail, like took care of

894
00:46:58,719 --> 00:47:00,919
Speaker 1: my daughter and everything. And so it's like, you're living

895
00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:02,120
Speaker 1: with me and taking care of my child, but you

896
00:47:02,200 --> 00:47:05,040
Speaker 1: deny on your own child. Yeah. After years later, guess

897
00:47:05,120 --> 00:47:09,480
Speaker 1: what that maybe not even his whoa just like his daddy.

898
00:47:11,320 --> 00:47:14,160
Speaker 1: Every other little girl it was a boy. Oh boy, okay.

899
00:47:14,360 --> 00:47:15,919
Speaker 1: N I was like, why was the girl's named Derek?

900
00:47:15,960 --> 00:47:18,440
Speaker 1: Cause I was a little boy. A lot of stories

901
00:47:18,560 --> 00:47:20,520
Speaker 1: like that where bitches have been naming like and we

902
00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:22,960
Speaker 1: talked about the name, but they'll name them after man

903
00:47:23,360 --> 00:47:25,920
Speaker 1: and then come to find out it's not there. I

904
00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:28,719
Speaker 1: think they name them after them, probably like hoping wish

905
00:47:28,960 --> 00:47:30,800
Speaker 1: and then like we're trying to convince that and you

906
00:47:30,880 --> 00:47:35,960
Speaker 1: had that fond like maybe or maybe that's like I

907
00:47:36,040 --> 00:47:37,640
Speaker 1: feel like some women try to make that something to

908
00:47:37,719 --> 00:47:40,319
Speaker 1: be the husbands that they never had, which I find

909
00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:43,680
Speaker 1: it and you know what I mean. So I'm just like,

910
00:47:45,239 --> 00:47:51,279
Speaker 1: especially on Instagram, when they'd be jush like why your

911
00:47:51,400 --> 00:47:54,719
Speaker 1: son is full looking like a whole scam mother and

912
00:47:54,840 --> 00:47:58,320
Speaker 1: he's not chipped in maybe matching with you like this

913
00:47:58,440 --> 00:48:03,000
Speaker 1: ain't mommy daughter, I mean son thing? This is boyfriend girlfriend? Yeah,

914
00:48:03,440 --> 00:48:08,080
Speaker 1: nobody wants you though, sis yea, you know who I'm

915
00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:14,440
Speaker 1: talking about. Right now, let's discuss something else. Have you

916
00:48:14,520 --> 00:48:17,400
Speaker 1: ever dated somebody? Right? And then they started hanging out

917
00:48:17,440 --> 00:48:24,560
Speaker 1: with somebody that knows your whole past, like anybody dating

918
00:48:24,719 --> 00:48:28,160
Speaker 1: somebody dude? Right? And then you see him on Instagram

919
00:48:28,400 --> 00:48:31,879
Speaker 1: with a dude that knows your ex and knows you said,

920
00:48:31,880 --> 00:48:33,480
Speaker 1: you know, all that stuff is about to come out.

921
00:48:33,520 --> 00:48:36,600
Speaker 1: What do you do? I haven't had that. I've just

922
00:48:36,680 --> 00:48:38,920
Speaker 1: had like guys who have messed around with before, and

923
00:48:38,960 --> 00:48:41,000
Speaker 1: I've seen them in like an Instagram post and I'm like, oh,

924
00:48:41,160 --> 00:48:45,040
Speaker 1: fuck r they they know each other, and yeah, no,

925
00:48:45,280 --> 00:48:46,680
Speaker 1: that's I think that's the most I've had. Like, I

926
00:48:46,760 --> 00:48:48,880
Speaker 1: haven't ever been worried about a guy because I couldn't

927
00:48:48,880 --> 00:48:51,279
Speaker 1: even bother me. Actually, I think just two guys knowing

928
00:48:51,320 --> 00:48:54,040
Speaker 1: each other that I've spoken to you would probably scant

929
00:48:54,080 --> 00:48:57,400
Speaker 1: me more than their friends. Yeah. Have you ever had

930
00:48:57,440 --> 00:48:59,920
Speaker 1: two guys that know each other that you you talk

931
00:49:00,000 --> 00:49:02,440
Speaker 1: to both of them? No? No, I never had thought.

932
00:49:02,560 --> 00:49:08,960
Speaker 1: Luckily I don't. I don't eat so up just happened

933
00:49:08,960 --> 00:49:15,320
Speaker 1: to you. Well, there's um, there's two people that I

934
00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:18,279
Speaker 1: was with in the past, and I know that they

935
00:49:18,320 --> 00:49:21,160
Speaker 1: have a mutual friend and I'm not with either one

936
00:49:21,200 --> 00:49:23,800
Speaker 1: of them like currently, but I just found out that

937
00:49:23,880 --> 00:49:26,680
Speaker 1: they have a mutual friend. So I wonder if there

938
00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:29,680
Speaker 1: was like to each other. I know, I want to know,

939
00:49:29,800 --> 00:49:32,759
Speaker 1: like if they are actually friends, because I know that

940
00:49:32,840 --> 00:49:35,319
Speaker 1: they're really they're both really close friends with the mutual friends.

941
00:49:35,560 --> 00:49:37,120
Speaker 1: So I don't know if these two people are friends

942
00:49:37,160 --> 00:49:41,520
Speaker 1: or not. Might be hanging out, but I mean, I

943
00:49:41,560 --> 00:49:50,800
Speaker 1: mean it's not it just what it is like. But

944
00:49:51,040 --> 00:49:55,839
Speaker 1: like I just felt like niggas nowadays, certain ones maybe

945
00:49:55,880 --> 00:50:01,200
Speaker 1: not all got to be a lament spot nowadays, Always

946
00:50:01,440 --> 00:50:05,480
Speaker 1: you don't because I'm running to do guys like do that,

947
00:50:05,640 --> 00:50:08,120
Speaker 1: They're like, yes, they do, And then you know what

948
00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:11,040
Speaker 1: it is is because they'd be bragging. You know, guys

949
00:50:11,120 --> 00:50:13,560
Speaker 1: like the brag and like tell all their business in

950
00:50:13,600 --> 00:50:16,759
Speaker 1: the macho type of way, not really in the gossipy way,

951
00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:19,960
Speaker 1: but in you know, with sometimes this gossipy too, because

952
00:50:20,000 --> 00:50:21,400
Speaker 1: you know, like all right, I haven't been in the

953
00:50:21,480 --> 00:50:25,600
Speaker 1: studio with everybody because you know, I did music for

954
00:50:25,680 --> 00:50:28,920
Speaker 1: having and like I've sat back and even heard guys

955
00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:32,800
Speaker 1: talk about certain females and I'm just like, damn, since

956
00:50:32,840 --> 00:50:35,759
Speaker 1: you're dragging her, like like you a whole female and

957
00:50:35,840 --> 00:50:37,840
Speaker 1: you want them nigga? You know what I mean? Like

958
00:50:38,040 --> 00:50:40,680
Speaker 1: dudes will really ship on a girl, like I don't

959
00:50:40,719 --> 00:50:43,759
Speaker 1: know if it's that they men is bitter, they're bitter.

960
00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:46,000
Speaker 1: I don't know what it is, but I've heard it happen,

961
00:50:46,480 --> 00:50:49,680
Speaker 1: you know what I mean in the situation like like

962
00:50:49,800 --> 00:50:51,759
Speaker 1: I dealt with a guy or whatever. I dated a

963
00:50:51,840 --> 00:50:55,320
Speaker 1: guy and um, people knew I dated this guy and

964
00:50:55,480 --> 00:50:58,360
Speaker 1: then I see his friends hanging around a guy that

965
00:50:58,680 --> 00:51:01,759
Speaker 1: I was talking to or what it? So, do you

966
00:51:01,880 --> 00:51:03,399
Speaker 1: know what I mean, it makes me feel a little

967
00:51:03,520 --> 00:51:06,080
Speaker 1: uneasy to see what is he saying about, because it's like,

968
00:51:06,160 --> 00:51:08,560
Speaker 1: what is he saying? And you know that especially if

969
00:51:08,600 --> 00:51:11,640
Speaker 1: you know, especially if it's end well and you're like

970
00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:13,680
Speaker 1: because if we all have guys who dated in the past,

971
00:51:13,760 --> 00:51:15,640
Speaker 1: and right, yeah, why did I date him? And then

972
00:51:15,680 --> 00:51:18,279
Speaker 1: we're like and ship. Even the guy I'm talking about

973
00:51:18,320 --> 00:51:20,399
Speaker 1: has told me stuff about the dude I used to date,

974
00:51:20,640 --> 00:51:22,520
Speaker 1: so I know he you didn't say you know I

975
00:51:22,640 --> 00:51:26,359
Speaker 1: used to date him to the guy, so he kind

976
00:51:26,360 --> 00:51:28,480
Speaker 1: of hinted to me that he knew that I used

977
00:51:28,480 --> 00:51:32,120
Speaker 1: to So I don't like talking about niggas that don't matter.

978
00:51:32,560 --> 00:51:36,239
Speaker 1: Like now, if it was like an ex, that like, yeah,

979
00:51:36,360 --> 00:51:39,640
Speaker 1: that mattered, that's anything. But like this nigga, he don't

980
00:51:39,680 --> 00:51:42,560
Speaker 1: matter at all in life to me, nothing at all,

981
00:51:42,760 --> 00:51:44,520
Speaker 1: Like it was just a dub, Like he a dub.

982
00:51:45,040 --> 00:51:46,480
Speaker 1: So to me, I don't feel like I have to

983
00:51:46,560 --> 00:51:50,760
Speaker 1: explain myself like he if you fell away then because

984
00:51:50,800 --> 00:51:53,320
Speaker 1: you found out and then you talk to me about

985
00:51:53,360 --> 00:51:55,319
Speaker 1: it and then let me, you know, let me fix

986
00:51:55,400 --> 00:51:57,680
Speaker 1: it that way. But I'm not about to just volunteer

987
00:51:57,719 --> 00:51:59,680
Speaker 1: that I funk with this. I used to funk with

988
00:51:59,800 --> 00:52:05,200
Speaker 1: this clown. He is a whole clown him for listening,

989
00:52:06,360 --> 00:52:10,640
Speaker 1: he probably is clown. You know. I feel like any

990
00:52:10,760 --> 00:52:13,800
Speaker 1: guy that are dealt with or like is listen to

991
00:52:13,920 --> 00:52:16,759
Speaker 1: lip service or does listen to lip service because they

992
00:52:16,760 --> 00:52:19,239
Speaker 1: think I'm gonna say something about them, or sometimes I'll

993
00:52:19,239 --> 00:52:21,239
Speaker 1: be talking about a whole another negative. I know you

994
00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:24,000
Speaker 1: were trying to talk about me. I was talking about

995
00:52:24,320 --> 00:52:26,880
Speaker 1: your one out of many. I've had some similar to that.

996
00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:29,680
Speaker 1: A guy who I was messing around with. You guys

997
00:52:29,719 --> 00:52:32,560
Speaker 1: say college, we say university back so we say university.

998
00:52:32,600 --> 00:52:34,000
Speaker 1: So we used to mess around all the time. He

999
00:52:34,040 --> 00:52:36,279
Speaker 1: was literally just a fun buddy, but he was such

1000
00:52:36,280 --> 00:52:38,319
Speaker 1: an asshole. But he was an asshole with some good

1001
00:52:38,440 --> 00:52:41,520
Speaker 1: dick like I can't deny it. But ever since you

1002
00:52:41,560 --> 00:52:44,479
Speaker 1: see me start doing my thing, especially with simply Lonny

1003
00:52:44,560 --> 00:52:46,920
Speaker 1: and just sexuality, and he was used to ask like,

1004
00:52:46,920 --> 00:52:49,080
Speaker 1: why don't you ever share your whole you know, your

1005
00:52:49,160 --> 00:52:50,920
Speaker 1: host stories and stuff like that, and I'm just like,

1006
00:52:51,640 --> 00:52:54,319
Speaker 1: are you talking about my stories with you? Because I'm

1007
00:52:54,480 --> 00:52:58,239
Speaker 1: very open, and he just started calling me every other

1008
00:52:58,680 --> 00:53:01,520
Speaker 1: type of you know, drugtory under the you know, he

1009
00:53:01,640 --> 00:53:03,279
Speaker 1: was just we were just going at it on via

1010
00:53:03,440 --> 00:53:06,759
Speaker 1: d M on Instagram. I was just like, that's why

1011
00:53:06,800 --> 00:53:08,560
Speaker 1: you were this. I was talking mad about his dick,

1012
00:53:08,600 --> 00:53:10,160
Speaker 1: but it was a lie. But you know, I just

1013
00:53:10,239 --> 00:53:12,320
Speaker 1: had to humble him a bit. And I realized that

1014
00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:14,200
Speaker 1: he had a girlfriend. I don't know if this is

1015
00:53:14,239 --> 00:53:16,959
Speaker 1: bad at me, but I went to his girlfriend and said,

1016
00:53:17,320 --> 00:53:19,560
Speaker 1: this is what your boyfriend is doing. He's trash and

1017
00:53:19,680 --> 00:53:21,640
Speaker 1: just to let you know, he was trying to hit

1018
00:53:21,719 --> 00:53:23,920
Speaker 1: me up when you guys were still together, and I scream.

1019
00:53:24,400 --> 00:53:26,360
Speaker 1: I enshoed it and I sent it to her. We

1020
00:53:26,480 --> 00:53:28,560
Speaker 1: had a phone call. She called me. I said, listen,

1021
00:53:28,760 --> 00:53:30,560
Speaker 1: if my man was a clown, I would want someone

1022
00:53:30,600 --> 00:53:37,279
Speaker 1: else to tell me. So I'm telling you and a

1023
00:53:37,480 --> 00:53:41,600
Speaker 1: woman to a woman I had to do. You know

1024
00:53:41,719 --> 00:53:44,560
Speaker 1: what I was searching and she didn't tweet him that much.

1025
00:53:45,440 --> 00:53:47,480
Speaker 1: You know, when you searched someone's name and you noticed

1026
00:53:47,560 --> 00:53:51,520
Speaker 1: that the interaction between two parties are not the same anyway,

1027
00:53:51,520 --> 00:53:56,080
Speaker 1: it's calmed down a lot. So because when a girl

1028
00:53:56,200 --> 00:53:58,440
Speaker 1: does actually, first of all, she automatically think she's going

1029
00:53:58,480 --> 00:54:01,400
Speaker 1: to be checking her timeline and she's embarrassed, you know,

1030
00:54:01,480 --> 00:54:03,000
Speaker 1: and she doesn't want you to see I'm still talking

1031
00:54:03,080 --> 00:54:04,640
Speaker 1: to this dude, even though you gave me all this

1032
00:54:04,760 --> 00:54:09,680
Speaker 1: information and she is still checking the time, But why

1033
00:54:09,680 --> 00:54:11,359
Speaker 1: didn't made him really mad? As if you follow her?

1034
00:54:12,320 --> 00:54:15,239
Speaker 1: I tried, I tried to. I'm very petty, like it

1035
00:54:15,239 --> 00:54:17,000
Speaker 1: would have been so good if he just left me alone,

1036
00:54:17,040 --> 00:54:18,839
Speaker 1: but since he started calling me every other name under

1037
00:54:18,840 --> 00:54:21,600
Speaker 1: the no he I was just like, right, so, yeah,

1038
00:54:21,719 --> 00:54:23,120
Speaker 1: and this is all because you don't want to talk

1039
00:54:23,160 --> 00:54:26,320
Speaker 1: about his whack dick. It was good, but because he

1040
00:54:26,480 --> 00:54:28,800
Speaker 1: was being disrespectful, like he should have just been like

1041
00:54:28,840 --> 00:54:30,839
Speaker 1: a normal person, like I see you doing your thing,

1042
00:54:31,000 --> 00:54:33,279
Speaker 1: keep it up. But I think he was hating and

1043
00:54:33,360 --> 00:54:35,239
Speaker 1: he didn't want to admit it. So he was just

1044
00:54:35,320 --> 00:54:37,880
Speaker 1: coming at me, calling me a whole Everybody used to

1045
00:54:37,920 --> 00:54:39,200
Speaker 1: talk about you, and I just like, no, he used

1046
00:54:39,200 --> 00:54:44,239
Speaker 1: to talk about me, Stop lying right, So yeah, so

1047
00:54:44,440 --> 00:54:45,920
Speaker 1: and he was still checking for me with something. He's

1048
00:54:45,920 --> 00:54:47,239
Speaker 1: coming meet him. I was just like to do what

1049
00:54:47,520 --> 00:54:48,919
Speaker 1: he was, just like to do what you talk about?

1050
00:54:48,920 --> 00:54:51,360
Speaker 1: I was. I was like, I was like relationships. He

1051
00:54:51,480 --> 00:54:54,120
Speaker 1: was just like no, sex was no, that's not happy

1052
00:54:54,200 --> 00:54:57,839
Speaker 1: right alone. Let's end on this one. You also said

1053
00:54:57,880 --> 00:55:01,480
Speaker 1: that monogamous relationships could be overrap. Are they should we

1054
00:55:01,560 --> 00:55:03,200
Speaker 1: just accepted some of us are built to be with

1055
00:55:03,280 --> 00:55:06,680
Speaker 1: more than one person. I think this is why we say,

1056
00:55:06,719 --> 00:55:08,560
Speaker 1: like in a lot of cultures around the world, open

1057
00:55:08,640 --> 00:55:12,000
Speaker 1: relationships is actually a thing. I think even if we

1058
00:55:12,080 --> 00:55:14,800
Speaker 1: just look at headlines in the media, monogamy is not working.

1059
00:55:14,880 --> 00:55:17,239
Speaker 1: Why are we playing ourselves? I mean, I don't want

1060
00:55:17,239 --> 00:55:19,640
Speaker 1: to say his name, but we all know who played

1061
00:55:19,680 --> 00:55:24,759
Speaker 1: the name Christian. I mean, you know what I mean.

1062
00:55:24,920 --> 00:55:27,759
Speaker 1: So monogamy is not built for everyone, and I think

1063
00:55:27,960 --> 00:55:30,000
Speaker 1: we would be a lot we'd save a lot of

1064
00:55:30,040 --> 00:55:32,399
Speaker 1: more heartbreaks if we were just honest and openness sate.

1065
00:55:32,560 --> 00:55:34,320
Speaker 1: Do you know what, Maybe I want to be in

1066
00:55:34,360 --> 00:55:36,360
Speaker 1: a relationship, but I would like to have someone on

1067
00:55:36,440 --> 00:55:38,839
Speaker 1: the side as well, and hopefully you can find someone

1068
00:55:38,840 --> 00:55:40,760
Speaker 1: who would be open to that. And it does exist.

1069
00:55:40,880 --> 00:55:42,960
Speaker 1: I went to a sex workshop where I was in

1070
00:55:43,040 --> 00:55:46,399
Speaker 1: a room full of people who are in polygamous relationships,

1071
00:55:46,440 --> 00:55:49,040
Speaker 1: and they look like regular people that you see on

1072
00:55:49,120 --> 00:55:54,640
Speaker 1: the subway. Alien look like you just would never know that.

1073
00:55:54,719 --> 00:56:03,359
Speaker 1: The women women. It was actually the women who were

1074
00:56:03,440 --> 00:56:05,839
Speaker 1: who told me. This old white woman he was just like, yes,

1075
00:56:05,960 --> 00:56:08,080
Speaker 1: I have a husband and I've got a boyfriend, and

1076
00:56:08,160 --> 00:56:10,279
Speaker 1: I was just like your husband doesn't have anybody else,

1077
00:56:10,480 --> 00:56:12,279
Speaker 1: and she was just like no, and he's was just

1078
00:56:12,360 --> 00:56:14,279
Speaker 1: like you look like a liberrian. I would never know

1079
00:56:14,600 --> 00:56:18,080
Speaker 1: that two men on the goal like it's so. But

1080
00:56:18,239 --> 00:56:20,440
Speaker 1: I was very happy and it was very eye opening.

1081
00:56:20,800 --> 00:56:22,400
Speaker 1: So I just always tell people like, don't try and

1082
00:56:22,440 --> 00:56:26,160
Speaker 1: force yourself into yourself. I wonder about it. I think

1083
00:56:27,400 --> 00:56:29,720
Speaker 1: that maybe in the long run, I might be open

1084
00:56:29,800 --> 00:56:33,120
Speaker 1: to an open relationship, but I would definitely say monogamy

1085
00:56:33,200 --> 00:56:35,439
Speaker 1: is overrated. I've got good friends who are in open

1086
00:56:35,480 --> 00:56:38,480
Speaker 1: relationships and they're the happiest people out. Your boyfriend wanted

1087
00:56:38,480 --> 00:56:40,400
Speaker 1: to have an open relationship, like where he could date

1088
00:56:40,440 --> 00:56:42,759
Speaker 1: other women, You'll be down with that. He doesn't need

1089
00:56:42,760 --> 00:56:48,960
Speaker 1: to date anyone else but me date. But see, that's

1090
00:56:49,000 --> 00:56:50,880
Speaker 1: I think we say differently. So if he wanted to

1091
00:56:50,920 --> 00:56:53,080
Speaker 1: sleep with another woman, that would be fine, but dat

1092
00:56:53,160 --> 00:56:59,480
Speaker 1: is in her No, he doesn't. He doesn't if he

1093
00:56:59,520 --> 00:57:02,879
Speaker 1: did not, But if he asked you and was open

1094
00:57:02,920 --> 00:57:05,359
Speaker 1: about it, if we'd have a conversation about it, we'd

1095
00:57:05,400 --> 00:57:07,279
Speaker 1: have to start a bit by bit and then I

1096
00:57:07,360 --> 00:57:09,120
Speaker 1: think we'd work our way up into it, because it's

1097
00:57:09,160 --> 00:57:10,960
Speaker 1: not something you could just jump into, like, let's be real,

1098
00:57:11,120 --> 00:57:13,120
Speaker 1: like it has to be baby steps. And then we

1099
00:57:13,280 --> 00:57:15,360
Speaker 1: come back discussed it. How did you find it? Do

1100
00:57:15,400 --> 00:57:17,120
Speaker 1: you think this is something we can carry on doing

1101
00:57:17,880 --> 00:57:21,040
Speaker 1: and if it works, then it works. But I'm sorry

1102
00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:26,560
Speaker 1: that s it ain't for me? Relationship? Right, how is it?

1103
00:57:27,800 --> 00:57:30,960
Speaker 1: She didn't know? No, no, no, I didn't know. We

1104
00:57:31,120 --> 00:57:35,320
Speaker 1: were very we were very open about, you know, seeing

1105
00:57:35,400 --> 00:57:38,440
Speaker 1: other people. We had hell of three sums um and

1106
00:57:38,520 --> 00:57:40,040
Speaker 1: we were very open about seeing other people. But he

1107
00:57:40,200 --> 00:57:41,920
Speaker 1: was like super freak. He was a little older and

1108
00:57:41,960 --> 00:57:43,320
Speaker 1: he was like super freak. So he would want to

1109
00:57:43,400 --> 00:57:48,720
Speaker 1: know like details of being with other guys, you want

1110
00:57:48,760 --> 00:57:50,600
Speaker 1: to know, Yeah, he would want to know, Like he

1111
00:57:50,680 --> 00:57:53,160
Speaker 1: never wanted to like watch or be around, but that

1112
00:57:53,280 --> 00:57:56,800
Speaker 1: we wanted to know. He wanted to know details. And

1113
00:57:56,840 --> 00:58:00,160
Speaker 1: then eventually ended because he got somebody else pregnant and

1114
00:58:00,360 --> 00:58:02,760
Speaker 1: he lied to me about it, and I'm it's like

1115
00:58:02,800 --> 00:58:04,720
Speaker 1: I already knew you were sucking her so down that

1116
00:58:04,840 --> 00:58:08,360
Speaker 1: she's pregnant, I'm not having a baby. So with an

1117
00:58:08,400 --> 00:58:11,320
Speaker 1: open relationship. And this is why, because at some point,

1118
00:58:12,040 --> 00:58:15,080
Speaker 1: at some point, something's gonna happen. It's gonna be a bitch.

1119
00:58:15,200 --> 00:58:17,040
Speaker 1: I don't want to hope from relationship and he's gonna

1120
00:58:17,080 --> 00:58:19,560
Speaker 1: try to make that bit happy, and I just felt like,

1121
00:58:19,640 --> 00:58:22,400
Speaker 1: with me, I'm not down with that ship. It last

1122
00:58:22,520 --> 00:58:24,400
Speaker 1: two and a half years though, I mean, but that's

1123
00:58:24,400 --> 00:58:26,360
Speaker 1: not really that long. I mean two and a half

1124
00:58:26,440 --> 00:58:28,560
Speaker 1: years is, and it was it was, and it was

1125
00:58:28,640 --> 00:58:33,520
Speaker 1: completely open the entire time we went into relationship. I've

1126
00:58:33,560 --> 00:58:35,680
Speaker 1: never wanted to be in an open relationship. I'm not

1127
00:58:35,760 --> 00:58:39,080
Speaker 1: playing that ship, so I couldn't do it. But I

1128
00:58:39,200 --> 00:58:41,560
Speaker 1: also feel like as you get older, like when you're younger,

1129
00:58:41,680 --> 00:58:43,160
Speaker 1: you might feel that way, but then when you get

1130
00:58:43,240 --> 00:58:46,440
Speaker 1: older and they lonely and you don't want to you

1131
00:58:46,520 --> 00:58:49,600
Speaker 1: don't want to share somebody because I'm like, I'm too

1132
00:58:49,680 --> 00:58:51,600
Speaker 1: lazy for that ship. I'm not going out with other people.

1133
00:58:52,080 --> 00:58:54,520
Speaker 1: He's not gonna go out with other people because I'm

1134
00:58:54,560 --> 00:58:56,720
Speaker 1: not cool with it. And you know, at some point

1135
00:58:56,760 --> 00:58:59,040
Speaker 1: it's just like, Okay, it's too much work with me

1136
00:58:59,160 --> 00:59:01,240
Speaker 1: and him. Though it was more like we were together,

1137
00:59:01,400 --> 00:59:03,200
Speaker 1: we just had sex with other people, like I wasn't

1138
00:59:03,200 --> 00:59:06,440
Speaker 1: in a whole another relationship with anybody else. Just so

1139
00:59:06,680 --> 00:59:09,880
Speaker 1: that's what the problem is, and that's the yeah, like

1140
00:59:10,400 --> 00:59:12,920
Speaker 1: relationship thing is raw sex to me like, I'm not

1141
00:59:13,040 --> 00:59:15,480
Speaker 1: just going around having raw sex with this person, this person,

1142
00:59:15,600 --> 00:59:17,520
Speaker 1: that person. There's gonna be someone. That's the thing that

1143
00:59:17,640 --> 00:59:20,400
Speaker 1: open relationships, I feel like they're they're more open and honest.

1144
00:59:21,040 --> 00:59:24,000
Speaker 1: And the thing with monogomy is everybody you can be.

1145
00:59:24,400 --> 00:59:27,360
Speaker 1: You can be in a committed relationship with your significant

1146
00:59:27,440 --> 00:59:29,840
Speaker 1: other that's passing out raw dick to every time they

1147
00:59:29,880 --> 00:59:36,280
Speaker 1: can hearry that relationship Diane and Mary, that's beyond that,

1148
00:59:37,120 --> 00:59:40,240
Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, alonely let people know where they can

1149
00:59:40,280 --> 00:59:42,280
Speaker 1: find you, and let's talk about the girlfund me because

1150
00:59:42,320 --> 00:59:44,320
Speaker 1: we are gonna deals because we want this book to

1151
00:59:46,600 --> 00:59:49,600
Speaker 1: what our name on it. Yeah, thank much. So my

1152
00:59:49,720 --> 00:59:51,760
Speaker 1: book will be coming out hopefully at the end of

1153
00:59:51,840 --> 00:59:55,000
Speaker 1: this year, no fingers crossed. Um it's called The Big

1154
00:59:55,080 --> 00:59:57,880
Speaker 1: Oh as you know. Find me on simply lone dot

1155
00:59:57,960 --> 01:00:00,000
Speaker 1: com and just about the book. Like I said before,

1156
01:00:00,080 --> 01:00:03,360
Speaker 1: it's about sexuality relationships for millennials, So I'll be talking

1157
01:00:03,400 --> 01:00:06,760
Speaker 1: about everything from sugar at least two open relationships to

1158
01:00:07,680 --> 01:00:11,240
Speaker 1: um I don't know the LGBT community also, so it's

1159
01:00:11,240 --> 01:00:13,920
Speaker 1: going to be very interesting and I can't wait. But yeah,

1160
01:00:13,960 --> 01:00:17,840
Speaker 1: please do find you talk about fla auto Felacia. Haven't

1161
01:00:17,880 --> 01:00:23,320
Speaker 1: heard this word for relationship? Google it okay about your

1162
01:00:23,640 --> 01:00:35,360
Speaker 1: LGBT you hay talking about your LGBTs experiences. So I've

1163
01:00:35,400 --> 01:00:38,320
Speaker 1: never see I think that I could be um, I

1164
01:00:38,400 --> 01:00:41,520
Speaker 1: think a trisexual, but I've never ever gotten that, you know,

1165
01:00:41,680 --> 01:00:44,000
Speaker 1: all the way. Like I've always found like women attractive

1166
01:00:44,000 --> 01:00:45,880
Speaker 1: because I feel like we are the beautiful sex, like

1167
01:00:46,480 --> 01:00:48,800
Speaker 1: like we're more attractive than men in general. But I

1168
01:00:48,840 --> 01:00:50,120
Speaker 1: don't know. If I go all the way there, I

1169
01:00:50,160 --> 01:00:53,640
Speaker 1: think I'd be a very terrible lesbian. So I'm just

1170
01:00:53,840 --> 01:00:56,720
Speaker 1: like maybe a terrible lesbian. I don't know what to do.

1171
01:00:57,000 --> 01:00:59,240
Speaker 1: I'd be nervous, like I heard so much do not

1172
01:00:59,360 --> 01:01:10,520
Speaker 1: had so much but experience. I feel like I've been

1173
01:01:10,640 --> 01:01:15,200
Speaker 1: in so many h relationships that I'm experiencing that sex

1174
01:01:15,480 --> 01:01:17,760
Speaker 1: in that sense, So to be with someone who's the

1175
01:01:17,800 --> 01:01:20,680
Speaker 1: same sex as me, it will be starting all over again,

1176
01:01:20,760 --> 01:01:23,160
Speaker 1: and I'd just be nervous. So you're gonna give wagheads,

1177
01:01:23,240 --> 01:01:27,640
Speaker 1: which but you know what's interesting is the fact that

1178
01:01:27,760 --> 01:01:32,280
Speaker 1: lesbians have more orgasms than hurt your sexual relationship, which

1179
01:01:32,280 --> 01:01:35,000
Speaker 1: I think is amazing. It's like three D masturbation. It's

1180
01:01:35,000 --> 01:01:36,480
Speaker 1: like why I play with yourself when you're gonna play

1181
01:01:36,520 --> 01:01:40,320
Speaker 1: with her and she'll play with you. This is too fast,

1182
01:01:40,920 --> 01:01:45,200
Speaker 1: my goodness, your own dick? Wow? How do people get

1183
01:01:45,240 --> 01:01:52,040
Speaker 1: that flexible? They stretched their beds. I'm sorry, but I

1184
01:01:52,080 --> 01:01:59,320
Speaker 1: don't want to see nobody stretching exercises? How do you

1185
01:01:59,400 --> 01:02:03,360
Speaker 1: do that? Your like, let me try. I don't find

1186
01:02:03,400 --> 01:02:06,280
Speaker 1: nobody tonight. I want to get back your own. But

1187
01:02:06,440 --> 01:02:07,720
Speaker 1: you want to do something right, you gotta do what

1188
01:02:07,760 --> 01:02:11,080
Speaker 1: your saying, like, how do you know how to suck

1189
01:02:11,160 --> 01:02:13,480
Speaker 1: it dick? Right? So you know what you like? You

1190
01:02:13,520 --> 01:02:15,760
Speaker 1: know this is what I'm saying. No, but like I

1191
01:02:15,960 --> 01:02:19,439
Speaker 1: had to learn to really suck dick from sucking dick,

1192
01:02:19,600 --> 01:02:22,440
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like this makes perfect, practice

1193
01:02:22,480 --> 01:02:23,880
Speaker 1: makes perfect. You don't think you can know what you

1194
01:02:23,960 --> 01:02:25,680
Speaker 1: want to do for yourself. You think you can eat

1195
01:02:25,720 --> 01:02:29,600
Speaker 1: pussy right now my own. I'm just like, I mean,

1196
01:02:29,640 --> 01:02:33,200
Speaker 1: you're making yourself. I'm sure if you make it something

1197
01:02:33,360 --> 01:02:34,960
Speaker 1: with your fingers. Why can't you make yourself with your

1198
01:02:35,000 --> 01:02:37,520
Speaker 1: talking about to eat pussy? Like? I felt like, first

1199
01:02:37,560 --> 01:02:39,120
Speaker 1: of all, I'll be like no, I would be like

1200
01:02:39,800 --> 01:02:41,880
Speaker 1: I wouldn't want to tell you how to do like

1201
01:02:42,480 --> 01:02:48,800
Speaker 1: I wouldn't you know what, You're right. Let the rest second, Dick,

1202
01:02:48,880 --> 01:02:52,920
Speaker 1: isn't that hard? Is very sorry, because you have to

1203
01:02:52,960 --> 01:02:55,480
Speaker 1: make sure this teeth Joel has to be on point.

1204
01:02:55,520 --> 01:02:59,640
Speaker 1: That has to be that this party, our lips get

1205
01:02:59,720 --> 01:03:03,160
Speaker 1: like it any yeah, okay, okay, that should be so

1206
01:03:03,320 --> 01:03:06,000
Speaker 1: all right out here from your two front tee, I'm

1207
01:03:06,040 --> 01:03:08,840
Speaker 1: a well never you just be biting. No, I don't

1208
01:03:10,560 --> 01:03:17,000
Speaker 1: since I was a teenager protector for you guys presence

1209
01:03:17,080 --> 01:03:28,200
Speaker 1: as well, so from right because they like it when

1210
01:03:28,240 --> 01:03:32,800
Speaker 1: I take it. Let's just say role play change. Let

1211
01:03:32,840 --> 01:03:35,360
Speaker 1: me get a shop. I'm gonna put no in front

1212
01:03:35,400 --> 01:03:40,760
Speaker 1: of her, So no consent, but thank you, thank you

1213
01:03:40,880 --> 01:03:45,000
Speaker 1: and having me appreciate you, and we are supporting you

1214
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Speaker 1: in your book and your movement right