Speaker 1: Second data date. You know. Recently, I was on a
Speaker 1: dating app okay, trying to find matches for Josey, and honestly,
Speaker 1: it was really difficult. Not because of what jose wants,
Speaker 1: you know, because he'll go out with pretty much anything.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying that as a single person, it's got
Speaker 1: to be hard because the appis field was so many
Speaker 1: odd people, like with photos wearing tons of makeup and filters,
Speaker 1: or someone that's standing alone in a swamp holding a
Speaker 1: sign up that says still single. I don't know, is
Speaker 1: that supposed to be funny or is it meant to
Speaker 1: make me sad and it make me feel bad enough
Speaker 1: to go out? All I know is after that experience,
Speaker 1: I really feel for listeners like Steve, who emailed into
Speaker 1: the show today and said he was just happy that
Speaker 1: her profile seemed somewhat normal. You're not looking for a
Speaker 1: swamp girl to go to you with your swamp boy, No,
Speaker 1: not at all. Okay, tell us about the woman that
Speaker 1: you matched with. What's her name? Her name is Jamie?
Speaker 1: All right? Is there anything exceptional to say about her?
Speaker 1: Or was she just normal? She seemed very normal, super cute,
Speaker 1: And you know, I was raised on a farm, so
Speaker 1: she didn't necessarily look like a country girl, but she
Speaker 1: looked very sweet and innocently, so I kind of went
Speaker 1: with it. She could still pick up a bail of hay.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm assuming that that's on your list. What
Speaker 1: do you do with a normal girl for a first date? Uh? Well,
Speaker 1: the date that I kind of pitched to her that
Speaker 1: she kind of agreed to was, you know, let's just
Speaker 1: have a date on my family's farm, and you know,
Speaker 1: I can show you what farm life is day to day.
Speaker 1: You know, does that mean that she's like meeting your
Speaker 1: family on the first date. I mean it is the
Speaker 1: family farm, so we pretty much it's just family that
Speaker 1: works there. But you know, I just wanted to experience
Speaker 1: how I grew up and you know, my just kind
Speaker 1: of day to day living. So are you are you
Speaker 1: still working on the farm too? Yeah? Part time okay,
Speaker 1: And I imagine with cute animals, are also your family
Speaker 1: a little pig? Yeah? We in the whole nine yards.
Speaker 1: We got a cow, chickens, goat. I will get to
Speaker 1: mister Harvey in a little bit, but yeah, mister Harvey,
Speaker 1: yes that is our goat. Okay. This is an interesting
Speaker 1: choice for a first date, Like, what was her reaction
Speaker 1: when you pitched this idea too? Well, she seemed kind
Speaker 1: of excited about it. I mean, she didn't voice any concerns.
Speaker 1: I thought her. I was like, you know, I'll get
Speaker 1: you some overalls and some boots. Picked her up early
Speaker 1: in the morning. We drove out to the countryside, you know,
Speaker 1: and went to the farm, and she got dressed and
Speaker 1: got to work. You know, Okay, that's work. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: got to stop your first second. I grew up, you know,
Speaker 1: surrounded by farm life in a tiny little town. It's
Speaker 1: not glamorous. I mean, like, to me, it sounds like
Speaker 1: you're shoveling manure. No, I did spare her the manure.
Speaker 1: You know. We picked the eggs for breakfast, and then
Speaker 1: we went out and we milked the cows. We did
Speaker 1: not use the milk for breakfast. But I told her,
Speaker 1: you know, I was like, if you want to feed
Speaker 1: the pigs, it's super simple. It's not really all that mess.
Speaker 1: And she was down with it. But mister Harvey. That's
Speaker 1: where mister Harvey comes in, because he kind of just
Speaker 1: roamed the farm. Yes, he's our pet goat. He's kind
Speaker 1: of like our guard dogstead of a blue chick hound.
Speaker 1: We have a we have a big goat. Yeah, he
Speaker 1: sometimes a little temperamental when it comes to meeting new people.
Speaker 1: Held him, just nibble on him. Brook did the same
Speaker 1: thing to me on my first day on the show.
Speaker 1: She just came up and starting tearing my clothes right off.
Speaker 1: I'm part goat. I could I could get behind that.
Speaker 1: Did that scare her? Well? And not at first? I
Speaker 1: mean at first I think it did, But it wasn't
Speaker 1: until he kind of started getting a little aggressive with
Speaker 1: it because I had turned my back for a minute
Speaker 1: and I turned back around and she was pretty much
Speaker 1: almost on all fours, just getting chewed up. Yeah, you're
Speaker 1: describing Brook to a tea here, getting flashbacks of my
Speaker 1: own life. She did laugh about it, so I just
Speaker 1: I took it as just one of those things. I mean,
Speaker 1: if you've ever tried to milk a goat, you know
Speaker 1: how scary they can be. Small enclosed area. That sounds
Speaker 1: like a mostly Brook experience at least. So I mean,
Speaker 1: how did how did the date end for you there? Well,
Speaker 1: we had we had lunch with my parents and everybody. Oh,
Speaker 1: I mean I introduced her as my new friend, but
Speaker 1: I didn't want it. I wanted to do a kind
Speaker 1: of thing normal, like not too serious, like you're meeting
Speaker 1: our parents, my parents on the first date. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: we agreed to the farm date. Do you bring a
Speaker 1: lot of women out to the farm to meet everybody?
Speaker 1: Or is this a new thing with now that's honestly,
Speaker 1: this is the first time thing. I thought it'd be
Speaker 1: kind of cool to get out of the city. And
Speaker 1: so the lunch went fine, and I told her said,
Speaker 1: you know, next date, you pick city, whatever you want
Speaker 1: to do, we'll do it. And she hasn't returned to
Speaker 1: any of my ticks. Are you regretting the farm date
Speaker 1: idea since she hasn't writing you back, or do you
Speaker 1: think it's something else. I'm beginning to think it might
Speaker 1: have been a bad idea. Yeah, if I disagree. I
Speaker 1: think if she's a city girl, you bring it to
Speaker 1: the farance like bringing someone to a zoo. You do
Speaker 1: something to do. You don't have the world work at
Speaker 1: the zoom, but you don't work though. He said, you
Speaker 1: made it light and she just got to kind of
Speaker 1: hang around. I think maybe mister Harvey swooped in on
Speaker 1: your girl. He stole it from you, but we're gonna
Speaker 1: find out. We're gonna call Jamie here in just a
Speaker 1: second and get your second date update right after this.
Speaker 1: All right, thank you? All right, hold on then second
Speaker 1: you're in the middle of a second date update update.
Speaker 1: We're gonna find out how the couple is doing right
Speaker 1: after you here part two. You know, old McDonald may
Speaker 1: have had a farm, but old mcstevo had a date.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yoh, like and on his date there
Speaker 1: was a Jamie yeah yeah, yoh, with a farm chore.
Speaker 1: Here in a farm chore. There, here's my mom, here's
Speaker 1: my dad. Here's a goat. That's bad. Oh that was good.
Speaker 1: But Steve did take Jamie to his family farm. And
Speaker 1: I think the overwhelming thought in studio right now is
Speaker 1: that Jamie probably didn't want to spend the whole time
Speaker 1: doing farm work. I mean, it almost sounds like your
Speaker 1: family was using it as a ploy to get free labor. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say that. I thought she was having fun. Okay, okay, labor,
Speaker 1: She was having fun. This is like a one you know,
Speaker 1: life not lifetime, but it's like random thing. I mean,
Speaker 1: jose would you like to do that for a first
Speaker 1: date unch of a lifetime opportunity. As it sounds, I
Speaker 1: don't want to go to a petting Yeah yeah, farm
Speaker 1: almost sounds like a heavy petting zoo. I'm gonna tell
Speaker 1: you do not want to drink fresh milk really makes
Speaker 1: me vomit every time. Yeah, yeah, that sounds kind of fun.
Speaker 1: But maybe we should start a business after this is over.
Speaker 1: But we have a job to do on the show,
Speaker 1: and that's to call Jamie and figure out why she's
Speaker 1: not calling Steve back. So, Steve, you're ready to do this? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm ready to do it. Here we go. Farmhand, Jamie, farmhand,
Speaker 1: that's what people who work on a farm. Okay, here
Speaker 1: we go. Hello. Hey is this Jamie? Yeah, hey Jamie.
Speaker 1: My name is jeff from the radio show Brooke and
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the Morning. Um, okay, we need some extra
Speaker 1: help around the radio station, and we heard you are excellent.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. What is this about? Yeah? That was strange.
Speaker 1: This is about a segment that we're doing called a
Speaker 1: second Date Update, and we're trying to help one of
Speaker 1: our listeners named Steve get back in touch with you
Speaker 1: after you went on a date. Okay, yeah, that was
Speaker 1: our big old side there, Jamie. I've already spoken to
Speaker 1: Steve about your first date with him, and we've heard
Speaker 1: his side of the story. We're interested in getting your
Speaker 1: side of the story to know what you thought about
Speaker 1: him and his family farm. Well, first of all, he
Speaker 1: didn't say his family farm. He didn't know. He said, Hey,
Speaker 1: do you want to go to the farm for French?
Speaker 1: That's like, oh, I love that. I know his family
Speaker 1: was going to be there. Wait, you love that place?
Speaker 1: Like the farm is in like some hit brunch spot. Yes,
Speaker 1: it's really hit. So I thought we were going to
Speaker 1: have French. We weren't going to an actual farm. Oh,
Speaker 1: oh my god. He thought that, you understood. He didn't
Speaker 1: think that. You thought bottomless mimosas. I was not. I
Speaker 1: was not against it, but I had a night the
Speaker 1: night before. I was a little hungover. I was not
Speaker 1: expecting to be feeling hey and smucking cows. She'll wait
Speaker 1: a minute, though, Like his parents opened the door and
Speaker 1: they hand you a set of coveralls, Like, why didn't
Speaker 1: you say something like that? You had no idea. Honestly,
Speaker 1: I was a little out of it, and I was like,
Speaker 1: you know what, just get through this. It's gonna be
Speaker 1: a story to tell. Plus that would be really rude
Speaker 1: to just get out of the car and his parents
Speaker 1: are like, hey, nice to meet you, and she'd be
Speaker 1: like she didn't I didn't want to be here. She
Speaker 1: wouldn't have to say that. She could say, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I had no idea you meant a literal farm like
Speaker 1: that doesn't look good in front of the parish. But like, right,
Speaker 1: we heard mister Harvey really liked you. Yeah, he really
Speaker 1: liked me. And honestly, it started out like, oh, this
Speaker 1: is cute, and then it was like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I'm going to be eaten by go well, I know, like,
Speaker 1: not only did mister Harvey like you, but Steve really
Speaker 1: liked you. And don't just take my word for it.
Speaker 1: Here from Steve himself. He's on the other line right now.
Speaker 1: I wants to talk to you. Oh my gosh, you're joking, right, No,
Speaker 1: I'm serious. Hi, Jamie. Um, I'm so sorry for the misunderstanding.
Speaker 1: I assumed because the family farm and everything's on my
Speaker 1: profile that you just automatically knew that I meant my farm.
Speaker 1: I've never even heard of this brunch spot. No, I see, um, yeah,
Speaker 1: you you know, and just start talking, you were like
Speaker 1: the farm, the farm. You never said my family's farm.
Speaker 1: So I think we had just a little bit of miscommunication. Yeah,
Speaker 1: just a tad. Yeah, I apologize for that. I'm so
Speaker 1: just so used to calling at the farm, you know. Um, Honestly,
Speaker 1: hearing you talk about it, it it doesn't seem like you
Speaker 1: had that good of a time as I thought you
Speaker 1: did well. And you know, I was having as good
Speaker 1: at a time as I could being hungover. I'm not
Speaker 1: expecting it. I was going to be in coveralls and
Speaker 1: like feeling, Hey, so your family is lovely, and I
Speaker 1: think you're lovely. We didn't have enough time to actually
Speaker 1: get to know each other, but it was just unexpected, right,
Speaker 1: So Steve, like, how is this sitting with you? Hearing
Speaker 1: her reaction to what her expectations were going to the
Speaker 1: farm and then what it was actually like for her. Yeah, Jamie,
Speaker 1: it sounds like you really had a lot to complain about. Um.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm just I'm typically not into complainers, because
Speaker 1: you know, I grew up on a farm. So we
Speaker 1: just kind of sucked it up and put through it
Speaker 1: and dealt with it and got what needed to be
Speaker 1: done done. Yeah, I was getting that same vibe when
Speaker 1: I was hearing her talk about it. So why don't
Speaker 1: say the top three things that you enjoyed while you
Speaker 1: were there? Top five? Then I'm not trying to fit
Speaker 1: into your family. This was like a first date. So
Speaker 1: like I'm complaining because there wasn't clear communication. So yeah,
Speaker 1: do you understand that, Steve, because it's like she's complaining
Speaker 1: your acting as if she works on the farm and
Speaker 1: she's a bad employee, is what it sounds like. Yeah, Um,
Speaker 1: that's not what I'm trying to sound like the quote
Speaker 1: you There was some miscommunication that I do apologize about that. Um,
Speaker 1: but that doesn't mean that we couldn't try something else
Speaker 1: because you did agree to possibly having a date in
Speaker 1: the city later on. Oh, well, you know I did
Speaker 1: agree to that. But after hearing you say that I
Speaker 1: was complaining about a situation that I think, oh, now
Speaker 1: you're going to complain about the way that well that
Speaker 1: was if I could interrupt. I mean, that was clear communication.
Speaker 1: I just communicated my feelings about the situation to you,
Speaker 1: and I think, honestly, you're not understanding in my shoes
Speaker 1: of what it would feel like to not be like
Speaker 1: aware and prepared for the situation that I was in.
Speaker 1: It sounds like he's understanding and he's being a little
Speaker 1: defensive of his own family. You know, it feels like
Speaker 1: you're getting he's getting the text. It sounds like a
Speaker 1: classic example of a guy giving a woman exactly what
Speaker 1: she asked for and then getting blamed for giving you
Speaker 1: apologizing trying to communicate. Well, he did kind of attack
Speaker 1: her for complaining, and now he's getting it from the
Speaker 1: host of the show. I just think everybody needs to
Speaker 1: take a deep breath. I think this could work. Starting
Speaker 1: with you would be great because I would like to
Speaker 1: send you two out on a nice second date where
Speaker 1: you have great communication. There's no farm work needed to
Speaker 1: be done. Just like Brooke still breathing over there, hold
Speaker 1: on whatever they're called. Well, you know what, the positive
Speaker 1: thing is that he did really go over and above.
Speaker 1: And there's very few dates that I have been on
Speaker 1: where someone actually cared enough. I mean, it was carrying
Speaker 1: a little bit mess to me his family so fast,
Speaker 1: But I guess I'd be open to it. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: j You're open to it. Steve, what do you say?
Speaker 1: Um sounds great to me, and I apologize about my
Speaker 1: family they're they're lovely. It was just so fast. Ye see,
Speaker 1: this is against all odds. We got a successful second date.
Speaker 1: All right, now, let's agree on a safe word up front.
Speaker 1: What do you want yours to be? I don't know
Speaker 1: how your guys a second dates work, but that's how
Speaker 1: it goes in my neighborhood. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Well,
Speaker 1: it's been months since we had them on for that
Speaker 1: second date, and today at least one of them is
Speaker 1: back on the phone to give us an update on
Speaker 1: what happened. I think we just have Jamie, Jamie, how's
Speaker 1: it going? Hey, guys, it's going well? Okay, that's shocking.
Speaker 1: I really didn't think it was going to be you
Speaker 1: on the phone. Oh really, yeah, I thought it was
Speaker 1: going to be him for some reason. Oh he couldn't
Speaker 1: make it. He had a meeting. He wishes he could
Speaker 1: be here. But oh wait, you're still talking. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: or you stock him and you know his schedule. So
Speaker 1: wait after your call, you guys did go out on
Speaker 1: another date. We actually did go out on a second date.
Speaker 1: I took him to the actual French spot far How
Speaker 1: was that? Was he impressed? I mean, there was a
Speaker 1: little touching go in the beginning because it was a
Speaker 1: little awkward, it sort of softened pretty quick and then, um,
Speaker 1: about thirty minutes after he ate, unfortunately, he got sick,
Speaker 1: like food poisoning sick. Yes, he got the poisoning sick.
Speaker 1: That's really awkward. Of course that would happen the one
Speaker 1: time you bring him to the brunch spots down with something.
Speaker 1: But it was actually pretty bonding because he went home.
Speaker 1: I took care of him and then like you know,
Speaker 1: for the next few days just checked in on him,
Speaker 1: and it actually brought us together. So wait, so you
Speaker 1: guys are still dating. Yeah, we're like exclusive. Have you
Speaker 1: been out on the actual farm working again? Then, now
Speaker 1: that you're the girlfriend part of the family, Well no,
Speaker 1: I mean we we've met, we with this family, we've
Speaker 1: gone out to dinner, but we didn't go to the farm.
Speaker 1: We're basically we're staying away from all things with the farms,
Speaker 1: anything farm related. Were staying away. Yeah, who learned your lesson?
Speaker 1: I see, that's great for you guys. Yeah, we're really happy.
Speaker 1: I'm really grateful that you guys were like a second
Speaker 1: date because after the first one, we did work, just
Speaker 1: not on the same page. And so now it's it's
Speaker 1: great times, you see it, A second chance. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: make out your check five hundred dollars to Jeffreys and
Speaker 1: I will humbly accept your Okay, No, seriously, we're all
Speaker 1: happy for you, Jamie. And and tell Steve what's up.
Speaker 1: I will, I will. He's back to normal, just so
Speaker 1: you know, Okay, Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,