WEBVTT - Second Date Update UPDATE: Funny Farm

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<v Speaker 1>Second data date. You know. Recently, I was on a

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<v Speaker 1>dating app okay, trying to find matches for Josey, and honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>it was really difficult. Not because of what jose wants,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, because he'll go out with pretty much anything.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying that as a single person, it's got

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<v Speaker 1>to be hard because the appis field was so many

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<v Speaker 1>odd people, like with photos wearing tons of makeup and filters,

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<v Speaker 1>or someone that's standing alone in a swamp holding a

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<v Speaker 1>sign up that says still single. I don't know, is

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<v Speaker 1>that supposed to be funny or is it meant to

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<v Speaker 1>make me sad and it make me feel bad enough

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<v Speaker 1>to go out? All I know is after that experience,

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<v Speaker 1>I really feel for listeners like Steve, who emailed into

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<v Speaker 1>the show today and said he was just happy that

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<v Speaker 1>her profile seemed somewhat normal. You're not looking for a

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<v Speaker 1>swamp girl to go to you with your swamp boy, No,

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<v Speaker 1>not at all. Okay, tell us about the woman that

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<v Speaker 1>you matched with. What's her name? Her name is Jamie?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? Is there anything exceptional to say about her?

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<v Speaker 1>Or was she just normal? She seemed very normal, super cute,

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, I was raised on a farm, so

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't necessarily look like a country girl, but she

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<v Speaker 1>looked very sweet and innocently, so I kind of went

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<v Speaker 1>with it. She could still pick up a bail of hay.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm assuming that that's on your list. What

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<v Speaker 1>do you do with a normal girl for a first date? Uh? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>the date that I kind of pitched to her that

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<v Speaker 1>she kind of agreed to was, you know, let's just

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<v Speaker 1>have a date on my family's farm, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I can show you what farm life is day to day.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, does that mean that she's like meeting your

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<v Speaker 1>family on the first date. I mean it is the

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<v Speaker 1>family farm, so we pretty much it's just family that

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<v Speaker 1>works there. But you know, I just wanted to experience

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<v Speaker 1>how I grew up and you know, my just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of day to day living. So are you are you

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<v Speaker 1>still working on the farm too? Yeah? Part time okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And I imagine with cute animals, are also your family

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<v Speaker 1>a little pig? Yeah? We in the whole nine yards.

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<v Speaker 1>We got a cow, chickens, goat. I will get to

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<v Speaker 1>mister Harvey in a little bit, but yeah, mister Harvey,

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<v Speaker 1>yes that is our goat. Okay. This is an interesting

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<v Speaker 1>choice for a first date, Like, what was her reaction

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<v Speaker 1>when you pitched this idea too? Well, she seemed kind

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<v Speaker 1>of excited about it. I mean, she didn't voice any concerns.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought her. I was like, you know, I'll get

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<v Speaker 1>you some overalls and some boots. Picked her up early

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning. We drove out to the countryside, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and went to the farm, and she got dressed and

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<v Speaker 1>got to work. You know, Okay, that's work. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>got to stop your first second. I grew up, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>surrounded by farm life in a tiny little town. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not glamorous. I mean, like, to me, it sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>you're shoveling manure. No, I did spare her the manure.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. We picked the eggs for breakfast, and then

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<v Speaker 1>we went out and we milked the cows. We did

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<v Speaker 1>not use the milk for breakfast. But I told her,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I was like, if you want to feed

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<v Speaker 1>the pigs, it's super simple. It's not really all that mess.

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<v Speaker 1>And she was down with it. But mister Harvey. That's

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<v Speaker 1>where mister Harvey comes in, because he kind of just

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<v Speaker 1>roamed the farm. Yes, he's our pet goat. He's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like our guard dogstead of a blue chick hound.

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<v Speaker 1>We have a we have a big goat. Yeah, he

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes a little temperamental when it comes to meeting new people.

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<v Speaker 1>Held him, just nibble on him. Brook did the same

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<v Speaker 1>thing to me on my first day on the show.

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<v Speaker 1>She just came up and starting tearing my clothes right off.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm part goat. I could I could get behind that.

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<v Speaker 1>Did that scare her? Well? And not at first? I

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<v Speaker 1>mean at first I think it did, But it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>until he kind of started getting a little aggressive with

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<v Speaker 1>it because I had turned my back for a minute

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<v Speaker 1>and I turned back around and she was pretty much

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<v Speaker 1>almost on all fours, just getting chewed up. Yeah, you're

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<v Speaker 1>describing Brook to a tea here, getting flashbacks of my

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<v Speaker 1>own life. She did laugh about it, so I just

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<v Speaker 1>I took it as just one of those things. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>if you've ever tried to milk a goat, you know

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<v Speaker 1>how scary they can be. Small enclosed area. That sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like a mostly Brook experience at least. So I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>how did how did the date end for you there? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we had we had lunch with my parents and everybody. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I introduced her as my new friend, but

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want it. I wanted to do a kind

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<v Speaker 1>of thing normal, like not too serious, like you're meeting

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<v Speaker 1>our parents, my parents on the first date. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we agreed to the farm date. Do you bring a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of women out to the farm to meet everybody?

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<v Speaker 1>Or is this a new thing with now that's honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>this is the first time thing. I thought it'd be

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<v Speaker 1>kind of cool to get out of the city. And

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<v Speaker 1>so the lunch went fine, and I told her said,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, next date, you pick city, whatever you want

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<v Speaker 1>to do, we'll do it. And she hasn't returned to

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<v Speaker 1>any of my ticks. Are you regretting the farm date

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<v Speaker 1>idea since she hasn't writing you back, or do you

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<v Speaker 1>think it's something else. I'm beginning to think it might

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<v Speaker 1>have been a bad idea. Yeah, if I disagree. I

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<v Speaker 1>think if she's a city girl, you bring it to

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<v Speaker 1>the farance like bringing someone to a zoo. You do

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<v Speaker 1>something to do. You don't have the world work at

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<v Speaker 1>the zoom, but you don't work though. He said, you

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<v Speaker 1>made it light and she just got to kind of

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<v Speaker 1>hang around. I think maybe mister Harvey swooped in on

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<v Speaker 1>your girl. He stole it from you, but we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>find out. We're gonna call Jamie here in just a

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<v Speaker 1>second and get your second date update right after this.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, thank you? All right, hold on then second

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<v Speaker 1>you're in the middle of a second date update update.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna find out how the couple is doing right

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<v Speaker 1>after you here part two. You know, old McDonald may

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<v Speaker 1>have had a farm, but old mcstevo had a date.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, yeah, yoh, like and on his date there

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<v Speaker 1>was a Jamie yeah yeah, yoh, with a farm chore.

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<v Speaker 1>Here in a farm chore. There, here's my mom, here's

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<v Speaker 1>my dad. Here's a goat. That's bad. Oh that was good.

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<v Speaker 1>But Steve did take Jamie to his family farm. And

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<v Speaker 1>I think the overwhelming thought in studio right now is

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<v Speaker 1>that Jamie probably didn't want to spend the whole time

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<v Speaker 1>doing farm work. I mean, it almost sounds like your

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<v Speaker 1>family was using it as a ploy to get free labor. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't say that. I thought she was having fun. Okay, okay, labor,

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<v Speaker 1>She was having fun. This is like a one you know,

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<v Speaker 1>life not lifetime, but it's like random thing. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>jose would you like to do that for a first

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<v Speaker 1>date unch of a lifetime opportunity. As it sounds, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to go to a petting Yeah yeah, farm

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<v Speaker 1>almost sounds like a heavy petting zoo. I'm gonna tell

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<v Speaker 1>you do not want to drink fresh milk really makes

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<v Speaker 1>me vomit every time. Yeah, yeah, that sounds kind of fun.

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<v Speaker 1>But maybe we should start a business after this is over.

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<v Speaker 1>But we have a job to do on the show,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's to call Jamie and figure out why she's

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<v Speaker 1>not calling Steve back. So, Steve, you're ready to do this? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ready to do it. Here we go. Farmhand, Jamie, farmhand,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what people who work on a farm. Okay, here

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<v Speaker 1>we go. Hello. Hey is this Jamie? Yeah, hey Jamie.

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<v Speaker 1>My name is jeff from the radio show Brooke and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the Morning. Um, okay, we need some extra

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<v Speaker 1>help around the radio station, and we heard you are excellent.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. What is this about? Yeah? That was strange.

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<v Speaker 1>This is about a segment that we're doing called a

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<v Speaker 1>second Date Update, and we're trying to help one of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners named Steve get back in touch with you

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<v Speaker 1>after you went on a date. Okay, yeah, that was

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<v Speaker 1>our big old side there, Jamie. I've already spoken to

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<v Speaker 1>Steve about your first date with him, and we've heard

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<v Speaker 1>his side of the story. We're interested in getting your

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<v Speaker 1>side of the story to know what you thought about

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<v Speaker 1>him and his family farm. Well, first of all, he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't say his family farm. He didn't know. He said, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>do you want to go to the farm for French?

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<v Speaker 1>That's like, oh, I love that. I know his family

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<v Speaker 1>was going to be there. Wait, you love that place?

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<v Speaker 1>Like the farm is in like some hit brunch spot. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>it's really hit. So I thought we were going to

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<v Speaker 1>have French. We weren't going to an actual farm. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god. He thought that, you understood. He didn't

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<v Speaker 1>think that. You thought bottomless mimosas. I was not. I

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<v Speaker 1>was not against it, but I had a night the

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<v Speaker 1>night before. I was a little hungover. I was not

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<v Speaker 1>expecting to be feeling hey and smucking cows. She'll wait

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<v Speaker 1>a minute, though, Like his parents opened the door and

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<v Speaker 1>they hand you a set of coveralls, Like, why didn't

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<v Speaker 1>you say something like that? You had no idea. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I was a little out of it, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, just get through this. It's gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>a story to tell. Plus that would be really rude

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<v Speaker 1>to just get out of the car and his parents

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<v Speaker 1>are like, hey, nice to meet you, and she'd be

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<v Speaker 1>like she didn't I didn't want to be here. She

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't have to say that. She could say, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I had no idea you meant a literal farm like

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<v Speaker 1>that doesn't look good in front of the parish. But like, right,

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<v Speaker 1>we heard mister Harvey really liked you. Yeah, he really

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<v Speaker 1>liked me. And honestly, it started out like, oh, this

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<v Speaker 1>is cute, and then it was like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to be eaten by go well, I know, like,

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<v Speaker 1>not only did mister Harvey like you, but Steve really

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<v Speaker 1>liked you. And don't just take my word for it.

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<v Speaker 1>Here from Steve himself. He's on the other line right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I wants to talk to you. Oh my gosh, you're joking, right, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm serious. Hi, Jamie. Um, I'm so sorry for the misunderstanding.

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<v Speaker 1>I assumed because the family farm and everything's on my

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<v Speaker 1>profile that you just automatically knew that I meant my farm.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never even heard of this brunch spot. No, I see, um, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you you know, and just start talking, you were like

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<v Speaker 1>the farm, the farm. You never said my family's farm.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think we had just a little bit of miscommunication. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>just a tad. Yeah, I apologize for that. I'm so

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<v Speaker 1>just so used to calling at the farm, you know. Um, Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>hearing you talk about it, it it doesn't seem like you

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<v Speaker 1>had that good of a time as I thought you

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<v Speaker 1>did well. And you know, I was having as good

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<v Speaker 1>at a time as I could being hungover. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>expecting it. I was going to be in coveralls and

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<v Speaker 1>like feeling, Hey, so your family is lovely, and I

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<v Speaker 1>think you're lovely. We didn't have enough time to actually

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<v Speaker 1>get to know each other, but it was just unexpected, right,

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<v Speaker 1>So Steve, like, how is this sitting with you? Hearing

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<v Speaker 1>her reaction to what her expectations were going to the

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<v Speaker 1>farm and then what it was actually like for her. Yeah, Jamie,

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds like you really had a lot to complain about. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm just I'm typically not into complainers, because

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I grew up on a farm. So we

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of sucked it up and put through it

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<v Speaker 1>and dealt with it and got what needed to be

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<v Speaker 1>done done. Yeah, I was getting that same vibe when

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<v Speaker 1>I was hearing her talk about it. So why don't

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<v Speaker 1>say the top three things that you enjoyed while you

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<v Speaker 1>were there? Top five? Then I'm not trying to fit

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<v Speaker 1>into your family. This was like a first date. So

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm complaining because there wasn't clear communication. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>do you understand that, Steve, because it's like she's complaining

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<v Speaker 1>your acting as if she works on the farm and

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<v Speaker 1>she's a bad employee, is what it sounds like. Yeah, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not what I'm trying to sound like the quote

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<v Speaker 1>you There was some miscommunication that I do apologize about that. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>but that doesn't mean that we couldn't try something else

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<v Speaker 1>because you did agree to possibly having a date in

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<v Speaker 1>the city later on. Oh, well, you know I did

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<v Speaker 1>agree to that. But after hearing you say that I

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<v Speaker 1>was complaining about a situation that I think, oh, now

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to complain about the way that well that

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<v Speaker 1>was if I could interrupt. I mean, that was clear communication.

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<v Speaker 1>I just communicated my feelings about the situation to you,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think, honestly, you're not understanding in my shoes

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<v Speaker 1>of what it would feel like to not be like

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<v Speaker 1>aware and prepared for the situation that I was in.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like he's understanding and he's being a little

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<v Speaker 1>defensive of his own family. You know, it feels like

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<v Speaker 1>you're getting he's getting the text. It sounds like a

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<v Speaker 1>classic example of a guy giving a woman exactly what

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<v Speaker 1>she asked for and then getting blamed for giving you

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<v Speaker 1>apologizing trying to communicate. Well, he did kind of attack

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<v Speaker 1>her for complaining, and now he's getting it from the

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<v Speaker 1>host of the show. I just think everybody needs to

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<v Speaker 1>take a deep breath. I think this could work. Starting

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<v Speaker 1>with you would be great because I would like to

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<v Speaker 1>send you two out on a nice second date where

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<v Speaker 1>you have great communication. There's no farm work needed to

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<v Speaker 1>be done. Just like Brooke still breathing over there, hold

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<v Speaker 1>on whatever they're called. Well, you know what, the positive

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<v Speaker 1>thing is that he did really go over and above.

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<v Speaker 1>And there's very few dates that I have been on

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<v Speaker 1>where someone actually cared enough. I mean, it was carrying

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit mess to me his family so fast,

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<v Speaker 1>But I guess I'd be open to it. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>j You're open to it. Steve, what do you say?

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<v Speaker 1>Um sounds great to me, and I apologize about my

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<v Speaker 1>family they're they're lovely. It was just so fast. Ye see,

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<v Speaker 1>this is against all odds. We got a successful second date.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, now, let's agree on a safe word up front.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you want yours to be? I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>how your guys a second dates work, but that's how

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<v Speaker 1>it goes in my neighborhood. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's been months since we had them on for that

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<v Speaker 1>second date, and today at least one of them is

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<v Speaker 1>back on the phone to give us an update on

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<v Speaker 1>what happened. I think we just have Jamie, Jamie, how's

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<v Speaker 1>it going? Hey, guys, it's going well? Okay, that's shocking.

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<v Speaker 1>I really didn't think it was going to be you

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone. Oh really, yeah, I thought it was

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<v Speaker 1>going to be him for some reason. Oh he couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>make it. He had a meeting. He wishes he could

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<v Speaker 1>be here. But oh wait, you're still talking. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>or you stock him and you know his schedule. So

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<v Speaker 1>wait after your call, you guys did go out on

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<v Speaker 1>another date. We actually did go out on a second date.

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<v Speaker 1>I took him to the actual French spot far How

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<v Speaker 1>was that? Was he impressed? I mean, there was a

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<v Speaker 1>little touching go in the beginning because it was a

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<v Speaker 1>little awkward, it sort of softened pretty quick and then, um,

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<v Speaker 1>about thirty minutes after he ate, unfortunately, he got sick,

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<v Speaker 1>like food poisoning sick. Yes, he got the poisoning sick.

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<v Speaker 1>That's really awkward. Of course that would happen the one

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<v Speaker 1>time you bring him to the brunch spots down with something.

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<v Speaker 1>But it was actually pretty bonding because he went home.

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<v Speaker 1>I took care of him and then like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>for the next few days just checked in on him,

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<v Speaker 1>and it actually brought us together. So wait, so you

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<v Speaker 1>guys are still dating. Yeah, we're like exclusive. Have you

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<v Speaker 1>been out on the actual farm working again? Then, now

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<v Speaker 1>that you're the girlfriend part of the family, Well no,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean we we've met, we with this family, we've

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<v Speaker 1>gone out to dinner, but we didn't go to the farm.

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<v Speaker 1>We're basically we're staying away from all things with the farms,

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<v Speaker 1>anything farm related. Were staying away. Yeah, who learned your lesson?

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<v Speaker 1>I see, that's great for you guys. Yeah, we're really happy.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really grateful that you guys were like a second

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<v Speaker 1>date because after the first one, we did work, just

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<v Speaker 1>not on the same page. And so now it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>great times, you see it, A second chance. Yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>make out your check five hundred dollars to Jeffreys and

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<v Speaker 1>I will humbly accept your Okay, No, seriously, we're all

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<v Speaker 1>happy for you, Jamie. And and tell Steve what's up.

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<v Speaker 1>I will, I will. He's back to normal, just so

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<v Speaker 1>you know, Okay, Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,