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Speaker 1: after you here part two. You know, old McDonald may

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Speaker 1: I wants to talk to you. Oh my gosh, you're joking, right, No,

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Speaker 1: I've never even heard of this brunch spot. No, I see, um, yeah,

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Speaker 1: like I'm complaining because there wasn't clear communication. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: do you understand that, Steve, because it's like she's complaining

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Speaker 1: but that doesn't mean that we couldn't try something else

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Speaker 1: was if I could interrupt. I mean, that was clear communication.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like he's understanding and he's being a little

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Speaker 1: classic example of a guy giving a woman exactly what

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Speaker 1: apologizing trying to communicate. Well, he did kind of attack

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Speaker 1: take a deep breath. I think this could work. Starting

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Speaker 1: you have great communication. There's no farm work needed to

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Speaker 1: be done. Just like Brooke still breathing over there, hold

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Speaker 1: on whatever they're called. Well, you know what, the positive

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Speaker 1: And there's very few dates that I have been on

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Speaker 1: But I guess I'd be open to it. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: j You're open to it. Steve, what do you say?

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Speaker 1: Um sounds great to me, and I apologize about my

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Speaker 1: family they're they're lovely. It was just so fast. Ye see,

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Speaker 1: this is against all odds. We got a successful second date.

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Speaker 1: All right, now, let's agree on a safe word up front.

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Speaker 1: What do you want yours to be? I don't know

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Speaker 1: how your guys a second dates work, but that's how

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Speaker 1: what happened. I think we just have Jamie, Jamie, how's

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Speaker 1: it going? Hey, guys, it's going well? Okay, that's shocking.

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Speaker 1: I really didn't think it was going to be you

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Speaker 1: or you stock him and you know his schedule. So

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Speaker 1: another date. We actually did go out on a second date.

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Speaker 1: I took him to the actual French spot far How

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Speaker 1: about thirty minutes after he ate, unfortunately, he got sick,

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Speaker 1: like food poisoning sick. Yes, he got the poisoning sick.

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Speaker 1: That's really awkward. Of course that would happen the one

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Speaker 1: time you bring him to the brunch spots down with something.

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Speaker 1: But it was actually pretty bonding because he went home.

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Speaker 1: guys are still dating. Yeah, we're like exclusive. Have you

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Speaker 1: been out on the actual farm working again? Then, now

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Speaker 1: that you're the girlfriend part of the family, Well no,

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Speaker 1: I mean we we've met, we with this family, we've

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Speaker 1: gone out to dinner, but we didn't go to the farm.

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Speaker 1: We're basically we're staying away from all things with the farms,

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Speaker 1: anything farm related. Were staying away. Yeah, who learned your lesson?

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Speaker 1: I see, that's great for you guys. Yeah, we're really happy.

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Speaker 1: I'm really grateful that you guys were like a second

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Speaker 1: great times, you see it, A second chance. Yeah, you

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Speaker 1: make out your check five hundred dollars to Jeffreys and

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Speaker 1: I will humbly accept your Okay, No, seriously, we're all

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Speaker 1: happy for you, Jamie. And and tell Steve what's up.

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Speaker 1: I will, I will. He's back to normal, just so

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Speaker 1: you know, Okay, Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,