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Speaker 1: morning everybody. Y'are listening to the voice. Come on dig

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Speaker 1: All right? All right? All right? Hang on, hang on hello? Hello?

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Speaker 1: Oh yes, UM, I'm I'm Orlando with Ballet. Did you

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Speaker 1: I'm the manager here down at the valet. Oh great,

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Speaker 1: Right now? Well? Hold on, hold on, I understand, I understand.

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Speaker 1: with YO. Mistess, you didn't seeing me right now? Okay,

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Speaker 1: Why are you upset with me? I didn't do nothing.

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Speaker 1: I didn't take the car. Okay? Why are you responsible

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Speaker 1: This is y'all. You haven't shared the boy? She said,

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Speaker 1: show in the land. It's the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Baby,

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Speaker 1: you know, honestly, that's the way I can get on

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Speaker 1: because Steve, when he rolling in them big cars and

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Speaker 1: he's Valet, that might be the way of getting you.

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Speaker 1: It's about telling me to get you again. Though, no

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Speaker 1: you can give me with Valet. Sorry why I can't

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Speaker 1: because I don't Valet. But where your car when you

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Speaker 1: go to the front, right up front in the front, Yes, well,

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Speaker 1: ain't that Valley. He has a driver, Tommy, you forget Yeah,

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Speaker 1: the driver or the driver he doesn't worry himself with.

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Speaker 1: He probably don't think about it. Get you through the drive,

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Speaker 1: through the drive Cliff to Cliff, one of the best

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Speaker 1: drivers ever. Yes, he member Tennessee here come to nephew.

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Speaker 1: I would beat the Memorial weekend Friday, Saturday and Sunday

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Speaker 1: to Friday to Saturday. Who Sunday at Chuckles Comedy Clubs.

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Speaker 1: So tickets are on sale right now, Bob a Q

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Speaker 1: and Nephew same weekend. Come on, come on, let's get it.

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Speaker 1: When you was gonna get out of hand, all right?

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Speaker 1: Listen coming up at the top of the hour, Entertainment

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Speaker 1: News right after this, you're listening to Morning Show and

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Speaker 1: Today's Entertainment News. Teaming with Beyonce was certainly a good

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Speaker 1: deal for Netflix. According to Nielsen, one point one million

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Speaker 1: US viewers tuned into last month's premiere of Homecoming, a

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Speaker 1: film by Beyonce, with an average minute audience of eight

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Speaker 1: hundred and twenty eight thousand viewers. Not surprisingly, yeah that's

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Speaker 1: a lot. Not Surprisingly, the largest percentage of the concert

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Speaker 1: film's audience were young, female and African American, with a

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Speaker 1: premiere attracting a sixty three percent African American audience. Wow yeah,

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Speaker 1: congratulations again. Yeah me too, I watched it was yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: no mistake about that, agroom. Beyonce is the premier. She

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Speaker 1: is right now, the premier living performer, top top top YEP.

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Speaker 1: She's tome yes Quinn Yeah, old school, Holly Wilson school.

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Speaker 1: I like it yeah, wow, all right and um yeah

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Speaker 1: and other entertainment news. Guys. Little nas X has yet

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Speaker 1: to release a video for his hit Old Town Road,

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Speaker 1: but someone else is taken care of that for him.

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Speaker 1: Kim Kardashian shared a video of her daughter North dancing

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Speaker 1: to the song, which was really cute, captioning it what

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Speaker 1: we do on maternity leave. This is when Kim was

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Speaker 1: waiting for her Sarah Gate to have the baby. She

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Speaker 1: and North were making videos. It was directed and choreographed

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Speaker 1: by North. Uh well, Little nas X loved it. He

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Speaker 1: wrote no way, I love you guys for this, then

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Speaker 1: reposting it with the caption It's North song now you guys.

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Speaker 1: He let her have it. She did her thing on

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Speaker 1: that video. I loved it. It's so cute. Did you

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Speaker 1: see it, Steve? You gotta see it. She's acutest's acutest.

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Speaker 1: Love the kid, Yeah, but I love Kim and Kanyetos.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah yeah. What's not to love about him? Yeah? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: all the kids love Old Town Road, loves her crew.

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Speaker 1: So it's the number one song in the country, So

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Speaker 1: go ahead, North, Yeah, who who is? Who is? Baby

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Speaker 1: knows he's a young rapper and it's a country rap song.

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Speaker 1: It's cyrus. Yeah, it's real, real cool. Yeah. Yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: real different and it's doing this thing so hippopped and

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Speaker 1: teamed up with country. Yeah, cute song. Yeah it really is,

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Speaker 1: really really is all right? Well, um, keep doing your

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Speaker 1: thing North. I can't wait to see. She's so talented

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Speaker 1: and active. She's just so free with you know everything.

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Speaker 1: I love the way she dresses. Yeah, I love the

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Speaker 1: way she dresses. I just what you're saying, Steve. That's

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Speaker 1: money free and everything dressed. Yeah. They just let her

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Speaker 1: be her authentically little creative yeah self, and I like that.

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Speaker 1: I like kids when kids are allowed to express themselves

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Speaker 1: like that. Now, poverty got restriction. Yeah, we couldn't do it.

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Speaker 1: Sit down, you knock something over. Yeah you are not

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Speaker 1: heard all of that. Yeah, don't ask them for nothing.

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Speaker 1: That's where. That's where when my mom used to tell me,

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Speaker 1: have a seat, get somewhere and sit down, little girl. Uh,

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Speaker 1: everyone has seen you that. It came from that. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: because I used to do that, all of us attention always.

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Speaker 1: But remember when they used to call you in the

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Speaker 1: room to dance. There you go and do something the

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Speaker 1: parties they would have Maybe I should have waited for

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Speaker 1: the call and my mom too early. Yeah, my mom

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Speaker 1: would have busted me out like that. All right, Steve,

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Speaker 1: we gotta go headlines please, ladies and gentlemen, Miss Ann

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Speaker 1: tripp Nah, thank you very much, and good morning everybody

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Speaker 1: out there. This is an trip with the News in Washington.

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Speaker 1: The Republican chairman of the Senate Judiciary Committee, Lindsay Graham,

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Speaker 1: says he's going to introduce a bill aimed at slowing

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Speaker 1: the migration of Central Americans being apprehended at the southern

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Speaker 1: border now Santa Graham says the situation calls for a

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Speaker 1: different approach and fast. No matter how high the wall

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Speaker 1: will be built, no matter how many drones you have,

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Speaker 1: no matter how many agents you put at the border,

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Speaker 1: they'll keep coming because they want to get caught. So

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Speaker 1: he says his measure would speed up the asylum process

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Speaker 1: by sending unaccompanied minors back quicker, while forcing people to

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Speaker 1: apply for asylum in their own countries and not in

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Speaker 1: this one. Graham also says he's willing to work with

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Speaker 1: the Democrats on the bill because, as he puts it,

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Speaker 1: it's quote time to close the fawcet. President Trump, meanwhile,

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Speaker 1: says he intends to announce his own immigration plan later today,

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Speaker 1: and it's focused. They say, we'll be on reducing family

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Speaker 1: based immigration in lieu of employment or skills based immigration.

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Speaker 1: In laws came here just last year. Right abortion rights

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Speaker 1: activists are promising to muster up a legal fight against

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Speaker 1: the measures, sign into law late yesterday by Alabama's Republican

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Speaker 1: the Governor k Ivy. It restricts all abortions whenever they occur.

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Speaker 1: It mandates a ninety nine year life or life sentence

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Speaker 1: in jail for any physician performing an abortion, and there

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Speaker 1: are no exceptions for rape or incests. The Alabama abortion

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Speaker 1: laws now the most restrictive anti abortion legislation in the

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Speaker 1: country passed by any state, by the way, in the

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Speaker 1: forty six years since the Supreme Court legalized the procedure

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Speaker 1: at nationwide. Again, abortion rights activists say they're going to

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Speaker 1: be mustering up a serious legal fight to get rid

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Speaker 1: of this one Republican sentiment. Romney broke with the President

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Speaker 1: and the rest of his party, even voting this week

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Speaker 1: against the confirmation of a federal judge who once referred

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Speaker 1: to President Obama as an Unamerican impostor. Romney was the

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Speaker 1: only member of the GOP to break ranks by not

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Speaker 1: voting to seat this guy, Michael trun Kale on the

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Speaker 1: US District Court for the Eastern District of Texas. The

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Speaker 1: Republican dominated Senate nevertheless approved Trunkale on a forty nine

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Speaker 1: to forty six vote, making him the one hundred and

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Speaker 1: thirteenth Trump nominated judge to win confirmation. One hundred and

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Speaker 1: thirteenth in Texas, the Dallas Police Department raided the headquarters

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Speaker 1: of the Catholic Diocese in two buildings yesterday, all in

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Speaker 1: search of documents related to child sex abuse allegations, allegations

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Speaker 1: made last August against the priest at Mundo Pereiras and others.

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Speaker 1: Major Max Sharon of the Dallas PD says there's a

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Speaker 1: warrant out for Father Pereiras. They are new allegations that

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Speaker 1: became apparent to us that were made to us following

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Speaker 1: the announcement of the charges against mister frets that they're

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Speaker 1: looking for. And finally today is don't believe those rumors.

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Speaker 1: Day arming every day. Back to the Steve Harby Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to show, all right, So it looks like

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Speaker 1: Zion Williamson is New Orleans back owned um. The New

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Speaker 1: Orleans Pelicans won the number one draft pick in the

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Speaker 1: NBA lottery. Williamson is widely considered the top player available.

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Speaker 1: The Memphis Grizzlies got the number two pick and the

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Speaker 1: New York Knicks will pick third. The NBA draft takes

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Speaker 1: place on June twentieth. Is that true, Junior? Absolutely true?

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Speaker 1: And he will be the number one pick and you'll

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Speaker 1: be watching your Absolutely. Does Anthony Davis gonna stay with

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Speaker 1: New or They still want to leave? No matter what

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Speaker 1: Anthony Davis want to leave. Still, where do you think

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Speaker 1: Anthony Davis will go? And he's trying to get LA

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Speaker 1: but he's not gonna get that. They're not gonna set him.

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Speaker 1: Why they don't want to pay the question? I don't

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Speaker 1: think they. I don't think they want to pay him.

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Speaker 1: Who don't want to pay? Not with the Lakers. The

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Speaker 1: Lakers don't want to pay. You gonna play Lebron and

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Speaker 1: him max money? So you think they could trade Lebron

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Speaker 1: to New Orleans? Could that be possible? Dog? The whole

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Speaker 1: thing was they was trying to get Anthony Davis dead.

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Speaker 1: They was gonna ship everybody out for Anthony Davis. That's

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Speaker 1: messed the season. I'll talk about the free agent. I'll

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Speaker 1: just talk about free agent. They're gonna be a peep

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Speaker 1: him and Lebron, not Mac. This is deep, Like I

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Speaker 1: really feel bad for Lebron because yeah, I do. I

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Speaker 1: feel bad for Lebron because he's had such a stellar

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Speaker 1: career and I don't want him to end it up

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Speaker 1: on a mediocre team like they got out in LA

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Speaker 1: right now, And I knew he shouldn't have went there.

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Speaker 1: I was dead set against it. And then Magic then left.

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Speaker 1: What you're the whole reason he came And right now

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Speaker 1: it's just a mess out there, and I don't see

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Speaker 1: him fixing it no time soon. They ain't got no

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Speaker 1: draft pick, man, So you know, I feel bad for Lebron. Man,

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Speaker 1: go ahead call him. This is Kyrie, Irvin's fault from

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Speaker 1: the very beginning. Kyrie, Kyrie's only hope. What would be

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Speaker 1: the greatest turnaround if he went out to La La

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Speaker 1: and just say, hey, man, I'm gonna go back. I'm sorry. Ready,

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Speaker 1: he already said I'm sorry to Lebron. Yeah, he already said, Oh,

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Speaker 1: he apologized, he said, man, I'm sorry, man, he said, look,

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Speaker 1: I did not know what you were going through. But

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Speaker 1: trying to be a leader. It's harder than I thought.

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Speaker 1: I apologize, man, And that's what it is. Like I

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Speaker 1: tell people all the time, you know you want to

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Speaker 1: get out under the shadow. Yeah, well I got news

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Speaker 1: for your pardon. Shadow was actually shade. You know. Oh man,

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Speaker 1: you ain't You ain't got to glare on you. If

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Speaker 1: Kyrie went to La would be the story of stories. Wow.

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Speaker 1: All right? Coming up next at thirty four after the

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Speaker 1: hour Trending entertainment news, lamar Odom says he's a sex

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Speaker 1: addict and has had sex with over two thousand women.

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Speaker 1: All right, we'll get into it right after this. You're

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Speaker 1: listening hard morning show X NBA basketball star lamar Odom

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Speaker 1: says he's addicted to sex and claims that he's had

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Speaker 1: sex with more than two thousand women. That's a lot. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's a lot of women. That's a lot. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: think so it didn't. I don't care who you are

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Speaker 1: going to. That's a that's a big number. I think

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Speaker 1: it is rolling. But who's counting though? That's that's not

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Speaker 1: for me, that's not I mean, first of all, I

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Speaker 1: can't Yeah, but seven I ain't you know? Well, he says,

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Speaker 1: it includes Steve. I've seen two thousand women I've wanted

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Speaker 1: to do. No way, I've just counted up like that.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, He's say, you know, if you just go

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Speaker 1: by fine women, I've seen millions of fine women. But

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying that two thousand sleep with him. Wow,

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Speaker 1: that's a big number. A lot of that was groove

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Speaker 1: activity to I don't give a damn one single whatever.

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Speaker 1: Two thousand people, Yeah, that's a lot. And that includes

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Speaker 1: strippers and prostitutes. We need to see yo, medically, a

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Speaker 1: large number is gonna be that. Yeah, okay. Lamar comes

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Speaker 1: clean about his sex life and as soon to be

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Speaker 1: released book Darkness to Light. There were so many strippers

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Speaker 1: to count. I am a sex addict, Lamar Odom said

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Speaker 1: in an excerpt of his book. Also in the book,

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Speaker 1: Lamar admits he cheated on Chloe Kardashian during their marriage

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Speaker 1: and she found out. I was shocked and embarrassed, Lamar

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Speaker 1: told People Magazine. I wanted to take it back, but

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Speaker 1: you can't. You can't take that back. He said. I

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Speaker 1: wanted to hide it, but that sixth sin was hard

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Speaker 1: for me to hide. I had a problem Lamar. Lamar's

628
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Speaker 1: vices all came to a head at the Love Ranch

629
00:40:45,760 --> 00:40:49,560
Speaker 1: brothel back in Nevada in twenty fifteen. We all remember

630
00:40:49,600 --> 00:40:56,400
Speaker 1: this when he overdoes during a cocaine and booth fueled binge. Yeah,

631
00:40:56,440 --> 00:40:59,560
Speaker 1: and he said something about he would like, you know,

632
00:41:00,200 --> 00:41:02,000
Speaker 1: to get to a place where he and Chloe can

633
00:41:02,040 --> 00:41:05,480
Speaker 1: at least be friends. Now moving forward, that probably ain't

634
00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:08,799
Speaker 1: gonna have my home and just go ahead over Yeah,

635
00:41:08,880 --> 00:41:13,879
Speaker 1: that probably ain't. No, No, that ain't gonna just wrote

636
00:41:13,960 --> 00:41:16,520
Speaker 1: the book two thousand women. She didn't got she'd just

637
00:41:16,640 --> 00:41:19,280
Speaker 1: gone through this with this other tall ass basketball player.

638
00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:22,080
Speaker 1: She about trip with y'allah. Yeah, yeah, she about through

639
00:41:22,080 --> 00:41:23,920
Speaker 1: with y'all. You're gonna say that we can't get to

640
00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:27,480
Speaker 1: a place we can be friends. No, man's going do

641
00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:31,480
Speaker 1: something else. Well, I just apologize to the girl, you know,

642
00:41:32,080 --> 00:41:35,239
Speaker 1: try to be decent about that. You know. That's what

643
00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:37,680
Speaker 1: I say to men. Look, we I've made a lot

644
00:41:37,760 --> 00:41:41,239
Speaker 1: of mistakes in my life. At least apologize so so

645
00:41:41,320 --> 00:41:43,640
Speaker 1: a woman can feel a whole admit where you're wrong.

646
00:41:44,040 --> 00:41:46,560
Speaker 1: You know, man, allow a woman to be whold. Don't

647
00:41:46,640 --> 00:41:49,399
Speaker 1: don't be a dog about it and going about your

648
00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:52,560
Speaker 1: business and just leave alone, man, just leave alone. Just

649
00:41:52,640 --> 00:41:55,360
Speaker 1: let it go, y'all. Ain't gonna be friend. But she

650
00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:58,240
Speaker 1: took care of him, you know, she helped him get back,

651
00:41:58,800 --> 00:42:04,960
Speaker 1: She did way and above. Yeah. Yeah, really that she

652
00:42:05,080 --> 00:42:09,920
Speaker 1: had no children with that girl, and that girl right

653
00:42:09,960 --> 00:42:13,279
Speaker 1: there cared, Yeah, she did. She cared for him, and

654
00:42:13,640 --> 00:42:16,319
Speaker 1: so that's cool. I like lamar. I just don't. I

655
00:42:16,360 --> 00:42:19,240
Speaker 1: don't see this, Just think, man, And she's a good person,

656
00:42:19,520 --> 00:42:22,240
Speaker 1: and that's why I think she may forgive him and maybe,

657
00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:26,719
Speaker 1: oh yeah, forgiving me. Cool. He gonna need some physicals though,

658
00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:31,120
Speaker 1: he need a lot of physical for you, church, me

659
00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:34,560
Speaker 1: or anyone. You need to see your medical rector. How

660
00:42:34,640 --> 00:42:40,479
Speaker 1: many pages is that hands up you got? He can't

661
00:42:40,560 --> 00:42:47,480
Speaker 1: pass me afore? Wait what he can't even pass me afore?

662
00:42:49,760 --> 00:42:56,040
Speaker 1: He's okay, Now he's fine. Now yeah, this is his

663
00:42:56,120 --> 00:43:01,000
Speaker 1: physical got It's probably longer than the mutal report. Did

664
00:43:01,080 --> 00:43:04,080
Speaker 1: you say that you heard of you heard? You heard

665
00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:10,319
Speaker 1: what he said? But tell me the book the books.

666
00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:16,040
Speaker 1: He ain't got no medical report. I ain't got no

667
00:43:16,080 --> 00:43:24,480
Speaker 1: medical report. Ain't nothing wrong here. Let me show you

668
00:43:24,520 --> 00:43:29,320
Speaker 1: some two thousand of the show you all right? Coming

669
00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:31,719
Speaker 1: up next? The nephew is here with the prank phone

670
00:43:31,719 --> 00:43:34,640
Speaker 1: call for ten thousand women. That's six hundred and sixty

671
00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:42,680
Speaker 1: six boxes of three PAT conducts. Yeah, prank phone call

672
00:43:43,160 --> 00:43:49,960
Speaker 1: coming up after the Steve. I'm just turning. He ain't

673
00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:52,080
Speaker 1: got that number, right, you damn show got to medical.

674
00:43:54,320 --> 00:43:59,720
Speaker 1: You're listening, coming up at the top of the hour.

675
00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:02,959
Speaker 1: Write about four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today,

676
00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:06,040
Speaker 1: subject I wish I didn't trust her so much. It's

677
00:44:06,080 --> 00:44:08,200
Speaker 1: two thousand women. I'll tell you right now. You got

678
00:44:08,239 --> 00:44:11,400
Speaker 1: two thousand women. That's six hundred and sixty six boxes

679
00:44:11,400 --> 00:44:15,480
Speaker 1: of three PAT condoms. You're still in lamar odom. I'm

680
00:44:15,480 --> 00:44:17,960
Speaker 1: talking about lam. It's just six hundred and sixty six

681
00:44:18,040 --> 00:44:21,640
Speaker 1: boxes of three PAT counting. Yeah. If you said someone

682
00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:25,959
Speaker 1: ain't where in hell your answer is in you sick.

683
00:44:29,280 --> 00:44:32,280
Speaker 1: You ain't bought six hundred sixtix boxing condoms. Your answers

684
00:44:32,280 --> 00:44:36,359
Speaker 1: in trouble. You can't be a number off. It might

685
00:44:36,400 --> 00:44:38,080
Speaker 1: be buying a Dosen though, it might be buying the

686
00:44:38,120 --> 00:44:44,600
Speaker 1: twelve the messages be safe here, He's safe. Yes, that

687
00:44:44,719 --> 00:44:47,600
Speaker 1: is a message d all right, nephew, Tommy's here with

688
00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:51,440
Speaker 1: today's praying phone call what you got nav NBA party?

689
00:44:51,600 --> 00:44:58,239
Speaker 1: Oh you might well, let's run that NBA party. Hello,

690
00:44:58,640 --> 00:45:02,200
Speaker 1: I'm looking for Brad again. Hey, broad how you doing this? Puncho? Man?

691
00:45:02,239 --> 00:45:04,719
Speaker 1: I don't want to Marcus his boys? How you doing? Man? Oh?

692
00:45:04,800 --> 00:45:07,120
Speaker 1: Yeah here? What's up that? Hey? Y'all talked to Marcus man.

693
00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:09,000
Speaker 1: He was telling me about you know, the uh the

694
00:45:09,040 --> 00:45:12,600
Speaker 1: playoffs party man for for Sunday. Man. So, uh he

695
00:45:12,719 --> 00:45:14,279
Speaker 1: told me if it was cool, I would come through. Man.

696
00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:16,000
Speaker 1: I just wanted to call it. And how you see

697
00:45:16,000 --> 00:45:18,880
Speaker 1: if I can I need to bring anything, uh food

698
00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:21,440
Speaker 1: or some drinks or whatever you know you took in

699
00:45:21,480 --> 00:45:24,480
Speaker 1: front of Marcus. Yeah, yeah, this is puntcho man. I'm

700
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:27,040
Speaker 1: friends with markets. Okay, yeah, yeah, I think it's cool.

701
00:45:27,120 --> 00:45:30,200
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, well now you're either raid unless, of course,

702
00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:33,000
Speaker 1: you know you you're drinking something special. But yeah, it's

703
00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:34,960
Speaker 1: just gonna be me Marcus and uh you know other

704
00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:37,480
Speaker 1: boys gonna be here and uh, you know, what are

705
00:45:37,480 --> 00:45:39,160
Speaker 1: you want bringing to me while I'll be so Yeah

706
00:45:39,160 --> 00:45:42,160
Speaker 1: that's cool, okay, okay, okay, what time of y'all starting? Man?

707
00:45:42,200 --> 00:45:44,640
Speaker 1: He told me like around one? Yeah, yeah, I'm gonna

708
00:45:44,640 --> 00:45:46,359
Speaker 1: be there all day. But you know, you're coming through

709
00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:48,400
Speaker 1: about one one three o'clock. You know that before the

710
00:45:48,440 --> 00:45:50,320
Speaker 1: game he started with had a you know, got the

711
00:45:50,320 --> 00:45:52,920
Speaker 1: flat screen going to be laid out. So yeah, just

712
00:45:53,040 --> 00:45:54,840
Speaker 1: come on through whatever you come through, all right, just

713
00:45:54,960 --> 00:45:57,480
Speaker 1: remember man, Puncho. All right, I'll be there. I got

714
00:45:57,520 --> 00:46:03,040
Speaker 1: it all right, cool? All right, Hello, hey, hey brand yo,

715
00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:06,839
Speaker 1: Hey Puncho again. Man, listen real quick, how much how

716
00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:10,440
Speaker 1: much food and and and and look at do you have? Uh?

717
00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:13,960
Speaker 1: I think we got enough for for suddenly? It was right?

718
00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:15,799
Speaker 1: What you got going on? What's up? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,

719
00:46:15,800 --> 00:46:17,960
Speaker 1: I got I got like three boys gonna ride with me. Man,

720
00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:21,359
Speaker 1: I just want to make sure you got enough over there. Okay,

721
00:46:21,400 --> 00:46:24,000
Speaker 1: who is this again? This Puncho. You know we talked

722
00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:30,040
Speaker 1: about thirty minutes ago. This Puncho a Marcus friend, right right, okay,

723
00:46:30,360 --> 00:46:32,560
Speaker 1: Uh man, I remember I call you about thirty minutes ago,

724
00:46:32,560 --> 00:46:34,080
Speaker 1: told you Marcus told me it was cool. Yeah, yeah,

725
00:46:34,080 --> 00:46:36,520
Speaker 1: that's right. Yeah, I'm sorry for me bringing back and forth.

726
00:46:37,040 --> 00:46:40,120
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, well, I mean I guess it's all right.

727
00:46:40,160 --> 00:46:41,880
Speaker 1: So you know, we ain't trying to overload the joint. Man.

728
00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:45,360
Speaker 1: Just you know, I know Marcus and if you're a

729
00:46:45,400 --> 00:46:47,279
Speaker 1: friend of his then then that's cool. You can come

730
00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:50,319
Speaker 1: to may it ain't even three guys, man, ain'tven three

731
00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:52,839
Speaker 1: guys coming with me? Many? They they really cool man.

732
00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:55,120
Speaker 1: Well we we we we were bringing something to put

733
00:46:55,160 --> 00:46:59,160
Speaker 1: on your pit or whatever. You know, it'll it'll be good. Okay, yeah, yeah,

734
00:46:59,200 --> 00:47:02,520
Speaker 1: that's cool man, you know yea yeah, come on through

735
00:47:02,520 --> 00:47:04,120
Speaker 1: the man. All right, all right, all right, I talked

736
00:47:04,120 --> 00:47:06,680
Speaker 1: to you. I talked to you, all right, brat U wait,

737
00:47:07,080 --> 00:47:12,320
Speaker 1: is one of them, Marcus? It's one of the guys, Marcus. Yeah, no, no, no, no, no,

738
00:47:12,520 --> 00:47:15,879
Speaker 1: I got it's it's three guys. Me, I'm ade four

739
00:47:16,400 --> 00:47:19,480
Speaker 1: you know, some three other guys. Yeah, whatever, man, that's cool, yeah,

740
00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:21,600
Speaker 1: bring him through, man, come on, it's like alight, all right,

741
00:47:21,600 --> 00:47:28,919
Speaker 1: all right, lak hello, hey brat Puncho again. Man listen, hey,

742
00:47:29,040 --> 00:47:32,080
Speaker 1: I'm I'm gonna bring one more Um, I'm I'm I'm

743
00:47:32,080 --> 00:47:35,200
Speaker 1: gonna bring one more person with me. The hold hold up,

744
00:47:35,440 --> 00:47:39,520
Speaker 1: braves player, wait, hold up, hold up? Now, what's up

745
00:47:40,000 --> 00:47:42,160
Speaker 1: you Marcus is friend? Yeah, you're you're you're you're me

746
00:47:42,239 --> 00:47:44,680
Speaker 1: and I'm Puncho. Yeah okay, I know you, Parcho man,

747
00:47:44,719 --> 00:47:47,600
Speaker 1: but you're bringing everybody, but just go Kip and Marcus

748
00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:49,960
Speaker 1: is cool with me. That's my fault. We go way back.

749
00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:52,080
Speaker 1: And if you cool with him too, then okay you

750
00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:54,040
Speaker 1: can come. You know, I'm trying to have an NBA

751
00:47:54,160 --> 00:47:57,560
Speaker 1: playoff game. You're bringing the whole NBA with you. No, no,

752
00:47:58,560 --> 00:48:01,359
Speaker 1: it ain't like that, man, man, I mean playing that big.

753
00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:03,000
Speaker 1: You know, my wife is gonna be coming through here,

754
00:48:03,320 --> 00:48:05,360
Speaker 1: and you know I got the house played out. I

755
00:48:05,360 --> 00:48:07,480
Speaker 1: told I wasn't gonna destroy the place. I just got

756
00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:09,880
Speaker 1: out the dog house like two weeks ago. I to

757
00:48:10,239 --> 00:48:13,799
Speaker 1: that up. So if you're coming through, you come through,

758
00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:15,920
Speaker 1: you know, bring one or two people with you. But

759
00:48:16,040 --> 00:48:19,359
Speaker 1: that's it. Okay, all right, but listen to it. Would

760
00:48:19,360 --> 00:48:20,960
Speaker 1: I decided to me, I ain't gonna bring them dude

761
00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:22,799
Speaker 1: with me. I'm just gonna bring a little lady from

762
00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:24,239
Speaker 1: him with me. Man, if they is that cool, I'm

763
00:48:24,239 --> 00:48:26,600
Speaker 1: just gonna bring a little lady from him. No, dudes, okay,

764
00:48:26,640 --> 00:48:28,320
Speaker 1: that's cool. Now you're talking. Okay, because I know she

765
00:48:28,360 --> 00:48:30,400
Speaker 1: ain't eat it for much, come on through here with

766
00:48:30,520 --> 00:48:32,799
Speaker 1: her and you know, be done with that's fine, right

767
00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:34,960
Speaker 1: right right. I'm gonna call Simone nine tell her and

768
00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:38,120
Speaker 1: tell her that that she coming with me. Okay, what's

769
00:48:38,160 --> 00:48:42,439
Speaker 1: her name? Her name Simone. That's funny, that's my wife's name. Okay, okay, okay,

770
00:48:42,480 --> 00:48:44,160
Speaker 1: but maybe they'll hook up while they while we're watching

771
00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:46,480
Speaker 1: the game. She ain't, she ain't got be here, So

772
00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:50,760
Speaker 1: I send her in her girls so that the nail's done. Okay, okay,

773
00:48:50,840 --> 00:48:53,160
Speaker 1: So check us out, man, I'm I'm gonna reach out

774
00:48:53,200 --> 00:48:54,839
Speaker 1: to Simone and let her know that we're gonna we're

775
00:48:54,840 --> 00:48:56,520
Speaker 1: gonna leave it and get over there like about one.

776
00:48:56,760 --> 00:48:58,839
Speaker 1: And you say it's cool, right, yeah, yeah, it's cool

777
00:48:58,880 --> 00:49:00,440
Speaker 1: man that that's a whole lot better than being about

778
00:49:00,640 --> 00:49:03,480
Speaker 1: up here. But okay, okay, back yeah, yeah, you're years now,

779
00:49:03,560 --> 00:49:06,000
Speaker 1: and I took this man mine, uh you know, my friend.

780
00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:08,279
Speaker 1: She she she's married, you know, and and and she

781
00:49:08,360 --> 00:49:10,000
Speaker 1: wanted to get away from my husband for a minute. Man,

782
00:49:10,000 --> 00:49:12,640
Speaker 1: I guess they'd been going through so, you know, you know,

783
00:49:12,760 --> 00:49:16,240
Speaker 1: just keeping way back back up there, bringing a married

784
00:49:16,280 --> 00:49:20,040
Speaker 1: woman named Simone were the eyes of that. My wife's

785
00:49:20,080 --> 00:49:22,880
Speaker 1: name is Simone? Okay, well done, I mean what was

786
00:49:23,640 --> 00:49:27,440
Speaker 1: this one? Simone? Is my last name? Is that's my

787
00:49:27,560 --> 00:49:29,920
Speaker 1: last name? Wait? Wait? Wait wait wait wait wait wait,

788
00:49:29,960 --> 00:49:33,000
Speaker 1: hold on holdaway, wait wait, hold hold on, hold on dog.

789
00:49:33,120 --> 00:49:37,399
Speaker 1: This this okay, this this Simone is is light skin. Yeah,

790
00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:40,600
Speaker 1: you keep on describing her. She's light skin, five one

791
00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:44,799
Speaker 1: short hair. That's the hallyka. Yeah that's that's that's that's that's.

792
00:49:46,000 --> 00:49:49,040
Speaker 1: How about you do? My wife? Hey do? Me and

793
00:49:49,120 --> 00:49:51,200
Speaker 1: Simone been friends for a minute. Man, It wasn't ntil

794
00:49:51,239 --> 00:49:52,759
Speaker 1: like a couple of weeks ago. She reached out to

795
00:49:52,880 --> 00:49:54,719
Speaker 1: me and saying she was she was going through some

796
00:49:55,000 --> 00:49:58,080
Speaker 1: some some he reached out to you to tell you

797
00:49:58,200 --> 00:50:00,239
Speaker 1: that she's going through some stuff with a dude. Well

798
00:50:00,239 --> 00:50:03,719
Speaker 1: I don't that dude. Okay, okay, I want you my wife.

799
00:50:04,080 --> 00:50:06,440
Speaker 1: Hey man, you know about a year, but who counting?

800
00:50:06,600 --> 00:50:09,400
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? A year that's about the

801
00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:11,879
Speaker 1: time we started to have some issues. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

802
00:50:11,920 --> 00:50:13,719
Speaker 1: come on over to this party. Hey man, I'm sure

803
00:50:13,760 --> 00:50:17,080
Speaker 1: we can try to picket this kind of situation. Imp

804
00:50:19,040 --> 00:50:21,840
Speaker 1: my wife. I don't give you. I don't give me

805
00:50:22,000 --> 00:50:24,680
Speaker 1: about her either. You know, you know they said, you

806
00:50:24,760 --> 00:50:26,760
Speaker 1: know what, I've always believed this. There are no mistakes.

807
00:50:27,719 --> 00:50:29,840
Speaker 1: Everything happens where it's supposed to me. So it's funny

808
00:50:29,880 --> 00:50:32,680
Speaker 1: how you call me. Okay, Okay, listen, man, listen, I

809
00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:35,000
Speaker 1: can get this number my boy. Game no, no, no,

810
00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:36,680
Speaker 1: this man, I get it time. You probably called it

811
00:50:36,719 --> 00:50:39,800
Speaker 1: direct from her. That's what my boy gave me this.

812
00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:43,560
Speaker 1: Leave leave simone out of this, man, But you can't

813
00:50:43,600 --> 00:50:45,520
Speaker 1: tell me right now. You know, I'm a gonna ge

814
00:50:45,560 --> 00:50:47,759
Speaker 1: up this call with you right now. I'm gonna call her,

815
00:50:48,320 --> 00:50:49,759
Speaker 1: not to say I ain't gonna call her at all.

816
00:50:49,960 --> 00:50:53,320
Speaker 1: Don't don't tell her my wife. Just bring her to

817
00:50:53,480 --> 00:50:55,160
Speaker 1: the party. I got a gift for this for you.

818
00:50:55,520 --> 00:50:57,400
Speaker 1: I got a three eighty, I got a Smith, I

819
00:50:57,440 --> 00:50:59,880
Speaker 1: got a Weston, I got a size fourteen tiller to go.

820
00:51:00,840 --> 00:51:03,920
Speaker 1: Oh yes, come on over with this tarp. Okay, hey man,

821
00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:07,200
Speaker 1: hey man, listen, listen my boy, my boy gave me

822
00:51:07,280 --> 00:51:10,399
Speaker 1: your number, man, so I'll know who my boy is. Mark.

823
00:51:10,440 --> 00:51:12,680
Speaker 1: I say he don't know you, Marcus don't know me.

824
00:51:12,800 --> 00:51:14,839
Speaker 1: But guess who else knows me? Though that you don't

825
00:51:14,880 --> 00:51:21,160
Speaker 1: know what's say something? Hey Brad, this is Nephew timing

826
00:51:21,280 --> 00:51:24,400
Speaker 1: Man from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your boy Marcus

827
00:51:24,840 --> 00:51:34,319
Speaker 1: got me the prank phone. Call you what I don't

828
00:51:34,680 --> 00:51:44,600
Speaker 1: give us this un I'm gonna get up. Yeah, yeah, Hey, Brad,

829
00:51:44,719 --> 00:51:46,960
Speaker 1: what was you gonna do with the party? Man? Damn? Man?

830
00:51:47,440 --> 00:51:54,919
Speaker 1: Uh about hey man, let me ask you something. What's

831
00:51:54,920 --> 00:51:57,840
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835
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839
00:52:33,160 --> 00:52:38,920
Speaker 1: party on. How many boxes was that again? Huh? That's

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Speaker 1: too much? All right, nephew? Thank you. Up next, it

841
00:52:45,320 --> 00:52:48,120
Speaker 1: is a Strawberry letter subject I wish I didn't trust

842
00:52:48,200 --> 00:52:50,320
Speaker 1: her so much. We'll get into it right after this.

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844
00:52:56,560 --> 00:52:59,480
Speaker 1: and listen. If you need advice on relationships, on sex,

845
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Speaker 1: right here, right now. Buggle up, hold on tight, we

850
00:53:17,440 --> 00:53:20,320
Speaker 1: got it for you here. It is the Strawberry Letter subject.

851
00:53:20,480 --> 00:53:25,360
Speaker 1: I wish I didn't trust her so much. Here Stephen Shirley.

852
00:53:25,800 --> 00:53:27,960
Speaker 1: I am a twenty six year old man with two

853
00:53:28,080 --> 00:53:31,640
Speaker 1: children and a wonderful wife of four years. My wife

854
00:53:31,719 --> 00:53:35,359
Speaker 1: recently graduated from medical school and she's studying for her

855
00:53:35,560 --> 00:53:39,840
Speaker 1: certification exam, so she is not working right now. She

856
00:53:40,040 --> 00:53:42,960
Speaker 1: is at home studying most days, or she's on campus

857
00:53:43,080 --> 00:53:45,799
Speaker 1: with her study group. I had no problem with all

858
00:53:45,840 --> 00:53:47,920
Speaker 1: of the free time my wife had, nor did I

859
00:53:48,080 --> 00:53:53,320
Speaker 1: ever question her loyalty in our marriage until recently. I

860
00:53:53,480 --> 00:53:55,719
Speaker 1: was using her phone one day not too long ago,

861
00:53:55,920 --> 00:54:00,480
Speaker 1: and a text from Jarvis popped up, and the message was, yes,

862
00:54:00,640 --> 00:54:03,960
Speaker 1: I'll come by tomorrow for lunch. I asked my wife

863
00:54:04,560 --> 00:54:07,239
Speaker 1: who Jarvis is, and she told me that he's one

864
00:54:07,280 --> 00:54:10,399
Speaker 1: of her study partners and she's asked him to drop

865
00:54:10,480 --> 00:54:12,919
Speaker 1: by on his lunch break the next day to pick

866
00:54:13,000 --> 00:54:16,160
Speaker 1: up some notes. I would be at work, so this

867
00:54:16,400 --> 00:54:20,680
Speaker 1: bothered me, but I trust her and she assured me

868
00:54:21,040 --> 00:54:23,879
Speaker 1: that it was nothing. But now I have a real

869
00:54:24,040 --> 00:54:26,840
Speaker 1: problem with Jarvis because of what happened over the weekend

870
00:54:26,960 --> 00:54:30,759
Speaker 1: When my wife and I were having sex Right when

871
00:54:30,840 --> 00:54:34,440
Speaker 1: it got good, my wife asked me to stop and

872
00:54:34,680 --> 00:54:38,279
Speaker 1: she was crying. I asked her what was wrong, and

873
00:54:38,520 --> 00:54:41,560
Speaker 1: she told me that while we were having sex, she

874
00:54:41,760 --> 00:54:46,120
Speaker 1: could not stop thinking about Jarvis and it scared her.

875
00:54:47,440 --> 00:54:49,640
Speaker 1: I asked her if she had ever cheated on me

876
00:54:49,719 --> 00:54:52,680
Speaker 1: with a guy, and she swore that she'd never cheat,

877
00:54:53,120 --> 00:54:55,360
Speaker 1: but she wanted to let me know that she was

878
00:54:55,520 --> 00:54:58,879
Speaker 1: thinking of him in a sexual way and it made

879
00:54:58,920 --> 00:55:03,720
Speaker 1: her feel bad. I suggested that maybe they should stop

880
00:55:03,800 --> 00:55:06,719
Speaker 1: studying together, but she said, Jarvis is the smartest person

881
00:55:06,880 --> 00:55:09,960
Speaker 1: in their class, so she needs him. I pray that

882
00:55:10,120 --> 00:55:12,359
Speaker 1: she has not had sex with Jarvis in my house

883
00:55:12,560 --> 00:55:15,600
Speaker 1: in our bed. Steve, what do you think is going on?

884
00:55:15,920 --> 00:55:19,319
Speaker 1: Am I crazy? Or should I trust my wife? Give

885
00:55:19,360 --> 00:55:23,160
Speaker 1: it to me straight. Well, you should trust your wife

886
00:55:23,760 --> 00:55:26,759
Speaker 1: until you don't until there's a reason for you not

887
00:55:26,960 --> 00:55:29,960
Speaker 1: to trust her. And if ever there was a reason,

888
00:55:30,560 --> 00:55:34,719
Speaker 1: I think this is it. This man is coming by

889
00:55:34,760 --> 00:55:36,480
Speaker 1: the house when you're at work and it is just

890
00:55:36,680 --> 00:55:41,560
Speaker 1: the two of them there. I don't know. I know

891
00:55:42,080 --> 00:55:45,600
Speaker 1: a lot of relationships, especially married ones, if the wife

892
00:55:45,760 --> 00:55:49,080
Speaker 1: is alone at home. The husband doesn't want another man

893
00:55:49,280 --> 00:55:53,279
Speaker 1: in the house when he's not there. There is such

894
00:55:53,320 --> 00:55:55,879
Speaker 1: a thing as being too honest as well. I don't

895
00:55:55,920 --> 00:55:59,279
Speaker 1: even understand why she told you this. And when she

896
00:55:59,480 --> 00:56:03,200
Speaker 1: told you, oh mg, I mean, the timing couldn't have

897
00:56:03,239 --> 00:56:05,800
Speaker 1: been worse, you said, just when it got good, she

898
00:56:05,960 --> 00:56:08,239
Speaker 1: broke it down to youth. At first, I thought it

899
00:56:08,360 --> 00:56:10,719
Speaker 1: was maybe a fantasy, you know, just in her head.

900
00:56:10,840 --> 00:56:12,960
Speaker 1: She was thinking about Jarvis, but she got all in

901
00:56:13,040 --> 00:56:16,920
Speaker 1: her feelings, started crying and stuff. This is pretty serious

902
00:56:17,040 --> 00:56:20,440
Speaker 1: right here. I'm sorry, but I think you really have

903
00:56:20,680 --> 00:56:23,920
Speaker 1: cause for concern here. I just do. If she hasn't

904
00:56:23,960 --> 00:56:27,840
Speaker 1: done it already, she's definitely thinking about it, and she's

905
00:56:27,880 --> 00:56:31,040
Speaker 1: probably considered it. She spends a lot of time with him,

906
00:56:31,440 --> 00:56:36,839
Speaker 1: and he was responding to a text she made to him.

907
00:56:37,239 --> 00:56:39,359
Speaker 1: She asked him to come over on his lunch break.

908
00:56:39,440 --> 00:56:43,200
Speaker 1: He was responding saying, yes, I'll come by tomorrow for lunch.

909
00:56:43,719 --> 00:56:47,040
Speaker 1: So there's something going on and you definitely need to

910
00:56:47,160 --> 00:56:53,960
Speaker 1: get to the bottom of it. Steve, good, this is crazy.

911
00:56:55,640 --> 00:56:59,959
Speaker 1: Let's get down to the bottom. And this to him, Yeah, Steve,

912
00:57:00,239 --> 00:57:09,920
Speaker 1: what you think? Steve, what you think though? Because I'm

913
00:57:10,000 --> 00:57:13,840
Speaker 1: crazy or I trust my wife, give it to me straight,

914
00:57:15,320 --> 00:57:17,680
Speaker 1: all right? No, he his name, Ain't it in no

915
00:57:17,840 --> 00:57:22,640
Speaker 1: way rusty or nothing like that name. Right, I'm trying

916
00:57:22,680 --> 00:57:25,680
Speaker 1: to figure. You're twenty six year old man. You got

917
00:57:25,720 --> 00:57:29,040
Speaker 1: two beautiful kids wife for four years. Your wife graduated

918
00:57:29,080 --> 00:57:35,040
Speaker 1: from medical school and she's studying for her certification exam.

919
00:57:36,240 --> 00:57:42,120
Speaker 1: See certification exam. Let's keep that in mind. Might have

920
00:57:42,240 --> 00:57:46,160
Speaker 1: to come back and use that. So she ain't working

921
00:57:46,280 --> 00:57:50,200
Speaker 1: right now. She had the house most of the time,

922
00:57:53,600 --> 00:57:55,400
Speaker 1: she had the house in most days, so she on

923
00:57:55,560 --> 00:57:59,160
Speaker 1: campus with her group. Ain't ain't got no problem my wife,

924
00:57:59,360 --> 00:58:00,960
Speaker 1: you know, got a lot of every time. You know,

925
00:58:01,000 --> 00:58:04,000
Speaker 1: I ain't never questioned a lordy and imagin Oh man,

926
00:58:04,200 --> 00:58:06,120
Speaker 1: you know for years, got two kids. You know what

927
00:58:06,240 --> 00:58:10,480
Speaker 1: you're gonna do. Then I was using her phone and

928
00:58:10,680 --> 00:58:15,120
Speaker 1: got a tech from Jobs. Say that again. I got

929
00:58:15,240 --> 00:58:19,520
Speaker 1: teching jobs. Yeah, Jarvis is a real play ass name

930
00:58:19,600 --> 00:58:21,080
Speaker 1: to meet dogs. I don't know what your name, and

931
00:58:21,120 --> 00:58:24,280
Speaker 1: I'm gonna just call you rusted Rusted Jarvis sound like

932
00:58:24,320 --> 00:58:28,600
Speaker 1: a real player ass name. Jobs propped. The message was yes,

933
00:58:28,760 --> 00:58:34,880
Speaker 1: I come back for lunch month. Now. If you saw

934
00:58:34,960 --> 00:58:40,120
Speaker 1: the tech from Jarvis, then you had to see or

935
00:58:40,280 --> 00:58:44,320
Speaker 1: text from your wife asking jobs. But that wasn't the case.

936
00:58:45,480 --> 00:58:48,080
Speaker 1: So all you saw was tech from Jarvis and say

937
00:58:48,200 --> 00:58:50,400
Speaker 1: y'all be there a mom So they mean they talk.

938
00:58:52,120 --> 00:58:54,320
Speaker 1: I asked my wife who the hell jobs is? And

939
00:58:54,440 --> 00:58:57,680
Speaker 1: see that your mistake. See you asked her who Jarvis was?

940
00:58:58,040 --> 00:59:01,040
Speaker 1: You should ask her who the hell is jobs? How

941
00:59:01,120 --> 00:59:05,760
Speaker 1: should you said that? Who the hell a job? And

942
00:59:05,960 --> 00:59:09,960
Speaker 1: why job is talking about? Coming over here? Question? Car?

943
00:59:10,040 --> 00:59:14,240
Speaker 1: See we are doing studying at my house. Though that

944
00:59:14,360 --> 00:59:18,240
Speaker 1: what they got library fault. That when they got the

945
00:59:19,080 --> 00:59:24,160
Speaker 1: uh cafetier fault. She told me. One of her study

946
00:59:24,240 --> 00:59:26,959
Speaker 1: partners she asked him to drop back on his lunch

947
00:59:27,000 --> 00:59:29,840
Speaker 1: break the next day to pick up some notes at

948
00:59:29,920 --> 00:59:34,120
Speaker 1: my house. Now I'm at work, all right? Hang on, Steve, Well,

949
00:59:34,520 --> 00:59:37,920
Speaker 1: hang on, we gotta uh we're gonna have part two

950
00:59:38,080 --> 00:59:41,520
Speaker 1: of your response or the letter at twenty three after

951
00:59:41,680 --> 00:59:44,200
Speaker 1: the hour, subject I wish I didn't trust her so much?

952
00:59:44,680 --> 00:59:49,880
Speaker 1: Right after this you're listening to show, all right, Steve,

953
00:59:50,000 --> 00:59:53,280
Speaker 1: let's recap this letter, subject I wish I didn't trust

954
00:59:53,360 --> 00:59:55,920
Speaker 1: her so much? Wow. Well, all I can tell you

955
00:59:56,000 --> 00:59:58,480
Speaker 1: is I just got started, twenty six year old dude.

956
00:59:58,520 --> 01:00:00,400
Speaker 1: But man four years got two d is you know

957
01:00:00,560 --> 01:00:04,400
Speaker 1: wife lovely graduating medical school, studying us son, you know

958
01:00:04,520 --> 01:00:07,520
Speaker 1: certification exam working on it right now. She ain't working.

959
01:00:08,080 --> 01:00:10,280
Speaker 1: She at home study in most days on campus with

960
01:00:10,440 --> 01:00:12,720
Speaker 1: a study group. I have no problem with the free

961
01:00:12,760 --> 01:00:15,680
Speaker 1: time my wife had. I ain't never question of loyalty.

962
01:00:16,280 --> 01:00:18,360
Speaker 1: Using the phone one day and got texting the damn

963
01:00:18,480 --> 01:00:22,360
Speaker 1: jobs job's name propped up. Message was yes, I come

964
01:00:22,400 --> 01:00:24,800
Speaker 1: by for lunch to the maw. I asked my wife,

965
01:00:24,840 --> 01:00:29,480
Speaker 1: I said, you know who is jobs? When I suggested

966
01:00:29,560 --> 01:00:33,120
Speaker 1: that he should have said who the hell is? She

967
01:00:33,320 --> 01:00:35,439
Speaker 1: told me one of the study partners, and she asked

968
01:00:35,520 --> 01:00:37,560
Speaker 1: him to drop down on his lunch break the next

969
01:00:37,640 --> 01:00:39,920
Speaker 1: day pick up some notes and me and Tom was

970
01:00:40,000 --> 01:00:43,440
Speaker 1: talking on break. Who do that? Who got to come

971
01:00:43,520 --> 01:00:46,400
Speaker 1: by your house? Pick up a damn note? You could

972
01:00:46,440 --> 01:00:50,240
Speaker 1: text that note. You can email that note, you can

973
01:00:50,360 --> 01:00:55,040
Speaker 1: snapchat that note, you can DM that damn note, you

974
01:00:55,160 --> 01:00:59,480
Speaker 1: can Facebook that note, you can group meeting on a

975
01:00:59,560 --> 01:01:04,600
Speaker 1: computer to skype damn notes. You ain't got it. Bring

976
01:01:04,760 --> 01:01:10,800
Speaker 1: your monka asked by my house pot see number one.

977
01:01:10,880 --> 01:01:13,080
Speaker 1: That's rude number one, and your wife and broke it.

978
01:01:13,240 --> 01:01:15,640
Speaker 1: You don't have no man in no another man's house

979
01:01:15,920 --> 01:01:18,520
Speaker 1: while he had work or nowhere else. You don't have

980
01:01:19,160 --> 01:01:21,840
Speaker 1: another man in a man's house, no more than I

981
01:01:21,920 --> 01:01:25,240
Speaker 1: can have another woman in my house. Can no women

982
01:01:25,320 --> 01:01:29,800
Speaker 1: over here doing services? And Madre ain't hire part It's crazy.

983
01:01:30,600 --> 01:01:32,600
Speaker 1: So this bothered you. But I trust and she had

984
01:01:32,680 --> 01:01:35,760
Speaker 1: sewed me that nothing, that it was nothing. But now

985
01:01:35,800 --> 01:01:37,880
Speaker 1: I got a real problem with Jarvis because it would

986
01:01:37,880 --> 01:01:40,400
Speaker 1: have over weekend. Man, my wife was having sex y'all

987
01:01:40,440 --> 01:01:43,600
Speaker 1: in that job. You let me go? Yeah, you got

988
01:01:43,720 --> 01:01:49,240
Speaker 1: two kids? Yeah, yeah, right right when it got good,

989
01:01:49,440 --> 01:01:53,000
Speaker 1: my wife asked me to stop, and she was crying,

990
01:01:54,000 --> 01:01:59,479
Speaker 1: what baby, what's wrong? I asked her what was wrong?

991
01:01:59,760 --> 01:02:02,160
Speaker 1: She told me to why we was having sex. She

992
01:02:02,200 --> 01:02:06,439
Speaker 1: couldn't stop thinking about Javis, and it scared her. All.

993
01:02:06,680 --> 01:02:10,840
Speaker 1: We often to be scared, Na, Na jovis too. It's

994
01:02:10,880 --> 01:02:13,800
Speaker 1: scared you. I'm scared you feel to be most scared.

995
01:02:13,920 --> 01:02:16,960
Speaker 1: Javis asked for to get tight. I asked if she

996
01:02:17,080 --> 01:02:19,440
Speaker 1: had ever cheated on me with the guy. She swore

997
01:02:19,560 --> 01:02:22,400
Speaker 1: she never cheat, but she wanted to let me know

998
01:02:22,480 --> 01:02:25,000
Speaker 1: that she was thinking of him in a sexual way

999
01:02:25,280 --> 01:02:30,080
Speaker 1: and it made her feel bad. I suggested that maybe

1000
01:02:30,160 --> 01:02:38,200
Speaker 1: they should stop study that you suggested, see your words,

1001
01:02:38,240 --> 01:02:42,600
Speaker 1: ain't who is Jovis? See all that then changed to

1002
01:02:42,720 --> 01:02:46,200
Speaker 1: who the f is? Jobs? Too nice? And then this

1003
01:02:46,400 --> 01:02:50,160
Speaker 1: right here. I suggested that maybe they should stop studying together,

1004
01:02:50,520 --> 01:02:54,360
Speaker 1: but she said Javis is the smartest person in their class.

1005
01:02:54,400 --> 01:02:56,800
Speaker 1: So she Hey, let me tell you something, Javis ain't

1006
01:02:56,840 --> 01:03:01,280
Speaker 1: that damn smart. See jobs, mister mess rod Jovis if

1007
01:03:01,280 --> 01:03:04,360
Speaker 1: you can get hit a well being so damned smart,

1008
01:03:05,040 --> 01:03:08,640
Speaker 1: she needs him. You need him so much that you're

1009
01:03:08,720 --> 01:03:11,760
Speaker 1: thinking about him sexually. Where we having sex? You don't

1010
01:03:11,800 --> 01:03:18,080
Speaker 1: stop me? And now you cry hell far hole love

1011
01:03:19,120 --> 01:03:23,959
Speaker 1: hole love. I pray that she has not had sex

1012
01:03:24,040 --> 01:03:27,640
Speaker 1: with Javis in my house, in our bed women on

1013
01:03:27,800 --> 01:03:30,960
Speaker 1: a thump. I don't give a damn where she didn't

1014
01:03:31,000 --> 01:03:33,920
Speaker 1: have sex. I don't give a damn if it's on

1015
01:03:34,080 --> 01:03:36,000
Speaker 1: the steps. I don't give a damn if it's on

1016
01:03:36,120 --> 01:03:39,480
Speaker 1: the welcome matt at the dough into the house. The

1017
01:03:39,680 --> 01:03:43,160
Speaker 1: fact that you think her and Javis may have had sex,

1018
01:03:43,680 --> 01:03:46,320
Speaker 1: that's a enough. Now in the house, it's just gonna

1019
01:03:46,400 --> 01:03:49,520
Speaker 1: it's gonna worse than the ass QUI, Steve, what do

1020
01:03:49,600 --> 01:03:57,760
Speaker 1: you think te mention your name in it. It's time

1021
01:03:57,920 --> 01:04:03,560
Speaker 1: to go see Jobs. Yeah, she's time to go see Jarvis.

1022
01:04:03,600 --> 01:04:05,520
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna tell you why. And I'm serious about

1023
01:04:05,560 --> 01:04:08,680
Speaker 1: this too, because he Jarvis needs to get a visit

1024
01:04:09,520 --> 01:04:12,439
Speaker 1: from the man whose house he's so comfortable going over.

1025
01:04:13,920 --> 01:04:15,480
Speaker 1: Because I'm gonna tell you right now, man, ain't no

1026
01:04:15,560 --> 01:04:19,040
Speaker 1: man feeling to be comfortable coming to my house. Somebody

1027
01:04:19,160 --> 01:04:22,560
Speaker 1: gonna go Steve now because just just just the way

1028
01:04:22,600 --> 01:04:25,480
Speaker 1: Steve talk, I just ste do Steve. No, I'm coming.

1029
01:04:27,760 --> 01:04:32,160
Speaker 1: Oh man, it's it's it's all day, It's all day,

1030
01:04:32,280 --> 01:04:35,240
Speaker 1: I promise you. Man, I'm going to see Jarvis. Because

1031
01:04:35,240 --> 01:04:37,640
Speaker 1: he Javis is comfortable enough to come over here, then

1032
01:04:37,720 --> 01:04:39,960
Speaker 1: he ought to be comfortable enough for me coming over there.

1033
01:04:40,800 --> 01:04:44,400
Speaker 1: Javis been over my house? Why can't I come over Jarvis? Yeah?

1034
01:04:45,280 --> 01:04:49,400
Speaker 1: Now all is you crying because you're thinking about him?

1035
01:04:49,760 --> 01:04:54,360
Speaker 1: Now we've finning addressed this at the house too. Why

1036
01:04:54,400 --> 01:04:57,160
Speaker 1: aren't you gonna get with Jarvis? Because all this crime

1037
01:04:57,360 --> 01:05:00,680
Speaker 1: while we have it set thinking about jav Yeah a

1038
01:05:00,760 --> 01:05:03,680
Speaker 1: bit much? Ye see that right now, I'm not finding

1039
01:05:04,000 --> 01:05:06,160
Speaker 1: And now every time I see you crying, well, what

1040
01:05:06,360 --> 01:05:09,919
Speaker 1: you think about Jobs? And I don't and I don't

1041
01:05:09,920 --> 01:05:14,640
Speaker 1: know where you had the courage to tell me you

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01:05:14,880 --> 01:05:17,760
Speaker 1: was thinking about him in a sexual way. Dog, you

1043
01:05:17,880 --> 01:05:19,640
Speaker 1: a little weak ass dude. Man, you're gonna have to

1044
01:05:19,640 --> 01:05:22,080
Speaker 1: tighten up a little bit because you can't talk too

1045
01:05:22,200 --> 01:05:26,120
Speaker 1: kind of crazy. If a woman is having sexual thoughts

1046
01:05:26,120 --> 01:05:29,080
Speaker 1: about another man, I promise you I ain't dated one

1047
01:05:29,160 --> 01:05:33,840
Speaker 1: that to tell me that. No. No, but right hip

1048
01:05:33,920 --> 01:05:38,120
Speaker 1: up glass Steve crazy. All right, look, email us or

1049
01:05:38,160 --> 01:05:42,080
Speaker 1: instagram us your thoughts on I'm saying it. Strawberry Letter at,

1050
01:05:42,160 --> 01:05:48,440
Speaker 1: Steve Bigger, ugly ass, Steve craz Steve Ry FM. You

1051
01:05:48,520 --> 01:05:51,640
Speaker 1: can sep the house. You can check out the Strawberry

1052
01:05:51,720 --> 01:05:55,760
Speaker 1: Letter podcast on demand coming up at forty six after

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01:05:55,840 --> 01:05:59,680
Speaker 1: the hour. From the Talk our girl, Cheryl Underwood. Go ahead,

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01:05:59,720 --> 01:06:11,920
Speaker 1: see what jo what jobbing house at? You're listening to?

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01:06:14,480 --> 01:06:17,040
Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, it's Carla's

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01:06:17,160 --> 01:06:20,640
Speaker 1: Reality Update. But right now from the talk, Steve take

1057
01:06:20,680 --> 01:06:26,840
Speaker 1: it away, shuns. Let's thank you very much and I

1058
01:06:26,960 --> 01:06:30,320
Speaker 1: accept that intro and I got a bone to pick

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01:06:30,440 --> 01:06:34,640
Speaker 1: with the World the World show. That's the World, the

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01:06:34,720 --> 01:06:39,000
Speaker 1: World the World. Y'all heard of this group called BTS. Yeah,

1061
01:06:39,400 --> 01:06:43,520
Speaker 1: uh huh, okay, okay, I don't get from Japan right now.

1062
01:06:43,600 --> 01:06:47,240
Speaker 1: They're from Korea, South See that that's why See Ween

1063
01:06:47,360 --> 01:06:49,520
Speaker 1: went it, sir, we don't even know where they're from.

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01:06:49,920 --> 01:06:52,080
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, I'm sending up getting ready

1065
01:06:52,080 --> 01:06:54,919
Speaker 1: to watch what I think. It's BT Express. I thought

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01:06:54,960 --> 01:06:58,520
Speaker 1: I held come the Express. That's a cut. I mean,

1067
01:06:58,680 --> 01:07:01,440
Speaker 1: don't act like you donna understand with BT Express it's

1068
01:07:01,480 --> 01:07:05,280
Speaker 1: all about But this is BT S some South Korean

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01:07:05,400 --> 01:07:09,080
Speaker 1: boy band that stuck in the nineties doing all the

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01:07:09,160 --> 01:07:11,760
Speaker 1: stuff that the black boy bands used to do in

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01:07:11,800 --> 01:07:14,440
Speaker 1: the nineties, speaking in their own language. Now look, I'm

1072
01:07:14,480 --> 01:07:17,520
Speaker 1: not against nobody speaking in their own language. I'm not

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01:07:17,600 --> 01:07:21,680
Speaker 1: even against a little All my pop stars was almost

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01:07:21,800 --> 01:07:25,280
Speaker 1: all different races of people and black people. See. I

1075
01:07:25,520 --> 01:07:28,320
Speaker 1: used to love the Osmans. You know, one bad Apple

1076
01:07:28,760 --> 01:07:31,760
Speaker 1: was a cut like a Yo Yo was the cut.

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01:07:32,120 --> 01:07:36,120
Speaker 1: The battle was the Jackson five versus the os Yes,

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01:07:36,560 --> 01:07:39,560
Speaker 1: oh that's right, But we don't have on boy bands.

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01:07:39,760 --> 01:07:42,240
Speaker 1: So what is happening to America while y'all out there

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01:07:42,400 --> 01:07:44,280
Speaker 1: making it great? You need to make a damn boy

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01:07:44,320 --> 01:07:46,800
Speaker 1: band so we can have some boyfriends out there and

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01:07:47,280 --> 01:07:50,959
Speaker 1: cane Korean peoples they making, they making bags. They making

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01:07:51,040 --> 01:07:54,280
Speaker 1: badgs Junior. They was out of the rose Bone, collected

1084
01:07:54,400 --> 01:07:57,720
Speaker 1: all the money. What has happening to America? Don't nobody

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01:07:57,760 --> 01:07:59,680
Speaker 1: want to go to the moon. We need a boyfriend,

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01:08:00,000 --> 01:08:03,400
Speaker 1: and we need a boy band with different type. We

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01:08:03,520 --> 01:08:05,520
Speaker 1: need a band with different type of boys in it.

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01:08:05,840 --> 01:08:09,240
Speaker 1: When we was growing up Suny Scribeberries, there was different

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01:08:09,320 --> 01:08:12,960
Speaker 1: people in the band that we love. Even a Switch

1090
01:08:13,200 --> 01:08:16,960
Speaker 1: had different people. The Temptations is an original boy band.

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01:08:17,360 --> 01:08:23,840
Speaker 1: Stop buying. The del Phonics is an original boy band.

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01:08:24,360 --> 01:08:26,640
Speaker 1: Bang in the day, we loved the boy band. So

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01:08:26,840 --> 01:08:29,800
Speaker 1: come on, America. I'm not against these little Korean boys.

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01:08:30,080 --> 01:08:33,280
Speaker 1: I just need a band with I can't mess with

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01:08:33,400 --> 01:08:36,360
Speaker 1: nobody with a skinny pass. If my arm can't fit

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01:08:36,479 --> 01:08:39,320
Speaker 1: in your slacks, we cannot be together. I can't scream

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01:08:39,400 --> 01:08:42,439
Speaker 1: for you. So I need us to make a boy band.

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01:08:42,640 --> 01:08:45,599
Speaker 1: I like Beyond the Scene, but damn that I thought

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01:08:45,600 --> 01:08:47,559
Speaker 1: I was about to listen to BT Express, So I'm

1100
01:08:47,640 --> 01:08:52,800
Speaker 1: very upset about I'm very upset about this. So y'all

1101
01:08:52,840 --> 01:08:55,200
Speaker 1: need to open the phones so everybody can shout out

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01:08:55,280 --> 01:08:58,200
Speaker 1: every boy band that they love. I'm out, Steve Harvey,

1103
01:08:58,439 --> 01:09:01,400
Speaker 1: shout out every boy banding what's the phone number Charliet

1104
01:09:01,520 --> 01:09:05,479
Speaker 1: so they can shout out every boy band named the

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01:09:05,600 --> 01:09:10,320
Speaker 1: best boy band of all times. Joda sation. Oh yeah,

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01:09:10,720 --> 01:09:12,360
Speaker 1: you know, I was supposed to play Joda see and

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01:09:12,640 --> 01:09:18,519
Speaker 1: jo show. We gotta go. Thank you, Thank you, Cheryl Uh.

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01:09:18,680 --> 01:09:21,080
Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, It's Carla's

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01:09:21,160 --> 01:09:30,840
Speaker 1: Reality Update by Cheryl. You're listening, get ready, get ready

1110
01:09:30,840 --> 01:09:33,200
Speaker 1: to get ready. It is that time. She is here.

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01:09:33,360 --> 01:09:37,880
Speaker 1: Carlin Farrell with what reality Update? All right, thank you nephew.

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Speaker 1: Here we go, loving hip hop Atlanta. Just quickly. You know,

1113
01:09:41,040 --> 01:09:43,479
Speaker 1: we talked about this last week. Kirk and Rashida they

1114
01:09:43,560 --> 01:09:47,040
Speaker 1: hosted that couple's retreat where they you know, they all

1115
01:09:47,080 --> 01:09:49,680
Speaker 1: went to the cabin and Kirk and Rashida want to

1116
01:09:49,760 --> 01:09:53,479
Speaker 1: give advice to the couples. And we found out Rashida

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01:09:53,680 --> 01:09:57,680
Speaker 1: cheated on Kirk back in the day and early in

1118
01:09:57,800 --> 01:10:02,840
Speaker 1: their relationship. I was like, what, I didn't believe that.

1119
01:10:02,960 --> 01:10:05,240
Speaker 1: Who wrote the letter? Oh well she got all that

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01:10:05,360 --> 01:10:07,680
Speaker 1: coming in and all that stuff. Kirt and Kirk got

1121
01:10:07,760 --> 01:10:12,479
Speaker 1: babies and everything. Then you better talk to Steve. Well,

1122
01:10:12,520 --> 01:10:15,800
Speaker 1: they decided to. That's what she said. She cheated early

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01:10:15,920 --> 01:10:19,000
Speaker 1: in their relationship. But they they decided to forgive each other,

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01:10:19,000 --> 01:10:20,800
Speaker 1: and they were giving advice to the other couples so

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01:10:20,880 --> 01:10:24,600
Speaker 1: they can work on their relationships. Uh, MESSI, Carley, you

1126
01:10:24,960 --> 01:10:27,920
Speaker 1: can say, yeah, I guess that's cool because you gotta

1127
01:10:27,960 --> 01:10:30,880
Speaker 1: have gone through something to know something. That's what that

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01:10:31,080 --> 01:10:35,920
Speaker 1: point was listening it. So, yeah, and they have children together,

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01:10:36,120 --> 01:10:39,120
Speaker 1: and obviously he had a child outside the marriage. But

1130
01:10:39,720 --> 01:10:42,880
Speaker 1: you gotta give props to Rashida for forgiving her husband

1131
01:10:42,920 --> 01:10:47,839
Speaker 1: and they're trying to make it work. Um, mess retreat

1132
01:10:48,000 --> 01:10:52,960
Speaker 1: all of us, do you think? So we're gonna go

1133
01:10:53,080 --> 01:10:55,280
Speaker 1: to Kevin. We're just gonna go to We're go to Kevin.

1134
01:10:55,320 --> 01:10:59,920
Speaker 1: We're just gonna go to Steve High. That is a retreat. Yeah,

1135
01:11:00,200 --> 01:11:03,679
Speaker 1: yeah it's nice. It's a resort. Yeah, it's a resort

1136
01:11:03,760 --> 01:11:07,280
Speaker 1: over there. So anyway, let me get back to it.

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01:11:07,720 --> 01:11:12,120
Speaker 1: MESSI MESSI Carly. Um, she was about to fight Kendred

1138
01:11:12,200 --> 01:11:16,240
Speaker 1: young Jock's girlfriend. It was real messy, and the people

1139
01:11:16,320 --> 01:11:18,679
Speaker 1: in the house, all the couples and everybody there, they

1140
01:11:18,800 --> 01:11:20,439
Speaker 1: called her out on it and they told Carly, you

1141
01:11:20,520 --> 01:11:23,000
Speaker 1: know what, you real file, You're being real messy. It's

1142
01:11:23,040 --> 01:11:28,240
Speaker 1: not necessary. So, uh, Carly kind of tried to pull

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01:11:28,360 --> 01:11:30,719
Speaker 1: back a little bit. But anyway, her and her fiance,

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01:11:31,120 --> 01:11:36,479
Speaker 1: Arkansas Mo. They're back together. Remember she Yeah, remember she

1145
01:11:36,600 --> 01:11:39,680
Speaker 1: broke it off with him because he went, yeah, he

1146
01:11:39,880 --> 01:11:49,360
Speaker 1: was so bad and fain. Okay, let me let me

1147
01:11:49,400 --> 01:11:52,679
Speaker 1: toss it to you again, Steve. Carly Red and Arkansas

1148
01:11:52,920 --> 01:12:04,000
Speaker 1: Mo are back together. Yeah it girl child, you're right?

1149
01:12:04,240 --> 01:12:10,840
Speaker 1: Chip please yep. So anyway, that's hip Atlanta. Yeah, you

1150
01:12:10,880 --> 01:12:14,200
Speaker 1: can say what you want to say, Steve. Yeah, it's

1151
01:12:14,240 --> 01:12:25,080
Speaker 1: all good. And then let me tell you this. I'm

1152
01:12:25,120 --> 01:12:28,639
Speaker 1: watching Real Housewives of Potomac. Are you watching it, Shirley? Yeah,

1153
01:12:28,800 --> 01:12:31,680
Speaker 1: I missed the first two, but yeah, okay, so you

1154
01:12:31,760 --> 01:12:34,000
Speaker 1: gotta watch it. It just came back on. So if

1155
01:12:34,040 --> 01:12:36,680
Speaker 1: everybody knows spoiler alerk, you gotta catch up, ladies with

1156
01:12:36,800 --> 01:12:41,320
Speaker 1: watching Real Housewives Potomac. What what what are you saying?

1157
01:12:42,120 --> 01:12:50,880
Speaker 1: Snack cheese? You're terrible? All right? I got good? Please? Yeah?

1158
01:12:51,040 --> 01:12:53,280
Speaker 1: Hit me up at lip Spark Carlo. We'll talk more

1159
01:12:53,439 --> 01:12:56,439
Speaker 1: socially about Real Housewives of Potomac. We'll talk more about

1160
01:12:56,479 --> 01:12:59,720
Speaker 1: love and hip hop Atlanta. Chip please. Steve Harvey will

1161
01:12:59,720 --> 01:13:07,240
Speaker 1: be second twenty after you're listening to show how many

1162
01:13:07,360 --> 01:13:10,479
Speaker 1: friends do you guys have I'm not talking about social

1163
01:13:10,560 --> 01:13:14,880
Speaker 1: media friends. I'm talking about real friends. Now. According to

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01:13:15,040 --> 01:13:19,639
Speaker 1: a new survey, the average American has about sixteen friends.

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01:13:20,240 --> 01:13:24,320
Speaker 1: Of these sixteen friends, yeah yeah, this got no damn

1166
01:13:24,439 --> 01:13:33,080
Speaker 1: sixteen Steve. This is according to a new survey. Yeah yeah,

1167
01:13:33,439 --> 01:13:37,799
Speaker 1: and they say of these they say, of these sixteen friends,

1168
01:13:37,880 --> 01:13:41,160
Speaker 1: three were described as friends for life, five were people

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01:13:41,240 --> 01:13:44,040
Speaker 1: they really liked and would hang out with one on one,

1170
01:13:44,439 --> 01:13:47,160
Speaker 1: and the other eight were people the respondent said they

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01:13:47,360 --> 01:13:50,800
Speaker 1: liked but would not spend time with them one on one.

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01:13:51,240 --> 01:13:54,720
Speaker 1: The survey also found that the average American adult has

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01:13:54,800 --> 01:13:57,320
Speaker 1: made a new friend hasn't made a new friend in

1174
01:13:57,479 --> 01:14:00,840
Speaker 1: five years. Because Steve, I gotta ask begs the question,

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01:14:00,920 --> 01:14:04,439
Speaker 1: how many friends real friends do you have? Sixteen or less?

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01:14:05,160 --> 01:14:09,439
Speaker 1: Probably got five? Five? You can kind them on one hand? Friends, Yeah,

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01:14:09,960 --> 01:14:12,439
Speaker 1: I'm talking about ride or did don't give a damn?

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01:14:12,600 --> 01:14:18,840
Speaker 1: Let's go top five? Yeah, I'm talking about well with

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01:14:19,120 --> 01:14:22,760
Speaker 1: it five? Maybe hard to make new friends at the

1180
01:14:23,280 --> 01:14:26,280
Speaker 1: and I ain't made a friend at five years? How well?

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01:14:27,400 --> 01:14:30,880
Speaker 1: At work? At work, Steve, that's where you are all

1182
01:14:30,920 --> 01:14:35,120
Speaker 1: the time. How many friends you got, Tommy, I always

1183
01:14:35,120 --> 01:14:41,080
Speaker 1: say three conversation when we come back. You play spade.

1184
01:14:43,280 --> 01:14:45,640
Speaker 1: All right, we'll be back. We'll pick this conversation up

1185
01:14:45,680 --> 01:14:48,880
Speaker 1: when when we come back at thirty three after the hour.

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01:14:49,439 --> 01:14:54,719
Speaker 1: You're listening to show, all right, Steve. We were talking

1187
01:14:54,760 --> 01:14:56,840
Speaker 1: about how many friends do we have. There's a new

1188
01:14:56,960 --> 01:14:59,800
Speaker 1: survey and it says that the average American has about

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01:15:00,000 --> 01:15:04,160
Speaker 1: sixteen friends. Of those sixteen, it's impossible. Well, well, this

1190
01:15:04,320 --> 01:15:06,360
Speaker 1: is how they break it down. Three were described as

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01:15:06,400 --> 01:15:09,360
Speaker 1: friends for life, three you have for life. Five were

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01:15:09,400 --> 01:15:11,320
Speaker 1: people you really liked and you would hang out with

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01:15:11,479 --> 01:15:14,120
Speaker 1: one on one, and then the other eight were people

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01:15:14,200 --> 01:15:16,880
Speaker 1: the respondents said they liked, but they wouldn't spend time

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01:15:16,920 --> 01:15:20,720
Speaker 1: with them one on one. And that's not your friend. Yeah,

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01:15:20,760 --> 01:15:23,720
Speaker 1: that's you wouldn't consider that friend. People you really like

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01:15:24,000 --> 01:15:28,400
Speaker 1: don't necessarily mean that your friend. Yeah, that's true as well. Yeah,

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01:15:28,640 --> 01:15:32,120
Speaker 1: and then they say the average American adult hasn't made

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01:15:32,160 --> 01:15:35,320
Speaker 1: a new friend in five years. I know that. And

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01:15:35,520 --> 01:15:38,880
Speaker 1: you know why why you don't have time to learn?

1201
01:15:39,040 --> 01:15:43,320
Speaker 1: Nobody else didn't learn you. Yeah. Yeah, And there's a

1202
01:15:43,600 --> 01:15:46,720
Speaker 1: there's a trust factor. Yeah, you say something that's right,

1203
01:15:47,160 --> 01:15:50,200
Speaker 1: I can't believe. Yeah, you get quiet. I noticed you

1204
01:15:50,360 --> 01:15:54,719
Speaker 1: get quiet but it was right. He was some point,

1205
01:15:54,920 --> 01:15:57,519
Speaker 1: Yeah he was. You ain't got to have to learn nobody.

1206
01:15:58,840 --> 01:16:01,200
Speaker 1: But it sounds like with us, this group right here,

1207
01:16:01,400 --> 01:16:05,599
Speaker 1: we don't use that term loosely, like when I call

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01:16:05,680 --> 01:16:09,640
Speaker 1: you a friend. Yeah, come on, yeah, yeah, I can

1209
01:16:09,760 --> 01:16:12,800
Speaker 1: count on you no matter what. Yeah, that's just five

1210
01:16:12,880 --> 01:16:15,519
Speaker 1: of them dudes in my world. I'm sixty two years old.

1211
01:16:16,439 --> 01:16:19,920
Speaker 1: And it's about loyalty too. It's and and and my

1212
01:16:20,120 --> 01:16:26,960
Speaker 1: good ones didn't die. Yeah that's what's cold. But you know, look,

1213
01:16:27,040 --> 01:16:31,280
Speaker 1: I know, like my friends for life, Butcher Ricardo, so

1214
01:16:31,479 --> 01:16:34,200
Speaker 1: you know, you look at Butcher Ricardo. I've been friends

1215
01:16:34,240 --> 01:16:38,960
Speaker 1: with Manny since I was four. My best friend from

1216
01:16:39,040 --> 01:16:43,240
Speaker 1: from college is Marvel Is Marvin Horton. We steal boys,

1217
01:16:44,200 --> 01:16:49,000
Speaker 1: do ride or doc. Yeah, I'm talking about Biggie Wig

1218
01:16:49,640 --> 01:16:55,360
Speaker 1: okay and Blue. I'm talking about man, dudes that to

1219
01:16:55,439 --> 01:16:58,599
Speaker 1: walk off the edge for you. Yeah yeah, Biggie Wig

1220
01:16:58,680 --> 01:17:01,960
Speaker 1: and Blue prove Yeah yeah, they walk off the edge

1221
01:17:02,000 --> 01:17:05,240
Speaker 1: for you. Man. Yeah, that ain't no lie. Yeah. You know,

1222
01:17:06,120 --> 01:17:11,120
Speaker 1: Rickie Lewis could ask brother to man, but I got that.

1223
01:17:11,280 --> 01:17:16,200
Speaker 1: I called, like like Steve Perry, Perry, oh this is

1224
01:17:16,240 --> 01:17:20,360
Speaker 1: my dude. Man, he could he climb down and hold it. Yeah,

1225
01:17:21,800 --> 01:17:24,920
Speaker 1: what do you call that group? That's after friends? But

1226
01:17:25,120 --> 01:17:28,679
Speaker 1: they still cool with you? Like you know what I'm saying,

1227
01:17:28,720 --> 01:17:31,240
Speaker 1: But you're not in that top you're not in that five.

1228
01:17:32,520 --> 01:17:36,920
Speaker 1: Well maybe it's levels of friends. Yeah, I think right,

1229
01:17:37,920 --> 01:17:41,160
Speaker 1: I think that. I think that, And that's what they

1230
01:17:41,240 --> 01:17:44,000
Speaker 1: were saying. Uh. Some people are with you right or

1231
01:17:44,080 --> 01:17:47,320
Speaker 1: die and then others are I know, spend time with

1232
01:17:47,479 --> 01:17:50,400
Speaker 1: them one on one, you know, Yeah, I think they're

1233
01:17:50,600 --> 01:17:53,760
Speaker 1: different levels of friendship because I mean, you know, I

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01:17:53,920 --> 01:17:56,519
Speaker 1: call them like New York like short for New York

1235
01:17:56,600 --> 01:17:59,040
Speaker 1: a n y K. That's what I call. Just put

1236
01:17:59,120 --> 01:18:01,160
Speaker 1: them in the n y K A group like New York.

1237
01:18:01,680 --> 01:18:05,680
Speaker 1: I know what he's saying, n y K y Um.

1238
01:18:05,760 --> 01:18:07,479
Speaker 1: All right, Well we'll be back with more of the

1239
01:18:07,800 --> 01:18:11,960
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show, I know, coming up at forty nine.

1240
01:18:12,000 --> 01:18:15,000
Speaker 1: After it's some closing remarks coming up as well. Right

1241
01:18:15,040 --> 01:18:20,920
Speaker 1: after this you're listening to show. All right, Steve, here

1242
01:18:20,960 --> 01:18:23,560
Speaker 1: we are last break of the day. It's time for

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Speaker 1: your closing remarks. What you got, Steve? You know, we're

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Speaker 1: talking about friendship, and I want to say something about

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01:18:32,600 --> 01:18:36,400
Speaker 1: it because I've actually found this to be true. In

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Speaker 1: my life. I don't know if this is a fact,

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Speaker 1: but I've found it to be true. I don't know

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Speaker 1: how everybody else feels, but in my life, I've found

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01:18:44,840 --> 01:18:49,280
Speaker 1: this to be true. That friendship is so important, man,

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01:18:50,880 --> 01:18:57,799
Speaker 1: It's such an essential component of life. I have found

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Speaker 1: that you can live without your father. There are people

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Speaker 1: who've never met that dad. I have found that you

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01:19:08,000 --> 01:19:11,960
Speaker 1: can live without your mother. There are people who've never

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01:19:12,080 --> 01:19:14,519
Speaker 1: met their mothers. There are people who've lost their mothers.

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Speaker 1: I've lost my oldest brother. I've learned that I can

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01:19:20,600 --> 01:19:26,640
Speaker 1: live without so many things, man, But you know the

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01:19:26,720 --> 01:19:29,160
Speaker 1: one thing I found out that you cannot live in

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Speaker 1: this world without. You can't live in this world without

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Speaker 1: a friend. Man. Everybody has to have somebody that they

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Speaker 1: can run it by. I've just found that to be necessary. Now,

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01:19:45,960 --> 01:19:51,880
Speaker 1: Jesus can be your friend, I got that. But everybody

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01:19:52,040 --> 01:19:55,040
Speaker 1: needs somebody you can run it by. I got that.

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01:19:57,080 --> 01:20:02,280
Speaker 1: There's an organization of men who understand it as well

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Speaker 1: as I've ever heard it put. There's a group of

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01:20:06,400 --> 01:20:10,719
Speaker 1: men who live by a credence that friendship is essential

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Speaker 1: to the soul. That's such a true statement, man. I

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01:20:15,520 --> 01:20:19,040
Speaker 1: ain't trying to push my belief of my thing on

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01:20:19,160 --> 01:20:22,840
Speaker 1: nobody else but man, it's friendship really is essential to

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01:20:22,960 --> 01:20:26,160
Speaker 1: the soul. In order for your soul to thrive, you

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01:20:26,280 --> 01:20:30,080
Speaker 1: got to have somebody you can lean on, Somebody you

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01:20:30,160 --> 01:20:33,400
Speaker 1: can call, Somebody you can run it by that won't

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01:20:33,439 --> 01:20:36,680
Speaker 1: be judgmental. Somebody who is there with you, thick a

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Speaker 1: thin rider, die, Ace, Boon, Coon, Buzzard back buddy. You

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01:20:41,360 --> 01:20:44,000
Speaker 1: got to have somebody you can pick up that phone

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01:20:44,040 --> 01:20:46,559
Speaker 1: no matter what is going on, and when you pick

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01:20:46,680 --> 01:20:49,080
Speaker 1: up the phone, they go, okay, I'll be over there.

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Speaker 1: You got to have somebody that go, hey, man, don't

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01:20:52,080 --> 01:20:56,800
Speaker 1: worry about that and start providing solutions for you. You

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01:20:56,880 --> 01:20:58,840
Speaker 1: know how many people I've lost along the way, man,

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01:20:58,840 --> 01:21:00,640
Speaker 1: because it got hot and thick for me when I

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01:21:00,760 --> 01:21:04,360
Speaker 1: called them up? Man, how could you do something like that? Women?

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01:21:04,439 --> 01:21:07,679
Speaker 1: Hold up, don't wait? Whoa pardner? I'm calling you because

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01:21:07,720 --> 01:21:10,160
Speaker 1: I hadn't done something like that, and I'm in trouble. Man.

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01:21:10,200 --> 01:21:14,240
Speaker 1: I need a out man. I can't believe you would

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01:21:14,280 --> 01:21:16,000
Speaker 1: do something like that. Why you do that? Hey? Man?

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01:21:16,120 --> 01:21:17,720
Speaker 1: I know I wasn't supposed to do it, but I

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01:21:17,920 --> 01:21:21,639
Speaker 1: did it. Thought damn. Now I need a out, man,

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01:21:21,760 --> 01:21:24,120
Speaker 1: can you help me? I ain't got nothing for you. Man,

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Speaker 1: you shouldn't have did okay? Cool? This ain't your friend?

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01:21:28,320 --> 01:21:33,400
Speaker 1: Friendships are so necessary man. You often think about friendships

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01:21:33,439 --> 01:21:35,840
Speaker 1: as though, and what makes them so valuable is you

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01:21:35,960 --> 01:21:39,400
Speaker 1: get to choose them. You actually have a say. So

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01:21:39,560 --> 01:21:42,840
Speaker 1: it's not like family. You're born with family, but your friends,

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01:21:42,880 --> 01:21:45,840
Speaker 1: you actually get to choose them. Somebody told me one

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01:21:45,920 --> 01:21:52,160
Speaker 1: time is describe your five friends. Describe your five closest

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01:21:52,200 --> 01:21:56,920
Speaker 1: people around you. Described in five people, You've just described

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01:21:57,000 --> 01:22:01,760
Speaker 1: yourself because you surround yourself with like minded people. You

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01:22:01,880 --> 01:22:05,360
Speaker 1: picked friends because you have something in common. I remember

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Speaker 1: my mintoring camp. One time I was mentoring this young

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01:22:07,760 --> 01:22:09,960
Speaker 1: boy and he pulled out a picture. He said, I

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Speaker 1: gotta picture you and my daddy. I went what? And

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01:22:14,280 --> 01:22:16,599
Speaker 1: it threw me off because my mintoring campus for young

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01:22:16,680 --> 01:22:18,920
Speaker 1: boys who are from single parent homes, headed up by

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01:22:19,000 --> 01:22:22,320
Speaker 1: women who don't have relationships to their father. He said,

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Speaker 1: you and my father friends. I said what? Because it

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01:22:27,720 --> 01:22:31,680
Speaker 1: startled me because I realized I don't have friends that

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Speaker 1: don't take care of their kids. I don't. I don't

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01:22:36,160 --> 01:22:40,280
Speaker 1: have any friends who have forsaken their children. I don't

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Speaker 1: have any because we've talked, and the boy pulled out

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Speaker 1: a picture and I'll be dog gone. It was a

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Speaker 1: dude that when I lived in Texas we were friends. Now,

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Speaker 1: we didn't stay in touch, but we were really cool.

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Speaker 1: And when he showed me the picture, I was floored. Man.

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Speaker 1: I called my bodyguard boom Ring. I said, hey, man,

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Speaker 1: you remember the dudes nomber Man? He said yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I still gotta let me call it. I said, hey, man,

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Speaker 1: come out to my ranch and get your son. I

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Speaker 1: what you're talking? Abong? Steve? What's up? Why are you

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01:23:11,520 --> 01:23:13,920
Speaker 1: being no no, no no no? Your son out here? Man?

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01:23:14,320 --> 01:23:16,600
Speaker 1: Why is your son and my ranch? Why am I

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01:23:16,800 --> 01:23:19,599
Speaker 1: feeding and housing and clothing your son this week at

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01:23:19,640 --> 01:23:23,719
Speaker 1: my ranch? When I know you you got money? Whol

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01:23:23,760 --> 01:23:27,879
Speaker 1: our Pardner? What's wrong with you? Man? You don't understand

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01:23:27,960 --> 01:23:30,560
Speaker 1: his old lady man hold that, HI got all of that,

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01:23:31,200 --> 01:23:33,280
Speaker 1: But your son out here crying with a picture of

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Speaker 1: his daddy because he just missed his father. He came

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Speaker 1: out there and got his son. I said, whoa man?

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Speaker 1: Because I just don't have friends like that. You get

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Speaker 1: to select your friends. It's a selection process. Friendship is important.

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Speaker 1: Now you know what I've learned in my life. And

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Speaker 1: this would startle some of my male friends, but some

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Speaker 1: of them who get it get it. You know, my

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Speaker 1: best friend is actually my wife, and you know why

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01:24:03,000 --> 01:24:09,280
Speaker 1: because she actually fulfills all the requirements that I've developed

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Speaker 1: for friends over my lifetime. I can talk to her

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Speaker 1: about anything. She's not judgmental. When it gets really rough

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Speaker 1: for me, she comforts me. When it's time to climb

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Speaker 1: down in the hole and fight our way out, she

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01:24:25,400 --> 01:24:31,160
Speaker 1: right there. She has never betrayed me. She don't backstab me,

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01:24:31,479 --> 01:24:34,400
Speaker 1: she don't talk about me behind my back, and she's

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01:24:34,439 --> 01:24:39,320
Speaker 1: my biggest fan and she cheers for me. Wow, I'm

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01:24:39,400 --> 01:24:43,280
Speaker 1: married to my best friend, and I'm just glad that

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01:24:43,360 --> 01:24:45,240
Speaker 1: I got a couple of brothers on the side. That's

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01:24:45,280 --> 01:24:49,599
Speaker 1: my friends too. Friendship is essential to the soul. It's

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01:24:49,720 --> 01:24:57,040
Speaker 1: really really necessary. My clothes are remarks friendship today by

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Speaker 1: keep it peppery, Hey have a great weekend. That sounds

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01:25:02,280 --> 01:25:11,679
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