1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:04,920 Speaker 1: Check one to check check check. What was that little noise? 2 00:00:04,960 --> 00:00:10,520 Speaker 1: You just nay? Okay, all right, we're recording right now. 3 00:00:10,600 --> 00:00:17,000 Speaker 1: It's advantage. Can you roll your art and good at it? 4 00:00:17,239 --> 00:00:20,880 Speaker 1: Thank you. I'm really good with my tongue. Hey mom, 5 00:00:20,920 --> 00:00:24,160 Speaker 1: what's up? Sorry? Okay? Can I tell you? I did 6 00:00:24,160 --> 00:00:25,960 Speaker 1: hot again today? And I was like, why did I 7 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:29,720 Speaker 1: do this on a day when we're recording. I cannot 8 00:00:29,760 --> 00:00:32,479 Speaker 1: do it. My brain goes to much. I said to 9 00:00:32,520 --> 00:00:34,040 Speaker 1: a friend earlier, I'm like, what is wrong with me? 10 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:35,920 Speaker 1: Why can't I handle this? And she said, you're probably 11 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:39,520 Speaker 1: getting extremely dehydrated and not understanding that. So I drink 12 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:41,560 Speaker 1: a lot of water. I drink a ton of water, 13 00:00:41,600 --> 00:00:44,200 Speaker 1: but I sweat a ship ton in those classes because 14 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:49,320 Speaker 1: I'm very well hydrated. I went to Fahrenheit today, correct. 15 00:00:49,479 --> 00:00:51,959 Speaker 1: I also go to Core Power. I haven't really been 16 00:00:51,960 --> 00:00:54,400 Speaker 1: doing it in the last year because of COVID and stuff, 17 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:56,200 Speaker 1: but I'm really starting to get back into it, and 18 00:00:56,360 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 1: I love this zen aspects. But then I also just 19 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:02,680 Speaker 1: love the stretching because every other exercise class that I 20 00:01:02,720 --> 00:01:04,800 Speaker 1: do just tightens me up, you know, like a Berri's 21 00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:07,760 Speaker 1: or a shed or pure bar even like they just 22 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:13,759 Speaker 1: they tighten you and so titans. Yeah, and it would 23 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:15,840 Speaker 1: have loved to see that. Literally the hardest workout I've 24 00:01:15,880 --> 00:01:18,000 Speaker 1: ever done. About it burns like crazy. People are like, oh, 25 00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:19,480 Speaker 1: you're staying at a bar and I'm like, yeah, come 26 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:23,000 Speaker 1: try yeah, and you do keegel exercises the whole time. Right. 27 00:01:23,959 --> 00:01:26,160 Speaker 1: I was about to go like another comment, but I 28 00:01:26,200 --> 00:01:28,800 Speaker 1: was like, literally, this is out of the gate two 29 00:01:28,840 --> 00:01:33,319 Speaker 1: minutes and Kelly came yourself literally okay, So literally, how 30 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:36,880 Speaker 1: we should do account every time I say literally today 31 00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:40,720 Speaker 1: note in the morning, when you're already drunk at this point, 32 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:44,680 Speaker 1: I guess, get that Bailey's ready, I was. I'm saying 33 00:01:44,680 --> 00:01:46,280 Speaker 1: because it's in the morning when a lot of people 34 00:01:46,280 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 1: listen to this Friday morning Jesus, I was so tired 35 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:52,120 Speaker 1: that I had four cups of coffee after so I 36 00:01:52,200 --> 00:01:55,520 Speaker 1: dehydrated myself even more and I did a liquid ivy. 37 00:01:55,640 --> 00:02:00,680 Speaker 1: So I'm ready to but was from as me in 38 00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:04,120 Speaker 1: brids nats um. Anyway, I can't be held accountable for 39 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 1: what comes out of my mouth because I am on 40 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:08,000 Speaker 1: a buzz like you were last week. It's not an 41 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:11,200 Speaker 1: alcohol buzz, but it wasn't alcohol buzz last week either. 42 00:02:11,240 --> 00:02:14,240 Speaker 1: It's coffee, and I'm drinking coffee right now. You came 43 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:16,240 Speaker 1: in with a hot coffee today, though, that really threw me. 44 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 1: I didn't know how to like. I feel like I 45 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:19,480 Speaker 1: don't know you anymore. I mean, I feel like I 46 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:21,240 Speaker 1: talked about brands on here a lot, and we don't 47 00:02:21,280 --> 00:02:23,360 Speaker 1: get paid by them. So I'm not gonna say the 48 00:02:23,400 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 1: brands anymore if you can avoid it. But Crispy creame 49 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:30,639 Speaker 1: Crispy Creme. I love Christmas. Actually, though I hate that name. 50 00:02:30,680 --> 00:02:32,880 Speaker 1: It really grosses me out. Well, you know, I hate 51 00:02:32,919 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 1: when people spell things with the wrong letter. The two 52 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:39,280 Speaker 1: k's Crispy Cream. It makes you think it's not really cream. 53 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:41,840 Speaker 1: It's get the Kardashians. Well, there used to be when 54 00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:43,760 Speaker 1: I lived in New York. We're going off the rails already, 55 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 1: but whatever. When I lived in New York, there was 56 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:48,679 Speaker 1: a cleaner's called Cleaning Cleaners and it's spelled with k 57 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:51,520 Speaker 1: is and it I was like, no, that is advertising 58 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:55,720 Speaker 1: that my clothes aren't clean. Personal, right, I'm not going 59 00:02:55,800 --> 00:03:00,720 Speaker 1: to that clean anyway. I got Crispy Cream today because 60 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:04,280 Speaker 1: I got hot at Crispy Cream. Because their their ice 61 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:07,160 Speaker 1: coffees aren't very big and I feel like you you 62 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 1: pay all that money and you get a cup full 63 00:03:08,760 --> 00:03:11,639 Speaker 1: of ice coffee. And I don't think anybody's ice coffee 64 00:03:11,680 --> 00:03:13,600 Speaker 1: is as big as that dunk and down Duncan. Dunk 65 00:03:13,919 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 1: just it's just Duncan. Now you gotta drop the donuts. 66 00:03:16,600 --> 00:03:19,240 Speaker 1: Why because they changed their brand. It's just Duncan. That's 67 00:03:19,280 --> 00:03:24,720 Speaker 1: like dripping cream from Crispy Well, call the CEO. Good God, 68 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:28,720 Speaker 1: it's just I think because there's I think they make 69 00:03:28,760 --> 00:03:31,360 Speaker 1: more money on other things. Well, the coffee is like 70 00:03:31,360 --> 00:03:34,720 Speaker 1: a coffee, and the sandwiches and I think they wanted 71 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 1: to they're like that most that's fine. Yeah, they got 72 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:39,440 Speaker 1: like sandwiches. You can buy a bag of bacon it 73 00:03:39,560 --> 00:03:42,920 Speaker 1: Duncan gross. Yeah, I mean for those Keto folks, except 74 00:03:42,920 --> 00:03:45,680 Speaker 1: for its Dalston sugar. Right. I just can't get over 75 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 1: the name Crispy Cream. Like I imagine a glaze donut 76 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:52,320 Speaker 1: in my head when I envisioned this, but like it's 77 00:03:52,320 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 1: not actually a donut. It's just the like remnts of 78 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:56,320 Speaker 1: you know how when a glaze donut gets on your 79 00:03:56,320 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 1: face and what it looks like. Now, like we're talking 80 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:03,360 Speaker 1: about glaze on faces, you guys. Well that's what I'm saying. 81 00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:07,000 Speaker 1: Crispy Cream is so disturbing to me. We're going to 82 00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:09,120 Speaker 1: have to do this in a fact checked type thing, 83 00:04:10,640 --> 00:04:13,120 Speaker 1: but like I'm a fact check Sorry, Susan, is what 84 00:04:13,160 --> 00:04:15,680 Speaker 1: you should be saying. It is weird. I wonder if 85 00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:18,480 Speaker 1: the family's name was Crispy or something that was founded 86 00:04:18,480 --> 00:04:21,120 Speaker 1: by Vernon Rudolph. Like, if that doesn't sound like an 87 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:28,800 Speaker 1: old person, Vernon Rudolf, Vernon Rudolph, I don't know, we 88 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:32,839 Speaker 1: gotta go. So anyway, we were sitting here talking about 89 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 1: what we were going to be the update, what we're 90 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:36,719 Speaker 1: going to be the updates this week. What we just 91 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:40,039 Speaker 1: did actually was nothing that just just happened. So I'm 92 00:04:40,080 --> 00:04:42,839 Speaker 1: sorry you guys were both having too much coffee today. 93 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:44,560 Speaker 1: This is what I feel like. Remember that time I 94 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:46,600 Speaker 1: drank to Martinis when we recorded it and I was like, 95 00:04:47,600 --> 00:04:51,000 Speaker 1: literally should faced, loose lipped is what I was. But 96 00:04:51,120 --> 00:04:52,560 Speaker 1: that's sort of how I feel right now. I don't 97 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:54,400 Speaker 1: feel like I should be held accountable for anything that 98 00:04:54,440 --> 00:04:59,400 Speaker 1: I say today. Mom. That's mostly directed at you. But 99 00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:01,960 Speaker 1: we were talking, We're like, what is our upda going 100 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:03,760 Speaker 1: to be? And you know, our lives are pretty much 101 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:05,840 Speaker 1: the same as they were last three, which is our 102 00:05:05,920 --> 00:05:07,800 Speaker 1: updates are I was on the road this weekend, or 103 00:05:07,839 --> 00:05:09,280 Speaker 1: I wasn't on the road, I was on set or 104 00:05:09,279 --> 00:05:11,080 Speaker 1: blah blah blah, blah blah. And I said, really, the 105 00:05:11,120 --> 00:05:13,400 Speaker 1: only thing that affected me majorly this week was that 106 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:16,320 Speaker 1: Willie Garson die. It made me so sad. I got 107 00:05:16,320 --> 00:05:18,839 Speaker 1: a text from my friend Jen that just said Willie 108 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:23,080 Speaker 1: Carson exclamation point, and I was like, no, because I 109 00:05:23,080 --> 00:05:25,200 Speaker 1: hadn't seen the news. I don't look at the news anymore. 110 00:05:25,520 --> 00:05:28,720 Speaker 1: That's right, but it it's so sad if you're a 111 00:05:28,760 --> 00:05:31,600 Speaker 1: Sex in the City fan. He was Stanford Standy on 112 00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:34,680 Speaker 1: UM Sex in the City and they're actually filming just 113 00:05:34,800 --> 00:05:38,080 Speaker 1: like that, which is the new version, yeah, or the 114 00:05:38,200 --> 00:05:40,960 Speaker 1: updated it's like updating on their lives on HBO Max. 115 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:42,920 Speaker 1: It's supposed to come out like next year. And I 116 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:46,240 Speaker 1: think he was filming with them. So it's been a 117 00:05:46,240 --> 00:05:48,760 Speaker 1: really rough on. He had pancreatic cancer. He was fifty seven, 118 00:05:48,839 --> 00:05:52,360 Speaker 1: like he was really young. Yeah, and just a brilliant actor, 119 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:54,919 Speaker 1: so funny. He was one of my favorites on that show. 120 00:05:54,960 --> 00:05:56,520 Speaker 1: It was so good. I don't know it's gonna be 121 00:05:56,560 --> 00:05:59,360 Speaker 1: like I don't know how they move on Sarah Jessica 122 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:01,600 Speaker 1: Parker has They're gonna have to write it, like I 123 00:06:01,600 --> 00:06:03,480 Speaker 1: think they have to write that he died. Yeah, they'll 124 00:06:03,480 --> 00:06:07,080 Speaker 1: have to write him in in someone. Um when you 125 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:09,760 Speaker 1: said it, like I reacted because I actually knew him, 126 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:12,000 Speaker 1: I didn't know him super well. I'm my friend Jen 127 00:06:12,080 --> 00:06:15,679 Speaker 1: who texted me. She and I, uh, I'm gonna drop 128 00:06:15,720 --> 00:06:17,040 Speaker 1: the name right now. She and I used to live 129 00:06:17,040 --> 00:06:19,280 Speaker 1: with will of Ford. I've known will of for like ever. 130 00:06:19,320 --> 00:06:21,960 Speaker 1: I was a product manager and we were roommates with 131 00:06:21,960 --> 00:06:25,080 Speaker 1: her in Los Angeles and she was dating I want 132 00:06:25,120 --> 00:06:28,240 Speaker 1: to speaking of how this comes full circle. I was 133 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:34,200 Speaker 1: with Willow this weekend, but anyway, because that was like 134 00:06:34,279 --> 00:06:38,599 Speaker 1: a couple of sorry, but she was dating um, the 135 00:06:38,720 --> 00:06:42,120 Speaker 1: UFC fighter Chuck Ladell at the time, and they got 136 00:06:42,200 --> 00:06:46,240 Speaker 1: invited to this like celebrity poker thing and it was 137 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:49,000 Speaker 1: being filmed for Fox Sports in Costa Rica, and they 138 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:52,640 Speaker 1: booke up plus ones. So Jen and I went and 139 00:06:52,760 --> 00:06:55,800 Speaker 1: we didn't have any responsibility, Like there were all these 140 00:06:55,800 --> 00:06:58,279 Speaker 1: celebrities there and they all like I would have to 141 00:06:58,320 --> 00:06:59,880 Speaker 1: film one day, have a day off, but Jen and 142 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:02,320 Speaker 1: just got to be off the whole time. So we 143 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:04,800 Speaker 1: did all of the excursions. We were always drunk by 144 00:07:04,839 --> 00:07:06,280 Speaker 1: the pool. So we got to be friends with all 145 00:07:06,320 --> 00:07:10,960 Speaker 1: of them. And Willie Um, he was so amazingly funny 146 00:07:10,960 --> 00:07:14,680 Speaker 1: and really kind, and like our friendship went beyond that trip, 147 00:07:14,760 --> 00:07:16,320 Speaker 1: like we would go have sushi with him, and we 148 00:07:16,360 --> 00:07:18,280 Speaker 1: would go hang out at his house and then I 149 00:07:18,320 --> 00:07:21,000 Speaker 1: don't know time, just like sort of I hadn't spoken 150 00:07:21,000 --> 00:07:23,320 Speaker 1: to him in years. So it's just like really sad 151 00:07:23,400 --> 00:07:27,080 Speaker 1: because he was like a good soul. Yeah, that's what 152 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:29,480 Speaker 1: everyone says. If you read any articles about him, everyone 153 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:32,720 Speaker 1: is just devastated that knew him. I mean not only 154 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:36,320 Speaker 1: because of just like what a good actor he is, 155 00:07:36,360 --> 00:07:39,440 Speaker 1: but just a great person. You were talking about something 156 00:07:39,440 --> 00:07:41,760 Speaker 1: his son used it, well, he adopted. He adopted a 157 00:07:41,840 --> 00:07:44,720 Speaker 1: seven year old, Like I mean, I think it sounds 158 00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:47,400 Speaker 1: like nineteen or twenty now, but his son, I'm gonna 159 00:07:47,440 --> 00:07:50,880 Speaker 1: read it because it's watch me, I'm gonna cry. His 160 00:07:51,000 --> 00:07:53,800 Speaker 1: name was Nathan Garson. He said, I love you so much, Papa, 161 00:07:53,840 --> 00:07:56,120 Speaker 1: rest in peace. I'm so glad that you got to 162 00:07:56,160 --> 00:07:58,120 Speaker 1: share all of your adventures with me and we're able 163 00:07:58,160 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 1: to accomplish so much. I'm so proud of you. I 164 00:08:00,840 --> 00:08:03,240 Speaker 1: will always love you, but I think it's time for 165 00:08:03,280 --> 00:08:05,400 Speaker 1: you to go on an adventure of your own. You'll 166 00:08:05,440 --> 00:08:07,360 Speaker 1: always be with me. I love you more than you 167 00:08:07,400 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 1: will ever know, and I'm glad that I that you 168 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:12,280 Speaker 1: can be at peace now. You always were the toughest 169 00:08:12,320 --> 00:08:15,320 Speaker 1: and funniest and smartest person I've known. I'm glad you 170 00:08:15,400 --> 00:08:18,040 Speaker 1: shared your love with me. I'll never forget it or 171 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:22,000 Speaker 1: lose it. The journey on your own and the photo, 172 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:25,160 Speaker 1: like it's like a carousela photos, but the first one 173 00:08:25,280 --> 00:08:27,920 Speaker 1: is a picture of Willie like sitting on like a 174 00:08:27,960 --> 00:08:31,440 Speaker 1: cliff overlooking like an ocean of waves, and it's like 175 00:08:31,520 --> 00:08:34,800 Speaker 1: from the back perspective. So it's like, I wonder if 176 00:08:34,840 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 1: it's one of the last photos that, like if they 177 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:39,480 Speaker 1: like went on a trip or something. I don't like 178 00:08:39,559 --> 00:08:42,360 Speaker 1: when you don't know that people are sick and then 179 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:46,320 Speaker 1: they're gone. Didn't Alex Trebek to have pancreatic cancer. I 180 00:08:46,360 --> 00:08:48,960 Speaker 1: think it was, but he was very public about it. 181 00:08:50,480 --> 00:08:52,240 Speaker 1: I mean, it doesn't make it. I mean I think 182 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:54,600 Speaker 1: it's a death sent Like when you get pancreatic they're 183 00:08:54,679 --> 00:08:57,400 Speaker 1: like there's there's no cure to it. Is that colon 184 00:08:57,520 --> 00:09:04,280 Speaker 1: or pancreatic colon. You can get there, okay, panche. Well, 185 00:09:04,480 --> 00:09:06,840 Speaker 1: I'm just thinking about his son and all the people. 186 00:09:06,920 --> 00:09:09,800 Speaker 1: Sara Jessica Parker has not even posted, which everyone from 187 00:09:09,800 --> 00:09:13,080 Speaker 1: the cast is obviously like posted there um like a 188 00:09:13,120 --> 00:09:15,559 Speaker 1: picture of him and their condolences or just like their 189 00:09:15,640 --> 00:09:17,880 Speaker 1: love for him or whatever, and she's been silent. I've 190 00:09:17,880 --> 00:09:19,960 Speaker 1: been checking every day because I'm like, they must. I 191 00:09:19,960 --> 00:09:22,200 Speaker 1: think they were really really close, and so I just 192 00:09:22,240 --> 00:09:24,400 Speaker 1: read an article that was saying that she couldn't even 193 00:09:24,600 --> 00:09:27,679 Speaker 1: process it, she wasn't ready, and so I guess she's 194 00:09:27,679 --> 00:09:31,600 Speaker 1: in a pretty dark place. S JP man, I mean, 195 00:09:31,640 --> 00:09:33,959 Speaker 1: it's so weird you get so attached these people as 196 00:09:33,960 --> 00:09:36,440 Speaker 1: if they are your actual friends, you know, Like I've 197 00:09:36,480 --> 00:09:39,840 Speaker 1: watched every episode of Sex in the City multiple times. 198 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:41,079 Speaker 1: It used to be the show I would watch every 199 00:09:41,120 --> 00:09:43,560 Speaker 1: night before I go to bed, and I genuinely feel 200 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:46,800 Speaker 1: like these people are my friends. Right. It's so weird, though, 201 00:09:46,840 --> 00:09:52,160 Speaker 1: Like when celebrities pass away, sometimes the ones that like 202 00:09:52,240 --> 00:09:55,840 Speaker 1: I have a more viscal reaction visceral reaction to Like 203 00:09:56,120 --> 00:09:59,200 Speaker 1: I'm always surprised by how I react. Yeah, what do 204 00:09:59,240 --> 00:10:02,800 Speaker 1: you mean? Know, Like I don't know, like I have 205 00:10:02,880 --> 00:10:06,439 Speaker 1: this threat. This is gonna sound terrible coming because obviously 206 00:10:06,440 --> 00:10:08,679 Speaker 1: we're having a serious conversation, But I have a thread 207 00:10:08,679 --> 00:10:11,160 Speaker 1: with two friends that like we do this thing where 208 00:10:11,240 --> 00:10:14,400 Speaker 1: win a celebrity dies, like if the if you are 209 00:10:14,400 --> 00:10:15,840 Speaker 1: the first one to know about it, we'll just be 210 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:18,600 Speaker 1: like Willie Garson's dead, and that's it. Like that's how 211 00:10:18,640 --> 00:10:22,200 Speaker 1: we tell each other that it's dark. But like I'll 212 00:10:22,240 --> 00:10:24,600 Speaker 1: get like a billboard email and it'll be someone I've 213 00:10:24,640 --> 00:10:28,400 Speaker 1: never heard, and then I'll be like, you know, Tom 214 00:10:28,520 --> 00:10:33,800 Speaker 1: Collins of Temptations dead? You know that Is this a joke? 215 00:10:33,920 --> 00:10:36,160 Speaker 1: Are we making light of people dying? Is that little 216 00:10:37,559 --> 00:10:39,680 Speaker 1: a little bit? But it's also just the way that 217 00:10:39,720 --> 00:10:41,600 Speaker 1: we inform each other of people who have died. You know, 218 00:10:41,640 --> 00:10:45,520 Speaker 1: we're sharings. This is the new now. It's usually like 219 00:10:45,960 --> 00:10:51,360 Speaker 1: one will hit me where I'm like wait what, Like yeah, 220 00:10:51,480 --> 00:10:55,560 Speaker 1: it's just like I don't know, it's always surprised to me, 221 00:10:55,559 --> 00:10:57,280 Speaker 1: but you just don't know how you're going to feel 222 00:10:57,280 --> 00:11:00,280 Speaker 1: about it, because they are they are removed from your life, 223 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:02,439 Speaker 1: like these characters. Well, it's not like we're going to 224 00:11:02,559 --> 00:11:04,960 Speaker 1: think about Willie Garson every day because it's not like 225 00:11:04,960 --> 00:11:07,640 Speaker 1: he was an active part of our daily live but 226 00:11:07,840 --> 00:11:10,839 Speaker 1: it is like I remember when Robin Williams died. I 227 00:11:10,920 --> 00:11:13,880 Speaker 1: was so taken, but also because of how he died 228 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:16,000 Speaker 1: and just the addiction piece of it, it just it 229 00:11:16,320 --> 00:11:18,640 Speaker 1: really rocked me. Like you said, there's certain people that 230 00:11:18,960 --> 00:11:21,720 Speaker 1: either you can identify with their story in some way 231 00:11:21,920 --> 00:11:24,920 Speaker 1: or like I don't know, you have some connection to 232 00:11:24,960 --> 00:11:27,280 Speaker 1: them that is so nostalgic for you that you just 233 00:11:27,360 --> 00:11:30,360 Speaker 1: can't even process it. And he was kind of one 234 00:11:30,400 --> 00:11:32,679 Speaker 1: of those for me. Well, and you forget that, like 235 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:35,439 Speaker 1: they're real people too. Well, they're real people too, but 236 00:11:35,520 --> 00:11:39,400 Speaker 1: like it's because you want more like what you've had 237 00:11:40,000 --> 00:11:43,560 Speaker 1: from them, Like imagining your life without more of it 238 00:11:43,600 --> 00:11:46,640 Speaker 1: is really sad. But like all of these people that 239 00:11:46,679 --> 00:11:48,920 Speaker 1: I think when we react this way, like we have 240 00:11:49,000 --> 00:11:52,240 Speaker 1: to remind ourselves, like the legacy that they've left, like 241 00:11:52,400 --> 00:11:55,560 Speaker 1: Robin Williams will like they will humans will talk about 242 00:11:55,640 --> 00:11:58,679 Speaker 1: Robin Williams till the end of time. Well I'm literally 243 00:11:58,800 --> 00:12:00,480 Speaker 1: when I watched Sex in the City, you will be 244 00:12:00,559 --> 00:12:02,560 Speaker 1: around for the end of time. Oh my gosh, it 245 00:12:02,600 --> 00:12:06,719 Speaker 1: was a very transformational show. I just like, literally, now 246 00:12:06,760 --> 00:12:09,360 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be so sad. When I watch, I'll probably cry, honestly, 247 00:12:09,679 --> 00:12:12,000 Speaker 1: and they're going to have I bet you they address. 248 00:12:12,200 --> 00:12:14,800 Speaker 1: I bet he died on the show because he probably 249 00:12:14,800 --> 00:12:19,719 Speaker 1: already filmed some Oh my gosh, sad. Well, anyway, I 250 00:12:19,760 --> 00:12:22,959 Speaker 1: guess should we move on to the top. That was 251 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:27,520 Speaker 1: a great transition. Well anyway, speaking of not having topics 252 00:12:27,520 --> 00:12:30,640 Speaker 1: and bad transitions, So we today, Chip and I were 253 00:12:30,679 --> 00:12:32,800 Speaker 1: talking and I did a podcast earlier this week about 254 00:12:32,920 --> 00:12:38,880 Speaker 1: burnout and it's actually really really don't you guys worried? 255 00:12:39,000 --> 00:12:42,640 Speaker 1: Don't you worry? We're not. I couldn't get rid of 256 00:12:42,679 --> 00:12:46,240 Speaker 1: us if you tried, anyway. So I talked earlier this week, 257 00:12:46,280 --> 00:12:48,200 Speaker 1: I did a solo podcast. By the way, I hate 258 00:12:48,400 --> 00:12:50,800 Speaker 1: doing those, but sometimes you gotta do because I had 259 00:12:50,840 --> 00:12:54,280 Speaker 1: something to say, and I have been experiencing burnout UM, 260 00:12:54,679 --> 00:12:56,600 Speaker 1: I don't know, for maybe a little over a year 261 00:12:56,640 --> 00:12:59,560 Speaker 1: now personally, and it's been the COVID thing I think 262 00:12:59,760 --> 00:13:02,000 Speaker 1: is to give me down because I said this a 263 00:13:02,000 --> 00:13:04,200 Speaker 1: million times on this podcast, but I essentially lost my 264 00:13:04,280 --> 00:13:07,280 Speaker 1: job during that time, and so it was very stressful. 265 00:13:07,360 --> 00:13:09,319 Speaker 1: I was lucky enough to be able to stay afloat 266 00:13:09,400 --> 00:13:12,800 Speaker 1: with UM just like a couple of my clients or whatever, 267 00:13:12,840 --> 00:13:15,600 Speaker 1: but it wasn't like it usually is. And then so 268 00:13:15,720 --> 00:13:18,240 Speaker 1: there was that there was just all the stuff we've 269 00:13:18,400 --> 00:13:20,679 Speaker 1: you know, there was multiple things, whether it was the infertility, 270 00:13:20,760 --> 00:13:26,520 Speaker 1: whether it was being annihilated on reality t V, multiple 271 00:13:26,600 --> 00:13:32,400 Speaker 1: multipleat little things like that. Um. But anyway, it has 272 00:13:32,520 --> 00:13:35,720 Speaker 1: pushed me to this place of not even realizing how 273 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:38,360 Speaker 1: hard I was going for so many years because I 274 00:13:38,440 --> 00:13:41,200 Speaker 1: just had to fucking stop because it was way too much. 275 00:13:41,240 --> 00:13:43,200 Speaker 1: And this, you know, all the ship starts to following. 276 00:13:43,520 --> 00:13:45,760 Speaker 1: And I'm not the only one feeling this. I mean, 277 00:13:46,120 --> 00:13:48,040 Speaker 1: I think that there are so many people who went 278 00:13:48,080 --> 00:13:51,439 Speaker 1: through similar things, and the COVID and the pandemic, it's 279 00:13:51,480 --> 00:13:53,760 Speaker 1: constantly weighing on us, but we're acting like that's like 280 00:13:53,800 --> 00:13:56,040 Speaker 1: the only thing right now, and like it's not. There 281 00:13:56,040 --> 00:14:01,880 Speaker 1: have been floods, hurricanes, fires, people lost, tornadoes, There's just 282 00:14:02,000 --> 00:14:04,480 Speaker 1: so much ship that's been happening the last couple of years. 283 00:14:04,480 --> 00:14:08,079 Speaker 1: And so I think we're all to some degree experiencing 284 00:14:08,080 --> 00:14:11,560 Speaker 1: this overwhelming feeling constantly. And then there's the flip side 285 00:14:11,600 --> 00:14:14,240 Speaker 1: where there's other people who their job didn't stop during 286 00:14:14,280 --> 00:14:18,359 Speaker 1: the pandemic and it actually became worse or like yeah, 287 00:14:18,440 --> 00:14:19,680 Speaker 1: and a lot of people like if you work in 288 00:14:19,720 --> 00:14:21,840 Speaker 1: the digital world, you just had to shift and there 289 00:14:21,920 --> 00:14:24,440 Speaker 1: was all these different things, and so the experience I 290 00:14:24,480 --> 00:14:27,080 Speaker 1: read about what that was like the burnout of just 291 00:14:27,200 --> 00:14:30,040 Speaker 1: working and not having the outlets of like seeing your 292 00:14:30,080 --> 00:14:32,200 Speaker 1: friends as easily as you used to, or being able 293 00:14:32,200 --> 00:14:33,480 Speaker 1: to go to a show like you know, like you 294 00:14:33,480 --> 00:14:36,720 Speaker 1: could justify writing that much because you have nothing else 295 00:14:36,760 --> 00:14:39,440 Speaker 1: to do. Yeah, but then you get to burn out 296 00:14:39,520 --> 00:14:43,080 Speaker 1: because we're just if you're not having some sort of outlet, 297 00:14:43,120 --> 00:14:45,560 Speaker 1: we're not wired to just be that way all the time. 298 00:14:45,680 --> 00:14:48,160 Speaker 1: So if you haven't listened to that episode yet, I 299 00:14:48,160 --> 00:14:50,400 Speaker 1: gave some tips that have really been helping me to 300 00:14:50,600 --> 00:14:53,760 Speaker 1: get out of kind of that little like system, and 301 00:14:54,440 --> 00:14:57,200 Speaker 1: um one of them was like to really put things 302 00:14:57,200 --> 00:14:59,480 Speaker 1: into place every week to look forward to. And I 303 00:14:59,560 --> 00:15:02,040 Speaker 1: love or coarding this with you. I think we always 304 00:15:02,040 --> 00:15:03,640 Speaker 1: are like this is just one of the fun parts 305 00:15:03,640 --> 00:15:05,480 Speaker 1: of our week. It's a time where we actually get 306 00:15:05,480 --> 00:15:07,440 Speaker 1: to see each other no matter what's going on in 307 00:15:07,440 --> 00:15:15,920 Speaker 1: our lives. But we've both lately kind of been like, 308 00:15:16,360 --> 00:15:17,440 Speaker 1: what do you want to talk about this week? But 309 00:15:17,600 --> 00:15:21,720 Speaker 1: I also stopped reading the news, which is like, yeah, 310 00:15:21,760 --> 00:15:24,560 Speaker 1: how do you record a podcast if you don't know 311 00:15:24,600 --> 00:15:28,520 Speaker 1: what the a the stone over here all of a 312 00:15:28,520 --> 00:15:32,040 Speaker 1: sudden um. But so we decided it was time to 313 00:15:32,160 --> 00:15:34,800 Speaker 1: kind of put a format together for the Edge, which 314 00:15:34,840 --> 00:15:36,600 Speaker 1: you know, it's probably been a long time coming. But 315 00:15:37,120 --> 00:15:39,320 Speaker 1: so here's the deal. This is what we're gonna do, 316 00:15:39,480 --> 00:15:41,240 Speaker 1: and we do want you guys feedback, but this is 317 00:15:41,240 --> 00:15:44,360 Speaker 1: what we think would be really fun for us. And 318 00:15:44,640 --> 00:15:47,280 Speaker 1: unless you guys come with some like really amazing ideas, 319 00:15:47,280 --> 00:15:48,840 Speaker 1: this is what we're going to start starting next week, 320 00:15:48,880 --> 00:15:52,320 Speaker 1: which is October, going into the new Flu. Okay, one 321 00:15:52,320 --> 00:15:54,800 Speaker 1: of the things Chip has consistently brought up to me 322 00:15:54,920 --> 00:15:57,360 Speaker 1: for the past couple of months is that you really 323 00:15:57,400 --> 00:16:00,200 Speaker 1: want to interview people. I want to interview people. First ball, 324 00:16:00,280 --> 00:16:04,640 Speaker 1: It's it's kind of because you're obsessed with Zaximonica. Like 325 00:16:04,680 --> 00:16:06,080 Speaker 1: I listen, you know, it's like when I go to 326 00:16:06,160 --> 00:16:08,840 Speaker 1: a concert, I'm like, I could do that, you feel 327 00:16:08,840 --> 00:16:11,760 Speaker 1: like sometimes but of course I don't, you know what 328 00:16:11,800 --> 00:16:14,040 Speaker 1: I mean. But when I listen to them, I was like, 329 00:16:14,320 --> 00:16:16,960 Speaker 1: I'm so obsessed with it, Like I am literally like 330 00:16:17,000 --> 00:16:21,280 Speaker 1: you really are They're really And I also like they're 331 00:16:21,360 --> 00:16:25,040 Speaker 1: fucking really good at their job. They're really good, but 332 00:16:25,080 --> 00:16:26,800 Speaker 1: I have to believe that they probably weren't in the 333 00:16:26,920 --> 00:16:29,800 Speaker 1: very beginning. You get better every time you do typically. 334 00:16:29,880 --> 00:16:31,960 Speaker 1: I mean, trust me, I'll never forget the first time 335 00:16:32,000 --> 00:16:36,440 Speaker 1: that I did this, and I was like deer in headlos. 336 00:16:38,120 --> 00:16:41,640 Speaker 1: Every week Chip walks into my house and he says, 337 00:16:41,960 --> 00:16:44,400 Speaker 1: oh my god, it's so on Jaximonica this week, like 338 00:16:44,680 --> 00:16:46,880 Speaker 1: and or he'll be like, so I was listening, and 339 00:16:46,880 --> 00:16:49,520 Speaker 1: he'll catch himself and he won't want to say what 340 00:16:49,600 --> 00:16:52,200 Speaker 1: podcast it is to be like it was, And I'm like, oh, 341 00:16:52,360 --> 00:16:56,120 Speaker 1: let me guess, expert. But you are like number one 342 00:16:56,160 --> 00:16:58,080 Speaker 1: super fan. I'm surprised you don't have some merch. Oh, 343 00:16:58,240 --> 00:17:00,520 Speaker 1: by the way, he probably does. Just that. You're about 344 00:17:00,520 --> 00:17:02,640 Speaker 1: to jump in and say, now, I'm an episode that 345 00:17:02,680 --> 00:17:05,080 Speaker 1: I listened to you yesterday Monica talked about pooping her 346 00:17:05,080 --> 00:17:07,880 Speaker 1: almost pooping her pants, and I'm like, oh, I've been there, 347 00:17:07,920 --> 00:17:12,920 Speaker 1: done that. You shouldsider the episode and be like and 348 00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:15,480 Speaker 1: ideas of Monica like she thought she pup her pants, 349 00:17:16,600 --> 00:17:20,919 Speaker 1: Like actually, actually, if you haven't listened to that episode, 350 00:17:20,920 --> 00:17:25,760 Speaker 1: you should probably go back and do thatts ship. Um, 351 00:17:25,920 --> 00:17:28,520 Speaker 1: So you've been saying I want to interview people. So 352 00:17:28,560 --> 00:17:31,399 Speaker 1: we decided another thing is for me, I used to 353 00:17:31,440 --> 00:17:35,160 Speaker 1: interview a lot of musicians and celebrities, and what I 354 00:17:35,200 --> 00:17:37,680 Speaker 1: really feel guided to on the velvet part of this 355 00:17:37,880 --> 00:17:40,440 Speaker 1: is going on the more spiritual journey and all of 356 00:17:40,480 --> 00:17:43,720 Speaker 1: the weird, interesting people that I've met and like continue 357 00:17:43,760 --> 00:17:46,960 Speaker 1: to meet that are opening up my life and expanding 358 00:17:47,119 --> 00:17:51,320 Speaker 1: my spirituality, my relationship with myself, my relationship with others. 359 00:17:51,560 --> 00:17:54,119 Speaker 1: It's fascinating to me, and I love talking to those people, 360 00:17:54,200 --> 00:17:57,919 Speaker 1: whether it's like a therapist, a psychologist, or an astrologer 361 00:17:58,000 --> 00:18:00,520 Speaker 1: or anything like that. Like I'm constantly doing that in 362 00:18:00,560 --> 00:18:01,680 Speaker 1: my own life, and so that's what I want to 363 00:18:01,680 --> 00:18:03,680 Speaker 1: talk about on the velvet. But I do think people 364 00:18:03,760 --> 00:18:06,480 Speaker 1: probably miss some of the celebrity aspects of this. And 365 00:18:06,560 --> 00:18:09,720 Speaker 1: so you and I talked about, well, let's get controversial 366 00:18:09,760 --> 00:18:12,360 Speaker 1: people on here. Yeah, just edgier people, and I don't 367 00:18:12,160 --> 00:18:13,920 Speaker 1: want I don't want to do the same interview that 368 00:18:13,960 --> 00:18:16,400 Speaker 1: other people are doing. Like that's right, Granted, like these 369 00:18:16,400 --> 00:18:19,480 Speaker 1: people they go on cycles to do interviews because they've 370 00:18:19,480 --> 00:18:22,000 Speaker 1: got a book to promote, a movie, of a record 371 00:18:22,119 --> 00:18:25,280 Speaker 1: or whatever it is. And yeah, we'll mention that, but 372 00:18:25,400 --> 00:18:27,280 Speaker 1: like I want to talk I want them to sort 373 00:18:27,280 --> 00:18:29,040 Speaker 1: of fit into the format of what we do and 374 00:18:29,080 --> 00:18:33,159 Speaker 1: like sort of get under the like a little yeah. 375 00:18:33,200 --> 00:18:36,200 Speaker 1: I mean it's like I would imagine they would enjoy 376 00:18:36,400 --> 00:18:38,680 Speaker 1: Like you just saw it yourself. You were about to 377 00:18:38,760 --> 00:18:41,520 Speaker 1: Reverence Dax Amount. I was like, I don't know why 378 00:18:41,640 --> 00:18:45,120 Speaker 1: she was in my head, but like Reese Witherspoontine, could 379 00:18:45,160 --> 00:18:48,000 Speaker 1: you imagine getting to talk to her about something like, 380 00:18:48,160 --> 00:18:50,720 Speaker 1: I mean, you really just shop for the stars? Well, 381 00:18:50,760 --> 00:18:56,479 Speaker 1: she lives in Nashville. Brother, Yeah, let's get him. That's 382 00:18:56,520 --> 00:18:58,560 Speaker 1: what it was like. Let's find out what it was like. 383 00:18:58,760 --> 00:19:00,600 Speaker 1: Do you remember when Reese got that? Do you? I 384 00:19:00,680 --> 00:19:03,800 Speaker 1: can you tell us about that? But getting them to 385 00:19:03,840 --> 00:19:05,800 Speaker 1: talk about sex and some of the things that we 386 00:19:06,000 --> 00:19:09,480 Speaker 1: talk about, um, that they're not talking about in normal interviews, 387 00:19:09,720 --> 00:19:11,720 Speaker 1: that's kind of where my head's at. I like to 388 00:19:11,800 --> 00:19:13,879 Speaker 1: do that too, because I also like to hear real stories, 389 00:19:13,920 --> 00:19:16,440 Speaker 1: like I had Jason and Brittany Aldine on the podcast. 390 00:19:16,720 --> 00:19:19,200 Speaker 1: This is way back in the day when I first started. Um, 391 00:19:19,320 --> 00:19:21,960 Speaker 1: Jason has been a condom mine forever. But I talked 392 00:19:22,000 --> 00:19:24,800 Speaker 1: to them about the affair stuff and like it was 393 00:19:24,840 --> 00:19:28,280 Speaker 1: actually one of the most. I got the most feedback 394 00:19:28,320 --> 00:19:32,920 Speaker 1: from that episode because it showed the human side of them. Like, 395 00:19:33,080 --> 00:19:35,199 Speaker 1: I mean, I've obviously known them for a long time, 396 00:19:35,240 --> 00:19:37,240 Speaker 1: so I have a different relationship with them to where 397 00:19:37,240 --> 00:19:39,480 Speaker 1: I had seen that side of them. But I wanted 398 00:19:39,560 --> 00:19:41,520 Speaker 1: other people because I think you get so villainized with 399 00:19:41,560 --> 00:19:44,000 Speaker 1: stuff and I'm not. They both were like, that wasn't 400 00:19:44,040 --> 00:19:46,120 Speaker 1: the right thing to do, obviously, and I'm not trying 401 00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:50,400 Speaker 1: to condone that either. However, everyone is human, and so 402 00:19:50,520 --> 00:19:52,800 Speaker 1: it's like we kind of want to see these different 403 00:19:53,040 --> 00:19:56,119 Speaker 1: sides of people to then make a better judge for 404 00:19:56,160 --> 00:19:58,359 Speaker 1: the elephant in the room. Like, well, I was like, 405 00:19:59,240 --> 00:20:01,879 Speaker 1: everyone need to hear what they had to say about it. 406 00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:04,080 Speaker 1: They never talked about it. They did it with me 407 00:20:04,080 --> 00:20:06,040 Speaker 1: because they know me. Yeah, and it's like but it's 408 00:20:06,040 --> 00:20:08,720 Speaker 1: also like what a weight it must have been to 409 00:20:08,800 --> 00:20:11,080 Speaker 1: like just sucking be like, Okay, we have that conversation. 410 00:20:11,600 --> 00:20:13,480 Speaker 1: If you want to hear about it, go listen to 411 00:20:13,480 --> 00:20:15,800 Speaker 1: the Velvet Edge. Yeah you know, well that's what Bratty said. 412 00:20:15,840 --> 00:20:17,720 Speaker 1: She was like, thank you for just giving us a 413 00:20:17,760 --> 00:20:19,600 Speaker 1: place to talk about this in a way that we 414 00:20:19,600 --> 00:20:24,040 Speaker 1: weren't like being completely demonized So anyway, that's our goal. 415 00:20:24,119 --> 00:20:26,440 Speaker 1: That's going to be one week of the month. Every 416 00:20:26,480 --> 00:20:29,239 Speaker 1: every month, we'll have one interview with someone who we 417 00:20:29,280 --> 00:20:31,800 Speaker 1: find to be edgy and exciting. And if you guys 418 00:20:31,800 --> 00:20:36,720 Speaker 1: have any interest in certain people or you have uh 419 00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:39,159 Speaker 1: interview ideas for us, send them over. Yeah. I mean 420 00:20:39,200 --> 00:20:41,720 Speaker 1: if there's like a celebrity that you know, like an 421 00:20:41,840 --> 00:20:44,160 Speaker 1: edgy story about that you want to know more about, 422 00:20:44,240 --> 00:20:46,639 Speaker 1: Like in general, you don't want to know more about 423 00:20:46,720 --> 00:20:50,600 Speaker 1: certain people, Yeah, messages. We should get Tommy Leon and 424 00:20:50,640 --> 00:20:53,719 Speaker 1: talk about because you know, everyone says so huge, like 425 00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:57,080 Speaker 1: talk about that, like how that's affected his career, How 426 00:20:57,080 --> 00:21:00,720 Speaker 1: has having a huge dick affected your drumming? How do 427 00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:08,760 Speaker 1: you sit? Oh my god, how do you think it's disgusting? 428 00:21:08,880 --> 00:21:13,640 Speaker 1: It was so fucking disgusting. Good god. Okay, so one 429 00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:15,800 Speaker 1: week is going to be interviews. The other thing we 430 00:21:16,040 --> 00:21:18,879 Speaker 1: really really missed and we didn't realize we missed this 431 00:21:19,000 --> 00:21:21,760 Speaker 1: so much, is connecting with you guys in like a 432 00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:24,840 Speaker 1: way of you're sending us your stories like a Britney 433 00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:28,480 Speaker 1: story about you know, breaking her jar or whatever she's dislocating, 434 00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:31,120 Speaker 1: pruising that throat when she was giving a blow job. 435 00:21:31,200 --> 00:21:33,040 Speaker 1: That was one of our listeners. I feel like that 436 00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:35,640 Speaker 1: was like a really educational moment and a lot of people, 437 00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:37,800 Speaker 1: Oh my god. So many people were like, thank you. 438 00:21:38,160 --> 00:21:40,040 Speaker 1: I don't want to go to the dentist now after 439 00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:42,320 Speaker 1: he's a family friend, you know, I need to make 440 00:21:42,359 --> 00:21:44,399 Speaker 1: sure I'm like acting on my piece. And well, I 441 00:21:44,440 --> 00:21:47,080 Speaker 1: think I've mentioned this before on here, but my coworker 442 00:21:47,280 --> 00:21:49,880 Speaker 1: her father is a dentist, and she was like, she's 443 00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:54,000 Speaker 1: a religious listener to this shout out now, but girl, 444 00:21:54,160 --> 00:21:57,920 Speaker 1: she was like, are you kidding me? Yeah, so you're welcoyeah, Yeah, 445 00:21:58,040 --> 00:22:00,440 Speaker 1: you're welcome for fun facts like that. So what we're 446 00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:03,400 Speaker 1: bringing back one week is the sex and dating questions 447 00:22:03,480 --> 00:22:06,959 Speaker 1: because one, they're funny to talk about, but to you 448 00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:09,720 Speaker 1: guys right in with such good questions and such good 449 00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:12,639 Speaker 1: topic ideas that are so relevant, and it's the stuff 450 00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:14,399 Speaker 1: that we want to sit around and talk about like 451 00:22:14,440 --> 00:22:17,280 Speaker 1: we would talk about with our friends. Again, we're not experts, 452 00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:19,439 Speaker 1: but if we do get a question where we feel 453 00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:21,360 Speaker 1: like maybe we should call on an expert, maybe that's 454 00:22:21,359 --> 00:22:23,320 Speaker 1: the next interview. So it can work in all these 455 00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:25,640 Speaker 1: different ways, but we do miss connecting with you guys 456 00:22:25,640 --> 00:22:27,240 Speaker 1: that way, because that would be I mean, we would 457 00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:31,040 Speaker 1: get blown up with questions and just stories and the 458 00:22:31,119 --> 00:22:34,680 Speaker 1: topics are just fun and funny, and I do feel 459 00:22:34,680 --> 00:22:37,080 Speaker 1: like we're interacting with you guys way more that way, 460 00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:39,720 Speaker 1: so because it really it feels like the emails we 461 00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:41,720 Speaker 1: get now are about how much people love us, which 462 00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:47,800 Speaker 1: thank you that. It's really refreshing for me because for 463 00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:50,400 Speaker 1: a minute, they're all the dms like that we're real negative. 464 00:22:50,560 --> 00:22:54,200 Speaker 1: So this is really great to have people talking about that. 465 00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:55,840 Speaker 1: We're you know, like fun to listen to on a 466 00:22:55,880 --> 00:22:57,760 Speaker 1: Friday morning, and that's what we want to bring to 467 00:22:57,800 --> 00:23:00,399 Speaker 1: you guys, and we want to know about y'all. Like 468 00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:02,320 Speaker 1: that's like one of the things that I've really missed 469 00:23:02,320 --> 00:23:04,600 Speaker 1: the most is connecting on that way. So we have 470 00:23:04,640 --> 00:23:07,480 Speaker 1: an interview week, we have a sex and Dating podcast week. 471 00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:10,919 Speaker 1: The third third thing we're gonna do is called right 472 00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:15,359 Speaker 1: now throwback Friday. You want to explain the back Friday. 473 00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:19,240 Speaker 1: It's going to be where we dig back into Kelly's 474 00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:24,600 Speaker 1: like the velvet side of things and sort of expand 475 00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:27,560 Speaker 1: upon certain topics. Certain topics it could be some of 476 00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:29,720 Speaker 1: the stuff that I mentioned earlier, like maybe you were 477 00:23:29,720 --> 00:23:32,200 Speaker 1: talking about astrology and you're like, yeah, what the funk 478 00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:34,520 Speaker 1: is this? Or like you have some questions about something, 479 00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:36,440 Speaker 1: or it could be some of the old celebrity podcasts 480 00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:38,000 Speaker 1: I did you want to expand on a certain thing 481 00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:42,760 Speaker 1: that they said? Um, But that way we can give 482 00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:44,719 Speaker 1: our opinions on some of the stuff that comes up, 483 00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:46,960 Speaker 1: because sometimes my mom will be blown in an interview 484 00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:48,320 Speaker 1: and I want to look at you and be like, 485 00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:51,000 Speaker 1: oh my god, let's say something, but I have no 486 00:23:51,040 --> 00:23:53,199 Speaker 1: one to share that with, and then the person I'm interviewing, 487 00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:56,800 Speaker 1: I can't be like that's fucking crazy, you know. So 488 00:23:56,880 --> 00:23:58,480 Speaker 1: you and I can kind of dissect things in a 489 00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:00,840 Speaker 1: different way, and then it's you. You'll get one more 490 00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:02,480 Speaker 1: listen on each of this episodes because I have to 491 00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:06,480 Speaker 1: go back and listen to you think really that one 492 00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:13,200 Speaker 1: extra you guys, Sorry, that's actually trying to yall. Well, 493 00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:15,200 Speaker 1: we're suing I heard. I don't know if you remember 494 00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:20,320 Speaker 1: we're suing them. Save up, We're not really sueing I heard. 495 00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:22,600 Speaker 1: If you missed that last week, back to listen, Chip 496 00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:27,440 Speaker 1: had a little coffeed up, you know, Diary of the Mouth. 497 00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:32,680 Speaker 1: The final thing we're gonna do is do a trending week, 498 00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:35,160 Speaker 1: which is just going to be anything in pop culture 499 00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:38,359 Speaker 1: that's trending. There's so many weird things that happened. It 500 00:24:38,359 --> 00:24:41,560 Speaker 1: could be political, sometimes not in political, and like we're 501 00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:45,440 Speaker 1: going to be overly giving our opinions, although sometimes Chip 502 00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:50,399 Speaker 1: has a hard time, but just topical things, you know, 503 00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:52,320 Speaker 1: anything that's happening in the news. So you may have 504 00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:55,719 Speaker 1: to you know, read the news and Chip but somewhat 505 00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:58,800 Speaker 1: and I can I guess filter for you. Well, I'll 506 00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:01,719 Speaker 1: happily research something. If you say Britney Spears got into 507 00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:03,960 Speaker 1: a car accident and lost a leg, why would you 508 00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:06,639 Speaker 1: even say that? You just fucking manifest our girl. Britney 509 00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:10,160 Speaker 1: has been through enough. I just knocked on would He's 510 00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:13,320 Speaker 1: not going. There is stuff that happened with Britney Spears 511 00:25:13,359 --> 00:25:15,280 Speaker 1: this week, but she's back on the Grand and that's 512 00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:17,800 Speaker 1: all that matters. Speaking of Brittany, I saw me I 513 00:25:17,840 --> 00:25:19,840 Speaker 1: saw something the other I mean that was like Happy 514 00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:24,359 Speaker 1: Father's Day to everyone, but but Jamie Spears. Yeah, actually 515 00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:26,800 Speaker 1: it said except for Brittany's dad. Yeah, I mean that 516 00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:29,479 Speaker 1: was like but I hadn't seen it. I hadn't seen it. 517 00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:34,159 Speaker 1: Father's Day was in June I know it September. I 518 00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:36,399 Speaker 1: don't even know why it showed up. He's like, oh 519 00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:38,639 Speaker 1: my god, this is me. Maybe it was a sticker. 520 00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:42,800 Speaker 1: Maybe I saw a sticker of it. That's three months 521 00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:47,439 Speaker 1: too late. Anyway, those are Father's Day of Father's Is 522 00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:51,400 Speaker 1: that right? Okay? That was so cheesy. Um. I hope 523 00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:54,080 Speaker 1: you guys love those ideas. If you have different ideas 524 00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:56,440 Speaker 1: or don't love those ideas, or do love those ideas, 525 00:25:56,720 --> 00:26:00,280 Speaker 1: email us at the edge at elvisedge dot com or 526 00:26:00,320 --> 00:26:01,920 Speaker 1: you can. I was about to do a thing. You 527 00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:04,000 Speaker 1: can slide into my d M s at Velvet's Edge, 528 00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:08,920 Speaker 1: chip is at chip doorsh Well, I wanted to see 529 00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:11,480 Speaker 1: if you were inviting me to do it. You're always 530 00:26:12,080 --> 00:26:17,639 Speaker 1: d r s h Um. I do have a listener 531 00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:21,080 Speaker 1: couple listener emails. I want to drain. Please let me 532 00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:24,000 Speaker 1: get to these. I'm actually really excited about our new format. 533 00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:27,080 Speaker 1: Sometimes I just need guidelines. You know, we were thinking 534 00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:32,520 Speaker 1: about calling Throwback Friday, what was it Throwback third Day 535 00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:34,679 Speaker 1: because we were thinking we would do the third Friday 536 00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:37,320 Speaker 1: of every month that's about me, and that boxes me 537 00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:40,760 Speaker 1: and boxes me, and let's do back Friday, Throwback Friday 538 00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:44,960 Speaker 1: and we'll have to. We'll we'll wear our wigs. We're 539 00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:46,879 Speaker 1: gonna wear friends. I'm gonna wear about I've got this 540 00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:49,600 Speaker 1: orange one that I have for when I was Pumpkin 541 00:26:49,640 --> 00:27:01,399 Speaker 1: Spice for Halloweens. Oh this costume? Did you want to 542 00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:03,800 Speaker 1: tell the listeners you just keep Spice. I think I've 543 00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:05,760 Speaker 1: talked about on here and then I couldn't find a photo, 544 00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:08,520 Speaker 1: so it's like it was like talking for them again. 545 00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:11,639 Speaker 1: Oh no, I didn't. I just talked to you about it. 546 00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:14,800 Speaker 1: I dressed as a spice girl named Pumpkins the fifth 547 00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:18,199 Speaker 1: I was a six spice girl was Pumpkin Spice, and 548 00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:22,000 Speaker 1: then he had an orange friendkin costume. That's actually it's 549 00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:25,480 Speaker 1: my purse was a pumpkin I made like a bride. 550 00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:29,760 Speaker 1: I literally sewed that British flag dress. Yeah, I was 551 00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:33,320 Speaker 1: killed epic Pumpkin Spice. So we're gonna wear Froze and 552 00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:37,320 Speaker 1: record throwbackback Friday. Well we'll see about that. That's TBD 553 00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:41,320 Speaker 1: for me. Okay. Um. This email we got actually today, 554 00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:43,560 Speaker 1: This one came from Nicole. She said, Hey, Kelly and Chip, 555 00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:45,920 Speaker 1: I love listening to you every week. The last two 556 00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:49,480 Speaker 1: podcasts about small Talk and burnout related to me so much. 557 00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:51,560 Speaker 1: I felt like you were saying everything I've been feeling. 558 00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:54,640 Speaker 1: Work in radiology at my hometown hospital in this past 559 00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:57,320 Speaker 1: year has been the hardest. Working with COVID patients that 560 00:27:57,400 --> 00:28:00,680 Speaker 1: I know that I know has really taken a toll 561 00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:04,320 Speaker 1: former teachers, family friends, etcetera. Knowing I'm one of the 562 00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:06,440 Speaker 1: last people they see is the worst feeling. When I 563 00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:09,200 Speaker 1: know their families feel so helpless. I can't imagine talk 564 00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:13,199 Speaker 1: about burnout. My perspective on life has changed drastically. I 565 00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:15,199 Speaker 1: can't do small talk anymore, and my friend group is 566 00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:18,200 Speaker 1: the smallest it's been. I'm learning to truly enjoy small 567 00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:20,760 Speaker 1: things like watching my nephew, who was a senior kickbot 568 00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:23,359 Speaker 1: on a football field every Friday night. Anyway, I just 569 00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:25,560 Speaker 1: wanted to thank you both for your insights and conversations. 570 00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:29,040 Speaker 1: I look forward to listening every week. We talked about 571 00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:30,800 Speaker 1: that last week a little bit. I said that a 572 00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:32,800 Speaker 1: friend of mine and I found out the color of 573 00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:40,200 Speaker 1: a man's pubes because because I can no longer, we 574 00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:43,960 Speaker 1: went deep. I guess would be the way to say, sure, 575 00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:48,360 Speaker 1: that's what he'd like to say. Um, he was much 576 00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:51,240 Speaker 1: older than me, and not anyone i'd ever be interested 577 00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:54,120 Speaker 1: in anyway. I do feel like small talk has done 578 00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:57,120 Speaker 1: for me. This is this period of life has really 579 00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:59,000 Speaker 1: taken its toll, and that was one of the things 580 00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:01,360 Speaker 1: that I will say, all right've you too, yes? Do 581 00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:03,560 Speaker 1: you have any insight on that? Well? I mean what 582 00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:05,200 Speaker 1: did she say that she does at a hospital and 583 00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:08,760 Speaker 1: she had nurses? Nurse? Yeah, I mean talking about burnout 584 00:29:08,800 --> 00:29:10,800 Speaker 1: like that. I feel like that would probably be the 585 00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:14,640 Speaker 1: job that's had the most burnout because I mean, there 586 00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:18,000 Speaker 1: has been no break, so it's like the only option 587 00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:20,040 Speaker 1: is to be like I'm fucking done any health care 588 00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:25,240 Speaker 1: and then like the I can only imagine this because 589 00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:27,760 Speaker 1: I don't really know any nurses that are like I 590 00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:31,000 Speaker 1: know some like nurse practitioners that don't work in hospitals, 591 00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:36,560 Speaker 1: but like feeling like you're literally at the cliff's edge 592 00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:38,880 Speaker 1: being like I cannot do this anymore. But then you're 593 00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:41,080 Speaker 1: letting so many people down by like giving up to 594 00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:44,320 Speaker 1: like it's I mean, it's crazy, like how are they 595 00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:46,920 Speaker 1: putting one ft in front of the other. It's exhausting. 596 00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:50,000 Speaker 1: So I commend, I commender, oh my gosh, yes, all 597 00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:51,760 Speaker 1: of our love and line out to you guys. Thank 598 00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:53,720 Speaker 1: you so much for listening. And seriously, I'm glad that 599 00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:55,920 Speaker 1: we can bring any joyity'all's life. So thanks for keeping 600 00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:57,840 Speaker 1: these emails coming. It really does help us to know 601 00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:01,640 Speaker 1: that we're connecting with you guys. Um this one. I 602 00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:06,120 Speaker 1: loved this message. This came into my d M from Jackie. 603 00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:10,520 Speaker 1: Jackie says, Kelly, I'm dying laughing at Friday's podcast conversation 604 00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:13,640 Speaker 1: around great haired carpets and drapes. This is what I 605 00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:16,560 Speaker 1: was just referencing about pubes at the bar. I can 606 00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:19,960 Speaker 1: confirm the carpet does not match the drapes, both for 607 00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:23,360 Speaker 1: men and women. My husband will get a straggler down there, 608 00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:26,240 Speaker 1: very very rarely. But both of us are black on 609 00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:29,800 Speaker 1: bottom and going white on top, a little oreo sich 610 00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:32,280 Speaker 1: if you will. And she sent me a picture. How 611 00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:34,560 Speaker 1: cute are they? Oh my god? You really she sent 612 00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:35,920 Speaker 1: me a picture. I was like, I don't know that. 613 00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:37,840 Speaker 1: I want to look. He covered his eyes. I think 614 00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:39,880 Speaker 1: it was gonna be the pews. Jackie would be really 615 00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:41,840 Speaker 1: aggressive if she sent me a picture of her pews. 616 00:30:42,600 --> 00:30:45,800 Speaker 1: She's like, I'm just gonna trust her on that. But 617 00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:49,479 Speaker 1: they both have a little white on top, a little gray, Well, 618 00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:54,520 Speaker 1: already moved, already moved. Sorry, you'll have to check. Um. Yeah, 619 00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:59,840 Speaker 1: they're super cute. And she said they're dark downstairs, dark downstairs. Yeah. 620 00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:02,520 Speaker 1: Fun fact. Forever, every time you're starting to feel old, 621 00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:08,840 Speaker 1: just look at your out. Yeah. This one comes from Erica. 622 00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:10,800 Speaker 1: This is actually a question. She said, have you and 623 00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:13,120 Speaker 1: Chip ever talked about making friends as adult on the 624 00:31:13,320 --> 00:31:16,600 Speaker 1: on the podcast? Why is it so hard? My introverts 625 00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:18,840 Speaker 1: self wants friends but wants to die at the thought 626 00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:21,120 Speaker 1: of talking to strangers and fears the rejection of people 627 00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:24,200 Speaker 1: not wanting to hang out with me. That's really interesting. 628 00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:26,520 Speaker 1: I think we should how we address I thought we 629 00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:30,480 Speaker 1: had I don't know friends as making friends as adults. 630 00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:33,480 Speaker 1: I think maybe we mentioned it within part of it 631 00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:36,520 Speaker 1: maybe a dating podcast, because like Bumble has Bumble friends 632 00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:39,680 Speaker 1: and so those can sometimes be options. I've got a 633 00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:42,600 Speaker 1: little anecdote for that. So last night, I have friends 634 00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:44,160 Speaker 1: that are in from out of town. There's a festival 635 00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:46,960 Speaker 1: happening and tow him right now called Americana Fest, and 636 00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:49,520 Speaker 1: it's my friends always stay with me. Anyway, we went 637 00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:52,520 Speaker 1: to a bar last night and um, we were ordering 638 00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:54,520 Speaker 1: drinks and we had to like sort of saddle up 639 00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:58,080 Speaker 1: next to some guy that was already sitting there and um, 640 00:31:58,080 --> 00:31:59,640 Speaker 1: and we weren't going to be staying that. We were 641 00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:01,479 Speaker 1: just like eating for our drinks and he was like, 642 00:32:01,560 --> 00:32:03,680 Speaker 1: you all have great energy, and like I said, like, 643 00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:05,560 Speaker 1: really nice, thanks to us, and he was like sorry, 644 00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:09,320 Speaker 1: mud and like talking to strangers. And I was like, 645 00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:12,720 Speaker 1: how funny is it that, like you just apologized for 646 00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:15,800 Speaker 1: saying something nice? You know what I mean? I was like, 647 00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:18,720 Speaker 1: I just want to acknowledge that that was what because 648 00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:21,120 Speaker 1: it was what he said was you know, most people 649 00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:23,240 Speaker 1: are like, hey, I like your jacket and it's like that, 650 00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:28,680 Speaker 1: but he said something that like it was truly meaningful 651 00:32:28,800 --> 00:32:32,000 Speaker 1: what he said, and like a clear observation. Yeah, And 652 00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:34,000 Speaker 1: I was like that was really nice. It made my day, 653 00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:36,720 Speaker 1: thank you, Like, don't apologize for saying nice things? Like 654 00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:39,200 Speaker 1: where did why did we arrive at a place that 655 00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:40,800 Speaker 1: it's like weird to say nice things that people that 656 00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:42,600 Speaker 1: you don't know. I think you know what I think 657 00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:46,120 Speaker 1: it is Seriously, I've thought about this with our younger generations. 658 00:32:46,720 --> 00:32:50,440 Speaker 1: So much happens virtually now or like you're so glued 659 00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:52,880 Speaker 1: into your phone. I do not think that we know 660 00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:55,760 Speaker 1: how to be vulnerable, vulnerable with other people in the 661 00:32:55,800 --> 00:32:58,320 Speaker 1: same capacity that we may be used to because I 662 00:32:58,320 --> 00:33:00,320 Speaker 1: think people are so like used to have having some 663 00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:03,160 Speaker 1: sort of barrier of a screen or just being able 664 00:33:03,200 --> 00:33:04,440 Speaker 1: to pick up their phone, and they don't want to 665 00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:06,480 Speaker 1: talk to a stranger anymore and just kind of scrolling 666 00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:08,640 Speaker 1: somewhere even when you're out in public, like when you 667 00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:10,480 Speaker 1: sit at you go to a restaurant by yourself. A 668 00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:12,200 Speaker 1: lot of times you sit at the bar right and 669 00:33:12,240 --> 00:33:14,480 Speaker 1: you'll just like get on your phone, but like instead 670 00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:16,800 Speaker 1: you could sit and maybe talk to someone sitting next 671 00:33:16,840 --> 00:33:19,280 Speaker 1: to you, but we don't really take those kind of action. 672 00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:21,440 Speaker 1: I think I'm the weird person that's still like chats 673 00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:23,680 Speaker 1: with strangers at the grocery store, which means I'm probably 674 00:33:23,720 --> 00:33:26,200 Speaker 1: going to be a really like fun old person and 675 00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:29,680 Speaker 1: at least you'll have black peeves to black beltstairs. So 676 00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:33,160 Speaker 1: exciting I'm gonna make We should make t shirts that 677 00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:41,520 Speaker 1: say like something about like pubes coloring. My carpet does 678 00:33:41,560 --> 00:33:44,600 Speaker 1: not match the drapes? Is that the right way to say? 679 00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:46,080 Speaker 1: But we can only you can only buy it if 680 00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:49,800 Speaker 1: you're like fifty five plus. Okay, I can so see 681 00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:54,040 Speaker 1: my parents running around the just kidding. Um, I would 682 00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:56,440 Speaker 1: say to Erica it kind of goes back to the 683 00:33:56,440 --> 00:33:58,520 Speaker 1: no small toxics. Just dive right in, girl, And I 684 00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:01,720 Speaker 1: know the introvert pieces hard, but it's like, who do 685 00:34:01,760 --> 00:34:03,280 Speaker 1: you what do you actually want to talk about? I 686 00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:05,080 Speaker 1: think introverted people a lot of times want to talk 687 00:34:05,080 --> 00:34:08,719 Speaker 1: about real ship and not small talk, and so bring it. Well. 688 00:34:08,760 --> 00:34:10,960 Speaker 1: You are more receptive than you would think totally, and 689 00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:13,839 Speaker 1: I think it just like you have to go where 690 00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:16,600 Speaker 1: you think like minded people are going to be. That's 691 00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:18,640 Speaker 1: a great point. You know. It's like, I don't know 692 00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:20,760 Speaker 1: what you're interesting are, but if it's like you love reading, 693 00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:22,560 Speaker 1: then find a great book club and maybe some of 694 00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:24,279 Speaker 1: those people will be your friend because you could have 695 00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:28,680 Speaker 1: things to talk about, so talk about talk about, so 696 00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:30,799 Speaker 1: it's not a weird I do think the like minded 697 00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:33,600 Speaker 1: thing is great because, um, it also gives you the 698 00:34:33,640 --> 00:34:35,719 Speaker 1: activities you're getting out of your You can talk and 699 00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:38,719 Speaker 1: you can also talk about like something of substance, like 700 00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:41,720 Speaker 1: it's not you're not just like hi, how are you today? Stranger? 701 00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:44,000 Speaker 1: That's a nice shirt? You know, like that the girl 702 00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:47,640 Speaker 1: should being like whoa, that's a nice God. You sure 703 00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:51,160 Speaker 1: do drink a lot of diet, don't you? You go 704 00:34:51,239 --> 00:34:55,560 Speaker 1: to Christma Green too? Um? Anyway, all right, we can't 705 00:34:55,560 --> 00:34:57,200 Speaker 1: wait to keep talking to you guys. Let us know 706 00:34:57,239 --> 00:34:59,760 Speaker 1: what you think about this new format, because I'm actually 707 00:34:59,800 --> 00:35:02,719 Speaker 1: really excited about it and we're going into it next week, 708 00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:05,399 Speaker 1: so I'm hoping that you guys are too. We would 709 00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:08,600 Speaker 1: love your feedback. Email us at the Edge at velvet 710 00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:11,440 Speaker 1: edge dot com, slide into my d M s at 711 00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:17,800 Speaker 1: Velvet's Edge on Instagram, chip at chip Doorshaw on Instagram, 712 00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:23,759 Speaker 1: d r h oh new. Alright, I'm gonna write a song. 713 00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:28,759 Speaker 1: I'm gonna write a jingle The age got sexual? What 714 00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:34,480 Speaker 1: did you used to say that? Remember? I can't drip? No? 715 00:35:34,600 --> 00:35:38,080 Speaker 1: What was it was like? There was a word? What 716 00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:41,920 Speaker 1: was the word? Y'all? Remember you would say a word 717 00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:43,520 Speaker 1: and it was you would make it sexual, and I 718 00:35:43,520 --> 00:35:46,040 Speaker 1: was like, how is that sexually? I would just go deep. 719 00:35:46,440 --> 00:35:49,360 Speaker 1: It was real deep, like burn, but it wasn't burn. 720 00:35:50,080 --> 00:35:53,080 Speaker 1: It's gonna drive me crazy anyway, if you remember that word, 721 00:35:53,080 --> 00:35:56,919 Speaker 1: please also dar me about that because I'm dying to remember. Um. 722 00:35:56,960 --> 00:35:59,359 Speaker 1: All right, we will be coming back to you guys 723 00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:03,080 Speaker 1: next week with our new format. We're super we help 724 00:36:03,239 --> 00:36:06,840 Speaker 1: fingers crossed. Don't hold us to that that day, but 725 00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:10,200 Speaker 1: we will definitely have an interview next month. That's what 726 00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:15,640 Speaker 1: we're going to try to say in that order. Okay, sorry, 727 00:36:15,960 --> 00:36:18,600 Speaker 1: are your role well, you didn't read them in order. 728 00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:23,040 Speaker 1: We gotta go go have another Krispy Creak, all right. 729 00:36:23,120 --> 00:36:25,000 Speaker 1: When you guys are going into your weekend and you're 730 00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:28,960 Speaker 1: living on the edge, I hope you always remembered to 731 00:36:26,640 --> 00:36:33,440 Speaker 1: you as I