WEBVTT - Ep84: Recycling Exes and Mommy Swag Feat Nya Lee 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:02.560 Hey, y'all, this is Weasy from Horrible Decisions and I 0:00:02.600 --> 0:00:05.040 wanted to invite you to Zozo Talk Live feature in 0:00:05.120 --> 0:00:07.920 Jesse Who. We have a new date up November seventeenth 0:00:07.960 --> 0:00:11.240 in Miami, Toasted by Fat and Funny New York. Still 0:00:11.240 --> 0:00:15.080 some tickets left on October and then in Atlanta. We're 0:00:15.080 --> 0:00:17.880 going to be there on December eight. I'm so excited 0:00:17.920 --> 0:00:21.119 for the show. We have a bunch of contestants where 0:00:21.200 --> 0:00:23.560 the audience gets to pict basically who ain't shit or not. 0:00:23.680 --> 0:00:28.640 It's fucking pretty late. I would suggest ladies, couples and 0:00:28.760 --> 0:00:31.000 niggas that want to holler at the ladies that show up. 0:00:31.000 --> 0:00:34.320 It's gonna be like probably an oyster. I'm sorry. I 0:00:34.320 --> 0:00:40.040 thought about the smell of pussy, the fe of pussy, 0:00:40.240 --> 0:00:43.280 and then oyster came out of my mouth. But anyway, mind, 0:00:43.280 --> 0:00:45.720 I'll smell like that. It's gonna smell real good. And 0:00:45.720 --> 0:00:47.000 I want you guys to come and have a good 0:00:47.000 --> 0:00:48.600 time with me and Jesse. It's such a fun show. 0:00:48.600 --> 0:00:50.600 We're so excited to do this. We've created a bunch 0:00:50.640 --> 0:00:52.760 of fun things to talk about and I will see 0:00:52.760 --> 0:00:58.200 you guys there. Check my Instagram for tickets. Chat tune. 0:00:59.040 --> 0:01:03.640 Welcome back to it, yet another motherfucking episode of horrible decisions. 0:01:04.160 --> 0:01:06.040 This your girl, hold on, I got my A k 0:01:06.160 --> 0:01:08.320 as to drop. So this your girl Mandy b a 0:01:08.440 --> 0:01:10.720 k A full core pumps a k A the Booty Band. 0:01:10.880 --> 0:01:13.400 Y'alla gave me that nickname a k A that bitch 0:01:13.560 --> 0:01:18.360 and who am I saying by I guess marrow what 0:01:20.440 --> 0:01:23.520 my listen I'll be y'all live And they didn't gave me. 0:01:23.600 --> 0:01:25.280 The nickname is the booty band and they know what 0:01:25.319 --> 0:01:27.000 I'll be doing my a K S. So I was like, 0:01:27.080 --> 0:01:30.600 let me go ahead and drop stand bro, and they do. 0:01:30.680 --> 0:01:32.880 When I like, listen to Ada boys, if anybody listens 0:01:32.880 --> 0:01:34.880 their A k's last for twenty minutes, I know I need, 0:01:35.440 --> 0:01:37.440 I gotta, I gotta start getting But Booty bander just 0:01:37.480 --> 0:01:39.440 got added, So we're gonna we're gonna keep adding to 0:01:39.520 --> 0:01:44.840 it as we and I know you guys have loved 0:01:44.880 --> 0:01:47.120 listening to the two of us. But we're back with 0:01:47.360 --> 0:01:50.800 a bombsque guest um for this episode. I'm really excited 0:01:51.120 --> 0:01:54.320 we got my girl Nilie in the building. I had 0:01:54.320 --> 0:01:57.040 an O G. Nilely, what you got a K is 0:01:57.080 --> 0:02:01.280 or anything like that? O g Nily drop Instagram. She's like, 0:02:01.280 --> 0:02:06.639 oh G O G I'll just score O g NII. 0:02:07.200 --> 0:02:09.840 That's good, yeah, O g or Nyally we both so 0:02:09.919 --> 0:02:12.040 it's crazy because we sat here and like, so normally 0:02:12.040 --> 0:02:14.240 when we have guests, we like to do icebreakers, but 0:02:14.280 --> 0:02:16.079 I feel like, I don't know if there's even really 0:02:16.160 --> 0:02:18.840 an we're talking to break the ice with your ass, 0:02:19.080 --> 0:02:21.839 because you'd be mad, like the way that Nia broke 0:02:21.840 --> 0:02:23.240 the ice when she first came in. My first time 0:02:23.240 --> 0:02:24.800 meeting her, she was like, oh, I'm sorry. You know, 0:02:24.800 --> 0:02:26.720 I don't really listen because I haven't been on so 0:02:26.760 --> 0:02:29.280 I'm just kind of tight. But it was low key 0:02:29.400 --> 0:02:32.760 my phone. I've been trying to stay on brand. I 0:02:32.880 --> 0:02:34.520 never listened. I don't want to know your form lot 0:02:34.600 --> 0:02:37.120 just want to be surprised. Yes, and then of course 0:02:37.160 --> 0:02:38.840 you know I got the best. She's like, bitch, I 0:02:38.880 --> 0:02:40.400 know you in real life. Why am I just coming 0:02:40.400 --> 0:02:42.440 on now? This episode? God damn, we'll be happy that 0:02:42.480 --> 0:02:44.600 you're coming on when we live we is lit. Now. 0:02:45.440 --> 0:02:57.079 I'm support you regardless, bitch. So what we like to do, 0:02:57.320 --> 0:03:00.280 um just to kind of, you know, start converse station 0:03:00.320 --> 0:03:02.399 in the show. Sometimes, UM, we have a segment called 0:03:02.480 --> 0:03:06.720 Vanilla Ship. And in Vanilla Ship we find articles um 0:03:06.760 --> 0:03:10.120 in which touch on anything anything sex related. UM. This 0:03:10.200 --> 0:03:13.440 one I actually ran across on Time dot com. It says, 0:03:13.680 --> 0:03:16.560 why getting back together with your ex maybe bad for 0:03:16.600 --> 0:03:18.480 your health? That did not need to be an article. 0:03:19.240 --> 0:03:23.600 All you gotta acts every woman. I lost my hair 0:03:23.760 --> 0:03:27.000 from stress. But no, what's crazy? So they did a 0:03:27.040 --> 0:03:29.320 study and it actually showed that people who go back 0:03:29.360 --> 0:03:33.720 to their exes actually well they have a case of 0:03:33.800 --> 0:03:36.920 like anxiety depression. They tied it to mental health crazily like, 0:03:37.240 --> 0:03:38.680 And to me it was kind of crazy because we 0:03:38.680 --> 0:03:40.560 talked about it all the time and I've been talking 0:03:40.600 --> 0:03:42.600 about it with my friends lately. All the niggas on 0:03:42.600 --> 0:03:45.240 my phone right now are niggas who were like ten 0:03:45.320 --> 0:03:51.280 years ago, seven years ago, five years ago. They're reset. 0:03:52.280 --> 0:03:54.160 And so then I was thinking as I was reading this, 0:03:54.240 --> 0:03:57.040 I said, am I depressed or anxious? Like? Do I 0:03:57.120 --> 0:03:59.000 have a mental health issue that I keep going back 0:03:59.000 --> 0:04:01.000 to the niggas in my past? Yeah? You gotta let 0:04:01.040 --> 0:04:02.920 them go? So how do so? I wanted to have 0:04:02.960 --> 0:04:05.640 that conversation. Remind me. When we had an Amelior teeth 0:04:05.640 --> 0:04:07.920 on she was like, you need to cut cords. Cut 0:04:07.960 --> 0:04:12.160 your cords with everybody, because it so how do you 0:04:12.880 --> 0:04:16.680 get past really a nigga, like, get past him, get 0:04:16.720 --> 0:04:23.360 a new one that's way better than the last one. Yeah, right, 0:04:23.520 --> 0:04:26.360 you see me? Okay boom, that's what I'll be alone. 0:04:26.560 --> 0:04:29.760 We're talking pre We're talking pre pre, we're talking thought 0:04:29.839 --> 0:04:32.000 days for me. Okay days, we're gonna We're gonna go 0:04:32.240 --> 0:04:34.920 during the whole phase. Let's go right during my whole phase. Right. 0:04:35.640 --> 0:04:37.760 I would like it was a thing like, oh, we 0:04:37.839 --> 0:04:41.240 got a new nigga, gotta say bye. But when you 0:04:41.240 --> 0:04:44.160 say about you, I mean, if the new nigga start 0:04:44.160 --> 0:04:46.280 acting up right, you go back to the old nigga, 0:04:46.320 --> 0:04:49.360 that's what seconds going to the next thing. And then see, 0:04:49.440 --> 0:04:50.960 if you go back to the nigga, you go back 0:04:51.000 --> 0:04:53.400 to the most recent one before. Like I'm going back. 0:04:53.400 --> 0:04:57.800 I'm not going back to the archive x like like 0:04:57.880 --> 0:05:00.719 for example, I don't niggas that haven't seen new titties. 0:05:00.760 --> 0:05:03.360 I've had these tips for five years. If we'll see 0:05:03.400 --> 0:05:06.400 that's that's a fact, pussy. That's how because pearls but 0:05:06.440 --> 0:05:08.679 didn't sunk Nili and a lot of niggas suck NAILI 0:05:08.760 --> 0:05:11.040 but they didn't get to og. So see, but that 0:05:11.120 --> 0:05:13.640 kind of feeling now too, like there is something about 0:05:13.640 --> 0:05:15.720 me where I'm like, fuck you. If you wasn't working 0:05:15.760 --> 0:05:17.240 with me when I was fat, I ain't gonna suck 0:05:17.279 --> 0:05:19.200 you now. And so now that I lost this way, 0:05:19.200 --> 0:05:21.039 I only want to niggas that me when I was fat. 0:05:21.920 --> 0:05:24.680 So I'm gonna tell you where my new line is now. 0:05:24.720 --> 0:05:27.280 Have you guys watched Consent Special and Rice? We were 0:05:27.279 --> 0:05:29.120 only on there for like two or three on HBO 0:05:29.520 --> 0:05:32.520 with the Humble flicks. It elevated my pussy because the 0:05:32.600 --> 0:05:34.200 nigga text me that, like, like like what you've been up 0:05:34.200 --> 0:05:36.159 to him? Like the funk? I was just on HBO 0:05:36.520 --> 0:05:42.000 your TV, motherfucker paper pussy beer. I was fist. I 0:05:42.160 --> 0:05:44.200 was like acting brand new. My mom was on Facebook 0:05:44.200 --> 0:05:47.080 talking about everybody got look at my daughter. I know 0:05:47.240 --> 0:05:50.840 my mom took I get off one like now, especially 0:05:50.880 --> 0:05:54.000 because I had such a checker thought history pass. I 0:05:54.040 --> 0:05:57.960 get the checkered thought. Hone is deleted is hopping everywhere? 0:05:58.920 --> 0:06:02.239 Was your hone is deleted? You believe in that deleted phase? 0:06:02.920 --> 0:06:05.520 I wanted want my to be deleted. It was there. 0:06:05.520 --> 0:06:09.880 That's one of my resume because that's you know, and 0:06:09.920 --> 0:06:13.520 I wanted to do an episode Legends, She's this is 0:06:13.560 --> 0:06:19.160 probably the holest legend in this way I do with 0:06:19.200 --> 0:06:21.320 my ship with finest Like a lot of ladies now 0:06:21.520 --> 0:06:27.000 like to like everybody to extra, I do what do 0:06:27.080 --> 0:06:30.200 you mean there to like boom? Back when I was 0:06:30.200 --> 0:06:36.479 a stripper, right all right, boom bussy. Back when I 0:06:36.520 --> 0:06:40.359 was a stripper, I definitely never posted like spread eagle, 0:06:40.560 --> 0:06:42.960 like yo, come to the strip club. Like I was 0:06:43.000 --> 0:06:47.400 like like cheek, you know, but you're just going to 0:06:47.440 --> 0:06:50.080 internet like here's my pussy, here's my titties, here's And 0:06:50.279 --> 0:06:52.400 do you still think like showing less is more? Is 0:06:52.440 --> 0:06:53.920 that why you say that? Yeah? I do like it. 0:06:53.920 --> 0:06:56.240 It's cute. It's good. I appreciate that coming from a 0:06:56.279 --> 0:06:59.000 former home, you know why, because some pictures be like, oh, 0:06:59.120 --> 0:07:01.640 do whatever you want to, But sometimes it is that 0:07:01.680 --> 0:07:03.159 you can still be a home and show a little 0:07:03.279 --> 0:07:05.120 I like like back in the days. To me, I 0:07:05.160 --> 0:07:08.719 feel like I was the thought that got wifey treatments sometimes? 0:07:09.200 --> 0:07:11.440 So how how does that because I was because I 0:07:11.440 --> 0:07:14.800 did less? It's more like nobody really affiliated associated with 0:07:15.200 --> 0:07:21.600 me with like whole ship like that. Yeah, it's obviously, 0:07:21.640 --> 0:07:24.440 but a big one. I mean, I mean, like all 0:07:24.440 --> 0:07:26.360 out there holes, like if you pussy is on the screen, 0:07:26.400 --> 0:07:27.920 I still think you know you can get. And I 0:07:28.000 --> 0:07:30.320 only say that because my fear of my new thing. 0:07:30.440 --> 0:07:33.200 It's like I just know, I just never was comfortable 0:07:33.360 --> 0:07:35.200 like going around like yeah, you know, I'll be fucking 0:07:35.240 --> 0:07:38.560 niggers like yeah no no, no no, you can't say 0:07:38.560 --> 0:07:41.920 no no, but say yeah, we'll be talking about our pussy. 0:07:42.440 --> 0:07:44.360 But I don't think there's anything wrong with talking about 0:07:44.360 --> 0:07:46.360 our pussy. I mean, we talked about a lot about 0:07:46.360 --> 0:07:50.480 our sex, bro like, so it is our job. But 0:07:50.560 --> 0:07:54.040 that's what other bitches be saying to this is their persona, 0:07:54.160 --> 0:07:55.800 so this is why they do that, Like no, I 0:07:55.920 --> 0:07:59.760 know Mandy, Mandy, no no, no, no no, no, I'm talking 0:07:59.760 --> 0:08:01.520 about you said, this is me out here talking about 0:08:01.680 --> 0:08:04.720 they'd be blah blah. Bit just do that because they 0:08:04.720 --> 0:08:08.200 feel like there's that's their brand. I don't know, Cardi 0:08:08.240 --> 0:08:10.760 b it wasn't her job to talk about crazy like that, 0:08:10.800 --> 0:08:12.600 but people liked it because they feel like it's organic. 0:08:13.960 --> 0:08:16.760 Bitch is legit feel In my opinion, I think girls 0:08:16.800 --> 0:08:18.640 put it out there because they feel like it's better 0:08:18.680 --> 0:08:21.280 for me to say than yeah, that's the own personal 0:08:21.400 --> 0:08:23.280 think me personally, I don't think so. And I think 0:08:23.320 --> 0:08:25.480 that's why I had so much longevity in the stripper 0:08:25.480 --> 0:08:27.920 world in the strip in my stripper career, like I 0:08:27.920 --> 0:08:30.680 always re invented myself and like you knew I was 0:08:30.760 --> 0:08:32.760 working because like I never act like I'm an angel 0:08:32.800 --> 0:08:34.480 my nigga. No, I wasn't angel ship. He wasn't no 0:08:34.559 --> 0:08:38.120 fucking angel. But I think that not everybody be in 0:08:38.120 --> 0:08:40.520 my business. And people kind of hearing like yo, this 0:08:40.559 --> 0:08:44.400 bich got bomb mass, but stripper longe evidence, Um, you know, 0:08:44.520 --> 0:08:47.440 having a consistent six years of making better on your 0:08:47.480 --> 0:08:52.959 birthday when you were in Vegas made like sixty in 0:08:53.040 --> 0:08:55.680 Vegas or something like that, like labor Day weekend. I 0:08:55.760 --> 0:08:57.520 was not actually had a life cycle. I watched this 0:08:57.679 --> 0:08:59.559 uh this thing called Hot Girls Wanted, and they talked 0:08:59.600 --> 0:09:02.960 about poor port stars lifestyle life cycles. How it's like 0:09:03.000 --> 0:09:04.680 three months and then a girl who's in the middle 0:09:04.760 --> 0:09:06.640 six months and then a good point star is gonna 0:09:06.640 --> 0:09:10.800 be in the gaming year. What's like, that's really that's it? Well, yeah, 0:09:10.960 --> 0:09:12.679 because you know, you get amateur and they try out 0:09:12.679 --> 0:09:14.920 a few videos and then it's done for a stripper. 0:09:15.360 --> 0:09:17.720 What's like the short term life? Like, how what do 0:09:17.720 --> 0:09:19.880 you think? All my stripper friends been strippers over ten years? 0:09:20.200 --> 0:09:24.360 That's a fact, all my stripper friends years. Bro. I 0:09:24.400 --> 0:09:27.640 think that I think as long as you're still making money, 0:09:27.880 --> 0:09:30.160 go ahead and get it. But you should definitely there 0:09:30.160 --> 0:09:32.000 should be a point that you evolved and you have 0:09:32.080 --> 0:09:34.480 something else going on outside of it, because like you know, 0:09:34.559 --> 0:09:36.360 I would take breaks and shipped like that. So I 0:09:36.360 --> 0:09:38.680 think that you have longevity as long as you stay 0:09:38.720 --> 0:09:41.679 exclusive sometimes so something that that's what like stripping is 0:09:41.720 --> 0:09:44.120 your only job. Yeah, like I'm stripping it Like to me, 0:09:44.200 --> 0:09:46.440 I feel like, you know, niggas was sucking me, throwing 0:09:46.440 --> 0:09:48.600 me money and ship like that, because like after a while, 0:09:48.600 --> 0:09:51.320 like I start traveling and being out in different places, 0:09:51.360 --> 0:09:53.560 and I put myself in different positions and I'll start 0:09:53.600 --> 0:09:56.640 branding myself. So now niggas was coming in not necessarily 0:09:56.640 --> 0:09:58.360 trying to throw money at the baddest bitch. They wanted 0:09:58.400 --> 0:10:00.640 to be affiliated with me because not only am I 0:10:00.679 --> 0:10:03.040 a stripper, now I'm going out with different celebrities and 0:10:03.080 --> 0:10:08.120 I'm being on TMZ and things like that. So before 0:10:08.240 --> 0:10:12.440 Black China was black China. You know what I'm saying. Yeah, 0:10:14.280 --> 0:10:17.079 I'm from the South, so I don't know, like I'm 0:10:17.080 --> 0:10:19.360 serious because you know how like each state, each state. 0:10:21.559 --> 0:10:25.559 I was the first celebrity stripper because when I when 0:10:25.600 --> 0:10:28.600 I started dancing, right, I started dancing at seventeen, honestly, like, 0:10:28.640 --> 0:10:31.160 I'm way younger than what people assume me to be now, 0:10:31.640 --> 0:10:33.800 but I started dancing at seventeen. This is when people 0:10:33.840 --> 0:10:36.800 still was like, oh, it's not like a crazy and 0:10:37.040 --> 0:10:41.040 they're trying to catch all stuff like that. Yeah, yeah, 0:10:41.120 --> 0:10:48.120 that's not mad and like o G. Yeah, but I think, like, 0:10:48.200 --> 0:10:52.559 you know, like I realized, I realized how to finesse niggas, 0:10:52.679 --> 0:10:54.880 you know what I'm saying. And you can't funk every nigga, 0:10:54.920 --> 0:10:56.480 so you gotta hang out with other bitches that want 0:10:56.480 --> 0:10:59.360 to funk the niggs that you'll be around. So that 0:10:59.440 --> 0:11:02.120 is why I was able to be out and around 0:11:02.200 --> 0:11:05.240 certain rappers and different things, you know, some different people 0:11:05.280 --> 0:11:08.080 because it wasn't necessarily I was Were you known or 0:11:08.120 --> 0:11:09.640 is there like a certain rapper that he was in 0:11:09.679 --> 0:11:13.040 your collect that people knew, like like somebody that puts 0:11:13.080 --> 0:11:16.720 you on. Basically, um, I hung around fab and Meek 0:11:17.120 --> 0:11:19.840 and Jada because fab Meek and Jadakasse are like the 0:11:19.840 --> 0:11:22.960 top three rappers that people will you songs and yeah, 0:11:25.400 --> 0:11:29.600 not this, No, not with Mika. Well she said, yeah, 0:11:29.760 --> 0:11:31.760 so we're gonna go ahead and get into this and 0:11:31.960 --> 0:11:33.559 and I love that we're going to be able to 0:11:33.600 --> 0:11:37.160 talk about this. Actually, so what we do also, um, 0:11:37.280 --> 0:11:40.959 is a kink of the picture out Now. Okay, that's fine. 0:11:41.000 --> 0:11:44.600 Wait are you gonna you know we're recording this right? Yeah, okay, 0:11:44.720 --> 0:11:46.760 what you're gonna show the camera? I'm sure are you 0:11:46.800 --> 0:11:49.120 saying here? Let me Okay, well, let's go ahead. And 0:11:49.440 --> 0:11:52.280 the kink, it's not it's the way she bring it up. 0:11:52.320 --> 0:11:55.400 She's like, I got the perfect kick after this saw. 0:11:55.559 --> 0:11:57.679 The kink of the week for this week Guys is 0:11:57.760 --> 0:12:02.280 called xenophilia. It is an intense attraction towards people from 0:12:02.360 --> 0:12:06.440 other cultures or strangers. Um. I actually brought this up 0:12:06.480 --> 0:12:09.880 because I wanted a way to politically We all in 0:12:09.960 --> 0:12:13.079 this room have that, I think. But so, I don't 0:12:13.080 --> 0:12:15.480 know if you've just recently heard so we and we 0:12:15.559 --> 0:12:18.040 talked about it on Patren episode. But the Guys We 0:12:18.160 --> 0:12:21.400 Fun podcast is like super in fire because how she 0:12:21.520 --> 0:12:24.120 was talking about a black man. So when she brought 0:12:24.160 --> 0:12:25.480 this up, I was like, oh my god, I don't 0:12:25.480 --> 0:12:27.679 want us said it. I said, dude, how do I 0:12:27.760 --> 0:12:30.800 stay away from like sounding like I'm fetishizing Because so 0:12:31.120 --> 0:12:33.080 I'm going on a date tomorrow to Asian dude, an 0:12:33.160 --> 0:12:36.679 Asian bitch. And first of all, we are all watching 0:12:36.720 --> 0:12:39.079 Insecure and he kind of looked like Andrew. Actually he's 0:12:39.080 --> 0:12:43.319 hotter than that. Um, I mean, he's not my it's 0:12:43.360 --> 0:12:45.760 not my type. He's not bad looking, I get it, 0:12:46.480 --> 0:12:48.840 he's not my type. He's not my type either. Though 0:12:49.080 --> 0:12:51.839 he looks like Andrew, but more mask. I think in 0:12:51.880 --> 0:12:54.000 the face he has like that defined jawline. If you'all 0:12:54.040 --> 0:12:56.920 trying to actually she said she wanted niggad it look 0:12:57.000 --> 0:13:01.600 like jul Tal from motherfucking Rush. Well do but stop. 0:13:03.640 --> 0:13:08.240 So I don't know when we can't get listen. Asian 0:13:08.240 --> 0:13:10.040 are people. Asian people are people of color too, bro. 0:13:10.880 --> 0:13:13.120 So here's the thing. I've never been in an Asian 0:13:13.960 --> 0:13:17.000 uh male and female. Well I was with a tie woman, 0:13:17.080 --> 0:13:18.800 but he makes with black, so we said that that 0:13:18.880 --> 0:13:21.079 doesn't count. Well, see, here's the thing, because I was like, 0:13:21.120 --> 0:13:23.640 he's Japanese, she's like he looks like he's with European 0:13:23.760 --> 0:13:26.200 he looked half white, he looked white. He looked half white. Right, 0:13:26.400 --> 0:13:29.080 But that's just because you think he don't look Asian enough, 0:13:29.240 --> 0:13:33.719 which is a problem and very problemly thinking can we 0:13:33.760 --> 0:13:36.679 say Asian enough? That's what I'm saying, Like, that's what 0:13:36.760 --> 0:13:39.280 she's saying that when you said he must be Asian 0:13:39.280 --> 0:13:41.960 and white, it's just implies that he's not Asian. People 0:13:42.000 --> 0:13:43.400 do that to us all the time. So I think 0:13:43.400 --> 0:13:46.040 it's sucked up to be like, well you okay, so 0:13:46.280 --> 0:13:48.400 you know you just got some black dick. You clearly 0:13:48.480 --> 0:13:53.760 like pink dick. So was this I'm gonna stop you 0:13:53.880 --> 0:13:56.040 right there because you really getting on my nerves. What 0:13:56.080 --> 0:13:58.680 I What I do you doin the last two dudes 0:13:58.720 --> 0:14:01.760 that I dated seriously white and now everybody thinks I 0:14:02.000 --> 0:14:05.040 fucking cast black men off the island. Just to be clear, 0:14:05.160 --> 0:14:08.120 I just spend like I got my virginity, take my 0:14:08.120 --> 0:14:11.120 black man. I've been with more black when but no, no, no, 0:14:11.240 --> 0:14:13.679 they're not necessarily you. It's just the idea that's on 0:14:13.760 --> 0:14:15.960 this podcast, and I'm tired of it. So I'm blocking 0:14:16.000 --> 0:14:17.840 the ship out all y'all to be like I would 0:14:17.840 --> 0:14:20.280 come to you, but you don't my niggas. First of all, 0:14:21.040 --> 0:14:23.320 I do, but I've just been in my euro realm. 0:14:23.600 --> 0:14:25.920 Now I'm moving on to Asia. Calm down, I'll be back. 0:14:26.680 --> 0:14:29.880 You'll be back to Africa. I've been. So do you 0:14:30.400 --> 0:14:32.880 do you have any concerns or things like do you 0:14:32.960 --> 0:14:35.600 watch Asian born, Like is it something to where you 0:14:35.680 --> 0:14:38.080 feel like he would be able to arouse you, because like, 0:14:38.920 --> 0:14:41.760 I don't think get like, I think he's so fucking hot, 0:14:41.840 --> 0:14:45.440 so I'm like, it's not necessarily, but I'm scared of 0:14:45.480 --> 0:14:48.280 Asian guys because of the stereo type of supposedly they 0:14:48.320 --> 0:14:50.200 have small Well, I'm glad you brought that up because 0:14:50.320 --> 0:14:51.760 the thing is that I was worried about that when 0:14:52.160 --> 0:14:54.240 my first white guy, and I was like, oh so 0:14:54.400 --> 0:14:57.880 I think but no on average though, like per country, right, 0:14:58.000 --> 0:15:01.200 like in general, I think Black and Latino countries have 0:15:01.280 --> 0:15:04.200 the biggest dicks. I think it's Congo, then Venezuela, then 0:15:04.240 --> 0:15:08.520 something else in Africa. But I'm not that worried about that. 0:15:09.640 --> 0:15:12.840 Was he's six too, so he's already beaten one stereotype 0:15:12.920 --> 0:15:15.320 he has beaten, so like I'm not gonna I'm not 0:15:15.360 --> 0:15:17.440 gonna worry about that bullshit. The only thing is I 0:15:17.520 --> 0:15:19.360 felt fucked up. I'm just gonna say this, y'all, don't 0:15:19.400 --> 0:15:21.360 come for me. I'm just I feel like I'm a 0:15:21.440 --> 0:15:23.960 white person trying so hard not to offend somebody black. 0:15:23.960 --> 0:15:26.040 And I'm gonna tell you why. There's this bar so 0:15:26.240 --> 0:15:28.960 lit called the stray Light. It's a hidden bar in Chinatown, 0:15:29.800 --> 0:15:31.680 and I invited him there, and I was like, you 0:15:31.800 --> 0:15:36.080 invited him to Chinatown. But I'm like, oh, should I 0:15:36.160 --> 0:15:37.720 not done that? Maybe he's gonna think and I don't 0:15:37.720 --> 0:15:39.080 want to do that because I feel like white men 0:15:39.120 --> 0:15:40.680 have done that with me, like oh, we want to 0:15:40.680 --> 0:15:43.440 get chicken chicken, right, That's what I'm saying. I don't 0:15:43.480 --> 0:15:45.880 want to like wrap my head around like bullshit of 0:15:46.000 --> 0:15:48.440 trying to be so PC when I know I'm respectful 0:15:48.480 --> 0:15:50.800 and I'm I think, go ahead and just let it flow, 0:15:50.920 --> 0:15:52.800 and then if he does get offended, then you let 0:15:52.880 --> 0:15:56.000 him know, like yo, he can say to me first 0:15:56.040 --> 0:15:57.600 first of all, his hair is would you be with 0:15:57.720 --> 0:15:59.480 him or do you just want to suck him for research. 0:16:00.720 --> 0:16:03.440 I'll be honest, like ultimately in my mind like yes, 0:16:03.520 --> 0:16:05.200 I want a black man. But because I just really 0:16:05.200 --> 0:16:06.480 don't want to deal with bullshit in my life with 0:16:06.520 --> 0:16:09.520 haven't explained everything, but I mean, I don't know. He 0:16:09.840 --> 0:16:12.280 seems dope. Like today it's Columbus Day and we were 0:16:12.320 --> 0:16:15.080 both as research Yeah I think. I mean we were 0:16:15.120 --> 0:16:17.120 talking about how Columbus is a piece of ship. Right, 0:16:17.160 --> 0:16:20.320 he's Indigenous People Day, and I'm like, okay about making 0:16:20.400 --> 0:16:22.520 world because you know about Columbus Day. Oh, he was 0:16:22.560 --> 0:16:24.920 like schooling me on indigenous people how like people of 0:16:24.960 --> 0:16:27.040 color of like discovered every kind of land and white 0:16:27.040 --> 0:16:28.520 people are trashed. And I was like, oh, I like him, 0:16:29.360 --> 0:16:31.320 all right, that works. That works. I'm trying to think, 0:16:31.360 --> 0:16:34.760 have you ever like seen, I guess, someone from another 0:16:34.800 --> 0:16:36.920 culture and wanted to date them just because they were 0:16:37.200 --> 0:16:40.520 part of another culture? Yeah? Du Bi like oh yeah, 0:16:40.800 --> 0:16:43.320 but isn't they got money? Because I feel like that's 0:16:43.360 --> 0:16:45.600 like no, no, no, no, no, They're actually some of 0:16:45.640 --> 0:16:49.080 them are beautiful? Are they are beautiful? It looks really 0:16:49.200 --> 0:16:52.840 really really good, like this game Complexion to me, They're 0:16:52.920 --> 0:16:55.400 like because okay, I had a like a Puerto Rican 0:16:55.480 --> 0:16:59.040 phase like when I was younger, Puerto Rican dude. Then 0:16:59.080 --> 0:17:00.960 I went then once I started in my beginning of 0:17:01.000 --> 0:17:03.840 my dancing career. I love the Dominican niggas from uptown. 0:17:03.920 --> 0:17:07.000 You know, oh god, I've never had these, but I 0:17:07.080 --> 0:17:10.959 didn't like la, No, I've never had you never had 0:17:11.000 --> 0:17:13.960 a Dominican, I mean Dominican and black, or like Puerto 0:17:14.040 --> 0:17:17.840 Rican and black tieing black, black and white. Hold on, 0:17:17.960 --> 0:17:19.320 let me tell you why. I do like guys like 0:17:19.680 --> 0:17:21.640 like those guys over there and like the Middle East 0:17:21.640 --> 0:17:23.680 and ship like that, because to me, I had like 0:17:23.760 --> 0:17:26.360 the Puerto Rican Dominican phase. And then of course I love, 0:17:26.440 --> 0:17:28.800 love love black men, and to me they're like a 0:17:29.640 --> 0:17:33.120 blend of like a black man and a Spanish man 0:17:35.600 --> 0:17:37.800 or black. Yeah, and then of course they buy you 0:17:38.160 --> 0:17:40.760 have some money, but like really though on the surface, 0:17:40.880 --> 0:17:43.480 like they dead, look mad sexy. I love the hyebrows 0:17:43.560 --> 0:17:45.720 of Middle Eastern people in general. Women. I like the 0:17:45.800 --> 0:17:48.159 facial hair. It's funny to me. I don't know if 0:17:48.160 --> 0:17:53.159 this will count. It was hard so the definition mentioned culture, 0:17:53.600 --> 0:17:55.240 and I think you put me on this. I kind 0:17:55.240 --> 0:17:57.000 of started becoming a trade because I didn't see it 0:17:57.040 --> 0:17:59.800 intil I was up here. I love um black man 0:17:59.840 --> 0:18:02.399 with the little what you call the Muslim things on 0:18:02.480 --> 0:18:06.159 their head. Yeah, I don't know, but that to me 0:18:06.280 --> 0:18:09.040 is like another culture. They Muslim, but they're but they're 0:18:09.080 --> 0:18:13.440 black with the Muslim thing on their head. No, but 0:18:13.600 --> 0:18:16.800 I didn't like you kind of even introduced me, like 0:18:16.840 --> 0:18:18.159 when we used to go out and she'd be like, 0:18:18.359 --> 0:18:24.760 there's mad Muslim black about Muslim. If you like the Muslims, 0:18:25.320 --> 0:18:27.320 they just can't be the Only thing I fear with 0:18:27.440 --> 0:18:29.560 like black Muslim is that they went to jail first. 0:18:29.760 --> 0:18:32.000 Is that where they all convert? No, not what I 0:18:32.119 --> 0:18:37.640 was like, Oh, but I know what I was gonna say. 0:18:37.640 --> 0:18:40.159 I feel like a little too like old school and 0:18:40.240 --> 0:18:43.800 values like being you have to be the woman, you 0:18:43.960 --> 0:18:45.800 have to do this. I'm not gonna lie. I'm not 0:18:45.840 --> 0:18:47.960 gonna lie me. And the only issue that I do 0:18:48.080 --> 0:18:49.920 have with that, and I remember I felt bad. So 0:18:50.040 --> 0:18:51.720 now it took me to breakfast one time with one 0:18:51.720 --> 0:18:54.479 of her old niggas. You know what she's talking about. Well, 0:18:54.520 --> 0:18:56.840 I don't know, bring more more details because we don't. Yeah, 0:18:57.240 --> 0:19:00.159 yeah it was it was breakfast. It was breakfast, and 0:19:00.240 --> 0:19:02.639 it was a Muslim nigga, and I felt bad because 0:19:03.440 --> 0:19:08.639 bit want real bad, baby, I felt, oh yeah, I don't. 0:19:09.480 --> 0:19:11.920 So I ordered the bacon, but I felt bad because 0:19:11.920 --> 0:19:13.560 I know you're supposed to be respectful, Like it happened 0:19:13.560 --> 0:19:15.400 another time. I'm talking to this other he was actually 0:19:15.440 --> 0:19:19.119 a ballplayer but was Muslim or of Muslim religion, and 0:19:19.160 --> 0:19:20.800 but I ordered a grilled cheese and they had him 0:19:20.840 --> 0:19:23.280 in it, and then I kind of feel bad. Is that? 0:19:23.640 --> 0:19:27.720 Why is that disrespected? It's not supposed to because even baking, 0:19:28.000 --> 0:19:30.560 I mean, you know, but you can't eat pork and 0:19:30.640 --> 0:19:34.000 my house, but that's your house. But before you converted, 0:19:34.440 --> 0:19:36.639 like even like if we're paying for it, Like if 0:19:36.680 --> 0:19:39.040 I'm at dinner, her nigga paid for it, I feel 0:19:39.080 --> 0:19:40.879 bad he had to pay for my bacon. Yeah, Like 0:19:41.040 --> 0:19:44.960