Speaker 1: Hey, y'all, this is Weasy from Horrible Decisions and I
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Speaker 1: Welcome back to it, yet another motherfucking episode of horrible decisions.
Speaker 1: This your girl, hold on, I got my A k
Speaker 1: as to drop. So this your girl Mandy b a
Speaker 1: k A full core pumps a k A the Booty Band.
Speaker 1: Y'alla gave me that nickname a k A that bitch
Speaker 1: and who am I saying by I guess marrow what
Speaker 1: my listen I'll be y'all live And they didn't gave me.
Speaker 1: The nickname is the booty band and they know what
Speaker 1: I'll be doing my a K S. So I was like,
Speaker 1: let me go ahead and drop stand bro, and they do.
Speaker 1: When I like, listen to Ada boys, if anybody listens
Speaker 1: their A k's last for twenty minutes, I know I need,
Speaker 1: I gotta, I gotta start getting But Booty bander just
Speaker 1: got added, So we're gonna we're gonna keep adding to
Speaker 1: it as we and I know you guys have loved
Speaker 1: listening to the two of us. But we're back with
Speaker 1: a bombsque guest um for this episode. I'm really excited
Speaker 1: we got my girl Nilie in the building. I had
Speaker 1: an O G. Nilely, what you got a K is
Speaker 1: or anything like that? O g Nily drop Instagram. She's like,
Speaker 1: oh G O G I'll just score O g NII.
Speaker 1: That's good, yeah, O g or Nyally we both so
Speaker 1: it's crazy because we sat here and like, so normally
Speaker 1: when we have guests, we like to do icebreakers, but
Speaker 1: I feel like, I don't know if there's even really
Speaker 1: an we're talking to break the ice with your ass,
Speaker 1: because you'd be mad, like the way that Nia broke
Speaker 1: the ice when she first came in. My first time
Speaker 1: meeting her, she was like, oh, I'm sorry. You know,
Speaker 1: I don't really listen because I haven't been on so
Speaker 1: I'm just kind of tight. But it was low key
Speaker 1: my phone. I've been trying to stay on brand. I
Speaker 1: never listened. I don't want to know your form lot
Speaker 1: just want to be surprised. Yes, and then of course
Speaker 1: you know I got the best. She's like, bitch, I
Speaker 1: know you in real life. Why am I just coming
Speaker 1: on now? This episode? God damn, we'll be happy that
Speaker 1: you're coming on when we live we is lit. Now.
Speaker 1: I'm support you regardless, bitch. So what we like to do,
Speaker 1: um just to kind of, you know, start converse station
Speaker 1: in the show. Sometimes, UM, we have a segment called
Speaker 1: Vanilla Ship. And in Vanilla Ship we find articles um
Speaker 1: in which touch on anything anything sex related. UM. This
Speaker 1: one I actually ran across on Time dot com. It says,
Speaker 1: why getting back together with your ex maybe bad for
Speaker 1: your health? That did not need to be an article.
Speaker 1: All you gotta acts every woman. I lost my hair
Speaker 1: from stress. But no, what's crazy? So they did a
Speaker 1: study and it actually showed that people who go back
Speaker 1: to their exes actually well they have a case of
Speaker 1: like anxiety depression. They tied it to mental health crazily like,
Speaker 1: And to me it was kind of crazy because we
Speaker 1: talked about it all the time and I've been talking
Speaker 1: about it with my friends lately. All the niggas on
Speaker 1: my phone right now are niggas who were like ten
Speaker 1: years ago, seven years ago, five years ago. They're reset.
Speaker 1: And so then I was thinking as I was reading this,
Speaker 1: I said, am I depressed or anxious? Like? Do I
Speaker 1: have a mental health issue that I keep going back
Speaker 1: to the niggas in my past? Yeah? You gotta let
Speaker 1: them go? So how do so? I wanted to have
Speaker 1: that conversation. Remind me. When we had an Amelior teeth
Speaker 1: on she was like, you need to cut cords. Cut
Speaker 1: your cords with everybody, because it so how do you
Speaker 1: get past really a nigga, like, get past him, get
Speaker 1: a new one that's way better than the last one. Yeah, right,
Speaker 1: you see me? Okay boom, that's what I'll be alone.
Speaker 1: We're talking pre We're talking pre pre, we're talking thought
Speaker 1: days for me. Okay days, we're gonna We're gonna go
Speaker 1: during the whole phase. Let's go right during my whole phase. Right.
Speaker 1: I would like it was a thing like, oh, we
Speaker 1: got a new nigga, gotta say bye. But when you
Speaker 1: say about you, I mean, if the new nigga start
Speaker 1: acting up right, you go back to the old nigga,
Speaker 1: that's what seconds going to the next thing. And then see,
Speaker 1: if you go back to the nigga, you go back
Speaker 1: to the most recent one before. Like I'm going back.
Speaker 1: I'm not going back to the archive x like like
Speaker 1: for example, I don't niggas that haven't seen new titties.
Speaker 1: I've had these tips for five years. If we'll see
Speaker 1: that's that's a fact, pussy. That's how because pearls but
Speaker 1: didn't sunk Nili and a lot of niggas suck NAILI
Speaker 1: but they didn't get to og. So see, but that
Speaker 1: kind of feeling now too, like there is something about
Speaker 1: me where I'm like, fuck you. If you wasn't working
Speaker 1: with me when I was fat, I ain't gonna suck
Speaker 1: you now. And so now that I lost this way,
Speaker 1: I only want to niggas that me when I was fat.
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna tell you where my new line is now.
Speaker 1: Have you guys watched Consent Special and Rice? We were
Speaker 1: only on there for like two or three on HBO
Speaker 1: with the Humble flicks. It elevated my pussy because the
Speaker 1: nigga text me that, like, like like what you've been up
Speaker 1: to him? Like the funk? I was just on HBO
Speaker 1: your TV, motherfucker paper pussy beer. I was fist. I
Speaker 1: was like acting brand new. My mom was on Facebook
Speaker 1: talking about everybody got look at my daughter. I know
Speaker 1: my mom took I get off one like now, especially
Speaker 1: because I had such a checker thought history pass. I
Speaker 1: get the checkered thought. Hone is deleted is hopping everywhere?
Speaker 1: Was your hone is deleted? You believe in that deleted phase?
Speaker 1: I wanted want my to be deleted. It was there.
Speaker 1: That's one of my resume because that's you know, and
Speaker 1: I wanted to do an episode Legends, She's this is
Speaker 1: probably the holest legend in this way I do with
Speaker 1: my ship with finest Like a lot of ladies now
Speaker 1: like to like everybody to extra, I do what do
Speaker 1: you mean there to like boom? Back when I was
Speaker 1: a stripper, right all right, boom bussy. Back when I
Speaker 1: was a stripper, I definitely never posted like spread eagle,
Speaker 1: like yo, come to the strip club. Like I was
Speaker 1: like like cheek, you know, but you're just going to
Speaker 1: internet like here's my pussy, here's my titties, here's And
Speaker 1: do you still think like showing less is more? Is
Speaker 1: that why you say that? Yeah? I do like it.
Speaker 1: It's cute. It's good. I appreciate that coming from a
Speaker 1: former home, you know why, because some pictures be like, oh,
Speaker 1: do whatever you want to, But sometimes it is that
Speaker 1: you can still be a home and show a little
Speaker 1: I like like back in the days. To me, I
Speaker 1: feel like I was the thought that got wifey treatments sometimes?
Speaker 1: So how how does that because I was because I
Speaker 1: did less? It's more like nobody really affiliated associated with
Speaker 1: me with like whole ship like that. Yeah, it's obviously,
Speaker 1: but a big one. I mean, I mean, like all
Speaker 1: out there holes, like if you pussy is on the screen,
Speaker 1: I still think you know you can get. And I
Speaker 1: only say that because my fear of my new thing.
Speaker 1: It's like I just know, I just never was comfortable
Speaker 1: like going around like yeah, you know, I'll be fucking
Speaker 1: niggers like yeah no no, no no, you can't say
Speaker 1: no no, but say yeah, we'll be talking about our pussy.
Speaker 1: But I don't think there's anything wrong with talking about
Speaker 1: our pussy. I mean, we talked about a lot about
Speaker 1: our sex, bro like, so it is our job. But
Speaker 1: that's what other bitches be saying to this is their persona,
Speaker 1: so this is why they do that, Like no, I
Speaker 1: know Mandy, Mandy, no no, no, no no, no, I'm talking
Speaker 1: about you said, this is me out here talking about
Speaker 1: they'd be blah blah. Bit just do that because they
Speaker 1: feel like there's that's their brand. I don't know, Cardi
Speaker 1: b it wasn't her job to talk about crazy like that,
Speaker 1: but people liked it because they feel like it's organic.
Speaker 1: Bitch is legit feel In my opinion, I think girls
Speaker 1: put it out there because they feel like it's better
Speaker 1: for me to say than yeah, that's the own personal
Speaker 1: think me personally, I don't think so. And I think
Speaker 1: that's why I had so much longevity in the stripper
Speaker 1: world in the strip in my stripper career, like I
Speaker 1: always re invented myself and like you knew I was
Speaker 1: working because like I never act like I'm an angel
Speaker 1: my nigga. No, I wasn't angel ship. He wasn't no
Speaker 1: fucking angel. But I think that not everybody be in
Speaker 1: my business. And people kind of hearing like yo, this
Speaker 1: bich got bomb mass, but stripper longe evidence, Um, you know,
Speaker 1: having a consistent six years of making better on your
Speaker 1: birthday when you were in Vegas made like sixty in
Speaker 1: Vegas or something like that, like labor Day weekend. I
Speaker 1: was not actually had a life cycle. I watched this
Speaker 1: uh this thing called Hot Girls Wanted, and they talked
Speaker 1: about poor port stars lifestyle life cycles. How it's like
Speaker 1: three months and then a girl who's in the middle
Speaker 1: six months and then a good point star is gonna
Speaker 1: be in the gaming year. What's like, that's really that's it? Well, yeah,
Speaker 1: because you know, you get amateur and they try out
Speaker 1: a few videos and then it's done for a stripper.
Speaker 1: What's like the short term life? Like, how what do
Speaker 1: you think? All my stripper friends been strippers over ten years?
Speaker 1: That's a fact, all my stripper friends years. Bro. I
Speaker 1: think that I think as long as you're still making money,
Speaker 1: go ahead and get it. But you should definitely there
Speaker 1: should be a point that you evolved and you have
Speaker 1: something else going on outside of it, because like you know,
Speaker 1: I would take breaks and shipped like that. So I
Speaker 1: think that you have longevity as long as you stay
Speaker 1: exclusive sometimes so something that that's what like stripping is
Speaker 1: your only job. Yeah, like I'm stripping it Like to me,
Speaker 1: I feel like, you know, niggas was sucking me, throwing
Speaker 1: me money and ship like that, because like after a while,
Speaker 1: like I start traveling and being out in different places,
Speaker 1: and I put myself in different positions and I'll start
Speaker 1: branding myself. So now niggas was coming in not necessarily
Speaker 1: trying to throw money at the baddest bitch. They wanted
Speaker 1: to be affiliated with me because not only am I
Speaker 1: a stripper, now I'm going out with different celebrities and
Speaker 1: I'm being on TMZ and things like that. So before
Speaker 1: Black China was black China. You know what I'm saying. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm from the South, so I don't know, like I'm
Speaker 1: serious because you know how like each state, each state.
Speaker 1: I was the first celebrity stripper because when I when
Speaker 1: I started dancing, right, I started dancing at seventeen, honestly, like,
Speaker 1: I'm way younger than what people assume me to be now,
Speaker 1: but I started dancing at seventeen. This is when people
Speaker 1: still was like, oh, it's not like a crazy and
Speaker 1: they're trying to catch all stuff like that. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's not mad and like o G. Yeah, but I think, like,
Speaker 1: you know, like I realized, I realized how to finesse niggas,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And you can't funk every nigga,
Speaker 1: so you gotta hang out with other bitches that want
Speaker 1: to funk the niggs that you'll be around. So that
Speaker 1: is why I was able to be out and around
Speaker 1: certain rappers and different things, you know, some different people
Speaker 1: because it wasn't necessarily I was Were you known or
Speaker 1: is there like a certain rapper that he was in
Speaker 1: your collect that people knew, like like somebody that puts
Speaker 1: you on. Basically, um, I hung around fab and Meek
Speaker 1: and Jada because fab Meek and Jadakasse are like the
Speaker 1: top three rappers that people will you songs and yeah,
Speaker 1: not this, No, not with Mika. Well she said, yeah,
Speaker 1: so we're gonna go ahead and get into this and
Speaker 1: and I love that we're going to be able to
Speaker 1: talk about this. Actually, so what we do also, um,
Speaker 1: is a kink of the picture out Now. Okay, that's fine.
Speaker 1: Wait are you gonna you know we're recording this right? Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: what you're gonna show the camera? I'm sure are you
Speaker 1: saying here? Let me Okay, well, let's go ahead. And
Speaker 1: the kink, it's not it's the way she bring it up.
Speaker 1: She's like, I got the perfect kick after this saw.
Speaker 1: The kink of the week for this week Guys is
Speaker 1: called xenophilia. It is an intense attraction towards people from
Speaker 1: other cultures or strangers. Um. I actually brought this up
Speaker 1: because I wanted a way to politically We all in
Speaker 1: this room have that, I think. But so, I don't
Speaker 1: know if you've just recently heard so we and we
Speaker 1: talked about it on Patren episode. But the Guys We
Speaker 1: Fun podcast is like super in fire because how she
Speaker 1: was talking about a black man. So when she brought
Speaker 1: this up, I was like, oh my god, I don't
Speaker 1: want us said it. I said, dude, how do I
Speaker 1: stay away from like sounding like I'm fetishizing Because so
Speaker 1: I'm going on a date tomorrow to Asian dude, an
Speaker 1: Asian bitch. And first of all, we are all watching
Speaker 1: Insecure and he kind of looked like Andrew. Actually he's
Speaker 1: hotter than that. Um, I mean, he's not my it's
Speaker 1: not my type. He's not bad looking, I get it,
Speaker 1: he's not my type. He's not my type either. Though
Speaker 1: he looks like Andrew, but more mask. I think in
Speaker 1: the face he has like that defined jawline. If you'all
Speaker 1: trying to actually she said she wanted niggad it look
Speaker 1: like jul Tal from motherfucking Rush. Well do but stop.
Speaker 1: So I don't know when we can't get listen. Asian
Speaker 1: are people. Asian people are people of color too, bro.
Speaker 1: So here's the thing. I've never been in an Asian
Speaker 1: uh male and female. Well I was with a tie woman,
Speaker 1: but he makes with black, so we said that that
Speaker 1: doesn't count. Well, see, here's the thing, because I was like,
Speaker 1: he's Japanese, she's like he looks like he's with European
Speaker 1: he looked half white, he looked white. He looked half white. Right,
Speaker 1: But that's just because you think he don't look Asian enough,
Speaker 1: which is a problem and very problemly thinking can we
Speaker 1: say Asian enough? That's what I'm saying, Like, that's what
Speaker 1: she's saying that when you said he must be Asian
Speaker 1: and white, it's just implies that he's not Asian. People
Speaker 1: do that to us all the time. So I think
Speaker 1: it's sucked up to be like, well you okay, so
Speaker 1: you know you just got some black dick. You clearly
Speaker 1: like pink dick. So was this I'm gonna stop you
Speaker 1: right there because you really getting on my nerves. What
Speaker 1: I What I do you doin the last two dudes
Speaker 1: that I dated seriously white and now everybody thinks I
Speaker 1: fucking cast black men off the island. Just to be clear,
Speaker 1: I just spend like I got my virginity, take my
Speaker 1: black man. I've been with more black when but no, no, no,
Speaker 1: they're not necessarily you. It's just the idea that's on
Speaker 1: this podcast, and I'm tired of it. So I'm blocking
Speaker 1: the ship out all y'all to be like I would
Speaker 1: come to you, but you don't my niggas. First of all,
Speaker 1: I do, but I've just been in my euro realm.
Speaker 1: Now I'm moving on to Asia. Calm down, I'll be back.
Speaker 1: You'll be back to Africa. I've been. So do you
Speaker 1: do you have any concerns or things like do you
Speaker 1: watch Asian born, Like is it something to where you
Speaker 1: feel like he would be able to arouse you, because like,
Speaker 1: I don't think get like, I think he's so fucking hot,
Speaker 1: so I'm like, it's not necessarily, but I'm scared of
Speaker 1: Asian guys because of the stereo type of supposedly they
Speaker 1: have small Well, I'm glad you brought that up because
Speaker 1: the thing is that I was worried about that when
Speaker 1: my first white guy, and I was like, oh so
Speaker 1: I think but no on average though, like per country, right,
Speaker 1: like in general, I think Black and Latino countries have
Speaker 1: the biggest dicks. I think it's Congo, then Venezuela, then
Speaker 1: something else in Africa. But I'm not that worried about that.
Speaker 1: Was he's six too, so he's already beaten one stereotype
Speaker 1: he has beaten, so like I'm not gonna I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna worry about that bullshit. The only thing is I
Speaker 1: felt fucked up. I'm just gonna say this, y'all, don't
Speaker 1: come for me. I'm just I feel like I'm a
Speaker 1: white person trying so hard not to offend somebody black.
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna tell you why. There's this bar so
Speaker 1: lit called the stray Light. It's a hidden bar in Chinatown,
Speaker 1: and I invited him there, and I was like, you
Speaker 1: invited him to Chinatown. But I'm like, oh, should I
Speaker 1: not done that? Maybe he's gonna think and I don't
Speaker 1: want to do that because I feel like white men
Speaker 1: have done that with me, like oh, we want to
Speaker 1: get chicken chicken, right, That's what I'm saying. I don't
Speaker 1: want to like wrap my head around like bullshit of
Speaker 1: trying to be so PC when I know I'm respectful
Speaker 1: and I'm I think, go ahead and just let it flow,
Speaker 1: and then if he does get offended, then you let
Speaker 1: him know, like yo, he can say to me first
Speaker 1: first of all, his hair is would you be with
Speaker 1: him or do you just want to suck him for research.
Speaker 1: I'll be honest, like ultimately in my mind like yes,
Speaker 1: I want a black man. But because I just really
Speaker 1: don't want to deal with bullshit in my life with
Speaker 1: haven't explained everything, but I mean, I don't know. He
Speaker 1: seems dope. Like today it's Columbus Day and we were
Speaker 1: both as research Yeah I think. I mean we were
Speaker 1: talking about how Columbus is a piece of ship. Right,
Speaker 1: he's Indigenous People Day, and I'm like, okay about making
Speaker 1: world because you know about Columbus Day. Oh, he was
Speaker 1: like schooling me on indigenous people how like people of
Speaker 1: color of like discovered every kind of land and white
Speaker 1: people are trashed. And I was like, oh, I like him,
Speaker 1: all right, that works. That works. I'm trying to think,
Speaker 1: have you ever like seen, I guess, someone from another
Speaker 1: culture and wanted to date them just because they were
Speaker 1: part of another culture? Yeah? Du Bi like oh yeah,
Speaker 1: but isn't they got money? Because I feel like that's
Speaker 1: like no, no, no, no, no, They're actually some of
Speaker 1: them are beautiful? Are they are beautiful? It looks really
Speaker 1: really really good, like this game Complexion to me, They're
Speaker 1: like because okay, I had a like a Puerto Rican
Speaker 1: phase like when I was younger, Puerto Rican dude. Then
Speaker 1: I went then once I started in my beginning of
Speaker 1: my dancing career. I love the Dominican niggas from uptown.
Speaker 1: You know, oh god, I've never had these, but I
Speaker 1: didn't like la, No, I've never had you never had
Speaker 1: a Dominican, I mean Dominican and black, or like Puerto
Speaker 1: Rican and black tieing black, black and white. Hold on,
Speaker 1: let me tell you why. I do like guys like
Speaker 1: like those guys over there and like the Middle East
Speaker 1: and ship like that, because to me, I had like
Speaker 1: the Puerto Rican Dominican phase. And then of course I love,
Speaker 1: love love black men, and to me they're like a
Speaker 1: blend of like a black man and a Spanish man
Speaker 1: or black. Yeah, and then of course they buy you
Speaker 1: have some money, but like really though on the surface,
Speaker 1: like they dead, look mad sexy. I love the hyebrows
Speaker 1: of Middle Eastern people in general. Women. I like the
Speaker 1: facial hair. It's funny to me. I don't know if
Speaker 1: this will count. It was hard so the definition mentioned culture,
Speaker 1: and I think you put me on this. I kind
Speaker 1: of started becoming a trade because I didn't see it
Speaker 1: intil I was up here. I love um black man
Speaker 1: with the little what you call the Muslim things on
Speaker 1: their head. Yeah, I don't know, but that to me
Speaker 1: is like another culture. They Muslim, but they're but they're
Speaker 1: black with the Muslim thing on their head. No, but
Speaker 1: I didn't like you kind of even introduced me, like
Speaker 1: when we used to go out and she'd be like,
Speaker 1: there's mad Muslim black about Muslim. If you like the Muslims,
Speaker 1: they just can't be the Only thing I fear with
Speaker 1: like black Muslim is that they went to jail first.
Speaker 1: Is that where they all convert? No, not what I
Speaker 1: was like, Oh, but I know what I was gonna say.
Speaker 1: I feel like a little too like old school and
Speaker 1: values like being you have to be the woman, you
Speaker 1: have to do this. I'm not gonna lie. I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna lie me. And the only issue that I do
Speaker 1: have with that, and I remember I felt bad. So
Speaker 1: now it took me to breakfast one time with one
Speaker 1: of her old niggas. You know what she's talking about. Well,
Speaker 1: I don't know, bring more more details because we don't. Yeah,
Speaker 1: yeah it was it was breakfast. It was breakfast, and
Speaker 1: it was a Muslim nigga, and I felt bad because
Speaker 1: bit want real bad, baby, I felt, oh yeah, I don't.
Speaker 1: So I ordered the bacon, but I felt bad because
Speaker 1: I know you're supposed to be respectful, Like it happened
Speaker 1: another time. I'm talking to this other he was actually
Speaker 1: a ballplayer but was Muslim or of Muslim religion, and
Speaker 1: but I ordered a grilled cheese and they had him
Speaker 1: in it, and then I kind of feel bad. Is that?
Speaker 1: Why is that disrespected? It's not supposed to because even baking,
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, but you can't eat pork and
Speaker 1: my house, but that's your house. But before you converted,
Speaker 1: like even like if we're paying for it, Like if
Speaker 1: I'm at dinner, her nigga paid for it, I feel
Speaker 1: bad he had to pay for my bacon. Yeah, Like
Speaker 1: that's that's a disrespectful part of it. Like that, how
Speaker 1: are you gonna ask a Muslim to pay for you
Speaker 1: know what? So my father is ISRAELI, my mom is black,
Speaker 1: and my dad eats kind of kosher, right, so he
Speaker 1: doesn't eat pork, he doesn't make me and cheese. I
Speaker 1: ain't gonna lie. I'm a grown woman. I'd be paying
Speaker 1: some of their bills now I'd be eating that. What else?
Speaker 1: Today I went on a It wasn't a date. It
Speaker 1: was like a business meeting or something. I forgot what
Speaker 1: religion he was, but he kind of looked at me
Speaker 1: sideways because I had shellfish. He went into a whole
Speaker 1: goddamn speeling. You know those are like roaches, like they're
Speaker 1: the bottom. What what? What? What culture? Can't you have shellfish?
Speaker 1: It's some type of Christian religion maybe Islam? Is that?
Speaker 1: How much different is that from Muslim? It is? So
Speaker 1: I don't think he's Muslim? What do you mean right now?
Speaker 1: I'm like the other day, I don't know. See, that's
Speaker 1: why we need a producer. We're save on that when
Speaker 1: you need him. Guy, you didn't know that that's Islamic whatever.
Speaker 1: I'm not religious, I told y'all I don't do religion.
Speaker 1: So even like when people be just I don't, I'm
Speaker 1: come on, I'm not. I'm actually sticking on and I'm
Speaker 1: not religious. Okay, I'm learning. I'm still learning. God Damn.
Speaker 1: I do want to say one thing I wanted to
Speaker 1: try to figure out because like, where is the worder
Speaker 1: line between fetishizing and being into other cultures? Right? Like?
Speaker 1: Can I want to explore but not be fetishizing? And
Speaker 1: that's the thing what exactly is? Because I feel like
Speaker 1: if white girls want black men. It looked at like
Speaker 1: they're fetishizing black men, but then it's like they just
Speaker 1: want some of that big dick. And I know all
Speaker 1: of them got on, that's right, but like big like
Speaker 1: to me, it's like, I think if you want to
Speaker 1: go with money, like if money is your thing, you'll
Speaker 1: go with like any race, if money is your thing,
Speaker 1: and if you go on for a big dick, nine
Speaker 1: times out of ten you'll lean to. The fetishizing is
Speaker 1: when that's all you need is sex from that person, right,
Speaker 1: Because a lot of white men that are into black
Speaker 1: women just want to funk them and then they're done.
Speaker 1: White girls that are doing that, they wouldn't date them.
Speaker 1: So I think that's the fetishizing thing. When it's just
Speaker 1: a fantasy and smart bit, that's kind of good. Okay,
Speaker 1: Now that is because I like or you feel like
Speaker 1: you have to sneak because that's what you want, but
Speaker 1: technical but you wouldn't be with it or you wouldn't
Speaker 1: bring them to your to your parents homes or anything like. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's just usually people are secretive about secretive about it, right,
Speaker 1: So if it's something that you're like tip someone on,
Speaker 1: then yeah, it's probably God taught you last weight just
Speaker 1: a chair just collapsed. Whoa I put and I pulled
Speaker 1: the guy there a little ship. I'm over here playing
Speaker 1: with my old feet playing this ship. Boy bad. No,
Speaker 1: but it's crazy, but I'm not. So let me ask
Speaker 1: you then if so we're talking about that. Uh, let's
Speaker 1: say that you know white guy that only dates black girls.
Speaker 1: I do, I do? Would you be fetizing even though
Speaker 1: he's in relationship with them? Would that is that fetishizing
Speaker 1: even though because he like, you know, because I dated
Speaker 1: this guy that I'm talking about right, um, And at
Speaker 1: first I was like, like I was like looking at
Speaker 1: this thing, like what the fund is? Like what's your
Speaker 1: what's your thing? Because that's the only white guy ever dated,
Speaker 1: dated like seriously in my house, met my mom, like
Speaker 1: all of this. But like his whole passes like his
Speaker 1: black girls. So he goes out on days all that.
Speaker 1: He's not embarrassed about it, he's not ashamed about it.
Speaker 1: But now a lot of people do say, like when
Speaker 1: white guys are like only with black women is the thing.
Speaker 1: But I think the thing is too to make sure
Speaker 1: that like we all understand that preference and like your
Speaker 1: surroundings are thing. For example, Sam white out not only
Speaker 1: that our goddamn camera guy. We was talking earlier, you
Speaker 1: in you Indian, right, we was talking he's never dated
Speaker 1: another Indian, but it's he like he looks at himself
Speaker 1: as black. I was like, Oh, all the black girls
Speaker 1: like playing it you're here, right, okay? Not only black girls,
Speaker 1: not like, but he's dated everyone. Do you think that
Speaker 1: has something to do with you not being being a
Speaker 1: textbook Indian guy? Wait? Why what do you mean textbook?
Speaker 1: Are you from looking at what he's wearing? We should
Speaker 1: all be feminist. I'm being dead out that textbook Indian.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Like, for example, A cost
Speaker 1: talks about how he's a comedian not a doctor, and
Speaker 1: how he's like right, right, right, right, okay, which is
Speaker 1: why I said Sam, Sam lives in Harlem. Sam sitting
Speaker 1: here went to an hbcut white guys like a white guy.
Speaker 1: I'd be like, yo, like, I hate what it was
Speaker 1: like Tommy, Yeah, I like exactly, Tommy. I googled it
Speaker 1: and apparently I said that anyone else kept this like
Speaker 1: googled it and apparently it came out in the acting
Speaker 1: scene and it wasn't in the script. And they chose
Speaker 1: to leave it. That's trash. But wait, look, look, wait, wait,
Speaker 1: it's funny because that wasn't in the script. That's crazy
Speaker 1: TV saying. It's just something like to go. It's like, yeah, nigga,
Speaker 1: we family like that. And I think I think he
Speaker 1: was in character. He was imagine if you were in
Speaker 1: this hood Asked movie, you can't that's like one of
Speaker 1: your white friends slipping and saying nigger in a song.
Speaker 1: It's not like they called you a nigga, but they
Speaker 1: just in the song. Bro, they have the concert and
Speaker 1: they're like, what up? What are you gonna do? If?
Speaker 1: I mean, I ain't gonna do nothing. But I know.
Speaker 1: I was in Vegas and I was talking to this
Speaker 1: couple from Canada, and I think because me and my
Speaker 1: friend were black, they just felt so comfortable. They dropped
Speaker 1: the nigga the M bomb like sucking four times to
Speaker 1: where I just felt uncomfortable talking to them. You gotta
Speaker 1: say something, Yeah, I don't like when you're too comfortable
Speaker 1: with why are you saying? I was just like, like
Speaker 1: Tommy probably was in character. I went to a concert
Speaker 1: with a white friend of mine who shall read me nameless,
Speaker 1: and we got real fucked up and he looked at me.
Speaker 1: He's like, dude, I love you. I love you too,
Speaker 1: and he goes, let me just get one. I said one?
Speaker 1: What and he goes, never mind. So then ten minutes
Speaker 1: go by, I said, were you asking me to say
Speaker 1: n He's like, absolutely not, I mean unless you want
Speaker 1: me to. And then we were at me and I
Speaker 1: saw him the whole time and he was like it
Speaker 1: and he was he was holding it back and I
Speaker 1: found that because the thing is, you can't give a
Speaker 1: pass because then he know what's happened. The next time.
Speaker 1: He could end up saying it on me go saying
Speaker 1: ni niga a lot? Isn't there a whole song? Wasn't
Speaker 1: just know? We'll figure it out. Well, we're gonna go
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Speaker 1: just asking. Anyways, I'm gonna continue for the rest of
Speaker 1: this episode. Anyways, guys, we're gonna go ahead and job
Speaker 1: into the horrible decision um for this week. And I'm
Speaker 1: super excited to have this conversation. So if you guys
Speaker 1: do not follow Naya now only is she like an
Speaker 1: o G in real life, was a stripper, now a
Speaker 1: rapper on TV. You can see her really everywhere. She's
Speaker 1: also a mom and y'all know me and Wheezy we'll
Speaker 1: be talking about whole ship, but we don't have kids.
Speaker 1: So a lot of our listeners do have kids and
Speaker 1: kind of want to worry like not worry, but kind
Speaker 1: of want to have us discussed how to stay sexy
Speaker 1: after having a baby. Um, and you're also in a relationship,
Speaker 1: so I wanted to get into that. So I guess
Speaker 1: what what do you think was one of the biggest
Speaker 1: changes with you after having your baby and even your
Speaker 1: your body vagina? Okay, so this is what everyone tells you,
Speaker 1: like when you're about to have give birth and stuff that,
Speaker 1: like contractions, contractions, but you should know this because you
Speaker 1: are going to push a baby through your vagina, right.
Speaker 1: No one tells you that you truly could possibly be
Speaker 1: ripped from the ruta to the fucking tutor. So when
Speaker 1: I when I when I get birth, they have to
Speaker 1: cut me right like in my area to like make
Speaker 1: more space for my baby to come on, they're gonna
Speaker 1: go listen to ain't no. So I had a couple
Speaker 1: sitsches down there that I needed to heal. So I
Speaker 1: had to definitely sit out and sit out and wait
Speaker 1: and stuff like that. Did you feel like she got
Speaker 1: knocked around? It was just it was bad. Honestly, the
Speaker 1: first six months after having my child, it was the worst.
Speaker 1: It was the worst. Sex was horrible. It was you
Speaker 1: just don't feel like your vagina. It took my vagina
Speaker 1: I would say, like ten months to get back to normal.
Speaker 1: But so you pushed the baby out, right, does it
Speaker 1: feel like you're taking a ship out of your pussy?
Speaker 1: And I had I took a epidour, so I didn't
Speaker 1: feel ship. I didn't feel anything. And that's another thing.
Speaker 1: So I'm sitting there and I'm looking at her. The
Speaker 1: baby comes out, the baby is crowning or whatever. She's like,
Speaker 1: give me the scissors, and I'm like, for what And
Speaker 1: she's just like and I'm like, bitch, is not that
Speaker 1: much space between the vagina and the ass. I did
Speaker 1: a lot of space once your vagina experience, between the
Speaker 1: pussy and the ass and this, but just like, wait,
Speaker 1: she cut between you're pussing your ass to like she
Speaker 1: has to make it likely that didn't alive about with
Speaker 1: just girls in it, right, And it was so funny.
Speaker 1: It was only like fifty people in there and we
Speaker 1: were just all it was me and a friend of
Speaker 1: mine had a baby. We were talking with women about
Speaker 1: all of the questions they had about vaginas and she
Speaker 1: Hina got a hell after ye and she was say,
Speaker 1: comes back on really hell your vagina because I wanted
Speaker 1: to fun like three weeks later, and my man is like, babe,
Speaker 1: like they told us we had to wait at least
Speaker 1: six weeks, and you should wait a little bit long
Speaker 1: ago you got said. I was like, that doesn't feel loose?
Speaker 1: I did? I did? I had sex at three weeks?
Speaker 1: You did have sex at three didn't? Did it feel
Speaker 1: like it went back down? How long does it take
Speaker 1: for a vagina to get back down? My vagina? The
Speaker 1: inside of my vagina, to me pretty much like went
Speaker 1: back like normal. It was really the going like the
Speaker 1: entrance of my like my grand opening, like that ship
Speaker 1: was all funked up, Like my curb appeal wasn't Did
Speaker 1: you consider vain whatever now? Because it's like the statics
Speaker 1: was so good, but just like that one, the the
Speaker 1: little area between the vagina and the asshole. Yeah. So
Speaker 1: I wanted to bring something up that I don't know
Speaker 1: if you remember, and I want to talk about it
Speaker 1: because I wonder if other people have the same feelings.
Speaker 1: Do you remember when you were saying like, I'm not suing,
Speaker 1: nobody just had kids? Yeah, I used to. Yeah, Now
Speaker 1: what scared you about it? I don't know. Um, you
Speaker 1: know it's crazy because then I told you I with
Speaker 1: his baby mama and she she had mad kids with him,
Speaker 1: and thought about it until now because you were like,
Speaker 1: I don't want to and then and then we said
Speaker 1: you didn't want a girl with no kids? Yeah, like
Speaker 1: you said the babies too new that I said once,
Speaker 1: once my friends have babies, like because you know, I'll
Speaker 1: be working all my friends. But once my friends have kids,
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I don't know if I would
Speaker 1: want to suck them after a kid, like I don't
Speaker 1: have to meet either, not I like them seven years
Speaker 1: I've had kids. But then I mean, no, no, you
Speaker 1: said that they had to have seven year old I
Speaker 1: said seven year old kids? Like once they were I said,
Speaker 1: at least a two year old? Like do you think
Speaker 1: about like because I'm like you putting your dick in it?
Speaker 1: Like are you worrying? Your face though? Is in it? Bro?
Speaker 1: I know, but I'm saying for the time, but I mean,
Speaker 1: my whole face is down there, and I just know
Speaker 1: a whole last human being just came out to eat
Speaker 1: a vagina. And I says, got to give two years,
Speaker 1: especially going through with my parts her child, but to
Speaker 1: be like two years and better, maybe even three. But like,
Speaker 1: what is it though? Because I know what I went
Speaker 1: through and my healing parts, I don't want I don't
Speaker 1: want it. I don't want it. I don't about to
Speaker 1: make me request the C section with this talk. I
Speaker 1: don't want to keep a hundred Yeah, I don't want it. Now,
Speaker 1: what do you think? Um? Was the biggest issue with
Speaker 1: Like did you have any kind of like body image issues?
Speaker 1: Were you feeling a certain way? Yeah? I definitely. I
Speaker 1: gained a lot of weight, but I mean my dude
Speaker 1: is like into like all my body types, big, small,
Speaker 1: a little whatever. He never makes me feel no type
Speaker 1: of way, So that helped. But um, honestly, the big
Speaker 1: my biggest thing was letting the pussy hill because I
Speaker 1: fucked crazy. You know what I'm saying, Like, I like
Speaker 1: like turning up, but when you're vagina is broken for
Speaker 1: like six eight months in the relationship, that's now when
Speaker 1: it comes to like so like you have you have
Speaker 1: the baby. You pushed him out right, and then like
Speaker 1: how did you get to go back because you know
Speaker 1: you've talked about threesomes and things like that you've had
Speaker 1: with your man. Could you go back into that after
Speaker 1: the baby. How did that we have three sesomes after
Speaker 1: the baby? We had three sasons before. I think the
Speaker 1: number one thing when it comes to threesomes, whether you're
Speaker 1: you have the woman has to want it. Like I
Speaker 1: tell girls that all the time, Like, don't try to
Speaker 1: have a threesome with your nigga because you think like, oh,
Speaker 1: I gotta be this fun turn up girl. Then this
Speaker 1: bitch comes in the room and you're like in the
Speaker 1: corner crying somewhere because you emotionally could not handle this.
Speaker 1: So so we get like bitches because I like bitches,
Speaker 1: and I like threesomes because I like three SOMs. It's
Speaker 1: not like, let me have a threesome to lock my
Speaker 1: new dude down. We get We get asked us a lot.
Speaker 1: How do you bring it up with your partner about
Speaker 1: wanting to have a threesome? Oh, I'll be like, baby
Speaker 1: want tonight? Oh reverse with dude? What about a dude
Speaker 1: that's never And by the way, we have already talked
Speaker 1: about this, but johns asked the same question every week,
Speaker 1: and so let's go on reverse. John wants to fuck.
Speaker 1: Oh no way, that's that's two way. You know. Damn
Speaker 1: Jamale wants to fuck Tierra with another chick. Tierra had
Speaker 1: been together for like a year and a half, but
Speaker 1: he doesn't know how to bring it up without making
Speaker 1: Tierra feel insecure. So how can he bring this up
Speaker 1: in a way that will make her feel comfortable enough?
Speaker 1: What are the things that he has to do? How
Speaker 1: should that conversation? Um? Okay, boom, this is This is
Speaker 1: what I go up on my dude right like I go.
Speaker 1: He deletes it now, which gets on my nerves. But
Speaker 1: I always go into his like cash at his history
Speaker 1: of like what porn he watched, to be like, oh
Speaker 1: he was looking at Spanish bitches. Huh, I gotta go.
Speaker 1: Let's go Spanish bitches this week. So I would say
Speaker 1: for a guy to put to put like threesome ship
Speaker 1: like in his thing and then like purposely let her
Speaker 1: find it and see what she says, and then you
Speaker 1: could test the waters there. I have actually brought the
Speaker 1: same thing up, saying like I think you'll should watch
Speaker 1: pouring together and be like what do you think of this? No,
Speaker 1: but I don't even think that, because that's like what
Speaker 1: if the bitch ain't searching for his through his phone?
Speaker 1: I think leave your laps, bitch, just looking through. Leave
Speaker 1: your laptop open, because I'm gonna give you the reaction
Speaker 1: that he could say. So you're really looking up three suns?
Speaker 1: Is that what you want to do with me? Yeah, bitch,
Speaker 1: is with it or not? You know what I think?
Speaker 1: To New York wor a great question, Mandy hasn't here
Speaker 1: that like it says, as a new mom, how does
Speaker 1: having a baby change your body and your libido? Like
Speaker 1: your sex more sex or less sex? Or it goes
Speaker 1: up and down? Like before my baby, I was like
Speaker 1: a little sex kid and I wanted to definitely work.
Speaker 1: But now because you're you have you know, you have
Speaker 1: to take care of a child, you don't have as
Speaker 1: much energy. So honestly, my sex job goes up and down.
Speaker 1: And it's crazy because I don't think I lost it completely.
Speaker 1: We had a we had a homemail about that. And
Speaker 1: I don't think men realize the energy even of being
Speaker 1: a new mom, Like, yeah, were probably sucking like rabbits
Speaker 1: before the baby. But now and not only that, not
Speaker 1: only do you have a job, like and you're always
Speaker 1: on the go, always somewhere at events, are somewhere. You're
Speaker 1: still the mother of the house, so you're still probably
Speaker 1: cleaning the house, doing everything about the house. But now
Speaker 1: you also gotta take care of the whole last human being. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and my man is like my second child too. I
Speaker 1: gotta cook when he comes home. He's like, babe, were
Speaker 1: were like, nigga, you don past fifteen fast food restaurant.
Speaker 1: You know, I had a full day of work, Like
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like they don't understand that sometimes,
Speaker 1: so that that that's sort of a funer balance. I mean,
Speaker 1: when you we're pregnant, did you find that you want
Speaker 1: to text more? They said while I was talking about pregnant? Yeah,
Speaker 1: did he say your pussy taking? Are you pregnant? I
Speaker 1: didn't want him to eat me out? That was so
Speaker 1: weird for me, Like what's the belly star? You thought
Speaker 1: maybe he could see the baby inside? I was like, no,
Speaker 1: I couldn't see what Maybe he was maybe but maybe
Speaker 1: he was gonna look inside and they hided his child. Why?
Speaker 1: I don't know. Why? Why do you want to eat
Speaker 1: you out? Suck my ship up right right so you
Speaker 1: know you know I'm rubbing into my body. You try
Speaker 1: to keep snatched. So I'm into myself, Like I'll be
Speaker 1: like I like sing in front of a mirror, you know, like, yes,
Speaker 1: so you were, and I didn't like. I like, I'm
Speaker 1: a is it a pillow? Is what is it like
Speaker 1: laying back getting head? Yeah? I like to lay back
Speaker 1: and get head. I don't really like sitting on faces.
Speaker 1: I do occasionally, but I don't like it. So when
Speaker 1: I could come, it's usually on my back. So once
Speaker 1: the belly start getting to a point where I can't
Speaker 1: even see the top of your motherfucking head, I'm like,
Speaker 1: this is weird because you can't even see him anymore.
Speaker 1: You're just looking at your baby, and you got the
Speaker 1: baby like moving, like, oh, whats y'all got going on
Speaker 1: out there? Like that was weird. So like the last trimester,
Speaker 1: it was like a pillow and ass up in the air. Honey.
Speaker 1: I was like, hello, I still wanted to funk, but
Speaker 1: I just didn't want no head because it was just
Speaker 1: weird for me. So so another another direction we wanted
Speaker 1: to take this because now that you're a mommy, UM,
Speaker 1: a lot of people, I would say, both men and women,
Speaker 1: feel like once you become a mom you have to
Speaker 1: carry yourself a certain way. Um, you have to be
Speaker 1: a certain way. Is now you're a mom and you
Speaker 1: went want your child to see this, So, um, could
Speaker 1: you pull up this picture UM for me real quick.
Speaker 1: So I have a photo and we posted it on
Speaker 1: our Instagram and it got a ton of comments. Um.
Speaker 1: So because you wrap your on tv um, you are
Speaker 1: very confident with your body. You wear whatever the funk
Speaker 1: you want, and this is probably something similar to some
Speaker 1: things you've worn before. The picture is a picture of
Speaker 1: a lot of you guys have seen. It turned into
Speaker 1: a meme, and meme says, are y'all okay with your
Speaker 1: wife stepping out like this? And it's a picture of
Speaker 1: Gucci Maine with his wife Kesha, and she's wearing a
Speaker 1: see through jumpsuit. I mean she's wearing what it looks
Speaker 1: like to me underneath. Undwere like, you can't pay she's
Speaker 1: got an underwear. And honestly, when I saw this, I
Speaker 1: was like, I've seen mad chicks and mesh jumpsuits. I
Speaker 1: don't really know what. I don't understand, but I think
Speaker 1: it's now because of quote unquote, now she's a wife.
Speaker 1: So she's a wife that's so but have but she's
Speaker 1: also a mother, and that she also has a brand
Speaker 1: and things like that. As well, so like, well, she's
Speaker 1: supposed to stop everything. Let me ask you for for
Speaker 1: our listeners who don't have brands and maybe they just
Speaker 1: want to go to the club, but their home girls
Speaker 1: and they saw they saw someone on Instagram with this,
Speaker 1: and it was like, I know, I would look bombing
Speaker 1: that ship too, and they should get it. They should
Speaker 1: get it. They should get it the conversations should you
Speaker 1: are like I like my The whole thing is if
Speaker 1: you are living in your troop and you are in
Speaker 1: a relationship, they should accept you for who you are.
Speaker 1: When my deal met, I was a fucking thought and
Speaker 1: I was willing to stop being a thought if he
Speaker 1: was willing to stop being a thought because he was
Speaker 1: a thought. So we got together and we both just
Speaker 1: you know, love each other and stuff like that. But
Speaker 1: I didn't have to change the way AD dressed. The
Speaker 1: only thing I had to not disrespect him, and you know,
Speaker 1: obviously in different aspects, but my clothes, my appearance, the
Speaker 1: way I speak, Like I asked him something. Sometimes I'm like, baby,
Speaker 1: you know, sometimes i'd be like my thought days on
Speaker 1: He's like, I don't care, Like I know, I know you.
Speaker 1: So when your partner knows the core of you. I
Speaker 1: know you got that hole in you. He was like,
Speaker 1: I know there's a little hole still and there's fun
Speaker 1: maybe since you that you used to be thought, he
Speaker 1: used to be thought. Have y'all ever discussed no monogamy
Speaker 1: and open relationships? Um, he's definitely not with that, and
Speaker 1: I'm not with that when y'all have threesomes. We have
Speaker 1: threesomes here, Like, he can't funk no bitch when I'm
Speaker 1: not over No, I don't know. That's cheating to me,
Speaker 1: that's cheating. No, that is I mean we bought out
Speaker 1: there and I say, ing, that's what your rule is,
Speaker 1: and don't look around him, then that's it. Yeah, don't like,
Speaker 1: just don't like, don't have no. And I think it
Speaker 1: goes both ways, Like in a relationship with me and him, right,
Speaker 1: it's been pretty public. Everybody knows that we're being together.
Speaker 1: But no, but everybody kind of thinks that we have
Speaker 1: this perfect thing, right and me and my dude both
Speaker 1: have had infidelities on both sides. So you know what
Speaker 1: makes me it's not everybody business. I want to bring
Speaker 1: black on each other on social media. I want to
Speaker 1: bring back that because it just made me think the
Speaker 1: fact that you did say that, Um, A lot of
Speaker 1: people say you can't turn a hole into a housewife.
Speaker 1: Do you think the fact that both of y'all was
Speaker 1: hosed at one point that that, oh it helped. I
Speaker 1: think it helped because like coping around the block and
Speaker 1: you know, yeah, but you guys still both cheated, So
Speaker 1: do you feel like that's always something that you would expect?
Speaker 1: So if I didn't have my whole phase and I
Speaker 1: haven't been a whole and now I'm dating a dude,
Speaker 1: should he just automatically assume that I'm probably still gonna
Speaker 1: be a whole? Like when minds it was like he
Speaker 1: knows why I cheated and I know why he cheated, right,
Speaker 1: And that's why we both were able to move on
Speaker 1: because we both have flaws into why to make the
Speaker 1: other person feel insecure to go back backtrack and do
Speaker 1: you know, go back that route. So that's what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like when this ship comes out later on, even like
Speaker 1: this ship like, oh my god, NAILI are a man
Speaker 1: cheated on each other before that's never made it to
Speaker 1: social media. You know what I'm saying, you might try
Speaker 1: to put a magnifying glass on there. Whatever. Me and
Speaker 1: him both know. He knows what he did to provoke
Speaker 1: me to do it, because I thought it was over
Speaker 1: like you felt like you were to cheat? What he
Speaker 1: did to me? Know what he did and I'm provoked
Speaker 1: me to cheat? Yes, what he did to me, I'm
Speaker 1: not going to funk up his character that he it
Speaker 1: to me. I would me and him was going to
Speaker 1: be over like and that I was like, you know what,
Speaker 1: I don't want to be with this niven no more
Speaker 1: so I'm just gonna jump out the window. This nigga
Speaker 1: really ain't gonna want to be with me. That's what
Speaker 1: I'm I thinking was it's retarded. Now I think I'm
Speaker 1: like that was stupid as I was like, you know
Speaker 1: what he thinks? I'm getting back when I'm gonna funk somebody.
Speaker 1: Do you feel like if your partner cheats? I was
Speaker 1: gonna say, yeah, like if your partner cheefs, do you
Speaker 1: feel like you kind of have a pass now to
Speaker 1: cheat or how does that? How do you think anybody
Speaker 1: has a cheated cheating? To me, it's like and he
Speaker 1: didn't cheat first and then I cheated. Oh he did something.
Speaker 1: He cheating. He cheated before I even cheated, like you
Speaker 1: cheated before me before. Yeah, like cheating if like I
Speaker 1: think something's real, cheating when like you're being deceitful right
Speaker 1: you out here not telling me what was going on.
Speaker 1: Blah blah blah blah blah. So like that already hurts
Speaker 1: one person just to hurt back, like, yeah, that's what
Speaker 1: that's what we didn't do. I think that that's why
Speaker 1: we're able to up, Like if you're cheating as a
Speaker 1: result because you're angry and it wasn't she I don't know,
Speaker 1: So let me can I ask both of y'all so
Speaker 1: than actually, because because we all are friends, I know
Speaker 1: that both of y'all, even you saying this, you both
Speaker 1: have been in relationships where your partner has cheated and
Speaker 1: you stayed with them. What a lot of people feel
Speaker 1: like once they're cheated on, they can't stay with their partners.
Speaker 1: So how did both of y'all get past the cheating part? We?
Speaker 1: I think that me and my man wasn't like no, no, no.
Speaker 1: I think that me and my man both were able
Speaker 1: to get past it because he bought his ship to me.
Speaker 1: I bought my ship to him. And that's why I
Speaker 1: think that it didn't make it to social media communication.
Speaker 1: So you told on yourself. I told on myself and
Speaker 1: that's a big deal. And he told him that's never
Speaker 1: happened to me, and I think that that eliminates the embarrassment. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you have to find out. See I felt embarrassed. That
Speaker 1: was the number one feeling, and I felt like I
Speaker 1: couldn't go back from that. She was someone I knew.
Speaker 1: I got cheated on a lot. But you know, but
Speaker 1: I think the main thing for me is I was younger,
Speaker 1: and I didn't really forgive it all. Like I brought
Speaker 1: it up a lot, and I think that you do
Speaker 1: have to forgive. You can't keep bringing it up. And
Speaker 1: that's the thing that really sucked me up because I would,
Speaker 1: I mean anything, We could be having a great time
Speaker 1: and I would just bring it and little things would
Speaker 1: trigger me, you know what I mean. He cheated on
Speaker 1: me with a girl that had red hair. If we
Speaker 1: passed someone in the street, he would, he would watch
Speaker 1: my demeanor change. Just little things could tick me off.
Speaker 1: And I am a guys not in his head like yep,
Speaker 1: this you've been cheated on. You've been cheated on. Oh
Speaker 1: my baby's Like can we go Um, but no, I
Speaker 1: mean you have to forgive, you do. And that is
Speaker 1: the thing, that thing that ruined it. I mean, he
Speaker 1: wasn't somebody I should have been with, but not forgiving.
Speaker 1: I mean, cause imagine if like and that's another thing,
Speaker 1: you can't sucking out of my friends. I didn't his
Speaker 1: friends like that can't a friend. But like a small
Speaker 1: city and like everybody you know, I could go to
Speaker 1: the fucking strip club and see the girl he and
Speaker 1: that was hard. Um. But yeah, if I ever got
Speaker 1: cheated on again and I was in a serious relationship,
Speaker 1: I think the main thing would be is me telling
Speaker 1: him to myself, can I handle this? And am I
Speaker 1: gonna shut the funk up and move past it? Because
Speaker 1: you do get started for it too. Yeah, I would
Speaker 1: bring it up and what can I do about it?
Speaker 1: Took me about eight months to like really because like together,
Speaker 1: we've been together like four years now, so it took
Speaker 1: me about like eight months to really really because really
Speaker 1: really digested and say, he came to me with this
Speaker 1: he like you know what I'm saying, because he saved
Speaker 1: me in the embarrassment. So that's really the mooth leverage
Speaker 1: that he had in the situation. You know. And another
Speaker 1: thing too, the fact that it wasn't like a bartender like,
Speaker 1: because that's what I got cheated on a lot back
Speaker 1: in the day in my strip and I always kept
Speaker 1: a nigga right, and they would cheat on me with
Speaker 1: these bitches who you know what I'm saying. Any nigga
Speaker 1: they see me with, you already know bitches like, oh
Speaker 1: he was with Nia. He threw two dollars that nire
Speaker 1: I want to He's so fucking weak. There's this this dude, right,
Speaker 1: I gotta tell you all this story. You know, and
Speaker 1: you know what I'm talking about, but I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: give them no names. I went to There was this
Speaker 1: dude I was dating from Brooklyn and you know whatever,
Speaker 1: we go with me and my girls want to day party.
Speaker 1: I call him. I'm like, hey, what you're doing. He's like,
Speaker 1: I'm in a city with some of my friends we
Speaker 1: met and my couple of girls. We go meet up
Speaker 1: with them to have dinner and it's momor Day weakenness
Speaker 1: coming up, and I'm like, look, I'm not going to Miami,
Speaker 1: but my I mean, I'm not going to can Coom
Speaker 1: for momor Day weekend, but my girls is gonna be
Speaker 1: out there day. I was like, day going. I was like,
Speaker 1: take care of my girls, like you know how I am.
Speaker 1: I'm like, take them in the club. You already know
Speaker 1: the back back. So I'm like, look, just take care
Speaker 1: of my home girls. You know what I'm saying him
Speaker 1: and his dudes because it's him and his friends and
Speaker 1: it's my friends. So obviously I'm not saying fun any
Speaker 1: of my friends. Just make sure they're good in the clubs.
Speaker 1: They go to can Coon, they come back one of
Speaker 1: the extra girls, like you don't know, such and such,
Speaker 1: fun such and such. This weekend, I was like, no,
Speaker 1: and it was one of it was your friends that
Speaker 1: I introduced, And I'm like, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: So that that ship hurts, Like That's why I'm so
Speaker 1: happy that my man is not weak for these more
Speaker 1: the Crystal and um saving the embarrassment when they went
Speaker 1: to Orlando, I was like, oh, I need this. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I feel like the moral of this story is fellas
Speaker 1: if you got a girlfriend and you didn't cheat it
Speaker 1: on her, you should go go to her like a
Speaker 1: grown ass man and tell her that you cheated on her.
Speaker 1: Because as FBI inspector Gadget as bitches that we are,
Speaker 1: we are going to find out we always do. We
Speaker 1: always do. So I came clean about my ship because
Speaker 1: I know that I'm going to continually continue to evolve
Speaker 1: and get bigger and bigger and bigger, and I know
Speaker 1: that people are gonna try to come in and funk
Speaker 1: up the foundation that me and my man has built,
Speaker 1: even even this interview right in here, Like you know,
Speaker 1: people are gonna probably try to throw their jobs, but ultimately,
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, me and my Man
Speaker 1: have a solid fucking foundation. The only people that's gonna
Speaker 1: break me and my man is gonna be me and
Speaker 1: my Man when we decide to go seperate ways. That's
Speaker 1: you're very public with your relationship, and I actually wanted
Speaker 1: to bring a question to you as Sweezie, because we
Speaker 1: see ourselves becoming more, you know, like bigger and bigger,
Speaker 1: and there are like so many of our listeners who
Speaker 1: try to figure out who we're sucking and because we
Speaker 1: brag about them. I think you said someone was trying
Speaker 1: to figure out to even love her boy. So as
Speaker 1: we get bigger, would you have a public relationship on
Speaker 1: your on Instagram with who you date next or because
Speaker 1: you're very secretive with that. But I'm wondering if it's
Speaker 1: because like you're nervous that yeah, same, I think that
Speaker 1: it's not necessarily Like if I'm worried about a breakup
Speaker 1: and like going through that, I just more someone to
Speaker 1: protect that person, like as people as people could be
Speaker 1: on the internet towards me and you find you. It's
Speaker 1: almost like me and Mandy will talk about the ship
Speaker 1: that we do and then they'll go on and act
Speaker 1: like they heard some new info. They just a house.
Speaker 1: They just because just to know that someone could do
Speaker 1: that to somebody else, Like I would never want to
Speaker 1: put somebody through that because I just know how ridiculous
Speaker 1: people are and like how hurtful they try to be
Speaker 1: in negative and it's just like why bring someone in
Speaker 1: my life like that? No, but that's why you you
Speaker 1: got to see if I spoke to my partner right
Speaker 1: and even with the infidelities, if I knew that he
Speaker 1: would be uncomfortable about me even talking about it, and
Speaker 1: then I wouldn't talk about it. If there's certain things
Speaker 1: that like I said, he's like, yeah, baby, I know
Speaker 1: you say thought days like you know, we have this conversation,
Speaker 1: so I respect. There are certain things that I won't
Speaker 1: talk about. Like I said, I didn't give you guys
Speaker 1: the reason why I treated because I'm not here to
Speaker 1: assassinate his character. That's still the child of the father
Speaker 1: of my child. But I feel like once you have
Speaker 1: that the connection with somebody, you guys sit down and
Speaker 1: you have like you know, these are the guidelines, Like
Speaker 1: I'm Alec because he lets me rock and I I
Speaker 1: don't even feel like I'm like chained up or not,
Speaker 1: Like it's not about me having this hope for Sona.
Speaker 1: It's more so like you don't know if I have
Speaker 1: just learned, Like the more that we do this, people
Speaker 1: really try to be hurtful, like they really liked funk
Speaker 1: with you. So I don't give this is I this
Speaker 1: is going to come with what I do, but you
Speaker 1: don't deserve that. That's where I feel like, like what
Speaker 1: if the guy is like, no, baby, fuck them, like
Speaker 1: I don't care. The only time I would do that
Speaker 1: then is if that person is in a creative field
Speaker 1: like me and can understand why people do this. For example,
Speaker 1: is I don't even want to say his name. Someone
Speaker 1: bigger than us has a bigger podcast than us. I'm like, bro,
Speaker 1: I can't handle reading these awful things. Well, me and
Speaker 1: Mandy did a therapist episode. I was feeling great about
Speaker 1: us having therapy, and then reading things about her made
Speaker 1: me almost mad at her again. I was like, I
Speaker 1: don't know how to separate these things. He was like,
Speaker 1: I don't even see him anymore, Like I just I
Speaker 1: don't really don't. But it's not even it's like reading
Speaker 1: them and not letting them bother you. So all I
Speaker 1: could think of is like, if I get a bigger
Speaker 1: and that person still sticks there, something's gonna have to stick.
Speaker 1: Something's gonna make you wonder too much, or you know,
Speaker 1: like I think people can bring you more doubt than
Speaker 1: you want them to. And that's why I think public
Speaker 1: relationships are a scary place to be unless all they're
Speaker 1: like suck the world together, like maybe it is best,
Speaker 1: but both very independent minds thinking. Because when when I
Speaker 1: when we first got together, he had an X and
Speaker 1: she was on the internet like, oh you wanta leave
Speaker 1: me for a strip of hole and like all of
Speaker 1: this crazy ship and the just still on site. But um,
Speaker 1: she don't know, but she said if it wasn't for her,
Speaker 1: then I wouldn't have my child. You want my child
Speaker 1: to do it but still on site. But I don't bizarre.
Speaker 1: Hopper's bizarre, but I still you want to block or
Speaker 1: something no shape. But you know when we first got together,
Speaker 1: you know, even Nix was like, I urge you night
Speaker 1: leaders stripper, you know what I'm saying. Like and you know,
Speaker 1: I didn't hear too much about him because he's in Jersey,
Speaker 1: but he came. He showed me like pictures of him
Speaker 1: wearing shirts that said who handler. I was like hands
Speaker 1: And it's crazy because I feel like there's so many
Speaker 1: men who maybe won't quote unquote cuff for home because
Speaker 1: of what other people are gonna say and how they're
Speaker 1: gonna say it, and be like, that's who you with,
Speaker 1: that's who you're gonna bring home to you was evolving,
Speaker 1: you think, because I think that I think that, like,
Speaker 1: like because when they aren't scared, people everybody want to
Speaker 1: But that's the thing. If women aren't scared to tell
Speaker 1: you they are anymore, then there's nothing to hide, right
Speaker 1: an It's because we've seen holes get wiped and I
Speaker 1: think it really started. I know we're talking about Rose,
Speaker 1: but Kim Kardashian yeah, I think that at least in
Speaker 1: my age. Right, you got in and the coal or whatever.
Speaker 1: But watching Kim Kardashian legit go from Niga and no
Speaker 1: one give a fun Nobody they didn't because you're but
Speaker 1: the way to me, to me, this is what I'm
Speaker 1: talking about. She did her ship with Finesse yeh. She knows.
Speaker 1: You don't see Kim even now or even around the
Speaker 1: time when the sex tape came out, Like you didn't
Speaker 1: see Kim running around like yeah, you know, I sucked it.
Speaker 1: I'm so good at it. Like she didn't do that.
Speaker 1: She just kim putting up that picture with the Chanelle
Speaker 1: bikini this week. I said that the three kids. But
Speaker 1: what man knows, I'm coming home every night. So even
Speaker 1: like I can I say lyrics like even now, I'd
Speaker 1: be like, you know, I've reminisce on my old days,
Speaker 1: like yeah, nig gotta pay if you want to play
Speaker 1: like I do that. You're saying my wraps and stuff
Speaker 1: like that. What do you think about He's trying to
Speaker 1: talk about being like when you post pictures like that, right,
Speaker 1: there are people that say you must be insecure if
Speaker 1: you need to post that. Oh for like I'm like, honest,
Speaker 1: but good good, That's how I feel. But it's crazy
Speaker 1: because there's also the other side of the coin where
Speaker 1: people feel like, if you're a kept woman, why not
Speaker 1: why not save them for him? What do you say
Speaker 1: some songs, my nigga, take the pictures of I'm gonnahow
Speaker 1: these niggas? What then and be honest with you. I
Speaker 1: think the thing that's exciting about like when I choose
Speaker 1: to show my body when I've had a man or whatever,
Speaker 1: like whatever the case may be, I feel proud of
Speaker 1: what I'm putting up. If you'd be my new titties,
Speaker 1: old titties, whatever, Like I feel good about my body
Speaker 1: just because I got a nigga. Yeah he yeah, it's
Speaker 1: for him. You saw a picture. He gets to funk it. Right.
Speaker 1: That's a thing like they act like as soon as
Speaker 1: you post on Instagram, right, a million likes is a
Speaker 1: million fucks Like no bro, right, Like there's so much
Speaker 1: more ship on the internet that I feel like this
Speaker 1: little thing just to me and this day an age
Speaker 1: to me. I just want girls to kind of go
Speaker 1: back to still having a balance and not giving out
Speaker 1: all of our secrets and like that we've been angle
Speaker 1: the stuff it. We're gonna go head y'all now and
Speaker 1: hop into our homemail segment. UM. In this segment, we
Speaker 1: read some um some letters from your listeners. If you
Speaker 1: want to go ahead and send in your homemail, please
Speaker 1: email us. UM that's horrible decisions at gmail dot com.
Speaker 1: So this first one, the title says faithful but tempted,
Speaker 1: and I wanted to, UM, definitely ask this with you
Speaker 1: since you're in a relationship and she's actually been in
Speaker 1: this relationship for four and a half, I see we
Speaker 1: should him ask coming here. So it says, my boyfriend
Speaker 1: and I have been together for about four and a
Speaker 1: half years. I am twenty three and he is five.
Speaker 1: When I met him, I was pretty much having fun
Speaker 1: with guys, and it was with seven men before him,
Speaker 1: basically in one year. I grew feelings for him before
Speaker 1: having sex. She was with seven men before him in
Speaker 1: one year basically, So she was with seven men in
Speaker 1: one year and then by number eight by monthly. You
Speaker 1: know that's not bad? Wait seven her whole life or
Speaker 1: just that year. I took it as my whole I
Speaker 1: took it as a whole life, did you Yeah? Maybe
Speaker 1: she just lost Yeah, maybe her whole life. Okay, So
Speaker 1: I grew feelings for him before having sex, and when
Speaker 1: we had sex it was just not the best. I
Speaker 1: continued with everything and fell in love with the person
Speaker 1: that he is, and eventually the sex did get better.
Speaker 1: But the last few months it has gone pretty downhill.
Speaker 1: We went from having sex pretty much every day to
Speaker 1: maybe every other week. What kills me is that to him,
Speaker 1: this is okay. I have always had a higher sex drive,
Speaker 1: but it has gotten to the point where even when
Speaker 1: I do touch him or even suck his dick, he
Speaker 1: doesn't even really get hard. I have gained some way
Speaker 1: over the years and it has made me really insecure,
Speaker 1: but when I get horny, I put all of that
Speaker 1: aside and really try to initiate it. The fact that
Speaker 1: he hardly gets turned on anymore really hurts me and
Speaker 1: makes me want to not try anymore. Recently, I have
Speaker 1: gotten into contact with an old friend who I had
Speaker 1: an who I had a thing with but never Oh no,
Speaker 1: she said, who I had a thing with but never
Speaker 1: had sex with. And I'm extremely tempted to cheat. This
Speaker 1: friend has been making me feel so special, giving me
Speaker 1: the attention that I just can't seem to get from
Speaker 1: my boyfriend. He tells me I'm sexy and that he
Speaker 1: can treat me so much better than my man. Oh,
Speaker 1: he ain't ship, which I understand could just be his
Speaker 1: way of getting me in bed, but it just makes
Speaker 1: me smile and makes me feel good about myself. I
Speaker 1: have also felt this way with a few guys that
Speaker 1: have tried to hit me up. I thought about cheating
Speaker 1: many times, and I really feel horrible about it. I
Speaker 1: love my boyfriend with all my heart. It would never
Speaker 1: do anything to hurt him, but I just can't do
Speaker 1: it anymore. I need advice on what to do. I
Speaker 1: love him and picture my life with him, but I
Speaker 1: feel like our relationship is currently destroying any confidence I had.
Speaker 1: Thanks in advance, love you guys. They need a break.
Speaker 1: She said that she thinks she's getting or she feels
Speaker 1: insecure about it. You could be projecting that because I
Speaker 1: really refused to believe that men see our bodies the
Speaker 1: way we think they look, which I told you I
Speaker 1: got more niggas when I was fat, So I really
Speaker 1: believe that. I think like like confidence really reeks, so
Speaker 1: like if you aren't feeling that hot, he could probably tell.
Speaker 1: But she said she puts it aside when she's horny,
Speaker 1: like yeah, but like you you're still she thinks that
Speaker 1: she puts it aside, but it's still maybe very visible
Speaker 1: to him. Like and then for her to mention that
Speaker 1: she's gained weight, it makes her insecurity. So to mention
Speaker 1: this is the way she says the thing about talking
Speaker 1: about it when no, not that she said that he
Speaker 1: thinks that their sex life is fine. Yeah, so maybe
Speaker 1: they have had that talk because he's thinking young she
Speaker 1: said young abe not having sex, that they should have
Speaker 1: sex all the time. Yeah, like three, and I want
Speaker 1: to everybody, Yeah, everybody. I was so scared that, like
Speaker 1: at one point I seuched so much dick at three.
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm definitely getting like a cold swords coming. Yeah. Well,
Speaker 1: now that we know, we were swallowing millions at a time,
Speaker 1: so we fought, we found the whole. We got to
Speaker 1: do that update what swallowing millions? Rode in? We had
Speaker 1: a guy saying we got home. Update. Sorry side notes
Speaker 1: to the girl, We're coming back to you, but this
Speaker 1: is a dope fast update. So a guy rode in
Speaker 1: last week, maybe a week before, and he said that
Speaker 1: his wife he came in her eye, and she said
Speaker 1: she felt the sperm swimming. So it's been like years,
Speaker 1: maybe a year or two. He said, it went by,
Speaker 1: and he said, she keeps talking about this. So another
Speaker 1: girl rode into us and she goes, it's because there's
Speaker 1: millions of sperm that come out, and if it really
Speaker 1: went in her eye, it was probably like burrows to
Speaker 1: find the egg. No way, bro, that's what she said.
Speaker 1: I don't think that's real. Told me I've had come
Speaker 1: in my eyes. We all have. But it hurts. I'm
Speaker 1: just like, it only hurts for like a day or two.
Speaker 1: A day or two. He might have burrowed you. No,
Speaker 1: I definitely, no, he definitely, but you know, and it
Speaker 1: looks like pink guy, like you're pregnant. I was in
Speaker 1: the corner and it was just like for like a
Speaker 1: day day and a half. I was just like it
Speaker 1: was red. Did you feel anything swimming? Not? I didn't
Speaker 1: feel nine swimming, that's all. I don't think you can
Speaker 1: feel swimming. Two microscopic. I mean, I've never felt a
Speaker 1: swim in my mouth. I'm never supposed to. But I'm
Speaker 1: trying to think because if we could feel the wind
Speaker 1: is kind of micro there's microscopic stuff in the wind,
Speaker 1: right right, No, we could feel the wind. No look no, no,
Speaker 1: that doesn't work. Okay, my bad. You know what. I
Speaker 1: don't like science, just like Loki's saying ship that reminds
Speaker 1: me of Wax every fucking episode. Because when she mentioned
Speaker 1: Black Panther last week and she was like, it was
Speaker 1: a march and now you're talking microscopic wind. Bitch, islam
Speaker 1: is don't Mary always see? It's the school for nothing,
Speaker 1: you know what? I want to get an episode where
Speaker 1: you will Wax sit across the table, don't have chill,
Speaker 1: just be like NaSTA. I really don't like what's the
Speaker 1: stand ford? What's that the stand ford? You really doing
Speaker 1: this National Association, Space Association, National Association. That was pretty good.
Speaker 1: Oh it's harder than that. But space isn't it? And
Speaker 1: national isn't it? Right? For national? I didn't know say
Speaker 1: oh you don't even know, bitch, not no space in it.
Speaker 1: And that's a fact. I was like, they might and
Speaker 1: I asked me, you know what, and I know a
Speaker 1: bitch right to be like, damn y'all hos dumb bitch,
Speaker 1: get your own podcasts and teaching it a national Aeronautics
Speaker 1: Space Administration. She's a national association space association because A
Speaker 1: normally stands for association or administration. Any talk that it's
Speaker 1: I mean, I think you're young too. Not only that,
Speaker 1: I guess. I wanted to bring this up because I
Speaker 1: wanted to ask you, and you I guess and ship myself.
Speaker 1: I'll go ahead and let you know. To me, when
Speaker 1: dating somebody, sex to me is very important. So I think, um,
Speaker 1: if sex is one of those things that is important
Speaker 1: for you, um, it seems like it may not be
Speaker 1: as important to him. And that's one of those things
Speaker 1: that I think to have not only a flourishing relationship,
Speaker 1: but one that is honest. Um, you guys have to
Speaker 1: kind of find a median or sometimes sex from jump
Speaker 1: was it wasn't good? Actually, that's what I'm saying. He
Speaker 1: must be looks really good, nigga. If they're different bad
Speaker 1: in the beginning, people get stuck because would you hold
Speaker 1: on because you know, sometimes we like and then well
Speaker 1: we fuck him it's bad. Then it's like I know,
Speaker 1: I try again, but that's it having to second maybe
Speaker 1: third time. I was going to tell you, he said,
Speaker 1: was this work? Cream bitch? Creamy do you know what
Speaker 1: cream stand for? I don't have to check it. I'll
Speaker 1: just check it out. Just check. Jeeves met a new girl.
Speaker 1: He says that he's been sucking her and it's so bad.
Speaker 1: He's like, I had cut her off and I told
Speaker 1: her it's for another reason. But he's like, it's because
Speaker 1: we're not sexually compatible. He's like she's into art too,
Speaker 1: like she's pretty, Like I cannot it's cray because we
Speaker 1: So we had another homemail about this and I'm just
Speaker 1: gonna squeeze it in here. So witch, we ain't gonna
Speaker 1: read your mail, but listen to this advice just here
Speaker 1: for you. So she's dating a guy and the dick
Speaker 1: is bad. Do you date someone who has bad dick
Speaker 1: if you're getting money out of it? Otherwise you need
Speaker 1: to leave? Even I want, like, I mean, what are
Speaker 1: you getting out of the dating? Like if you're trying
Speaker 1: to get some out of nigger? Maybe, but if not, no, yeah,
Speaker 1: like if it's your girl or this is like why
Speaker 1: are you guys sucking people? There? Trash? Just go? But
Speaker 1: but I don't want. I need girls to understand though,
Speaker 1: you know, like even me, like I'm a very sexual person.
Speaker 1: In four years of our relationship, this sex, my sex
Speaker 1: life has not always been perfect. Like like just the
Speaker 1: other day, Yes, I want people to know there's an
Speaker 1: up and down, but you're down two months. So it's
Speaker 1: so bad sex for someone or maybe someone who just
Speaker 1: doesn't want to have sex the other Let me get
Speaker 1: to what I was saying. Like the other day, like
Speaker 1: I was sucking my nigga's dick and then I was like,
Speaker 1: I stopped, and I was like I haven't sucked a
Speaker 1: dick like this a long time, right, And he's like, yeah, babe,
Speaker 1: good And I was like, so I stopped feeling bad,
Speaker 1: Like damn, I don't be sucking his dick like I
Speaker 1: need to. So like today when he was about to leave,
Speaker 1: I was like, hold on, nigga, let me get sucked
Speaker 1: the dick. So girls, we got in mindset and make
Speaker 1: sure that we're doing what we're supposed to do. Still
Speaker 1: and it goes. It balances back and forth because for
Speaker 1: a while I was thinking, don't be clapping camera. I
Speaker 1: was we were talking about we were talking about and
Speaker 1: you don't want to say that. I was like, why
Speaker 1: my niggers, like, you know, we like we have our
Speaker 1: downspare I'm like, why my nigga, And I'm like, bitch,
Speaker 1: you're not sucking dick brown here like it used to
Speaker 1: all of these like like I sucked his dick, like
Speaker 1: like NAILI on the Pole Days. You gotta get Nancy,
Speaker 1: like I got it like that balls everything and the sex.
Speaker 1: Right after that, I was like, oh, it was me.
Speaker 1: It was my fault. You said you technic like when
Speaker 1: he was on the Pole Days? Is that because when
Speaker 1: you were stripping? Did you find yourself to be more sexual?
Speaker 1: I'm talking about even because I was talking to him
Speaker 1: at the end of my Pole Days kind of I
Speaker 1: sucked it really because I feel like I've had fantasies.
Speaker 1: This is so embarrassing. I have dreams about stripping and
Speaker 1: getting sucked while you're stripping, I don't know, like being
Speaker 1: in the strip club and then like I give somebody
Speaker 1: dance and I get sucked in the strip club. Like
Speaker 1: I have dreams about it. Money. I don't think that's
Speaker 1: it in the strip club. I don't know. But just
Speaker 1: reacting like when we was that to there's private ruins
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. We were talking about lust and fucking
Speaker 1: stuff something like that. But like I think I have
Speaker 1: this fantasy that I'm stripping. If someone looks at me
Speaker 1: and they want to suck me, and I give them
Speaker 1: a dance in this room and like we fun. But
Speaker 1: I think if you're a show girl, ship kind of wait,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I've been the strip clubs. I've been in
Speaker 1: a bunch of strip clubs. Don't have your passion pit
Speaker 1: in New Orleans tutsies, uh year, but in private, private rooms, right, okay,
Speaker 1: like in the strip and then you go give him
Speaker 1: a dance. This would be a nice fantasy. But I
Speaker 1: think because when I'm in a strip shop, I want
Speaker 1: to yeah you, She's like, I'm not really going to
Speaker 1: be a stripper. This is just a fantasy. Oh but
Speaker 1: you know I get too drunk and fall off the poty.
Speaker 1: I think you should try that, and that's just one drink.
Speaker 1: I think you should go audition forut tutsis and then
Speaker 1: you should research purposes. If you're gonna sucking Asian, you
Speaker 1: may as well be a strip Look, I did it.
Speaker 1: The only thing is like I'm gonna have to go
Speaker 1: too into the outfit, you know what I'm saying that,
Speaker 1: like the shoes is gonna be a few hunting and
Speaker 1: I'm like, it's just gonna be. That's fine to get
Speaker 1: I would do an amateur night another city, just to
Speaker 1: see how it goes and get the fantasy over with.
Speaker 1: See now we don't hang out outside the podcast. I
Speaker 1: would I would travel with you to see this. You
Speaker 1: know this could be a good I want to see that.
Speaker 1: I would like to see this. Can I go to it?
Speaker 1: Because I wasn't sure you gonna pick that Florida song
Speaker 1: a stripper and this is my life, remember that. I
Speaker 1: love that one thing. I left Florida soon I'll pick
Speaker 1: it up. Who look, well, I gotta stot her for
Speaker 1: a stripper. You gotta go. We gotta contour my ask
Speaker 1: because anyways, guys, um, let's go ahead before we leave
Speaker 1: out now, I let them know what projects you got
Speaker 1: going on right now where they can find you on
Speaker 1: this podcast they live, you know, drop somebody yourself, drop
Speaker 1: the whole ship. Do do a whole rap right now.
Speaker 1: You got a whole wrapty, do a whole wrap like
Speaker 1: they nasty, like I rolled the deac in like that.
Speaker 1: You even get the city girls up here for ship
Speaker 1: like that? Don't know. I'm done. You canceled them only
Speaker 1: because I like their their music, so I do, but
Speaker 1: they're pretty homophobous. I'm the following was way too upset
Speaker 1: about that. What fury almost made me cry. I cheered
Speaker 1: up to me. He was talking about it. But we
Speaker 1: have to remember beat the dude. Kids is hanging themselves.
Speaker 1: I know it's dying in right, Damn, let's not. Let's
Speaker 1: not in on. So y'all never have heard this songs?
Speaker 1: You don't remember the song? No wait, where the oh?
Speaker 1: And this is my life? I got kids on my mind, Like,
Speaker 1: hold on, that's the dance you got. I don't know
Speaker 1: what's called make a hustle body eggs should his trash beat? No,
Speaker 1: it was good, but he's your names. I like pull up,
Speaker 1: pull up like that? So what you're going on? I know?
Speaker 1: Um I'm t go ahead one time. I can't wait
Speaker 1: for people to see me back on TV. I'm excited
Speaker 1: about that. Um. I got a new project coming out soon.
Speaker 1: I still haven't figured out what I want to name it,
Speaker 1: but um, I went down to Atlanta hooked up with
Speaker 1: some Atlanta producers. So you know, I'm excited about that
Speaker 1: because I think that's what's been missing for me. Not
Speaker 1: necessarily my skill, but my production needed to elevate, So
Speaker 1: I'm really excited about the producers I'm working with UM
Speaker 1: and Yeah, the TV new projects, some songs we would
Speaker 1: love to drop it. At the end of Yeah, y'all
Speaker 1: sent it over. And then I have um NAILI Wasted,
Speaker 1: which is my fitness line. I did be liking them.
Speaker 1: I do like them, but I feel like I don't
Speaker 1: want to be one of those girls that just wears
Speaker 1: workout clothes. But I'm not work out. No, it's I
Speaker 1: don't workout. I mean I mean in my head, I
Speaker 1: mean working out. I write Dick. You know, actually I
Speaker 1: don't know if I haven't really shared it. That's a workout, bitch.
Speaker 1: My body hurt right now I writing. I'm like writing
Speaker 1: Dick every time I felt. But but I be telling
Speaker 1: something because I used to like, I'm more of a like.
Speaker 1: Of course, though this asked up in the air. You
Speaker 1: know that's not me. I don't like writing Dick, but
Speaker 1: now that I am like, I didn't like riding Dick.
Speaker 1: And then then when I staw going to the gym
Speaker 1: and I started working legs, like how to like you?
Speaker 1: Because my legs strength, I built the strength. So now
Speaker 1: like I've well, I'm I'm building to go to the jumper. Dick,
Speaker 1: cam down, Calm down, I'm building my time muscles right
Speaker 1: now while writing Dick, haven't I mean, can't do it?
Speaker 1: Workout closed a bitch naked? So what I need to work?
Speaker 1: I mean, but I'm saying you could do. You could
Speaker 1: go workout. Remember knocked up? When when when you're in
Speaker 1: the gym and you're like doing squads and stuff, say
Speaker 1: this is the rod, Dick, this is the rodin canna
Speaker 1: be honest with you too. So when when I was bigger,
Speaker 1: I felt like everything on me was so firm, probably
Speaker 1: because my fat had my skin all like it was firm.
Speaker 1: And my booty jiggles now and I'm enjoying as well
Speaker 1: as the nigga I'm fucking is enjoying my but no,
Speaker 1: but it was like a firm booty. My booty now
Speaker 1: jiggles so nice. Where you work there's a gym, Like
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, we think, I know
Speaker 1: you work out four times a day, You're not gonna
Speaker 1: get me to go. So I care about any I'm
Speaker 1: trying to tell you. I'm trying to tell you all right, Dick,
Speaker 1: And that's not for me sex game when you got
Speaker 1: like when I started working out, you know, I knows
Speaker 1: how to fuck. I know I'm telling you about how
Speaker 1: to do this thing. You know what I'm thinking. So
Speaker 1: but when I got in a gym, like you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, they just got way better. Like my stamina,
Speaker 1: well I chew gum, so my jaw muscles aren't pretty strong.
Speaker 1: And outside I don't and you talk what other working
Speaker 1: needs to be done? Um, I don't know, but all right,
Speaker 1: so we're gonna go ahead. We're on social media. Can
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Speaker 1: Wheezy is gonna be talking about how to keep your
Speaker 1: vagina all nice and clean. Listen, y'all have been asking
Speaker 1: me like crazy because I talked about my pH all
Speaker 1: the time, like what to do. So I'm gonna give
Speaker 1: you the listle she's doing that. And then I'm actually
Speaker 1: finally going to have a full episode UM alongside Naima
Speaker 1: from Sophisticated Ignorance podcast, and UM, we're gonna talk about
Speaker 1: my weight law surgery, how how it's affected me, UM
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Speaker 1: by the way, it's not just vaginal health. I'm working
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