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Speaker 1: Hey, y'all, this is Weasy from Horrible Decisions and I

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Speaker 1: wanted to invite you to Zozo Talk Live feature in

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Speaker 1: Jesse Who. We have a new date up November seventeenth

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Speaker 1: in Miami, Toasted by Fat and Funny New York. Still

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Speaker 1: some tickets left on October and then in Atlanta. We're

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Speaker 1: going to be there on December eight. I'm so excited

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Speaker 1: for the show. We have a bunch of contestants where

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Speaker 1: the audience gets to pict basically who ain't shit or not.

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Speaker 1: It's fucking pretty late. I would suggest ladies, couples and

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Speaker 1: niggas that want to holler at the ladies that show up.

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Speaker 1: It's gonna be like probably an oyster. I'm sorry. I

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Speaker 1: thought about the smell of pussy, the fe of pussy,

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Speaker 1: and then oyster came out of my mouth. But anyway, mind,

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Speaker 1: I'll smell like that. It's gonna smell real good. And

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Speaker 1: I want you guys to come and have a good

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Speaker 1: time with me and Jesse. It's such a fun show.

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Speaker 1: We're so excited to do this. We've created a bunch

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Speaker 1: of fun things to talk about and I will see

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Speaker 1: you guys there. Check my Instagram for tickets. Chat tune.

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Speaker 1: Welcome back to it, yet another motherfucking episode of horrible decisions.

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Speaker 1: This your girl, hold on, I got my A k

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Speaker 1: as to drop. So this your girl Mandy b a

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Speaker 1: k A full core pumps a k A the Booty Band.

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Speaker 1: Y'alla gave me that nickname a k A that bitch

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Speaker 1: and who am I saying by I guess marrow what

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Speaker 1: my listen I'll be y'all live And they didn't gave me.

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Speaker 1: The nickname is the booty band and they know what

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Speaker 1: I'll be doing my a K S. So I was like,

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Speaker 1: let me go ahead and drop stand bro, and they do.

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Speaker 1: When I like, listen to Ada boys, if anybody listens

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Speaker 1: their A k's last for twenty minutes, I know I need,

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Speaker 1: I gotta, I gotta start getting But Booty bander just

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Speaker 1: got added, So we're gonna we're gonna keep adding to

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Speaker 1: it as we and I know you guys have loved

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Speaker 1: listening to the two of us. But we're back with

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Speaker 1: a bombsque guest um for this episode. I'm really excited

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Speaker 1: we got my girl Nilie in the building. I had

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Speaker 1: an O G. Nilely, what you got a K is

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Speaker 1: or anything like that? O g Nily drop Instagram. She's like,

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Speaker 1: oh G O G I'll just score O g NII.

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Speaker 1: That's good, yeah, O g or Nyally we both so

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Speaker 1: it's crazy because we sat here and like, so normally

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Speaker 1: when we have guests, we like to do icebreakers, but

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Speaker 1: I feel like, I don't know if there's even really

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Speaker 1: an we're talking to break the ice with your ass,

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Speaker 1: because you'd be mad, like the way that Nia broke

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Speaker 1: the ice when she first came in. My first time

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Speaker 1: meeting her, she was like, oh, I'm sorry. You know,

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Speaker 1: I don't really listen because I haven't been on so

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Speaker 1: I'm just kind of tight. But it was low key

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Speaker 1: my phone. I've been trying to stay on brand. I

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Speaker 1: never listened. I don't want to know your form lot

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Speaker 1: just want to be surprised. Yes, and then of course

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Speaker 1: you know I got the best. She's like, bitch, I

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Speaker 1: know you in real life. Why am I just coming

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Speaker 1: on now? This episode? God damn, we'll be happy that

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Speaker 1: you're coming on when we live we is lit. Now.

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Speaker 1: I'm support you regardless, bitch. So what we like to do,

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Speaker 1: um just to kind of, you know, start converse station

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Speaker 1: in the show. Sometimes, UM, we have a segment called

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Speaker 1: Vanilla Ship. And in Vanilla Ship we find articles um

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Speaker 1: in which touch on anything anything sex related. UM. This

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Speaker 1: one I actually ran across on Time dot com. It says,

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Speaker 1: why getting back together with your ex maybe bad for

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Speaker 1: your health? That did not need to be an article.

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Speaker 1: All you gotta acts every woman. I lost my hair

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Speaker 1: from stress. But no, what's crazy? So they did a

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Speaker 1: study and it actually showed that people who go back

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Speaker 1: to their exes actually well they have a case of

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Speaker 1: like anxiety depression. They tied it to mental health crazily like,

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Speaker 1: And to me it was kind of crazy because we

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Speaker 1: talked about it all the time and I've been talking

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Speaker 1: about it with my friends lately. All the niggas on

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Speaker 1: my phone right now are niggas who were like ten

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Speaker 1: years ago, seven years ago, five years ago. They're reset.

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Speaker 1: And so then I was thinking as I was reading this,

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Speaker 1: I said, am I depressed or anxious? Like? Do I

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Speaker 1: have a mental health issue that I keep going back

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Speaker 1: to the niggas in my past? Yeah? You gotta let

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Speaker 1: them go? So how do so? I wanted to have

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Speaker 1: that conversation. Remind me. When we had an Amelior teeth

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Speaker 1: on she was like, you need to cut cords. Cut

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Speaker 1: your cords with everybody, because it so how do you

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Speaker 1: get past really a nigga, like, get past him, get

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Speaker 1: a new one that's way better than the last one. Yeah, right,

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Speaker 1: you see me? Okay boom, that's what I'll be alone.

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Speaker 1: We're talking pre We're talking pre pre, we're talking thought

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Speaker 1: days for me. Okay days, we're gonna We're gonna go

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Speaker 1: during the whole phase. Let's go right during my whole phase. Right.

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Speaker 1: I would like it was a thing like, oh, we

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Speaker 1: got a new nigga, gotta say bye. But when you

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Speaker 1: say about you, I mean, if the new nigga start

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Speaker 1: acting up right, you go back to the old nigga,

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Speaker 1: that's what seconds going to the next thing. And then see,

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Speaker 1: if you go back to the nigga, you go back

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Speaker 1: to the most recent one before. Like I'm going back.

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Speaker 1: I'm not going back to the archive x like like

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Speaker 1: I've had these tips for five years. If we'll see

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Speaker 1: that's that's a fact, pussy. That's how because pearls but

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Speaker 1: didn't sunk Nili and a lot of niggas suck NAILI

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Speaker 1: but they didn't get to og. So see, but that

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Speaker 1: kind of feeling now too, like there is something about

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Speaker 1: me where I'm like, fuck you. If you wasn't working

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Speaker 1: with me when I was fat, I ain't gonna suck

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Speaker 1: you now. And so now that I lost this way,

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Speaker 1: I only want to niggas that me when I was fat.

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Speaker 1: So I'm gonna tell you where my new line is now.

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Speaker 1: Have you guys watched Consent Special and Rice? We were

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Speaker 1: only on there for like two or three on HBO

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Speaker 1: with the Humble flicks. It elevated my pussy because the

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Speaker 1: nigga text me that, like, like like what you've been up

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Speaker 1: to him? Like the funk? I was just on HBO

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Speaker 1: your TV, motherfucker paper pussy beer. I was fist. I

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Speaker 1: was like acting brand new. My mom was on Facebook

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Speaker 1: talking about everybody got look at my daughter. I know

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Speaker 1: my mom took I get off one like now, especially

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Speaker 1: because I had such a checker thought history pass. I

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Speaker 1: get the checkered thought. Hone is deleted is hopping everywhere?

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Speaker 1: Was your hone is deleted? You believe in that deleted phase?

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Speaker 1: I wanted want my to be deleted. It was there.

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Speaker 1: That's one of my resume because that's you know, and

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Speaker 1: I wanted to do an episode Legends, She's this is

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Speaker 1: probably the holest legend in this way I do with

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Speaker 1: my ship with finest Like a lot of ladies now

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Speaker 1: like to like everybody to extra, I do what do

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Speaker 1: you mean there to like boom? Back when I was

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Speaker 1: a stripper, right all right, boom bussy. Back when I

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Speaker 1: was a stripper, I definitely never posted like spread eagle,

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Speaker 1: like yo, come to the strip club. Like I was

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Speaker 1: like like cheek, you know, but you're just going to

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Speaker 1: do you still think like showing less is more? Is

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Speaker 1: that why you say that? Yeah? I do like it.

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Speaker 1: It's cute. It's good. I appreciate that coming from a

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Speaker 1: former home, you know why, because some pictures be like, oh,

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Speaker 1: you can still be a home and show a little

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Speaker 1: I like like back in the days. To me, I

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Speaker 1: So how how does that because I was because I

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Speaker 1: did less? It's more like nobody really affiliated associated with

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Speaker 1: me with like whole ship like that. Yeah, it's obviously,

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Speaker 1: but a big one. I mean, I mean, like all

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Speaker 1: I still think you know you can get. And I

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Speaker 1: It's like I just know, I just never was comfortable

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Speaker 1: like going around like yeah, you know, I'll be fucking

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Speaker 1: niggers like yeah no no, no no, you can't say

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Speaker 1: But I don't think there's anything wrong with talking about

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Speaker 1: that's what other bitches be saying to this is their persona,

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Speaker 1: so this is why they do that, Like no, I

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Speaker 1: know Mandy, Mandy, no no, no, no no, no, I'm talking

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Speaker 1: about you said, this is me out here talking about

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Speaker 1: they'd be blah blah. Bit just do that because they

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Speaker 1: feel like there's that's their brand. I don't know, Cardi

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Speaker 1: b it wasn't her job to talk about crazy like that,

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Speaker 1: but people liked it because they feel like it's organic.

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Speaker 1: Bitch is legit feel In my opinion, I think girls

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Speaker 1: for me to say than yeah, that's the own personal

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Speaker 1: think me personally, I don't think so. And I think

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Speaker 1: working because like I never act like I'm an angel

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Speaker 1: my nigga. No, I wasn't angel ship. He wasn't no

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Speaker 1: fucking angel. But I think that not everybody be in

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Speaker 1: my business. And people kind of hearing like yo, this

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Speaker 1: having a consistent six years of making better on your

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Speaker 1: be in the gaming year. What's like, that's really that's it? Well, yeah,

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Speaker 1: What's like the short term life? Like, how what do

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Speaker 1: you think? All my stripper friends been strippers over ten years?

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Speaker 1: That's a fact, all my stripper friends years. Bro. I

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Speaker 1: think that I think as long as you're still making money,

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Speaker 1: go ahead and get it. But you should definitely there

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Speaker 1: should be a point that you evolved and you have

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Speaker 1: something else going on outside of it, because like you know,

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Speaker 1: I would take breaks and shipped like that. So I

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Speaker 1: think that you have longevity as long as you stay

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Speaker 1: exclusive sometimes so something that that's what like stripping is

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Speaker 1: your only job. Yeah, like I'm stripping it Like to me,

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Speaker 1: I feel like, you know, niggas was sucking me, throwing

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Speaker 1: me money and ship like that, because like after a while,

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Speaker 1: and I put myself in different positions and I'll start

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Speaker 1: trying to throw money at the baddest bitch. They wanted

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Speaker 1: to be affiliated with me because not only am I

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Speaker 1: I'm being on TMZ and things like that. So before

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Speaker 1: Black China was black China. You know what I'm saying. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm from the South, so I don't know, like I'm

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Speaker 1: I was the first celebrity stripper because when I when

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Speaker 1: I started dancing, right, I started dancing at seventeen, honestly, like,

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Speaker 1: like because okay, I had a like a Puerto Rican

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Speaker 1: Is that where they all convert? No, not what I

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Speaker 1: yeah it was it was breakfast. It was breakfast, and

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Speaker 1: Why is that disrespected? It's not supposed to because even baking,

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, but you can't eat pork and

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Speaker 1: know what? So my father is ISRAELI, my mom is black,

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Speaker 1: Today I went on a It wasn't a date. It

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Speaker 1: the bottom. What what? What? What culture? Can't you have shellfish?

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Speaker 1: It's some type of Christian religion maybe Islam? Is that?

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Speaker 1: How much different is that from Muslim? It is? So

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Speaker 1: I don't think he's Muslim? What do you mean right now?

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Speaker 1: I'm like the other day, I don't know. See, that's

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Speaker 1: you need him. Guy, you didn't know that that's Islamic whatever.

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Speaker 1: So even like when people be just I don't, I'm

422
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Speaker 1: come on, I'm not. I'm actually sticking on and I'm

423
00:20:52,840 --> 00:20:55,880
Speaker 1: not religious. Okay, I'm learning. I'm still learning. God Damn.

424
00:20:55,920 --> 00:20:57,440
Speaker 1: I do want to say one thing I wanted to

425
00:20:57,760 --> 00:21:00,240
Speaker 1: try to figure out because like, where is the worder

426
00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:04,560
Speaker 1: line between fetishizing and being into other cultures? Right? Like?

427
00:21:04,640 --> 00:21:06,920
Speaker 1: Can I want to explore but not be fetishizing? And

428
00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:11,440
Speaker 1: that's the thing what exactly is? Because I feel like

429
00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:14,960
Speaker 1: if white girls want black men. It looked at like

430
00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:17,200
Speaker 1: they're fetishizing black men, but then it's like they just

431
00:21:17,240 --> 00:21:19,879
Speaker 1: want some of that big dick. And I know all

432
00:21:19,920 --> 00:21:22,920
Speaker 1: of them got on, that's right, but like big like

433
00:21:23,080 --> 00:21:25,000
Speaker 1: to me, it's like, I think if you want to

434
00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:28,120
Speaker 1: go with money, like if money is your thing, you'll

435
00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:30,520
Speaker 1: go with like any race, if money is your thing,

436
00:21:30,640 --> 00:21:32,440
Speaker 1: and if you go on for a big dick, nine

437
00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:36,520
Speaker 1: times out of ten you'll lean to. The fetishizing is

438
00:21:36,560 --> 00:21:39,639
Speaker 1: when that's all you need is sex from that person, right,

439
00:21:39,920 --> 00:21:42,120
Speaker 1: Because a lot of white men that are into black

440
00:21:42,160 --> 00:21:44,080
Speaker 1: women just want to funk them and then they're done.

441
00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:46,600
Speaker 1: White girls that are doing that, they wouldn't date them.

442
00:21:46,840 --> 00:21:49,080
Speaker 1: So I think that's the fetishizing thing. When it's just

443
00:21:49,280 --> 00:21:55,680
Speaker 1: a fantasy and smart bit, that's kind of good. Okay,

444
00:21:55,720 --> 00:21:58,000
Speaker 1: Now that is because I like or you feel like

445
00:21:58,040 --> 00:21:59,560
Speaker 1: you have to sneak because that's what you want, but

446
00:21:59,600 --> 00:22:02,000
Speaker 1: technical but you wouldn't be with it or you wouldn't

447
00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:05,080
Speaker 1: bring them to your to your parents homes or anything like. Yeah,

448
00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:08,639
Speaker 1: it's just usually people are secretive about secretive about it, right,

449
00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:11,000
Speaker 1: So if it's something that you're like tip someone on,

450
00:22:11,119 --> 00:22:16,280
Speaker 1: then yeah, it's probably God taught you last weight just

451
00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:23,240
Speaker 1: a chair just collapsed. Whoa I put and I pulled

452
00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:27,720
Speaker 1: the guy there a little ship. I'm over here playing

453
00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:31,960
Speaker 1: with my old feet playing this ship. Boy bad. No,

454
00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:33,640
Speaker 1: but it's crazy, but I'm not. So let me ask

455
00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:37,320
Speaker 1: you then if so we're talking about that. Uh, let's

456
00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:39,399
Speaker 1: say that you know white guy that only dates black girls.

457
00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:43,720
Speaker 1: I do, I do? Would you be fetizing even though

458
00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:47,000
Speaker 1: he's in relationship with them? Would that is that fetishizing

459
00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:50,400
Speaker 1: even though because he like, you know, because I dated

460
00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:52,560
Speaker 1: this guy that I'm talking about right, um, And at

461
00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:55,199
Speaker 1: first I was like, like I was like looking at

462
00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:57,280
Speaker 1: this thing, like what the fund is? Like what's your

463
00:22:57,320 --> 00:22:59,639
Speaker 1: what's your thing? Because that's the only white guy ever dated,

464
00:22:59,720 --> 00:23:02,800
Speaker 1: dated like seriously in my house, met my mom, like

465
00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:05,879
Speaker 1: all of this. But like his whole passes like his

466
00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:08,240
Speaker 1: black girls. So he goes out on days all that.

467
00:23:08,359 --> 00:23:10,639
Speaker 1: He's not embarrassed about it, he's not ashamed about it.

468
00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:13,239
Speaker 1: But now a lot of people do say, like when

469
00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:15,159
Speaker 1: white guys are like only with black women is the thing.

470
00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:17,800
Speaker 1: But I think the thing is too to make sure

471
00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:21,040
Speaker 1: that like we all understand that preference and like your

472
00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:24,080
Speaker 1: surroundings are thing. For example, Sam white out not only

473
00:23:24,119 --> 00:23:26,920
Speaker 1: that our goddamn camera guy. We was talking earlier, you

474
00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:30,119
Speaker 1: in you Indian, right, we was talking he's never dated

475
00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:33,200
Speaker 1: another Indian, but it's he like he looks at himself

476
00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:34,520
Speaker 1: as black. I was like, Oh, all the black girls

477
00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:36,400
Speaker 1: like playing it you're here, right, okay? Not only black girls,

478
00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:43,359
Speaker 1: not like, but he's dated everyone. Do you think that

479
00:23:43,480 --> 00:23:45,520
Speaker 1: has something to do with you not being being a

480
00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:48,520
Speaker 1: textbook Indian guy? Wait? Why what do you mean textbook?

481
00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:52,880
Speaker 1: Are you from looking at what he's wearing? We should

482
00:23:52,880 --> 00:23:56,480
Speaker 1: all be feminist. I'm being dead out that textbook Indian.

483
00:23:56,480 --> 00:23:57,840
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Like, for example, A cost

484
00:23:57,880 --> 00:23:59,800
Speaker 1: talks about how he's a comedian not a doctor, and

485
00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:02,800
Speaker 1: how he's like right, right, right, right, okay, which is

486
00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:05,399
Speaker 1: why I said Sam, Sam lives in Harlem. Sam sitting

487
00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:09,919
Speaker 1: here went to an hbcut white guys like a white guy.

488
00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:13,320
Speaker 1: I'd be like, yo, like, I hate what it was

489
00:24:13,359 --> 00:24:18,600
Speaker 1: like Tommy, Yeah, I like exactly, Tommy. I googled it

490
00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:21,920
Speaker 1: and apparently I said that anyone else kept this like

491
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:25,080
Speaker 1: googled it and apparently it came out in the acting

492
00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:27,280
Speaker 1: scene and it wasn't in the script. And they chose

493
00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:31,840
Speaker 1: to leave it. That's trash. But wait, look, look, wait, wait,

494
00:24:32,000 --> 00:24:34,640
Speaker 1: it's funny because that wasn't in the script. That's crazy

495
00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:37,879
Speaker 1: TV saying. It's just something like to go. It's like, yeah, nigga,

496
00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:40,240
Speaker 1: we family like that. And I think I think he

497
00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:42,920
Speaker 1: was in character. He was imagine if you were in

498
00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:44,960
Speaker 1: this hood Asked movie, you can't that's like one of

499
00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:46,880
Speaker 1: your white friends slipping and saying nigger in a song.

500
00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:49,760
Speaker 1: It's not like they called you a nigga, but they

501
00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:52,280
Speaker 1: just in the song. Bro, they have the concert and

502
00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:56,239
Speaker 1: they're like, what up? What are you gonna do? If?

503
00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:57,639
Speaker 1: I mean, I ain't gonna do nothing. But I know.

504
00:24:57,720 --> 00:24:59,159
Speaker 1: I was in Vegas and I was talking to this

505
00:24:59,240 --> 00:25:01,960
Speaker 1: couple from Canada, and I think because me and my

506
00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:04,240
Speaker 1: friend were black, they just felt so comfortable. They dropped

507
00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:06,399
Speaker 1: the nigga the M bomb like sucking four times to

508
00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:08,280
Speaker 1: where I just felt uncomfortable talking to them. You gotta

509
00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:11,880
Speaker 1: say something, Yeah, I don't like when you're too comfortable

510
00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:15,320
Speaker 1: with why are you saying? I was just like, like

511
00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:17,879
Speaker 1: Tommy probably was in character. I went to a concert

512
00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:19,920
Speaker 1: with a white friend of mine who shall read me nameless,

513
00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:21,600
Speaker 1: and we got real fucked up and he looked at me.

514
00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:23,199
Speaker 1: He's like, dude, I love you. I love you too,

515
00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:25,879
Speaker 1: and he goes, let me just get one. I said one?

516
00:25:25,920 --> 00:25:28,240
Speaker 1: What and he goes, never mind. So then ten minutes

517
00:25:28,280 --> 00:25:30,479
Speaker 1: go by, I said, were you asking me to say

518
00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:32,280
Speaker 1: n He's like, absolutely not, I mean unless you want

519
00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:38,480
Speaker 1: me to. And then we were at me and I

520
00:25:38,560 --> 00:25:40,200
Speaker 1: saw him the whole time and he was like it

521
00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:42,000
Speaker 1: and he was he was holding it back and I

522
00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:44,840
Speaker 1: found that because the thing is, you can't give a

523
00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:46,560
Speaker 1: pass because then he know what's happened. The next time.

524
00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:48,400
Speaker 1: He could end up saying it on me go saying

525
00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:52,920
Speaker 1: ni niga a lot? Isn't there a whole song? Wasn't

526
00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:56,920
Speaker 1: just know? We'll figure it out. Well, we're gonna go

527
00:25:56,920 --> 00:25:59,400
Speaker 1: ahead before we get into the whole decision, guys, y'all,

528
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:01,520
Speaker 1: we gotta add for the week, and we want to

529
00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:04,040
Speaker 1: let y'all know it's some dope ship um we have.

530
00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:07,840
Speaker 1: Actually I'm really excited. So we've um dropped other podcasts

531
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Speaker 1: on this platform before, and a lot of you guys

532
00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:13,760
Speaker 1: have really um enjoyed the ones that we have suggested

533
00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:15,480
Speaker 1: you guys to listen to. I know that you guys

534
00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:17,560
Speaker 1: are always looking for something new to listen to. So

535
00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:21,240
Speaker 1: there's actually a new podcast coming out y'all called Purple Panties.

536
00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:24,639
Speaker 1: It is a new erotic fiction podcast created by my

537
00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:28,600
Speaker 1: favorite New York Times bestselling authors, Zane. I told y'all,

538
00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:30,560
Speaker 1: I feel like that's why I'm such a home because

539
00:26:30,560 --> 00:26:33,440
Speaker 1: I was reading Zane in the tenth grade one in

540
00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:35,200
Speaker 1: your own school away for Zane to come back. I

541
00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:37,400
Speaker 1: was listening to Insecure. Momy was like, you ain't gonna

542
00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:41,879
Speaker 1: throw this out. She's like, you don't Zane out. I

543
00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:43,480
Speaker 1: used to sneak and read a couple of pages my

544
00:26:43,520 --> 00:26:45,520
Speaker 1: mom was reading speaking of Mommy for Insecure. She was

545
00:26:45,600 --> 00:26:47,760
Speaker 1: dating that Asian. It's pretty much my life for real. Now. Yeah,

546
00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:50,440
Speaker 1: it's like like so, so anyways, guys, if y'all want

547
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548
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549
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550
00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:04,000
Speaker 1: it's a scripted erotic fiction UM on the outside. Maddox, Lauren,

551
00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:06,960
Speaker 1: and Stephanie go against the grain when it comes to sex,

552
00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:12,159
Speaker 1: but as relationships, relationships shift, and physical change, UM can

553
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:15,000
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554
00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:18,320
Speaker 1: journey as they navigate their professional and personal lives. So

555
00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:22,880
Speaker 1: I listened to the Ship and it's like the production

556
00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:24,440
Speaker 1: value is so dope. So I'm listening to it on

557
00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:26,639
Speaker 1: the train and it starts off with this stud and

558
00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:28,920
Speaker 1: she was like talking about her strap and she like

559
00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:30,719
Speaker 1: that and how she's gonna suck this bitch and then

560
00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:33,399
Speaker 1: they start sucking right and they're like fucking fucking, And

561
00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:35,040
Speaker 1: I had to look around the train because like it

562
00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:36,840
Speaker 1: was like full on moaning, and I was like, oh

563
00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:41,320
Speaker 1: my god, yeah people gonna it wasn't. I was so

564
00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:43,000
Speaker 1: honting had to turn it off. But it was so

565
00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:46,280
Speaker 1: well made, like I felt like I was watching TV

566
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:48,800
Speaker 1: but didn't need to see it, Like I'm excited, that's

567
00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:53,480
Speaker 1: my first scripted podcast. It was and then you know what,

568
00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:55,560
Speaker 1: it was thirty minutes. It was short enough, like I

569
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Speaker 1: love it the sound of like it really is, like

570
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571
00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:03,440
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572
00:28:03,560 --> 00:28:07,440
Speaker 1: one of the cliffhangers is like what happens when you

573
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Speaker 1: find out the man of your dreams as a woman.

574
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575
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583
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Speaker 1: just asking. Anyways, I'm gonna continue for the rest of

584
00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:53,080
Speaker 1: this episode. Anyways, guys, we're gonna go ahead and job

585
00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:55,520
Speaker 1: into the horrible decision um for this week. And I'm

586
00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:58,520
Speaker 1: super excited to have this conversation. So if you guys

587
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Speaker 1: do not follow Naya now only is she like an

588
00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:04,000
Speaker 1: o G in real life, was a stripper, now a

589
00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:06,760
Speaker 1: rapper on TV. You can see her really everywhere. She's

590
00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:10,000
Speaker 1: also a mom and y'all know me and Wheezy we'll

591
00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:12,840
Speaker 1: be talking about whole ship, but we don't have kids.

592
00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:15,040
Speaker 1: So a lot of our listeners do have kids and

593
00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:17,200
Speaker 1: kind of want to worry like not worry, but kind

594
00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:19,440
Speaker 1: of want to have us discussed how to stay sexy

595
00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:22,880
Speaker 1: after having a baby. Um, and you're also in a relationship,

596
00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:24,600
Speaker 1: so I wanted to get into that. So I guess

597
00:29:24,760 --> 00:29:27,560
Speaker 1: what what do you think was one of the biggest

598
00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:31,840
Speaker 1: changes with you after having your baby and even your

599
00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:37,520
Speaker 1: your body vagina? Okay, so this is what everyone tells you,

600
00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:39,560
Speaker 1: like when you're about to have give birth and stuff that,

601
00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:43,240
Speaker 1: like contractions, contractions, but you should know this because you

602
00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:45,239
Speaker 1: are going to push a baby through your vagina, right.

603
00:29:45,360 --> 00:29:48,640
Speaker 1: No one tells you that you truly could possibly be

604
00:29:48,840 --> 00:29:51,680
Speaker 1: ripped from the ruta to the fucking tutor. So when

605
00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:54,560
Speaker 1: I when I when I get birth, they have to

606
00:29:54,640 --> 00:29:57,320
Speaker 1: cut me right like in my area to like make

607
00:29:57,360 --> 00:29:59,280
Speaker 1: more space for my baby to come on, they're gonna

608
00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:02,720
Speaker 1: go listen to ain't no. So I had a couple

609
00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:05,480
Speaker 1: sitsches down there that I needed to heal. So I

610
00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:08,800
Speaker 1: had to definitely sit out and sit out and wait

611
00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:10,560
Speaker 1: and stuff like that. Did you feel like she got

612
00:30:10,640 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 1: knocked around? It was just it was bad. Honestly, the

613
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:17,040
Speaker 1: first six months after having my child, it was the worst.

614
00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:20,400
Speaker 1: It was the worst. Sex was horrible. It was you

615
00:30:20,560 --> 00:30:23,440
Speaker 1: just don't feel like your vagina. It took my vagina

616
00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:25,320
Speaker 1: I would say, like ten months to get back to normal.

617
00:30:25,360 --> 00:30:28,200
Speaker 1: But so you pushed the baby out, right, does it

618
00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:29,960
Speaker 1: feel like you're taking a ship out of your pussy?

619
00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:32,120
Speaker 1: And I had I took a epidour, so I didn't

620
00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:34,520
Speaker 1: feel ship. I didn't feel anything. And that's another thing.

621
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Speaker 1: So I'm sitting there and I'm looking at her. The

622
00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:39,360
Speaker 1: baby comes out, the baby is crowning or whatever. She's like,

623
00:30:39,760 --> 00:30:41,600
Speaker 1: give me the scissors, and I'm like, for what And

624
00:30:41,720 --> 00:30:45,400
Speaker 1: she's just like and I'm like, bitch, is not that

625
00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:48,040
Speaker 1: much space between the vagina and the ass. I did

626
00:30:49,200 --> 00:30:52,520
Speaker 1: a lot of space once your vagina experience, between the

627
00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:55,200
Speaker 1: pussy and the ass and this, but just like, wait,

628
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Speaker 1: she cut between you're pussing your ass to like she

629
00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:03,040
Speaker 1: has to make it likely that didn't alive about with

630
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:05,000
Speaker 1: just girls in it, right, And it was so funny.

631
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Speaker 1: It was only like fifty people in there and we

632
00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:07,880
Speaker 1: were just all it was me and a friend of

633
00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:10,200
Speaker 1: mine had a baby. We were talking with women about

634
00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:12,320
Speaker 1: all of the questions they had about vaginas and she

635
00:31:12,440 --> 00:31:14,440
Speaker 1: Hina got a hell after ye and she was say,

636
00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:18,240
Speaker 1: comes back on really hell your vagina because I wanted

637
00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:21,680
Speaker 1: to fun like three weeks later, and my man is like, babe,

638
00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:23,080
Speaker 1: like they told us we had to wait at least

639
00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:24,400
Speaker 1: six weeks, and you should wait a little bit long

640
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:27,000
Speaker 1: ago you got said. I was like, that doesn't feel loose?

641
00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:29,360
Speaker 1: I did? I did? I had sex at three weeks?

642
00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:32,320
Speaker 1: You did have sex at three didn't? Did it feel

643
00:31:32,360 --> 00:31:34,479
Speaker 1: like it went back down? How long does it take

644
00:31:34,520 --> 00:31:36,680
Speaker 1: for a vagina to get back down? My vagina? The

645
00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:39,320
Speaker 1: inside of my vagina, to me pretty much like went

646
00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:44,160
Speaker 1: back like normal. It was really the going like the

647
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:47,880
Speaker 1: entrance of my like my grand opening, like that ship

648
00:31:48,040 --> 00:31:51,200
Speaker 1: was all funked up, Like my curb appeal wasn't Did

649
00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:54,680
Speaker 1: you consider vain whatever now? Because it's like the statics

650
00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:56,360
Speaker 1: was so good, but just like that one, the the

651
00:31:56,440 --> 00:32:01,160
Speaker 1: little area between the vagina and the asshole. Yeah. So

652
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:02,600
Speaker 1: I wanted to bring something up that I don't know

653
00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:04,320
Speaker 1: if you remember, and I want to talk about it

654
00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:07,080
Speaker 1: because I wonder if other people have the same feelings.

655
00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:09,440
Speaker 1: Do you remember when you were saying like, I'm not suing,

656
00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:12,240
Speaker 1: nobody just had kids? Yeah, I used to. Yeah, Now

657
00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:19,120
Speaker 1: what scared you about it? I don't know. Um, you

658
00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:21,600
Speaker 1: know it's crazy because then I told you I with

659
00:32:21,600 --> 00:32:23,880
Speaker 1: his baby mama and she she had mad kids with him,

660
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 1: and thought about it until now because you were like,

661
00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:27,120
Speaker 1: I don't want to and then and then we said

662
00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:29,800
Speaker 1: you didn't want a girl with no kids? Yeah, like

663
00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:33,400
Speaker 1: you said the babies too new that I said once,

664
00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:35,800
Speaker 1: once my friends have babies, like because you know, I'll

665
00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:38,080
Speaker 1: be working all my friends. But once my friends have kids,

666
00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:39,280
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I don't know if I would

667
00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:42,640
Speaker 1: want to suck them after a kid, like I don't

668
00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:45,240
Speaker 1: have to meet either, not I like them seven years

669
00:32:45,280 --> 00:32:48,600
Speaker 1: I've had kids. But then I mean, no, no, you

670
00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:50,600
Speaker 1: said that they had to have seven year old I

671
00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:54,200
Speaker 1: said seven year old kids? Like once they were I said,

672
00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:57,720
Speaker 1: at least a two year old? Like do you think

673
00:32:57,720 --> 00:33:00,800
Speaker 1: about like because I'm like you putting your dick in it?

674
00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:04,040
Speaker 1: Like are you worrying? Your face though? Is in it? Bro?

675
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:09,400
Speaker 1: I know, but I'm saying for the time, but I mean,

676
00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:10,760
Speaker 1: my whole face is down there, and I just know

677
00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:13,320
Speaker 1: a whole last human being just came out to eat

678
00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:18,120
Speaker 1: a vagina. And I says, got to give two years,

679
00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:21,200
Speaker 1: especially going through with my parts her child, but to

680
00:33:21,280 --> 00:33:24,840
Speaker 1: be like two years and better, maybe even three. But like,

681
00:33:24,960 --> 00:33:27,000
Speaker 1: what is it though? Because I know what I went

682
00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:29,640
Speaker 1: through and my healing parts, I don't want I don't

683
00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:30,920
Speaker 1: want it. I don't want it. I don't about to

684
00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:33,200
Speaker 1: make me request the C section with this talk. I

685
00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:36,239
Speaker 1: don't want to keep a hundred Yeah, I don't want it. Now,

686
00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:40,760
Speaker 1: what do you think? Um? Was the biggest issue with

687
00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:43,560
Speaker 1: Like did you have any kind of like body image issues?

688
00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:45,600
Speaker 1: Were you feeling a certain way? Yeah? I definitely. I

689
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:48,400
Speaker 1: gained a lot of weight, but I mean my dude

690
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:51,040
Speaker 1: is like into like all my body types, big, small,

691
00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:53,160
Speaker 1: a little whatever. He never makes me feel no type

692
00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:56,160
Speaker 1: of way, So that helped. But um, honestly, the big

693
00:33:56,320 --> 00:33:59,200
Speaker 1: my biggest thing was letting the pussy hill because I

694
00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:01,400
Speaker 1: fucked crazy. You know what I'm saying, Like, I like

695
00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:05,560
Speaker 1: like turning up, but when you're vagina is broken for

696
00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:09,359
Speaker 1: like six eight months in the relationship, that's now when

697
00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:12,680
Speaker 1: it comes to like so like you have you have

698
00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:14,600
Speaker 1: the baby. You pushed him out right, and then like

699
00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:17,120
Speaker 1: how did you get to go back because you know

700
00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:19,040
Speaker 1: you've talked about threesomes and things like that you've had

701
00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:21,439
Speaker 1: with your man. Could you go back into that after

702
00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:23,480
Speaker 1: the baby. How did that we have three sesomes after

703
00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:25,719
Speaker 1: the baby? We had three sasons before. I think the

704
00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:28,239
Speaker 1: number one thing when it comes to threesomes, whether you're

705
00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:30,960
Speaker 1: you have the woman has to want it. Like I

706
00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:33,279
Speaker 1: tell girls that all the time, Like, don't try to

707
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:36,160
Speaker 1: have a threesome with your nigga because you think like, oh,

708
00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:38,200
Speaker 1: I gotta be this fun turn up girl. Then this

709
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:39,920
Speaker 1: bitch comes in the room and you're like in the

710
00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:43,440
Speaker 1: corner crying somewhere because you emotionally could not handle this.

711
00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:46,320
Speaker 1: So so we get like bitches because I like bitches,

712
00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:48,640
Speaker 1: and I like threesomes because I like three SOMs. It's

713
00:34:48,680 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 1: not like, let me have a threesome to lock my

714
00:34:50,640 --> 00:34:52,520
Speaker 1: new dude down. We get We get asked us a lot.

715
00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:54,840
Speaker 1: How do you bring it up with your partner about

716
00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:56,959
Speaker 1: wanting to have a threesome? Oh, I'll be like, baby

717
00:34:57,000 --> 00:35:01,520
Speaker 1: want tonight? Oh reverse with dude? What about a dude

718
00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:04,439
Speaker 1: that's never And by the way, we have already talked

719
00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:06,759
Speaker 1: about this, but johns asked the same question every week,

720
00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:09,960
Speaker 1: and so let's go on reverse. John wants to fuck.

721
00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:13,120
Speaker 1: Oh no way, that's that's two way. You know. Damn

722
00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:17,839
Speaker 1: Jamale wants to fuck Tierra with another chick. Tierra had

723
00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:19,880
Speaker 1: been together for like a year and a half, but

724
00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:21,560
Speaker 1: he doesn't know how to bring it up without making

725
00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:24,640
Speaker 1: Tierra feel insecure. So how can he bring this up

726
00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:26,600
Speaker 1: in a way that will make her feel comfortable enough?

727
00:35:26,719 --> 00:35:27,960
Speaker 1: What are the things that he has to do? How

728
00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:31,080
Speaker 1: should that conversation? Um? Okay, boom, this is This is

729
00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:34,040
Speaker 1: what I go up on my dude right like I go.

730
00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:37,239
Speaker 1: He deletes it now, which gets on my nerves. But

731
00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:39,240
Speaker 1: I always go into his like cash at his history

732
00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:41,759
Speaker 1: of like what porn he watched, to be like, oh

733
00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:44,680
Speaker 1: he was looking at Spanish bitches. Huh, I gotta go.

734
00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:47,399
Speaker 1: Let's go Spanish bitches this week. So I would say

735
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:51,239
Speaker 1: for a guy to put to put like threesome ship

736
00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:54,200
Speaker 1: like in his thing and then like purposely let her

737
00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:56,000
Speaker 1: find it and see what she says, and then you

738
00:35:56,080 --> 00:35:58,360
Speaker 1: could test the waters there. I have actually brought the

739
00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:00,160
Speaker 1: same thing up, saying like I think you'll should watch

740
00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:02,239
Speaker 1: pouring together and be like what do you think of this? No,

741
00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:04,239
Speaker 1: but I don't even think that, because that's like what

742
00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:06,200
Speaker 1: if the bitch ain't searching for his through his phone?

743
00:36:06,520 --> 00:36:09,759
Speaker 1: I think leave your laps, bitch, just looking through. Leave

744
00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:13,280
Speaker 1: your laptop open, because I'm gonna give you the reaction

745
00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:16,040
Speaker 1: that he could say. So you're really looking up three suns?

746
00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:18,759
Speaker 1: Is that what you want to do with me? Yeah, bitch,

747
00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:21,719
Speaker 1: is with it or not? You know what I think?

748
00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:27,400
Speaker 1: To New York wor a great question, Mandy hasn't here

749
00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:29,839
Speaker 1: that like it says, as a new mom, how does

750
00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:32,279
Speaker 1: having a baby change your body and your libido? Like

751
00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:35,399
Speaker 1: your sex more sex or less sex? Or it goes

752
00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:37,840
Speaker 1: up and down? Like before my baby, I was like

753
00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:40,240
Speaker 1: a little sex kid and I wanted to definitely work.

754
00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:43,239
Speaker 1: But now because you're you have you know, you have

755
00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:46,160
Speaker 1: to take care of a child, you don't have as

756
00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:48,680
Speaker 1: much energy. So honestly, my sex job goes up and down.

757
00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:51,040
Speaker 1: And it's crazy because I don't think I lost it completely.

758
00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:53,160
Speaker 1: We had a we had a homemail about that. And

759
00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:56,279
Speaker 1: I don't think men realize the energy even of being

760
00:36:56,520 --> 00:36:58,720
Speaker 1: a new mom, Like, yeah, were probably sucking like rabbits

761
00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:00,719
Speaker 1: before the baby. But now and not only that, not

762
00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:03,240
Speaker 1: only do you have a job, like and you're always

763
00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:05,759
Speaker 1: on the go, always somewhere at events, are somewhere. You're

764
00:37:05,760 --> 00:37:07,840
Speaker 1: still the mother of the house, so you're still probably

765
00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:09,960
Speaker 1: cleaning the house, doing everything about the house. But now

766
00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:12,359
Speaker 1: you also gotta take care of the whole last human being. Yeah,

767
00:37:12,440 --> 00:37:14,320
Speaker 1: and my man is like my second child too. I

768
00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:16,719
Speaker 1: gotta cook when he comes home. He's like, babe, were

769
00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:19,760
Speaker 1: were like, nigga, you don past fifteen fast food restaurant.

770
00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:21,279
Speaker 1: You know, I had a full day of work, Like

771
00:37:21,800 --> 00:37:23,920
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like they don't understand that sometimes,

772
00:37:23,960 --> 00:37:26,680
Speaker 1: so that that that's sort of a funer balance. I mean,

773
00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:30,040
Speaker 1: when you we're pregnant, did you find that you want

774
00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:34,120
Speaker 1: to text more? They said while I was talking about pregnant? Yeah,

775
00:37:34,200 --> 00:37:37,560
Speaker 1: did he say your pussy taking? Are you pregnant? I

776
00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:38,880
Speaker 1: didn't want him to eat me out? That was so

777
00:37:39,040 --> 00:37:41,520
Speaker 1: weird for me, Like what's the belly star? You thought

778
00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:43,920
Speaker 1: maybe he could see the baby inside? I was like, no,

779
00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:46,680
Speaker 1: I couldn't see what Maybe he was maybe but maybe

780
00:37:46,719 --> 00:37:50,200
Speaker 1: he was gonna look inside and they hided his child. Why?

781
00:37:50,239 --> 00:37:52,920
Speaker 1: I don't know. Why? Why do you want to eat

782
00:37:52,920 --> 00:37:55,680
Speaker 1: you out? Suck my ship up right right so you

783
00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:58,480
Speaker 1: know you know I'm rubbing into my body. You try

784
00:37:58,560 --> 00:38:01,520
Speaker 1: to keep snatched. So I'm into myself, Like I'll be

785
00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:03,960
Speaker 1: like I like sing in front of a mirror, you know, like, yes,

786
00:38:04,719 --> 00:38:07,680
Speaker 1: so you were, and I didn't like. I like, I'm

787
00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:09,800
Speaker 1: a is it a pillow? Is what is it like

788
00:38:09,920 --> 00:38:13,160
Speaker 1: laying back getting head? Yeah? I like to lay back

789
00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:14,840
Speaker 1: and get head. I don't really like sitting on faces.

790
00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:18,040
Speaker 1: I do occasionally, but I don't like it. So when

791
00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:20,160
Speaker 1: I could come, it's usually on my back. So once

792
00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:21,759
Speaker 1: the belly start getting to a point where I can't

793
00:38:21,760 --> 00:38:23,800
Speaker 1: even see the top of your motherfucking head, I'm like,

794
00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:25,880
Speaker 1: this is weird because you can't even see him anymore.

795
00:38:25,880 --> 00:38:28,440
Speaker 1: You're just looking at your baby, and you got the

796
00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:31,120
Speaker 1: baby like moving, like, oh, whats y'all got going on

797
00:38:31,239 --> 00:38:34,880
Speaker 1: out there? Like that was weird. So like the last trimester,

798
00:38:35,080 --> 00:38:37,719
Speaker 1: it was like a pillow and ass up in the air. Honey.

799
00:38:37,800 --> 00:38:40,040
Speaker 1: I was like, hello, I still wanted to funk, but

800
00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:41,840
Speaker 1: I just didn't want no head because it was just

801
00:38:42,480 --> 00:38:45,959
Speaker 1: weird for me. So so another another direction we wanted

802
00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:49,719
Speaker 1: to take this because now that you're a mommy, UM,

803
00:38:50,080 --> 00:38:53,480
Speaker 1: a lot of people, I would say, both men and women,

804
00:38:53,719 --> 00:38:56,440
Speaker 1: feel like once you become a mom you have to

805
00:38:56,600 --> 00:38:59,120
Speaker 1: carry yourself a certain way. Um, you have to be

806
00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:00,920
Speaker 1: a certain way. Is now you're a mom and you

807
00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:03,719
Speaker 1: went want your child to see this, So, um, could

808
00:39:03,719 --> 00:39:06,239
Speaker 1: you pull up this picture UM for me real quick.

809
00:39:06,440 --> 00:39:08,440
Speaker 1: So I have a photo and we posted it on

810
00:39:08,680 --> 00:39:12,359
Speaker 1: our Instagram and it got a ton of comments. Um.

811
00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:16,600
Speaker 1: So because you wrap your on tv um, you are

812
00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:18,759
Speaker 1: very confident with your body. You wear whatever the funk

813
00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:21,320
Speaker 1: you want, and this is probably something similar to some

814
00:39:21,440 --> 00:39:24,200
Speaker 1: things you've worn before. The picture is a picture of

815
00:39:24,200 --> 00:39:26,080
Speaker 1: a lot of you guys have seen. It turned into

816
00:39:26,080 --> 00:39:28,000
Speaker 1: a meme, and meme says, are y'all okay with your

817
00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:29,560
Speaker 1: wife stepping out like this? And it's a picture of

818
00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:33,040
Speaker 1: Gucci Maine with his wife Kesha, and she's wearing a

819
00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:36,160
Speaker 1: see through jumpsuit. I mean she's wearing what it looks

820
00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:38,560
Speaker 1: like to me underneath. Undwere like, you can't pay she's

821
00:39:38,680 --> 00:39:40,880
Speaker 1: got an underwear. And honestly, when I saw this, I

822
00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:43,120
Speaker 1: was like, I've seen mad chicks and mesh jumpsuits. I

823
00:39:43,120 --> 00:39:45,319
Speaker 1: don't really know what. I don't understand, but I think

824
00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:47,799
Speaker 1: it's now because of quote unquote, now she's a wife.

825
00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:51,680
Speaker 1: So she's a wife that's so but have but she's

826
00:39:51,680 --> 00:39:56,320
Speaker 1: also a mother, and that she also has a brand

827
00:39:56,400 --> 00:39:58,359
Speaker 1: and things like that. As well, so like, well, she's

828
00:39:58,360 --> 00:40:00,920
Speaker 1: supposed to stop everything. Let me ask you for for

829
00:40:01,040 --> 00:40:03,600
Speaker 1: our listeners who don't have brands and maybe they just

830
00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:05,160
Speaker 1: want to go to the club, but their home girls

831
00:40:05,200 --> 00:40:08,400
Speaker 1: and they saw they saw someone on Instagram with this,

832
00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:09,880
Speaker 1: and it was like, I know, I would look bombing

833
00:40:09,920 --> 00:40:12,479
Speaker 1: that ship too, and they should get it. They should

834
00:40:12,520 --> 00:40:15,200
Speaker 1: get it. They should get it the conversations should you

835
00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:17,680
Speaker 1: are like I like my The whole thing is if

836
00:40:17,719 --> 00:40:19,719
Speaker 1: you are living in your troop and you are in

837
00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:21,880
Speaker 1: a relationship, they should accept you for who you are.

838
00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:25,000
Speaker 1: When my deal met, I was a fucking thought and

839
00:40:25,080 --> 00:40:27,160
Speaker 1: I was willing to stop being a thought if he

840
00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:28,680
Speaker 1: was willing to stop being a thought because he was

841
00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:31,560
Speaker 1: a thought. So we got together and we both just

842
00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:33,360
Speaker 1: you know, love each other and stuff like that. But

843
00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:35,400
Speaker 1: I didn't have to change the way AD dressed. The

844
00:40:35,440 --> 00:40:37,840
Speaker 1: only thing I had to not disrespect him, and you know,

845
00:40:37,960 --> 00:40:41,080
Speaker 1: obviously in different aspects, but my clothes, my appearance, the

846
00:40:41,640 --> 00:40:44,439
Speaker 1: way I speak, Like I asked him something. Sometimes I'm like, baby,

847
00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:46,680
Speaker 1: you know, sometimes i'd be like my thought days on

848
00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:49,200
Speaker 1: He's like, I don't care, Like I know, I know you.

849
00:40:49,440 --> 00:40:52,880
Speaker 1: So when your partner knows the core of you. I

850
00:40:53,080 --> 00:40:56,160
Speaker 1: know you got that hole in you. He was like,

851
00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:58,480
Speaker 1: I know there's a little hole still and there's fun

852
00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:01,160
Speaker 1: maybe since you that you used to be thought, he

853
00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:03,400
Speaker 1: used to be thought. Have y'all ever discussed no monogamy

854
00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:06,200
Speaker 1: and open relationships? Um, he's definitely not with that, and

855
00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:08,360
Speaker 1: I'm not with that when y'all have threesomes. We have

856
00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:10,920
Speaker 1: threesomes here, Like, he can't funk no bitch when I'm

857
00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:13,800
Speaker 1: not over No, I don't know. That's cheating to me,

858
00:41:15,120 --> 00:41:18,239
Speaker 1: that's cheating. No, that is I mean we bought out

859
00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:21,040
Speaker 1: there and I say, ing, that's what your rule is,

860
00:41:21,120 --> 00:41:23,560
Speaker 1: and don't look around him, then that's it. Yeah, don't like,

861
00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:25,480
Speaker 1: just don't like, don't have no. And I think it

862
00:41:25,560 --> 00:41:28,239
Speaker 1: goes both ways, Like in a relationship with me and him, right,

863
00:41:28,280 --> 00:41:30,399
Speaker 1: it's been pretty public. Everybody knows that we're being together.

864
00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:32,440
Speaker 1: But no, but everybody kind of thinks that we have

865
00:41:32,520 --> 00:41:34,760
Speaker 1: this perfect thing, right and me and my dude both

866
00:41:34,840 --> 00:41:37,520
Speaker 1: have had infidelities on both sides. So you know what

867
00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:39,879
Speaker 1: makes me it's not everybody business. I want to bring

868
00:41:40,239 --> 00:41:41,800
Speaker 1: black on each other on social media. I want to

869
00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:43,520
Speaker 1: bring back that because it just made me think the

870
00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:46,040
Speaker 1: fact that you did say that, Um, A lot of

871
00:41:46,080 --> 00:41:48,320
Speaker 1: people say you can't turn a hole into a housewife.

872
00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:49,680
Speaker 1: Do you think the fact that both of y'all was

873
00:41:49,719 --> 00:41:52,120
Speaker 1: hosed at one point that that, oh it helped. I

874
00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:54,160
Speaker 1: think it helped because like coping around the block and

875
00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:57,520
Speaker 1: you know, yeah, but you guys still both cheated, So

876
00:41:57,600 --> 00:42:00,600
Speaker 1: do you feel like that's always something that you would expect?

877
00:42:01,000 --> 00:42:03,239
Speaker 1: So if I didn't have my whole phase and I

878
00:42:03,320 --> 00:42:05,680
Speaker 1: haven't been a whole and now I'm dating a dude,

879
00:42:05,920 --> 00:42:09,479
Speaker 1: should he just automatically assume that I'm probably still gonna

880
00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:12,680
Speaker 1: be a whole? Like when minds it was like he

881
00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:15,440
Speaker 1: knows why I cheated and I know why he cheated, right,

882
00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:17,719
Speaker 1: And that's why we both were able to move on

883
00:42:17,880 --> 00:42:20,440
Speaker 1: because we both have flaws into why to make the

884
00:42:20,480 --> 00:42:23,400
Speaker 1: other person feel insecure to go back backtrack and do

885
00:42:23,640 --> 00:42:28,040
Speaker 1: you know, go back that route. So that's what I'm saying,

886
00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:29,960
Speaker 1: Like when this ship comes out later on, even like

887
00:42:30,040 --> 00:42:32,200
Speaker 1: this ship like, oh my god, NAILI are a man

888
00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:34,200
Speaker 1: cheated on each other before that's never made it to

889
00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:36,239
Speaker 1: social media. You know what I'm saying, you might try

890
00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:39,120
Speaker 1: to put a magnifying glass on there. Whatever. Me and

891
00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:43,120
Speaker 1: him both know. He knows what he did to provoke

892
00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:44,759
Speaker 1: me to do it, because I thought it was over

893
00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:47,480
Speaker 1: like you felt like you were to cheat? What he

894
00:42:47,640 --> 00:42:55,160
Speaker 1: did to me? Know what he did and I'm provoked

895
00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:57,080
Speaker 1: me to cheat? Yes, what he did to me, I'm

896
00:42:57,120 --> 00:43:00,040
Speaker 1: not going to funk up his character that he it

897
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:02,080
Speaker 1: to me. I would me and him was going to

898
00:43:02,160 --> 00:43:04,520
Speaker 1: be over like and that I was like, you know what,

899
00:43:05,080 --> 00:43:06,440
Speaker 1: I don't want to be with this niven no more

900
00:43:06,560 --> 00:43:08,800
Speaker 1: so I'm just gonna jump out the window. This nigga

901
00:43:08,800 --> 00:43:10,200
Speaker 1: really ain't gonna want to be with me. That's what

902
00:43:10,320 --> 00:43:12,319
Speaker 1: I'm I thinking was it's retarded. Now I think I'm

903
00:43:12,360 --> 00:43:14,880
Speaker 1: like that was stupid as I was like, you know

904
00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:17,600
Speaker 1: what he thinks? I'm getting back when I'm gonna funk somebody.

905
00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:22,880
Speaker 1: Do you feel like if your partner cheats? I was

906
00:43:22,920 --> 00:43:25,279
Speaker 1: gonna say, yeah, like if your partner cheefs, do you

907
00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:26,840
Speaker 1: feel like you kind of have a pass now to

908
00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:28,480
Speaker 1: cheat or how does that? How do you think anybody

909
00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:31,000
Speaker 1: has a cheated cheating? To me, it's like and he

910
00:43:31,080 --> 00:43:33,839
Speaker 1: didn't cheat first and then I cheated. Oh he did something.

911
00:43:34,080 --> 00:43:36,120
Speaker 1: He cheating. He cheated before I even cheated, like you

912
00:43:36,280 --> 00:43:40,440
Speaker 1: cheated before me before. Yeah, like cheating if like I

913
00:43:40,520 --> 00:43:42,880
Speaker 1: think something's real, cheating when like you're being deceitful right

914
00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:44,520
Speaker 1: you out here not telling me what was going on.

915
00:43:44,600 --> 00:43:46,879
Speaker 1: Blah blah blah blah blah. So like that already hurts

916
00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:49,920
Speaker 1: one person just to hurt back, like, yeah, that's what

917
00:43:50,120 --> 00:43:52,120
Speaker 1: that's what we didn't do. I think that that's why

918
00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:55,000
Speaker 1: we're able to up, Like if you're cheating as a

919
00:43:55,080 --> 00:43:57,719
Speaker 1: result because you're angry and it wasn't she I don't know,

920
00:43:58,080 --> 00:43:59,880
Speaker 1: So let me can I ask both of y'all so

921
00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:03,160
Speaker 1: than actually, because because we all are friends, I know

922
00:44:03,280 --> 00:44:05,759
Speaker 1: that both of y'all, even you saying this, you both

923
00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:08,680
Speaker 1: have been in relationships where your partner has cheated and

924
00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:12,480
Speaker 1: you stayed with them. What a lot of people feel

925
00:44:12,520 --> 00:44:14,640
Speaker 1: like once they're cheated on, they can't stay with their partners.

926
00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:17,480
Speaker 1: So how did both of y'all get past the cheating part? We?

927
00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:21,120
Speaker 1: I think that me and my man wasn't like no, no, no.

928
00:44:21,239 --> 00:44:23,800
Speaker 1: I think that me and my man both were able

929
00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:26,120
Speaker 1: to get past it because he bought his ship to me.

930
00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:28,040
Speaker 1: I bought my ship to him. And that's why I

931
00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:30,359
Speaker 1: think that it didn't make it to social media communication.

932
00:44:30,640 --> 00:44:32,920
Speaker 1: So you told on yourself. I told on myself and

933
00:44:33,040 --> 00:44:36,440
Speaker 1: that's a big deal. And he told him that's never

934
00:44:36,520 --> 00:44:40,200
Speaker 1: happened to me, and I think that that eliminates the embarrassment. Yeah,

935
00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:44,320
Speaker 1: you have to find out. See I felt embarrassed. That

936
00:44:44,480 --> 00:44:45,840
Speaker 1: was the number one feeling, and I felt like I

937
00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:48,200
Speaker 1: couldn't go back from that. She was someone I knew.

938
00:44:49,120 --> 00:44:51,640
Speaker 1: I got cheated on a lot. But you know, but

939
00:44:51,800 --> 00:44:55,000
Speaker 1: I think the main thing for me is I was younger,

940
00:44:56,200 --> 00:44:58,120
Speaker 1: and I didn't really forgive it all. Like I brought

941
00:44:58,160 --> 00:45:00,160
Speaker 1: it up a lot, and I think that you do

942
00:45:00,320 --> 00:45:02,279
Speaker 1: have to forgive. You can't keep bringing it up. And

943
00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:05,120
Speaker 1: that's the thing that really sucked me up because I would,

944
00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:06,920
Speaker 1: I mean anything, We could be having a great time

945
00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:08,960
Speaker 1: and I would just bring it and little things would

946
00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:10,759
Speaker 1: trigger me, you know what I mean. He cheated on

947
00:45:10,840 --> 00:45:12,480
Speaker 1: me with a girl that had red hair. If we

948
00:45:12,520 --> 00:45:14,799
Speaker 1: passed someone in the street, he would, he would watch

949
00:45:14,920 --> 00:45:17,719
Speaker 1: my demeanor change. Just little things could tick me off.

950
00:45:18,160 --> 00:45:20,480
Speaker 1: And I am a guys not in his head like yep,

951
00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:24,399
Speaker 1: this you've been cheated on. You've been cheated on. Oh

952
00:45:24,760 --> 00:45:29,600
Speaker 1: my baby's Like can we go Um, but no, I

953
00:45:29,680 --> 00:45:31,880
Speaker 1: mean you have to forgive, you do. And that is

954
00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:33,480
Speaker 1: the thing, that thing that ruined it. I mean, he

955
00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:36,680
Speaker 1: wasn't somebody I should have been with, but not forgiving.

956
00:45:36,719 --> 00:45:38,719
Speaker 1: I mean, cause imagine if like and that's another thing,

957
00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:40,480
Speaker 1: you can't sucking out of my friends. I didn't his

958
00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:43,839
Speaker 1: friends like that can't a friend. But like a small

959
00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:46,239
Speaker 1: city and like everybody you know, I could go to

960
00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:48,000
Speaker 1: the fucking strip club and see the girl he and

961
00:45:48,080 --> 00:45:51,359
Speaker 1: that was hard. Um. But yeah, if I ever got

962
00:45:51,440 --> 00:45:53,280
Speaker 1: cheated on again and I was in a serious relationship,

963
00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:55,239
Speaker 1: I think the main thing would be is me telling

964
00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:57,040
Speaker 1: him to myself, can I handle this? And am I

965
00:45:57,080 --> 00:45:59,640
Speaker 1: gonna shut the funk up and move past it? Because

966
00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:03,160
Speaker 1: you do get started for it too. Yeah, I would

967
00:46:03,200 --> 00:46:05,520
Speaker 1: bring it up and what can I do about it?

968
00:46:05,640 --> 00:46:09,040
Speaker 1: Took me about eight months to like really because like together,

969
00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:11,480
Speaker 1: we've been together like four years now, so it took

970
00:46:11,520 --> 00:46:14,399
Speaker 1: me about like eight months to really really because really

971
00:46:14,440 --> 00:46:17,440
Speaker 1: really digested and say, he came to me with this

972
00:46:17,600 --> 00:46:19,480
Speaker 1: he like you know what I'm saying, because he saved

973
00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:23,120
Speaker 1: me in the embarrassment. So that's really the mooth leverage

974
00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:28,240
Speaker 1: that he had in the situation. You know. And another

975
00:46:28,320 --> 00:46:30,759
Speaker 1: thing too, the fact that it wasn't like a bartender like,

976
00:46:31,000 --> 00:46:32,799
Speaker 1: because that's what I got cheated on a lot back

977
00:46:32,840 --> 00:46:34,719
Speaker 1: in the day in my strip and I always kept

978
00:46:34,760 --> 00:46:36,480
Speaker 1: a nigga right, and they would cheat on me with

979
00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:38,280
Speaker 1: these bitches who you know what I'm saying. Any nigga

980
00:46:38,320 --> 00:46:40,480
Speaker 1: they see me with, you already know bitches like, oh

981
00:46:40,760 --> 00:46:42,600
Speaker 1: he was with Nia. He threw two dollars that nire

982
00:46:42,640 --> 00:46:47,440
Speaker 1: I want to He's so fucking weak. There's this this dude, right,

983
00:46:47,480 --> 00:46:49,880
Speaker 1: I gotta tell you all this story. You know, and

984
00:46:49,960 --> 00:46:51,479
Speaker 1: you know what I'm talking about, but I'm not gonna

985
00:46:51,480 --> 00:46:54,440
Speaker 1: give them no names. I went to There was this

986
00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:57,520
Speaker 1: dude I was dating from Brooklyn and you know whatever,

987
00:46:58,320 --> 00:47:00,640
Speaker 1: we go with me and my girls want to day party.

988
00:47:00,680 --> 00:47:02,160
Speaker 1: I call him. I'm like, hey, what you're doing. He's like,

989
00:47:02,160 --> 00:47:03,960
Speaker 1: I'm in a city with some of my friends we

990
00:47:04,400 --> 00:47:06,560
Speaker 1: met and my couple of girls. We go meet up

991
00:47:06,600 --> 00:47:09,960
Speaker 1: with them to have dinner and it's momor Day weakenness

992
00:47:10,040 --> 00:47:12,520
Speaker 1: coming up, and I'm like, look, I'm not going to Miami,

993
00:47:12,680 --> 00:47:14,279
Speaker 1: but my I mean, I'm not going to can Coom

994
00:47:14,320 --> 00:47:16,040
Speaker 1: for momor Day weekend, but my girls is gonna be

995
00:47:16,080 --> 00:47:18,000
Speaker 1: out there day. I was like, day going. I was like,

996
00:47:18,080 --> 00:47:19,680
Speaker 1: take care of my girls, like you know how I am.

997
00:47:19,719 --> 00:47:21,640
Speaker 1: I'm like, take them in the club. You already know

998
00:47:22,880 --> 00:47:26,080
Speaker 1: the back back. So I'm like, look, just take care

999
00:47:26,080 --> 00:47:27,520
Speaker 1: of my home girls. You know what I'm saying him

1000
00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:29,920
Speaker 1: and his dudes because it's him and his friends and

1001
00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:32,319
Speaker 1: it's my friends. So obviously I'm not saying fun any

1002
00:47:32,360 --> 00:47:34,680
Speaker 1: of my friends. Just make sure they're good in the clubs.

1003
00:47:35,239 --> 00:47:37,960
Speaker 1: They go to can Coon, they come back one of

1004
00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:40,279
Speaker 1: the extra girls, like you don't know, such and such,

1005
00:47:40,360 --> 00:47:43,440
Speaker 1: fun such and such. This weekend, I was like, no,

1006
00:47:43,960 --> 00:47:45,920
Speaker 1: and it was one of it was your friends that

1007
00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:49,719
Speaker 1: I introduced, And I'm like, you know what I mean,

1008
00:47:49,800 --> 00:47:51,840
Speaker 1: So that that ship hurts, Like That's why I'm so

1009
00:47:52,000 --> 00:47:57,399
Speaker 1: happy that my man is not weak for these more

1010
00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:04,239
Speaker 1: the Crystal and um saving the embarrassment when they went

1011
00:48:04,280 --> 00:48:06,439
Speaker 1: to Orlando, I was like, oh, I need this. Yeah.

1012
00:48:07,200 --> 00:48:09,600
Speaker 1: I feel like the moral of this story is fellas

1013
00:48:10,000 --> 00:48:12,160
Speaker 1: if you got a girlfriend and you didn't cheat it

1014
00:48:12,200 --> 00:48:13,960
Speaker 1: on her, you should go go to her like a

1015
00:48:14,040 --> 00:48:16,640
Speaker 1: grown ass man and tell her that you cheated on her.

1016
00:48:16,719 --> 00:48:20,960
Speaker 1: Because as FBI inspector Gadget as bitches that we are,

1017
00:48:21,360 --> 00:48:23,440
Speaker 1: we are going to find out we always do. We

1018
00:48:23,600 --> 00:48:29,600
Speaker 1: always do. So I came clean about my ship because

1019
00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:32,760
Speaker 1: I know that I'm going to continually continue to evolve

1020
00:48:32,840 --> 00:48:34,440
Speaker 1: and get bigger and bigger and bigger, and I know

1021
00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:36,399
Speaker 1: that people are gonna try to come in and funk

1022
00:48:36,480 --> 00:48:38,319
Speaker 1: up the foundation that me and my man has built,

1023
00:48:38,320 --> 00:48:40,719
Speaker 1: even even this interview right in here, Like you know,

1024
00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:43,440
Speaker 1: people are gonna probably try to throw their jobs, but ultimately,

1025
00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:44,640
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, me and my Man

1026
00:48:44,719 --> 00:48:47,439
Speaker 1: have a solid fucking foundation. The only people that's gonna

1027
00:48:47,440 --> 00:48:49,080
Speaker 1: break me and my man is gonna be me and

1028
00:48:49,160 --> 00:48:51,920
Speaker 1: my Man when we decide to go seperate ways. That's

1029
00:48:52,360 --> 00:48:54,919
Speaker 1: you're very public with your relationship, and I actually wanted

1030
00:48:54,960 --> 00:48:58,120
Speaker 1: to bring a question to you as Sweezie, because we

1031
00:48:58,440 --> 00:49:01,280
Speaker 1: see ourselves becoming more, you know, like bigger and bigger,

1032
00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:04,879
Speaker 1: and there are like so many of our listeners who

1033
00:49:04,920 --> 00:49:06,640
Speaker 1: try to figure out who we're sucking and because we

1034
00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:09,719
Speaker 1: brag about them. I think you said someone was trying

1035
00:49:09,719 --> 00:49:14,600
Speaker 1: to figure out to even love her boy. So as

1036
00:49:14,680 --> 00:49:18,080
Speaker 1: we get bigger, would you have a public relationship on

1037
00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:22,359
Speaker 1: your on Instagram with who you date next or because

1038
00:49:22,400 --> 00:49:24,560
Speaker 1: you're very secretive with that. But I'm wondering if it's

1039
00:49:24,600 --> 00:49:30,000
Speaker 1: because like you're nervous that yeah, same, I think that

1040
00:49:31,120 --> 00:49:34,480
Speaker 1: it's not necessarily Like if I'm worried about a breakup

1041
00:49:34,600 --> 00:49:36,400
Speaker 1: and like going through that, I just more someone to

1042
00:49:36,440 --> 00:49:39,000
Speaker 1: protect that person, like as people as people could be

1043
00:49:39,000 --> 00:49:40,960
Speaker 1: on the internet towards me and you find you. It's

1044
00:49:41,000 --> 00:49:44,839
Speaker 1: almost like me and Mandy will talk about the ship

1045
00:49:44,960 --> 00:49:46,879
Speaker 1: that we do and then they'll go on and act

1046
00:49:46,920 --> 00:49:49,320
Speaker 1: like they heard some new info. They just a house.

1047
00:49:49,600 --> 00:49:58,680
Speaker 1: They just because just to know that someone could do

1048
00:49:58,800 --> 00:50:00,560
Speaker 1: that to somebody else, Like I would never want to

1049
00:50:00,560 --> 00:50:03,719
Speaker 1: put somebody through that because I just know how ridiculous

1050
00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:05,719
Speaker 1: people are and like how hurtful they try to be

1051
00:50:05,800 --> 00:50:08,200
Speaker 1: in negative and it's just like why bring someone in

1052
00:50:08,280 --> 00:50:09,800
Speaker 1: my life like that? No, but that's why you you

1053
00:50:09,880 --> 00:50:12,560
Speaker 1: got to see if I spoke to my partner right

1054
00:50:12,600 --> 00:50:14,920
Speaker 1: and even with the infidelities, if I knew that he

1055
00:50:14,960 --> 00:50:17,480
Speaker 1: would be uncomfortable about me even talking about it, and

1056
00:50:17,560 --> 00:50:19,319
Speaker 1: then I wouldn't talk about it. If there's certain things

1057
00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:21,120
Speaker 1: that like I said, he's like, yeah, baby, I know

1058
00:50:21,200 --> 00:50:23,960
Speaker 1: you say thought days like you know, we have this conversation,

1059
00:50:24,000 --> 00:50:26,000
Speaker 1: so I respect. There are certain things that I won't

1060
00:50:26,040 --> 00:50:27,719
Speaker 1: talk about. Like I said, I didn't give you guys

1061
00:50:27,760 --> 00:50:29,920
Speaker 1: the reason why I treated because I'm not here to

1062
00:50:29,960 --> 00:50:33,000
Speaker 1: assassinate his character. That's still the child of the father

1063
00:50:33,080 --> 00:50:35,000
Speaker 1: of my child. But I feel like once you have

1064
00:50:35,120 --> 00:50:37,360
Speaker 1: that the connection with somebody, you guys sit down and

1065
00:50:37,400 --> 00:50:39,239
Speaker 1: you have like you know, these are the guidelines, Like

1066
00:50:39,239 --> 00:50:41,480
Speaker 1: I'm Alec because he lets me rock and I I

1067
00:50:41,560 --> 00:50:43,800
Speaker 1: don't even feel like I'm like chained up or not,

1068
00:50:45,480 --> 00:50:47,760
Speaker 1: Like it's not about me having this hope for Sona.

1069
00:50:47,960 --> 00:50:50,400
Speaker 1: It's more so like you don't know if I have

1070
00:50:50,520 --> 00:50:54,160
Speaker 1: just learned, Like the more that we do this, people

1071
00:50:54,440 --> 00:50:57,359
Speaker 1: really try to be hurtful, like they really liked funk

1072
00:50:57,440 --> 00:51:00,200
Speaker 1: with you. So I don't give this is I this

1073
00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:02,080
Speaker 1: is going to come with what I do, but you

1074
00:51:02,160 --> 00:51:06,560
Speaker 1: don't deserve that. That's where I feel like, like what

1075
00:51:06,640 --> 00:51:08,520
Speaker 1: if the guy is like, no, baby, fuck them, like

1076
00:51:08,520 --> 00:51:10,040
Speaker 1: I don't care. The only time I would do that

1077
00:51:10,080 --> 00:51:12,439
Speaker 1: then is if that person is in a creative field

1078
00:51:12,480 --> 00:51:16,480
Speaker 1: like me and can understand why people do this. For example,

1079
00:51:18,760 --> 00:51:20,799
Speaker 1: is I don't even want to say his name. Someone

1080
00:51:20,840 --> 00:51:22,759
Speaker 1: bigger than us has a bigger podcast than us. I'm like, bro,

1081
00:51:22,880 --> 00:51:25,239
Speaker 1: I can't handle reading these awful things. Well, me and

1082
00:51:25,480 --> 00:51:28,040
Speaker 1: Mandy did a therapist episode. I was feeling great about

1083
00:51:28,160 --> 00:51:31,279
Speaker 1: us having therapy, and then reading things about her made

1084
00:51:31,320 --> 00:51:33,239
Speaker 1: me almost mad at her again. I was like, I

1085
00:51:33,280 --> 00:51:35,000
Speaker 1: don't know how to separate these things. He was like,

1086
00:51:35,360 --> 00:51:37,840
Speaker 1: I don't even see him anymore, Like I just I

1087
00:51:37,880 --> 00:51:40,320
Speaker 1: don't really don't. But it's not even it's like reading

1088
00:51:40,360 --> 00:51:41,840
Speaker 1: them and not letting them bother you. So all I

1089
00:51:41,880 --> 00:51:44,000
Speaker 1: could think of is like, if I get a bigger

1090
00:51:44,040 --> 00:51:46,239
Speaker 1: and that person still sticks there, something's gonna have to stick.

1091
00:51:46,560 --> 00:51:49,000
Speaker 1: Something's gonna make you wonder too much, or you know,

1092
00:51:49,200 --> 00:51:51,440
Speaker 1: like I think people can bring you more doubt than

1093
00:51:51,520 --> 00:51:54,040
Speaker 1: you want them to. And that's why I think public

1094
00:51:54,120 --> 00:51:56,640
Speaker 1: relationships are a scary place to be unless all they're

1095
00:51:56,680 --> 00:51:59,160
Speaker 1: like suck the world together, like maybe it is best,

1096
00:51:59,680 --> 00:52:03,920
Speaker 1: but both very independent minds thinking. Because when when I

1097
00:52:04,080 --> 00:52:05,960
Speaker 1: when we first got together, he had an X and

1098
00:52:06,040 --> 00:52:08,080
Speaker 1: she was on the internet like, oh you wanta leave

1099
00:52:08,080 --> 00:52:10,320
Speaker 1: me for a strip of hole and like all of

1100
00:52:10,400 --> 00:52:12,759
Speaker 1: this crazy ship and the just still on site. But um,

1101
00:52:14,320 --> 00:52:17,359
Speaker 1: she don't know, but she said if it wasn't for her,

1102
00:52:17,360 --> 00:52:19,080
Speaker 1: then I wouldn't have my child. You want my child

1103
00:52:19,120 --> 00:52:21,840
Speaker 1: to do it but still on site. But I don't bizarre.

1104
00:52:21,960 --> 00:52:23,759
Speaker 1: Hopper's bizarre, but I still you want to block or

1105
00:52:23,840 --> 00:52:27,600
Speaker 1: something no shape. But you know when we first got together,

1106
00:52:27,680 --> 00:52:29,799
Speaker 1: you know, even Nix was like, I urge you night

1107
00:52:29,920 --> 00:52:32,239
Speaker 1: leaders stripper, you know what I'm saying. Like and you know,

1108
00:52:32,280 --> 00:52:34,200
Speaker 1: I didn't hear too much about him because he's in Jersey,

1109
00:52:34,560 --> 00:52:37,359
Speaker 1: but he came. He showed me like pictures of him

1110
00:52:37,480 --> 00:52:40,719
Speaker 1: wearing shirts that said who handler. I was like hands

1111
00:52:40,719 --> 00:52:43,480
Speaker 1: And it's crazy because I feel like there's so many

1112
00:52:43,560 --> 00:52:47,440
Speaker 1: men who maybe won't quote unquote cuff for home because

1113
00:52:47,520 --> 00:52:49,399
Speaker 1: of what other people are gonna say and how they're

1114
00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:51,200
Speaker 1: gonna say it, and be like, that's who you with,

1115
00:52:51,520 --> 00:52:54,920
Speaker 1: that's who you're gonna bring home to you was evolving,

1116
00:52:55,640 --> 00:52:57,840
Speaker 1: you think, because I think that I think that, like,

1117
00:52:58,000 --> 00:53:02,480
Speaker 1: like because when they aren't scared, people everybody want to

1118
00:53:02,880 --> 00:53:04,799
Speaker 1: But that's the thing. If women aren't scared to tell

1119
00:53:04,840 --> 00:53:07,520
Speaker 1: you they are anymore, then there's nothing to hide, right

1120
00:53:08,320 --> 00:53:10,759
Speaker 1: an It's because we've seen holes get wiped and I

1121
00:53:10,840 --> 00:53:12,879
Speaker 1: think it really started. I know we're talking about Rose,

1122
00:53:12,920 --> 00:53:15,920
Speaker 1: but Kim Kardashian yeah, I think that at least in

1123
00:53:16,280 --> 00:53:18,280
Speaker 1: my age. Right, you got in and the coal or whatever.

1124
00:53:18,400 --> 00:53:22,239
Speaker 1: But watching Kim Kardashian legit go from Niga and no

1125
00:53:22,280 --> 00:53:27,000
Speaker 1: one give a fun Nobody they didn't because you're but

1126
00:53:27,160 --> 00:53:29,239
Speaker 1: the way to me, to me, this is what I'm

1127
00:53:29,239 --> 00:53:33,399
Speaker 1: talking about. She did her ship with Finesse yeh. She knows.

1128
00:53:34,280 --> 00:53:36,600
Speaker 1: You don't see Kim even now or even around the

1129
00:53:36,640 --> 00:53:38,520
Speaker 1: time when the sex tape came out, Like you didn't

1130
00:53:38,520 --> 00:53:40,640
Speaker 1: see Kim running around like yeah, you know, I sucked it.

1131
00:53:40,800 --> 00:53:42,960
Speaker 1: I'm so good at it. Like she didn't do that.

1132
00:53:43,120 --> 00:53:49,800
Speaker 1: She just kim putting up that picture with the Chanelle

1133
00:53:49,800 --> 00:53:57,360
Speaker 1: bikini this week. I said that the three kids. But

1134
00:53:58,080 --> 00:54:00,600
Speaker 1: what man knows, I'm coming home every night. So even

1135
00:54:00,719 --> 00:54:03,239
Speaker 1: like I can I say lyrics like even now, I'd

1136
00:54:03,239 --> 00:54:05,399
Speaker 1: be like, you know, I've reminisce on my old days,

1137
00:54:05,440 --> 00:54:07,200
Speaker 1: like yeah, nig gotta pay if you want to play

1138
00:54:07,320 --> 00:54:09,360
Speaker 1: like I do that. You're saying my wraps and stuff

1139
00:54:09,360 --> 00:54:10,480
Speaker 1: like that. What do you think about He's trying to

1140
00:54:10,560 --> 00:54:13,359
Speaker 1: talk about being like when you post pictures like that, right,

1141
00:54:13,440 --> 00:54:16,200
Speaker 1: there are people that say you must be insecure if

1142
00:54:16,239 --> 00:54:19,680
Speaker 1: you need to post that. Oh for like I'm like, honest,

1143
00:54:19,719 --> 00:54:23,560
Speaker 1: but good good, That's how I feel. But it's crazy

1144
00:54:23,600 --> 00:54:27,080
Speaker 1: because there's also the other side of the coin where

1145
00:54:27,160 --> 00:54:30,160
Speaker 1: people feel like, if you're a kept woman, why not

1146
00:54:30,280 --> 00:54:34,120
Speaker 1: why not save them for him? What do you say

1147
00:54:34,280 --> 00:54:38,400
Speaker 1: some songs, my nigga, take the pictures of I'm gonnahow

1148
00:54:38,440 --> 00:54:41,200
Speaker 1: these niggas? What then and be honest with you. I

1149
00:54:41,280 --> 00:54:43,560
Speaker 1: think the thing that's exciting about like when I choose

1150
00:54:43,600 --> 00:54:45,640
Speaker 1: to show my body when I've had a man or whatever,

1151
00:54:45,800 --> 00:54:49,640
Speaker 1: like whatever the case may be, I feel proud of

1152
00:54:49,719 --> 00:54:52,360
Speaker 1: what I'm putting up. If you'd be my new titties,

1153
00:54:52,440 --> 00:54:55,120
Speaker 1: old titties, whatever, Like I feel good about my body

1154
00:54:55,280 --> 00:54:57,600
Speaker 1: just because I got a nigga. Yeah he yeah, it's

1155
00:54:57,640 --> 00:54:59,879
Speaker 1: for him. You saw a picture. He gets to funk it. Right.

1156
00:55:00,160 --> 00:55:02,000
Speaker 1: That's a thing like they act like as soon as

1157
00:55:02,040 --> 00:55:04,320
Speaker 1: you post on Instagram, right, a million likes is a

1158
00:55:04,440 --> 00:55:07,560
Speaker 1: million fucks Like no bro, right, Like there's so much

1159
00:55:07,640 --> 00:55:10,320
Speaker 1: more ship on the internet that I feel like this

1160
00:55:10,520 --> 00:55:13,239
Speaker 1: little thing just to me and this day an age

1161
00:55:13,280 --> 00:55:15,080
Speaker 1: to me. I just want girls to kind of go

1162
00:55:15,239 --> 00:55:17,680
Speaker 1: back to still having a balance and not giving out

1163
00:55:17,680 --> 00:55:24,360
Speaker 1: all of our secrets and like that we've been angle

1164
00:55:26,200 --> 00:55:28,279
Speaker 1: the stuff it. We're gonna go head y'all now and

1165
00:55:28,440 --> 00:55:31,840
Speaker 1: hop into our homemail segment. UM. In this segment, we

1166
00:55:31,960 --> 00:55:36,200
Speaker 1: read some um some letters from your listeners. If you

1167
00:55:36,239 --> 00:55:37,919
Speaker 1: want to go ahead and send in your homemail, please

1168
00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:41,120
Speaker 1: email us. UM that's horrible decisions at gmail dot com.

1169
00:55:41,520 --> 00:55:45,920
Speaker 1: So this first one, the title says faithful but tempted,

1170
00:55:46,239 --> 00:55:48,719
Speaker 1: and I wanted to, UM, definitely ask this with you

1171
00:55:48,800 --> 00:55:50,880
Speaker 1: since you're in a relationship and she's actually been in

1172
00:55:50,920 --> 00:55:53,080
Speaker 1: this relationship for four and a half, I see we

1173
00:55:53,120 --> 00:55:56,400
Speaker 1: should him ask coming here. So it says, my boyfriend

1174
00:55:56,440 --> 00:55:58,000
Speaker 1: and I have been together for about four and a

1175
00:55:58,040 --> 00:56:00,200
Speaker 1: half years. I am twenty three and he is five.

1176
00:56:00,480 --> 00:56:02,160
Speaker 1: When I met him, I was pretty much having fun

1177
00:56:02,239 --> 00:56:04,960
Speaker 1: with guys, and it was with seven men before him,

1178
00:56:05,239 --> 00:56:07,960
Speaker 1: basically in one year. I grew feelings for him before

1179
00:56:08,000 --> 00:56:15,640
Speaker 1: having sex. She was with seven men before him in

1180
00:56:15,760 --> 00:56:18,880
Speaker 1: one year basically, So she was with seven men in

1181
00:56:18,920 --> 00:56:21,640
Speaker 1: one year and then by number eight by monthly. You

1182
00:56:21,680 --> 00:56:23,960
Speaker 1: know that's not bad? Wait seven her whole life or

1183
00:56:24,040 --> 00:56:25,400
Speaker 1: just that year. I took it as my whole I

1184
00:56:25,480 --> 00:56:30,439
Speaker 1: took it as a whole life, did you Yeah? Maybe

1185
00:56:30,480 --> 00:56:32,800
Speaker 1: she just lost Yeah, maybe her whole life. Okay, So

1186
00:56:32,920 --> 00:56:35,160
Speaker 1: I grew feelings for him before having sex, and when

1187
00:56:35,200 --> 00:56:37,719
Speaker 1: we had sex it was just not the best. I

1188
00:56:37,800 --> 00:56:39,920
Speaker 1: continued with everything and fell in love with the person

1189
00:56:40,000 --> 00:56:42,640
Speaker 1: that he is, and eventually the sex did get better.

1190
00:56:42,760 --> 00:56:45,000
Speaker 1: But the last few months it has gone pretty downhill.

1191
00:56:45,440 --> 00:56:47,680
Speaker 1: We went from having sex pretty much every day to

1192
00:56:47,840 --> 00:56:50,600
Speaker 1: maybe every other week. What kills me is that to him,

1193
00:56:50,680 --> 00:56:53,759
Speaker 1: this is okay. I have always had a higher sex drive,

1194
00:56:53,840 --> 00:56:56,319
Speaker 1: but it has gotten to the point where even when

1195
00:56:56,400 --> 00:56:58,560
Speaker 1: I do touch him or even suck his dick, he

1196
00:56:58,640 --> 00:57:01,040
Speaker 1: doesn't even really get hard. I have gained some way

1197
00:57:01,120 --> 00:57:03,040
Speaker 1: over the years and it has made me really insecure,

1198
00:57:03,120 --> 00:57:05,239
Speaker 1: but when I get horny, I put all of that

1199
00:57:05,320 --> 00:57:08,200
Speaker 1: aside and really try to initiate it. The fact that

1200
00:57:08,280 --> 00:57:10,440
Speaker 1: he hardly gets turned on anymore really hurts me and

1201
00:57:10,520 --> 00:57:13,719
Speaker 1: makes me want to not try anymore. Recently, I have

1202
00:57:13,800 --> 00:57:17,280
Speaker 1: gotten into contact with an old friend who I had

1203
00:57:17,320 --> 00:57:21,960
Speaker 1: an who I had a thing with but never Oh no,

1204
00:57:22,200 --> 00:57:23,640
Speaker 1: she said, who I had a thing with but never

1205
00:57:23,720 --> 00:57:27,320
Speaker 1: had sex with. And I'm extremely tempted to cheat. This

1206
00:57:27,480 --> 00:57:29,720
Speaker 1: friend has been making me feel so special, giving me

1207
00:57:29,840 --> 00:57:31,560
Speaker 1: the attention that I just can't seem to get from

1208
00:57:31,600 --> 00:57:33,640
Speaker 1: my boyfriend. He tells me I'm sexy and that he

1209
00:57:33,680 --> 00:57:35,440
Speaker 1: can treat me so much better than my man. Oh,

1210
00:57:35,520 --> 00:57:38,120
Speaker 1: he ain't ship, which I understand could just be his

1211
00:57:38,240 --> 00:57:41,000
Speaker 1: way of getting me in bed, but it just makes

1212
00:57:41,040 --> 00:57:43,440
Speaker 1: me smile and makes me feel good about myself. I

1213
00:57:43,560 --> 00:57:46,080
Speaker 1: have also felt this way with a few guys that

1214
00:57:46,200 --> 00:57:48,240
Speaker 1: have tried to hit me up. I thought about cheating

1215
00:57:48,240 --> 00:57:50,520
Speaker 1: many times, and I really feel horrible about it. I

1216
00:57:50,600 --> 00:57:52,720
Speaker 1: love my boyfriend with all my heart. It would never

1217
00:57:52,800 --> 00:57:55,040
Speaker 1: do anything to hurt him, but I just can't do

1218
00:57:55,160 --> 00:57:58,880
Speaker 1: it anymore. I need advice on what to do. I

1219
00:57:59,000 --> 00:58:00,880
Speaker 1: love him and picture my life with him, but I

1220
00:58:00,960 --> 00:58:04,280
Speaker 1: feel like our relationship is currently destroying any confidence I had.

1221
00:58:04,520 --> 00:58:07,880
Speaker 1: Thanks in advance, love you guys. They need a break.

1222
00:58:08,680 --> 00:58:11,360
Speaker 1: She said that she thinks she's getting or she feels

1223
00:58:11,400 --> 00:58:15,640
Speaker 1: insecure about it. You could be projecting that because I

1224
00:58:15,840 --> 00:58:19,080
Speaker 1: really refused to believe that men see our bodies the

1225
00:58:19,120 --> 00:58:21,080
Speaker 1: way we think they look, which I told you I

1226
00:58:21,120 --> 00:58:24,560
Speaker 1: got more niggas when I was fat, So I really

1227
00:58:24,600 --> 00:58:28,400
Speaker 1: believe that. I think like like confidence really reeks, so

1228
00:58:28,520 --> 00:58:31,600
Speaker 1: like if you aren't feeling that hot, he could probably tell.

1229
00:58:32,120 --> 00:58:34,360
Speaker 1: But she said she puts it aside when she's horny,

1230
00:58:34,480 --> 00:58:38,960
Speaker 1: like yeah, but like you you're still she thinks that

1231
00:58:39,120 --> 00:58:41,240
Speaker 1: she puts it aside, but it's still maybe very visible

1232
00:58:41,320 --> 00:58:43,480
Speaker 1: to him. Like and then for her to mention that

1233
00:58:43,560 --> 00:58:47,960
Speaker 1: she's gained weight, it makes her insecurity. So to mention

1234
00:58:48,040 --> 00:58:49,480
Speaker 1: this is the way she says the thing about talking

1235
00:58:49,480 --> 00:58:52,120
Speaker 1: about it when no, not that she said that he

1236
00:58:52,200 --> 00:58:55,600
Speaker 1: thinks that their sex life is fine. Yeah, so maybe

1237
00:58:55,640 --> 00:58:57,920
Speaker 1: they have had that talk because he's thinking young she

1238
00:58:58,000 --> 00:59:02,080
Speaker 1: said young abe not having sex, that they should have

1239
00:59:02,120 --> 00:59:06,320
Speaker 1: sex all the time. Yeah, like three, and I want

1240
00:59:06,360 --> 00:59:12,480
Speaker 1: to everybody, Yeah, everybody. I was so scared that, like

1241
00:59:12,600 --> 00:59:15,120
Speaker 1: at one point I seuched so much dick at three.

1242
00:59:15,120 --> 00:59:19,200
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm definitely getting like a cold swords coming. Yeah. Well,

1243
00:59:19,280 --> 00:59:22,280
Speaker 1: now that we know, we were swallowing millions at a time,

1244
00:59:22,960 --> 00:59:25,520
Speaker 1: so we fought, we found the whole. We got to

1245
00:59:25,560 --> 00:59:30,160
Speaker 1: do that update what swallowing millions? Rode in? We had

1246
00:59:30,200 --> 00:59:33,760
Speaker 1: a guy saying we got home. Update. Sorry side notes

1247
00:59:33,800 --> 00:59:35,000
Speaker 1: to the girl, We're coming back to you, but this

1248
00:59:35,120 --> 00:59:37,160
Speaker 1: is a dope fast update. So a guy rode in

1249
00:59:37,560 --> 00:59:39,440
Speaker 1: last week, maybe a week before, and he said that

1250
00:59:39,520 --> 00:59:41,520
Speaker 1: his wife he came in her eye, and she said

1251
00:59:41,560 --> 00:59:45,160
Speaker 1: she felt the sperm swimming. So it's been like years,

1252
00:59:45,240 --> 00:59:46,520
Speaker 1: maybe a year or two. He said, it went by,

1253
00:59:46,560 --> 00:59:48,760
Speaker 1: and he said, she keeps talking about this. So another

1254
00:59:48,800 --> 00:59:52,600
Speaker 1: girl rode into us and she goes, it's because there's

1255
00:59:52,680 --> 00:59:54,760
Speaker 1: millions of sperm that come out, and if it really

1256
00:59:54,800 --> 00:59:56,720
Speaker 1: went in her eye, it was probably like burrows to

1257
00:59:56,840 --> 01:00:00,840
Speaker 1: find the egg. No way, bro, that's what she said.

1258
01:00:01,000 --> 01:00:06,160
Speaker 1: I don't think that's real. Told me I've had come

1259
01:00:06,240 --> 01:00:08,920
Speaker 1: in my eyes. We all have. But it hurts. I'm

1260
01:00:08,960 --> 01:00:11,200
Speaker 1: just like, it only hurts for like a day or two.

1261
01:00:11,760 --> 01:00:15,920
Speaker 1: A day or two. He might have burrowed you. No,

1262
01:00:16,080 --> 01:00:19,120
Speaker 1: I definitely, no, he definitely, but you know, and it

1263
01:00:19,200 --> 01:00:22,880
Speaker 1: looks like pink guy, like you're pregnant. I was in

1264
01:00:22,960 --> 01:00:24,880
Speaker 1: the corner and it was just like for like a

1265
01:00:25,000 --> 01:00:26,280
Speaker 1: day day and a half. I was just like it

1266
01:00:26,360 --> 01:00:28,800
Speaker 1: was red. Did you feel anything swimming? Not? I didn't

1267
01:00:28,800 --> 01:00:30,680
Speaker 1: feel nine swimming, that's all. I don't think you can

1268
01:00:30,680 --> 01:00:32,720
Speaker 1: feel swimming. Two microscopic. I mean, I've never felt a

1269
01:00:32,720 --> 01:00:35,760
Speaker 1: swim in my mouth. I'm never supposed to. But I'm

1270
01:00:35,760 --> 01:00:38,000
Speaker 1: trying to think because if we could feel the wind

1271
01:00:38,320 --> 01:00:40,640
Speaker 1: is kind of micro there's microscopic stuff in the wind,

1272
01:00:40,760 --> 01:00:46,240
Speaker 1: right right, No, we could feel the wind. No look no, no,

1273
01:00:46,440 --> 01:00:48,080
Speaker 1: that doesn't work. Okay, my bad. You know what. I

1274
01:00:48,160 --> 01:00:51,160
Speaker 1: don't like science, just like Loki's saying ship that reminds

1275
01:00:51,200 --> 01:00:55,280
Speaker 1: me of Wax every fucking episode. Because when she mentioned

1276
01:00:55,320 --> 01:00:57,920
Speaker 1: Black Panther last week and she was like, it was

1277
01:00:58,000 --> 01:01:05,200
Speaker 1: a march and now you're talking microscopic wind. Bitch, islam

1278
01:01:05,320 --> 01:01:10,600
Speaker 1: is don't Mary always see? It's the school for nothing,

1279
01:01:11,200 --> 01:01:13,240
Speaker 1: you know what? I want to get an episode where

1280
01:01:13,280 --> 01:01:19,640
Speaker 1: you will Wax sit across the table, don't have chill,

1281
01:01:20,160 --> 01:01:22,040
Speaker 1: just be like NaSTA. I really don't like what's the

1282
01:01:22,120 --> 01:01:26,520
Speaker 1: stand ford? What's that the stand ford? You really doing

1283
01:01:26,560 --> 01:01:35,280
Speaker 1: this National Association, Space Association, National Association. That was pretty good.

1284
01:01:37,120 --> 01:01:42,440
Speaker 1: Oh it's harder than that. But space isn't it? And

1285
01:01:42,560 --> 01:01:48,200
Speaker 1: national isn't it? Right? For national? I didn't know say

1286
01:01:48,320 --> 01:01:50,560
Speaker 1: oh you don't even know, bitch, not no space in it.

1287
01:01:50,680 --> 01:01:53,280
Speaker 1: And that's a fact. I was like, they might and

1288
01:01:53,320 --> 01:01:55,560
Speaker 1: I asked me, you know what, and I know a

1289
01:01:55,600 --> 01:01:58,200
Speaker 1: bitch right to be like, damn y'all hos dumb bitch,

1290
01:01:58,280 --> 01:02:03,200
Speaker 1: get your own podcasts and teaching it a national Aeronautics

1291
01:02:03,200 --> 01:02:09,920
Speaker 1: Space Administration. She's a national association space association because A

1292
01:02:10,160 --> 01:02:19,720
Speaker 1: normally stands for association or administration. Any talk that it's

1293
01:02:19,920 --> 01:02:21,480
Speaker 1: I mean, I think you're young too. Not only that,

1294
01:02:21,520 --> 01:02:23,040
Speaker 1: I guess. I wanted to bring this up because I

1295
01:02:23,080 --> 01:02:26,080
Speaker 1: wanted to ask you, and you I guess and ship myself.

1296
01:02:26,120 --> 01:02:27,640
Speaker 1: I'll go ahead and let you know. To me, when

1297
01:02:27,760 --> 01:02:32,040
Speaker 1: dating somebody, sex to me is very important. So I think, um,

1298
01:02:32,160 --> 01:02:34,080
Speaker 1: if sex is one of those things that is important

1299
01:02:34,120 --> 01:02:36,480
Speaker 1: for you, um, it seems like it may not be

1300
01:02:36,560 --> 01:02:38,280
Speaker 1: as important to him. And that's one of those things

1301
01:02:38,360 --> 01:02:42,720
Speaker 1: that I think to have not only a flourishing relationship,

1302
01:02:42,800 --> 01:02:45,920
Speaker 1: but one that is honest. Um, you guys have to

1303
01:02:46,080 --> 01:02:48,400
Speaker 1: kind of find a median or sometimes sex from jump

1304
01:02:48,520 --> 01:02:51,200
Speaker 1: was it wasn't good? Actually, that's what I'm saying. He

1305
01:02:51,280 --> 01:02:55,000
Speaker 1: must be looks really good, nigga. If they're different bad

1306
01:02:55,040 --> 01:02:57,919
Speaker 1: in the beginning, people get stuck because would you hold

1307
01:02:57,960 --> 01:03:00,000
Speaker 1: on because you know, sometimes we like and then well

1308
01:03:00,000 --> 01:03:01,440
Speaker 1: we fuck him it's bad. Then it's like I know,

1309
01:03:01,520 --> 01:03:05,200
Speaker 1: I try again, but that's it having to second maybe

1310
01:03:05,240 --> 01:03:08,360
Speaker 1: third time. I was going to tell you, he said,

1311
01:03:08,600 --> 01:03:13,200
Speaker 1: was this work? Cream bitch? Creamy do you know what

1312
01:03:13,280 --> 01:03:16,840
Speaker 1: cream stand for? I don't have to check it. I'll

1313
01:03:16,920 --> 01:03:19,560
Speaker 1: just check it out. Just check. Jeeves met a new girl.

1314
01:03:19,760 --> 01:03:21,959
Speaker 1: He says that he's been sucking her and it's so bad.

1315
01:03:22,120 --> 01:03:24,560
Speaker 1: He's like, I had cut her off and I told

1316
01:03:24,560 --> 01:03:26,440
Speaker 1: her it's for another reason. But he's like, it's because

1317
01:03:26,520 --> 01:03:29,520
Speaker 1: we're not sexually compatible. He's like she's into art too,

1318
01:03:30,040 --> 01:03:32,960
Speaker 1: like she's pretty, Like I cannot it's cray because we

1319
01:03:33,080 --> 01:03:34,680
Speaker 1: So we had another homemail about this and I'm just

1320
01:03:34,680 --> 01:03:36,360
Speaker 1: gonna squeeze it in here. So witch, we ain't gonna

1321
01:03:36,360 --> 01:03:38,320
Speaker 1: read your mail, but listen to this advice just here

1322
01:03:38,360 --> 01:03:41,200
Speaker 1: for you. So she's dating a guy and the dick

1323
01:03:41,320 --> 01:03:45,520
Speaker 1: is bad. Do you date someone who has bad dick

1324
01:03:45,960 --> 01:03:47,760
Speaker 1: if you're getting money out of it? Otherwise you need

1325
01:03:47,800 --> 01:03:53,480
Speaker 1: to leave? Even I want, like, I mean, what are

1326
01:03:53,480 --> 01:03:55,000
Speaker 1: you getting out of the dating? Like if you're trying

1327
01:03:55,040 --> 01:03:58,240
Speaker 1: to get some out of nigger? Maybe, but if not, no, yeah,

1328
01:03:58,240 --> 01:04:01,120
Speaker 1: like if it's your girl or this is like why

1329
01:04:01,120 --> 01:04:04,480
Speaker 1: are you guys sucking people? There? Trash? Just go? But

1330
01:04:05,000 --> 01:04:10,040
Speaker 1: but I don't want. I need girls to understand though,

1331
01:04:10,080 --> 01:04:12,320
Speaker 1: you know, like even me, like I'm a very sexual person.

1332
01:04:12,600 --> 01:04:14,959
Speaker 1: In four years of our relationship, this sex, my sex

1333
01:04:15,040 --> 01:04:17,680
Speaker 1: life has not always been perfect. Like like just the

1334
01:04:17,760 --> 01:04:22,040
Speaker 1: other day, Yes, I want people to know there's an

1335
01:04:22,120 --> 01:04:26,480
Speaker 1: up and down, but you're down two months. So it's

1336
01:04:26,520 --> 01:04:29,200
Speaker 1: so bad sex for someone or maybe someone who just

1337
01:04:29,280 --> 01:04:32,000
Speaker 1: doesn't want to have sex the other Let me get

1338
01:04:32,000 --> 01:04:33,680
Speaker 1: to what I was saying. Like the other day, like

1339
01:04:33,760 --> 01:04:35,520
Speaker 1: I was sucking my nigga's dick and then I was like,

1340
01:04:36,080 --> 01:04:37,600
Speaker 1: I stopped, and I was like I haven't sucked a

1341
01:04:37,680 --> 01:04:40,360
Speaker 1: dick like this a long time, right, And he's like, yeah, babe,

1342
01:04:40,400 --> 01:04:42,640
Speaker 1: good And I was like, so I stopped feeling bad,

1343
01:04:42,720 --> 01:04:44,440
Speaker 1: Like damn, I don't be sucking his dick like I

1344
01:04:44,520 --> 01:04:46,160
Speaker 1: need to. So like today when he was about to leave,

1345
01:04:46,160 --> 01:04:47,640
Speaker 1: I was like, hold on, nigga, let me get sucked

1346
01:04:47,640 --> 01:04:49,560
Speaker 1: the dick. So girls, we got in mindset and make

1347
01:04:49,560 --> 01:04:51,360
Speaker 1: sure that we're doing what we're supposed to do. Still

1348
01:04:51,760 --> 01:04:55,360
Speaker 1: and it goes. It balances back and forth because for

1349
01:04:55,440 --> 01:04:58,480
Speaker 1: a while I was thinking, don't be clapping camera. I

1350
01:04:58,600 --> 01:05:01,760
Speaker 1: was we were talking about we were talking about and

1351
01:05:01,760 --> 01:05:03,200
Speaker 1: you don't want to say that. I was like, why

1352
01:05:03,320 --> 01:05:05,160
Speaker 1: my niggers, like, you know, we like we have our

1353
01:05:05,200 --> 01:05:07,240
Speaker 1: downspare I'm like, why my nigga, And I'm like, bitch,

1354
01:05:07,280 --> 01:05:09,200
Speaker 1: you're not sucking dick brown here like it used to

1355
01:05:10,280 --> 01:05:13,520
Speaker 1: all of these like like I sucked his dick, like

1356
01:05:14,640 --> 01:05:18,240
Speaker 1: like NAILI on the Pole Days. You gotta get Nancy,

1357
01:05:18,320 --> 01:05:21,439
Speaker 1: like I got it like that balls everything and the sex.

1358
01:05:21,640 --> 01:05:23,400
Speaker 1: Right after that, I was like, oh, it was me.

1359
01:05:23,520 --> 01:05:25,280
Speaker 1: It was my fault. You said you technic like when

1360
01:05:25,280 --> 01:05:26,960
Speaker 1: he was on the Pole Days? Is that because when

1361
01:05:27,000 --> 01:05:28,960
Speaker 1: you were stripping? Did you find yourself to be more sexual?

1362
01:05:29,880 --> 01:05:31,920
Speaker 1: I'm talking about even because I was talking to him

1363
01:05:31,960 --> 01:05:34,040
Speaker 1: at the end of my Pole Days kind of I

1364
01:05:34,120 --> 01:05:37,160
Speaker 1: sucked it really because I feel like I've had fantasies.

1365
01:05:37,320 --> 01:05:40,280
Speaker 1: This is so embarrassing. I have dreams about stripping and

1366
01:05:40,320 --> 01:05:44,400
Speaker 1: getting sucked while you're stripping, I don't know, like being

1367
01:05:44,440 --> 01:05:45,880
Speaker 1: in the strip club and then like I give somebody

1368
01:05:45,960 --> 01:05:47,440
Speaker 1: dance and I get sucked in the strip club. Like

1369
01:05:47,480 --> 01:05:50,160
Speaker 1: I have dreams about it. Money. I don't think that's

1370
01:05:50,200 --> 01:05:52,960
Speaker 1: it in the strip club. I don't know. But just

1371
01:05:53,320 --> 01:05:57,360
Speaker 1: reacting like when we was that to there's private ruins

1372
01:05:57,400 --> 01:05:59,600
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. We were talking about lust and fucking

1373
01:05:59,640 --> 01:06:01,840
Speaker 1: stuff something like that. But like I think I have

1374
01:06:02,000 --> 01:06:03,760
Speaker 1: this fantasy that I'm stripping. If someone looks at me

1375
01:06:03,800 --> 01:06:05,000
Speaker 1: and they want to suck me, and I give them

1376
01:06:05,040 --> 01:06:06,640
Speaker 1: a dance in this room and like we fun. But

1377
01:06:06,720 --> 01:06:10,280
Speaker 1: I think if you're a show girl, ship kind of wait,

1378
01:06:10,400 --> 01:06:12,360
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I've been the strip clubs. I've been in

1379
01:06:12,400 --> 01:06:15,520
Speaker 1: a bunch of strip clubs. Don't have your passion pit

1380
01:06:15,600 --> 01:06:21,960
Speaker 1: in New Orleans tutsies, uh year, but in private, private rooms, right, okay,

1381
01:06:22,400 --> 01:06:25,080
Speaker 1: like in the strip and then you go give him

1382
01:06:25,080 --> 01:06:26,960
Speaker 1: a dance. This would be a nice fantasy. But I

1383
01:06:27,040 --> 01:06:29,120
Speaker 1: think because when I'm in a strip shop, I want

1384
01:06:29,120 --> 01:06:35,080
Speaker 1: to yeah you, She's like, I'm not really going to

1385
01:06:35,120 --> 01:06:36,880
Speaker 1: be a stripper. This is just a fantasy. Oh but

1386
01:06:37,000 --> 01:06:38,640
Speaker 1: you know I get too drunk and fall off the poty.

1387
01:06:38,760 --> 01:06:40,560
Speaker 1: I think you should try that, and that's just one drink.

1388
01:06:41,440 --> 01:06:43,720
Speaker 1: I think you should go audition forut tutsis and then

1389
01:06:43,760 --> 01:06:46,440
Speaker 1: you should research purposes. If you're gonna sucking Asian, you

1390
01:06:46,520 --> 01:06:49,920
Speaker 1: may as well be a strip Look, I did it.

1391
01:06:52,280 --> 01:06:53,960
Speaker 1: The only thing is like I'm gonna have to go

1392
01:06:54,160 --> 01:06:55,560
Speaker 1: too into the outfit, you know what I'm saying that,

1393
01:06:55,600 --> 01:06:56,880
Speaker 1: like the shoes is gonna be a few hunting and

1394
01:06:56,880 --> 01:06:58,160
Speaker 1: I'm like, it's just gonna be. That's fine to get

1395
01:06:59,040 --> 01:07:00,800
Speaker 1: I would do an amateur night another city, just to

1396
01:07:00,840 --> 01:07:02,360
Speaker 1: see how it goes and get the fantasy over with.

1397
01:07:02,520 --> 01:07:04,800
Speaker 1: See now we don't hang out outside the podcast. I

1398
01:07:04,880 --> 01:07:06,720
Speaker 1: would I would travel with you to see this. You

1399
01:07:06,840 --> 01:07:08,400
Speaker 1: know this could be a good I want to see that.

1400
01:07:08,400 --> 01:07:10,920
Speaker 1: I would like to see this. Can I go to it?

1401
01:07:10,920 --> 01:07:15,160
Speaker 1: Because I wasn't sure you gonna pick that Florida song

1402
01:07:15,480 --> 01:07:18,840
Speaker 1: a stripper and this is my life, remember that. I

1403
01:07:19,000 --> 01:07:22,480
Speaker 1: love that one thing. I left Florida soon I'll pick

1404
01:07:22,480 --> 01:07:25,160
Speaker 1: it up. Who look, well, I gotta stot her for

1405
01:07:25,240 --> 01:07:29,760
Speaker 1: a stripper. You gotta go. We gotta contour my ask

1406
01:07:29,800 --> 01:07:34,880
Speaker 1: because anyways, guys, um, let's go ahead before we leave

1407
01:07:34,920 --> 01:07:37,440
Speaker 1: out now, I let them know what projects you got

1408
01:07:37,520 --> 01:07:40,640
Speaker 1: going on right now where they can find you on

1409
01:07:40,720 --> 01:07:47,240
Speaker 1: this podcast they live, you know, drop somebody yourself, drop

1410
01:07:47,360 --> 01:07:49,240
Speaker 1: the whole ship. Do do a whole rap right now.

1411
01:07:49,280 --> 01:07:52,160
Speaker 1: You got a whole wrapty, do a whole wrap like

1412
01:07:52,800 --> 01:07:56,360
Speaker 1: they nasty, like I rolled the deac in like that.

1413
01:07:56,560 --> 01:07:58,480
Speaker 1: You even get the city girls up here for ship

1414
01:07:58,560 --> 01:08:03,640
Speaker 1: like that? Don't know. I'm done. You canceled them only

1415
01:08:03,640 --> 01:08:08,480
Speaker 1: because I like their their music, so I do, but

1416
01:08:08,600 --> 01:08:13,400
Speaker 1: they're pretty homophobous. I'm the following was way too upset

1417
01:08:13,440 --> 01:08:16,320
Speaker 1: about that. What fury almost made me cry. I cheered

1418
01:08:16,360 --> 01:08:19,200
Speaker 1: up to me. He was talking about it. But we

1419
01:08:19,280 --> 01:08:22,240
Speaker 1: have to remember beat the dude. Kids is hanging themselves.

1420
01:08:22,280 --> 01:08:25,320
Speaker 1: I know it's dying in right, Damn, let's not. Let's

1421
01:08:25,320 --> 01:08:31,240
Speaker 1: not in on. So y'all never have heard this songs?

1422
01:08:32,120 --> 01:08:41,000
Speaker 1: You don't remember the song? No wait, where the oh?

1423
01:08:42,720 --> 01:08:54,240
Speaker 1: And this is my life? I got kids on my mind, Like,

1424
01:08:54,439 --> 01:08:57,439
Speaker 1: hold on, that's the dance you got. I don't know

1425
01:08:58,760 --> 01:09:05,160
Speaker 1: what's called make a hustle body eggs should his trash beat? No,

1426
01:09:05,400 --> 01:09:11,439
Speaker 1: it was good, but he's your names. I like pull up,

1427
01:09:11,960 --> 01:09:17,320
Speaker 1: pull up like that? So what you're going on? I know?

1428
01:09:17,720 --> 01:09:21,880
Speaker 1: Um I'm t go ahead one time. I can't wait

1429
01:09:22,000 --> 01:09:23,960
Speaker 1: for people to see me back on TV. I'm excited

1430
01:09:23,960 --> 01:09:27,320
Speaker 1: about that. Um. I got a new project coming out soon.

1431
01:09:27,360 --> 01:09:28,960
Speaker 1: I still haven't figured out what I want to name it,

1432
01:09:29,560 --> 01:09:31,640
Speaker 1: but um, I went down to Atlanta hooked up with

1433
01:09:31,680 --> 01:09:35,040
Speaker 1: some Atlanta producers. So you know, I'm excited about that

1434
01:09:35,120 --> 01:09:37,040
Speaker 1: because I think that's what's been missing for me. Not

1435
01:09:37,160 --> 01:09:39,720
Speaker 1: necessarily my skill, but my production needed to elevate, So

1436
01:09:39,880 --> 01:09:42,760
Speaker 1: I'm really excited about the producers I'm working with UM

1437
01:09:43,400 --> 01:09:46,960
Speaker 1: and Yeah, the TV new projects, some songs we would

1438
01:09:46,960 --> 01:09:49,160
Speaker 1: love to drop it. At the end of Yeah, y'all

1439
01:09:49,200 --> 01:09:51,679
Speaker 1: sent it over. And then I have um NAILI Wasted,

1440
01:09:51,720 --> 01:09:54,000
Speaker 1: which is my fitness line. I did be liking them.

1441
01:09:54,439 --> 01:09:56,479
Speaker 1: I do like them, but I feel like I don't

1442
01:09:56,520 --> 01:09:58,040
Speaker 1: want to be one of those girls that just wears

1443
01:09:58,080 --> 01:10:03,400
Speaker 1: workout clothes. But I'm not work out. No, it's I

1444
01:10:03,400 --> 01:10:05,040
Speaker 1: don't workout. I mean I mean in my head, I

1445
01:10:05,160 --> 01:10:08,000
Speaker 1: mean working out. I write Dick. You know, actually I

1446
01:10:08,080 --> 01:10:11,160
Speaker 1: don't know if I haven't really shared it. That's a workout, bitch.

1447
01:10:11,200 --> 01:10:15,439
Speaker 1: My body hurt right now I writing. I'm like writing

1448
01:10:15,479 --> 01:10:17,840
Speaker 1: Dick every time I felt. But but I be telling

1449
01:10:17,920 --> 01:10:19,760
Speaker 1: something because I used to like, I'm more of a like.

1450
01:10:19,840 --> 01:10:21,400
Speaker 1: Of course, though this asked up in the air. You

1451
01:10:21,479 --> 01:10:23,120
Speaker 1: know that's not me. I don't like writing Dick, but

1452
01:10:23,200 --> 01:10:25,320
Speaker 1: now that I am like, I didn't like riding Dick.

1453
01:10:25,360 --> 01:10:26,760
Speaker 1: And then then when I staw going to the gym

1454
01:10:26,800 --> 01:10:32,560
Speaker 1: and I started working legs, like how to like you?

1455
01:10:33,120 --> 01:10:35,400
Speaker 1: Because my legs strength, I built the strength. So now

1456
01:10:35,520 --> 01:10:39,840
Speaker 1: like I've well, I'm I'm building to go to the jumper. Dick,

1457
01:10:39,960 --> 01:10:43,080
Speaker 1: cam down, Calm down, I'm building my time muscles right

1458
01:10:43,120 --> 01:10:46,360
Speaker 1: now while writing Dick, haven't I mean, can't do it?

1459
01:10:46,560 --> 01:10:48,360
Speaker 1: Workout closed a bitch naked? So what I need to work?

1460
01:10:48,400 --> 01:10:49,960
Speaker 1: I mean, but I'm saying you could do. You could

1461
01:10:50,000 --> 01:10:55,320
Speaker 1: go workout. Remember knocked up? When when when you're in

1462
01:10:55,360 --> 01:10:57,559
Speaker 1: the gym and you're like doing squads and stuff, say

1463
01:10:57,640 --> 01:11:00,519
Speaker 1: this is the rod, Dick, this is the rodin canna

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Speaker 1: be honest with you too. So when when I was bigger,

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Speaker 1: I felt like everything on me was so firm, probably

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Speaker 1: because my fat had my skin all like it was firm.

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Speaker 1: And my booty jiggles now and I'm enjoying as well

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Speaker 1: as the nigga I'm fucking is enjoying my but no,

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Speaker 1: but it was like a firm booty. My booty now

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Speaker 1: jiggles so nice. Where you work there's a gym, Like

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Speaker 1: at the end of the day, we think, I know

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Speaker 1: you work out four times a day, You're not gonna

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Speaker 1: get me to go. So I care about any I'm

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Speaker 1: trying to tell you. I'm trying to tell you all right, Dick,

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Speaker 1: And that's not for me sex game when you got

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Speaker 1: like when I started working out, you know, I knows

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Speaker 1: how to fuck. I know I'm telling you about how

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Speaker 1: to do this thing. You know what I'm thinking. So

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Speaker 1: but when I got in a gym, like you know

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying, they just got way better. Like my stamina,

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01:11:52,840 --> 01:11:55,679
Speaker 1: well I chew gum, so my jaw muscles aren't pretty strong.

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01:11:55,920 --> 01:11:59,880
Speaker 1: And outside I don't and you talk what other working

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Speaker 1: needs to be done? Um, I don't know, but all right,

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Speaker 1: so we're gonna go ahead. We're on social media. Can

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Speaker 1: on Twitter now at Horrible Pod. You can follow us

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Speaker 1: on Instagram at Horrible Underscore Decisions. Also want to give

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Speaker 1: a huge shout out to all of our patrons. If

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Speaker 1: over ten So like there's some hours of ship, there's

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Speaker 1: live shows. Are we put our live shows on there? UM.

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Speaker 1: And then if you're a patron um for four consecutive

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Speaker 1: Wheezy is gonna be talking about how to keep your

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Speaker 1: vagina all nice and clean. Listen, y'all have been asking

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Speaker 1: me like crazy because I talked about my pH all

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Speaker 1: the time, like what to do. So I'm gonna give

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Speaker 1: you the listle she's doing that. And then I'm actually

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Speaker 1: finally going to have a full episode UM alongside Naima

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Speaker 1: from Sophisticated Ignorance podcast, and UM, we're gonna talk about

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Speaker 1: my weight law surgery, how how it's affected me, UM

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Speaker 1: with my confidence, how it's changed in the bedroom. You'll

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Speaker 1: see our mind and dick now. So that's one. And

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Speaker 1: by the way, it's not just vaginal health. I'm working

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Speaker 1: with Dr Kim to get tips for men's genital health

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Speaker 1: as well, so it'll be really good. UM. Also, I

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Speaker 1: want to really really um quick shout out Lover's Quarrel.

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Speaker 1: If you are in the d m V area, they

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Speaker 1: are having a live show, So go ahead and check

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Speaker 1: I'm also gonna go ahead and be raffling off two

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Speaker 1: I want to give a shout out UM to Carla

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Speaker 1: UM for the ship I'm thirty podcast. They are having

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Speaker 1: the live show in Orlando on October twenty one, I believe.

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Speaker 1: So check out that all of all of us is

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Speaker 1: a podcast community. Y'all love our live shows. So if

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Speaker 1: and check out their live shows. And this has been

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Speaker 1: yet another episode of Horm Decisions by