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Speaker 2: And today, oh my goodness, we have a Bachelor Nation icon. Yes,

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Speaker 2: yes she is. She's married to former Bachelor Jason Molly. Hello, Hello,

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Speaker 2: how are you doing.

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Speaker 4: We're so happy here.

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Speaker 5: You just called me an icon.

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Speaker 2: You never never never, no, no, no, don't ever think that.

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Speaker 2: Never never, You never become invisible. You are fabulous in

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Speaker 2: every way.

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Speaker 4: How have you been doing? Tell us what's going on

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Speaker 4: in your life?

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Speaker 2: Rain?

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Speaker 5: Life is so good. Yes, we're happy. We live in Seattle.

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Speaker 5: We just built a new house. The kids are great.

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Speaker 5: Work is great, like life is good.

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Speaker 3: Wait wait, wait, one thing, Seattle. Isn't that the rainy?

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Speaker 3: It doesn't rain alive, you know what.

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Speaker 5: It doesn't rain as much as people think.

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Speaker 3: That's why it's a misconception of the.

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Speaker 5: Most gorgeous summers. It's like mild. It's never human. It's

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Speaker 5: like high seventies and sunny all the time.

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Speaker 3: Hi, seventies in the summer. Yeah that is nice.

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Speaker 4: Wait, but you do get a lot of rain in

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Speaker 4: the winter, right or not?

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Speaker 5: Well, yeah, we get rain in the winter. But I'm

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Speaker 5: like when it snows back home for me, it's really

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Speaker 5: a little rain.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, why did I tell you?

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Speaker 4: I live. I'm not.

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Speaker 2: I'm from Massachusetts, but I live in Austin, Texas, and

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Speaker 2: I'm so glad to be in LA because it's here.

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Speaker 3: It's like low eighties and it's ninety something.

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Speaker 5: It's crazy.

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Speaker 1: It's just it's funny. Kathy and I were shopping yesterday

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Speaker 1: and I said to the ladies, wait a minute, I

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Speaker 1: can't wear this stuff here. It's October.

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Speaker 4: For me.

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Speaker 1: I have boots out and sweaters or blazers. And oh

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Speaker 1: it gets cool here, I said, when when does your

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Speaker 1: season start? Like when does the temperature.

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Speaker 5: It'll start getting cool, probably in November.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, all right, I want to get right to it.

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Speaker 2: Because you are a woman of you have a lot

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Speaker 2: of knowledge. I've talked to you many times. What are

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Speaker 2: some obvious red flags in men that you recognize now

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Speaker 2: and that Susan and I should be recognized that we do, yeah,

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Speaker 2: and we clearly still aren't. But that you wish you

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Speaker 2: knew when you were dating in your twenties.

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Speaker 5: Oh my gosh. Well, the funny thing is I went

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Speaker 5: on a Bachelor when I was twenty four, twenty three,

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Speaker 5: twenty four, so like I didn't really date much in

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Speaker 5: my twenties. I went straight to Jason.

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Speaker 4: Good choice, good choice.

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Speaker 1: There There were no red flags, obviously, no reflection about Jason.

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Speaker 5: Jason's like the most amazing. He's like the perfect to

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Speaker 5: you man. You guys, it's like oxious and I feel

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Speaker 5: like he gets at at five am. He meditates, he reads,

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Speaker 5: he works out, he eats healthy. He just he's so consistent.

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Speaker 5: He's never rattled. He's the perfect one.

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Speaker 4: It's Earth twenty ten.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it'll be fifteen years in.

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Speaker 4: I do not just love hearing this.

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Speaker 3: Were you that good for you? That healthy of an eater?

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Speaker 5: And okay, god, I like them the opposite of Jason.

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Speaker 5: I like the worst kind of human. I drink too much,

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Speaker 5: I don't work out.

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Speaker 4: That's why we love you, mom, why we get along.

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Speaker 3: So has he helped you do a little better for you?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Right, being like let's eat healthy this week, or like

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Speaker 5: let's go out for a walk.

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Speaker 1: I'm game for if you're cooking five nights out of seven,

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Speaker 1: I'm game for three healthy and two not so.

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Speaker 2: And and and Molly, I think I told you this before.

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Speaker 2: I don't cook. I literally do not cook. And I

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Speaker 2: go to visit Susan and she's like, you know, tonight.

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Speaker 2: We caught it tonight androw and I'm like, uh, can

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Speaker 2: I just have a salad in the glass of wine?

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Speaker 4: I'm good, Okay, Well, that's the.

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Speaker 5: Best kind of friend to have, one that will.

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Speaker 2: Cook for you, I know. But and I do clean

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Speaker 2: the dishes. But but Susan will say things like, well,

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Speaker 2: what do you want it for dinner tomorrow? I'm like

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Speaker 2: a single man, like, I don't.

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Speaker 1: But that's something I don't know about your house. But

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Speaker 1: we talk about you know, what, what are you feeling

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Speaker 1: like this week? You know you want to have lamb chops.

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Speaker 1: One food is a big party I cannot handle. Tell

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Speaker 1: me about your daughter.

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Speaker 4: That's what I want to get into.

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Speaker 2: Because I was a high school I taught middle school,

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Speaker 2: so I anything questions you got, I've got the answers

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Speaker 2: for you.

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Speaker 5: Gosh, I know Riley just started middle school. She'll be

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Speaker 5: twelve in March. Grade wild she hasn't had much like

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Speaker 5: drama yet, but I know it's coming.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to just give you my little pearls of

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Speaker 2: wisdom that I gave to my parents because I was

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Speaker 2: I taught speech to communications in middle school, but my

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Speaker 2: main job was the high school placement director. So when

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Speaker 2: so they came to me to figure out what to do.

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Speaker 2: What it was boarding school, private school, independent school. And

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Speaker 2: I'm just going to tell you, the child that you

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Speaker 2: the child you have in eighth grade. That's how much

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Speaker 2: middle school changes kids.

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Speaker 5: That's why everyone has told me like it just it

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Speaker 5: is the biggest change in their adolescent life is going

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Speaker 5: from middle school to high school. It is we'll see.

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Speaker 3: I wishing you luck, I'm praying.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean, girls can be a little not your daughter,

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Speaker 2: but in general, girls can be a little snarky in

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Speaker 5: He is a mini me. And that's when Jason looks

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Speaker 5: at me and he's like, oh.

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Speaker 3: Shit, Like, oh god, why couldn't she take after him?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what, tell Jason, it's just another oh

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Speaker 2: let's call it ten or twelve years then he you know,

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Speaker 2: until she finds someone else to torment.

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Speaker 3: So you just have one. Do you want more children

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Speaker 3: or no?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 5: No, I'm done, done, done, But we have time. My stepson,

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Speaker 5: Jason had a son when we were in his previous marriage,

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Speaker 5: and he is nineteen in college gone, that's like a

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Speaker 5: whole other phase. He's in a fraternity. He's doing brought

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Speaker 5: life like it is wild, wild, and he is just

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Speaker 5: the best.

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Speaker 3: I love that. I love hearing so much. I love it.

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Speaker 2: I love that I had a stepmom, and I loved

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Speaker 2: my stepmother dearly.

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Speaker 4: So I'm glad you guys.

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Speaker 5: Loved hearing that. I think it's a pretty tough, sometimes

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Speaker 5: thankless job, and I don't think stepparents get enough credit.

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Speaker 2: No, I will tell you my stepmother who passed away

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Speaker 2: last year, and I dearly miss her. She married my

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Speaker 2: dad when she was Are you ready for this? She

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Speaker 2: was thirty two or thirty four and took on. She

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Speaker 2: had one daughter of her own from a previous marriage.

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Speaker 2: Took on five count them, my mother and father and

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Speaker 2: five children, and then my father and stepmother had one.

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Speaker 4: So do that, maw. She was great.

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Speaker 1: So you mentioned you just had a house built and

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Speaker 1: you're in real estate, correct, Yes, yes, talk to me

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Speaker 1: about this.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, So Jason and I worked together. It has

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Speaker 5: been going great. Like Jason has been in real estate

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Speaker 5: for ten years. He's built an amazing team. We've got

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Speaker 5: about seventy five agents under us.

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Speaker 3: Nice.

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Speaker 4: Wait, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: Do you do sales or sales and construction and sales?

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Speaker 5: No, we do residential real estates with sales or helping

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Speaker 5: people buy and so home. Yeah, and then in the

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Speaker 5: been awesome. We love it.

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Speaker 1: Do you have any recommendations for first time buyers or

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Speaker 1: some hints you can throw out to people?

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Speaker 5: Gosh, I think the most important thing is finding a

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Speaker 5: good I feel like sometimes agents don't get a lot

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Speaker 3: Because they understand too.

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Speaker 5: They're trying to protect you and help you find the

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Speaker 2: I thought you were going to say, my advice to people,

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Speaker 2: because I'm sort of unofficial real estate person, is by location.

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Speaker 2: Because you can always change the house, but you can't

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Speaker 5: Is a great piece of advice.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I always looked at school districts at that time

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Speaker 1: of my life.

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Speaker 6: You know, yes, all right, So now we're going to

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Speaker 6: get into that.

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Speaker 3: You remember this.

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Speaker 2: All right, So if you can remember back this far,

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Speaker 2: so Grant, season of The Bachelor is going to be on,

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Speaker 2: you know, really almost before we know it. Here, and

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Speaker 2: we're curious what advice do you have for those women

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Speaker 2: who will be on the season or any contestant you

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Speaker 2: know that's trying trying out for this process, Like, I

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Speaker 2: think they really would benefit from hearing what you think.

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Speaker 5: Well, yeah, I think the most important thing is to

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Speaker 5: stay true to yourself.

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Speaker 3: It's a you guys know, I mean number one answer.

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Speaker 5: It just it's so hard to get It's easy to

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Speaker 5: get wrapped up in the environment that you're in. You know,

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Speaker 5: you're cut off from everything, and it becomes a competition.

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Speaker 5: Whether or not you want to say that or not,

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Speaker 5: it is a competition. I think people can get really.

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Speaker 1: Rapid if it's a competition, only if there's chemistry.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Somebody I read somewhere one of the articles in Bachelor

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Speaker 2: nation dot com and I don't know which bachelor said this,

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Speaker 2: but recently I think it was somebody on Gen season

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Speaker 2: said it's not a competition because it has to be

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Speaker 2: two way street of the heart. So you know, you're

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Speaker 2: not competing if she or he, you know, who's the lead,

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Speaker 1: That's what we did.

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Speaker 4: So you it is remarkable.

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Speaker 2: At the top of this hour, you talked about, you

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Speaker 3: And it's more than fifteen minutes to exactly.

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Speaker 2: And I honestly would love this, you know, for myself

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Speaker 5: But I'm a terrible person. People ask me this, like,

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Speaker 1: And for me, I've always preached it always because I've

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Speaker 1: We've been given a platform to reach even more people.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and you know what, I'll bet you guys are

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Speaker 1: So tell me, why are you thinking about closing the

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Speaker 4: What is this?

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Speaker 6: You know?

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Speaker 3: I'm here? What's going on? Girlfriend?

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Speaker 4: Inquiring minds? You want to know?

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Speaker 1: Wow, No, I just you know, wait, if I called

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Speaker 3: Going to say no? Is that?

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Speaker 5: I want to move on and just be Molly the realtor.

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Speaker 3: Well, that's what we're interested in. What's happening now?

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Speaker 2: You know? Well, and that's the question you do so

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Speaker 1: You're reality because you don't need healthy I mean nights

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Speaker 4: Sugar Keeps are going the sugar red mat.

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Speaker 4: I did.

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Speaker 3: I was happy to meet you.

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Speaker 4: It really was, It really was.

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Speaker 2: He so, so, what we do questions, Molly? We you know,

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Speaker 4: Help us? What do you say? You're good?

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Speaker 1: First one, this is Sandra asking. I got the ensuas

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Speaker 3: Just let them know you're there for them. Did I

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Speaker 2: Wow?

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Speaker 3: So your advice and the most.

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Speaker 5: Important thing is like no kid can ever have too

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Speaker 1: Just stay there and just be just be the love.

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Speaker 2: There's always tomorrow, right, There's always tomorrow. Okay, let's move

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Speaker 2: Love you both, Oh what do you say, Molly?

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Speaker 5: Well, terrible twos is a phase. It's gonna go away.

447
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Speaker 3: Right this too, you shall live through.

448
00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:12,879
Speaker 5: Yeah, this too show passed. So I think, you know,

449
00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:14,560
Speaker 5: sometimes you kind of just have to suck it up

450
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Speaker 5: and deal with it. But like with Riley, what I

451
00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:19,280
Speaker 5: would do is just I think that what worked the

452
00:21:19,320 --> 00:21:21,359
Speaker 5: best is if I was telling her not to do something,

453
00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:24,760
Speaker 5: crouching down and getting on her level and so then

454
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Speaker 5: we're seeing eye to eye and then she kind of

455
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Speaker 5: feels like it's not this power control coming over her

456
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Speaker 5: if I'm standing over her, but if I get down

457
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Speaker 5: to her level and just kind of talk to her

458
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Speaker 5: about it, she was able to reason a little bit better.

459
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Speaker 5: But Agather too.

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Speaker 4: Don't.

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Speaker 1: Well, my main thing is get through this. But five

462
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Speaker 1: you might call us again, because that was the worst

463
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Speaker 1: stage of all. But I believe sometimes ignoring the temper

464
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Speaker 1: tantrum like you can't address and go with them, like

465
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Speaker 1: you're getting loud too, because they're getting loud and you're

466
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Speaker 1: shouting or this or that or the third or I mean,

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Speaker 1: I'm a disciplineaire in to a point, You're going to

468
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Speaker 1: get time out if this continues, you know what I

469
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Speaker 1: mean that too. It's difficult, guys, you're but I like

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Speaker 1: your suggestion about getting down to their eye level and

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Speaker 1: then try to focus on something else and change their course.

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Speaker 2: I found, though, when I have three kids, and I

473
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Speaker 2: remember those years, and I'm being honest, I wasn't always

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Speaker 2: the most patient. And when my kids, I mean, this

475
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Speaker 2: whole letter is about in caps.

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Speaker 4: You know so clear, this child is wild.

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Speaker 2: When my kids got that way, and it didn't happen

478
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Speaker 2: that often, but when they did, I literally got down

479
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Speaker 2: at their level so that I could pick them up,

480
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Speaker 2: carry them into their room, and I would very calmly

481
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Speaker 2: say when you can behave you can come out of

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Speaker 2: your room, And of course I would sit outside the

483
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Speaker 2: door to make sure you know, they weren't whatever. But

484
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Speaker 2: I'd hear them banging around nine times out of ten.

485
00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:59,240
Speaker 2: You know what they did, fell asleep and when they woke.

486
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Speaker 3: Up them so screaming.

487
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Speaker 2: But no, no, they were just they knew they weren't

488
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Speaker 2: coming out, and they would fall a sea.

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Speaker 4: And then when they woke up.

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Speaker 1: Have you ever seen it when you're out though, a

491
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Speaker 1: child taking a temper tantrum, throwing his head on the ground.

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Speaker 1: I feel sorry for those parents.

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Speaker 5: Their parents. I know's link on airplanes. I never get

494
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Speaker 5: upset with kids on aeroplanes because those parents.

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Speaker 3: They can't control it.

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Speaker 2: I know, yeah, Anonymous. What we can say is this

497
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Speaker 2: too shall pass. Before you know it, you'll be writing

498
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Speaker 2: back into us for dating advice for his child.

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Speaker 3: I say, eat a gummy, just get through it and.

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Speaker 2: Try to get and sleep when you can. That's the

501
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Speaker 2: other sleep when you can.

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Speaker 1: All right, we have one more, and this is also

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Speaker 1: from Anonymous. Excuse me, hi, ladies. I have a big

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Speaker 1: issue with my team. She's been dating her boyfriend for

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Speaker 1: a little over a year and she really really likes him.

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Speaker 1: Their promise up and she of course planned on going

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Speaker 1: with him. However, I have a feeling something is going

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Speaker 1: on with them. The other day, during dinner, I suggest

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Speaker 1: that we go dress shopping this weekend so I can

510
00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:16,280
Speaker 1: tell her boyfriend's mother what color tie to get him.

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00:24:16,640 --> 00:24:20,199
Speaker 1: She dodged the subject and got really moody. She was

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Speaker 1: really short with me and quiet for the rest of

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Speaker 1: the dinner. Then she ran up to her room. I

514
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Speaker 1: know something's going on, but anytime I've tried to bring

515
00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:33,440
Speaker 1: it up, she shuts down. I don't care about logistics,

516
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Speaker 1: tie colors, etc. I just want to be there for

517
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Speaker 1: my daughter and I want to see her cheer up.

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Speaker 3: What should I do? Love you ladies so much, Oh, I.

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Speaker 5: Love this question. We have done. I feel very proud

520
00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:52,360
Speaker 5: of Jason and myself. We have with both Tie and

521
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Speaker 5: Briley created a relationship where they can talk to us

522
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Speaker 5: about anything, and they do.

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Speaker 3: That's it.

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Speaker 5: And the way that we got to that point is

525
00:25:00,520 --> 00:25:03,359
Speaker 5: whenever they tell us something that's happened at school, we

526
00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:06,399
Speaker 5: don't have big reactions. We just sit there and listen,

527
00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:09,679
Speaker 5: and so they don't feel like scared next time to

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Speaker 5: tell us something. And I mean sometimes with Hi, we've

529
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Speaker 5: got to the point where he tells me maybe a

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Speaker 5: little bit.

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Speaker 1: More like whoa tm I t m uh, but it's still.

532
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Speaker 5: So good that he's able to like call me and

533
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Speaker 5: tell me these things that are happening in his relationships.

534
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Speaker 5: And same with Riley. I do the same when she

535
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Speaker 5: comes home with drama at school. It's not like I'm like,

536
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Speaker 5: oh my gosh, you can't do that, you know, I

537
00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:34,840
Speaker 5: just I listen. And so for this situation, just sitting

538
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Speaker 5: your daughter down and saying are you okay? And you know,

539
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Speaker 5: sometimes they don't want to talk about it, but just.

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Speaker 3: Giving them a hug.

541
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Speaker 5: You're a safe place.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and you know, it's it's exactly, Molly, when when

543
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Speaker 2: you repeatedly ask, at least for me, when I repeatedly

544
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Speaker 2: asked my children something, the door locked tighter and tighter

545
00:25:55,440 --> 00:25:59,680
Speaker 2: and so anonymous. If you just sit back, she'll come

546
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Speaker 2: to you. And if she doesn't come to you, she

547
00:26:02,359 --> 00:26:04,280
Speaker 2: doesn't want to come to you, you know, you just go.

548
00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:06,560
Speaker 1: I would just go and say, I just need a hug.

549
00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:11,320
Speaker 1: I'm just here, no questions, nothing, I'd stop asking. If

550
00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:13,520
Speaker 1: you want to cry, you could cry. Just notice your

551
00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:16,000
Speaker 1: temperature change here, and I'm here for you.

552
00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:20,720
Speaker 2: It's so tough, and you know, prom all those milestone

553
00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:24,240
Speaker 2: high school things are just you'll you'll find out, Molly,

554
00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:27,480
Speaker 2: for when it's I think it's tougher for a girl,

555
00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:28,920
Speaker 2: don't you for sure?

556
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Speaker 4: Uh?

557
00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:32,320
Speaker 3: You know, the hormonal things and all that.

558
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Speaker 1: The first wedding, wedding, imagine a guy canceling your prom date.

559
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Speaker 1: Not that this one did, but you know what I mean.

560
00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:43,600
Speaker 1: Or he was with somebody else, and that that's life.

561
00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:46,480
Speaker 2: That that happened on Joe season with Jonathan. I don't

562
00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:48,760
Speaker 2: know if you've been watching, but she was going to

563
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Speaker 2: the prom. I can't even imagine what that's like, but

564
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Speaker 2: I know when my daughter went to her prom it.

565
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Speaker 3: Was cost me a fortune, I said.

566
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Speaker 1: I remember saying to her and that she got asked

567
00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:04,840
Speaker 1: his senior pride and I got seriously another dress.

568
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:08,440
Speaker 2: I remember thinking, oh my god, I paid this much

569
00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:11,560
Speaker 2: for your promise. I can't hardly for your wedding dress.

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Speaker 4: It was just ridiculous.

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Speaker 3: Molly, You've been great, Thanks so much, and all these

572
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:20,840
Speaker 3: we love you too. And if we get to Washington,

573
00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:22,879
Speaker 3: should we be loving?

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Speaker 4: I mean, listen, if we moved to Washington.

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Speaker 3: We're coming out house, We're coming. We couldn't move for Susan,

576
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Speaker 3: I'm not moving there. No, I'll visit though.

577
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Speaker 1: I remember being in Vancouver and flying over with the

578
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Speaker 1: helicopter and seeing how.

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Speaker 3: Beautiful it is, a beautiful beautiful I'm sorry.

580
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Speaker 4: Are you in Seattle? You said, yes.

581
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Speaker 2: One of my dearest friends is the headmaster at the

582
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Speaker 2: girls school?

583
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Speaker 4: Is it girls School?

584
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Speaker 1: Can I tell you Kathy has a friend in every

585
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Speaker 1: city in the United States and Canada?

586
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Speaker 3: I can't. I just get even Europe. I mean, she's

587
00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:57,360
Speaker 3: got them everywhere. This woman has been around.

588
00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:01,440
Speaker 2: You know what I've always said, if you have friends,

589
00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:04,520
Speaker 2: it's a good thing. It says something positive. You your friends,

590
00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:07,080
Speaker 2: well I am your but is it wait to Seattle

591
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Speaker 2: Girls School?

592
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:10,520
Speaker 4: Girls? What's the name of it Seattle Girls School?

593
00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:13,520
Speaker 2: Anyway, I worked with her in Austin and she's now

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Speaker 2: the headmaster, head mister, head of school, whatever the proper

595
00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:21,439
Speaker 2: terminology is these days. Anyway, Thank you for joining us.

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Speaker 2: Seeing you said hi, give Jason O love and good

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Speaker 2: luck with middle school.

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Speaker 3: Thanks.

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Speaker 2: Thank you all the rest of you for joining us

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Speaker 2: on Bachelor Happy Hour, and please follow us because we

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Speaker 2: do have new episodes coming out every.

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Speaker 3: Week and without your questions, what will we be doing.

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Speaker 1: We have something to talk about and give some advice,

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Speaker 1: right right, and you guys already know how to do it.

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