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Speaker 2: Chris is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named

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Speaker 2: Madeline that he went on a date with. Chris, what

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Speaker 2: was that? Man? Hey, before we get into your date

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Speaker 2: and stuff, how long has it been since you heard

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Speaker 2: from Madeline.

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Speaker 3: It's been about two weeks now.

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Speaker 2: And how many times have you tried to reach out

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Speaker 2: to her in two weeks?

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Speaker 3: Well, this is going to sound bad. I've texted her

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Speaker 3: like maybe ten times so far, okay.

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Speaker 2: And no response any of.

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Speaker 3: Those, not even an emoji. I'm like nothing.

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Speaker 2: Oh man, it makes you want to really know what's

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Speaker 2: going on over there. Okay, Chris, let's go back to

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Speaker 2: the beginning. How did you guys meet? Tell us about

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Speaker 2: the date.

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Speaker 3: Well, Madeline actually got introduced to me to a friend.

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Speaker 3: I do bar trivia with some buddies and one night

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Speaker 3: they talked up Madeline and said, oh, she's cute. You're cute,

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Speaker 3: maybe you two would hit it off. So I'm kind

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Speaker 3: of awkward. I'm not good at asking out people, so

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Speaker 3: you know, they set me up on this blind date

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Speaker 3: with Madeline, no pictures or anything. Just I was assured

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Speaker 3: that she that she was cool.

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Speaker 2: That's risky, yeah, And was she cool?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Madeline's great. We went out to this nice little

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Speaker 3: cafe that has the best pastries. You know, I'm a

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Speaker 3: big dessert guy. She's a dessert gal.

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Speaker 2: We talked about that.

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Speaker 3: My nurse started to kick in a little bit, but

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Speaker 3: I don't think I did anything wrong. If anything, it

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Speaker 3: was the place itself that messed up our date. During

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Speaker 3: our date, the fire alarm and the cafe went off,

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Speaker 3: we had to get evacuated and everything. It was awful.

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Speaker 2: Was there a fire?

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Speaker 3: I guess some biscuits got burnt or something. It wasn't

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Speaker 3: like a firefire, but it was enough that they got called.

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Speaker 3: So we were just standing out there awkwardly for a

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Speaker 3: while until the fireman came. Oh it was a little weird,

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Speaker 3: to be honest. Why well, instead of going back in

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Speaker 3: when everything was cleared up, mattel Hum said she had

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Speaker 3: a great time, but she had to go. But I

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Speaker 3: asked if we could schedule the next date, you know,

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Speaker 3: same time, same place, next week. She said yes, but

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Speaker 3: she never showed up.

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Speaker 2: Huh, like a complete redo, same place, same time. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's kind of romantic.

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Speaker 3: I thought it was.

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Speaker 5: If you want me asking, though, why text her ten times?

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Speaker 5: If you feel like you're getting ghosted after five? What

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Speaker 5: makes you wanted to keep texting?

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Speaker 3: Well, I didn't know if something had happened to her,

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Speaker 3: Maybe she was in an accident. You know, maybe I'm

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Speaker 3: not getting ghosted. You know that's am I getting am

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Speaker 3: I getting ghosted? Dude, I don't have a.

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Speaker 2: Car read on this. Yeah, I think you are. I'm

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Speaker 2: really sorry. Yeah, I mean it sounds like it because

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Speaker 2: it's been two weeks. But did something happen?

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Speaker 3: Ben?

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Speaker 2: Are you sure you have her right number? It was

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Speaker 2: blind daily? I don't know. Okay, can you think of

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Speaker 2: anything that could have gone wrong other than the fire

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Speaker 2: alarm and that? Yeah? I mean that is Yeah.

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Speaker 3: We really liked each other. We had similar interests in books.

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Speaker 3: We both love Shrek, we have the same interest in

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Speaker 3: movies and music. Okay, I really just want to make

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Speaker 3: sure she's okay. Or maybe I did get the number wrong,

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Speaker 3: but I'm pretty sure this is the one I've used

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, we'll see what we figured it out for

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Speaker 2: you man, We'll play a song come back and then

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Speaker 2: call her and see if she'll tell us why she's

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Speaker 2: ghosting you and maybe get you another date. Okay, awesome,

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Speaker 2: thank you, all right, we'll play a song come Back,

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Speaker 2: Your first Date follow up.

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Speaker 2: Most of the time, burned biscuits on a first date

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Speaker 2: is a good thing. Buttered biscuits are oh yeah, buttered

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Speaker 2: some people burned. It depends how biscuits are usually pretty

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Speaker 2: good on a date. And Chris is on the phone

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Speaker 2: for a first date follow up. He had some burned

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Speaker 2: biscuits maybe on his date, and he thinks that might

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Speaker 2: have messed up his chances for another date with Madeline.

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Speaker 2: She's been ghosting him for two weeks, and we're about

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Speaker 2: to have a mountain see if we can get him

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Speaker 2: another date and figure out why he's getting ghosted before

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Speaker 2: we call her. Chris, real quick, refresh everybody's memory on

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Speaker 2: why you think you're getting.

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Speaker 6: Ghosted on our date?

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Speaker 3: When I was I was at a cafe with Madeline

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Speaker 3: and a fire alarm went off and we had to

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Speaker 3: wait outside. Awkwardly, I said, let's meet back here, same

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Speaker 3: time next week and have a redo with less fire.

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Speaker 3: She didn't show up. I truly don't know why.

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Speaker 2: Okay, sorry you waited there.

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Speaker 3: I had a coffee.

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Speaker 2: I guess a scene from a movie. All right, man,

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Speaker 2: well here, I'm gonna call it right now. Okay, are

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Speaker 2: you ready?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Okay, here we go.

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Speaker 6: Hello.

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Speaker 2: Hey, what's up? Madeline?

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Speaker 6: H not much?

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Speaker 2: What's up with you much? My name is Jewbel from

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Speaker 2: a radio show called the Jebel Show him Madeline, I'm

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Speaker 2: mina guys and I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 6: Yeah okay, cool?

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Speaker 2: So hi, Hi. Have you heard of the Jubil Show before?

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Speaker 6: Uh no, let.

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Speaker 2: Me give you the scoop. Okay, it's a radio show

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Speaker 2: with there's three people on the phone right now with

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Speaker 2: right now with you. We are calling you because we

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Speaker 2: got an email about you from somebody who listens to

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Speaker 2: our show.

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Speaker 6: Oh my gosh. Okay, like a good.

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Speaker 2: Email, yes, a great email.

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Speaker 4: Really it is, all right, So I guess what's going on.

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Speaker 2: We do a thing and it's called the first Date

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Speaker 2: follow up. So what that is is if you go

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Speaker 2: on a date with someone and then you go you

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Speaker 2: end up getting ghosted. You can email us to get

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Speaker 2: the person who ghosted you on the phone and ask

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Speaker 2: them why they're ghosting you. So you recently went out

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Speaker 2: with somebody and are ghosting them, and they want to

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Speaker 2: know why WHOA Okay, do you have any guesses on who?

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Speaker 4: I don't think I'm really uh ghosting anyone. I mean

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Speaker 4: I did have a date where I had a really

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Speaker 4: but then like he didn't text at all, like between

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Speaker 6: In the second.

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Speaker 4: Had the date, he was sort of checking out the

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Speaker 4: was sort of like, wow, ouch, you know that sort

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Speaker 6: But maybe maybe him I don't know, Chris.

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Speaker 2: That is correct, made his name is Chris. That's what

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Speaker 2: I'm talking about, Bob nailed it. Do you feel like

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Speaker 4: Well, I mean I wouldn't say he was ghosting me,

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Speaker 4: but I felt like, you know, we connected pretty well.

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Speaker 6: But then you know, our first hit was sort of.

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Speaker 4: was like, okay, well let's meet up and do this again,

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Speaker 6: I just thought that he was more interested in her.

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Speaker 4: Well, I guess no, you know I didn't. I just

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Speaker 2: He said he texted you like ten times.

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Speaker 4: Well like like a week later, like you know, okay,

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Speaker 4: and then I was just like, okay, I don't know what.

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Speaker 6: You know, I wasn't sure what was going on.

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Speaker 5: He said, you are supposed to have a second date

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Speaker 5: to like recreate the first one. Is there a reason

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Speaker 4: Because he didn't text me at all or call or

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And I mean, and now I feel bad. I

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Speaker 6: Move on girl, you know.

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Speaker 4: Her pastors or whatever, because I'm you know, I just

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Speaker 2: Get that, well, Madeline, Chris is actually on the phone

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Speaker 6: Hey, these are the people.

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Speaker 2: For God.

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Speaker 6: I thought I thought.

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Speaker 3: I thought anticipation would be I don't know, sexy. I

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Speaker 3: that one.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I really do.

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Speaker 6: Who are I also love your gos?

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Speaker 2: So let me ask you this, Madeline, would you like

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Speaker 2: to go on another date with Chris. We'll pay for it,

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Speaker 2: I'll take.

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Speaker 6: One of everything. Yeah, I would love that. And you know,

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Speaker 6: like just I would say, enter the date.

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Speaker 4: With full confidence Chris, and you know like like do

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Speaker 4: look at me and please.

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Speaker 6: Don't look at other people?

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Speaker 2: And I think it could be really a good time.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I will look only at you.

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Speaker 2: Congratulations, Chris, you got another date? Man staring content.

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Speaker 3: Awesome? Yes, thank you. I look forward to this year.

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Speaker 3: You're a getting that one.

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Speaker 6: I am looking forward to it.

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Speaker 3: I'm going to text you right now.

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Speaker 6: All right.

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Speaker 4: I will respond with a perfect gift.

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Speaker 2: Okay, this is getting too spicy. We gotta let you

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Speaker 2: guys go