1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,720 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:02,759 --> 00:00:07,120 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:07,520 --> 00:00:10,920 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HAARBFM dot com 4 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:14,400 Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your 5 00:00:14,480 --> 00:00:16,880 Speaker 1: letter live on the air, just like we're going to 6 00:00:16,960 --> 00:00:19,600 Speaker 1: read this one right here, right now, and you never know, 7 00:00:19,720 --> 00:00:20,680 Speaker 1: it could be yours. 8 00:00:21,200 --> 00:00:23,120 Speaker 2: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on time. 9 00:00:23,160 --> 00:00:25,760 Speaker 2: We got it for you here. It is strawberry Let 10 00:00:26,400 --> 00:00:26,840 Speaker 2: all right. 11 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:30,440 Speaker 1: You, thank you? Subject? Should I tell her that we're 12 00:00:30,520 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 1: sharing him? Dear Stephen Shirley. I've been married for thirteen years, 13 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:37,040 Speaker 1: and for the past two years, my husband and I 14 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:40,720 Speaker 1: haven't had sex. I assume that he found someone else 15 00:00:40,760 --> 00:00:43,360 Speaker 1: to put up with his sloppy love making. I found 16 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:46,560 Speaker 1: someone else too. My side dude is younger and he's 17 00:00:46,600 --> 00:00:50,159 Speaker 1: newly single and said he wasn't looking for anything serious. 18 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:52,839 Speaker 1: He is on a dating site, but he said he 19 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:55,360 Speaker 1: never goes on dates when he matches up with ladies 20 00:00:55,400 --> 00:00:58,279 Speaker 1: on the site. I usually work long days, so when 21 00:00:58,320 --> 00:01:01,240 Speaker 1: I meet up with him with my side dude, my 22 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 1: husband doesn't suspect anything. It started as just sex, but 23 00:01:05,680 --> 00:01:08,200 Speaker 1: now he's starting to open up and talk about his 24 00:01:08,319 --> 00:01:11,960 Speaker 1: goals and his future. I told him he should consider 25 00:01:12,040 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 1: meeting someone on the dating app, just to see where 26 00:01:14,760 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 1: it goes. In the meantime, I play matchmaker for my 27 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:21,640 Speaker 1: single coworkers, and I love to give advice on all 28 00:01:21,680 --> 00:01:24,320 Speaker 1: of the drama they go through with men. One of 29 00:01:24,319 --> 00:01:26,800 Speaker 1: my twenty nine year old coworkers asked if we could 30 00:01:26,840 --> 00:01:29,840 Speaker 1: go to lunch because she's having a hard time figuring 31 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 1: out the man she just met. At lunch, she told 32 00:01:33,440 --> 00:01:35,840 Speaker 1: me all about her new man and how he's a 33 00:01:35,880 --> 00:01:38,800 Speaker 1: great lover and cook. She said they met on a 34 00:01:38,880 --> 00:01:42,240 Speaker 1: dating site and they've been dating for three months. She 35 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:45,720 Speaker 1: said he's talking about marriage already, but she thinks he's 36 00:01:45,760 --> 00:01:48,920 Speaker 1: having sex with someone else because she can tell another 37 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:52,400 Speaker 1: lady has been in his house sometimes. I knew right 38 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:55,080 Speaker 1: off that she was talking about my side dude when 39 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:58,840 Speaker 1: she called him by his nickname. I want to tell 40 00:01:58,880 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 1: her that he's not seen curious about her, because I 41 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:06,640 Speaker 1: believe in giving straightforward advice. I'm thinking about telling him 42 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:08,840 Speaker 1: that I work with his little girlfriend and see how 43 00:02:08,880 --> 00:02:12,760 Speaker 1: he reacts. He's lying to us, but I'm married, so 44 00:02:12,880 --> 00:02:18,160 Speaker 1: I don't care. Should I tell the girl what's up. Okay, 45 00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:21,400 Speaker 1: you don't really like this. You're not feeling this, whether 46 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:23,720 Speaker 1: you admit it or not, and I can tell your shook. 47 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:27,360 Speaker 1: So your husband is cheating on you, you assume, and 48 00:02:27,400 --> 00:02:29,799 Speaker 1: you say you don't care because you're cheating on your 49 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:33,520 Speaker 1: husband with your side dude. But now your side dude 50 00:02:33,560 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 1: is cheating on you with your coworker. And this is 51 00:02:36,240 --> 00:02:40,120 Speaker 1: the same coworker to whom you give advice about relationship drama. 52 00:02:40,639 --> 00:02:43,880 Speaker 1: Now you want to tell your side piece you don't 53 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:48,480 Speaker 1: that you know about his relationship with your coworker, you say, 54 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 1: just to see how he'll react. Okay, So what is 55 00:02:52,639 --> 00:02:55,399 Speaker 1: that going to prove? If you tell him I think 56 00:02:55,440 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 1: you caught feelings for this guy, I really do, and 57 00:02:57,919 --> 00:02:59,960 Speaker 1: you want to see where you stand with him. Now 58 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:03,400 Speaker 1: you know what your position is right now. But I 59 00:03:03,440 --> 00:03:05,600 Speaker 1: do want to go back to your marriage for a second, 60 00:03:05,639 --> 00:03:07,640 Speaker 1: because you've been married for thirteen years. 61 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:08,440 Speaker 2: You say, but you. 62 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 1: Haven't had sex in the last two years. You didn't 63 00:03:11,320 --> 00:03:14,720 Speaker 1: tell Steve and I why you know if anything happened 64 00:03:14,720 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 1: to make you guys stop having sex. The only clue 65 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:21,119 Speaker 1: you gave us was that his love making is sloppy. 66 00:03:21,800 --> 00:03:24,280 Speaker 1: Well that was just a dig at your husband. You 67 00:03:24,320 --> 00:03:27,079 Speaker 1: still didn't give us a reason. So either you can 68 00:03:27,160 --> 00:03:30,280 Speaker 1: stay with your side piece who's also seeing your coworker, 69 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:33,560 Speaker 1: who's in your face every day with that constant reminder, 70 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:36,160 Speaker 1: or you and your husband can try to see if 71 00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:39,800 Speaker 1: your marriage is worth saving after two years of no sex. 72 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:42,760 Speaker 1: Those are your choices. All this stuff about telling him 73 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:45,040 Speaker 1: to see how he'll react, I don't believe that. I 74 00:03:45,080 --> 00:03:47,240 Speaker 1: believe you really have feelings for this guy, and now 75 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:50,440 Speaker 1: that he's seeing someone else and talking about marriage, you 76 00:03:50,560 --> 00:03:52,840 Speaker 1: have a problem, Steve with him. 77 00:03:53,600 --> 00:03:54,560 Speaker 2: I don't like the letter. 78 00:03:54,680 --> 00:03:57,360 Speaker 3: I don't like the lady in this letter because it's 79 00:03:57,520 --> 00:04:02,840 Speaker 3: everybody else's fault. Everybody's to blame here. She garners, no 80 00:04:03,720 --> 00:04:06,920 Speaker 3: blame in this whole letter. I've been married for thirteen years. 81 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 3: For the past two years, my husband and I haven't 82 00:04:09,320 --> 00:04:12,320 Speaker 3: had sex. Sureley said, you didn't tell us why, So 83 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:16,400 Speaker 3: I'm assuming something has happened. I assumed now here we go, 84 00:04:16,800 --> 00:04:18,800 Speaker 3: I assume he found someone else to put up with 85 00:04:18,880 --> 00:04:23,080 Speaker 3: his sloppy love making. I found somebody else too. That's 86 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 3: what this letter is really about, because it ain't about 87 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:29,000 Speaker 3: your husband. Cheating because you don't know that your husband 88 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:33,680 Speaker 3: could have ed and he just out of commission. A 89 00:04:33,680 --> 00:04:35,520 Speaker 3: lot of men suffer with that and don't know how 90 00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:37,880 Speaker 3: to bring up the subject and stuff, and they're embarrassed 91 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:39,920 Speaker 3: and all like it, so they just rather not even 92 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:43,479 Speaker 3: deal with it. So now, but you, on the other hand, 93 00:04:43,640 --> 00:04:47,440 Speaker 3: don't know that about your husband, that there's something medically wrong. 94 00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 3: You didn't share that with us. All you didn't share 95 00:04:50,080 --> 00:04:52,039 Speaker 3: is about did you all have a falling out of 96 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:55,320 Speaker 3: some kind? Nothing like that. So all you said was 97 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:58,839 Speaker 3: I found somebody else too. No this letter you should 98 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:02,040 Speaker 3: have just wrote, so I found on me somebody because you. 99 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:02,880 Speaker 2: Don't know what he's doing. 100 00:05:03,279 --> 00:05:06,240 Speaker 3: My side dude is younger, newly single, said he wasn't 101 00:05:06,240 --> 00:05:09,919 Speaker 3: looking for nothing serious. Now he's on the dating site 102 00:05:10,200 --> 00:05:12,920 Speaker 3: and now he matches up with ladies on the site. 103 00:05:12,960 --> 00:05:14,600 Speaker 2: I usually work long days, so. 104 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 3: When I meet up with my side dude, my husband 105 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:21,400 Speaker 3: don't suspect anything. Okay, So you creeping right, it started 106 00:05:21,640 --> 00:05:26,719 Speaker 3: just as sex. Here's a clue. It started just as sex, okay, 107 00:05:26,880 --> 00:05:31,360 Speaker 3: which means it has gone to something else. Why else 108 00:05:31,400 --> 00:05:33,479 Speaker 3: would you say it just started as sex? 109 00:05:34,480 --> 00:05:36,640 Speaker 2: Okay? But now he's starting to open up and tell 110 00:05:36,720 --> 00:05:37,720 Speaker 2: but no, no, no. 111 00:05:37,520 --> 00:05:41,240 Speaker 3: Uh uh see uh see, lady, you keep putting it 112 00:05:41,240 --> 00:05:42,160 Speaker 3: on somebody else. 113 00:05:42,560 --> 00:05:44,479 Speaker 2: See, it started out just as sex. 114 00:05:44,839 --> 00:05:47,479 Speaker 3: Now he's opening up to talk about his goals and 115 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:48,120 Speaker 3: his future. 116 00:05:49,040 --> 00:05:49,839 Speaker 2: Y'all screwing. 117 00:05:49,960 --> 00:05:54,400 Speaker 3: So now y'all just talking what he ain't caught feelings 118 00:05:54,400 --> 00:05:58,000 Speaker 3: for you. He just telling you what he wants. And 119 00:05:58,000 --> 00:06:00,560 Speaker 3: then you told him, y'all to consider meet somebody on 120 00:06:00,600 --> 00:06:02,760 Speaker 3: the date. Now this is gonna come back to haunt 121 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:05,640 Speaker 3: you and see where it goes. In the meantime, I 122 00:06:05,720 --> 00:06:08,360 Speaker 3: play matchmaker for all your single coworkers, love to give 123 00:06:08,400 --> 00:06:11,120 Speaker 3: advice on the drama. And then this twenty nine year 124 00:06:11,120 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 3: old coworker you got said she having a hard time 125 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:17,159 Speaker 3: figuring out this man she just met. She the woman 126 00:06:17,240 --> 00:06:19,760 Speaker 3: in the letter, did not say how long her and 127 00:06:19,839 --> 00:06:23,039 Speaker 3: this young boy been kicking it. She just says she 128 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:25,479 Speaker 3: hides it from her husband, or she worked late so 129 00:06:25,560 --> 00:06:28,440 Speaker 3: her husband will never suspect. Now she'd have met this girl, 130 00:06:28,560 --> 00:06:31,320 Speaker 3: And this girl says she'd have met somebody, and she 131 00:06:31,480 --> 00:06:32,480 Speaker 3: trying to figure him out. 132 00:06:32,560 --> 00:06:33,279 Speaker 2: When we come. 133 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:35,480 Speaker 3: Back, I'm gonna tell you the rest of it, because 134 00:06:35,480 --> 00:06:38,520 Speaker 3: it's all this lady in this letter is full of it. 135 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:41,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, Steve, thank you. We'll have part two 136 00:06:41,760 --> 00:06:44,200 Speaker 1: of your response coming up at twenty three minutes after 137 00:06:44,279 --> 00:06:48,039 Speaker 1: the hour. Today's strawberry letter subject, should I tell her 138 00:06:48,160 --> 00:06:50,760 Speaker 1: that we're sharing him? We'll get back into it right 139 00:06:50,800 --> 00:06:59,800 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 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She won't tell us. 152 00:07:39,640 --> 00:07:44,280 Speaker 2: Why, but she said she assumed he's. 153 00:07:44,080 --> 00:07:47,440 Speaker 3: Found somebody else to put up with his sloppy love making. 154 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:50,840 Speaker 3: She assumed that. She didn't say her husband was cheating 155 00:07:50,840 --> 00:07:53,960 Speaker 3: on her. She didn't say her husband had a medical condition. 156 00:07:54,440 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 3: She ain't say none of that. She just said, I 157 00:07:57,880 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 3: assumed he'd found somebody to get that sloppy love make too, and. 158 00:08:01,440 --> 00:08:02,240 Speaker 2: Where I have to. 159 00:08:02,960 --> 00:08:05,160 Speaker 3: And she's dating a young dude that's newly single. He 160 00:08:05,240 --> 00:08:09,000 Speaker 3: twenty nine. He out kicking it with him, and now 161 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:11,680 Speaker 3: she says she just did it. In the beginning, it 162 00:08:11,840 --> 00:08:16,200 Speaker 3: started out as sex and so then then later on 163 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:18,840 Speaker 3: he started telling her about his goals and what he 164 00:08:18,880 --> 00:08:25,080 Speaker 3: wants for the future. Well, lady, it's still just sex 165 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:28,520 Speaker 3: for him. Just because he told you what he won't, 166 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:31,520 Speaker 3: that don't mean he done call feeling so you can 167 00:08:31,600 --> 00:08:35,559 Speaker 3: stop that. Is you the one that didn't turn into something? 168 00:08:35,600 --> 00:08:38,280 Speaker 3: And I'll show you that in a minute. I told 169 00:08:38,360 --> 00:08:41,880 Speaker 3: him he ought to consider meeting somebody on the date now, well, 170 00:08:42,160 --> 00:08:44,320 Speaker 3: just to see where it goes. In the meantime, I 171 00:08:44,320 --> 00:08:46,880 Speaker 3: play matchmaking for you co workers at work. And then 172 00:08:46,880 --> 00:08:48,800 Speaker 3: one of your twenty nine year old co worker said, 173 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:50,600 Speaker 3: could she go to lunch because she's having a hard 174 00:08:50,640 --> 00:08:52,280 Speaker 3: time figuring out a man she just met. 175 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:54,600 Speaker 2: And lunch she told me all about a new man. 176 00:08:54,800 --> 00:08:57,319 Speaker 3: He's a great love and cook says, if you met 177 00:08:57,360 --> 00:08:59,720 Speaker 3: him on the dating site and they've been dating three months, 178 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:03,120 Speaker 3: she said, he's talking about marriage already, but she thinks 179 00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:05,640 Speaker 3: he's having sex with someone else because she could tell 180 00:09:05,679 --> 00:09:09,600 Speaker 3: another lady been in the house sometimes. I knew right 181 00:09:09,640 --> 00:09:13,120 Speaker 3: off that she was talking about my side dude. And 182 00:09:13,200 --> 00:09:16,400 Speaker 3: you know why, because she'dnet been over the boy's house. 183 00:09:16,880 --> 00:09:20,160 Speaker 3: That's what they mean. She done left stuff over there 184 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:24,400 Speaker 3: because that's what they do. And I knew right off 185 00:09:24,440 --> 00:09:28,560 Speaker 3: she told because she called him by his nickname. Now 186 00:09:28,679 --> 00:09:31,200 Speaker 3: I want to tell her that he's not serious about 187 00:09:31,240 --> 00:09:34,480 Speaker 3: her because I believe in giving straight forward advice. 188 00:09:34,880 --> 00:09:39,120 Speaker 2: That's a lie. That's a lie. 189 00:09:39,920 --> 00:09:43,720 Speaker 3: You don't want to tell her because you believe in 190 00:09:43,800 --> 00:09:45,360 Speaker 3: giving straight forward advice. 191 00:09:46,120 --> 00:09:47,960 Speaker 2: You want to throw it in her face. 192 00:09:48,360 --> 00:09:52,200 Speaker 3: That is you, and that she done cross the line 193 00:09:52,679 --> 00:09:56,440 Speaker 3: messing with your new dude, cause you the one to 194 00:09:56,559 --> 00:10:01,840 Speaker 3: start catching field. See, And I'm thinking about telling him 195 00:10:01,880 --> 00:10:04,000 Speaker 3: that I work with his little girlfriend, and see how 196 00:10:04,000 --> 00:10:07,800 Speaker 3: I react. He's lying to us, but I'm married. No, no, no, 197 00:10:08,400 --> 00:10:12,440 Speaker 3: he ain't lying to you. You told him. Go on 198 00:10:12,480 --> 00:10:16,360 Speaker 3: the Dayton site. Start Dayton. The boy went on the 199 00:10:16,440 --> 00:10:19,240 Speaker 3: Dayton site. You didn't know he was gonna go with 200 00:10:19,240 --> 00:10:22,720 Speaker 3: the twenty nine year old at your job. I want 201 00:10:22,760 --> 00:10:25,240 Speaker 3: to tell him that I work with his little girlfriend 202 00:10:25,240 --> 00:10:26,240 Speaker 3: and see how he reacts. 203 00:10:26,240 --> 00:10:26,720 Speaker 2: What's that? 204 00:10:26,720 --> 00:10:29,880 Speaker 3: That's a little snippy remark right there? His little girlfriend. 205 00:10:31,400 --> 00:10:34,720 Speaker 3: He's lying to us, but I'm married. He's not lying 206 00:10:34,840 --> 00:10:39,240 Speaker 3: to you. He told you he was newly single. What 207 00:10:39,400 --> 00:10:42,080 Speaker 3: you think new single twenty nine year old dudes do? 208 00:10:42,960 --> 00:10:46,000 Speaker 3: And why is he single? So I don't care? 209 00:10:46,760 --> 00:10:50,040 Speaker 2: Yes, you do. Should I tell the girl what's up? 210 00:10:50,200 --> 00:10:53,880 Speaker 3: No, you shouldn't, because then you're gonna have to implement 211 00:10:53,920 --> 00:10:57,800 Speaker 3: yourself and suppose that girl feels a little bit vindictive 212 00:10:57,920 --> 00:11:01,760 Speaker 3: like you do, and decide, Okay, since we breaking up, people, 213 00:11:02,200 --> 00:11:04,800 Speaker 3: let me go tell your husband what I just found. 214 00:11:06,920 --> 00:11:11,240 Speaker 3: See you on a slippery slope, lady, because you are 215 00:11:11,360 --> 00:11:16,079 Speaker 3: cheating on your husband openly, he just don't know it. 216 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 3: And then, oh way, I wish I could find that 217 00:11:18,480 --> 00:11:24,319 Speaker 3: line whereas uh, she said she's talking to my man. 218 00:11:24,440 --> 00:11:26,240 Speaker 3: She said she met him on the day. Beside that 219 00:11:26,920 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 3: didn't didn't wasn't of the partner the letter where she 220 00:11:29,120 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 3: said he ought to tell her something. 221 00:11:32,920 --> 00:11:35,160 Speaker 1: I want to I want to tell her that he's 222 00:11:35,240 --> 00:11:39,079 Speaker 1: not serious about her, because I believe in giving straightforward advice. 223 00:11:39,679 --> 00:11:42,080 Speaker 3: Hell, okay, since you given advice, you ain't told your 224 00:11:42,160 --> 00:11:44,040 Speaker 3: husband you were seeing nobody. 225 00:11:46,559 --> 00:11:51,400 Speaker 2: Where? Whoa you know? Since you all this straight forward advice, 226 00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:53,160 Speaker 2: you so upfront. 227 00:11:52,840 --> 00:11:55,320 Speaker 3: And righteous, go in there and tell your husband what 228 00:11:55,400 --> 00:12:00,120 Speaker 3: you're doing. See that, old I believe in giving straight 229 00:12:00,200 --> 00:12:01,000 Speaker 3: for advice. 230 00:12:01,360 --> 00:12:01,720 Speaker 2: Girl. 231 00:12:02,280 --> 00:12:07,199 Speaker 3: Bye, that ain't what you doing this far? Because you 232 00:12:07,520 --> 00:12:12,040 Speaker 3: jealous that this twenty nine year old is now playing you? Right, 233 00:12:12,920 --> 00:12:17,640 Speaker 3: because you playing your husband? Now you getting played? Now 234 00:12:17,679 --> 00:12:19,959 Speaker 3: you want to tear the house down? Should I tell her? 235 00:12:20,240 --> 00:12:23,440 Speaker 3: Should I tell him I've been I'm friends with his 236 00:12:23,559 --> 00:12:24,600 Speaker 3: little girlfriend? 237 00:12:24,920 --> 00:12:29,120 Speaker 2: Yeah? No, lady, no married? 238 00:12:29,200 --> 00:12:30,000 Speaker 1: So I don't care? 239 00:12:31,200 --> 00:12:34,320 Speaker 2: You do care? Ooh you care? The whole letter is 240 00:12:34,400 --> 00:12:37,120 Speaker 2: cause you can't you really really care. 241 00:12:37,800 --> 00:12:40,600 Speaker 3: See, let me tell you something, Let me get let 242 00:12:40,679 --> 00:12:43,160 Speaker 3: me shriek this down to try to get around my cake. 243 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:46,400 Speaker 3: The title of this letter is, should I tell her 244 00:12:46,679 --> 00:12:47,959 Speaker 3: that we're sharing him? 245 00:12:49,080 --> 00:12:52,000 Speaker 2: What if you don't care? What you got to tell 246 00:12:52,040 --> 00:12:52,240 Speaker 2: it for? 247 00:12:53,960 --> 00:12:58,920 Speaker 3: See, lady, you you don't really you don't really mean nothing. 248 00:12:58,960 --> 00:13:03,760 Speaker 2: You say, you're a cheater, you're a liar. 249 00:13:05,440 --> 00:13:08,400 Speaker 3: You you don't like you want to wreck his wreck 250 00:13:08,480 --> 00:13:12,120 Speaker 3: this little girl's relationship. You want to work his relationship 251 00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:14,800 Speaker 3: with the girl after you told him to go. Get 252 00:13:14,800 --> 00:13:17,600 Speaker 3: on the dating site so you can see where things happen. 253 00:13:18,000 --> 00:13:20,600 Speaker 3: He ain't got no future with you. He don't won't 254 00:13:20,679 --> 00:13:28,280 Speaker 3: you because you're too old. He don't won't and he 255 00:13:28,400 --> 00:13:29,280 Speaker 3: don't won't you? 256 00:13:31,400 --> 00:13:31,880 Speaker 2: All right? 257 00:13:33,000 --> 00:13:37,319 Speaker 1: Thank you? Steve Poster your comments on today's Here all 258 00:13:37,360 --> 00:13:42,040 Speaker 1: Week Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook, and check 259 00:13:42,040 --> 00:13:45,480 Speaker 1: out the Strawberry Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio app. 260 00:13:45,679 --> 00:13:48,520 Speaker 1: You can download it. 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