WEBVTT - Alexis Bellino is MARRIED And Telling ALL! 0:00:15.320 --> 0:00:17.880 It's I Do Part two, and it's Alexis Billino and 0:00:17.960 --> 0:00:21.360 Joe Dala Rosa, both from Royal Housewives of Orange County, 0:00:22.640 --> 0:00:25.640 co hosting this episode today. And we are here today 0:00:25.960 --> 0:00:30.160 to discuss my recent wedding and also get some juice 0:00:30.200 --> 0:00:32.120 from Joe about her wedding in twenty twenty two. 0:00:33.080 --> 0:00:34.760 So it's going to be a good day. 0:00:35.200 --> 0:00:39.080 Hi Joe, Hello, missus Jansen. 0:00:41.000 --> 0:00:43.040 It's so funny to hear that I still am not 0:00:43.159 --> 0:00:44.680 used to it. It makes me sweat a little. 0:00:45.200 --> 0:00:49.000 I know, I'm still literally in the clouds from your wedding, 0:00:49.360 --> 0:00:50.400 so me too. 0:00:50.880 --> 0:00:53.159 You know, first of all, I have so much to 0:00:53.200 --> 0:00:55.160 talk to you about, so many questions because we haven't 0:00:55.160 --> 0:00:56.760 really caught up from the wedding since the wedding. 0:00:56.800 --> 0:00:59.520 But so I want the audience to get to know 0:00:59.560 --> 0:01:00.440 a little bit about you. 0:01:00.480 --> 0:01:02.680 And obviously I just said you were married in twenty 0:01:02.720 --> 0:01:05.120 twenty two and I was at your wedding, and then 0:01:05.160 --> 0:01:09.240 here we are full circle, right Well, sirch but you 0:01:09.240 --> 0:01:11.280 know this is I Do Part two and you're not 0:01:11.360 --> 0:01:13.759 a Part two or because you've this is your first marriage. 0:01:13.800 --> 0:01:16.480 But we all don't get the first time right like 0:01:16.520 --> 0:01:19.560 you did. Okay, So just curious. You were married in 0:01:19.600 --> 0:01:23.520 your forties though, So what was it like experiencing that 0:01:23.560 --> 0:01:25.440 when a lot of I mean, it's forty is really 0:01:25.480 --> 0:01:27.759 the new thirty, but people start getting married at twenty 0:01:27.760 --> 0:01:28.240 and thirty. 0:01:28.400 --> 0:01:30.560 So what did that feel like for you? Or did 0:01:30.600 --> 0:01:31.080 not anything? 0:01:31.200 --> 0:01:31.480 Really? 0:01:31.920 --> 0:01:32.400 Yeah? 0:01:32.680 --> 0:01:36.320 I think yeah, it was definitely different, like waiting to 0:01:36.360 --> 0:01:38.960 get married older. I feel like I got to live 0:01:39.080 --> 0:01:41.679 a lot more life in terms of like my single 0:01:41.760 --> 0:01:44.440 days and like figuring out who I was without like 0:01:44.920 --> 0:01:49.720 a significant other from a marriage perspective, right, And also 0:01:49.840 --> 0:01:52.360 I didn't get it right the first time in the 0:01:52.440 --> 0:01:56.559 sense of, like you you remember, she's been engaged three 0:01:56.720 --> 0:01:58.960 times and third time was the time for me? 0:01:59.640 --> 0:02:02.760 You know what this should be. This should be called 0:02:02.800 --> 0:02:04.840 I do Part two or engage part three. 0:02:05.240 --> 0:02:07.480 Literally, and I'll be the expert on that. 0:02:08.760 --> 0:02:10.919 You're right, you didn't get it right the first time. Okay, 0:02:10.960 --> 0:02:14.200 well yeah, cuche but yeah, okay, So my question to 0:02:14.200 --> 0:02:17.280 you is, like you just called me missus Jansen, Like 0:02:17.520 --> 0:02:19.760 was it weird for you at first? Or I mean, 0:02:19.800 --> 0:02:22.520 I know you go by great or you know Jala 0:02:22.600 --> 0:02:25.359 Rosa still some and you have Gray as your legal name, 0:02:25.400 --> 0:02:26.120 but like, yeah, was. 0:02:26.120 --> 0:02:27.280 It weird for you? 0:02:27.320 --> 0:02:28.840 Because right now it's weird when people say, and I 0:02:28.919 --> 0:02:31.600 still go, it's Alexis Bilino calling to get Miles out 0:02:31.600 --> 0:02:34.320 of fifth period, you know, and I'm like, I mean Janssen, 0:02:34.440 --> 0:02:34.600 you know. 0:02:34.720 --> 0:02:36.000 But yeah, yeah, yeah. 0:02:36.000 --> 0:02:38.440 It definitely took some getting used to. I think in 0:02:38.480 --> 0:02:42.320 the beginning I wanted to be Dala Rosa Gray because 0:02:42.320 --> 0:02:46.320 I was like, oh, well, you know, uh, Kim Kardashian 0:02:46.360 --> 0:02:49.440 did Kim Kardashian West, Not that I'm like a Kim Kardashian, 0:02:49.480 --> 0:02:51.000 but you know what I mean, Like, there's people with 0:02:51.160 --> 0:02:54.919 long last names that also added another last name, where 0:02:54.919 --> 0:02:59.640 like Kardashian Barker, right, not as using the Kardashians as 0:02:59.680 --> 0:03:02.799 an egg for last name marriage, but yes I did. 0:03:03.040 --> 0:03:05.119 And I was like, well, if they have long names. 0:03:05.720 --> 0:03:08.239 You know, two together, then maybe I'll try it too. 0:03:08.520 --> 0:03:10.720 But then it got a little bit annoying when you're 0:03:10.760 --> 0:03:13.799 like talking to like banks or like credit card whatever 0:03:13.840 --> 0:03:16.080 it is, and you're like Dela Rosa Gray and then 0:03:16.080 --> 0:03:18.720 you're spelling it. So that lasted for about a good 0:03:18.800 --> 0:03:21.160 six months, and then I got over that really quick. 0:03:21.520 --> 0:03:24.959 I ended up going back to just Dela Rosa, and 0:03:25.160 --> 0:03:29.480 I'm still Gray, like legally with all of my like 0:03:29.560 --> 0:03:32.560 personal stuff banking, credit cards and stuff like that. And 0:03:32.600 --> 0:03:34.760 it's cute because they go, like, mister and missus Gray, 0:03:35.000 --> 0:03:36.680 your table's ready at. 0:03:36.520 --> 0:03:39.840 Like reservations, you know. Yeah, so yeah, what about you? 0:03:39.880 --> 0:03:40.520 Do you feel like. 0:03:40.520 --> 0:03:44.680 You it's actually the same or hyphenating or just no, 0:03:45.280 --> 0:03:47.040 we talked about that, but I feel like I am 0:03:47.040 --> 0:03:49.560 in the same boat as you, exactly what you just said. 0:03:49.560 --> 0:03:51.160 I'm sat there going, gosh, that's how I feel too. 0:03:51.160 --> 0:03:52.080 But like we. 0:03:52.000 --> 0:03:55.200 Talked about hyphenating it, it was, you know, John's like, 0:03:55.240 --> 0:03:57.560 but you're you're you're you know, you're a Jansen now, 0:03:57.640 --> 0:03:59.360 and so I'm like, I get it, You're right I am. 0:03:59.640 --> 0:04:02.640 And also, so you know, my my career is kind 0:04:02.640 --> 0:04:04.520 of Billino, and I know that Tamra had to go 0:04:04.560 --> 0:04:06.040 through this when she switched to Judge. 0:04:06.040 --> 0:04:08.400 So I'm just trying to figure all of all of 0:04:08.440 --> 0:04:09.040 that out. 0:04:09.240 --> 0:04:11.840 But I am legally a Jansen, so everything will be 0:04:11.880 --> 0:04:14.800 converted to Jansen. I mean, and I did take his 0:04:14.880 --> 0:04:17.479 last name, but I am in that weird interim. You know, 0:04:17.520 --> 0:04:20.760 I'm only what four days married, five days married, So no, 0:04:20.839 --> 0:04:24.240 Tomorrow's a week, so six days married. So so I 0:04:24.240 --> 0:04:25.880 think I'll get I think it'll get there. It's just 0:04:25.880 --> 0:04:27.640 gonna take a little bit of time for me to 0:04:27.839 --> 0:04:30.200 figure out that and navigate that, and maybe I'll get 0:04:30.200 --> 0:04:31.920 so sick of it being like, no, I am all. 0:04:31.960 --> 0:04:33.719 Likes this Billino because of my career. People think of 0:04:33.760 --> 0:04:34.159 me from. 0:04:34.000 --> 0:04:36.039 That career, and then I'll just you know, go for 0:04:36.080 --> 0:04:38.280 that part of the time. And Jansen, you know, most 0:04:38.320 --> 0:04:39.359 people know I'm Jansen. 0:04:39.440 --> 0:04:41.479 I don't know. There's so much new right now. 0:04:41.600 --> 0:04:43.599 Have you even recovered from the wedding, Like I was 0:04:43.640 --> 0:04:46.160 so sore the next day all of. 0:04:46.080 --> 0:04:50.320 The tequila at your tequila bar that we had, or 0:04:50.400 --> 0:04:51.240 by we, I mean me. 0:04:52.400 --> 0:04:55.159 I'm still recovering a little bit. I'm not gonna lie. 0:04:55.279 --> 0:04:57.600 That was John's idea because all of his frat brothers, 0:04:58.080 --> 0:05:01.160 you know, they love they love good tequila's and the 0:05:01.240 --> 0:05:03.719 tequilas he wanted to serve the hotel the resort couldn't 0:05:03.760 --> 0:05:06.640 get and so he did this tequila bar. And I 0:05:06.680 --> 0:05:08.760 only partook in one of them because I'm not a 0:05:08.760 --> 0:05:11.440 big tequila girl, and so but yeah, it was just 0:05:11.440 --> 0:05:13.400 a cute idea. It was cute, so I'm sorry that 0:05:13.480 --> 0:05:15.400 everyone hurt so bad the next day from that, Oh, 0:05:15.520 --> 0:05:16.560 I mean worth it. 0:05:16.680 --> 0:05:18.120 That's all I have to say it. 0:05:18.640 --> 0:05:21.440 Oh wait, I feel like we're already talking about the reception, Like, 0:05:21.600 --> 0:05:24.599 let's take this thing from the top. First of all, 0:05:24.880 --> 0:05:28.800 let's talk about your ceremony. Oh my gosh, alexis that 0:05:29.120 --> 0:05:33.840 ceremony was literally the most romantic thing. First of all, 0:05:34.200 --> 0:05:37.520 I loved that you had you and John in the middle, 0:05:38.240 --> 0:05:42.920 everybody around it, so you felt like everybody felt. It 0:05:42.960 --> 0:05:46.160 was very like an immersive ceremony because it didn't matter 0:05:46.200 --> 0:05:49.240 where you would sit, like where you were sitting, we 0:05:49.320 --> 0:05:53.360 could see you. But the sweetest part you walking down 0:05:53.440 --> 0:05:55.039 the aisle with your kids. 0:05:55.240 --> 0:05:56.280 How did that feel? 0:05:56.400 --> 0:05:56.520 Like? 0:05:57.000 --> 0:05:58.000 What was that moment like? 0:05:58.040 --> 0:06:00.400 Because the first time you didn't have kids time you 0:06:00.440 --> 0:06:02.800 were married, So tell me a little bit about that. 0:06:03.440 --> 0:06:05.479 It was, you know, the whole circle thing was is 0:06:05.520 --> 0:06:07.400 the circle of love. We decided we wanted to try 0:06:07.440 --> 0:06:09.520 something new and my wedding planner. I was like, is 0:06:09.520 --> 0:06:11.040 this gonna work or is it a total flop? Like 0:06:11.080 --> 0:06:13.000 John and I really wanted it to happen, And she goes, 0:06:13.160 --> 0:06:14.800 we're trying it, Lex, We're gonna make it work. It's 0:06:14.839 --> 0:06:17.040 such a creative idea, we're gonna make it work. And 0:06:17.120 --> 0:06:19.800 so but my, So that's where that came from. And 0:06:19.839 --> 0:06:22.120 I'm so glad that everyone has said that. I haven't 0:06:22.120 --> 0:06:24.200 heard one person complain and say I couldn't really see 0:06:24.240 --> 0:06:26.240 because I kind of thought, well, everyone kind of still 0:06:26.240 --> 0:06:27.800 saw the back of someone. Someone saw the back of 0:06:27.800 --> 0:06:29.880 the pastor, someone saw the back of my head, someone 0:06:29.920 --> 0:06:31.640 saw the back of John's head. But you still do 0:06:31.680 --> 0:06:33.400 feel because it wasn't as many rows back. You're not 0:06:33.480 --> 0:06:35.960 ten rows back. It's three or four rows around, so 0:06:36.000 --> 0:06:37.599 you're still, like you said, you're closer. 0:06:38.520 --> 0:06:41.120 And then for the children, it was John. 0:06:40.960 --> 0:06:43.080 And I both knew like the only wedding party we 0:06:43.080 --> 0:06:45.800 were having were our six kids. So his children, you know, 0:06:45.800 --> 0:06:47.599 if you saw that, his children walked him up with 0:06:47.640 --> 0:06:49.960 the pastor, his daughter's arm in arm, and the sun 0:06:50.000 --> 0:06:52.359 with the pastor. And then I got to see this 0:06:52.520 --> 0:06:54.120 girl I got. I haven't got to share any of 0:06:54.120 --> 0:06:56.240 these things I got. They we were up in my 0:06:56.279 --> 0:06:59.599 holding room getting ready to bring me down and James goes, mom, 0:06:59.600 --> 0:07:01.680 come here, and I go over and I see them 0:07:01.680 --> 0:07:03.400 and I start crying, and everyone's like blowing in my 0:07:03.360 --> 0:07:05.520 face and going stop stop, because it was so precious 0:07:05.520 --> 0:07:08.240 to see John and his kids walking up. And then 0:07:08.279 --> 0:07:10.000 I'm like, oh gosh, this is for like I'm literally 0:07:10.000 --> 0:07:13.360 going down there right now, and so then get myself together. 0:07:13.520 --> 0:07:16.160 And then walking down the aisle with my kids was 0:07:16.200 --> 0:07:18.280 so surreal because Kenna was right in front, you know, 0:07:18.360 --> 0:07:20.600 doing like dropping a couple of pedals when the pedals 0:07:20.600 --> 0:07:22.040 we already there, but just to do something. And then 0:07:22.320 --> 0:07:24.160 I was arm in arm with James and Miles, and 0:07:24.200 --> 0:07:26.400 it was they were not nervous. I was like, this 0:07:26.440 --> 0:07:28.640 is a big deal to ask teenagers, you know, around 0:07:28.640 --> 0:07:31.520 one hundred and fifty people walking down the aisle with 0:07:31.560 --> 0:07:33.560 your mom. The first wedding that Miles had ever been 0:07:33.600 --> 0:07:36.600 to is walking his mom down the aisle, and I 0:07:36.680 --> 0:07:38.360 just thought it was the most special thing. 0:07:38.400 --> 0:07:40.400 I don't know how I kept it together. 0:07:40.680 --> 0:07:42.960 I kept telling the kids anytime i think I'm going 0:07:43.000 --> 0:07:44.920 to cry, I'm and a say hemorrhoid in my head. Okay, 0:07:44.960 --> 0:07:46.640 like that's just like that's just something that would like 0:07:46.680 --> 0:07:47.840 make me laugh really fast. 0:07:48.120 --> 0:07:48.880 So I read it. 0:07:49.720 --> 0:07:51.320 I'm not kidding you. It's just the funniest thing I 0:07:51.320 --> 0:07:52.760 could think of. I'm like what could I could say 0:07:52.840 --> 0:07:54.160 that's not as funny. 0:07:53.920 --> 0:07:55.040 Like what do you know? I was just like, that's 0:07:55.040 --> 0:07:57.080 the funniest thing that I can think of. So I 0:07:57.840 --> 0:07:59.200 did that worked? 0:07:59.240 --> 0:08:01.160 I mean I was like I just get out of 0:08:01.200 --> 0:08:02.960 myself for a second and be like can you know? 0:08:03.000 --> 0:08:04.960 And then and then I kind of chuckle and move on. 0:08:05.080 --> 0:08:07.280 But it was really hard to fight back the tears 0:08:07.280 --> 0:08:09.320 even walking down the aisle. So I think I had 0:08:09.320 --> 0:08:11.600 a couple because I remember watching one video someone had 0:08:11.600 --> 0:08:14.120 and I right where I got to John, I grabbed 0:08:14.160 --> 0:08:17.320 my kerchief and I like was dabbing my eyes. 0:08:17.440 --> 0:08:20.480 So yeah, you even saw John get so emotional, like 0:08:20.720 --> 0:08:23.440 I didn't see it, Yes, when you were walking down 0:08:23.480 --> 0:08:26.040 like before, like you could tell I got it on video, 0:08:26.240 --> 0:08:30.840 and like you literally just see like how overwhelmed with 0:08:30.920 --> 0:08:34.120 emotion he is to see you walking down like up 0:08:34.200 --> 0:08:39.760 to him, And can we please talk about your dress? 0:08:40.200 --> 0:08:43.920 I need all the details because I was there. I 0:08:44.280 --> 0:08:48.160 am in Scottsdale. All your girls we went to get 0:08:48.240 --> 0:08:50.680 the dress, but when I saw you just you know, 0:08:50.720 --> 0:08:54.480 because none of us saw that beautiful dress, So I 0:08:54.520 --> 0:08:57.319 don't even know all the details. Give me the dress details, 0:08:57.400 --> 0:09:02.360 because you looked like I'm you always look incredible, Alexis, truly, 0:09:02.360 --> 0:09:05.240 from the bottom of my heart, you were breathtaking. We 0:09:05.240 --> 0:09:07.839 were all like like we literally had to like take 0:09:07.880 --> 0:09:11.000 a beat, like, sincerely, I've never seen you look just 0:09:11.080 --> 0:09:14.520 so stunning and glad that because. 0:09:14.320 --> 0:09:15.840 That dress took a lot of work. 0:09:15.960 --> 0:09:19.360 Like Julie from Modern Bride, you met her, we started 0:09:19.400 --> 0:09:21.280 with one thing, and then I kept calling her and 0:09:21.280 --> 0:09:23.160 I go I kept going, okay, wait, I need to 0:09:23.200 --> 0:09:24.760 add this weight. I want to change this weight. It's 0:09:24.800 --> 0:09:26.440 I don't like that color. It's not the perfect color. 0:09:26.640 --> 0:09:29.199 We I flew out there probably four or five times 0:09:29.240 --> 0:09:31.360 just to help get it all together, make the vision 0:09:31.400 --> 0:09:33.000 come to light. And I was you have to pray 0:09:33.040 --> 0:09:34.360 you no joke, cause it's not like I could try 0:09:34.360 --> 0:09:36.880 it on, like they're customizing that gown for me. They 0:09:36.960 --> 0:09:40.040 took my vision and Julie's help of the vision and 0:09:40.400 --> 0:09:42.160 going Nope, you have to do this, Alexis, No, you 0:09:42.200 --> 0:09:43.800 need to do this, and you have to. 0:09:43.720 --> 0:09:44.560 Trust the process. 0:09:44.600 --> 0:09:46.720 And then when the dress comes you're kind of like, 0:09:46.760 --> 0:09:48.640 oh my gosh, let's cross our fingers because you don't 0:09:48.640 --> 0:09:51.160 get a trial and error. And so what you guys 0:09:51.280 --> 0:09:53.200 saw was just the beginning. I remember when I walked 0:09:53.200 --> 0:09:55.000 out Joe when we were at that and I said, 0:09:55.280 --> 0:09:55.760 this is the. 0:09:55.679 --> 0:09:57.040 One, and you guys were all like yay. 0:09:57.160 --> 0:09:59.120 And then I think that to Julie and I'm like, Julie, 0:09:59.120 --> 0:10:01.559 that's the one, except I want to do a B, C, D, E, F, 0:10:01.640 --> 0:10:02.120 G and H. 0:10:02.360 --> 0:10:04.240 And she's like, that's not this dress. Then she's like, 0:10:04.240 --> 0:10:05.200 we got to start from scratch. 0:10:05.200 --> 0:10:07.640 We got to completely She's like, we're just going back 0:10:07.679 --> 0:10:09.840 to drawing boards and starting from complete scratch. 0:10:10.040 --> 0:10:12.400 So from that moment that you went with me, we 0:10:12.440 --> 0:10:15.000 sit the next six months recreating the entire thing. 0:10:15.160 --> 0:10:17.200 And I was gonna say, because it looks so different 0:10:17.240 --> 0:10:21.240 than what I remembered a scene at Modern Ride, so okay, 0:10:21.440 --> 0:10:24.280 now that makes sense. It Also I loved that it 0:10:24.320 --> 0:10:27.040 was like your skin color because it was like a 0:10:27.160 --> 0:10:31.520 netted material, right or mash yeah, with silk underneath, but 0:10:31.880 --> 0:10:33.760 silk underneath, Okay. I couldn't like see it, of course, 0:10:33.920 --> 0:10:36.839 but then like with the little crystals like all through it. 0:10:37.080 --> 0:10:37.920 Right, it was just so. 0:10:37.920 --> 0:10:40.160 Beating everywhere, and then she had the hair piece made 0:10:40.200 --> 0:10:42.400 exactly to match the beating, so it was all just 0:10:42.480 --> 0:10:45.439 very customized and very you know, and I mean, I 0:10:45.440 --> 0:10:47.120 don't mind if anyone wants to call her and then 0:10:47.280 --> 0:10:49.280 they can do the same dress and a different color. 0:10:49.320 --> 0:10:51.120 I don't know, but I mean for those brides that 0:10:51.160 --> 0:10:53.040 don't want to, you know, the second time around, Joe, 0:10:53.400 --> 0:10:55.040 I just well, third for me, but I don't count 0:10:55.080 --> 0:10:58.400 my first one. But I feel like I feel like 0:10:59.200 --> 0:11:01.120 I didn't want to be in white or cream or 0:11:01.160 --> 0:11:02.760 anything of that. So I just and I think other 0:11:02.840 --> 0:11:04.800 brides do. I think was that there was some other 0:11:04.800 --> 0:11:09.000 housewife that were black her I forget which one it was, 0:11:09.520 --> 0:11:11.880 Kelly DoD Kelly Dodd, I think we're black as her 0:11:11.880 --> 0:11:12.440 wedding gown. 0:11:12.800 --> 0:11:14.520 And so it's okay, it's unique, you know. 0:11:15.000 --> 0:11:15.280 Do you? 0:11:15.400 --> 0:11:18.839 I mean, it's I think it's your wedding day, whether 0:11:18.880 --> 0:11:22.240 the bride wants to be traditional or untraditional, like do 0:11:22.360 --> 0:11:25.400 whatever feels like you like tarn and I we didn't 0:11:25.440 --> 0:11:28.520 do a garter thing. We did a fake garter thing, 0:11:28.720 --> 0:11:30.520 like you know when they go underneath your dress and 0:11:30.559 --> 0:11:31.960 all of that, because like. 0:11:33.360 --> 0:11:34.920 I was there, so what do you what do you mean? 0:11:34.960 --> 0:11:36.160 I forget that part. 0:11:36.240 --> 0:11:39.840 Well because his grandparents like we're there and like it 0:11:40.000 --> 0:11:42.680 was like this whole thing where like He's like, I 0:11:42.679 --> 0:11:44.640 don't know, honey, I don't want to go under your 0:11:44.720 --> 0:11:45.960 dress and grab it with my. 0:11:45.920 --> 0:11:48.640 Teeth and like my grandparents or that. And I was like, Okay, 0:11:48.679 --> 0:11:49.760 we don't have to do it all like that. 0:11:49.800 --> 0:11:51.920 But he did something even better, which is he did 0:11:51.960 --> 0:11:54.960 a fake out where he went under my stirg went 0:11:55.040 --> 0:11:57.440 under my dress, pretending like he was about to pull 0:11:57.440 --> 0:11:59.600 it out. And then he gets up and he's like nah, 0:11:59.640 --> 0:12:02.640 and he's takes up the guitar and starts playing a 0:12:02.720 --> 0:12:05.200 song that he wrote me and performed like that was 0:12:05.720 --> 0:12:08.359 so much more amazing. So that's what I'm saying, untraditional, 0:12:08.760 --> 0:12:11.840 but I think every bride should do what they feel like, 0:12:11.880 --> 0:12:13.320 if it's black, if it's whatever it is. 0:12:13.360 --> 0:12:15.600 So your wedding was insane, by the way. I loved 0:12:15.679 --> 0:12:17.880 every minute of it. It was so heartfelt. I do 0:12:17.960 --> 0:12:20.760 remember him singing that song to you, and everybody was 0:12:20.800 --> 0:12:21.640 teary eyed and just. 0:12:21.600 --> 0:12:24.040 Like you were like you were blown away. 0:12:24.160 --> 0:12:25.760 You're like the look on your face the whole time 0:12:25.880 --> 0:12:27.119 was like you were speechless. 0:12:27.160 --> 0:12:28.840 You know, it was just I love those moments. 0:12:28.880 --> 0:12:31.240 Those are the moments that make your wedding yours, you know, 0:12:31.240 --> 0:12:34.199 whether it's the first, second, third, fourth for some people. 0:12:34.320 --> 0:12:35.560 So yeah, yeah, And. 0:12:35.800 --> 0:12:38.080 I really loved the part where you played worship music. 0:12:38.480 --> 0:12:41.040 That song came on before you even start at the ceremony, 0:12:41.080 --> 0:12:44.000 and you did things for you with like the rose, 0:12:44.600 --> 0:12:48.360 like the roses beloved lost. I've never seen that done. 0:12:48.440 --> 0:12:51.040 So that was also such a beautiful moment. We all 0:12:51.040 --> 0:12:51.560 lost it. 0:12:51.640 --> 0:12:53.680 So oh gosh. I was trying not to let people 0:12:53.720 --> 0:12:55.240 cry as much as I thought I would be crying. 0:12:55.280 --> 0:12:56.760 But I wanted when. 0:12:56.600 --> 0:12:58.920 I was picking my song to walk down the aisle 0:12:58.920 --> 0:13:00.640 to I. And I was now going to walk down 0:13:00.640 --> 0:13:02.040 the aisle. My kids are the ones that made me 0:13:02.080 --> 0:13:03.960 do it, because they're like and John's kids, all six 0:13:04.040 --> 0:13:05.760 kids said Alexis. 0:13:05.280 --> 0:13:06.840 You have to walk to my dad. You have to 0:13:06.880 --> 0:13:07.960 walk to John, you know. 0:13:08.080 --> 0:13:11.079 Like But I went through song after song after song, 0:13:11.120 --> 0:13:13.080 and it was literally the week before the wedding, and 0:13:13.120 --> 0:13:15.960 I called my the host that was doing all of 0:13:15.800 --> 0:13:19.480 the entertainment, gentleman Casey, and I just said, changed again, 0:13:19.520 --> 0:13:22.520 and I've got the song. And he goes John and said, 0:13:22.559 --> 0:13:25.079 but that song it's Oceans, the worship song by Hillsong, 0:13:25.600 --> 0:13:27.680 and he goes, that's John's Like, that song's not as 0:13:27.720 --> 0:13:29.960 impactful with just the stream quartet, and he's like, you 0:13:30.000 --> 0:13:30.800 need to have a singer. 0:13:30.960 --> 0:13:31.640 Guess what I did. 0:13:32.520 --> 0:13:34.800 Called my church and I'm like, ooh, from a church 0:13:34.800 --> 0:13:35.840 could sing this song. 0:13:35.679 --> 0:13:37.319 Walcome me down the aisle in a week's time. 0:13:37.360 --> 0:13:39.320 We got to make this happen. So we did that 0:13:39.360 --> 0:13:41.679 all last minute. It was my worship leader from church. 0:13:41.760 --> 0:13:45.840 His name's Joey Insane, and it just and then I said, 0:13:45.880 --> 0:13:47.839 and by the way, Pastor. When I was talking to 0:13:47.920 --> 0:13:49.960 my pastor, I said, I don't want it to end. 0:13:50.000 --> 0:13:51.319 I want to take I want to take John and 0:13:51.360 --> 0:13:53.000 I a minute and a half or a minute longer 0:13:53.320 --> 0:13:55.679 and just get God in service. So we were kind 0:13:55.720 --> 0:13:58.080 of sitting there, John and I were worshiping alone together 0:13:58.240 --> 0:14:01.040 with I mean the crowd and everyone that song. But 0:14:01.200 --> 0:14:03.480 it was just our moment of saying, God, we are 0:14:03.520 --> 0:14:06.000 really doing this before you. We want you here with us. 0:14:06.080 --> 0:14:08.600 So that is kind of where that all came from. 0:14:09.120 --> 0:14:13.000 I love that last minute Joe so special. 0:14:13.360 --> 0:14:15.000 I mean, you would have never known that. 0:14:15.640 --> 0:14:18.280 Yeah, oh, by the way, never known what is a hiccup? 0:14:18.320 --> 0:14:20.400 I need to know a hiccup that happened during your 0:14:20.400 --> 0:14:23.400 wedding because I was there and I think we talked 0:14:23.440 --> 0:14:24.680 to the day or two after your wedding, but this 0:14:24.720 --> 0:14:25.520 is twenty twenty two. 0:14:25.880 --> 0:14:27.800 I can't remember if you had any massive thing. 0:14:28.400 --> 0:14:31.000 Yes I did, but you know you pulled it off 0:14:31.040 --> 0:14:33.040 because I mean, no one knew and I can't remember it. 0:14:33.080 --> 0:14:34.400 So okay, what was your massive thing? 0:14:34.480 --> 0:14:38.200 So what's funny is I didn't even know until after 0:14:38.240 --> 0:14:40.960 the wedding, like days after. So come to find out 0:14:41.680 --> 0:14:46.040 our wedding planner whoever, was going to help set up 0:14:46.040 --> 0:14:50.520 the tables that day, because you know, we had gotten 0:14:50.600 --> 0:14:56.120 a private home in the palace in Palisates Palsti's palasfurtis 0:14:56.120 --> 0:14:59.520 the States. I'm like, what year is that we brought 0:14:59.600 --> 0:15:03.080 every into this house to do this like enchanted forest wedding. 0:15:03.520 --> 0:15:08.360 So there's a lot more set up. The assistance didn't 0:15:08.600 --> 0:15:11.240 show up, or someone got sick, the crew got sick, 0:15:11.840 --> 0:15:14.640 so I had friends that had to step in to 0:15:14.800 --> 0:15:15.760 help set up. 0:15:15.680 --> 0:15:18.080 Our tables on the day of the wedding. 0:15:18.440 --> 0:15:21.320 On the day so like because we have the ceremony 0:15:21.360 --> 0:15:24.360 and the reception all in the backyard, yea, so we 0:15:24.600 --> 0:15:26.760 you know, after the ceremony, people go to the side 0:15:27.160 --> 0:15:30.600 to get cocktail hour and then they flipped over the space, 0:15:30.880 --> 0:15:33.320 so I didn't know friends had to step in to 0:15:33.600 --> 0:15:36.840 help my planner, which is wild. 0:15:36.880 --> 0:15:40.200 Your planner reached out to your friends and not you. 0:15:40.200 --> 0:15:41.840 You know, it's funny. I don't even know what I 0:15:41.880 --> 0:15:44.720 don't even know how it happened. All I know is, yeah, 0:15:44.800 --> 0:15:47.200 no one told me. They were like protecting me so 0:15:47.280 --> 0:15:49.800 that I could like enjoy it. But that's what I 0:15:49.840 --> 0:15:52.480 came to find out was my friends, some friends help. 0:15:52.560 --> 0:15:55.320 They had to jump in to help turn the space around. 0:15:55.440 --> 0:15:57.360 Crazy. Wait, what was the hiccup for you? 0:15:57.720 --> 0:15:59.680 I mean that is that is insane though, and then 0:15:59.760 --> 0:16:02.160 that it feel so special though for you because you're like, 0:16:02.560 --> 0:16:04.400 those people love me that much that they kept all 0:16:04.440 --> 0:16:06.320 of that from me and made my day and you 0:16:06.360 --> 0:16:07.520 did not know till the next day. 0:16:07.760 --> 0:16:10.360 Yeah, that is great friends, I mean days later. Yeah, 0:16:10.400 --> 0:16:11.400 keep those friends forever. 0:16:11.520 --> 0:16:12.320 Yep. 0:16:22.520 --> 0:16:26.680 So I my hiccup, My biggest one was I'm literally 0:16:26.880 --> 0:16:30.520 telling I'm what twenty minutes from getting ready to go 0:16:30.560 --> 0:16:32.480 to my next place, which is another holding place. We 0:16:32.560 --> 0:16:35.080 just finished my prepictures going to the next holding place 0:16:35.120 --> 0:16:37.160 closer to the ceremony. Before they actually had to, we 0:16:37.160 --> 0:16:39.520 were on a golf course they had to which behind 0:16:39.520 --> 0:16:41.600 a canyon, but they had to drive the golf cart 0:16:41.800 --> 0:16:43.720 from my holding place a little bit with me in 0:16:43.760 --> 0:16:44.920 it before they had turned. 0:16:44.800 --> 0:16:46.000