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Speaker 1: It's I Do Part two, and it's Alexis Billino and

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Speaker 1: Joe Dala Rosa, both from Royal Housewives of Orange County,

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Speaker 1: co hosting this episode today. And we are here today

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Speaker 1: to discuss my recent wedding and also get some juice

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Speaker 1: from Joe about her wedding in twenty twenty two.

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Speaker 2: So it's going to be a good day.

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Speaker 3: Hi Joe, Hello, missus Jansen.

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Speaker 2: It's so funny to hear that I still am not

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Speaker 2: used to it. It makes me sweat a little.

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Speaker 3: I know, I'm still literally in the clouds from your wedding,

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Speaker 3: so me too.

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Speaker 4: You know, first of all, I have so much to

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Speaker 4: talk to you about, so many questions because we haven't

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Speaker 4: really caught up from the wedding since the wedding.

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Speaker 2: But so I want the audience to get to know

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Speaker 2: a little bit about you.

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Speaker 1: And obviously I just said you were married in twenty

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Speaker 1: twenty two and I was at your wedding, and then

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Speaker 1: here we are full circle, right Well, sirch but you

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Speaker 1: know this is I Do Part two and you're not

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Speaker 1: a Part two or because you've this is your first marriage.

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Speaker 1: But we all don't get the first time right like

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Speaker 1: you did. Okay, So just curious. You were married in

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Speaker 1: your forties though, So what was it like experiencing that

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Speaker 1: when a lot of I mean, it's forty is really

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Speaker 1: the new thirty, but people start getting married at twenty

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Speaker 1: and thirty.

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Speaker 2: So what did that feel like for you? Or did

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Speaker 2: not anything?

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Speaker 4: Really?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I think yeah, it was definitely different, like waiting to

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Speaker 3: get married older. I feel like I got to live

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Speaker 3: a lot more life in terms of like my single

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Speaker 3: days and like figuring out who I was without like

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Speaker 3: a significant other from a marriage perspective, right, And also

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Speaker 3: I didn't get it right the first time in the

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Speaker 3: sense of, like you you remember, she's been engaged three

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Speaker 3: times and third time was the time for me?

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Speaker 2: You know what this should be. This should be called

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Speaker 2: I do Part two or engage part three.

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Speaker 5: Literally, and I'll be the expert on that.

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Speaker 1: You're right, you didn't get it right the first time. Okay,

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Speaker 1: well yeah, cuche but yeah, okay, So my question to

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Speaker 1: you is, like you just called me missus Jansen, Like

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Speaker 1: was it weird for you at first? Or I mean,

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Speaker 1: I know you go by great or you know Jala

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Speaker 1: Rosa still some and you have Gray as your legal name,

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Speaker 1: but like, yeah, was.

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Speaker 2: It weird for you?

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Speaker 1: Because right now it's weird when people say, and I

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Speaker 1: still go, it's Alexis Bilino calling to get Miles out

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Speaker 1: of fifth period, you know, and I'm like, I mean Janssen,

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Speaker 1: you know.

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Speaker 5: But yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 3: It definitely took some getting used to. I think in

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Speaker 3: the beginning I wanted to be Dala Rosa Gray because

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Speaker 3: I was like, oh, well, you know, uh, Kim Kardashian

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Speaker 3: did Kim Kardashian West, Not that I'm like a Kim Kardashian,

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Speaker 3: but you know what I mean, Like, there's people with

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Speaker 3: long last names that also added another last name, where

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Speaker 3: like Kardashian Barker, right, not as using the Kardashians as

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Speaker 3: an egg for last name marriage, but yes I did.

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Speaker 5: And I was like, well, if they have long names.

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Speaker 3: You know, two together, then maybe I'll try it too.

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Speaker 3: But then it got a little bit annoying when you're

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Speaker 3: like talking to like banks or like credit card whatever

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Speaker 3: it is, and you're like Dela Rosa Gray and then

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Speaker 3: you're spelling it. So that lasted for about a good

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Speaker 3: six months, and then I got over that really quick.

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Speaker 3: I ended up going back to just Dela Rosa, and

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Speaker 3: I'm still Gray, like legally with all of my like

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Speaker 3: personal stuff banking, credit cards and stuff like that. And

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Speaker 3: it's cute because they go, like, mister and missus Gray,

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Speaker 3: your table's ready at.

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Speaker 5: Like reservations, you know. Yeah, so yeah, what about you?

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Speaker 5: Do you feel like.

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Speaker 1: You it's actually the same or hyphenating or just no,

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Speaker 1: we talked about that, but I feel like I am

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Speaker 1: in the same boat as you, exactly what you just said.

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Speaker 2: I'm sat there going, gosh, that's how I feel too.

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Speaker 2: But like we.

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Speaker 1: Talked about hyphenating it, it was, you know, John's like,

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Speaker 1: but you're you're you're you know, you're a Jansen now,

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Speaker 1: and so I'm like, I get it, You're right I am.

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Speaker 1: And also, so you know, my my career is kind

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Speaker 2: So I'm just trying to figure all of all of

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Speaker 1: But I am legally a Jansen, so everything will be

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Speaker 1: converted to Jansen. I mean, and I did take his

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Speaker 1: last name, but I am in that weird interim. You know,

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Speaker 1: I'm only what four days married, five days married, So no,

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Speaker 1: Tomorrow's a week, so six days married. So so I

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Speaker 1: think I'll get I think it'll get there. It's just

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Speaker 1: gonna take a little bit of time for me to

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Speaker 1: figure out that and navigate that, and maybe I'll get

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Speaker 1: so sick of it being like, no, I am all.

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Speaker 2: Likes this Billino because of my career. People think of

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Speaker 2: me from.

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Speaker 1: That career, and then I'll just you know, go for

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Speaker 1: that part of the time. And Jansen, you know, most

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Speaker 1: people know I'm Jansen.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. There's so much new right now.

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Speaker 1: Have you even recovered from the wedding, Like I was

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Speaker 1: so sore the next day all of.

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Speaker 3: The tequila at your tequila bar that we had, or

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Speaker 3: by we, I mean me.

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Speaker 5: I'm still recovering a little bit. I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 1: That was John's idea because all of his frat brothers,

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Speaker 1: you know, they love they love good tequila's and the

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Speaker 1: tequilas he wanted to serve the hotel the resort couldn't

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Speaker 1: get and so he did this tequila bar. And I

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Speaker 1: only partook in one of them because I'm not a

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Speaker 1: big tequila girl, and so but yeah, it was just

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Speaker 1: a cute idea. It was cute, so I'm sorry that

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Speaker 1: everyone hurt so bad the next day from that, Oh,

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Speaker 1: I mean worth it.

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Speaker 5: That's all I have to say it.

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Speaker 3: Oh wait, I feel like we're already talking about the reception, Like,

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Speaker 3: let's take this thing from the top. First of all,

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Speaker 3: let's talk about your ceremony. Oh my gosh, alexis that

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Speaker 3: ceremony was literally the most romantic thing. First of all,

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Speaker 3: I loved that you had you and John in the middle,

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Speaker 3: everybody around it, so you felt like everybody felt. It

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Speaker 3: was very like an immersive ceremony because it didn't matter

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Speaker 3: where you would sit, like where you were sitting, we

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Speaker 3: could see you. But the sweetest part you walking down

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Speaker 3: the aisle with your kids.

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Speaker 5: How did that feel?

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Speaker 1: Like?

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Speaker 5: What was that moment like?

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Speaker 3: Because the first time you didn't have kids time you

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Speaker 3: were married, So tell me a little bit about that.

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Speaker 1: It was, you know, the whole circle thing was is

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Speaker 1: the circle of love. We decided we wanted to try

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Speaker 1: something new and my wedding planner. I was like, is

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Speaker 1: this gonna work or is it a total flop? Like

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Speaker 1: John and I really wanted it to happen, And she goes,

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Speaker 1: we're trying it, Lex, We're gonna make it work. It's

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Speaker 1: such a creative idea, we're gonna make it work. And

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Speaker 1: so but my, So that's where that came from. And

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Speaker 1: I'm so glad that everyone has said that. I haven't

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Speaker 1: heard one person complain and say I couldn't really see

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Speaker 1: because I kind of thought, well, everyone kind of still

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Speaker 1: saw the back of someone. Someone saw the back of

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Speaker 1: the pastor, someone saw the back of my head, someone

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Speaker 1: saw the back of John's head. But you still do

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Speaker 1: feel because it wasn't as many rows back. You're not

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Speaker 1: you're still, like you said, you're closer.

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Speaker 2: And then for the children, it was John.

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Speaker 1: And I both knew like the only wedding party we

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Speaker 1: if you saw that, his children walked him up with

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Speaker 1: the pastor, his daughter's arm in arm, and the sun

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Speaker 1: with the pastor. And then I got to see this

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Speaker 1: these things I got. They we were up in my

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Speaker 1: holding room getting ready to bring me down and James goes, mom,

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Speaker 1: and I start crying, and everyone's like blowing in my

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Speaker 1: I'm like, oh gosh, this is for like I'm literally

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Speaker 1: going down there right now, and so then get myself together.

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Speaker 1: And then walking down the aisle with my kids was

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Speaker 1: so surreal because Kenna was right in front, you know,

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Speaker 1: I was arm in arm with James and Miles, and

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Speaker 1: it was they were not nervous. I was like, this

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Speaker 1: one hundred and fifty people walking down the aisle with

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Speaker 1: your mom. The first wedding that Miles had ever been

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Speaker 2: I don't know how I kept it together.

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Speaker 1: I kept telling the kids anytime i think I'm going

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Speaker 1: like that's just like that's just something that would like

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Speaker 2: So I read it.

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Speaker 1: I'm not kidding you. It's just the funniest thing I

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Speaker 2: Like what do you know? I was just like, that's

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Speaker 2: the funniest thing that I can think of. So I

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Speaker 2: did that worked?

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Speaker 1: I mean I was like I just get out of

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Speaker 1: And then and then I kind of chuckle and move on.

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Speaker 1: But it was really hard to fight back the tears

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Speaker 1: even walking down the aisle. So I think I had

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Speaker 1: a couple because I remember watching one video someone had

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Speaker 1: and I right where I got to John, I grabbed

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Speaker 1: my kerchief and I like was dabbing my eyes.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, you even saw John get so emotional, like

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Speaker 3: I didn't see it, Yes, when you were walking down

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Speaker 3: like before, like you could tell I got it on video,

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Speaker 3: and like you literally just see like how overwhelmed with

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Speaker 3: emotion he is to see you walking down like up

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Speaker 3: to him, And can we please talk about your dress?

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Speaker 3: I need all the details because I was there. I

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Speaker 3: am in Scottsdale. All your girls we went to get

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Speaker 3: the dress, but when I saw you just you know,

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Speaker 3: because none of us saw that beautiful dress, So I

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Speaker 3: don't even know all the details. Give me the dress details,

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Speaker 3: because you looked like I'm you always look incredible, Alexis, truly,

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Speaker 3: from the bottom of my heart, you were breathtaking. We

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Speaker 3: were all like like we literally had to like take

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Speaker 3: a beat, like, sincerely, I've never seen you look just

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Speaker 3: so stunning and glad that because.

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Speaker 2: That dress took a lot of work.

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Speaker 1: Like Julie from Modern Bride, you met her, we started

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Speaker 1: with one thing, and then I kept calling her and

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Speaker 1: I go I kept going, okay, wait, I need to

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Speaker 1: not thinking everything's fine. I'm like, oh my effing.

439
00:18:01,119 --> 00:18:03,080
Speaker 2: Goodness, you know, I didn't imagine.

440
00:18:03,280 --> 00:18:05,760
Speaker 1: So it's over here, you know, way over here. While

441
00:18:05,760 --> 00:18:07,960
Speaker 1: I'm standing there, it's dripping. And so then they're finally like, okay,

442
00:18:07,960 --> 00:18:09,640
Speaker 1: we're a super glowed again, and we're sticking the band

443
00:18:09,640 --> 00:18:11,320
Speaker 1: aid on, and they got me one that you couldn't

444
00:18:11,320 --> 00:18:14,040
Speaker 1: really see, like a cusskin colored band aid. I had

445
00:18:14,040 --> 00:18:15,560
Speaker 1: to go down the aisle with that, and so the

446
00:18:15,560 --> 00:18:17,600
Speaker 1: whole time I'm just like, please, Jeremy, like, I hope.

447
00:18:17,440 --> 00:18:19,480
Speaker 2: You can photoshop a band aid out of anything.

448
00:18:19,560 --> 00:18:22,440
Speaker 5: You know, Oh my god, you would have honestly never

449
00:18:23,040 --> 00:18:23,520
Speaker 5: have known.

450
00:18:23,760 --> 00:18:25,960
Speaker 1: Well, my adrenaline was so kicked in that I don't

451
00:18:26,000 --> 00:18:28,359
Speaker 1: think I don't think it would have. You know, nothing's

452
00:18:28,400 --> 00:18:30,239
Speaker 1: going to mess with me at that moment, because I'm

453
00:18:30,280 --> 00:18:31,520
Speaker 1: so like, Okay, we're getting ready to do this.

454
00:18:31,600 --> 00:18:33,360
Speaker 2: I'm walking down the aisle to my husband right now.

455
00:18:33,400 --> 00:18:36,280
Speaker 1: So yeah, But isn't it funny that those little hiccups.

456
00:18:36,280 --> 00:18:38,440
Speaker 1: I mean, if I would have put my the perfume

457
00:18:38,480 --> 00:18:40,080
Speaker 1: on two hours before, it would have been such a

458
00:18:40,119 --> 00:18:42,480
Speaker 1: big deal. But it's like, right when they're coming to

459
00:18:42,520 --> 00:18:43,800
Speaker 1: get me, Oh my good.

460
00:18:43,880 --> 00:18:46,399
Speaker 3: Yep, no a million for I didn't even know and

461
00:18:46,440 --> 00:18:48,560
Speaker 3: you could even see it when you're walking, so your fine.

462
00:18:48,680 --> 00:18:52,120
Speaker 3: I also thought it was interesting that you actually had

463
00:18:52,119 --> 00:18:56,959
Speaker 3: a color palette for all of your guests, yes, the neutrals.

464
00:18:57,000 --> 00:19:00,320
Speaker 5: And you literally forced me to not wear black.

465
00:19:00,480 --> 00:19:02,680
Speaker 1: Oh, I know, honey, I thought. I even told John,

466
00:19:02,720 --> 00:19:04,520
Speaker 1: I said, she might not come, Honey, she might not

467
00:19:04,560 --> 00:19:09,639
Speaker 1: show up. So the reason behind that is because my

468
00:19:09,760 --> 00:19:12,960
Speaker 1: last wedding was black tie and everything was everyone was

469
00:19:13,000 --> 00:19:15,000
Speaker 1: in you know, the tuxedos, the dark A lot of

470
00:19:15,000 --> 00:19:17,520
Speaker 1: gowns were dark everything, and it just didn't feel right

471
00:19:17,600 --> 00:19:17,879
Speaker 1: for this.

472
00:19:18,080 --> 00:19:19,440
Speaker 2: I wanted a whimsicult wedding.

473
00:19:19,440 --> 00:19:23,200
Speaker 1: I wanted something that felt totally still glamorous, still top notched, still.

474
00:19:23,119 --> 00:19:25,399
Speaker 2: Touxedo like, but I didn't want it to be.

475
00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:28,159
Speaker 1: I wanted bright and airy or not bright, but like

476
00:19:28,200 --> 00:19:30,840
Speaker 1: earth tones and just everyone to kind of you know,

477
00:19:30,880 --> 00:19:32,480
Speaker 1: because my gown was going to stick out no matter

478
00:19:32,520 --> 00:19:35,600
Speaker 1: what because of all of the amount of crystals it

479
00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:37,119
Speaker 1: had on it, right, So it was like, it doesn't

480
00:19:37,160 --> 00:19:38,639
Speaker 1: I don't care that I don't stand out, and if

481
00:19:38,800 --> 00:19:40,920
Speaker 1: everybody's in tope, I don't care if everyone's in champagne

482
00:19:40,920 --> 00:19:41,440
Speaker 1: and tope.

483
00:19:41,640 --> 00:19:44,360
Speaker 2: So that's kind of where that originated from.

484
00:19:44,440 --> 00:19:47,280
Speaker 1: And so then my designer and wedding planner and myself

485
00:19:47,320 --> 00:19:49,080
Speaker 1: and John all had to come up with which colors

486
00:19:49,080 --> 00:19:51,600
Speaker 1: we thought would look good with the background and all that,

487
00:19:51,640 --> 00:19:54,560
Speaker 1: and I mean it turned out incredible. I loved how

488
00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:58,800
Speaker 1: the audience was. Yeah, they were just so beautiful the audience.

489
00:19:58,880 --> 00:19:59,359
Speaker 5: I love it.

490
00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:01,840
Speaker 1: Okay, this is an audience. We have an audience taking out.

491
00:20:01,880 --> 00:20:02,880
Speaker 1: Those were my guests.

492
00:20:03,840 --> 00:20:07,640
Speaker 3: You know what's so funny is Galina and your best

493
00:20:07,640 --> 00:20:12,800
Speaker 3: friend Mandy and then myself all wearing that really pretty

494
00:20:12,920 --> 00:20:17,520
Speaker 3: sage green. We literally looked like your unofficial bridesmaids. That

495
00:20:17,560 --> 00:20:21,000
Speaker 3: we started calling ourselves as a joke, your unofficial bridesmaids.

496
00:20:21,200 --> 00:20:23,240
Speaker 3: And we hadn't even planned that because there's only so

497
00:20:23,320 --> 00:20:26,400
Speaker 3: many neutral colors you can pick from, right, No, it was.

498
00:20:26,600 --> 00:20:28,439
Speaker 1: I mean our color Collette had like the mob and

499
00:20:28,480 --> 00:20:32,000
Speaker 1: the champagne and the ivory and like the gray and

500
00:20:32,040 --> 00:20:33,840
Speaker 1: all that. Most a lot of the women were in

501
00:20:33,880 --> 00:20:36,280
Speaker 1: a shade of green or a shade of some kind

502
00:20:36,320 --> 00:20:38,960
Speaker 1: of a brownish topish color, which I think was beauty.

503
00:20:39,040 --> 00:20:41,240
Speaker 1: It just worked out beautifully. But yeah, that was so funny.

504
00:20:41,280 --> 00:20:43,040
Speaker 1: And I saw that post one if you posted that,

505
00:20:43,040 --> 00:20:45,679
Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh, that's idd you basically are. I mean,

506
00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:49,000
Speaker 1: you were my You were both at both of my shuindigs.

507
00:20:49,240 --> 00:20:50,920
Speaker 5: All three of us were at everything.

508
00:20:51,240 --> 00:20:52,680
Speaker 2: No, Mandy couldn't make Vegas.

509
00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:55,760
Speaker 1: Mandy couldn't make But you guys kind of are my

510
00:20:55,840 --> 00:20:59,320
Speaker 1: unofficial Like if there were bridesmaids, probably would have been you.

511
00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:02,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, my kids, my kids superseded you.

512
00:21:03,480 --> 00:21:06,679
Speaker 5: Yeah, exactly, We're fine. It's your kids.

513
00:21:08,080 --> 00:21:09,960
Speaker 2: Okay, So I have to ask you something.

514
00:21:09,960 --> 00:21:11,560
Speaker 1: It's kind of and and I don't know if I'm

515
00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:14,040
Speaker 1: stipping off my balance here, but oh, you're fine.

516
00:21:14,280 --> 00:21:16,000
Speaker 2: Okay. Now, I don't think you're going to like this

517
00:21:16,080 --> 00:21:17,520
Speaker 2: very much, but I'm gonna do it there anyway.

518
00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:18,560
Speaker 5: Let me take a set.

519
00:21:19,000 --> 00:21:21,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, do you feel first of all, does it feel different?

520
00:21:21,880 --> 00:21:23,720
Speaker 1: Did it feel different when you were married like once

521
00:21:23,760 --> 00:21:25,840
Speaker 1: you once it officially happened, did you feel like your

522
00:21:25,840 --> 00:21:29,639
Speaker 1: relationship instantly? Was there something different about it, like just

523
00:21:29,720 --> 00:21:30,480
Speaker 1: on another level?

524
00:21:30,760 --> 00:21:32,200
Speaker 5: Yes, a million percent.

525
00:21:32,560 --> 00:21:34,280
Speaker 2: Isn't that weird? Look to me, that's weird. I'm going

526
00:21:34,320 --> 00:21:36,040
Speaker 2: somewhere with this, But isn't that so weird?

527
00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:36,720
Speaker 5: Yes?

528
00:21:36,840 --> 00:21:38,639
Speaker 1: I did not expect that because I've been married before,

529
00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:41,280
Speaker 1: and I think I was so young and maybe it

530
00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:44,160
Speaker 1: just wasn't that because it was wasn't this man.

531
00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:44,840
Speaker 2: But I don't know.

532
00:21:44,960 --> 00:21:47,840
Speaker 1: I just feel the minute we set our vowels and

533
00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:50,879
Speaker 1: and and he God was there, and he blessed our

534
00:21:51,119 --> 00:21:53,440
Speaker 1: union and we left as husband and wife.

535
00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:54,840
Speaker 2: I just walking down that aisle.

536
00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:57,840
Speaker 1: I remember shaking and holding Johnny's hand and feeling like

537
00:21:58,320 --> 00:22:01,160
Speaker 1: this is just like now you're you're You're still mine

538
00:22:01,160 --> 00:22:02,240
Speaker 1: and you've been mine all along, but now.

539
00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:04,919
Speaker 3: It's like a different mind. It's like wow, it's like

540
00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:08,000
Speaker 3: more deeper. Yeah, instant intimate.

541
00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:11,359
Speaker 1: Speaking about that's I'm saying that intimacy is on a

542
00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:12,680
Speaker 1: whole other level even now.

543
00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:13,640
Speaker 2: And you know, Johnny and.

544
00:22:13,560 --> 00:22:15,280
Speaker 1: I do not have a problem with that, but I'm like,

545
00:22:15,359 --> 00:22:17,960
Speaker 1: I have to ask Joe, is it I mean, we're

546
00:22:17,960 --> 00:22:18,840
Speaker 1: both laying in there, We're.

547
00:22:18,720 --> 00:22:21,920
Speaker 2: Like, this is so much different and better, like even better.

548
00:22:22,240 --> 00:22:25,080
Speaker 2: I don't get it. It was it was instant, and

549
00:22:25,200 --> 00:22:27,800
Speaker 2: john like, that's because we went before God. We did

550
00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:30,760
Speaker 2: it before God. So there is something there is something to.

551
00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:33,840
Speaker 1: Say about saying your vows and doing it in a

552
00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:36,119
Speaker 1: you know, because at first, when I met John, I

553
00:22:36,160 --> 00:22:37,760
Speaker 1: told him, but I was in a very broken state,

554
00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:40,000
Speaker 1: but I told him I don't need to get married again.

555
00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:41,520
Speaker 2: I don't want I don't I don't even think I

556
00:22:41,560 --> 00:22:42,359
Speaker 2: want to, you know.

557
00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:45,240
Speaker 1: And then over the progression of our relationship that it

558
00:22:45,280 --> 00:22:47,200
Speaker 1: felt like Okay, now, yes, I do want I want

559
00:22:47,200 --> 00:22:48,679
Speaker 1: to be a chance and I want to be your wife.

560
00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:52,359
Speaker 1: But to go from that to then now being married

561
00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:54,679
Speaker 1: and feeling like it's even such a stronger bond is

562
00:22:54,760 --> 00:22:56,639
Speaker 1: just incredible, incredible.

563
00:22:56,840 --> 00:22:58,360
Speaker 5: No, it's the most beautiful thing.

564
00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:02,440
Speaker 3: And then my question is always like when people say

565
00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:04,800
Speaker 3: their vows and they get married, right and then like

566
00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:08,840
Speaker 3: five ten years later, there's like vowl renewals that people

567
00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:12,439
Speaker 3: sometimes do or like don't do do you think that

568
00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:15,840
Speaker 3: you would you think you guys would do a vow

569
00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:17,520
Speaker 3: renewal or would you or would you not?

570
00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:20,320
Speaker 1: I don't know about that, because you know, Jim and

571
00:23:20,359 --> 00:23:22,200
Speaker 1: I did that right before we divorce. We did it

572
00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:25,120
Speaker 1: actually on David Tutera's TV show. We did the vow

573
00:23:25,160 --> 00:23:29,360
Speaker 1: renewal and that was in twenty sixteen, and we got

574
00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:30,520
Speaker 1: divorced in twenty eighteen.

575
00:23:30,560 --> 00:23:32,080
Speaker 2: And I knew when we did the vow renewal.

576
00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:34,080
Speaker 1: I knew we were hanging on by a thread and

577
00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:35,680
Speaker 1: we were trying everything at that point.

578
00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:36,520
Speaker 2: But haven't you.

579
00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:38,760
Speaker 1: Heard the thing where people say if you get a

580
00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:40,960
Speaker 1: tattoo matching tattoos, that's the kiss of death on a

581
00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:44,400
Speaker 1: marriage or the ring finger tattoo. That's the kiss of death.

582
00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:46,480
Speaker 1: And then also the vow renewal is a kiss of death.

583
00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:49,360
Speaker 1: Do you like Vicky got Vicky? Vicky got her renewal

584
00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:51,679
Speaker 1: done with Dawn, remember, because I was with her on

585
00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:54,040
Speaker 1: during that time, filming with her on that. I wasn't

586
00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:55,480
Speaker 1: at her valw renual, but I was on the show

587
00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:57,600
Speaker 1: with her, I was friends with her, and then they

588
00:23:57,600 --> 00:23:58,760
Speaker 1: got divorced like the next year.

589
00:23:58,880 --> 00:24:01,760
Speaker 3: So does that do those kind of things worry you

590
00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:06,880
Speaker 3: at all? Honestly, I think it's superstitious. I never I've

591
00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:10,520
Speaker 3: never heard the ring thing right. Ever, I obviously know

592
00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:15,720
Speaker 3: people do it personally, not my gig and the vow

593
00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:18,879
Speaker 3: renyal thing, I think it can be sweet, you know,

594
00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:21,640
Speaker 3: and also just an excuse to have another party right

595
00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:23,840
Speaker 3: with like friends like ten years later.

596
00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:26,000
Speaker 5: But I also have friends who are like.

597
00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:29,800
Speaker 3: If you're doing a vow renewal, there's a reason you're

598
00:24:29,840 --> 00:24:32,879
Speaker 3: renewing your vows, Like why renew your valves if everything

599
00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:33,520
Speaker 3: is beautiful?

600
00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:35,920
Speaker 1: Like you know so, But to each their own two,

601
00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:38,840
Speaker 1: I think the I think the reason it ever started.

602
00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:40,720
Speaker 1: In my opinion, I might be totally wrong, but I

603
00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:43,000
Speaker 1: think the reason valve renual's ever even started, is just

604
00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:44,639
Speaker 1: to put the spark back in there because your wedding

605
00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:47,120
Speaker 1: date is so special, and so a decade goes by

606
00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:48,679
Speaker 1: and maybe it's getting a little bit kind of ore,

607
00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:50,080
Speaker 1: and you're like, oh, let's get the feels back again,

608
00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:52,320
Speaker 1: Let's get yeah, do the whole wedding day feel again.

609
00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:54,920
Speaker 1: But I just I feel like I feel like I

610
00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:57,440
Speaker 1: haven't even talked to John about this. Obviously, it's it's

611
00:24:57,480 --> 00:25:00,200
Speaker 1: both of our opinions, but I feel it the point

612
00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:02,119
Speaker 1: I would say probably not, but I am still getting

613
00:25:02,119 --> 00:25:04,800
Speaker 1: off the high of the production we just threw, you know,

614
00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:07,040
Speaker 1: and the whole amazingness and the feeling of all of

615
00:25:07,080 --> 00:25:10,959
Speaker 1: the of how much fun that party was. But I think, also, Joe,

616
00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:14,760
Speaker 1: why can't you just have a birthday party that glamorous

617
00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:16,199
Speaker 1: or do something like that and then, do you know,

618
00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:18,560
Speaker 1: do something you know and another way to get the

619
00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:19,280
Speaker 1: I don't know.

620
00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:21,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, no for right now.

621
00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:23,879
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean not me asking you about valur noiles,

622
00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:25,000
Speaker 5: when you just got married.

623
00:25:25,920 --> 00:25:27,480
Speaker 2: At the point, okay, what do we have me the

624
00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:28,040
Speaker 2: next party?

625
00:25:28,080 --> 00:25:28,159
Speaker 4: No?

626
00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:30,920
Speaker 5: No, no, But honestly, your wedding was perfect.

627
00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:37,199
Speaker 1: Okay, so if well, okay, what did you guys take

628
00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:37,760
Speaker 1: a honeymoon.

629
00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:39,160
Speaker 5: We did?

630
00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:41,399
Speaker 2: You did? And where did you go?

631
00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:43,200
Speaker 5: We went?

632
00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:47,320
Speaker 3: I always forget the name of it because it was

633
00:25:47,359 --> 00:25:48,000
Speaker 3: an island.

634
00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:50,320
Speaker 5: That's all I got. And it starts with me. It's

635
00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:52,800
Speaker 5: not Bermuda there, it's like.

636
00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:55,600
Speaker 2: A really Barbados. Is that even an island? You just

637
00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:57,360
Speaker 2: said be you said a word?

638
00:25:57,840 --> 00:26:00,399
Speaker 5: Maybe I forget the name. It's a smaller island.

639
00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:03,520
Speaker 2: Okay, Well was it fun because you don't even remember

640
00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:03,880
Speaker 2: the name?

641
00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:04,760
Speaker 5: Well, that's the.

642
00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:09,080
Speaker 3: Thing is okay, So yes, I liked it. But it

643
00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:11,199
Speaker 3: was a little bit more you know what it was.

644
00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:13,959
Speaker 3: It was because like the hotel was more of like

645
00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:16,960
Speaker 3: a smaller hotel. It was supposed to be private. They

646
00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:18,840
Speaker 3: gave us like a private dinner on the beach. It

647
00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:24,679
Speaker 3: was like, you know, was no man, I'm like the

648
00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:25,400
Speaker 3: worst wife friend.

649
00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:27,440
Speaker 2: Okay. Anyways, but go back to what it was. Go back.

650
00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:32,800
Speaker 3: So because it was small, like the actual like island

651
00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:37,600
Speaker 3: was smaller. It was a thing where it was the

652
00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:41,440
Speaker 3: staff would be either down by the beach taking care

653
00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:43,440
Speaker 3: because they had like a restaurant on like the beach

654
00:26:43,520 --> 00:26:45,920
Speaker 3: and stuff like that, or they would.

655
00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:46,600
Speaker 5: Like come up.

656
00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:48,679
Speaker 3: So if they were down at the beach. There was

657
00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:52,879
Speaker 3: nobody at like the pool to like be a bartender,

658
00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:55,240
Speaker 3: So it was like that kind of a small It

659
00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:56,760
Speaker 3: was more of like a boutique.

660
00:26:57,200 --> 00:26:59,560
Speaker 1: You're, yeah, you're tasting them more than them being there,

661
00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:02,600
Speaker 1: like yeah, oh my gosh.

662
00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:05,600
Speaker 3: Okay exactly, And so I don't know that. I like

663
00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:09,040
Speaker 3: more of like an inclusive like restaurants. There's things to

664
00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:14,359
Speaker 3: do in the actual like hotel versus lat you we

665
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:15,760
Speaker 3: kind of had to go out.

666
00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:20,280
Speaker 1: Did you get like this ups like sadness after the wedding,

667
00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:22,760
Speaker 1: like oh my gosh, like the relief of like being done,

668
00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:24,120
Speaker 1: but at the same time like kind of like when

669
00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:24,920
Speaker 1: Christmas is over?

670
00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:26,760
Speaker 2: Did you get that that that?

671
00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:28,880
Speaker 1: Like I remember because John and I went to Surf

672
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:32,200
Speaker 1: and Sand for two days. We stayed at the venue

673
00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:34,680
Speaker 1: for two days and then we uh went to Surf

674
00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:36,040
Speaker 1: and Sand for two days to be on the water

675
00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:37,639
Speaker 1: and just basically sleep.

676
00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:40,960
Speaker 2: I mean, we were so frick and tired, but we

677
00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:41,679
Speaker 2: ordered room.

678
00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:43,159
Speaker 1: Service and we didn't even go Yeah, we went to

679
00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:44,639
Speaker 1: dinner one night in the hotel, but we did not

680
00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:47,120
Speaker 1: leave the hotel the Surf and Sand. But anyways, that's

681
00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:49,680
Speaker 1: my absolute favorite place by the way here in town

682
00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:53,960
Speaker 1: like staycation place. But anyway, I remember having this like sadness,

683
00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:56,959
Speaker 1: like a sadness and being like, wow, now it's all done.

684
00:27:57,040 --> 00:27:59,320
Speaker 2: But I had this excitement because now I'm missus Jansen.

685
00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:03,000
Speaker 1: But it was like wow, like I've been spending sleepless,

686
00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:06,280
Speaker 1: sleepless nights planning it and then it's all over that quickly.

687
00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:08,840
Speaker 3: Well that's what I was gonna That's what I was

688
00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:12,280
Speaker 3: wondering for you was how you were feeling about the

689
00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:14,959
Speaker 3: wedding being over too, because I also went through that.

690
00:28:15,600 --> 00:28:18,320
Speaker 5: Because you go from you're.

691
00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:21,400
Speaker 3: So stressed out you're doing journaline yah of like all

692
00:28:21,440 --> 00:28:23,359
Speaker 3: the things and you can't keep everything straight.

693
00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:24,960
Speaker 1: You have all these things you have to do to

694
00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:27,040
Speaker 1: where it's like, I mean, believe me, we're still busy.

695
00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:28,639
Speaker 2: We have like three careers and all that, all these

696
00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:29,040
Speaker 2: things going.

697
00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:30,840
Speaker 1: But it's like I'm just like, Okay, well I don't

698
00:28:30,840 --> 00:28:31,840
Speaker 1: have to get up in the middle of the night and

699
00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:33,600
Speaker 1: make notes about the wedding now, because I used to

700
00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:34,760
Speaker 1: like wake up in the middle of the night and

701
00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:36,320
Speaker 1: make notes right like, oh my gosh, I had to

702
00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:37,560
Speaker 1: do this first thing in the morning, and.

703
00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:38,960
Speaker 2: So I wouldn't sleep much at all.

704
00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:42,080
Speaker 1: You know, but yeah, I was definitely sad, definitely had

705
00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:42,680
Speaker 1: a sadness.

706
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:43,200
Speaker 5: Yeah.

707
00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:45,360
Speaker 1: I mean now I'm just like, okay, I'm glad I

708
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:47,680
Speaker 1: get my life back. But there was that even being

709
00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:49,680
Speaker 1: at a beautiful resort like the Servant Sanda, I was

710
00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:50,960
Speaker 1: just like, ugh, yeah.

711
00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:53,120
Speaker 2: You know, kind of bummed. And then I look over

712
00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:55,040
Speaker 2: at my head and I'm like, Okay, I'm not bummed anymore.

713
00:28:57,880 --> 00:28:57,960
Speaker 4: No.

714
00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:01,280
Speaker 3: I mean you I feel like in even like right

715
00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:05,720
Speaker 3: before the wedding day, You're like I remember just feeling like,

716
00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:08,520
Speaker 3: oh my gosh, like I'm so excited to Mary Taran,

717
00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:10,800
Speaker 3: but I just want the wedding day to be here

718
00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:14,400
Speaker 3: already because I'm so tired of like stressing about the

719
00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:15,200
Speaker 3: planning of it.

720
00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:18,120
Speaker 5: But then once it happened, then.

721
00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:20,880
Speaker 3: You kind of like miss the planning of it, but

722
00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:24,239
Speaker 3: forget how stressed out you were, you know. But like

723
00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:27,200
Speaker 3: also it was just it was such a special like

724
00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:32,240
Speaker 3: season for me that you know, I also really hold

725
00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:33,280
Speaker 3: that feeling like.

726
00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:36,000
Speaker 5: In my heart of like yeah, I'm so precious you know.

727
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:38,320
Speaker 2: His engagement to you. Remind me if this is right

728
00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:38,600
Speaker 2: or not.

729
00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:40,720
Speaker 1: But because this is why I loved your wedding so much,

730
00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:42,600
Speaker 1: is because he is a musician, and he does he

731
00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:45,320
Speaker 1: brings this element of that too wherever he goes. But

732
00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:48,480
Speaker 1: wasn't his engagement to you. He was saying you a

733
00:29:48,520 --> 00:29:50,840
Speaker 1: song and got down on one knee. Yeah that song, Yeah,

734
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:53,040
Speaker 1: I remember now because it was that was twenty twenty one.

735
00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:55,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, right in the middle of COVID.

736
00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:59,480
Speaker 3: And then I know he wrote the song Become My Wife, which,

737
00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:01,520
Speaker 3: by the way, I don't even know how like to

738
00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:07,160
Speaker 3: write a song and perform a song before you're about

739
00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:08,560
Speaker 3: to propose.

740
00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:13,200
Speaker 1: My voice, My voice would be so shaky, you know,

741
00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:14,000
Speaker 1: like nerves.

742
00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:17,560
Speaker 5: I was literally stunned.

743
00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:20,160
Speaker 3: And the fact that like at the time I was

744
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:23,800
Speaker 3: doing YouTube and he knew to like document that entire

745
00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:27,520
Speaker 3: like surprise proposal and like give me the video of

746
00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:29,520
Speaker 3: like and you can have this for your YouTube channel

747
00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:31,880
Speaker 3: now and now we can look back at like our

748
00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:35,080
Speaker 3: proposal story and always have that as like it's kind

749
00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:37,360
Speaker 3: of like a home video, if you will, right, like

750
00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:38,680
Speaker 3: all of these memories.

751
00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:41,600
Speaker 1: But were you surprised? You were you weren't expecting it

752
00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:42,560
Speaker 1: right at that moment.

753
00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:45,920
Speaker 5: Yes, I've never been surprised like that and so misled.

754
00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:50,000
Speaker 3: Okay, awesome, that's the best way to do, Yeah, a

755
00:30:50,080 --> 00:30:50,840
Speaker 3: million percent.

756
00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:03,720
Speaker 5: Were you surprised when John proposed?

757
00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:06,440
Speaker 1: Well, I knew it was coming because we picked out

758
00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:10,160
Speaker 1: the ring together. But it's funny because he was doing

759
00:31:10,160 --> 00:31:12,480
Speaker 1: all these things to throw me off. Like he flew

760
00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:14,480
Speaker 1: us to London to meet his brother and I'm like, oh,

761
00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:17,280
Speaker 1: this is where he's proposing, right, And then we did

762
00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:20,840
Speaker 1: another little trip somewhere, and then he booked Santa Sedro Ranch,

763
00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:22,640
Speaker 1: and so I'm just like at this point, I'm like,

764
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:26,000
Speaker 1: he's just you know, I'm like, he's probably not even

765
00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:27,480
Speaker 1: gonna do it at one of these places we go.

766
00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:28,880
Speaker 1: He's just going to go down in the kitchen on

767
00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:31,560
Speaker 1: one knee and propose when I'm cooking dinner. But anyway,

768
00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:33,800
Speaker 1: it was Santa Ceedra Ranch. So but I was because

769
00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:35,320
Speaker 1: I was It's funny. He went to the bathroom and

770
00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:36,920
Speaker 1: I cannot tell he was nervous at all. He like

771
00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:40,400
Speaker 1: kicked it off without a hitch and and so I'm

772
00:31:40,600 --> 00:31:42,640
Speaker 1: you know, we've just finished dinner, you know where When

773
00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:43,280
Speaker 1: I went back.

774
00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:45,560
Speaker 2: To think about it, though, they made a mistake because.

775
00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:47,760
Speaker 1: Right when we sat down, the guy brought a bottle

776
00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:51,640
Speaker 1: of champagne like boob or something, and it was like congratulations,

777
00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:53,320
Speaker 1: and then John was like what.

778
00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:55,560
Speaker 2: I was like what. And then so then he walked away,

779
00:31:55,600 --> 00:31:57,320
Speaker 2: and I was just like, okay, that's weird. But then

780
00:31:57,360 --> 00:31:58,640
Speaker 2: we ate dinner, and now.

781
00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:00,240
Speaker 1: Looking back, I was like, oh my god, gosh, I

782
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:02,400
Speaker 1: should have that should have been like this the thing

783
00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:05,040
Speaker 1: that so then but John played off so cool because

784
00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:06,640
Speaker 1: he was just like, wrong table, I think, and the

785
00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:08,720
Speaker 1: guy guy guy looks at the like the manager, and

786
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:09,880
Speaker 1: the manager's like, yeah, rock table.

787
00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:11,160
Speaker 2: He's like, oh, it's over here, it's over here. So

788
00:32:11,200 --> 00:32:12,959
Speaker 2: then he he played it off all two, you know.

789
00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:15,640
Speaker 2: But then John went to the bathroom. So the meal

790
00:32:15,720 --> 00:32:16,239
Speaker 2: is over right.

791
00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:18,800
Speaker 1: John went to the bathroom and I said no to dessert.

792
00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:21,360
Speaker 1: He said no to dessert. And then he comes back

793
00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:23,880
Speaker 1: and he sits down and he's got tears in his eyes.

794
00:32:23,920 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 2: And I'm on the phone with Miles. Miles are just

795
00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:26,880
Speaker 2: or one of the one of the kids. It just

796
00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:28,080
Speaker 2: called me about something and was.

797
00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:30,480
Speaker 1: There was some been needing done here at home, and

798
00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:33,120
Speaker 1: so I'm like, not even in the mindset of romanticness

799
00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:33,320
Speaker 1: at all.

800
00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:36,080
Speaker 2: Right now, I'm on kid mom mode, right, So I'm

801
00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:36,920
Speaker 2: looking down at the phone.

802
00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:38,320
Speaker 1: I look up and I'm like okay, my love you

803
00:32:38,360 --> 00:32:39,560
Speaker 1: byte and I click and he's got tears in his

804
00:32:39,560 --> 00:32:41,600
Speaker 1: eyes and I'm like, are you okay?

805
00:32:41,560 --> 00:32:43,720
Speaker 2: Yeah to me? Did you eat something wrong or let's

806
00:32:43,760 --> 00:32:45,400
Speaker 2: go on, and he's just like he's like, you know,

807
00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:47,360
Speaker 2: I just I just can't.

808
00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:49,720
Speaker 1: And he's he started talking about our relationship and I

809
00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:52,080
Speaker 1: was like, oh, honey, I love you too, and.

810
00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:53,960
Speaker 2: Then he he goes, you know what, I can't. I

811
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:55,320
Speaker 2: can't hold it anymore, and he had.

812
00:32:55,400 --> 00:32:56,840
Speaker 1: He had then got in the box and put it

813
00:32:56,840 --> 00:32:58,280
Speaker 1: in his pocket when he went to the bathroom, and

814
00:32:58,280 --> 00:32:59,640
Speaker 1: so then he got you know, pulled it out and

815
00:32:59,720 --> 00:33:00,400
Speaker 1: did the thing.

816
00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:02,520
Speaker 2: But yeah, it was so I was shocked.

817
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:05,200
Speaker 3: That's so sweet. I'm surprised you didn't see the box

818
00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:05,960
Speaker 3: in his pants.

819
00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:08,680
Speaker 1: Well that the good part about it was he was walking,

820
00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:10,440
Speaker 1: so my back was to him. So he's coming this

821
00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:12,920
Speaker 1: way from the bathroom. But I had been on my

822
00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:14,680
Speaker 1: head was down, I was talking to the kids, so

823
00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:16,280
Speaker 1: I wasn't even looking at him when he sat down.

824
00:33:16,280 --> 00:33:17,880
Speaker 1: I wasn't paying any attention to him at all. He

825
00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:19,200
Speaker 1: said he was kind of covering it, like the way

826
00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:20,520
Speaker 1: he was walking, he was trying to cover it up.

827
00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:22,520
Speaker 1: But like I was just and then I look up

828
00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:23,600
Speaker 1: at him, and that's when I'm.

829
00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:25,360
Speaker 5: Like, Okay, what just happened to the bathroom?

830
00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:29,520
Speaker 3: You know, like why are you walking out of the

831
00:33:29,520 --> 00:33:30,640
Speaker 3: bathroom crying?

832
00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:32,080
Speaker 2: Who was in there?

833
00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:34,840
Speaker 5: I love that so much.

834
00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:38,680
Speaker 3: Honestly, First of all, having known you for over ten

835
00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:44,880
Speaker 3: years now, right, I can truly say I've never seen

836
00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:45,440
Speaker 3: you happier.

837
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:47,600
Speaker 1: I feel like that's so cliche though. I feel like

838
00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:49,320
Speaker 1: everybody says that when they see someone in love.

839
00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:52,680
Speaker 6: Really yeah, but you really do see a different kind

840
00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:55,640
Speaker 6: of happiness to me, I truly because I've seen you

841
00:33:56,720 --> 00:34:00,280
Speaker 6: with other people or like heard you talk about like

842
00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:02,600
Speaker 6: if you're dating, right, if you're dating someone.

843
00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:04,240
Speaker 1: But you also saw me what you also saw me

844
00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:07,560
Speaker 1: in my marriage and saw me with my ex before John,

845
00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:11,120
Speaker 1: So yeah, and you think this is a different happiness.

846
00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:14,880
Speaker 3: It's literally night and day, there's no question, Like it's

847
00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:18,399
Speaker 3: on your face. And also in the way that John

848
00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:22,080
Speaker 3: treats you, right, like even when before you guys had

849
00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:27,200
Speaker 3: ever gotten engaged, like he always just took care of

850
00:34:27,239 --> 00:34:30,759
Speaker 3: you with the little things like you know, opening your

851
00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:34,319
Speaker 3: car door, like putting out his hands so you could

852
00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:38,239
Speaker 3: take it to step you down from the car, like

853
00:34:38,239 --> 00:34:42,680
Speaker 3: like that's so rare these days. Chivalry truly sometimes is

854
00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:49,520
Speaker 3: dead right sometimes, and it just like I just I

855
00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:53,720
Speaker 3: thought it was so so sweet that he has always

856
00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:57,759
Speaker 3: taken care of you like that, and I, as one

857
00:34:57,800 --> 00:35:00,360
Speaker 3: of your very good friends, like that's all that you want.

858
00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:03,239
Speaker 1: I agree, you know, I agree, and every woman just

859
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:05,359
Speaker 1: needs to be treated this way, and I just want

860
00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:08,200
Speaker 1: to be sure to like I just you know, I

861
00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:11,120
Speaker 1: point those things out to my kids too, and I'm like, see,

862
00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:13,560
Speaker 1: that's how you should be treated, Like that's that's the

863
00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:15,719
Speaker 1: way a man is supposed to treat a woman. And

864
00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:17,960
Speaker 1: also you know, he points it out about me, like

865
00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:19,840
Speaker 1: look at your look at your mom or look at Alexus,

866
00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:22,000
Speaker 1: like like that's what that's what we should be doing

867
00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:24,360
Speaker 1: for each other, you know, because I think that, you know,

868
00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:27,320
Speaker 1: and especially with teenagers, they can get in bad relationships

869
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:31,440
Speaker 1: and and and healthy things, and you know, I just

870
00:35:31,760 --> 00:35:34,640
Speaker 1: I really want I'm so happy that I get to

871
00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:38,239
Speaker 1: emulate a healthy relationship with them, you know, with them

872
00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:38,759
Speaker 1: watching it.

873
00:35:38,840 --> 00:35:39,719
Speaker 2: So yeah.

874
00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:44,120
Speaker 1: And you know, though my ex did did send the

875
00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:47,200
Speaker 1: day before the wedding, did say wishing you, like, you know,

876
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:49,399
Speaker 1: a good day tomorrow or something like that.

877
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 3: I was actually going to ask you about that if

878
00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:55,600
Speaker 3: he had sent you like a message or a congratulations,

879
00:35:55,600 --> 00:35:57,919
Speaker 3: because I know I got that when I married Teraryn

880
00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:02,719
Speaker 3: from people, Yeah I did, but so he did say, yeah, congratula.

881
00:36:02,719 --> 00:36:05,919
Speaker 1: That was my only ex though there was only one. Yeah,

882
00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:08,600
Speaker 1: but I haven't had any others at this moment. You

883
00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:09,360
Speaker 1: had some from.

884
00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:14,680
Speaker 4: Several exes, yes, well that was nice of them, But yeah,

885
00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:17,399
Speaker 4: I had a few that just you know, because as

886
00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:19,759
Speaker 4: a content creator, I'm posting my life all the time.

887
00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:22,040
Speaker 5: So yeah, they saw videos.

888
00:36:21,640 --> 00:36:25,120
Speaker 3: And content and we're just like congratulations, you know. And

889
00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:30,160
Speaker 3: also that would remind me to like unfollow them Instagram.

890
00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:32,640
Speaker 2: I don't think you have to do that.

891
00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:34,280
Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, I'm kidding.

892
00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:36,319
Speaker 1: I'm friends with all my exes. Like, I don't have

893
00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:38,560
Speaker 1: any bad blood with any of them. It's like I

894
00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:41,000
Speaker 1: just think that it's we're old enough now. I mean,

895
00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:44,120
Speaker 1: it's just I want to be kind to them and say, hey,

896
00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:45,239
Speaker 1: I want to see about.

897
00:36:45,480 --> 00:36:47,640
Speaker 5: No, a million percent, I'm actually good with.

898
00:36:48,560 --> 00:36:53,800
Speaker 3: Well all of my exes except for one.

899
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:57,680
Speaker 2: We can't. We both know we're not going to go

900
00:36:57,719 --> 00:36:59,040
Speaker 2: there though, right, we're not going there.

901
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:01,880
Speaker 5: Yeah I love that.

902
00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:06,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, So then now now what are like next steps?

903
00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:09,680
Speaker 3: What are what are the newlyweds doing now? Like, do

904
00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:12,359
Speaker 3: you have any plans obviously? Did you tell me you're

905
00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:13,400
Speaker 3: going on honeymoon?

906
00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:15,160
Speaker 2: No, we did a pre honeymoon. We did.

907
00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:17,520
Speaker 1: We did the honeymoon before the wedding because the wedding

908
00:37:17,560 --> 00:37:20,400
Speaker 1: was in October. And then comes his birthday, my twins

909
00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:24,879
Speaker 1: eighteenth birthday, Thanksgiving, Christmas, and I'm just like John, if

910
00:37:24,880 --> 00:37:26,520
Speaker 1: we if we left for any period of time and

911
00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:28,000
Speaker 1: I still had to get the house back in order

912
00:37:28,000 --> 00:37:30,440
Speaker 1: from the big barbecue or the big you know, chef

913
00:37:30,440 --> 00:37:32,680
Speaker 1: brunch the next day I had, there's just so much

914
00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:33,120
Speaker 1: I'm like.

915
00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:34,759
Speaker 2: I needed to not do anything after.

916
00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:38,120
Speaker 1: We'll put that off till I'm thinking maybe March or

917
00:37:38,160 --> 00:37:40,360
Speaker 1: April or even May. But I want to go to

918
00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:43,560
Speaker 1: like Bora Bora or Maldive, somewhere more like you know,

919
00:37:43,760 --> 00:37:46,239
Speaker 1: a tropical island that neither John or I have been to.

920
00:37:46,440 --> 00:37:48,080
Speaker 1: So I don't know when the best weather for that.

921
00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:50,520
Speaker 1: We haven't even started planning it yet. But yeah, So

922
00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:52,799
Speaker 1: for me, the holidays are all about like I am

923
00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:54,719
Speaker 1: the one that wants to put the tree up and

924
00:37:54,719 --> 00:37:56,480
Speaker 1: do all of that, So I want to host and

925
00:37:56,520 --> 00:37:59,279
Speaker 1: that's so, it's like it just seemed stressful to me

926
00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:02,239
Speaker 1: after that big of a you know event, to then

927
00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:05,560
Speaker 1: think about leaving again for ten days and worrying about

928
00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:06,640
Speaker 1: the kids and leaving them.

929
00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:08,279
Speaker 2: We are, Oh, this is funny though.

930
00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:12,239
Speaker 1: So about two months ago, after John knew I didn't

931
00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:14,759
Speaker 1: want to take a honeymoon okay right away, and he

932
00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:16,120
Speaker 1: wouldn't have been as stressed as I would.

933
00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:17,640
Speaker 2: It's more it's more falls on my shoulders.

934
00:38:17,680 --> 00:38:19,719
Speaker 1: I think he would have been okay, but I just

935
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:21,640
Speaker 1: didn't the one that it's life's too busy right now.

936
00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:22,080
Speaker 4: But he.

937
00:38:23,719 --> 00:38:24,600
Speaker 2: I get a.

938
00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:26,600
Speaker 1: Note from maybe it was four three months ago, but

939
00:38:26,680 --> 00:38:28,640
Speaker 1: I get a you know, a message that my high

940
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:31,800
Speaker 1: school reunion is going to be October. In October, okay,

941
00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:32,600
Speaker 1: so it's coming up.

942
00:38:33,160 --> 00:38:35,680
Speaker 2: So I'm leaving. We're leaving for five.

943
00:38:35,640 --> 00:38:38,040
Speaker 1: Days, and I'm like, sorry, honey, your your high your

944
00:38:38,440 --> 00:38:39,920
Speaker 1: honeymoon's my high school reunion.

945
00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:41,520
Speaker 2: And he's like, don't you kind of want to go

946
00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:42,920
Speaker 2: do that on your own? Aren't you gonna Are you

947
00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:45,600
Speaker 2: gonna enjoy your friends more on your own? And I'm like, nope,

948
00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:46,520
Speaker 2: you're coming with me?

949
00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:47,920
Speaker 5: Are you taking them with you?

950
00:38:49,560 --> 00:38:51,320
Speaker 1: But the good part about that is he's going to

951
00:38:51,360 --> 00:38:53,680
Speaker 1: see for John, he's going to see my family farm

952
00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:56,000
Speaker 1: and and we'll go visit that side of my family.

953
00:38:56,120 --> 00:38:58,640
Speaker 1: And then Galena's going to come meet us for a day.

954
00:38:59,760 --> 00:39:01,440
Speaker 1: She's in Kansas City, so she's gonna meet us a day,

955
00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:03,160
Speaker 1: and then we're going to go visit my my other

956
00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:06,400
Speaker 1: uncle who was who couldn't travel, and and and John's

957
00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:08,200
Speaker 1: going to get to meet him because they're very important

958
00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:09,560
Speaker 1: parts of my life. So it's kind of like a

959
00:39:09,840 --> 00:39:11,880
Speaker 1: it's kind of like a family reunion after the wedding

960
00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:12,920
Speaker 1: for people that couldn't go.

961
00:39:13,040 --> 00:39:16,520
Speaker 2: And then yeah, and the family and the and.

962
00:39:16,400 --> 00:39:19,040
Speaker 1: The whole high.

963
00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:20,840
Speaker 2: School reunion thing. Can you believe I can say I

964
00:39:20,840 --> 00:39:24,120
Speaker 2: have a thirtieth high school reunion? Oh mg?

965
00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:28,400
Speaker 5: I one million percent cannot.

966
00:39:28,719 --> 00:39:31,200
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm like, guys, I'm texting the senior, you know,

967
00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:33,200
Speaker 1: the class president. I'm like, I'm like, are you sure

968
00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:34,200
Speaker 1: it's not our twenty fifth?

969
00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:36,080
Speaker 2: Are you sure you did the math? Right there?

970
00:39:38,160 --> 00:39:40,560
Speaker 5: It's crazy. Listen forever twenty seven?

971
00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:43,799
Speaker 2: That's oh girlfriend, That's what I say all the time. Yeah,

972
00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:47,279
Speaker 2: I still feel twenty seven in my heart, like.

973
00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:52,880
Speaker 3: Same wherever that Yeah, a million percent so well.

974
00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:59,200
Speaker 1: I think this has been absolutely fabulous, and getting back

975
00:39:59,239 --> 00:40:01,279
Speaker 1: to like getting to hear more about your wedding because

976
00:40:01,280 --> 00:40:03,120
Speaker 1: it kind of took us on a little memory lane

977
00:40:03,280 --> 00:40:05,319
Speaker 1: venture and the fact that we were both at each

978
00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:05,920
Speaker 1: other's weddings.

979
00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:07,800
Speaker 2: Now, I hope this is like forever our last.

980
00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:10,799
Speaker 1: Like you know, I'm praying because Lord knows, my track

981
00:40:10,840 --> 00:40:12,160
Speaker 1: record has not been great.

982
00:40:12,200 --> 00:40:14,239
Speaker 2: But I'm kidding, I am.

983
00:40:14,239 --> 00:40:15,560
Speaker 5: I'm very confident.

984
00:40:16,080 --> 00:40:18,440
Speaker 2: I feel good. I feel good that it's my last.

985
00:40:18,600 --> 00:40:22,960
Speaker 1: But and as you know, you know, I'm wishing you

986
00:40:23,000 --> 00:40:24,520
Speaker 1: with the rest of your day to be a very

987
00:40:24,520 --> 00:40:26,560
Speaker 1: blessed and happy day. But I'm also a kind of

988
00:40:26,560 --> 00:40:29,080
Speaker 1: a reminder to everyone never give up on finding your

989
00:40:29,120 --> 00:40:31,520
Speaker 1: true love, because it can happen for me again.

990
00:40:32,200 --> 00:40:34,040
Speaker 2: You know, it's possible for anyone.

991
00:40:36,239 --> 00:40:39,560
Speaker 1: All right, Well, for the for the listeners out there,

992
00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:41,799
Speaker 1: if you're ready to fall in love again and need

993
00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:45,440
Speaker 1: some help navigating chapter two, call us or email us

994
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