1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:03,000 Speaker 1: Brought to you by the reinvented two thousand twelve Camray. 2 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:10,000 Speaker 1: It's ready. Are you welcome to Stuff Mom Never told you? 3 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:17,439 Speaker 1: From housetop works dot com. Hey there, and welcome to 4 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:21,079 Speaker 1: the podcast. Is this Kristen and this is Molly, So Molly. 5 00:00:21,120 --> 00:00:26,880 Speaker 1: Today we're talking about women's magazines and guilty pleasure, guilty Pleasures, 6 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:33,680 Speaker 1: and recently, the magazine Glamour received a ton of reader 7 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 1: mail and national spotlight for this photo of a model 8 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:44,280 Speaker 1: plus size model named Lizzie Miller, size twelve, and it 9 00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:46,520 Speaker 1: was kind of a sideshot of her. She was sitting down, 10 00:00:46,600 --> 00:00:51,839 Speaker 1: she was naked in the nude, the buff, and it 11 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:57,080 Speaker 1: showed something that they're now referring to as her belly flap. Now, 12 00:00:57,080 --> 00:00:59,240 Speaker 1: first of all, I kind of say, size twelve model 13 00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:01,320 Speaker 1: does not sound like a plus size, doesn't sound plus size. 14 00:01:01,320 --> 00:01:03,520 Speaker 1: But we'll get to that. We'll get to that later on, Okay, 15 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:06,000 Speaker 1: in the episode. But yeah, there was this huge, you know, 16 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:10,160 Speaker 1: outpouring of praise for Glamour for showing a real, real 17 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:14,000 Speaker 1: woman's body with actual not They didn't photoshop out her 18 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:18,120 Speaker 1: belly flap. She actually had a little little thigh thigh 19 00:01:18,120 --> 00:01:23,039 Speaker 1: fat um and uh, you know, just it reflected more 20 00:01:23,080 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 1: of a normal woman's body than say, you know, Kate Moss. Yeah, 21 00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:32,120 Speaker 1: so now's the outpouring positive? Oh yeah, it was very positive. 22 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:34,880 Speaker 1: They were saying, oh, thank you so much, Glamour, if actually, 23 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:37,240 Speaker 1: you know, showing a real woman's body, we can actually 24 00:01:37,240 --> 00:01:39,920 Speaker 1: relate to this. And Lizzie Miller got all this wonderful 25 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:43,160 Speaker 1: at tension, and Vogue is also promised to like start 26 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 1: showing more quote unquote plus size models and they're um 27 00:01:47,280 --> 00:01:51,200 Speaker 1: in their magazines as well. But then, I mean there's 28 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:53,120 Speaker 1: this whole question though. I mean, if there was such 29 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:58,720 Speaker 1: a huge outpouring of love for a single photo in Glamour, 30 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:02,600 Speaker 1: what does that about women's magazines and where we are today? 31 00:02:02,640 --> 00:02:04,040 Speaker 1: I mean, if it was such a breath of fresh 32 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:07,600 Speaker 1: air to actually see some semblance of a real woman's body, 33 00:02:08,520 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 1: what kind of messages are we getting from these magazines? Exactly? 34 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 1: And the reason I asked you what the outpoint was 35 00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:16,800 Speaker 1: like because I remember, um, you know that my bible 36 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 1: growing up with seventeen magazine. I mean, it wasn't my 37 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 1: real Bible. I don't want to offend religious people, but 38 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:23,239 Speaker 1: as a young girl trying to make my way in 39 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:26,639 Speaker 1: the world. I read seventeen magazines. Remember one time they 40 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:28,840 Speaker 1: put in kind of this chubby model. Not I mean, 41 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:31,120 Speaker 1: she wasn't chubby, she looked real. But they got just 42 00:02:31,160 --> 00:02:34,800 Speaker 1: as many letters, they said, from people who didn't like 43 00:02:34,919 --> 00:02:37,120 Speaker 1: seeing someone like that in a magazine as they different 44 00:02:37,120 --> 00:02:38,920 Speaker 1: people who are like, yes, thank you someone who looks 45 00:02:38,960 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 1: like me. So it's almost like we want these standards 46 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:44,799 Speaker 1: of perfection in the magazines, but then as soon as 47 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:47,640 Speaker 1: you know something deviates from the norm of the magazine, 48 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 1: were either so relieved or so kind of almost put 49 00:02:51,080 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 1: off by it. Emily, I would agree that it seems 50 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:57,720 Speaker 1: like a lot of women's magazines do portray this unattainable 51 00:02:57,760 --> 00:03:01,680 Speaker 1: ideal of women's beauty. You know, that's gonna keep us 52 00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 1: buying all of those products that their advertisers are hawking. 53 00:03:04,480 --> 00:03:06,960 Speaker 1: And in general, you can you can break down most 54 00:03:06,960 --> 00:03:12,639 Speaker 1: women's magazines into these main categories. You've got sex, relationships, fashion, beauty, 55 00:03:12,960 --> 00:03:15,320 Speaker 1: food and health, and a lot of times food and 56 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:18,440 Speaker 1: health kind of go together, as we'll talk about later on. 57 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:21,120 Speaker 1: But how how are all of these topics really shaping 58 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:26,360 Speaker 1: um our ideas about ourselves as women? Because if we 59 00:03:26,440 --> 00:03:30,400 Speaker 1: go back to the olden days of women's magazines. They 60 00:03:30,440 --> 00:03:32,480 Speaker 1: were far site different than the ones that we have today, 61 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:35,560 Speaker 1: right right, I mean they were still driven by women's 62 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:39,200 Speaker 1: ability to buy things. I mean, instead of advertising the 63 00:03:39,240 --> 00:03:42,760 Speaker 1: latest lipstick, you might get the latest cool lace pattern 64 00:03:42,920 --> 00:03:46,920 Speaker 1: from the lace taste makers. You still might see the 65 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:50,280 Speaker 1: most fashionable hairstyles of the day, but they're probably trying 66 00:03:50,320 --> 00:03:53,440 Speaker 1: to sell you something you could use, you know, around 67 00:03:53,440 --> 00:03:56,600 Speaker 1: the house or on the farm, than on your face. 68 00:03:57,680 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 1: And what I also liked to step back on the day. 69 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:03,680 Speaker 1: We're talking like late eighteen hundreds, early nineteen hundreds, women's 70 00:04:03,680 --> 00:04:07,240 Speaker 1: magazines had a ton of fiction and plays in them 71 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:09,880 Speaker 1: because they were like this main source of entertainment for women. 72 00:04:09,960 --> 00:04:13,600 Speaker 1: So you would get your Lady mag and you would 73 00:04:13,640 --> 00:04:14,840 Speaker 1: open it up and you would read it to your 74 00:04:14,960 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 1: entire family, and that would be your entertainment for the month. Well, 75 00:04:17,520 --> 00:04:19,599 Speaker 1: do you want to hear some titles of these old 76 00:04:19,640 --> 00:04:22,440 Speaker 1: school and I think everyone will appreciate these. I pulled 77 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:25,880 Speaker 1: out some of my favorites. Polite Companion for the fair 78 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:30,679 Speaker 1: Sex Toilet, a weekly collection of literary pieces principally designed 79 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:34,640 Speaker 1: for the amusement of ladies. This one I found found 80 00:04:34,640 --> 00:04:40,200 Speaker 1: the preevious Lady's Afternoon Visitor, and then the Mother's Magazine, 81 00:04:40,279 --> 00:04:43,480 Speaker 1: which there's still another's magazine. But one thing that was 82 00:04:43,520 --> 00:04:48,680 Speaker 1: interesting about these older magazines were that pro suffrage women 83 00:04:49,040 --> 00:04:52,320 Speaker 1: ended up using and starting their own magazines to push 84 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:56,360 Speaker 1: for these earliest kind of feminist ideas too. Yeah, the 85 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 1: journal started by Lucy Stone, who you remember, remember from 86 00:04:58,920 --> 00:05:01,440 Speaker 1: our maiden name pot past Um was sort of the 87 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:05,520 Speaker 1: one of the big pushers of making the suffragette movement mainstream, 88 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:08,320 Speaker 1: making it acceptable to talk about and these who are 89 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:11,240 Speaker 1: writing the magazines themselves for other women, and so they 90 00:05:11,279 --> 00:05:16,880 Speaker 1: took this really um political bent sometimes and then um, 91 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:20,640 Speaker 1: going back to this idea of magazines kind of hawking 92 00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:25,240 Speaker 1: this American consumerism. In the nineteen thirties, you have the 93 00:05:25,360 --> 00:05:28,119 Speaker 1: arrival of store distributed magazines like the ones the Recks 94 00:05:28,160 --> 00:05:30,600 Speaker 1: that we see in the grocery stores today, and that 95 00:05:30,880 --> 00:05:33,760 Speaker 1: kind of hearkened the more of the arrival of the 96 00:05:33,800 --> 00:05:38,240 Speaker 1: relationship between the advertiser and the magazines. And I remember 97 00:05:38,240 --> 00:05:40,920 Speaker 1: when I was reading the Feminine Mystique. Um Betty Frey 98 00:05:40,960 --> 00:05:46,320 Speaker 1: Dan often references women's magazines and the advertisements in them, uh, 99 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:49,400 Speaker 1: portraying you know, the ideal woman is having all of 100 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:52,760 Speaker 1: the newest household items and gadgets to make her her 101 00:05:52,800 --> 00:05:56,320 Speaker 1: life at home perfect and how she can become, you know, 102 00:05:56,360 --> 00:05:58,880 Speaker 1: this domestic goddess. I mean, we all want to live 103 00:05:58,880 --> 00:06:01,880 Speaker 1: our best life possible. So I think that the women's 104 00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:04,480 Speaker 1: magazine kind of sprung up as this way to do so. 105 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:07,560 Speaker 1: And the year before the femininistique came out, we have 106 00:06:07,640 --> 00:06:10,720 Speaker 1: a very important development and women's magazines, right, that was 107 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:12,760 Speaker 1: the year before that, yes, it was a year before that. 108 00:06:12,839 --> 00:06:16,200 Speaker 1: We have Helen Gurley Brown take over as the editor 109 00:06:16,839 --> 00:06:22,679 Speaker 1: of Cosmopolitan magazine, probably the most I think stereotypical women's magazine. 110 00:06:22,680 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 1: Like when we're talking about women's magazine today, that's what 111 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:26,279 Speaker 1: we're talking about. We're not talking about sort of the 112 00:06:26,320 --> 00:06:30,640 Speaker 1: fringe publications. Oh yeah. I would say that Cosmo was 113 00:06:30,760 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 1: my version of Playboy because they were hidden under my bed, 114 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:39,920 Speaker 1: sorry mom. And you know I didn't read them when 115 00:06:39,960 --> 00:06:42,080 Speaker 1: I was, you know, in college. I was reading them 116 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:44,280 Speaker 1: when I was you know, in late middle school and 117 00:06:44,640 --> 00:06:48,240 Speaker 1: early high school. And that was my first glimpse into 118 00:06:48,680 --> 00:06:51,200 Speaker 1: what ladies did in the bedroom. I know, I know 119 00:06:51,200 --> 00:06:53,920 Speaker 1: it was it seemed very uh forbidden like it had 120 00:06:53,960 --> 00:06:57,400 Speaker 1: all the secrets of being a an adult woman out 121 00:06:57,440 --> 00:06:59,040 Speaker 1: on her own. Yeah, I would all through you a 122 00:06:59,120 --> 00:07:01,800 Speaker 1: hundred and fifty two trips on how to turn on 123 00:07:01,880 --> 00:07:04,400 Speaker 1: his moan zone or whatever. And then you know, it 124 00:07:04,480 --> 00:07:07,560 Speaker 1: was something that we weren't having conversations about that. I mean, 125 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:09,080 Speaker 1: I would never go to my mom and same mom 126 00:07:09,200 --> 00:07:12,239 Speaker 1: hund in fifty ways for the moon zone go. Yeah. 127 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:16,240 Speaker 1: But but Helen Gurley Brown was this kind of revolutionary 128 00:07:16,280 --> 00:07:18,880 Speaker 1: figure in the early sixties because she wrote this book 129 00:07:18,880 --> 00:07:22,920 Speaker 1: called Sex and the Single Girl, which was this manifesto, 130 00:07:23,040 --> 00:07:25,960 Speaker 1: if you will, of the new working girl. We've got 131 00:07:25,960 --> 00:07:29,280 Speaker 1: the It's coinciding with the rise of second wave feminism, 132 00:07:29,360 --> 00:07:31,520 Speaker 1: and girly was saying that, you know, women can have 133 00:07:31,600 --> 00:07:33,240 Speaker 1: it all. We can have sex, we can have men, 134 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:36,400 Speaker 1: we can also go for the job of our dreams 135 00:07:36,480 --> 00:07:39,920 Speaker 1: all the same time, which sounds pretty um, you know, 136 00:07:40,440 --> 00:07:42,800 Speaker 1: standard for women who grew up I think in our age, 137 00:07:42,880 --> 00:07:44,600 Speaker 1: Kristen who people who are about age. But at that 138 00:07:44,640 --> 00:07:49,040 Speaker 1: time that was pretty revolutionary. Yeah. And she took Cosmopolitan 139 00:07:49,160 --> 00:07:53,720 Speaker 1: from being more of the Saturday evening post literary magazine 140 00:07:54,280 --> 00:07:58,560 Speaker 1: and turned it into the younger Working Girls Guide to Life. 141 00:07:59,080 --> 00:08:01,320 Speaker 1: So I think the problem people have with Cosmo is 142 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:05,360 Speaker 1: that it hasn't changed since that maybe first inception, Like, yes, 143 00:08:05,400 --> 00:08:08,320 Speaker 1: they're still single women who are trying to have it all, 144 00:08:08,840 --> 00:08:12,280 Speaker 1: but it just focuses on the things that she still 145 00:08:12,320 --> 00:08:15,760 Speaker 1: deems necessary to have it all, which is primarily a 146 00:08:15,760 --> 00:08:18,280 Speaker 1: man and amazing sex. Yeah, and Gurly Brown has been 147 00:08:18,280 --> 00:08:22,160 Speaker 1: a very controversial figure when it comes to uh feminism 148 00:08:22,200 --> 00:08:24,120 Speaker 1: because on the one hand, yeah, she did open up 149 00:08:24,120 --> 00:08:28,760 Speaker 1: this kind of new conversation for the mainstream woman about sexuality, 150 00:08:28,800 --> 00:08:31,120 Speaker 1: but she's also been criticized by a lot of feminists 151 00:08:31,160 --> 00:08:35,480 Speaker 1: because she constantly attaches a woman's happiness and worth with 152 00:08:35,480 --> 00:08:37,760 Speaker 1: whether or not she has a man, and is promoting 153 00:08:37,800 --> 00:08:42,679 Speaker 1: these heteronormative ideas of what it means to be a 154 00:08:42,720 --> 00:08:45,320 Speaker 1: woman in America and what it means to really have 155 00:08:45,440 --> 00:08:47,880 Speaker 1: it all. Yeah. So reading a New York Times are 156 00:08:47,960 --> 00:08:50,560 Speaker 1: called to trace the evolution of these magazines, And they 157 00:08:50,600 --> 00:08:52,840 Speaker 1: did start out very much like, Yeah, you go out 158 00:08:52,840 --> 00:08:55,600 Speaker 1: there and you date a man if you need to, 159 00:08:55,800 --> 00:08:57,520 Speaker 1: and then you know you don't have to marry him, 160 00:08:57,559 --> 00:09:00,400 Speaker 1: blah blah blah. But now these magazines sort of have 161 00:09:00,480 --> 00:09:03,280 Speaker 1: shifted and instead of learning about how to please yourself. 162 00:09:03,320 --> 00:09:08,280 Speaker 1: Within these relationships, it's more about how to please the guy, UM, 163 00:09:08,280 --> 00:09:10,400 Speaker 1: and more about how to snag the guy to understand 164 00:09:10,400 --> 00:09:14,760 Speaker 1: what he's thinking. And these tips on a very um 165 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:17,079 Speaker 1: awesome to me when I was in middle school and 166 00:09:17,120 --> 00:09:18,760 Speaker 1: high school and didn't know any better. But now you 167 00:09:18,800 --> 00:09:21,439 Speaker 1: read some of them, and I'm just like, oh, well 168 00:09:21,480 --> 00:09:24,559 Speaker 1: I can. As an example, can I throw out our 169 00:09:24,640 --> 00:09:30,360 Speaker 1: favorite tip from this month's Cosmopolitan magazine. Uh. Cosmo suggested, 170 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:33,320 Speaker 1: for instance, one way to turn a guy on is 171 00:09:33,360 --> 00:09:35,600 Speaker 1: to if you if you don't have a hair tie 172 00:09:35,679 --> 00:09:38,480 Speaker 1: or scrunchy around, and you probably shouldn't have a scrunchy 173 00:09:38,520 --> 00:09:42,800 Speaker 1: around anyway, Uh, use a thong. Yeah, take a thong 174 00:09:42,960 --> 00:09:45,960 Speaker 1: and tie your ponytail with that, which maybe I don't 175 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:48,680 Speaker 1: understand thongs, but I still don't understand quite how that works. 176 00:09:48,720 --> 00:09:50,200 Speaker 1: It seems like you just have a lot of fabric 177 00:09:50,280 --> 00:09:53,440 Speaker 1: back there. Yeah, it wouldn't be very good hair tie, 178 00:09:53,480 --> 00:09:56,319 Speaker 1: but it might might help you turn on his mom zone. 179 00:09:57,240 --> 00:09:59,280 Speaker 1: And that's the thing is that Um, instead of being 180 00:09:59,280 --> 00:10:03,760 Speaker 1: sort of a very smart woman's guide to sexuality in 181 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:06,520 Speaker 1: this crazy world of ours, it's it's very much about 182 00:10:06,520 --> 00:10:09,640 Speaker 1: the man's mown zones and tying thongs in your hair, 183 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:12,160 Speaker 1: and I mean, now you can look at them and 184 00:10:12,160 --> 00:10:14,400 Speaker 1: they're kind of silly, But there are people who buy 185 00:10:14,440 --> 00:10:16,960 Speaker 1: into that. Is that healthy? I don't know. Well, well, 186 00:10:17,040 --> 00:10:20,480 Speaker 1: if we're asking the question of whether or not, UM, 187 00:10:20,520 --> 00:10:25,400 Speaker 1: it's healthy, I think that, especially from an adolescent's perspective, 188 00:10:26,880 --> 00:10:28,720 Speaker 1: it might not be that healthy because I think a 189 00:10:28,720 --> 00:10:33,040 Speaker 1: lot of younger girls do buy into these media ideals 190 00:10:33,200 --> 00:10:35,080 Speaker 1: of what it means to be a woman and what 191 00:10:35,120 --> 00:10:38,400 Speaker 1: it means to be beautiful. For instance, UM, you found 192 00:10:38,679 --> 00:10:42,280 Speaker 1: an a study by Jane Show called Adolescents Perception on 193 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:45,480 Speaker 1: Popular team Magazines, and she points out a study among 194 00:10:45,559 --> 00:10:48,800 Speaker 1: two sixty eight girls as young as nine who all 195 00:10:48,840 --> 00:10:54,960 Speaker 1: evaluated their own physical attractiveness against models and advertisements, and overall, 196 00:10:55,040 --> 00:10:58,760 Speaker 1: she concluded that UM, adolescent women are led to believe 197 00:10:58,760 --> 00:11:01,440 Speaker 1: that catching a man, losing way, and looking attractive are 198 00:11:01,440 --> 00:11:04,080 Speaker 1: primary goals in their life because if you take a 199 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:07,160 Speaker 1: close look at the language that's being used in a 200 00:11:07,160 --> 00:11:09,920 Speaker 1: lot of these teen magazines and then translating upward to 201 00:11:10,040 --> 00:11:13,480 Speaker 1: women's magazines, there's this focus on, you know, making yourself 202 00:11:13,559 --> 00:11:16,680 Speaker 1: hot and sexy as the point of everything. You know, 203 00:11:16,720 --> 00:11:18,280 Speaker 1: you want to do good in school so that you 204 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:20,800 Speaker 1: can be confident, so that you can confidently approach that 205 00:11:20,840 --> 00:11:24,440 Speaker 1: guy in the hallway and get him to ask you 206 00:11:24,880 --> 00:11:27,400 Speaker 1: on a date. It all seems to end in whether 207 00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:30,280 Speaker 1: or not you are attached to, you know, attached in 208 00:11:30,320 --> 00:11:34,640 Speaker 1: a heterosexual relationship. And I do remember, like you said, 209 00:11:34,840 --> 00:11:40,080 Speaker 1: like looking at models in those magazines when I was 210 00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:44,680 Speaker 1: younger and thinking about, like, well, those girls thighs don't 211 00:11:44,720 --> 00:11:47,000 Speaker 1: touch My thighs touch, you know, There's has to be 212 00:11:47,040 --> 00:11:48,800 Speaker 1: something wrong with my thighs. I'm gonna start doing some 213 00:11:48,880 --> 00:11:52,120 Speaker 1: thigh exercises. And I just think that, uh, I think 214 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:55,679 Speaker 1: that those kind of issues are something that we should 215 00:11:55,679 --> 00:11:58,640 Speaker 1: be cognizant of as women. Right we were reading an 216 00:11:58,800 --> 00:12:02,440 Speaker 1: editorial by betsyk Harder who said that women's magazines are 217 00:12:02,480 --> 00:12:05,640 Speaker 1: like a bad boyfriend. They spend all this time showing 218 00:12:05,679 --> 00:12:08,120 Speaker 1: you everything you're not. You know, you don't have the 219 00:12:08,160 --> 00:12:11,520 Speaker 1: guy you your thighs touch, you don't have these cool fashions, 220 00:12:11,840 --> 00:12:14,440 Speaker 1: and they purport to show you the way to get there. 221 00:12:14,559 --> 00:12:16,439 Speaker 1: You know. They give you the diet plan, they give 222 00:12:16,480 --> 00:12:19,440 Speaker 1: you some thigh exercises, they give you ten tips on 223 00:12:19,520 --> 00:12:22,800 Speaker 1: meeting guys, um, they give you the latest fashion. So 224 00:12:22,840 --> 00:12:24,959 Speaker 1: it's almost like you have the road map, but it's 225 00:12:24,960 --> 00:12:27,520 Speaker 1: all going to start over again next month when nothing 226 00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:29,400 Speaker 1: none of those things really worked, and they'll give you 227 00:12:29,400 --> 00:12:32,240 Speaker 1: the exact same tips again, right Molly. And for instance, 228 00:12:32,360 --> 00:12:36,080 Speaker 1: just for fun, I took a Cosmo Girl quiz entitled 229 00:12:36,360 --> 00:12:39,920 Speaker 1: why Don't I have a boyfriend? And it turns out 230 00:12:40,120 --> 00:12:43,760 Speaker 1: that I'm just bashful. You're bashful. I'm too bashful, and 231 00:12:43,840 --> 00:12:45,640 Speaker 1: I'm you know, if I see a cute guy as 232 00:12:45,520 --> 00:12:47,880 Speaker 1: a locker, I really need to buck up and start 233 00:12:47,920 --> 00:12:51,200 Speaker 1: talking to him more. And you know it won't be 234 00:12:51,240 --> 00:12:54,640 Speaker 1: creepy at all to approach acute stranger. You know, it's 235 00:12:54,640 --> 00:12:56,720 Speaker 1: odd as it has stuff works. Who really do have lockers? 236 00:12:56,800 --> 00:13:00,560 Speaker 1: So yeah, I'm gonna watch out for Kristin lurking. There happened. 237 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:03,480 Speaker 1: But on the flip side, if you look at um 238 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:07,640 Speaker 1: Men's magazines, it's a lot more like pump up, Like, hey, dude, 239 00:13:07,720 --> 00:13:09,840 Speaker 1: you're fine the way you are. Here's some pictures of 240 00:13:09,920 --> 00:13:12,920 Speaker 1: some hot chicks. Have some awesome cocktails at your next 241 00:13:12,920 --> 00:13:15,320 Speaker 1: party before you get in your really cool car. Yeah 242 00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:17,760 Speaker 1: that's the sporting event. Right after I looked at the 243 00:13:17,800 --> 00:13:22,480 Speaker 1: Cosmo girl website that was all about, you know, things 244 00:13:22,480 --> 00:13:24,880 Speaker 1: that you don't have, whether it be relationships or clothes 245 00:13:25,000 --> 00:13:27,360 Speaker 1: or whatever, um and so. And then I went over 246 00:13:27,440 --> 00:13:32,600 Speaker 1: to Maxim's website and the section on women and girls 247 00:13:32,600 --> 00:13:35,000 Speaker 1: had nothing at all to do with relationships. It was 248 00:13:35,080 --> 00:13:41,160 Speaker 1: just different categories of women for them to look at. Well, 249 00:13:41,200 --> 00:13:44,000 Speaker 1: I think the thing that that still appeals about women's 250 00:13:44,040 --> 00:13:46,480 Speaker 1: magazines is we all have some sort of area want 251 00:13:46,520 --> 00:13:48,680 Speaker 1: to improve on. I mean, we really are looking for 252 00:13:48,760 --> 00:13:51,880 Speaker 1: sort of a way to improve our lives. And you know, 253 00:13:52,240 --> 00:13:53,920 Speaker 1: I bet there's sort of enough of a touch of 254 00:13:53,920 --> 00:13:56,360 Speaker 1: the truth and that bashful thing that it hit home 255 00:13:56,440 --> 00:13:57,880 Speaker 1: enough for you to be like, gosh, how can I 256 00:13:57,920 --> 00:14:01,000 Speaker 1: be less bashful? And I bet there is enough of 257 00:14:01,040 --> 00:14:03,559 Speaker 1: the truth and that bashful thing that you were intrigued 258 00:14:03,600 --> 00:14:07,240 Speaker 1: by the suggestions for how to be less bashful. So 259 00:14:07,320 --> 00:14:10,680 Speaker 1: the thing is there, there's enough of of substance in 260 00:14:10,720 --> 00:14:13,439 Speaker 1: the magazine that we're kind of willing to give them 261 00:14:13,480 --> 00:14:16,360 Speaker 1: a go maybe when we're at the airport looking for something. 262 00:14:16,640 --> 00:14:19,600 Speaker 1: And I don't want to just say that, UM, magazines 263 00:14:19,760 --> 00:14:22,360 Speaker 1: totally bash us every month. I think that women's magazines 264 00:14:22,400 --> 00:14:25,400 Speaker 1: have done a tremendous amount in terms of educating women 265 00:14:25,440 --> 00:14:28,720 Speaker 1: about health issues, Like, yes, every single magazine is going 266 00:14:28,760 --> 00:14:32,560 Speaker 1: to hammer home breast cancer and breast um breast health 267 00:14:32,560 --> 00:14:35,200 Speaker 1: in October, but I mean there are women out there 268 00:14:35,200 --> 00:14:37,280 Speaker 1: who need to have that message kind of hammered home 269 00:14:37,320 --> 00:14:40,200 Speaker 1: over and over again. And only that point about women's 270 00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:43,000 Speaker 1: health that you brought up is one area that um. 271 00:14:43,120 --> 00:14:47,120 Speaker 1: Second way, feminists were praising women's magazines because they were 272 00:14:47,160 --> 00:14:51,320 Speaker 1: really some of the first spaces to talk about health, 273 00:14:51,360 --> 00:14:54,960 Speaker 1: specifically for women, even back as far as in the 274 00:14:55,000 --> 00:14:58,800 Speaker 1: early twentieth century when they did scandalous things for the 275 00:14:58,840 --> 00:15:03,600 Speaker 1: time and talk about venereal disease and uh, challenging the 276 00:15:03,680 --> 00:15:08,320 Speaker 1: myths behind kind of quack medications and really empowered women 277 00:15:08,360 --> 00:15:11,960 Speaker 1: to learn more about their bodies, especially birth control. I 278 00:15:12,000 --> 00:15:15,080 Speaker 1: feel like every magazine takes a very pro birth control stance. 279 00:15:15,480 --> 00:15:17,240 Speaker 1: The first time I saw all the options that were 280 00:15:17,240 --> 00:15:20,320 Speaker 1: available to me was in seventeen magazine, and I remember 281 00:15:20,400 --> 00:15:23,120 Speaker 1: and I think it was also seventeen magazine reading um, 282 00:15:23,600 --> 00:15:25,920 Speaker 1: what to expect on your first trip of the gynecologist. 283 00:15:26,240 --> 00:15:31,320 Speaker 1: Was it terrifying, Yes, but gave me some some info 284 00:15:31,440 --> 00:15:34,320 Speaker 1: on what to expect so they can be helpful in 285 00:15:34,360 --> 00:15:36,760 Speaker 1: some ways, but I do there is also the fear 286 00:15:36,840 --> 00:15:40,080 Speaker 1: that all of these articles, especially around health, are couched 287 00:15:40,080 --> 00:15:44,040 Speaker 1: in this alarmist language, that they install fear into women 288 00:15:44,080 --> 00:15:47,080 Speaker 1: before they reassure them about it, the same way that 289 00:15:47,120 --> 00:15:49,040 Speaker 1: you have the fear installed on you about not having 290 00:15:49,040 --> 00:15:51,680 Speaker 1: a boyfriend, not having the perfect sweater, and then the 291 00:15:51,720 --> 00:15:55,760 Speaker 1: magazine and its advertisers especially saying, hey, we have the solution, 292 00:15:55,840 --> 00:15:59,120 Speaker 1: and it involves buying things, not eating as much as 293 00:15:59,240 --> 00:16:01,680 Speaker 1: used to, and exercising a whole lot more right, And 294 00:16:01,760 --> 00:16:05,560 Speaker 1: all of it is um portrayed from first person perspectives, 295 00:16:05,640 --> 00:16:07,680 Speaker 1: especially a lot of these feature stories that they do, 296 00:16:08,160 --> 00:16:10,560 Speaker 1: and a lot of the health articles are about you know, 297 00:16:10,800 --> 00:16:14,920 Speaker 1: a specific woman who had something really terrible happened to her, 298 00:16:14,960 --> 00:16:17,920 Speaker 1: and yes it will trace like her triumphant rise back 299 00:16:17,960 --> 00:16:22,600 Speaker 1: to you know, normal daily life. But it does seem 300 00:16:22,720 --> 00:16:26,040 Speaker 1: terrifying UM to read some of these stories. And then 301 00:16:26,280 --> 00:16:30,640 Speaker 1: when we're talking about the idea of how women's magazines 302 00:16:30,800 --> 00:16:33,920 Speaker 1: portray what it means to be female, I think that 303 00:16:34,640 --> 00:16:37,960 Speaker 1: one big thing that we cannot get away from is 304 00:16:38,000 --> 00:16:40,600 Speaker 1: the lack of racial diversity. Yeah, you found a really 305 00:16:40,640 --> 00:16:43,920 Speaker 1: interesting post. Um wasn't on racial alitious. Yes, it's a 306 00:16:43,920 --> 00:16:47,280 Speaker 1: blog called Racialitious, and it broke down all the different 307 00:16:47,320 --> 00:16:52,920 Speaker 1: stereotypes that these mainstream magazines put different cultures in. Basically, 308 00:16:53,080 --> 00:16:59,920 Speaker 1: there's the latina voluptuous stereotype, a very perfectly shaped by 309 00:17:01,000 --> 00:17:04,520 Speaker 1: almost said a different word, um. And then in terms 310 00:17:04,520 --> 00:17:07,840 Speaker 1: of black women, they're very whitewashed women. Yeah, they don't 311 00:17:07,880 --> 00:17:11,000 Speaker 1: have they have more white if you will, features. And 312 00:17:11,040 --> 00:17:14,560 Speaker 1: then as far as Asian women go Asia, they portray 313 00:17:14,640 --> 00:17:18,040 Speaker 1: them as more doll like and ethereal and not really 314 00:17:18,480 --> 00:17:21,120 Speaker 1: you know, quote unquote normal women at all. It's sort 315 00:17:21,119 --> 00:17:24,480 Speaker 1: of an ideal standard. And then the gold standard for 316 00:17:24,600 --> 00:17:29,960 Speaker 1: white beauty is um, not being ethnic and being fair skinned, 317 00:17:30,040 --> 00:17:33,479 Speaker 1: fair haired and thin and especially not these days, not 318 00:17:33,720 --> 00:17:36,720 Speaker 1: curvaceous at all. Right, they're holding up Gwyneth Paltrow is 319 00:17:36,760 --> 00:17:40,440 Speaker 1: sort of this uh typical female white model you would 320 00:17:40,480 --> 00:17:43,000 Speaker 1: see in women's magazines. Yeah, there has been a trend 321 00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:46,320 Speaker 1: um in Vogue and on you know, fashion runways to 322 00:17:46,520 --> 00:17:49,080 Speaker 1: include more diversity. But by and large, if you walk 323 00:17:49,160 --> 00:17:51,639 Speaker 1: down the magazine aisle and a grocery store, it's nothing 324 00:17:51,680 --> 00:17:55,879 Speaker 1: but white faces staring back at you. And I think that, 325 00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:59,520 Speaker 1: you know, there's a danger of being too critical on 326 00:17:59,560 --> 00:18:02,359 Speaker 1: these because if I want a guilty pleasure, I don't. 327 00:18:02,400 --> 00:18:05,239 Speaker 1: I don't want to read Miss magazine, as good as 328 00:18:05,240 --> 00:18:06,720 Speaker 1: it is for me and as much as it does 329 00:18:07,000 --> 00:18:09,200 Speaker 1: talk about issues that relate to me. I mean, at 330 00:18:09,200 --> 00:18:11,320 Speaker 1: some point, I just want to look at sweaters when 331 00:18:11,320 --> 00:18:13,919 Speaker 1: you know, as sweaters for fall. So I guess I 332 00:18:13,920 --> 00:18:16,920 Speaker 1: hope this conversation is leaving people with the sense that 333 00:18:17,320 --> 00:18:20,840 Speaker 1: there's some good in it. But I don't want to 334 00:18:20,880 --> 00:18:23,159 Speaker 1: be your abusive boyfriend that you keep coming back to 335 00:18:23,320 --> 00:18:26,000 Speaker 1: because you feel bad about yourself. Yeah. I think that 336 00:18:26,119 --> 00:18:29,639 Speaker 1: maybe um Cosmo, we should say, does not need to 337 00:18:29,640 --> 00:18:33,239 Speaker 1: be anyone's bible and take those songs out of your 338 00:18:33,240 --> 00:18:38,240 Speaker 1: hair right now, women's please, um but uh but yeah, 339 00:18:38,240 --> 00:18:40,560 Speaker 1: I mean, I think it is important to support women's 340 00:18:40,600 --> 00:18:42,919 Speaker 1: media because I think we do need to have a 341 00:18:43,000 --> 00:18:47,439 Speaker 1: space to talk about the issues that um pertains just 342 00:18:47,680 --> 00:18:51,240 Speaker 1: to us and be able to have open conversations about 343 00:18:51,320 --> 00:18:57,400 Speaker 1: things like embarrassing period stories and dating gone wrong and yes, 344 00:18:57,440 --> 00:19:00,399 Speaker 1: how to find that perfect false sweater, Molly, because you know, 345 00:19:00,440 --> 00:19:03,080 Speaker 1: I would like a new false sweater too, and there's 346 00:19:03,080 --> 00:19:04,720 Speaker 1: nothing wrong with that. But I think that you have 347 00:19:04,800 --> 00:19:08,360 Speaker 1: to take especially mainstream woman's media with a grain of salt. 348 00:19:08,880 --> 00:19:13,199 Speaker 1: And um, also maybe look for alternatives. You might not 349 00:19:13,240 --> 00:19:15,960 Speaker 1: always want to read Miss magazine, but bus is a 350 00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:21,080 Speaker 1: little uh poppier, a little a little cute sere and 351 00:19:21,359 --> 00:19:25,080 Speaker 1: plus no no distomist. Oh yeah, no distoms at all. 352 00:19:25,080 --> 00:19:26,800 Speaker 1: But I understand what you mean. There is a reason 353 00:19:26,840 --> 00:19:30,200 Speaker 1: why I usually pick up like a Cosmo or a 354 00:19:30,240 --> 00:19:33,000 Speaker 1: Glamour before a long trip because it passes the time. 355 00:19:33,000 --> 00:19:35,480 Speaker 1: Because it's a lot of pretty, glossy pictures and you 356 00:19:35,520 --> 00:19:39,080 Speaker 1: get really hilarious sex tips. Yeah about thongs in your 357 00:19:39,080 --> 00:19:42,560 Speaker 1: hair or or donuts. Although maybe there might be a 358 00:19:42,640 --> 00:19:45,359 Speaker 1: gem a gem every now and then within all the 359 00:19:45,400 --> 00:19:48,560 Speaker 1: silly ones. Sure, I mean there's an audience for everything. 360 00:19:48,680 --> 00:19:51,439 Speaker 1: Just be aware of what you're you're the audience of. 361 00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:54,240 Speaker 1: I think is the point of this podcast. Do you 362 00:19:54,280 --> 00:19:57,159 Speaker 1: find something that speaks to you and doesn't make you 363 00:19:57,160 --> 00:19:59,760 Speaker 1: feel bad about yourself? Yeah? And also, um, what do 364 00:19:59,840 --> 00:20:02,879 Speaker 1: you guys read? What do you guys think about women's magazines? 365 00:20:02,960 --> 00:20:05,000 Speaker 1: Guys out there, I want to know your opinion on 366 00:20:05,040 --> 00:20:08,959 Speaker 1: that too, because I know if like most guys I've 367 00:20:08,960 --> 00:20:11,119 Speaker 1: been with who flipped through a Cosmo, think it's the 368 00:20:11,160 --> 00:20:15,080 Speaker 1: most ridiculous thing in the world. And so I don't know, 369 00:20:15,440 --> 00:20:20,920 Speaker 1: do you think that it's healthy. Do you consume women's 370 00:20:21,119 --> 00:20:23,399 Speaker 1: media at all? Do you really want to see thongs 371 00:20:23,400 --> 00:20:26,040 Speaker 1: in people's cares? Yeah, because maybe we have the wrong approach. 372 00:20:26,160 --> 00:20:28,120 Speaker 1: Maybe we do have the wrong approach. So we want 373 00:20:28,160 --> 00:20:30,040 Speaker 1: to hear from you guys what you have to think 374 00:20:30,080 --> 00:20:33,439 Speaker 1: about this as well. Okay, so speaking of what our 375 00:20:33,440 --> 00:20:35,160 Speaker 1: listeners have to say, want to do some listener mail. 376 00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:41,480 Speaker 1: Sure it's about menstruation. Oh, this is this from Pendra 377 00:20:41,680 --> 00:20:43,919 Speaker 1: who writes in my family, periods have never been a 378 00:20:43,960 --> 00:20:46,639 Speaker 1: taboo topic. My mom told both my brother and I 379 00:20:46,760 --> 00:20:49,239 Speaker 1: about periods and our little kids and asked why she 380 00:20:49,280 --> 00:20:52,760 Speaker 1: wore growing up diapers. All the female members of my 381 00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:54,920 Speaker 1: extended family have been equally open about it. We never 382 00:20:54,960 --> 00:20:56,840 Speaker 1: call it anything other than a period, and no man 383 00:20:56,960 --> 00:20:59,840 Speaker 1: walking in on the conversation would stop it. When I 384 00:20:59,880 --> 00:21:01,119 Speaker 1: was of love and I started my period and I 385 00:21:01,200 --> 00:21:03,200 Speaker 1: knew exactly what was happening, my mom actually took me 386 00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:05,480 Speaker 1: out to launch with my female family members to celebrate 387 00:21:05,480 --> 00:21:07,840 Speaker 1: the occasion. The only school problem I had was that 388 00:21:07,880 --> 00:21:10,280 Speaker 1: there were no trash cans in the girl's bathrooms at school, 389 00:21:10,320 --> 00:21:12,119 Speaker 1: so my mom complained and they started putting them in 390 00:21:12,119 --> 00:21:14,639 Speaker 1: the restroom. I was always really open about it. Girls 391 00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:16,080 Speaker 1: would ask what it was like, and I would tell 392 00:21:16,119 --> 00:21:19,000 Speaker 1: them I didn't even carefulways found out. My biggest problem 393 00:21:19,000 --> 00:21:21,240 Speaker 1: with menstruation is that I have endometriosis. It means that 394 00:21:21,280 --> 00:21:23,600 Speaker 1: my uterine lining is also outside of my uterus, and 395 00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:26,240 Speaker 1: as a result, I have extreme pain during my periods. 396 00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:28,160 Speaker 1: I was actually lying in bed because of this when 397 00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:30,800 Speaker 1: I was listening to this podcast to help I take 398 00:21:30,840 --> 00:21:32,480 Speaker 1: birth control bills that make it so I only have 399 00:21:32,520 --> 00:21:34,560 Speaker 1: four periods a year. I really liked them because they 400 00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:37,040 Speaker 1: prevent the line from building up at Also, even when 401 00:21:37,040 --> 00:21:39,880 Speaker 1: I have a period is only slightly uncomfortable. You also 402 00:21:39,920 --> 00:21:41,679 Speaker 1: mentioned the podcast that you like to hear the opinions 403 00:21:41,680 --> 00:21:44,080 Speaker 1: of women who don't want to have children. Will I 404 00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:45,520 Speaker 1: fall in that category? And I have to say, I 405 00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:48,520 Speaker 1: don't feel like my period oppresses me even with the condition, 406 00:21:48,560 --> 00:21:50,160 Speaker 1: and I just feel like it is a natural part 407 00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:51,840 Speaker 1: of being a woman and a mammal for that matter. 408 00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:54,359 Speaker 1: If I could turn off my reproductive system, that would 409 00:21:54,359 --> 00:21:56,000 Speaker 1: be great, But as it is, I don't resent it 410 00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:59,359 Speaker 1: or anything. All right, Um, And I've got a letter 411 00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:03,080 Speaker 1: here from Angie. She says, my primary reason for writing 412 00:22:03,080 --> 00:22:04,919 Speaker 1: you is to address the question you post about the 413 00:22:04,960 --> 00:22:09,000 Speaker 1: relationship that women who don't want children have with their periods. 414 00:22:09,200 --> 00:22:11,120 Speaker 1: I'm one of those women who does not want children. 415 00:22:11,160 --> 00:22:13,480 Speaker 1: I see my period as the lesser of two evils, 416 00:22:13,480 --> 00:22:16,760 Speaker 1: though for me, having a period is better than the 417 00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:20,159 Speaker 1: alternative of not having one, i e. Being pregnant. I 418 00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:22,360 Speaker 1: think that all women except that your period is part 419 00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:24,240 Speaker 1: of your life, so you just roll with the punches, 420 00:22:24,280 --> 00:22:26,600 Speaker 1: so to speak. And for the record, I do believe 421 00:22:26,600 --> 00:22:29,720 Speaker 1: that our society glorifies children and expects everyone to want 422 00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:32,440 Speaker 1: to have them. That's just not the case. My husband 423 00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:35,440 Speaker 1: and I made a conscious decision to not have children, 424 00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:38,000 Speaker 1: and we're happy with that choice. I'm so tired of 425 00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:40,919 Speaker 1: people constantly asking when we're gonna have a baby and 426 00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:42,960 Speaker 1: then look at me and discussed when I tell them 427 00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:48,639 Speaker 1: we are choosing not to do so. Enough on that soapbox, Okay. 428 00:22:48,680 --> 00:22:51,080 Speaker 1: The next one is from Jennifer, who has I think 429 00:22:51,080 --> 00:22:54,160 Speaker 1: a humorous anctot to share um. She writes, my mother 430 00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:56,320 Speaker 1: and aunt have a particular superstition that goes along with 431 00:22:56,359 --> 00:22:58,920 Speaker 1: the evil menstruation idea, which is that they believe that 432 00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:01,760 Speaker 1: a menstruating woman is toxic to plants. I like to 433 00:23:01,760 --> 00:23:04,200 Speaker 1: think that they're educated and modern enough to question this idea, 434 00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:06,080 Speaker 1: But to this day, my aunt will refuse to touch 435 00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:08,560 Speaker 1: household plants during that time for fear of killing them. 436 00:23:08,920 --> 00:23:10,880 Speaker 1: I'm not sure how strong this belief is in my mom, 437 00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:12,840 Speaker 1: but I can say that since reaching menopause, the size 438 00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:16,840 Speaker 1: of her garden has increased quite a bit. Nice, uh, 439 00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:19,920 Speaker 1: and Molly. We're going to close it out with an 440 00:23:19,920 --> 00:23:24,200 Speaker 1: email from John. John says, I think that the reason 441 00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:26,800 Speaker 1: menstruation is still a big deal is because it contradicts 442 00:23:26,840 --> 00:23:30,840 Speaker 1: fantasies of women as beautiful things. Yeah, the view of 443 00:23:30,840 --> 00:23:33,680 Speaker 1: women as as beautiful is tied to us so tightly, 444 00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:36,720 Speaker 1: and it's hard to think of something gross that women 445 00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:39,440 Speaker 1: go through that may challenge that fantasy. Men usually don't 446 00:23:39,480 --> 00:23:41,920 Speaker 1: like to break that fantasy, and women prefer to be 447 00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:45,919 Speaker 1: thought of as beautiful. My girlfriend just walked in and 448 00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:49,520 Speaker 1: she's making fun of me. One last thing are the 449 00:23:49,600 --> 00:23:54,359 Speaker 1: eggs we eat chicken periods? I thought to haunt your 450 00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:57,399 Speaker 1: dreams tonight for thought. 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