WEBVTT - Dear Chiquis: Am I Ready to Love Again?

0:00:18.880 --> 0:00:22.320
<v Speaker 1>Hello, everyone, it's your big sister Cheeky's and you've reached

0:00:22.320 --> 0:00:26.320
<v Speaker 1>my personal voicemailbox for the Dear Cheeky's podcast. I'm here

0:00:26.360 --> 0:00:28.560
<v Speaker 1>to give you a device on anything and everything you

0:00:28.680 --> 0:00:31.159
<v Speaker 1>need help with. Whether you're going through a breakup or

0:00:31.200 --> 0:00:33.640
<v Speaker 1>having issues with your family, or maybe you have a

0:00:33.720 --> 0:00:36.360
<v Speaker 1>question about my personal life. Whatever the case is, I

0:00:36.400 --> 0:00:39.360
<v Speaker 1>want to hear from you. Remember these are my thoughts

0:00:39.360 --> 0:00:41.640
<v Speaker 1>in my opinions, and if you're suffering from a serious

0:00:41.680 --> 0:00:45.560
<v Speaker 1>issue or hardship, you should seek help from a qualified professional.

0:00:45.960 --> 0:00:48.800
<v Speaker 1>All right, now, go ahead and leave your message at

0:00:48.800 --> 0:00:49.800
<v Speaker 1>the sound of the beeB.

0:00:51.320 --> 0:00:53.920
<v Speaker 2>Heye Cheeky's. I just want to start off by saying

0:00:53.960 --> 0:00:57.320
<v Speaker 2>I'm a huge fan of you and your family, and

0:00:57.360 --> 0:00:59.760
<v Speaker 2>I want to say thank you so much for having

0:01:00.200 --> 0:01:04.240
<v Speaker 2>this podcast. It's like listening to my big sister that

0:01:04.280 --> 0:01:07.040
<v Speaker 2>I never had. I had a question to ask you,

0:01:07.120 --> 0:01:10.720
<v Speaker 2>how did you know you were ready to be with Emelia.

0:01:10.920 --> 0:01:14.319
<v Speaker 2>I know, after your doors and everything, it was extremely

0:01:14.560 --> 0:01:17.920
<v Speaker 2>hard for you, but how did you know that it

0:01:17.959 --> 0:01:20.039
<v Speaker 2>was someone that you wanted to be with. I guess

0:01:20.240 --> 0:01:24.440
<v Speaker 2>my question in general is I recently got out of

0:01:24.480 --> 0:01:29.400
<v Speaker 2>a narcissistic, abusive relationship, and he dated five other girls

0:01:29.440 --> 0:01:32.600
<v Speaker 2>at the same time, and we all came forward together,

0:01:33.440 --> 0:01:37.000
<v Speaker 2>Me and the girls exchange stories. However, the group chat

0:01:37.040 --> 0:01:40.759
<v Speaker 2>and all of them wasn't the best supportive. So knowledge

0:01:40.880 --> 0:01:43.840
<v Speaker 2>I feel betrayed by him, but also by them, and

0:01:44.520 --> 0:01:48.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm just trying to navigate this whole situation of betrayal

0:01:48.080 --> 0:01:52.160
<v Speaker 2>and trust issues and try not to compare myself to

0:01:52.880 --> 0:01:55.520
<v Speaker 2>know when I'll be ready to date again. I'm lucky

0:01:55.600 --> 0:01:58.040
<v Speaker 2>that I have great friends that are supporting me and

0:01:58.120 --> 0:02:01.280
<v Speaker 2>helping me right now through this difficult time. But yeah,

0:02:01.320 --> 0:02:03.880
<v Speaker 2>I just would like some big sister advice. But anyways,

0:02:03.920 --> 0:02:05.040
<v Speaker 2>thanks girl, love.

0:02:04.960 --> 0:02:08.880
<v Speaker 1>You, Oh Christina, thank you, thank you for listening. Thank

0:02:08.919 --> 0:02:12.280
<v Speaker 1>you for all those beautiful things you said. Okay, well,

0:02:12.320 --> 0:02:14.840
<v Speaker 1>first of all, thank goodness you're not with that person anymore.

0:02:14.919 --> 0:02:18.119
<v Speaker 1>Oh what a blessing. And you know what, don't even

0:02:18.120 --> 0:02:21.000
<v Speaker 1>take it personal with these girls. If they betrayed you,

0:02:21.040 --> 0:02:23.440
<v Speaker 1>if you feel like they backstabbed you, it's all good.

0:02:23.480 --> 0:02:27.000
<v Speaker 1>Wish them well to each their own good riddance, you know,

0:02:27.840 --> 0:02:30.360
<v Speaker 1>so just let them all go. This is the best

0:02:30.360 --> 0:02:32.399
<v Speaker 1>thing that could have happened to you. I've been there,

0:02:33.040 --> 0:02:35.720
<v Speaker 1>done that, I was in a narcissistic relationship. I was

0:02:35.880 --> 0:02:39.840
<v Speaker 1>in an emotional abusive relationship. I was in somewhat of

0:02:39.880 --> 0:02:43.680
<v Speaker 1>a loveless relationship. So I completely understand, which is why

0:02:43.760 --> 0:02:46.520
<v Speaker 1>when I met Emilio, I could say I was tainted,

0:02:46.600 --> 0:02:48.880
<v Speaker 1>I was jaded, but I was very honest with him

0:02:48.919 --> 0:02:51.720
<v Speaker 1>from the beginning. I said, hey, I am nowhere near

0:02:52.320 --> 0:02:56.240
<v Speaker 1>ready to be in a relationship. I am heartbroken, I

0:02:56.280 --> 0:03:00.680
<v Speaker 1>am healing, I am learning new things about myself, and

0:03:00.800 --> 0:03:03.720
<v Speaker 1>I'm still not divorced. So there it is. I laid

0:03:03.760 --> 0:03:07.120
<v Speaker 1>it all out and he took it. He said, it's okay,

0:03:07.200 --> 0:03:09.480
<v Speaker 1>it's fine. There's no reason why you need to heal

0:03:09.480 --> 0:03:12.240
<v Speaker 1>by yourself. Because for a long time I thought I

0:03:12.280 --> 0:03:14.400
<v Speaker 1>needed to be alone in order to heal, like I

0:03:14.440 --> 0:03:17.480
<v Speaker 1>had no business being with anyone. And Emilio was like,

0:03:17.720 --> 0:03:22.160
<v Speaker 1>very patient and said, this world is for us to

0:03:23.120 --> 0:03:26.160
<v Speaker 1>love one another and have a partner and so on

0:03:26.200 --> 0:03:30.919
<v Speaker 1>and so forth. So he kind of made me feel safe,

0:03:31.040 --> 0:03:32.920
<v Speaker 1>and that's how I knew, well, this is a person

0:03:32.960 --> 0:03:36.240
<v Speaker 1>I want to spend time with. For about two years,

0:03:36.760 --> 0:03:39.720
<v Speaker 1>I was back and forth. It was very difficult, and

0:03:39.760 --> 0:03:42.280
<v Speaker 1>he was very patient, and he was in a lot

0:03:42.280 --> 0:03:47.360
<v Speaker 1>of therapy, doing therapy weekly because I was still healing.

0:03:47.680 --> 0:03:50.720
<v Speaker 1>But I was very honest, So you know, in my defense,

0:03:50.760 --> 0:03:53.840
<v Speaker 1>I was honest and I was very straightforward, but he

0:03:53.960 --> 0:03:56.080
<v Speaker 1>was patient. I think it just takes a person that

0:03:56.200 --> 0:03:59.360
<v Speaker 1>is patient. But also, even if you don't have anyone

0:03:59.440 --> 0:04:02.360
<v Speaker 1>right now, there's don't rush into anything. Take this time

0:04:02.680 --> 0:04:07.120
<v Speaker 1>to heal, to read, you know, self help books. I

0:04:07.160 --> 0:04:09.280
<v Speaker 1>know they sound like, oh, there's such a cliche, but

0:04:09.320 --> 0:04:11.920
<v Speaker 1>honestly they help. I love anything that's going to make

0:04:11.920 --> 0:04:16.359
<v Speaker 1>my heart feel better, So meditate, go on hikes, do

0:04:16.560 --> 0:04:19.680
<v Speaker 1>things that make you happy, take care of your body.

0:04:20.480 --> 0:04:22.360
<v Speaker 1>All those things are going to make you feel better

0:04:22.360 --> 0:04:25.520
<v Speaker 1>about yourself. So when that person comes, you accept it

0:04:25.600 --> 0:04:27.840
<v Speaker 1>and you're more open to it. And I always tell

0:04:27.880 --> 0:04:31.960
<v Speaker 1>people this, try becoming the person that you want to retract.

0:04:32.800 --> 0:04:35.040
<v Speaker 1>So if you want a responsible person, then you need

0:04:35.080 --> 0:04:37.560
<v Speaker 1>to be responsible. If you want a healthy person, then

0:04:37.920 --> 0:04:40.360
<v Speaker 1>you need to be healthy first. If you don't want

0:04:40.360 --> 0:04:43.240
<v Speaker 1>someone that has addictions, then don't have addictions, you know,

0:04:43.320 --> 0:04:47.120
<v Speaker 1>So become that person you're trying to attract while you're healing.

0:04:47.320 --> 0:04:49.160
<v Speaker 1>So that is my suggestion, and that's what I did.

0:04:49.440 --> 0:04:51.120
<v Speaker 1>I was doing that a little bit right before I

0:04:51.160 --> 0:04:53.719
<v Speaker 1>met a medium and then you know, he helped me

0:04:53.760 --> 0:04:56.200
<v Speaker 1>the rest of the way. You know, but I didn't

0:04:56.200 --> 0:04:59.440
<v Speaker 1>know I was ready. I was still healing. I just

0:04:59.480 --> 0:05:01.919
<v Speaker 1>happened to have someone that was very patient, and because

0:05:01.960 --> 0:05:05.320
<v Speaker 1>I was honest, it worked. So if someone does happen

0:05:05.360 --> 0:05:08.159
<v Speaker 1>to come along the way and in your path, then

0:05:08.279 --> 0:05:10.400
<v Speaker 1>just be honest and say here, this is where I'm at.

0:05:10.480 --> 0:05:12.599
<v Speaker 1>And you also have to know what you won't tolerate.

0:05:12.640 --> 0:05:14.840
<v Speaker 1>You have to tell that person from the very beginning

0:05:14.880 --> 0:05:17.159
<v Speaker 1>so they know I'm not here to play games like

0:05:17.279 --> 0:05:20.840
<v Speaker 1>either you are in with your two feet and not

0:05:20.960 --> 0:05:24.000
<v Speaker 1>one foot in one foot out, or don't waste my time.

0:05:24.360 --> 0:05:26.919
<v Speaker 1>So that is my suggestion. Sorry, very long response, but

0:05:26.960 --> 0:05:28.479
<v Speaker 1>I thought it was very important that you knew all

0:05:28.520 --> 0:05:30.680
<v Speaker 1>of this. And thank you for your question, Christina. I

0:05:30.720 --> 0:05:37.120
<v Speaker 1>appreciate it and I'm wishing you all the best. All right,

0:05:37.120 --> 0:05:40.080
<v Speaker 1>next question guys from an anonymous listener. Let's see what

0:05:40.120 --> 0:05:40.800
<v Speaker 1>they gotta say.

0:05:41.400 --> 0:05:44.159
<v Speaker 3>Hi, Cheeky's since I was sixteen years old, I haven't

0:05:44.160 --> 0:05:46.760
<v Speaker 3>had a relationship or plan on having a relationship with

0:05:46.839 --> 0:05:49.599
<v Speaker 3>my older sister. I am now twenty five. I was

0:05:49.600 --> 0:05:52.200
<v Speaker 3>sexually abused by her at six years old and was

0:05:52.240 --> 0:05:55.080
<v Speaker 3>sexually assaulted by her friend's husband at fifteen while she

0:05:55.160 --> 0:06:00.000
<v Speaker 3>left me alone upstairs to party downstairs at her friend's house. Wow,

0:06:00.040 --> 0:06:03.760
<v Speaker 3>all's babysitting her children, my niece and my nephew and

0:06:03.839 --> 0:06:07.240
<v Speaker 3>two other children. I stopped having a relationship with her

0:06:07.320 --> 0:06:11.359
<v Speaker 3>because she hasn't apologized sincerely about any of the abuse

0:06:11.520 --> 0:06:14.200
<v Speaker 3>or recognized that she did anything wrong. Even my own

0:06:14.240 --> 0:06:17.320
<v Speaker 3>parents have said I should be the bigger person and

0:06:17.360 --> 0:06:20.599
<v Speaker 3>forgive her and move on to have a relationship with her,

0:06:20.839 --> 0:06:25.280
<v Speaker 3>because she's my sister. She has always been a lying, manipulative,

0:06:25.720 --> 0:06:29.039
<v Speaker 3>and narcissistic person. I don't think she'll ever change or

0:06:29.080 --> 0:06:31.480
<v Speaker 3>see that she did anything wrong. What would you do

0:06:31.800 --> 0:06:34.000
<v Speaker 3>if you were in my place? Would you move on

0:06:34.080 --> 0:06:34.960
<v Speaker 3>and forgive her?

0:06:36.120 --> 0:06:36.280
<v Speaker 2>Oh?

0:06:36.320 --> 0:06:39.320
<v Speaker 1>My goodness, bab I'm so sorry all of that happened

0:06:39.320 --> 0:06:45.960
<v Speaker 1>to you. Ah. Look, they say blood is thicker than water,

0:06:46.680 --> 0:06:49.880
<v Speaker 1>but I say we choose who we want our family

0:06:49.920 --> 0:06:53.120
<v Speaker 1>to be. If your sister has not accepted, he has

0:06:53.160 --> 0:06:57.680
<v Speaker 1>not apologized sincerely, and it sounds like your mom is

0:06:57.760 --> 0:07:02.440
<v Speaker 1>kind of enabling that behavior, then in my opinion, it's

0:07:02.480 --> 0:07:07.440
<v Speaker 1>okay to make and create distance between you and your sister,

0:07:07.920 --> 0:07:10.120
<v Speaker 1>it's that healthy for you. It's not going to help

0:07:10.160 --> 0:07:13.160
<v Speaker 1>your healing process and your healing journey. I think you

0:07:13.200 --> 0:07:16.360
<v Speaker 1>should forgive her, even if she doesn't ask for forgiveness,

0:07:16.720 --> 0:07:18.600
<v Speaker 1>But that doesn't mean you have to have a relationship

0:07:18.600 --> 0:07:20.240
<v Speaker 1>with her, And that doesn't mean that you're going to

0:07:20.280 --> 0:07:24.600
<v Speaker 1>forget everything she did. I think forgiveness is for you.

0:07:25.680 --> 0:07:29.920
<v Speaker 1>It's to liberate you and not carrying that around. I

0:07:30.000 --> 0:07:33.760
<v Speaker 1>forgave my dad for sexually abusing me way before he

0:07:33.840 --> 0:07:36.760
<v Speaker 1>even asked me to forgive him. I chose that. I said,

0:07:36.800 --> 0:07:39.800
<v Speaker 1>you know what, your sister has demons that she's fighting,

0:07:39.840 --> 0:07:41.360
<v Speaker 1>that she has to fight the things that she needs

0:07:41.400 --> 0:07:44.840
<v Speaker 1>to heal. Only she knows deep down inside why she

0:07:44.920 --> 0:07:47.000
<v Speaker 1>did what she did and why she acts the way

0:07:47.040 --> 0:07:49.160
<v Speaker 1>she acts, and she has things. I'm not saying she's

0:07:49.160 --> 0:07:50.960
<v Speaker 1>a bad person, but she has things that she has

0:07:50.960 --> 0:07:53.120
<v Speaker 1>to work through and you have to just understand that.

0:07:53.200 --> 0:07:55.080
<v Speaker 1>But that does not mean that you have to have

0:07:55.120 --> 0:07:58.040
<v Speaker 1>a relationship with her because she hasn't accepted and that

0:07:58.040 --> 0:08:00.880
<v Speaker 1>doesn't feel good. If someone doesn't validate you and you

0:08:00.920 --> 0:08:05.240
<v Speaker 1>don't feel vindicated, you're just enabling their behavior and that's

0:08:05.280 --> 0:08:08.680
<v Speaker 1>not okay. So I'm okay with you. I, as your

0:08:08.680 --> 0:08:11.200
<v Speaker 1>big sister, give you permission to not talk to her.

0:08:11.600 --> 0:08:14.840
<v Speaker 1>It's okay. She's not a person that is going to

0:08:14.880 --> 0:08:17.280
<v Speaker 1>bring the best out in you. If anything, she's gonna

0:08:17.280 --> 0:08:20.320
<v Speaker 1>make you upset. It's going to bother you, especially if

0:08:20.320 --> 0:08:24.400
<v Speaker 1>she hasn't apologized and accepted that she did something wrong.

0:08:25.040 --> 0:08:28.800
<v Speaker 1>Not okay with that, It's not okay. And boundaries are

0:08:28.880 --> 0:08:32.960
<v Speaker 1>good and they're healthy. So that is my opinion, and

0:08:33.040 --> 0:08:36.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm so sorry. I wish your sister was a better sister,

0:08:37.000 --> 0:08:39.920
<v Speaker 1>and one day she will realize, and hopefully it's not

0:08:39.960 --> 0:08:42.720
<v Speaker 1>too late when she realizes what she did. But don't

0:08:42.720 --> 0:08:44.800
<v Speaker 1>close the door all the way. I would say, you know,

0:08:44.880 --> 0:08:48.640
<v Speaker 1>have hope that she'll come around and apologize and become

0:08:48.640 --> 0:08:52.320
<v Speaker 1>a better person all around, not only for you, but

0:08:52.360 --> 0:08:55.280
<v Speaker 1>for her children, for herself. Let's pray for her. Let's

0:08:55.280 --> 0:08:57.600
<v Speaker 1>send her love and light. Love and light to your sister,

0:08:58.200 --> 0:09:08.200
<v Speaker 1>sending you a big hug. Okay, guys, let's go with

0:09:08.720 --> 0:09:11.800
<v Speaker 1>Hopefully I'm pronouncing your name correctly, Kania.

0:09:12.320 --> 0:09:15.640
<v Speaker 4>Hi Cheeky's First, I want to say I've been a

0:09:15.720 --> 0:09:18.320
<v Speaker 4>huge fan of you for a long time. You your

0:09:18.360 --> 0:09:24.040
<v Speaker 4>whole family and everyone. And my question is I have

0:09:24.080 --> 0:09:28.800
<v Speaker 4>a hard time socializing, and I think that comes from

0:09:28.840 --> 0:09:30.760
<v Speaker 4>a lot of things, like I don't know what to

0:09:30.880 --> 0:09:34.560
<v Speaker 4>say or how to react to conversations. So what do

0:09:34.600 --> 0:09:39.720
<v Speaker 4>you think is the biggest piece of advice with socializing Kania?

0:09:40.960 --> 0:09:45.600
<v Speaker 1>Okay, I totally understand that. I used to deal with

0:09:45.640 --> 0:09:50.360
<v Speaker 1>this with my brother, my little brother, Johnny, and now

0:09:50.400 --> 0:09:52.560
<v Speaker 1>he's a little better. He would always say, I'm so antisocial.

0:09:52.600 --> 0:09:55.520
<v Speaker 1>I feel so weird around people if I'm afraid of

0:09:55.559 --> 0:09:59.640
<v Speaker 1>sounding dumb. And I think that comes from being in

0:09:59.679 --> 0:10:02.640
<v Speaker 1>your head too much. You think a little too much,

0:10:02.679 --> 0:10:05.520
<v Speaker 1>and I think we all do. I definitely overanalyze a

0:10:05.559 --> 0:10:08.440
<v Speaker 1>lot of things. But I think once you get to

0:10:08.480 --> 0:10:12.320
<v Speaker 1>a point where you like completely accept yourself and love yourself,

0:10:12.440 --> 0:10:15.080
<v Speaker 1>and you're just like, this is who I am. I

0:10:15.200 --> 0:10:21.840
<v Speaker 1>like myself, you are not worried about sounding dumb or

0:10:22.679 --> 0:10:25.280
<v Speaker 1>like faking the funk. You know, because sometimes when you

0:10:25.440 --> 0:10:28.760
<v Speaker 1>are in a group of people and they're talking about

0:10:28.760 --> 0:10:30.800
<v Speaker 1>something that you may not even know what they're talking about.

0:10:30.920 --> 0:10:33.000
<v Speaker 1>I used to feel the same way. To be honest,

0:10:33.000 --> 0:10:34.760
<v Speaker 1>I'd be like I don't even know, like sometimes about

0:10:34.800 --> 0:10:39.880
<v Speaker 1>politics or cause I tend to forget things, and I

0:10:39.920 --> 0:10:41.640
<v Speaker 1>don't know a lot about a lot of things, you know,

0:10:42.520 --> 0:10:47.000
<v Speaker 1>So I used to just pretend or stay quiet, and

0:10:47.080 --> 0:10:49.640
<v Speaker 1>now what I do is, oh what does that mean?

0:10:49.679 --> 0:10:54.120
<v Speaker 1>I ask questions and I don't care if I sound

0:10:54.640 --> 0:10:57.400
<v Speaker 1>dumb or they think that I don't know about things,

0:10:57.440 --> 0:10:59.200
<v Speaker 1>like I'm like, well, it's better to ask a question

0:10:59.240 --> 0:11:00.680
<v Speaker 1>and just say straight up like, oh, I don't know,

0:11:01.200 --> 0:11:03.760
<v Speaker 1>you know? Can you explain that? Can you elaborate? You know?

0:11:03.800 --> 0:11:05.600
<v Speaker 1>And that's how you start a conversation, and then they'll

0:11:05.600 --> 0:11:08.800
<v Speaker 1>go and tell you hey, and they'll explain it, hopefully.

0:11:09.160 --> 0:11:11.000
<v Speaker 1>So I think it's all about getting out of your

0:11:11.000 --> 0:11:15.600
<v Speaker 1>head and just being unapologetically yourself. I think that helps

0:11:15.600 --> 0:11:17.680
<v Speaker 1>a lot, and just saying well, it's okay not to

0:11:17.760 --> 0:11:23.600
<v Speaker 1>know everything, it's okay not to be like everyone else.

0:11:25.000 --> 0:11:27.560
<v Speaker 1>I think it's just mainly getting out of our own

0:11:27.600 --> 0:11:30.960
<v Speaker 1>head that gets in our way, and I think that'll

0:11:30.960 --> 0:11:34.200
<v Speaker 1>definitely help a lot. So hopefully that made sense, and

0:11:34.240 --> 0:11:36.240
<v Speaker 1>hopefully that helps you. And thank you so much for

0:11:36.280 --> 0:11:38.960
<v Speaker 1>your question, and just don't worry. Don't worry so much,

0:11:39.080 --> 0:11:43.200
<v Speaker 1>just shake it off and start a conversation. And if

0:11:43.200 --> 0:11:45.240
<v Speaker 1>you don't feel comfortable, you don't feel comfortable and you

0:11:45.320 --> 0:11:47.520
<v Speaker 1>never know like if you just take the risk of

0:11:47.559 --> 0:11:52.800
<v Speaker 1>talking to someone, it will open up another world for you.

0:11:52.920 --> 0:11:57.440
<v Speaker 1>So do it unapologetically and do it even if you're scared.

0:11:58.400 --> 0:12:00.880
<v Speaker 1>Do it scared. It's gonna be fine, I promise you.

0:12:01.480 --> 0:12:04.600
<v Speaker 1>And before I let you go, Knia, look, trust me,

0:12:04.720 --> 0:12:06.600
<v Speaker 1>We're not the only ones and you're not the only

0:12:06.640 --> 0:12:09.079
<v Speaker 1>one that feels that way. I think we are all

0:12:09.760 --> 0:12:13.120
<v Speaker 1>in our head a lot. We all overthink, we all overanalyze.

0:12:13.200 --> 0:12:16.080
<v Speaker 1>We all feel a little shy or intimidated in a

0:12:16.120 --> 0:12:18.480
<v Speaker 1>new crowd or around people that we're not used to.

0:12:19.280 --> 0:12:22.720
<v Speaker 1>So just know you're not alone in that. And just

0:12:22.760 --> 0:12:24.800
<v Speaker 1>people know and have worked through it. And all you

0:12:24.840 --> 0:12:26.120
<v Speaker 1>have to do is just work through it and it'll

0:12:26.160 --> 0:12:29.200
<v Speaker 1>be fine. You'll see. Just try it, all right, guys,

0:12:29.240 --> 0:12:32.120
<v Speaker 1>So this one was just three questions, but don't worry,

0:12:32.160 --> 0:12:34.800
<v Speaker 1>we have more of Dear Cheeky's for you very soon.

0:12:35.080 --> 0:12:37.160
<v Speaker 1>Thank you all for your questions, Thank you for taking

0:12:37.160 --> 0:12:39.959
<v Speaker 1>the time. I hope that my advice helped. Please keep

0:12:40.000 --> 0:12:43.000
<v Speaker 1>us updated. I'd like to know what's going on, if

0:12:43.040 --> 0:12:45.920
<v Speaker 1>my advice helped or not. And if you have a question,

0:12:46.120 --> 0:12:49.520
<v Speaker 1>please leave your question at speakpipe dot com, slash Cheekys

0:12:49.520 --> 0:12:52.719
<v Speaker 1>and Jail podcast. Okay, I love you, I appreciate you,

0:12:52.760 --> 0:12:54.240
<v Speaker 1>and I will see you here. I'll be waiting for

0:12:54.280 --> 0:12:55.040
<v Speaker 1>you and your question.

0:12:55.360 --> 0:12:55.720
<v Speaker 3>Love ya.

0:13:00.440 --> 0:13:04.559
<v Speaker 1>This is a production of iHeartRadio and the Microldura podcast Network.

0:13:05.040 --> 0:13:07.920
<v Speaker 1>Follow us on Instagram at Michael Dura Podcasts and follow

0:13:07.960 --> 0:13:11.079
<v Speaker 1>me Cheeky's That's c h i q u i s.

0:13:11.160 --> 0:13:15.600
<v Speaker 1>For more podcasts from iHeart, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts,

0:13:15.720 --> 0:13:17.959
<v Speaker 1>or wherever you listen to your favorite podcast.